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Speaker 2: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 3: Picking out my froe with my fist comb. I got

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Speaker 3: talking about how to run things. He said Atlanta wanted something.

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Speaker 3: Make a short tip, keep that crown or fucking round

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Speaker 3: Backstage Wait went to see The Roots Quest by Backstage

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Speaker 3: I gotta be honest, feeling like the other stuff. It's

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Speaker 3: to gud us some dollars. I'm kind of I'm trying

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Speaker 3: ain't a game, he said, Homie. State of course, Saint

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Speaker 3: shit changed weird night and everybody was tips. He hanging

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Speaker 3: That reminds me, I said in a long text message

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Speaker 3: I left thirty rock a mom like why you want

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Speaker 3: telling me what you think. Speak from your heart and

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Speaker 3: never compromise what you feel is real, and never let

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Speaker 3: these white folks tell you how to feel. Never let

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Speaker 3: anybody tell you how to feel. Hey, welcome to the

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Speaker 3: black Out to his podcast. Your host Rod and and

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Speaker 3: we are live on a Wednesday, Yes, sir, we almost

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Speaker 3: didn't have a show tonight, guys. I was well for

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Speaker 3: if you guys are following the show I did not.

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Speaker 3: We didn't do a show yesterday because I needed to

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Speaker 3: align my chakras. I was not feeling like I was

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Speaker 3: you know, myself. So that was why we didn't do

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Speaker 3: up with nothing like that. I told everybody on social media,

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Speaker 3: we should treat ourselves. The other reason y'all didn't almost

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Speaker 4: She canceled the concert. Big Boy will not be here.

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Speaker 3: And to do this podcast tonight, which I wouldn't have gotten.

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Speaker 4: Ancient artifacts and.

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Speaker 3: Going into this other people's culture that you don't belong

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they always be alive and still doing them rituals

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Speaker 4: I'm like, well, technically maybe they would have stopped healing too.

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Speaker 3: It's like you hung out with the ancient artifacts and

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Speaker 4: So it's nobody else in the history of the internet

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Speaker 5: No, normally, when that phrase use it using the negative way.

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Speaker 3: I'm tired to make that okay because a lot of

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Speaker 5: Yeah? What about the phrase that have grown and evolved

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Speaker 3: Some of your phaves is giving to the United Negro

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Speaker 3: College fun like Okay, that that sounds like a good thing.

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Speaker 3: Right, I'm just saying some of your phases are doing

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Speaker 5: Some of your phase out here donating to the homeless shelter.

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Speaker 3: Some of your phase out here losing weight getting sexy

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Speaker 3: there is no pawn like this. I've checked. I've watched

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Speaker 3: No, we're not. We're not even gonna do that. It's

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Speaker 3: He says, of course, everybody in my company makes the

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Speaker 4: Person and welcome the toys for tots.

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Speaker 3: So whatever the job is, and they shake hands and

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Speaker 5: We all come and I got another version there. You're

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Speaker 3: I will be uploading means to all the porn sites,

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Speaker 3: you know, and people are gonna be like this point,

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Speaker 4: They won't even know they did. They won't. They'll be like,

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Speaker 3: But then the next day they go to work, they

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Speaker 5: Know, and that's even better than I got another another

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Speaker 3: I like that, you know, I like you know that,

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Speaker 4: She don't have a man. She just wanted to come

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Speaker 3: You saw it, you know, just just a good day.

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Speaker 3: Seemed like being a woman as a nightmare these days

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Speaker 3: and all the other days. So why not just have

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00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:55,679
Speaker 3: some fantasies, okay? Or just walk down the street and

436
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,399
Speaker 3: nobody was like, oh bitch, look at that ass, just

437
00:20:59,040 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 3: like that's the whole thing.

438
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,640
Speaker 4: And she walked past a group of men.

439
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 3: Who are on the corner looking like, you know, they

440
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 3: could want to eat the steak off of somebody's pussy.

441
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 3: But then she walks by and all of them just go, oh,

442
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 3: excuse me, sister, And then that's it. She just walked by,

443
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 3: headphones in, you know, maybe maybe one other two of

444
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,560
Speaker 3: them even go hey, guys, move out the way, this

445
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 3: lady's coming through. And then that's the whole point. It's

446
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 3: only a minute long. It's just a minute long.

447
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Speaker 5: Their short clips or either she put on her workout

448
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Speaker 5: clothes the beginning, she put on her work out clothes,

449
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,879
Speaker 5: you know, she gets dressed, she goes out, She goes outside,

450
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 5: and she takes a job, y'all, And y'all know what,

451
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,200
Speaker 5: Nobody bothers her, Nobody calls her doing her job, Nobody

452
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 5: tries to snack on ass. You know. She just jogs, y'all,

453
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 5: just uninterrupted, uninterrupted fucking jogging.

454
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Speaker 4: M Like, that's that's it.

455
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Speaker 3: You know, maybe two women go to her to a

456
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Speaker 3: bar and they're sitting at a bar by themselves, and.

457
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Speaker 4: A dude seize.

458
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 3: Them and he goes over to the bar close to them,

459
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,880
Speaker 3: and he just asks the bar tender for a drink,

460
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 3: and then he turns around and doesn't say anything to him.

461
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 4: That's it. She gets real, just gets real sexy like that.

462
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe maybe he bothers him a drink, but then

463
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Speaker 3: he doesn't want nothing.

464
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 4: He just he's just.

465
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Speaker 5: Like, either I got one better for you. And he

466
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 5: asks her for her telephone number. She says no. She says, well,

467
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 5: thank you for your time, ma'am, and turn around and

468
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Speaker 5: walk away.

469
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Speaker 4: Yeah, enjoy your drink. And that's it.

470
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 5: That's it, y'all.

471
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,959
Speaker 3: He doesn't say this, bitch, she doesn't roll his eyes.

472
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 3: He smiles very politely and walks away.

473
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Speaker 4: You know, maybe he says I have a boyfriend, and

474
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Speaker 4: then after he least he.

475
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 3: Turns to a girlfriend and says, girl, I ain't got

476
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Speaker 3: no boyfriend, and they both go oh girl.

477
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Speaker 4: And that's it. That's the whole horn, So the whole sixty.

478
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 5: Seconds just I feel like this, honey, I'm about about

479
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 5: about to say, if you really want to get in

480
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 5: and real good, we can get into some good old

481
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 5: fashioned and point. How about you a black person in

482
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 5: your walk down the street and nobody calls, picks up

483
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 5: the phone and down's now one one on you. How

484
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,919
Speaker 5: about it is about three of y'all on the corner

485
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 5: doing absolute the possible, not just talking to each other,

486
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 5: and nobody calls you for loading mm hmm.

487
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Speaker 3: Like they showed the face of a white woman being

488
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Speaker 3: annoyed and picking up her phone, but really she's just

489
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 3: picking up her phone to call to check to see

490
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Speaker 3: and she got any mail down at the ups store,

491
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Speaker 3: and that's it.

492
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 5: That's it, that's the old porn.

493
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 4: It was just a minute. And the black women continue

494
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 4: to be able to talk and have fun on the

495
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 4: corner without anyone harassing them.

496
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 5: That's it.

497
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Speaker 3: I feel like this could easily be made we just

498
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 3: have to upload them to the porn sites though, because

499
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 3: like I don't want to upload it the YouTube. I

500
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 3: want to upload it to like xHamster, because we're gonna

501
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 3: teach people with this.

502
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 4: They gonna be like, Oh, that's what. That's the things

503
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 4: that make women women's lives better.

504
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 5: That's the thing I'm going to tell you. Or either

505
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 5: a black woman is talking and Baker's about to say nothing,

506
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 5: and Sabrina stops the egg. Girl don't do that. It

507
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 5: grabs and just kind of slowly pulls away, and a

508
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 5: black woman minding her business, and the white woman talking

509
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 5: to the other white woman telling her, you know, a girl,

510
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Speaker 5: you might not want to do that. At the end,

511
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 5: the black woman that bothered, she ain't got to explain

512
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Speaker 5: there was no one to action with her. She caught

513
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 5: her before in the action happened, before she could touch

514
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 5: somebody's hair or something. Come on, like, hey, hey keep

515
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 5: doing Susan and the whole that's the whole point.

516
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Speaker 4: All happens in the background. Yeah right, I'm just sitting

517
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Speaker 4: at her desk.

518
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Speaker 5: She's oblivious. She ain't even knows about to happen.

519
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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm just saying feels like kind of sexy.

520
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Speaker 4: I think you can make it happen. All right, let's

521
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Speaker 4: get into the news. Guys speaking of Sex.

522
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 3: Center for Disease Control would like to They put out

523
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 3: a PSA on Twitter yesterday basically saying guys do not wash.

524
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 4: And reuse condoms?

525
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 5: Who does that?

526
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel the CDC on this, but I

527
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 3: do have to ask, do y'all have new condom money?

528
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 4: CDC? Oh y'all? Do y'all give away condos, clinics and stuff?

529
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 5: Okay, free, unlimited, get as many as you want.

530
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Speaker 4: Dog, So let's not just ps A artists.

531
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Speaker 3: I hope y'all are not out there trying to wash

532
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 3: and reuse.

533
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 5: So that they were gonna get the STD off the

534
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 5: condom if you got an STD on it.

535
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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. It just seems like who does.

536
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 5: I've never heard of this ship in my motherfucking life.

537
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 5: And then people wonder why, uh, particularly women always has

538
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 5: the condom. Nope, you use this one. Nope, I don't

539
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 5: care about what you bought. Use this one. Girl?

540
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 4: About to use no new condom on this girl?

541
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 5: Then you ain't about to get into this.

542
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 4: Is some reused condom pushing You got right, here, I'm

543
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 4: about to waste the.

544
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: One on the new condom. No, I like to use

545
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 3: my condoms, so I get oxy. That's how they get you.

546
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 3: That's how they get you. See they right on the

547
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 3: package one time only for use. But that's just like

548
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,120
Speaker 3: the expiration date on milk. You had a couple of days.

549
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 3: You just once it, hang it outside on the on

550
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 3: the on the clothes line.

551
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 5: Mm hmmm, sod. Yeah. So I guess when it comes

552
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,360
Speaker 5: to having sex with it's a penis involved, you better

553
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 5: look at them. Rip that condom, open.

554
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 3: Your clothes pen So you're closing some condoms to the

555
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 3: drop to the to the clothes.

556
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 4: Line with the rest of the line and outside the

557
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 4: air dry.

558
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 3: You know, let it air dry a little bit, get

559
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 3: some elements in and get a smell, a little gamy,

560
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 3: and then, uh, what I like to do is I

561
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: like to take the package and reseal the package with

562
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 3: the condiment. That way, you know, you gotta roll it

563
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 3: back up and take a little extra time to roll

564
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 3: it back up.

565
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 4: You love it down with some olive oil, hey, holes

566
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 4: in it, and then you and then you're uh, then

567
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 4: you put it.

568
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 3: I like extra version olive oil, you know, what I'm saying, Okay,

569
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 3: because I'm.

570
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 4: I may be a slept on my condoms' you know

571
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. And then you save the.

572
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 3: Wrap wrapper and I seal it shut and then I

573
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: iron it to iron it back shut. So every time

574
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 3: I open up a new package, but really use condom

575
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 3: saved and doing that since eighty three, saving money out here?

576
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 5: What the.

577
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: What's wrong is the render is too high? Okay, I

578
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 3: can't afford no new condoms.

579
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 5: I mean, I mean it's all types of ship out there.

580
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 5: People using use condoms, men not using the proper size

581
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 5: condoms because men think that dick is actually bigger than

582
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 5: it actually is. So you have conumns are too big,

583
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 5: your condoms are too small.

584
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 3: I got that too. I got a trick for that too.

585
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: So what I do is I take lifestyle condoms. Okay,

586
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 3: they're much smaller. But then I buy a magnum wrapper

587
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 3: and I seal it up in yeah, you know, put

588
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 3: my iron on it. Uh, sell it up there with

589
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 3: some glue you know or something. Boom, while I she thinks,

590
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 3: oh my god, he pulling out a magnum Inside it's

591
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 3: a little tiny ass lifestyle condoms. So life hack you

592
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, life hack, You guys are welcome

593
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 3: out there, small penis men.

594
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 4: All right.

595
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 5: A lot of people don't y'all, don't love y'all self.

596
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 5: And you you watching condoms? You you is a self

597
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 5: hating person. I'm sorry.

598
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 4: Uh well, or I'm saving money for these dates.

599
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 3: If women wasn't the mand at two hundred dollars dates, Okay,

600
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. People wasn't a man at

601
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 3: two hundred dollar dates, maybe I could afford some condoms.

602
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: Maybe I should come down on the price, priced the

603
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 3: brick drop to one fifty. Then maybe I can see

604
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: about getting new condoms every time. But until then, I

605
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 3: gotta stay with the condoms from the twenty twelve year.

606
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 3: That was a good year for me. That's a good.

607
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 5: This ain't wine.

608
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 4: Those condoms have aged like a fine wine. Okay. You

609
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 4: when I open up the package, you.

610
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 3: Can smell the fermentae smell the dust, you can you

611
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 3: can smell the fermentation on the condom.

612
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 4: Okay, Rubber crumbles like you sniffy. You get a little high. Okay,

613
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 4: It's it's like in bombing fluid.

614
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 5: It's loads send off.

615
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 4: God, what is wrong with he? Like penists, not just

616
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 4: explode when you put on a used condo.

617
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 5: And that's how funny they that message.

618
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 3: Is the dudes, Yeah, obviously, what the fuck I mean?

619
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 3: I don't think there's any women like micro waven condoms and.

620
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 5: Ship no no, like fucking popcorn.

621
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 3: Azaria Banks was left in tears after taping a wilding Out.

622
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 3: The Harlem Rapper reveals that she was invited to perform

623
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Speaker 3: on Nick cannon Sketch Comedy and Emperor Show for MTV,

624
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 3: but the Spears turned out to be a nightmare instead.

625
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 4: She says she was uh.

626
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 3: Complexion shamed by the cast during the freestyle battle, which

627
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 3: she didn't plan to participate in.

628
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 5: Did they force to make her Probably not.

629
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 4: I did wilding out today.

630
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 3: There were tons of pre playing colorless jokes and of

631
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 3: course crybaby cried, she wrote on Instagram. According to Banks,

632
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 3: when of the cast members started in selling her looks,

633
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 3: including the color of her skins, some like Scrownei black

634
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 3: Atlanta twink was prepared for me, some little scrowney black

635
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 3: Atlanta twink, which is like another name for gay people.

636
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's considered a slur or not.

637
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 5: I don't know either, and I thought that's what they

638
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 5: do on Wilding Out when they just joke on each other,

639
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 5: and I ain't got the whole point of the show.

640
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 3: The show is basically she basically went to drag me

641
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 3: the show and then got mad.

642
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 4: He got mad that they drug her.

643
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, she be dragging people that don't ask for shit

644
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 3: on social media except they mind their business. She will

645
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 3: come and find them and drag them. And she does

646
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 3: use colorless jokes.

647
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 4: She does use.

648
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 3: Racial slurs, homophobic slurs, and all the in between. But

649
00:30:55,880 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 3: I guess in a planned event, that's too far. They

650
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 3: planned this hit me on short Noteses told me I

651
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: didn't have to participate in the coon ass freestyle battles,

652
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 3: not my style, and I was to sing my song

653
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Speaker 3: and go home. The clowner continued as other members of

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Speaker 3: the cast joined in.

655
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Speaker 4: I show up as.

656
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 3: Some guy who's darker than me, starts calling me ugly

657
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 3: and being colorist. Then all of a sudden, acquir the

658
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 3: most disgustingly basic local.

659
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 4: Cattle called urban pseudo comic fat.

660
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: Because you sit in a chair all day, greasy soul

661
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 3: food in due south of the Mason Dixon self hatred

662
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 3: ass hashtag backwards Jim post Jim Crow post traumatic slates,

663
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 3: or the true self esteemless ward of the state. Clowns

664
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Speaker 3: with their low scale, high undepressive Alley underpressive resume started

665
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: going off about how the beautiful, how the beautiful Azala

666
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Speaker 3: Banks looks.

667
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Speaker 4: First of all, you know what this is, y'all. You

668
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 4: know what this is.

669
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Speaker 3: This is like that time that everybody has if they've

670
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 3: ever been a physical altercation. Well, you got beat up,

671
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 3: and then after you got beat up and he's talking

672
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 3: to your friend and you start crying, being like, man,

673
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 3: I would have hit them.

674
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 4: I should have sucked that nigga's nose, and then I

675
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 4: wouldn't have said no, you the pump, and then I

676
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 4: would have kicked them in his balls and we hit

677
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 4: on the ground. One stoked him on his head like motherfucker.

678
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 4: And it's like, well, why you didn't do that? Huh? Yeah,

679
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 4: you was there, you saying what you should have did?

680
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 4: What happened? I mean, he just beat me up. I

681
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 4: just started crying and he punching his stomach. I couldn't read. Yeah,

682
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 4: but you just said that you should.

683
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,479
Speaker 3: Have blocked the punch and then spun like Bruce Lee

684
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 3: and kicked him onside the head. Yeah, well, you know,

685
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: that's just not what happened. So now I'm here telling

686
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 3: you I should have hit him with a brick and

687
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 3: got in a car, got my license, drove back to school,

688
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 3: and hit him one day in the parking lot where

689
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 3: he was going to pro football practice. But uh, yeah,

690
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 3: none of that's gonna happen. Say that she should have

691
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 3: said this shit when she was on the show, That's

692
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 3: all I'm saying. And emotionals Area was angry by the incident.

693
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 3: Her alter ego your maya came out.

694
00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 4: Boy.

695
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 3: She I never felt so much hat and rage for

696
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 3: anyone else than I did in that moment. Your mind

697
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 3: was really on stage. She detailed more of the account

698
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 3: on Instagram stories, explaining that no one came to her defense.

699
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 3: Not a single one of those black men called any

700
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 3: of the white women on stage ugly. I'm sorry, but

701
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 3: yesterday was a testament to why I don't ever let

702
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 3: niggas near me. All right, Uh, they had some white

703
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 3: chick on stage calling them wi kind of rejects, some

704
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: real thin lip punk nose queen herbie reject looking bitch.

705
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 4: Niggas are so fucking ass backwards.

706
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 5: But she said none of this on the should though.

707
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 3: Should have if I were to make fun of Nick

708
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 3: Cannon for having lupis and being weak and sickly, if

709
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 3: I made a joke that said he'd be dead by

710
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: the end of the year, then Azaija bass is the

711
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: bad guy, right?

712
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 5: Why do they keep inviting herd the shit? I hate

713
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 5: to be like this nigga for Why why do y'all

714
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 5: keep inviting her to shit?

715
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 4: I feel like it's for this reason, you know.

716
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 3: Now, obviously the people on wild Out said this is

717
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 3: not what happened, and right, you know, her version of

718
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: events are fucked up.

719
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 4: Who knows.

720
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 5: I hate to believe it. I don't believe her.

721
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 3: I mean, she's just My thing is that she's so

722
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 3: all over the place because she treated she tried to

723
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 3: drag Sky Jackson, like she tells dark skinned women on

724
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 3: TV to get like I mean, on Twitter and shit,

725
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 3: to get their skin bleached and shit. Like She's not

726
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 3: some innocent babe in the woods on this shit man. Like,

727
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 3: it's just it's that thing where it's like Papa John's quoting.

728
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 4: Colonel Sanders saying, nigga, and I'm.

729
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 3: Like, I understand how in his mind he could be like,

730
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 3: that's not even fucking racist. I can't say that. Another

731
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 3: person said shit, get the fuck out of my face,

732
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I don't like you, Papa John. I

733
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 3: don't have the good faith in you that you didn't

734
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 3: think that you were trying to be slick.

735
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. There's other people that might quote.

736
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 3: It's like if an actor said nigger in a movie,

737
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 3: I don't go this white man is a goddamn racist,

738
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 3: why would he take that role? But at the same time,

739
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:03,399
Speaker 3: like if that same actor had a history of saying

740
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 3: racist shit, guess who wouldn't care me? And that's who

741
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 3: doesn't care this time was Allia Banks.

742
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 5: I don't care.

743
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't fuck with black people, but absolutely.

744
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 3: Jennifer Lopez said men are useless before thirty three, and

745
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 3: she's actually not wrong. Uh, this is on This is

746
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 3: Insider dot com. So basically, there's a dating app called

747
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: Tender and there's a series they have called Swipe Sessions.

748
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 3: At Lopez helped Brook, a twenty nine year old country singer,

749
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 3: we through her possible Tender suitors.

750
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 4: Brooke said she wanted the type of guy that would

751
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 4: chop wood.

752
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 3: So while swiping through some of Brook's Options, in which

753
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,479
Speaker 3: she nicks the guy for having a bio that read,

754
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 3: if you store ketchup in the refrigerator, it's not gonna

755
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 3: work out. Lopez throed out some sage dating advice guys

756
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 3: until their thirty three are really useless.

757
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,399
Speaker 4: She said this.

758
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 3: Likely wasn't intended to apply to all men under the

759
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 3: very specific ages thirty three. But according to doctor Jane Grier,

760
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 3: a New York based relationship expert and author What About

761
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 3: Me Stop Stop Selfishness from Ruining Your relationship, Lopez's advice

762
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 3: is actually pretty solid and especially if you're looking simple

763
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 3: specifically for commitment. It could take me in into the

764
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 3: early thirties to established a professional career in phillicis of

765
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 3: financial stability, which helps them feel more secure in life,

766
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: Grill told Insider. As a result, this can give them

767
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 3: the maturity that comes with accomplishment, experience, and success. Well,

768
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 3: it can just be the same infature asshole, but with money.

769
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Speaker 5: Come on.

770
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 3: This doesn't mean the guys in the twenty shoutom actually

771
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 3: be off limits, but it does offer explanation as to

772
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 3: why some men seem to make a sudden shift in

773
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 3: commitment ability around the time they turn thirty, I wonder,

774
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 3: with student loans and debt and less money and your

775
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 3: job no longer being this wage where you can provide

776
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 3: for a family for most men, I wonder if that's

777
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 3: even true. I wonder if thirty is still that age

778
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 3: for a lot of men, because I feel like it's

779
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 3: that age is getting older and older and we're living longer. Correct,

780
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 3: But like, motherfucker's probably gotta get like forty or some

781
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 3: shit now before they really can be Like if I

782
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,760
Speaker 3: wanted to, I could take care of a whole last family,

783
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Anyway, this doesn't mean the

784
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 3: guys in a tweeny that sometimes you see a guy

785
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 3: who's been in several relationships, but then there's early thirty

786
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 3: suddenly meets a woman and he's ready to marry her.

787
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 3: So lopez exact device might not work for everyone, but

788
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 3: knowing you're worth and having standards to match up to

789
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 3: it never hurt anyone. In any case, next time you're

790
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 3: swiping around day nap, if you ask yourself one question,

791
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 3: it might be as well be this, what would Jennifer

792
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 3: Lopez do?

793
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 5: Extra?

794
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 4: Extra?

795
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 3: So I read this article and I was thinking about it,

796
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 3: and I think it's arbitrary, but it says a lot

797
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 3: like correct.

798
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,919
Speaker 4: I don't know that they meant to say this much.

799
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 3: And maybe if I read the whole book that this woman,

800
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 3: doctor Jane Grill, wrote, i'd see more.

801
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 4: But I was thinking, like a few things.

802
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 3: One, it's the way we raise men and the way

803
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 3: we raised boys compared.

804
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 4: To how we raise girls.

805
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,959
Speaker 3: It's not the same, like, and I'm not even saying

806
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 3: it's good the way we raised girls anyway. There's some

807
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 3: things I think both genders could be as in the

808
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 3: way that we gender raising people, just you know, whatever,

809
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 3: both sets of groups or whatever, everyone along that spectrum

810
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,240
Speaker 3: could actually benefit from some some lessons that we reserve

811
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 3: only for one gender, like they should be taught to both,

812
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 3: you know. One of the reasons that men are worthless

813
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 3: at thirty three to a lot of women our practicality sake,

814
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 3: is that they.

815
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 4: Don't want commitment.

816
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 3: One of the things also, though, that they're discussing here,

817
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:53,360
Speaker 3: is they're not able to provide financially. They're not established

818
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 3: enough in their career. So the men don't feel that

819
00:38:56,360 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 3: they should be able to commit to someone. But that's

820
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 3: because we put pressure on men to be providers in

821
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: a world that is no longer that world.

822
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:06,919
Speaker 4: Nope.

823
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Speaker 5: All just about most households, it particularly if you're most

824
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 5: households need two incomes. One income is very hard and

825
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 5: that's something that people don't want to talk about. It's

826
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 5: very hard, uh to live off a one income, and

827
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 5: if you have two incomes, you can do more. But

828
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 5: if you go from two incomes to one income, it domestically,

829
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 5: it affects the household tremendously.

830
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 4: Yeah. For me, though, what I'm saying is even with

831
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:42,959
Speaker 4: the idea of.

832
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 3: The women have been working, they've entered the workforce, and

833
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,799
Speaker 3: they've been working for decades at this point. Yes, and

834
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 3: women do not need men in the way that is

835
00:39:56,080 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 3: about financial providing the same way anymore like and most

836
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 3: of the time, for most people, especially if you're not

837
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 3: a white person, it was never the truth.

838
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 5: Nope.

839
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 3: And I would even venture to say for most white

840
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 3: people it was never the truth. Like you know, but

841
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: it used to be a time that a white man

842
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 3: made a certain amount of money working at a factory,

843
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 3: and that amount of money was enough to provide for

844
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 3: a family and give him a good wage and give

845
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Speaker 3: them he could buy a house.

846
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 4: His wife didn't have to work, she could.

847
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 3: Raise the children and cook and clean and shit in

848
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 3: their idealistic, you know way of looking at life. That

849
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 3: was the American dream for a lot of white men.

850
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: And then what happened is America sold that dream to

851
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 3: people that weren't white men, black men, Asian man all.

852
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 3: But it was still a male dream. It was still

853
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 3: this black man goes to work and he does that,

854
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 3: but it wasn't It was just a dream for those people.

855
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 3: Like even back when after slavery, black women worked in

856
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 3: the field. Black women also worked in the house for mistresses,

857
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 3: former mistresses of the house white women and did their

858
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 3: domestic choices and stuff because white women had never done

859
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 3: that work for a lot of the rich white women anyway,

860
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 3: So they were literally working two jobs and expected to

861
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 3: do all the domestic duties in.

862
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 4: Their own house as well. Like you should raise.

863
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 3: Your own children, teach your own children, you should also

864
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 3: go raise and teach just white women's children for money.

865
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 3: And also when you get home, I need you out

866
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 3: in the field to help me do work in the fields,

867
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 3: because we have our own farm as black people, and

868
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 3: you're not like these white women. You can't just sit

869
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 3: in the house while I do all the farming. You

870
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 3: gotta get your ass out here. So it's always been

871
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 3: a pipe dream, and a ridiculous one at that, to

872
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 3: expect black women to be taken care of patriarchally and

873
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,919
Speaker 3: and expect all the quote unquote benefits of that as

874
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 3: you and then but then go you still need to

875
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 3: go to work, and you still need to go work

876
00:41:58,400 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 3: at this white woman's house, and you still need to

877
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 3: get in the field to help me do this shit.

878
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 3: But that shit has kind of been passed on, right,

879
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 3: So what I was thinking was because we've lowered that

880
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 3: bar or made that bar for men, this idea of money, career,

881
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 3: establishing a certain amount of time and then you can

882
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 3: go find you a wife. You know, play the field

883
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 3: and then find you a wife. We don't teach men

884
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 3: the other ways you can be valuable in a relationship

885
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 3: along if it's not for the money. Most boys and shit,

886
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 3: it's like a lot of parents don't teach them beyond

887
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 3: like be aggressive, a go getter, make money, and then

888
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 3: you can get girls, go to school, or you can

889
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 3: get girls. Like we don't really do the shit where

890
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 3: it's like, hey, do you cook and clean in your house?

891
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: Do you cook and clean for other like if someone yeah, like,

892
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 3: it's like, is this a skill that you have. I'm

893
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 3: not saying men don't have these skills at all. I'm

894
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 3: just saying we actually don't look at it as valuable

895
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 3: in the relationship of Yeah, I washed all the clothes

896
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: because I was the one in the position to watch clothes.

897
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 4: It's no, that's women's work.

898
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 3: Oh I cook dinner, not because I expect a pat

899
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 3: on the back and to thank you in a oh

900
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 3: my god, you cook dinner. Wow, thank you for cooking

901
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 3: dinner once this year. Like, Instead, it's just like, I

902
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 3: have a skill that is cooking dinner. If I can

903
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 3: make enough for me, I can make enough for both

904
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 3: of us, why would I not want to do that?

905
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 4: You know?

906
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 3: The other level of this shit is, you know, and

907
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 3: then there's emotional labor, shit, listening, not being an asshole,

908
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 3: you know, things that we don't really teach boys that

909
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 3: they should be doing, like no, you just do this

910
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 3: and you do that, and you know, and it's reinforced

911
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 3: everywhere church, relationship advice TV. A lot of it just

912
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 3: tells us, look, if you're nice to a woman, that's

913
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 3: a bonus. But women should settle to be with assholes

914
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 3: like if they have to, right.

915
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 5: It's always up to the women to settle, and then

916
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 5: you are stuck at a bitch when you're like, I

917
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 5: refuse to settle. And if me not selling men means

918
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 5: you not being in my life, that's just what the

919
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 5: fuck it means.

920
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you if you.

921
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 3: Don't, if you're not working all the time, then because

922
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 3: and because of the way that life works with money

923
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 3: and shit, especially in black relationships, a lot of times

924
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: women make more money than us.

925
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 5: Yep, because they higher educated.

926
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 3: A lot of times women have higher educations than us,

927
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,240
Speaker 3: and a lot of times women are able to provide

928
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 3: for themselves and they don't need us to come.

929
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 4: In and provide.

930
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 3: You know, it's nice to have some bonus income, but

931
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 3: they're not in a position. But a lot of times

932
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 3: they're not in a position where it's like, if this

933
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 3: man doesn't come through with this money, I'm not gonna

934
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:55,800
Speaker 3: make it, which can also be an abusive setup. You know,

935
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 3: a lot of white women as much as black women

936
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 3: suffering in the South, obviously it was terrible slavery and shit,

937
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 3: a lot of white women suffer too, because you know,

938
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 3: things like divorce was just kind of unheard of.

939
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 4: You divorce, you lose your children, like that man keeps

940
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,439
Speaker 4: those children. You don't have a right to those kids.

941
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 4: You shouldn't have divorced. He could be beating you. It

942
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 4: doesn't matter.

943
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 3: It's your fault as a wife, right, So it's not

944
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,280
Speaker 3: even that imitating white patriarchy when it comes to money

945
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 3: and capitalism is necessarily a smart thing to do. But

946
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 3: it's just wild because, like I said, I end up

947
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 3: agreeing with what j Loo's saying, even though it's an

948
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 3: off handed joke. But I end up agreeing mostly because

949
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 3: we have fucked men up so bad at this point

950
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 3: that it really would take thirty something years to even

951
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 3: begin to start to undo the damage.

952
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 4: And a lot of.

953
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 3: That is just circumstance. I'm doing better at work. I

954
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 3: guess I can stop being such a dick. I guess

955
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 3: I can stop being a quote unquote commitment fold because

956
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 3: what I'm really scared of is that she's not gonna

957
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 3: prove with me. I guess I could stop trying to

958
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 3: sabotage my happiness because I'm afraid that I don't deserve it.

959
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 3: You know, shit that is internal that you know, as men,

960
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 3: we don't talk about, because that's another tenet of manhood,

961
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 3: is you don't talk about your feelings.

962
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 5: You know.

963
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 3: I had to talk with a good friend of mine

964
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,879
Speaker 3: one time. He was dating a woman who made more

965
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 3: money than him, and what she would do is she

966
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 3: would put money aside and she would like go on

967
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 3: vacations and stuff with her friends who also made good money.

968
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 3: And you know, he wouldn't be able to go because

969
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 3: he ain't got the money, you know. And he was

970
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 3: relating this to me in the car one day, and

971
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 3: I was like, what's wrong with that?

972
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 4: And I mean he was like very close to like

973
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 4: maybe even getting engaged to this woman, Like it was

974
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 4: very serious, and.

975
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: You know, I was like, what's wrong with that? And

976
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 3: he was like, man, I mean, I gotta be the man.

977
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 3: I gotta provide, you know, I have to be a

978
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 3: man in my house and stuff.

979
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 4: I said, Well, why would.

980
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 3: You feel like you're not a man because she makes

981
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 3: more money than you?

982
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 4: Isn't it?

983
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 3: Like isn't that fine? And she makes more money than you,

984
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 3: y'all aren't married right now, no reason she should be

985
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 3: splitting the check with you. Y'all don't live together right now, Like,

986
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 3: what's wrong with with that, you know, like, is she

987
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 3: I said that she treating you like listen for man, Like,

988
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 3: is she not respecting you because you don't make money?

989
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 3: Because I could understand that where it's like, well, I

990
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 3: don't think it's a big deal, but she keeps coming

991
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 3: in and being like, yeah, broke bitch, and it's like, okay,

992
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 3: you know what, I actually don't want to go through this.

993
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: But he was like very and as a dude I

994
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 3: really respected dude that was a really close friend. And

995
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 3: he was just like, yeah, I can't do this with her,

996
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 3: you know, go on vacations and stuff without me. I

997
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 3: was like, but maybe you'll get a better job. Maybe

998
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 3: one day you'll make more money. She was a little

999
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 3: older than him. I think I was like, you know,

1000
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: it's like you can't hold that shit against yourself necessarily,

1001
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 3: you know. And because he couldn't get out of his

1002
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 3: own head that because she didn't seem to be tripping

1003
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 3: on it. And you know, like I said, with men,

1004
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 3: we're so we're taught so much fucked up shit.

1005
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 4: Just I'm sure his church was telling him.

1006
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 3: You got to be the head of the household, you

1007
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 3: got to do this, and you know, just all this

1008
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 3: stupid shit.

1009
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 4: This stupid, stupid shit. He couldn't get over it.

1010
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 5: You know.

1011
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,399
Speaker 4: Now, I think they didn't even break up at that time.

1012
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 3: They kept going out, and so maybe eventually he did

1013
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 3: let it settle. But it was a bone of contention

1014
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,959
Speaker 3: in the relationship for something that she can't help.

1015
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,399
Speaker 4: I can't help I make more money than.

1016
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 5: You, and I'm not get a lesser paying job.

1017
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 4: Right, I'm not rubbing in your face. I'm not. You know,

1018
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 4: I deserve to go on vacations with my friends. It's

1019
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 4: my money.

1020
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 3: The other thing that bothered him is that she was like,

1021
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: I keep a little money to my side because my

1022
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 3: mom taught me that if anything ever happens, you take

1023
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 3: this money that you put to the side, and you'll

1024
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 3: have your own like lifeline, so you know, in case

1025
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 3: something happens. Correct And he could not understand why she

1026
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 3: would do that. He felt like it was like a

1027
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 3: betrayal of his trust. But I was like, you're still

1028
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 3: a dude, you don't she don't know. You can wake

1029
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 3: up tomorrow and be fucking crazy, like she may need

1030
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 3: to get away from you, and then what she gonna do.

1031
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 4: Y'all money tied.

1032
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 3: Up, you know, not to mention, like, just in general,

1033
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 3: if she wants to do something nice for herself and

1034
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 3: it's her money, why would that bother anybody?

1035
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 5: Yeah know, so a lot of dudes fail to realize.

1036
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 5: A lot of women have seen what happens when a

1037
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 5: man packs his shit up and go right, and they

1038
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 5: have been the They've had to deal with the aftermath

1039
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 5: of their mother not knowing how to function, with their

1040
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 5: mother losing everything, with them being homeless. They've had to

1041
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 5: deal with what happens when a man just packs his

1042
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 5: shit up and leaves. They've done studies and statistics. They

1043
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 5: say most of the time, the women in most women

1044
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 5: end up being in poverty whenever a divorce happens, less

1045
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 5: more so than the man, or even if they both

1046
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 5: end up making lists, but he ends up doing better

1047
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 5: than her, particularly if she's not educated, has had a

1048
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 5: bunch of children and done the traditional thing. And because

1049
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 5: of that, it's a lot of grown ass women just

1050
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 5: like nigga fuck you. You might wake up tomorrow and say, well, bitch,

1051
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,879
Speaker 5: I don't love you no more. Cool, you ain't got

1052
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 5: to love me no more. But what I'm not gonna

1053
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 5: be is like my mama and them and have to

1054
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 5: beg and plead for you to do the right thing.

1055
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 5: That's what I'm not gonna do. It's a lot of

1056
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 5: people that it's in a lot of fuck up relationships

1057
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 5: and they don't know who you are. And a lot

1058
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 5: of times the real truth don't come out with in

1059
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 5: people until they're not in love with you no more,

1060
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 5: and then you see how they really function and how

1061
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 5: it really feels. Once all the hearts or die, once

1062
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 5: all the lovely dove is gone, once we ain't fucking

1063
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 5: no mo everybody, the truth about people come out, and

1064
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 5: if you're not a good human being, that shit comes

1065
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 5: out in the divorce.

1066
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, love is so to us as this romantic gesture

1067
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 3: when it's mostly a business arrange between two people.

1068
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 4: Correct and specifically with the way that it goes for.

1069
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 3: Women, you need to be prepared to fail for yourself

1070
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 3: in case that's infidelity, in case, like you said, divorce abuse,

1071
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 3: which is a huge one that mostly goes from men

1072
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 3: to women. So I might need some money to o

1073
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 3: the side, if I need to find a hotel or

1074
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,240
Speaker 3: someone to get the fuck away from your ass tonight,

1075
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 3: like I don't have time to you know, do whatever

1076
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 3: I need to find my stash to get the fuck

1077
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 3: out that.

1078
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 5: And you're also talking about a lot of women because

1079
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 5: men men know that, particularly as a woman gets older,

1080
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 5: she's had life experience, and you, as a new man,

1081
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 5: don't know her life experience, and so she may have

1082
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 5: had all these various scenarios that she might not be

1083
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 5: comfortable telling you and might not never tell you because

1084
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 5: for all of the most straight men that can't fucking

1085
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 5: handle the truth when it comes to a woman and

1086
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 5: her emotions, Oh my gosh, she's crying, They fucking freak out,

1087
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 5: Like crying is the worst thing ever. Well, if you

1088
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 5: want to get close to me, you're gonna have to

1089
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 5: know me. And so I feel like you do have

1090
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 5: the right, Like even merit people you he needs his

1091
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 5: money and you need your money. If I want to

1092
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 5: go buy something, I shouldn't have to be like, well baby,

1093
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:10,839
Speaker 5: can I have bitch? I work just like you do.

1094
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 5: If I want McDonald's, I go buy me some fucking McDonald's.

1095
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like, you know, a lot

1096
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 5: of times when people do that, it's a controlling thing.

1097
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 3: To me, Yeah, that can be financial abuse and relationships.

1098
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,359
Speaker 3: But like like I said to me, these things would

1099
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 3: not offend me if somebody told me in a relationship,

1100
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 3: because he did know about this, she was straight.

1101
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 4: Up with him.

1102
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 3: Correct, It wouldn't offend me to be like, okay, like

1103
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 3: all right, well, I always keep some money to the

1104
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 3: side because I just never know. And you know, da

1105
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 3: da da cool. I don't need access to that money.

1106
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 3: I don't even honestly, you didn't even need to tell me.

1107
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 3: I appreciate you telling me. That's dope. But you know,

1108
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 3: if I got all the good intentions, hopefully they'll never

1109
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 3: come a day where you feel like I need to

1110
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 3: check my piggy bank cause this niggas tripping, you know.

1111
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 3: But also so that was a big part of it.

1112
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 3: The other thing is because of capitalism, money becomes shorthand

1113
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 3: for a lot of stuff. Money for women in relationships

1114
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 3: is agency, correct agency women didn't always have, Like I

1115
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 3: can put things in my name, I can put money

1116
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:15,040
Speaker 3: away in a safe place, I can make more money

1117
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 3: than you. I can go on vacations and buy things

1118
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 3: for myself. I don't need a man to do this

1119
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 3: for me. And because we've taught men that their value

1120
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 3: to a relationship is mostly through providing, well, guess what

1121
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 3: anytime you have your own money and you're providing for yourself,

1122
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 3: the message a lot of men receive is you don't

1123
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 3: need me, because they have not really availed themselves. Are

1124
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:42,760
Speaker 3: the many ways to be valuable outside of money, because

1125
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 3: it's literally the lowest bar, even though it's one of

1126
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 3: the most hot, hardest things to obtained, is making a

1127
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 3: lot of money in your career, and shit, it's really

1128
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 3: the lowest fucking bar. When it comes to a relationship,

1129
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 3: it's very much just walking in the house and being like,

1130
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: I have a big check, do my bidding, as a

1131
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 3: supposed to I'm gonna contribute around here, you know, as

1132
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 3: opposed to being a partner that can talk about openly

1133
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 3: with their feelings and things of that nature, as opposed

1134
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 3: to being a good listener, as opposed to being a

1135
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 3: thoughtful person when it comes to your time and presence,

1136
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 3: and how much a burden you are on the household,

1137
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 3: when it comes to things like the labor that comes

1138
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 3: with a house like sorry, with a household, such as

1139
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 3: really putting in on raising the kids, like and not

1140
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 3: that these are things you need to be thankful patting

1141
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 3: on the back floor. I'm talking about value I'm talking

1142
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: about things that we expect of women and since had

1143
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 3: relationships that we just do not expect the men like

1144
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,320
Speaker 3: we like these are just the basic this like these

1145
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 3: are the this is the bar for women, but it's

1146
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 3: the pat on the back for men.

1147
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: You know.

1148
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, And there's been a lot of situations, particularly a

1149
00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 5: lot of older men, when you talk talk to a

1150
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 5: lot of their children, and it's not always happened. There

1151
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 5: are always exception to this rules. A lot of children

1152
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 5: be like, yeah, I was close to a mom. I

1153
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 5: don't even know my dad. Yeah, I was close to

1154
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 5: a mom, And the only time I spent time with

1155
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 5: my dad is when we talked about sports. Yeah. You know,

1156
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 5: my mom was a disciplinarian, you know, she was the

1157
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 5: one that did all this shit. But when it came

1158
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 5: to my dad, he worked all the time.

1159
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 4: It's like it's a very common thing.

1160
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 5: And children won't bonds with their fathers too, you're just

1161
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 5: as important.

1162
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 4: And and here so here's the big head trip.

1163
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 5: Though.

1164
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 4: A lot of men want this shit too, but we're

1165
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 4: socialized to not want it. Correct, We're not, like that's

1166
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:38,359
Speaker 4: the big thing.

1167
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 3: We're in such denial of the things that we want

1168
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 3: because all these things that I'm talking about to a

1169
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,359
Speaker 3: lot of the ways we define maleness. And this goes

1170
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 3: for men and women and everybody in between, because society

1171
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 3: has done this to us, not one person.

1172
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 4: Women haven't done this to men.

1173
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 3: Men haven't even truly men have done it to men,

1174
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 3: but society has accepted it as this is what the

1175
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 3: path of rigidity for men must be.

1176
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 4: You must fit into this box or you're not a man.

1177
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 4: You are not you are not.

1178
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 3: Sufficiently enough at manhood to be considered a valuable human being.

1179
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 3: And we look at things like a man who folds

1180
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 3: the clothes and washes, the washes the dishes and fucking

1181
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 3: cooks and cleans.

1182
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:22,879
Speaker 4: And shit less of a man.

1183
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 5: For a man that stays at home while his wife works.

1184
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 3: Right, less of a man. A man that doesn't have

1185
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 3: a job. You know, that's like the ultimate. I struggle

1186
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 3: with that when I was unemployed, being like twice by

1187
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 3: the way, but being like, oh, I didn't realize I

1188
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,760
Speaker 3: had bought into this value of my life being partially

1189
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 3: tied up in this job. And society puts that on you,

1190
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 3: like you talk to your friends, you're still looking for

1191
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 3: a job like that. That's the first fucking thing that

1192
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,839
Speaker 3: comes up, not hey, what's up man, how's everything going?

1193
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 4: It's still looking for job? Got a job?

1194
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 3: Like as if you can help it, Like nigga, I'm

1195
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 3: applying what am I supposed to do? But it's that

1196
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 3: it's that thing where it's like, where's your value as

1197
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 3: a man? What do you bring in to the table?

1198
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 3: You bring into the relationship?

1199
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 5: And how dare you let your wife be out there

1200
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 5: working and making the bread and butter while you basically

1201
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 5: sit around doing nothing when that's not what you're doing.

1202
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 3: That's that's that's how and that's how people talk to you.

1203
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 3: But honestly, I remember, you know, when I didn't have

1204
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 3: a job. I mean I still do it now, but

1205
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: when I didn't have a job, I was cooking and

1206
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 3: cleaning and fucking doing shit around the house so that

1207
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 3: when Karen comes home from work she.

1208
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 4: Can put a feed up, you know what I mean.

1209
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 3: But that's but but only because of not on some

1210
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 3: like you're welcome, bitch, you like better.

1211
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 5: Be glad I did something for your funk ass.

1212
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 4: You realize I have.

1213
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 3: A penis, But literally it was like it won it,

1214
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 3: it provided and taught me more value for myself, Like

1215
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 3: my values in this relationship is not just you know,

1216
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 3: I'm the man woman and do my bidding, but my

1217
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 3: value is also and you know, I can make life

1218
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 3: easier for you because we should both be trying to

1219
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 3: make life easier.

1220
00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 4: For each other. Correct, that's what we do.

1221
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 3: But then also like even now I carry that with me,

1222
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 3: you know, cause like it should never be taboo to

1223
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 3: do work should never be tabooed to do, Like the

1224
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 3: work that in your house doesn't have to be gendered.

1225
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 3: You know, there's some women that cut grass, and that's

1226
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 3: something that don't obviously, but that's true. That's some women

1227
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 3: I've seen cut grass, and you're just like, well, she

1228
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 3: cut grass, she must not got no man.

1229
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 4: Her man might be in the house making sandwiches. I

1230
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 4: don't give a fuck.

1231
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 3: It's like it's a skill that she learned and it

1232
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 3: helps herself. Why not apply it to make the labor

1233
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 3: easier on you in your house?

1234
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 5: Right right? And I know my mama she loved to

1235
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 5: cut grass like it was a good form of exercise

1236
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 5: for her, like that was her thing. But for me,

1237
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 5: I drop my line at cutting grass if I was single. Nigga,

1238
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 5: the y'all man that somebody would be coming. I'm not

1239
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 5: doing that, but that's just me.

1240
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean obviously, like I don't really do

1241
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 3: relationship with white shit, But like obviously all this stuff

1242
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 3: is individual, cause, like I don't knock anybody for wanting

1243
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 3: the and a lot of people say they don't, but

1244
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 3: they really do. I don't knock people for wanting to

1245
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 3: be Like I want a life where the man makes

1246
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 3: a certain amount of money. He can be stoic, he

1247
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 3: can be reserved, he can be emotionally cut off if

1248
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 3: he fucking wants to, but he makes the money. I

1249
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 3: chill at home, I raise the kids, I cook, I clean,

1250
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 3: I'm taking care of with his check. And that's the

1251
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 3: fucking life for me. And there's a dude out there

1252
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 3: who wants to do that for somebody. And if that's

1253
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 3: what the fuck they want to do between two consenting adults,

1254
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 3: I legitimately don't give a fuck.

1255
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 4: That is happy for both of y'all. Me do the

1256
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 4: same way.

1257
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 3: That that's gonna be people that want to have polyamorous relationships.

1258
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 4: That's gonna be people that want all kinds of shit,

1259
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 4: And as long as there's no abuse going.

1260
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 3: On and everyone's consenting. I legitimately do believe in do

1261
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 3: what you want. I have no judgment for you. Something

1262
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 3: might not work for me doesn't mean it shouldn't work

1263
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 3: for you. That's you know a lot of people, you know,

1264
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 3: they say they are about their life, but they're not

1265
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 3: about their life that you know, they quake to be off.

1266
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, they're in it kind of. I mean,

1267
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 3: shouldn't it be like it's like, no mania fucking business,

1268
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 3: We're happy? Right, So all this with a grain of salt.

1269
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 3: There may be people out there that can afford all this,

1270
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 3: and you know, they just gotta get to be a

1271
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 3: certain age where they get the money and they become mature.

1272
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 3: So then the other thing I wanted to say too,

1273
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 3: It's funny how what allows men to quote unquote grow

1274
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 3: in this situation is having that money meet their insecurity. Right, Like,

1275
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 3: I'm insecure. I don't have this money on my career

1276
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: is not where I want to be. When I go

1277
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 3: out on dates and I tell women this stuff or

1278
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 3: meet somebody, I'm tell them this.

1279
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 4: I don't have it in me to be like I'm look, this.

1280
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 3: Is what what I do for a living and not

1281
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 3: feel inadequate and so therefore it just chips and everything else.

1282
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 5: You know.

1283
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 3: But I personally feel like that money might be the

1284
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 3: start that access to it makes me the start of.

1285
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 4: You being able to work on yourself. But that's how

1286
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 4: low the bar is.

1287
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 3: What j Lo said is like and what the doctor said,

1288
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 3: it's really some low bar shit. Is well that this

1289
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 3: men are so useless essentially at a certain age, they

1290
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 3: provide the use of having.

1291
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 4: Money and nothing else, which is said, which is how

1292
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 4: load the bar is.

1293
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 3: That like, it still reinforces the bar being that low

1294
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 3: for men as the heteronormal relationships, right, But women.

1295
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 5: Are supposed to be mature, they're supposed to be able

1296
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 5: to handle everything, and that's not always true either.

1297
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 3: Like I said, we raised I think it's Michelle Obama

1298
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Speaker 3: said something like we raised our girls, but we mother

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Speaker 3: our boys or something like that.

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Speaker 4: Correct, And it's and it's the truest fucking thing. I

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Speaker 4: wish people would stop doing it.

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Speaker 3: We go lower, they go high, and admonishing her statement

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Speaker 3: as if she said that shit after Trump got elected.

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Speaker 4: She did not, y'all, calm.

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Speaker 3: The fuck down, But she she did say after he

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Speaker 3: got elected, she did talk about the way we did

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Speaker 3: the difference between how we raised boys and girls, and

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Speaker 3: one of them is we raise our girls or we

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Speaker 3: mother our sons. And it's fucked up because both of

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Speaker 3: those things both. It doesn't matter what your gender is

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Speaker 3: as a human being, you need both energies. In my opinion,

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Speaker 3: you need all that positive energy. There are girls that

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Speaker 3: need to be taught to be more aggressive and go

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Speaker 3: getters and to be assertive and so you don't grow

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Speaker 3: up apologizing for just speaking your mind and you don't

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01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 3: feel sorry every time the spotlights on you when you

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01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 3: deserve seine and all that shit. Right now, like there's

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Speaker 3: girls that need lessons that we.

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Speaker 4: Give almost strictly the boys.

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Speaker 3: And then there's a lot of boys, a lot of

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Speaker 3: men that grow up and they never get those other

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Speaker 3: lessons about emotional support that we teach. We teach women

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Speaker 3: to think of other people first all the time, from

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Speaker 3: the time that children right even the way that we

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01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 3: teach women girls at the time, even the way we

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Speaker 3: teach girls like close your legs.

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Speaker 4: Don't do this.

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Speaker 3: It's really for other people. It's not for them. It's

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Speaker 3: like don't close your legs, I mean close your legs,

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Speaker 3: And it's like very slut shaming. But it's also closure

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Speaker 3: legs because of other people, not because of you, right,

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Speaker 3: like not you know, like not not because you're gonna

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01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 3: be uncomfortable. No, we actually gonna tell you to be

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Speaker 3: uncomfortable to make way for other people. And we do

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Speaker 3: it to a lot of women's detriment. Like they grow

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Speaker 3: into women that have believe in slept shaming and they

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01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 3: believe in, you know, a lot of patriarchal shit, and

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Speaker 3: they believe in things that are very rigid and regressive.

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01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 3: And then we also teach boys, but in a different way,

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01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 3: to be regressive towards women and to flow. It flows

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01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 3: out of us, flows into women as far as like

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Speaker 3: the negativity of society. So yeah, I do feel like

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Speaker 3: a lot of men have been done at this service

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01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 3: because if they don't feel like they can provide money,

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01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 3: they just ain't shit. You know, I'm not even gonna

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01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 3: try to be committed to somebody and treat them nice.

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01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 3: I don't have money, and we're all caught up on

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01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 3: this shit. You know, I still when it's one of

1349
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 3: the best, biggest, best things Insecure did and started the

1350
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 3: most arguments to this day. But it was putting Lawrens

1351
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 3: on that couch first with the with the nappy hair

1352
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 3: and the unshaven beard and shit and making everybody go typical,

1353
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 3: man ain't bringing none to the house, don't care about her.

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Speaker 4: He's just a nigger on the couch.

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Speaker 3: And then you see his glow up and you're like, what, oh, wait,

1356
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 3: now he's ready to be a provider and a good

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01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 3: person and be with somebody that and possibly like deal

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01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:37,080
Speaker 3: with He's this has now allowed him to not necessarily

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01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 3: deal with his insecurities, but to at least cover him

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Speaker 3: up with money and success and and and and value

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Speaker 3: in other areas. And you watched it, and you go, whon,

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Speaker 3: Now it's an eligible bachelor and he's still kind of

1363
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 3: fucked up, you know, like he's still kind of fucked up.

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Speaker 3: Like that's so, that's what I took from that article.

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Speaker 3: And I know that's deeper than anything anyone meant for

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01:04:57,680 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 3: us to take from that article. But I thought that

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Speaker 3: ship was so like interested in such a like parallel

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Speaker 3: to so many things I see you going on today.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and to kind of piggyback on one thing you

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01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 5: was talking about, the anger thing. I've been listening to

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Speaker 5: NPR and all week long, they've been talking about women

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Speaker 5: and women's anger and how women express it and how

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Speaker 5: they express in the workplace, how they deal with it,

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Speaker 5: and how it has impacted and affected their lives and

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Speaker 5: how they're viewed. And it's been really interesting because, like

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Speaker 5: you say, it's one of those things where men are

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Speaker 5: taught anger and a lot of times no other emotions,

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Speaker 5: you know, suppress everything else, and women are taught everything else,

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Speaker 5: but don't show and express your anger in any way, shape, form,

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Speaker 5: or fashion. And you know a lot of women will

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Speaker 5: come in and some of the women were saying how

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Speaker 5: when they expressed their anger, people got scared when they

1383
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 5: expressed their anger, you know, people didn't take them seriously.

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Speaker 5: They were talking about like studies and shit that they

1385
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 5: were doing where they would have like particular scenarios set up,

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01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 5: and they would have like men and women, like in

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Speaker 5: chat rooms that would have men do certain things and

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Speaker 5: women do certain things. Same thing. Would just be a

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Speaker 5: man and a woman to see how they would influence things.

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Speaker 5: And a lot of times a woman who was who

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Speaker 5: was angry didn't influence at all, but the woman who

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Speaker 5: was calm it was a little higher, you know. But

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Speaker 5: men that were angry the influence was so much more

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Speaker 5: higher because society views men anger is always logical, and

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Speaker 5: that is a completely false, completely false. Meanwhile, we're the

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Speaker 5: ones that and that's coming from a very illogical place,

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Speaker 5: but it's still an emotion. And for women when we

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Speaker 5: get angry, all our anger is illogical, no matter what

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Speaker 5: it is, no matter if it makes sense, no matter

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Speaker 5: how educated you are, no matter how eloquent you can

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Speaker 5: be about it. If you show any twinge of anger,

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01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 5: you automatically dismissed, you, automatically called the bitch, automatically ignore.

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Speaker 5: Everybody just shut you down, even other women. And you know,

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01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 5: they talk about how little girls, how women deal with

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Speaker 5: anger differently. You know, how a lot of people go

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Speaker 5: with girls are mean to each other. Yeah, because they're

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Speaker 5: angry and they take that anger. They can't put it

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Speaker 5: on boys. So a lot of times that anger, that nastiness,

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Speaker 5: that meanness goes to other girls, with that cattiness, that

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Speaker 5: pushing them out of the groups. That that's anger a

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Speaker 5: lot of times from the insecurity in their lives. Little

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Speaker 5: boys punch shit, you know, but little girls have anger too.

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Speaker 5: They just express their anger completely different than men. And

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Speaker 5: a lot of times it might not always come out violently,

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Speaker 5: not that women can't be violent, but a lot of

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Speaker 5: times it just don't come out violently. It comes out

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Speaker 5: in little passive aggressive things and passive aggressive ways. You

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Speaker 5: know that we're talking to you know, be mean with

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Speaker 5: a smile, you know, you know we're saying catty things

1420
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Speaker 5: like we won't cut you with a knife, but the

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Speaker 5: words and the things that we do will cut you

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Speaker 5: a lot of times deeper than a knife, because those

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Speaker 5: words a lot of times will stick to your heart,

1424
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 5: and the heart is it takes a lot longer to

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Speaker 5: heel than than a punch in the face.

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Speaker 4: But also who made the rules on who has value in.

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Speaker 3: The argument and what counts as logical, because this is

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Speaker 3: the same place where if a man comes home and

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01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 3: finds his wife having an affair and kills her, we

1430
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 3: will make an argument in court like, oh, man, it

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01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,719
Speaker 3: was a passion of the it was a crime of passion,

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Speaker 3: you know, temporary and sanity like all kinds of shit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, logically, you have to kill the bitch. I mean,

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Speaker 3: that's a very logical thing to do. But it just

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Speaker 3: doesn't work the other way. You know, some woman like

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Speaker 3: runs over her man with a car. We're not like,

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Speaker 3: well it was logical. I mean she caught that nigga

1438
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 3: coming out the hotel. Like it's like she was crazy.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: It's like the men.

1441
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 5: Man could be crazy too, but for some reason they

1442
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 5: don't treat it the same.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even these free shooters come on like like, the

1444
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 3: problem with spree shooters is men, And very often the

1445
01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 3: problem with free shooters starts with trying to control some woman.

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01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 3: The vast majority of these stories are either women rejected me,

1447
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 3: a woman tried to leave me.

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01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:06,639
Speaker 4: I was going.

1449
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:11,000
Speaker 3: Through some sort of whatever with a woman, because masculinity

1450
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 3: is such a box full of anger and shit that

1451
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 3: you stay in it and you stay trapped in it

1452
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 3: and then you lash out and you do shit and

1453
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 3: you come back to it like, uh, I'm not emotional.

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01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 4: These women are emotional ones.

1455
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 3: It's like when you just beat somebody half to death.

1456
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 3: You just pulled out a gun and shot twelve people.

1457
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,720
Speaker 3: The problem is men. The problem is the men. It's

1458
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 3: what we teach the men. It is what it is.

1459
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 3: This the standard where we don't the only allow the

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01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 3: only emotions we allow our humor and rage.

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Speaker 4: That's it. And when you have.

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Speaker 3: That that mix, you are cutting off so many things

1463
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:49,880
Speaker 3: until you just a fucking tea kettle that's ready to ball.

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01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 3: And I and I think in this case be talking

1465
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:55,800
Speaker 3: about value in relationships. Obviously this is a very sis

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01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 3: head or normative discussion we're having, and so it was

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01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:02,200
Speaker 3: sparked by this article which was the same. But when

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01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 3: you see the ship that SIS had been carried and

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01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 3: the way that they're taught to value themselves, you see

1470
01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 3: how woefully unprepared they are to add value to anyone's

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01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 3: life but.

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Speaker 4: Stop their own.

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01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 3: And it's and and honestly, it's like the little bit

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01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 3: of value that we would add, we want to be

1475
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 3: patted on the back for that ship.

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01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, just for doing what you're supposed to do. I

1477
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:28,000
Speaker 5: spent time with my kids, nigga, just supposed to spend

1478
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:30,640
Speaker 5: time with your children. I don't get a cookie for that,

1479
01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:31,160
Speaker 5: all right.

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01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 3: I was raised in the house where we thanked, Like

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01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,200
Speaker 3: we were taught to thank my mom for cooking every night,

1482
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 3: you know, and my dad was really heavy on that.

1483
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:44,600
Speaker 3: So I'm you know, and honestly, we carry that on

1484
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 3: in our house, like we're very thankful for shit that

1485
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:50,839
Speaker 3: you know a lot of people would take for granted,

1486
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:54,879
Speaker 3: you know, but but literally it's just more like a thankful,

1487
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 3: thankfulness approach to life as opposed to.

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01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 4: Like, nigga, you better have, you know what I'm saying.

1489
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 3: Like, as much as much as I do feel like

1490
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 3: nigga you better have for a lot of shit. I mean,

1491
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 3: obviously you don't want to just do that to another

1492
01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:10,560
Speaker 3: human being, like correct, Like, you know, I see this

1493
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 3: nigga with his kid, I don't want to hit them

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01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 3: with the nigga you better had. I mean, it's like, oh,

1495
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 3: cool man, that's dope to see you out. Dad's everything going,

1496
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 3: you know. But the point being like there should be

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01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 3: some thankfulness, but there's a lot of dudes they expect

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01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:25,120
Speaker 3: thankfulness for the bare mental.

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Speaker 5: And that's where the problem comes in, particularly on social media,

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01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:31,640
Speaker 5: Like that's where the interaction come in, because it's a

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01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 5: lot of it's a lot of angry, angry women that

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01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:39,760
Speaker 5: are like I do everything and I'm not appreciated at

1503
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 5: all for anything that I do. But yet I look

1504
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:46,639
Speaker 5: on social media and look at the dad and whatever,

1505
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:49,800
Speaker 5: and he's fucking praised for just existing. And there can

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01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 5: be some resentment there, you know, there could be a

1507
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,599
Speaker 5: lot of anger there and a lot of frustration there,

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01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 5: you know, and a lot of women have to learn

1509
01:11:56,479 --> 01:12:00,599
Speaker 5: how to let stuff go and actually detoxify themselves, you know.

1510
01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,879
Speaker 3: And also women are taught to not be angry, correct,

1511
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 3: They're told that that's bad. So you have a lot

1512
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 3: of women, at least in my experience, that are in

1513
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 3: the now. Like like if I were to say, like, well, look,

1514
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 3: you wake up every day, you bang on like every

1515
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 3: nigga out here saying something stupid with three followers, you

1516
01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 3: find his ass and put him up on the summer

1517
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:28,080
Speaker 3: jams green. It's not necessarily helping society, helping yourself, helping anybody,

1518
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 3: but it does give you a place to chant on

1519
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:33,040
Speaker 3: your anger, anger, your personal life. You may have dealt

1520
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 3: with some disappointed ass niggas, because niggas can be disappointed

1521
01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 3: as fuck.

1522
01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:36,720
Speaker 5: Come.

1523
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 4: You may have you may have been you know, like you.

1524
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:43,400
Speaker 3: It's like, you may be frustrated, you may be angry, angry, and.

1525
01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 4: You may be bitter.

1526
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:48,680
Speaker 3: Right, the question is am I gonna mock you or

1527
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:51,599
Speaker 3: pretend that your anger doesn't come from a justifiable place

1528
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 3: or that you're being quote unquote emotional.

1529
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 4: But you're not supposed to.

1530
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 3: Because women are just taught you they have a box

1531
01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:00,480
Speaker 3: of their own that is like.

1532
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:02,640
Speaker 4: These are the things that are acceptable for femininity.

1533
01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:05,880
Speaker 3: And so we're looking at that, and like I think

1534
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 3: as a I know as a dude, I see a

1535
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 3: lot of similar things where I'm like, oh, this person

1536
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 3: is anger, right, but I respect that anger the same

1537
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 3: way I respect it coming dude. Where you know, to

1538
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:19,600
Speaker 3: a certain extent, I can see when it's unhealthy, I

1539
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 3: can see when it's not that you know, where it

1540
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 3: can affect you in a negative way, but I can

1541
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 3: also see where it can be used as a tool.

1542
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 3: Because anger, none of this shit is necessarily bad. It's

1543
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 3: just tools of how you use it to express yourself.

1544
01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 3: And then when do you lie to yourself, When do

1545
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 3: you go, I'm not angry. I just need to wake

1546
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 3: up and tell you that all these niggas ain't shit

1547
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 3: every day. Well, when a dude wakes up and tells

1548
01:13:42,280 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 3: me that all women ain't shit all day, I definitely

1549
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 3: go that nigga got some issues and he got some rage,

1550
01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 3: and he got some shit, and a lot of times

1551
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 3: it's just not justified.

1552
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 4: It's just literally just men being fradulous. Fuck.

1553
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 3: What happens is women shit is justified and they're afraid that.

1554
01:13:57,520 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 3: And I don't blame them, but I think a lot

1555
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:00,880
Speaker 3: of them are afraid that nobody gonna come along and

1556
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 3: tell him that you just.

1557
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,479
Speaker 4: A better bitch and you're not, you know, like you know,

1558
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:05,839
Speaker 4: just the ship that we say.

1559
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:11,760
Speaker 3: To shut down, like like very valuable and valid criticism. Right,

1560
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 3: It's like you're gonna dismiss me, and I don't want

1561
01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 3: to be dismissed.

1562
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 5: And the sad part about it, being a woman, you

1563
01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 5: might as well do you, because you know what, for

1564
01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 5: a lot of people, you're gonna be dismissed no matter what,

1565
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,840
Speaker 5: because you got a vagina, Like like, I'm the older

1566
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 5: you get, the more you come to that real nigga,

1567
01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 5: if you gonna ignore me, you gonna ignore me like

1568
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:37,320
Speaker 5: I am bitch. You know, I really got to that point.

1569
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 4: Like Solon said, I got a lot to be mad about, right, and.

1570
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 5: And I have a lot to be mad about. And

1571
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:46,320
Speaker 5: my anger is justified. My anger is valid.

1572
01:14:46,960 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 3: We'll take unjustified male anger and tell them is valid.

1573
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 4: Come on, you know we will.

1574
01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 3: Like people have been trying to understand that in cell

1575
01:14:55,320 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 3: movement shit which means involuntary celibate, which means basically that

1576
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 3: can't have sex with women because women don't want to

1577
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 3: fuck their disgusting, horrible attitude towards women's assets, and we

1578
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 3: have been validating them, people have been writing articles interviewing them.

1579
01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 3: What's the insult culture and what's behind it? Are women

1580
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 3: to blame? And I'm like, look at how far we

1581
01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 3: go to validate these men because they're men, And then

1582
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 3: look when women have legitimate complaints and they're like, this

1583
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 3: is why we need to accept womanism or feminism, or

1584
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 3: this is why we need to have be against patriarchy,

1585
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 3: or this is why so and so needs to go down,

1586
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 3: and we need to stop listening to this person. We

1587
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 3: go you angry bitch?

1588
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 4: What is wrong with you? Why would you talk like that?

1589
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:44,200
Speaker 3: You know, as opposed to like, well, you're making valid

1590
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,080
Speaker 3: criticisms that come from a place.

1591
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:49,200
Speaker 4: That's backed up by facts. Will examine you as if

1592
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,519
Speaker 4: you're crazy, Like I can't believe, wow, you really just

1593
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 4: gonna talk about somebody like this and turn around with men,

1594
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:57,599
Speaker 4: and men are like, I think we should be able

1595
01:15:57,600 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 4: to legally rate women because I'm not getting.

1596
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 3: Enough pussy doesn't have a point. News at eleven, Why.

1597
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 5: Right, you're like, you're like nigga, that ain't the same

1598
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 5: and like and then it's ignorant and it's stupid and

1599
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:14,400
Speaker 5: like the particularly for me, the older I've gotten, the

1600
01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 5: more I've learned how to embrace my emotions. And anger

1601
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 5: is an emotion, and I've learned how to embrace that,

1602
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 5: allow myself to feel that, allow myself to express that

1603
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:32,360
Speaker 5: in various different ways. And uh, you, most people aren't

1604
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:35,880
Speaker 5: mad forever. But that anger, if it festers and sits

1605
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:39,599
Speaker 5: long enough, it eventually turns into hatred, you know, like

1606
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:43,640
Speaker 5: like because these things evolve, Sadness turns into depression, you know,

1607
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:46,439
Speaker 5: if you let it fester long enough. You know. So

1608
01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 5: it's okay to allow yourself to feel these things. It's

1609
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 5: okay to say I've had enough of you. It's okay

1610
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,120
Speaker 5: to to to feel these things, particularly being a woman,

1611
01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 5: and to rage against the machine, as they say, particularly

1612
01:17:01,640 --> 01:17:06,200
Speaker 5: being a brown woman, or particularly being a black woman.

1613
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 5: You know, because I think just history, you know, you

1614
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:12,599
Speaker 5: don't want to never be known as an angry black woman.

1615
01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:14,880
Speaker 5: It's almost like that's the quote unquote worst thing you

1616
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 5: could be ever known as, is the angry black woman.

1617
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 5: But you know what sometimes I motherfucking angry, and my angry,

1618
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:26,759
Speaker 5: my anger is valid, my frustration is valid, and y'all

1619
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:30,599
Speaker 5: gonna hear this shit today. And I think a lot

1620
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 5: of times anger when it comes to women in their anger,

1621
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 5: everybody does everything, including other women, to shut the shit down,

1622
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 5: because if we actually listen to women, just women and

1623
01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 5: the frustration and their anger, it would cause men to

1624
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 5: have to change, and that's something that men don't want

1625
01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 5: to do. Just like when black people get angry, white

1626
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 5: people want to shut that shit down because if they

1627
01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:56,799
Speaker 5: actually listen, it would cause a rift in the tide

1628
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:59,680
Speaker 5: and will cause them to reflect within themselves and be like, oh,

1629
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 5: we're doing some fucked up shit, And men don't want

1630
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 5: to say as a whole, oh we're doing some fucked

1631
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 5: up shit to our women. And I need to be

1632
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,479
Speaker 5: more considerate. I need to think about her feelings. I

1633
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:12,559
Speaker 5: need to think of her more than the fuck object.

1634
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 5: I need to think of her more than you know,

1635
01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 5: something to raise my children, or baby mama, or just

1636
01:18:18,240 --> 01:18:20,280
Speaker 5: another thing for me to put my dick in. And fuck,

1637
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 5: I need to consider her. She's more than that. She's

1638
01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:26,759
Speaker 5: an actual human being. You know, she's She's a whole person.

1639
01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 5: You know, for some reason, that's hard for men to

1640
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 5: perceive a woman as being a whole human being. Now,

1641
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:35,880
Speaker 5: they consider their daughter as a whole human being. They

1642
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:38,719
Speaker 5: consider their wife's a whole human being. But anything outside

1643
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:40,599
Speaker 5: of anything that they can love and fuck, you're not

1644
01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:41,880
Speaker 5: considered a whole human being.

1645
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 4: I take it as far as to say they did

1646
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 4: not consider their daughter as a whole human being.

1647
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:46,640
Speaker 5: Correct, A lot of them don't.

1648
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:50,320
Speaker 4: They just consider them women they have to.

1649
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:52,320
Speaker 5: Care about that they have to care about.

1650
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 3: But the other thing I was gonna add to a piggyback,

1651
01:18:56,200 --> 01:19:00,760
Speaker 3: like it's that thing where we try to false equivalency

1652
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 3: where it's like a woman is angry for wanting equal pay,

1653
01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:10,559
Speaker 3: but if a man says, you know, I should be

1654
01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 3: allowed to have sex with women.

1655
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 4: Or else, when I go off, it's their fault.

1656
01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:18,400
Speaker 3: We go, let's examine the marriage of that argument coming

1657
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 3: up on seeing it or whatever. Fuck, let's put both

1658
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 3: of these people on the panel together and that and

1659
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 3: that's the thing that's you know, like that's the way

1660
01:19:24,280 --> 01:19:27,439
Speaker 3: society is set up. But yeah, I mean, like I said,

1661
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 3: j Lo and that and the doctor make a great

1662
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 3: point of you almost have to wait for men to detoxify,

1663
01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:37,519
Speaker 3: and part of that is some shit got a break

1664
01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 3: right in their life, so they have a slight chance

1665
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:45,559
Speaker 3: of examining themselves beyond just I I need to make money.

1666
01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:47,080
Speaker 3: I need to make money so I can get these women.

1667
01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 3: Maybe then they'll be ready to be a father or

1668
01:19:50,560 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 3: something like that. But you know, like I said, I

1669
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:54,840
Speaker 3: wonder if that age is actually getting pushed back now

1670
01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 3: with debt, money not stretching this.

1671
01:19:57,200 --> 01:20:00,559
Speaker 5: Far, people waiting longer to get married, Yeah, people living

1672
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:01,559
Speaker 5: longer children.

1673
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:03,360
Speaker 4: I don't know that thirty three is there anymore.

1674
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:05,559
Speaker 5: It's probably pushing closer to the forty four.

1675
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:08,559
Speaker 3: Long How wild is it that? So this is where

1676
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 3: the game is super rigged against women. Though women are

1677
01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:14,840
Speaker 3: raised to supposed to be wanting to be in a

1678
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:18,679
Speaker 3: relationship from the time the fucking kids correct. So even

1679
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,800
Speaker 3: by the time this man matures quote unquote and he's

1680
01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 3: thirty five forty years old, women are not just in

1681
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,639
Speaker 3: the dating game competing against women.

1682
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:30,400
Speaker 4: They're like, oh, he's forty, I'm forty.

1683
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:32,880
Speaker 3: You're competing against like twenty five year old women who

1684
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,000
Speaker 3: have been taught their whole fucking life just find a

1685
01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:37,800
Speaker 3: man who's ready to be a relationship. And that's the

1686
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 3: lowest fucking bar possible. Everything else falling in line, like,

1687
01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:43,759
Speaker 3: what is he forty? Well, he ready to be a relationship.

1688
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 3: I'm twenty two. Let's make this happen. No, it's not

1689
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 3: creepy at all. I want a relationship. He want to

1690
01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 3: be in a relationship. And you gotta wait this long

1691
01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 3: for men to want to be in a relationship. It's

1692
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 3: not gonna happen with most men at twenty two, so

1693
01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 3: you gotta wait till you're forty.

1694
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 4: We're all looking for the same range of men. It's

1695
01:20:57,560 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 4: like such a rig system. All right, it's moving to

1696
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 4: some other stuff. We talked a while.

1697
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:07,880
Speaker 5: That was fun though, because I enjoyed that conversation.

1698
01:21:08,400 --> 01:21:10,200
Speaker 3: You know what, I'm gonna skip fuck with black people

1699
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:11,599
Speaker 3: and just do guests the race, and then we're gonna

1700
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 3: get out of here.

1701
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:16,519
Speaker 5: Okay, now that it is time for some guests the race,

1702
01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:21,960
Speaker 5: that's right, this guess stor race time. Now that it's

1703
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:26,120
Speaker 5: time for some guests story race. That's right, this guest

1704
01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:27,080
Speaker 5: the race time.

1705
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 3: But that's right, it's time for Gus the race. The

1706
01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:33,800
Speaker 3: number one game go across all the podcasts. So we

1707
01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:35,439
Speaker 3: need to play news arks from all over the globe

1708
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 3: and we sor uh wait, but we try to guess.

1709
01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:41,479
Speaker 4: Who did the crime.

1710
01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:43,800
Speaker 3: That's what it is, guest, the race, I almost said,

1711
01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:47,040
Speaker 3: the other one, uh and everybody playing in the chatroom

1712
01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 3: prog along and the racist Jesus Christ.

1713
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 4: How did I fuck that up? Four people charge out

1714
01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:54,240
Speaker 4: the teenager found starving in the barn.

1715
01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:58,520
Speaker 5: Mm hmm hmmmm.

1716
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:03,000
Speaker 4: I wonder how they survived starving in the barn.

1717
01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:04,639
Speaker 5: I don't know what the animals in there with them.

1718
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 4: They must have been eaten. No, hey, in the middle

1719
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:11,160
Speaker 4: of the bar.

1720
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:18,040
Speaker 3: Chargers have been filed against four people. Everybody know that

1721
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:18,959
Speaker 3: crucial conflict.

1722
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:19,679
Speaker 4: Come on now.

1723
01:22:20,400 --> 01:22:23,639
Speaker 3: Chargers have been filed against four people accused of allowing

1724
01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:26,920
Speaker 3: and Oklahoma teenager to starve on a property near Meeker.

1725
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:30,719
Speaker 3: Authority say the investigation McGann. After passed by, I noticed

1726
01:22:30,720 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 3: something wasn't right. Oh shit, we passive by something something something,

1727
01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:42,040
Speaker 3: something just ain't right in that barn.

1728
01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 4: Passive.

1729
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:44,960
Speaker 3: I saw a fifteen year old victim out in the

1730
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,799
Speaker 3: field and became concerned due to his appearance or his condition,

1731
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:50,960
Speaker 3: and called DHS when he was found. A teenager only

1732
01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:53,760
Speaker 3: weighed eighty pounds. It was suffering from severe a maulnutrition

1733
01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 3: eight pounds. Neighbors told news for that they didn't know

1734
01:22:57,880 --> 01:23:00,120
Speaker 3: the boy was fifteen years old, saying he looked as

1735
01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:03,480
Speaker 3: like a small eight year old.

1736
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:06,240
Speaker 5: Yes, that's small.

1737
01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 3: Investigator say the victim was forced to eat twigs and grass. Oh,

1738
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 3: he really was, even though the home was fully stock

1739
01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:13,799
Speaker 3: with food.

1740
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 4: Wow. He had to forge for his own food.

1741
01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 3: He wasn't allowed food from inside the house, Panther said.

1742
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 3: When he was taken to Oklahoma City Hospital, doctor say

1743
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 3: he was.

1744
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 4: They were shocked the boy was still alive.

1745
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 3: The doctors ou Children's Hospital, after treated him, testing him

1746
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:34,240
Speaker 3: to re evaluate him, determined that he had not been found.

1747
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 3: Had he not been found, he would have been dead

1748
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:36,679
Speaker 3: to starvation within a week.

1749
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:38,120
Speaker 4: Wow.

1750
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:39,320
Speaker 5: Wow.

1751
01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:42,679
Speaker 3: In addition to being MALNRDS, he also suffered from several injuries.

1752
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:44,559
Speaker 3: He had been shot by his dad with a shotgun

1753
01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 3: with bird shot. X rays reveal he did have shotgun

1754
01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:53,519
Speaker 3: pails lodged in his leg. Authorities arrested thirty four year

1755
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 3: old Jimmy Jones Singr, forty six year old Amy Jones,

1756
01:23:57,840 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 3: twenty year old Jonathan Plank, and twenty four you know

1757
01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 3: Tyler Atkins on a complaint of child neglect. On Monday,

1758
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:08,200
Speaker 3: the State of Oklahoma charge Jimmy Jones, Amy Jones, Tyler Atkins,

1759
01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:11,599
Speaker 3: and Jonathan Plank with a felon account of child neglect.

1760
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:13,960
Speaker 3: Jimmy Jones was also charged one count of child abuse

1761
01:24:14,040 --> 01:24:18,679
Speaker 3: by injury, probably for shooting him. Accord to court documents,

1762
01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:21,080
Speaker 3: Amy Jones told investigators that the teenager hadn't been taken

1763
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:23,760
Speaker 3: to a doctor because they didn't have insurance. However, the

1764
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:26,120
Speaker 3: charger state that the investigators were able to find evidence

1765
01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:30,479
Speaker 3: of insurance inside the house. Amy then stated that she

1766
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:33,320
Speaker 3: had repeatedly asked the victim's father to take him to

1767
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:35,479
Speaker 3: a doctor, but the VICTI but that Jimmy Jones just

1768
01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 3: hadn't done it well. Speaking to what Tyler had Atkins,

1769
01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:41,280
Speaker 3: she told her. He told investigators that the family treated

1770
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:43,720
Speaker 3: the victim differently than the other children. Aga said that

1771
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:45,519
Speaker 3: the victim was forced to sleep in the bar, adding

1772
01:24:45,520 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 3: that he would not want to live in that area,

1773
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,680
Speaker 3: nor would be allow children of his own to live

1774
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:52,760
Speaker 3: in the bar. Court documents state that Atkins wished that

1775
01:24:52,840 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 3: he or someone had taken a victim for medical care.

1776
01:24:56,280 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 4: I wish somebody would.

1777
01:24:57,280 --> 01:24:57,840
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1778
01:24:57,880 --> 01:24:59,840
Speaker 4: I guess it was just I don't know. Nobody could

1779
01:24:59,840 --> 01:25:00,480
Speaker 4: have done.

1780
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:02,080
Speaker 5: That's why all the adults are being charged.

1781
01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 3: Lincoln County First Assistant District Court District Attorney Adam Panther

1782
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:08,719
Speaker 3: said he charged the family with the most serious charges

1783
01:25:08,720 --> 01:25:10,360
Speaker 3: he could based on the facts. Each of the charges

1784
01:25:10,400 --> 01:25:12,759
Speaker 3: cares of maximum sent It's a life in prison. Petra

1785
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 3: said he has been asked about attempted murder charges, but

1786
01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:17,439
Speaker 3: says that Oklahoma doesn't have an attempted murder charge.

1787
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:19,799
Speaker 4: Guess the race of all these people?

1788
01:25:20,880 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 5: Mmm? All white?

1789
01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:24,880
Speaker 4: All right, let's check the chat room and see what

1790
01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:25,360
Speaker 4: they believe.

1791
01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:26,919
Speaker 5: They don't have a tipton murder.

1792
01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:30,719
Speaker 4: Wow, talk about white trash.

1793
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:33,920
Speaker 3: White people are crazy, but they believe in the power

1794
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:37,080
Speaker 3: of white Jesus. Though, take out that what this white trash,

1795
01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 3: white barn knee, rubble, white, Caucasian gray, cruelty, white, white,

1796
01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:44,160
Speaker 3: white white.

1797
01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 4: The correct answer is white.

1798
01:25:57,640 --> 01:25:59,639
Speaker 5: The more and more I think about it, they probably

1799
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:04,040
Speaker 5: don't have attempted murder because you can't attemptingly murder black people.

1800
01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 4: Sure, let's go with that.

1801
01:26:07,720 --> 01:26:09,160
Speaker 5: I mean, you know what I'm saying, Like like, they don't

1802
01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:11,160
Speaker 5: have it on the book. So if a black person

1803
01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:12,960
Speaker 5: say you attempted to murder me, they were like, oh,

1804
01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:14,160
Speaker 5: we can't press charges.

1805
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:20,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I don't even know what to say to that.

1806
01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:23,800
Speaker 4: Let's just move on to this topic. I don't I

1807
01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:25,599
Speaker 4: want a yes and you, but I don't even know

1808
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:26,839
Speaker 4: how that would work legally.

1809
01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 5: I don't know, but I know some racism behind that.

1810
01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 5: We don't got no attempted murder charges in this state.

1811
01:26:33,439 --> 01:26:34,240
Speaker 4: Okay, all right.

1812
01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:40,439
Speaker 3: A former pastor is accused of taking upskirts a photo

1813
01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:43,360
Speaker 3: of a woman's up a woman's dress, and he called

1814
01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:44,479
Speaker 3: it his dark moment.

1815
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:50,080
Speaker 4: A former past Yeah, yeah, he had a dark You've

1816
01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:50,840
Speaker 4: all had darkness.

1817
01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:52,120
Speaker 5: The devil made me do it.

1818
01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:52,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.

1819
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:55,040
Speaker 3: It would just be going somewhere, guys, And you just

1820
01:26:55,080 --> 01:26:57,120
Speaker 3: can't help yourself. You just pull out yourself a stick

1821
01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,360
Speaker 3: and get the looking up skirts like your three year

1822
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:03,479
Speaker 3: old boy in a in a fashion store. You just

1823
01:27:03,520 --> 01:27:06,679
Speaker 3: can't help yourself. Gotta know what's going on down there?

1824
01:27:07,080 --> 01:27:10,639
Speaker 3: What what could possibly be happening under people's dresses. We've

1825
01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:15,160
Speaker 3: never seen pornography or never seen like the chart of

1826
01:27:15,240 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 3: people's bodies in health class.

1827
01:27:17,320 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 4: There's only one way to know for sure, and.

1828
01:27:19,160 --> 01:27:22,320
Speaker 6: That hastation of new and quality.

1829
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:26,160
Speaker 4: Pre on vehicles. Okay, not the pre owned vehicles. Uh huh.

1830
01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:31,000
Speaker 4: Come look upskirts with us, check us out South Orlando,

1831
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:34,840
Speaker 4: get your upskirt camera on. What if that been that?

1832
01:27:34,880 --> 01:27:36,120
Speaker 4: What if the ad would have something to do with

1833
01:27:36,160 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 4: the crime of the terrible? Come on the new iPhone

1834
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:40,520
Speaker 4: pixelated cameras.

1835
01:27:41,560 --> 01:27:47,559
Speaker 6: This is thirty one year old Brian Kenyon's mug shop.

1836
01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:52,400
Speaker 4: The woman, are we really gonna do this? Are we're

1837
01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:55,120
Speaker 4: gonna freeze every second? Why does it always play the

1838
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:56,840
Speaker 4: ad fine with no pauses? Guys?

1839
01:27:57,400 --> 01:27:59,800
Speaker 3: Because that just me like my computer never freezes on

1840
01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:03,000
Speaker 3: the always freeze on the video after Dad like, oh

1841
01:28:03,040 --> 01:28:04,439
Speaker 3: this is what you actually came to see.

1842
01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:09,840
Speaker 4: We are going to this.

1843
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:12,840
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, the whole other adage is like, come on down

1844
01:28:12,880 --> 01:28:13,759
Speaker 3: to Toyota, get.

1845
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:15,280
Speaker 4: You a rain new car, you can look up skirts.

1846
01:28:15,280 --> 01:28:16,560
Speaker 4: Ain't why you're on the line. We don't give it,

1847
01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:18,639
Speaker 4: damn fiddies.

1848
01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:22,040
Speaker 6: He took the picture while she was putting his youngest

1849
01:28:22,160 --> 01:28:25,799
Speaker 6: child in a car seat, as he six's Lauren Corn reports.

1850
01:28:25,880 --> 01:28:28,920
Speaker 6: Kenyan blamed it on his addiction to pornography.

1851
01:28:30,479 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 2: The former pastor has since been removed here from the church.

1852
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:35,360
Speaker 2: After Deputy Shake, he admitted.

1853
01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:36,640
Speaker 3: To take Can I just take this time out to

1854
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:39,400
Speaker 3: say I'm sick of porn getting such a bad rep.

1855
01:28:40,000 --> 01:28:42,559
Speaker 3: Every time a man does some ignorant shit, they always

1856
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:43,839
Speaker 3: be like I learned it from porn.

1857
01:28:44,680 --> 01:28:47,679
Speaker 4: Like men have been treating women for shit for literally

1858
01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:49,400
Speaker 4: television millennia.

1859
01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:53,759
Speaker 3: It just like thousands of years, for centuries, we'll treated

1860
01:28:53,760 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 3: women like shit. And now motherfucker's be like, if it

1861
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:59,360
Speaker 3: wasn't for Examster, I really would not be trying to

1862
01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 3: take pictures mod.

1863
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:03,400
Speaker 5: The full ex Haunster, I would have treated you right, girl.

1864
01:29:03,520 --> 01:29:06,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just think I mean that whole women's suffers

1865
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:09,000
Speaker 3: thing and oh you can't vote, and oh you can't

1866
01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:11,880
Speaker 3: get divorced to your kids, and the whole we can uh,

1867
01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:15,320
Speaker 3: there's no uh, there's no Kennedy for sexual assault, and

1868
01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:17,080
Speaker 3: the whole burning you at the state because you're a

1869
01:29:17,080 --> 01:29:19,920
Speaker 3: wedge thing, and the whole like you can't join the military,

1870
01:29:19,960 --> 01:29:21,839
Speaker 3: and the whole like, once you do get in the military,

1871
01:29:21,840 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 3: it's a bunch of sexual assault. I mean that stuff

1872
01:29:25,680 --> 01:29:28,920
Speaker 3: was bad, but this porn thing, it's really gotten everyone

1873
01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:29,479
Speaker 3: out of control.

1874
01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:33,559
Speaker 2: Taking a picture of a woman's dress, blaming it on

1875
01:29:33,600 --> 01:29:34,719
Speaker 2: his pornography addiction.

1876
01:29:35,439 --> 01:29:38,080
Speaker 1: I hope that everyone's doing well through the storm.

1877
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:41,240
Speaker 2: Here's former pastor thirty one year old Brian Kenyon Junior

1878
01:29:41,280 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 2: giving a hurry.

1879
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:43,160
Speaker 4: Did he really tried?

1880
01:29:46,720 --> 01:29:50,360
Speaker 3: You're like, listen, guys, Okay, First of all, I hope

1881
01:29:50,360 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 3: everybody's doing get in the storm, all right.

1882
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:55,920
Speaker 4: I know everybody's enjoying the.

1883
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:59,840
Speaker 5: Circus on Facebook.

1884
01:30:00,040 --> 01:30:02,040
Speaker 6: Faith is a constant that should be in ourlias, that

1885
01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:03,639
Speaker 6: the world around us should see.

1886
01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:06,799
Speaker 2: But seven months later, deputy say the pastor was using

1887
01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:09,439
Speaker 2: his cell phone to upskirt a woman in his office

1888
01:30:09,479 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 2: who was dropping off his children after Sunday Service investigator

1889
01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:16,160
Speaker 2: said Kenyon asked the forty one year old woman to

1890
01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:18,160
Speaker 2: put his child in the car seat when he bent

1891
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:21,559
Speaker 2: down and snapped the picture. The woman says she felt.

1892
01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:25,800
Speaker 5: Did they add to snaff to the that's probably I

1893
01:30:25,920 --> 01:30:28,120
Speaker 5: got caught. He didn't have a silace on a bite.

1894
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 4: She's a rookie, guys at this point.

1895
01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:31,799
Speaker 5: Right, put your phone on silent.

1896
01:30:32,040 --> 01:30:33,320
Speaker 4: Why didn't they show this part?

1897
01:30:33,360 --> 01:30:37,240
Speaker 2: On the point clip skin touching her leg and noticed

1898
01:30:37,280 --> 01:30:39,920
Speaker 2: a red light on his cell phone, Athori saying the

1899
01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:42,639
Speaker 2: woman alerted the staff at Deltona Church of Christ who

1900
01:30:42,680 --> 01:30:45,800
Speaker 2: confronted the pastor. The arrest report shows Kenyan first lied

1901
01:30:45,840 --> 01:30:49,120
Speaker 2: about the encounter, later confessing it was quote bad judgment

1902
01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:51,519
Speaker 2: and a dark moment came over him and he thought

1903
01:30:51,560 --> 01:30:54,559
Speaker 2: he could get away with it. Kenyan also reportedly deleted

1904
01:30:54,600 --> 01:30:57,600
Speaker 2: the picture. Debby's arrested the former pastor on Thursday for

1905
01:30:57,720 --> 01:31:00,639
Speaker 2: video voyeurism, but he has since leave the kitchen.

1906
01:31:00,640 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 4: He got caught.

1907
01:31:01,760 --> 01:31:03,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it made it sound like he did it out

1908
01:31:03,280 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 3: of like guilt, like and I just couldn't.

1909
01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:09,479
Speaker 5: So she putting your child in the car, which means

1910
01:31:10,479 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 5: you vet some other women that associated with you, most likely,

1911
01:31:15,200 --> 01:31:19,360
Speaker 5: And she was like, okay, and she feels some touching

1912
01:31:19,920 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 5: with a.

1913
01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:23,280
Speaker 4: Red light right, but like he was just sitting there.

1914
01:31:23,520 --> 01:31:26,280
Speaker 4: Can you put him in the car slowly and just

1915
01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:28,680
Speaker 4: kind of you ask? Can you hike your skirt up

1916
01:31:28,720 --> 01:31:30,280
Speaker 4: a little bit? Why you put him in the car.

1917
01:31:30,280 --> 01:31:32,840
Speaker 3: Just a little okay? Leaning to the right, pastor, what

1918
01:31:32,880 --> 01:31:36,160
Speaker 3: are you doing couse your PhMe? No, this red light

1919
01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:36,640
Speaker 3: is for me.

1920
01:31:36,720 --> 01:31:40,000
Speaker 4: It means the Lord is watching over me at all times.

1921
01:31:40,280 --> 01:31:42,600
Speaker 2: Jesus bought it out of jail and returned to his

1922
01:31:42,720 --> 01:31:46,639
Speaker 2: new home in Lakeland, we went blond Kenyon's old address

1923
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:48,920
Speaker 2: and Deltona that has a for sale sign in his

1924
01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:52,759
Speaker 2: front yard. Neighbors tell us he was always so nice,

1925
01:31:52,840 --> 01:31:55,759
Speaker 2: but thought it was strange when he abruptly moved in April.

1926
01:31:55,840 --> 01:31:57,760
Speaker 4: I look forward to seeing your letter.

1927
01:31:57,880 --> 01:31:59,800
Speaker 2: We called Kenyon for comments, but he has yeah to

1928
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:03,240
Speaker 2: turn our call. In Deltona, Lauren corn six.

1929
01:32:04,080 --> 01:32:06,720
Speaker 6: New six also called an emailed the Deltona Church of

1930
01:32:06,800 --> 01:32:09,040
Speaker 6: Christ for comment, but we have not heard back.

1931
01:32:09,720 --> 01:32:11,920
Speaker 3: Well, he may not come when you want them, but

1932
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:15,479
Speaker 3: they will hit you back when they're able to.

1933
01:32:15,920 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 4: Karen guessed the race of this pastor, Brian kingon gr white.

1934
01:32:21,720 --> 01:32:22,760
Speaker 4: Karen's going with white.

1935
01:32:22,840 --> 01:32:24,960
Speaker 3: Let's check the chat room and see what you bought

1936
01:32:25,560 --> 01:32:31,439
Speaker 3: good saints believe black Bible paper white. One need for

1937
01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:34,799
Speaker 3: protest between the knees for Jesus pastor and a white

1938
01:32:34,800 --> 01:32:40,760
Speaker 3: devil Twitter handle named Reverend Snapcat white white.

1939
01:32:41,280 --> 01:32:43,479
Speaker 4: I didn't know I couldn't do that.

1940
01:32:43,520 --> 01:32:46,160
Speaker 3: White pastor moon Cricket, So we got black and white

1941
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:48,760
Speaker 3: as a guess is on this one the correct answer is,

1942
01:32:48,800 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 3: and Karen, you gotta correct he's white.

1943
01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:13,639
Speaker 4: Many of you missed it to my deleted the pictures, Nigga,

1944
01:33:13,640 --> 01:33:14,479
Speaker 4: the ship in the cloud.

1945
01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:17,479
Speaker 5: Come on, even when you're deleted, it's still somewhere.

1946
01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:20,519
Speaker 4: His picture came up right, Okay, I took it off.

1947
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:22,120
Speaker 4: I just go to the bonus round.

1948
01:33:22,160 --> 01:33:35,960
Speaker 7: Guys, double up on and the race, double it up

1949
01:33:37,280 --> 01:33:38,200
Speaker 7: and the race.

1950
01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:40,640
Speaker 3: That's right, double the points, double the race and the

1951
01:33:40,680 --> 01:33:42,559
Speaker 3: bonus round of guests. The race so far caring it's

1952
01:33:42,560 --> 01:33:45,679
Speaker 3: two four to two, but cash she go very rare,

1953
01:33:46,080 --> 01:33:47,479
Speaker 3: three for three.

1954
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:50,920
Speaker 4: To end the week. I'm gon try mm hmm, give

1955
01:33:50,920 --> 01:33:55,960
Speaker 4: it your best effort. Berkeley County, South Carolina.

1956
01:33:56,160 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 3: What started as a regular traffic stop ended up with

1957
01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:01,960
Speaker 3: deputies locating drugs during the strip search and left one

1958
01:34:02,000 --> 01:34:08,160
Speaker 3: man facing felony charges. Dwayne Gernard Wigfall has been arrested

1959
01:34:08,200 --> 01:34:11,280
Speaker 3: and charged with multiple drug related felonies in addition to

1960
01:34:11,400 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 3: attempting the smuggle contraband into a correctional facility. Falling the

1961
01:34:15,120 --> 01:34:18,479
Speaker 3: traffic stop shortly after midnight Tuesday, had deputy with the

1962
01:34:18,479 --> 01:34:21,439
Speaker 3: Berkeley County Shares Office stopped the car for removing violation

1963
01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:24,920
Speaker 3: on College Road in Gleason Drive at Gleasing Drive. After

1964
01:34:25,000 --> 01:34:28,280
Speaker 3: approaching the driver, the deputy reportedly smelled marijuana coming from

1965
01:34:28,320 --> 01:34:31,320
Speaker 3: the car. Wigfall was reportedly found to be driving with

1966
01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:33,880
Speaker 3: a suspended license. A search of the car revealed a

1967
01:34:33,960 --> 01:34:38,360
Speaker 3: wide range of drug parapherneilia and illegal narcotics. Included eleven

1968
01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:43,679
Speaker 3: tablets of suspected amphetamines, decks of phetamine and oxycodon, ten

1969
01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 3: tablets of suspected clonazepam, twenty eight tablets with names such

1970
01:34:48,479 --> 01:34:51,600
Speaker 3: as alien guppies and bricks that were determined to be

1971
01:34:51,800 --> 01:34:56,280
Speaker 3: MDMA and ecstasy, approximately three gramds of green beefy substance

1972
01:34:56,320 --> 01:35:00,639
Speaker 3: that Phil tested presumptively to be marijuana and unknown green

1973
01:35:00,680 --> 01:35:03,640
Speaker 3: powdered sussens and another unknown sussge that were located but

1974
01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:06,640
Speaker 3: were not able to be identified, and a partridge in a.

1975
01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:07,800
Speaker 4: Pear tree right.

1976
01:35:08,320 --> 01:35:11,280
Speaker 3: Wig Falls was then arrested and taken to the Hill

1977
01:35:11,439 --> 01:35:14,720
Speaker 3: fran Finkley Detention Center, depending warrant services and.

1978
01:35:14,720 --> 01:35:15,400
Speaker 4: A bond hearing.

1979
01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:17,280
Speaker 3: When he arrived at the jail, wig Fall with strip

1980
01:35:17,360 --> 01:35:19,599
Speaker 3: search due to the nature of the charges, De Wud's

1981
01:35:19,600 --> 01:35:23,559
Speaker 3: reportedly found a black bag containing three bags in his rectum.

1982
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:28,360
Speaker 3: The bags proportedly contained a sustenance that Phil tested presumptively

1983
01:35:28,400 --> 01:35:29,640
Speaker 3: for methamphetamines.

1984
01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:32,880
Speaker 4: Wayne approximately thirty six gram.

1985
01:35:32,960 --> 01:35:35,559
Speaker 3: He was giving a total surety bond of one hundred

1986
01:35:35,560 --> 01:35:39,640
Speaker 3: and forty five thousand dollars. Guess the race of Dwayne Wigfall.

1987
01:35:41,439 --> 01:35:45,599
Speaker 3: I'm going black, Karen's going black. Let's check the chat

1988
01:35:45,680 --> 01:35:48,400
Speaker 3: room and see what they believe. This meth booty man

1989
01:35:48,720 --> 01:35:53,240
Speaker 3: was come on, black hood, pharmacist, meth life. That's not

1990
01:35:53,479 --> 01:35:57,599
Speaker 3: a race. Crystal meth white white. I hate the drugs,

1991
01:35:57,640 --> 01:35:58,920
Speaker 3: but the drugs love me.

1992
01:35:59,560 --> 01:35:59,880
Speaker 4: White.

1993
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:04,439
Speaker 3: Test tusks black, says Jim. Pink Toe says, dope stacks

1994
01:36:05,680 --> 01:36:08,360
Speaker 3: with that variety of Walgreen drugs in the booty hole

1995
01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:10,799
Speaker 3: white white, meth white.

1996
01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:15,519
Speaker 4: The correct answer is and Karen, you did it three

1997
01:36:15,640 --> 01:36:16,880
Speaker 4: or three. He was black.

1998
01:36:29,439 --> 01:36:32,080
Speaker 5: That was a trigger one because them drugs was white.

1999
01:36:32,200 --> 01:36:34,760
Speaker 5: But that name said nigga, and you.

2000
01:36:34,800 --> 01:36:37,960
Speaker 3: Absolutely were correct. Many of you did fall for the

2001
01:36:38,000 --> 01:36:38,799
Speaker 3: Okie dok.

2002
01:36:48,200 --> 01:36:49,400
Speaker 4: He like Eddie Wislow.

2003
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:54,200
Speaker 5: Oh my goodness. He Oh, you're going to jail for

2004
01:36:54,200 --> 01:36:54,960
Speaker 5: the rest of your life.

2005
01:36:55,400 --> 01:36:58,439
Speaker 4: Booty old drugs. He was just a walking drug factory man.

2006
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:01,799
Speaker 5: Come on, add drugs. I never heard of it before.

2007
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:25,400
Speaker 4: Yep, mm hmm hmmm.

2008
01:37:26,080 --> 01:37:28,599
Speaker 3: Well it's time for sword ratching. This guys and it's

2009
01:37:28,640 --> 01:37:30,439
Speaker 3: almost time to wrap this bad boy up.

2010
01:37:31,720 --> 01:37:31,880
Speaker 5: Uh.

2011
01:37:31,920 --> 01:37:36,120
Speaker 3: In this case today, an argument over a woman LEDs

2012
01:37:36,400 --> 01:37:39,240
Speaker 3: to a leads to a North toast a samurai sword stabbing.

2013
01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:40,439
Speaker 5: Oh shit.

2014
01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:42,960
Speaker 4: They say women and swords don't mix.

2015
01:37:43,680 --> 01:37:44,120
Speaker 5: They don't.

2016
01:37:44,640 --> 01:37:47,759
Speaker 3: One person suffering a non life threatening injury after being

2017
01:37:47,840 --> 01:37:52,560
Speaker 3: stabbed with a samurai sword. Police took the suspect in

2018
01:37:52,600 --> 01:37:54,559
Speaker 3: the cussy about six blocks away from where to stab

2019
01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:56,559
Speaker 3: and the curb. Police said, suspect is a Katina sword

2020
01:37:56,560 --> 01:37:58,960
Speaker 3: to stab the victim after an argument over a woman.

2021
01:38:01,160 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 4: All right, that's the whole story.

2022
01:38:03,040 --> 01:38:09,320
Speaker 3: Alright, cool, We'll talk to y'all Saturday for feedback. Thursday,

2023
01:38:09,439 --> 01:38:12,479
Speaker 3: we will be doing balls D Sports and Audrey if

2024
01:38:12,680 --> 01:38:16,799
Speaker 3: Dog Premium people who have who've been a premium balls

2025
01:38:16,800 --> 01:38:18,240
Speaker 3: Deep listener for more than a year.

2026
01:38:19,320 --> 01:38:21,200
Speaker 4: Audrey will be back tomorrow live.

2027
01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:23,479
Speaker 3: In the studio with me and Justin and we'll be

2028
01:38:24,080 --> 01:38:27,360
Speaker 3: talking pregame stuff and then balls D Sports should be fun.

2029
01:38:28,520 --> 01:38:32,479
Speaker 5: So until then, I love you. W