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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub a dub dumb.

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Speaker 2: Today is a great day, a great day to have

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Speaker 2: a great day.

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Speaker 3: It's a great day to have a great day. How

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Speaker 3: you doing doing great? Feels so good that I've seen you.

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Speaker 4: Like just been with you three times this week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what you've been needing.

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Speaker 1: It's what I've it is what I've been needing.

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Speaker 4: I do have a question though, Oh so we got

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Speaker 4: to dinner last night.

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Speaker 2: Uh, we get seated at a like a very traditional

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Speaker 2: two table, I mean two person table, you know, like

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Speaker 2: it's just enough room on each side for each person

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Speaker 2: to have their meal comfortably. Tanya try, I go, do

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Speaker 2: you want the booth? And she goes, why do we

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Speaker 2: both have the booth? And I go, no, Like, this

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Speaker 2: isn't one of those situations where it's like, oh, this

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Speaker 2: is a foe top. Let's both sit on the same side,

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Speaker 2: which I wouldn't have anyway. But because I've made that clear,

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Speaker 2: I don't like the same side of the booth, but

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Speaker 2: this was like I wouldn't have had space. So you're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to do see a visual of this. But

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Speaker 2: I go, Tanya, where would my food go?

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Speaker 4: And where would I have room? And she goes, you'd

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Speaker 4: have this much, which I'm holding up maybe.

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Speaker 5: Half Yeah, yeah, so selfish, I have no you you

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Speaker 5: were giving me the small portion in yourself the big portion.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, never would I ever do the same side

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Speaker 2: of the booth unless it was like maybe your birthday

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Speaker 2: or something, and we had this space, but this was

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Speaker 2: like a traditional two person table.

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Speaker 4: So then she tells the waiter.

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Speaker 2: She's like trying to convince the waiter and he is like,

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Speaker 2: n he was like nine times at all at all,

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Speaker 2: which was kind of it was interesting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never interested happened at that restaurant.

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Speaker 6: Never.

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Speaker 4: He couldn't even pretend to like us.

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Speaker 2: And then Tanya is like, oh, let me film like

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Speaker 2: video of you waving at the screen.

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Speaker 4: So she films it. She's like, let me use my

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Speaker 4: wide lens. I'm like okay. So she posted on Instagram

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Speaker 4: and everyone starts coming for me being like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 4: like why is she so far away from her I

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Speaker 4: can't believe you're that.

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Speaker 7: Far to look away in that photo.

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Speaker 2: So people are like because I reposted it, so people

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Speaker 2: are messaging me like, oh my gosh, why are you

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Speaker 2: all so far from each other? And I'm like, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: so you know what, this was so sabotagey because I

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Speaker 2: posted my act the real view, which was like very normal,

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Speaker 2: we cheers, We didn't have to reach far, and.

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Speaker 4: Everyone's like, oh my god, Tanya made it.

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Speaker 1: Look so far all that was not my intention. I

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Speaker 1: did not. I've been.

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Speaker 3: The point five girly now. I don't know if you've noticed,

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Speaker 3: but that's like my new vibe.

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Speaker 4: Did Robbie rub off on you? Because he loves a

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Speaker 4: point five point five?

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Speaker 1: But his and are like.

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Speaker 4: He warns our bodies and things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he like goes below. Yeah, he does

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Speaker 3: not do a great job. Yeah, so it's not him.

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Speaker 3: It's like gen Z's when using the point five. Oh

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Speaker 3: you're into gen Z to gen Z, But this little

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Speaker 3: hack I do enjoy because you can feel, well, it's

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Speaker 3: so weird because it's like you can film yourself like

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Speaker 3: this with the point five and actually see yourself and

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Speaker 3: I feel myself like that a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, the the usual.

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Speaker 4: Yea, what the youth do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So yeah, that was that. That was your intention?

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Speaker 3: It was my intention, but I was laughing because I

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Speaker 3: got so many dms of people being like, she's why

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Speaker 3: is she so far?

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Speaker 1: This is your worst nightmare? And I was like, I know.

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Speaker 1: I asked her to sit next to me, and she

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Speaker 1: said no, it's just.

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Speaker 4: You don't set up the truth. And then all the

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Speaker 4: tanyas come at me and I come and just like.

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Speaker 2: When I posted stuff with Jojo and Ali and I

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Speaker 2: had all the tawnyas, I was like, I have so

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Speaker 2: much anxiety to post with any of my other friends

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Speaker 2: right now. I'm literally this is not good and need

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Speaker 2: every wanted to relax.

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Speaker 4: It's all in jest. That felt pretty that one.

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Speaker 2: Didn't feel in those Some of those comments didn't feel

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Speaker 2: very just like your spiral on my comments.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we all go through peaks and valleys

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Speaker 3: in life, and I was going through a moment and

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Speaker 3: I just needed to But I'm not anymore.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna peak feeling good.

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Speaker 4: Tanya seven point zero.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the diarrhea has stopped.

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Speaker 3: We are poops are solid, and Heaven's gates have opened

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Speaker 3: for me.

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Speaker 1: Like it's.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you gotta have, Like you can't be having

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Speaker 2: stomach issues to enter into the new version.

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Speaker 3: You cannot elevate with stomach and shows that only holds

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Speaker 3: you back, only holds you back.

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Speaker 2: You also were all white last night, and everyone's like,

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Speaker 2: did she think that Robbie.

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Speaker 4: Was going to propose a night?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you, guys, Tanya's brand right now is all

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Speaker 2: white all the time.

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Speaker 1: I'm in my white era. Okay, it's just all white

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Speaker 1: all the time.

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Speaker 3: But I did think it was It's cute that so

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Speaker 3: Becca came to pick me up and she just stayed

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Speaker 3: her car and I came out and Robbie wanted to

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Speaker 3: come out and say hi to you, which I loved.

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Speaker 1: I loved that.

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Speaker 4: I know, I feel like I haven't seen him in

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Speaker 4: a minute.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 4: I was like thinking about that because when I said hey,

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Speaker 4: I was like, I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know, like like a long time.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But you know, what's going to be a good time

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Speaker 2: is only all go to dating Kaylin's wedding. That is

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Speaker 2: going to be that's going to be a root and tooting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, good time.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I did r VP.

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Speaker 3: Finally, congrats, thank you, and the what's the theme?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 1: You said, it's like I have to wear cowboy.

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Speaker 4: Bood mountain chic.

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Speaker 6: I think.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a little concerned. It's not totally my vibe.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to wear cowboy boots with like.

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Speaker 7: Cowboy boots mountain chic that seems like western chic.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean kind of basically encouraged.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, my cowboy.

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Speaker 2: Boots, cowboy hat. It's just like you for the I

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Speaker 2: think the welcome party.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it isn't suposed to be like nice. Don't you

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Speaker 3: wearly cocktail stuff?

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Speaker 4: For Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you wear cocktail dressed with cowboa boots.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna have to look on Pinterest.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna need some help with this for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well we have a little bit of time. You're not

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Speaker 2: asking me the day before.

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Speaker 6: We don't really have a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of time.

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Speaker 4: Well, we have enough time.

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Speaker 1: It's just around the corner.

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Speaker 2: It is just around the corner. But just you have

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Speaker 2: enough time. Yeah, it's gonna be so fun and it's

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Speaker 2: gonna be very excited.

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Speaker 1: Me too.

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Speaker 4: And then we thought we were gonna be sharing a cabin,

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Speaker 4: but I don't think we are anymore. I don't know

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Speaker 4: what we are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh great, wheez a lot of that one. No,

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Speaker 1: it's the four of us er one roof, baby one

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Speaker 2: That's literally my nightmare. But we're gonna make do. It's

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Speaker 2: gonna be very campy and fun. Yeah, speaking of Eras,

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Speaker 2: because you said you're in your all white era.

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Speaker 4: So Taylor still to announce.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I just I'm gonna remind me of

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Speaker 3: something else.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So Taylor Swift announced that her Eras documentary is going

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Speaker 2: to be coming to theaters, which is very.

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Speaker 1: Exciting October thirteenth.

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Speaker 2: October thirteenth, Yeah, is it just for that weekend or

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Speaker 2: is it?

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Speaker 6: Do we know?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I think it's just for the weekend. It's like Saturday Sunday. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: like four days or something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But then I'm assuming it's going to go to like

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Speaker 2: a streaming service, I would imagine. So I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I'm not going to be in the

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Speaker 2: same position like I was for the concert.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to go and immediately get tickets.

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Speaker 2: So I go, I'm like frantically logging onto Fandango trying

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Speaker 2: to like make sure I secure a ticket. I go

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Speaker 2: was available, and I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, this rush, it's not quite the concert.

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Speaker 4: Haley goes, Yeah, they would rather see her live, and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, but not everyone to see her live.

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Speaker 4: This feels very exciting.

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm surprised.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so anyways, I got a bunch of tickets, just

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Speaker 2: secured them primetime.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be there.

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Speaker 6: What time?

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Speaker 4: Seven on a Sunday, late on a Sunday. I know,

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Speaker 4: I asked you, but I was also like, she might

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Speaker 4: decline because of the time, but time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you feel super special.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted to tell you this story of.

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Speaker 1: I took Sunny to the vet. Should we take a

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Speaker 1: break and come back?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I'll take a break because it's a little

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Speaker 3: bit lengthy, but it's very funny.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we'll be right back. All right, we're back.

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Speaker 7: We are all distracted by the longest alligator ever recorded.

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Speaker 7: It's been captured in Mississippi. This is breaking news.

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Speaker 2: This thing looks that is pretty historic. Yeah, that's a dinosaur.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, I got distrapped. I just happened to look

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Speaker 2: up on the screen and.

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Speaker 3: Got I'm really upset because I feel like I missed

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Speaker 3: a really good segue and from what from for this story?

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Speaker 3: But I took Sunny to get her teeth cleaned, and

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Speaker 3: her anal lands expressed from the vet right, and so, uh,

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Speaker 3: this was the other day when I was wearing all

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Speaker 3: white and I go to pick her up, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, my girl, I'm holding her. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I mister, and I'm holding her. I'm holding her, you know,

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Speaker 3: because she gets scared of the vet. So I pick

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Speaker 3: her up and I just hold her. I don't even

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Speaker 3: put on the floor to walk. I just carry her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in all ways, do you know what they call those?

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Speaker 4: What a dingleberry?

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Speaker 1: So she had one big dingleberry and she was just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it it took you a minute to smell that.

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Speaker 4: Are we concerned about that part?

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Speaker 1: That are gross, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Like I would be in an absolute panic state. I

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Speaker 3: Ever, that was my first thought because it was like there,

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I'm not gonna do that.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna cut it with some scissors.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dog mom things.

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Speaker 2: That's the that's the con of wearing all white all

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Speaker 4: I know, it's a tough tough it's a tough connected.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: the brand has to stay stay consistent.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, labor days here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you think a modern them applies by those rules.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe some like creams.

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Speaker 1: Maybe some creams. Yeah, maybe not all white?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe some clothes, toad.

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Speaker 3: Shoes yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah, some swede, some leather.

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Speaker 1: What do you do this weekend?

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Speaker 4: Mmm? I don't want to Beyonce tomorrow tomorrow? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you wearing silver? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I got I ordered like my all like silver stuff.

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Speaker 2: In fact, I actually I don't think I'm gonna wear

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Speaker 4: But they're they're like jeans and they have a butterfly

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're very expensive, so I'm like torn if I'm

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Speaker 4: But I got them the.

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Speaker 2: Ones that Taylor Swift war I think, so can someone

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Speaker 2: confirm because we are from area.

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Speaker 4: Oh, they're very pricey, I think they must be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those that's your silver for the show.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, So I got those. I got a silver

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Speaker 4: top and silver shoes, and I was gonna wear with that.

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Speaker 2: But I think I'm gonna maybe channel like all black

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Speaker 2: But the people like the group were going with they

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Speaker 2: really feel like I got to step that up. I

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not like an outfit girally, and so

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Speaker 1: It's a lot.

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Speaker 4: See that's funny because I also want to, like.

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Speaker 1: I don't I like and jeans and a T shirt.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I love the idea of like everyone being

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Speaker 1: the camaraderie. Of it, but I don't like to me

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Speaker 1: the execute, you know what. I just I'm not like

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Speaker 1: an outfit is hard for me.

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Speaker 2: I think I think you told yourself this years ago

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Speaker 2: and you've kept the mentality. But I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: as hard for you as you think it is. Really,

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Speaker 2: I think the modern woman mentality is to get out

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Speaker 2: of thinking that you're not good at outfits.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, thank you. I needed that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you are.

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Speaker 2: You always look cute, you always look put together, stylish,

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Speaker 2: you have cute sexy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh tell me more.

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Speaker 4: Like from where we used to be when we would

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Speaker 4: chop together. You're like eons from that person who would

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Speaker 4: buy their clothes too big because it was comfortable. Like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: my sweatpants when they're over his eyes are really comfortable,

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Speaker 4: and that's how I buy them.

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Speaker 1: It's so true.

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Speaker 3: I would buy clothes that were like two sizes higher

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Speaker 3: than I should have because I don't let din't like

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Speaker 3: anything tight on me, Like I just wanted it to

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Speaker 3: be loose.

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Speaker 4: It was exhausting.

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Speaker 2: We'd go and she'd be like it'd be this sexy,

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Speaker 2: like tight fitted skirt or dress, and then she would

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Speaker 4: Be like hanging hanging, or like barely fit herself.

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Speaker 2: I think this is the one, and I'm like, but

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Speaker 2: long way, thank you. So I think your mentality has

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Speaker 2: to come with the style.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm already thinking of Halloween.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, as we should. Yeah, creeping up.

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Speaker 2: Actually today, well I don't know, but today I'm actually

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Speaker 2: going to go and maybe get some fall decor from

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I do feel like excited about it.

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Speaker 2: September first, it's here, the fall season, even though it's

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Speaker 2: going to be like five thousand degrees in LA for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, I don't think it's quite summer over

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Speaker 1: until quite summer over, summer over till the end of September.

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Speaker 1: Hu till the end of September, And I think that's

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Speaker 1: like when it's officially over.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like right before right before the Heart Reading

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Speaker 7: Music Festival. It's like the eighteenth or something.

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Speaker 2: Oh so sure, Well, maybe I'll go buy it because

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Speaker 2: everything's out, and then I'll i'll put it out when

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Speaker 2: it's time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel excited for.

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Speaker 7: Like the changing of September twenty third, when autumn finally arrives.

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Speaker 1: It's four days before the new season of Survivor.

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Speaker 7: Exactly.

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Speaker 4: This has to be timed up perfect.

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Speaker 1: I do have to tell you something, but a little

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Speaker 1: survivored out already.

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Speaker 4: Well, that did not outlast.

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Speaker 1: I think we're just watching too much.

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Speaker 3: Like I've now consumed two full seasons and I'm now

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna give it a little bit of

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Speaker 3: back to it.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not over it.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like it's all I've been watching for

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Speaker 4: That's pretty You know. One thing that you do is

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Speaker 4: commit Yeah, I go, you go all in?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I actually like that about myself. I do too, thanks.

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Speaker 4: It probably provides a lot of success in many.

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Speaker 1: Areas consistency suitability. I don't have that actually, nah, but

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Speaker 1: consistently late I am consistent. Yeah, and you know what

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Speaker 1: I can.

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Speaker 3: I've actually was I even remotely hassling you last night.

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Speaker 2: Well not until you like posted about it, but no,

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Speaker 2: but even that was I would have I actually would

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Speaker 2: have complimented you on that had you not posted it

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Speaker 2: because I was like so impressed that you didn't hassle me.

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Speaker 3: Because she was I called her there. I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: no problem, I can go. I can hang like I'm chill.

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Speaker 3: I was so chill.

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Speaker 4: You were so chill until I realized you were tracking me.

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Speaker 2: But I told her I had called her earlier in

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Speaker 2: the day and I was like, I was editing a

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Speaker 2: video on my computer.

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Speaker 4: My computer crash.

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Speaker 2: I was like I needed to upgrade my computer anyway.

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Speaker 2: So I was like running to the mall. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm so stressed to have to get this video done.

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Speaker 2: I I'm gonna can we move the reservation later and

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Speaker 2: I'll keep you posting on time? So I was I

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Speaker 2: did communicate my situation. I didn't just like show up late.

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, I'm still going to pick

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Speaker 2: you up, so just wait for me. I'm gonna be late,

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Speaker 2: but like just wait.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I was like respectfully late, and I was

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Speaker 1: respectfully calm you are. Yeah, I was proud of myself.

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Speaker 2: I was proud of you too, and like I said,

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Speaker 2: I would have given you a your compliment until I

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Speaker 2: saw the tag on my location. Yeah, which we're this

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Speaker 2: close to removing because you don't use it for.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, the whole room is.

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Speaker 7: This is huge.

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Speaker 1: You can't take that away.

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Speaker 4: No, I can't. At any point, I can just end it.

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Speaker 3: It's so nice like that's why for me, that's why.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't hassling you, because I could see where you were.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna say, hey, where are you? I

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Speaker 1: can see where you are not close by?

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Speaker 2: Okay, that that gives you, okay mm hmmm, because.

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Speaker 3: I would when we're doing the podcast if it's the

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Speaker 3: time and you're not here and I can look and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, she's on allives.

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Speaker 1: She's closed. So I don't text you, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: I use it for good, okay, just and evil.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the problem is the balance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but as long as it stays balanced, I'm I

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Speaker 2: can hate a lot, not remove that.

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Speaker 7: I'd like to point something out. What I'm gonna pull up.

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Speaker 7: I fine, my friends Tanya rad can see your location,

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Speaker 7: you cannot see hers.

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Speaker 4: Oh really, this.

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Speaker 7: Is a one way street. Oh first, and that's fine.

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Speaker 7: I had that with a couple of Ben Higgins can

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Speaker 7: see my location, I can't see his. He took that away. Sierra,

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Speaker 7: who we work with also took hers away from me. Wow,

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Speaker 7: and that's fine. I did not. I let it go

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Speaker 7: one way.

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00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:29,320
Speaker 4: Uh.

452
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,800
Speaker 7: There was one day recently where Tany texted me and

453
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:33,520
Speaker 7: she's like, why are you in New York? What are

454
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:34,879
Speaker 7: you doing in New York? And I'm like, I'm not

455
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 7: New York and she's like, yes you are. I'm like, Tony,

456
00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 7: I promise I'm not New York. This went on for

457
00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 7: a while. It's like, oh, sorry, I'm looking at EJ.

458
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,280
Speaker 3: I have EJ also as travising and it's a big E,

459
00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 3: like his thing is an E. And so for some

460
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,359
Speaker 3: reason I thought it was Easton and I was like

461
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,200
Speaker 3: looking and yeah, he was like on the East Coast

462
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,200
Speaker 3: and I'm like, why are you over there?

463
00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:55,560
Speaker 1: He's like no, it's not like.

464
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,159
Speaker 4: You were like arguing about like where he was. He's like, no,

465
00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:00,680
Speaker 4: I'm not, and You're like, yes you are.

466
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 3: I do like to look at my fine my friends

467
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,320
Speaker 3: every once in a while, just to kind of see

468
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 3: where everybody is.

469
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 4: So funny to me.

470
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:07,439
Speaker 6: I love it.

471
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 7: It's my favorite social media. I love it Instagram, Twitter,

472
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:12,200
Speaker 7: that's my order.

473
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,639
Speaker 4: I jack, yeah, just to see where run's up to.

474
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:19,120
Speaker 3: Yeah's back at her house or she had Hayley's.

475
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:20,360
Speaker 1: Oh, she's on the move.

476
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 3: I wonder where she's going, Like she must be going

477
00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:25,080
Speaker 3: somewhere tonight, you know. I like to check in on Robbie,

478
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 3: see if he's like on his way home, or if

479
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,800
Speaker 3: he's at the gym, you know, or when he goes

480
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 3: to get his lunch. I can see him like walking

481
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 3: down the street, you know.

482
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 7: Like I still follow Tory Moraley, who used to work here.

483
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 7: She's at the Marina Delery Convention Center right now, Like.

484
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 1: What's she doing there?

485
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,359
Speaker 7: Exactly? I'm very curious. I won't text her about it,

486
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 7: but I am curious.

487
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:46,640
Speaker 4: Took I still have me intrigued right now.

488
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 1: It's so fun.

489
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:50,680
Speaker 4: Tanya is in Burbank.

490
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, like my old I saw my old room. My

491
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 3: old roommate's in Vegas right now, Like, what's she doing

492
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 3: in Vegas?

493
00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 4: Oh, Laura is back in Louisiana. She wasn't in Europe.

494
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 4: So good to know. I don't that's.

495
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,639
Speaker 1: Exactly not to say, when are you coming home? You know,

496
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 1: she's home.

497
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 2: It's the greatest gift, the greatest gift that has.

498
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 4: Been given the greatest.

499
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna take a break and we'll be

500
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,120
Speaker 2: back with emails to round things out.

501
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:36,639
Speaker 6: Yep, all right, we are back.

502
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:40,639
Speaker 4: There's some emails that have come in, and Easton is

503
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 4: going to be the reader of the emails today. Take

504
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 4: it away, Easton.

505
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 7: Thank you, Becca. I can read and I have the

506
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:50,360
Speaker 7: emails right in front of me. Let's do this. First

507
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 7: one's from anonymous. We love those. I need advice and

508
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,439
Speaker 7: I don't know where else to go. My college roommate

509
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,679
Speaker 7: is going through some marital stuff. She got married and

510
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 7: had a baby pretty quick, and now she and her

511
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 7: husband or realizing it's not working out, but they haven't

512
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 7: officially decided to divorce or separate yet. I've gone out

513
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 7: with her a few times and we just went on

514
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 7: vacation together this weekend. She's kissed a few boys, flirted

515
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 7: a lot, and stayed out later by herself when I

516
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 7: went home. I want to support her through this tough time,

517
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 7: but I don't support her cheating on her husband because

518
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 7: they're still married.

519
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 4: Oh.

520
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 7: I'm thinking I need to take a step away from

521
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 7: the friendship until she figures things out, but I also

522
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 7: want to support her. I don't know what to do.

523
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 7: Please help for reference. We're twenty eight years old.

524
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 4: This is tough because.

525
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: I totally understand you not wanting to like support her

526
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 2: cheating or be supportive of her doing these things. But

527
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 2: she is your best friend, and I think that you

528
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 2: just need to have a conversation with her about about

529
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 2: what you think in a gentle way, because it sounds

530
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,119
Speaker 2: like she's going through a lot. But I think you

531
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 2: can say like, hey, and I mean, I'm assuming probably not,

532
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 2: but we don't know. Maybe they've had a conversation of like, hey,

533
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: things aren't working, let's just take some time apart and

534
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: do our own thing. I don't know if they've had

535
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: that conversation, but maybe you just express that it makes you,

536
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: you know, uncomfortable, and you think that she's.

537
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 4: Better than that. I don't want to see her get

538
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 4: hurt in the long term. What do you think?

539
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I think at the end of the day,

540
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 3: it's not on us to judge anyone else on what

541
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 3: they're doing. And like, I think she obviously knows it's

542
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: not good that she's kissing other boys and she's cheating

543
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 3: on her husband, you know what I mean, Like, she's

544
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 3: obviously carrying that burden, and I I'm just going to

545
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 3: assume she she feels guilty or she feels bad, and I.

546
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: Don't think you need to make her feel worse.

547
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 3: I think just being honest and communicating, like how's it going,

548
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 3: how's the divorce going, how's the separation going? What are

549
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 3: you guys talk like, you know, keeping the communication open.

550
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 3: I just feel like, you know, we were actually talking

551
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 3: about this last night at dinner, and I feel like

552
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 3: sometimes your friends are gonna do stuff that you don't

553
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 3: agree with.

554
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: But you just have to let them have that journey

555
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: on their own, you know.

556
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 2: Like, Yeah, I think for me though, I I can

557
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 2: for me, like I'm gonna be honest with my friend,

558
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: Like if you were doing that, I would be like, hey,

559
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 2: like I think that. I just think this is gonna

560
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 2: end up with the hurt feelings and like hurt. This

561
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 2: is gonna end up with more hurt than if you

562
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 2: just have a conversation and decide to separate.

563
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you don't have to like go.

564
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 2: Through I get it you're not sure if you want

565
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 2: to go through with a divorce, but I think you

566
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 2: need to like be open and honest about where you're

567
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 2: standing with your feelings and what you're doing so that

568
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: there's not this like hurt that comes back around. And

569
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 2: I think that like sometimes being a friend is being honest,

570
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: Like I would feel comfortable and safe enough to be

571
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 2: honest with you and know that you're gonna take it and.

572
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 4: You're still gonna do what you want.

573
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 2: But just so you know where I stand, because it's

574
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 2: like I want, I want to be like, oh you

575
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 2: just do you like I Yeah, I don't belabor, like,

576
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: don't just like constantly make them feel like they can't

577
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 2: come to you.

578
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: And I also don't think you should step away from

579
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: the friendship either.

580
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 2: I think it's having an honest conversation be like, I

581
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: love you. I don't want to see things go in

582
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,959
Speaker 2: a bad direction for you. You have a baby together.

583
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 2: I think there needs to be some boundaries here. And

584
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: this is me telling you because I love you.

585
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Beca has better advice on this one.

586
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean even from a legal standpoint, you.

587
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: Know, Yeah, thinking that like with the baby, it's like

588
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 2: you don't want to get into a position where that

589
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 2: comes into play.

590
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it doesn't though weirdly.

591
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 4: Well depends I think on where you are.

592
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I don't know, I don't know how

593
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 7: like contested this divorce will be if it happens, but

594
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 7: like if they can there's like a selfie with a

595
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,719
Speaker 7: random dude like while you know, like if they can

596
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 7: prove there's infidelity. I think that makes things at least complicated.

597
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: Does it really?

598
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 7: I mean I don't know for sure, but divorce attorneys

599
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 7: out there hit us up. Does it complicated? Scrubbing in

600
00:25:54,960 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 7: at iHeartRadio dot com? I don't know it. I think

601
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 7: the same thing like this is when the friend, your

602
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 7: friend needs a friend at times like this, so don't

603
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 7: step away. Yeah, but you gotta be honest with them. Yeah,

604
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 7: And maybe this person and her husband have an understand

605
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 7: I don't know. Maybe they're like, hey, let's go kiss

606
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 7: some people.

607
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 3: Test the waters event Yeah, I don't know, spread our seats.

608
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 2: And also the thing is you might give your honest

609
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: opinion and she might step away and be like, I'm

610
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: going to do my own thing, But I think it's

611
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: gonna I think you're a better friend if you can

612
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: be upfront and honest with her about the situation, because

613
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 2: I think no matter what, she's going to come back

614
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 2: around and be.

615
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 4: Like, thank you for thank you for giving me that.

616
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 4: Or maybe not I would feel that way.

617
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 2: I might be like mad and defensive, and then I think,

618
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: if I had time to think about it, I'd be like,

619
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, she loves me.

620
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right.

621
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 7: I hope that helped Anonymous.

622
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 4: Good luck. Sorry, that's very hard.

623
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 7: That's a tough situation to be in. Next one is Megan.

624
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 7: My sister and I are fifteen months apart in age.

625
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 7: We're best friends. My sister has never had a ten

626
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 7: of friends, so I always made it a point to

627
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 7: include her whenever I was doing anything with my group

628
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 7: of friends. Over the last year, she and my best

629
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 7: friend have gotten to be closer friends, and now they

630
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 7: constantly leave me out or doing stuff, using the excuse

631
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 7: that I'm a mom and I can't do all the

632
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 7: things they do. This hurts me to my core. Even

633
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 7: more recently, my sister and her fiance slash boyfriend of

634
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 7: twelve years broke up, and my sister has been staying

635
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 7: at my best friend's place. Anytime she stays there, they

636
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 7: both hide their snapchat location for me and ignore all

637
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 7: correspondence from me. What's the deal? Am I overreacting for

638
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 7: being so mad about this situation?

639
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: That sucks?

640
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 4: Yeah? I would be so hurt by this.

641
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 3: I honestly was like fine with this until the hiding

642
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 3: their snapchat locations and ignoring all correspondence with her.

643
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: That's weird. That feels intentional and like nasty.

644
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 4: You think you'd be okay with the rest of it

645
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 4: above that, you think you'd be chill.

646
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 7: Well, there's now we're in the rule book doesn't say God,

647
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 7: invite your sister everything, you know.

648
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 2: But like as a best friend, when you're like the

649
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 2: best friend with someone and then they've become best friends

650
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 2: with someone else, you'd be killed.

651
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 1: With that And I wouldn't love it. I wouldn't love it.

652
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 3: But I do think like there's you know, times in

653
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 3: your life where like you're you're you know, she said

654
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 3: she just had a baby, so she can't be around

655
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:18,360
Speaker 3: as much.

656
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: So it's like there are times, no, she.

657
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 4: Said, they leave her out with that excuse.

658
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not nice, Like let her be the one

659
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: you know, I can't.

660
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I would just have a conversation. I'd be like,

661
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 2: I totally am I'm happy that y'all are friends.

662
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: Like that's oh really what you know that?

663
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 2: I think she should say, like have a conversation with them,

664
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: be like I love that y'all are friends, but I

665
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 2: feel really hurt that y'all literally hide your location from

666
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 2: me and like don't answer my text or calls when

667
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 2: y'all are together.

668
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 4: Are they in love?

669
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: That's something that's weirding me out.

670
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 7: Wouldn't it be better for them to be able to

671
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 7: hang out without this feeling of guilt they obviously have

672
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 7: because they're like hiding their location and everything. It feels

673
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 7: like they're cheating on this person.

674
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 4: But part of me wonders if she's had like an

675
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 4: exp like if she's made a comment or something, so

676
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 4: they're like, well, we don't want her feelings, so let's

677
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 4: just like hide, Like if if they're hiding it for

678
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 4: a reason, like maybe there was a big fight or

679
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 4: something that we're not getting. I don't know. That's like

680
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 4: a very dramatic thing to hide your.

681
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 3: Location, you like, but hur when I'm not with you

682
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 3: and you're like with Jojo and Ally, but you've never

683
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 3: hidden your location from me?

684
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 4: Can you imagine I would lose it?

685
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: I would lose it.

686
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 4: Like not only I hide my location and.

687
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: I would be so pissed.

688
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just like mean, that's like very mean girl.

689
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I don't get it. Something's

690
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: not adding up.

691
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, something's not unknown, Megan, can you give.

692
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: Us more infant?

693
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I would have a conversation with them.

694
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 2: Just be honest, Hey, my feelings are hurt, Like why

695
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 2: do you Why do y'all feel the need to hide

696
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 2: your location from me? Is there something that I have

697
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: done that makes you feel like you need to do that?

698
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 3: And look, honestly, I do think like there are situations

699
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: in friendships where it looks like something's happening, but that's

700
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 3: really not what's happening, you know what I mean? Like

701
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 3: I've had misunderstandings with you over stuff and we squash it.

702
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 3: I've had misunderstandings Paulina, we squash it. So maybe there's

703
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 3: something there. Maybe they are like hiding their locations from

704
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 3: somebody else and it's unintentionally hiding you too, you know, like,

705
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 3: maybe this isn't them actually doing this, is what I'm saying.

706
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 4: I think it's just worth it.

707
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: Delulu is her name, and del is her game.

708
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 4: But it could be it could be.

709
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: It could be true, Lou that they are this is unintentional.

710
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's worth just having a conversation. And

711
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: I always like taking the angle of like, did I

712
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: do something that that made you feel you need to

713
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: do this because you're opening up the idea that that

714
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,239
Speaker 2: maybe you could be held accountable, and I think that

715
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: gives people the safety to be open and honest.

716
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, so good luck. That sucks. I think that's very mean.

717
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: I too, I'd be.

718
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 7: This kind of thing happened to me in high school.

719
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 7: Oh my god, it's very high school. Yeah, yeah, we're

720
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 7: not adult so with children. But I had friends and

721
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 7: we used to go up to this lake and go

722
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 7: wakeboarding all the time and it was so fun. We

723
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 7: go camping with the parents and everything. And then I

724
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 7: stopped getting invitations to go, and I found out, like

725
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 7: through my space at the time, that like other friends

726
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 7: were going and it was because I don't drink and

727
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 7: I never have. All my friends started to and they

728
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 7: thought I would not want to be part of it.

729
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 7: They're partying, and I was like, I'm cool, I just

730
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 7: want to be included, and they're and they're like, because

731
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 7: I'm in front of them about it, and they're like, yeah,

732
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 7: I know, it's just kind of it's kind of weird,

733
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 7: like we're all drinking and you're not. And then that

734
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 7: was it. I just never care. I never went camping

735
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 7: with them again.

736
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 6: Wow.

737
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: I hate when people leave you out because they think

738
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: you're going to be uncomfortable at something. Like I'm like,

739
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 3: when I was in college, there were drugs everywhere. Everywhere

740
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:13,959
Speaker 3: I went, there were drugs.

741
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: I never did them, never felt pressure, never cared, was

742
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: always fine, was saying no, I don't want it. But it

743
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: was everywhere.

744
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'm an adult and i'd rather be

745
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 3: like I want to party and I want to like

746
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 3: be a here and I want to be with my friends,

747
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 3: and I just don't want to do it. But like

748
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 3: that's my choice. They didn't invite me that I've been

749
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 3: so pissed.

750
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was opposite.

751
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: I would get invited to things and I didn't want

752
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 2: to go because there was I didn't drink, and I

753
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 2: just was like, I don't want to have to deal

754
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: with it.

755
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 4: I just like, I don't want to have to deal

756
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 4: with drunk people. But everything going to the lake, I'd

757
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 4: be like, it's great to have a sober person here.

758
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 7: That's what I was thinking, and I thought I was cool.

759
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 7: I'm like, hey, I'm that sucks.

760
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's so that's so something you don't even

761
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,719
Speaker 2: recognize until you're older and you look back and you

762
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: go like, why do we think that way?

763
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 4: Right?

764
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 6: Like, oh, you're not.

765
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 4: Putting poison in your body. No, we're not inviting.

766
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 7: And you know what, I never forgot about it. Yeah,

767
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 7: Chris and Andrew, I won't say your last name.

768
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 2: Person, Andrew have fun at the lake beer. Okay, we're

769
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: wrapping up, but this Thursday is our first book club

770
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: and we so we realized that Untamed is not okay.

771
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 2: So the book is Untamed by Glennon Doyle, and we

772
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: realize it's not really in chapters. It's in like parts

773
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: like uh, segments words yeah, kind of words.

774
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: So eras if you will.

775
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 4: We both read until Dragons, the dragons title I actually read.

776
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 4: Did you read the dragons or you.

777
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: Stopped at stopped in it?

778
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I read through dragons, but we say stop at dragons,

779
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 2: so once you get to dragons you can stop. Yeah,

780
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 2: I forgot. I actually felt like I resonated with different

781
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: parts than I did when I first read it. So

782
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to talk about it and go over it.

783
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 2: So get your copy of Untamed. I read it the

784
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 2: first time and then this time I'm listening to it.

785
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but also, don't we discourage if you don't want

786
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 3: to read it, because it's not like we're gonna just

787
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 3: like we're not going to give you cliff notes.

788
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 1: It's not what the podcast is going to be. We're

789
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: gonna be like just talking about.

790
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like it'll be kind of honestly just topics.

791
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think everyone will be able to relate

792
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 2: and listen even if you don't read the books.

793
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 3: So I've never been a part of a book club before,

794
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 3: so I have no idea how this is.

795
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 2: So you're gonna be interesting, consistent things, so scholarly too, yeah,

796
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 2: so scholarly and deep. Also, we did try to get

797
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 2: Gabby Wendy for the podcast because I know a lot

798
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,359
Speaker 2: of you were like, please have her on, like it'll

799
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 2: be such a good conversation, and we did try, but

800
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 2: I guess she doesn't want to do like bachelor podcast.

801
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 4: But I don't, I.

802
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 7: Mean because about anatomy podcast.

803
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

804
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, we're not a Bachelor podcast, and b

805
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 3: that's so not a thing. It's like, so what does

806
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 3: that make make you? Guys feel like you're in competition?

807
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 4: With each other.

808
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 2: To me, I was like, Oh, I feel like we'd

809
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: have such a great conversation, Like I feel like we've

810
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 2: been through a similar experience. Yeah, I mean she was

811
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 2: a bachelorette, so there's that difference, but like a very

812
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 2: similar experience, pretty similar and then falling in love with

813
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 2: a woman, and I felt like it would be a

814
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 2: and she's so funny, So I was like, this will

815
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: be such a like beautiful but like kind of funny,

816
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: just like a good chit chat.

817
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 7: So a woman performer too, I don't know, there's so

818
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 7: many parallels.

819
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 4: I know.

820
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I would call you a performer.

821
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 4: I'm saying the look on her face, I'm gonna need

822
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 4: Crystal slow mo, like.

823
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: We're both performers, Like, okay, you're a wedding, but I

824
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: don't have perform Yeah, but I think she gave the

825
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: exclusive to Bethany Free.

826
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 4: Like it just.

827
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 3: Rubs me the wrong way because it's just like, just

828
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 3: because you were on the Bachelor doesn't mean that you

829
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 3: guys can't.

830
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 2: Like barely even I mean a almost a decade ago

831
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: I was on the Bachelor.

832
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: Our podcast has nothing to do with the Bachelor.

833
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 4: I didn't even talk about it.

834
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: But when you bring in the word competition, I'm like,

835
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: you and her are not in competition because you have similar.

836
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 4: It was because competition, I said. I didn't. I don't know.

837
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 4: I don't think that has the thing to do with that.

838
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: I'm just saying like, I don't know if she's like, oh,

839
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 2: it's kind of you know. I don't know if she

840
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 2: wants to be I don't know if she wants to

841
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 2: be grouped in with people from the Bachelor who have

842
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 2: done this.

843
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 4: I don't know.

844
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm just letting you know. There

845
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: are people that y'all are like, oh, try to get them.

846
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 6: I try. I try, really try.

847
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 4: We do our best.

848
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 3: And let me tell you, we're still trying for Patrick Dempsy.

849
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 3: He has not given us the official no, so like

850
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 3: like Goddy said, no, we are still out to you,

851
00:36:56,840 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 3: Patrick Dempsey, Team Dempsey. Until you say no, we will

852
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 3: keep knocking.

853
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 7: I'm gonna put something else out there about Patrick Dempsey post.

854
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 7: I saw tweet last night. I posted it on my story.

855
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 7: Someone said Patrick Dempsey needs to be cast as a

856
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 7: character in the next season, and just like that, and

857
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 7: he's the one who breaks up Carrie and Aiden. He

858
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 7: breaks them off the five year pause. I think I

859
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 7: would love that if that happened, Patrick would sign on.

860
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 2: I would take back all of my negative feedback for

861
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 2: the show.

862
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 4: If they brought Patrick Dempsey on. That's a love interest.

863
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: I would just love him to come on this podcast.

864
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 2: Well me too, but to have him on screen again

865
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 2: would be a true blessing.

866
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: Isn't he on screens now? Honestly, have no idea, I don't.

867
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 2: Know, but I saw a post about him the other

868
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 2: day on a or something.

869
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a sober Fox right there.

870
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 2: So we will be back Thursday with a little, a short,

871
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 2: little episode of John Mill chatting about the book and

872
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 2: other things.

873
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 4: But have a wonderful week, be safe on Labor Day.

874
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 1: We love you, We love you so much.

875
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 4: Bye bye,