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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: This is a story that speaks to me. I don't

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Speaker 2: have kids, but maybe I'll reconsider after this story.

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Speaker 3: Well, you don't have to have them to eat at

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Speaker 3: this time?

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Speaker 1: How well this is actually related to kids a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, with all due respect, Tanya, let's just need to

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Speaker 2: tell the story and then we can judge. Okay, So

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Speaker 2: you're saying that more and more families, more families with

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Speaker 2: kids with kids, are having dinner really early, and it's

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Speaker 2: a good thing.

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Speaker 4: It is a really good thing, because the struggle as

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Speaker 4: a parent when you sit down for dinner is having

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Speaker 4: them finish their dinner, you know.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, I spent summer with my niece

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Speaker 2: the summer, Yeah, the things I had to I had

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Speaker 2: to dress up as a magician to get her to

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Speaker 2: sit and eat a bowl of posta.

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Speaker 4: And there's a lot of compromise, you know, it's like

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Speaker 4: two more bites and you can have a little bit

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Speaker 4: of a cookie after. Everything is like a compromise with them.

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Speaker 4: But they were figuring out that it's maybe because they

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Speaker 4: weren't actually truly that hungry.

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Speaker 1: By the time you sat down for dinner.

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Speaker 4: Let's say, like I considered us early five thirty six

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Speaker 4: o'clock dinner. I thought that was on the early side.

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Speaker 4: But now with this new trend, it's not the case.

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Speaker 4: Parents are trying to ring that dinner bell way earlier,

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Speaker 4: and it's basically right when they get home from school.

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Speaker 4: So the kids get home from school and they're starving.

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Speaker 4: My kids as soon as they walk in the door,

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Speaker 4: they always want a snack. They always want something. I'm

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Speaker 4: always like, okay, well, and if it's too close, if

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Speaker 4: we're past four pm, then I'm like, now you can't

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Speaker 4: have a big snack. Wait, you gotta wait. And it's

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Speaker 4: just like a battle every single day. So instead of

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Speaker 4: doing that snack, parents are saying, do dinner at three

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Speaker 4: forty five, do dinner at four pm, four thirty. Have

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Speaker 4: that be the big, healthy, nutritious meal when you're giving

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Speaker 4: them vegetables and things like that, and then afterwards, if

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Speaker 4: they're kind of still hungry around six six thirty, you

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Speaker 4: can they can have a snack.

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Speaker 2: Then. I love it. It is true because I remember

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Speaker 2: I came, as I've told you before, I would come

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Speaker 2: home from school absolutely famished, like starving. Yeah, I would

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Speaker 2: take the Coca Cola three Leader bottle. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: remember the big one, the three Leader bottle, drink it

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Speaker 2: out of the bottle.

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Speaker 1: Oh, how do you even care?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's big. I was a strong wreck. Then then

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Speaker 2: I would make that cookie sheet of nachos to watch Oprah.

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Speaker 2: But that like Coca Cola and nachos to watch Oprah,

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Speaker 2: which was on at three, three thirty four whatever. Then

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Speaker 2: I would have dinner, which was why I think I

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Speaker 2: was husky when I was growing.

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Speaker 1: Because we didn't in the eighties and nineties.

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Speaker 2: But I was so hungry.

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Speaker 5: I was a child, and I'm famished at three PM,

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Speaker 5: Like that's when my alarm goes off. I'm trying to

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Speaker 5: eat my big meal around five. If I could rode

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Speaker 5: up to four, I would.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 2: I I advocate the early meal. And you know I

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Speaker 2: always invite friends to have dinner and they don't come.

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Speaker 2: But and I stand outside of restaurants and wait for

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Speaker 2: Remember the Pacha Pi dress that standing outside the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I was waiting. The valet was there, but I was waiting.

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Speaker 2: No one would let me in till five. If I

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Speaker 2: too early for me as a as an active adult,

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Speaker 2: I would have to eat again again. So if I

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Speaker 2: when I can, that works and I like that. And

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Speaker 2: you have such so you have so much more of

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Speaker 4: That's true because as soon as we do dinnertime and

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Speaker 4: it's you know, six o'clock, let's say six thirty, then it's.

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Speaker 2: Like you take the bath, Yeah, read the book.

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Speaker 1: It's oh, it's bedtime right after after we eat, and

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Speaker 1: they're like, what, there's no, we can't watch anything on

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Speaker 4: No, But it's kind of tough if you're trying to

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Speaker 4: do this at four pm, three three forty five, because

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Speaker 4: if you have a spouse that's working, if you have

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Speaker 4: dinner every single night with his family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, so it's kind of like it's an

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Speaker 2: interesting thing to keep them from snacking. Ryan Seacrest with you,

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Speaker 2: Lances on the line. Let me grab Lance real fast

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Speaker 2: here into the studio. You call any time that we're on. Hi,

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Speaker 2: uh Lance, good morning, how you doing?

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Speaker 7: Good morning? I'm doing very well.

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Speaker 2: Are you it's good to hear. I'm doing great. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: So you're calling about your wife wanted to quit her job.

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Speaker 7: Uh, yeah, that's right. My my wife has been talking

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Speaker 7: about quitting her job to pursue this MLM, you know,

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Speaker 7: opportunity full time. It's like a multi level marketing job.

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Speaker 8: So she started working with.

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Speaker 7: This company last year as just as a side gig

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Speaker 7: to make some extra money. But now she I feel

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Speaker 7: is taking it too far. Like well, I want to

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Speaker 7: I want to be supportive, you know, I want to

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Speaker 7: support her in following her passions, but I honestly just

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Speaker 7: concerned about the risks.

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Speaker 8: Involved, like this company. This company just seems shady.

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Speaker 7: I don't know if there's any stability there, you know,

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Speaker 7: for her, if if this wound up working out. I'm

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Speaker 7: just not sure how to approach the conversation with her.

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Speaker 7: I want to be supportive yet honest about you know

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Speaker 7: where I'm coming from. I don't I don't want to

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Speaker 7: discourage her, but I also want to make sure that

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Speaker 7: we're making a well and decision together. I don't know,

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Speaker 7: just I'm just wondering, what do you think is the

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Speaker 7: best way to go about this?

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Speaker 8: Just having this conversation.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, Lance, you have to do this with

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Speaker 2: a lot of finesse and care uh and thoughtfulness, because

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Speaker 2: this is something that she obviously wants to do, and

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Speaker 2: so it is a it's a dialogue. It's not a pushback, right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's totally fair to have a

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Speaker 2: it or what's not interesting about it, or what the pros,

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Speaker 2: what the cons are. But you gotta remember this is

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Speaker 2: something like in her mind, this is something she wants

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Speaker 2: to do, and if you start pushing back immediately won't

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Speaker 2: be received at all.

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Speaker 1: Right, She'll start you You just you can't do that.

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Speaker 2: This is one of those things where you got almost

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Speaker 2: like take a deep breath, take your time. Maybe not

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Speaker 2: first conversation, do a lot of listening and maybe even

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Speaker 2: another conversation you can do some follow up, but at

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Speaker 8: Her plan is that's gonna be so tough.

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Speaker 7: Just because I've looked into this company, I can't find

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Speaker 7: that they even sell a product. It seems like the

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Speaker 7: goal is just to get other people to sign up.

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Speaker 8: And she is so excited about it.

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Speaker 7: When she talks about it, she lights up, So of

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Speaker 7: course I don't want to take that from her, but

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Speaker 7: I'm so concerned that this is just a scam.

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Speaker 1: Are you describing like a pyramid scheme?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well that's what it sounds like, but it's not.

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Speaker 7: That's not how it's coming across.

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Speaker 8: So I'm just confused.

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Speaker 2: Wow. I think it's a very logical conversation to say, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know, let's really make sure we look into this

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Speaker 2: how that could go too. So just it's want of

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Speaker 1: Cares, especially she's already drinking the kool aid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so good luck on that. You know, anytime you

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Speaker 2: to your partner and if they, like I want, I

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Speaker 2: say poo poo it. But if they poo it, then

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Speaker 2: you begin to get defensive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, especially if they quickly and they don't even like.

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Speaker 2: Hear you out. It's a totally non productive what happened?

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Speaker 4: I want to get a new dining table and Michael's like,

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Speaker 4: we don't need a new dining table.

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Speaker 1: This one's fine. I was like, well, you don't even

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Speaker 4: Like what.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, we can do this, and we can do

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Speaker 1: like a payment planner.

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Speaker 4: And he's like, no, it's a waste of money. And

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Speaker 4: I was like, wow, that was our conversation.

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Speaker 2: So it ended with you barking.

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Speaker 4: Basically, it ended me being like, I'll get that dining table.

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Speaker 1: We'll have to figure out another way.

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Speaker 2: So basically you argue and then just go around him.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to go around him. I have

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Speaker 1: to convince him.

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Speaker 4: And Michael's a convincerr like I have to like show

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Speaker 2: Why advertize the table, like have a leg fall the

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Speaker 2: screws underneath their like we need.

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Speaker 4: A bigger table. The table that we have is too

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Speaker 4: small and it's time to move on.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, you guys have created a big family.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you need to have everybody sit at

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Speaker 2: the table. I know, well you know the person they

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Speaker 2: should be most frustrated and short tempered this morning is

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Speaker 2: Sysney works you up all night?

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I have been up since three and

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Speaker 4: that is like the worst time to wake up when

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Speaker 4: you usually don't wake up at like we wake up

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Speaker 4: like at you know, five is like my go to

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Speaker 4: like four forty five, five I'm out of bed. So

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Speaker 4: three is like one of those times where I'm not

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Speaker 1: So this is like ruined my night. No, yes, and

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Speaker 1: it happened.

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Speaker 4: So we're I'm laying there and my my little Diego. Why,

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Speaker 4: I just like, can you know when you're in between dreams?

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Speaker 4: So I didn't know if it was reality or dream

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Speaker 4: or whatever. But it was a dog that was barking

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Speaker 4: and wouldn't stop barking, and it was distant so that

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Speaker 4: I hear my Diego, who was like almost full grown Dalmatian,

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Speaker 4: and then so we're trying to figure out what's going on.

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Speaker 4: Michael's already up and he was investigating the situation. It

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Speaker 4: was a dog that was either across the street or

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Speaker 4: down the street, but like sometimes you can't tell with

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Speaker 4: like the way the echoes are, like, it felt like

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Speaker 4: this dog was across the street, but who knows, it

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Speaker 4: could have been down the street.

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Speaker 1: So he goes outside, and he gets up at three

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Speaker 1: in the morning, goes outside.

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Speaker 4: He goes outside like he's gonna hop a fence and

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Speaker 4: try to say to this dog, this is Mike the

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Speaker 4: dog a treat. I argue with Michael, but the stuff

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Speaker 2: Here's today's quote. Even if you don't have all the

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Speaker 2: On air with Ryan se do you pick your nose? Yes?

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Speaker 2: I know everyone does, and we all do. Where do

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Out of the counter.

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Speaker 2: John, I'm not saying we, I'm saying under the counter.

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Speaker 1: Now, I know what you do. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: Once I put on your passenger seat when you took

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Speaker 1: Now that one is actually more believable.

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Speaker 2: Transparency, Tanya, please, it is so. Now this is serious.

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Speaker 2: Picking your nose can lead to something really bad, Sisney,

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Speaker 4: Yes, and they're saying that picking your nose may increase

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Speaker 2: the whatever you call it is bad, bad, bad over time,

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Speaker 2: That is what worth shattering to think about. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I already I've trained myself not to put my fingers

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and especially if it's more so. Sometimes you have

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Speaker 1: You gotta get it out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So get your kids to start not doing it early.

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Speaker 4: I mean when we have the nose freeda when they

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Speaker 1: Now they just yeah, I don't know what they do.

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Speaker 2: Or you don't now is in a is an engage?

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Speaker 2: So Sydney, you saw a couple on a tandem bike.

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Speaker 2: Everybody looks happy on a tandem bike.

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Speaker 2: It is the cutest, coolest thing. So it was so

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what happened to me.

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Speaker 4: And I like had this whole flash forward of like, Michael,

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Speaker 4: Like that they look so happy and so cute. It's

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Speaker 2: How much do those go for a tandem bike? He'd

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Speaker 2: So you saw them biking at five thirty this morning?

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Speaker 2: Dear Sysney, Ryan, Tanya, my husband has been spending a

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Speaker 8: Oh gosh, I mean I knew that there was baggage

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Speaker 8: Yeah, they were there together, all right.

442
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Speaker 2: So do you think he's then gone back romantically with

443
00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 2: his ex wife? Is that your concern? I don't know,

444
00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:28,640
Speaker 2: I really now we've been married to him.

445
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Speaker 8: We've been married two years, but we've been together for

446
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Speaker 8: four years.

447
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Speaker 2: Okay, So here's that you are in your mind. You're

448
00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:42,880
Speaker 2: worried that maybe he's gone back to his ex wife

449
00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:44,920
Speaker 2: and lied about the fact that the kids were there.

450
00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:49,000
Speaker 2: They weren't there, and there might be romance again. That's

451
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Speaker 2: what you're thinking.

452
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Speaker 8: I mean it just feels weird to me, like, why

453
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Speaker 8: is he spending so much time over there? Why are

454
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Speaker 8: they spending so much time together alone?

455
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Speaker 6: Like and why?

456
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, he's not being completely honest about it, so it's

457
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:03,440
Speaker 8: just freaking me out.

458
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 1: And a dozen seem to be about the kids.

459
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:06,680
Speaker 2: Tyler, we're gonna call him right now. I need you

460
00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 2: to say, Ryan, you my permission to call and his name?

461
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Speaker 8: Go ahead, Yeah, I'm giving you permission to call.

462
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Speaker 2: What's his name? Oh? His name is Okay, we're gonna

463
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:21,639
Speaker 2: do that right now. Be very quiet. Let's see we

464
00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 2: can find out. Good luck, Tyler.

465
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:24,199
Speaker 8: Thank you?

466
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 9: Hi?

467
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:37,440
Speaker 1: Can I speak to Gus please?

468
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 2: Yes?

469
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:39,159
Speaker 8: Who is this?

470
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 10: Hi?

471
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Speaker 1: My name is Noreen. I'm calling from Westwood Blooms. How

472
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 1: are you doing this morning?

473
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 2: I'm fine you, I'm great.

474
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Speaker 1: Thank you for asking.

475
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,399
Speaker 4: We're offering a promotion right now for local residents and

476
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 4: it's a free dozen red roses that you can send

477
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:51,919
Speaker 4: to anybody that you'd like.

478
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:52,400
Speaker 1: They are free.

479
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,159
Speaker 4: I don't need cash or credit card info or anything

480
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,239
Speaker 4: like that from you. We're just trying to promote our

481
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 4: business we deliver locally and throughout parts of LA.

482
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:00,679
Speaker 8: Is that for me?

483
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: Are you gush?

484
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 6: You hear off some tree roses you can send wherever?

485
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 2: Correct.

486
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:11,719
Speaker 1: We just need the name of the person you want

487
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 1: to send them to in a note.

488
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 6: And I pay you nothing?

489
00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 1: Nothing?

490
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:19,199
Speaker 6: Okay?

491
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 2: Uh?

492
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Speaker 8: Can you?

493
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 6: Can you send them to Tara?

494
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 1: Yes? And what would you like to put on the card?

495
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 8: Hey?

496
00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 7: I'm mine?

497
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:34,719
Speaker 6: What is on the radio? H excuse me?

498
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:35,159
Speaker 8: This this?

499
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 1: What's that minute?

500
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 6: This woman at Starbucks is saying that I'm on the

501
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 6: radio right now. What's going on?

502
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Speaker 1: What would you like to put on the card?

503
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 6: Wait? No? Wait, wait, hold on, hold on? What's going on?

504
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 7: Why?

505
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 6: Why is everyone here? My voice is coming from What

506
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 6: is happening?

507
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 2: Gus? Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. The

508
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:57,719
Speaker 2: woman from Starbucks is correct. We have your husband, Tyler

509
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 2: on the line. He's asked to give you a call.

510
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 2: You are being broadcast?

511
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 8: Yes, why are you sending roses to your ex wife?

512
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 2: Oh?

513
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 6: My god? What are you doing?

514
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 8: What are you? The kids or the kids there on

515
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Speaker 8: Saturday night or not?

516
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Speaker 6: What are you talking about? What are you?

517
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Speaker 8: Oh my god, Saturday night you were at your ex

518
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 8: wife's house. Were the kids there?

519
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 2: No?

520
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 6: They were not. Can we talk about this?

521
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Speaker 8: Was her husband there?

522
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 2: No? So, gus are you are are Tyler's trying to

523
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 2: find out what's going on with you and your ex wife.

524
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Speaker 2: That's why we're here.

525
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Speaker 6: Okay, Tar and I we've been we've been reconnecting, we've

526
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Speaker 6: been talking.

527
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Speaker 8: What does that mean.

528
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Speaker 6: I just I don't.

529
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Speaker 7: I don't know.

530
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Speaker 6: I don't know what it means. I just know if

531
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Speaker 6: we had so we had so many fights over the years,

532
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Speaker 6: and I just it's nice to talk to her without fighting.

533
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Speaker 8: That's that's it. Okay, Well, what about her husband? He's

534
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 8: not there anymore.

535
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know.

536
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 6: I'm very confused. I don't I need to just figure

537
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 6: everything out. But can we can we not do this

538
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 6: like this?

539
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 8: What do you confuse? You know, take all the time

540
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Speaker 8: you need to become not confused, because I'm not going

541
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Speaker 8: to be there.

542
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 6: So hey, hey, wait wait wait, you are overreacting. This

543
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 6: is not a big deal. We have just been talking.

544
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Speaker 7: That's it.

545
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 6: You sleeping with your ex wife is a very very

546
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Speaker 6: big I never said. I never said I was sleeping

547
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Speaker 6: with my ex wife. First of all, are you are you?

548
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Speaker 8: Are you sleeping with her?

549
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Speaker 2: Listen?

550
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Speaker 6: Can we can we do this off of the radio?

551
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 6: Can we please with her? And I'm not doing this.

552
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Speaker 1: Well, you can't answer it. Hello, he hung up.

553
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: Gus hung up, Tyler. Do you think he's sleeping with

554
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Speaker 2: his ex wife?

555
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 6: Yeah?

556
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Speaker 8: I do.

557
00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:01,239
Speaker 2: He didn't, he didn't deny it. I did hear that.

558
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, he said he's reconnecting. I'm not quite sure

559
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: what that means.

560
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: Myself, and her husband's not around.

561
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 2: Her right, so he's lying. All right, Tyler, we're gonna

562
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: let you go so you can track Gus down and

563
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 2: get into it with him. Good luck with everything. We

564
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 2: got this email from Tyler. Tyler's in Westwood. Tyler's married

565
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 2: to Gus two years, been together four. So he reaches

566
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Speaker 2: out and he says, I've been feeling a little nervous

567
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Speaker 2: about my husband. He's been spending time with his ex wife.

568
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Speaker 2: And he found out that because he and his ex wife,

569
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Speaker 2: his husband and his ex wife have kids, and if

570
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 2: he's hanging out, the kids generally would be there so

571
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 2: they can spend time with the kids. But he found

572
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Speaker 2: out that he lied about the kids being there on

573
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Speaker 2: a Saturday night and it was just Gus and his

574
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Speaker 2: ex wife. So Tyler's concerned. I don't like it doesn't

575
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Speaker 2: feel right. Well, it got worse. It got worse. We

576
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 2: got him on the phone and Gus said, I've been

577
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 2: reconnecting with my ex wife. The kids were not there,

578
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 2: and then Tyler said, are you sleeping? Remember he's married

579
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 2: to Gus. Tyler married to Gus, Gus married to Tyler.

580
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 2: Tyler says, are you sleeping with your ex wife? Sisney.

581
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 2: He didn't deny it.

582
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Speaker 4: He did not, and he was like, let's not do this,

583
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 4: not on the air yet, Let's not do this here.

584
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 2: Let's not do this here.

585
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Speaker 1: What the fact that he called it a this? It

586
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Speaker 1: means that there's a thing.

587
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 3: There's things.

588
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 2: Someone says someone's married and they say, I'm reconnecting with

589
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 2: my ex games. What else do you need to hear? Daggers,

590
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 2: I'm reconnecting, but I'm not sleeping. Well, it doesn't matter.

591
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: You reconnect, you trying to reconnect, reconnect my energy behind

592
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 2: my back and you're laying about it. Alyssa and sant Gabral,

593
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 2: good morning. You heard Ryan's roses? What's your view?

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Speaker 9: Uh So, first of all, I love that the people

595
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Speaker 9: at Starbucks. I heard the roses was going on and yeah,

596
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 9: they totally gave that away. And that's hilarious.

597
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Speaker 1: I mean, great, if we got the note though, you know.

598
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I keep listening.

599
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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean I think overall, like there's definitely a

600
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 9: huge problem there. Like it sounds like this guy guys

601
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 9: wants his family back and like that's always like he's

602
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 9: always gonna want that back, like and have he's always

603
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 9: gonna have that connection with his family and.

604
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 2: Like to me, like he was working on reconnecting or

605
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 2: getting that back before he went to his husband to say,

606
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 2: I need to be with somebody else over for us

607
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 2: flowers to her too.

608
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's all bad. It's like bad, worse, worse.

609
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Speaker 7: What was her name?

610
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Speaker 2: It's I thought, he said, he said to Tyler at first,

611
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 2: but Tara very confusing to me, Tyler Tara because I

612
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: wasn't sure at first, I thought, he said, Tyler Tyler, Tara,

613
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 2: Tara got Tyler singing water. Yeah, Tara his ex and

614
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 2: Tyler the husband. I know, Alyssa Ryan's roses every Monday,

615
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 2: every Thursday. Thank you for Colin, Thank you for listening

616
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 2: to us. If you want to get to the bottom

617
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: of something, peace of mind in your own relationship, Ryan

618
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: at KISSFM dot com, send us the email like Tyler

619
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Speaker 2: did in Good Luck to Tyler Appreciate you, buddy, for

620
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 2: listening to us, Appreciate you for reaching out, Appreciate you

621
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Speaker 2: for going on, and I hope you find happiness and

622
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 2: get to the bottom of it. Jessica, good morning. How

623
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Speaker 2: you doing good?

624
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Speaker 10: How are you?

625
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Speaker 6: Guys?

626
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 2: We are here and we are in it. So what's

627
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 2: going on with your sister?

628
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 10: Yeah, So, my sister got married a couple weeks ago.

629
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Speaker 10: The wedding was great. She actually had a surprise during

630
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Speaker 10: the reception for my mom, so she ended up getting

631
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Speaker 10: my mom's wedding dress altered into a new outfit that

632
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Speaker 10: she wore during the reception. My mom didn't know she

633
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 10: was doing this. It was a really great surprise. Everyone

634
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 10: loved it. She looked gorgeous, and on the day of

635
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 10: the wedding, my mom was super happy, excited. She loved it.

636
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 10: But in the weeks since the wedding, turns out that

637
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 10: my mom actually hated that she did that. But I'm

638
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 10: the only one that knows that. My mom has been

639
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 10: NonStop complaining to me about how upset she is, how

640
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 10: disappointed she is, But to my sister, she's been just

641
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 10: saying how it was so great, she loved it. My

642
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 10: sister has no idea that my mom is so upset,

643
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 10: and I'm kind of in the middle, and I'm kind

644
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 10: of at like a breaking point. I can't take listening

645
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 10: to my mom being so upset but pretending she's so

646
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 10: happy to my sister and my sister not knowing. So

647
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Speaker 10: I'm like at the point where I don't know what

648
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 10: I should do. Do I tell my sister that Mom

649
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 10: actually hated it? Do I tell my mom she has

650
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 10: to have this discussion with my sister the dream It

651
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 10: is a very dramatic and if it's tough.

652
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 2: Situation, wedding's always wrong, not.

653
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Speaker 5: Always no, get hypnotized to forget all the information, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's not a bad idea.

655
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Speaker 2: Actually, I don't hate it.

656
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Speaker 4: There's just gonna be this bitterness that's gonna linger. So

657
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 4: a conversation needs to be had.

658
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Speaker 10: Yeah, that's the training is. I don't know if like

659
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 10: I'm the one that's supposed to start off the conversation

660
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Speaker 10: with my sister or if I have to connect.

661
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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I I I'm on the fence

662
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: because part of me thinks, all right, let's just get

663
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 2: this settled, right, Let's just instigate a conversation and get

664
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Speaker 2: it settled. Then the other part is that kind of

665
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: not your thing, you know, like you didn't do it.

666
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: Time will go by, people will forgive, things will fade.

667
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, might cool down a little bit, just so close

668
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 4: to the wedding, snow it's still fresh.

669
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, your Rhine's right, So just got to do nothing.

670
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: The best advice given Tanya rad hypnotized, Wow, so may

671
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 2: be what I would do, Jessica, good luck, Thank you.

672
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: And also if her mom is telling her Jessica that

673
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: she's not down with what her sister did, isn't that

674
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: doesn't her mom know that she's going to tell her,

675
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 2: you know, like maybe say that knowing the word is

676
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: going to get to her sister in a softer ways.

677
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 4: Yes, and no, you know mom's confining you and you

678
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 4: keep that secret, are you just it's a different conversation

679
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 4: that you had with them.

680
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 7: You know.

681
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 2: It's interesting about relationships so many things. And I was

682
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: talking to a friend about how relationships when you're in one,

683
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 2: I think part I mean, you guys can tell me

684
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 2: part of the deal is it's that C word, right,

685
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 2: I Mean, one of the big things you got to

686
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: do is not only compromise, like in a discussion or

687
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 2: an argument to settle it. But compromise and do things

688
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 2: that you would never do, Like do you think I

689
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: would have ever jumped out of a plane when I did.

690
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: I jumped out of a plane years ago, shot a date, shook,

691
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 2: shocking because I'm scared of I'm scared of things. You're scared.

692
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 2: But she was a professional skydiver. Wow, I of course said,

693
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: I'll step up now. They strapped me to a man,

694
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: of course, jumped out by herself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

695
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 2: that's how you do it.

696
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 4: Have you never done it? I've done a forward somersault

697
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 4: out of it. When I did it, what without no?

698
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: I was danhem? Yeah yeah, yeah I had I had

699
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: a guide with me.

700
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta have somebody that that strapped you. But

701
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: that's like one thing that I would never do on

702
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 2: my own out in the wild. Tanya is well, she's

703
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 2: in this new relationship, and I think one of the

704
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 2: things you're trying to do is over compensate, compromise in

705
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 2: certain situations. So you did you did something right that

706
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: you normally wouldn't do.

707
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

708
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 5: I feel like he does so much much for me

709
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,239
Speaker 5: that he wouldn't necessarily do on his own, but he

710
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 5: does for example, for example, go to a show, go

711
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 5: to a concert, go to a Taylor Swift show, you know,

712
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 5: come to Friday night right right, Like there's certain things

713
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 5: that like not necessarily he doesn't like, but he wouldn't

714
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 5: necessarily just do them on his own. And so he's

715
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 5: been really wanting to go off roading in his car

716
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 5: for years.

717
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: He does it like screams to do that.

718
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's built for it, and so he's been wanting

719
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 5: to do it for years. And one of our friends

720
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 5: that was over over the weekend he goes often, and

721
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 5: was like, do you guys want to come over the

722
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:46,719
Speaker 5: Labor Day weekend? So we went and it was just

723
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 5: I feel like I've saw something in him, just like.

724
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 3: Unlocked, Like he was a little boy, a little.

725
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 5: Boy in a candy store, Like he was having the

726
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 5: best time ever.

727
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 3: Like it was so cute to I.

728
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 5: Was miser bowl, but he because it's just so Yeah,

729
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 5: it was like kind of like being on Indiana Jones.

730
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 2: Where did you find off road in the densely populated

731
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 2: Los Angeles.

732
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 5: So there's like a it's like made for it. It's

733
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 5: kind of like a park. It's up Passana Clarita really yeah, yeah, yeah,

734
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 5: it's it's drivable and uh, it's like made for this

735
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 5: type of stuff. Like a lot of people had those,

736
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 5: like ATVs and stuff, and they have all these little

737
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 5: trails that you can do and and different mountains you

738
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 5: can go up and it's like a whole park.

739
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 3: No nothing, you're in your own car.

740
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: It's in his car, but you're.

741
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 2: Actively it's like you.

742
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 5: Know, yeah, and he like kept pulling things like you'd

743
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 5: be like wow, you put it in like Baja mode

744
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 5: where you can see like the front, and he.

745
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: Was just so cool. I mean, the Ford Bronco is

746
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: it is. It's made to go through like at least

747
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: the commercial through creeks in the mountains. The question, though,

748
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 2: is after you compromise like that, Like I know, Robbie

749
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 2: has done things for you, like takes his mouth shut

750
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 2: at night because you wanted to right right right, I

751
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 2: mean he would never journal watch Love is Blind or

752
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 2: blind his love or whatever it is. Yeah, a lot of.

753
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 3: Things watch yeah, yeah, yeah, he does a lot of that.

754
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 2: But after you did that, did he do something for you?

755
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: Because I feel like there's also a trade when it

756
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 2: comes to a compromise like that.

757
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 3: Well, the day before.

758
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 5: It was like everything that we had like a double

759
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 5: date with my friends and we kind of did like

760
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 5: my whole thing the day before, but it was just

761
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 5: it made me want to do more stuff that he

762
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 5: enjoys because seeing how how happy he is.

763
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was just like so cute.

764
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:33,879
Speaker 2: Like I really have a question. I have a question

765
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 2: about marriage speaking of this, because if I ever do,

766
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 2: do do compromises like that dissipate as the years go by,

767
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 2: or do you still do think I need commise but

768
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: things like that.

769
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean going off roading sounds really fun, but

770
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 4: like I couldn't imagine doing that now with three kids

771
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 4: in our schedule.

772
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 2: And so you wouldn't. You don't have to do that.

773
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 4: No, but I mean you you compromise in other ways,

774
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 4: Like right now, Michael's passion is this band and like

775
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 4: really kind of focusing all his energy in that, and

776
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 4: he has supported me like my entire career and not

777
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 4: saying he's gonna make a whole career out of it,

778
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 4: but like he really really enjoys it. So we compromise

779
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 4: on days when like he wants to record with the

780
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 4: guys or play and jam out or do whatever, and

781
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 4: I'll have the kids all day that Saturday or that Sunday.

782
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 4: So you're kind of compromise in that sense because it does.

783
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 4: It makes him so happy.

784
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 2: It is a very easy secret to success in a relationship.

785
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: So we have sound of you off roading. Okay, this

786
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: is uh, I guess it's Tany and Robbie. What are

787
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 2: you listening to?

788
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 3: I don't know. We had it all there. Nothing really worked.

789
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

790
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 3: I don't know.

791
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa.

792
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, this feels like it hurts.

793
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 2: Could you explain that whoa whoa?

794
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 3: Because you're going you're like bump. You're on these bumpy

795
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 3: broud so it's like.

796
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 5: Like holding onto all of the different bars they have,

797
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 5: like a top bar and like a bottom bar.

798
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: Oh, you're a local California four dealer if you want

799
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 2: to whoa whoa woa like that in your block car.

800
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 2: I've got one, Robbie Scott one and they're ready for you.

801
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: You should come with.

802
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 2: I should come out and we should have tandem.

803
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 5: I know it's you can put the car into this

804
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 5: gear where you can flip it around like in circles.

805
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 2: Okay, I didn't. I don't Robbie's to show me that.

806
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, once, once I have a situation i'm in

807
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 2: that I can compromise with, I'll definitely go with you.

808
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 2: All right, we need to have a little family meeting

809
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 2: gather in here, Tanya. I think Sysney needs us to

810
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: weigh in on an issue at home for her, and

811
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 2: we're always here for you. I mean, that's what we do.

812
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 2: So what's the issue at home now?

813
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 4: So I am, you know, a working mom, and I

814
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 4: juggle a lot from here to the the kids school

815
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 4: and stuff like that. I'm used to a lot of

816
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 4: emails coming from the school, but now I'm on a

817
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 4: group chat or like a group text like how we

818
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 4: are for the show, but for all the moms in

819
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 4: Ason Maxim's class, so they're in the same class.

820
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: It's first great, is.

821
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 2: That's something it's set up at the school or just

822
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: the moment, just the.

823
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 4: Moms, like the room mom decided to do it on

824
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 4: her own, which is great for information, a lot of it.

825
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 4: But it is like a Twitter like or nets if.

826
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: You want to look at it this way.

827
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 4: It's going off at all times, and some of the

828
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 4: stuff is your very useful information. But for the most part,

829
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 4: it's like someone puts a picture and then all thirty

830
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 4: two moms like it. It's just you know, a little

831
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 4: bit of that, a little bit of this, and then

832
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 4: the info that I am taking in. I then have

833
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 4: to relate to Michael. So I'm like now the messenger

834
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 4: for him, like I'm his assistant to tell him, like

835
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 4: all the kids need this because that's what's being said

836
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 4: in the mom group chat. So I'm like, why aren't

837
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 4: the dads in this chat?

838
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: Like why is it just.

839
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 5: The here for itssney, Because I'm so tired of this

840
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 5: old school like the moms do everything, you know, like

841
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 5: moms and dads now are doing it.

842
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 4: Like maybe it's I'll regret it by saying add all

843
00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 4: the dads in and then you have sixty people on

844
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 4: the chat. But I kind of lost it when I

845
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 4: then got added to a text chain the other day

846
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 4: and I said, Hi, preschool moms, and I was like,

847
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 4: oh no, now I have Saveya's preschool.

848
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 2: Moms, and oh my gosh, it's a lot. Well, so

849
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: these are the things you don't think about when you

850
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 2: have three kids. Things you don't calculate just what it's

851
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 2: like a parent opt in. So if it's mom, if

852
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 2: it's dad, she should just be called parent.

853
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: The parents say it louder, Ryan, I'm.

854
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: Not going to say it louder. I'm just going to

855
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 2: say it like I said.

856
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 4: I like that though it's parent and we we do

857
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 4: all the parents are on an email like we all

858
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 4: get the email blast and all that.

859
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: But I think this is just a little bit more specific, you.

860
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 4: Know, like little things like hey, does anybody know where

861
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 4: we can get the right socks?

862
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: Like it's just those types of things.

863
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 4: And I'm telling you a lot of the information is useful,

864
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 4: but I was talking to whatever.

865
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 2: There's a lot there's a lot of community. There's not

866
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 2: a busy, busy chat too.

867
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 10: Right know.

868
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 4: One of the moms that back to school night the

869
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 4: other night, she was just like, oh, I mute it.

870
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 4: She's like, I just I go back there and I

871
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 4: check it when I need to check it.

872
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, okay, it's it's the parent

873
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 2: opt in text, right Because it's like when we were

874
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 2: going to school and you the teacher was going to

875
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: meet with the parents, it would be the parent teacher conference.

876
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: It wasn't the mom teacher conference. Is the parent teacher.

877
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: Conference and my parents were not involved like this at all.

878
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:09,879
Speaker 4: I mean, granted, there was no cell phones back when

879
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 4: I was in elementary school, and so it's just like

880
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 4: this is a new era that we live in and

881
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 4: we have so much more communication, which is great, but

882
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 4: also we all got by with less communication back in

883
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 4: the day.

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Speaker 3: But I also think you can get Michael and not

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Speaker 3: say anything.

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Speaker 4: Why do you have to get a prove he's the

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Speaker 4: one guy in the.

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Speaker 3: Whole No, stay silent.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't have to chime in. He's just there to

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Speaker 5: read all the.

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Speaker 2: Information, so you don't have to convey it yourself and

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Speaker 2: be the messenger. I think that solves the problem.

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Speaker 1: I think that does solve the problem.

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Speaker 2: By the way, if there's other there's other parents on

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Speaker 2: there that I'm sure that they both the mom and

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Speaker 2: the dad see the message. I don't think like there's

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Speaker 2: there's some sort of rule on it. Uh, but uh yeah,

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Speaker 2: just just call them.

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Speaker 4: Maybe you guys, just so you guys can see how

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Speaker 4: much there's no need for us to know anything about

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Speaker 4: the socks.

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Speaker 2: I don't need that, we don't need it. That's your responsibility,

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Speaker 2: your job. And uh, but I love that you're on

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Speaker 2: that because I do think it's important to have communication

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Speaker 2: with your you know, fellow parenting.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean it's an amazing community. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 4: an amazing community. But yeah, I'm like I need to now,

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Speaker 4: I'm just relaying all these messages to Michael.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is going to do it for us today.

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Speaker 2: Coming up tomorrow, we've got a second date up date.

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Speaker 2: Have a great Monday, guys, take good care. Thanks for

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