Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 2: And welcome back to another episode of No Sealer's podcast
Speaker 2: with your host, Now fuck that with your load glasses, Malone,
Speaker 2: Why y'all today?
Speaker 3: Like I know, I haven't seen you on like a
Speaker 3: couple of weeks because you've been like.
Speaker 1: I haven't been broached, I haven't been globe trotting.
Speaker 3: I haven be'ten gloved trotting. But before that, we were
Speaker 3: waiting for mister G who has been on a tour
Speaker 3: and traveling. That's not my leg, my leg, my leg
Speaker 3: of commission.
Speaker 1: It's been making it funny.
Speaker 2: So even with me doing shows, it's weird because like
Speaker 2: I even when my leg hurt, I can't do something
Speaker 2: the next day, Like it's taking as crazy is everybody's
Speaker 2: convincing me that I'm healing fashion and normal, but I
Speaker 2: feel like it's taken forever.
Speaker 3: Are you you bending? Actually like more than a yeah yeah,
Speaker 3: But it's messed up.
Speaker 2: It's messed up because like if I'm on the plane
Speaker 2: and I'm been in at ninety degrees and I hold
Speaker 2: it too long, like it starts swelling and I can feel.
Speaker 3: It ship, especially because the elevation.
Speaker 1: Maybe that makes sense. I never thought about it like that.
Speaker 2: But ship, I could be in the back of an
Speaker 2: uber if the car too small. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: Like that's I can feel it. I gotta get in
Speaker 2: the front. So it's embarrassing the riding in the front
Speaker 2: seat of an uber.
Speaker 3: You're still doing therapy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but this week I only went once. Why
Speaker 1: doing ship?
Speaker 4: You got to stay up on that. Yeah, No, I
Speaker 4: know you don't.
Speaker 3: Jiminy cript. You want to be like the last script.
Speaker 1: Why it's read on the day.
Speaker 5: Well, let's just say he had like two shots.
Speaker 1: Two shots, y'all drinking.
Speaker 4: Two shots patron that nigga clear.
Speaker 5: And we don't even just we don't even drink patron
Speaker 5: no more so.
Speaker 2: So tell me why y'all thought I was done with y'all.
Speaker 2: You said I was done with y'all.
Speaker 5: No, I said, asia thought thought was why did Red
Speaker 5: think I would be done with y'all?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 3: Well, for one, I mean, damn, it's like ever so,
Speaker 3: and you know you just kind of wasn't really like
Speaker 3: responding like.
Speaker 2: You, I wasn't talking to me. Who was we talking
Speaker 2: to y'all wasn't saying nothing.
Speaker 4: See, we wasn't saying that he wanted to hear.
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying y'all would say good morning, and I'd
Speaker 1: be like, good morning.
Speaker 4: No, Asia asked you stuff in there?
Speaker 2: I think I have no so I can't lie, like
Speaker 2: sometimes I really just don't know, Like if you don't sometimes.
Speaker 3: Why are you like the why why is it that?
Speaker 3: Like you really like just don't get things like why
Speaker 3: is it like you are the most direct person to
Speaker 3: where it's like I have to say like this.
Speaker 2: Like this because I am a direct person. Why other
Speaker 2: than that, you jump to conclusions all the time. You
Speaker 2: always jump to conclusions. One thing I've been trying to
Speaker 2: master as an adult is not jumping to conclusions.
Speaker 3: You are an adult now, right, So you.
Speaker 1: Work your ass off to like let people tell you.
Speaker 2: And if you know me, like y'all know me for years,
Speaker 2: you know me, you know me, like you can tell
Speaker 2: me what you want. You can say, glasses, I want
Speaker 2: a million dollars. You can tell me that and we
Speaker 2: can have a conversation. So I expect people who know
Speaker 2: me to tell me.
Speaker 3: Okay, I get that, but gee, like there's things that
Speaker 3: you know you're like I know they're saying this, but
Speaker 3: because they haven't said it, I don't hear it.
Speaker 1: No, that's not.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's not.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I have made up my mind. Me and here
Speaker 2: talked about this years ago. I was not in the
Speaker 2: business of hearing people. I listen to people to hear
Speaker 2: somebody clinically. My Nigga Lo Diggs always taught me this.
Speaker 2: But to hear somebody clinically is to acknowledge sound, right,
Speaker 2: And that's why when somebody's not listening to you and
Speaker 2: they're hearing you, it's like you'll say something that, well,
Speaker 2: it sounds like you said because they're acknowledging the sound
Speaker 2: of what you're saying. To listen is to listen and end.
Speaker 2: So I listen more than I hear. That's really the truth.
Speaker 2: Like it works better that way, And you're right, sometimes
Speaker 2: you miss out on some great things of life. That's
Speaker 2: not so, I agree, But.
Speaker 1: Because you want to hear well, because I'm here, because
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear.
Speaker 4: Okay, No, he just don't want to search shit. He
Speaker 4: just like whatever.
Speaker 2: There's nothing in life that I don't want to come back.
Speaker 2: I love to combat everything in life. I love to
Speaker 2: walk into everything in life, eyes open, true. If you
Speaker 2: tell me, if you tell me what the fuck is
Speaker 2: going straight up, eyes open, should me, I'm fucking with it.
Speaker 1: But they can have that conversation.
Speaker 3: But you're not reading between the lines at all, not
Speaker 3: at all.
Speaker 5: No, not okay, I get you, not today or straight
Speaker 5: direct line tomorrow. Some people say like, oh, you don't
Speaker 5: want to hear that. No, I really do want to
Speaker 5: hear that. Like I love it when a person is
Speaker 5: direct and tell me because I don't like to assume.
Speaker 3: You're But my thing is like you're you're paying attention
Speaker 3: to me, and that's enough to understand what it is
Speaker 3: I'm saying, like you care enough to like figure it out,
Speaker 3: and you just.
Speaker 1: It's not a mystery, like we're humans, right, it's a baby.
Speaker 3: You have to figure it's a mystery if you're saying, oh,
Speaker 3: I didn't know, mystery.
Speaker 2: Because at that point, somebody's not saying something. They're just
Speaker 2: making They want me to feel something they're giving off.
Speaker 2: But then feelings and emotions are confusing because everything goes
Speaker 2: in your mind right when you feel first off, no
Speaker 2: Siller's jail red bread Toms on this Friday, King. But
Speaker 2: if I'm listening to you, you can tell me. But
Speaker 2: if I'm acknowledging the sound if I'm trying to understand
Speaker 2: what you're saying, I'm trying to feel it. It's like
Speaker 2: you got to think the same information that come out
Speaker 2: your mouth. Your mouth other people is giving me information,
Speaker 2: So no matter what the fuck we ever talking about,
Speaker 2: I'm taking in all information. So it could be a
Speaker 2: ton of confusion. It's easy if you don't, and why
Speaker 2: should you not. If somebody you really fuck with, tell
Speaker 2: them what the fuck you want, let them say no.
Speaker 3: Right, people don't. That's the whole thing. Like people don't
Speaker 3: like to hear no, or the possibility.
Speaker 4: That's the right you still don't. I don't like it.
Speaker 4: I don't care. I'm gonna be real. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: Ship I like it.
Speaker 2: I don't think I like it either, but I think
Speaker 2: it's better to get a note. And it's people right
Speaker 2: now to this day that will not give.
Speaker 1: Me a note.
Speaker 3: What they say, I don't know.
Speaker 2: They'll be like, well, you know later on, be like, bro, no,
Speaker 2: I'm not saying no, but.
Speaker 5: Gee, sometimes you may not want to say now. You
Speaker 5: may want to try to figure something out because it's
Speaker 5: somebody that you fuck with. Like if I fuck with
Speaker 5: you like you you hit me and you say, hey,
Speaker 5: I need you to do something, I'm gonna be like, okay,
Speaker 5: well what you need? If you tell me, I'm be
Speaker 5: like okay, well, ship, I might have to do this. Well,
Speaker 5: let me try to figure it out. But that's because
Speaker 5: I fuck with you. Now, if you, as a person
Speaker 5: I wasn't fucking with, I'd probably be like.
Speaker 2: Me, figure it out. No, no, no, lot me figure
Speaker 2: it out. Don't tell me about the calculator. Time, figure
Speaker 2: it out.
Speaker 4: You're right about that.
Speaker 1: Don't tell me I need to figure it out.
Speaker 3: It like if we're gonna do it.
Speaker 2: If my family says, glasses, I need to borrow money,
Speaker 2: it's gonna be no or yes. If it's gonna be yes.
Speaker 2: It's like if I go do it tomorrow, yes, I
Speaker 2: will do it tomorrow. It's not well, let me think
Speaker 2: about it, let me consider it. I'm not you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, And I'm not mad at nobody else
Speaker 2: that forces you to read between the lines. I'm just
Speaker 2: not great at it. I've been entirely too long in
Speaker 2: my life to try. I'll be thinking shit has happened
Speaker 2: in a nigga made me feel like something gonna happen,
Speaker 2: and then shit don't happen.
Speaker 1: I'll be looking dumb.
Speaker 3: I don't that I know. I know we just experienced that.
Speaker 3: You just did. Crush grew yes.
Speaker 2: A prime example exactly so the realcty. I'm glad we
Speaker 2: talked about that because crush Groove is something so most
Speaker 2: people don't know this. Shout out to my nigga Ad.
Speaker 2: I came up with the idea for crush Groove.
Speaker 4: And.
Speaker 2: These are my ideas that I gave to my partner Ad.
Speaker 2: AD used to be the PDA K I'm sitting at
Speaker 2: AD's office and I'm like, you know, at that time,
Speaker 2: KD was trying to put together like one of those
Speaker 2: summer jams, so he was trying to book the newest artist,
Speaker 2: but k was only playing classic music.
Speaker 1: And I was like, man, you don't really got to
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 2: You know, he was going a new artist and these
Speaker 2: new artists who couldn't sell a thousand hard tickets. It's
Speaker 2: off time about fifty thousand dollars, and I'm like, man,
Speaker 2: you don't really need to fuck with them. You should
Speaker 2: just go get all the legends. He was like, man,
Speaker 2: I don't think people want to come out and see
Speaker 2: all these legends. I'm like, yes, they will. He said,
Speaker 2: why do you think that. I said, because the Legend's
Speaker 2: gonna take you back to a time about your life
Speaker 2: that you were, that you remember, that you enjoyed.
Speaker 1: It's like a time machine.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 2: And we talked about it a little longer and I
Speaker 2: convinced him and he did the first one and it
Speaker 2: was like a sellout. It was huge writing it was
Speaker 2: big and he was like, damn, you was right, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know.
Speaker 1: It was other ideas we talked about.
Speaker 2: I had the idea called clicks, where it was like
Speaker 2: I wanted to do a concert. I was telling him,
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not a promoter. This is my boy.
Speaker 2: I don't need no much disce for him. I'm like,
Speaker 2: we should do like reviews. Motown used to do this
Speaker 2: thing called the Motown Review where they take all their
Speaker 2: acts on the road. I'm like, yo, we should do
Speaker 2: this thing called clicks and it's cash money and no limits.
Speaker 1: Okay, that was another idea. So it was one of them.
Speaker 2: But long story short, it was great when it first started.
Speaker 2: When I would do it, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: because AD ran to itself in kd Ad sold the
Speaker 2: show to.
Speaker 1: Live Nation.
Speaker 2: Now I don't know if he wants people to notice,
Speaker 2: but I think it's on the fucking tickets. So people
Speaker 2: know sold the concert to Live Nation, and now it's
Speaker 2: getting different. So normally I would put a press list together,
Speaker 2: it'd be no problem. Now the stay of the forum
Speaker 2: is making different rules. They're like, okay, well we're not
Speaker 2: letting people do podcasts here, and then if it's media passes,
Speaker 2: like well, it just became ridiculously hard. So I'm pushing Mighty, like, hey, Mighty,
Speaker 2: you know this is the person who's organizing the media.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, shit that happens easy. Was hard
Speaker 1: even before that.
Speaker 2: Like one of the hardest problems for those concerts is,
Speaker 2: you know, everybody from the West would bring one hundred people,
Speaker 2: so you know, the backstage passes became a problem. But
Speaker 2: you know, I've realized the best thing to do is
Speaker 2: get tickets. And AD would be like, hey, gee, just
Speaker 2: tell whoever you want to come fuck the backstage, telling
Speaker 2: them I just give them tickets. Right, So normally, if
Speaker 2: I had brought twenty people, you know, the fucking form
Speaker 2: holds nineteen eighteen thousand people. Fucking twenty tickets ain't shit.
Speaker 2: So I put together a list of twenty people. This
Speaker 2: time it was only.
Speaker 1: Tickets for eight or twelve shit, So I.
Speaker 2: Had to spend six hundred dollars in tickets to make
Speaker 2: sure the people I told to come to get in.
Speaker 2: So not only did I not get y'all in, I
Speaker 2: didn't get in Cheese who actually you know, Roll managed
Speaker 2: the La Giants. Then I spent a bunch of money
Speaker 2: for other people to get in, right, Like people who
Speaker 2: I got tickets for, they struggled, they had to buy tickets.
Speaker 1: It was like it was a night.
Speaker 3: Man, it was crazy, but you got out there, did
Speaker 3: you know?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it served it, but it was just it was
Speaker 2: I don't like that, you know what I mean? That
Speaker 2: makes me feel really differ feed it. So it fucked
Speaker 2: my night up. Like I'm that kind of person if
Speaker 2: I tell you to do something that don't come through.
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, we didn't even talk to you until like
Speaker 3: it was like the day after you were just like yeah,
Speaker 3: I could tell like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the next day my leg was hurting. I was
Speaker 1: super defeated.
Speaker 2: I didn't even do nothing then, Like I'm like, damn,
Speaker 2: you know, you get paid for the show, but you
Speaker 2: spend ten percent in fucking tickets.
Speaker 1: It's crazy.
Speaker 2: Then you know, my people that I brought to come
Speaker 2: didn't get in. It just it made me not as
Speaker 2: you know, And I couldn't blame a d I understand
Speaker 2: Live Nation is everybody's doing anything. The Forum got their
Speaker 2: own thing going on Live Nation. Everybody trying. So I
Speaker 2: just kind of let it go. But you know, I
Speaker 2: got it done and it was dope. You know, I
Speaker 2: thought the La Johns did a good job. They wasn't
Speaker 2: all worriy like they normally be. Like the hardest part
Speaker 2: when you see artists rapping and they don't realize you're
Speaker 2: rapping to the audience, and like I usually get them
Speaker 2: to like I forced them, like, hey, look at somebody.
Speaker 1: You're talking to somebody.
Speaker 4: I like to focus on someone when I'm talking, like, hey, how.
Speaker 1: You doing when I'm rapping, Like I'll be rapping to
Speaker 1: a girl in the front row and.
Speaker 3: She'll just be blushing, right.
Speaker 2: Feel me like a girl be blushing in the front row,
Speaker 2: like blushing right I'm singing.
Speaker 4: And so that's what y'all do. So y'all really do.
Speaker 5: Look, I always wonder that like artists, you know, you
Speaker 5: see them on stage and they you know, I don't.
Speaker 1: Think a lot of artists do it. I do it.
Speaker 2: You do it, like I make sure the whole show
Speaker 2: is a conversation. If I'm talking crazy.
Speaker 3: So what about it if it's somebody that you know
Speaker 3: in the audience, Like, if there's someone you know in
Speaker 3: the audience, would you go more so to them? Or
Speaker 3: is it just kind of like whoever catches your eye
Speaker 3: at that time?
Speaker 1: It's really who catches my eye.
Speaker 2: I mean, if somebody I know, I give them something,
Speaker 2: But I ain't gonna give them as much I'm gonna
Speaker 2: give a stranger because you're trying to whoop a stranger.
Speaker 2: I mean, you want a stranger to get on Instagram
Speaker 2: and follow you listen to the song? Like so if
Speaker 2: I'm doing like girl songs, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about fucking and eating. Like I'm talking to
Speaker 2: a woman whatever you like?
Speaker 3: She like, ain't talking to me, y'all see him? He
Speaker 3: was talking to me, yes, looking.
Speaker 5: He was really talking to somebody something like that.
Speaker 3: What you do?
Speaker 4: But what did you do?
Speaker 3: What did you do?
Speaker 4: It?
Speaker 1: Stage?
Speaker 4: They still on stage?
Speaker 1: Okay, I ain't taking nobody draw like I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not serious.
Speaker 2: But when I'm up on stage rapping. I'm serious right
Speaker 2: then and there. I'm really tell you what I would
Speaker 2: do to you once to cut off.
Speaker 3: It's like entertainment. It's entertainment, bitch, what you're doing?
Speaker 5: Like women that do that, they be outside and they
Speaker 5: just be like, oh, I'm gonna take my pennies off,
Speaker 5: girl because I want.
Speaker 3: To throw it.
Speaker 4: In their perse and be like, okay, let me fling it.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: I done had girls, I mean probably double you know
Speaker 2: we started talking about me, not like jay Z or nothing,
Speaker 2: but I'm talking about probably twenty thirty girls getting my
Speaker 2: DM after a show and be like what's up?
Speaker 3: Like it's crazy okay.
Speaker 1: And me like he was talking to me and I
Speaker 1: just saw you looking at me.
Speaker 4: Let me see, I've never tried, like I'm lying.
Speaker 1: I did.
Speaker 4: I did make a guy down once, just one.
Speaker 5: Time, one time, and I was like oh because he
Speaker 5: was so fine and he had some nice arms and
Speaker 5: ship and I was like, damn, like I cannot.
Speaker 4: You have to say nothing, girl, I did. I walked
Speaker 4: over to him.
Speaker 3: Did he say was he rapping? Was no?
Speaker 4: He was the artist?
Speaker 5: He was gone saying like I've never He's saying that
Speaker 5: people have got into the dms.
Speaker 4: Like me personally, I never really tried to get out
Speaker 4: of guy.
Speaker 5: But one time like where I really was like damn,
Speaker 5: like I like you like I can where you've been
Speaker 5: off that ship happened.
Speaker 1: To me a lot of times.
Speaker 2: And girls you be talking to her and she like,
Speaker 2: oh this nigger for sure. Oh yeah, and then like
Speaker 2: I'm not feel to really go through with it. It's
Speaker 2: like no matter what the circumstance is mean, but.
Speaker 3: They don't know. But they don't know, and that's and
Speaker 3: that's it. And that's because they don't understand that it's entertainment.
Speaker 1: Something you listen.
Speaker 2: It had been some girls where you be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: she's definitely. I was surprised a couple of them did it.
Speaker 2: They was like holy ship, Like oh she wanted to
Speaker 2: give me some pussy. You know, you rapping it, But.
Speaker 3: You did it.
Speaker 1: You did it the only time I was gonna do it.
Speaker 3: You never did it.
Speaker 2: Never, not not from the rapt. I didn't bust a
Speaker 2: broad concert before, but like not if she got in
Speaker 2: my d M.
Speaker 3: After got because you know it from the concert.
Speaker 1: Like I didn't been somewhere backstage and met a girl.
Speaker 4: You you.
Speaker 2: Okay, like a girl I'll be rapping to, like I
Speaker 2: might be rapping to a girl like I didn't facing
Speaker 2: and the down Yeah, I see it, like I didn't
Speaker 2: did some ship like like you know Eddie Kane Jr.
Speaker 1: Where a girl being with a dude, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? And I'm going and she just like looking
Speaker 1: like yeah, what that doing?
Speaker 6: She starting she forgot the shot some girls with that ship,
Speaker 6: especially that good especially that good you feel me and
Speaker 6: like girl and jumping the d ms and.
Speaker 1: Had to do there who was on boys? She was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's my home boy.
Speaker 3: How you said.
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 4: Good?
Speaker 1: Y'all funny, that's a keeler got y'all. I'm gonna we're
Speaker 1: gonna keep the killing in next time.
Speaker 5: Keep that patron in here that we ain't gonna because
Speaker 5: I'm telling y'all some real life stories and then we do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, I like what you say. We like you
Speaker 4: about the party.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So that f is telling me, so you
Speaker 2: so you were telling me that tell me about blended family.
Speaker 3: This is what you start that off. No, No, I
Speaker 3: mean blend blended families is like, so you came into
Speaker 3: a blended family and they're they're adults like they're they're grown,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So it's hard because of
Speaker 3: course you love your husband, your man who you're with.
Speaker 3: You want your children and them to have a relation,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, to have a relationship. But
Speaker 3: sometimes that's not always the case. And so you know,
Speaker 3: like I said, so if they're having children or they're
Speaker 3: extending their family, you would think that, Okay, this is
Speaker 3: my family too, like we're one. And so it's not
Speaker 3: always the case to where you feel like, okay, this.
Speaker 2: Is you think is that a woman thing? Because I
Speaker 2: don't think it's a man thing.
Speaker 3: Is it not? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't think those.
Speaker 2: Be like they meet a girl and you know he
Speaker 2: finna be grandfather, be a grandmother too.
Speaker 3: You know what, You're right about it.
Speaker 5: Okay, so my dude, he has already one grandchild and
Speaker 5: he has one on the way, and I don't have
Speaker 5: no grandkidsrandmother, so I'm like, I got a.
Speaker 4: Grand baby coming.
Speaker 5: But you're right, I thought about it, like fuck if
Speaker 5: we was to break up and ship.
Speaker 4: Like I mean, but honestly.
Speaker 1: I would.
Speaker 5: With with her with the person, right, But like you said,
Speaker 5: but it wouldn't that still wouldn't be my grandbaby.
Speaker 3: But like he said, maybe that's like a guy thing
Speaker 3: because apparently why.
Speaker 2: I think, I think women naturally want you to feel
Speaker 2: because I mean, let's be honest, men have family, women
Speaker 2: have children, so the kids be you alls now, don't
Speaker 2: could be wrong. Some men are super dadsby I Trie
Speaker 2: a real super dad. I mean, like he don't care
Speaker 2: what his ex wife is doing. He is coming to
Speaker 2: get his baby. This motherfucker drive to San Diego every
Speaker 2: other week.
Speaker 6: That's that's far.
Speaker 1: That's far. That's that's every week and.
Speaker 2: Every other every so he's driving there every other week.
Speaker 2: Then he's taking her back home every other.
Speaker 5: Like so he keeps him for a week, keeps her
Speaker 5: for a week.
Speaker 2: Yeah, then he drives back home and then like and
Speaker 2: then he has to go to like she's like, this
Speaker 2: is my little this is my god baby.
Speaker 1: So like this is my other guy baby.
Speaker 2: So like she's in equestrian class, like with the horses,
Speaker 2: she plays soccer.
Speaker 3: So he drives down, he has her for the week
Speaker 3: or just those times.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, he has heard for a week and then.
Speaker 3: That's exactly.
Speaker 4: So basically he goes basically every Weekendamn.
Speaker 1: Near probably go out there every three days.
Speaker 3: Listen, he's a parent.
Speaker 2: That's not the mom is not a parent. She's a
Speaker 2: fucking asshole. Why why the fuck would you take his
Speaker 2: baby two hours? Forgive me, if she heard that she.
Speaker 3: Lived in the city and moved out there, maybe for
Speaker 3: a better, better situation. That's the point of why it's
Speaker 3: a better situation. You never know.
Speaker 1: That's what she's saying. It's not our kid.
Speaker 3: What do you mean it's not our kid?
Speaker 5: He's saying, because she can. A person can jump up
Speaker 5: and start a new life somewhere, and then basically they
Speaker 5: would have to come that way like he has to.
Speaker 5: They have to Basically, Yeah, it's kid, But listen.
Speaker 1: Two hours away.
Speaker 2: Because I didn't tell my kid to go two hours
Speaker 2: you know, told her that her fucking real parent. That's
Speaker 2: why it's not my kid. If I can't tell you
Speaker 2: because I wouldn't let my kid move to San Diego.
Speaker 2: Why the fuck would I let my kid that I'm
Speaker 2: the parent, moved to San Diego, San Diego?
Speaker 3: She would They're grown, they're moving to San Diego now,
Speaker 3: they have.
Speaker 2: Kids, and I'm saying I wouldn't let Let's say if
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 1: My baby, mama.
Speaker 2: If it's my child, I wouldn't let my child be
Speaker 2: two hours away from me if I'm a parent, But
Speaker 2: you make a decision that's based off for you.
Speaker 3: But if you guys aren't together.
Speaker 1: That don't matter.
Speaker 3: I'm still a parent, it doesn't, but you guys aren't
Speaker 3: in the same household together. So she still has she
Speaker 3: has to. She's taking care of her child the best
Speaker 3: way that she can, and so she's saying, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: move to San Diego if you decide that you don't
Speaker 3: want to move out there, just like if she moved
Speaker 3: out of state and you don't want to go bust,
Speaker 3: this is what may happen.
Speaker 1: Why if it's my kid.
Speaker 3: Because this is what may happen because guess what, it
Speaker 3: may be.
Speaker 1: Hard because it's your kid.
Speaker 3: This is our kid.
Speaker 1: No it's not, because if it was my kid, I
Speaker 1: would have saved.
Speaker 4: So see, you're missing the point.
Speaker 5: Like he gets what you're saying, but he's basically trying
Speaker 5: to make a point that like.
Speaker 3: But that doesn't have anything to do a blended fan
Speaker 3: because this can happen with if you guys had a
Speaker 3: kid and she decided to say, I'm gonna move to
Speaker 3: San Diego. That's not a blended family. Your baby, mama,
Speaker 3: it's moving. I'm just saying if you are.
Speaker 2: But a lot of blended families happen because somebody takes
Speaker 2: the kid to San Diego. That's why you have blended families,
Speaker 2: because somebody is deciding that the father is not gonna
Speaker 2: be involved.
Speaker 1: And I get it.
Speaker 2: You know, this podcast is gonna be really special because
Speaker 2: some women is gonna feel some kind of way. And
Speaker 2: I understand it as a mother. My mom was you know,
Speaker 2: my mom didn't have my biological pops.
Speaker 1: Get me to help. Thank God for my dad, you know,
Speaker 1: rased me as long as I can remember and show me,
Speaker 1: you know, like a man could just love you.
Speaker 3: So your biological father wasn't in your life.
Speaker 1: No, I never talked to.
Speaker 3: The man that this whole time that I've known as
Speaker 3: your father is not your father.
Speaker 1: He's my father, he's your father.
Speaker 3: But he's not the So do you know you're biological I.
Speaker 2: Just talked to him probably like uh, for the first
Speaker 2: time in twenty twenty. Really, how did Yeah, conversation is
Speaker 2: gonna be crazy. So my brother right didn't like the
Speaker 2: relationship that I have with our dad who raised me?
Speaker 3: Is that his father?
Speaker 1: Yes, that's so he made him.
Speaker 2: But again you say it's this is a weird conversation
Speaker 2: because my dad would cuts me out if I say
Speaker 2: this is this is my father. But he made him right,
Speaker 2: So he doesn't.
Speaker 1: Well, he's told me this. He doesn't like the relationship
Speaker 1: that we're super close. Me and my dad is like Dicky.
Speaker 2: Stage this nigga's my favorite human being on earth to me,
Speaker 2: like I love this nigga. He's like, I love you,
Speaker 2: like he's just everything. He don't like the relationship is
Speaker 2: so strong, Like he's like, oh you know he had
Speaker 2: grown up.
Speaker 1: He's like, that's my you know.
Speaker 2: My dad even told him like it's different, like y'all,
Speaker 2: I didn't have no choice with y'all. Like me and him,
Speaker 2: we chose each other, you know. I mean, it's it's
Speaker 2: a different bond. And so he goes and find my biological.
Speaker 3: Who did your brother?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Wow, as if it would cause where it's between me
Speaker 2: and my dad.
Speaker 3: Like this is your daddy. So what happened?
Speaker 1: Nothing?
Speaker 3: So you so he found the dad, You found your dad.
Speaker 1: It's not yes, and found my biological.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you you found your biological where'd you find him?
Speaker 1: Where I didn't find him? He found me? And where
Speaker 1: he got my number? Ship? I think you live in Vegas?
Speaker 3: So he called you, yes, and what was that? Like nothing?
Speaker 3: He called you and said, so.
Speaker 2: This is a this is a much more complex conversation, right,
Speaker 2: because so my bi logical parents, his family started reaching
Speaker 2: out to me in twenty.
Speaker 3: Eighteen because they knew. They say, you look like this.
Speaker 2: Well it was my name and then some other which
Speaker 2: is crazy, right, because it's a cousin I got, right,
Speaker 2: it's a young male cousin I got. And then he
Speaker 2: plugged me with my elder cousin on that side, like no.
Speaker 2: And before that I thought, you know, motherfucker' be just lying.
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, this motherfucker don't know me.
Speaker 1: And then she start the elder cousin started telling me
Speaker 1: about my mom and so that's how they got in.
Speaker 1: So we talking.
Speaker 2: But I still had never even talked to cousin or
Speaker 2: her from because till my little brother goes and finds
Speaker 2: this nigga and gives me my number and he tells me.
Speaker 2: So when we talk, it was like weird, It's like, oh,
Speaker 2: what's up? And it was during the pandemic, and we
Speaker 2: just started talking and we just talked. Wasn't nothing. I
Speaker 2: really didn't.
Speaker 1: Man, I'm a grown I'm forty years old. Like I'm
Speaker 1: not asking no man about you know.
Speaker 2: I know how Trust me, if I've never when I
Speaker 2: was younger, I might have looked at it crazy, But
Speaker 2: I know how nigg could not be around their kids
Speaker 2: fucking with their old ladies.
Speaker 1: Now my mom, for me, ain't no joke.
Speaker 2: And in their situation, you know, he told my mom
Speaker 2: he wasn't ready for no kid. You know, I don't
Speaker 2: know if my mom told him she was pregnant, but
Speaker 2: he told her that, like I ain't trying to have
Speaker 2: no kids. So my mom was like, okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: raise my baby on this. Like I'm not tripping.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: My mom was a nurse. She was getting some coin
Speaker 1: and she found a dad. So we just.
Speaker 2: Started talking and ever since we've been talking and it's cool.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I don't think, I mean,
Speaker 2: nobody could replace my dad. My dad is my favorite person.
Speaker 2: So that's really how it happened.
Speaker 3: Do you see like talking to your dad or getting
Speaker 3: when you're mad, Like do you see similarities between the
Speaker 3: two of you.
Speaker 2: Uh, do you good at math? Like I'm good at math?
Speaker 2: I mean I haven't still met him.
Speaker 3: Still, do you guys plan?
Speaker 1: I think so.
Speaker 3: You look like him.
Speaker 1: I never seen him.
Speaker 3: You haven't even seen a picture.
Speaker 1: Why would I see him? Send me a picture, nigga
Speaker 1: you have.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it.
Speaker 4: I'm not a man, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: I would never tell a nigga to send me a picture.
Speaker 1: I s I don't.
Speaker 2: He was my great grandfather. You don't see me no pictures,
Speaker 2: no pictures, no niggas in my phone.
Speaker 3: So do you have any other siblings from him?
Speaker 2: Yeah? So his son, right is a dude that be
Speaker 2: on the scene.
Speaker 4: Oh ship related?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so he knew before you even reached out to
Speaker 3: your dad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we met before we met, before I ever talked
Speaker 1: to him. Wow, do y'all look like he's just shorter
Speaker 1: than me.
Speaker 3: He's shorter, taller, I mean not tall, but stockey like.
Speaker 2: No, he's he's kind of more fit like man, I mean,
Speaker 2: I don't know, like we talking and bill like, but
Speaker 2: it's my dad, Like my dad is my guy.
Speaker 3: So like what your brother? So now that you you
Speaker 3: didn't met your dad, that child, So it didn't change anything.
Speaker 3: What what's your sowhere?
Speaker 1: You keep calling this nigga my dad. This nigga's not
Speaker 1: my dad.
Speaker 3: So you met the sperm dinner donor and then you
Speaker 3: have your dad and your brother linked you with the
Speaker 3: sperm donors.
Speaker 2: So these are two different things. This is way crazy, right,
Speaker 2: So you missed the two brothers. So my brother that's
Speaker 2: my mom's son, is the one that went found because okay,
Speaker 2: his kid, my biological parents kid, right, is the nigga
Speaker 2: who actually I met him on the scene and my
Speaker 2: cousin who would be my cousin plugged me with him.
Speaker 1: He was like a kid I don't really talk to
Speaker 1: because about.
Speaker 2: His family like that, you know what I mean, because
Speaker 2: we're still talking, like you know what I mean. We
Speaker 2: don't talk a lot, but like it's just weird, like
Speaker 2: but it's hard because.
Speaker 1: Pop is my guy.
Speaker 3: Did he did he remarry?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, but he had been so he had been
Speaker 1: married forever.
Speaker 3: So so was he married when he when he was
Speaker 3: with your mom?
Speaker 1: No that was long. Yeah, No, you didn't get married.
Speaker 3: To after later? So you right in California though, No,
Speaker 3: he's in Vegas.
Speaker 1: They are in California, the Cousins and everybody.
Speaker 2: Else they like, they like that side of the like
Speaker 2: that my biological parents side of the family like that.
Speaker 1: Them motherfuckers is huge.
Speaker 2: They got they got this thing because they do call
Speaker 2: it the Cousins Night and they be like fifty of
Speaker 2: them like that's yeah, it's it's weird. I mean it's
Speaker 2: it's a really weird dynamic. But I mean to me,
Speaker 2: it's just talking to him, Like I think any man
Speaker 2: that you know, felt like they missed out on the
Speaker 2: on the kids life, they it's it's gonna be a guilt.
Speaker 2: And he didn't kind of pretty much you know, made
Speaker 2: it where he let me know like you know, to
Speaker 2: some degree you feel guilty, and I'm like, it ain't that.
Speaker 2: Like I have my dad, Bro, you don't got nothing
Speaker 2: to feel bad about. You know, I get it personally,
Speaker 2: but like Nigga, I ain't come out bad at all.
Speaker 2: It worked out for me well because of my dad,
Speaker 2: Like good boy is.
Speaker 3: Like, but it'sabled for you guys. Are you open to
Speaker 3: building that relationship? Yeah, we talk, We talked to see him.
Speaker 2: I don't plan it, it's just what that happened. I'm
Speaker 2: just not as important I don't think. I think it's
Speaker 2: just be timing, you know what I'm saying, Like it'll
Speaker 2: work out when it is.
Speaker 3: So you haven't been to Vegas since you guys have connected.
Speaker 1: Sure, but I'm not going like I ain't went out
Speaker 1: there to hang.
Speaker 2: And I don't think it's just proper like I'm going
Speaker 2: to do a music video like hey, what you're doing?
Speaker 1: Come by the video? That ain't really player.
Speaker 2: This man had grown up, right, so it's like, you
Speaker 2: know he ain't not no, no, my dad ain't never came.
Speaker 3: To mind, got uncles? Does he have a siblings?
Speaker 2: He got a lot of siblings. His uncle was little
Speaker 2: Richard like biological uncle.
Speaker 3: Wow, thet it's the music, you know.
Speaker 2: All that's cool. You gotta work for this ship. Ain't
Speaker 2: no gene work to be at this raph this record ship.
Speaker 3: True, But I don't.
Speaker 2: Know just the concept of blended families. It is just
Speaker 2: a lot like I think, like you don't know how
Speaker 2: you gonna feel like you gotta let the relationships develop
Speaker 2: and then you can't really replace.
Speaker 1: Nobody's you know what I mean. And I'm not saying
Speaker 1: you should be trying.
Speaker 2: It's not trying to But then how could it truly
Speaker 2: be a blended family.
Speaker 4: It's me.
Speaker 3: I have a really the relationship between me and my
Speaker 3: stepfather and my stepmother, like those are my parents. You know.
Speaker 3: My my stepmom hasn't been with my dad in years,
Speaker 3: probably like over I think it's like seven eight years.
Speaker 3: But she still is in contact with my children. She
Speaker 3: calls them her grandchildren. They have a relationship like it
Speaker 3: didn't change anything. Same like how long was they together too?
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I met when I was So it's.
Speaker 2: Different if you build now you if you raised somebody
Speaker 2: for like my dad, it does matter because my dad
Speaker 2: raised me my whole life. My brother's been my brothers
Speaker 2: my whole life, my family and my family. So it's different,
Speaker 2: like it ain't no like you could bring like my
Speaker 2: little brother could bring anybody.
Speaker 3: Around, but that's where that's where the new family members.
Speaker 3: So that new baby that's born within that blended family.
Speaker 3: Different is your relationship with that baby because you've been.
Speaker 2: But now if you raised but let's say now you
Speaker 2: raised that baby for thirty years, maybe the baby looks
Speaker 2: at you like that, but you but you just you
Speaker 2: have to have that dynamic. But again, it's just it's
Speaker 2: a tough out.
Speaker 3: That's the thing.
Speaker 5: Let me tell y'all something that my mom's ex yeah,
Speaker 5: a lot of children, and like they would always be like, oh,
Speaker 5: you should go hang out with your sister. And I'm like,
Speaker 5: that's not my sister, not like that. It wasn't even
Speaker 5: like she was cool as fuck, but that wasn't my sister.
Speaker 5: So I get what he's saying.
Speaker 3: Older. Yeah, I'm older.
Speaker 4: I'm older already my son already, Like what six weird?
Speaker 2: I just think that sh is weird and creepy when
Speaker 2: people do that, you start fucking my parents are You're like,
Speaker 2: oh you're.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It was like they're like you should hang No, like.
Speaker 1: It just got.
Speaker 3: To be there. I mean maybe eventually over time because
Speaker 3: of the relationship just naturally, yeah, over.
Speaker 5: Time, like we like you say, for instance, like you're
Speaker 5: like July or something like that.
Speaker 4: But that's the thing that.
Speaker 3: Little babies, like the baby that's that's different.
Speaker 2: It could work out that way and they don't have
Speaker 2: to work out that way, Like it got to work out,
Speaker 2: gotta work itself out. I do think women push too
Speaker 2: hard to try to make it work out, but I
Speaker 2: think it just gotta work out that way, Like the
Speaker 2: relationship gotta be there and it just gotta work that way.
Speaker 3: And see, it's opposite for me because I mean the relationship.
Speaker 3: I mean, if you're if if my husband is having
Speaker 3: i mean their children is having a child. This is
Speaker 3: he's excited about his grandchild, you know. So I'm meeting
Speaker 3: this baby fresh like no, like this he's just knowing
Speaker 3: me from the jump, Like I think that I can
Speaker 3: build that bond with that child.
Speaker 2: How do they introduce you? You know, does does Let's
Speaker 2: say if let's say if it's let's say it's your husband,
Speaker 2: you married and your husband has a grand baby, okay,
Speaker 2: and he don't introduce this like, oh, this is your grandmother,
Speaker 2: right Okay, whatever you thought is not that's my man.
Speaker 1: This is my girl right here, I'm your grandfather, but
Speaker 1: this is my girl. So I.
Speaker 2: It's framed and then everybody would have to keep the
Speaker 2: same thing. But really it's just a mind you build with.
Speaker 3: The g I think it's the relationship that you build
Speaker 3: with the kid, and of course the kid's parents.
Speaker 2: It depends on how the parents frame the kid to you.
Speaker 2: So because if they have a relationship, let's say they
Speaker 2: have a relationship with their.
Speaker 1: Own father and the father is there. I don't know,
Speaker 1: why do you?
Speaker 3: Okay, so I'll say okay, so I'll say this. So
Speaker 3: my ex husband, I have step children, one of my
Speaker 3: step daughters or you know, she's pregnant and they just
Speaker 3: did the Ginger Reveal. She included me in the Ginger reveal.
Speaker 3: I'm excited that the baby is coming. Me and her
Speaker 3: still have a relationship. And I'm like as a kid,
Speaker 3: right and because what she was like twelve when she
Speaker 3: came into my life, you know, but she's getting ready
Speaker 3: to have a baby, and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: like we're about to have a baby, like you know,
Speaker 3: it's not even though I'm not with her dad, you know.
Speaker 3: I mean, I wouldn't feel I wouldn't feel a certain
Speaker 3: type of way because she isn't my daughter.
Speaker 1: But see it's the point.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't feel a.
Speaker 4: Certain but I think you would feel some type of way.
Speaker 1: For her, because if you about baby, I.
Speaker 5: Would feel some type of way if because that's my
Speaker 5: baby and I'm not and you.
Speaker 3: Know, he has multiple kids, so with her, You're right,
Speaker 3: I probably would feel a certain type of way. He
Speaker 3: has another daughter who has a child, who had a child.
Speaker 3: I think the baby's like two, and she didn't include
Speaker 3: me at all, and I I didn't feel a certain
Speaker 3: type of way. But me and her don't have that
Speaker 3: type of relationship as with the oldest with her, so
Speaker 3: I guess yeah.
Speaker 5: And she even she's even told me like I don't care,
Speaker 5: like that's my brother and that's not talking about you know,
Speaker 5: like that's my brother and my sister.
Speaker 3: So like my son, which is not her biological brother.
Speaker 3: He's like, She's like, that's my brother, you know. They
Speaker 3: so they all have their own relationship. So, but I've
Speaker 3: been in her life. I've been.
Speaker 1: So when you was married to him, you already had rolling.
Speaker 3: I already had Roland and Tyler, and then my husband,
Speaker 3: my husband had two kids already.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she had a.
Speaker 3: Real life blended Yeah they had she he had two
Speaker 3: kids already.
Speaker 1: And that when they be like, they know you be
Speaker 1: doing specially for Tyler and Roland.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't do stuff them.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I wouldn't do stuff special for them. I
Speaker 3: really wouldn't.
Speaker 1: So y'all just lying.
Speaker 3: I'm dead serious.
Speaker 1: I hate when parents.
Speaker 3: Act like they I am dead serious.
Speaker 1: Parents act like they don't got a favorite I never.
Speaker 3: Had, I never had to worry about any type of favorite,
Speaker 3: like she's they're like what at least ten year twelve
Speaker 3: years apart.
Speaker 2: Like I was, ask them, who do you think is
Speaker 2: my favorite? I bet you they both have an actual idea?
Speaker 3: Who is my favorite?
Speaker 1: I bet you they both have.
Speaker 3: My two kids.
Speaker 1: Yes, I bet you if you ask.
Speaker 3: My son and my daughter because.
Speaker 2: Parents automatically, because parents automatically feel.
Speaker 3: Like and I bet you, I bet.
Speaker 1: If you ask them who is your favorite? They have
Speaker 1: an answer.
Speaker 3: My sorry, my son would probably my son would probably
Speaker 3: say my daughter, and my daughter would probably say my son.
Speaker 1: No, no, it's not they're gonna both have the same idea.
Speaker 4: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I think they both they both gonna have one idea.
Speaker 5: They both don't think they're gonna think it's I'm telling you, no,
Speaker 5: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Wait no, I don't think so. Well.
Speaker 3: And it's different boys, because they're very different. They're they're
Speaker 3: two different. Everybody's different, of course, I'm doing parents, but
Speaker 3: they are very they are just very different. Like Tyler
Speaker 3: is her own person, of course, but she's just different
Speaker 3: from my son and maybe that son and daughter. Now
Speaker 3: I don't know, I have my daughter, newest baby, Nala,
Speaker 3: and she's she is different from Tyler. But I don't know.
Speaker 3: I love them just different.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you.
Speaker 3: I love them all the same, but differently. I really don't.
Speaker 1: I really won't pay ever, tell the truth. I can't
Speaker 1: stand you. I like your sister more.
Speaker 3: No, that's there are times when I can't stand either
Speaker 3: one of them. No, girl, have you ever.
Speaker 4: Just not liked?
Speaker 1: Sure? But if you have a favorite.
Speaker 3: No, I don't.
Speaker 4: I just have one.
Speaker 3: I really do.
Speaker 4: So you know, we just we rock, We just rock.
Speaker 5: But you know what he used to always say he
Speaker 5: didn't want a brother or sister either. Up all the time,
Speaker 5: I be like, you want a brother or sister? Be
Speaker 5: like no, Nope. At a time, be like, oh you
Speaker 5: don't want me.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 5: I remember when I said you want me to have
Speaker 5: a baby, so you have a little sister brother. He
Speaker 5: was like, why would you do that? I was like
Speaker 5: what It was like, No, mom, you're tripping and room.
Speaker 1: Why would he want to share you?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: My mom? My little brother was my mom favorite all time.
Speaker 3: I talked to but I talked to my daughter every day.
Speaker 3: My son, I feel he's a boy. I think that's
Speaker 3: just how guys are. He calls me on his off days.
Speaker 3: So I talked to my son like once a week.
Speaker 3: I talked to my daughter every day. And if I
Speaker 3: don't talk to her, she's calling me or I'm calling.
Speaker 1: Her, like K style. K style was my mom's favorite,
Speaker 1: like that was her favorite. And she argued me down
Speaker 1: there that niggas not my favorite, blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: She was telling me how she gave me the whole
Speaker 2: spilled rest or, so she probably like fucking shit, but
Speaker 2: she was like, you know, y'all needed me different, and
Speaker 2: she told she always tell me this story, like she
Speaker 2: always tell me this story, like where I remember the story.
Speaker 2: I was like nine, and at that time, you would
Speaker 2: order books out of the Bernstein beers.
Speaker 1: So you had a little stupid newspaper and you strike it.
Speaker 2: And she came to my room and she found a
Speaker 2: newspaper and it was like six books checked off, remember
Speaker 2: them books was like three dollars.
Speaker 3: Or four dollars the books.
Speaker 1: And she was like, I'm not buying these books for you.
Speaker 1: The hell you check it off books for it wasn't
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: She just was like, you just spending my money and
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I got this money, I went and
Speaker 2: cut lines with my homeboy, Kobe's dad, you know, shout
Speaker 2: out to call you Kobe b on Facebook At the time.
Speaker 2: One of my child protnanty like y'all was cutting lines
Speaker 2: with Kobe's dad. So I had like forty seven dollars.
Speaker 2: She like, I was gonna buy myself and she was
Speaker 2: like she just shook her head and walked off, And
Speaker 2: she brought that story up when I told her she
Speaker 2: was his favorite. She was like, Nigga, you ain't never
Speaker 2: needed me. Nigga, you go to jail. Don't nobody even
Speaker 2: know you in jail. You just pop back up and
Speaker 2: everybody's like, oh, he was in jail.
Speaker 1: She said. Kate Vincent go to jail. K still go
Speaker 1: to jail. She said, when every time you go to jail,
Speaker 1: you gonna call her the first day.
Speaker 3: So how old were you when your mom passed?
Speaker 1: That was probably like thirteen years ago, thirteen was in
Speaker 1: jail thirteen years ago.
Speaker 3: Thirteen years ago, thirty thirty.
Speaker 2: First time my mom went to jail, I was twelve, okay,
Speaker 2: but she was saying that. She was like, your kids
Speaker 2: need you differently like they do.
Speaker 3: My daughter, my son needs me differently than my daughter
Speaker 3: needs me totally. It's different. So yeah, there's I love
Speaker 3: them the same, you don't, but I love them. I mean,
Speaker 3: I love them. My heart is equal to both of them.
Speaker 3: But of course I love them differently. I have to
Speaker 3: handle them differently.
Speaker 1: So then that means you don't love them the same.
Speaker 3: I don't love them the same. I guess I don't
Speaker 3: love them the same, but I love them the same amount.
Speaker 1: I love them both.
Speaker 3: I love them both the same amount. I love you
Speaker 3: just as much as I love you, and I.
Speaker 2: Love you your parents love you the same as all
Speaker 2: your people.
Speaker 3: Yes, my mama loved me favorite. I think that's how
Speaker 3: I like.
Speaker 5: My mom always says that I'm I'm not she knows, no,
Speaker 5: she knows. She says she doesn't worry about me as much,
Speaker 5: but she knows that I'm the more like sensitive one,
Speaker 5: which is weird because we're looking at my brothers, like really,
Speaker 5: but she says I'm more like the sweeter, like sensitive
Speaker 5: one or whatever, and I'm like, what really?
Speaker 4: Like Okay, but.
Speaker 5: Nah, I don't my mom like our my my brother
Speaker 5: we all have different relationship with our mom. Like my
Speaker 5: sister talks to my mom every day. I talk to
Speaker 5: my mom. We checking at least like three or four
Speaker 5: times a week. I'm not really sure how many times
Speaker 5: my mom talks to my brother. My brother has like
Speaker 5: a whole wife in San Diego, you know, but she
Speaker 5: do say like she did, be like, y'all come see me.
Speaker 4: He don't.
Speaker 5: But my brother has been making his way and you
Speaker 5: know everything like that bro.
Speaker 3: He lives in the same he lives thirty minutes away.
Speaker 3: Tyler is away at school across the country. You know.
Speaker 3: I see her every day on FaceTime. My son I
Speaker 3: talked to talk to him once a week.
Speaker 4: My son lives in the same house with me. He
Speaker 4: only comes outside to eat out.
Speaker 3: You see him. You know, I don't really see like
Speaker 3: I said.
Speaker 5: That could be in the room, like what dinner done?
Speaker 5: Are you smelling me here? I'll be cooking there. He'd
Speaker 5: be like, ooh, what's that Mom? What you cook and
Speaker 5: smell good? I really need you in the room all day.
Speaker 5: You come on sight picking what you cooking?
Speaker 1: Good?
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