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Speaker 1: downright all right, So let's talk to take. We were

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Speaker 1: And see what see what men have to do like

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Speaker 1: Like you are the supreme being. I'll never be you.

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Speaker 1: These are truths. These are lives. I mean, we use

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, if you stopped singing, right,

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Speaker 1: Because we don't have no choice. You want to you

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Speaker 1: come from this people kiss No, but I think that's

424
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 1: a part of it, some good if they're doing some

425
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: good quality kissing and it's part of the action. The point. Yeah,

426
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: I hate when the camera man pans into the face

427
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 1: like they don't want to if a girl is having

428
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,400
Speaker 1: if if a woman is having an orgasm, I want

429
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: to see her face. But if she's ugly these even

430
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 1: if she up, she making an ugly face right like

431
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: heage right now. I got some homemade point in my

432
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 1: phone right now, and I was watching the play bag

433
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh I look crazy, damn Like

434
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you don't see nobody's face.

435
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 1: You um want to do this to Loio? Oh god

436
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: what now? Now? I was just thinking about a point

437
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: star and something I don't know. Oh, I don't give

438
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: a fund with It wasn't her, but imagine like your

439
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: boyfriend she told you with the porn. Yeah, my boyfriend

440
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: cheated on me with a porn star before and she

441
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: was ugly as fun. But that wasn't do more a

442
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 1: fantasy thing that asn't any that wasn't like a real cheating.

443
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 1: He was so about that ship that wasn't a real

444
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: real How did I find out? Oh? That bit? Do it? If?

445
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: If a man can stop long enough to stop being sensitive,

446
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: long enough, stop being a baby long enough to ask

447
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 1: the question. We were talking about gender roles before, and I,

448
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: you know, I, like I said, sometimes I feel like

449
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: I disconnect and I have a lot of masking and

450
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: traits to me. But I feel like men are made

451
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: for forgiving women are not. I don't feel like women

452
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: should be forgiven as easily. Oh my god, I don't

453
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: agree with what definitely, because I feel like we as women,

454
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: we cheat, you know, from the heart. We don't cheat

455
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: like from our you know, pussies like all the time.

456
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: It's true most of the time. And I can woman

457
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,959
Speaker 1: when she cheats because she had a feeling, and it's like,

458
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: can you really? I think a lot of women that

459
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't feel like if I cheat on man, I

460
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: don't feel like I should be forgiven. That's the number

461
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: one reason, because it was paid back. It's revenge, So

462
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: you did it. I'm gonna trying to make me heel,

463
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. That's that's a little unforgivable.

464
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 1: Now YouTube not not even let me have even at

465
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: this point. If it's even, then all right, let's move on, Yeah,

466
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 1: move on, Let's get back to our regularly whatever forgiven,

467
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: because I just I just know what I've done, right,

468
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and I know what I've

469
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:40,360
Speaker 1: needed forgiveness for what have been done given. Some examples

470
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: like what's the worst thing you ever did to a woman?

471
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: I think bad about it, I think. I mean, I've

472
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: been married before, and I was you know, you gotta

473
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 1: you gotta picture me being you know, twenty four years old,

474
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: fresh in l A with a hit record and Shaquille

475
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: O'Neil at your birthday party. It was everything like I did.

476
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: I didn't. There's no book that tells you how to

477
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:13,959
Speaker 1: handle I had. I had come on like I'm on

478
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: the road four days out of a week. So why

479
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: did you get married? I mean I thought that I

480
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: wanted to get married. You know, I loved her and

481
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: we you know, it was because it was simple. We

482
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: were living and you know, we're living in Maryland, and

483
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: you know, we wake up in the morning, I take

484
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: her to work, I go to the gym, go to

485
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: my MoMA basement, missing Mike, whip, go pick her up

486
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: and work, go back home, hang out like we had

487
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: a thing that felt great and was ours. And I

488
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: didn't know that moving to l A and establishing my

489
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: career would alter the fabric of our relationship or even

490
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: change me, you know what I mean, completely as a

491
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: man um I didn't know that, you know what I mean?

492
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: The six tess also, they came in all of that,

493
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: all of that, and so that's in you. And when

494
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: I talk to young guys, are always encouraged, and I said,

495
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: make sure you're established in who you are and who

496
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: you want to be before you bring somebody into the party.

497
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 1: Started adding people to that, because you're going to change.

498
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: The things you like are going to change, you know

499
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, for the majority of it, You know

500
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like you get around and see this world,

501
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: see what the world has to offer versus just your neighborhood,

502
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: thought process completely changes. I agree with that that all

503
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: you gotta know yourself and have your stuff together and know,

504
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: you know, live in order to bring somebody house in it.

505
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: And I feel like now like even a point. No,

506
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm in my life like I have a new job

507
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: and everything. I moved to a new city, and people

508
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: are like, oh, Y're still are You're still single? Yes,

509
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: because I'm still figuring out stuff for my own self.

510
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I'm not dating. That doesn't mean I

511
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: don't talk to people, but I don't have as much

512
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: time for someone else because I'm focusing a lot and

513
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: all of my time on me and my career. You

514
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: gotta do it. You gotta give yourself that time, that

515
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: time to discover who you really are and what you

516
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: really want. So when did you know it was over?

517
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: What was the first the first marriage? Pretty early? Pretty early?

518
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: It was? No, it was. I mean I think that

519
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 1: I think the marriage like really lasting about three years.

520
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: Three years years, um, And you know I showed her that,

521
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Um, I showed her all

522
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: of that, and I just didn't I wasn't ready. I

523
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: didn't know how to handle it. I was I was

524
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: very young, immature kid. You really all the candy and

525
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: all that, you know, I went trick or treating you

526
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: know what I was supposed to be. You were married

527
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: to her before your career took off. Oh, that's what happened. Yeah,

528
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: I got I got together before you decided to marry.

529
00:29:54,080 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: I was, yeah, you had kids. We have two kids,

530
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: my first two kids. When I feel like that's what

531
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: happened with me. I was happy in my relationship and

532
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: then I got my foot into the during the industry,

533
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, what relationship. I was saying, yeah,

534
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: you are not giving me any feminine thought process exactly.

535
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: That's exactly body for almost eight years. Any straights, my

536
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: father's babe. I can't post officials, okay, the pictures nowadays

537
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: it's like the ultimate. You know, people are like like,

538
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 1: I ain't once you posted, that's official officials. So yeah,

539
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: people got a date for like two or three years

540
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: before they're like the post and you ain't just posting?

541
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: And do you take the pictures down immediately when you

542
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,959
Speaker 1: get when you're not together? And I did immediately. I did.

543
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: I did tell social media with Mary. I deleted the

544
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: social media wasn't up when I you don't? It was crazy?

545
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: Is that like it's crazy because switching another lane, it's

546
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: it's it's a blessing that social media was not in

547
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: those early days, like like like I'm forty three anybody

548
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: close to where absolutely, So imagine if there was social

549
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: media in two thousand one, it has been over two

550
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: thousand two. Like we were given a grace period. Yeah,

551
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: I remember, and then seeing you in Miami in southeast

552
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: with Jamie Fox and we were staying in the same hotel.

553
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: She's about to tell on you. No he was not,

554
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: but I know they was out there while and and

555
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: I remember being like was in the early two thousand

556
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: and that was when you could really be a famous person,

557
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: not an answer that famous purpose. It was like and

558
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: it was a hotel too, That's how I know they

559
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: was doing it. It was low. It was like that

560
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: Bentley Beaches. Yeah, and I would somebody had got me

561
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: a hook up. That's actually I would, as with a

562
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: bunch of my girls because it was Jennifer's birthday from

563
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: Basketball Wives and so we were Yeah, we were all

564
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: out there and so we gotta down to the exactly.

565
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: So imagine that social media back then. I'm so happy.

566
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: I'm happy, you know, I was younger at that time,

567
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: but I'm happy that I got to experience seeing stars

568
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: be stars and have privacy and do all of that.

569
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: Not what's going on now. Everybody's just opened about all

570
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: the business I mean reality, reality, the success of reality

571
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: because you guys, everything right, because because the fan no

572
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: longer craved story, the reality is fake to me. Well

573
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: now it's fake. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because

574
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: because they did they did the analytics on you know,

575
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: on reality and what people respond to you know, uh,

576
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: during all of these shows and all these things. So

577
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: now they use the analytic to create the narrative and

578
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 1: now you have say but you know, in the beginning

579
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,239
Speaker 1: it was real, you know what I'm saying, And so

580
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: when people responded to it, people like when it came

581
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: to their artists, they were like, well, where's your reality? Yet,

582
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: how do we connect with you? Like the old boy

583
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: over here is losing his mind, they can re check

584
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: him into a middle mental interestution watching the whole thing,

585
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And then you got guys

586
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: like us, who is like who were talked to just

587
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Go in your hotel room

588
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: and stay in retreating, don't come out and everybody see you,

589
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: and take the service elevator and then walk through. Now

590
00:33:52,040 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: we're walking in the front door right break. But that's

591
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: but that's the new goal, that's the new commodity, like

592
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: it was coming in, that's the new so. But like

593
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: when Will Smith came out on social media, he explained

594
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: it like he comes from a time where celebrities, you know,

595
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: they needed mystery to be to feel like that superstar

596
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: and it was important. And now he's going nuts on

597
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 1: social media and love it. But he's cheating. He's cheating

598
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: because he has every resource man, right, everything, Yeah, yeah,

599
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: he does have the best making regular content, like from

600
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: the bottom up content everything, every Scorsesey doing bits for him, Like, well,

601
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: come on, man, he's cheating. And I'm like with yeah,

602
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: I've never heard nobody actually come out and say it.

603
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: Will Smith is just I mean, of course he's an anomaly.

604
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: He's just one of the greatest talents I think this

605
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 1: earth has ever seen. But when he puts his mind

606
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: to taking over something over, like he's Will Smith, what

607
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: can't Will Smith do? He can do everything. He's Spanish,

608
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: It's amazing, you can do everything of him, I William

609
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: say the show for it. Ever you want talk, how

610
00:35:51,120 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: do you just here right to take twice? No more problem?

611
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 1: Actually like that. Now let's talk about keeping things spicy,

612
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: right because you have no your wife for almost twenty years.

613
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: So how do you guys keep thinking spicy? Like do

614
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: you do things like play dress up? Do you go

615
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 1: out and do the whole stranger you're in a bar scenario?

616
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:33,959
Speaker 1: Any of those things and dress up? No, we don't.

617
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,919
Speaker 1: We don't know role play at all. But I think

618
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: I think I still desire my woman, like I don't

619
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 1: necessarily need her to be anybody else for me to

620
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 1: be completely aroused and turned on by her scenarios. No, like, okay,

621
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: you a cheerleader. It's always brand new to me, you

622
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's how you know what I'm saying,

623
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: Like this is this is okay, yeah, the first time.

624
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because we spend so much time apart

625
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: and our focuses are always so different. I'm on work,

626
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 1: she got the kids, she got her beauty stuff, and

627
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: she got the house. To say, you know what I

628
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: mean that when we finally get it, when we finally

629
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 1: actually get in there, we got ten minutes. It's it's

630
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: finally a moment, you know what I mean. So we

631
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: haven't even gotten to the space where we've exhausted just

632
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: us yet, we haven't even exhausted that yet, So do

633
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,879
Speaker 1: you feel like sometimes you know so well what makes

634
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: you come and you're like your man does it makes

635
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: you come so well that you kind of do the

636
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: same things and you don't bury it because you're like,

637
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: this is what always worked like to get that spot.

638
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: You mean, yeah, I mean I like what I like.

639
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I think that when

640
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: it gets old to you, didn't you switch it up?

641
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: But I mean there are there are go to things.

642
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: I mean, you can dance around at all, you won't.

643
00:37:54,880 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, I got a magical things that

644
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 1: I do that she know I can do this. She

645
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: just she'd be, well, when you're gonna do that? You

646
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 1: know we don't. We don't be having a whole lot

647
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: of time to be you know what I'm saying, beating

648
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: around the us looking behind decast. How did you feel

649
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 1: about your whole exposing with yourself with your legs up

650
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: in here my first club? But she's like that was

651
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: just our thing. She thinks, she thinks, I'm hilarious. Why

652
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: do you do this? Because like it doesn't just affect me,

653
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: it affects her too, So like you got people in

654
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: her fade you lick as I got to ask you to.

655
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: It's just it's just like it really affects her. She

656
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: like you just stop saying this ship is a wonderful thing.

657
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: I just want to ask. It's funny because I, like

658
00:38:55,400 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: Angela said, she probably how are her friends? Like, just

659
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: get one? I'm clean, first of all. I'm clean, first

660
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: of all. All right, I stayed with web whites. I

661
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 1: don't play. You know what I'm saying, even if I'm

662
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 1: not using it. I freshen up. You know what I'm saying,

663
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: ain't a whole lot of dudes and freshen up. I

664
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: got baby whites. But I know you talked about it

665
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club a little bit. But what do

666
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: you think it is that guys are so scared to

667
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: say that, like you know, yeah, even though they're not saying,

668
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: they're doing it. They're doing it well. Because right, we've

669
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: come into a place where, um, where the whole idea

670
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: of being gay is it's out right, it is what

671
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 1: it is. Everybody should be comfortable, um with that conversation.

672
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: But you'll find that most men are still no matter

673
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: how much they talk about it in terms of somebody

674
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: else in we're talking about things that may put them

675
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: in that space completely uncomfortable. We'll not talking about it,

676
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,240
Speaker 1: will not address it nothing. They can't because they don't

677
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: want to feel like you know what I mean. They're

678
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 1: they're put into the same category like they like it,

679
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: but they won't tell you. Guys do it to them,

680
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: but they won't be like we want to do but

681
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: they're not gonna say nothing. But when you live with

682
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: not getting something done to you than just expressing how

683
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: you really feel, that's crazy. It's I mean, it's a

684
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: pride thing for men, you know what I mean. I mean,

685
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 1: they'll they'll hide a man don't hide behind that pride

686
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: for life, you know what I mean. That's just this

687
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: is how certain, that's how most men are designed. They

688
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 1: could be the pride flash and they'll be judging. Well yeah,

689
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: and then there's the judgment people people, I mean, people

690
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 1: feel people fear judgment, you know what I mean. And

691
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: I don't you know what I'm saying, like I'm not

692
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 1: everything that I do with my woman like I'm about

693
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, are you open the

694
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: doors for a lot of guys to be like, Okay, guys,

695
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: don't and I mean, I'm listening. I'm not a homosexual,

696
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: but I do you know, I enjoy a little little salary,

697
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: you know something. But then I learned very recently with

698
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: speaking with what y'all know, traff I had a conversation

699
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: with Travy. We're out at lunch, and I had a

700
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: conversation with him about, um, licking ass basically because I

701
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: really love to do it, and um he basically told

702
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: me that well, because I was saying, like, you know,

703
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 1: men don't like to say they like it because they

704
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: feel like it's like gay. And he's like, I'm as

705
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: gay as they come and I don't want nothing near

706
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: my ass. He's like, I'm a top and he's like,

707
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 1: so all gay men don't like that. It's a it's

708
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: a false narrative. Exactly. I know you loved eating ass.

709
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: Like yeah, She's like, I don't love to do it.

710
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: It's the power. It's the power that's like if you

711
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: you can't like take both hands and spread yes you can,

712
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: but it's the speaking. But it's the wrong tonight. There's

713
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: no wrong way. But but if you can get really

714
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: into it, then you it's better. I know you've never

715
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 1: been in that position. Well, you know, I've had guys

716
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: in that position off fors like you know what I'm saying.

717
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 1: I graduated to that. Okay, so you got some school

718
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: to Yeah, it's one for me because it is. It's

719
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: an exchange of power, and that's why I love it.

720
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: It's the power that it gives me. I spoke about

721
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: this on the Gilliant episode. It's the power that it

722
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: gives me that makes me love it so much, right,

723
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: because I feel like I have him, like yeah, I'm

724
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 1: like right at the beginning stage. And that's what I

725
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: always say about putting fingers in a guy's ass. You know,

726
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: I always see that it makes a guy. I don't know.

727
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: I don't really laughing listen that I don't think that

728
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: that makes I don't think that makes the guy at

729
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: homosexual that we need that, I don't think I do.

730
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: But I don't think it's gay, right, I think it's

731
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: gay if I'm fisting, you know, yeah, well that's that's

732
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 1: gay either. That's just the whole necessarily need not but

733
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 1: it's you can a fist. What I'm saying before finger,

734
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:14,399
Speaker 1: let's think about it. It's still it's still something consensual

735
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: between a woman and a man, so obviously make him

736
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: and that's how I feel. Right. But see, this is

737
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: exactly if he if he wants, if he wants a

738
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: man to fist him there, that's definitely is if you

739
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: could fit a fist, it's because a dick was there

740
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 1: was something else there? No, that's the what was the

741
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: last woman's fist? But what is before? Like you gotta

742
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 1: because I try ain't no, I've done an't no before.

743
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: But it's hard like so's I can't imagine huh, actually,

744
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: shut up. I can only imagine being able to just

745
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 1: shove a fist up there. I know you can't shove

746
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: a fist up mine right now, you know, so I

747
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: don't see who you gotta get to there exactly about

748
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 1: fingering a three finger fist, you gotta get there, I think,

749
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 1: I think not straight away exactly if somebody is at

750
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: fist point at this point, at fist point, I fisted

751
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: a girl on her vagina. Have either been doing this

752
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: at a very high level, thank you for a long time.

753
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't know the guy. They were just born with

754
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: loose bounds, right, and that is possible. They were born

755
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: with a broken ship. Mine was a little looser if

756
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: you want to fist up your ass? Oh my god,

757
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to, but it would be nice to

758
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 1: take a dick. I can't even our minds are so tight.

759
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: How did you know it would be nice to take

760
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: a dick your because I just you know, it looks

761
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: fun done it Does the finger feel good? Does the

762
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: finger feel like a dick? No, it doesn't feel good.

763
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: I don't like. If you don't like a finger, you're

764
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: that's before and I've trained it up with an average

765
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 1: sized penis, and it's trained. It got trained up enough

766
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: to where we could actually fuck, and it felt good,

767
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,959
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But that's not the average experience.

768
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: You gotta keep going until you get a fist. That's it.

769
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:25,720
Speaker 1: That's that was so many years ago. I think that. Yeah,

770
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a you could sit on at

771
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 1: home to help you. I don't even want to know

772
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 1: these days. Please, it's just over. It's out of the question, closed,

773
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 1: grand opening, grand Yeah, that's not like ship ship like

774
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: what do you say? I say? Really basic stuff. Really,

775
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm surprised, and I really don't talk much. She's a

776
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: she's yeah, I don't I think I think if it's

777
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: I think if it's intense and you're that caught up

778
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: in it, it's not a whole lot to talk about.

779
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: Talk about I'm into very I'm into very connective like

780
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: spiritual experiences, and you don't interrupt that by saying, who's pussy?

781
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 1: Is this exactly? Like I don't. I'm not what about

782
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: like I love you? You don't say I love you

783
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 1: during sex, or you don't ask her to tell you

784
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 1: that she loves you, like tell me you love me.

785
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: That's a different kind of sex. That's a different kind

786
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: of thing. Which is which is? Which has this place

787
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: in time? You know that what I'm saying when you're

788
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: not making love, and that's different. You know what I'm saying.

789
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: Then you can get into some yeah bitch told you

790
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:41,959
Speaker 1: yeah yeah thing. That's that you know what I'm saying.

791
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: But when you you know what I'm saying. But when

792
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: you when yeah, you know. I used to find that

793
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: I used to talk a lot during sex, like oh

794
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 1: daddy and this and whatever the hell that would come

795
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: to my mind. I used to do it when I

796
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: was younger, but now I don't. I'll be forgetting like that.

797
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 1: I might even say when I'm not talking, I do

798
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: because I feel if it's the right thing, I promise

799
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: you it will, it will, it will take all of

800
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: those words away, That's what I'm saying, right, So feeling it,

801
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm like I didn't even have I was letter lost

802
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: for words I love and that's what it's supposed to be.

803
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: Guy's talking. It's fun though, it's fun, but that's a

804
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 1: different Do you like being called daddy or is that weird?

805
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter because I don't like when people say,

806
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: oh yeah, mommy. I'm like, I'm not, I'm none. None

807
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: of that does it for me. I'm and I'm a pleaser,

808
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So my thing is my

809
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: thing is like getting you to that very special place

810
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,439
Speaker 1: to where your body is floating off the bed. That's

811
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,479
Speaker 1: my job and that's what please. It's how he says

812
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: something like that. I can picture the video's like floating

813
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: off the vega and he got a shirt off. And

814
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: what if she doesn't come? Do you feel like it's

815
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: not over till she comes? Not over. It's never over.

816
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: It's not over, It's never over. Everything he says he is,

817
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: I am defeated and I can't recall, but I would

818
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: be defeated within my spirit, We're not that's not that's

819
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 1: not what we're here for. If you come too fast

820
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: and then now you're digging sauce, it's going to happen.

821
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: I've trained myself. You can use other other avenues. He

822
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: can use his face. Is my need it? That's answer?

823
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:02,399
Speaker 1: It gets hard again? Classes on that? Oh well, eat it, pussy. Yeah,

824
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: we want to hear something. What's the class because a

825
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 1: lot of guys need a class? Yeah, give what? Would

826
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: you get the cop? You can talk about it. Just

827
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: get the cop. You gotta to demonstrate on the coup

828
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: and said, no re enactments, but we can. I think,

829
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: I just think. I just think guy's gotta focus. You

830
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,919
Speaker 1: gotta focus. And I think the key to to any

831
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: part of sex and doing it well is to pay

832
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,439
Speaker 1: attention to a You gotta love it, and you gotta listen.

833
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you gotta listen. You

834
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: gotta pay attention to what's happening. You know what I'm saying.

835
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 1: Because as a woman, our bodies will let you know.

836
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: It talks to you. We don't have to say anything anything.

837
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: Talking is good, like when somebody's eating you out to

838
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 1: kind of direct them. Do you like that's fine? Right, yeah,

839
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: right there. It's a good signal to stay right there.

840
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: Like they don't stay there, they do something else in

841
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: my in my you know, eating career. You know what

842
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I would get some of those instructions, you

843
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And as I as I became

844
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,879
Speaker 1: a master in this field, I don't get instructions. Are

845
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 1: you like a sloppy pussy eater? Like the whole is okay?

846
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,359
Speaker 1: He said, whatever it is, I'm that mean, and I'm

847
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: listening and I'm dialing in and I'm trying to figure

848
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: out because you can't. You can't eat every pussy the

849
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: same way. Yea, absolutely not what I'm saying. So you

850
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: have to you have to work, you find it. You

851
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 1: have to pay attention. You have to know there's the

852
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: group here we go and you go, Dancy and he

853
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 1: knows when skermon. You know how many people lip service?

854
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: How many guys have learned how to eat pussy from

855
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: listening to lip service? It's amazing. But by saying what

856
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: we like and what we don't like, because it's important

857
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: to know what doesn't work, you know, like any type

858
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: of thrusting. I think thrusting tongue doesn't really work. What

859
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: does it. It's a good um in between movies, but

860
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: it's not the finisher. No, no, no, it's definitely can't.

861
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 1: It's impossible for that. And I don't like a finger

862
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: and the tongue simultaneously. Some people like that. I like

863
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: sucking finger at the same time. It depends if it's

864
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 1: too much. It could be too much finger. You know

865
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And you gotta dial it back. You

866
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, You gotta you gotta know what

867
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: the area is. You know what I'm saying. And sometimes

868
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: sometimes they don't even like that touch at the same time,

869
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: because if sometimes if a woman can't do both, you

870
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, in terms of having an orgasm

871
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: by penetration and in a clearal stimulation, then you know,

872
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: you kind of gotta pick one. Not only do women

873
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,280
Speaker 1: can't do both. Women don't even know that there's a difference.

874
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: You'd be surprised how many women that don't know that

875
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: there's a difference in the world. I just like it

876
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 1: don't matter which way it happened. We learned that from

877
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: the show. I felt like a lot of women. Excuse me,

878
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know the difference between intern she was coming

879
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 1: internally or from a clip or whatever. But you know,

880
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: we were trying to teach Chelsea Handler how to suck dick. Right.

881
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: So the balls, what do you think about Like when

882
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: you're getting had and the balls coming to play, do

883
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 1: you want them play? Or like how do you feel

884
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: about that? Like do you want them sucked, caressed, elct

885
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:12,760
Speaker 1: or do you alone? I'm probably the wrong guy to ask.

886
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not a big head guy. Why I'm busy.

887
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm busy, Like, that's not what That's not what turns

888
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: me on. Oh I was thinking maybe because your dick

889
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: is so big, like girls just don't do it right. No,

890
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: I'm not. It's it's just that I'm busy doing all

891
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 1: the work, you know what I'm saying. So you're a

892
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: that doesn't That doesn't turn me. Some girls love to

893
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: say dick no no, And I respect it. You know

894
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And you know I'll entertain it. I'll

895
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: be respectful. That's what you want to make you not

896
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: come from head? Yeah? Special, it's like to be special. Yeah,

897
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 1: it's got to be special to keep you don't even

898
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 1: like your balls played with. I don't need it. I

899
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 1: don't need it. Your minimum work. I am light work.

900
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: I bring all the work. Do you masturbate in the bedroom,

901
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: like while you're there? Like let me just jerk off

902
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: a little rub one out here and there, you mean

903
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: while or just by myself because you know, sometimes we

904
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: like to watch. I don't know if he wants to

905
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: wash you can, but I mean we have, we've done

906
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: we've done it together. What I'm saying the same time,

907
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: man that and that's a cool moment. You know what

908
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, you know, take a pause, and you

909
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Man handle yourself. You know what

910
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That type of thing. Yeah, you never have

911
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: to hold your comeback? Yeah yeah he said he mastered that. Yeah,

912
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 1: So how do you hold your comeback for guys that

913
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: are coming too quick out there? It depends you have

914
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 1: to You have to listen. You really have to find

915
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 1: something that that kind to get you out of that

916
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: space but still keeps the blood flowing right, so you

917
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 1: don't go down. So you don't go down because you

918
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: can go down thinking about basketball and your status. You

919
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like you could, you could really

920
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: lose a lot of blood flow. So you gotta figure

921
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: out the magic balance. Can you tell us what you

922
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: think about right now? I think about this ball is

923
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: getting played. He's like, oh no, no, she's about to

924
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: get me head on. I got my own Jedi, my

925
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: tricks playing on myself. Yeah, you can get close and once.

926
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: Is there a point where you just can't stop it,

927
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: Like where it's about to happen and you're like, oh well,

928
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: I just gotta let it go. If you're about to

929
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 1: come but you want to hold back, is there a

930
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: point where, I mean, I have been in that position.

931
00:54:53,600 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 1: I just said, we'll go again minutes give me, just

932
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: give me ten minutes, and I need and I need,

933
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: I need a good seventeen between that bad. By that

934
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: time we got moved on. By that time, we got

935
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:19,439
Speaker 1: some food. We got attitude. Always been like that though,

936
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: or like, do you feel like as you get older? Yeah, younger, No,

937
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 1: I've always I've always I've always kind of been a

938
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: one and done so, which is why I had to

939
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:34,439
Speaker 1: train my one right to be a really fantastic one

940
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: hour and a half to two hour one. It's got

941
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 1: to be because we may not have nothing left. So

942
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: I had to train that one very fantastic, like you're good,

943
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: you're straight, because because I'm gonna go, yeah, we done it.

944
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I mean, certain instances have

945
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 1: prompted where it has been more than one. You know

946
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm back in to count him on

947
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 1: one hand. But you know, remember the first time you

948
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: made a girl come when we can't help it? The

949
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 1: first time? I remember the first time I almost did.

950
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: Almost doesn't count and that was the response. It was

951
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: one of the worst second experiences of my life. I was,

952
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: I was almost there. When a woman gives you the side, really,

953
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: it'll change your life as a as a man, as

954
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: a young boy, I don't care what it is like.

955
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 1: And I was, and I was wrecked. I was. I was.

956
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: She was older and she was like six seven years

957
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: older than me, and she just went into this gear

958
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: because when I was younger, Um, it took me a

959
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: minute to like to be able to hold myself together

960
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 1: when a woman started getting her I'm about to come rhythm.

961
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: That rhythm was damaging to me, you know what I'm saying.

962
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: As soon as you and so she got into that

963
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: group and started moaning that, and so I had to

964
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I gotta figure this out. I

965
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: gotta figure out how to hold this. You know what

966
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. And so I

967
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: just you know, I trained myself to um to enjoy

968
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: the moment a little less, just just a little less,

969
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: to hold on so hard. Well, you're trying to make

970
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: sure you don't come. It's it's such a it's such

971
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 1: a it's such a fantastic moment like that that lead up,

972
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, when a woman is about

973
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: to have an orgasm. You can feel the shaking, you

974
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 1: can feel the like that. That's a that that segment

975
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: is just it's a special moment. It's special, and I

976
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: just it just it just blows my mind. Just killed me.

977
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: Special for us takes ago because he has other things

978
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: sender today. You know, he'll be it's very busy singing lead.

979
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: I gotta sing lead just for y'all. Know. I sing

980
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 1: a little bit a couple of songs on the radio.

981
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,919
Speaker 1: He write a little bit too, just a little bit.

982
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: Would have never known he's not just on tour. Is

983
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: gonna be dope me rapping thig, Fantasia, it's fantasiou. We

984
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,440
Speaker 1: got to catch on fire. It's gonna be crazy, all right, good,

985
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 1: we're looking forward to it, and we're so happy that

986
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: we finally got you up here. And I feel like

987
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: guy who loves to talk about relationship stuff. And you

988
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: have a lot of great things to say. And we

989
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: may not always agree on things we're not supposed to. Yeah,

990
00:58:57,360 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: and we're not supposed to were exchanging from it was

991
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: a great conversation, yes, and Tank, always a pleasure. Thank you,

992
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Anything else you want to say

993
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: before we get out of here. The new album comes

994
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: out octobery, called Elevation. UM. You can preorder it now.

995
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 1: UM it's available for preorder to get you get three

996
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: songs now if your preorder, so just you know, tap

997
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: in with your neighborhood are and uh that'll be all alright.

998
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: Elevation October Tank, thank you so much as lift service.