WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Hot Date Hijack

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you hate it, Jose when you take one woman

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<v Speaker 1>out and end up with just a gaggle of hot

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<v Speaker 1>women around you.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know you and you open the door.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's another gagle.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happened to one of our listeners today and

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<v Speaker 1>your second Date updates, so definitely stick around for that story.

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<v Speaker 3>But first, we always love to start with your comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, by the way, this is the Second Date podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>the official one with Brooke and Jeffrey, So thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for finding us. Yes, and this person said, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a while since I listened.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are still amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Good.

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<v Speaker 2>We need a little check up here and there.

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing day totally. Every year old is accountable for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I understand if you would say, yeah, the worse

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<v Speaker 1>than I remember.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, here's your second date starting right now, Brook and.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's do a hypothetical here. I always love those,

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<v Speaker 2>and Brooke, we're gonna pretend that you're single, okay, sing you.

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<v Speaker 3>I know she's faked up, but for a long.

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<v Speaker 2>Time you're hanging out at the bar, you're the same

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<v Speaker 2>age that you are right now. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>say it out loud. Just keep that in mind. But again,

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<v Speaker 2>you're single and you see a cute guy cross the room,

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<v Speaker 2>very attractive. Do you approach him or do you try

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<v Speaker 2>to get him to notice you so that he walks over.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.

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<v Speaker 2>And what do you do? What do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't know, Maybe buy him a drink.

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<v Speaker 2>Extra, You're just like high and Brook. I think you're cute,

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<v Speaker 2>going to buy your drinks. You flash a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>money in his face and try to win him over

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've told many guys at bars when I was single,

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<v Speaker 1>you're hot.

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<v Speaker 3>We love that, We wouldn't love that. Girls will finally

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<v Speaker 3>tell you I told you I don't have much shame

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<v Speaker 3>or anything. Well no, not really, but it works. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>telling you it works.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think you forgot I said, you're still your

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<v Speaker 2>same age as now, but I'm going to let you

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<v Speaker 2>get away with that one.

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<v Speaker 3>So I still say that desperate at my age.

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<v Speaker 2>But I bring it up because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>says that he got approached by not just one, but

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<v Speaker 2>two different women, and he thinks he knows the secret

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<v Speaker 2>on how that happened. Okay, so let's talk to him. Tony.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, how are you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Were my two twins at the bar? Is that what.

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<v Speaker 2>She means lookalikes? Not the other girl? Yeah? Classic, there

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<v Speaker 2>she's accident. I know, apologized for brook, but I know

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<v Speaker 2>you went on a date recently. Who is it with?

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<v Speaker 5>Her name is Jemma. We actually meant on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice said, somebody approached you at the bar. You met

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<v Speaker 1>it on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I know. Sorry, that might have been a

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<v Speaker 5>little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and

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<v Speaker 5>they have these like giant long shared table.

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<v Speaker 3>Things like community seating.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff

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<v Speaker 5>like that, and it's kind of social, you know, people

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<v Speaker 5>are talking to each other and interacting. But I thought

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<v Speaker 5>that I was being pretty clear to the rest of

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<v Speaker 5>the restaurant that me and jem are are not brother

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<v Speaker 5>and sister. We were there on a date together.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys look alike?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was more like the way we got treated,

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<v Speaker 5>I guess because we were I mean, we were flirting.

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<v Speaker 5>We were doing the whole date thing, and the two

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<v Speaker 5>girls were kind of across from us, and I said

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<v Speaker 5>it was a social thing, and Jema at one point

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<v Speaker 5>got up and she went to the bathroom, and during

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<v Speaker 5>that time, these two girls came over and sat on

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<v Speaker 5>either side of me and just kind of inserted themselves

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<v Speaker 5>into the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>About your date. Like, you know, I could see like

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<v Speaker 3>two girls that are out together. They're like, oh, look

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<v Speaker 3>at there on a first date. Let's go mess, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>She thinks it's going bad, Like I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what it was. But when Jemma came back

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<v Speaker 5>to the table, she kind of sat not in the

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<v Speaker 5>seat that they were in, but a little away from me,

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<v Speaker 5>like across from me.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost.

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<v Speaker 3>The women were still there when she came back from

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they stayed there and they were basically just paying

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<v Speaker 5>attention to me. They were like laughing at jokes that

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to say and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was weird. Is it that maybe she saw that.

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<v Speaker 3>They like And.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the thing if they're like making it a joke, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're including her, and it feels like a group thing.

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<v Speaker 3>But this it was like she was really left out.

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<v Speaker 1>It probably hurt.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I was trying to do everything I could to

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<v Speaker 5>show her non verbally that I am not interested in them.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm trying to play foot you with her.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to engage with her to let her know, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't ask these girls to come over here. They

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<v Speaker 5>just did it on their own. It's got nothing to

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<v Speaker 5>do with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything. You didn't move.

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<v Speaker 2>And one time I pretended to fall asleep during a

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<v Speaker 2>date to get the message across that I wasn't interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I kissed, But what do you think, like in your mind,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you think was happening there?

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of And I told her this too. I

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<v Speaker 5>think the only reason that they were even interested in

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<v Speaker 5>me to begin with was because I was out with

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<v Speaker 5>a really attractive girl. And that's the only time that

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<v Speaker 5>that ever happened to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Did Emma like that reason?

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<v Speaker 5>Not at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Were you able to salvage the date at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 3>And how long were they there?

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<v Speaker 5>They were there for the rest of the day, but

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<v Speaker 5>we didn't stay much longer. We uh awkwardly left and

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<v Speaker 5>she wasn't really talking to me. At the end and uh,

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<v Speaker 5>no kiss or anything like that, was just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>hugged and.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though

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<v Speaker 2>about like sorry about those two girls, Like I wasn't interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>He told her The whole reason he thought they were

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<v Speaker 3>doing that.

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<v Speaker 5>After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were

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<v Speaker 5>right there, so it was hard for me to address

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<v Speaker 5>it at the table. I just waited till we were

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<v Speaker 5>in the car and I apologized for their behavior and said, look,

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<v Speaker 5>I had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>It was weird.

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<v Speaker 3>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, dangde what do you wish you would have

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<v Speaker 1>done differently?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>It was a weird social situation, So, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 5>guess I should have asked for a private table, but

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<v Speaker 5>that was kind of the whole experience of the spot

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<v Speaker 5>was to do that with other people.

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<v Speaker 4>Weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder, I wonder where her side is. Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get that from her when we reach out to her,

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<v Speaker 2>but at least next time, probably need to avoid the

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<v Speaker 2>ship or long tables.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just accepting attention from other women. Women is probably

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<v Speaker 3>what you need to avoid.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're with a girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Kerr Brother Chicks.

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<v Speaker 2>Learned, and hopefully we'll get some answers when we reach

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<v Speaker 2>out to Gemma for you and come back. Try to

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<v Speaker 2>get your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>One of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one

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<v Speaker 2>on one date that suddenly turned into a three on

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<v Speaker 2>one date boy, and the person who got excluded was Jemma,

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<v Speaker 2>the woman that he actually came to the restaurant with,

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<v Speaker 2>because two random girls got up and sat down right

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<v Speaker 2>next to Tony as soon as Gemma went off to

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<v Speaker 2>the bathroom, so when she came back to the table,

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<v Speaker 2>she was forced to sit across from everybody else and

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<v Speaker 2>the whole rest of the night was kind of awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>From there, he tried.

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<v Speaker 1>To play foot seaes does just show Jemma that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually interested in you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really care about these two new girls, but

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<v Speaker 2>she was gone out of reach.

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<v Speaker 4>I think.

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<v Speaker 6>It's probably just a table leg and Tony's thoughts on

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<v Speaker 6>why this happened was actually pretty flattering towards Gemma, saying

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<v Speaker 6>that she was so attractive that these other ladies must

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<v Speaker 6>have been paying him.

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<v Speaker 2>Attention, thinking, oh wow, this guy's with this gorgeous woman.

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<v Speaker 2>He must have something pretty special, either downstairs or upstairs,

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<v Speaker 2>who knows. At least that's Tony's thoughts on the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to get Jemma's thoughts and see if we

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<v Speaker 2>can recover.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?

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<v Speaker 5>A little nervous, but I get I kind of am

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<v Speaker 5>knowing what to expect. I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're feeling downstairs? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>nerves go out everywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you talked to her at all since the date?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.

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<v Speaker 2>From three women to zero now giving Tony attention, so

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully she doesn't. You didn't get their numbers, Well, yeah

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't ask, no, absolutely even make this call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in

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<v Speaker 2>front of her. But okay, well, good luck out there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let's call Gemma. We'll see if she picks up, and

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully we'll figure out what's going on. Okay, all right, cool,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, we're looking to talk to Jemma.

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<v Speaker 4>This is Gemma.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, weird, Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh well, we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Not sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to help out one of our listeners get a hold

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<v Speaker 2>of you after you went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>him recently, guy named Tony.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, did you just gag?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what I heard?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you like a cop throat listen.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what this guy told you, but it

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<v Speaker 4>was a very, very awkward and incredibly weird.

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<v Speaker 3>He actually told us something similar.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events

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<v Speaker 2>that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls

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<v Speaker 2>coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table

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<v Speaker 2>while you went off to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously, Okay, I honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Jemma,

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<v Speaker 1>because that means that you were disappointed, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>What I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you liked him,

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<v Speaker 1>because if he didn't like him, you might come back

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<v Speaker 1>like they got.

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<v Speaker 4>That's putting a really nice spin on it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, Well, Tony says that he felt really bad

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<v Speaker 2>about how it all went down. We're curious how you

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<v Speaker 2>felt about the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm sure he did. Honestly at first when I

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<v Speaker 4>came back and I was like what, And then I

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<v Speaker 4>saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was kind of I was kind of laughing, like inside, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>That's such a relief.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think their intentions were?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I know what their intentions were. I'm pretty I'm

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<v Speaker 4>pretty sure Tony by the way of a really good

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<v Speaker 4>looking buy. Oh, and they like they swarmed in like

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<v Speaker 4>locusts or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, okay lately, Yeah, but you said that

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't blame that on him.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think he invited, just necessarily. But I started

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<v Speaker 4>to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, get the hint, ladies, Yeah, he's with me.

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<v Speaker 4>So Tony was so like flummoxed or whatever that he

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<v Speaker 4>didn't even notice. But I called the waiter over and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, try attempted to bribe the waiter. What's

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<v Speaker 4>he still falsa on these girls?

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<v Speaker 3>Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How

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<v Speaker 3>much money does something like that cost?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the waiter's probably annoyed at them too, if they're

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<v Speaker 1>this type of person.

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<v Speaker 2>To salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.

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<v Speaker 4>I waved a twenty at him and he was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.

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<v Speaker 1>I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why

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<v Speaker 1>are you mad at him?

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you go?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,

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<v Speaker 4>but by the end this went on for so long

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<v Speaker 4>he should have done more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think he feels that way too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about

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<v Speaker 2>the whole situation. You're giving Tony a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>leeway on it. But we can maybe fix this. Because

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<v Speaker 2>I do have to let you know, Tony is currently

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this conversation on the other line waiting to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 3>That's a joke us and that's the only women.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I am here.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it. That's very formal, Tony.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well, first off, I just want to apologize for

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<v Speaker 5>what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know

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<v Speaker 5>what to do, to be honest with He was a weird,

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<v Speaker 5>awkward like just it was our first date. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know these people.

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<v Speaker 2>At Okay, that was That was good, Tony. You can

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<v Speaker 2>let her respond to that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I Kett and I appreciate the apology, Tony,

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<v Speaker 4>but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not hearing anything new.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he's not like you need to own up to

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<v Speaker 1>like your own non act a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother.

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<v Speaker 5>Like no, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why it was a tough position too.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that hot for you, jem.

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<v Speaker 4>Now? I mean I don't want to guys like punching

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<v Speaker 4>people in the face, but like you can be a

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<v Speaker 4>little more forceful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think he was just trying to

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<v Speaker 2>be as respectful as he could.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>get where he's coming from.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you saying Brooke, Oh, I'm trying to put

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<v Speaker 2>me in a corner right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Did I just break Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Gemma.

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<v Speaker 2>Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to do communal tables. Yeah, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I will reserve a table for two. So we'd like

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<v Speaker 2>to help facilitate that second date and even pay for

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<v Speaker 2>it if you're willing to give him another shot. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you think, Jenna?

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<v Speaker 4>I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a

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<v Speaker 4>decision since this incident that I just I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>this to be my life going forward. I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be going out and fighting off parle raping themselves

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<v Speaker 4>all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to date down.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, you're just going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Date the guys that you find less attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean competition?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to go after music, the hottest guy,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the hottest guy and the dating profile, because

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't need this kind of headache. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm looking for right now, I'm not the competition.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if we've heard that one on the

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<v Speaker 2>second date update before dating.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting

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<v Speaker 5>that at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she

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<v Speaker 2>thinks you are?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this

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<v Speaker 5>never happens to me. Like if I'm out with my friends,

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<v Speaker 5>no girls are approaching.

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<v Speaker 6>Met I usually repulse women something about you.

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<v Speaker 3>Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.

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<v Speaker 4>But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repell them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great, So he hasn't committed to you that he's

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<v Speaker 2>ugly enough.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows

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<v Speaker 4>he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.

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<v Speaker 2>You started with one woman on a date, landed two more,

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<v Speaker 2>and now you've ended up with zero because you're too attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>Now that's boy Matt.

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<v Speaker 4>And Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's like they always say, hot guys finished last.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, we always feel so bad for you. Hot guys just.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't I feel like I need to stand up for

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<v Speaker 2>my fellow nines and tens out there.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna put yourself in there, and I need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Say stop the handsome hate. Yeah, let's use that hashtag

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<v Speaker 2>and start a movement.

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<v Speaker 3>You think that's why we get any complaint for the

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<v Speaker 3>radio station. It's just you're too good looking.

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<v Speaker 2>All the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm sure that's why you're in radio.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy. Yeah, I'm just I'm so sorry that

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<v Speaker 2>it didn't work out. Yeah, yeah, I really am.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that guy is so regretting him not getting

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<v Speaker 1>the number for the two other women.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah you know what I mean, Like he had a chance,

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<v Speaker 3>his one shot, and he blew it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But there's always opportunities for you to meet people

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<v Speaker 2>when you come on to this show. Email us. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>call that person who's not calling you back, and go

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<v Speaker 2>Abroke and Jeffrey