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Speaker 1: All right, guys, time for the clo the chief love

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Speaker 1: officers the close. As you read, all right, you heard him,

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Speaker 1: He's ready. This one is from John, a podcast listener.

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Speaker 1: John says, I've been listening to your Strawberry letters on

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Speaker 1: the podcast and I didn't need to write a whole letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you John for doing that. But I hope you

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Speaker 1: can give me some real advice. I'm a thirty two

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Speaker 1: year old single mail and the women I meet are

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Speaker 1: around my age and experienced in the bedroom. I try

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Speaker 1: to warn women up front that I'm a big boy,

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Speaker 1: but even the most experienced women run away from it

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Speaker 1: and me. For some men, this would be a good thing,

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Speaker 1: but it's been a problem for me since high school.

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Speaker 1: What can I do differently to keep a woman?

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Speaker 2: Well, Well, what I did, Doug was I just you

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Speaker 2: know you got it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I just you know. I mean,

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Speaker 3: good question, you know, I understand, you know.

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Speaker 2: You what you gotta see you ain't you ain't handling

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Speaker 2: it right.

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Speaker 3: First of all, quit talking about it, mum.

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Speaker 2: That's what stars, you know, because now mentally, and then

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Speaker 2: what you do is after that, when it gets to

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Speaker 2: the point of the actual act occurring, dog you ain't

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Speaker 2: got nothing to prove. Stop trying to prove stuff.

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: Easy, easy, easy, you know you know all this, you

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Speaker 2: know all this talk. You be here, I'm finna do this,

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Speaker 2: I'm finna do that now. You're not easy, So you

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Speaker 2: can keep somebody. It's gonna happen for you regardless. What

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Speaker 2: you don't want to do is ruin it for the

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Speaker 2: second time. Take your time, easy, beat the light out, gay, easy,

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Speaker 2: you do well.

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Speaker 3: Keeping the light out.

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Speaker 2: Don't really work timing because I'm telling you, because it

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Speaker 2: ain't got nothing to do with darkness.

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Speaker 1: So you just want him to surprise the lady.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but go easy. You know you ain't. No women

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Speaker 3: have babies. You ain't that deid. Just slow down. You

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Speaker 3: ain't all that now.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you writing me and try to make it

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Speaker 2: stign like you all that, But you ain't.

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Speaker 3: Just slow down.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: I used to feel that way too, but i'd ran

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Speaker 2: up into some stuff in my life.

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Speaker 3: Boy, well, I was just just just over that wool.

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Speaker 3: Are you know what you're doing? Moving on.

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Speaker 1: In hand, Destiny in Toledo. As we move on says,

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Speaker 1: I'm having a surprise fortieth birthday party for my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: and I'm only inviting ten people because of COVID. A

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Speaker 1: random female called me and asked for my address because

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Speaker 1: she was paid to dam at the party as a surprise.

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Speaker 1: I told her, no, thank you. My boyfriend's brother called

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Speaker 1: and told me he already paid the stripper and he

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Speaker 1: demanded that I either give him his money back or

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Speaker 1: let the girl dance. Should I mess up the surprise

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Speaker 1: and tell my man to handle his brother or should

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Speaker 1: I curse him out myself?

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Speaker 2: Hey, wait a minute, this dude got to be kidding.

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Speaker 2: You can't hand nobody. You can't get a dancer for

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Speaker 2: your brother.

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Speaker 1: And he got a wife, yeah, girlfriend, their boyfriend girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: But no, you can't do that. You can't do that now.

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Speaker 2: You ain't gotta let your brother handle up. Hey, here's

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Speaker 2: what you do. I think you need to end this

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Speaker 2: surprise thing before everybody gets surprised. So I think, really

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Speaker 2: what you ought to do is I think you ought

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Speaker 2: to just tell her, Tell the boyfriend ain't no, ain't no,

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Speaker 2: ain't no stripper coming in this house right here, and

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Speaker 2: if he want to get your money back him, give

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Speaker 2: it back.

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Speaker 3: But it's it's impossible. You can't do that. I haven't

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Speaker 3: no strip of d answer that. How did they just

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Speaker 3: they say? He forty?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's turning forty.

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Speaker 3: Got to be joking, man, what's funny?

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Speaker 2: Yo?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: We ain't do that? All right?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Celo, Yolanda and Raleigh says, I'm a sixty

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Speaker 1: year old engaged woman. I've been engaged for four years

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Speaker 1: and I can't get my fiance to marry me. We've

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Speaker 1: got a lot in common, but lately he's been using

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Speaker 1: that against me. If we're watching sports or out hunting together,

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Speaker 1: he comments said, I'm cool, just like one of the boys.

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Speaker 1: I rarely wear makeup and dress up and dress up

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Speaker 1: because I'm always at home. Should I take his comments

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Speaker 1: as a negative thing? Is acting like one of the

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Speaker 1: boys ever a good thing?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Not to me. I've never wanted my woman act like

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Speaker 3: one of the boys. And what oh, and what do

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Speaker 3: you mean by we be out hunting hunting together? They

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Speaker 3: hunting y'all, you know, rabbits or stuff, but they shooting hunting? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Oh you mean hunting? Oh I thought you meant like swingers.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, hunting.

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Speaker 2: No, No, you need to stay your ass at home,

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Speaker 2: dress up sometime, put something on.

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Speaker 3: Stop looking like a hunter.

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Speaker 2: Hell yeah, I thought when I was out in the

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Speaker 2: clubs hunting, I was going, damn what.

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Speaker 3: Literally, So I'm saying there going hunting? What kind of messages?

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Speaker 3: But I see why y'all ain't married? Hey, having too munchy,

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Speaker 3: But you're hunting.

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Speaker 2: You sitting up in the tree and a blind you

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Speaker 2: in the bushes, put a gun with him?

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Speaker 3: What damn? Stay your ass on? Quit hunting? Yeah, yeah, dressing, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that ain't sexyr No, when he comes from surprised him.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes, Yeah, you're here the in, ma'am.

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Speaker 3: You're nobody lying with me.

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Speaker 2: Hunt actually walking in the house with a dead duck

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Speaker 2: in her hand.

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Speaker 1: He said, So dress up, put on some heels, put

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Speaker 1: on some lipsticks. Sometimes everything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, yeah, every now and then. You ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna do it every day, but every now and then,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, uh mi, chay, you have a question?

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Speaker 1: As we go out, We got like thirty seconds.

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Speaker 3: Oh do I have a question?

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Speaker 1: Thirty seconds?

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Speaker 3: You want to go hunting?

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Speaker 2: Jake?

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good question. You want to.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you thought it was a swingers term.

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Speaker 3: So you come once a weekend and you don't have

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Speaker 3: a question.

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