WEBVTT - Conversations About Blended Families 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:02.480 What's up? 0:00:02.680 --> 0:00:05.400 And welcome back to another episode of No Sealer's podcast 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:14.360 with your host, Now fuck that with your load glasses, Malone, 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:18.000 Why y'all today? 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:25.200 Like I know, I haven't seen you on like a 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:27.400 couple of weeks because you've been like. 0:00:28.880 --> 0:00:32.120 I haven't been broached, I haven't been globe trotting. 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:35.919 I haven be'ten gloved trotting. But before that, we were 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:40.280 waiting for mister G who has been on a tour 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:45.319 and traveling. That's not my leg, my leg, my leg 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:46.599 of commission. 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:47.600 It's been making it funny. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:49.919 So even with me doing shows, it's weird because like 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:52.640 I even when my leg hurt, I can't do something 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:55.680 the next day, Like it's taking as crazy is everybody's 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:58.320 convincing me that I'm healing fashion and normal, but I 0:00:58.400 --> 0:00:59.520 feel like it's taken forever. 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:04.000 Are you you bending? Actually like more than a yeah yeah, 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:05.319 But it's messed up. 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:09.440 It's messed up because like if I'm on the plane 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:11.200 and I'm been in at ninety degrees and I hold 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:14.600 it too long, like it starts swelling and I can feel. 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:16.920 It ship, especially because the elevation. 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:20.240 Maybe that makes sense. I never thought about it like that. 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:21.760 But ship, I could be in the back of an 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:24.520 uber if the car too small. You know what I'm saying, 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:26.720 Like that's I can feel it. I gotta get in 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:29.280 the front. So it's embarrassing the riding in the front 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:29.959 seat of an uber. 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.080 You're still doing therapy. 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:35.200 Yeah, yeah, but this week I only went once. Why 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:36.440 doing ship? 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:39.200 You got to stay up on that. Yeah, No, I 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:39.880 know you don't. 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:46.800 Jiminy cript. You want to be like the last script. 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.120 Why it's read on the day. 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:57.840 Well, let's just say he had like two shots. 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:57.600 Two shots, y'all drinking. 0:01:57.480 --> 0:02:00.840 Two shots patron that nigga clear. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.040 And we don't even just we don't even drink patron 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:07.480 no more so. 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.240 So tell me why y'all thought I was done with y'all. 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:10.519 You said I was done with y'all. 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:14.680 No, I said, asia thought thought was why did Red 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:16.960 think I would be done with y'all? 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:17.240 Why? 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:25.799 Well, for one, I mean, damn, it's like ever so, 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:33.320 and you know you just kind of wasn't really like 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:34.760 responding like. 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:38.040 You, I wasn't talking to me. Who was we talking 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.639 to y'all wasn't saying nothing. 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.800 See, we wasn't saying that he wanted to hear. 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:45.520 I wasn't saying y'all would say good morning, and I'd 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:46.519 be like, good morning. 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.679 No, Asia asked you stuff in there? 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:54.440 I think I have no so I can't lie, like 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:58.280 sometimes I really just don't know, Like if you don't sometimes. 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:00.520 Why are you like the why why is it that? 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:04.920 Like you really like just don't get things like why 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:08.200 is it like you are the most direct person to 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.200 where it's like I have to say like this. 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:16.639 Like this because I am a direct person. Why other 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.200 than that, you jump to conclusions all the time. You 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:22.400 always jump to conclusions. One thing I've been trying to 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.839 master as an adult is not jumping to conclusions. 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.160 You are an adult now, right, So you. 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.560 Work your ass off to like let people tell you. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:32.040 And if you know me, like y'all know me for years, 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:34.440 you know me, you know me, like you can tell 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.760 me what you want. You can say, glasses, I want 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:39.880 a million dollars. You can tell me that and we 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.320 can have a conversation. So I expect people who know 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:43.320 me to tell me. 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:47.080 Okay, I get that, but gee, like there's things that 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:50.520 you know you're like I know they're saying this, but 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:52.800 because they haven't said it, I don't hear it. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:53.800 No, that's not. 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:54.720 Yes, it's not. 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:57.320 Honestly, I have made up my mind. Me and here 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:00.440 talked about this years ago. I was not in the 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:05.040 business of hearing people. I listen to people to hear 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:08.040 somebody clinically. My Nigga Lo Diggs always taught me this. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:12.480 But to hear somebody clinically is to acknowledge sound, right, 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:15.320 And that's why when somebody's not listening to you and 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:18.040 they're hearing you, it's like you'll say something that, well, 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.719 it sounds like you said because they're acknowledging the sound 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:24.600 of what you're saying. To listen is to listen and end. 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:29.440 So I listen more than I hear. That's really the truth. 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:32.040 Like it works better that way, And you're right, sometimes 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:33.880 you miss out on some great things of life. That's 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:35.560 not so, I agree, But. 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:39.560 Because you want to hear well, because I'm here, because 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:40.200 I don't want to hear. 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.120 Okay, No, he just don't want to search shit. He 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:43.839 just like whatever. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.599 There's nothing in life that I don't want to come back. 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:51.440 I love to combat everything in life. I love to 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:57.280 walk into everything in life, eyes open, true. If you 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.760 tell me, if you tell me what the fuck is 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:03.360 going straight up, eyes open, should me, I'm fucking with it. 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:05.359 But they can have that conversation. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.520 But you're not reading between the lines at all, not 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:07.880 at all. 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:11.800 No, not okay, I get you, not today or straight 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.360 direct line tomorrow. Some people say like, oh, you don't 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.839 want to hear that. No, I really do want to 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:20.440 hear that. Like I love it when a person is 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.520 direct and tell me because I don't like to assume. 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:27.880 You're But my thing is like you're you're paying attention 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:30.800 to me, and that's enough to understand what it is 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:35.240 I'm saying, like you care enough to like figure it out, 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:36.480 and you just. 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:42.760 It's not a mystery, like we're humans, right, it's a baby. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.039 You have to figure it's a mystery if you're saying, oh, 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:47.320 I didn't know, mystery. 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:51.200 Because at that point, somebody's not saying something. They're just 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.000 making They want me to feel something they're giving off. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:59.360 But then feelings and emotions are confusing because everything goes 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:01.599 in your mind right when you feel first off, no 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:10.080 Siller's jail red bread Toms on this Friday, King. But 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.920 if I'm listening to you, you can tell me. But 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:16.440 if I'm acknowledging the sound if I'm trying to understand 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:18.280 what you're saying, I'm trying to feel it. It's like 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.040 you got to think the same information that come out 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:24.159 your mouth. Your mouth other people is giving me information, 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.760 So no matter what the fuck we ever talking about, 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:30.359 I'm taking in all information. So it could be a 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:34.920 ton of confusion. It's easy if you don't, and why 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:37.320 should you not. If somebody you really fuck with, tell 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:41.200 them what the fuck you want, let them say no. 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.800 Right, people don't. That's the whole thing. Like people don't 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.840 like to hear no, or the possibility. 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:53.200 That's the right you still don't. I don't like it. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:55.200 I don't care. I'm gonna be real. I don't like that. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:56.800 Ship I like it. 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:00.440 I don't think I like it either, but I think 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:03.560 it's better to get a note. And it's people right 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:05.679 now to this day that will not give. 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:06.120 Me a note. 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:08.599 What they say, I don't know. 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:13.040 They'll be like, well, you know later on, be like, bro, no, 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:14.800 I'm not saying no, but. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:16.880 Gee, sometimes you may not want to say now. You 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:18.840 may want to try to figure something out because it's 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.480 somebody that you fuck with. Like if I fuck with 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:22.240 you like you you hit me and you say, hey, 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:24.320 I need you to do something, I'm gonna be like, okay, 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:26.360 well what you need? If you tell me, I'm be 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.240 like okay, well, ship, I might have to do this. Well, 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.200 let me try to figure it out. But that's because 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:31.680 I fuck with you. Now, if you, as a person 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:33.200 I wasn't fucking with, I'd probably be like. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:38.200 Me, figure it out. No, no, no, lot me figure 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.720 it out. Don't tell me about the calculator. Time, figure 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:41.040 it out. 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:42.160 You're right about that. 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:44.200 Don't tell me I need to figure it out. 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:46.560 It like if we're gonna do it. 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:49.760 If my family says, glasses, I need to borrow money, 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.920 it's gonna be no or yes. If it's gonna be yes. 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:55.160 It's like if I go do it tomorrow, yes, I 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:57.520 will do it tomorrow. It's not well, let me think 0:07:57.560 --> 0:08:02.200 about it, let me consider it. I'm not you know 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:03.960 what I mean, And I'm not mad at nobody else 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:06.000 that forces you to read between the lines. I'm just 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:08.440 not great at it. I've been entirely too long in 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:11.760 my life to try. I'll be thinking shit has happened 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:14.160 in a nigga made me feel like something gonna happen, 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:15.280 and then shit don't happen. 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:16.240 I'll be looking dumb. 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.800 I don't that I know. I know we just experienced that. 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.760 You just did. Crush grew yes. 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:26.920 A prime example exactly so the realcty. I'm glad we 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:30.440 talked about that because crush Groove is something so most 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:32.720 people don't know this. Shout out to my nigga Ad. 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:35.120 I came up with the idea for crush Groove. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:35.640 And. 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.640 These are my ideas that I gave to my partner Ad. 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:43.760 AD used to be the PDA K I'm sitting at 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:47.880 AD's office and I'm like, you know, at that time, 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:51.439 KD was trying to put together like one of those 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:54.400 summer jams, so he was trying to book the newest artist, 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:56.560 but k was only playing classic music. 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:58.440 And I was like, man, you don't really got to 0:08:58.480 --> 0:08:58.720 do that. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:00.400 You know, he was going a new artist and these 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.920 new artists who couldn't sell a thousand hard tickets. It's 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:07.719 off time about fifty thousand dollars, and I'm like, man, 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:09.720 you don't really need to fuck with them. You should 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:12.080 just go get all the legends. He was like, man, 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:13.640 I don't think people want to come out and see 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:16.360 all these legends. I'm like, yes, they will. He said, 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:19.040 why do you think that. I said, because the Legend's 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.400 gonna take you back to a time about your life 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.880 that you were, that you remember, that you enjoyed. 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:25.679 It's like a time machine. 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:26.080 Yes. 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:28.440 And we talked about it a little longer and I 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:31.160 convinced him and he did the first one and it 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:34.280 was like a sellout. It was huge writing it was 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:36.080 big and he was like, damn, you was right, and 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:36.600 I'm like, you know. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:38.199 It was other ideas we talked about. 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:40.920 I had the idea called clicks, where it was like 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:43.079 I wanted to do a concert. I was telling him, 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:44.960 you know, I'm not a promoter. This is my boy. 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.480 I don't need no much disce for him. I'm like, 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.520 we should do like reviews. Motown used to do this 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:53.560 thing called the Motown Review where they take all their 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:55.480 acts on the road. I'm like, yo, we should do 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:59.360 this thing called clicks and it's cash money and no limits. 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:04.520 Okay, that was another idea. So it was one of them. 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:07.520 But long story short, it was great when it first started. 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:08.679 When I would do it, you know what I mean, 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:12.280 because AD ran to itself in kd Ad sold the 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:12.920 show to. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:15.080 Live Nation. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:16.840 Now I don't know if he wants people to notice, 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:18.679 but I think it's on the fucking tickets. So people 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:22.199 know sold the concert to Live Nation, and now it's 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:26.280 getting different. So normally I would put a press list together, 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:30.280 it'd be no problem. Now the stay of the forum 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.480 is making different rules. They're like, okay, well we're not 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:36.400 letting people do podcasts here, and then if it's media passes, 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:42.199 like well, it just became ridiculously hard. So I'm pushing Mighty, like, hey, Mighty, 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.160 you know this is the person who's organizing the media. 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:47.040 I'm like, you know, shit that happens easy. Was hard 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:48.559 even before that. 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:51.000 Like one of the hardest problems for those concerts is, 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.439 you know, everybody from the West would bring one hundred people, 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.680 so you know, the backstage passes became a problem. But 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:00.719 you know, I've realized the best thing to do is 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:02.560 get tickets. And AD would be like, hey, gee, just 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.920 tell whoever you want to come fuck the backstage, telling 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:08.000 them I just give them tickets. Right, So normally, if 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:11.120 I had brought twenty people, you know, the fucking form 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.720 holds nineteen eighteen thousand people. Fucking twenty tickets ain't shit. 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.319 So I put together a list of twenty people. This 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:21.640 time it was only. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:25.840 Tickets for eight or twelve shit, So I. 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:27.800 Had to spend six hundred dollars in tickets to make 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:29.680 sure the people I told to come to get in. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:34.480 So not only did I not get y'all in, I 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:37.800 didn't get in Cheese who actually you know, Roll managed 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:42.440 the La Giants. Then I spent a bunch of money 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:44.839 for other people to get in, right, Like people who 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:47.400 I got tickets for, they struggled, they had to buy tickets. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.520 It was like it was a night. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.400 Man, it was crazy, but you got out there, did 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:53.520 you know? 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:56.600 Yeah, it served it, but it was just it was 0:11:57.080 --> 0:11:58.960 I don't like that, you know what I mean? That 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:01.160 makes me feel really differ feed it. So it fucked 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:03.320 my night up. Like I'm that kind of person if 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:04.920 I tell you to do something that don't come through. 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:07.480 Yeah. No, we didn't even talk to you until like 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:12.280 it was like the day after you were just like yeah, 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:13.199 I could tell like. 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:16.360 Yeah, the next day my leg was hurting. I was 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:17.120 super defeated. 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.960 I didn't even do nothing then, Like I'm like, damn, 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:21.760 you know, you get paid for the show, but you 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:24.320 spend ten percent in fucking tickets. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:25.440 It's crazy. 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:29.000 Then you know, my people that I brought to come 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:32.320 didn't get in. It just it made me not as 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:34.520 you know, And I couldn't blame a d I understand 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:37.040 Live Nation is everybody's doing anything. The Forum got their 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:40.840 own thing going on Live Nation. Everybody trying. So I 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.439 just kind of let it go. But you know, I 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:46.280 got it done and it was dope. You know, I 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.439 thought the La Johns did a good job. They wasn't 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:51.800 all worriy like they normally be. Like the hardest part 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:55.040 when you see artists rapping and they don't realize you're 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.719 rapping to the audience, and like I usually get them 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:00.200 to like I forced them, like, hey, look at somebody. 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:02.319 You're talking to somebody. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.200 I like to focus on someone when I'm talking, like, hey, how. 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:07.439 You doing when I'm rapping, Like I'll be rapping to 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:08.679 a girl in the front row and. 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:11.080 She'll just be blushing, right. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:13.400 Feel me like a girl be blushing in the front row, 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:16.080 like blushing right I'm singing. 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:17.800 And so that's what y'all do. So y'all really do. 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:20.120 Look, I always wonder that like artists, you know, you 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.439 see them on stage and they you know, I don't. 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.240 Think a lot of artists do it. I do it. 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.720 You do it, like I make sure the whole show 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.160 is a conversation. If I'm talking crazy. 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:32.760 So what about it if it's somebody that you know 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:35.040 in the audience, Like, if there's someone you know in 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:37.960 the audience, would you go more so to them? Or 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:41.240 is it just kind of like whoever catches your eye 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:42.559 at that time? 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:44.920 It's really who catches my eye. 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:46.920 I mean, if somebody I know, I give them something, 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:48.280 But I ain't gonna give them as much I'm gonna 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:51.120 give a stranger because you're trying to whoop a stranger. 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:54.000 I mean, you want a stranger to get on Instagram 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:56.520 and follow you listen to the song? Like so if 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:58.319 I'm doing like girl songs, you know what I mean. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:01.400 I'm talking about fucking and eating. Like I'm talking to 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:03.560 a woman whatever you like? 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.480 She like, ain't talking to me, y'all see him? He 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:08.560 was talking to me, yes, looking. 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:12.640 He was really talking to somebody something like that. 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:15.840 What you do? 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:17.720 But what did you do? 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:18.240 What did you do? 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:18.319 It? 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:19.280 Stage? 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:20.080 They still on stage? 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:22.760 Okay, I ain't taking nobody draw like I'm not. I'm 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:23.440 not serious. 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:27.840 But when I'm up on stage rapping. I'm serious right 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:29.840 then and there. I'm really tell you what I would 0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:32.160 do to you once to cut off. 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:36.400 It's like entertainment. It's entertainment, bitch, what you're doing? 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.960 Like women that do that, they be outside and they 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:40.480 just be like, oh, I'm gonna take my pennies off, 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:41.320 girl because I want. 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:41.680 To throw it. 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:45.840 In their perse and be like, okay, let me fling it. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:46.440 Man. 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:49.800 I done had girls, I mean probably double you know 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:52.800 we started talking about me, not like jay Z or nothing, 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:56.160 but I'm talking about probably twenty thirty girls getting my 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:57.920 DM after a show and be like what's up? 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:00.160 Like it's crazy okay. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.480 And me like he was talking to me and I 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.320 just saw you looking at me. 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:06.640 Let me see, I've never tried, like I'm lying. 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:07.280 I did. 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:09.600 I did make a guy down once, just one. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:15.480 Time, one time, and I was like oh because he 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:18.080 was so fine and he had some nice arms and 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.280 ship and I was like, damn, like I cannot. 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:22.720 You have to say nothing, girl, I did. I walked 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:23.280 over to him. 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.520 Did he say was he rapping? Was no? 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:26.520 He was the artist? 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.400 He was gone saying like I've never He's saying that 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:30.720 people have got into the dms. 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:33.560 Like me personally, I never really tried to get out 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:33.880 of guy. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.720 But one time like where I really was like damn, 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:40.120 like I like you like I can where you've been 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:41.800 off that ship happened. 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:42.600 To me a lot of times. 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:46.200 And girls you be talking to her and she like, 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:49.040 oh this nigger for sure. Oh yeah, and then like 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:51.760 I'm not feel to really go through with it. It's 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:55.040 like no matter what the circumstance is mean, but. 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:58.760 They don't know. But they don't know, and that's and 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:03.080 that's it. And that's because they don't understand that it's entertainment. 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:04.960 Something you listen. 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:07.400 It had been some girls where you be like, oh, yeah, 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:10.720 she's definitely. I was surprised a couple of them did it. 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:13.400 They was like holy ship, Like oh she wanted to 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:15.960 give me some pussy. You know, you rapping it, But. 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:16.760 You did it. 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:19.760 You did it the only time I was gonna do it. 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:21.320 You never did it. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:25.640 Never, not not from the rapt. I didn't bust a 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:27.960 broad concert before, but like not if she got in 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:28.440 my d M. 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:32.800 After got because you know it from the concert. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:34.880 Like I didn't been somewhere backstage and met a girl. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.200 You you. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.920 Okay, like a girl I'll be rapping to, like I 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:46.520 might be rapping to a girl like I didn't facing 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:51.040 and the down Yeah, I see it, like I didn't 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.440 did some ship like like you know Eddie Kane Jr. 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:55.240 Where a girl being with a dude, you know what 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:58.440 I mean? And I'm going and she just like looking 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:02.200 like yeah, what that doing? 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:06.720 She starting she forgot the shot some girls with that ship, 0:17:07.720 --> 0:17:11.840 especially that good especially that good you feel me and 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:13.520 like girl and jumping the d ms and. 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:16.119 Had to do there who was on boys? She was like, Oh, 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:17.040 that's my home boy. 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:19.880 How you said. 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:23.560 That? 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:24.040 Good? 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.679 Y'all funny, that's a keeler got y'all. I'm gonna we're 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:31.880 gonna keep the killing in next time. 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:36.520 Keep that patron in here that we ain't gonna because 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:40.240 I'm telling y'all some real life stories and then we do. 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.840 Yeah, Okay, I like what you say. We like you 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:47.720 about the party. 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:54.720 Okay, Okay, So that f is telling me, so you 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:59.199 so you were telling me that tell me about blended family. 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:04.000 This is what you start that off. No, No, I 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:10.560 mean blend blended families is like, so you came into 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:14.679 a blended family and they're they're adults like they're they're grown, 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:18.080 you know what I'm saying. So it's hard because of 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:21.760 course you love your husband, your man who you're with. 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:25.280 You want your children and them to have a relation, 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.800 you know what I'm saying, to have a relationship. But 0:18:28.280 --> 0:18:33.480 sometimes that's not always the case. And so you know, 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:38.080 like I said, so if they're having children or they're 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:41.400 extending their family, you would think that, Okay, this is 0:18:41.880 --> 0:18:46.800 my family too, like we're one. And so it's not 0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:49.760 always the case to where you feel like, okay, this. 0:18:49.680 --> 0:18:52.720 Is you think is that a woman thing? Because I 0:18:52.720 --> 0:18:54.400 don't think it's a man thing. 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:55.240 Is it not? I don't know. 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:56.480 I don't think those. 0:18:56.240 --> 0:18:59.320 Be like they meet a girl and you know he 0:18:59.480 --> 0:19:02.400 finna be grandfather, be a grandmother too. 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:03.480 You know what, You're right about it. 0:19:04.520 --> 0:19:09.040 Okay, so my dude, he has already one grandchild and 0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:11.520 he has one on the way, and I don't have 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:16.159 no grandkidsrandmother, so I'm like, I got a. 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:17.080 Grand baby coming. 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:20.000 But you're right, I thought about it, like fuck if 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.280 we was to break up and ship. 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.399 Like I mean, but honestly. 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:24.880 I would. 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:30.480 With with her with the person, right, But like you said, 0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:32.600 but it wouldn't that still wouldn't be my grandbaby. 0:19:32.680 --> 0:19:34.879 But like he said, maybe that's like a guy thing 0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:37.400 because apparently why. 0:19:37.240 --> 0:19:40.240 I think, I think women naturally want you to feel 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:43.560 because I mean, let's be honest, men have family, women 0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:47.400 have children, so the kids be you alls now, don't 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:50.280 could be wrong. Some men are super dadsby I Trie 0:19:50.280 --> 0:19:52.840 a real super dad. I mean, like he don't care 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:55.320 what his ex wife is doing. He is coming to 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:59.000 get his baby. This motherfucker drive to San Diego every 0:19:59.080 --> 0:19:59.600 other week. 0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:06.720 That's that's far. 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:09.800 That's far. That's that's every week and. 0:20:10.040 --> 0:20:15.399 Every other every so he's driving there every other week. 0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:18.480 Then he's taking her back home every other. 0:20:18.920 --> 0:20:21.800 Like so he keeps him for a week, keeps her 0:20:21.840 --> 0:20:22.359 for a week. 0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:28.119 Yeah, then he drives back home and then like and 0:20:28.200 --> 0:20:30.520 then he has to go to like she's like, this 0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:32.359 is my little this is my god baby. 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:34.280 So like this is my other guy baby. 0:20:34.359 --> 0:20:37.879 So like she's in equestrian class, like with the horses, 0:20:40.160 --> 0:20:41.000 she plays soccer. 0:20:41.119 --> 0:20:43.359 So he drives down, he has her for the week 0:20:43.560 --> 0:20:45.080 or just those times. 0:20:44.840 --> 0:20:47.320 I'm talking about, he has heard for a week and then. 0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:49.480 That's exactly. 0:20:49.560 --> 0:20:52.439 So basically he goes basically every Weekendamn. 0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:54.080 Near probably go out there every three days. 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:56.600 Listen, he's a parent. 0:20:57.080 --> 0:20:59.639 That's not the mom is not a parent. She's a 0:20:59.680 --> 0:21:03.919 fucking asshole. Why why the fuck would you take his 0:21:04.080 --> 0:21:07.480 baby two hours? Forgive me, if she heard that she. 0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:10.199 Lived in the city and moved out there, maybe for 0:21:10.280 --> 0:21:13.800 a better, better situation. That's the point of why it's 0:21:13.840 --> 0:21:16.040 a better situation. You never know. 0:21:16.160 --> 0:21:17.920 That's what she's saying. It's not our kid. 0:21:18.320 --> 0:21:19.800 What do you mean it's not our kid? 0:21:20.040 --> 0:21:22.760 He's saying, because she can. A person can jump up 0:21:23.280 --> 0:21:26.159 and start a new life somewhere, and then basically they 0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:28.119 would have to come that way like he has to. 0:21:28.520 --> 0:21:34.840 They have to Basically, Yeah, it's kid, But listen. 0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:36.960 Two hours away. 0:21:37.040 --> 0:21:38.760 Because I didn't tell my kid to go two hours 0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:43.560 you know, told her that her fucking real parent. That's 0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:46.080 why it's not my kid. If I can't tell you 0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:47.840 because I wouldn't let my kid move to San Diego. 0:21:47.920 --> 0:21:50.240 Why the fuck would I let my kid that I'm 0:21:50.280 --> 0:21:53.560 the parent, moved to San Diego, San Diego? 0:21:53.960 --> 0:21:56.760 She would They're grown, they're moving to San Diego now, 0:21:56.760 --> 0:21:57.080 they have. 0:21:57.160 --> 0:22:00.600 Kids, and I'm saying I wouldn't let Let's say if 0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:00.920 I was. 0:22:02.560 --> 0:22:03.320 My baby, mama. 0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:05.399 If it's my child, I wouldn't let my child be 0:22:05.400 --> 0:22:07.760 two hours away from me if I'm a parent, But 0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:10.040 you make a decision that's based off for you. 0:22:10.119 --> 0:22:12.200 But if you guys aren't together. 0:22:12.080 --> 0:22:12.800 That don't matter. 0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:15.760 I'm still a parent, it doesn't, but you guys aren't 0:22:16.280 --> 0:22:19.439 in the same household together. So she still has she 0:22:19.640 --> 0:22:24.720 has to. She's taking care of her child the best 0:22:24.760 --> 0:22:27.520 way that she can, and so she's saying, I'm gonna 0:22:27.560 --> 0:22:30.280 move to San Diego if you decide that you don't 0:22:30.320 --> 0:22:32.240 want to move out there, just like if she moved 0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:34.800 out of state and you don't want to go bust, 0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:37.560 this is what may happen. 0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:39.960 Why if it's my kid. 0:22:40.520 --> 0:22:43.800 Because this is what may happen because guess what, it 0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:45.160 may be. 0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:48.000 Hard because it's your kid. 0:22:49.119 --> 0:22:49.920 This is our kid. 0:22:50.000 --> 0:22:51.720 No it's not, because if it was my kid, I 0:22:51.720 --> 0:22:52.439 would have saved. 0:22:52.560 --> 0:22:53.960 So see, you're missing the point. 0:22:54.040 --> 0:22:56.240 Like he gets what you're saying, but he's basically trying 0:22:56.280 --> 0:22:57.600 to make a point that like. 0:22:58.119 --> 0:22:59.960 But that doesn't have anything to do a blended fan 0:23:00.480 --> 0:23:03.080 because this can happen with if you guys had a 0:23:03.160 --> 0:23:07.080 kid and she decided to say, I'm gonna move to 0:23:07.240 --> 0:23:11.080 San Diego. That's not a blended family. Your baby, mama, 0:23:13.160 --> 0:23:17.560 it's moving. I'm just saying if you are. 0:23:20.280 --> 0:23:24.320 But a lot of blended families happen because somebody takes 0:23:24.320 --> 0:23:30.680 the kid to San Diego. That's why you have blended families, 0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:34.000 because somebody is deciding that the father is not gonna 0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:34.600 be involved. 0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:35.399 And I get it. 0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:37.560 You know, this podcast is gonna be really special because 0:23:37.600 --> 0:23:39.399 some women is gonna feel some kind of way. And 0:23:39.440 --> 0:23:41.800 I understand it as a mother. My mom was you know, 0:23:41.880 --> 0:23:44.359 my mom didn't have my biological pops. 0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:47.240 Get me to help. Thank God for my dad, you know, 0:23:47.560 --> 0:23:49.720 rased me as long as I can remember and show me, 0:23:49.880 --> 0:23:51.600 you know, like a man could just love you. 0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:54.200 So your biological father wasn't in your life. 0:23:54.320 --> 0:23:55.560 No, I never talked to. 0:23:55.760 --> 0:23:58.560 The man that this whole time that I've known as 0:23:58.600 --> 0:23:59.960 your father is not your father. 0:24:00.800 --> 0:24:02.720 He's my father, he's your father. 0:24:02.560 --> 0:24:05.640 But he's not the So do you know you're biological I. 0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:08.680 Just talked to him probably like uh, for the first 0:24:08.680 --> 0:24:19.879 time in twenty twenty. Really, how did Yeah, conversation is 0:24:19.920 --> 0:24:26.879 gonna be crazy. So my brother right didn't like the 0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:30.280 relationship that I have with our dad who raised me? 0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:31.720 Is that his father? 0:24:32.160 --> 0:24:34.840 Yes, that's so he made him. 0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:37.800 But again you say it's this is a weird conversation 0:24:37.880 --> 0:24:39.600 because my dad would cuts me out if I say 0:24:39.600 --> 0:24:43.720 this is this is my father. But he made him right, 0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:47.679 So he doesn't. 0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:50.360 Well, he's told me this. He doesn't like the relationship 0:24:50.400 --> 0:24:53.240 that we're super close. Me and my dad is like Dicky. 0:24:53.000 --> 0:24:56.199 Stage this nigga's my favorite human being on earth to me, 0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:58.800 like I love this nigga. He's like, I love you, 0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:03.840 like he's just everything. He don't like the relationship is 0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:05.960 so strong, Like he's like, oh you know he had 0:25:06.000 --> 0:25:06.439 grown up. 0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:07.960 He's like, that's my you know. 0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:12.080 My dad even told him like it's different, like y'all, 0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:14.080 I didn't have no choice with y'all. Like me and him, 0:25:14.080 --> 0:25:16.400 we chose each other, you know. I mean, it's it's 0:25:16.440 --> 0:25:21.080 a different bond. And so he goes and find my biological. 0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:21.520 Who did your brother? 0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:22.200 Yes? 0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:25.359 Wow, as if it would cause where it's between me 0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:27.240 and my dad. 0:25:27.240 --> 0:25:30.560 Like this is your daddy. So what happened? 0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:31.080 Nothing? 0:25:31.680 --> 0:25:34.920 So you so he found the dad, You found your dad. 0:25:35.400 --> 0:25:38.480 It's not yes, and found my biological. 0:25:38.080 --> 0:25:41.320 Okay, so you you found your biological where'd you find him? 0:25:41.320 --> 0:25:43.120 Where I didn't find him? He found me? And where 0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:45.879 he got my number? Ship? I think you live in Vegas? 0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:50.680 So he called you, yes, and what was that? Like nothing? 0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:54.240 He called you and said, so. 0:25:54.640 --> 0:25:57.879 This is a this is a much more complex conversation, right, 0:25:57.920 --> 0:26:05.399 because so my bi logical parents, his family started reaching 0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:06.879 out to me in twenty. 0:26:06.440 --> 0:26:08.760 Eighteen because they knew. They say, you look like this. 0:26:09.400 --> 0:26:12.960 Well it was my name and then some other which 0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:15.560 is crazy, right, because it's a cousin I got, right, 0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:17.960 it's a young male cousin I got. And then he 0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:21.000 plugged me with my elder cousin on that side, like no. 0:26:21.160 --> 0:26:24.000 And before that I thought, you know, motherfucker' be just lying. 0:26:24.000 --> 0:26:25.359 I'm like, man, this motherfucker don't know me. 0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:28.600 And then she start the elder cousin started telling me 0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:30.879 about my mom and so that's how they got in. 0:26:31.000 --> 0:26:32.119 So we talking. 0:26:32.760 --> 0:26:35.320 But I still had never even talked to cousin or 0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:38.680 her from because till my little brother goes and finds 0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:40.480 this nigga and gives me my number and he tells me. 0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:42.679 So when we talk, it was like weird, It's like, oh, 0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:46.040 what's up? And it was during the pandemic, and we 0:26:46.160 --> 0:26:49.480 just started talking and we just talked. Wasn't nothing. I 0:26:49.520 --> 0:26:50.040 really didn't. 0:26:50.560 --> 0:26:52.240 Man, I'm a grown I'm forty years old. Like I'm 0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:53.760 not asking no man about you know. 0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:57.080 I know how Trust me, if I've never when I 0:26:57.119 --> 0:26:59.119 was younger, I might have looked at it crazy, But 0:26:59.240 --> 0:27:01.520 I know how nigg could not be around their kids 0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:02.680 fucking with their old ladies. 0:27:02.720 --> 0:27:04.720 Now my mom, for me, ain't no joke. 0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:07.920 And in their situation, you know, he told my mom 0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:10.800 he wasn't ready for no kid. You know, I don't 0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:12.480 know if my mom told him she was pregnant, but 0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:14.040 he told her that, like I ain't trying to have 0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:16.080 no kids. So my mom was like, okay, I'm gonna 0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:17.959 raise my baby on this. Like I'm not tripping. 0:27:18.480 --> 0:27:18.639 You know. 0:27:18.680 --> 0:27:20.320 My mom was a nurse. She was getting some coin 0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:24.520 and she found a dad. So we just. 0:27:24.520 --> 0:27:26.880 Started talking and ever since we've been talking and it's cool. 0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:30.280 You know what I'm saying. I don't think, I mean, 0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:34.320 nobody could replace my dad. My dad is my favorite person. 0:27:35.000 --> 0:27:38.600 So that's really how it happened. 0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:42.200 Do you see like talking to your dad or getting 0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:46.760 when you're mad, Like do you see similarities between the 0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:47.240 two of you. 0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:50.040 Uh, do you good at math? Like I'm good at math? 0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:51.960 I mean I haven't still met him. 0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:56.120 Still, do you guys plan? 0:27:57.240 --> 0:27:57.800 I think so. 0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:00.680 You look like him. 0:28:01.040 --> 0:28:01.880 I never seen him. 0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:03.480 You haven't even seen a picture. 0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:06.520 Why would I see him? Send me a picture, nigga 0:28:06.920 --> 0:28:07.359 you have. 0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:11.440 I'm not saying it. 0:28:11.560 --> 0:28:13.440 I'm not a man, so I don't know. 0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:15.560 I would never tell a nigga to send me a picture. 0:28:15.560 --> 0:28:17.000 I s I don't. 0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:20.679 He was my great grandfather. You don't see me no pictures, 0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:23.280 no pictures, no niggas in my phone. 0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:25.920 So do you have any other siblings from him? 0:28:26.280 --> 0:28:31.600 Yeah? So his son, right is a dude that be 0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:32.240 on the scene. 0:28:32.760 --> 0:28:34.959 Oh ship related? 0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:38.000 Yeah, so he knew before you even reached out to 0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:38.440 your dad. 0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:42.760 Yeah, we met before we met, before I ever talked 0:28:42.800 --> 0:28:46.920 to him. Wow, do y'all look like he's just shorter 0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:47.240 than me. 0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:51.680 He's shorter, taller, I mean not tall, but stockey like. 0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:58.280 No, he's he's kind of more fit like man, I mean, 0:28:58.320 --> 0:29:00.840 I don't know, like we talking and bill like, but 0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:05.680 it's my dad, Like my dad is my guy. 0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:09.560 So like what your brother? So now that you you 0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:14.800 didn't met your dad, that child, So it didn't change anything. 0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:16.720 What what's your sowhere? 0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:19.360 You keep calling this nigga my dad. This nigga's not 0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:19.800 my dad. 0:29:20.000 --> 0:29:24.040 So you met the sperm dinner donor and then you 0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:28.239 have your dad and your brother linked you with the 0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:29.320 sperm donors. 0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:32.120 So these are two different things. This is way crazy, right, 0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:34.200 So you missed the two brothers. So my brother that's 0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:38.160 my mom's son, is the one that went found because okay, 0:29:38.720 --> 0:29:43.960 his kid, my biological parents kid, right, is the nigga 0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:47.200 who actually I met him on the scene and my 0:29:47.240 --> 0:29:49.960 cousin who would be my cousin plugged me with him. 0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:54.480 He was like a kid I don't really talk to 0:29:54.760 --> 0:29:55.840 because about. 0:29:55.520 --> 0:29:57.680 His family like that, you know what I mean, because 0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:00.120 we're still talking, like you know what I mean. We 0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.560 don't talk a lot, but like it's just weird, like 0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:03.960 but it's hard because. 0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:06.360 Pop is my guy. 0:30:06.560 --> 0:30:07.920 Did he did he remarry? 0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:11.040 Yeah? Yeah, but he had been so he had been 0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:11.719 married forever. 0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:15.280 So so was he married when he when he was 0:30:15.320 --> 0:30:15.960 with your mom? 0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:20.160 No that was long. Yeah, No, you didn't get married. 0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:24.480 To after later? So you right in California though, No, 0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:25.480 he's in Vegas. 0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:29.080 They are in California, the Cousins and everybody. 0:30:28.760 --> 0:30:31.479 Else they like, they like that side of the like 0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:35.040 that my biological parents side of the family like that. 0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:38.120 Them motherfuckers is huge. 0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:40.600 They got they got this thing because they do call 0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:42.560 it the Cousins Night and they be like fifty of 0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:49.680 them like that's yeah, it's it's weird. I mean it's 0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:52.280 it's a really weird dynamic. But I mean to me, 0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:55.440 it's just talking to him, Like I think any man 0:30:55.560 --> 0:30:58.240 that you know, felt like they missed out on the 0:30:58.760 --> 0:31:00.800 on the kids life, they it's it's gonna be a guilt. 0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:03.440 And he didn't kind of pretty much you know, made 0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:05.800 it where he let me know like you know, to 0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:07.560 some degree you feel guilty, and I'm like, it ain't that. 0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:10.760 Like I have my dad, Bro, you don't got nothing 0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:13.400 to feel bad about. You know, I get it personally, 0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:16.200 but like Nigga, I ain't come out bad at all. 0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:18.360 It worked out for me well because of my dad, 0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:19.520 Like good boy is. 0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:22.240 Like, but it'sabled for you guys. Are you open to 0:31:22.360 --> 0:31:26.520 building that relationship? Yeah, we talk, We talked to see him. 0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:29.719 I don't plan it, it's just what that happened. I'm 0:31:29.800 --> 0:31:32.520 just not as important I don't think. I think it's 0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:34.600 just be timing, you know what I'm saying, Like it'll 0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:35.520 work out when it is. 0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:39.320 So you haven't been to Vegas since you guys have connected. 0:31:38.960 --> 0:31:41.360 Sure, but I'm not going like I ain't went out 0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:41.880 there to hang. 0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:44.280 And I don't think it's just proper like I'm going 0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:46.400 to do a music video like hey, what you're doing? 0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:48.960 Come by the video? That ain't really player. 0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:52.240 This man had grown up, right, so it's like, you 0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:56.400 know he ain't not no, no, my dad ain't never came. 0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:58.200 To mind, got uncles? Does he have a siblings? 0:31:58.440 --> 0:32:00.640 He got a lot of siblings. His uncle was little 0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:02.640 Richard like biological uncle. 0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:07.160 Wow, thet it's the music, you know. 0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:11.640 All that's cool. You gotta work for this ship. Ain't 0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:15.640 no gene work to be at this raph this record ship. 0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:18.760 True, But I don't. 0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:20.640 Know just the concept of blended families. It is just 0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:26.680 a lot like I think, like you don't know how 0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:29.440 you gonna feel like you gotta let the relationships develop 0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:31.720 and then you can't really replace. 0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:33.760 Nobody's you know what I mean. And I'm not saying 0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:34.720 you should be trying. 0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:38.840 It's not trying to But then how could it truly 0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:39.959 be a blended family. 0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:41.880 It's me. 0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:45.320 I have a really the relationship between me and my 0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:51.120 stepfather and my stepmother, like those are my parents. You know. 0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:56.840 My my stepmom hasn't been with my dad in years, 0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:59.880 probably like over I think it's like seven eight years. 0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:03.240 But she still is in contact with my children. She 0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:07.280 calls them her grandchildren. They have a relationship like it 0:33:07.920 --> 0:33:12.200 didn't change anything. Same like how long was they together too? 0:33:12.960 --> 0:33:15.640 I mean, yeah, I met when I was So it's. 0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:18.640 Different if you build now you if you raised somebody 0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:23.640 for like my dad, it does matter because my dad 0:33:23.680 --> 0:33:26.320 raised me my whole life. My brother's been my brothers 0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:29.440 my whole life, my family and my family. So it's different, 0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:32.240 like it ain't no like you could bring like my 0:33:32.640 --> 0:33:34.719 little brother could bring anybody. 0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:37.640 Around, but that's where that's where the new family members. 0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:41.160 So that new baby that's born within that blended family. 0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:44.960 Different is your relationship with that baby because you've been. 0:33:45.000 --> 0:33:47.320 But now if you raised but let's say now you 0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:50.400 raised that baby for thirty years, maybe the baby looks 0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:52.720 at you like that, but you but you just you 0:33:52.840 --> 0:33:57.520 have to have that dynamic. But again, it's just it's 0:33:57.520 --> 0:33:58.120 a tough out. 0:33:58.560 --> 0:33:58.960 That's the thing. 0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:03.840 Let me tell y'all something that my mom's ex yeah, 0:34:04.440 --> 0:34:09.239 a lot of children, and like they would always be like, oh, 0:34:09.239 --> 0:34:10.960 you should go hang out with your sister. And I'm like, 0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:15.160 that's not my sister, not like that. It wasn't even 0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:17.680 like she was cool as fuck, but that wasn't my sister. 0:34:17.800 --> 0:34:18.719 So I get what he's saying. 0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:21.040 Older. Yeah, I'm older. 0:34:21.080 --> 0:34:25.720 I'm older already my son already, Like what six weird? 0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:27.879 I just think that sh is weird and creepy when 0:34:27.880 --> 0:34:30.640 people do that, you start fucking my parents are You're like, 0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:31.160 oh you're. 0:34:33.400 --> 0:34:33.640 Yeah. 0:34:33.719 --> 0:34:36.240 It was like they're like you should hang No, like. 0:34:37.920 --> 0:34:38.640 It just got. 0:34:39.640 --> 0:34:43.080 To be there. I mean maybe eventually over time because 0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:46.280 of the relationship just naturally, yeah, over. 0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:48.520 Time, like we like you say, for instance, like you're 0:34:48.560 --> 0:34:50.359 like July or something like that. 0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:52.319 But that's the thing that. 0:34:52.520 --> 0:34:55.920 Little babies, like the baby that's that's different. 0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:57.759 It could work out that way and they don't have 0:34:57.840 --> 0:34:59.920 to work out that way, Like it got to work out, 0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:03.839 gotta work itself out. I do think women push too 0:35:03.840 --> 0:35:06.080 hard to try to make it work out, but I 0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:08.319 think it just gotta work out that way, Like the 0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:11.200 relationship gotta be there and it just gotta work that way. 0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:14.640 And see, it's opposite for me because I mean the relationship. 0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:19.160 I mean, if you're if if my husband is having 0:35:19.920 --> 0:35:23.560 i mean their children is having a child. This is 0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:30.040 he's excited about his grandchild, you know. So I'm meeting 0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:36.120 this baby fresh like no, like this he's just knowing 0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:38.839 me from the jump, Like I think that I can 0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:40.800 build that bond with that child. 0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:46.160 How do they introduce you? You know, does does Let's 0:35:46.160 --> 0:35:51.240 say if let's say if it's let's say it's your husband, 0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:54.600 you married and your husband has a grand baby, okay, 0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:57.280 and he don't introduce this like, oh, this is your grandmother, 0:35:57.560 --> 0:36:02.120 right Okay, whatever you thought is not that's my man. 0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:06.759 This is my girl right here, I'm your grandfather, but 0:36:06.800 --> 0:36:08.920 this is my girl. So I. 0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:12.680 It's framed and then everybody would have to keep the 0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:15.000 same thing. But really it's just a mind you build with. 0:36:14.920 --> 0:36:17.520 The g I think it's the relationship that you build 0:36:17.560 --> 0:36:20.280 with the kid, and of course the kid's parents. 0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:24.360 It depends on how the parents frame the kid to you. 0:36:24.920 --> 0:36:27.680 So because if they have a relationship, let's say they 0:36:27.680 --> 0:36:29.040 have a relationship with their. 0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:34.040 Own father and the father is there. I don't know, 0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:34.879 why do you? 0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:38.560 Okay, so I'll say okay, so I'll say this. So 0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:43.520 my ex husband, I have step children, one of my 0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:48.440 step daughters or you know, she's pregnant and they just 0:36:48.480 --> 0:36:52.240 did the Ginger Reveal. She included me in the Ginger reveal. 0:36:52.920 --> 0:36:55.440 I'm excited that the baby is coming. Me and her 0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:58.279 still have a relationship. And I'm like as a kid, 0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:01.400 right and because what she was like twelve when she 0:37:01.480 --> 0:37:03.960 came into my life, you know, but she's getting ready 0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:06.239 to have a baby, and I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:37:06.280 --> 0:37:09.680 like we're about to have a baby, like you know, 0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:12.960 it's not even though I'm not with her dad, you know. 0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:18.560 I mean, I wouldn't feel I wouldn't feel a certain 0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:22.160 type of way because she isn't my daughter. 0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:26.680 But see it's the point. 0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:29.160 I wouldn't feel a. 0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:32.080 Certain but I think you would feel some type of way. 0:37:31.960 --> 0:37:36.120 For her, because if you about baby, I. 0:37:36.040 --> 0:37:38.920 Would feel some type of way if because that's my 0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:41.520 baby and I'm not and you. 0:37:41.480 --> 0:37:47.319 Know, he has multiple kids, so with her, You're right, 0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:49.520 I probably would feel a certain type of way. He 0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:53.040 has another daughter who has a child, who had a child. 0:37:55.760 --> 0:37:58.640 I think the baby's like two, and she didn't include 0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:02.000 me at all, and I I didn't feel a certain 0:38:02.000 --> 0:38:03.560 type of way. But me and her don't have that 0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:08.600 type of relationship as with the oldest with her, so 0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:09.919 I guess yeah. 0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:13.759 And she even she's even told me like I don't care, 0:38:13.880 --> 0:38:15.920 like that's my brother and that's not talking about you know, 0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:17.320 like that's my brother and my sister. 0:38:17.440 --> 0:38:22.320 So like my son, which is not her biological brother. 0:38:22.440 --> 0:38:26.120 He's like, She's like, that's my brother, you know. They 0:38:26.200 --> 0:38:29.439 so they all have their own relationship. So, but I've 0:38:29.480 --> 0:38:32.000 been in her life. I've been. 0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:34.240 So when you was married to him, you already had rolling. 0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:38.040 I already had Roland and Tyler, and then my husband, 0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:43.080 my husband had two kids already. 0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:44.399 Yeah, she had a. 0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:47.319 Real life blended Yeah they had she he had two 0:38:47.440 --> 0:38:48.680 kids already. 0:38:48.680 --> 0:38:51.239 And that when they be like, they know you be 0:38:51.280 --> 0:38:53.440 doing specially for Tyler and Roland. 0:38:53.239 --> 0:38:53.560 I don't. 0:38:54.000 --> 0:38:56.839 Well, I wouldn't do stuff them. 0:38:57.560 --> 0:39:00.880 I wouldn't. I wouldn't do stuff special for them. I 0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:01.879 really wouldn't. 0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:03.200 So y'all just lying. 0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:04.680 I'm dead serious. 0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:06.400 I hate when parents. 0:39:06.120 --> 0:39:08.200 Act like they I am dead serious. 0:39:08.320 --> 0:39:10.440 Parents act like they don't got a favorite I never. 0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:13.960 Had, I never had to worry about any type of favorite, 0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:21.240 like she's they're like what at least ten year twelve 0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:21.880 years apart. 0:39:21.920 --> 0:39:23.719 Like I was, ask them, who do you think is 0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:26.360 my favorite? I bet you they both have an actual idea? 0:39:27.560 --> 0:39:28.799 Who is my favorite? 0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:29.680 I bet you they both have. 0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:30.840 My two kids. 0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:32.320 Yes, I bet you if you ask. 0:39:34.760 --> 0:39:36.600 My son and my daughter because. 0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:40.440 Parents automatically, because parents automatically feel. 0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:45.479 Like and I bet you, I bet. 0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:48.560 If you ask them who is your favorite? They have 0:39:48.600 --> 0:39:49.080 an answer. 0:39:51.160 --> 0:39:54.720 My sorry, my son would probably my son would probably 0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:59.000 say my daughter, and my daughter would probably say my son. 0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:01.480 No, no, it's not they're gonna both have the same idea. 0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:03.920 I don't think so. 0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:06.879 I think they both they both gonna have one idea. 0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:11.360 They both don't think they're gonna think it's I'm telling you, no, 0:40:11.880 --> 0:40:12.640 I don't think so. 0:40:13.200 --> 0:40:15.960 Wait no, I don't think so. Well. 0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:19.440 And it's different boys, because they're very different. They're they're 0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:25.040 two different. Everybody's different, of course, I'm doing parents, but 0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:29.440 they are very they are just very different. Like Tyler 0:40:29.719 --> 0:40:36.040 is her own person, of course, but she's just different 0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:38.880 from my son and maybe that son and daughter. Now 0:40:38.920 --> 0:40:42.120 I don't know, I have my daughter, newest baby, Nala, 0:40:42.440 --> 0:40:46.839 and she's she is different from Tyler. But I don't know. 0:40:47.760 --> 0:40:50.640 I love them just different. 0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:51.520 I appreciate you. 0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:57.520 I love them all the same, but differently. I really don't. 0:40:58.640 --> 0:41:01.680 I really won't pay ever, tell the truth. I can't 0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:03.560 stand you. I like your sister more. 0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:07.720 No, that's there are times when I can't stand either 0:41:07.840 --> 0:41:12.000 one of them. No, girl, have you ever. 0:41:12.000 --> 0:41:12.839 Just not liked? 0:41:13.120 --> 0:41:15.520 Sure? But if you have a favorite. 0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:16.000 No, I don't. 0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:17.839 I just have one. 0:41:18.880 --> 0:41:19.400 I really do. 0:41:19.560 --> 0:41:23.359 So you know, we just we rock, We just rock. 0:41:23.480 --> 0:41:25.239 But you know what he used to always say he 0:41:25.239 --> 0:41:28.440 didn't want a brother or sister either. Up all the time, 0:41:28.440 --> 0:41:30.040 I be like, you want a brother or sister? Be 0:41:30.080 --> 0:41:34.120 like no, Nope. At a time, be like, oh you 0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:34.520 don't want me. 0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:35.279 No. 0:41:36.080 --> 0:41:37.759 I remember when I said you want me to have 0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:39.640 a baby, so you have a little sister brother. He 0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:42.120 was like, why would you do that? I was like 0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:45.319 what It was like, No, mom, you're tripping and room. 0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:47.240 Why would he want to share you? 0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:47.920 Yeah? 0:41:48.280 --> 0:41:50.920 My mom? My little brother was my mom favorite all time. 0:41:51.080 --> 0:41:53.799 I talked to but I talked to my daughter every day. 0:41:55.040 --> 0:41:59.919 My son, I feel he's a boy. I think that's 0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:05.200 just how guys are. He calls me on his off days. 0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.680 So I talked to my son like once a week. 0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:10.640 I talked to my daughter every day. And if I 0:42:10.719 --> 0:42:14.359 don't talk to her, she's calling me or I'm calling. 0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:17.640 Her, like K style. K style was my mom's favorite, 0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:19.839 like that was her favorite. And she argued me down 0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:22.279 there that niggas not my favorite, blah blah blah. 0:42:22.400 --> 0:42:24.680 She was telling me how she gave me the whole 0:42:24.719 --> 0:42:27.520 spilled rest or, so she probably like fucking shit, but 0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:30.279 she was like, you know, y'all needed me different, and 0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:33.319 she told she always tell me this story, like she 0:42:33.360 --> 0:42:36.680 always tell me this story, like where I remember the story. 0:42:36.719 --> 0:42:38.839 I was like nine, and at that time, you would 0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:40.760 order books out of the Bernstein beers. 0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:46.160 So you had a little stupid newspaper and you strike it. 0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:48.239 And she came to my room and she found a 0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:51.120 newspaper and it was like six books checked off, remember 0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:52.959 them books was like three dollars. 0:42:52.680 --> 0:42:56.120 Or four dollars the books. 0:42:56.360 --> 0:42:58.400 And she was like, I'm not buying these books for you. 0:42:58.520 --> 0:43:01.280 The hell you check it off books for it wasn't 0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:01.560 like that. 0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:04.120 She just was like, you just spending my money and 0:43:04.160 --> 0:43:06.520 I'm like, no, I got this money, I went and 0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:10.040 cut lines with my homeboy, Kobe's dad, you know, shout 0:43:10.040 --> 0:43:11.839 out to call you Kobe b on Facebook At the time. 0:43:12.280 --> 0:43:14.680 One of my child protnanty like y'all was cutting lines 0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:17.280 with Kobe's dad. So I had like forty seven dollars. 0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:19.239 She like, I was gonna buy myself and she was 0:43:19.280 --> 0:43:21.799 like she just shook her head and walked off, And 0:43:21.880 --> 0:43:23.680 she brought that story up when I told her she 0:43:23.719 --> 0:43:25.480 was his favorite. She was like, Nigga, you ain't never 0:43:25.560 --> 0:43:28.200 needed me. Nigga, you go to jail. Don't nobody even 0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:30.040 know you in jail. You just pop back up and 0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:31.400 everybody's like, oh, he was in jail. 0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:35.160 She said. Kate Vincent go to jail. K still go 0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:37.239 to jail. She said, when every time you go to jail, 0:43:37.239 --> 0:43:38.719 you gonna call her the first day. 0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:42.319 So how old were you when your mom passed? 0:43:42.560 --> 0:43:46.279 That was probably like thirteen years ago, thirteen was in 0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:47.960 jail thirteen years ago. 0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:51.240 Thirteen years ago, thirty thirty. 0:43:51.520 --> 0:43:54.080 First time my mom went to jail, I was twelve, okay, 0:43:56.239 --> 0:43:58.040 but she was saying that. She was like, your kids 0:43:58.040 --> 0:44:00.480 need you differently like they do. 0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:04.000 My daughter, my son needs me differently than my daughter 0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:11.000 needs me totally. It's different. So yeah, there's I love 0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:14.759 them the same, you don't, but I love them. I mean, 0:44:14.840 --> 0:44:19.279 I love them. My heart is equal to both of them. 0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:21.600 But of course I love them differently. I have to 0:44:21.640 --> 0:44:22.719 handle them differently. 0:44:22.920 --> 0:44:24.839 So then that means you don't love them the same. 0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:26.960 I don't love them the same. I guess I don't 0:44:27.000 --> 0:44:29.480 love them the same, but I love them the same amount. 0:44:29.520 --> 0:44:30.440 I love them both. 0:44:30.600 --> 0:44:34.319 I love them both the same amount. I love you 0:44:34.960 --> 0:44:36.920 just as much as I love you, and I. 0:44:36.800 --> 0:44:40.160 Love you your parents love you the same as all 0:44:40.160 --> 0:44:40.640 your people. 0:44:40.800 --> 0:44:46.319 Yes, my mama loved me favorite. I think that's how 0:44:46.360 --> 0:44:47.360 I like. 0:44:47.800 --> 0:44:53.359 My mom always says that I'm I'm not she knows, no, 0:44:53.520 --> 0:44:56.840 she knows. She says she doesn't worry about me as much, 0:44:57.000 --> 0:45:01.640 but she knows that I'm the more like sensitive one, 0:45:02.120 --> 0:45:05.000 which is weird because we're looking at my brothers, like really, 0:45:05.040 --> 0:45:08.440 but she says I'm more like the sweeter, like sensitive 0:45:08.480 --> 0:45:10.680 one or whatever, and I'm like, what really? 0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:12.799 Like Okay, but. 0:45:12.880 --> 0:45:17.560 Nah, I don't my mom like our my my brother 0:45:17.760 --> 0:45:19.480 we all have different relationship with our mom. Like my 0:45:19.520 --> 0:45:21.480 sister talks to my mom every day. I talk to 0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:24.160 my mom. We checking at least like three or four 0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:27.440 times a week. I'm not really sure how many times 0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:29.520 my mom talks to my brother. My brother has like 0:45:29.520 --> 0:45:34.319 a whole wife in San Diego, you know, but she 0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:36.560 do say like she did, be like, y'all come see me. 0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:37.000 He don't. 0:45:37.360 --> 0:45:39.759 But my brother has been making his way and you 0:45:39.800 --> 0:45:40.960 know everything like that bro. 0:45:41.520 --> 0:45:44.760 He lives in the same he lives thirty minutes away. 0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:48.960 Tyler is away at school across the country. You know. 0:45:49.120 --> 0:45:52.440 I see her every day on FaceTime. My son I 0:45:52.480 --> 0:45:54.439 talked to talk to him once a week. 0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:57.200 My son lives in the same house with me. He 0:45:57.239 --> 0:45:59.560 only comes outside to eat out. 0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:04.600 You see him. You know, I don't really see like 0:46:04.640 --> 0:46:05.040 I said. 0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:08.879 That could be in the room, like what dinner done? 0:46:09.000 --> 0:46:10.719 Are you smelling me here? I'll be cooking there. He'd 0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:12.239 be like, ooh, what's that Mom? What you cook and 0:46:12.320 --> 0:46:16.719 smell good? I really need you in the room all day. 0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:19.840 You come on sight picking what you cooking? 0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:24.439 Good? 0:46:24.480 --> 0:46:27.440 Looking out for tuning into the Note Sellers podcast, Please 0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:30.520 do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. This 0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:32.840 episode was recorded right here on the West coast of 0:46:32.880 --> 0:46:36.279 the USA. Produced by my homeboys, a King for the 0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:39.120 Black Effect podcast network and now hard Radio. 0:46:39.600 --> 0:46:45.839 Yeah.