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Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation. You guys familiar with Cam Newton?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, former NFL quarterback. I wish I wasn't.

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Speaker 2: He's saying a couple of different things here that don't

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Speaker 2: connect for me, And I don't know when I the

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Speaker 2: last couple of weeks. I guess I've been so woke.

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Speaker 2: You know I've been so woke? Is No, I don't

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Speaker 2: think it's wold. I think I'm an evolved human being.

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Speaker 2: My perspective change, But you know, I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: call it out like I always have, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: call this out too. That's growth, baby, Cam Newton? Why

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Speaker 2: I guess I never didn't call it out, but I

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Speaker 2: think my motivations have changed over the twenty five years

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Speaker 2: I've been doing this.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I don't like a double standard. It's rough here, man,

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Speaker 1: we need to hear he is.

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Speaker 2: He says a woman's value is lowered the more children

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Speaker 2: she has, and reveals then here's the other part of

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Speaker 2: this though, that he reveals he once told one of

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Speaker 2: his baby moms that if a man she's dating isn't

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Speaker 2: willing to love her and her five kids, that man's

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Speaker 2: not for her. Well that's a sweet sentiment, because that's

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Speaker 2: absolutely true.

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Speaker 1: But her value is no less.

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Speaker 2: No. I think maybe I know what he's trying to

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Speaker 2: say and isn't articulate enough to say.

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Speaker 1: But listen, this is my question. Do you feel like

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Speaker 1: women's value gets lowered when they have multiple children by

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Speaker 1: multiple men?

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Speaker 3: I just think that the reality of that answer is

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Speaker 3: women's value get lowered the more children that.

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Speaker 1: They have have.

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Speaker 2: Break that down, because break that down, breaking it down, Oh,

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Speaker 2: break it down?

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Speaker 1: Like is he encouraging this?

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Speaker 3: And I was having this conversation, you know, with one

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Speaker 3: of the mother of my children, and.

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Speaker 1: She's still fine.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying but like I was telling her,

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Speaker 3: I was like, Yo, the guy that you're dating or

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Speaker 3: will it date if he ain't willing to love on

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Speaker 3: these five children that you have, that didn't the guy

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Speaker 3: for you. Well, that's true because when I came into

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Speaker 3: your life, I was willing to accept you and whatever

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Speaker 3: you had. And there's the guys that's out there that's

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Speaker 3: just going to say, my kids, I want you. Well,

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Speaker 3: that ain't how it work.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now, that's so.

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Speaker 2: I think what he's trying to say is that if

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Speaker 2: you have children, then your life that maybe that maybe

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Speaker 2: not every man the same way that not every woman

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Speaker 2: wants to date a guy who has kids or has

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Speaker 2: been divorced or whatever it is, whatever your standard is,

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Speaker 2: whatever you're sort of looking for. I think what he's

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Speaker 2: saying is like, maybe the dating pool is different if

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Speaker 2: you come to the table with a kid, because you're

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Speaker 2: now asking for somebody who wants a kid and wants

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Speaker 2: to include a kid and treat a child as if

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Speaker 2: that child is his own or her own in the case.

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Speaker 2: You know, for example, my parents got divorced when I

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Speaker 2: was very young, and my mom dated a man, married him,

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Speaker 2: he adopted, he adopted me, and He adopted my sister

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Speaker 2: when we each turned eighteen, and he raised us and

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Speaker 2: he treated us from day one like we were his.

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Speaker 2: That's a special guy. That's not every guy, not every person.

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Speaker 2: So part of what he said I understand, like not

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Speaker 2: every guy is going to look at you and say

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Speaker 2: I embrace all of you everything that comes with it,

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Speaker 2: your kids, your exes, everything, as if it's my problem

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Speaker 2: now and and my benefit. Right you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm taking it all on as these are equal.

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Speaker 2: Not every guys going to do that. That's fair, but

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Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with the value of a woman.

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Speaker 4: Though I tuned out when he said hierarchy, Like that

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Speaker 4: was an automatic tune out, Like what are you talking about? Hierarchy?

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Speaker 4: No one's higher than anyone else. I don't like that, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's different today.

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Speaker 1: We all know that. We don't need Cam Newton to

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Speaker 1: explain that. If you're a single mom.

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Speaker 5: My thing is he has nine children, I believe, with

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Speaker 5: like four or five baby mamas.

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Speaker 1: Right, So what's what's your value? Right?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: So what's your value? What are you going for?

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Speaker 2: How many people are looking at you and going this

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Speaker 2: this looks like something I would love.

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Speaker 1: To engage in right exactly.

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Speaker 2: So you know, if you want to make right, if

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Speaker 2: you're going to make this a value proposition, I value

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Speaker 2: is the wrong word. If what he's trying to say

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Speaker 2: is there aren't as many men out there who are

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Speaker 2: willing to be the family guy that you need because

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Speaker 2: you're a family person, because you're a mother. In this example,

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Speaker 2: that's one thing, because he's probably right. You know, if

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Speaker 2: you have five children and you're and some bachelor walks along,

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Speaker 2: he may or may not be invested in you and

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Speaker 2: five children as much as he is in you, and

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Speaker 2: he needs to be.

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Speaker 1: That's part of the deal. But but that's nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with value.

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Speaker 4: That says the same with all these yeah I don't

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Speaker 4: yeah right, So I would love to, you know, ask

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Speaker 4: him the same question, like, okay, what's your value?

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Speaker 1: Like, sir with nine children? Now, I know you're rich,

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Speaker 1: but hey, I bet I know.

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Speaker 5: But you know, for a lot of people to have

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Speaker 5: kids out here, there are stepparents, man, The stepparents are popping.

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Speaker 5: The stepparents. It's a lot of stepdaddy's out here, ready

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Speaker 5: and willing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, And they're special people, stepmom stepdads people who

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Speaker 2: are willing.

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Speaker 1: Now he keeps using the word willing. It's not the

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Speaker 1: right word.

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Speaker 2: But people who are saying that whatever whatever comes with

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Speaker 2: the person I fell in love with, whatever, whatever that is, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I take that on his mind and I embrace it

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Speaker 2: his mind, and I show the same love and the

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Speaker 2: same attention and the same dedication that I because that's

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Speaker 2: a part of you, whatever it is, kids or otherwise,

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Speaker 2: that's a special person. And there are fewer people out

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Speaker 2: there than the dude who just wants to date you

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Speaker 2: in hit right, like sure, but it has nothing to

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Speaker 2: do with value, And I don't know I like it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And as a person with kid I don't have children,

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Speaker 5: But if a person with children, you should be more

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Speaker 5: choosy and the partners you allow around. So you shouldn't

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Speaker 5: just be looking for any and everybody. You have to

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Speaker 5: be more choosy about who you accept.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like you need to hold yourself at a

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Speaker 1: higher value. Absolutely the value is up.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I don't like him, So I think I

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Speaker 2: think I know what maybe he was trying to say,

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Speaker 2: But like we need better words, bro, we got to

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Speaker 2: use wrongs.

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Speaker 4: Get platonic or like remember how he said you can't

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Speaker 4: be friends with a woman platonic. Yeah, he's got a

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Speaker 4: lot of take the microwave, take over your mouth.

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Speaker 1: You're so cute and you ruin it every time. House.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think people should be assessing other people's value globally,

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Speaker 2: you know, based on anything like how were you to say? Again,

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Speaker 2: I don't think that was the right word, and I

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Speaker 2: don't he said two completely different things, and so I'm

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Speaker 2: going to go with the second. And why am I

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Speaker 2: trying to do this? Blogs and waiting by the phone. Next,

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