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Speaker 1: My sister in law tricked me to drink an intoxicating beverage.

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Speaker 2: Even her family was horrified. That is terrible. It is

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Speaker 2: That is.

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Speaker 1: One of the least cool things you can ever do

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Crazy December third, twenty twenty four. I female, twenty nine.

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Speaker 1: Don't drink booze. The short answer to the reason for

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Speaker 1: this is I grew up with two boozaholic parents who

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Speaker 1: were abusive. It took me a lot of self work

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Speaker 2: Wow. So uh.

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Speaker 1: Trigger warning broken sobriety. If anyone's going to be triggered

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Speaker 1: by broken sobriety, this is not the story for you. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from user valuable bit ninety

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Speaker 1: seven to ninety nine on the r slash Okay story

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Speaker 1: time subbredit. So when I meet New Peace people, I

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Speaker 1: just politely turned down drinks by saying something along the

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Speaker 1: lines of I don't drink. There's obviously been some instances

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Speaker 1: excuse me. That's what makes what happened last weekend so bizarre.

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Speaker 1: On the second Saturday of every month, my husband, thirty male,

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Speaker 1: and his sister thirty two female, throw a cookout or

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Speaker 1: something along the lines for all of their childhood friends.

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Speaker 1: I've always thought it was really cool that they stayed

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Speaker 1: from school. I've been attending these hangouts ever since my

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Speaker 1: husband and I started dating. There's never been any issues.

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Speaker 1: I get along well with his friends and his sister.

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Speaker 1: Last Saturday, my husband took my lie seven year old

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Speaker 1: legal guardians and I've had custody of him since I

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Speaker 2: Okay, So.

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Speaker 1: I went to the cookout alone this time. I've done

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Speaker 1: this a couple times before and it's always been fine.

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Speaker 1: So my sister in law handed out the usual mimosas

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Speaker 1: I immediately spit it out because I could taste champagne.

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Speaker 1: I turned around to my sister in law and said, oh,

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Speaker 1: you must have given me your drink by mistake. When

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Speaker 1: I turned, I noticed her and two of her friends laughing,

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Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. So at this point, that's when I start

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Speaker 1: running the Oklahoma drill. And if anyone's ever played football,

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Speaker 1: you know what the Oklahoma drill is. And I don't

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Speaker 1: want to explain it because I don't want to get

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Speaker 1: the video flagged. I was very confused by this laughter.

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Speaker 1: I asked what was going on, and my sister in

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Speaker 1: law said, through her giggles, we thought it would be

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Speaker 1: funny to see how you react to booze since we've

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Speaker 2: You should have seen your face. That's literally despicable, like tartarous.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like this is not even just one person thinking like,

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Speaker 2: This is three.

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Speaker 3: People, three people who all went, yeah, this is a

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Speaker 3: great idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So that is very uncool.

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Speaker 1: Just I'm trying to think of what I can say

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Speaker 1: I was honestly so shocked that my only response was

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Speaker 2: He was so mad. I've never seen him like that before.

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Speaker 1: The next day, we told my mother and father in law.

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Speaker 1: I've always been really close with them, so I wanted

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like why would anyone be okay with this?

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Speaker 3: I mean the fact that if they did that is insane,

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Speaker 1: Look, there's like stupid. You can make stupid decisions when

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Speaker 1: you're young. And I consider twenty and twenty one, twenty two,

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Speaker 1: We're we're all young. But you can still know better.

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Speaker 2: You can have common sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like even if you didn't know there was

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Speaker 1: that she's that you know she doesn't, Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: but like you need to be duped in to do it,

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Speaker 2: It's like the super harmful version.

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Speaker 1: Of like swapping the sugar out with the salt, and

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh boo, that HEA's terrible, and it's.

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Speaker 3: Just like, ha ha, that's what it feels like she

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Speaker 1: Zero percent. Yeah, black hole black hole spaghetti no longer exist.

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Speaker 2: Black hole spaghetti. I'm so glad. Uh uh huh.

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad they were apologetic because my little brother

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Speaker 1: week has been so weird. I felt weirdly betrayed. I

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Speaker 1: good news. Oh it's not because of you. It's because

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Speaker 1: of the distractions. Yeah, yeah, it's not you. Anyway, Let's

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Speaker 2: It's just hard not to feel that way, which is

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Speaker 1: Don't worry, though, I've had a lot of emergency therapy

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Speaker 1: sessions this week and I know I'll be okay. It

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Speaker 1: was just such a bizarre thing to experience. It seems

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Speaker 1: like such a small, inconsequential thing to have happened to me.

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Speaker 1: But it's been a crash course on trauma triggers, PTSD,

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Speaker 1: the works. Typing it out has been so helpful. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening to my ramblings, and we do have some

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Speaker 1: are frivolous and unserious people. They are malicious children. Let

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Speaker 1: them go be frivolous and unseerious people together. Grateful you

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Speaker 1: have a strong support system in the form of your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll never understand it, Lord Karna.

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Speaker 1: It actually makes me angrier knowing the fact that you

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Speaker 1: really not a prank. It was a complete violation of

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Speaker 1: they are on your side. Reiterating what others have commented,

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Speaker 1: You're taking care of yourself and it will never be

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Speaker 3: Man oh I was just yeah man is man Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I Fortunately have not really been in a lot of situations,

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Speaker 3: Kind of everyone everywhere, I like, I this is not

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Speaker 4: Like here, free, free alcohol, and we're.

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Speaker 1: Like, noah, Yeah, there can be a cultural thing, for sure.

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Speaker 2: It's just like you know what once is, right, once

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Speaker 1: It's like a come on, no, no, no, I'm not

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Speaker 1: going but come on, no, I don't drink anything past that.

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Speaker 2: You're just now you're harassing a person exactly exactly, come on.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: I always get whenever I like people like offer me

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Speaker 2: Okay, And we do have some more to the story.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, we have more time to fill it with.

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Speaker 2: Cut her off.

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Speaker 5: She's got ca hoko ninety with a ninety hoko, you

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Speaker 5: wes dollars, go hoko, Sam. I missed seeing you often

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Speaker 2: Cahoko, you're the champion. Cohoko.

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Speaker 4: I have to remember how to add time once it

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna put a countdown on my phone because I.

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Speaker 1: Don't usually advocate for people to be cut off. This

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Speaker 1: No, I just mean that, like if you wanted to

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Speaker 4: I did the timing stuff you have to read.

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Speaker 5: That was a really come on, what Sophia I bleue

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Speaker 5: Keon says? This is Keon saying, who's blue?

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Speaker 1: We can.

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Speaker 4: We can do it after you.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, I understand. Back to the story, I get it,

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Speaker 2: We've all. For everyone calling me dramatic, I'm genuinely glad

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Speaker 2: Wanna oh he will?

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Speaker 1: Thank you Georgia Lee for saying let to cot to cook.

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Speaker 1: I was literally brainstorming how wormholes could work. Hello, that's

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Speaker 2: I'm going to my wormhole.

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Speaker 1: It's just giving them ammunition. This is something that I've

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Speaker 1: But that's not necessarily true, and thank you. We shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be kissing their butts, which is how it can sometimes

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Speaker 1: come across. It's important not to give our power away.

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Speaker 1: If boos was invented today, it would be classified as

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 1: Also, fun fact, the alcohol concentration in modern day beverages

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Speaker 2: And they used to tradition as a as water. Essentially,

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Speaker 4: They couldn't. They didn't have anything that was like clean.

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Speaker 2: Snaps for a world in six glasses?

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Speaker 1: Is that where we're did we talk about did we

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Speaker 4: I took ab World History, but I.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. Beer was the first thing that made

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Speaker 1: people not die when they drank water, because it was

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Speaker 1: fermentation exactly. Anyway, beat it up. You imagine me in

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Speaker 1: the first guy to figure that.

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Speaker 2: Anyone must have thought you were complete wacko.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just drinking like gross watery.

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Speaker 7: Look at Jenkins drinking dirty grasswater is like good, So

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Speaker 4: Lot of people drink, so tea was really popular.

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Speaker 5: The first guy that like heats anything is like everybody.

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Speaker 4: We can talk about us right after it.

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Speaker 2: What are you doing here? We are at the finish line.

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Speaker 2: There's got ten minutes, we got we got ways to go.

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Speaker 2: And there's an.

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Speaker 1: Old PSA ad or news clip from the early eighties

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Speaker 1: how ingrained it is in our society. Wow, those were

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Speaker 5: I really want to play that one video. Have you

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Speaker 5: seen that one video where it's like the girl watch

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Speaker 2: Cut where they were like putting like drinking and drive.

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Speaker 2: It's literally what they're that's what they just referenced. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love that video. Yeah, because it's because it's absurd.

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Speaker 2: It's absurd.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, here we are. That is the end of that story.

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Speaker 1: And We are on to the next one, but first

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Speaker 2: Again, love thyself. Thank you for the five sixty five

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Speaker 1: All over the place. Thanks for the five dollars. It

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Speaker 2: It's not ever. It's not cool to do that.

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Speaker 1: thanks again, Annabeth.

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Speaker 4: You read this.

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Speaker 2: We did read that, but thanks again. Thanks again for everything.

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Speaker 5: We read the Hannaut with one hundred bucks.

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Speaker 1: Once I get situated in my next place, I am

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Speaker 1: Do you like Neil deGrasse Tyson?

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Speaker 2: I love him.

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Speaker 4: I gotta go back.

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Speaker 1: And forth on him. Sometimes he's he's a little too smarty.

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Speaker 1: I think he can't read. He's a little too smart

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Speaker 1: for his own good. He's he's a bit of like

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Speaker 1: So Neil deGrasse Tyson is obsessed with wanting to kiss

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Speaker 2: I think we got some more.

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Speaker 1: Ellie, thank you for the five gifted memberships. I really

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Speaker 1: I want to tally of how many we've had today. Sofia, please,

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Speaker 1: I don't give you know how to do that. That's great.

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Speaker 1: We love Sofia. She actually is stepping in in a

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Speaker 1: wasn't for Sofia.

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Speaker 2: We'd be we'd be in absolute turmoil. So everyone shout out, Sofia.

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Speaker 4: Remember all of my old producing stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're hey, you're doing great. Johns Bella, thank you

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Speaker 1: not okay to trick Op into drinking alcohol one hundred percent. Hey, Riley,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks fifteen more minutes. When you

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Speaker 1: Oh uh oh Peyton, Will someone tell John I miss

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Speaker 2: I met face not game. We were over here, we

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Speaker 1: We were like, yeah, maybe he means like he's got games,

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Speaker 6: We simply have to read all of the donations. We

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Speaker 6: simply Frowlin Flundermouse. Thank you for being a member for

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Speaker 6: one month. Been watching since the green screen and orange puffer.

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Speaker 5: Coat, Yeah, dude, we used to that Was that the

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Speaker 5: whole show for a while.

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Speaker 1: I saw that setup when I first came here. Before

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Speaker 1: I I didn't even really know what y'all were doing,

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Speaker 1: but I saw the stream setup.

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Speaker 2: Wait not here? Mm hm, No, we didn't. We didn't

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Speaker 1: I don't think you know there was a green screen

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Speaker 1: first time I was here, I was also trying to

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Speaker 1: It might have been like the very tail end.

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Speaker 5: Are you sure it wasn't at our old apartment.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I was ever there the only time

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Speaker 1: I was I was only ever here at at at.

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Speaker 5: This house, So maybe I don't remember starting with it.

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Speaker 5: But we did have green screens at the old place

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Speaker 5: for sure, But I forget, I forget.

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Speaker 1: It might it probably wasn't here for long, but I

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Speaker 1: do remember there and it was you all had these

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Speaker 1: same lights and the green screens.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, that might that that.

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Speaker 4: Sounds do we have here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't want to read Keon's now. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 2: I'll do it here. Come on, I bleue Keon. It's funny,

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Speaker 2: by the way.

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, I'm in bed and trying to survive.

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Speaker 2: Keep on reading were going it is?

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Speaker 5: I just like to say, it is so sweet to

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Speaker 5: I love that you guys are awesome and.

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Speaker 1: Is there uh okay sackless sackless cat for twenty five dollars.

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Speaker 1: Love the empathy y'all have in the stories with each

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Speaker 1: other and for the Okay community.

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Speaker 2: Dang, can you scroll down a little bit? It kind

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Speaker 2: of jumped. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Whenever someone is down, you always find a way to

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Speaker 1: write to be understood. Y'all are making people feel understood

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Speaker 10: Everyone's yelling at us to read and we already donation.

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Speaker 10: to read them. We're going to read another story.

660
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Speaker 2: You absolutely fiends. No, We're doing at least one more.

661
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: Come on, we gotta we gotta keep ourselves on not

662
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: to go off to the top. Chris twenty one to eighteen.

663
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: Thank you for the ten bucks. But can we talk

664
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: about Sam's re entry?

665
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 2: Where did you go?

666
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 5: I went to solve for some reason, it looked like

667
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 5: when we paid Sophia this month, it withdrew money. But

668
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 5: luckily that is not what happened, and it got.

669
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, it just looks weird.

670
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,439
Speaker 2: It looks I have money. Yeah.

671
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, But I was like, oh my god, what happened?

672
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 5: And so I went downstairs with John to make sure

673
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 5: that we fixed it.

674
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: And so they run a good ship.

675
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 5: You'll My hair was messed up because I was like, chophone, Sam,

676
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 5: give me the phone.

677
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 4: That's forty five seconds, phone Sam, that's it.

678
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 2: The end of you too.

679
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: I am not letting you do this to these wonderful

680
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: people who have spent Look at how much money we

681
00:34:55,680 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: have been donated to hear us read we know no,

682
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: we will give them one more.

683
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 4: It's gonna be.

684
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: I am standing up.

685
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 2: Wanna be you alone?

686
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 4: Story, It's gonna be you.

687
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 2: I will do it alone if I have to. We're

688
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 2: doing one more story, one more Okay. If they deserve anything,

689
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 2: they deserve.

690
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 4: That they got six out.

691
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: You are not slick, you guys. You think you're slick,

692
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 2: You're not.

693
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 5: Alright.

694
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 4: Read your story.

695
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 5: Dakota is fighting for the people. A man of the people.

696
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: I am a man of the smart people. If anyone

697
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 1: knows what I just referenced.

698
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 5: Okay, I refuse to eat a Thanksgiving dish because I

699
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 5: suspect it was made last year. Long time lurker, first

700
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 5: time poster. But I'm so baffled at that situation. I

701
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 5: need a non bias perspective. My husband and I, thirty ish,

702
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 5: have a quite large family, his parents, his two siblings

703
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 5: plus spouses and kids, My divorced parents and their new spouses,

704
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 5: plus my siblings and their spouses and kids.

705
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: The way, now you're just trying to make them regret it.

706
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: Tell me did that come out organically?

707
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm drinking. Did you mean to do that? Because that

708
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: was amazing? Like, fine, you guys want one more story,

709
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm doing it in burps.

710
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 3: Keep reading, tangents, keep going.

711
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 4: I gave you guys so many extra.

712
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: Look at the chat going what what? Oh wow, gave you.

713
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 4: Guys so many extra minutes.

714
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 2: You guys don't even don't don't tell me. I'm just

715
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 2: gonna start saying curse words.

716
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 4: Keep reading.

717
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna start cursing.

718
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 5: And then, by the way, this comes from the Uni

719
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 5: Mermaid on our Altogether we are well over twenty people.

720
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 5: It's a family gathering, can be overwhelming for the person hosting.

721
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 5: And yes, my divorced parents and their new spouses get

722
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 5: along fine, so there's no drama. Well, last night we

723
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 5: celebrated Thanksgiving and As a family tradition, everyone brings a dish.

724
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 5: Usually we communicate with each other so that way everyone

725
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 5: is making different types of food. My sister in law,

726
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 5: wife of my brother, said that she was going to

727
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 5: bring her mom's favorite sweet cast role. I thought it

728
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 5: was very nice of her, since her mom passed away

729
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 5: this year and she was honoring her memory by making

730
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 5: her recipe. However, once I saw her dish, I truly

731
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:35,879
Speaker 5: think she brought last year's leftovers. Instead of big pan,

732
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 5: she brought several small and medium containers of sweet potato casserole.

733
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 5: Although it did not smell weird, it was very dry

734
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 5: and didn't look like a regular one. I didn't try

735
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 5: it and discreetly told my husband my concerns, who also

736
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 5: did not try it. And once Thanksgiving was over, my

737
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 5: mother called me saying that my sister in law was

738
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 5: upset because she noticed I didn't try her dish. I

739
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 5: told my mother about my fears, and she said that

740
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 5: I'm just too picky with food and there's no way

741
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 5: a frozen cast role could last a year without having mold.

742
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 2: I see you, I see you. I think we all

743
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 2: know we've all done this, right. What what taking a

744
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:14,959
Speaker 2: year old.

745
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, not taking a year.

746
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: But you take the mold and you just go. You

747
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: squip it off sometimes which honestly.

748
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 2: Freezer you could eat it for like a year.

749
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: I didn't learn until much later in my life that

750
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: you're actually the mold grows from within and that's just

751
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 1: what you can see, and there's more stuff on the inside.

752
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: So if something's moldy, just don't eat it. What did

753
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 2: you just learn that.

754
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 4: To know that's true?

755
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 3: Because if there's any bold on, like any mold on bread,

756
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 3: you can't cut around it because it's affected.

757
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's inside the loaf. Oh, I think Sam,

758
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: just learning. I told you that so many times with

759
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 1: the mold. I told Sam, that's so many call the

760
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: mold man again. The old man need to burg and

761
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: my body you in the mold shack.

762
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 5: I'm just too picky with food. There's no way frozen

763
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 5: castlecase last year without mold. I pointed that several containers

764
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 5: could mean she cut the good parts and left the

765
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 5: moldy ones. And as we all learn together just now,

766
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 5: the mold has probably permeated the cast role. After an

767
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 5: awkward silence, we'd agreed to disagree and hang up. I

768
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 5: feel bad for my sister in law, but I truly

769
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 5: could not bring myself to eat something I am not

770
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Speaker 5: one hundred percent.

771
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 2: Sure is safe. So am I dy ahole? What do

772
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: you think?

773
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 1: No, dude, if that don't beat that mold, that's a

774
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 1: year old frozen castroleck that they did not know how

775
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: to burn or not know how to cook.

776
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 2: Boojoo Mo Mo says, not the a hole.

777
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 5: Let's say, for the argument's sake, that the cast roles

778
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 5: made yesterday on Thanksgiving. If you just decided you didn't

779
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 5: want sweet potato castrole you'd still be in this situation,

780
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 5: and you'd still be justified and not eating it. Either way,

781
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 5: the person who made the dish should not be closely

782
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 5: modering who took some. That's very strange. Eat what you

783
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 5: want to eat at these types of gatherings.

784
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 2: Pause, it's not all foods, it's bread. Socrates says, that's

785
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 2: the case.

786
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: For bread, but not all food So if you've got

787
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 1: moldy bread, don't eat the moldy bread, but bread.

788
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 4: So I'm still correct.

789
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I guess it's anything bread.

790
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 5: Ish cadish, So enough Process nineteen seven, ninety seven. Seveny

791
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 5: three says not the a hile, the whole point of

792
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 5: a big meal with multiple dishes is you don't have

793
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 5: to eat for every dish if you.

794
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 2: Don't want to.

795
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 5: Reasons for not doing so do not need to be given.

796
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 5: And Pizza Sauce five says yesterday, I had rolls stuffing,

797
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 5: sweet potato, cast roll, pecan pie, papeka pie, apple pie,

798
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 5: green bean castorle, orange, jellow salad, turkey, cam water, whoaco,

799
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 5: cheesez rice, and mashed potatoes. I did not eat any tofurky,

800
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 5: cheesey peas, vegetari stuffing, banana, putting chips with dip, baked

801
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:45,479
Speaker 5: ice cream, sweet see on, sweet rolls, lemonade, bacageese, Hawaiian rolls,

802
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 5: and a few other sides I can't recall. No one

803
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,879
Speaker 5: said a thing to me about what I didn't eat.

804
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 5: Judgemds not the a holes like a poem, which one

805
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 5: you know, you know what sounds like, um, it sounds

806
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 5: like odd par.

807
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 4: You're right, that's exactly, Yeah, you're right, you're right, You're.

808
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 11: Yeah, savage kid, no one understanding Mom and daddy Vicky

809
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,720
Speaker 11: always giving him to man over the twenty bucks.

810
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 4: I'm sick about that.

811
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 2: You guys are keeping me sane.

812
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 4: I don't know how. Yeah, let's yeah, very reality God.

813
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 7: Parents wants and wings only crowding things all the parents,

814
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 7: parents gone through water.

815
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:51,240
Speaker 5: Boday, cake, chocolate sha, okay, where our brains are rotten?

816
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 2: That was rotten with the roots of molds. I love

817
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: how Sophia was like, yes, I believe that was a

818
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:07,399
Speaker 2: poop that idea literature man.

819
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 10: Read they I believe the author was Turner.

820
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 5: So updated A few hours later. After spending my whole

821
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,439
Speaker 5: morning reading and answering your comments, I decided to pass

822
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 5: by my mother's house and have an in person talk

823
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 5: with her. I read her some of the comments on

824
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 5: the original post, and she thinks the internet is a

825
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 5: strange place. We agreed I can always come and tell

826
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 5: her what I think. Truthfully, she has not talked to

827
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 5: anyone else in the family about the yam debacle. We

828
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 5: decided to call my brother and asked if we can

829
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 5: go to his house and have a talk with him

830
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 5: and my sister in law. He said to embrace ourselves.

831
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 5: He said, he's a little horse, and come with anse.

832
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 5: When we got there, my sister in law started crying uncontrollably,

833
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 5: and my brother took us to the kitchen, which is

834
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 5: a mess. Long story short, they were indeed leftovers, just

835
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 5: not a year old, okay. I guess sometime before her passing,

836
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 5: sister in law and her mom made several family recipes

837
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 5: as a bonding experience. The cast role was one of

838
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 5: the staple recipes, and my sister in law had froze

839
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 5: several containers of it. On Thanksgiving week, she thowed some

840
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 5: of it and tried to replicate the taste, but without luck.

841
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 5: I guess the pressure of making it for us got

842
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 5: the best of her, and she got more and more frustrated.

843
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 5: At the date approached on Thursday, she finally gave up

844
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 5: and decided to just reheat the one she had frozen.

845
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 5: As to why my sister in law noticed that I

846
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 5: didn't eat her dish, Apparently, in prior years I complimented

847
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 5: the cast role as this is the best one I've

848
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 5: ever tried, so this year she was expecting some comment

849
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 5: and was sad when.

850
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 2: I didn't even try it.

851
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 5: I apologized and told her I was really sorry that

852
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,879
Speaker 5: I hurt her feelings. She apologized for singling me out.

853
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 5: We told her to rest, and in the meantime, me

854
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 5: my mother and brother. We cleaned the kitchen, tidy the house,

855
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 5: and Mom made her a soup at giaco. If you know,

856
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 5: you know. My mom decided to stay, but I left

857
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 5: a bit after everything was done and everyone was calm.

858
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 2: As goodwill Jester.

859
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 5: I'm getting my sister in law a mini spa day

860
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,720
Speaker 5: that I think she will enjoy and help her feel better.

861
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 5: So that's pretty much it. No big fight, no big

862
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 5: dramatic scene. Sorry not sorry, Thank you all for your opinions.

863
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 5: I will be more thoughtful of people's ceilings, but I

864
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 5: will still not eat something I don't want to just

865
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 5: to please someone. No reports that anyone got sick.

866
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 2: By the way. By the way, you will never.

867
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 5: Get sick of us if you join us live every

868
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 5: weekday three pm PSD on YouTube and Facebook. Just tap

869
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 5: her profile. We're probably live right now. Lastly, does my

870
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,720
Speaker 5: mother think frozen food can get moldy? Well, she claims

871
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 5: she said it in the heats of the moment, and

872
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 5: because I was annoying her. She knows cooking is not

873
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 5: my forte, so she thought I had no good comeback

874
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 5: to that. I opened her freezer and there's a eat

875
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 5: an ice cream, So who knows at this point. That

876
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 5: is where this story we have a couple of donations

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Speaker 5: and this fream.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna read a couple down out say we need

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Speaker 1: to take Would you eat the casserole?

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Speaker 5: I would eat a little bit to if it made

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Speaker 5: someone happy.

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Speaker 2: Not actually that's actually a good take. If it did.

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Speaker 2: If it was gonna make somebody actually.

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Speaker 5: Joy and it wouldn't make me sick, I would.

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Speaker 2: I would do it so.

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Speaker 1: You would wait and see how someone else react. You

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be the first one to eat it.

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Speaker 5: I would take a look and I would be like,

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Speaker 5: if I knew it meant something to someone that I

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Speaker 5: would take a little.

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Speaker 1: And it just looks like like the when you cook

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Speaker 1: with monster guts in the Legend of Zelda. Ah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Sofia knows what's up. Yeah, it just looks like a

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Speaker 1: plate of spoiled guts.

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Speaker 2: And you'd be like.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that looks great.

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Speaker 2: I'm so full. I had a lot of turkey. I

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Speaker 2: just do you sound like Jim Gaffigan.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know if I'm gonnat, but I love myself.

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Speaker 3: Donates twenty five bucks more time and Teresa.

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Speaker 4: Pizza, thank you for the five bucks. Someone can read

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Speaker 4: this one.

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Speaker 2: Teresa Pizza or you no no Za Pizza Principe.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, and George Taylor, thanks for the twenty bucks six

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Speaker 5: in bed and you guys are keeping me sane keep going.

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Speaker 5: Thank Youugary, thanks for the two hundred and twenty five

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Speaker 5: Filipino pesos. Whoa, guys, you're still here. I want to

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Speaker 5: let you go, but no, Sofia, you're still awake. I'm surprised,

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Speaker 5: Sophia is Sylvia is dead on the inside, but you

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Speaker 5: know what, Joe, She's dead on the outside, but we're

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Speaker 5: all alive on the inside.

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Speaker 2: She looks like a walking corpse on the guys, I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm alive. He is alive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's too alive.

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Speaker 2: We're all gonna go watch Walking Dead together right now.

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Speaker 2: That's actually true.

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Speaker 5: That is actually true because technically, right now we all

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Speaker 5: live together.

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Speaker 2: And that is the end. That is the end of this. Uh.

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Speaker 2: This was an awesome stream, was great moments. We love it.

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Speaker 5: We love you guys. You guys are a great community.

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Speaker 5: I hope you know that, and I hope you know

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Speaker 5: how much you give to all of us and how

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Speaker 5: much you give to each other, which is most important.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 5: I want like everyone to be supporting each other, so

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Speaker 5: go over and discord, keep the chat alive there and uh,

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