WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Food Network Freakout

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<v Speaker 1>Second. There's a lot of pressure when you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody that was set up by friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because you know the same people, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can't go back to those people after and be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the date was okay, but now that person's gone. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where they went. They just disappeared. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>because they know them, you know. So it's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it's just been like news reports. They've been

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<v Speaker 1>missing for like seven to ten days since our date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's kind of strange. So rule is,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go out on a date that was set up

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<v Speaker 1>by friends and then have that person just kind of disappear.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's what you're planning on doing, make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>person doesn't have friends. Wow, that's just a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a helpful hint for you before we get into

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<v Speaker 1>the second date. Update, Is that what happened to you? Elise? Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I haven't heard from him, but there's no

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<v Speaker 1>police before because your email said that you haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him, and I figured something happened, Like it was

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<v Speaker 1>your plan to have that happen, and you're just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to play things off so you didn't make him disappear.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no, okay, she sounds pretty cold blooded,

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<v Speaker 1>so it is kind of shocking that that wasn't the case.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So your email said that you were set

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<v Speaker 1>up with this guy through friends. Yeah, so I am

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<v Speaker 1>recently single. My boyfriend of just over a year broke

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<v Speaker 1>up with me a couple of months ago, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, not really sure, you know, if I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go out with someone new. So it took

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of convincing, but I finally was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll meet him because they kept playing him up and

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<v Speaker 1>saying that he was really great. So we met up

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner, and he was really great. He was a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>We had lots to talk about. There was never like

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<v Speaker 1>a weird breaking conversation. What kind of things did you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about? Just sort of like music. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>TV shows that we watch. I think I know why

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<v Speaker 1>it's not calling you back. It sounds like a really

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<v Speaker 1>boring day. So do you like TV? Yeah? No, it

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<v Speaker 1>really was fun, but I was just I was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a little nervous, like more nervous than I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to be. Were you just nervous because

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<v Speaker 1>you hadn't been on a date in so long, or

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<v Speaker 1>because you had really built this guy up in your

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<v Speaker 1>head just because I hadn't been on a date and

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<v Speaker 1>I hadn't been out with anyone except my ex in

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<v Speaker 1>so long. But he was really great, like everything that

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<v Speaker 1>I could have wished for in a guy. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>point out the whole time how much different he was

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<v Speaker 1>in your ex on a first date? I said to him,

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<v Speaker 1>like in the middle of the date, like I I

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<v Speaker 1>was just thinking that I hadn't been on a date

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<v Speaker 1>since I was with my ex, so like I said

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<v Speaker 1>that to him just because it was on my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was just like, oh, yeah, I heard. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>They our friends told me that you would, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just broken up with someone. But and then then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, but I'm over it, so it's fine. See

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<v Speaker 1>the secret is you need to do that while crying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So it seemed vulnerable let the guy in

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, Oh you think so, yeah, crying and

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<v Speaker 1>then talking about how all men are evil and they'll

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<v Speaker 1>break your heart. That's what you should have said to

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<v Speaker 1>him next time, I'll tell him. So, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>react after you brought up your ex? Was that a

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<v Speaker 1>weird moment or was this something that was glossed over?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think it was that weird. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about it for a little while, and he

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<v Speaker 1>listened to what I had to say, and then at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night he gave me a hug

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, like, you know, it was really fun

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope we can do it again, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, absolutely, that sounds positive. You would think

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<v Speaker 1>right right now, now, it's been like ten days and

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard from him, Like I text him, but

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard back, and I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>What have your friends said about it? They basically just

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<v Speaker 1>said like he's kind of acting weird and like he's

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<v Speaker 1>not really talking about it. So did you get that

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like they're lying to you? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I want to think that my friends wouldn't lie

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and I mean I would just rather know,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're not interested, But I don't get it,

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<v Speaker 1>because he was interested, like it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you have any theories? Then? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that he's not calling you back? I don't Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he's seen someone else and he just doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell me. But like I would like to know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>don't just ghost on me. That's weird. And are you

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, are you really over your ex? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's done. I mean it's over with me and

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<v Speaker 1>my ex. Are you sure about that? Yeah? Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>was very clear about that. Okay, in your head, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Okay, so you would actually prefer to be

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<v Speaker 1>with your X if you could, but I can't. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe this guy picked up on that. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only thing I can think. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he did, but I would love to know what

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<v Speaker 1>happened and what's going on. All right, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call him and get your second day update then, okay, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang up, you're looking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second if you're just tuning in for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Elise is on the phone with us and she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call a guy named Ryan. They were hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>through friends went out to dinner. I should also mention

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<v Speaker 1>that she's recently out of a relationship and she is

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<v Speaker 1>definitely over her ex. As a matter of fact. While

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<v Speaker 1>she sits there about to make the phone call to

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<v Speaker 1>find out why this guy isn't calling her back. She's

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<v Speaker 1>looking at a picture of her ex boyfriend, wishing things

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<v Speaker 1>would be different. Am I right, Elise? No, you are not.

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<v Speaker 1>Alice thinks that the reason this guy isn't calling her

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<v Speaker 1>back is maybe when she was sharing how she just

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<v Speaker 1>got out of relationship, it could have seemed like she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really over her X yet and we know that

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<v Speaker 1>she actually is not over her exit. Well, and that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>At least I am as over my ex as I

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<v Speaker 1>can be at this point. You're kind of you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>interested in Ryan. Okay, here's that, which is the first

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<v Speaker 1>step in recovery. Really, I mean finding someone else to

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<v Speaker 1>get interested in for sure. Well, I'm gonna doll the

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<v Speaker 1>phone number, get him on the phone, and find out

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<v Speaker 1>why it's not calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>If not, then we'll just call your X after Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Ryan. Yeah, that's me, Hey, Ryan, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. From what Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. I don't really know what that is,

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<v Speaker 1>but okay, well it's a morning radio show. Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, and I'm calling you today because one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners asked me to see if I could get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you. Yeah, you recently went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a girl named Elise. What. Yeah, Elise

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and told us that she really enjoyed going

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<v Speaker 1>out with you, and then is wondering why wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait, So this is like a radio show and

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, yes, I know who you're talking about. She

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<v Speaker 1>called you, well, she emailed us because apparently you're not

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<v Speaker 1>responding to any of her text messages or phone calls. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no kidding, I'm not. But this is just weird. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand it's kind of weird. It's a segment that

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<v Speaker 1>we do on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mind telling us why you're not calling her back?

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a frustrating experience, That's all I can

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<v Speaker 1>really say. Okay, what was so frustrating about it? All

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<v Speaker 1>I can say is we're not really compatible? Okay, why

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you just tell her that? Then? If it was

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<v Speaker 1>that easy? Okay, listen, it was just a very frustrating experience.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't want to revisit it. Okay, but can

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<v Speaker 1>you give us a little bit of why it was

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<v Speaker 1>frustrating so that at least we can shed some light

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<v Speaker 1>on it for her. She just made a comment that

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<v Speaker 1>really pissed me off. What was it? She just said

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<v Speaker 1>something that was like totally inappropriate and it was pretty offensive.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she mean to be offensive or was she just

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<v Speaker 1>saying something was totally ignorant? No, it seemed pretty intentional.

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<v Speaker 1>It was pretty cold and calculated if you asked me, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't seem that rude. We talked to her a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about your date. She didn't seem like somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who would be rude. Well, listen, I'm surprised too. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>initially I thought she seemed like a nice person and

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<v Speaker 1>then she like shrew this thing at me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wow, okay, wow, not who I thought you were.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta tell me what it is. She's just a

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<v Speaker 1>hater and I don't want to deal with people like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, what did she do? Was she rude

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<v Speaker 1>to the white staff or something? No? So, like, we

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<v Speaker 1>were having conversations during dinner, okay, and I told her

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<v Speaker 1>that I liked to cook. I cook a lot. And

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<v Speaker 1>I told her that I particularly am very very fond

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<v Speaker 1>of the Barefoot Contessa on a Garden. Like I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>all of her shows. I have all of her cookbooks.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a cooking show? Are you kidding me? Is

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<v Speaker 1>this a radio show? Me break? This is barely a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. I don't watch the Food Network or what

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<v Speaker 1>it is it on the Food I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>where that is. I've never heard of it. It's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course it's on the Food Network. I in a garden,

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<v Speaker 1>the Barefoot Contessa in the Hampton's she's cooking meals for

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<v Speaker 1>like Spielberg and stuff. Hello. Sorry, Sorry, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>who she was. Maybe I'll check it out sometime. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from the sounds of it. I'm sure I'll like it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it'll change your life. Kay. I think she's like the

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<v Speaker 1>most she's like the most amazing woman that's ever lived. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>and the least responded in extremely rude way. It was

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly disrespectful. What did she say to you? First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>she laughed at me. She like dropped her fork and

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<v Speaker 1>openly laughed. Like everyone in the restaurant turned and looked.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just laughing her face off at me. Because

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<v Speaker 1>you like the Barefoot Contessa because I like the barefoot contests.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently that's hilarious. No so, but then she says, in

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<v Speaker 1>a really loud voice, she goes that, lady, she's the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like speechless, could not I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what she said that she didn't like the Barefoot Contessa.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, she said she did not like the Barefoot Condessa.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only that she didn't like her, she said she

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<v Speaker 1>was the worst. And then she went even further. She

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<v Speaker 1>said she is so fake, her show is so boring

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<v Speaker 1>and oh my god, okay, and her recipes are like

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<v Speaker 1>so simple. There for like a middle school cafeteria. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, you have got to be kidding me, lady,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to bed. You're that into cooking. This is

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<v Speaker 1>bigger than food. This is yeah, this food's amazing. This

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<v Speaker 1>is this is about this woman, this incredible soul. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And and to disrespect her like that, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>so not on my watch. I was like, you both

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<v Speaker 1>a Barefoot Contessa, you're coming from me? Are you joking? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, maybe okay, maybe you didn't hear me. She

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<v Speaker 1>said she's the worst. It's like she insulted, not only

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<v Speaker 1>in a garden, but she insulted me. I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>she just sort of said, what I believe in the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I care about the most is a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, you know what, lady, I'm going to toss

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<v Speaker 1>his table over and walk out because this is so

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<v Speaker 1>crazy to eat. Well, don't you don't you wish that

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell Elise off a little bit then, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and let her know. No, I don't want to have

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<v Speaker 1>anything to do with her again. That's Justo's dead to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well I should probably not tell you this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna tell you anyway. Elise is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Ryan, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just getting better and better. This is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I Am like, I don't even know what to say. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you certainly knew what to say to the other night

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<v Speaker 1>about the barefoot contenda. That was pretty clear. I I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I had no idea that I offended you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I just I can't I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>that you're you're so worked up over this. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I oh, I don't know if I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you had said something to me about telling that you

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<v Speaker 1>care about a great deal and I laughed at it

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<v Speaker 1>and threw it back in your face. You wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>been offended by that. You gotta be. I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>I I yes, she's not my favorite, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like I said I hate her, she's the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>She should you know, jump off a cliff or like

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, I prefer the show with Giada, And

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<v Speaker 1>I like, oh my god, that was like fake through

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<v Speaker 1>my heart. It was like a stake through my heart

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<v Speaker 1>when you said that you want to talk. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think Nah is fake? That is fake? I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>is like you open up the hctionary the worst fake

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<v Speaker 1>and there's a picture Giada that's shop fired over cooking

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<v Speaker 1>network pies. She's not really a Hellian, She's from Long

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<v Speaker 1>Island or something. I mean, come on, And then she does, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the Italian accent when she says Italian words

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<v Speaker 1>and the rest of the time she has no accent.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes you want to puke. It's like it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>That is like capital f FAKA. I don't understand. You

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<v Speaker 1>just went silent and then we moved on with the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>But we could have talked more about it if you

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<v Speaker 1>were so upset. I didn't. I just don't understand. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I said anything that was so horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, oh, I don't stop saying that. Please

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<v Speaker 1>stop saying that. I mean, I can't even who would

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<v Speaker 1>say anything like that about the Barefoot contest. I would

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<v Speaker 1>ever say something about disagree on things every day. This

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<v Speaker 1>isn't the disagreement, okay, it's this is about the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I care about the most in my life, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just tested all over it. You're just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what a waste of time, what a loser you are? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks a lot, lady. Thanks. Do you think that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's unhealthy to like the Barefoot and Tessa that much?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just this is exhausting. I'm just frankly, I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that this whole time we've been on the phone, Alice

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<v Speaker 1>has not actually apologized to me. Alice, do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize? Well, I am very sorry that I afolded you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not apologize. I'm not going to apologize for feeling

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<v Speaker 1>the way that I feel, or having a conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>disagreeing with you, but it wasn't a disagreement. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a full on attack. And anything less than that that

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<v Speaker 1>you're insane. At this point. I would love to ask you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if you will go out on a second date, we

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it. Got to be kidding me. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you just need some more time together to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite cooking shows and the Barefoot Contessa and get

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<v Speaker 1>on the same page. Guys, I think I'm okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. I don't want to see her ever again period.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Okay, I did not see this turn of

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<v Speaker 1>events happening. But Ryan, thank you for your time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you had to endure Elise center hatred of

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<v Speaker 1>the Barefoot Contessa. Yeah, okay, whatever, Yeah, Elise whoa, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you wearing that up for me. Guys, No problem, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to single life. I can't wait to see

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<v Speaker 1>what nut dub I'm gonna get. It's got a text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight, five to nine two that says

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<v Speaker 1>that dude Ryan is going to be on TMZ sometime soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Found hiding in the Barefoot Contessa's kitchen cabinets. It's broken

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<v Speaker 1>jewel in the morning talking about today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>This girl named Elise wanted to call a guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan to find out why he wasn't calling her back

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<v Speaker 1>after they went on a date. It turns out she

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<v Speaker 1>did something terrible and insulted his favorite cooking personality, the

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<v Speaker 1>Barefoot Contessa. He was hot too. It really angry about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we've had anyone on this show as

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<v Speaker 1>passionate is that guy about anything, let alone a cooking show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and people are texting in at seven, eight, five to

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<v Speaker 1>nine two. Now it's moved on from them just commenting

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<v Speaker 1>on the second date update, and now they're just arguing

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<v Speaker 1>about which cooking show is the best. Somebody's texting in

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<v Speaker 1>like that GeoDa girl is the worst. I can't stand her.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone else texted in she probably likes Bobby Flay. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is why che Yeah, and everybody knows. The best

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<v Speaker 1>personality in the cooking world out there is Guy Fieri.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody knows that. Yeah, I'm the coolest chef ever. I

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<v Speaker 1>frosted my tips. I look like the guy from smash

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<v Speaker 1>Mouth from the nineties, remember him. I'm a badass. Sweet

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<v Speaker 1>glasses on backgroun from the back of my head. It

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<v Speaker 1>is impressive that he's still trying to bring flame shirts back.

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<v Speaker 1>It really so there you go. Screw the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about the hot topic today and that is

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<v Speaker 1>who is the best and worst chef out there on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember if you want to do a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>to email the show. We would call the person that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back.