Speaker 1: Second. There's a lot of pressure when you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody that was set up by friends,
Speaker 1: you know, because you know the same people, and you
Speaker 1: can't go back to those people after and be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: the date was okay, but now that person's gone. I
Speaker 1: don't know where they went. They just disappeared. You can't
Speaker 1: because they know them, you know. So it's like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, it's just been like news reports. They've been
Speaker 1: missing for like seven to ten days since our date.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's kind of strange. So rule is,
Speaker 1: don't go out on a date that was set up
Speaker 1: by friends and then have that person just kind of disappear.
Speaker 1: If that's what you're planning on doing, make sure that
Speaker 1: person doesn't have friends. Wow, that's just a little bit
Speaker 1: of a helpful hint for you before we get into
Speaker 1: the second date. Update, Is that what happened to you? Elise? Well, no,
Speaker 1: I mean I haven't heard from him, but there's no
Speaker 1: police before because your email said that you haven't heard
Speaker 1: from him, and I figured something happened, Like it was
Speaker 1: your plan to have that happen, and you're just trying
Speaker 1: to play things off so you didn't make him disappear.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, okay, she sounds pretty cold blooded,
Speaker 1: so it is kind of shocking that that wasn't the case.
Speaker 1: All right, So your email said that you were set
Speaker 1: up with this guy through friends. Yeah, so I am
Speaker 1: recently single. My boyfriend of just over a year broke
Speaker 1: up with me a couple of months ago, and so
Speaker 1: I was like, not really sure, you know, if I
Speaker 1: wanted to go out with someone new. So it took
Speaker 1: a little bit of convincing, but I finally was like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'll meet him because they kept playing him up and
Speaker 1: saying that he was really great. So we met up
Speaker 1: for dinner, and he was really great. He was a gentleman.
Speaker 1: We had lots to talk about. There was never like
Speaker 1: a weird breaking conversation. What kind of things did you
Speaker 1: talk about? Just sort of like music. We talked about
Speaker 1: TV shows that we watch. I think I know why
Speaker 1: it's not calling you back. It sounds like a really
Speaker 1: boring day. So do you like TV? Yeah? No, it
Speaker 1: really was fun, but I was just I was just
Speaker 1: like a little nervous, like more nervous than I thought
Speaker 1: I was going to be. Were you just nervous because
Speaker 1: you hadn't been on a date in so long, or
Speaker 1: because you had really built this guy up in your
Speaker 1: head just because I hadn't been on a date and
Speaker 1: I hadn't been out with anyone except my ex in
Speaker 1: so long. But he was really great, like everything that
Speaker 1: I could have wished for in a guy. Did you
Speaker 1: point out the whole time how much different he was
Speaker 1: in your ex on a first date? I said to him,
Speaker 1: like in the middle of the date, like I I
Speaker 1: was just thinking that I hadn't been on a date
Speaker 1: since I was with my ex, so like I said
Speaker 1: that to him just because it was on my mind,
Speaker 1: and he was just like, oh, yeah, I heard. You know.
Speaker 1: They our friends told me that you would, you know,
Speaker 1: just broken up with someone. But and then then I
Speaker 1: was like, but I'm over it, so it's fine. See
Speaker 1: the secret is you need to do that while crying,
Speaker 1: you know. So it seemed vulnerable let the guy in
Speaker 1: a little bit, Oh you think so, yeah, crying and
Speaker 1: then talking about how all men are evil and they'll
Speaker 1: break your heart. That's what you should have said to
Speaker 1: him next time, I'll tell him. So, how did you
Speaker 1: react after you brought up your ex? Was that a
Speaker 1: weird moment or was this something that was glossed over?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think it was that weird. Like
Speaker 1: we talked about it for a little while, and he
Speaker 1: listened to what I had to say, and then at
Speaker 1: the end of the night he gave me a hug
Speaker 1: and I said, like, you know, it was really fun
Speaker 1: and I hope we can do it again, and he
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, absolutely, that sounds positive. You would think
Speaker 1: right right now, now, it's been like ten days and
Speaker 1: I haven't heard from him, Like I text him, but
Speaker 1: I haven't heard back, and I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1: What have your friends said about it? They basically just
Speaker 1: said like he's kind of acting weird and like he's
Speaker 1: not really talking about it. So did you get that
Speaker 1: feeling like they're lying to you? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: mean I want to think that my friends wouldn't lie
Speaker 1: to me, and I mean I would just rather know,
Speaker 1: like if you're not interested, But I don't get it,
Speaker 1: because he was interested, like it was a good date.
Speaker 1: So do you have any theories? Then? Why do you
Speaker 1: think that he's not calling you back? I don't Maybe
Speaker 1: he's seen someone else and he just doesn't want to
Speaker 1: tell me. But like I would like to know, you know,
Speaker 1: don't just ghost on me. That's weird. And are you
Speaker 1: I mean, are you really over your ex? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: mean it's done. I mean it's over with me and
Speaker 1: my ex. Are you sure about that? Yeah? Yeah, he
Speaker 1: was very clear about that. Okay, in your head, I mean,
Speaker 1: I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be
Speaker 1: with me. Okay, so you would actually prefer to be
Speaker 1: with your X if you could, but I can't. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: maybe this guy picked up on that. I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I can think. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: maybe he did, but I would love to know what
Speaker 1: happened and what's going on. All right, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second day update then, okay, okay, great,
Speaker 1: all right, hang up, you're looking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second if you're just tuning in for the second date update.
Speaker 1: Elise is on the phone with us and she wants
Speaker 1: to call a guy named Ryan. They were hooked up
Speaker 1: through friends went out to dinner. I should also mention
Speaker 1: that she's recently out of a relationship and she is
Speaker 1: definitely over her ex. As a matter of fact. While
Speaker 1: she sits there about to make the phone call to
Speaker 1: find out why this guy isn't calling her back. She's
Speaker 1: looking at a picture of her ex boyfriend, wishing things
Speaker 1: would be different. Am I right, Elise? No, you are not.
Speaker 1: Alice thinks that the reason this guy isn't calling her
Speaker 1: back is maybe when she was sharing how she just
Speaker 1: got out of relationship, it could have seemed like she
Speaker 1: wasn't really over her X yet and we know that
Speaker 1: she actually is not over her exit. Well, and that's okay.
Speaker 1: At least I am as over my ex as I
Speaker 1: can be at this point. You're kind of you. I'm
Speaker 1: interested in Ryan. Okay, here's that, which is the first
Speaker 1: step in recovery. Really, I mean finding someone else to
Speaker 1: get interested in for sure. Well, I'm gonna doll the
Speaker 1: phone number, get him on the phone, and find out
Speaker 1: why it's not calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1: If not, then we'll just call your X after Hello.
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Ryan. Yeah, that's me, Hey, Ryan, how
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. From what Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. I don't really know what that is,
Speaker 1: but okay, well it's a morning radio show. Okay, great,
Speaker 1: all right, and I'm calling you today because one of
Speaker 1: our listeners asked me to see if I could get
Speaker 1: a hold of you. Yeah, you recently went out on
Speaker 1: a date with a girl named Elise. What. Yeah, Elise
Speaker 1: emailed us and told us that she really enjoyed going
Speaker 1: out with you, and then is wondering why wait wait,
Speaker 1: wait wait, So this is like a radio show and
Speaker 1: this girl, yes, I know who you're talking about. She
Speaker 1: called you, well, she emailed us because apparently you're not
Speaker 1: responding to any of her text messages or phone calls. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no kidding, I'm not. But this is just weird. Okay,
Speaker 1: I understand it's kind of weird. It's a segment that
Speaker 1: we do on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Do you mind telling us why you're not calling her back?
Speaker 1: It was just a frustrating experience, That's all I can
Speaker 1: really say. Okay, what was so frustrating about it? All
Speaker 1: I can say is we're not really compatible? Okay, why
Speaker 1: wouldn't you just tell her that? Then? If it was
Speaker 1: that easy? Okay, listen, it was just a very frustrating experience.
Speaker 1: I really don't want to revisit it. Okay, but can
Speaker 1: you give us a little bit of why it was
Speaker 1: frustrating so that at least we can shed some light
Speaker 1: on it for her. She just made a comment that
Speaker 1: really pissed me off. What was it? She just said
Speaker 1: something that was like totally inappropriate and it was pretty offensive.
Speaker 1: Did she mean to be offensive or was she just
Speaker 1: saying something was totally ignorant? No, it seemed pretty intentional.
Speaker 1: It was pretty cold and calculated if you asked me, Wow,
Speaker 1: she didn't seem that rude. We talked to her a
Speaker 1: little bit about your date. She didn't seem like somebody
Speaker 1: who would be rude. Well, listen, I'm surprised too. Like,
Speaker 1: initially I thought she seemed like a nice person and
Speaker 1: then she like shrew this thing at me, and I
Speaker 1: was like, wow, okay, wow, not who I thought you were.
Speaker 1: You gotta tell me what it is. She's just a
Speaker 1: hater and I don't want to deal with people like that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what did she do? Was she rude
Speaker 1: to the white staff or something? No? So, like, we
Speaker 1: were having conversations during dinner, okay, and I told her
Speaker 1: that I liked to cook. I cook a lot. And
Speaker 1: I told her that I particularly am very very fond
Speaker 1: of the Barefoot Contessa on a Garden. Like I've seen
Speaker 1: all of her shows. I have all of her cookbooks.
Speaker 1: Is that a cooking show? Are you kidding me? Is
Speaker 1: this a radio show? Me break? This is barely a
Speaker 1: radio show. I don't watch the Food Network or what
Speaker 1: it is it on the Food I don't even know
Speaker 1: where that is. I've never heard of it. It's yeah,
Speaker 1: of course it's on the Food Network. I in a garden,
Speaker 1: the Barefoot Contessa in the Hampton's she's cooking meals for
Speaker 1: like Spielberg and stuff. Hello. Sorry, Sorry, I didn't know
Speaker 1: who she was. Maybe I'll check it out sometime. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm from the sounds of it. I'm sure I'll like it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it'll change your life. Kay. I think she's like the
Speaker 1: most she's like the most amazing woman that's ever lived. Wow,
Speaker 1: and the least responded in extremely rude way. It was
Speaker 1: incredibly disrespectful. What did she say to you? First of all,
Speaker 1: she laughed at me. She like dropped her fork and
Speaker 1: openly laughed. Like everyone in the restaurant turned and looked.
Speaker 1: She was just laughing her face off at me. Because
Speaker 1: you like the Barefoot Contessa because I like the barefoot contests.
Speaker 1: Apparently that's hilarious. No so, but then she says, in
Speaker 1: a really loud voice, she goes that, lady, she's the worst.
Speaker 1: And I was like speechless, could not I was like,
Speaker 1: what she said that she didn't like the Barefoot Contessa.
Speaker 1: And yes, she said she did not like the Barefoot Condessa.
Speaker 1: Not only that she didn't like her, she said she
Speaker 1: was the worst. And then she went even further. She
Speaker 1: said she is so fake, her show is so boring
Speaker 1: and oh my god, okay, and her recipes are like
Speaker 1: so simple. There for like a middle school cafeteria. And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you have got to be kidding me, lady,
Speaker 1: you got to bed. You're that into cooking. This is
Speaker 1: bigger than food. This is yeah, this food's amazing. This
Speaker 1: is this is about this woman, this incredible soul. Okay,
Speaker 1: And and to disrespect her like that, I don't think
Speaker 1: so not on my watch. I was like, you both
Speaker 1: a Barefoot Contessa, you're coming from me? Are you joking? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, maybe okay, maybe you didn't hear me. She
Speaker 1: said she's the worst. It's like she insulted, not only
Speaker 1: in a garden, but she insulted me. I mean, like
Speaker 1: she just sort of said, what I believe in the
Speaker 1: thing that I care about the most is a joke.
Speaker 1: And like, you know what, lady, I'm going to toss
Speaker 1: his table over and walk out because this is so
Speaker 1: crazy to eat. Well, don't you don't you wish that
Speaker 1: you could tell Elise off a little bit then, I mean,
Speaker 1: and let her know. No, I don't want to have
Speaker 1: anything to do with her again. That's Justo's dead to me. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well I should probably not tell you this,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna tell you anyway. Elise is actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Ryan, Wow,
Speaker 1: this is just getting better and better. This is amazing.
Speaker 1: I Am like, I don't even know what to say. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you certainly knew what to say to the other night
Speaker 1: about the barefoot contenda. That was pretty clear. I I like,
Speaker 1: I'm I had no idea that I offended you, and
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I just I can't I can't believe
Speaker 1: that you're you're so worked up over this. I mean,
Speaker 1: I oh, I don't know if I don't know if
Speaker 1: you had said something to me about telling that you
Speaker 1: care about a great deal and I laughed at it
Speaker 1: and threw it back in your face. You wouldn't have
Speaker 1: been offended by that. You gotta be. I mean, but
Speaker 1: I I yes, she's not my favorite, but I don't.
Speaker 1: It's not like I said I hate her, she's the worst.
Speaker 1: She should you know, jump off a cliff or like
Speaker 1: I just said, I prefer the show with Giada, And
Speaker 1: I like, oh my god, that was like fake through
Speaker 1: my heart. It was like a stake through my heart
Speaker 1: when you said that you want to talk. Do you
Speaker 1: think Nah is fake? That is fake? I mean that
Speaker 1: is like you open up the hctionary the worst fake
Speaker 1: and there's a picture Giada that's shop fired over cooking
Speaker 1: network pies. She's not really a Hellian, She's from Long
Speaker 1: Island or something. I mean, come on, And then she does, like,
Speaker 1: you know, the Italian accent when she says Italian words
Speaker 1: and the rest of the time she has no accent.
Speaker 1: It makes you want to puke. It's like it's disgusting.
Speaker 1: That is like capital f FAKA. I don't understand. You
Speaker 1: just went silent and then we moved on with the conversation.
Speaker 1: But we could have talked more about it if you
Speaker 1: were so upset. I didn't. I just don't understand. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think I said anything that was so horrible.
Speaker 1: I just said, oh, I don't stop saying that. Please
Speaker 1: stop saying that. I mean, I can't even who would
Speaker 1: say anything like that about the Barefoot contest. I would
Speaker 1: ever say something about disagree on things every day. This
Speaker 1: isn't the disagreement, okay, it's this is about the thing
Speaker 1: that I care about the most in my life, and
Speaker 1: you just tested all over it. You're just like, oh,
Speaker 1: what a waste of time, what a loser you are? Well,
Speaker 1: thanks a lot, lady. Thanks. Do you think that maybe
Speaker 1: it's unhealthy to like the Barefoot and Tessa that much?
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Speaker 1: I'm just this is exhausting. I'm just frankly, I'm surprised
Speaker 1: that this whole time we've been on the phone, Alice
Speaker 1: has not actually apologized to me. Alice, do you want
Speaker 1: to apologize? Well, I am very sorry that I afolded you.
Speaker 1: Do not apologize. I'm not going to apologize for feeling
Speaker 1: the way that I feel, or having a conversation and
Speaker 1: disagreeing with you, but it wasn't a disagreement. It was
Speaker 1: a full on attack. And anything less than that that
Speaker 1: you're insane. At this point. I would love to ask you, guys,
Speaker 1: if you will go out on a second date, we
Speaker 1: will pay for it. Got to be kidding me. Maybe
Speaker 1: you just need some more time together to talk about
Speaker 1: your favorite cooking shows and the Barefoot Contessa and get
Speaker 1: on the same page. Guys, I think I'm okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: absolutely not. I don't want to see her ever again period.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, I did not see this turn of
Speaker 1: events happening. But Ryan, thank you for your time, and
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you had to endure Elise center hatred of
Speaker 1: the Barefoot Contessa. Yeah, okay, whatever, Yeah, Elise whoa, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you wearing that up for me. Guys, No problem, Hey,
Speaker 1: welcome back to single life. I can't wait to see
Speaker 1: what nut dub I'm gonna get. It's got a text
Speaker 1: in at seven eight, five to nine two that says
Speaker 1: that dude Ryan is going to be on TMZ sometime soon.
Speaker 1: Found hiding in the Barefoot Contessa's kitchen cabinets. It's broken
Speaker 1: jewel in the morning talking about today's second date update.
Speaker 1: This girl named Elise wanted to call a guy named
Speaker 1: Ryan to find out why he wasn't calling her back
Speaker 1: after they went on a date. It turns out she
Speaker 1: did something terrible and insulted his favorite cooking personality, the
Speaker 1: Barefoot Contessa. He was hot too. It really angry about it.
Speaker 1: I don't think we've had anyone on this show as
Speaker 1: passionate is that guy about anything, let alone a cooking show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and people are texting in at seven, eight, five to
Speaker 1: nine two. Now it's moved on from them just commenting
Speaker 1: on the second date update, and now they're just arguing
Speaker 1: about which cooking show is the best. Somebody's texting in
Speaker 1: like that GeoDa girl is the worst. I can't stand her.
Speaker 1: Someone else texted in she probably likes Bobby Flay. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is why che Yeah, and everybody knows. The best
Speaker 1: personality in the cooking world out there is Guy Fieri.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows that. Yeah, I'm the coolest chef ever. I
Speaker 1: frosted my tips. I look like the guy from smash
Speaker 1: Mouth from the nineties, remember him. I'm a badass. Sweet
Speaker 1: glasses on backgroun from the back of my head. It
Speaker 1: is impressive that he's still trying to bring flame shirts back.
Speaker 1: It really so there you go. Screw the second date update.
Speaker 1: It's all about the hot topic today and that is
Speaker 1: who is the best and worst chef out there on TV.
Speaker 1: Remember if you want to do a second date update,
Speaker 1: to email the show. We would call the person that
Speaker 1: didn't call you back.