WEBVTT - Episode 456: Longest One Night Stand (Feat. Vedo & Sha) 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.680 What it's lip service. I'm Angela Yee. 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:09.160 I'm Laura Ramia, I'm Jeordie George, I'm Beato, I'm lyrically sh. 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:12.039 Okay, by the way, a married couple on that side 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.600 of the couch. You know what I mean? You know, 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:19.280 let me see, but bam it up again. 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:24.520 And the watches little so we gotta gotta match the two. 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:26.840 You gotta kind of let go together. You know. 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.240 Our producer Dan, he's engaged and he was talking about 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.839 picking out his fiance's ring. Did you have input on 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:35.400 what ring I would want? 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:36.120 I did? 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.559 It was I think it was mostly like the like 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:40.639 the diamond on top of the pair shaped diamond that 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:41.960 she wanted to have. 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:45.519 Everything else was kind of like, hey, let me get creative. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:48.239 I had got to have some type of originality to 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:48.879 it myself. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:50.200 Surprise. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:52.600 Yeah, I'm surprised. So definitely has some input. But I 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:52.879 took it. 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:53.960 She get me a little bit and I took it 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:57.000 and ran with it. Okay designed it and me and 0:00:57.040 --> 0:00:58.840 my jeweler we designed it together. But I came up 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:00.800 with some of it. Yeah, little custom joint. 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:03.520 What about his ring? So how does that work? 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:06.480 It was very much pustom. No idea how it was 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:10.920 gonna look, it was supposed to spin, actually if you can, Yeah, 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:12.119 this part was supposed to spend. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:16.640 Yeah's supposed to spin. I'm like, I'm like, that's too much. 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:19.800 Your anniversary something. 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:20.280 Yeah. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:22.360 Yeah. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:24.720 The more I wear it now though, it's like, let 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:28.080 it's not. It's already doing a lot, just add add 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:28.479 the spin. 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:30.520 It's like, come on, let's keep it simple. 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:33.400 That's how you said women are not deterred by the wedding. 0:01:33.160 --> 0:01:34.520 Ring, right at all? 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:38.480 Right, yeah, sped into that if I see somebody with 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:40.880 a wedding ring, that's off limits. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:41.920 Yeah. Absolutely. 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:45.679 It's because a lot of men don't make that the boundary, 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:48.040 and so women think that it's okay and they got 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.160 the green light because it's happened before you know. Or 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:54.200 they'll be like, oh I'm separated, Like it's very rare 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.960 that I feel like a man will stand ten toes 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:58.560 down on his actual marriage. 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.120 They should be like, bag, that's that's how I am. 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.640 I was like, listen, if I'm scared of anything, I'm 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.280 scared of God, Like that's something you just can't break 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:11.200 that bond, that promise, so leave me alone. 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.160 Yeah, now you said, and you guys were together for 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:15.280 how long was it? 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:20.040 Thirteen twenty? 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:24.919 We met and we started fourteen, but then ten years 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:25.880 later you got married. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:26.680 So why did you? 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:28.520 What made y'all decide? Because you have a darted to 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:31.240 who's for? But what made y'all say, okay, now is 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:31.680 the time? 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:33.640 That's some good questions? 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.440 Well, well it was. 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:39.040 It was more so man kind of like we we met, 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:41.280 we were young, we were kids, we were just having 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:43.600 fun and it started getting serious. 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:45.960 Obviously, I'm not getting married. I didn't have any. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:49.160 Money back then, you had no motion going on. And 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:51.200 the more I got to know her, it was more 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:52.760 so like when if I did do it, I got 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:55.280 to really do it the right way. I had to grow. 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:59.200 I had to grow spiritually, mentally, I had to become 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:02.399 more of a man. And just to do that, she's 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:03.679 definitely started putting pressure on me. 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:07.480 After a while, they didn't move it. We didn't left 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:08.520 together the whole entire time. 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:10.359 Yeah, we just we just started. We've only been living 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.440 there about three years now, yeah. 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:13.200 Four years. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:14.880 But you know what, that's the right way to do it. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.600 Sometimes people jump into things, Oh you know what guys 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:19.440 would do to They'll mess up and then think let 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:23.440 me propose went out apology. 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:25.880 Yeah. Another thing for me, man, is you know I 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:28.080 wanted to we had a baby. 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:29.679 I first dore her out of the way a lot, 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.880 a beautiful daughter, but I wanted to see if she 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:32.520 was a good mom. 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:36.000 He sat to me the other day, I want to 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:37.280 I want to. 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:40.600 Tell you, Yeah, I want to see if she was 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.280 a good mom, because if you're a good mom, you 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.960 can be a good wife. If you was a good dad, 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.160 and after after Caden, that's a good one. After Caden, 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:52.640 she started like, yo, what we're doing, Like what we're doing? 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:53.119 What we're doing? 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:55.560 So yeah, I think it was just time and perfect time. 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:58.680 And I truly feel that way. If you if you're 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:00.560 not willing to make a sacrifice to a good mother 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:02.880 or father, you're not gonna make a sacrifice to be 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:03.960 a good husband and wife. 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:09.120 Now you guys met through music, right, Yeah, yeah, So 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:10.120 tell us about. 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:23.000 That up she you know, I peoped it was. 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.040 It was like at a forget what it was called 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:27.680 or something like that back in the day, back in 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:29.640 that line. It was a gold room. It was an 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:30.760 event going on there. 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:31.200 And she was there. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.400 I was there with my manager at the time, role 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:35.400 and she was there with one of her friends, and 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.320 I just I peeped her just doing her thing after 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:39.880 they had they was kicking it, just politicking, and I'm 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.120 off the rip. The chocolate caught my eye. I'm like, 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.760 I'm like, no, you don't listen. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:45.600 I'm just running through. 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:49.960 So the chocolate come out. Man. And you know, me 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.760 being me, being an R and B singer, somebody, I 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:55.200 had a little confidence back there. So you know, I 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:58.600 put I rolled down and she ain't gonna lie, she 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:01.680 swore me. She's straight like she she was smiling while 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:03.120 she did it though. That's why I knew I still 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:03.679 had a chance. 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:05.599 Yeah, because it wasn't. 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.880 Like no nigga. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:11.599 And fast forward. I didn't get her number. I did 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:14.679 get her YouTube page though, leave a comment. 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:15.240 I'm in there. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:17.599 I'm in there, I say, YouTube page, I'm in there. 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:18.880 Fast forward. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:22.200 We met again at at at an event at Justin's 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.080 and we just connected from then, but she still didn't 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:29.840 give me a play. She was connected from music, okay, 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:33.919 you yeah, we connected from music, so you know you 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:34.640 had a guy. 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:39.200 You got a man. Also, so many songs earlier songs 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:40.280 might have been about. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:41.640 Her, absolutely, yeah for sure. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:46.120 Wow. So you was telling her listen, leave him alone. 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.600 I was planning the seeds from day one. I was like, man, 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.760 my boy, you bet not letting. You better not let 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:51.239 it slip. 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:52.559 How did he slip? 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:52.800 Up? 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:54.640 Cheated? He cheated up? 0:05:55.320 --> 0:06:01.400 Of course and right there he cheated. Did you say, 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:04.080 let me double back? And you know we had a 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.679 little chemistry. Let me let me open that door. 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:09.839 And so what was the first date? 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:19.640 Oh wow, well we went to Applebee's something, but no, 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:23.039 we had the best time. The chemistry was like everything 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:24.479 I was. 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:25.920 Did you get dessert? 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:26.600 We did? 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:35.800 We got it all for twenty It was. It was good. 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:38.919 Shout out to applebee You know they did a study 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.200 and they said I think they said for people on 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:43.680 death Brow, the number one choice for their last mental 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:49.000 was you know, I've never had Applebee's, never had Applebee's. 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:53.599 Chili's was mine chili and t g I Friday? 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:54.640 I picked, I pick. 0:06:55.640 --> 0:07:01.240 I've never tried Tuesday. You have never been there either. 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:06.880 This is amazing, though, Clo covid really to some people up. 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:11.239 And you know what Olive garden. Oh yeah, people sleep 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:14.400 on garden and got great like bottomless salad. 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:18.920 I think it ain't no Corabas, but it's it's cool. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:20.040 Carabas is better. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:26.560 I'm thinking of my piano's. 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:30.960 Oh, I like though they got cool, but I'm. 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:33.000 Gonna let my favorite out of all of those places. 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:34.240 It's PF chained. 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:42.280 Cheese day, the lettuce wrap with the ice cream. 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:44.480 Oh my god, so good, change your life? 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:45.880 All right, I'm sorry, we got here. 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.360 Let's food already. 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:49.520 All right? 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:51.800 So app was the first date and then after that 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:53.160 it was a nice connection. 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:54.160 Thought that. 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:58.280 She definitely made me wait, I ain't gonna lie to you. 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.480 This is that's one thing I respected it by her. 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:02.280 At least you didn't chat on her man, because. 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:05.960 If you're not, if you want to call the texting 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:12.720 and you know, conversing cheating, who's texting? 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:10.880 What? 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.920 I was him? He was texting me. He was persistent. 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:22.239 He was like, good morning morning, this morning. 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.320 Sorry, can you please stop calling me sweetheart? 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:26.680 He didn't do all that, but he was like, good morning, 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.440 did you eat? How are you? I'm like, and I 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:29.240 was forving. 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.680 Him, Okay, were you saying good morning back or just 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:32.360 sometimes yeah? 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:33.520 Like what was your responses? 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:35.359 I was replying. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:43.760 There as somebody who's in there in the field, So 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:47.000 you know, it could be. But okay, so now be honest. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.000 Did you think you were kind of attacted to him? 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:52.880 But you knew you were in a situation for sure? 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.480 Okay, for sure. 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:56.719 You leave the little window. 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:59.920 Open elaborate ya, did you? 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:02.199 Yeah? 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.440 Actually, you know what? It was like half and half 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:08.320 because I was like, Okay, he looked good, he's amazing, 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:10.959 But I have a man, so I didn't look that deep. 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:14.360 I didn't dive too deep into Okay, damn, I really 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:17.360 want him. It was more so, let's do music together, 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:18.680 and I tell him that. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:20.640 It was Yeah, that has to be tough to do 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:23.800 music with somebody you're attracted to, Yeah, because you know 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:25.560 it's already going to be like a little bit of 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:27.160 a vibe doing something together. 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.840 But then when you already are kind of like you. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:30.400 Kind of like. 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:39.360 If i'd got in the booth, it'd been wrapped, little buddy, does. 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.439 That mean the sound you got it was that about shot? 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:43.640 It was yeah, she was she inspired up. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:45.160 Yeah, that was a time. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.560 That was the time during COVID too, where you know, 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:50.880 she's a she's in the field of a service industry, 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.360 so at the time, you like, can't go to work, 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:56.120 can't go in can't be around people. She was pregnant, 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.839 and obviously things were slow for a lot of people, 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:01.960 and I was like, you got it, No worry about it, 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:03.160 You'd be right, you know what I mean. And it 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:05.559 was kind of like my way of creating a song 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:07.160 for her to listen to over and over and over, 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:10.120 because that's the best way to break through to a person. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.200 It's for them to hear it repeatedly, repeatedly. You got 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.559 it all right, Now covid is over, It's time to 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:16.040 boss up. 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:16.600 That's dope. 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.199 Yeah, like, oh yeah, they're back, we're back outside. It's 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.319 time to boss up. You gotta come up with a 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:26.800 plan because this may happen again. And now yeah, about 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:29.920 to be another lot, right, that's why everybody's going so 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:31.440 hard though, But that's sometimes that's. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:32.520 What the world needs. 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:35.680 A reset, like y'all to y'all too comfortable, y'all needed, 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:37.800 y'all need to do more to where if something like 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:40.920 this happened, you still you're still good because the internet 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:42.880 didn't shut down right at all. 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:47.439 As a matter of fact, that. 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:47.400 Yeah, that's when it went viral. 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:50.280 Everybody was at home listening to it and and they're like, yo, 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:52.760 this song has inspired me so crazy, and it was 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:56.199 literally inspiration for her, but it ended up being inspiration for. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:59.560 That's how you should be because sometimes when things aren't 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:03.440 going well, you be stuck music and you need motivation 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:05.360 to be like, you need to do this. Come on, 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:08.240 let's get your life together. Let's handle all these things 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:09.640 you know you need to handle for yourself. 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:10.640 Let's be more prepared. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:11.520 Yeah, next time. 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:14.840 Entertainment industry, you just never know. You're only as good 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:17.439 as your next gig. And when you don't know what 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.199 that is, that imposter syndrome is going to come up. 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:23.400 And it's like you need everybody in your camp empowering 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:26.040 you when you can't even empower yourself. So I felt 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.040 like that was a very powerful song and thank you 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:30.880 women's empowerment to earlier. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:34.520 Yeah, and it was easy for me because I'm independent. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:39.080 So my streams went up three hundred and fifty percent, so. 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:44.520 I'm start to soup. 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.680 I'm like, yo, yeah, that's what I'm like, it's the 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:49.199 reason I'm telling you you good. 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:53.439 No, it was like it was one of those things. 0:11:53.520 --> 0:11:56.280 It was easy for me to get through it through 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.400 it like that because I knew I knew what was 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.360 coming and I see, I seen a numbers. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.480 I've seen the amount of money that was being generated 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:06.600 on a daily basis. So I'm like, oh, yeah, we're good. 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.920 What did tiny desks do for you too? Talk about 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:10.360 that day? 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:11.680 It's crazy. 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:15.560 Tiny Desk was actually a scary moment because we didn't 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:17.600 rehearse for that particular stage. 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:21.240 We rehearsed for parrals something in the water festival. 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:22.400 That got cancer. 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.560 Well no, not not that, not that we did it, 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:28.360 but it was scary because you know, Eric and I 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.560 we we were rehearsing for something in the water. We 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:35.560 think we're goinna be on the stage, crowd screaming, we 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:39.240 whatever we on the day up. Oh, by the way, 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:43.480 we're gonna stop over here at n PR. 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.560 We're gonna do We're gonna do tiny desks casually. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:46.719 That's not enough of a head. 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:52.240 We don't don't even We ain't got the outfits nothing. 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:54.199 We get that they got the outfits laid out. 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:56.199 I'm like, oh, so y'all playing. 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:59.440 This, that's crazy? Why get your heads up. 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:01.240 Each other? 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:05.920 Like, nigga, you ready, nigga, I take the low. 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:11.080 So we were like, yo, let's do it. 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:12.480 What you're gonna say? You no, you can't say no. 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:13.080 At that point. 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:16.679 It's like, bro, now we didn't rehearse, absolutely not. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.200 But it turned out to be an actual one of 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:22.960 those moments in my career that actually it is still 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:25.800 you know, standing the test of time because we just 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.600 like that happened what two years ago twel years ago 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.160 and people still talking about it was one of those 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:33.240 things where people you standing next to the goat one 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:35.720 of the greatest to ever do it and holding your 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:37.800 own So it was like big big shots out to 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:39.959 him too for sharing his light man, because a lot 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:41.720 of artists they don't share their light. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:43.920 They yeah, they gatekeepers. 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:46.480 They scared to share their light because you know, they're 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:47.920 afraid of the next artists. 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:50.520 But you know that's good for him too, like, because 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.640 you want to be able to have dope ass people 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.280 when you're doing something like tiny dask I guess talked 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:58.280 about even more. You know what I mean, it's just 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:00.720 a different look. And I think the real measure of 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:03.240 success is how many people you end up helping. Yeah, 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:06.800 it's not just about you by yourself. It's like, okay, 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:11.560 let's lift everybody up. But on another note, to tap out. 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:21.520 Now that's on the new album the next chapter, and 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:23.520 so we gotta ask. 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:27.240 Y'all some real ship right here? All right? What is Yeah? 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:29.440 We're ready, always ready, Okay, don't you tell? 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:33.880 All right? So tap out is all about like trying 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:36.360 to make her tap out first during sex in a 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:39.640 good way. You know, you want to have her knees trembling, 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:43.680 but sometimes it like backfires on y'all. Uh, and y'all 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:44.080 end up? 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:46.240 Yeah, finish your first. 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.560 Yeah. So talk to me about the inspiration for the 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:50.680 song tap out and what that's like in real life. 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:55.280 Oh man, the inspiration tap out the song, It's plain 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:56.200 and simple. It's what it is. 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:57.880 I'm trying to make you tap out, trying to make 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.600 you get yours off a few times I get mine. 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.840 It's it's a competition in the bed room. It's definitely 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:05.120 a competition, especially on. 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:09.920 Business, especially especially on. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:12.560 Uh you know on days where we go we go 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:14.280 a week or so without without it. 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:17.520 Oh yeah, oh you made me wait Okay, So but yeah, 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:18.680 I mean it's it's good. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:20.920 I think every time we do it, it's not a 0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:23.880 thing that it's just we make love every time. And 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:26.480 that's why I think we kind of take our time 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:29.640 with you know, two three days in between, just to like, 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:30.120 let you. 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.320 Know, let you rebuild, build it back up, because I'm. 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:33.200 Gonna need to make a niece. 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.200 I want I want you to be doing this. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:42.560 I want you to be working, working, all right. 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.160 How we want to hear your side of this. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:46.080 You know when it comes to tapping on, now, if 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:49.320 you have to be honest, who usually taps out first? 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:54.560 Oh? I think it depends no percentage percentage? 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:59.880 Wow, who's the champ here artist? 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:09.320 I was like, I do, he said, but this is 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:11.240 this is crazy right. But let me tell you something. 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:14.360 Over the time, over the time people we've been together, 0:16:14.680 --> 0:16:19.920 I really had to develop that that sense of she 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:21.800 had she had to show. She had to like to 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:29.840 slow down, you're doing to slow down? Hold up, wait nigga. 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:30.440 Yeah. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:33.200 So over time it was more so like it was 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.080 it was a thing with I'm gonna show you, Yeah 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:36.520 you please me, but I'm gonna show you how to 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:39.760 really make sure that I'm I'm pleased at the end. 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:41.360 And it was more so like just a nigga, take 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:45.360 your time what you're rushing for? And yeah, so now 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:46.920 I show both this ship. 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:50.360 Yeah you had a good teacher. 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:59.440 I've been married, no it's actually got. 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:01.920 Yeah, now you know. Now now we do it with 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:04.359 no no guilty conscience. 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:07.280 Oh did y'all really used to feel guilty? 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:08.200 I mean we ain't married. 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:13.320 Yeah, we'll be doing a nasty but now we're married. 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:16.320 So God said it's good now we're married. Now when 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:25.080 you're like, but no, I think it's the same. 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:26.040 I think it's a little more. 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:29.479 I think it's a little more passion maybe now because 0:17:29.560 --> 0:17:31.720 now we're trying for another baby. 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:36.480 So yeah, okay, little brother, she's asking. 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:37.760 She looked she've been asking too. 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:40.840 Yeah, now what about shot? Were there things that you 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:43.960 had to teach her how to do? Because we don't 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:46.679 normally hear that from guys. We always think that guys 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:49.800 just and that's it and they're gonna get there is 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:52.359 no matter what. But what were some things that you 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:54.359 were like, Okay, she got to learn this about me? 0:17:54.720 --> 0:17:57.960 Well, well, I mean, hey, you know, I like me, 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:00.320 I love head. 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:03.719 You know what somethime you gotta get that say that 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:04.760 sometimes you gotta go. 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:07.040 I mean, you gotta get down there. 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:12.720 But it's like different things when it comes to that. 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:14.919 It's not all like on one side. 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:18.159 Yeah, yeah, as you right, And it was more so 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:19.879 it was another thing. It wasn't even something. It was 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:21.960 nothing I needed to really had the teacher. It was 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:25.600 something I had to like let her know that I 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:27.200