WEBVTT - Why You Need a New Hobby #111

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I'm Matt

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're discussing why you need a new hobby. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we are going to talk all about hobbies, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a fun little topic. This is almost more of like

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<v Speaker 1>a lifestyle of thing. But but I'm looking forward to

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<v Speaker 1>how we're gonna sort of tie money into this and

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<v Speaker 1>really why we feel that having hobbies is so important

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<v Speaker 1>for our personal growth as well as our long term

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<v Speaker 1>sort of outlook towards retirement, financial independence. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of implications that that hobbies have, so yeah, that that

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<v Speaker 1>should be a lot of fun. But real quick, I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to share a story with you, you you like we

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<v Speaker 1>always do every week. Oh tell me a story, Matthew. So,

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<v Speaker 1>Kate and I we we received a letter in the

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<v Speaker 1>mail from It said Capital one, and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>different looking letter. It's not the standard envelope that you get.

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<v Speaker 1>So we cracked it open to look and it was

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<v Speaker 1>from Cap one three sixty, which we used to have

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<v Speaker 1>one of those accounts, and so I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of bizarre. So I actually read it. Wait, let

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<v Speaker 1>me guess the end of the story. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>check for a lot of money and you're retiring early

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<v Speaker 1>two dollars. No, but similar to that, they actually said

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<v Speaker 1>that there was an abandoned accounts or it was actually

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to be abandoned within like another month or two,

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<v Speaker 1>and that it was going to be turned over to

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<v Speaker 1>the state because there had been zero activity on it

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say, maybe for three years. Oh and

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, it was only for fifty six bucks,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's a lot of money, but still enough for

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<v Speaker 1>me to want to make that call and look into

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit something. Yeah, But after I thought

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<v Speaker 1>about it for a second, we remembered why we had

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<v Speaker 1>opened that accounts, and it was because there was a

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<v Speaker 1>sign up bonus way back in the day that they

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<v Speaker 1>were offering, and my wife opened that account under her

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<v Speaker 1>name deposited the right amount of money in there to

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<v Speaker 1>meet the requirements to to get that bonus. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we pulled some of it out, but then

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<v Speaker 1>we forgot about it. And you know what, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about the benefits of finding a nice sign up bonus

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<v Speaker 1>for a new checking new saving is a count but

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<v Speaker 1>one downside is that if you are not super organized

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm pretty organized, right, You've talked about the spreads

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<v Speaker 1>c you have many times, but somehow that one kind

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<v Speaker 1>of slipped under the radar. And that's the downside is

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, you don't want to leave these accounts abandoned,

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<v Speaker 1>otherwise it will be turned over to the States and

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<v Speaker 1>you may not actually find that money. Well, how suite

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<v Speaker 1>of capital one three sixty to notify you be the

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<v Speaker 1>mail and you're gonna get your fifty six bucks back

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<v Speaker 1>before this account was closed and wind torment right and

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<v Speaker 1>take that to the bank. Yeah, but I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>important for people to know that there's a chance that

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<v Speaker 1>there's an account like that out there that you've forgotten about.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you also opened up a separate bank account to

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<v Speaker 1>grab that bonus. And the easiest way to track down

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<v Speaker 1>that money that you might have completely forgotten about, well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a site that really helps folks do that, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's called missing money dot com. Missing money helps people

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<v Speaker 1>find the rifle owners of unclaimed money that states received

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<v Speaker 1>like your state Matt was about to receive exactly. You

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<v Speaker 1>can conduct a free search for bank accounts, safe deposit

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<v Speaker 1>box contents, uncash checks, insurance policy CDs, trust funds, utility deposits,

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<v Speaker 1>stocks and bonds escrow accounts and more. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool that it's a lot it is. They're

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<v Speaker 1>all these potential accounts that maybe you've forgotten about, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, maybe search for a parent or a relative,

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<v Speaker 1>a loved one too. But Missing Money is just this

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<v Speaker 1>cool site where you can for free check and see

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<v Speaker 1>if you are somebody that you know and love is

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<v Speaker 1>potentially missing some money that they should have in their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously I searched our name to see if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything else since that kind of came up on

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<v Speaker 1>a radar. Are there more accounts I've forgotten about? I

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<v Speaker 1>also searched your name and saw that there was not,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'd searched my name to what you While I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about this, I was just surprised at the

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<v Speaker 1>different people named large Guard out there because it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really uncommon last name, and just kind of see where

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<v Speaker 1>they're scattered on the country, which, yeah, which which ones

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<v Speaker 1>are missing money? And uh and yeah. So it's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of interesting to see that, But sadly, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>currently missing any money. It's also gonna note that most

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<v Speaker 1>states do participate in that website Missing money dot com,

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<v Speaker 1>but if they don't. They'll say that they don't participate,

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<v Speaker 1>and they'll have a link a lot of times to

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<v Speaker 1>this specific state website where you can typically go and

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<v Speaker 1>search for free so make sure to check that out

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<v Speaker 1>missing money dot com. Yep, all right, Matt, let's mention

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<v Speaker 1>the beer and I put beer in quotation marks because

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<v Speaker 1>so on Monday's episode, we had a cold brew coffee

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're taking another right turn. We're having a

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<v Speaker 1>cider on the show, the second sider we've ever had.

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<v Speaker 1>On this episode, we're having a bourbon barrel peach cider

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<v Speaker 1>by tie it On Cider Works out of Washington State,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jenna, who works with this sidery, sent this br away.

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<v Speaker 1>So thanks to Jennifer sending this one out, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>intrigued and ready to try this one. And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't like beer anymore. We're just taking a

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<v Speaker 1>little late summer beer break, and next episode we're getting

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<v Speaker 1>back to the beer. We promise it's it's all beer

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<v Speaker 1>from here on out for the most part. But but

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<v Speaker 1>since Jenna was kind enough to send us this sider,

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<v Speaker 1>we're ready to try it. So we'll let you know

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<v Speaker 1>what we think about it at the end. Of the show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward to it all right, att onto the subject

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<v Speaker 1>at hand. Today we're discussing why you need a new hobby,

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<v Speaker 1>and last week we discussed why we're saving for retirement.

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<v Speaker 1>Just kind of felt like there's this need to address

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<v Speaker 1>why we're doing that. But interestingly enough, many people that

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<v Speaker 1>retire they have no idea what to do with themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>They get bored and end up going back to work.

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<v Speaker 1>My uncle is this perfect example of this, where he

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<v Speaker 1>retired and sat on his hands. He didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do with his life after retirement, and he ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting a job down the street, part time, twenty

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<v Speaker 1>something hours a week. And I see this all the

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<v Speaker 1>time in my dad's friend group, when they start to

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<v Speaker 1>retire and they go back to work because they don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do with themselves. And sometimes it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>right to to find a more meaningful job, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly finding something that you know, you feel that satisfies

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<v Speaker 1>you more on a personal level, even if it's not

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<v Speaker 1>paying nearly what you were making in your in your

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<v Speaker 1>regular job. Right. Yeah, my cousin he told me recently

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<v Speaker 1>that his dad went back to work after retirement to

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<v Speaker 1>work at home depot but it's because he's obsessed with

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<v Speaker 1>home depot and he was like, he'd be there every

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<v Speaker 1>day of the week. Anyway, I give them so much

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<v Speaker 1>of my money. Anyway, I feel like I could work there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, So I just thought it was really

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<v Speaker 1>funny that for him going back to work wasn't throwing

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<v Speaker 1>in the towel. It wasn't like admitting defeat an interception

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<v Speaker 1>of last resort. Yeah, it was literally this fun new

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<v Speaker 1>option that he could partake in. That's just how be

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<v Speaker 1>and he's putting it to work. But it's important for

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<v Speaker 1>us to choose and develop, in particular budget friendly hobbies. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Wes Moss, who wrote a book about happier retirees,

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<v Speaker 1>he calls him core pursuits, and he mentioned that, Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a good way more pursuits the way

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<v Speaker 1>of describing it. Based on his studies, he says that

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<v Speaker 1>the happiest retirees have roughly three and a half core

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<v Speaker 1>pursuits that are meaningful to them, and the unhappiest retirees

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<v Speaker 1>have fewer than two and and so, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of a good springboard for this conversation that

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<v Speaker 1>whether you're in your twenties or whether you're in your sixties,

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of good reasons to find these

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<v Speaker 1>core pursuits, these hobbies that are meaningful, that are inexpensive,

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<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, that's what this episode is gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>about today. Yeah, so this episode really is all about

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<v Speaker 1>getting more fulfillment out of your leisure time. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>Jill speaking, you know, to the fulfillment, right, finding your

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<v Speaker 1>interests so that when you retired, you retire to something.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting folks to to think long term about fun stuff, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're doing. We talk about that all the

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<v Speaker 1>time with our money specifically, but what we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>on this episode is that we should also be doing

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<v Speaker 1>that with our interests as well. You know, we have

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<v Speaker 1>a like it's such a performance or like work based

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<v Speaker 1>culture in the United States. It's good to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>step outside of that. We're essentially we're trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>again balance in our life, and that's what we always

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<v Speaker 1>strive to do on the show is try to find

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<v Speaker 1>a balance between being smart with our money so that

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<v Speaker 1>we can afford to live like at all, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in the future, but at the same time making sure

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<v Speaker 1>that we are pursuing things that we find personal fulfillment

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<v Speaker 1>in because guess what if that's something that we neglect

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<v Speaker 1>now early on, Yeah, we're we are going to get

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<v Speaker 1>towards the maybe the middle or end of our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>and we might find that we just don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do with ourselves, and we might find that we

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<v Speaker 1>are restless and that we turn to to work to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of find that fulfillment. Yeah. I think work can

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<v Speaker 1>be a safety blanket for you if you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>really good hobbies, meaningful hobbies, those core pursuits, right that

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<v Speaker 1>you're tackling in your life. Well, I think another really

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<v Speaker 1>important part of this. I mean, our show is called

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<v Speaker 1>How the Money, so we have to talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>money aspect of course, right, Well, hobbies can be expensive,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, I guess when I think about

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<v Speaker 1>the quintessential retiree, I'm thinking of someone who plays golf

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<v Speaker 1>two or three times a week, and which is solely

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<v Speaker 1>fine though. I mean, if you are really into golf

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<v Speaker 1>and if that's something that you want to do, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>spend your time doing that once you retired, then that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>But as long as you're kind of doing that because

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<v Speaker 1>you really love it, not just because well, I can

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<v Speaker 1>go play golf, I guess right. Yeah. I was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>today about another hobby that one of my friends recently

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<v Speaker 1>picked up, and that is flying airplanes. That is another

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<v Speaker 1>really expensive hobby. Pretty baller though. It's just so cool though, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally understand the desire to fly airplanes despite the cost.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it can be worthwhile, right, But expensive hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>and spending too much on your hobbies can also be

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<v Speaker 1>a negative, right if we're not doing it inside the

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<v Speaker 1>bounds of a good budget. So I think it's important

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<v Speaker 1>to mention that there are some awesome hobbies out there

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<v Speaker 1>that are free and cheap. And we think that by

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally choosing hobbies and pursuing interests that are affordable, what

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<v Speaker 1>keeps you from the temptation of diving down that spending

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<v Speaker 1>rabbit hole. So obviously, if you're making a specific choice

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<v Speaker 1>based on something that you really love that does cost

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<v Speaker 1>money and if fits into your budget, then that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's also important to mention that there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of killer hobbies out there that are really fun

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<v Speaker 1>that are free and cheap. Jell. Another way to say

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<v Speaker 1>that is essentially we're curating our tastes, right, Like there

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<v Speaker 1>are certain hobbies, certain things that we could pick up

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<v Speaker 1>that are really expensive, like you said golf or flying

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<v Speaker 1>airplanes that that could be really expensive. But if that's

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<v Speaker 1>your passion and that gives you an incredible fulfillment, then

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. But just don't fall into something like that

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<v Speaker 1>almost without even thinking about it, because you could spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money towards those pursuits. And so part

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<v Speaker 1>of the reason why we're saying hobbies as well and

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<v Speaker 1>and less entertainment is for me at least, entertainment has

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<v Speaker 1>sort of this connotation of like passive consumption, where without

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<v Speaker 1>even really thinking about it, we're just being fed fun stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>right Versus a hobby is typically something that you pursue,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you pursue something, there's engagement there. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know that anytime I'm more engaged in something that I'm doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I literally feel more personal fulfillments and I end up

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<v Speaker 1>being a better person. And there's just lots of other

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<v Speaker 1>benefits that come with these hot bays that we can

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<v Speaker 1>pursue versus just lumping this all into maybe what we'd

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<v Speaker 1>call entertainment. Yeah, I mean, you and I we like

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<v Speaker 1>to go to soccer games and I would say that

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<v Speaker 1>soccer games are not a hobby. Those are entertainment and

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool. I enjoy spending my money in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I like one of soccer games. It's super fun. But

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not a hobby. And so yeah, like we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about hobbies slash core pursuits in general, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think following a sports team or anything like that

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<v Speaker 1>would necessarily make that cut. Yeah, well, let me jump

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<v Speaker 1>on that example. Let's say you're part of a supporters

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<v Speaker 1>group though, and every week you're part of the design

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<v Speaker 1>team that put together the t pos, like the giant

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<v Speaker 1>banners that they raised up at the beginning of the match.

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<v Speaker 1>That's more of a hobby, Like, that's that's you're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of providing value to the team. There, there's something else

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<v Speaker 1>going on there versus just sort of passively sitting back

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of consuming the match. Right. Yeah, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>community aspect of that as well, exactly, And we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get to some of those benefits later on in the show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And while we're talking about the price disparity in hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>in particular, if you're hearing this right now and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I do need to find a new hobby. Why, I

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<v Speaker 1>would suggest looking at the costs of that hobby and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find something that is inexpensive. If you're already

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<v Speaker 1>locked into a hobby that is pretty expensive but you

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<v Speaker 1>love it, that's cool. But this is also a chance,

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<v Speaker 1>I think for some people who have been doing a

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<v Speaker 1>hobby but don't necessarily find it terribly fulfilling, to ditch

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<v Speaker 1>the expensive hobby and find something new. Yeah, Joel, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about money the cost of hobbies, right, but

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<v Speaker 1>there are other factors that are worth considering. I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of certain hobbies that just might take up a massive

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<v Speaker 1>amount of time, and that's fine. I'm thinking of maybe

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<v Speaker 1>if you like to go voting or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>probably especially good, by the way, if it takes up

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time if you are retired, yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got lots of time then. But either way, you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to make sure that you are intentionally doing

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<v Speaker 1>that because you love it. Brings you an incredible amount

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<v Speaker 1>of fulfillment, because not only will something like that take

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<v Speaker 1>up a lot of your money your funds, but also

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of your time as well. And if it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that you're only kind of halfway excited about. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it may not be a hobby worth pursuing. Right, There's

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<v Speaker 1>also a lot of other factors to consider, Right, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of other areas in our life where our

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<v Speaker 1>hobbies can come into play. And we're gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 1>those right after the break. All right, Matt, we're back.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about hobbies, which is a fun little topic here.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever go to a HobbyTown USA? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>have one of those when you're growing up? But we

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<v Speaker 1>totally did. Yeah, And you know what, I always go

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<v Speaker 1>in there and by like the twenty one side of dice.

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<v Speaker 1>I never got those, but I always wanted. No, I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I truly wasn't, But I did want the car kits

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<v Speaker 1>where you could like glue all these pieces of a

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<v Speaker 1>car together, and and I but I honestly I never

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<v Speaker 1>did one successfully. I just don't think I had the

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<v Speaker 1>attention to detail. Yeah, with those, I always just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of drive it after the facts. It's like, okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>does it run? Where's the remote? It's like, no, it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just sits there on the shelf. No. I

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<v Speaker 1>was so much better with the remote control cars. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so much more fun, Like let's actually skip the building.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks cool the finished product, but I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the concentration actually keep going on it. So yeah, remote

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<v Speaker 1>control cars definitely more of my alley, more fun, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>But we want to talk about the additional, potentially secret

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<v Speaker 1>benefits of hobbies that most people don't really think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually it's something that you're naturally attracted to, or something

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<v Speaker 1>that a friend maybe got you into, but we don't

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<v Speaker 1>think about the power that hobbies have in our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, of course Money Show, we gotta talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the money factor that goes along with hobbies. Hobbies can

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<v Speaker 1>end up earning you extra money. It can turn into

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<v Speaker 1>a side hustle or potentially even a full time gig sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>So in my mind, that's not usually the purpose of

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<v Speaker 1>a hobby, but sometimes you find that you're so into

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<v Speaker 1>it and you become so good at something exactly even

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<v Speaker 1>that it turns into more and you can actually make

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<v Speaker 1>sign income or a full time living based on a

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<v Speaker 1>hobby that you pursued, which is which is cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I completely agree. You can't underestimate the power. You said

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<v Speaker 1>the power of hobbies a second ago, right, But you

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<v Speaker 1>can't underestimate the power that a hobby might have down

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<v Speaker 1>the road when it comes to generating money. However, I

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<v Speaker 1>think what you said is true. I think we need

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<v Speaker 1>to be careful when it comes to hobbies because really

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<v Speaker 1>they should be I think something different than ways that

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<v Speaker 1>we're able to make money, because it's something that we

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<v Speaker 1>should be pursuing because we love it, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of have a passion for it. And if

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<v Speaker 1>we start immediately looking to ways that maybe we can

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<v Speaker 1>monetize that hobby, then you know, maybe it's not truly

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<v Speaker 1>a hobby that you're trying to build a side. Probably, Yeah, exactly. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>it's another fine thing we've talked about on the show before.

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<v Speaker 1>But but hobbies, this core pursuit kind of mentality that

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<v Speaker 1>we're getting into it is altogether different. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>something you're pursuing most of the time purely for the

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure of doing this task, of of of partaking in

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<v Speaker 1>this hobby. Sometimes it leads to more though, just for funzies.

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<v Speaker 1>Right exactly makes me think of the old guys you

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<v Speaker 1>see on the beach with the metal detectors, and I

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<v Speaker 1>still totally want one of those, because not because I

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm gonna make a killing, But because I just

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a fun way to spend time at the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not have the little Scooper and you got your

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<v Speaker 1>metal detector with the headphones then so you can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hear a beep or whatever over the waves, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like who needs crashing waves and the beautiful sound of

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<v Speaker 1>seagulls When you could hear these beeps to that, you

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<v Speaker 1>were all the changes right, Honestly, I totally see you

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<v Speaker 1>doing that your old age. I've already got the hat.

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<v Speaker 1>You've seen my beach. Have a hat for it. It's massive,

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<v Speaker 1>keeps the son from burning muskin. You're half the way there,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I know what to get cheap for Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>If you get me one of those, man, I'll totally

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<v Speaker 1>use it proudly. So one of the most unique hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>that I have heard of recently. Matt I heard about

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<v Speaker 1>in an interview with an actor Danny McBride. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know who he is? I do not, Okay, So he's

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<v Speaker 1>been in a couple of awesome shows and movies. He's

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<v Speaker 1>really funny and pretty out there, but he uh. He's

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<v Speaker 1>telling the story that he recently moved to Charleston, South Carolina.

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<v Speaker 1>Good place abnormal for actors, but I think that's so

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<v Speaker 1>cool that he did it anyway, Like, that's awesome. And

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<v Speaker 1>he was trying to meet new friends, and so he

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<v Speaker 1>was hanging out with dads of kids that his kids

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<v Speaker 1>were friends with, preschool dads or whatever. Yeah, and this

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<v Speaker 1>one dad took him on this excursion to find sharks teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>but not just like sharks teeth on the beach, prehistoric

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<v Speaker 1>sharks teeth in these sand corries or something that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to break into. And so that's like his new

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<v Speaker 1>hobby is jumping fences finding these like nine inch long

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<v Speaker 1>prehistoric sharks teeth, and he's just super into it. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought that was interesting. It's pretty cool. Hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>can run the gamut. Yeah. Absolutely, That's definitely one that

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<v Speaker 1>may not necessarily make you money immediately, but I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 1>those teeth are going to be worth money right in

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<v Speaker 1>the long term, as long as you don't get busted

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<v Speaker 1>and sent to jailing, you know. Yeah, so true. So hobbies,

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<v Speaker 1>they may not always make you money. Oftentimes they probably won't,

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<v Speaker 1>but at the very least hobbies could save you money.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking about doing things like gardening, even working in

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<v Speaker 1>the yard, a lot of folks that sounds not like

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<v Speaker 1>a hobby. It just sounds like yard work. But personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoy working in the yard, whether you know,

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<v Speaker 1>comes to landscaping or literally cutting the grass weed eating.

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<v Speaker 1>I just love that feeling of accomplishment that I have

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<v Speaker 1>when when it's all done and it just looks so

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<v Speaker 1>fresh and nice, and I know that I've done that myself.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's a way that I can save money by

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<v Speaker 1>not having those expenses. You're welcome to bring your passion

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<v Speaker 1>for that hobby to my front yard anytime. See that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem, though, you own that yard, and therefore I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to care as much what your yard looks

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<v Speaker 1>may but from my yard, I like it looking nice. Understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>But also I'm thinking of two you and I. We

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<v Speaker 1>both bike, and what if we really got into bike maintenance.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of guys that find a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>fulfillments in that I personally don't as much. I will

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<v Speaker 1>maintain my bike and I'll work on it, maybe only

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<v Speaker 1>to save money, but it's not something that I like doing. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't take my bike, I don't put it up

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<v Speaker 1>on those bikes stand and start cleaning it. And tweaking

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<v Speaker 1>it and you know, tightening things up that need to

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<v Speaker 1>be tightened up. Although I should. Yeah, that's something I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to get into, yes, because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not terribly good with my hands. But it's something

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<v Speaker 1>that's not terribly complex. I feel like I could figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out pretty quickly and start to learn the ropes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it is something that's on my radar. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good hobby maybe for me in the future

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<v Speaker 1>when I have a little bit more free time, while

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time saving you money exactly, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>And another benefit of hobbies that we don't think about

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<v Speaker 1>all that often is the health benefits. About eight percent

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<v Speaker 1>of Americans just aren't active enough. If we can find

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<v Speaker 1>hobbies that are better for our health, it will make

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<v Speaker 1>us happier. Will you're not likelihood live longer, And these

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<v Speaker 1>hobbies will cost us less money in healthcare in the

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<v Speaker 1>long run, yea. And in the long run, as long

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<v Speaker 1>as you don't kind of fall and break your ankle

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<v Speaker 1>when you're running for free, right Like, like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>can go running for free, but that's way better than

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<v Speaker 1>what a sedentary lifestyle too, health wise, Like a broken ankle,

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<v Speaker 1>it's totally true. It's a blip on the radar along

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<v Speaker 1>the way. I'll take a broken ankle once or twice

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<v Speaker 1>in my lifetime versus never being able to run my

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<v Speaker 1>entire life and then dealing with the health consequences of

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<v Speaker 1>that long term. Completely agree. Yeah, I've had some mix

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<v Speaker 1>ups in my hobbies, especially in biking, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of crashes along the way that led to broken

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<v Speaker 1>bones or whatever. And you know what, I'm okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't trade it for anything, and especially the fitness component,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've grown to love it and it's been my

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<v Speaker 1>primary source of fitness through the years. So yeah, have

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<v Speaker 1>we ever talked about how we love biking. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we have, which is do an episode should tell

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<v Speaker 1>people that we like biking right now. And so, aside

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<v Speaker 1>from health benefits of your physical body, there's also mental

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<v Speaker 1>benefits that come along with finding hobbies, finding different ways

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<v Speaker 1>that we can engage our brains in a way that

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<v Speaker 1>is different than what we do forty plus hours a week. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>That is so sinking important. Those hobbies that can give

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<v Speaker 1>us breaks and just different interesting activities usually can stimulate

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<v Speaker 1>us mentally. What it does is that it keeps us sharp,

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<v Speaker 1>even just kind of reading a different book than we

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<v Speaker 1>normally would, or even just joining a book club is

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<v Speaker 1>the way that we can engage your minds and make

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<v Speaker 1>us a more rounded person. Yeah, and and break out

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<v Speaker 1>of the ordinary, right that the stuff that we're used

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<v Speaker 1>to doing hobbies can be these bright spots in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of our week. And Matt, you just mentioned it's

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<v Speaker 1>different than what we do forty hours a week. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to mention too, for the stay at home moms

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<v Speaker 1>out there, I know your brains can turn into mush

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<v Speaker 1>being with children that many hours every single day. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's true for my wife at times that

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<v Speaker 1>when I come home, adult conversation is very welcomed. And

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<v Speaker 1>and then too that the hobbies that she pursues on

0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:32.640
<v Speaker 1>the side can be so helpful, even just the adult interactions.

0:19:32.680 --> 0:19:35.480
<v Speaker 1>So for her, she has gotten into a book club recently,

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<v Speaker 1>so she enjoys just the act of reading the book

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<v Speaker 1>and then meeting with adults to discuss what the book

0:19:40.480 --> 0:19:43.000
<v Speaker 1>was about, and oftentimes that's over a glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to mention a little shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to the stay at home moms out there who who

0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:47.959
<v Speaker 1>do an awesome job, and I know it's a very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult task. I think thinking through and pursuing meaningful hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>is so important for them as well. And I know

0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:56.399
<v Speaker 1>it's much harder for for moms that are with their

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<v Speaker 1>kids that much of the time to actually even have

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<v Speaker 1>the bandwidth to think through the obvious they want to pursue.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, in that case, it's not about staying sharp,

0:20:03.160 --> 0:20:06.840
<v Speaker 1>but it's almost a matter of staying like sane, right completely.

0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:08.359
<v Speaker 1>So what you're saying is that Emily doesn't like you

0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:10.120
<v Speaker 1>coming home and then she leaves to go like babysit

0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.639
<v Speaker 1>or something like that, Like that's like I'm gonna go

0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:15.520
<v Speaker 1>caretake for these other children. Definitely not, she would not

0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:17.360
<v Speaker 1>be into that at all, but she loves the once

0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:20.240
<v Speaker 1>we have though. And you know, another delightful benefit of

0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:22.680
<v Speaker 1>hobbies is just the social aspect of it, Joel. You

0:20:22.680 --> 0:20:24.160
<v Speaker 1>you kind of just touched on this a little bit

0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:26.159
<v Speaker 1>with the book club, Like there's a social aspect to it,

0:20:26.240 --> 0:20:29.040
<v Speaker 1>but just finding your people, having friend groups outside of

0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:32.840
<v Speaker 1>work and family is likely a really healthy thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's another one of those components that we need to

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<v Speaker 1>incorporate in our lives in order to kind of maintain

0:20:37.040 --> 0:20:39.560
<v Speaker 1>a balanced life. So, Matt, now that we talked about

0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:41.959
<v Speaker 1>some of the best benefits of hobbies, I gotta ask you,

0:20:41.960 --> 0:20:43.840
<v Speaker 1>what are your favorite hobbies? And I know the aunt

0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:45.960
<v Speaker 1>farm is gonna be one of them, right well, I

0:20:46.000 --> 0:20:47.280
<v Speaker 1>knew you were in turn, the day was on me

0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:49.399
<v Speaker 1>and asked me this question. So as I've given this

0:20:49.440 --> 0:20:51.520
<v Speaker 1>more thought and I've given it some time, what I've

0:20:51.520 --> 0:20:54.960
<v Speaker 1>realized that I really enjoy doing is building stuff, and

0:20:55.040 --> 0:20:57.919
<v Speaker 1>not building something for money necessarily, but building something just

0:20:57.960 --> 0:21:01.200
<v Speaker 1>because there's pure enjoyment out of being creative and out

0:21:01.240 --> 0:21:03.280
<v Speaker 1>of basically solving a problem and then being able to

0:21:03.280 --> 0:21:06.000
<v Speaker 1>step back and looking at your finished project. Just even

0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:07.800
<v Speaker 1>looking back to college, when I was building my first

0:21:07.800 --> 0:21:10.800
<v Speaker 1>website and dream weaver, it was something digital that I created,

0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:12.679
<v Speaker 1>but it was still something that I had poured myself

0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:15.720
<v Speaker 1>into for several days. And it wasn't even for a

0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:17.600
<v Speaker 1>class project. I wasn't getting paid for it, but it

0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:19.840
<v Speaker 1>was something I was just curious to learn. And I

0:21:19.880 --> 0:21:22.360
<v Speaker 1>can see that in my life even today. We've got

0:21:22.359 --> 0:21:24.760
<v Speaker 1>the playhouse in the backyard for the girls, and it

0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:26.919
<v Speaker 1>was something that was a lot of work, and my

0:21:27.000 --> 0:21:28.760
<v Speaker 1>dad and my father in law. They both helped me.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, when I was working on that,

0:21:31.119 --> 0:21:34.360
<v Speaker 1>to the outsider, it might look like work, but to me, man,

0:21:34.440 --> 0:21:36.840
<v Speaker 1>it was so much freaking fun being faced with a

0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.199
<v Speaker 1>problem like that and finding ways to solve it. And

0:21:39.200 --> 0:21:40.760
<v Speaker 1>then of course in the end, we've got an awesome

0:21:40.760 --> 0:21:43.040
<v Speaker 1>playhouse that the girls love playing in and having this

0:21:43.160 --> 0:21:45.320
<v Speaker 1>the super cool structure. Man, I just found so much

0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:48.320
<v Speaker 1>joy and satisfaction in that. So what I guess the

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<v Speaker 1>reason I'm saying that is, I think sometimes it's hard

0:21:50.160 --> 0:21:53.920
<v Speaker 1>for us as individuals to pinpoint specific hobbies that we have.

0:21:54.200 --> 0:21:56.640
<v Speaker 1>But I think if we can identify just these themes

0:21:56.920 --> 0:21:59.560
<v Speaker 1>that we find running throughout our life, maybe we can

0:21:59.600 --> 0:22:02.800
<v Speaker 1>identify my uh new hobbies a little bit easier. But

0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:05.720
<v Speaker 1>that being said, of course I like to run, I

0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:07.960
<v Speaker 1>like riding my bike, all the different things that we

0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:10.040
<v Speaker 1>we we often talk about on the show. Well, speaking

0:22:10.040 --> 0:22:12.560
<v Speaker 1>about how we identify hobby, we're gonna talk about that

0:22:12.600 --> 0:22:15.159
<v Speaker 1>in just a minute. I'll quickly mentioned the hobbies that

0:22:15.200 --> 0:22:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I enjoy the most. I like biking, I like disc golf,

0:22:17.840 --> 0:22:19.639
<v Speaker 1>and I love nerdy board games like those are like

0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:22.680
<v Speaker 1>the three hobbies that I see myself pursuing. And part

0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:25.159
<v Speaker 1>of the reason I love in particular board games is

0:22:25.200 --> 0:22:28.200
<v Speaker 1>because they're very very social in nature. They're like unlimited

0:22:28.200 --> 0:22:30.560
<v Speaker 1>nerdy board games that you could partake in, and I

0:22:30.600 --> 0:22:32.359
<v Speaker 1>have so many friends that are into them that I

0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:34.160
<v Speaker 1>can fire up a text chain and get people together

0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:35.720
<v Speaker 1>pretty much any night of the week to play some

0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:38.040
<v Speaker 1>nerdy board games. So yeah, those are the main hobbies

0:22:38.080 --> 0:22:40.200
<v Speaker 1>that I kind of currently pursue. What about a folk

0:22:40.320 --> 0:22:42.200
<v Speaker 1>art that's that's I mean, would you consider that a hobby?

0:22:42.200 --> 0:22:43.639
<v Speaker 1>You kind of collect folk art a little bit. I

0:22:43.640 --> 0:22:45.840
<v Speaker 1>don't think of that as much of a hobby as

0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:49.439
<v Speaker 1>something that's just like an interest, yeah, hobby less of

0:22:49.440 --> 0:22:51.840
<v Speaker 1>an activity, you know, Like there's some people who actively

0:22:51.880 --> 0:22:53.719
<v Speaker 1>pursue art. I think you have to have a lot

0:22:53.720 --> 0:22:55.960
<v Speaker 1>of money if you're gonna do that. Yeah, yeah, And

0:22:56.000 --> 0:22:58.080
<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, maybe someday I'll get more into the

0:22:58.160 --> 0:22:59.679
<v Speaker 1>art and it will become more of an actual like

0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:01.760
<v Speaker 1>hobby or something, But for now, it's like a side

0:23:01.760 --> 0:23:04.000
<v Speaker 1>interest that I enjoy. And so on that note of

0:23:04.160 --> 0:23:06.240
<v Speaker 1>how to pick a hobby, We've got some ideas to

0:23:06.320 --> 0:23:08.280
<v Speaker 1>help you get started finding the right one for you,

0:23:08.400 --> 0:23:20.120
<v Speaker 1>and we'll get to that right after the break. All right, Joel,

0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:21.840
<v Speaker 1>we are back, and now we're going to get to

0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:25.679
<v Speaker 1>the application stage of of the episode, where hopefully, you know,

0:23:25.720 --> 0:23:27.200
<v Speaker 1>with these steps, we can help folks to kind of

0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 1>narrow in on some different hobbies that they might find

0:23:30.280 --> 0:23:32.359
<v Speaker 1>fulfilling for them. And the first thing I want to

0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:34.200
<v Speaker 1>suggest is that this might kind of sound a little

0:23:34.200 --> 0:23:36.720
<v Speaker 1>old school, but looking at magazines, you know, when was

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:38.000
<v Speaker 1>the last time you went to a bookstore and you

0:23:38.119 --> 0:23:40.280
<v Speaker 1>went down the magazine section and you saw just all

0:23:40.280 --> 0:23:42.679
<v Speaker 1>the different covers of all these awesome different things that

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:44.920
<v Speaker 1>folks could do or honestly even better yet, like your

0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:47.119
<v Speaker 1>local library, Like, don't go to the bookstore. You can

0:23:47.160 --> 0:23:49.800
<v Speaker 1>go to the library, but there's something about going into

0:23:49.800 --> 0:23:52.119
<v Speaker 1>a physical space. You can see what images and what

0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:54.520
<v Speaker 1>covers are you are you drawn to? Right? Like oftentimes

0:23:54.520 --> 0:23:57.000
<v Speaker 1>magazines they're just based around hobbies. And again this is

0:23:57.080 --> 0:23:58.679
<v Speaker 1>kind of a pretty broad but I think it can

0:23:58.720 --> 0:24:01.000
<v Speaker 1>be a helpful start if you really have no idea

0:24:01.520 --> 0:24:03.919
<v Speaker 1>you know what you're looking to pursue at all. Oh,

0:24:04.040 --> 0:24:05.960
<v Speaker 1>that yarn on the magazine cover looks pretty I guess

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:07.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm into knitting. Some folks are in a knitting dogar.

0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not, but maybe that's because I've never

0:24:10.840 --> 0:24:13.080
<v Speaker 1>tried it all right, So maybe I gotta give it

0:24:13.119 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 1>a shot. Yeah. Another helpful exercise to help you get

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:18.439
<v Speaker 1>started in thinking about what hobbies might be right for

0:24:18.480 --> 0:24:20.919
<v Speaker 1>you is to consider where your mind drifts to at

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:24.119
<v Speaker 1>the end of a long vacation, when you're out of

0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:27.280
<v Speaker 1>your usual schedule and rhythm of life, what do you

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 1>start to think about what excites you? Where does your

0:24:30.080 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 1>mind that's free of daily labors take you? And I

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:36.080
<v Speaker 1>think that can be an insight into what hobbies you

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:39.160
<v Speaker 1>might want to pursue. So don't shut down your vacation brain,

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:40.919
<v Speaker 1>kind of look into it a little bit and and

0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:43.919
<v Speaker 1>see if there's something there. Another good exercise is to

0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:46.239
<v Speaker 1>look to your past, and what I mean by that

0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:49.200
<v Speaker 1>is to ask yourself and trying to think back figure

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:50.840
<v Speaker 1>out what it was it that you did as a

0:24:50.920 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 1>kid that you enjoy doing, and you can translate that

0:24:53.960 --> 0:24:57.000
<v Speaker 1>into a hobby as an adult. If as a kid

0:24:57.080 --> 0:24:59.439
<v Speaker 1>you loved running through the woods and you know, setting

0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:01.040
<v Speaker 1>up booby tra apps, which is one of the things

0:25:01.119 --> 0:25:05.760
<v Speaker 1>I enjoy doing, of course, maybe as an adult you

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:07.680
<v Speaker 1>can still run through the woods, but maybe you're not

0:25:07.720 --> 0:25:11.520
<v Speaker 1>setting booby traps trail running. No booby exactly, trail running,

0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I love hiking. It's just one of the things that,

0:25:14.160 --> 0:25:16.560
<v Speaker 1>aside from muscle fatigue, I feel like I could really

0:25:16.600 --> 0:25:19.040
<v Speaker 1>just do without stopping, Like I can just kind of

0:25:19.080 --> 0:25:23.080
<v Speaker 1>continually explore, you know, see the wilderness, hike up different mountains,

0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:24.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, like get to the top, all that kind

0:25:24.640 --> 0:25:26.639
<v Speaker 1>of stuff. I feel like that ties into maybe me

0:25:26.760 --> 0:25:28.879
<v Speaker 1>as a kid, where man, I just I love spending

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:31.520
<v Speaker 1>tons of time outside and playing in the woods. All right,

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:34.439
<v Speaker 1>So this makes me think. There's a comedian, Kevin Nelon

0:25:34.640 --> 0:25:37.359
<v Speaker 1>who's got a YouTube channel and it's called Hiking with

0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Kevin Nelon, and he goes on a different hike every

0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:43.200
<v Speaker 1>week and brings along a friend and he literally holds

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:45.760
<v Speaker 1>a camera facing him and he has a conversation with

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:49.400
<v Speaker 1>a new, interesting, different friend every week. And I gues's

0:25:49.440 --> 0:25:51.720
<v Speaker 1>just a cool idea. So if you're into like comedians

0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:54.240
<v Speaker 1>with cars basically except for it's like hiking pretty much

0:25:55.920 --> 0:25:58.159
<v Speaker 1>took you to a different setting whatever. Yeah, but I

0:25:58.440 --> 0:26:01.239
<v Speaker 1>love that. You can tell there's just a marriage of

0:26:01.359 --> 0:26:04.400
<v Speaker 1>two things. He loves having an interesting conversation and going

0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:06.920
<v Speaker 1>for a hike. So that's really cool. I appreciate that. Yeah,

0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:08.480
<v Speaker 1>that's super cool. And what is it with you? And

0:26:08.560 --> 0:26:10.520
<v Speaker 1>you're watching and listening to a lot of the comedians

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 1>these days, I guess I like comedy podcasts. I guess

0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:16.199
<v Speaker 1>it's good stuff. Not the traditional ones, but but intelligent

0:26:16.320 --> 0:26:19.000
<v Speaker 1>comedians having interesting conversations. I would say so much of

0:26:19.000 --> 0:26:22.200
<v Speaker 1>the time, comedians have the most interesting insights about daily life.

0:26:22.400 --> 0:26:24.800
<v Speaker 1>And another thing to to think about when you're looking

0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:27.280
<v Speaker 1>to choose a hobby for yourself is to see what

0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:29.320
<v Speaker 1>your friends are doing. What are they doing that you're

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:31.840
<v Speaker 1>not doing, and maybe you get the invite and you

0:26:31.880 --> 0:26:34.680
<v Speaker 1>say yes next time. As opposed to know, sometimes trying

0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:36.720
<v Speaker 1>things out that you've never tried before is the perfect

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:38.679
<v Speaker 1>way to get into something you kind of have no

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:41.040
<v Speaker 1>idea whether you're into it unless you give it a shot.

0:26:41.480 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 1>Like knitting. We just talked about that, Matt, who knows, like, seriously,

0:26:44.960 --> 0:26:46.879
<v Speaker 1>I could potentially get into knitting if I gave it

0:26:46.920 --> 0:26:49.240
<v Speaker 1>a shot. And now I feel like, after saying that

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:50.919
<v Speaker 1>out loud, I have to give it a shot. So

0:26:51.119 --> 0:26:52.800
<v Speaker 1>if anybody out there wants to teach me how to knit,

0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:55.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm in Plus it's just a nice skill to have, right, Yeah,

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:57.880
<v Speaker 1>will you make me an Atlanta United scarf? I certainly will.

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:00.919
<v Speaker 1>That's gonna be. That's like the default adding item, right

0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 1>is a scarf. But you can make some pretty dope

0:27:02.920 --> 0:27:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta United soccer scarves with that. Yeah. One of our friends,

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 1>actually she knits Christmas stockings and she gives them to friends.

0:27:08.320 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>That's her hobby. That's something she loves to do. And

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>yes she's done that for us. I totally forgot about that.

0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:15.480
<v Speaker 1>But super sweet and a very cool gift. Yeah, they're

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 1>the coolest. Every year when we break those out at

0:27:17.359 --> 0:27:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Christmas time, we're in awe of how cool they are.

0:27:19.600 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 1>And it shows that that that pursuit for her has

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:24.280
<v Speaker 1>been something really meaningful. So you know what, maybe I'll

0:27:24.320 --> 0:27:25.600
<v Speaker 1>have her teach me how on it. And the first

0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:28.240
<v Speaker 1>item up for business is your Landing United scarf. Don't worry,

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:31.920
<v Speaker 1>thanks buddy. Okay, something else to consider. Well, As a photographer,

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be a little biased, but I want folks

0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:36.640
<v Speaker 1>to ask themselves, what do I take photos of my face?

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 1>A lot of selfies and so your hobby should be makeup.

0:27:40.280 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I guess your own vanity. But no, seriously ask yourself

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:46.360
<v Speaker 1>that question, like, look at your Instagram account or look

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:48.399
<v Speaker 1>on Facebook. What are you posting pictures of? Is it food?

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's architecture or landscapes, Maybe it's the different activities

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:54.440
<v Speaker 1>that you're taking part of. I think that this can

0:27:54.480 --> 0:27:58.200
<v Speaker 1>help you look with intention at what you maybe even

0:27:58.200 --> 0:28:01.199
<v Speaker 1>subconsciously find joy. And we say this a little jokingly,

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:02.600
<v Speaker 1>but it kind of goes back to the Marie condo,

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 1>like what is it that you're taking photos of? Because

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:06.679
<v Speaker 1>you know what that might be, something that's sparking enjoying

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:08.679
<v Speaker 1>you and you don't even realize it, but you've got

0:28:08.760 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 1>sort of this record of proof of what it is

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:13.160
<v Speaker 1>that you actually enjoy and maybe what your next hobby

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 1>should be. Yeah, I think if we took the time

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:17.600
<v Speaker 1>to take a picture of it, typically there was some

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:19.199
<v Speaker 1>sort of meaning involved. And you know, you might be

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.439
<v Speaker 1>waiting through picks of beers that you've had or I

0:28:22.440 --> 0:28:24.639
<v Speaker 1>was gonna say, there's lots of pictures of beer on

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>my on my phone and that's because I love beer,

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:29.520
<v Speaker 1>and so I think that's totally fine. That's it's kind

0:28:29.560 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 1>of a hobby of mine. Like we kind of pursue

0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:34.119
<v Speaker 1>beer we traveled to breweries, but yeah, I've got pictures

0:28:34.119 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 1>of tons of other things that are super meaningful too,

0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:38.480
<v Speaker 1>So so yeah, I think that's a good thought. Another

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:41.120
<v Speaker 1>question to ask is when was the last time that

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:44.160
<v Speaker 1>time completely flew by and you forgot to eat? That

0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>shows that you were passionate about something. Maybe you completely

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 1>skipped a meal like lunch or dinner because you were

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>engrossed in a side pursuit. So think about that last

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<v Speaker 1>time where something grabbed your attention at that level, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you can find a way to pursue that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What coders call that is being in flow right or

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<v Speaker 1>like being in the zone is like the I forget

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<v Speaker 1>what it's like positive psychology or something like that. Flow state,

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<v Speaker 1>flow state. Yeah, But for me, when I think back

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<v Speaker 1>to activities where I completely forgot to eat and skip

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<v Speaker 1>not only one, but even two meals in a day,

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<v Speaker 1>we're back to that example that I gave when I

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<v Speaker 1>was building things. When I'm so engrossed in something and

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<v Speaker 1>completely consumed, it's like the outside world just shuts off

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>and I find myself just completely just immersed in that

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<v Speaker 1>project to not just complete it, but just because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>finding enjoyment in it, And another way that you can

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<v Speaker 1>identify a cool hobby is to consider volunteering. Not only

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<v Speaker 1>will you have the chance to meet some cool people,

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<v Speaker 1>but you might even get to attend some cool events

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<v Speaker 1>for completely free and that falls squarely on the side

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<v Speaker 1>of frugal hobbies. Yeah, if you volunteer at a local

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:47.040
<v Speaker 1>music venue, you might get to see some free shows.

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<v Speaker 1>My favorite place to volunteer is neighborhood festivals around town.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always a lot of need and I always get

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<v Speaker 1>so much enjoyment out of that. And part of the

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<v Speaker 1>reason probably is because I'm doing it with other people.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think when you're picking a new hobby, finding

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<v Speaker 1>something that you can do with other people can be helpful,

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<v Speaker 1>even potentially people that you've never met before. So check

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<v Speaker 1>out a site like meetup dot com to see what

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<v Speaker 1>actual people are doing near where you live. Where we

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<v Speaker 1>live in Atlanta, there are so many interesting groups doing

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<v Speaker 1>different things. Some are exploring where they live, Others are

0:30:16.520 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>taking nature walks. There are running clubs that meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>So many of these things are free that are on

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<v Speaker 1>meetup dot com and the options are quite varied. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't see the thing you like, well maybe

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<v Speaker 1>start something and you'll attract a group of like minded folks.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that idea and Joel, once you've actually identified

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<v Speaker 1>a hobby, it's time to actually start doing it. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to take action, and we would encourage folks to

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<v Speaker 1>start small. Don't put a significant amount of money into

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<v Speaker 1>something before you know it's something that you're really into.

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<v Speaker 1>Small bites can ensure just a greater chance of success

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 1>and of building up a sustainable hobby. I'm thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>my life Kate. She's really into plants. But when she

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<v Speaker 1>first started out, she started by rooting the leaves of

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<v Speaker 1>plants that we already had. Or in another case, she

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:00.960
<v Speaker 1>rooted a branch that broke off of a friend's succulent.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was able to take that. She brought it

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<v Speaker 1>home and gave it some attention and love and figured

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<v Speaker 1>out how to get that thing to root. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you look behind you, that succulent is growing on her

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<v Speaker 1>counter right now. To her, she kind of feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that she brought it back from the dead, and only

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<v Speaker 1>recently has she purchased a few indoor plants that cost

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more money, even though honestly, in the

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<v Speaker 1>long run, she just wants to cover our entire house

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<v Speaker 1>with plants on the inside, because she's getting into house

0:31:23.200 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 1>plants now, because that's the stage of life that she's in.

0:31:26.200 --> 0:31:28.200
<v Speaker 1>I think like house plants have replaced the like the

0:31:28.200 --> 0:31:30.520
<v Speaker 1>cat lady like for what forever? It used to be like, oh,

0:31:30.560 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm a cat lady, but now it's it's all about

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>house plants. Did you just throw your wife under the bus?

0:31:34.680 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Did you call her a cat lady? Kinda, no lodery

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.160
<v Speaker 1>cat lady. No, she's she's she's a plant lady now, alright,

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:42.760
<v Speaker 1>plant ladies are hip, dude, good to know, all right,

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:46.640
<v Speaker 1>so and hypoallergenic. So just to let you know. The

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<v Speaker 1>next hobby I want to pursue is something I'm really

0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 1>interested but haven't given a shot yet. Curling. I totally

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 1>want to join an indoor curling league. Nice, do you

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:56.320
<v Speaker 1>know what curling is? Yeah? I know what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have no desire at all to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm glad maybe that you can find your little

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<v Speaker 1>curling group to go curling with. I certainly will. And

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I already know. I love table shuffle board.

0:32:06.600 --> 0:32:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I love Okay, I see the connection, right, I love

0:32:09.400 --> 0:32:12.320
<v Speaker 1>shuffle board. When I'm at the beach, like the floor shuffleboard.

0:32:12.360 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 1>Beach shuffle board. Yeah. So I have a feeling I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like curling too. It's it's something I want to

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<v Speaker 1>try at some point. Well, here's the deal. I still

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<v Speaker 1>like biking, and if you can find a curling league

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<v Speaker 1>that's biking distance, I'll ride with you. I'll bike with

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<v Speaker 1>you to curling practice, and then I'll just about and

0:32:26.000 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 1>drink beers with my friends. There we go, right done?

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:32.520
<v Speaker 1>All right, Joe. So, speaking of beer, let's take it

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<v Speaker 1>now back to our not beer for this episode, which

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<v Speaker 1>was a bourbon barrel peach cider from tight On Cider

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<v Speaker 1>Works out of Washington State. But what were your thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>on the sider? Yeah, siders are often either really dry

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<v Speaker 1>or really sweet, and this one was more of the

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 1>sweeter variety. Definitely sweet. Yeah, and and I think peaches too, Like,

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:52.400
<v Speaker 1>peaches are incredibly sweet, So the fact that it's a

0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 1>cider with peaches manute even sweeter. But the bourbon barrels

0:32:55.800 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 1>added a little bit of oakness and in my mind

0:32:57.640 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 1>pulled back on the sweetness just a little bit. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was isn't overwhelmingly sweet to me? I personally love peaches,

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:06.040
<v Speaker 1>and I love like canned peaches. I love that syrupy sweetness,

0:33:06.240 --> 0:33:08.880
<v Speaker 1>and so this and so this definitely wasn't that sweet,

0:33:09.200 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I really appreciated this cider. Even though ciders

0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 1>not typically my jam, I thought this one was a

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 1>good one. Yeah, Joe, I really enjoyed this one as well.

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>I just finished my last little sip, and we recently

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 1>talked about my affinity for apple juice back in college,

0:33:22.080 --> 0:33:25.400
<v Speaker 1>and this certainly had some of those apple juice cidery

0:33:25.560 --> 0:33:27.440
<v Speaker 1>characteristics to it, but like you said, with a little

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>bit of that peach action mixed in. Yeah, I figured

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<v Speaker 1>after your confession that this was gonna be right if

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>your alley, you thought it might actually come up. But

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:36.640
<v Speaker 1>more than anything, I'm really looking forward to drinking more

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:38.880
<v Speaker 1>ciders because I just haven't had a lot of siders

0:33:38.880 --> 0:33:40.840
<v Speaker 1>in my life. But I think I found myself drawn

0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:42.680
<v Speaker 1>to some of the drier ones, almost like you find

0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 1>with saisons or farmhouse beers, how they kind of have

0:33:45.400 --> 0:33:47.920
<v Speaker 1>that dryer quality to them. But yeah, with this one

0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 1>being barrel aged, it kind of has some of those

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 1>oak canings in it to rein in that sweetness. Just

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, I couldn't agree more. All right, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get into our final thoughts quickly for this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's important to remember that hobbies or core pursued,

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<v Speaker 1>as my friend West calls them, having three, four or

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<v Speaker 1>five hobbies that are really meaningful to you actually make

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>you a happier person. They'll make you sane when you

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:10.080
<v Speaker 1>finally do in a retirement, because that's one of the

0:34:10.160 --> 0:34:14.560
<v Speaker 1>major problems for retirees. But cultivating these interests now before

0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:17.240
<v Speaker 1>you hit retirement or maybe or even close to retirement

0:34:17.520 --> 0:34:19.840
<v Speaker 1>is really important, and in particular, we would steer you

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:23.000
<v Speaker 1>towards inexpensive hobbies in pursuits. Yeah, and Jel. You know,

0:34:23.040 --> 0:34:25.640
<v Speaker 1>aside from the direction and focus that a hobby can

0:34:25.640 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 1>bring you once you do hit retirement, there are also

0:34:28.239 --> 0:34:30.640
<v Speaker 1>these sort of hidden or maybe even not so hidden

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:33.960
<v Speaker 1>benefits that hobbies can bring you. Aside from making you

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:36.760
<v Speaker 1>and even saving you money, hobbies can bring you physical

0:34:36.760 --> 0:34:39.360
<v Speaker 1>and mental health. There can also be massive social benefits

0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 1>to pursuing these hobbies and these interests that you really

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:45.239
<v Speaker 1>love with friends in a community who also pursue and

0:34:45.239 --> 0:34:47.439
<v Speaker 1>appreciate the same things that you do. Yeah, I love

0:34:47.480 --> 0:34:50.439
<v Speaker 1>the connection that you can garner through hobbies to two

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.160
<v Speaker 1>people and to the environment around you. I mean, hobbies

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:56.279
<v Speaker 1>are wonderful and we should consider them more. That's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it for this episode. You can always find more

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:01.200
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<v Speaker 1>a solid, oh favor. I don't mind asking for a

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 1>favor every once in a while, do me a solid.

0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever say that? Uh? No, As I said that,

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I almost regretted it because I don't normally say that.

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:29.719
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just gonna roll with it. What what era

0:35:29.800 --> 0:35:31.399
<v Speaker 1>is that from? When did people say that it don't

0:35:31.400 --> 0:35:33.960
<v Speaker 1>be a solid? Was it? It was the old school Italians?

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 1>Was because that's what it sounds like New York in

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 1>the forties and fifties. Maybe I don't know all right,

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 1>like the West Side story, that's kind of what it

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:41.360
<v Speaker 1>makes me think. Of like, hey, can you do me

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<v Speaker 1>a solid? All right, let's bring that back. We'll may

0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:45.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna happen. Oh should that be our new sign off? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely not Yeah, definitely Joel. Until next time, Best friends Out,

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<v Speaker 1>Best Friends Out, m m BO