WEBVTT - ZOE SPENCER - Comfort Food, Uncomfortable Growth 0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:01.920 Hey, y'all. 0:00:02.040 --> 0:00:04.880 Is Laureni Rosa with the latest with Laurna Rosa on 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:08.000 Black Effects and I cannot wait to see you guys 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:10.600 at the fourth Annual Black Effect Podcast Festival. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:11.920 Okay, we're coming. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:14.680 Back to Atlanta, Georgia on Saturday, April twenty fifth at 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:18.400 Palman Yards and it's hosted by me alongside DJ MV 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:19.280 and Charlotte Magnea. 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:22.919 God. We got Drink Chance of Noriega and Djafing. 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:26.000 We gotta keep it positive, Sweetye with My Girl, Christopher 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.680 Nate Haslin. 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We're bringing the Black Effect marketplace with black 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:01.520 owned businesses, but the food truck court to keep you 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:02.640 fed while you visit us. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:04.960 Okay, listen, you don't want to miss this. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:08.120 Tap in and grab your ticket down at Black effect 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:10.440 dot Com slash Podcast Festival. 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:14.920 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Eating While Broke. 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:17.200 I'm your host, Cony Witt, and today we have very 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:20.360 special guest streamer and content creator Zoe Spencer is in 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:20.880 the building. 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:21.520 Wo. 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:26.039 I was so happy to get the confirmation that you 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:26.959 were gonna be on the show. 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.320 Yes, I'm excited to be here Eating while. 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.679 Broke, Eating while Broke, and we're gonna have you in 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:35.280 the kitchen cooking. I don't know how often people call 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:37.200 you on shows and have you cook a throwback. 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.640 They don't even allow me to cook on stream for real. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:42.680 I get I'm not a great cooker. 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.200 Were you gonna show them today how it was done? 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:45.400 Oh? 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.120 Yeah, this smell though? I got this? 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:48.960 You got this? What are you gonna have me eating today? 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.600 Okay? So I'm gonna have you eating pork and beans 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.920 with hot dogs. You gotta cut the hot dogs up, 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:56.720 put it into the pork and beans. You got to 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.560 add some butter in near, some pepper in he or 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:01.000 some sugar. Mix it all, you've got to have a 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:03.040 side of rice, or you don't have to have a 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:03.640 side of rice. 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:06.680 Do you decide to rice to balance like the sautiness 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:06.960 of it? 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:08.080 I feel like you do. 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:09.880 I honestly, I want to have it with rice. I've 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:10.480 never had it with. 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:16.640 Rice, or you could put it with bread. I like 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:17.720 the rice idea. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:36.040 I like, all right, So get to cook in just 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:39.079 like that, Just just like that, you start. Okay, we 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.280 try to give you about ten minutes to cook because 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:41.960 I'm hungry. 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:45.200 You got this. I kind of struggle in the kitchen. 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:49.480 However, so that burner, that burner is to the right, yep, 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:52.320 and then the next the one right up above. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:57.760 I should have given her this in the You got it? Alright? 0:02:58.120 --> 0:02:59.760 Okay, so you're gonna do? So what are you doing? 0:02:59.760 --> 0:02:59.959 First? 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:01.440 The hot dogs? You dump the can? 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:06.760 How to make I should start off with the hot dogs? 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:11.240 Oh no, I don't really, don't trust me. I've seen 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:14.079 people make this on the show at least four times. 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:19.880 Really well, this smell I know this meal country Wayne. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.639 He did, but he complained because he's a vegan now 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:23.239 and so. 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:27.239 He very hard. He's so vegan. I literally hate it. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:30.160 Do you know he had me eating, he had his 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:35.160 cook making a cheeseburger, but the burger was obviously vegan, 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:38.640 but the cheese was vegan. Could you taste the difference 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.120 in the cheese? 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:41.400 Now? 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:41.840 You know what? 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:43.880 The only thing I will say that annoys me about 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:49.360 him is the only thing is that he won't let you. 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.960 He had us by brand new pots because he said 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:56.200 that meat was cooked in it, and I was like, yo, 0:03:56.960 --> 0:03:59.400 but I give him grace because he shot it with 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.480 us in antline was a trooper and then he had 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:04.800 to reshoot because we lost the files. You so, so 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:07.960 technically he could serve me. He could he he had 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:11.120 every right to make me work extra hard on those pots. 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:13.280 He was like, you kind of know you know that 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:17.120 I I can't have animal products cooked in the same 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:19.120 And I was just like, all right, it's only because 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:19.720 he fell care. 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:22.120 You want to know. That's a sad thing right there. 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.880 Yeah, But but I give grace because it was two episodes. 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:26.880 It was it was a two episode what I'm saying, So 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:27.799 shout out to him. 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:30.440 But anyways, we've had quite quite a few, quite quite 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:32.400 a few. But we're gonna see if your dish can 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:33.080 trump theirs. 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.320 Oh it can because I know, I know what I'm doing. 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:40.160 And when this start gonna making noise, like when it's gonna. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:44.320 Start, do you have it up high? 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.560 Okay? Good? Yeah, you may need Maybe I wanted to 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:49.440 add something in there because if you really look like 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:53.640 you don't cook, don't do that. Look you really know 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:57.400 why I'm cutting the butty kind of crazy, but I'm 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:58.440 trying to make noise. 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:02.279 Yeah, it's electric. Be careful because it will eventually. I 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:04.040 don't I don't know if it's gonna make it. You 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:06.800 got to turn that fire up. It will it will, yeah, 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:10.119 it will. Sorry, Oh, we can make a whole bloop 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:12.080 of real with you cooking. I can see this going 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:12.719 very far. 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:17.000 I'm really matter of fact. You know how to make 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:20.840 hot dogs? They usually boil them. No, you know how 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:22.080 to make hot dogs. 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:25.200 They put a bunch of random stuff in a tube 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:27.120 and then you eat it, and then they say on 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:31.000 the disclaimer and we think it's pork, chicken, beef, a 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.279 bunch of blended stuff. What was the last time you 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:39.560 ate this dish? 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:42.720 That's a good sign. It had to be a while ago. 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:44.800 That's a good sign. So take me back to what 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:47.279 was going on during this pork and beans era. 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.359 Okay, during the pork and beans ever, I had to 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:51.919 be a little girl. I mean. 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:59.240 That's the system. Yes, Now I'm cooking, so in your 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:00.680 face you were so happy, right, Oh. 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.200 I'm so. I'm adding more because I love how it sounds. 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:06.120 I'm gonna add more. But during this ever, I was 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:09.760 definitely a little girl at home with mommy and daddy. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:15.279 And this is very easy to make by yourself, obviously, 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:18.800 But listen, I grew up with my parents they making everything. 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:20.240 That's why I don't want to cook. 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.120 I was gonna say, did they teach you how to 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.919 make this dish? Was this the one dish they taught 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:26.720 you that you could cook? It doesn't sound like it 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:28.920 sounds like you were definitely getting your meals cooked. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.599 I was definitely getting my meals kicked. I mean, it's 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:35.200 so easy. I don't really need them to teach me 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:36.760 because you have. You stand there in the kitchen, you 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:38.239 be like, oh, sho, was she putting the hot dogs 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.120 in the pan? I need to know how to put 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:41.000 the hot dogs in the pan? 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:43.640 So, as a kid, was this your favorite dish or something? 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:44.680 Is this why you picked this? 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:49.320 Well? This is one of my favorites. I have another 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:51.280 favorite as well, but this is one of my favorites 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:55.840 because it's it's just so savory and just so good. 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.000 Like the pork and beans. Juice is the best. I 0:06:58.040 --> 0:07:01.960 just like the soupy. It's so good. You know what 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.359 you go also do? If you hook it up, you 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:07.240 could do like an actual hot dog, Like you could 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.960 add two meals together. You could do hot dog with 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:13.160 the ketchup and the mustard and then put this, make 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.720 the beans, and then you dip the hot dog in 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:19.560 the beans. Oh my god. Or you take the hot dog, 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:22.440 you put the beans, take the beans, put the beans 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:25.000 on top of the hot dog. Oh my god. I 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.720 should have told you about the bread. 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.119 Someone asked me to and I said, no, she has rice. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:32.600 But you know what, it sounds like you get real 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:35.440 creative with this dish, like you have home with it. Okay, 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.920 So take me back to your household growing up, two 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:41.520 parent household. It sounds like, yes, two parents, parents, parents 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:43.760 stole together. Yes that's great. 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:47.680 I know people are always so like shocked, like your 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:50.960 parents are still together. I'm like, yeah, that means you 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:53.480 believe in love and all that. Now, absolutely, Actually I 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:54.160 love a girl. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:57.840 I always believe in love, okay, with with the without, 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.160 so you don't hate if you're single, you don't be 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:07.120 like believing, n did it? You walk past couples like, yeah. 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:10.560 Totally had one boyfriend my whole life. You know, I'm 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:13.160 twenty five by the way. Okay, yeah you're a baby. Yeah, 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:13.920 so it's like. 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:16.560 Are you still with him? 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:17.800 No? 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:23.520 Okay, okay, Well see the parents influence hasn't hasn't The 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.400 real world hasn'tained you because of your. 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:27.440 Parents' influence probably exactly. 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:32.040 Okay, two parent household, middle class, upper class rich. 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:40.160 What's the middle? The middle? Middle? What's the middle? 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:41.000 Middle is? 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.040 Wow? This take me back to school. 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.320 Let me just tell you guys about middle class. Middle classes. 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:49.040 You pay for everything and you don't get any Hell 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:52.959 that's like there's no government assistance. There's no free medical 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:53.559 or anything. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:54.480 Oh middle. 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:59.000 Yeah, so then you're middle. That means they paid the most. Unfortunately, 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:02.240 that's how it is, right because the rich can afford it, 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:03.760 and then the poor get help. 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.240 But the middle what the middle do? 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:09.440 The middle don't get nothing. They just stay working hard, 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:12.000 like both your parents had to work. Yeah, yeah, they 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:12.520 working hard. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.840 They've been working all their lives I have a very 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:18.920 working household. So like, you know, as soon as it 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:20.720 was time for me to be able to get a job, 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:24.400 like no hesitation. Like even my little sister now she's eight, 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:25.520 have a little sisters who are eighteen. 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:27.120 I thought you want to say she's eight. 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:33.280 I was like, wait, already, she's eighteen. She don't play 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:34.679 no games. She already got two jobs. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:37.920 Yeah, so you come from that that see. But that's 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.400 the thing about that middle class, So they you work 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.840 hard because you know there's gonna be nothing given too. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:45.800 You're kind of used to that, right exactly. 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:47.800 But I like that you come from this hard work ethic. 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:50.480 What's one of your first jobs you had out the gate. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.439 Well, I only had three, nine to five's my whole life, 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:54.680 So I'll just tell you all of them. The first 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.440 one was I was working in the supermarket at sixteen. 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:00.920 This was just a summer job for real. Once I 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:04.480 got back to school in high school, I stopped working. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:09.200 And then after that I worked at Burlington. So this 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.280 was my college job. So I started there when I 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.040 was eighteen and I worked there for four years of college. 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:19.000 So through COVID and everything. Oh, it was so crazy 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:22.800 at that store during COVID. During COVID German COVID too, 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:23.480 I was working there. 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:25.120 I felt like everything was shut down. 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.199 Yeah, it was shut down. But when they opened back up, Oh, 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:29.160 we were right in there. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:32.600 Okay. When during COVID did you actually work or were 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:33.840 you able to get unemployment? 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:37.240 I was definitely unemployment. But then when the summer came 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:40.280 and the world opened back up, everybody come to work 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:42.480 and I was in there room, my mask on the 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:46.280 line is out the door. Why is the line out 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.640 the door? Because we've been Yeah. 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:52.520 Yeah, people got used to living in pj's all day, 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:55.400 not wearing makeup. You know what I'm saying. I got 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:57.920 used to not wearing makeup for so long and cold 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.960 because LA was shut down for like two years. Yeah, 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.480 so now I don't apparely wear makeup. It felt like 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:05.000 two years. It was like a year and a half. 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:09.000 Oh yeah, two years, about two years. Okay, your hot 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:12.000 dogs look nice and burnt and crispy, and they're not ready. 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:13.920 They're too light, see they too light skin. 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.280 Okay, they look like they getting close to charcoal. 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:20.520 But hey, you're being a chef. Okay. 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:22.160 Oh, by the way, you got to make sure you 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:23.760 make an extra one for my daughter. 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:24.440 Absolutely. 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.520 Look we got three and we got three okay, all right? 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:29.480 Oh I forgot to tell you the last job after 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:34.280 I graduated college May two, I started breaking at the bank. 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:37.040 So then I had kept my Burlington job and the 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:39.959 bank jobs. I was working two jobs after college. Are 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:43.640 you serious? Okay? Now, what were your aspirations in college? 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.559 My aspirations was to always be an actress. I went 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:49.280 to school for communication, Arts and performance studies, so I 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:51.719 was doing like a lot of like acting in there. 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:55.080 Nothing else really interests me. Like there was a time 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:58.160 where I was thinking about dentists because I really like teeth. 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:02.720 You have nice teeth, by the way, thank you. And 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:06.040 then after that it was more like I just really 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:09.440 love movies and TV and all of that film Like, 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.640 I just love anything that got to do with entertainment. 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:16.319 So I just so before. 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.640 You went to college, I know, I was reading in 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.880 some of your notes that like in high school you 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:23.560 got voted like class clown, right or were you were 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:25.480 you voted class clown in high school? 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:25.760 Yeah? 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:29.080 And then did that have a pivotal like place in 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.320 like the trajectory of your life being voted that? 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:39.240 Not? Really, just because like even before getting that. I've 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:43.440 just always just been this way since birth. And what's 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:47.360 this way? Like outgoing? Just very outgoing and like very 0:12:47.400 --> 0:12:50.880 playful and loud and like I could step into a 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:52.640 room and just own it. 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:56.640 Yeah, okay, own it, own it, own it. Okay, So 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:58.160 you saw that very early on. 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.400 Yeah, a lot of people did. I used to be 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.520 in the windows like this. Do you want to turn 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:03.120 off that burner? 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:08.920 She just moved it off. She said, forget turning it off. No, yeah, 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:09.959 you're right, that's the right one. 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:11.800 See why they don't allow me in the kitchen. 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:14.280 Look those little burnt hot dogs. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.160 Don't do that crispy look at them? 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.720 Then burnt crispies is the camera, and do it under 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:20.959 the camera so it can see. 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:23.760 These looks so pretty. You can't have them be life skinned. 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:27.600 Look I like the little crispy shells. Matter of fact, 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.679 does krispy shell in the soft inside? 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:30.640 All right? 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:32.120 Now, she's gonna move on to the beans. 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.199 Yes I am, and I'm gonna just do the beans 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.080 right here, although this one is already high ready for me. Huh. 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.600 Okay, So take me to the decisions where you decide 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.320 you're going to get a second job. Why did you 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.360 have to get a second job. You're not You're obviously 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.040 not living at home at this point. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.800 Okay, it wasn't. No, I am at home. Okay, can 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:52.600 I tell you at home as we sit right here 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:53.000 next to you. 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.920 I still live in Brooklyn, but with your parents. 0:13:56.040 --> 0:14:00.600 Yes, really, yes, I don't my game, I would, that's funny. 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:03.440 Yeah, your parents don't try to push you out at 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:04.199 eighteen or nothing. 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:08.520 I'm not from like like any projects anything. I've olays 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:10.680 lived in the house, so it's like I have the 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:14.240 space and stuff. Yeah. Yeah, so no, my mama ain't 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.440 trying to kick me out. She loves you too much. 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:21.040 It's like, I guess they like I have older parents. 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:25.600 They like I have older parents there. They in their 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:29.160 fifty sixties now, so it's like they already know how 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:32.280 life is outside. They've been through everything. So it's like, 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:36.960 you know, you leave when you're like absolutely ready. So 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:39.040 they just be like on that kind of time, and 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.840 you know, like you don't ever just have to like leave, 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:45.200 like leave when you want to leave, you know, but 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:47.760 it's time because I'm not gonna lie. I'm like grown 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:54.280 out of the room. I close and your space and. 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:59.800 My body, your body she's limp thick. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.560 Anybody, all the listeners tell them that I'm slim thick. 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:03.320 She slim thick. 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:07.040 Thank you slim, but she got the cakes. Am I 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:08.320 supposed to say that inappropriately? 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:11.359 No, that's I want to thank you because. 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:16.000 They be thinking I'm just no. No, she's slim thick, period. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:21.600 All right, love that you. Yeah, you can use the water. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:22.280 That's your water. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:22.840 Cool. 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:27.000 So tell me, So you're at home at what point? 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:30.080 So you're you're you're making all this money. What is 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:32.200 motivating you to work two jobs? 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:37.239 So I wasn't making anything yet? This is like after college. 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:40.560 So after college, since I was still working at Burlington, 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:44.320 I didn't I'm not okay, I'm yeah. 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:47.320 Put the pop back on it so you don't touch it. 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:50.000 Okay, Mama not playing over here, y'all. 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:52.480 We don't want her to. She talk with her hands 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:55.040 and she gets the yeah. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.480 So boom boom, boom boom. 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:01.080 But it's gonna sit. It's gonna sizzle. 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:02.280 I know you want to hear the sizzle. 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:06.400 Okay, So you're working these two jobs. After college, you 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:08.480 graduate with a degree in the arts. 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:12.240 Yes, the degree. My bachelor's are arts. I got that 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:16.120 degree and I have. I also ran track. That's why 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:19.200 I'm slim there. That's where I get this from. 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.280 So I real, I know that's so random. 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:22.120 They kind of. 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.360 Like they have the little slit right here, you know 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:25.400 what I'm talking about in the thighs. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:28.600 I know exactly that, but that kind of like leaves 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:35.200 because that's myself that leaves. It leaves if you're not like, okay, guys, 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:37.040 I got like big track thighs though. 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.840 They're like, I love that for you, but how we 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:42.240 get detailed? Okay, you started to talk about the yeah 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:43.840 and you start to talk about track though. 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:46.880 Yes, So I'm not a yeah because I'm very competitive, 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:48.720 Like I'm like not a quitter. So I'm not about 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.960 to just quit the Burdlinton job. They I'm not put 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.640 it into two weeks. I'm like, I'm a juggle both, yeah, 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:56.200 whatever more money for me. And I just have a 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:58.880 very hard working mindset. Like I don't know my parents, 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:02.120 that's as I going back to that, like them working 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:04.560 all their lives and giving us like anything whatever. I've 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:08.240 always been on every vacation every year, we go around 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:13.880 everywhere everywhere. I never really like like even if they 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.800 were like middle class and hard workers and not making 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:21.000 all this crazy money. I lived very comfortably and like 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:24.720 always on vacations with my family every single year. So 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:26.720 I have like a lot of memories with my family. 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:31.360 But but where does that independence to want to work? 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:34.920 Cause you want for myself, Like I don't want to. 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:37.960 I don't like the whole mommy daddy money all the time, 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:42.000 Like I did that during high school and then that 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.600 first year of college, I'm like, I don't really cause 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.239 that was like I got a boyfriend my first year 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:51.239 at college, right, so now I'm ubering. Now now I'm 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.679 starting these ubers. It was never uber when I was 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:56.119 in high school. I was walking to school. So now 0:17:56.160 --> 0:18:01.840 I'm taking ubers. But the money's going quick. Like so 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:02.359 it's like. 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:04.320 You didn't want to call your parents obviously because you're 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:05.960 kind of grown. You're starting to get into that more 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:06.880 grown state, Like. 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:09.480 I'm going on, what was that going on? Now? Eighteen? 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:12.000 Because I was seventeen going into college. So it's like 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:14.760 I don't want to keep like asking for mommy daddy 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:18.280 money to go see a boyfriend, you know what I mean, 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:21.359 because now it's what they stop giving it to you. 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:22.840 Are you trying to go see that you know what 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:25.600 I mean. It's like if you get if you you know, 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:27.919 get the stuff you need for yourself, you ain't got 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:30.560 to ask nobody exactly. I just always feel like I 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:33.400 don't like asking people for nothing, even today, Like if 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:36.280 I don't have it, I'm gonna figure it out. Yeah, 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:38.040 I like that. I like that. 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.680 But what drives you to get a second job? If 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:43.800