Speaker 1: What it's lip service. I'm Angela Yee.
Speaker 2: I'm Laura Ramia, I'm Jeordie George, I'm Beato, I'm lyrically sh.
Speaker 1: Okay, by the way, a married couple on that side
Speaker 1: of the couch. You know what I mean? You know,
Speaker 1: let me see, but bam it up again.
Speaker 3: And the watches little so we gotta gotta match the two.
Speaker 3: You gotta kind of let go together. You know.
Speaker 1: Our producer Dan, he's engaged and he was talking about
Speaker 1: picking out his fiance's ring. Did you have input on
Speaker 1: what ring I would want?
Speaker 4: I did?
Speaker 3: It was I think it was mostly like the like
Speaker 3: the diamond on top of the pair shaped diamond that
Speaker 3: she wanted to have.
Speaker 4: Everything else was kind of like, hey, let me get creative.
Speaker 3: I had got to have some type of originality to
Speaker 3: it myself.
Speaker 1: Surprise.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm surprised. So definitely has some input. But I
Speaker 4: took it.
Speaker 3: She get me a little bit and I took it
Speaker 3: and ran with it. Okay designed it and me and
Speaker 3: my jeweler we designed it together. But I came up
Speaker 3: with some of it. Yeah, little custom joint.
Speaker 5: What about his ring? So how does that work?
Speaker 2: It was very much pustom. No idea how it was
Speaker 2: gonna look, it was supposed to spin, actually if you can, Yeah,
Speaker 2: this part was supposed to spend.
Speaker 4: Yeah's supposed to spin. I'm like, I'm like, that's too much.
Speaker 6: Your anniversary something.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 3: The more I wear it now though, it's like, let
Speaker 3: it's not. It's already doing a lot, just add add
Speaker 3: the spin.
Speaker 4: It's like, come on, let's keep it simple.
Speaker 1: That's how you said women are not deterred by the wedding.
Speaker 4: Ring, right at all?
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, sped into that if I see somebody with
Speaker 1: a wedding ring, that's off limits.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely.
Speaker 9: It's because a lot of men don't make that the boundary,
Speaker 9: and so women think that it's okay and they got
Speaker 9: the green light because it's happened before you know. Or
Speaker 9: they'll be like, oh I'm separated, Like it's very rare
Speaker 9: that I feel like a man will stand ten toes
Speaker 9: down on his actual marriage.
Speaker 4: They should be like, bag, that's that's how I am.
Speaker 3: I was like, listen, if I'm scared of anything, I'm
Speaker 3: scared of God, Like that's something you just can't break
Speaker 3: that bond, that promise, so leave me alone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, now you said, and you guys were together for
Speaker 1: how long was it?
Speaker 4: Thirteen twenty?
Speaker 1: We met and we started fourteen, but then ten years
Speaker 1: later you got married.
Speaker 4: So why did you?
Speaker 1: What made y'all decide? Because you have a darted to
Speaker 1: who's for? But what made y'all say, okay, now is
Speaker 1: the time?
Speaker 2: That's some good questions?
Speaker 4: Well, well it was.
Speaker 3: It was more so man kind of like we we met,
Speaker 3: we were young, we were kids, we were just having
Speaker 3: fun and it started getting serious.
Speaker 4: Obviously, I'm not getting married. I didn't have any.
Speaker 3: Money back then, you had no motion going on. And
Speaker 3: the more I got to know her, it was more
Speaker 3: so like when if I did do it, I got
Speaker 3: to really do it the right way. I had to grow.
Speaker 3: I had to grow spiritually, mentally, I had to become
Speaker 3: more of a man. And just to do that, she's
Speaker 3: definitely started putting pressure on me.
Speaker 2: After a while, they didn't move it. We didn't left
Speaker 2: together the whole entire time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just we just started. We've only been living
Speaker 3: there about three years now, yeah.
Speaker 2: Four years.
Speaker 1: But you know what, that's the right way to do it.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people jump into things, Oh you know what guys
Speaker 1: would do to They'll mess up and then think let
Speaker 1: me propose went out apology.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Another thing for me, man, is you know I
Speaker 4: wanted to we had a baby.
Speaker 3: I first dore her out of the way a lot,
Speaker 3: a beautiful daughter, but I wanted to see if she
Speaker 3: was a good mom.
Speaker 2: He sat to me the other day, I want to
Speaker 2: I want to.
Speaker 3: Tell you, Yeah, I want to see if she was
Speaker 3: a good mom, because if you're a good mom, you
Speaker 3: can be a good wife. If you was a good dad,
Speaker 3: and after after Caden, that's a good one. After Caden,
Speaker 3: she started like, yo, what we're doing, Like what we're doing?
Speaker 4: What we're doing?
Speaker 3: So yeah, I think it was just time and perfect time.
Speaker 3: And I truly feel that way. If you if you're
Speaker 3: not willing to make a sacrifice to a good mother
Speaker 3: or father, you're not gonna make a sacrifice to be
Speaker 3: a good husband and wife.
Speaker 1: Now you guys met through music, right, Yeah, yeah, So
Speaker 1: tell us about.
Speaker 4: That up she you know, I peoped it was.
Speaker 3: It was like at a forget what it was called
Speaker 3: or something like that back in the day, back in
Speaker 3: that line. It was a gold room. It was an
Speaker 3: event going on there.
Speaker 4: And she was there.
Speaker 3: I was there with my manager at the time, role
Speaker 3: and she was there with one of her friends, and
Speaker 3: I just I peeped her just doing her thing after
Speaker 3: they had they was kicking it, just politicking, and I'm
Speaker 3: off the rip. The chocolate caught my eye. I'm like,
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, you don't listen.
Speaker 4: I'm just running through.
Speaker 3: So the chocolate come out. Man. And you know, me
Speaker 3: being me, being an R and B singer, somebody, I
Speaker 3: had a little confidence back there. So you know, I
Speaker 3: put I rolled down and she ain't gonna lie, she
Speaker 3: swore me. She's straight like she she was smiling while
Speaker 3: she did it though. That's why I knew I still
Speaker 3: had a chance.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it wasn't.
Speaker 3: Like no nigga.
Speaker 4: And fast forward. I didn't get her number. I did
Speaker 4: get her YouTube page though, leave a comment.
Speaker 3: I'm in there.
Speaker 4: I'm in there, I say, YouTube page, I'm in there.
Speaker 4: Fast forward.
Speaker 3: We met again at at at an event at Justin's
Speaker 3: and we just connected from then, but she still didn't
Speaker 3: give me a play. She was connected from music, okay,
Speaker 3: you yeah, we connected from music, so you know you
Speaker 3: had a guy.
Speaker 1: You got a man. Also, so many songs earlier songs
Speaker 1: might have been about.
Speaker 4: Her, absolutely, yeah for sure.
Speaker 1: Wow. So you was telling her listen, leave him alone.
Speaker 3: I was planning the seeds from day one. I was like, man,
Speaker 3: my boy, you bet not letting. You better not let
Speaker 3: it slip.
Speaker 5: How did he slip?
Speaker 1: Up?
Speaker 2: Cheated? He cheated up?
Speaker 1: Of course and right there he cheated. Did you say,
Speaker 1: let me double back? And you know we had a
Speaker 1: little chemistry. Let me let me open that door.
Speaker 6: And so what was the first date?
Speaker 2: Oh wow, well we went to Applebee's something, but no,
Speaker 2: we had the best time. The chemistry was like everything
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 1: Did you get dessert?
Speaker 4: We did?
Speaker 2: We got it all for twenty It was. It was good.
Speaker 1: Shout out to applebee You know they did a study
Speaker 1: and they said I think they said for people on
Speaker 1: death Brow, the number one choice for their last mental
Speaker 1: was you know, I've never had Applebee's, never had Applebee's.
Speaker 8: Chili's was mine chili and t g I Friday?
Speaker 2: I picked, I pick.
Speaker 1: I've never tried Tuesday. You have never been there either.
Speaker 3: This is amazing, though, Clo covid really to some people up.
Speaker 1: And you know what Olive garden. Oh yeah, people sleep
Speaker 1: on garden and got great like bottomless salad.
Speaker 3: I think it ain't no Corabas, but it's it's cool.
Speaker 4: Carabas is better.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of my piano's.
Speaker 4: Oh, I like though they got cool, but I'm.
Speaker 5: Gonna let my favorite out of all of those places.
Speaker 1: It's PF chained.
Speaker 8: Cheese day, the lettuce wrap with the ice cream.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, so good, change your life?
Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry, we got here.
Speaker 3: Let's food already.
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: So app was the first date and then after that
Speaker 1: it was a nice connection.
Speaker 5: Thought that.
Speaker 3: She definitely made me wait, I ain't gonna lie to you.
Speaker 3: This is that's one thing I respected it by her.
Speaker 1: At least you didn't chat on her man, because.
Speaker 3: If you're not, if you want to call the texting
Speaker 3: and you know, conversing cheating, who's texting?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 2: I was him? He was texting me. He was persistent.
Speaker 2: He was like, good morning morning, this morning.
Speaker 1: Sorry, can you please stop calling me sweetheart?
Speaker 2: He didn't do all that, but he was like, good morning,
Speaker 2: did you eat? How are you? I'm like, and I
Speaker 2: was forving.
Speaker 5: Him, Okay, were you saying good morning back or just
Speaker 5: sometimes yeah?
Speaker 1: Like what was your responses?
Speaker 2: I was replying.
Speaker 1: There as somebody who's in there in the field, So
Speaker 1: you know, it could be. But okay, so now be honest.
Speaker 1: Did you think you were kind of attacted to him?
Speaker 1: But you knew you were in a situation for sure?
Speaker 2: Okay, for sure.
Speaker 6: You leave the little window.
Speaker 4: Open elaborate ya, did you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Actually, you know what? It was like half and half
Speaker 2: because I was like, Okay, he looked good, he's amazing,
Speaker 2: But I have a man, so I didn't look that deep.
Speaker 2: I didn't dive too deep into Okay, damn, I really
Speaker 2: want him. It was more so, let's do music together,
Speaker 2: and I tell him that.
Speaker 1: It was Yeah, that has to be tough to do
Speaker 1: music with somebody you're attracted to, Yeah, because you know
Speaker 1: it's already going to be like a little bit of
Speaker 1: a vibe doing something together.
Speaker 5: But then when you already are kind of like you.
Speaker 1: Kind of like.
Speaker 3: If i'd got in the booth, it'd been wrapped, little buddy, does.
Speaker 1: That mean the sound you got it was that about shot?
Speaker 3: It was yeah, she was she inspired up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was a time.
Speaker 3: That was the time during COVID too, where you know,
Speaker 3: she's a she's in the field of a service industry,
Speaker 3: so at the time, you like, can't go to work,
Speaker 3: can't go in can't be around people. She was pregnant,
Speaker 3: and obviously things were slow for a lot of people,
Speaker 3: and I was like, you got it, No worry about it,
Speaker 3: You'd be right, you know what I mean. And it
Speaker 3: was kind of like my way of creating a song
Speaker 3: for her to listen to over and over and over,
Speaker 3: because that's the best way to break through to a person.
Speaker 3: It's for them to hear it repeatedly, repeatedly. You got
Speaker 3: it all right, Now covid is over, It's time to
Speaker 3: boss up.
Speaker 1: That's dope.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, oh yeah, they're back, we're back outside. It's
Speaker 3: time to boss up. You gotta come up with a
Speaker 3: plan because this may happen again. And now yeah, about
Speaker 3: to be another lot, right, that's why everybody's going so
Speaker 3: hard though, But that's sometimes that's.
Speaker 4: What the world needs.
Speaker 3: A reset, like y'all to y'all too comfortable, y'all needed,
Speaker 3: y'all need to do more to where if something like
Speaker 3: this happened, you still you're still good because the internet
Speaker 3: didn't shut down right at all.
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's when it went viral.
Speaker 3: Everybody was at home listening to it and and they're like, yo,
Speaker 3: this song has inspired me so crazy, and it was
Speaker 3: literally inspiration for her, but it ended up being inspiration for.
Speaker 1: That's how you should be because sometimes when things aren't
Speaker 1: going well, you be stuck music and you need motivation
Speaker 1: to be like, you need to do this. Come on,
Speaker 1: let's get your life together. Let's handle all these things
Speaker 1: you know you need to handle for yourself.
Speaker 3: Let's be more prepared.
Speaker 5: Yeah, next time.
Speaker 9: Entertainment industry, you just never know. You're only as good
Speaker 9: as your next gig. And when you don't know what
Speaker 9: that is, that imposter syndrome is going to come up.
Speaker 9: And it's like you need everybody in your camp empowering
Speaker 9: you when you can't even empower yourself. So I felt
Speaker 9: like that was a very powerful song and thank you
Speaker 9: women's empowerment to earlier.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was easy for me because I'm independent.
Speaker 3: So my streams went up three hundred and fifty percent, so.
Speaker 1: I'm start to soup.
Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, yeah, that's what I'm like, it's the
Speaker 3: reason I'm telling you you good.
Speaker 4: No, it was like it was one of those things.
Speaker 3: It was easy for me to get through it through
Speaker 3: it like that because I knew I knew what was
Speaker 3: coming and I see, I seen a numbers.
Speaker 4: I've seen the amount of money that was being generated
Speaker 4: on a daily basis. So I'm like, oh, yeah, we're good.
Speaker 5: What did tiny desks do for you too? Talk about
Speaker 5: that day?
Speaker 4: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: Tiny Desk was actually a scary moment because we didn't
Speaker 3: rehearse for that particular stage.
Speaker 4: We rehearsed for parrals something in the water festival.
Speaker 1: That got cancer.
Speaker 3: Well no, not not that, not that we did it,
Speaker 3: but it was scary because you know, Eric and I
Speaker 3: we we were rehearsing for something in the water. We
Speaker 3: think we're goinna be on the stage, crowd screaming, we
Speaker 3: whatever we on the day up. Oh, by the way,
Speaker 3: we're gonna stop over here at n PR.
Speaker 4: We're gonna do We're gonna do tiny desks casually.
Speaker 5: That's not enough of a head.
Speaker 3: We don't don't even We ain't got the outfits nothing.
Speaker 3: We get that they got the outfits laid out.
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, so y'all playing.
Speaker 1: This, that's crazy? Why get your heads up.
Speaker 4: Each other?
Speaker 3: Like, nigga, you ready, nigga, I take the low.
Speaker 4: So we were like, yo, let's do it.
Speaker 3: What you're gonna say? You no, you can't say no.
Speaker 3: At that point.
Speaker 4: It's like, bro, now we didn't rehearse, absolutely not.
Speaker 3: But it turned out to be an actual one of
Speaker 3: those moments in my career that actually it is still
Speaker 3: you know, standing the test of time because we just
Speaker 3: like that happened what two years ago twel years ago
Speaker 3: and people still talking about it was one of those
Speaker 3: things where people you standing next to the goat one
Speaker 3: of the greatest to ever do it and holding your
Speaker 3: own So it was like big big shots out to
Speaker 3: him too for sharing his light man, because a lot
Speaker 3: of artists they don't share their light.
Speaker 4: They yeah, they gatekeepers.
Speaker 3: They scared to share their light because you know, they're
Speaker 3: afraid of the next artists.
Speaker 1: But you know that's good for him too, like, because
Speaker 1: you want to be able to have dope ass people
Speaker 1: when you're doing something like tiny dask I guess talked
Speaker 1: about even more. You know what I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: a different look. And I think the real measure of
Speaker 1: success is how many people you end up helping. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not just about you by yourself. It's like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's lift everybody up. But on another note, to tap out.
Speaker 1: Now that's on the new album the next chapter, and
Speaker 1: so we gotta ask.
Speaker 5: Y'all some real ship right here? All right? What is Yeah?
Speaker 5: We're ready, always ready, Okay, don't you tell?
Speaker 1: All right? So tap out is all about like trying
Speaker 1: to make her tap out first during sex in a
Speaker 1: good way. You know, you want to have her knees trembling,
Speaker 1: but sometimes it like backfires on y'all. Uh, and y'all
Speaker 1: end up?
Speaker 3: Yeah, finish your first.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So talk to me about the inspiration for the
Speaker 1: song tap out and what that's like in real life.
Speaker 4: Oh man, the inspiration tap out the song, It's plain
Speaker 4: and simple. It's what it is.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to make you tap out, trying to make
Speaker 3: you get yours off a few times I get mine.
Speaker 3: It's it's a competition in the bed room. It's definitely
Speaker 3: a competition, especially on.
Speaker 4: Business, especially especially on.
Speaker 3: Uh you know on days where we go we go
Speaker 3: a week or so without without it.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh you made me wait Okay, So but yeah,
Speaker 4: I mean it's it's good.
Speaker 3: I think every time we do it, it's not a
Speaker 3: thing that it's just we make love every time. And
Speaker 3: that's why I think we kind of take our time
Speaker 3: with you know, two three days in between, just to like,
Speaker 3: let you.
Speaker 4: Know, let you rebuild, build it back up, because I'm.
Speaker 3: Gonna need to make a niece.
Speaker 4: I want I want you to be doing this.
Speaker 3: I want you to be working, working, all right.
Speaker 5: How we want to hear your side of this.
Speaker 1: You know when it comes to tapping on, now, if
Speaker 1: you have to be honest, who usually taps out first?
Speaker 2: Oh? I think it depends no percentage percentage?
Speaker 1: Wow, who's the champ here artist?
Speaker 4: I was like, I do, he said, but this is
Speaker 4: this is crazy right. But let me tell you something.
Speaker 3: Over the time, over the time people we've been together,
Speaker 3: I really had to develop that that sense of she
Speaker 3: had she had to show. She had to like to
Speaker 3: slow down, you're doing to slow down? Hold up, wait nigga.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So over time it was more so like it was
Speaker 3: it was a thing with I'm gonna show you, Yeah
Speaker 3: you please me, but I'm gonna show you how to
Speaker 3: really make sure that I'm I'm pleased at the end.
Speaker 3: And it was more so like just a nigga, take
Speaker 3: your time what you're rushing for? And yeah, so now
Speaker 3: I show both this ship.
Speaker 4: Yeah you had a good teacher.
Speaker 2: I've been married, no it's actually got.
Speaker 4: Yeah, now you know. Now now we do it with
Speaker 4: no no guilty conscience.
Speaker 5: Oh did y'all really used to feel guilty?
Speaker 4: I mean we ain't married.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll be doing a nasty but now we're married.
Speaker 3: So God said it's good now we're married. Now when
Speaker 3: you're like, but no, I think it's the same.
Speaker 4: I think it's a little more.
Speaker 3: I think it's a little more passion maybe now because
Speaker 3: now we're trying for another baby.
Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, little brother, she's asking.
Speaker 3: She looked she've been asking too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, now what about shot? Were there things that you
Speaker 1: had to teach her how to do? Because we don't
Speaker 1: normally hear that from guys. We always think that guys
Speaker 1: just and that's it and they're gonna get there is
Speaker 1: no matter what. But what were some things that you
Speaker 1: were like, Okay, she got to learn this about me?
Speaker 3: Well, well, I mean, hey, you know, I like me,
Speaker 3: I love head.
Speaker 7: You know what somethime you gotta get that say that
Speaker 7: sometimes you gotta go.
Speaker 4: I mean, you gotta get down there.
Speaker 1: But it's like different things when it comes to that.
Speaker 1: It's not all like on one side.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, as you right, And it was more so
Speaker 3: it was another thing. It wasn't even something. It was
Speaker 3: nothing I needed to really had the teacher. It was
Speaker 3: something I had to like let her know that I
Speaker 3: loved when she did.
Speaker 4: You know, keep it up. I want you to build that.
Speaker 3: I want you to build your confidence when you're doing that,
Speaker 3: when you're on top, baby, I love it.
Speaker 4: I love it.
Speaker 3: I love it when you're doing.
Speaker 4: It, you know, like you know.
Speaker 3: So it's more so like, no, you ain't gotta always
Speaker 3: turn around, you ain't gotta always do the pogoing you
Speaker 3: gotta always do sometimes you can sit up.
Speaker 4: And swing their hair. I love when you do a little.
Speaker 1: And you learned some new things today.
Speaker 5: All right, I'm gonna get up on top of it.
Speaker 3: So it was more it was more so just letting
Speaker 3: her know. I love this, love when she tried new stuff.
Speaker 3: You know, do something different, baby, how you want to
Speaker 3: do it, where you want to do it, you know,
Speaker 3: like let me know, so you know, because getting too
Speaker 3: comfortable is never good initiates.
Speaker 1: Actually she does okay, good, Yeah, that's why she'd be
Speaker 1: tapping out.
Speaker 4: But you know when she gives, when she gets me going,
Speaker 4: I I'll be all in it.
Speaker 1: So I mean It is hard though, because you do
Speaker 1: have a you know, you guys have a kid, and
Speaker 1: then you're both working all the time, and sometimes that
Speaker 1: does end up to be that ends up like becoming
Speaker 1: not a priority for sure.
Speaker 3: That's a fact too, man, because we gotta we got
Speaker 3: a baby girl who's extremely clingy in the mix, in.
Speaker 4: The mix.
Speaker 3: To be outside, I want to come in, sneak in
Speaker 3: the room and get in the middle of us, like
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 2: So it's just started doing that.
Speaker 4: And it's a lot.
Speaker 3: It's a lot too because sometimes she got you know,
Speaker 3: she gets it ready for bed at night. Sometimes she
Speaker 3: doesn't want to go to sleep, she want to stay
Speaker 3: up for another hour, and by the time she come in.
Speaker 4: The room, she tied, oh I'm sleep.
Speaker 3: So you know, that's something we had to really say,
Speaker 3: sit down and say it ourselves. No matter how what
Speaker 3: we do, we have to keep the intimacy aspect of
Speaker 3: priority in this relationship.
Speaker 4: And we've been doing good in that.
Speaker 9: How open are you guys to experimenting or maybe including
Speaker 9: other people?
Speaker 6: Like what's that communication?
Speaker 5: Look, likeroat clear was crazy.
Speaker 9: Wites it up or something like talking about it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we talked about it, but I don't think that's
Speaker 2: an entrance. I don't think so, yeah, I don't think
Speaker 2: just checking right.
Speaker 3: It's funny though, because you got to think about.
Speaker 2: It, man, like, yeah, I don't think that's.
Speaker 3: Something you really won't like you really want that, like
Speaker 3: you really want another woman to come in and meet?
Speaker 3: Or do I read one of the man like that's
Speaker 3: first of all, that's a train number one.
Speaker 1: That no, no, no, that's not true.
Speaker 5: It's a threesome.
Speaker 3: Because you exactly, I'm just saying you.
Speaker 4: A negative conversation behind two women and the man and
Speaker 4: two men and a woman. It's like, do you agree.
Speaker 1: That's a little different, But I think that it's not
Speaker 1: acceptable for men to be with us. That's what it's
Speaker 1: really like women. You guys think that's dope. Most women
Speaker 1: aren't going to be like, can we bring another man?
Speaker 1: But it's not more as common as sometimes women initiate
Speaker 1: that conversation like let's bring another woman, and it's cool.
Speaker 4: It's usually because she got she she got a little
Speaker 4: thankful women to.
Speaker 8: Or do you think maybe it's just like she's doing
Speaker 8: when that thinking that that's what the man? Yeah, you
Speaker 8: know that that would make that man want.
Speaker 3: You, And that's what you got to have open dialogue
Speaker 3: between the two, like what do you really want? Is
Speaker 3: that something you really want? To be honest if okay,
Speaker 3: if are you going to be mad at me if
Speaker 3: I be honest with you? Or is we are we
Speaker 3: really having that conversations? You know, and we've had that conversation.
Speaker 2: Conversations and it's like you've been together a long time.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you've had every possible.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely no, And I don't think we would.
Speaker 3: I'm cool with that. I think that's something that's that's sacred.
Speaker 3: That's something that I I mean, we have people.
Speaker 1: I see like I'm just saying.
Speaker 4: Absolutely right, and you.
Speaker 1: Might feel the way she's more into your wife than
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 4: No, I mean, listen, I'll be cool. Listen.
Speaker 3: Look, ain't just know you're coming home with me always.
Speaker 1: We got to understand that she's staying right there for
Speaker 1: everybody in here. Since we're talking about keeping it honest
Speaker 1: the song honesty, Yeah right. Are there some things that
Speaker 1: you don't want to know that you feel like absolutely
Speaker 1: in a relationship, or if something happens that you shouldn't share,
Speaker 1: or something that you don't want him to tell you, you know,
Speaker 1: because sometimes in relationships, we don't really want to know,
Speaker 1: and you say, absolutely.
Speaker 3: Are right. There's some things that if I don't know
Speaker 3: it now, I don't want to know it because it
Speaker 3: only all it does is creates that that negative image
Speaker 3: and that negative that those thoughts about. I don't want
Speaker 3: to I don't want to know your body count. I
Speaker 3: don't want to know which one of your boyfriends your
Speaker 3: exes had the best set. I don't want to. I
Speaker 3: don't want to know none of that.
Speaker 1: We're here now.
Speaker 3: If you if you on you in college, I don't
Speaker 3: want to know about it. I don't believe that because
Speaker 3: it's to be honest, it's you know, because it's it's
Speaker 3: a thing for men, that's you know, that's a that's
Speaker 3: a confidence killer for a man. And sometimes just being
Speaker 3: just being totally transparent. You you had hot me, man, Noah,
Speaker 3: I thought it wouldn't even like that, you know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying, But I don't know. I'm loving you for the.
Speaker 1: Here right now.
Speaker 8: But what about in the case where I have like
Speaker 8: there's a situation when a friend of mine, they were
Speaker 8: she was engaged to this guy, and the reason one
Speaker 8: of the reasons why the engagement was broken up and
Speaker 8: they were too high profile people at this moment.
Speaker 1: The reason they're engaged.
Speaker 8: They broke up is because they were at an event
Speaker 8: or something like that. The guy, this guy came up
Speaker 8: and pretty much let him know, like, Yo, yeah, I
Speaker 8: was with your girl, like you know we used to
Speaker 8: you know, not.
Speaker 1: There was just a conversation.
Speaker 8: I don't think it was anything him trying to be
Speaker 8: you know, I don't know what. But then again, but
Speaker 8: his thing where I was just like, Yo, why didn't
Speaker 8: you just tell me?
Speaker 1: Like you have to let me know?
Speaker 8: So when these things happen, at least I already know
Speaker 8: no one's catching me. So that perspective, like especially being
Speaker 8: in the.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you think you would you want to
Speaker 3: know if somebody in the room.
Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, I agree, Yeah, because I don't want to
Speaker 2: be embarrassed.
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody to think they got one.
Speaker 2: Up, right, I.
Speaker 1: Never happened before me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, let me know.
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I mean, it just depends, okay,
Speaker 3: if you if it's if it was if not, If
Speaker 3: it's somebody I know somebody, you got it, you gotta.
Speaker 5: But if you don't know somebody gonna meet someone.
Speaker 3: It's somebody I don't know, like you ain't got to
Speaker 3: come up with all volatier, like just so you know
Speaker 3: if you come over here. You know, back in college
Speaker 3: we messed around and be like you got like.
Speaker 1: It was no big deal, right he my pussy in
Speaker 1: college details.
Speaker 3: The thing is we come over here trying to run
Speaker 3: down and be like, hey, listen, but she already told
Speaker 3: me how did you move around? You know, we got
Speaker 3: the type of nigga man, Like, listen, we all got pasted,
Speaker 3: We all got people we used to mess with. As
Speaker 3: long as you respectful to me now right, were good
Speaker 3: money straight?
Speaker 1: What would you not want to know? Like if you
Speaker 1: were like keep that to yourself? Or do you want
Speaker 1: to know everything? Because I want to like women be
Speaker 1: actually like we want to know.
Speaker 6: I want to know.
Speaker 2: I kind of want to know, but not really like
Speaker 2: if if I'm the same room with somebody, yes, but
Speaker 2: other than that, I'm good m h.
Speaker 1: Because sometimes it be irritating when when guys be telling
Speaker 1: you too much, yeah, I don't like yes, like I
Speaker 1: don't want to hear about it, and I'm really good
Speaker 1: I remembering certain things.
Speaker 2: You'll be like fus.
Speaker 8: At three pm, we were in the store and we
Speaker 8: saw Homegirl and then it was her Homegirl.
Speaker 1: You guys, they always said the place this all right,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm going to tell you this, but like
Speaker 1: and you'd be like, I didn't even really need to
Speaker 1: know that you did this, Like this in my.
Speaker 8: Head so much, I'm like, but why you have to
Speaker 8: tell him that you went at this time and went there?
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, that's too much sharing my voice.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think, my friend.
Speaker 3: If the conversation comes up, and you gotta be you
Speaker 3: gotta be real good judge at what you should say,
Speaker 3: what you shouldn't say too, And that's just certain.
Speaker 4: That's just the way people are set up. It's just
Speaker 4: the way we were saying.
Speaker 3: Okay, listen, I'm gonna tell you what it is, but I
Speaker 3: ain't gonna tell her that because if you know your person,
Speaker 3: you know, like, nah, that ain't gonna fly because that's
Speaker 3: something that's something I ain't trying to I'm not trying
Speaker 3: to fight that and had this conversation with her for
Speaker 3: the next year, So I'm gonna I'm gonna die with that, right, Yeah,
Speaker 3: you know, you come then.
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it together for a really long time.
Speaker 1: So prior to you guys locking it in. What was
Speaker 1: your situation, because she was in a relationship, Were you
Speaker 1: or no?
Speaker 4: I was?
Speaker 3: I was, I was. I was young niggas, I was exploring.
Speaker 3: I was fresh out of high school. Yeah, I was
Speaker 3: like high school ID two. Yeah, like my team. So
Speaker 3: I really and I was really focused on music. I
Speaker 3: was focused on trying to get this get this music going.
Speaker 3: I was homeless at the time. She ain't know it,
Speaker 3: but I was.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was just moving around, honestly, to be totally honest,
Speaker 3: I was trying to find I was trying to find
Speaker 3: me a safe haven. I was trying to find me
Speaker 3: somebody that I could rock with, that would rock with me.
Speaker 3: You know, if she had her own she had a whip,
Speaker 3: that's our whip. You know she got cut, you know
Speaker 3: at our house.
Speaker 4: That's just being honest.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's a survival.
Speaker 3: It was a survival instinct. But look a little did
Speaker 3: I know I will fall in love, right?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 3: I fell in love and now we're here, we are,
Speaker 3: you know, twelve thirteen years later married. So that's what
Speaker 3: I was. But I was moving around doing my thing.
Speaker 3: I mean, she even when we started talking, you know,
Speaker 3: she was doing her thing. This was after she left
Speaker 3: her dude, and we was just we were just rapping,
Speaker 3: just talking, you know, were at that at that point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't even know how tough that is too,
Speaker 1: trying to do your music and not having a place
Speaker 1: to stay. This's like stable. Yeah, it was tough, and
Speaker 1: people don't know that because they see like some successes,
Speaker 1: so then you might as soon.
Speaker 4: I ain't making no money from the Voice. I ain't
Speaker 4: make no money from that.
Speaker 3: Every piece of money I did make, I had to
Speaker 3: send back to the to my mama and you know,
Speaker 3: my my little brother and them like that. So I
Speaker 3: was I was on that, but I was at work,
Speaker 3: literally at work. So yeah, man, people everything everything that
Speaker 3: glitters and go everything it don't seem if it ain't
Speaker 3: what it seems sometimes, but it's still a part of
Speaker 3: the journey. It's still a part of the process. And
Speaker 3: even coming off the voice, I'm still broke.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, you know what I mean. And they like
Speaker 1: he's chilling, he got money.
Speaker 4: It wouldn't aspect at that time coming off the voice.
Speaker 3: She because she she's been an entrepreneur whole life, doing hair,
Speaker 3: you know, make up everything.
Speaker 8: Yeah, we saw that, by the way, my friend Tia
Speaker 8: did your make up for your wedding.
Speaker 2: That's she's amazing where you were, Yes.
Speaker 4: Killed this.
Speaker 1: I love that amazing job. Let's get to the wedding business, right,
Speaker 1: because this was this year that everything happened.
Speaker 5: A lot of people.
Speaker 2: Comments are going crazy.
Speaker 1: Before the wedding, right, you know, people have different traditions
Speaker 1: and different things that they do. Sometimes people are like,
Speaker 1: we're not going to have sex for a month before
Speaker 1: the wedding. You know, as far as seeing the wedding dress,
Speaker 1: a lot of times you don't want him to see
Speaker 1: what you're going to look like or what that's like.
Speaker 1: So talk to me about before you guys got married,
Speaker 1: what were some of the traditional things that you did
Speaker 1: to get prepared.
Speaker 4: I don't think we.
Speaker 2: I don't think we didn't.
Speaker 4: We didn't traditions.
Speaker 5: So you saw the dress and everything before.
Speaker 2: The dress, did you say, the reception dress.
Speaker 4: Saw the reception dress, the wedding dress.
Speaker 2: He wanted my hair show, he kind of you kind.
Speaker 3: Of, And we didn't want to be to tradition because
Speaker 3: it just it creates boundaries. It creates so many boundaries
Speaker 3: of what you can and can't do. Like no, I said, no,
Speaker 3: we we are in love, will blessed?
Speaker 4: What do you want? How do you want this wedding? Look?
Speaker 4: Look what I mean?
Speaker 3: So man, whatever she wanted, I was like.
Speaker 4: Let's do it.
Speaker 2: It was really his idea with the yacht.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah in Miami.
Speaker 3: That was wild.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was his idea. Were supposed to do a
Speaker 2: destination wedding.
Speaker 1: We want another shot where we are.
Speaker 4: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: So we got to do a wedding shot clock. You know,
Speaker 1: we didn't make it to the wedding, but we're going
Speaker 1: to have a shot.
Speaker 6: And all three out, we're gonna talk.
Speaker 3: Listen, and I said, you want to get married, but
Speaker 3: this is thirteen years that well, you're.
Speaker 1: Not in the Micloria, so hold on, hold on, this
Speaker 1: is thirteen years.
Speaker 5: Thirteen is a lucky number.
Speaker 2: Two.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thirteen years of just thirteen years.
Speaker 1: Did you ever break up during that? Wow?
Speaker 2: That was the problem.
Speaker 6: Like what was the biggest problem y'all gone through?
Speaker 4: That's a big shot, huge shot. I gotta do the interview.
Speaker 1: We got to remember to pick up the kid.
Speaker 5: Another kid.
Speaker 1: What was the most challenging part during that time or
Speaker 1: whether it's you know, what was the hardest part? Thank you?
Speaker 2: I won't say hardest. I will say not even a challenge,
Speaker 2: because I don't. I really don't. Yeah, it wasn't really challenging,
Speaker 2: but anyway I think it was. I think it was
Speaker 2: what you're thinking about, what you're thinking.
Speaker 4: What you're thinking about? You say what you think?
Speaker 5: We went to here with you have to say without
Speaker 5: his wing and first.
Speaker 2: So I get this question a lot, like how do
Speaker 2: you deal with the girls? How do you deal with him?
Speaker 2: In the industry? And I tell people all the time,
Speaker 2: I don't deal with it, right, it's not my not
Speaker 2: my job to deal with it. But I would say
Speaker 2: that I would say, I females. Females are bold as hell.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, I could see that. It's crazy, So it
Speaker 1: wouldn't even matter.
Speaker 6: To take another word.
Speaker 4: Are you taking all?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: There we go?
Speaker 3: You have at home absolute.
Speaker 2: Baby number two?
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm hmm.
Speaker 1: How did you set the family is like like you
Speaker 1: know him and your family like and her?
Speaker 5: Your family like her.
Speaker 4: Man they love her.
Speaker 3: H to piggyback on what was the challenging thing? What
Speaker 3: was challenging for me most was I could just being honest,
Speaker 3: just staying faithful.
Speaker 4: After we after we.
Speaker 3: Actually said, hey, we go together. Now, it took me
Speaker 3: some time to get to get there. It did, And
Speaker 3: that's and it's not that's not necessarily just saying having
Speaker 3: sex with other women, even entertaining women, getting numbers to
Speaker 3: be young, you know, like yeah, So that was a
Speaker 3: big challenge, and I knew that was a big thing
Speaker 3: for her. So that was really one of the things
Speaker 3: that I had to really hone in. And that's what
Speaker 3: that's what I meant when I said I had to
Speaker 3: grow more. I had to grow a little more. And
Speaker 3: knowing that what I have at home is enough, knowing
Speaker 3: that you know, she's growing just like I'm growing.
Speaker 4: She's an amazing person.
Speaker 3: You know you're gonna hurt her, you want to hurt
Speaker 3: like that's that was one of the things I didn't
Speaker 3: I just didn't want to.
Speaker 1: And sometimes it takes going through something to really know
Speaker 1: that you can't fuck up absolutely before you get married, because.
Speaker 3: It's it's too many, it's many people like it's a
Speaker 3: lot of people. Ain't too many chances you can get
Speaker 3: with people like and she's one of the ones.
Speaker 5: Just like, listen, I ain't going by to die.
Speaker 3: You suck up, granted, granted, shield she'll she'll you get
Speaker 3: away with a couple of little things, but she'll like, listen,
Speaker 3: tell you this, stop playing.
Speaker 4: But if it's if it's the big thing all and
Speaker 4: all things like it might be.
Speaker 2: And I'm just telling with a co parent. That's when
Speaker 2: every little entertaining females like, don't even damn them, right,
Speaker 2: because then then it goes far. I don't get them
Speaker 2: your number because then what if I didn't catch it?
Speaker 3: Then what you know what I mean, how.
Speaker 6: Do you feel about liking picks?
Speaker 2: I don't care about any of that.
Speaker 5: And I know guys be coming at you too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4: I don't get jealous.
Speaker 3: It's just it's just that be her comments.
Speaker 5: No, think about how you back to like do work?
Speaker 7: Now?
Speaker 5: What if a guys like yo, I want you to
Speaker 5: come right?
Speaker 1: You know they do? Yeah they do.
Speaker 5: Does it ever make you feel a little like?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 4: Just I think I just need to be there. No, No,
Speaker 4: I need to beat I just want.
Speaker 3: To meet him, you know, just want want him tell
Speaker 3: about his Yeah. Because and it's the thing that when
Speaker 3: you hadn't been in this industry long enough, you know
Speaker 3: a nigga that's really doing this and a nigga that's
Speaker 3: just about to play with your time. And I see niggas,
Speaker 3: we see a man should maybe you know this person like, nah,
Speaker 3: but let me send it. Let me send the picture
Speaker 3: around and see who it is. Come back like, oh, nah,
Speaker 3: don't rock with him.
Speaker 4: He full of it.
Speaker 3: This nigga be trying to, you know whatever, try to
Speaker 3: get women to come in and do whatever.
Speaker 4: I mean. Like, so it goes hand in hand. That's
Speaker 4: why I just said I want to be there.
Speaker 3: If I'm not going to never tell her no, don't
Speaker 3: go do it, because that's like me stifling her creativity, right,
Speaker 3: you know, but hey, I go, I'll go with you.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had experiences where a guy was inappropriate?
Speaker 5: No, that's good. That's a blessing.
Speaker 4: She can fight those.
Speaker 3: That's why she probably like your worth mother's son.
Speaker 5: That was in New York.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she definitely all right. Now the first time
Speaker 1: y'all had sex, okay, except.
Speaker 4: Wow, go ahead talk that talk that talk.
Speaker 2: We had a one night stand.
Speaker 3: You did not we really did the Margarita's man. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that was the same. It was like the same thing
Speaker 3: you broke with her. Niggas, So she was plotting. She's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: where you want to go?
Speaker 4: Then?
Speaker 8: That takes that like that stigma of one night stands
Speaker 8: and you know, giving up too quick. I just had
Speaker 8: a conversation about that somewhere that was like, you know,
Speaker 8: I was like, listen at the end of the day
Speaker 8: that I let them wait six months, all right, sullivant
Speaker 8: for them.
Speaker 1: There a year and all of that, and.
Speaker 4: It don't trash when you do get it.
Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah that happened twice.
Speaker 5: But then you didn't mind getting the rebound. Yeah, you know, waiting.
Speaker 3: Even somebody rebound like he had that play already.
Speaker 5: Y'all had the margariteas.
Speaker 2: Was vibing the first the first date was.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean I think you know one thing
Speaker 3: I learned about her off the rip. No matter how
Speaker 3: corny I am, she's gonna laugh, she's gonna laugh every
Speaker 3: little corner thing, she's gonna laugh. And I was like
Speaker 3: the more she laughed, the more she leaned in with
Speaker 3: I'm like, I said, okay, yeah, this is this, Okay,
Speaker 3: I see and minds you Like I'm in the mentality
Speaker 3: of oh I'm Finna. Yeah, I got shorty, I'm Finela.
Speaker 3: I need a place to stay like I'm Finnah. See
Speaker 3: what I could no's just just so I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna see what I could do.
Speaker 4: You know, we didn't go to my plan, didn't go
Speaker 4: to my place.
Speaker 3: If we went to the house I was staying at,
Speaker 3: which was a few few you guys, I can't I did.
Speaker 3: He was sitting And it was so funny though, man,
Speaker 3: because the first night were in there, there's a.
Speaker 4: And and my cousin at the time. That was his crib,
Speaker 4: you know. So he come in, he come in, wooded.
Speaker 3: Short, he come in wood is shorty.
Speaker 4: But we in his bed. No, no, he came.
Speaker 1: What the I was in the middle.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Actually.
Speaker 4: We had finished, sorry, but we had finished.
Speaker 3: We finished, We finished and were just chilling and I left.
Speaker 2: I would in the car, come back.
Speaker 4: Come back it up and guess what she did.
Speaker 3: She came back in the house and sleep on the
Speaker 3: couch with me.
Speaker 7: I said, this is the one right, she stuck with
Speaker 7: me thirteen years that when she that's.
Speaker 4: When she knew like this nigga just lied to me.
Speaker 3: This nigga today.
Speaker 1: But if that, but that's not the one night stand.
Speaker 2: So you right, right, the next morning he brought me breakfast,
Speaker 2: went home. Yeah, and we left, Yeah, we did, because
Speaker 2: the day after I was like I found I hear
Speaker 2: have no money.
Speaker 3: About Yeah yeah, and that's that's so and that's so crazy, man,
Speaker 3: Like that's what you got.
Speaker 5: To pay for everything now?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely, yeah yeah, just like she would you know,
Speaker 3: like how how was text he actually asking her that
Speaker 3: she eat? She was doing that to me when she
Speaker 3: find out, like I'm really like a real struggling artist
Speaker 3: trying to make this thing work. She she was bringing
Speaker 3: food though she wouldn't bring it, no me, Donald's, she
Speaker 3: don't break She bringing Zaxby's, expensive Zaxings.
Speaker 4: I'm talking about every.
Speaker 3: Day with it and coming to break me off.
Speaker 5: I'm listen, I'm yeah, it's a good one.
Speaker 3: This was almost like this was almost like an angel
Speaker 3: that command you this. She was the only person I
Speaker 3: talked to my mom passed away in twenty thirteen. This
Speaker 3: was almost like my mom sent this woman here like
Speaker 3: like that she taking care of the nigga, like let
Speaker 3: me get.
Speaker 1: Let me get my let me send my son somebody
Speaker 1: that is going to make sure he is stranged.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, man, And every single day my love and everything
Speaker 3: is grood for this woman. And fast forward, I'm like
Speaker 3: even even you know, doing our thing within that mister
Speaker 3: three years before we actually made it official. Every woman
Speaker 3: that I did encounter, I was like, you ain't fucking
Speaker 3: with the real that's not her. I'm like, you ain't
Speaker 3: fucking with the real one. I'm sorry, Like you cool,
Speaker 3: but period, you ain't working with her? And she was
Speaker 3: patient with me, man, because honestly, if she wasn't patient,
Speaker 3: we would even be here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we wouldn't.
Speaker 3: And I'm just I'm just saying that from a from
Speaker 3: an honest standpoint of a man, of a boy, of
Speaker 3: a boy coming into a growing into a man.
Speaker 1: What did you see in him? Like, what did you
Speaker 1: see that made you say I'm gonna hold it down.
Speaker 2: I've seen that he had a preer heart. I felt
Speaker 2: like he worked so hard, his tenacity was amazing, he
Speaker 2: didn't give up. I felt he has so much to offer.
Speaker 6: Potential.
Speaker 2: I feel I saw the potential and I felt like,
Speaker 2: you know, I'm gonna wrong with him.
Speaker 1: I'm with you sometimes like if a guy doesn't have it,
Speaker 1: and we we are supportive, but when you see somebody's
Speaker 1: working every day, like all the time towards a goal,
Speaker 1: and you see where I have a talent, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: you know it's gonna eventually happen, And like, you can
Speaker 1: appreciate somebody that is passionate about what they do that
Speaker 1: is going to hire way more than somebody that just
Speaker 1: be chilling.
Speaker 3: It's times man, where I would I'm recording the studio
Speaker 3: and they had nothing to eat all day, Like, I'm
Speaker 3: just working, I gotta get this done. I'm making it.
Speaker 3: I'm recording the album for nobody. I have no fans.
Speaker 3: I'm just recording, like you know, and it's like she's
Speaker 3: my only fan, my manager, my only fan, my cut
Speaker 3: my brother, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, and that's depressing.
Speaker 4: It's very depressing.
Speaker 3: It's like, damn he was, you are absolutely absolutely, but
Speaker 3: she was there, like yeah, was she was?
Speaker 5: Was the first big check?
Speaker 3: And what was it from the first big check? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: it was I think it was. It was for forty
Speaker 3: thousand dollars.
Speaker 4: I forget what I got.
Speaker 7: The check.
Speaker 2: Was it?
Speaker 4: It was the pub. It was a pub. It was
Speaker 4: a pub deal.
Speaker 3: I did forty thousand dollars. This was back.
Speaker 4: This was twenty fifteen, twenty fourteen, forty bands.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, week was first.
Speaker 4: I said said forty. I'm like, oh, we baby like yo.
Speaker 2: Was, yeah, I had a trip.
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, no no no, notty thousand. Hell
Speaker 4: that was with the forty fans. With the forty thousand.
Speaker 4: I went and got me a car.
Speaker 8: Okayet I didn't get to watch that time.
Speaker 1: I would have got crazy. It was.
Speaker 3: It was a that was I'm raised, will now get
Speaker 3: your car.
Speaker 4: So I had a place to stay at the time.
Speaker 3: And my manager, we were we were rooming together. We
Speaker 3: were of course living together, but I didn't have a.
Speaker 1: Car and he was important.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I went and got a car.
Speaker 3: And the reason I didn't get any type of car
Speaker 3: beforehand because I had we had came into a little
Speaker 3: five thousand here, it was a little ten thousand whatever.
Speaker 3: But I wanted to get the car that I I
Speaker 3: would feel confident in pulling up anywhere I go.
Speaker 4: That's why I waited and I prayed about it. I manifested.
Speaker 3: I said, listen, I just want to get this Burgundy
Speaker 3: Challenger RT. You knew exactly I wanted what I wanted.
Speaker 3: Forty piece came through. I was like, you're I needed
Speaker 3: how much I gotta put down? I think I put
Speaker 3: down maybe like fifteen grand put it up on Bay, like,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, but this is this is
Speaker 3: all a thing where I was driving her car.
Speaker 4: I used to drive her car. You know.
Speaker 3: She used to put all we used to all these
Speaker 3: miles on her whip. And I'm like, Na, it's leave
Speaker 3: your car home, Kong. She's to come pick me up. No,
Speaker 3: I'm coming to pick you up. So it's just yeah,
Speaker 3: that forty thousand, I broke off a little bit, like here, baby, look,
Speaker 3: put that in your pocket.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I felt good, you know, put that out.
Speaker 10: You know.
Speaker 1: People think about how like, oh, I'm not doing that
Speaker 1: for no man, but think about how a man feels
Speaker 1: knowing that he has to be like relying and he can't.
Speaker 2: Feel like people don't women don't think of that, Like,
Speaker 2: what about how the man feels.
Speaker 3: And if you're a man, bro, and you don't feel
Speaker 3: like you don't feel I'll be honest with you, and you
Speaker 3: don't feel like ship using a woman, you need to
Speaker 3: be slept bro.
Speaker 6: At least you were honest about it. I think that's
Speaker 6: part of it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, just honestly.
Speaker 2: After that first females gotta be honest. Money if you.
Speaker 4: Need some help, yeah, because.
Speaker 1: When I had it, if you wasn't as popping as
Speaker 1: you was, though.
Speaker 8: At least you had it, you know, you didn't have it,
Speaker 8: would you have?
Speaker 1: Like do you think it would be a different outcome?
Speaker 8: Is she wasn't able to hold you up the way
Speaker 8: because you already went into it with the mind of
Speaker 8: you know, I went into it that way, doud.
Speaker 2: No, I feel like it would be the same because
Speaker 2: I mean, I wasn't.
Speaker 3: Just d but I think it would.
Speaker 2: I think I think it would my heart more, my heart.
Speaker 2: I had nothing to do with finances person she was.
Speaker 3: Because even when like even when we were kicking like
Speaker 3: it wasn't even the fact that I had no money.
Speaker 3: It was I just love kicking it with it, right,
Speaker 3: you know, we go, we go, get a little little
Speaker 3: forty bottle down, Julio and just.
Speaker 4: Kick it, kick it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, here we are now.
Speaker 4: Doing that next thing. We passed on the couch watching movies.
Speaker 3: Like I think that I think it would have still
Speaker 3: been the same because she's kind of she's always been
Speaker 3: my like place of peace.
Speaker 4: She don't really she gets crazy though, but she.
Speaker 3: She might place a piece like when it matters the most.
Speaker 8: Right, so you know, when she gets crazy, right, So,
Speaker 8: now where did you guys go on your honeymoon?
Speaker 5: Because I saw the picture.
Speaker 2: We went to Dubai and Cape Town.
Speaker 3: Okay, nice, It was cute speaking of forty thousand, about
Speaker 3: old top.
Speaker 1: Of Yeah, that way wedding because yacht talking about that
Speaker 1: wedding that had to be the.
Speaker 2: Water was crazy.
Speaker 4: The wedding was a lot of money.
Speaker 1: And you're saying at the wedding too, I didn't unperformed.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's how you did all your music.
Speaker 4: No, we know, we we we wanted to.
Speaker 8: Be shot, you know, as far as like the dance
Speaker 8: and music for the nah nah we played with her
Speaker 8: walk down.
Speaker 4: She played a cover she did of Koreenta Pasion slow Motion.
Speaker 4: I think we did. We do more of my songs
Speaker 4: walking Off Forever.
Speaker 2: You did intentional.
Speaker 4: I did intentional one of my records.
Speaker 3: But for the most part, it was we wanted it
Speaker 3: to kind of like be you know, because we always
Speaker 3: I'm always in the mix of being an entertainer and
Speaker 3: being on stage. I literally said this verbatim. I do
Speaker 3: not want to make this a Vito show. This is
Speaker 3: the tying of the night between myself.
Speaker 4: And my wife.
Speaker 3: This is not about me. This is about us, This
Speaker 3: is about our bond with God. Let's not make this
Speaker 3: no no concept.
Speaker 2: We have to find somebody else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I knew.
Speaker 3: If I started singing, I started crying, you.
Speaker 4: Went back, I have been singing and started crying.
Speaker 10: Started yeah, and then don't care about that and don't
Speaker 10: well you looked absolutely all those dresses, everything and the
Speaker 10: re dresses Jeff hairstyles.
Speaker 3: You did that.
Speaker 1: It was not a game. So tell us like a
Speaker 1: little bit more about you know what that day was
Speaker 1: like for you guys, because that's life changing.
Speaker 2: To day was amazing. I felt like I was very
Speaker 2: much in my own bubble. I felt like I didn't
Speaker 2: I didn't see nobody. It was just me and him.
Speaker 2: It was like, okay, this was it. I felt good.
Speaker 5: Did you write your vowels? Did you freestyle them?
Speaker 2: I wrote it, wrote, I wrote it.
Speaker 4: I was actually stressed up.
Speaker 2: Would he was stressed?
Speaker 3: I was stressed because hidden fees.
Speaker 2: Already crazy expensive.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, yo, you want some more money. I
Speaker 3: mean it's just a bunch of different stuff that come
Speaker 3: with it, that come with the territory, you know, just
Speaker 3: stuff happened and beat with with within the wedding that
Speaker 3: kids getting back. I'm like, yo, don't bother her. So
Speaker 3: I'll be I'll be cool, but do not bother her.
Speaker 3: Please don't go with her talking about what one of
Speaker 3: one of my family members did or somebody did this.
Speaker 3: You know, we'll talk about that after the wedding.
Speaker 2: But how did you feel ceremony and then after I
Speaker 2: felt great?
Speaker 3: I feel I mean I felt good like I was
Speaker 3: in my bowl.
Speaker 2: So that was before ceremony.
Speaker 4: This was before ceremony.
Speaker 1: After ceremony, they could do anything to you at that moment.
Speaker 1: You ain't going to cancel the wedding.
Speaker 4: Yeah, at that point after after the wedding, I do.
Speaker 4: That's party.
Speaker 3: I don't care what you do. We went to the
Speaker 3: strip club, that's the thing. We didn't want to change
Speaker 3: anything that we used YouTube.
Speaker 2: Yes, at the party. Oh you said, his dad came,
Speaker 2: everybody came.
Speaker 11: It's not throw on type of money, mama, because.
Speaker 1: You know sometimes like in the strip club, when you like,
Speaker 1: can he get him aside from the shippers.
Speaker 2: He can get a dance and get.
Speaker 1: What you want to go with your man and know
Speaker 1: fun like baby trying.
Speaker 2: To get with the feeling him, that be.
Speaker 5: Like turning it down.
Speaker 1: What about you Are you good with like the women
Speaker 1: giving you lap dances?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm cool with that. I don't even do
Speaker 2: v P. What you crazy? I mean, I don't.
Speaker 1: Would you get on the stage? Did you get on
Speaker 1: the stage?
Speaker 2: Always want the.
Speaker 4: Stressed get They kept giving her shot look like.
Speaker 11: Right there, my daddy, I'm never I've never been, you know.
Speaker 3: I love her have a fun man like. She's always
Speaker 3: been this charismatic person to be just outspoken, out going,
Speaker 3: and that's one of the things I love about him,
Speaker 3: man like. That's why I wouldn't stop her from doing
Speaker 3: th ship like that for real.
Speaker 1: We love to see him your love. It is all I.
Speaker 8: Need that seeing the wedding, I fell in love with
Speaker 8: you guys just seeing your videos and seeing the wedding,
Speaker 8: and like I said, I know, so I was like, Yo,
Speaker 8: this is so dope. But now like sitting here and
Speaker 8: listening to you guys and just seeing your chemistry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are.
Speaker 2: Thirteen years it's crazy, but that's the thing.
Speaker 8: You guys been in this. You did it already for
Speaker 8: thirteen years.
Speaker 1: You guys did it the right way. You didn't move
Speaker 1: in together right away.
Speaker 8: It took avery doing and then you know, you guys
Speaker 8: did what It's untraditional, you had a kid before your marriage,
Speaker 8: and you know, I think this is amazing.
Speaker 1: So long as one night stand I've ever seen, still still.
Speaker 3: Still standing up. But again that was her thing. She said, listen,
Speaker 3: you can do whatever we want to do, but we're
Speaker 3: not living together.
Speaker 1: About that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I still commitment. And I persuade her. I
Speaker 4: was like, look, he got me all. I said, why
Speaker 4: you're not going to know why we pay two separate rents.
Speaker 3: Why that's why we pay two separate rerints. Not only that,
Speaker 3: like maybe I want to know if I can.
Speaker 5: And you proposed in front of people everybody.
Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody, everybody, have family, came down, all our friends,
Speaker 3: my family.
Speaker 2: It was my grand opening.
Speaker 5: He said, you didn't expect that at all. You was
Speaker 5: too focused.
Speaker 3: Do you know what?
Speaker 2: I didn't at first because I was so busy with
Speaker 2: my grand opening. But we gave it away. He was
Speaker 2: so nervous.
Speaker 11: I was like what I was?
Speaker 2: He was stepping outside. I'm like, something ain't right. Oh
Speaker 2: it's happening today. Yeah yeah, so I know once we
Speaker 2: got there.
Speaker 1: And that's good. You know why that was dofful because
Speaker 1: you know she's gonna look great, nails done ready, because
Speaker 1: you don't want to never propose it. She's caught off guy,
Speaker 1: no makeup, sweats, nails not.
Speaker 4: Man, it was two for one. I didn't have to
Speaker 4: pay for the proposal.
Speaker 1: Like I was just somebody to say.
Speaker 8: Some people that's like, some people be mad when you proposed,
Speaker 8: like on holidays like your birthday, my day, while.
Speaker 1: You promoted on my because everybody was there. Yeah, people
Speaker 1: like I would rather propose without people around. It's easier
Speaker 1: to surprise.
Speaker 3: Her like that because yeah, she she wouldn't expect it. Obviously,
Speaker 3: towards the closer we got to.
Speaker 1: Gave, I gave it.
Speaker 3: I'm in the back hallway.
Speaker 2: I said, what was happening today?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like why are you wear a suit?
Speaker 3: I was like, Yo, this is crazy, But you know
Speaker 3: that was And it was also a thing where I
Speaker 3: like to try to create these moments that for her
Speaker 3: that is even bigger than what she thinks it is.
Speaker 4: At the moment, this was the wedding was.
Speaker 2: I thought it was going to do it like a
Speaker 2: destination wedding. And he was like, and you know, we
Speaker 2: go crazy without even without events, even on my birthday,
Speaker 2: his birthday. I was like, that's a destination. We agreed to.
Speaker 4: That, and he got she starts sending me. She starts
Speaker 4: sending me these different venues. I'm looking at him.
Speaker 3: I'm like, that is cool.
Speaker 2: When I sent the yacht, he was like.
Speaker 4: He said, she sent the yacht. Yeah, I say, yeah,
Speaker 4: it's it, said right here.
Speaker 3: She's like you sure, man, yes, slip do it hit
Speaker 3: with with the inquiry.
Speaker 4: Can't make it, said.
Speaker 1: Negotiate No.
Speaker 3: But but I knew. I knew that this is where
Speaker 3: I wanted this moment to be. Like, we're both in
Speaker 3: the entertainment industry. It's a show for y'all, but it's
Speaker 3: real for us, and let's really put it on and
Speaker 3: it's time.
Speaker 2: It's a one time and I feel like we go
Speaker 2: all out for everything else while have that's on my wedding.
Speaker 1: Well, it looks amazing and I'm glad we had a
Speaker 1: chance to experience at least the pictures.
Speaker 8: And you, I know your is like, damn yeah.
Speaker 1: We wasn't just on an islands surrounding.
Speaker 8: It was in the water in the period like clarity,
Speaker 8: that's spirituality that's putting out.
Speaker 3: In the universe.
Speaker 2: It was amazing.
Speaker 4: I mean, smoking norful. Mary us, which is my favorite
Speaker 4: gospel artist.
Speaker 1: The fact that he was like he was and he
Speaker 1: did for free what.
Speaker 4: I was like, Yo, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: I just want to say that is a pantagious here
Speaker 1: on Libserver, she said, Angela, if you get married, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna sing at your wedding.
Speaker 4: I want to.
Speaker 1: Get married just for that. But anyway, I want to
Speaker 1: thank y'all so much for coming through the next chapter.
Speaker 1: It seems like the best chapter.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely, Next Chapter is definitely the best chapter.
Speaker 1: And that's album right now, that's out right now, tour
Speaker 1: coming on the way.
Speaker 4: Tours on the way. You might see her on stage with.
Speaker 3: Me because she's definitely an artist writer as well, and
Speaker 3: like she influences a lot of these songs.
Speaker 5: I saw that sixteen Carriages.
Speaker 4: I see her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Next Chapter is out now. We debut the number
Speaker 3: one on iTunes, Top five Apple.
Speaker 4: This is my eighth album.
Speaker 3: I've been around. This is my eighth album. I've been
Speaker 3: around for a long time. So I'm doing something right
Speaker 3: and I got the right people in my corner.
Speaker 4: Listen to the album be.
Speaker 2: Inspired, album Dropping Next
Speaker 1: Gave Me Number two is coming drop that next the
Speaker 1: next time, all right, it's lip service