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Speaker 1: It's your second day podcast. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: being here at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. However

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Speaker 1: it is that you found us today is always awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call. Yeah, that's really the one that I

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Speaker 1: love the most, just because it's a little bit wider.

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Speaker 1: I guess I would say, like, there's a lot more

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Speaker 1: relationships we deal with than just the dating world.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's coming up in just a second. There's

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Speaker 2: more drama. Yeah, lots of drama.

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Speaker 3: So first comments, Yeah, JB Law said anything that makes

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Speaker 3: Alexis laugh is worth hearing.

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Speaker 4: Oh so you know what, today I cringe a lot.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that makes it worth also hearing. Not sure, but

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Speaker 3: pretty vocally as well. Yeah, I'll understand why US starts

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 5: No matter who you are, I think everybody is waiting

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Speaker 5: to meet their perfect person.

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Speaker 2: That's nice.

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Speaker 5: It makes you feel all the things excited, passionate, challenged, hungry,

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Speaker 5: maybe not hungry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a natural all those other things for sure.

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Speaker 5: But just imagine, finally, after years, you actually run into

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Speaker 5: that special someone. Wow, check all your boxes except for

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Speaker 5: one tiny problem that you are technically already engaged to

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Speaker 5: someone else.

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Speaker 4: What are you supposed to do? Then, do you pretty

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Speaker 4: found someone, but this person's even more special.

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Speaker 5: Do you throw your hands up and say, oh, well,

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Speaker 5: guess I just need to commit to the first one

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Speaker 5: and get used to being uncertain and not fully happy

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Speaker 5: for the rest of my life.

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Speaker 2: I just yeah, find you exactly?

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Speaker 5: Do you take a risk and do something crazy and

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Speaker 5: call a radio show for Oh.

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Speaker 2: God, I want the drama, but I'm also worried.

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Speaker 5: One of our listeners has decided she needs to get

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Speaker 5: closure or else she might look back on her life

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Speaker 5: and wonder what if we're gonna try and help her

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Speaker 5: in your awkward Tuesday phone call?

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Speaker 4: We go next. It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: How do you guys feel about going out and doing

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Speaker 5: an activity all by yourself? No like seeing a movie

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Speaker 5: or eating at a restaurant, going down the Tunnel of

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Speaker 5: love ride?

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Speaker 4: Vote for one, dude.

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Speaker 2: I will take some alone time any day of the week.

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Speaker 5: I'd rather just be alone at home than than alone

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Speaker 5: in public embarrassed. Well, I know a lot of people

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Speaker 5: see that as taboo. But one of our listeners went

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Speaker 5: out and did a solo activity says that day may

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Speaker 5: have changed her life forever.

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Speaker 4: What right now?

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Speaker 5: She needs our help because of it. Her name is Mo,

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Speaker 5: so let's welcome her to the show.

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Speaker 4: What's up Mo?

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Speaker 6: Hi? Guys, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My God?

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Speaker 1: Just by your tone and what Jeff said, change your

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Speaker 1: life forever doesn't sound like a good thing anymore.

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Speaker 4: No, So, what's going on day?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so me and my fiance we've been together for

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Speaker 6: six years total and we got engaged for last year.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, that's excited.

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Speaker 6: Congratulations, Well thank you. Yes, I'm well, yeah, I'll get

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Speaker 6: into a little bit about this whole thing. Oh okay,

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Speaker 6: But so I had the day off of work, so

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Speaker 6: I'm like, you know what, let me go on a hike,

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Speaker 6: a solo hike. And while I was on the on

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Speaker 6: the trail, I ended up meeting this guy who was

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Speaker 6: on the same trail as me. Okay, and so we

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Speaker 6: started talking walking and like, I don't know, it's just

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Speaker 6: like a great first conversation.

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Speaker 2: I did not like how you said first. Just then

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Speaker 2: I thought she was going to say date next.

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Speaker 5: Like, oh, okay, because first implies that there's more conversations. Yeah, so,

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Speaker 5: why are you not allowed to talk to people when

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Speaker 1: She's saying that there's a problem, and I'm guessing this

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Speaker 1: is where the problem starts.

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Speaker 2: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 6: No, You're not wrong?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So what happens? What's going on?

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Speaker 6: So he's very attractive, very selfish, sure, and you know,

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Speaker 6: talking to him about my wedding planning.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's good.

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, And it was laughing and he's like because

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Speaker 2: That's great. So this is looking more positive and innocent.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. So then we had a great day. We finished

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Speaker 6: the hike. Then he asks for my number.

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Speaker 4: How did he.

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Speaker 5: Ask Was he like, anyway, let me hit you up

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Speaker 2: Is you know our double date?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Double date would be okay?

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Speaker 4: How was it asked?

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Speaker 6: So he was like, hey, like I like your energy whatever,

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Speaker 6: but like, can I have your number so we can

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Speaker 6: hang out? I said, like very clear and explicit, like

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Speaker 6: we should double date. We should hang out, Like I'm

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Speaker 6: making it. No, I'm like, I'm not going to be

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Speaker 6: with you alone like jealous.

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Speaker 1: And maybe that's what he meant to, you know, like

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Speaker 1: maybe he meant the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Was he cool with that?

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Speaker 6: I mean he was like, oh yeah, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 6: A couple of weeks later, we did arrange a dinner

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Speaker 6: with our significant others, so it was definitely a double date. Q.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows about it. Everybody's on the up and up.

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Speaker 7: How did that go?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: Oh all right, what is the.

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Speaker 4: Problem aging to us about him? You got the perfect

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Speaker 4: relationship and new friends. Where's the drama?

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Speaker 6: So we hung out more, and I'm definitely starting to

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Speaker 6: develop a crush on this new guy.

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Speaker 5: Oh, you're to have crushes anymore, Jeff, this is not

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Speaker 5: the time to say love is love?

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 5: No, she's engaged at this point, married, But yeah, just

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Speaker 5: because you're engaged and you're married, you can't have crushes

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Speaker 5: on other people as long as you don't act on them.

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Speaker 5: Have you acted on any of these crushing feelings?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, But here's the thing. You can't hang out with

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Speaker 1: him anymore. You got to be done, I think.

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Speaker 5: Well, hold on, we haven't heard the rest of the story. Okay,

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Speaker 5: maybe there's more to this where they're just perfect friends. Okay,

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Speaker 5: and that's what we're doing for awkward Tuesday. They want

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Speaker 5: want to do with this called friendship.

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Speaker 2: That's a great idea.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, not exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so what do you want to do?

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 6: Like, I'm feeling very guilty about this because it has

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Speaker 6: never happened to me before in a relationship, But there

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Speaker 6: are these types of thoughts and feelings and I'm definitely like,

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Speaker 6: what did now?

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, well, how does your fiance feel about this

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Speaker 5: crush that you have on this other guy?

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Speaker 4: I don't think they know.

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Speaker 1: Well, it would be healthy if they did talk about it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it would be a good sign.

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Speaker 4: Is that who we're calling?

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Speaker 5: Are we calling your fiance to kind of fill him

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Speaker 6: I just want I want you to call this dude

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Speaker 6: because I think the connection is too real, at least

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Speaker 6: for me, So like I need to know how he feels.

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Speaker 6: And like, I'm just word if I brush it off

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Speaker 6: the rest of my life with my like nice and

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Speaker 6: amazing fiance, but yeah, what if what if I didn't

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Speaker 2: I mean, alexis just brought up a huge point. This

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Speaker 6: I mean, I definitely don't think it's in my head,

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Speaker 6: so I feel like he's sending me vibes.

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Speaker 5: Maybe he feels like he made a mistake with his marriage.

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Speaker 1: This is like Pandora's box. You can open it and

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able.

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Speaker 2: To put anything back in it. But we're just gonna

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Speaker 5: What if by the end of the phone call, couples

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Speaker 5: are happy. Everyone's happy, and we've made a great relationship

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Speaker 4: You never know when true love is going to strike.

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Speaker 2: You, well, hopefully struck him. He's married, Jesus gay.

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Speaker 5: All right, we're going to come back and give you

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Speaker 5: some advice, yes, and then we're going to let you

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Speaker 5: call this other guy to try and feel out the

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Speaker 5: vibe to see is there a real connection happening between

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Speaker 2: Coming up with advice, Brook.

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Speaker 6: I really appreciate it. Guys. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: We're going to do it night after this. Hold on,

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Speaker 4: it's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: Before we get into the awkward Tuesday call, I just

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Speaker 5: want to take a second real quick and do something

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Speaker 5: I don't think I've ever done before an applaud brook.

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Speaker 2: Hey, okay, I like that entered something wrong.

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Speaker 5: You had ample cause during that first segment to jump

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Speaker 4: She is doing emotional cheating.

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Speaker 5: She deserves to have bad things happened to her in

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Speaker 5: her relationship. Think that that's amazing. Instead broke drug. You

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Speaker 5: showed growth and resilience. Yeah, that's nine of the time

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Speaker 5: if someone says they're thinking of cheating like that is

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Speaker 5: something that you are strongly against.

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Speaker 4: But not today. You stepped back.

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Speaker 5: You were thoughtful, and you promoted in fidelity and you

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Speaker 5: did and we sold you for We have never heard

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Speaker 5: you do that on the show before. And the only

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Speaker 5: our listeners, Mo, recently met a guy out on a

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Speaker 5: solo hike and they've been vibing over the last few weeks,

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Speaker 5: hanging out both with their significant others significant others and together.

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Speaker 5: The problem is, like I said, she's engaged, he's married.

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Speaker 2: Oh, just small problem.

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Speaker 4: She's gonna be.

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Speaker 5: Walking down the aisle soon and has started to develop

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Speaker 5: a crush on this other guy. What do you think

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Speaker 5: that she should do because she wants to reach out

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Speaker 5: to this guy that she's crushing on and try and

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Speaker 5: feel him out see if he might be feeling the

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Speaker 5: same way.

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Speaker 4: What do you think?

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Speaker 1: Okay, you should basically ask for his advice and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: I have a friend's out of town wedding coming up

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Speaker 2: My fiance can't go. What should I do?

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Speaker 7: Fill in?

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Speaker 1: And you're not asking him right, But then it's an

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Speaker 1: opportunity for him to volunteer himself if that's the road

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Speaker 1: he wants to go down.

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Speaker 4: Judge's reactions, that.

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Speaker 6: Is actually genius, Like I really love that, you know,

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Speaker 6: let's not inflation.

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Speaker 4: I mean it was okay advice, Jose, what do you think?

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Speaker 5: Look, if anybody knows how to put a feeler out,

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Speaker 5: No, he's trying to put it out, but maybe there's

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Speaker 6: Yes, I will give it a shot. I'm not a

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Speaker 5: See I could tell from your vocal cues right there

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Speaker 5: But you got our advice. We're going to dial this

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Speaker 5: It's probably safer if you don't say his name in

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Speaker 4: But I'm gonna dial.

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Speaker 7: Oh? Hey? Sorry? You come from a different phone number

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I mean definitely. We were just talking about

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Speaker 6: Okay. I have a best friend. She's getting married in

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Speaker 7: I got it. You need to borrow my car, don't you.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So like you think I should go though, right,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely. Weddings are fun.

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Speaker 7: But will you?

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm not really sure what we're talking about here,

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Speaker 7: And then also, is everything Okay, you're sounding kind of

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Speaker 7: And like I have all of hey, hey, hey, dn't

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Speaker 7: I am here for you. You and me were in this,

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Speaker 6: That's are we? Because like that's also kind of the

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Speaker 7: I see where you're going with this. I understand. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I got it. You need me to officiate your wedding.

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Speaker 7: That's what you do.

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Speaker 6: Huh.

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Speaker 2: That's a great idea. Not uncomfortable at all.

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Speaker 7: It's happening right now.

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Speaker 6: More.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, got your answer there.

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Speaker 4: Hey, man, I know you don't know who we are.

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Speaker 5: We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 5: Morning that you are being featured on right now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, Hi, I guess yeah, hi.

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Speaker 2: We Why did we call jeff Yeah.

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Speaker 4: You know that's a good question, Broke.

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Speaker 5: You know, Moe's reached out to us for help with

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Speaker 6: I wanted to know if you would appreciate my wedding

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Speaker 6: and thank you. It was a great eye opening experience,

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Speaker 6: and thank you so much, my good friend.

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, wow, I'd be honest friends in the wedding.

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, I'd be delighted.

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Speaker 6: I'm so happy to hear that. I was so nervous.

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Speaker 1: And maybe maybe you just have to run this by

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Speaker 2: Yeah, appciating job.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I'm sure my fiance was. My fiancee loves him

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Speaker 6: like we all get along super great. So yeah, I'm

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, she won't care.

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Speaker 2: That's good. Okay, what a great lady.

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Speaker 4: We love her.

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Speaker 1: You love her, right, Ricky, Yeah, definitely totally okay, so

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Speaker 5: We reached out to this guy hoping to figure out

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's going to be a special day.

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Speaker 4: And we I think we got those answers for you.

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Speaker 4: Is that right?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, yes, you did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, maybe maybe do some soul searching, see

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Speaker 1: if you can come up with other answers in your life.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like who's going to cater the wedding? Maybe? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I can cater it too.

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Speaker 1: What I meant?

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Speaker 5: Yep, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Oof, that one was a lot.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, yeah, hey it's Brook and Jeffrey. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for stick and through with it. Unfortunately we

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Speaker 2: No, we did it, and I'm proud. On the phone,

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Speaker 2: we never spoiled it, like the real reason we actually

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that some people in the comments

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we should have stepped in, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Update as the wedding probably never happened.

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Speaker 7: True.

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Speaker 1: That would be like, let's hope, yeah, because if she

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Speaker 1: it would all be about how he officiated her wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we would have had to hear about that. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So maybe he heard this podcast. I have no idea, true.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there was a lot of comments. Maybe somebody

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Speaker 3: I hope her fiance hears this huge red flag. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I'm only seven minutes in and all I'm hearing is

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, if you were getting married and thinking

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Speaker 1: about somebody else, like, just just don't do it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't call the radio show for help.

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Speaker 2: Yes exactly, but it's good drama for us. Hey, thank

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Speaker 2: you for being here.

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Speaker 1: Definitely subscribe and we'll be back tomorrow with another podcast. Yes,