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Speaker 1: Don't you hate it, Jose when you take one woman

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Speaker 2: I know, I know you and you open the door.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's another gagle.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened to one of our listeners today and

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Speaker 1: your second Date updates, so definitely stick around for that story.

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Speaker 3: But first, we always love to start with your comments.

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Speaker 1: Oh, by the way, this is the Second Date podcast,

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Speaker 1: the official one with Brooke and Jeffrey, So thank you

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Speaker 1: for finding us. Yes, and this person said, it's been

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Speaker 1: a while since I listened.

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Speaker 3: You guys are still amazing.

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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 2: We need a little check up here and there.

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Speaker 3: Nothing day totally. Every year old is accountable for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand if you would say, yeah, the worse

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Speaker 1: than I remember.

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Speaker 3: All right, here's your second date starting right now, Brook and.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Second Date updates.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's do a hypothetical here. I always love those,

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Speaker 2: and Brooke, we're gonna pretend that you're single, okay, sing you.

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Speaker 3: I know she's faked up, but for a long.

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Speaker 2: Time you're hanging out at the bar, you're the same

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Speaker 2: age that you are right now. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: say it out loud. Just keep that in mind. But again,

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Speaker 2: to get him to notice you so that he walks over.

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Speaker 1: I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.

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Speaker 2: And what do you do? What do you do?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, Maybe buy him a drink.

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Speaker 2: Extra, You're just like high and Brook. I think you're cute,

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Speaker 2: going to buy your drinks. You flash a bunch of

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Speaker 1: I've told many guys at bars when I was single,

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Speaker 3: We love that, We wouldn't love that. Girls will finally

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Speaker 3: tell you I told you I don't have much shame

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Speaker 2: I do think you forgot I said, you're still your

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Speaker 2: same age as now, but I'm going to let you

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Speaker 3: So I still say that desperate at my age.

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Speaker 2: But I bring it up because one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: on how that happened. Okay, so let's talk to him. Tony.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, how are you guys doing?

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Speaker 3: Were my two twins at the bar? Is that what.

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Speaker 2: She means lookalikes? Not the other girl? Yeah? Classic, there

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Speaker 2: she's accident. I know, apologized for brook, but I know

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Speaker 2: you went on a date recently. Who is it with?

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Speaker 5: Her name is Jemma. We actually meant on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: Nice said, somebody approached you at the bar. You met

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I know. Sorry, that might have been a

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Speaker 5: Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff

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Speaker 2: How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?

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Speaker 5: She thinks it's going bad, Like I don't know, I

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Speaker 2: Almost.

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Speaker 1: It's the thing if they're like making it a joke, right,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I was trying to do everything I could to

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm trying to play foot you with her.

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Speaker 5: I didn't ask these girls to come over here. They

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Speaker 3: Everything. You didn't move.

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Speaker 2: I kissed, But what do you think, like in your mind,

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Speaker 3: Did Emma like that reason?

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Speaker 5: Not at all?

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Speaker 3: Were you able to salvage the date at all?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though

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Speaker 2: about like sorry about those two girls, Like I wasn't interesting.

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Speaker 3: He told her The whole reason he thought they were

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Speaker 5: After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were

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Speaker 5: I had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: It was weird.

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Speaker 3: What did she say?

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Speaker 5: She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, dangde what do you wish you would have

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Speaker 5: It was a weird social situation, So, I mean, I

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Speaker 4: Weird.

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Speaker 2: I wonder, I wonder where her side is. Well, we'll

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Speaker 3: You're just accepting attention from other women. Women is probably

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Speaker 2: When you're with a girl.

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Speaker 4: Kerr Brother Chicks.

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Speaker 2: Learned, and hopefully we'll get some answers when we reach

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Speaker 2: out to Gemma for you and come back. Try to

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Speaker 2: get your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 2: One of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one

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Speaker 2: on one date that suddenly turned into a three on

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Speaker 2: one date boy, and the person who got excluded was Jemma,

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Speaker 2: the woman that he actually came to the restaurant with,

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Speaker 2: the whole rest of the night was kind of awkward.

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Speaker 2: From there, he tried.

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Speaker 1: To play foot seaes does just show Jemma that I'm

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Speaker 1: actually interested in you.

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Speaker 2: I don't really care about these two new girls, but

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Speaker 2: she was gone out of reach.

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 6: It's probably just a table leg and Tony's thoughts on

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Speaker 6: why this happened was actually pretty flattering towards Gemma, saying

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Speaker 6: have been paying him.

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Speaker 2: Attention, thinking, oh wow, this guy's with this gorgeous woman.

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Speaker 2: He must have something pretty special, either downstairs or upstairs,

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Speaker 2: We need to get Jemma's thoughts and see if we

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?

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Speaker 5: A little nervous, but I get I kind of am

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're feeling downstairs? Okay,

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Speaker 3: Have you talked to her at all since the date?

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Speaker 5: No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.

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Speaker 2: From three women to zero now giving Tony attention, so

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Speaker 2: hopefully she doesn't. You didn't get their numbers, Well, yeah

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 3: We didn't ask, no, absolutely even make this call.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in

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Speaker 2: let's call Gemma. We'll see if she picks up, and

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Speaker 2: hopefully we'll figure out what's going on. Okay, all right, cool,

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Speaker 2: let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, we're looking to talk to Jemma.

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Speaker 4: This is Gemma.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, weird, Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 2: Uh well, we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

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Speaker 2: Not sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying

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Speaker 2: to help out one of our listeners get a hold

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Speaker 2: of you after you went out on a date with

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Speaker 2: him recently, guy named Tony.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, did you just gag?

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Speaker 3: Is that what I heard?

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Speaker 5: Okay, you like a cop throat listen.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what this guy told you, but it

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Speaker 3: He actually told us something similar.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events

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Speaker 2: that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls

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Speaker 2: coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table

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Speaker 2: while you went off to the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, Okay, I honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Jemma,

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Speaker 1: because that means that you were disappointed, you know.

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Speaker 3: What I mean.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you liked him,

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Speaker 4: That's putting a really nice spin on it.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, Well, Tony says that he felt really bad

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure he did. Honestly at first when I

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Speaker 4: I was kind of I was kind of laughing, like inside, Okay.

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Speaker 2: That's such a relief.

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Speaker 3: What do you think their intentions were?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I know what their intentions were. I'm pretty I'm

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Speaker 4: pretty sure Tony by the way of a really good

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Speaker 4: looking buy. Oh, and they like they swarmed in like

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Speaker 2: I don't know, okay lately, Yeah, but you said that

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Speaker 2: you didn't blame that on him.

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Speaker 4: I don't think he invited, just necessarily. But I started

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Speaker 4: to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.

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Speaker 4: I was like, get the hint, ladies, Yeah, he's with me.

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Speaker 4: So Tony was so like flummoxed or whatever that he

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Speaker 4: didn't even notice. But I called the waiter over and

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Speaker 4: I was like, try attempted to bribe the waiter. What's

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Speaker 3: Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How

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Speaker 1: That's the waiter's probably annoyed at them too, if they're

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Speaker 2: To salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.

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Speaker 4: I waved a twenty at him and he was like,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.

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Speaker 1: I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why

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Speaker 3: Why did you go?

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Speaker 4: I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,

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Speaker 4: but by the end this went on for so long

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he feels that way too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about

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Speaker 2: I do have to let you know, Tony is currently

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: That's a joke us and that's the only women.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I am here.

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Speaker 3: That's it. That's very formal, Tony.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, first off, I just want to apologize for

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Speaker 5: what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.

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Speaker 5: Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know

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Speaker 5: what to do, to be honest with He was a weird,

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Speaker 5: awkward like just it was our first date. I don't

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Speaker 2: At Okay, that was That was good, Tony. You can

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Speaker 2: let her respond to that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I Kett and I appreciate the apology, Tony,

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Speaker 4: but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.

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Speaker 4: I'm not hearing anything new.

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Speaker 2: Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,

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Speaker 1: Like he's not like you need to own up to

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Speaker 2: Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother.

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Speaker 5: Like no, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.

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Speaker 5: That's why it was a tough position too.

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Speaker 3: Is that hot for you, jem.

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Speaker 4: Now? I mean I don't want to guys like punching

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Speaker 4: people in the face, but like you can be a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think he was just trying to

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Speaker 1: And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you

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Speaker 1: get where he's coming from.

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Speaker 2: What are you saying Brooke, Oh, I'm trying to put

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Speaker 2: me in a corner right now?

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Speaker 3: Did I just break Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Gemma.

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Speaker 2: Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he

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Speaker 2: doesn't want to do communal tables. Yeah, and he's like,

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Speaker 2: I will reserve a table for two. So we'd like

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Speaker 2: to help facilitate that second date and even pay for

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Speaker 2: it if you're willing to give him another shot. What

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Speaker 2: do you think, Jenna?

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Speaker 4: I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a

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Speaker 4: to be going out and fighting off parle raping themselves

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Speaker 4: all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments. Well,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to date down.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you're just going to.

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Speaker 3: Date the guys that you find less attractive.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean competition?

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to go after music, the hottest guy,

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Speaker 4: you know, the hottest guy and the dating profile, because

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Speaker 4: I just don't need this kind of headache. I mean,

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Speaker 4: I like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for

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Speaker 4: what I'm looking for right now, I'm not the competition.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we've heard that one on the

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Speaker 2: second date update before dating.

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Speaker 5: This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting

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Speaker 5: that at all.

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Speaker 2: Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this

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Speaker 5: never happens to me. Like if I'm out with my friends,

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Speaker 5: no girls are approaching.

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Speaker 6: Met I usually repulse women something about you.

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Speaker 3: Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.

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Speaker 4: But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repell them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, So he hasn't committed to you that he's

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Speaker 2: ugly enough.

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Speaker 4: I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows

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Speaker 4: he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.

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Speaker 2: You started with one woman on a date, landed two more,

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Speaker 2: and now you've ended up with zero because you're too attractive.

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Speaker 2: Now that's boy Matt.

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like they always say, hot guys finished last.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we always feel so bad for you. Hot guys just.

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Speaker 2: Can't I feel like I need to stand up for

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Speaker 2: my fellow nines and tens out there.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna put yourself in there, and I need to.

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Speaker 2: Say stop the handsome hate. Yeah, let's use that hashtag

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Speaker 2: and start a movement.

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Speaker 3: You think that's why we get any complaint for the

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Speaker 3: radio station. It's just you're too good looking.

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Speaker 2: All the time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure that's why you're in radio.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy. Yeah, I'm just I'm so sorry that

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Speaker 2: it didn't work out. Yeah, yeah, I really am.

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Speaker 1: I think that guy is so regretting him not getting

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Speaker 1: the number for the two other women.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean, Like he had a chance,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. But there's always opportunities for you to meet people

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Speaker 2: when you come on to this show. Email us. We'll

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Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back, and go

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Speaker 2: check out all of our second podcast where you get yours.

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Speaker 2: Abroke and Jeffrey