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Speaker 1: All right, let's get into our kick of the week, y'all.

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Speaker 1: We are going to do the A, B C's of

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Speaker 1: Mother Earth. I looked up these kink slash fetishes that

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Damn, I don't know if we've ever talked

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Speaker 1: about it, because what the fuck? So the first one,

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Speaker 1: and I want you all to guess what y'all think,

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Speaker 1: It is based on Latin roots and shit. So actorasty fetish.

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Speaker 1: What do you think that means? Actorasty? And I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I'm saying it right, that's how it spelled.

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Speaker 1: Act I are a s t y actorasty fetish? All right, y'all,

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Speaker 1: host don't know, yea. So it is the sexual fetish

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Speaker 1: known when someone is aroused by the rays of the sun. Therefore,

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Speaker 1: someone with this fetish would love being intimate outdoors or

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Speaker 1: under a large window on a sunny afternoon.

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Speaker 2: What is the sun connected to acting? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just thought y'all might know lat and roots. I

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Speaker 1: don't know this next one though, mind you, the other

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Speaker 1: egg the other a one was way too easy.

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Speaker 2: Y'all would have got it. Aquaphilia, okay, fucking in the

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Speaker 2: water awa, you know? All right?

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Speaker 1: So this next one bronzophilia. And this has nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with lebron jay damn.

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Speaker 2: Tough bronzophilia.

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Speaker 1: This actually I think I'm a bronxophiliac. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if that's the word, but this is me. So Bronsophilia

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Speaker 1: is the fetish when someone gets extremely aroused by thunderstorms.

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Speaker 2: What the fun?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, I ain't gonna hold you, okay, but the

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Speaker 1: way I'm the way I rub my plussy when it's raining,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, time to like go

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Speaker 1: play with myself.

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Speaker 2: When I hear that goddamn rain and thunder, my whole

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Speaker 2: body shuts down and I just get horny. Why because

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Speaker 2: your body knows there's nothing else you can do right now?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I just said? So I went to

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Speaker 3: Mexico to get this gentle shit done. Long story short,

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Speaker 3: one of the days it was crazy thunder. So my

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Speaker 3: nigga wakes up and he's like, damn that sucks. And

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Speaker 3: I was like, bro, we're on vacation to do nothing

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Speaker 3: and now actually in the best place. So we come

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Speaker 3: outside and it's all inclusive award and you could tell

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Speaker 3: they stress and they'll know what activities to do for people.

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Speaker 3: They were like, Saunty, you know you guys haveing a

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Speaker 3: good day. I'm like, you're having a nigga. I had

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Speaker 3: that sex blaze on my face, you know when the

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Speaker 3: little dried up coming looked a little white. It looked

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Speaker 3: like I had some eggs of a flakes, just seemen.

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Speaker 3: I love when it rings.

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Speaker 1: Give it to me, all right, and now first seek,

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Speaker 1: Let's see if y'all can get this.

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Speaker 2: This one was strange.

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Speaker 1: Chasmophilia by the way, something too. It's all about mother Earth.

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Speaker 1: Chasmophilia by the way. I love that there's kinks that

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Speaker 1: we still don't know that I saw and I was like,

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Speaker 1: what the fuck? I don't think we ever talked about it.

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Speaker 2: Close? What did you say? No, wey was closer.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking of something like feeling the ground, like grounding close.

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Speaker 1: Childphilia is an unusual and interesting fetish. What it means

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Speaker 1: is that one is aroused by crevices, caverns, and valleys.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, literally maybe a bitch one, which, to

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Speaker 1: be fair, I did fucking a cave in in in Jamaica.

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Speaker 1: Now I don't I haven't been to Green Canyon yet,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know if my mind would be turned

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Speaker 1: on by wanting to fuck in the can were other

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Speaker 1: people in the like how big is the cave like

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Speaker 1: the cake's The cave is like the sides of this

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Speaker 1: coming down and we have we no, no bad. We

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Speaker 1: were the only ones in it. It's like a man

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Speaker 1: made one. It was at the Nude Pole.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it was like a fake cave, clean cave.

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Speaker 3: But it was given cave no because like you know what,

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Speaker 3: you go on vacation, you start walking with the bull shoes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, no, I'm giving that care.

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Speaker 1: It was given a cave in a pool, a belt cave,

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Speaker 1: all right. So for the Hoda, this is one I

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Speaker 1: found online and I was like, never thought of it

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Speaker 1: this way. This is called tactile exploration. So this is

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Speaker 1: when and this is a real vanilla tip by the way,

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Speaker 1: for y'all. So when I read it, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I never thought about that, but yes, this is great

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Speaker 1: because I feel it when I'm in other people's bed.

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Speaker 1: So tactile exploration is the introduction of very textures in

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Speaker 1: the bedroom where you would have sex. So you could

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Speaker 1: either do this through bedding, you could do it through

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Speaker 1: clothing or even accessories.

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Speaker 2: So for example, silk sheets.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you gives a way different thing,

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Speaker 1: a way different feeling when you're having sex on your body,

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Speaker 1: like silk sheets. I had a nigga with silk sheets,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, this nigga is a whore because

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Speaker 1: silk sheets? But also it made me feel like, why

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Speaker 2: Silk sheet because silk sheets ate.

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Speaker 1: On your body like you slide a little bit more

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Speaker 1: and you don't feel like mind you, it just doesn't

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Speaker 3: I'm like wondering right now if those silk shit sheet

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Speaker 1: I'm not even thinking it's for a bitch, I'm thinking

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Speaker 3: Ask me if you were saying recently pussy hole, they

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Speaker 3: now that you said it. They definitely said that in Jamaica.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Now she was sucking a Jamaican nigga because

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Speaker 2: But no, it's puss pussy asshole.

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Speaker 1: Oh but maybe do that too because I say pussy asshole,

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Speaker 3: You know, I just wondered looking at you, how could

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Speaker 1: I have I've done it with makeup, but I haven't

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Speaker 2: That route right now? Why not? You already was a skunk?

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Speaker 1: I did it, I did it with first off, don't

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Speaker 1: I want to go that radical?

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Speaker 1: And I'm already pines bit, bitch, I'm already fun as fucks,

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Speaker 2: Like radical artsy niggas. Y'all know. I like niggas with like.

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Speaker 1: PhDs and like nerds and lames, and I'm already a

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Speaker 2: I want my little spartan. Yes, okay, yes, uh.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, let's get into this one. Did cheating in high

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Speaker 1: school ruin my relationship? Let's get into it. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty six year old woman in an on

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Speaker 2: In high school, I cheated.

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Speaker 1: It deeply hurt him, and I fully owned that I

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Speaker 1: was immature and selfish. Not long after reconnecting, I got

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Speaker 1: About three years ago, he brought up entering the lifestyle.

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Speaker 2: Here's where I'm confused.

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Speaker 1: That was not wrotten my last He rarely makes romantic effort,

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Speaker 1: no flowers, no real intentional work in our relationship. When

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Speaker 1: years and I still cheated in high school, so why

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I even wonder if he resents women in general.

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Speaker 1: But then he's sex is the very thing that broke

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Speaker 1: us up my cheating and uses.

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Speaker 2: The swinger dynamic against me.

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Speaker 1: Later, what starts is consensual ends up feeling humiliating. I

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Speaker 1: can't tell if this is unresolved pain showing up sexually,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't have to be the one who leaves. Am

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Speaker 1: I trying to fix something that's already dead? Or is

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Speaker 1: there a healthy way to rebuild trust after this long?

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Speaker 1: Thanks for any advice.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all. This is a this is a second one.

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Speaker 1: I okay, okay, right, I'm not gonna hold you.

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Speaker 2: For the cheating. They're twenty six.

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, twenty six, that's right, So I mean it's

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Speaker 3: you better than not bring up nothing I did in

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Speaker 2: You better not bring up Shitugh.

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Speaker 3: I'm not just gonna say, well, hey, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 2: Won. So that's not how it works.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the question she asks to is there a healthy

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Speaker 2: You can't control how he feels. You can't control when

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Speaker 1: So it has to be is he willing to let

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Speaker 2: And if he's not, there's literally nothing you can do. Bro.

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Speaker 1: Like, that's the thing that's interesting, Like, yes, it takes

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Speaker 1: You could give him every fantasy he wants. You could

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Speaker 2: And also, here's the other thing too. I'm saying like,

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, I know that we can't

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Speaker 3: cheated years ago. I had no idea this Spanish literally,

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Speaker 3: the language is their trigger. Here's why, bitch not. They

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Speaker 3: were all talking about the bad Bunny thing. I facetimed

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Speaker 3: whych she acting funny? It's me later and she's like, girl, I.

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Speaker 3: So and so cheated on me for like a year

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Speaker 2: Bitch.

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Speaker 3: She was like, so you was making a joke like

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Speaker 2: Oh I ain't gonna hold you. Can you imagine?

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Speaker 1: No Fir's You know, I don't really date niggas with accents.

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Speaker 1: But now, in the most ignorant, probably right leaning, fucking opinion,

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Speaker 1: I can ever say, bitch, if we go together and

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Speaker 1: you speak another language, not at my house, none under

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Speaker 2: Bitch.

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Speaker 3: I was fucking would a lot be a nigga? And

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Speaker 2: I'd be like this will google.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I hold to know that this man was having

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Speaker 2: She didn't know it was another bitch, And so she's like, yo.

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Speaker 3: No, But that's what I'm saying to know where hindsight,

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Speaker 2: I actually I don't have a tick in my relationship.

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Speaker 3: And we recently had this conversation because I cussed out

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Speaker 3: this dude out and he was like, Yo, you ain't

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I know.

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Speaker 3: We never got a crazy blow up fight, and he

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Speaker 3: If we did, it would be something that would probably

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Speaker 3: that we always bring up. And he's like, I hope

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Speaker 3: And I say all that to say, in your particular case,

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Speaker 3: I think it's this thing from.

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Speaker 2: High school, and you know it's gotta go.

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Speaker 1: And not only does it have to go, I just

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Speaker 1: also wonder if him seeing you be able to fuck

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Speaker 1: I wonder if that's also making him more hesitant to

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Speaker 2: Ever be just his.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like he may also like

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Speaker 2: Like that's why I make me feel so sad.

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Speaker 1: Like but I'm I mean, and I brought that up

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Speaker 2: Let me just do this I might not be what

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Speaker 1: Let me just and so what if it's in reverse

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Speaker 1: the other way and he's not over not being enough

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Speaker 1: That's why he don't do it no more.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: I probably really nigga who fuck you cheated with? Because

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Speaker 3: now I don't want to see the nigga.

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Speaker 2: You always want to see what somebody looked like. That

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, hold on, you do because when you're high school,

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Speaker 3: Then he might have been a young job and you

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Speaker 3: know what, that nigga might have been fine shit if

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Speaker 3: So she found out her nigga was fucking somebody else

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Speaker 3: She was like, but I saw what the girl looked like,

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Speaker 2: And I was like, damn, okay.

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Speaker 3: But she's like, I'm like, so, what would you have

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Speaker 3: I would have lost it. She was like, but I

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Speaker 1: Know, I said, with the fact that I felt the

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Speaker 3: No, I okay, I think there's two factors here being

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Speaker 3: that looks like Beyonce, it's gonna bruise my ego obviously, right,

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Speaker 2: But also like, I get why you had to fuck

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Speaker 3: If you cheat on me, what a bitch that looks

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Speaker 3: like Rachel Dole is all I'm gonna be like, So

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Speaker 3: Oh absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: I mean I mean cheating sex both ways. I did

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Speaker 2: Cheating is bad all around. I don't care.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, beach, hold on, I'm not gonna hold you if.

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Speaker 3: If he's so bad, I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I'm the opposite.

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Speaker 1: I would feel a way that you cheated down like

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Speaker 2: Like I would, right, I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I would rather cheat it on with a Beyonce or

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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 3: I just want to tell you this homeless woman and

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Speaker 3: Mandy talks about her ex cheating on her for years.

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Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, and you followed the bitch, And

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, hol on, let me tell y'all

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Speaker 1: be ruining lives and how.

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Speaker 2: Some of you bitches are super weird.

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Speaker 1: So not only did this bitch fucked my ex knowing

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Speaker 1: went to Jamaica. I found out later because Weezy didn't

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Speaker 2: You said she was im I did it was I did?

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Speaker 2: I meant nobody. She knew, she knew that you were

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Speaker 2: my colles, she knew that she fucked on my ex.

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Speaker 2: And now she was trying to fuck on y'all because

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Speaker 2: you are when I tell you it was not d

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Speaker 2: oh no, No, you're talking about somebody else, don't we not?

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Speaker 2: The Vision wanted you to come to her little dancing class.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Mandy, I don't give a fault. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you the other girl.

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Speaker 1: Oh well yeah, any who I care that you cheat down.

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Speaker 2: I'd rather my nigga cheat up. Fuck out of you.

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Speaker 1: Now. The last thing I want to say is the

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Speaker 1: last the last thing, Well, this is the advice for the.

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Speaker 2: Listener, bitch. We'd be giving up. We've been giving away all.

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Speaker 1: Of our business, but I want to give advice to

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Speaker 1: to the to the listener person. So you said that

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Speaker 1: you ventured this lifestyle with this man, but you no

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Speaker 1: longer feel romanticized.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't do anything nice to you for you. He

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Speaker 2: doesn't court you.

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Speaker 1: There's no flowers, there's no and he almost is punishing

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Speaker 1: you because of what you did in high school.

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Speaker 2: I would say this, whether the sex is.

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Speaker 1: Good or not, if you guys are in a relationship

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Speaker 1: or in some level of co parenting or a situationship,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, there's absolutely no way that you should

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Speaker 1: keep bringing other people into the relationship without you getting

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Speaker 1: that bare minimum of feeling validated or loved by him.

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Speaker 2: And if he's not going to do.

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Speaker 1: The small things like make you feel loved even if

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Speaker 1: you don't love your ass, you shouldn't be out here

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Speaker 1: giving him all of these fantasies and doing all of

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Speaker 1: those things. They're not already having a baby shit and

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Speaker 1: did so honestly. Then if he's not getting over it

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Speaker 1: and he's not doing the work too, the relationship is dead,

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Speaker 1: sis and you should move on and stop sucking your

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Speaker 1: baby daddy.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's what we're gonna go with every time. Stop

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Speaker 3: sucking your bay daddy. Stop sucking your baby dady. But

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Speaker 3: it sounds like it's not and down bitch. And thank

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Speaker 3: you so much everyone for listening to another episode of

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Speaker 3: this podcast. Whether you're on a couch, have a home,

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Speaker 3: or don't, We're so grateful you listen. Thank you so much,

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