Speaker 1: Don't you hate it, Jose when you take one woman
Speaker 1: out and end up with just a gaggle of hot
Speaker 1: women around you.
Speaker 2: I know, I know you and you open the door.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's another gagle.
Speaker 1: That's what happened to one of our listeners today and
Speaker 1: your second Date updates, so definitely stick around for that story.
Speaker 3: But first, we always love to start with your comments.
Speaker 1: Oh, by the way, this is the Second Date podcast,
Speaker 1: the official one with Brooke and Jeffrey, So thank you
Speaker 1: for finding us. Yes, and this person said, it's been
Speaker 1: a while since I listened.
Speaker 3: You guys are still amazing.
Speaker 1: Good.
Speaker 2: We need a little check up here and there.
Speaker 3: Nothing day totally. Every year old is accountable for sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand if you would say, yeah, the worse
Speaker 1: than I remember.
Speaker 3: All right, here's your second date starting right now, Brook and.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Second Date updates.
Speaker 2: All right, let's do a hypothetical here. I always love those,
Speaker 2: and Brooke, we're gonna pretend that you're single, okay, sing you.
Speaker 3: I know she's faked up, but for a long.
Speaker 2: Time you're hanging out at the bar, you're the same
Speaker 2: age that you are right now. I don't want to
Speaker 2: say it out loud. Just keep that in mind. But again,
Speaker 2: you're single and you see a cute guy cross the room,
Speaker 2: very attractive. Do you approach him or do you try
Speaker 2: to get him to notice you so that he walks over.
Speaker 1: I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.
Speaker 2: And what do you do? What do you do?
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, Maybe buy him a drink.
Speaker 2: Extra, You're just like high and Brook. I think you're cute,
Speaker 2: going to buy your drinks. You flash a bunch of
Speaker 2: money in his face and try to win him over
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: I've told many guys at bars when I was single,
Speaker 1: you're hot.
Speaker 3: We love that, We wouldn't love that. Girls will finally
Speaker 3: tell you I told you I don't have much shame
Speaker 3: or anything. Well no, not really, but it works. I'm
Speaker 3: telling you it works.
Speaker 2: I do think you forgot I said, you're still your
Speaker 2: same age as now, but I'm going to let you
Speaker 2: get away with that one.
Speaker 3: So I still say that desperate at my age.
Speaker 2: But I bring it up because one of our listeners
Speaker 2: says that he got approached by not just one, but
Speaker 2: two different women, and he thinks he knows the secret
Speaker 2: on how that happened. Okay, so let's talk to him. Tony.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hi, how are you guys doing?
Speaker 3: Were my two twins at the bar? Is that what.
Speaker 2: She means lookalikes? Not the other girl? Yeah? Classic, there
Speaker 2: she's accident. I know, apologized for brook, but I know
Speaker 2: you went on a date recently. Who is it with?
Speaker 5: Her name is Jemma. We actually meant on a dating app.
Speaker 1: Nice said, somebody approached you at the bar. You met
Speaker 1: it on a dating app.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I know. Sorry, that might have been a
Speaker 5: little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and
Speaker 5: they have these like giant long shared table.
Speaker 3: Things like community seating.
Speaker 5: Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff
Speaker 5: like that, and it's kind of social, you know, people
Speaker 5: are talking to each other and interacting. But I thought
Speaker 5: that I was being pretty clear to the rest of
Speaker 5: the restaurant that me and jem are are not brother
Speaker 5: and sister. We were there on a date together.
Speaker 2: How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?
Speaker 2: Do you guys look alike?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: I don't think so.
Speaker 5: But it was more like the way we got treated,
Speaker 5: I guess because we were I mean, we were flirting.
Speaker 5: We were doing the whole date thing, and the two
Speaker 5: girls were kind of across from us, and I said
Speaker 5: it was a social thing, and Jema at one point
Speaker 5: got up and she went to the bathroom, and during
Speaker 5: that time, these two girls came over and sat on
Speaker 5: either side of me and just kind of inserted themselves
Speaker 5: into the situation.
Speaker 3: About your date. Like, you know, I could see like
Speaker 3: two girls that are out together. They're like, oh, look
Speaker 3: at there on a first date. Let's go mess, you
Speaker 3: know what I mean.
Speaker 5: She thinks it's going bad, Like I don't know, I
Speaker 5: don't know what it was. But when Jemma came back
Speaker 5: to the table, she kind of sat not in the
Speaker 5: seat that they were in, but a little away from me,
Speaker 5: like across from me.
Speaker 2: Almost.
Speaker 3: The women were still there when she came back from
Speaker 3: the bathroom.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they stayed there and they were basically just paying
Speaker 5: attention to me. They were like laughing at jokes that
Speaker 5: I was trying to say and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: So it was weird. Is it that maybe she saw that.
Speaker 3: They like And.
Speaker 1: It's the thing if they're like making it a joke, right,
Speaker 1: and they're including her, and it feels like a group thing.
Speaker 3: But this it was like she was really left out.
Speaker 1: It probably hurt.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was trying to do everything I could to
Speaker 5: show her non verbally that I am not interested in them.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm trying to play foot you with her.
Speaker 5: I'm trying to engage with her to let her know, like, hey,
Speaker 5: I didn't ask these girls to come over here. They
Speaker 5: just did it on their own. It's got nothing to
Speaker 5: do with me.
Speaker 3: Everything. You didn't move.
Speaker 2: And one time I pretended to fall asleep during a
Speaker 2: date to get the message across that I wasn't interesting.
Speaker 2: I kissed, But what do you think, like in your mind,
Speaker 2: what do you think was happening there?
Speaker 5: I kind of And I told her this too. I
Speaker 5: think the only reason that they were even interested in
Speaker 5: me to begin with was because I was out with
Speaker 5: a really attractive girl. And that's the only time that
Speaker 5: that ever happened to me.
Speaker 3: Did Emma like that reason?
Speaker 5: Not at all?
Speaker 3: Were you able to salvage the date at all?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 3: And how long were they there?
Speaker 5: They were there for the rest of the day, but
Speaker 5: we didn't stay much longer. We uh awkwardly left and
Speaker 5: she wasn't really talking to me. At the end and uh,
Speaker 5: no kiss or anything like that, was just kind of
Speaker 5: hugged and.
Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though
Speaker 2: about like sorry about those two girls, Like I wasn't interesting.
Speaker 3: He told her The whole reason he thought they were
Speaker 3: doing that.
Speaker 5: After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were
Speaker 5: right there, so it was hard for me to address
Speaker 5: it at the table. I just waited till we were
Speaker 5: in the car and I apologized for their behavior and said, look,
Speaker 5: I had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: It was weird.
Speaker 3: What did she say?
Speaker 5: She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, dangde what do you wish you would have
Speaker 1: done differently?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 5: It was a weird social situation, So, I mean, I
Speaker 5: guess I should have asked for a private table, but
Speaker 5: that was kind of the whole experience of the spot
Speaker 5: was to do that with other people.
Speaker 4: Weird.
Speaker 2: I wonder, I wonder where her side is. Well, we'll
Speaker 2: get that from her when we reach out to her,
Speaker 2: but at least next time, probably need to avoid the
Speaker 2: ship or long tables.
Speaker 3: You're just accepting attention from other women. Women is probably
Speaker 3: what you need to avoid.
Speaker 2: When you're with a girl.
Speaker 4: Kerr Brother Chicks.
Speaker 2: Learned, and hopefully we'll get some answers when we reach
Speaker 2: out to Gemma for you and come back. Try to
Speaker 2: get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.
Speaker 2: One of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one
Speaker 2: on one date that suddenly turned into a three on
Speaker 2: one date boy, and the person who got excluded was Jemma,
Speaker 2: the woman that he actually came to the restaurant with,
Speaker 2: because two random girls got up and sat down right
Speaker 2: next to Tony as soon as Gemma went off to
Speaker 2: the bathroom, so when she came back to the table,
Speaker 2: she was forced to sit across from everybody else and
Speaker 2: the whole rest of the night was kind of awkward.
Speaker 2: From there, he tried.
Speaker 1: To play foot seaes does just show Jemma that I'm
Speaker 1: actually interested in you.
Speaker 2: I don't really care about these two new girls, but
Speaker 2: she was gone out of reach.
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 6: It's probably just a table leg and Tony's thoughts on
Speaker 6: why this happened was actually pretty flattering towards Gemma, saying
Speaker 6: that she was so attractive that these other ladies must
Speaker 6: have been paying him.
Speaker 2: Attention, thinking, oh wow, this guy's with this gorgeous woman.
Speaker 2: He must have something pretty special, either downstairs or upstairs,
Speaker 2: who knows. At least that's Tony's thoughts on the situation.
Speaker 2: We need to get Jemma's thoughts and see if we
Speaker 2: can recover.
Speaker 3: Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?
Speaker 5: A little nervous, but I get I kind of am
Speaker 5: knowing what to expect. I think.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're feeling downstairs? Okay,
Speaker 2: nerves go out everywhere.
Speaker 3: Have you talked to her at all since the date?
Speaker 5: No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.
Speaker 2: From three women to zero now giving Tony attention, so
Speaker 2: hopefully she doesn't. You didn't get their numbers, Well, yeah
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 3: We didn't ask, no, absolutely even make this call.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in
Speaker 2: front of her. But okay, well, good luck out there. Yeah,
Speaker 2: let's call Gemma. We'll see if she picks up, and
Speaker 2: hopefully we'll figure out what's going on. Okay, all right, cool,
Speaker 2: let's do it.
Speaker 1: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, we're looking to talk to Jemma.
Speaker 4: This is Gemma.
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.
Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, weird, Why are you calling me?
Speaker 2: Uh well, we're doing a segment called a second Date update.
Speaker 2: Not sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying
Speaker 2: to help out one of our listeners get a hold
Speaker 2: of you after you went out on a date with
Speaker 2: him recently, guy named Tony.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, did you just gag?
Speaker 3: Is that what I heard?
Speaker 5: Okay, you like a cop throat listen.
Speaker 4: I don't know what this guy told you, but it
Speaker 4: was a very, very awkward and incredibly weird.
Speaker 3: He actually told us something similar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events
Speaker 2: that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls
Speaker 2: coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table
Speaker 2: while you went off to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Seriously, Okay, I honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Jemma,
Speaker 1: because that means that you were disappointed, you know.
Speaker 3: What I mean.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you liked him,
Speaker 1: because if he didn't like him, you might come back
Speaker 1: like they got.
Speaker 4: That's putting a really nice spin on it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, Well, Tony says that he felt really bad
Speaker 2: about how it all went down. We're curious how you
Speaker 2: felt about the situation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure he did. Honestly at first when I
Speaker 4: came back and I was like what, And then I
Speaker 4: saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable. So
Speaker 4: I was kind of I was kind of laughing, like inside, Okay.
Speaker 2: That's such a relief.
Speaker 3: What do you think their intentions were?
Speaker 4: Oh, I know what their intentions were. I'm pretty I'm
Speaker 4: pretty sure Tony by the way of a really good
Speaker 4: looking buy. Oh, and they like they swarmed in like
Speaker 4: locusts or whatever.
Speaker 2: I don't know, okay lately, Yeah, but you said that
Speaker 2: you didn't blame that on him.
Speaker 4: I don't think he invited, just necessarily. But I started
Speaker 4: to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.
Speaker 4: I was like, get the hint, ladies, Yeah, he's with me.
Speaker 4: So Tony was so like flummoxed or whatever that he
Speaker 4: didn't even notice. But I called the waiter over and
Speaker 4: I was like, try attempted to bribe the waiter. What's
Speaker 4: he still falsa on these girls?
Speaker 3: Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How
Speaker 3: much money does something like that cost?
Speaker 1: That's the waiter's probably annoyed at them too, if they're
Speaker 1: this type of person.
Speaker 2: To salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.
Speaker 4: I waved a twenty at him and he was like,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I can't do that.
Speaker 2: Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.
Speaker 1: I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why
Speaker 1: are you mad at him?
Speaker 3: Why did you go?
Speaker 4: I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,
Speaker 4: but by the end this went on for so long
Speaker 4: he should have done more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he feels that way too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about
Speaker 2: the whole situation. You're giving Tony a little bit of
Speaker 2: leeway on it. But we can maybe fix this. Because
Speaker 2: I do have to let you know, Tony is currently
Speaker 2: listening to this conversation on the other line waiting to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, are you kidding me?
Speaker 3: That's a joke us and that's the only women.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I am here.
Speaker 3: That's it. That's very formal, Tony.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, first off, I just want to apologize for
Speaker 5: what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.
Speaker 5: Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know
Speaker 5: what to do, to be honest with He was a weird,
Speaker 5: awkward like just it was our first date. I don't
Speaker 5: know these people.
Speaker 2: At Okay, that was That was good, Tony. You can
Speaker 2: let her respond to that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I Kett and I appreciate the apology, Tony,
Speaker 4: but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.
Speaker 4: I'm not hearing anything new.
Speaker 2: Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.
Speaker 1: It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,
Speaker 1: Like he's not like you need to own up to
Speaker 1: like your own non act a little bit more.
Speaker 2: Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother.
Speaker 5: Like no, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.
Speaker 5: That's why it was a tough position too.
Speaker 3: Is that hot for you, jem.
Speaker 4: Now? I mean I don't want to guys like punching
Speaker 4: people in the face, but like you can be a
Speaker 4: little more forceful.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think he was just trying to
Speaker 2: be as respectful as he could.
Speaker 1: And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you
Speaker 1: get where he's coming from.
Speaker 2: What are you saying Brooke, Oh, I'm trying to put
Speaker 2: me in a corner right now?
Speaker 3: Did I just break Jeff.
Speaker 2: Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Gemma.
Speaker 2: Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.
Speaker 2: I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to do communal tables. Yeah, and he's like,
Speaker 2: I will reserve a table for two. So we'd like
Speaker 2: to help facilitate that second date and even pay for
Speaker 2: it if you're willing to give him another shot. What
Speaker 2: do you think, Jenna?
Speaker 4: I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a
Speaker 4: decision since this incident that I just I don't want
Speaker 4: this to be my life going forward. I don't want
Speaker 4: to be going out and fighting off parle raping themselves
Speaker 4: all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments. Well,
Speaker 4: I'm going to date down.
Speaker 2: Hey, you're just going to.
Speaker 3: Date the guys that you find less attractive.
Speaker 2: What does that mean competition?
Speaker 4: I'm not going to go after music, the hottest guy,
Speaker 4: you know, the hottest guy and the dating profile, because
Speaker 4: I just don't need this kind of headache. I mean,
Speaker 4: I like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for
Speaker 4: what I'm looking for right now, I'm not the competition.
Speaker 2: I don't know if we've heard that one on the
Speaker 2: second date update before dating.
Speaker 5: This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting
Speaker 5: that at all.
Speaker 2: Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she
Speaker 2: thinks you are?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this
Speaker 5: never happens to me. Like if I'm out with my friends,
Speaker 5: no girls are approaching.
Speaker 6: Met I usually repulse women something about you.
Speaker 3: Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.
Speaker 4: But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repell them.
Speaker 2: Okay, great, So he hasn't committed to you that he's
Speaker 2: ugly enough.
Speaker 4: I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows
Speaker 4: he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.
Speaker 2: You started with one woman on a date, landed two more,
Speaker 2: and now you've ended up with zero because you're too attractive.
Speaker 2: Now that's boy Matt.
Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like they always say, hot guys finished last.
Speaker 3: Oh, we always feel so bad for you. Hot guys just.
Speaker 2: Can't I feel like I need to stand up for
Speaker 2: my fellow nines and tens out there.
Speaker 3: You're gonna put yourself in there, and I need to.
Speaker 2: Say stop the handsome hate. Yeah, let's use that hashtag
Speaker 2: and start a movement.
Speaker 3: You think that's why we get any complaint for the
Speaker 3: radio station. It's just you're too good looking.
Speaker 2: All the time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure that's why you're in radio.
Speaker 2: I'm so happy. Yeah, I'm just I'm so sorry that
Speaker 2: it didn't work out. Yeah, yeah, I really am.
Speaker 1: I think that guy is so regretting him not getting
Speaker 1: the number for the two other women.
Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean, Like he had a chance,
Speaker 3: his one shot, and he blew it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. But there's always opportunities for you to meet people
Speaker 2: when you come on to this show. Email us. We'll
Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back, and go
Speaker 2: check out all of our second podcast where you get yours.
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