WEBVTT - A Table Too Far

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub a dub dumb.

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<v Speaker 2>Today is a great day, a great day to have

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<v Speaker 2>a great day.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great day to have a great day. How

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<v Speaker 3>you doing doing great? Feels so good that I've seen you.

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<v Speaker 4>Like just been with you three times this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what you've been needing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what I've it is what I've been needing.

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<v Speaker 4>I do have a question though, Oh so we got

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<v Speaker 4>to dinner last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, we get seated at a like a very traditional

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<v Speaker 2>two table, I mean two person table, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>it's just enough room on each side for each person

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<v Speaker 2>to have their meal comfortably. Tanya try, I go, do

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<v Speaker 2>you want the booth? And she goes, why do we

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<v Speaker 2>both have the booth? And I go, no, Like, this

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<v Speaker 2>isn't one of those situations where it's like, oh, this

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<v Speaker 2>is a foe top. Let's both sit on the same side,

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<v Speaker 2>which I wouldn't have anyway. But because I've made that clear,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like the same side of the booth, but

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<v Speaker 2>this was like I wouldn't have had space. So you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have to do see a visual of this. But

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<v Speaker 2>I go, Tanya, where would my food go?

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<v Speaker 4>And where would I have room? And she goes, you'd

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<v Speaker 4>have this much, which I'm holding up maybe.

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<v Speaker 5>Half Yeah, yeah, so selfish, I have no you you

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<v Speaker 5>were giving me the small portion in yourself the big portion.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, never would I ever do the same side

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<v Speaker 2>of the booth unless it was like maybe your birthday

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<v Speaker 2>or something, and we had this space, but this was

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<v Speaker 2>like a traditional two person table.

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<v Speaker 4>So then she tells the waiter.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like trying to convince the waiter and he is like,

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<v Speaker 2>n he was like nine times at all at all,

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<v Speaker 2>which was kind of it was interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've never interested happened at that restaurant.

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<v Speaker 6>Never.

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<v Speaker 4>He couldn't even pretend to like us.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Tanya is like, oh, let me film like

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<v Speaker 2>video of you waving at the screen.

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<v Speaker 4>So she films it. She's like, let me use my

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<v Speaker 4>wide lens. I'm like okay. So she posted on Instagram

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<v Speaker 4>and everyone starts coming for me being like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 4>like why is she so far away from her I

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<v Speaker 4>can't believe you're that.

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<v Speaker 7>Far to look away in that photo.

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<v Speaker 2>So people are like because I reposted it, so people

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<v Speaker 2>are messaging me like, oh my gosh, why are you

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<v Speaker 2>all so far from each other? And I'm like, Tanya,

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<v Speaker 2>so you know what, this was so sabotagey because I

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<v Speaker 2>posted my act the real view, which was like very normal,

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<v Speaker 2>we cheers, We didn't have to reach far, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone's like, oh my god, Tanya made it.

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<v Speaker 1>Look so far all that was not my intention. I

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<v Speaker 1>did not. I've been.

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<v Speaker 3>The point five girly now. I don't know if you've noticed,

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<v Speaker 3>but that's like my new vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>Did Robbie rub off on you? Because he loves a

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<v Speaker 4>point five point five?

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<v Speaker 1>But his and are like.

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<v Speaker 4>He warns our bodies and things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think he like goes below. Yeah, he does

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<v Speaker 3>not do a great job. Yeah, so it's not him.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like gen Z's when using the point five. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>you're into gen Z to gen Z, But this little

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<v Speaker 3>hack I do enjoy because you can feel, well, it's

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<v Speaker 3>so weird because it's like you can film yourself like

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<v Speaker 3>this with the point five and actually see yourself and

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<v Speaker 3>I feel myself like that a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, yeah, the the usual.

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<v Speaker 4>Yea, what the youth do?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, that was that. That was your intention?

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<v Speaker 3>It was my intention, but I was laughing because I

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<v Speaker 3>got so many dms of people being like, she's why

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<v Speaker 3>is she so far?

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<v Speaker 1>This is your worst nightmare? And I was like, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her to sit next to me, and she

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<v Speaker 1>said no, it's just.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't set up the truth. And then all the

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<v Speaker 4>tanyas come at me and I come and just like.

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<v Speaker 2>When I posted stuff with Jojo and Ali and I

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<v Speaker 2>had all the tawnyas, I was like, I have so

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<v Speaker 2>much anxiety to post with any of my other friends

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<v Speaker 2>right now. I'm literally this is not good and need

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<v Speaker 2>every wanted to relax.

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<v Speaker 4>It's all in jest. That felt pretty that one.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't feel in those Some of those comments didn't feel

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<v Speaker 2>very just like your spiral on my comments.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, we all go through peaks and valleys

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<v Speaker 3>in life, and I was going through a moment and

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<v Speaker 3>I just needed to But I'm not anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna peak feeling good.

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<v Speaker 4>Tanya seven point zero.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, the diarrhea has stopped.

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<v Speaker 3>We are poops are solid, and Heaven's gates have opened

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<v Speaker 3>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, you gotta have, Like you can't be having

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<v Speaker 2>stomach issues to enter into the new version.

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<v Speaker 3>You cannot elevate with stomach and shows that only holds

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<v Speaker 3>you back, only holds you back.

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<v Speaker 2>You also were all white last night, and everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 2>did she think that Robbie.

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<v Speaker 4>Was going to propose a night?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you, guys, Tanya's brand right now is all

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<v Speaker 2>white all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in my white era. Okay, it's just all white

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<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>But I did think it was It's cute that so

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<v Speaker 3>Becca came to pick me up and she just stayed

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<v Speaker 3>her car and I came out and Robbie wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>come out and say hi to you, which I loved.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved that.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I feel like I haven't seen him in

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<v Speaker 4>a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like thinking about that because when I said hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know, like like a long time.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, what's going to be a good time

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<v Speaker 2>is only all go to dating Kaylin's wedding. That is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be that's going to be a root and tooting.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, good time.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I did r VP.

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<v Speaker 3>Finally, congrats, thank you, and the what's the theme?

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<v Speaker 6>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>You said, it's like I have to wear cowboy.

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<v Speaker 4>Bood mountain chic.

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<v Speaker 6>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm a little concerned. It's not totally my vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to wear cowboy boots with like.

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<v Speaker 7>Cowboy boots mountain chic that seems like western chic.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean kind of basically encouraged.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh okay, my cowboy.

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<v Speaker 2>Boots, cowboy hat. It's just like you for the I

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<v Speaker 2>think the welcome party.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it isn't suposed to be like nice. Don't you

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<v Speaker 3>wearly cocktail stuff?

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<v Speaker 4>For Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you wear cocktail dressed with cowboa boots.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you're gonna have to look on Pinterest.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna need some help with this for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we have a little bit of time. You're not

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<v Speaker 2>asking me the day before.

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<v Speaker 6>We don't really have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot of time.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we have enough time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just around the corner.

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<v Speaker 2>It is just around the corner. But just you have

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<v Speaker 2>enough time. Yeah, it's gonna be so fun and it's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be very excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we thought we were gonna be sharing a cabin,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't think we are anymore. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh great, wheez a lot of that one. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the four of us er one roof, baby one

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<v Speaker 1>roof one toilet.

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<v Speaker 2>That's literally my nightmare. But we're gonna make do. It's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be very campy and fun. Yeah, speaking of Eras,

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<v Speaker 2>because you said you're in your all white era.

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<v Speaker 4>So Taylor still to announce.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, I just I'm gonna remind me of

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<v Speaker 3>something else.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Taylor Swift announced that her Eras documentary is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be coming to theaters, which is very.

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<v Speaker 1>Exciting October thirteenth.

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<v Speaker 2>October thirteenth, Yeah, is it just for that weekend or

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<v Speaker 2>is it?

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<v Speaker 6>Do we know?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I think it's just for the weekend. It's like Saturday Sunday. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>like four days or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I'm assuming it's going to go to like

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<v Speaker 2>a streaming service, I would imagine. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I'm not going to be in the

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<v Speaker 2>same position like I was for the concert.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to go and immediately get tickets.

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<v Speaker 2>So I go, I'm like frantically logging onto Fandango trying

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<v Speaker 2>to like make sure I secure a ticket. I go

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<v Speaker 2>to like select my seats and like the whole theater

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<v Speaker 2>was available, and I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, this rush, it's not quite the concert.

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<v Speaker 4>Haley goes, Yeah, they would rather see her live, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, yeah, but not everyone to see her live.

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<v Speaker 4>This feels very exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm surprised.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so anyways, I got a bunch of tickets, just

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<v Speaker 2>secured them primetime.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm gonna be there.

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<v Speaker 6>What time?

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<v Speaker 4>Seven on a Sunday, late on a Sunday. I know,

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<v Speaker 4>I asked you, but I was also like, she might

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<v Speaker 4>decline because of the time, but time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you feel super special.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I wanted to tell you this story of.

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<v Speaker 1>I took Sunny to the vet. Should we take a

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<v Speaker 1>break and come back?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, I'll take a break because it's a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit lengthy, but it's very funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we'll be right back. All right, we're back.

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<v Speaker 7>We are all distracted by the longest alligator ever recorded.

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<v Speaker 7>It's been captured in Mississippi. This is breaking news.

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<v Speaker 2>This thing looks that is pretty historic. Yeah, that's a dinosaur.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry, I got distrapped. I just happened to look

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<v Speaker 2>up on the screen and.

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<v Speaker 3>Got I'm really upset because I feel like I missed

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<v Speaker 3>a really good segue and from what from for this story?

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<v Speaker 3>But I took Sunny to get her teeth cleaned, and

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<v Speaker 3>her anal lands expressed from the vet right, and so, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>this was the other day when I was wearing all

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<v Speaker 3>white and I go to pick her up, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my gosh, my girl, I'm holding her. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I mister, and I'm holding her. I'm holding her, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>because she gets scared of the vet. So I pick

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<v Speaker 3>her up and I just hold her. I don't even

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<v Speaker 3>put on the floor to walk. I just carry her.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we get in the car and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, hugging her, and I'm like, gosh, she smells,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I'm like, oh, like she like smelled so gross.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still just like, oh, hugging her. How was it,

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<v Speaker 3>how you're teeth, you know, talking to her.

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<v Speaker 4>She responding at this point, yeahh she like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I looked down and I have poop all over me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like lift up her tail and I see

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<v Speaker 1>like a nugget of her poop like wrapped in her tail.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if it was like from the

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<v Speaker 1>anal expressing or like she's never had that in her life,

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<v Speaker 1>like she never gotten anything stuck in there and it

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<v Speaker 1>was all over me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so upsetting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, in all ways, do you know what they call those?

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<v Speaker 4>What a dingleberry?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that, actually, I didn't know that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So she had one big dingleberry and she was just

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<v Speaker 1>all over me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it it took you a minute to smell that.

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<v Speaker 4>Are we concerned about that part?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah kind of.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was like really tucked in there, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like when her tail is down, like it's like it

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<v Speaker 3>was tucked in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it was so that's viral. Yeah, it was pretty vile.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then I went to take up my bare

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<v Speaker 3>hands and then I was like I can't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I just like put her down and like

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<v Speaker 1>rushed home.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta say, like, I'm going to be a really

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<v Speaker 2>great mom because you're like you have no fear with things.

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<v Speaker 1>That are gross, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would be in an absolute panic state. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what I would do in that moment. I

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<v Speaker 2>definitely don't think I would go to grab it with

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<v Speaker 2>a bare hand.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever, that was my first thought because it was like there,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's like I'll just pull it out and then

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<v Speaker 3>I realized I have chills and it might get like

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<v Speaker 3>cotton more hairs.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, I'm not gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna cut it with some scissors.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, dog mom things.

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<v Speaker 1>Dog mom things.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the that's the con of wearing all white all

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<v Speaker 2>the time.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, it's a tough tough it's a tough connected.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a tough conundrum to be in. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the brand has to stay stay consistent.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, labor days here.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you think a modern them applies by those rules.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh now, maybe I might tone it down a little.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe some like creams.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe some creams. Yeah, maybe not all white?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe some clothes, toad.

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<v Speaker 3>Shoes yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah, some swede, some leather.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do this weekend?

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<v Speaker 4>Mmm? I don't want to Beyonce tomorrow tomorrow? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you wearing silver? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I got I ordered like my all like silver stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, I actually I don't think I'm gonna wear

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<v Speaker 2>them to Beyonce because I don't think it feels like

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<v Speaker 2>the vibe. But you remember those I feel like Taylor

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<v Speaker 2>Swift wore them or something.

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<v Speaker 4>But they're they're like jeans and they have a butterfly

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<v Speaker 4>like encrusted.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're very expensive, so I'm like torn if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna keep them or not.

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<v Speaker 4>But I got them the.

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<v Speaker 2>Ones that Taylor Swift war I think, so can someone

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<v Speaker 2>confirm because we are from area.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, they're very pricey, I think they must be.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, those that's your silver for the show.

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<v Speaker 4>No no, no, So I got those. I got a silver

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<v Speaker 4>top and silver shoes, and I was gonna wear with that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think I'm gonna maybe channel like all black

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<v Speaker 2>and silver to really go for like the Renaissance disco theme.

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<v Speaker 2>But the people like the group were going with they

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<v Speaker 2>have some like really cute on theme ideas. So I

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<v Speaker 2>really feel like I got to step that up. I

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<v Speaker 2>know I need to like solidify that today.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm not like an outfit girally, and so

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<v Speaker 3>all this pressure to have these outfits.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>See that's funny because I also want to, like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I like and jeans and a T shirt.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I love the idea of like everyone being

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure that you don't like this because it's very cohesive.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like the theme. I like the I like

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<v Speaker 1>the camaraderie. Of it, but I don't like to me

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<v Speaker 1>the execute, you know what. I just I'm not like

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<v Speaker 1>an outfit is hard for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think you told yourself this years ago

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<v Speaker 2>and you've kept the mentality. But I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 2>as hard for you as you think it is. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>I think the modern woman mentality is to get out

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<v Speaker 2>of thinking that you're not good at outfits.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, thank you. I needed that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you are.

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<v Speaker 2>You always look cute, you always look put together, stylish,

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<v Speaker 2>you have cute sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh tell me more.

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<v Speaker 4>Like from where we used to be when we would

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<v Speaker 4>chop together. You're like eons from that person who would

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<v Speaker 4>buy their clothes too big because it was comfortable. Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>my sweatpants when they're over his eyes are really comfortable,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's how I buy them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so true.

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<v Speaker 3>I would buy clothes that were like two sizes higher

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<v Speaker 3>than I should have because I don't let din't like

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<v Speaker 3>anything tight on me, Like I just wanted it to

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<v Speaker 3>be loose.

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<v Speaker 4>It was exhausting.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd go and she'd be like it'd be this sexy,

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<v Speaker 2>like tight fitted skirt or dress, and then she would

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<v Speaker 2>come out and it would.

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<v Speaker 4>Be like hanging hanging, or like barely fit herself.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is the one, and I'm like, but

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<v Speaker 2>in a different size, right, So, yeah, you've come a

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<v Speaker 2>long way, thank you. So I think your mentality has

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<v Speaker 2>to come with the style.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I'm already thinking of Halloween.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, as we should. Yeah, creeping up.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually today, well I don't know, but today I'm actually

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<v Speaker 2>going to go and maybe get some fall decor from

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<v Speaker 2>my porch and like do some decorating.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I do feel like excited about it.

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<v Speaker 2>September first, it's here, the fall season, even though it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be like five thousand degrees in LA for

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<v Speaker 2>the foreseeable future.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm like, I don't think it's quite summer over

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<v Speaker 1>until quite summer over, summer over till the end of September.

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<v Speaker 1>Hu till the end of September, And I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>like when it's officially over.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's like right before right before the Heart Reading

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<v Speaker 7>Music Festival. It's like the eighteenth or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so sure, Well, maybe I'll go buy it because

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<v Speaker 2>everything's out, and then I'll i'll put it out when

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<v Speaker 2>it's time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just feel excited for.

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<v Speaker 7>Like the changing of September twenty third, when autumn finally arrives.

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<v Speaker 1>It's four days before the new season of Survivor.

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<v Speaker 7>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>This has to be timed up perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have to tell you something, but a little

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<v Speaker 1>survivored out already.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that did not outlast.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're just watching too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I've now consumed two full seasons and I'm now

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<v Speaker 3>watching two other seasons and that's all I'm watching. So

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm gonna give it a little bit of

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<v Speaker 3>a break for like a few days, and then come

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<v Speaker 3>back to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not over it.

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like it's all I've been watching for

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<v Speaker 3>like two weeks straight.

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<v Speaker 4>That's pretty You know. One thing that you do is

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<v Speaker 4>commit Yeah, I go, you go all in?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I actually like that about myself. I do too, thanks.

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<v Speaker 4>It probably provides a lot of success in many.

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<v Speaker 1>Areas consistency suitability. I don't have that actually, nah, but

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<v Speaker 1>consistently late I am consistent. Yeah, and you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I can.

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<v Speaker 3>I've actually was I even remotely hassling you last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Well not until you like posted about it, but no,

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<v Speaker 2>but even that was I would have I actually would

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<v Speaker 2>have complimented you on that had you not posted it

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<v Speaker 2>because I was like so impressed that you didn't hassle me.

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<v Speaker 3>Because she was I called her there. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>no problem, I can go. I can hang like I'm chill.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so chill.

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<v Speaker 4>You were so chill until I realized you were tracking me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I told her I had called her earlier in

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<v Speaker 2>the day and I was like, I was editing a

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<v Speaker 2>video on my computer.

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<v Speaker 4>My computer crash.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like I needed to upgrade my computer anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like running to the mall. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so stressed to have to get this video done.

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<v Speaker 2>I I'm gonna can we move the reservation later and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll keep you posting on time? So I was I

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<v Speaker 2>did communicate my situation. I didn't just like show up late.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, I'm still going to pick

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<v Speaker 2>you up, so just wait for me. I'm gonna be late,

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<v Speaker 2>but like just wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So I was like respectfully late, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>respectfully calm you are. Yeah, I was proud of myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I was proud of you too, and like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>I would have given you a your compliment until I

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<v Speaker 2>saw the tag on my location. Yeah, which we're this

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<v Speaker 2>close to removing because you don't use it for.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, the whole room is.

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<v Speaker 7>This is huge.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't take that away.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I can't. At any point, I can just end it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so nice like that's why for me, that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't hassling you, because I could see where you were.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not gonna say, hey, where are you? I

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<v Speaker 1>can see where you are not close by?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that that gives you, okay mm hmmm, because.

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<v Speaker 3>I would when we're doing the podcast if it's the

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<v Speaker 3>time and you're not here and I can look and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, she's on allives.

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<v Speaker 1>She's closed. So I don't text you, Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I use it for good, okay, just and evil.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's the problem is the balance.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but as long as it stays balanced, I'm I

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<v Speaker 2>can hate a lot, not remove that.

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<v Speaker 7>I'd like to point something out. What I'm gonna pull up.

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<v Speaker 7>I fine, my friends Tanya rad can see your location,

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<v Speaker 7>you cannot see hers.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh really, this.

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<v Speaker 7>Is a one way street. Oh first, and that's fine.

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<v Speaker 7>I had that with a couple of Ben Higgins can

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<v Speaker 7>see my location, I can't see his. He took that away. Sierra,

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<v Speaker 7>who we work with also took hers away from me. Wow,

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<v Speaker 7>and that's fine. I did not. I let it go

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<v Speaker 7>one way.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 7>There was one day recently where Tany texted me and

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<v Speaker 7>she's like, why are you in New York? What are

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<v Speaker 7>you doing in New York? And I'm like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 7>New York and she's like, yes you are. I'm like, Tony,

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<v Speaker 7>I promise I'm not New York. This went on for

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<v Speaker 7>a while. It's like, oh, sorry, I'm looking at EJ.

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<v Speaker 3>I have EJ also as travising and it's a big E,

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<v Speaker 3>like his thing is an E. And so for some

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<v Speaker 3>reason I thought it was Easton and I was like

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<v Speaker 3>looking and yeah, he was like on the East Coast

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, why are you over there?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like no, it's not like.

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<v Speaker 4>You were like arguing about like where he was. He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not, and You're like, yes you are.

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<v Speaker 3>I do like to look at my fine my friends

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<v Speaker 3>every once in a while, just to kind of see

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<v Speaker 3>where everybody is.

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<v Speaker 4>So funny to me.

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<v Speaker 6>I love it.

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<v Speaker 7>It's my favorite social media. I love it Instagram, Twitter,

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<v Speaker 7>that's my order.

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<v Speaker 4>I jack, yeah, just to see where run's up to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah's back at her house or she had Hayley's.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, she's on the move.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder where she's going, Like she must be going

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<v Speaker 3>somewhere tonight, you know. I like to check in on Robbie,

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<v Speaker 3>see if he's like on his way home, or if

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<v Speaker 3>he's at the gym, you know, or when he goes

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<v Speaker 3>to get his lunch. I can see him like walking

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<v Speaker 3>down the street, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>Like I still follow Tory Moraley, who used to work here.

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<v Speaker 7>She's at the Marina Delery Convention Center right now, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>What's she doing there?

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<v Speaker 7>Exactly? I'm very curious. I won't text her about it,

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<v Speaker 7>but I am curious.

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<v Speaker 4>Took I still have me intrigued right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Tanya is in Burbank.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like my old I saw my old room. My

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<v Speaker 3>old roommate's in Vegas right now, Like, what's she doing

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<v Speaker 3>in Vegas?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Laura is back in Louisiana. She wasn't in Europe.

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<v Speaker 4>So good to know. I don't that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly not to say, when are you coming home? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's home.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the greatest gift, the greatest gift that has.

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<v Speaker 4>Been given the greatest.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're gonna take a break and we'll be

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<v Speaker 2>back with emails to round things out.

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<v Speaker 6>Yep, all right, we are back.

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<v Speaker 4>There's some emails that have come in, and Easton is

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<v Speaker 4>going to be the reader of the emails today. Take

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<v Speaker 4>it away, Easton.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you, Becca. I can read and I have the

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<v Speaker 7>emails right in front of me. Let's do this. First

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<v Speaker 7>one's from anonymous. We love those. I need advice and

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know where else to go. My college roommate

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<v Speaker 7>is going through some marital stuff. She got married and

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<v Speaker 7>had a baby pretty quick, and now she and her

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<v Speaker 7>husband or realizing it's not working out, but they haven't

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<v Speaker 7>officially decided to divorce or separate yet. I've gone out

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<v Speaker 7>with her a few times and we just went on

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<v Speaker 7>vacation together this weekend. She's kissed a few boys, flirted

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<v Speaker 7>a lot, and stayed out later by herself when I

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<v Speaker 7>went home. I want to support her through this tough time,

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<v Speaker 7>but I don't support her cheating on her husband because

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<v Speaker 7>they're still married.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm thinking I need to take a step away from

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<v Speaker 7>the friendship until she figures things out, but I also

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<v Speaker 7>want to support her. I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 7>Please help for reference. We're twenty eight years old.

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<v Speaker 4>This is tough because.

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<v Speaker 2>I totally understand you not wanting to like support her

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<v Speaker 2>cheating or be supportive of her doing these things. But

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<v Speaker 2>she is your best friend, and I think that you

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<v Speaker 2>just need to have a conversation with her about about

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<v Speaker 2>what you think in a gentle way, because it sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like she's going through a lot. But I think you

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<v Speaker 2>can say like, hey, and I mean, I'm assuming probably not,

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<v Speaker 2>but we don't know. Maybe they've had a conversation of like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>things aren't working, let's just take some time apart and

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<v Speaker 2>do our own thing. I don't know if they've had

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<v Speaker 2>that conversation, but maybe you just express that it makes you,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, uncomfortable, and you think that she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Better than that. I don't want to see her get

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<v Speaker 4>hurt in the long term. What do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not on us to judge anyone else on what

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<v Speaker 3>they're doing. And like, I think she obviously knows it's

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<v Speaker 3>not good that she's kissing other boys and she's cheating

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<v Speaker 3>on her husband, you know what I mean, Like, she's

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<v Speaker 3>obviously carrying that burden, and I I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 3>assume she she feels guilty or she feels bad, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't think you need to make her feel worse.

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<v Speaker 3>I think just being honest and communicating, like how's it going,

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<v Speaker 3>how's the divorce going, how's the separation going? What are

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<v Speaker 3>you guys talk like, you know, keeping the communication open.

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like, you know, we were actually talking

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<v Speaker 3>about this last night at dinner, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes your friends are gonna do stuff that you don't

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<v Speaker 3>agree with.

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<v Speaker 1>But you just have to let them have that journey

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<v Speaker 1>on their own, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, Yeah, I think for me though, I I can

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<v Speaker 2>for me, like I'm gonna be honest with my friend,

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you were doing that, I would be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>like I think that. I just think this is gonna

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<v Speaker 2>end up with the hurt feelings and like hurt. This

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna end up with more hurt than if you

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<v Speaker 2>just have a conversation and decide to separate.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you don't have to like go.

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<v Speaker 2>Through I get it you're not sure if you want

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<v Speaker 2>to go through with a divorce, but I think you

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<v Speaker 2>need to like be open and honest about where you're

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<v Speaker 2>standing with your feelings and what you're doing so that

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<v Speaker 2>there's not this like hurt that comes back around. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think that like sometimes being a friend is being honest,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would feel comfortable and safe enough to be

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<v Speaker 2>honest with you and know that you're gonna take it and.

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<v Speaker 4>You're still gonna do what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>But just so you know where I stand, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>like I want, I want to be like, oh you

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<v Speaker 2>just do you like I Yeah, I don't belabor, like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't just like constantly make them feel like they can't

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<v Speaker 2>come to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also don't think you should step away from

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<v Speaker 1>the friendship either.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's having an honest conversation be like, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you. I don't want to see things go in

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<v Speaker 2>a bad direction for you. You have a baby together.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there needs to be some boundaries here. And

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<v Speaker 2>this is me telling you because I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Beca has better advice on this one.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean even from a legal standpoint, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, Yeah, thinking that like with the baby, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want to get into a position where that

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<v Speaker 2>comes into play.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like it doesn't though weirdly.

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<v Speaker 4>Well depends I think on where you are.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I don't know, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 7>like contested this divorce will be if it happens, but

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<v Speaker 7>like if they can there's like a selfie with a

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<v Speaker 7>random dude like while you know, like if they can

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<v Speaker 7>prove there's infidelity. I think that makes things at least complicated.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it really?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I don't know for sure, but divorce attorneys

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<v Speaker 7>out there hit us up. Does it complicated? Scrubbing in

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<v Speaker 7>at iHeartRadio dot com? I don't know it. I think

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<v Speaker 7>the same thing like this is when the friend, your

0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 7>friend needs a friend at times like this, so don't

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<v Speaker 7>step away. Yeah, but you gotta be honest with them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>And maybe this person and her husband have an understand

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know. Maybe they're like, hey, let's go kiss

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<v Speaker 7>some people.

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<v Speaker 3>Test the waters event Yeah, I don't know, spread our seats.

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<v Speaker 2>And also the thing is you might give your honest

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<v Speaker 2>opinion and she might step away and be like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to do my own thing, But I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna I think you're a better friend if you can

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<v Speaker 2>be upfront and honest with her about the situation, because

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<v Speaker 2>I think no matter what, she's going to come back

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<v Speaker 2>around and be.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, thank you for thank you for giving me that.

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<v Speaker 4>Or maybe not I would feel that way.

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<v Speaker 2>I might be like mad and defensive, and then I think,

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<v Speaker 2>if I had time to think about it, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, she loves me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 7>I hope that helped Anonymous.

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<v Speaker 4>Good luck. Sorry, that's very hard.

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<v Speaker 7>That's a tough situation to be in. Next one is Megan.

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<v Speaker 7>My sister and I are fifteen months apart in age.

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<v Speaker 7>We're best friends. My sister has never had a ten

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<v Speaker 7>of friends, so I always made it a point to

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<v Speaker 7>include her whenever I was doing anything with my group

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<v Speaker 7>of friends. Over the last year, she and my best

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<v Speaker 7>friend have gotten to be closer friends, and now they

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<v Speaker 7>constantly leave me out or doing stuff, using the excuse

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<v Speaker 7>that I'm a mom and I can't do all the

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<v Speaker 7>things they do. This hurts me to my core. Even

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<v Speaker 7>more recently, my sister and her fiance slash boyfriend of

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<v Speaker 7>twelve years broke up, and my sister has been staying

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<v Speaker 7>at my best friend's place. Anytime she stays there, they

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<v Speaker 7>both hide their snapchat location for me and ignore all

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<v Speaker 7>correspondence from me. What's the deal? Am I overreacting for

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<v Speaker 7>being so mad about this situation?

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<v Speaker 1>That sucks?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I would be so hurt by this.

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<v Speaker 3>I honestly was like fine with this until the hiding

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<v Speaker 3>their snapchat locations and ignoring all correspondence with her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. That feels intentional and like nasty.

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<v Speaker 4>You think you'd be okay with the rest of it

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<v Speaker 4>above that, you think you'd be chill.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, there's now we're in the rule book doesn't say God,

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<v Speaker 7>invite your sister everything, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But like as a best friend, when you're like the

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<v Speaker 2>best friend with someone and then they've become best friends

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<v Speaker 2>with someone else, you'd be killed.

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<v Speaker 1>With that And I wouldn't love it. I wouldn't love it.

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<v Speaker 3>But I do think like there's you know, times in

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<v Speaker 3>your life where like you're you're you know, she said

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<v Speaker 3>she just had a baby, so she can't be around

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<v Speaker 3>as much.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like there are times, no, she.

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<v Speaker 4>Said, they leave her out with that excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's not nice, Like let her be the one

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I would just have a conversation. I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>I totally am I'm happy that y'all are friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's oh really what you know that?

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<v Speaker 2>I think she should say, like have a conversation with them,

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<v Speaker 2>be like I love that y'all are friends, but I

0:28:45.440 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 2>feel really hurt that y'all literally hide your location from

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<v Speaker 2>me and like don't answer my text or calls when

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:53.320
<v Speaker 2>y'all are together.

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<v Speaker 4>Are they in love?

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that's weirding me out.

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<v Speaker 7>Wouldn't it be better for them to be able to

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<v Speaker 7>hang out without this feeling of guilt they obviously have

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<v Speaker 7>because they're like hiding their location and everything. It feels

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<v Speaker 7>like they're cheating on this person.

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<v Speaker 4>But part of me wonders if she's had like an

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:12.520
<v Speaker 4>exp like if she's made a comment or something, so

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 4>they're like, well, we don't want her feelings, so let's

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<v Speaker 4>just like hide, Like if if they're hiding it for

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<v Speaker 4>a reason, like maybe there was a big fight or

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<v Speaker 4>something that we're not getting. I don't know. That's like

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<v Speaker 4>a very dramatic thing to hide your.

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<v Speaker 3>Location, you like, but hur when I'm not with you

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<v Speaker 3>and you're like with Jojo and Ally, but you've never

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<v Speaker 3>hidden your location from me?

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<v Speaker 4>Can you imagine I would lose it?

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I would lose it.

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<v Speaker 4>Like not only I hide my location and.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be so pissed.

0:29:46.000 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's just like mean, that's like very mean girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I don't get it. Something's

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<v Speaker 1>not adding up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, something's not unknown, Megan, can you give.

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<v Speaker 1>Us more infant?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I would have a conversation with them.

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<v Speaker 2>Just be honest, Hey, my feelings are hurt, Like why

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.280
<v Speaker 2>do you Why do y'all feel the need to hide

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<v Speaker 2>your location from me? Is there something that I have

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 2>done that makes you feel like you need to do that?

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<v Speaker 3>And look, honestly, I do think like there are situations

0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 3>in friendships where it looks like something's happening, but that's

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:14.240
<v Speaker 3>really not what's happening, you know what I mean? Like

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 3>I've had misunderstandings with you over stuff and we squash it.

0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 3>I've had misunderstandings Paulina, we squash it. So maybe there's

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:24.320
<v Speaker 3>something there. Maybe they are like hiding their locations from

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 3>somebody else and it's unintentionally hiding you too, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe this isn't them actually doing this, is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's just worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>Delulu is her name, and del is her game.

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<v Speaker 4>But it could be it could be.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be true, Lou that they are this is unintentional.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's worth just having a conversation. And

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<v Speaker 2>I always like taking the angle of like, did I

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<v Speaker 2>do something that that made you feel you need to

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<v Speaker 2>do this because you're opening up the idea that that

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you could be held accountable, and I think that

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<v Speaker 2>gives people the safety to be open and honest.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so good luck. That sucks. I think that's very mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I too, I'd be.

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<v Speaker 7>This kind of thing happened to me in high school.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, it's very high school. Yeah, yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 7>not adult so with children. But I had friends and

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<v Speaker 7>we used to go up to this lake and go

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<v Speaker 7>wakeboarding all the time and it was so fun. We

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<v Speaker 7>go camping with the parents and everything. And then I

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<v Speaker 7>stopped getting invitations to go, and I found out, like

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<v Speaker 7>through my space at the time, that like other friends

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<v Speaker 7>were going and it was because I don't drink and

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<v Speaker 7>I never have. All my friends started to and they

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<v Speaker 7>thought I would not want to be part of it.

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<v Speaker 7>They're partying, and I was like, I'm cool, I just

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<v Speaker 7>want to be included, and they're and they're like, because

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<v Speaker 7>I'm in front of them about it, and they're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I know, it's just kind of it's kind of weird,

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<v Speaker 7>like we're all drinking and you're not. And then that

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<v Speaker 7>was it. I just never care. I never went camping

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<v Speaker 7>with them again.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate when people leave you out because they think

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to be uncomfortable at something. Like I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>when I was in college, there were drugs everywhere. Everywhere

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<v Speaker 3>I went, there were drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>I never did them, never felt pressure, never cared, was

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<v Speaker 1>always fine, was saying no, I don't want it. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was everywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, I'm an adult and i'd rather be

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<v Speaker 3>like I want to party and I want to like

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<v Speaker 3>be a here and I want to be with my friends,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just don't want to do it. But like

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<v Speaker 3>that's my choice. They didn't invite me that I've been

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<v Speaker 3>so pissed.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>I would get invited to things and I didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to go because there was I didn't drink, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just was like, I don't want to have to deal

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<v Speaker 2>with it.

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<v Speaker 4>I just like, I don't want to have to deal

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<v Speaker 4>with drunk people. But everything going to the lake, I'd

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<v Speaker 4>be like, it's great to have a sober person here.

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<v Speaker 7>That's what I was thinking, and I thought I was cool.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, hey, I'm that sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that's so that's so something you don't even

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<v Speaker 2>recognize until you're older and you look back and you

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<v Speaker 2>go like, why do we think that way?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 6>Like, oh, you're not.

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<v Speaker 4>Putting poison in your body. No, we're not inviting.

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<v Speaker 7>And you know what, I never forgot about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>Chris and Andrew, I won't say your last name.

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<v Speaker 2>Person, Andrew have fun at the lake beer. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 2>wrapping up, but this Thursday is our first book club

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<v Speaker 2>and we so we realized that Untamed is not okay.

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:34.920
<v Speaker 2>So the book is Untamed by Glennon Doyle, and we

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<v Speaker 2>realize it's not really in chapters. It's in like parts

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 2>like uh, segments words yeah, kind of words.

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<v Speaker 1>So eras if you will.

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<v Speaker 4>We both read until Dragons, the dragons title I actually read.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you read the dragons or you.

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<v Speaker 1>Stopped at stopped in it?

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I read through dragons, but we say stop at dragons,

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:57.280
<v Speaker 2>so once you get to dragons you can stop. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot. I actually felt like I resonated with different

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<v Speaker 2>parts than I did when I first read it. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited to talk about it and go over it.

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<v Speaker 2>So get your copy of Untamed. I read it the

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<v Speaker 2>first time and then this time I'm listening to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but also, don't we discourage if you don't want

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:16.480
<v Speaker 3>to read it, because it's not like we're gonna just

0:34:16.600 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 3>like we're not going to give you cliff notes.

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:19.879
<v Speaker 1>It's not what the podcast is going to be. We're

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:21.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna be like just talking about.

0:34:21.160 --> 0:34:24.240
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, like it'll be kind of honestly just topics.

0:34:24.480 --> 0:34:26.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think everyone will be able to relate

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:28.320
<v Speaker 2>and listen even if you don't read the books.

0:34:28.320 --> 0:34:29.920
<v Speaker 3>So I've never been a part of a book club before,

0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 3>so I have no idea how this is.

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:36.920
<v Speaker 2>So you're gonna be interesting, consistent things, so scholarly too, yeah,

0:34:37.239 --> 0:34:40.759
<v Speaker 2>so scholarly and deep. Also, we did try to get

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:44.399
<v Speaker 2>Gabby Wendy for the podcast because I know a lot

0:34:44.440 --> 0:34:46.359
<v Speaker 2>of you were like, please have her on, like it'll

0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:49.360
<v Speaker 2>be such a good conversation, and we did try, but

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:52.360
<v Speaker 2>I guess she doesn't want to do like bachelor podcast.

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 4>But I don't, I.

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:56.960
<v Speaker 7>Mean because about anatomy podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, hey, we're not a Bachelor podcast, and b

0:35:02.440 --> 0:35:06.480
<v Speaker 3>that's so not a thing. It's like, so what does

0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 3>that make make you? Guys feel like you're in competition?

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:09.000
<v Speaker 4>With each other.

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<v Speaker 2>To me, I was like, Oh, I feel like we'd

0:35:13.000 --> 0:35:15.759
<v Speaker 2>have such a great conversation, Like I feel like we've

0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:19.279
<v Speaker 2>been through a similar experience. Yeah, I mean she was

0:35:19.320 --> 0:35:21.680
<v Speaker 2>a bachelorette, so there's that difference, but like a very

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:25.400
<v Speaker 2>similar experience, pretty similar and then falling in love with

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 2>a woman, and I felt like it would be a

0:35:27.400 --> 0:35:29.080
<v Speaker 2>and she's so funny, So I was like, this will

0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:31.920
<v Speaker 2>be such a like beautiful but like kind of funny,

0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:33.799
<v Speaker 2>just like a good chit chat.

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<v Speaker 7>So a woman performer too, I don't know, there's so

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:37.080
<v Speaker 7>many parallels.

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:37.480
<v Speaker 4>I know.

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then I would call you a performer.

0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:51.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying the look on her face, I'm gonna need

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 4>Crystal slow mo, like.

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:59.239
<v Speaker 1>We're both performers, Like, okay, you're a wedding, but I

0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:01.520
<v Speaker 1>don't have perform Yeah, but I think she gave the

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<v Speaker 1>exclusive to Bethany Free.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it just.

0:36:05.880 --> 0:36:08.480
<v Speaker 3>Rubs me the wrong way because it's just like, just

0:36:08.520 --> 0:36:10.960
<v Speaker 3>because you were on the Bachelor doesn't mean that you

0:36:10.960 --> 0:36:11.920
<v Speaker 3>guys can't.

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:15.719
<v Speaker 2>Like barely even I mean a almost a decade ago

0:36:15.760 --> 0:36:16.560
<v Speaker 2>I was on the Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>Our podcast has nothing to do with the Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't even talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you bring in the word competition, I'm like,

0:36:22.280 --> 0:36:25.200
<v Speaker 1>you and her are not in competition because you have similar.

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:27.600
<v Speaker 4>It was because competition, I said. I didn't. I don't know.

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 4>I don't think that has the thing to do with that.

0:36:29.160 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying like, I don't know if she's like, oh,

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:33.920
<v Speaker 2>it's kind of you know. I don't know if she

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:36.120
<v Speaker 2>wants to be I don't know if she wants to

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:38.239
<v Speaker 2>be grouped in with people from the Bachelor who have

0:36:38.239 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 2>done this.

0:36:38.640 --> 0:36:39.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:41.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but I'm just letting you know. There

0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:44.200
<v Speaker 2>are people that y'all are like, oh, try to get them.

0:36:44.239 --> 0:36:46.359
<v Speaker 6>I try. I try, really try.

0:36:46.440 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 4>We do our best.

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 3>And let me tell you, we're still trying for Patrick Dempsy.

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 3>He has not given us the official no, so like

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 3>like Goddy said, no, we are still out to you,

0:36:56.840 --> 0:37:02.399
<v Speaker 3>Patrick Dempsey, Team Dempsey. Until you say no, we will

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 3>keep knocking.

0:37:03.840 --> 0:37:06.600
<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna put something else out there about Patrick Dempsey post.

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:09.160
<v Speaker 7>I saw tweet last night. I posted it on my story.

0:37:09.440 --> 0:37:12.040
<v Speaker 7>Someone said Patrick Dempsey needs to be cast as a

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:14.040
<v Speaker 7>character in the next season, and just like that, and

0:37:14.080 --> 0:37:16.600
<v Speaker 7>he's the one who breaks up Carrie and Aiden. He

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 7>breaks them off the five year pause. I think I

0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 7>would love that if that happened, Patrick would sign on.

0:37:23.200 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 2>I would take back all of my negative feedback for

0:37:26.360 --> 0:37:26.840
<v Speaker 2>the show.

0:37:27.239 --> 0:37:30.800
<v Speaker 4>If they brought Patrick Dempsey on. That's a love interest.

0:37:31.200 --> 0:37:33.120
<v Speaker 1>I would just love him to come on this podcast.

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.160
<v Speaker 2>Well me too, but to have him on screen again

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.480
<v Speaker 2>would be a true blessing.

0:37:39.920 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 1>Isn't he on screens now? Honestly, have no idea, I don't.

0:37:43.000 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 2>Know, but I saw a post about him the other

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:46.920
<v Speaker 2>day on a or something.

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:50.399
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's a sober Fox right there.

0:37:53.600 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 2>So we will be back Thursday with a little, a short,

0:37:57.239 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 2>little episode of John Mill chatting about the book and

0:38:02.000 --> 0:38:02.800
<v Speaker 2>other things.

0:38:02.840 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 4>But have a wonderful week, be safe on Labor Day.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you, We love you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Bye bye,