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Speaker 1: Am I the A hole for training my crushes dog

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Speaker 1: to sniff my crutch?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't smell good, smells like an extra large SLAMI.

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Speaker 1: So I twenty female, have a neighbor twenty two to

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Speaker 1: twenty four male, and I have a crush on him. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm so shy though, when I struggle with initiating and

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Speaker 1: I notice that the day I was carrying a pepperoni

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Speaker 1: stick for a snack to eat on my way to

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Speaker 1: my workout class, his dog approached me enthusiastically and was

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Speaker 1: sniffing me. And this prompted a small but very cute

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Speaker 1: conversation with the neighbor.

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Speaker 2: Forty chess over here. Really smart.

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Speaker 1: Also, I like OPI, He's like, yeah, on my way

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Speaker 1: to being super hot and fit. Oh, I was carrying

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Speaker 1: a sausage stick up, so now I carry it when

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Speaker 1: I want my neighbor to run into me. It's worked

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Speaker 1: three times thus far, and he doesn't know it's because

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Speaker 1: I have a treat on me.

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Speaker 2: So am I the A hole for this?

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Speaker 1: There are edits, there are updates, But John is op

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Speaker 1: the A hole for hiding some salami and her pants?

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Speaker 2: No? I think this is super cute? Is super cute?

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Speaker 3: I feel like them telling the story like, oh, they're married,

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Speaker 3: they got kids, Like I used to carry a little

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Speaker 3: pepperoni stick just so his dog would come to me a.

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Speaker 2: Normal that's adorable. That's adorable.

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Speaker 1: I hope these updates. Are you getting married? Please?

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Speaker 2: But do it. Let's get into the edits clarification for

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Speaker 2: those who need it. Don't worry.

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Speaker 1: I've never given this dog any food. I know not

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Speaker 1: to give dogs food without asking the owner. Hopefully I

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Speaker 1: can treat both boys soon miiley face whoa. As requested,

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Speaker 1: i'll update here. Thank you so much for all the

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Speaker 1: lovely advice and encouragements, and we do have some comments.

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Speaker 1: So unlucky fall six' nine oh six, says for a,

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Speaker 1: SECOND i thought you were giving him the. Treats El

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Speaker 1: meo was gonna. Say he probably thinks you're an, angel

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Speaker 1: not an a. Hole In obi, responds ha ha ha.

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Speaker 1: Ha MAYBE i should make him. Some i'll have to

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Speaker 1: figure out what he likes using the encounters, first and

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Speaker 1: then Am drodder, SAYS i totally just use that as.

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Speaker 1: Initiation give the dog a, treat then search your pockets

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Speaker 1: and be, all, oh, Sorry i've got nothing for.

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Speaker 2: You how about? Coffee sometime pretty, good pickup, one OR

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Speaker 2: i can just bring you a stick as. WELL i

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Speaker 2: like to fetch your.

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Speaker 1: Stick there we, go checking, Mate opie, responds, you my,

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Speaker 1: friend are. Genius comment to Return emergency ninety seventy one six,

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Speaker 1: says ask him first if it's okay to give the

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Speaker 1: dog a, treat and then proceed. Appropriately Lopsided palace, says

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Speaker 1: as an added, bonus the dog will keep coming to

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Speaker 1: you when it smells good because it keeps getting. Treats

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Speaker 1: even the dumbest dog will eventually realize begging won't work

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Speaker 1: if it never works on. Someone And Crafty monband, SAYS

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Speaker 1: i think that is super cute if the conversations are.

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Speaker 1: Good asking him out for coffee at your place since your,

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Speaker 1: neighbors and assuming he knows you're his, neighbor or to

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Speaker 1: a coffee shop wherever you feel more. Comfortable it's low

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Speaker 1: stakes and removes some of the pressure of a first. Eight,

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Speaker 1: ALSO i check with my husband and you are definitely

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Speaker 1: not the a. HOLE opi, respond thank you so. Much

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Speaker 1: i'm going to see him probably. Tomorrow i'm just going

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Speaker 1: to be direct and ask him. Out, lately it seems

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Speaker 1: he wants to hang out. More but BECAUSE i get,

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Speaker 1: NERVOUS i always slip away.

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Speaker 2: And cut our encounter.

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Speaker 1: Short he seems like he wants him kind of before

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Speaker 1: he can, ask AND i think he can Sense i'm

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Speaker 1: a little shy and it's made him cautious. Too he

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Speaker 1: is very, respectful SO i need to take a step

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Speaker 1: and let him. Know i'll ask to walk with him

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Speaker 1: and his dog to get a, coffee And i'll bring

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Speaker 1: the dog a, treat going to try to pick up

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Speaker 1: the ones that are safest and least likely to provoke.

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Speaker 1: Allergy i'll ask him IF i can give it to

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Speaker 1: his dog and go from.

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Speaker 3: There so a quick question, is does it seem like

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Speaker 3: he's kind of cutting it short and trying not to

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Speaker 3: cross the. Line, No, oh he's cutting it. Short oh

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Speaker 3: he is cutting to kind of keep him coming, Back

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Speaker 3: yes for. More or she's just like a little shy and,

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Speaker 1: P twenty Female yah is shy as heck is LIKE

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Speaker 1: i like this. Guy the dog likes. ME i want

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Speaker 1: to know if the guy likes me. TOO i KNOW

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Speaker 1: i like. Him so she's just. Shy she's just.

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Speaker 2: Shy she's, like, OH i gotta, go gotta, go because

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Speaker 1: More go for, it and so do. We because there

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Speaker 1: is an, update let's. GO i received a lot of

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Speaker 1: helpful advice and so much, encouragement and here's WHAT i.

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Speaker 1: DID i bought dog jerky for my neighbor's. Dog don't,

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Speaker 1: WORRY i asked my neighbor BEFORE i gave. IT i

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Speaker 1: also made it very clear while talking to the dog

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Speaker 1: THAT i went out and bought this treat just for.

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Speaker 1: Him another great, move which resulted in my neighbor, saying

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Speaker 1: you're so. SWEET i don't know if he deserves it.

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Speaker 1: Today then he told me a funny story about the dog. Misbehaving,

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Speaker 1: NOW i had practiced my segue line a million times my.

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Speaker 1: Apartment we all know the, hearing we all know that. Feeling,

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Speaker 2: Work AND i used to go in the shower and

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Speaker 2: then kissing my leg.

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Speaker 1: You know where ner, yea it was, bad bro oh

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Speaker 1: man that he got a lot of.

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Speaker 2: Guys like a partly a hairy.

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Speaker 3: Page, yeah, DUDE i had my my. Hair my leg

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Speaker 3: was covered in hair by the TIME i started doing

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Speaker 1: First time he was on a lady's, Face he's, like

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Speaker 3: HAIR i feel like this is going to come back

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Speaker 3: to haunt me from the community and the, Day like

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Speaker 3: the discord is going to go crazy with this.

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Speaker 1: One, yeah join it if you haven't so pregast a million.

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Speaker 1: Times but they got so nervous and everything went blank

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Speaker 1: for a. Second SO i told, myself if he gets,

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Speaker 1: seemed to be in no, hurry didn't, disengage SO i

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Speaker 1: told him what someone here SUGGESTED i. SAY i can't

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Speaker 1: remember the exact, words, sorry BUT i said something LIKE

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Speaker 1: i don't have anything for, you. Though would he like

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Speaker 1: to walk together and get a coffee.

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Speaker 2: My, treat even my treat? Genius he said he'd love.

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Speaker 2: To he also said he's been wanting to ask, me

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Speaker 2: BUT i always seem to be in a. RUSH i

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Speaker 1: i was giving him a different impression THAN i. INTENDED

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Speaker 1: i feel like there's a lot of people that are

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Speaker 1: out of dickishness.

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Speaker 3: Totally and it can come off like he can come

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Speaker 3: off and the way they're. Intended, yeah we walked to.

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Speaker 1: The coffee shop AND i ordered my coffee and his.

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Speaker 1: Coffee lo he didn't let me. PAY i tried to,

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Speaker 1: insist and he told me he only agreed to get

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Speaker 1: me to come with, Him he never intended to let me.

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Speaker 2: Pay what a, Gentleman what a. Gentleman but a, Gentleman

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Speaker 2: what a? Gentleman.

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Speaker 1: Truly we got our coffee and talked and. Walked two

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Speaker 1: hours went. By whoa does he?

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Speaker 2: Happened? Yappened he happened for two hours.

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Speaker 1: STEP i was encouraged by the commenters to be, direct

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Speaker 1: SO i ended up telling him ONCE i felt a

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Speaker 1: bit more warmed up to the conversation THAT i think

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Speaker 1: he's handsome and That i've had a crush on him

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Speaker 1: SINCE i first saw.

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Speaker 2: Him oh his reaction.

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Speaker 1: Priceless he got a little, SHY i, think because he

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Speaker 1: looked away briefly AFTER i said it only for a moment,

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Speaker 1: though while, saying oh, wow you just made my, week

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Speaker 1: he was. Smiling, also his ears turned a little, red

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Speaker 1: want to believe it was WHAT i. Said he told

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Speaker 1: me has somewhere to be this, evening but he would

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Speaker 1: like to see me. Again we designed on a day and. Time,

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Speaker 2: Date, yeah this is. Good this is.

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Speaker 1: Good we exchanged contact IN foe and added each other On.

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Speaker 1: Instagram we've been talking on the phone and texting first

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Speaker 1: since let's go.

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Speaker 2: Up we decided on a museum dates and.

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Speaker 1: Dinner my favorite first dates have been museum dates or

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Speaker 1: some of my favorites WHEN i was in WHEN i

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Speaker 1: was in high School Black Monty.

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Speaker 3: High school museum. Dates this guy's on a different. Level oh,

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Speaker 3: yeah you want to see Some. Rothco do you want

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Speaker 3: to see a McDonald's?

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Speaker 3: Florida but, YEAH i did it right.

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Speaker 1: Boys WHEN i got, home he texted me that he

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Speaker 1: know me. Better he said my shyness, thorrible and some

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Speaker 1: other compliments.

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Speaker 2: FOLLOWED i was.

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Speaker 1: Giddy one of the biggest THINGS i learned from the

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Speaker 1: comments in my original post is that men love it

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Speaker 1: when women make the first, move and they love to be.

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Speaker 1: Complimented slash. Approach first, FACT i love a good compliment.

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Speaker 1: Totally please compliment me in the comments right.

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Speaker 2: Now that's a dangerous. Request oh, god lets the games.

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Speaker 1: Begin mostly just wanted to share this update because something positive,

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Speaker 1: happened AND i highly recommend this meat cute me e eight,

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Speaker 1: technique especially to girls like me whose shyness can unintentionally

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Speaker 1: come off as being closed. Off, also redditors on the

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Speaker 1: original post take credit for coming up with the term meat.

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Speaker 1: Cute it was not, me AND i haven't told him

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Speaker 1: about the pepperoni tactic. YET i think it's best to say.

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Speaker 2: For the real. Date depending on how that, Goes i'll tell.

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Speaker 4: Him you get the meat cute thing like, meat like pepperoni.

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Speaker 2: Meat, no break it down for me.

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Speaker 4: Meat, okay you know the Thing sophia refuses to.

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Speaker 2: Eat very. Good Now i'm on. Board thank You eli

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Speaker 1: That down comments grim Tricks egg, Says i'm glad it worked. Out,

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Speaker 1: traditionally for, decades the men had to do everything to

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Speaker 1: court a. Woman we don't normally receive, compliments are always

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Speaker 1: told to man up and.

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Speaker 2: Never cry and all. That i'm only forty. One old as.

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Speaker 1: Fuck, Okay i'm only forty, one but that's HOW i

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Speaker 1: was WHEN i was younger. Too we have emotions of

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Speaker 1: a woman comes to us in is. Direct if there's

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Speaker 1: one thing we, hate it's women who try to drop.

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Speaker 1: Hints we will never get those, hints and on the

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Speaker 1: off chance we do get a, hint it hits us

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Speaker 1: twenty years later in the middle of the. Night little

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Speaker 1: good for, you AND i hope it all works.

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Speaker 1: YEAH i recently realized when women go like like, this

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Speaker 1: She found him in the phone, book left a voicemail

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Speaker 4: Text, YEAH i mean that's HOW i got to go

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Speaker 1: this Is. Okayop I'm Samuel daughter And I'm John fry

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Speaker 1: and we tell the funniest.

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Speaker 2: World oh, please do tell my, friend do.

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Speaker 3: TELL i told my Son i'd rather have his ex

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Speaker 3: Charles, actually there's always there's always a few people that

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Speaker 3: AnyWho thank, You, Charles thank You. CHARLES i will take

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Speaker 3: it from, here all, right go back on your your.

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Speaker 3: Perch so sixteen years, ago my Son, matthew had a

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Speaker 3: so when they divorced seven years ago due to my son, CHEATING.

437
00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:07,600
Speaker 2: I was conflicted and.

438
00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:11,080
Speaker 1: Disappointed oh, okay this is this is this is the

439
00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,600
Speaker 1: mom mom of the seating son who was, cheating who

440
00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,080
Speaker 1: now is an ex. WIFE i also thought it was

441
00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:17,639
Speaker 1: a dad for some, reason but it is.

442
00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,720
Speaker 3: Not josie wasn't particularly close with any of her own,

443
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,280
Speaker 3: family so my husband AND i naturally took them. In

444
00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,280
Speaker 3: josie was an, angel and she had insisted that we

445
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,719
Speaker 3: didn't have to lift a finger any more than before

446
00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:32,080
Speaker 3: now that we had moved, in and though she was,

447
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:36,560
Speaker 3: hurt she kept it civil Around. Matthew, wow that's that's really. Mature,

448
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 3: seriously that takes a. Lot my husband AND i held

449
00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,360
Speaker 3: a huge hand in raising their, Daughter, ruth Because matthew

450
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,320
Speaker 3: remarried less than a year later and now has a

451
00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,320
Speaker 3: four year old son after Disowning.

452
00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:55,960
Speaker 2: Ruth disowning Bro, LIKE i just don't.

453
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 3: Understand, Wow Like i'm almost, Like i'm almost like, logic

454
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,680
Speaker 3: if you're just like disowning your, children then like why

455
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:05,720
Speaker 3: would you like a new child any more than like

456
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:06,359
Speaker 3: the last?

457
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Speaker 2: One, like oh my.

458
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,800
Speaker 1: God like that's just such a crappy thing to. Do,

459
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 1: say those parents must feel so, terrible like, fuck what

460
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 1: do we? Do like like, yeah, damn what do we

461
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,720
Speaker 1: do wrong to raise such a morally bankrupt?

462
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,240
Speaker 3: Child and imagine being in that position as like the,

463
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 3: Grandparents you're like, gosh LIKE i you, know you can't

464
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 3: just stand.

465
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 1: By Imagine josie. Too at least she has the support

466
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 1: of her.

467
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 2: Parents that's. True that's.

468
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:34,400
Speaker 3: True two years, ago my husband was diagnosed with lung,

469
00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 3: cancer which was very hard for, everyone Especially. Ruth they

470
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 3: were extremely close and she told him about her girlfriends

471
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 3: and boyfriends before anyone. Else has always wanted him to

472
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 3: be the one to walk her down the aisle at her.

473
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,879
Speaker 3: Wedding matt rarely ever visited and didn't answer our, calls

474
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,160
Speaker 3: often saying that we had other, kids so it wasn't

475
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 3: like my husband was dying.

476
00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 5: Lonely oh my, god What i'm terrible little kid like,

477
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 5: Bro it just it just it just boggles the.

478
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 2: Mind.

479
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 1: Dude this guy's like not only is a, cheater but

480
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,679
Speaker 1: he's a parent deserter bro and just like also an,

481
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,680
Speaker 1: emotionless just compassionless.

482
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 3: Man he's just won The bingo for being the worst human.

483
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 3: Earth what's your?

484
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: Dad? Dialog hat old?

485
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:27,920
Speaker 1: BINGO I reddit games your daughter jack.

486
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,679
Speaker 3: Now last, night, Though matt stopped by to talk about.

487
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:41,679
Speaker 3: Inheritance oh when there's money involved and there's some funny

488
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 3: money he, Now he's, like, oh you don't have to

489
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 3: dialogu And i'll be. There he never Mentioned josie Nor

490
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 3: ruth and hinted that he thought he should get more

491
00:21:53,920 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 3: inheritance than his. Siblings the entire discussion what, why like

492
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 3: why one of the worst son? Ever literally you should

493
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 3: get you should get negative, money you should.

494
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 2: Get charged for How, yeah everyone has to deal with your.

495
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 3: Shenanigans my husband AND i shared awkward looks until he

496
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 3: decided to cut. In he explained that everyone would get a,

497
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 3: peace but he'd focused more On ruth And.

498
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 2: Bonnie one of our other.

499
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 3: Grandkids matt got angry and said That ruth was just

500
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:31,199
Speaker 3: his disowned kid and that his son, were and that

501
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 3: his son deserved more than. Her my husband got furious

502
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 3: after that and left the, room saying that he wouldn't

503
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,120
Speaker 3: Include matthew.

504
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 2: At all in the. Will.

505
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, honestly but that needs some a hard lesson

506
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 1: this to become a better human than he is being right.

507
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 3: Now he shouldn't have gotten anything before that discussion.

508
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: Exactly LIKE i feel like all of his actions before

509
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,199
Speaker 1: should have just taken him out of the. Will but daughter, Alone, like,

510
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: yeah that one and, cheating disowning, Cheating, yes cheating then.

511
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 2: Disowning that's come. On.

512
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: Woo matt yelled back and turned to, me saying That

513
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 3: ruth wasn't worse it because she'd grow up to be

514
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 3: a salute like her.

515
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: Mother gareth the one that.

516
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 3: Cheated oh my, god this guy is giving me a

517
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 3: migraine right.

518
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 1: Now, wow the mental gymnastics you have to go through

519
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: to convince yourself that the person who didn't, cheat is

520
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 1: the sluty.

521
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: One you need some sort.

522
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 3: Of like matrix down low to convince your brain of

523
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 3: this absolute just, garbage.

524
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:40,959
Speaker 2: Ridiculous.

525
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 3: NOW i told him That i'd rather have her mother

526
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 3: as my daughter than him as my, son and insisted he'd.

527
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: Leave, wow all, Right, Honestly matt freaking deserves, that does he?

528
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: Does he needs someone to check. HIM a burn that's a,

529
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 2: little a little precursor the hell that he's going to.

530
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 2: Experience that's all, right fire and.

531
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 3: Brimstone his experience in hell is he's locked To he's

532
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 3: locked where he can just almost reach his inheritance, money

533
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 3: but he can't touch.

534
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 1: It or it's like like he can he, can like

535
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: as he's about to touch, it it just all burns, away.

536
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 3: Yeah or it moves an inch away every time he

537
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 3: gets half an inch, closer and an every.

538
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 2: Time he's not getting.

539
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 3: Anything, No i'm getting phone calls From matt's wife and

540
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 3: his family friends saying that my husband AND i overreacted

541
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 3: and he was just angry that we were playing.

542
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 1: FAVORITES i don't know about. That AM i the a?

543
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: Hole and there's an. Edit there's an, edit there's an

544
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Speaker 1: outdate to.

545
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 2: Clear some things up to set the record. Straight set

546
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 2: that record. Straight josie did not cheat On.

547
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 3: Matthew josie And matthew met later in, college And josie

548
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 3: was known as a.

549
00:24:58,640 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 2: Party girl before.

550
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 3: That ruth isn't the product of some, affair and we

551
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:07,120
Speaker 3: are planning on getting A dna test because What matthew

552
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 3: said has gotten Under ruth's skin so. Much she was

553
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 3: in the house and overheard the, Conversation oh, god that

554
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 3: is so. Awful oh my, gosh Poor. Ruth this, kid

555
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 3: this is it's a, child like it's a. Child when

556
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 3: it came to taking In josie And, ruth we did

557
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: not hesitate one bit Because josie is not from. Here

558
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 3: she and matt lived in another country until he moved

559
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 3: with them here a few months ago before he got caught.

560
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 3: CHEATING i had no intentions of Choosing josie Over matt

561
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 3: then and, now And i've never discouraged matt from. VISITING

562
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 3: i tried to make it very clear we're not picking.

563
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 3: Sides we just wanted her and our granddaughter to be

564
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 3: safe and have a good.

565
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: HOME i Think i'm not out of line WHEN i

566
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: Say matt is the, biggest fattest most flappy gaping a

567
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: HOLE i have ever seen in my.

568
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: Life that is an accurate. Statement that, is that is

569
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 2: not escaping a.

570
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: Hole LIKE i like like like his ale is so

571
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 1: a gape that it's like a wizard's sleep.

572
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 2: Rapping in the. Wind he's an a. Hole it's just

573
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 2: a myriad of hemorrhoids just flapping.

574
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,439
Speaker 1: Together he is an ale that just has lesions on

575
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: the side and is bleeding profusely like a volcanic guys

576
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 1: into the.

577
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,640
Speaker 3: Sky oh, Man, yeah this guy is a piece of. Garbage,

578
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 3: yeah but you know what's never a piece of. Garbage

579
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