Speaker 1: All right, let's get into our kick of the week, y'all.
Speaker 1: We are going to do the A, B C's of
Speaker 1: Mother Earth. I looked up these kink slash fetishes that
Speaker 1: I'm like, Damn, I don't know if we've ever talked
Speaker 1: about it, because what the fuck? So the first one,
Speaker 1: and I want you all to guess what y'all think,
Speaker 1: It is based on Latin roots and shit. So actorasty fetish.
Speaker 1: What do you think that means? Actorasty? And I don't
Speaker 1: know if I'm saying it right, that's how it spelled.
Speaker 1: Act I are a s t y actorasty fetish? All right, y'all,
Speaker 1: host don't know, yea. So it is the sexual fetish
Speaker 1: known when someone is aroused by the rays of the sun. Therefore,
Speaker 1: someone with this fetish would love being intimate outdoors or
Speaker 1: under a large window on a sunny afternoon.
Speaker 2: What is the sun connected to acting? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just thought y'all might know lat and roots. I
Speaker 1: don't know this next one though, mind you, the other
Speaker 1: egg the other a one was way too easy.
Speaker 2: Y'all would have got it. Aquaphilia, okay, fucking in the
Speaker 2: water awa, you know? All right?
Speaker 1: So this next one bronzophilia. And this has nothing to
Speaker 1: do with lebron jay damn.
Speaker 2: Tough bronzophilia.
Speaker 1: This actually I think I'm a bronxophiliac. I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's the word, but this is me. So Bronsophilia
Speaker 1: is the fetish when someone gets extremely aroused by thunderstorms.
Speaker 2: What the fun?
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, I ain't gonna hold you, okay, but the
Speaker 1: way I'm the way I rub my plussy when it's raining,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, time to like go
Speaker 1: play with myself.
Speaker 2: When I hear that goddamn rain and thunder, my whole
Speaker 2: body shuts down and I just get horny. Why because
Speaker 2: your body knows there's nothing else you can do right now?
Speaker 3: Do you know what I just said? So I went to
Speaker 3: Mexico to get this gentle shit done. Long story short,
Speaker 3: one of the days it was crazy thunder. So my
Speaker 3: nigga wakes up and he's like, damn that sucks. And
Speaker 3: I was like, bro, we're on vacation to do nothing
Speaker 3: and now actually in the best place. So we come
Speaker 3: outside and it's all inclusive award and you could tell
Speaker 3: they stress and they'll know what activities to do for people.
Speaker 3: They were like, Saunty, you know you guys haveing a
Speaker 3: good day. I'm like, you're having a nigga. I had
Speaker 3: that sex blaze on my face, you know when the
Speaker 3: little dried up coming looked a little white. It looked
Speaker 3: like I had some eggs of a flakes, just seemen.
Speaker 3: I love when it rings.
Speaker 1: Give it to me, all right, and now first seek,
Speaker 1: Let's see if y'all can get this.
Speaker 2: This one was strange.
Speaker 1: Chasmophilia by the way, something too. It's all about mother Earth.
Speaker 1: Chasmophilia by the way. I love that there's kinks that
Speaker 1: we still don't know that I saw and I was like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? I don't think we ever talked about it.
Speaker 2: Close? What did you say? No, wey was closer.
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of something like feeling the ground, like grounding close.
Speaker 1: Childphilia is an unusual and interesting fetish. What it means
Speaker 1: is that one is aroused by crevices, caverns, and valleys.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, literally maybe a bitch one, which, to
Speaker 1: be fair, I did fucking a cave in in in Jamaica.
Speaker 1: Now I don't I haven't been to Green Canyon yet,
Speaker 1: so I don't know if my mind would be turned
Speaker 1: on by wanting to fuck in the can were other
Speaker 1: people in the like how big is the cave like
Speaker 1: the cake's The cave is like the sides of this
Speaker 1: room that we're in, and there was a waterfall like
Speaker 1: blocking it. So it's a really dark cave, the waterfalls
Speaker 1: coming down and we have we no, no bad. We
Speaker 1: were the only ones in it. It's like a man
Speaker 1: made one. It was at the Nude Pole.
Speaker 2: Oh, it was like a fake cave, clean cave.
Speaker 3: But it was given cave no because like you know what,
Speaker 3: you go on vacation, you start walking with the bull shoes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, no, I'm giving that care.
Speaker 1: It was given a cave in a pool, a belt cave,
Speaker 1: all right. So for the Hoda, this is one I
Speaker 1: found online and I was like, never thought of it
Speaker 1: this way. This is called tactile exploration. So this is
Speaker 1: when and this is a real vanilla tip by the way,
Speaker 1: for y'all. So when I read it, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I never thought about that, but yes, this is great
Speaker 1: because I feel it when I'm in other people's bed.
Speaker 1: So tactile exploration is the introduction of very textures in
Speaker 1: the bedroom where you would have sex. So you could
Speaker 1: either do this through bedding, you could do it through
Speaker 1: clothing or even accessories.
Speaker 2: So for example, silk sheets.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you gives a way different thing,
Speaker 1: a way different feeling when you're having sex on your body,
Speaker 1: like silk sheets. I had a nigga with silk sheets,
Speaker 1: and I was like, this nigga is a whore because
Speaker 1: it felt like I just knew. I said, oh, you
Speaker 1: have to be a slut. First off, what nigga has
Speaker 1: silk sheets? But also it made me feel like, why
Speaker 1: the fuck don't I have.
Speaker 2: Silk sheet because silk sheets ate.
Speaker 1: On your body like you slide a little bit more
Speaker 1: and you don't feel like mind you, it just doesn't
Speaker 1: feel as rough.
Speaker 2: But also it's cold.
Speaker 3: I'm like wondering right now if those silk shit sheet
Speaker 3: things was recent, right, somebody listening.
Speaker 2: To this like hold on.
Speaker 1: Bruh silk sheets. I was like, oh, I.
Speaker 3: I've actually thought men were horries for having silk pillercases,
Speaker 3: because that's no.
Speaker 1: Do you well unless he got dreads or hair, than
Speaker 1: it is for him if he got braids or dreads.
Speaker 1: I'm not even thinking it's for a bitch, I'm thinking
Speaker 1: this nigga cares about his locks?
Speaker 2: Say they do?
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Speaker 3: You know, I just wondered looking at you, how could
Speaker 3: whenever did your eyebrows platinum on?
Speaker 1: I have I've done it with makeup, but I haven't
Speaker 1: done it like permanently. I definitely want to, But girl,
Speaker 1: I just be like, do I really want to go.
Speaker 2: That route right now? Why not? You already was a skunk?
Speaker 1: I did it, I did it with first off, don't
Speaker 1: do it like you was already gone. That's crazy, You're like, mom,
Speaker 1: I want to go that radical?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Do I want to be that edgy?
Speaker 1: Like I already stand out when I'm out, Like, I
Speaker 1: think that would like just bring too much attention to me.
Speaker 1: And I'm already pines bit, bitch, I'm already fun as fucks,
Speaker 1: so you know I'd be like, let me not give
Speaker 1: it all to them, And then I'm not into.
Speaker 2: Like radical artsy niggas. Y'all know. I like niggas with like.
Speaker 1: PhDs and like nerds and lames, and I'm already a
Speaker 1: lot for them, So like, bitch, I gotta I don't
Speaker 1: want an artsy nigga.
Speaker 2: I want my little spartan. Yes, okay, yes, uh.
Speaker 1: Anyways, let's get into this one. Did cheating in high
Speaker 1: school ruin my relationship? Let's get into it. Hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: I'm a twenty six year old woman in an on
Speaker 1: and off again relationship with my high school sweetheart.
Speaker 2: In high school, I cheated.
Speaker 1: It deeply hurt him, and I fully owned that I
Speaker 1: was immature and selfish. Not long after reconnecting, I got
Speaker 1: pregnant the initial He didn't want me to keep the baby,
Speaker 1: but said he'd support me if I did. Oh, and
Speaker 1: he's been an amazing active dad ever since. Okay, we've
Speaker 1: broken up and gotten back together several times over the years.
Speaker 1: About three years ago, he brought up entering the lifestyle.
Speaker 1: He gets turned on by cheating scenarios and asks me
Speaker 1: to sleep with his friend or talk about being with
Speaker 1: other men while we're together. M I agreed because I
Speaker 1: thought it would strengthen us.
Speaker 2: Here's where I'm confused.
Speaker 1: That was not wrotten my last He rarely makes romantic effort,
Speaker 1: no flowers, no real intentional work in our relationship. When
Speaker 1: I bring up feeling unloved, he says he tried for
Speaker 1: years and I still cheated in high school, so why
Speaker 1: should he now. Sometimes I feel like he resents me.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I even wonder if he resents women in general.
Speaker 1: But then he's sex is the very thing that broke
Speaker 1: us up my cheating and uses.
Speaker 2: The swinger dynamic against me.
Speaker 1: Later, what starts is consensual ends up feeling humiliating. I
Speaker 1: can't tell if this is unresolved pain showing up sexually,
Speaker 1: or if he's punishing me while keeping me around so
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to be the one who leaves. Am
Speaker 1: I trying to fix something that's already dead? Or is
Speaker 1: there a healthy way to rebuild trust after this long?
Speaker 1: Thanks for any advice.
Speaker 2: I love y'all. This is a this is a second one.
Speaker 1: I okay, okay, right, I'm not gonna hold you.
Speaker 2: For the cheating. They're twenty six.
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, twenty six, that's right, So I mean it's
Speaker 3: you better than not bring up nothing I did in
Speaker 3: high school.
Speaker 2: You better not bring up Shitugh.
Speaker 1: Tricky because not only do they share kids together their
Speaker 1: high school sweethearts, they've been together for however long, and
Speaker 1: now at twenty six, the fact that they're also now
Speaker 1: introducing lifestyle before there's been a level of forgiveness with
Speaker 1: the cheating. The cheating, right, I don't think anybody should
Speaker 1: enter lifestyle with a hangup of betrayal or dishonesty or
Speaker 1: lack of trust.
Speaker 2: Even when y'all were in a monogamous.
Speaker 1: Sense, because the fact that he keeps throwing it in
Speaker 1: your face, he's not over it, and it's crazy that
Speaker 1: you brought up that you feel humiliated. I wonder if
Speaker 1: he's not into lifestyle at all, but he's into humiliating
Speaker 1: you and making you feel like shit the way that
Speaker 1: you did to him years ago, like the kink here
Speaker 1: may not be the swinging it mad like the payback.
Speaker 2: It might just in his mind, humiliating you.
Speaker 1: After you show up to be who you were when
Speaker 1: y'all were in high school may be what's getting him
Speaker 1: off because he's not over it. So maybe he's trying
Speaker 1: to find a way to get over it and it's
Speaker 1: not working for him him.
Speaker 3: I don't think that he's trying to find a way
Speaker 3: to get over it. I mean, maybe he is enjoying
Speaker 3: it during the sex talk. But as far as you
Speaker 3: may not think you're diving into non monogamy territory, but
Speaker 3: I just want to say you absolutely are. And what
Speaker 3: Mandy's saying about like there has to be a place
Speaker 3: of forgiveness. Just for context, in my open relationship, nigga,
Speaker 3: if one of us is having a bad day, the
Speaker 3: relationship is close. If this niggas having a bad day.
Speaker 3: I'm not just gonna say, well, hey, I'm gonna go
Speaker 3: out tonight and meet yeah.
Speaker 2: Won. So that's not how it works.
Speaker 3: We literally shut it down at any inkling of not
Speaker 3: feeling one hundred percent. So knowing there's previous and passion,
Speaker 3: but y'all somehow sexualize it. I think, like, maybe you're
Speaker 3: just enjoying pleasing and being kinky and it can be fun,
Speaker 3: but oof, you've.
Speaker 2: Got to resolve that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the question she asks to is there a healthy
Speaker 1: way to resolve this or is the relationship dead already?
Speaker 1: I think for me, that's not an actual answer that
Speaker 1: you can answer. If he's still, you know, bringing up
Speaker 1: what you did years ago and using it against you.
Speaker 2: You can't control how he feels. You can't control when
Speaker 2: he forgives you. You can't control his healing journey.
Speaker 1: So it has to be is he willing to let
Speaker 1: it go to form a more healthier bond with you?
Speaker 2: And if he's not, there's literally nothing you can do. Bro.
Speaker 1: Like, that's the thing that's interesting, Like, yes, it takes
Speaker 1: to to tango, but when it comes to someone genuinely
Speaker 1: feeling betrayed or like they can't trust you. It has
Speaker 1: to be their journey and their desire to overcome that.
Speaker 1: In order to make the relationship healthy, you could do
Speaker 1: everything right. You could never cheat on that man again.
Speaker 1: You could give him every fantasy he wants. You could
Speaker 1: cook him dinner every night. You could rub his feet
Speaker 1: when he get off work. If he's not doing the
Speaker 1: work to forgive you, the relationship is dead.
Speaker 2: And also, here's the other thing too. I'm saying like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is fucking high school. Get over it.
Speaker 3: But at the same time, I know that we can't
Speaker 3: rush to anybody's process on how things make them feel.
Speaker 3: Like I have a friend of mine that's been married
Speaker 3: for I think they just hit their fifteen year anniversary
Speaker 3: whatever they're a black couple, and whatever he did, he
Speaker 3: cheated years ago. I had no idea this Spanish literally,
Speaker 3: the language is their trigger. Here's why, bitch not. They
Speaker 3: can't ever go to the bronx together. Oh bitch, we
Speaker 3: were all talking about the bad Bunny thing. I facetimed
Speaker 3: her after the bad Bunny joined and we laughed about it,
Speaker 3: and I was like, bitch, da da da, So she
Speaker 3: was like, I'll call you later. So I was like, Okay,
Speaker 3: whych she acting funny? It's me later and she's like, girl, I.
Speaker 2: Almost say his name.
Speaker 3: So and so cheated on me for like a year
Speaker 3: because he spoke Spanish to this bitch and I thought
Speaker 3: he was gonna work calls and I had no idea
Speaker 3: what they were.
Speaker 2: Saying the whole time.
Speaker 3: So anything that's about Spanish or translated or whatever, like
Speaker 3: I'll be getting in my feelings.
Speaker 2: Bitch.
Speaker 3: She was like, so you was making a joke like
Speaker 3: we needed said titles. And she was like, bitch, that
Speaker 3: was the fucking joke of my damn marriage.
Speaker 2: Oh I ain't gonna hold you. Can you imagine?
Speaker 1: No Fir's You know, I don't really date niggas with accents.
Speaker 1: But now, in the most ignorant, probably right leaning, fucking opinion,
Speaker 1: I can ever say, bitch, if we go together and
Speaker 1: you speak another language, not at my house, none under
Speaker 1: my roof, bitch, you better speak in glate.
Speaker 2: Bitch.
Speaker 3: I was fucking would a lot be a nigga? And
Speaker 3: every time he got on the phone and it felt
Speaker 3: a little too tricky.
Speaker 2: I'd be like this will google.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hold to know that this man was having
Speaker 1: phone calls in another language with another bitch around you
Speaker 1: is oh my god, no bitch that.
Speaker 2: She didn't know it was another bitch, And so she's like, yo.
Speaker 3: No, But that's what I'm saying to know where hindsight,
Speaker 3: everybody has their little fucking tick.
Speaker 2: I actually I don't have a tick in my relationship.
Speaker 3: And we recently had this conversation because I cussed out
Speaker 3: a guy like a business dealing, right, Okay, I cursed
Speaker 3: this dude out and he was like, Yo, you ain't
Speaker 3: never talk to me like that.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I know.
Speaker 3: We never got a crazy blow up fight, and he
Speaker 3: was like, I pray to god we never do.
Speaker 2: He's like, but.
Speaker 3: If we did, it would be something that would probably
Speaker 3: last forever, Like we would probably always talk about that
Speaker 3: one incident. And we don't have at the moment in
Speaker 3: our relationship the rock of that thing from the past
Speaker 3: that we always bring up. And he's like, I hope
Speaker 3: it doesn't happens, but a lot of people do have that.
Speaker 3: And I say all that to say, in your particular case,
Speaker 3: I think it's this thing from.
Speaker 2: High school, and you know it's gotta go.
Speaker 1: And not only does it have to go, I just
Speaker 1: I just had another another thought with this right super
Speaker 1: interesting and I know you're probably enjoying yourself with the
Speaker 1: lifestyle aspect of this relationship because it's fun. But I
Speaker 1: also wonder if him seeing you be able to fuck
Speaker 1: these other men, whether it be a friend or whoever owns,
Speaker 1: I wonder if that's also making him more hesitant to
Speaker 1: believe that you would.
Speaker 2: Ever be just his.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like he may also like
Speaker 1: you to an extent or love you to an extent
Speaker 1: to where maybe he's even opening or bringing up this
Speaker 1: lifestyle element in these fantasies because he feels like that's
Speaker 1: what you need, because he's genuinely maybe also not secure
Speaker 1: enough and feeling like he is enough for you because
Speaker 1: chet On, which is even a deeper laird that I
Speaker 1: was like, damn, maybe this is for you, and he
Speaker 1: humiliates you after because there's the insecurity in himself that
Speaker 1: doesn't feel like enough.
Speaker 2: Like that's why I make me feel so sad.
Speaker 1: Like but I'm I mean, and I brought that up
Speaker 1: because a lot of times, right people assume that women
Speaker 1: have the threesomes with other women because they figure their
Speaker 1: man is gonna cheat anyway.
Speaker 2: Let me just do this I might not be what
Speaker 2: he wants.
Speaker 1: Let me just and so what if it's in reverse
Speaker 1: the other way and he's not over not being enough
Speaker 1: for you. The fact that you said he removes the
Speaker 1: romanticism from the relationship, and he brings up that he
Speaker 1: gave you all the romance and you cheated on him.
Speaker 1: That's why he don't do it no more.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: I probably really nigga who fuck you cheated with? Because
Speaker 3: now I don't want to see the nigga.
Speaker 2: You always want to see what somebody looked like. That
Speaker 2: don't ever even matter.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, hold on, you do because when you're high school,
Speaker 1: what the what the motherfucker looked like at high school
Speaker 1: don't matter.
Speaker 3: Then he might have been a young job and you
Speaker 3: know what, that nigga might have been fine shit if
Speaker 3: you were cheating with a captain and the team. Like
Speaker 3: my homegirl recently said, she found out and let it go.
Speaker 2: By the way, this is a mini listening to me, judge.
Speaker 3: So she found out her nigga was fucking somebody else
Speaker 3: and saw what the girl looked like and decided not
Speaker 3: to bring it up because she went through his phone
Speaker 3: and she was like, I gotta save like this, like
Speaker 3: the going through the phone for like a bigger thing.
Speaker 3: She was like, but I saw what the girl looked like,
Speaker 3: and she was so whacked that I know he was
Speaker 3: just horny that night.
Speaker 2: And I was like, damn, okay.
Speaker 3: But she's like, I'm like, so, what would you have
Speaker 3: done in the bitch look better than you? Like she
Speaker 3: I would have lost it. She was like, but I
Speaker 3: was just less jealous because I really.
Speaker 1: Know, I said, with the fact that I felt the
Speaker 1: way that my ex cheated on with some bum bitches.
Speaker 3: No, I okay, I think there's two factors here being
Speaker 3: cheated on. If you cheat on me with a bitch
Speaker 3: that looks like Beyonce, it's gonna bruise my ego obviously, right,
Speaker 3: like it's going to hurt a little bit.
Speaker 2: But also like, I get why you had to fuck
Speaker 2: the bitch.
Speaker 3: If you cheat on me, what a bitch that looks
Speaker 3: like Rachel Dole is all I'm gonna be like, So
Speaker 3: that bitch thinks she's down here fucking easy his nigga,
Speaker 3: Oh absolutely not.
Speaker 1: I mean I mean cheating sex both ways. I did
Speaker 1: want to give a bit of advice for you, which
Speaker 1: is worse.
Speaker 2: Cheating is bad all around. I don't care.
Speaker 3: Hold on, beach, hold on, I'm not gonna hold you if.
Speaker 3: If he's so bad, I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: I'm the opposite.
Speaker 1: I would feel a way that you cheated down like
Speaker 1: you cheated on me with that bitch, with this couch
Speaker 1: surfing as homeless as bum ass.
Speaker 2: Like I would, right, I don't care.
Speaker 1: I would rather cheat it on with a Beyonce or
Speaker 1: Rihanna or Samahayak than a motherfucking bum ass couch surfing ass,
Speaker 1: bum ass bitch.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
Speaker 3: I just want to tell you this homeless woman and
Speaker 3: Mandy talks about her ex cheating on her for years.
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, and you followed the bitch, And
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, hol on, let me tell y'all
Speaker 1: how that. Let me tell y'all how this podcast actually
Speaker 1: be ruining lives and how.
Speaker 2: Some of you bitches are super weird.
Speaker 1: So not only did this bitch fucked my ex knowing
Speaker 1: ni he was my ex, because she the one that
Speaker 1: let me know that nigga was in there when I
Speaker 1: went to Jamaica. I found out later because Weezy didn't
Speaker 1: know who the bitch was, that she was kind of
Speaker 1: trying to fucking fuck Weezy and her nigga.
Speaker 2: You said she was im I did it was I did?
Speaker 2: I meant nobody. She knew, she knew that you were
Speaker 2: my colles, she knew that she fucked on my ex.
Speaker 2: And now she was trying to fuck on y'all because
Speaker 2: you are when I tell you it was not d
Speaker 2: oh no, No, you're talking about somebody else, don't we not?
Speaker 2: The Vision wanted you to come to her little dancing class.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Mandy, I don't give a fault. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna tell you the other girl.
Speaker 1: Oh well yeah, any who I care that you cheat down.
Speaker 2: I'd rather my nigga cheat up. Fuck out of you.
Speaker 1: Now. The last thing I want to say is the
Speaker 1: last the last thing, Well, this is the advice for the.
Speaker 2: Listener, bitch. We'd be giving up. We've been giving away all.
Speaker 1: Of our business, but I want to give advice to
Speaker 1: to the to the listener person. So you said that
Speaker 1: you ventured this lifestyle with this man, but you no
Speaker 1: longer feel romanticized.
Speaker 2: He doesn't do anything nice to you for you. He
Speaker 2: doesn't court you.
Speaker 1: There's no flowers, there's no and he almost is punishing
Speaker 1: you because of what you did in high school.
Speaker 2: I would say this, whether the sex is.
Speaker 1: Good or not, if you guys are in a relationship
Speaker 1: or in some level of co parenting or a situationship,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, there's absolutely no way that you should
Speaker 1: keep bringing other people into the relationship without you getting
Speaker 1: that bare minimum of feeling validated or loved by him.
Speaker 2: And if he's not going to do.
Speaker 1: The small things like make you feel loved even if
Speaker 1: you don't love your ass, you shouldn't be out here
Speaker 1: giving him all of these fantasies and doing all of
Speaker 1: those things. They're not already having a baby shit and
Speaker 1: did so honestly. Then if he's not getting over it
Speaker 1: and he's not doing the work too, the relationship is dead,
Speaker 1: sis and you should move on and stop sucking your
Speaker 1: baby daddy.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's what we're gonna go with every time. Stop
Speaker 3: sucking your bay daddy. Stop sucking your baby dady. But
Speaker 3: it sounds like it's not and down bitch. And thank
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