1 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: I have a very special podcast with a brand new name. 2 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: We did a podcast last year and we really have 3 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: kind of found our stride. And I have a new 4 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: executive producer for the podcast. That would be my sister Deanna. 5 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: And this year, not only are we going to feature 6 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: artists and authors and famous folks, we are going to 7 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: be talking to ordinary people who are doing extraordinary things 8 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: to change the world by their love. So my new 9 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: podcast has a new name. It's called Love Someone. Before 10 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: I get started, I wanted to acknowledge our longtime partner, 11 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 1: the Home Depot. They have generously agreed to sponsor this podcast, 12 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: not just this podcast, but for the whole year. This year, 13 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,839 Speaker 1: we hope to feature stories of everyday folks doing extraordinary 14 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: things because I believe we will change this world one 15 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: heart at a time. And even though our first guest 16 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: is pretty famous between you and I, I met him 17 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: when he was nineteen. He's an ordinary guy who has 18 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: an extraordinary talent and an extraordinary heart. So as we 19 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: approach Valentine's Day, who better to visit with than Michael Bubla. Michael, 20 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: I have missed you. Welcome aboard my friend with me. Okay, 21 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: I'll try, I'll try so, since it's called love Someone, 22 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: since it's Valentine season and you have a new album 23 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: out all about love, and I just listened to the 24 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: song you wrote for Noah and sat here bawling, missing 25 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: my Zach attack. We're gonna We're just we're gonna dive deep. 26 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: We're going to start out with the big one and 27 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: talk about the new album and the inspiration for your 28 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: new song so Forever. Now. Did you write it before 29 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 1: or after you found out your baby boy was sick? 30 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: I wrote it during, during the whole thing. And the 31 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 2: truth is, I I know it sounds strange, but I mean, 32 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 2: you take a lot from the experiences you're going through, 33 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 2: but at the same time, it also is a way 34 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: to have therapy and to sort of separate yourself. And 35 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: so for me, that song really wasn't as much about 36 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: Noah or my other children as it was about the 37 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: sentimentality towards time and the sentimentality towards relationships in which 38 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 2: we we we give everything of ourselves. And I mean, 39 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: it's funny, you know, I've become more and more sentimental 40 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 2: the older I get about our life, the cycle of life, 41 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 2: about you know, how much we love our parents, and 42 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 2: how much we rely on them, and how time flies 43 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 2: by so quickly. My dad says to me, all the time, 44 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: you know that, you know, the days are long and 45 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 2: the years are short. And now with my own children, 46 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 2: I see that happening, and I feel that happening. And 47 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: so for me, it was really a study on the 48 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,839 Speaker 2: passage of time and that it changes for no one, 49 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: that it moves that quickly for everyone, And you know, 50 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 2: it's just kind of about trying to really remember and 51 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: embrace the moments that we have. And so some of 52 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 2: those images I mean of you know, holding your kids' 53 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: hands and knowing that that will pass too, that at 54 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: some point they won't walk to anymay why there's just 55 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 2: this great amount of sentimentality that comes with it. And 56 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 2: it really made me realize why I loved the music 57 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 2: so much. The power of a good song. 58 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: The power. 59 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: Where you know you can hear it and interpret it 60 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 2: in your own way and it becomes that thing for you. 61 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: And I think that's the most magic thing about music, 62 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: is that we can hear it and it becomes this 63 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: really special, distinct thing that only we can really understand 64 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: and feel as powerfully as we did. 65 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: Well, I read the lyrics. First before I listened to 66 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: the song, and I was weeping. 67 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 3: And then I listened to the. 68 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: Song and I was bawling, and so I had to go, 69 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 1: you know, get some tissue and pull myself together. 70 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 2: And that's you know what I wanted to when I 71 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 2: when I listen, I wasn't even sure that I was 72 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: going to release it. To be honest with you, it 73 00:04:56,240 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: became a kind of a you know, an inside kind 74 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: of I just wasn't I was. I wasn't. I didn't 75 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 2: know if I was ready for it, didn't know if 76 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 2: it was too personal to me. And so when I 77 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 2: finally decided, okay, you know this is I'll let it out. 78 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 2: To be honest with you, I still haven't listened to it. 79 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 2: The truth is, hell, I sang it only one time. 80 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 2: I did the demo, and I sang out once and 81 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 2: it was me and a piano, and then I never 82 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: sang it again. So that'll tell you how I feel 83 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 2: about it. But I love that it can be open 84 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: to the interpretation of other people. And I love that 85 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 2: when you hear it, it can be about you and 86 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: your kids, or you know, when someone else here's it 87 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,799 Speaker 2: can be about the relationship they've had with their parents 88 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: or grandparents. 89 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: Well, for me, it's about the two boys that I've 90 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: lost and all the other ones that are here still 91 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: and how important it is to let them know every 92 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: single minute of every single day. Then I'm never going 93 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: to let them down. 94 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 2: No, that's all we got. Listen, Delilah, I don't care 95 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: where you're from. If your gears straight to Richard poor 96 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 2: Black of life. At the end of the day, that 97 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: is everything, and love is all the matters. And so 98 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 2: you know, when you go through difficult but things that 99 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 2: that you and I have always been gone through, I 100 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: think this becomes even clearer. But I think in a 101 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: good way that you know you wish that clarity on 102 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 2: your best friends because you live in a different way, 103 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 2: and I think that it's important to live in a 104 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 2: different way and live and be in the moment and 105 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: not taking for granted. 106 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: I remember when my first son was born, thinking, how 107 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: did I ever even live without your soul in my world? 108 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: How did I what did I do? What was what 109 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 3: was what was my purpose? Before I had this soul. 110 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: Connected to me and my daughter Sheila, who adores you. 111 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: She just had a baby in June, little Rosebud and 112 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: she said the same thing to me. She's like, Mom, 113 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: I did not know I was capable of this deep 114 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: of love. And oh, yeah, that's what your song, that's 115 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: what that's what it touches on. Is that depth of 116 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: intimacy that you never even knew you could feel. 117 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: No, it's lovely, it's a beautiful thing. But you know, 118 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: it's funny. A friend of mine said to me that 119 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 2: she had gone through something really tough and she had 120 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 2: lost a friend and she had gone to see her 121 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 2: therapist and she was just not getting over it. And 122 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: then she said to the therapist, she said, oh, I 123 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 2: just I just loved her so much. I loved her 124 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: so much. And the therapist said to her, what she said, 125 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 2: you thought that love was free, She said, you thought 126 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: that love, that kind of love, that depth of love, 127 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: was free. She said, no, I'm sorry, honey. That kind 128 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 2: of love has a great cost. And it's really it's 129 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,559 Speaker 2: very heavy, and it's it's serious, but it's it's true. 130 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: I mean, it's scary. You know, you really put yourself 131 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: out on a limit the greatest way. You truly risk everything. 132 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 2: But I don't think there's a greater risk worth taking, 133 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,119 Speaker 2: you know, And so I don't want to skip ahead 134 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 2: with your questions. But when you you know, when you 135 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: want talk and you say, well, well, your record is 136 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 2: called love and it's about love, Well, I think that 137 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 2: you know, honestly, I came to a realization that it's 138 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: all about love, and I couldn't really think about another 139 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 2: subject or another you know, and something that I really 140 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 2: want to expound upon, and it's sort of at this 141 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: time of my life, it is front and center, and 142 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: so I find it fascinating, you know, the light and 143 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 2: the dark, and the good and the bad, that everything 144 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 2: that comes along with the most complicated and wonderful feeling 145 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 2: that human beings have. 146 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 3: Look at you, listen to you. 147 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,559 Speaker 2: You know that feeling you were talking about when you 148 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 2: were saying talking about your daughter, and you're having that 149 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 2: feeling of not knowing that there was a depth of 150 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 2: love that deep. 151 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: I never knew until I. 152 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 2: I just had that epiffany when Adam Levine took off 153 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 2: his shirt. 154 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 1: And showed us the Chipolte bag. 155 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I meant, honestly, I'm just a human beings beautiful. 156 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: Oh thank you for lightning it up for me. I've 157 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: had to Michael Boubla hold that thought. As we share 158 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: this podcast, I want to give a shout out to 159 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: our sponsor, the Home Depot. I do so much to 160 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: make my home cozy and comfortable for my family. I 161 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: want my family to use every inch of our old farmhouse, 162 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 1: and we do. The house itself is over one hundred 163 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: years old, but we've done a lot to modernize the 164 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: parts that need it so that we're all very comfortable. 165 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: The cabinets, the doors, the floors. They're all from antique 166 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: wood that I pulled out of my old barn. 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I know Noah is much better. 177 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 3: Praise God, Praise God. 178 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 2: Everything's good. We have a new, little, beautiful little girl 179 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 2: in the house, and I'm in love and my wife's 180 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 2: doing really good. She's just you know, I don't know. 181 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: I just don't know what happened that you need three babies. 182 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 3: And I was gonna say, we need to talk about 183 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 3: this because I don't know how that happens. How does 184 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 3: she look like that? 185 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 2: Michael, Oh, God just loves her more. Maybe he does? 186 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 3: She be like his all time favorite because. 187 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm still working on off the baby weight. 188 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 3: You are? You are? Yeah? But she clearly, like did 189 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 3: she like eat ice cream every day like I did 190 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 3: when I was pregnant or what? 191 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 2: One of those weird people that likes going to the 192 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 2: gym that like doesn't you know you know how some 193 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: people pretend that they like it may but she really 194 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 2: likes it, like she just she has an addiction to 195 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 2: cross it and all this stuff, and she's really healthy, 196 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 2: the same way that I have an addiction to ch 197 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: paule and McDonald's. 198 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: Ah, you're so darned cute and you're so darned blessed, 199 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: and I'm so glad that that you are are our 200 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: first big because we're changing the podcast this year. 201 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 2: What do you say? Who's next? What do you who 202 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 2: do you have on the radar. 203 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. 204 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: Last year, you know we did we talked of music 205 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: artists and authors and stuff like this that. But this 206 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: year I really want to talk to everyday people who 207 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 1: have done, have gone through experiences and done extraordinary things. 208 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: And here's the thing that most people don't know about you, Michael. 209 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: When I met you, the first thing you shared with 210 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: me was how much you loved your grandpa. Yeah, because 211 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: you were just a kid. I realized you had no 212 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 1: clue number one, how talented you were and the trajectory 213 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: your life was going to take because those of us 214 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: in the industry saw it in you. You just have 215 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: this magic, but you are so damn real and so 216 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: human and that's never changed, never changed. The last time 217 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: I went to see you, to show you and said, 218 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: come backstage. You got to see my wife. 219 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 3: She's so beautiful. We went backstage and she was sleeping 220 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: because she just nursed the baby, and You're like, don't 221 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 3: wake her, let her sleep, let her sleep, And I'm like, 222 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 3: I love you. You're so real. 223 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 2: I feel the same way about you, kid, And I 224 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 2: told you. I texted you the other day and I 225 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: said that, you know, it's important to be this and 226 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 2: to be real. By the way, I love that you 227 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 2: said you want to speak to people that have gone 228 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 2: through incredible things. I mean, I think that gives other 229 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: people strength, you know what I mean, if they can 230 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 2: do it, I can do it. And I think that's 231 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 2: a huge thing. Listen. You know, like the world is 232 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: the world. Listen, the world is crazy, and everybody that's 233 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 2: listening right now has got a sense and a sense 234 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 2: probably a fear of feeling how out of control it 235 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 2: seems to be going. I mean, listen, I think that 236 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: social media, I think has a massive social impact on 237 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 2: what's happening and how people feel about themselves. I think 238 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 2: we're starting to understand, you know, mental health issues. We're 239 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 2: starting to see a divide. I mean, there's been the 240 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: last few years crazy, a divide between races, between God, 241 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: between women, you know, between correctness and political and correctness. 242 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:52,359 Speaker 2: And you're just seeing this great divide between people their philosophies, 243 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 2: how they live, what they believe. And I think more 244 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:59,079 Speaker 2: than ever, you know, we do need to spread love 245 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 2: and joy and hope and and even if people are 246 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 2: cynical and they fit that's strange, you know, we have 247 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 2: I actually, this is what I wrote you the other day. 248 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 2: We have there's so much power each of us, each 249 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 2: of us, and even though some days we feel like 250 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 2: we don't and what could we do with just one person? 251 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 2: The individual can change nothing. It's just not true. Every 252 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 2: single moment you have an opportunity to be kind, to 253 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 2: be gracious, to bring hope and love. And that can 254 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: be as simple as just walking, you know, walking down 255 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: the street and smiling at someone and tell them they 256 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: look nice, or you know, standing in line and letting 257 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 2: somebody in front of you, or you know, there's a 258 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 2: bunch there's just ways to be gracious and kind and 259 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 2: and help out the world. And I think we just 260 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: need it. And that's why it's songs like this, and 261 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: when you talk about talking to people, it's just it's 262 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 2: it's just too important. It really is. It really really 263 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 2: is because people I think they can feel it. I 264 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 2: think you can feel it, and I think they need 265 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: it more than ever. 266 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: We started something on the air called the One Heart 267 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: Challenge because of the name of my book, One Heart 268 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: at a Time, and the challenge just simple. It's don't 269 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: say anything, don't post anything, don't respond to anything, don't 270 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: talk about anybody to their face or behind their back, 271 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: unless it is motivated by kindness. 272 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a beautiful thing. 273 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: And it's really it boils down to my mom saying, Sis, 274 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. 275 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 2: I just keep coming to people. Love not like, love 276 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: not like. 277 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I tell people love not shove, Love not shove. 278 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: When you're trying to shove your beliefs or your politics, 279 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: or your religion, or your philosophy, or you're on people, 280 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: it doesn't They're not going to receive it. And all 281 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: you're doing is causing divisions. 282 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 3: Stop people, Stop. 283 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: When you're laying in the hospital bed and you need 284 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 1: a blood transfusion, you don't care if the person donating 285 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: the blood it has the same political beliefs, or is 286 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: the same race, or is the same sexual orientation. 287 00:15:55,840 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 3: It's all we all need one another. Yes, Oh Michael, 288 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 3: I love you. So how can people find out about 289 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 3: your tour? 290 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: What? What tour? 291 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: I don't know they said to ask you about Michael 292 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 1: boublay dot com. 293 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: I'm sure you can google it or something or I don't. 294 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: Know, Michael booblay dot com. There we go, there you go. 295 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 2: It's nice for me, especially to have a platform this 296 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 2: big to say it, because I'll say it whenever I can. Listen, Man, 297 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 2: can I can I sort of talk to the people. 298 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh this is your show. You can say whatever 299 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 3: you want. 300 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll tell the people this. Listen, don't buy anything, 301 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 2: buy the tickets if you like, buy the records, or 302 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 2: don't or don't know this. You have changed my life, 303 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 2: in my family's life, and with what we went through 304 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 2: because of you. You gave me an opportunity that I 305 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 2: know a million of parents don't have, which was to 306 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 2: stop to just do what I had to do as 307 00:16:53,800 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 2: a dad. And I can never tell you, I I 308 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 2: can only show you in my actions how much that 309 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 2: you mean to me. It overwhelms me. The fact that 310 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 2: you work hard and you take your harder money to 311 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: go and invest in me, and like that you owe 312 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 2: me nothing. So God bless I love that you. You 313 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 2: know that whatever the Liley you're telling them to go 314 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,400 Speaker 2: to this place and tickets and stuff, but they've done 315 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: enough for me, more than enough for me. So if 316 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 2: you just happen to be one of those people that 317 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 2: are coming to the shows, then it's going to be 318 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 2: my absolute honor. A step on stage and get to 319 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 2: show you with my actions how much you mean to 320 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 2: me and what it means to me to get to 321 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,159 Speaker 2: do this for you, because it really does. I'm a 322 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 2: lucky boy. 323 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 1: You're a blessed man. Michael. You know what's funny is 324 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 1: if if all the success of my show went away 325 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: tomorrow and I moved back to read Sport where I 326 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: grew up and I got to. 327 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 3: Be on the air there, I wouldn't care. I just 328 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 3: love talking to people. 329 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 2: Listen, when you go through tough stuff, trust me, you 330 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 2: know people out there know it too. You don't think 331 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: about the stuff. You do not think about any of it. 332 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 2: And you know it's funny. I read a beautiful Thing 333 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 2: by Steve Jobs. He wrote it from his deathbed, and 334 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 2: that's kind of he had written off on his deathbed, 335 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 2: and what he had said was, look at once you 336 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 2: have enough, you know, then do what you love because 337 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, it's it's it's it's 338 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 2: family and relationships and love and that journey and that's it. 339 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 2: That's all you want more off, So people go out 340 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 2: there and live and love and go and just take 341 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 2: it only and jewy, be kind. 342 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 3: I love you, Michael, love you too. 343 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Say hi to everybody. Family, give 344 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: jaana hug for me, and I hope to see you 345 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 2: when I'm around your neck of the woods. 346 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: Oh well, I'm I'm going to bring you to my 347 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 1: farm when you're when you're around my neck of the woods, 348 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 1: I'm kidnapping you. 349 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 3: Beautiful, Okay, love you, honey, gave to you. 350 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:52,120 Speaker 2: Take care of yourself. 351 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 3: Michael. 352 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for taking the time to be with us today. 353 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm thrilled you are once again sharing your music. Love 354 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: is in stores and available everywhere that you find music. 355 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: For more info, go to Michaelboublay dot com. And thanks 356 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 1: again to the Home Depot for making this podcast possible 357 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: and to my sister Deanna and my producer Jane for 358 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: arranging it. Until next time, take some time out of 359 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 1: your busy day to slow down and love someone