WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: What If?

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<v Speaker 1>It's your second day podcast. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>being here at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. However

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<v Speaker 1>it is that you found us today is always awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday phone call. Yeah, that's really the one that I

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<v Speaker 1>love the most, just because it's a little bit wider.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I would say, like, there's a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>relationships we deal with than just the dating world.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's coming up in just a second. There's

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<v Speaker 2>more drama. Yeah, lots of drama.

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<v Speaker 3>So first comments, Yeah, JB Law said anything that makes

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<v Speaker 3>Alexis laugh is worth hearing.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so you know what, today I cringe a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that makes it worth also hearing. Not sure, but

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<v Speaker 3>pretty vocally as well. Yeah, I'll understand why US starts

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<v Speaker 3>right now.

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<v Speaker 5>No matter who you are, I think everybody is waiting

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<v Speaker 5>to meet their perfect person.

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<v Speaker 2>That's nice.

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<v Speaker 5>It makes you feel all the things excited, passionate, challenged, hungry,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe not hungry.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's a natural all those other things for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>But just imagine, finally, after years, you actually run into

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<v Speaker 5>that special someone. Wow, check all your boxes except for

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<v Speaker 5>one tiny problem that you are technically already engaged to

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<v Speaker 5>someone else.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you supposed to do? Then, do you pretty

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<v Speaker 4>found someone, but this person's even more special.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you throw your hands up and say, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 5>guess I just need to commit to the first one

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<v Speaker 5>and get used to being uncertain and not fully happy

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<v Speaker 5>for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I just yeah, find you exactly?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you take a risk and do something crazy and

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<v Speaker 5>call a radio show for Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>God, I want the drama, but I'm also worried.

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<v Speaker 5>One of our listeners has decided she needs to get

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<v Speaker 5>closure or else she might look back on her life

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<v Speaker 5>and wonder what if we're gonna try and help her

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<v Speaker 5>in your awkward Tuesday phone call?

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<v Speaker 4>We go next. It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 6>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>How do you guys feel about going out and doing

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<v Speaker 5>an activity all by yourself? No like seeing a movie

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<v Speaker 5>or eating at a restaurant, going down the Tunnel of

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<v Speaker 5>love ride?

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<v Speaker 4>Vote for one, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>I will take some alone time any day of the week.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd rather just be alone at home than than alone

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<v Speaker 5>in public embarrassed. Well, I know a lot of people

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<v Speaker 5>see that as taboo. But one of our listeners went

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<v Speaker 5>out and did a solo activity says that day may

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<v Speaker 5>have changed her life forever.

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<v Speaker 4>What right now?

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<v Speaker 5>She needs our help because of it. Her name is Mo,

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<v Speaker 5>so let's welcome her to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>What's up Mo?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi? Guys, how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>My God?

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<v Speaker 1>Just by your tone and what Jeff said, change your

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<v Speaker 1>life forever doesn't sound like a good thing anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>No, So, what's going on day?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so me and my fiance we've been together for

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<v Speaker 6>six years total and we got engaged for last year.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, that's excited.

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<v Speaker 6>Congratulations, Well thank you. Yes, I'm well, yeah, I'll get

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<v Speaker 6>into a little bit about this whole thing. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 6>But so I had the day off of work, so

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, you know what, let me go on a hike,

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<v Speaker 6>a solo hike. And while I was on the on

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<v Speaker 6>the trail, I ended up meeting this guy who was

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<v Speaker 6>on the same trail as me. Okay, and so we

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<v Speaker 6>started talking walking and like, I don't know, it's just

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<v Speaker 6>like a great first conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not like how you said first. Just then

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<v Speaker 2>I thought she was going to say date next.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, oh, okay, because first implies that there's more conversations. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 5>why are you not allowed to talk to people when

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<v Speaker 5>you're out in the woods.

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<v Speaker 1>She's saying that there's a problem, and I'm guessing this

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<v Speaker 1>is where the problem starts.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I wrong?

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<v Speaker 6>No, You're not wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, So what happens? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 6>So he's very attractive, very selfish, sure, and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>talking to him about my wedding planning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's good.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, And it was laughing and he's like because

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<v Speaker 6>he's newly married, so we have that bond over that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. So this is looking more positive and innocent.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. So then we had a great day. We finished

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<v Speaker 6>the hike. Then he asks for my number.

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<v Speaker 4>How did he.

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<v Speaker 5>Ask Was he like, anyway, let me hit you up

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<v Speaker 5>some time, or was it like, hey, we should all

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<v Speaker 5>get together.

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<v Speaker 2>Is you know our double date?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Double date would be okay?

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<v Speaker 4>How was it asked?

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<v Speaker 6>So he was like, hey, like I like your energy whatever,

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<v Speaker 6>but like, can I have your number so we can

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<v Speaker 6>hang out? I said, like very clear and explicit, like

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<v Speaker 6>we should double date. We should hang out, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 6>making it. No, I'm like, I'm not going to be

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<v Speaker 6>with you alone like jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe that's what he meant to, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he meant the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Was he cool with that?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean he was like, oh yeah, one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 6>A couple of weeks later, we did arrange a dinner

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<v Speaker 6>with our significant others, so it was definitely a double date. Q.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody knows about it. Everybody's on the up and up.

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<v Speaker 7>How did that go?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh all right, what is the.

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<v Speaker 4>Problem aging to us about him? You got the perfect

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<v Speaker 4>relationship and new friends. Where's the drama?

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<v Speaker 6>So we hung out more, and I'm definitely starting to

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<v Speaker 6>develop a crush on this new guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, you're to have crushes anymore, Jeff, this is not

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<v Speaker 5>the time to say love is love?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>No, she's engaged at this point, married, But yeah, just

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<v Speaker 5>because you're engaged and you're married, you can't have crushes

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<v Speaker 5>on other people as long as you don't act on them.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you acted on any of these crushing feelings?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But here's the thing. You can't hang out with

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<v Speaker 1>him anymore. You got to be done, I think.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, hold on, we haven't heard the rest of the story. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe there's more to this where they're just perfect friends. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's what we're doing for awkward Tuesday. They want

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<v Speaker 5>to brand let's be best friends right, that's what you

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<v Speaker 5>want to do with this called friendship.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, not exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so what do you want to do?

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<v Speaker 4>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 6>Like, I'm feeling very guilty about this because it has

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<v Speaker 6>never happened to me before in a relationship, But there

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<v Speaker 6>are these types of thoughts and feelings and I'm definitely like,

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<v Speaker 6>what did now?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, well, how does your fiance feel about this

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<v Speaker 5>crush that you have on this other guy?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think they know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it would be healthy if they did talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, it would be a good sign.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that who we're calling?

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<v Speaker 5>Are we calling your fiance to kind of fill him

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<v Speaker 5>in on the situation?

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<v Speaker 6>I just want I want you to call this dude

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<v Speaker 6>because I think the connection is too real, at least

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<v Speaker 6>for me, So like I need to know how he feels.

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<v Speaker 6>And like, I'm just word if I brush it off

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<v Speaker 6>and go through my wedding and then the son of

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<v Speaker 6>the rest of my life with my like nice and

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<v Speaker 6>amazing fiance, but yeah, what if what if I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>say anything to him and whatever? So I just want

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<v Speaker 6>to know where he's at.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, alexis just brought up a huge point. This

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<v Speaker 2>guy's married.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I definitely don't think it's in my head,

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<v Speaker 6>so I feel like he's sending me vibes.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe he feels like he made a mistake with his marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like Pandora's box. You can open it and

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna be able.

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<v Speaker 2>To put anything back in it. But we're just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be chaos.

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<v Speaker 5>What if by the end of the phone call, couples

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<v Speaker 5>are happy. Everyone's happy, and we've made a great relationship

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<v Speaker 5>and mended all of the realm.

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<v Speaker 4>You never know when true love is going to strike.

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<v Speaker 2>You, well, hopefully struck him. He's married, Jesus gay.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, we're going to come back and give you

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<v Speaker 5>some advice, yes, and then we're going to let you

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<v Speaker 5>call this other guy to try and feel out the

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<v Speaker 5>vibe to see is there a real connection happening between

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<v Speaker 5>you or is it all just in your head?

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<v Speaker 2>Coming up with advice, Brook.

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<v Speaker 6>I really appreciate it. Guys. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to do it night after this. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 4>it's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 6>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>Before we get into the awkward Tuesday call, I just

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<v Speaker 5>want to take a second real quick and do something

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I've ever done before an applaud brook.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, okay, I like that entered something wrong.

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<v Speaker 5>You had ample cause during that first segment to jump

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<v Speaker 5>right down our listener's throat and say she is not

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<v Speaker 5>a good person.

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<v Speaker 4>She is doing emotional cheating.

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<v Speaker 5>She deserves to have bad things happened to her in

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<v Speaker 5>her relationship. Think that that's amazing. Instead broke drug. You

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<v Speaker 5>showed growth and resilience. Yeah, that's nine of the time

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<v Speaker 5>if someone says they're thinking of cheating like that is

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<v Speaker 5>something that you are strongly against.

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<v Speaker 4>But not today. You stepped back.

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<v Speaker 5>You were thoughtful, and you promoted in fidelity and you

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<v Speaker 5>did and we sold you for We have never heard

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<v Speaker 5>you do that on the show before. And the only

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<v Speaker 5>reason that I bring this up is because one of

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<v Speaker 5>our listeners, Mo, recently met a guy out on a

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<v Speaker 5>solo hike and they've been vibing over the last few weeks,

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<v Speaker 5>hanging out both with their significant others significant others and together.

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<v Speaker 5>The problem is, like I said, she's engaged, he's married.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, just small problem.

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<v Speaker 4>She's gonna be.

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<v Speaker 5>Walking down the aisle soon and has started to develop

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<v Speaker 5>a crush on this other guy. What do you think

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<v Speaker 5>that she should do because she wants to reach out

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<v Speaker 5>to this guy that she's crushing on and try and

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<v Speaker 5>feel him out see if he might be feeling the

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<v Speaker 5>same way.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you should basically ask for his advice and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a friend's out of town wedding coming up

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<v Speaker 1>in a couple of weekends.

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<v Speaker 2>My fiance can't go. What should I do?

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<v Speaker 7>Fill in?

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<v Speaker 1>And you're not asking him right, But then it's an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity for him to volunteer himself if that's the road

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to go down.

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<v Speaker 4>Judge's reactions, that.

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<v Speaker 6>Is actually genius, Like I really love that, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>let's not inflation.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was okay advice, Jose, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 5>Look, if anybody knows how to put a feeler out,

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<v Speaker 5>which is what you want to do, it's your boy,

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<v Speaker 5>all right. You need to listen to his voice.

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<v Speaker 4>And see if it changes after he says hello.

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<v Speaker 5>So if it's like click hello and then he hears

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<v Speaker 5>you and he goes, oh hi, then you know he's

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<v Speaker 5>putting out a.

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<v Speaker 4>Vibe that awkward hearing Jose, dude, and you could.

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<v Speaker 2>Judge it wrong. There's so much room for error there.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he's trying to put it out, but maybe there's

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<v Speaker 5>something to it. What do you think about like reading

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<v Speaker 5>into some of his vocal cues.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I will give it a shot. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 6>hundred percent sure it will work.

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<v Speaker 5>See I could tell from your vocal cues right there

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<v Speaker 5>that you're skeptical.

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<v Speaker 2>You can see a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>But you got our advice. We're going to dial this

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<v Speaker 5>guy's number. Do we know his name yet?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Are we allowed to say his name? He's married.

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<v Speaker 5>It's probably safer if you don't say his name in

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<v Speaker 5>case this doesn't go the way we want it to.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm gonna dial.

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<v Speaker 6>It right now. I was going to say that. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 6>can we just keep it like? My name is? Fine?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? He answers, here we go. I'm calling it right now.

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<v Speaker 7>Good luck?

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<v Speaker 6>Hello, Hey, how are you mo? Yeah? What's up?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh? Hey? Sorry? You come from a different phone number

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<v Speaker 7>or something?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm using a different phone. But did I notice

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<v Speaker 6>that your voice changed when you heard it was my voice?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean sure, I guess I recognize who you are.

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<v Speaker 7>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? Never mind, No, that's okay. So how's your day going?

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<v Speaker 6>So far.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm fine. Yeah, yeah, just sitting to work right now.

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<v Speaker 7>How about you.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I'm actually home again because I have the day off,

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<v Speaker 6>thank god. But I was just kind of bored, so

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<v Speaker 6>I just thought I reach out to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh well, that's good to hear from it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I enjoyed, like always hanging out with you and stuff,

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<v Speaker 6>because I think we have since our hike has just

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<v Speaker 6>been like a really good to have you around.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's been really good.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I'm happy to hear just because it's been really

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<v Speaker 6>good for me also, and it's just kind of hard

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<v Speaker 6>these days to find people that you just mesh with

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<v Speaker 6>well you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, I mean definitely. We were just talking about

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<v Speaker 7>how glad we are that we met each other right

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<v Speaker 7>now or.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, yes, but also I do have a question to

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<v Speaker 6>ask and it is kind of important.

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<v Speaker 7>All right. Shoot, yeah, I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay. I have a best friend. She's getting married in

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<v Speaker 6>a couple of weeks, and unfortunately, my fiance just informed

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<v Speaker 6>me that he won't be able to attend because he's

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<v Speaker 6>out of town on a work trip. So I was

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<v Speaker 6>just wondering, like, what do you think I should do?

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<v Speaker 7>I got it. You need to borrow my car, don't you.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean you can. You can definitely take it if

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<v Speaker 7>that helps out, no problem.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So like you think I should go though, right,

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<v Speaker 6>like without him?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, definitely. Weddings are fun.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but like I'll be alone.

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<v Speaker 7>But will you?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, will I?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I'm not really sure what we're talking about here,

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<v Speaker 7>but I yeah, I support weddings. Anything can happen at

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<v Speaker 7>the wedding, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 7>And then also, is everything Okay, you're sounding kind of

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<v Speaker 7>all over the place with all this is everything all right?

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<v Speaker 6>Like yeah, and no, like I'm very my I's all

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<v Speaker 6>over the place, and I'm very stressed out because my

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<v Speaker 6>wedding's coming up, and like the venue and like the

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<v Speaker 6>flowers and like everything is just so much.

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<v Speaker 7>And like I have all of hey, hey, hey, dn't

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<v Speaker 7>don't but yeah, it's all going to turn out. Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I am here for you. You and me were in this,

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<v Speaker 7>you know are like.

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<v Speaker 6>That's are we? Because like that's also kind of the

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<v Speaker 6>questions I want. I have questions I have, Like I

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<v Speaker 6>just love your personality. You're such a people person, like

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<v Speaker 6>I like, I'm sure like when we go to restaurants,

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<v Speaker 6>like everyone's looking at you and like it's just like

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<v Speaker 6>your soul.

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<v Speaker 7>I see where you're going with this. I understand. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I got it. You need me to officiate your wedding.

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<v Speaker 7>That's what you do.

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<v Speaker 6>Huh.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a great idea. Not uncomfortable at all.

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<v Speaker 7>It's happening right now.

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<v Speaker 6>More.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, got your answer there.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, man, I know you don't know who we are.

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<v Speaker 5>We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 5>Morning that you are being featured on right now.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, okay, Hi, I guess yeah, hi.

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<v Speaker 2>We Why did we call jeff Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>You know that's a good question, Broke.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, Moe's reached out to us for help with

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<v Speaker 5>this phone call because.

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<v Speaker 6>I wanted to know if you would appreciate my wedding

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<v Speaker 6>and thank you. It was a great eye opening experience,

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<v Speaker 6>and thank you so much, my good friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah right, wow, I'd be honest friends in the wedding.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, okay, I'd be delighted.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so happy to hear that. I was so nervous.

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<v Speaker 6>I was so stressed out.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe maybe you just have to run this by

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<v Speaker 1>one more person before you you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, appciating job.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I'm sure my fiance was. My fiancee loves him

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<v Speaker 6>like we all get along super great. So yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>sure if I heard so happy, Oh man, I thought

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<v Speaker 6>you're going to talk about my wife.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, she won't care.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good. Okay, what a great lady.

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<v Speaker 4>We love her.

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<v Speaker 1>You love her, right, Ricky, Yeah, definitely totally okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>this is great.

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<v Speaker 5>We reached out to this guy hoping to figure out

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<v Speaker 5>some much needed answers to get some closure before the

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<v Speaker 5>big wedding day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's going to be a special day.

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<v Speaker 4>And we I think we got those answers for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that right?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yes, yes, you did.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, maybe maybe do some soul searching, see

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<v Speaker 1>if you can come up with other answers in your life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like who's going to cater the wedding? Maybe? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I can cater it too.

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<v Speaker 1>What I meant?

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<v Speaker 5>Yep, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oof, that one was a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Yeah, yeah, hey it's Brook and Jeffrey. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for stick and through with it. Unfortunately we

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<v Speaker 1>never got an update from her.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we did it, and I'm proud. On the phone,

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<v Speaker 2>we never spoiled it, like the real reason we actually

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<v Speaker 2>but should have it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know that some people in the comments

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<v Speaker 3>really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we should have stepped in, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>But I take the no.

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<v Speaker 2>Update as the wedding probably never happened.

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<v Speaker 7>True.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be like, let's hope, yeah, because if she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to update us and have him back on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>it would all be about how he officiated her wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, we would have had to hear about that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe he heard this podcast. I have no idea, true.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there was a lot of comments. Maybe somebody

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<v Speaker 2>knew him. Someone has to say a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope her fiance hears this huge red flag. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm only seven minutes in and all I'm hearing is

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<v Speaker 3>red flags. I listened religiously, and this is the first

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<v Speaker 3>time I've truly cringed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, if you were getting married and thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody else, like, just just don't do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, don't call the radio show for help.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes exactly, but it's good drama for us. Hey, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for being here.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely subscribe and we'll be back tomorrow with another podcast. Yes,