Speaker 1: I've been told, like, listen, there's a lot more famous
Speaker 1: people than you that could be doing this. But I'm
Speaker 1: you're doing this because you work hard. Sure do, Sure do.
Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Pregame Hey Girl Switched it Up this week, Sister, Sister.
Speaker 2: For those of you that didn't get a chance to listen,
Speaker 2: Aaron and I had our whole show this week on
Speaker 2: our experience in London going to the Taylor Swift concert.
Speaker 2: It was amazing. If you didn't get a chance to
Speaker 2: listen to that, and you care, that is what the
Speaker 2: big show was about this week. But for those of
Speaker 2: you that just want us in smaller doses, we will
Speaker 2: give you your normal pregame questions where you guys submit them.
Speaker 2: We always love it anonymous, but also we've got to
Speaker 2: figure out how to follow up with anonymous, because we
Speaker 2: sometimes start.
Speaker 3: Following up with us.
Speaker 2: It's a great question. Actually, you're right. The onus is
Speaker 2: on you, guys. We have follow up questions to some
Speaker 2: of these anonymous, But let's see what this week has
Speaker 2: in store for us. Right off the bat, Anonymous, my
Speaker 2: ex got out of a cab and never looked back,
Speaker 2: block me on everything together for four years, never heard
Speaker 2: from him again. Do I date again? Oh sister, Well,
Speaker 2: first of all, I'm so need a minute. Yeah, do
Speaker 2: you date again? Absolutely? You date again, because that can't
Speaker 2: be your last experience on this earth. Is having your
Speaker 2: ex get out of a cab and I don't know
Speaker 2: what happened, but it sounds like that person did you
Speaker 2: a massive favor. Because if that person, after four years,
Speaker 2: could get out of a cab and never look back,
Speaker 2: it's not the person that you thought he was him
Speaker 2: or her to got to.
Speaker 1: Be honest, that's a him problem. That's not a you problem. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's him her problem.
Speaker 3: That's not a problem.
Speaker 2: And do I date again? Yes? You absolutely date again.
Speaker 2: I've talked about it at nauseum. I've been scorned in
Speaker 2: relationships and I think that, uh, just as a forever romantic,
Speaker 2: like you know, a hopeful optimist when it comes to romance. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you date again. You just need a minute. And then
Speaker 2: you should ask that person do they take cabs? Because
Speaker 2: why is he not in an uber? No, I'm kidding,
Speaker 2: You'll be okay, just maybe he's in London, there was
Speaker 2: any uber? That's true? What do you think about that,
Speaker 2: I just.
Speaker 3: Listen.
Speaker 1: Any sort of rejection heartbreak is so hard to deal
Speaker 1: with and see clarity in the moment. Right it's just like,
Speaker 1: why me? Why is this happening to me? Why does
Speaker 1: this keep happening? It will get better. You will feel better.
Speaker 1: It just won't be right away.
Speaker 3: But you could be Tailor's.
Speaker 2: You could be Taylor Swift and crying and saying so
Speaker 2: long London, and then Travis takes you off the stage
Speaker 2: in a cute little skit.
Speaker 1: So it'll get better. You'll be okay, we'll get better.
Speaker 1: It will Madison Lynn fourteen, Where is? Where is your
Speaker 1: favorite place to vacation? Mexico is my kind of go
Speaker 1: to because it's easy for us from Los Angeles. I
Speaker 1: really enjoyed Hawaii. I know you're not a big Hawaii gal.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Bahamas that water Ora.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I do love akabo situation. When I know
Speaker 2: I'm going down there, get to get that Pico de gayo.
Speaker 2: Just I mean it, hits, I love it. It's it's easy.
Speaker 2: Can't do Hawaii. I had really bad experiences in Hawaii,
Speaker 2: got it. Nothing wrong with Hawaii is wrong with my
Speaker 2: own experiences there. Found out a boyfriend was cheating and
Speaker 2: then got engaged to someone I never should have gotten
Speaker 2: engaged you, so you know those aren't good. But yeah, no,
Speaker 2: you know when I say it to that, Aloha in
Speaker 2: mahaalo but very nice people in Hawaii. Sure my favorite
Speaker 2: place to vacation, though, if I have to pick one,
Speaker 2: I really did. I mean long, I can't go a
Speaker 2: lot because it's pricey. But the Amalfi Coast, Oh great,
Speaker 2: she pretty and like just Revella was a town in
Speaker 2: Italy that was so beautiful that I just loved. And
Speaker 2: the history and the cobbos don't the whole thing. So yeah,
Speaker 2: probably the Amalfi Coast Coast or Cabo. I would crush
Speaker 2: them on gueni and clams right now. Oh men, tastes
Speaker 2: like water. Sorry, Hannah Niederman, go ahead, babe. What's the
Speaker 2: correct order makeup, outfit or hair? Oh this is a
Speaker 2: great question. I love this question. I'm going out of
Speaker 2: the shower hair dry my hair. Don't do my hair,
Speaker 2: just dry it so get some of the moistrout. Then
Speaker 2: I start the makeup process because what I don't want
Speaker 2: to do is allocate too much time to the hair
Speaker 2: and then not have any time left from the makeup,
Speaker 2: So do the because worst case scenario, the hair's not dry,
Speaker 2: but you just throw that thing back like I do
Speaker 2: every single day. I need my hair done so bad,
Speaker 2: so hair half hair, makeup, finish on hair, outfit last.
Speaker 2: Can't do the outfit first.
Speaker 1: So I and I also sweating, and I also feel
Speaker 1: like I wrinkle it or get makeup on it if
Speaker 1: I put it on Linen.
Speaker 3: Yes, London, those were cute though, so long London and
Speaker 3: Linden pants exactly. Yeah, I'm bad at all three.
Speaker 1: You know what, I really become a fan of the
Speaker 1: old styling cream pulling back into a slip fun you.
Speaker 2: Can easy, you look great. You have your hair pulled back.
Speaker 2: For those of you that are just listening, Aaron does it.
Speaker 2: It crushes a pulled back. I can't look at this hairline.
Speaker 2: It goes way back, you can. What are you talking about?
Speaker 2: That's a ninety degree situation back there. Nothing that's a
Speaker 2: cola sac. I could play woofle ball back there. That's
Speaker 2: not a.
Speaker 1: Time that I can't have a half down out little
Speaker 1: ensemble you had in your hair for Taylor. Lauren even
Speaker 1: said that looks so good on you. Oh really, No, see,
Speaker 1: I'm just in a weird hair length right now? When
Speaker 1: am I not in a weird hair length? But the
Speaker 1: half up have to Punky Brewster coming at you.
Speaker 3: I loved that show. Brandon the Golden Retriever.
Speaker 1: Shannon Wyse up new dog Mama, congrats tips for training.
Speaker 1: Hobby is leaving it to me and I am loving it.
Speaker 1: I would start early, okay, goh, start early. I mean
Speaker 1: the biggest thing we found with Howie was and my
Speaker 1: mom kind of instilled this in us, taking him out
Speaker 1: to go potty like every hour, every two hours, so
Speaker 1: we never went in the house.
Speaker 3: We got really really lucky with.
Speaker 1: Howie in terms of like he didn't he doesn't eat shoes,
Speaker 1: he ate a couple of base boards, floorboards, whatever. But
Speaker 1: he was pretty good in the house, he really was.
Speaker 1: But I would start early, and I would definitely ask
Speaker 1: for recommendations with your friends in your area or neighbors
Speaker 1: on a good dog trainer.
Speaker 2: Very I like those a lot. Mine was also create
Speaker 2: training was really important different when you that was I
Speaker 2: say that for Willis who I got as a puppy.
Speaker 2: I could do it when you get a puppy or
Speaker 2: a dog later, like for Daisy, I didn't get heruntil
Speaker 2: she was three four, or my other dog's at the ranch,
Speaker 2: like I just I mean, they have had no training
Speaker 2: because they're ranch drugs, so they're all different. But I
Speaker 2: would just say if you were starting from a puppy
Speaker 2: and you can create train because it becomes their safe space.
Speaker 2: And then like when you leave and you go to dinner,
Speaker 2: you don't mind if they're in there for five hours
Speaker 2: or six hours max. Be my time allotment there because
Speaker 2: they like to be safe for them. That's where they
Speaker 2: like take a nap. Like even the dogs at the
Speaker 2: ranch that like run around all day long. Sometimes I'll
Speaker 2: put them in a crate just because they're out all
Speaker 2: night and then during the day like any sound they hear,
Speaker 2: those like babies are never sleeping like without interruptions. So
Speaker 2: crate training and don't feel bad because they like that
Speaker 2: little safe house space.
Speaker 1: That's a good point. My mom was really big on
Speaker 1: the crate training. That's a great point.
Speaker 2: Corney Rice five, what are your favorite places for a girls'
Speaker 2: night out in La We are kind of I'll just
Speaker 2: speak in generalities because I'm not really good with like
Speaker 2: specific restaurants and we aren't as consistent with like, oh,
Speaker 2: we're always meeting at this place. I think it's just
Speaker 2: any place that has like a good bar scene. Oh,
Speaker 2: we talked about we love Houston's. You love a place
Speaker 2: like that. We need more Houston's in our area. But
Speaker 2: like any place that has a good bar scene or
Speaker 2: what else do we like? We like a place that
Speaker 2: has a TV because if there's a game on, we
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, I don't know. I'm so not in
Speaker 2: La like trendy spot person.
Speaker 3: I know, I know I'm not either.
Speaker 1: Just give me a TV, give me a margarita, and
Speaker 1: not too loud.
Speaker 3: So I can talk to my friends. I loved that
Speaker 3: bar in London that was such a nice bar.
Speaker 2: Thought, oh my god, shout out to Rosewood, the Rosewood Hotel,
Speaker 2: the bar there was. I'm not going to get it right,
Speaker 2: Scarfs bar, Is that right? I mean we went to
Speaker 2: it every night. Why you should know. Although that was
Speaker 2: good and.
Speaker 1: The singers and we were thinking and Whitney Houston, that
Speaker 1: was so good.
Speaker 2: I love a live band and nothing. I'm sure they
Speaker 2: hate nothing more than getting requests from people. But I
Speaker 2: was like, if you can give me a little Whitney Houston,
Speaker 2: I'll make it worth your while. And I kept hinting
Speaker 2: at the hundred dollars I had on the piano. But
Speaker 2: live music. I could sit there. We did that on
Speaker 2: our last night there and just listen. It was so great. Yes,
Speaker 2: if you're in London the Rosewood Hotel, Jaws, I'm thirty one.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, no, I'm sorry. Go ahead, I jumped you,
Speaker 2: elof what.
Speaker 3: Are your Oh you did it? Sorry elf?
Speaker 1: Favorite summertime beverages skinny Margarita'm not too sweet, not too spicy,
Speaker 1: So I guess I'm Meg Ryan.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I always have a problem with it. I have
Speaker 3: a problem.
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of drinks I like. And
Speaker 1: that was a big number one trip because these guys
Speaker 1: are so adventurous. They love all these different drinks full trime,
Speaker 1: and I'm like boring over here, boring, Betty, No, I'm
Speaker 1: not boring.
Speaker 2: You just know what you like. I yeah, I'll try anything, obviously.
Speaker 2: I at one point on the menu just closed my
Speaker 2: eyes and pointed at something and they brought us that one.
Speaker 2: It was good, it was sweet. I mean, I wouldn't
Speaker 2: do it again, but I would say consistently, my high Daisy,
Speaker 2: my consistent summertime drink apparol sprits or Jared's gotten me
Speaker 2: into the Mohedo. He ordered that, and now I am
Speaker 2: in a Moheed Mohedo crushed eye situation, Snap snap snacks
Speaker 2: a really great so good yeah. And next we've got
Speaker 2: jos And thirty one. What are some tips you would
Speaker 2: give someone who wants to start a new business? Start
Speaker 2: a business? I heard something today from Sarah Blakely, who
Speaker 2: is uber successful. She started spanks and she is just amazing.
Speaker 2: I saw a clip of hers that it didn't become
Speaker 2: legal for a woman to get a business loan on
Speaker 2: her own without a man until nineteen eighty eight. Do
Speaker 2: you know how gnarly that is nineteen eighty eight it
Speaker 2: took that long for women to be allowed to get
Speaker 2: a business loan without a man. Hello, that is like yesterday,
Speaker 2: nineteen eighty eight. I say this all to say kudos
Speaker 2: whoever it is that wrote in that you want to
Speaker 2: start a business, because first the tips that I would say,
Speaker 2: Joslyn thirty one, you little cutie, make sure you're passionate
Speaker 2: about it, because girl, you are going to spend a
Speaker 2: lot of time and probably a decent amount of cash
Speaker 2: getting this thing going. And there's going to be many nights.
Speaker 2: I remember like sitting here at this dining room table
Speaker 2: that I'm sitting at right now, like crying at three
Speaker 2: in the morning, trying to start house and home and
Speaker 2: sitting there by myself and doing it. And I know
Speaker 2: you have this tenfold with WHERE, but make sure it's
Speaker 2: something that you really are passionate about. And then also
Speaker 2: as your company grows, ask questions to people around you
Speaker 2: who know more than you, and don't be afraid to
Speaker 2: ask those questions to those people because they'll help you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, patients have patients lean on others. I think that
Speaker 1: was the biggest thing with WHERE. And I'm still learning
Speaker 1: and trying to lean on others. I didn't go to
Speaker 1: school for this. I don't know how to do this.
Speaker 1: I just know that there was a need for it.
Speaker 1: I knew that there was a white space for it.
Speaker 1: I thought everything would come all at once. Face it's
Speaker 1: a no brainer idea. So why isn't there success?
Speaker 3: Right away?
Speaker 1: Realize that there's going to be a lot more challenges
Speaker 1: and hurdles than there is success. The people that kind
Speaker 1: of hang in there are the ones that do have
Speaker 1: this six it doesn't happen overnight. And I know that's
Speaker 1: so cliche and annoying to hear, but it doesn't. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of people that are going to say that
Speaker 1: they could do it and try to act like they
Speaker 1: can sit back and watch, and there's gonna.
Speaker 2: Be like, that's a really great point.
Speaker 3: Yeah, really shitty comments about it.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I've been told like, listen, there's a
Speaker 1: lot more famous people than you that could be doing this,
Speaker 1: but I'm you know you're doing this because you work hard,
Speaker 1: Sure do, Sure do?
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think that's a great point though, that
Speaker 2: you bring up about. I mean a lot of those
Speaker 2: are good points, but even just that idea where when
Speaker 2: you look around and you're like, wait, this didn't exist
Speaker 2: or to this extent, so why isn't it doing well?
Speaker 2: Like just not knowing if that immediate success is going
Speaker 2: to happen and not giving up on it. I'm reminding
Speaker 2: myself of that daily. Last but not least girl, Callie
Speaker 2: Kristen d no question, but wanted to.
Speaker 3: Tell you that your boss babe energy has really helped me.
Speaker 2: Oh it's very that is very sweet. And along those
Speaker 2: lines with that submission, standby please because I'm home now
Speaker 2: and I want to say this.
Speaker 3: I want to give a shout out.
Speaker 2: Oh I love it too, Hannah from Earthly Threads. I
Speaker 2: came home to a package that you sent us from
Speaker 2: for Calm Down and Earthly thread Threads. Earthly Threads is
Speaker 2: a family run business from Michigan and their mission is
Speaker 2: to create high quality products from ethically sourced materials. And
Speaker 2: we believe that you should never have to compromise on
Speaker 2: comfort or on style. So there's lounge wear and there's
Speaker 2: bamboo betting that she included in this package. I also
Speaker 2: have a bunch of stuff that she included for you
Speaker 2: and for Mac in this big package. But Hannah, I
Speaker 2: got to tell you it brought tears to my eyes
Speaker 2: and I will get emotional thinking of about it again
Speaker 2: in this message, and I would like to just read it,
Speaker 2: and I hope you don't mind if I share this,
Speaker 2: but I want Aaron to hear it because she hasn't
Speaker 2: heard it yet. A small personal note. My name is
Speaker 2: Hannah and I help run the social media accounts at
Speaker 2: Earthly Threads. My husband and I have big, big, big
Speaker 2: big fans of you and Aaron for many years. I'm
Speaker 2: a faithful Calm Down listener every week. Thank you so
Speaker 2: much for your humor, honesty, and vulnerability. Your work ethic
Speaker 2: and motto of say yes and figure it out later
Speaker 2: when presented with an opportunity has inspired me and has
Speaker 2: completely shifted my career. So thank you for your impact
Speaker 2: that you've had on my life. Knock it off, Hannah,
Speaker 2: I can't even take it. And that is so sweet,
Speaker 2: and I hope that you're okay with me passing along
Speaker 2: that sweet note that you wrote, and thank you for
Speaker 2: all the goodies erin. You're going to love this stuff.
Speaker 2: It's amazing. But I think that there's just it can't
Speaker 2: be overstated that and we got to meet some of
Speaker 2: you guys in London, people that listen to the podcast.
Speaker 2: How much we appreciate you. And I know sometimes we
Speaker 2: ramble and we don't even know what we're saying, but
Speaker 2: if it makes any bit of impact in your life,
Speaker 2: thank you and thank you for passing along that note.
Speaker 2: I appreciate it and the earthly the read's good. So
Speaker 2: with that, thank you guys for going on our London
Speaker 2: journey with us.
Speaker 3: It was so fun.
Speaker 2: Taylor Swift, thank you for bringing joy to everyone. I
Speaker 2: wish I could write you a thousand letters like that,
Speaker 2: and anyone else that has had the opportunity to go
Speaker 2: to your concerts I know feels the same. And even
Speaker 2: if you haven't had a chance to go to a concert,
Speaker 2: just by proxy, she makes the world a better place.
Speaker 2: My gal over there is busy, busy, busy on the
Speaker 2: road doing things, so we will get a recap of
Speaker 2: all things back in our normal lives.
Speaker 3: My kid is turning one this week.
Speaker 2: I know Macaroon has already won. When did that happen?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: We were in London. No, no, no, it's this week.
Speaker 2: Maxwell. I can't wait for your birthday party. I love
Speaker 2: you all right, sister, I love you so much, so
Speaker 2: much fun.
Speaker 3: Thank you guys for going on the adventure with us. Yeah.
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