WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: One Day, Two Dates

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<v Speaker 1>Brookings Second date update. I'm not even sure today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update qualifies as a second date update, since Randall,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy who's on the phone and wants us to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl this morning, actually went on two dates

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<v Speaker 1>already with the girl that he wants us to call,

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<v Speaker 1>two dates in the same day. Actually, yeah, Randall, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm good? How are you all good? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Your email said that you went on two dates with

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<v Speaker 1>the same girl in the same day and now she

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<v Speaker 1>won't call you back. How do you even go on

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<v Speaker 1>two dates in the same day. Well, it's kind of funny, obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't hear about that quite a bit. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>went out on this blind date with this girl named Abbey.

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<v Speaker 1>Um it was we met in the morning, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird, but that's kind of a time that

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<v Speaker 1>we both had. How early in the morning, like she

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<v Speaker 1>was getting ready to go for work and you were

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<v Speaker 1>outside her door going, hey, I'm Randall, nice to meet you.

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you guys plan for this exactly? I had

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<v Speaker 1>a boombox over my head and everything we planned for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we met down Starbucks, you know, got a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee nine in the morning. Was this before work and everything. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she you know, I think she had to go someplace

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to go to work about ten, So

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<v Speaker 1>just met for real quick coffee. Okay. I don't usually

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<v Speaker 1>go on blind dates. I find them kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Was this a true blind date or did you check

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<v Speaker 1>her out on Facebook and stuff beforehand? Well, so you

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<v Speaker 1>knew it. You knew what she looked like. At least

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<v Speaker 1>I did, and you know that's that's why I went,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's like, oh, she's cute, you know, so I

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<v Speaker 1>have to trust my friend's recommendation a little bit, you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So coffee was cool, and then um, you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we had our coffee and I kind of I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see her again sort of as soon as I could,

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<v Speaker 1>So I went for broken, asked her if she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go and get some dinner later that night. So

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about how dinner went. Well. Yeah, so we

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner and we started just talking. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing we really kind of bonded over was music,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really cool. Like you were like super into

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<v Speaker 1>Katie Perry, like the the Real Deep Cuts, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>a John Mayer fan. So you guys really clicked or

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, no, no. I mean I he asked me

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of music I liked, and I just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of named some bands, sort of stuff nobody really has

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard of. But you know, she she knew a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about him, and we started talking and we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of lost track of time, just talked about music.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's cool. You're two hipsters after each other. It's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nobody's ever heard very ground there called rocket Ship

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<v Speaker 1>to the Funky Steamboat. They've only played three shows ever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've got them all on final So you guys

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<v Speaker 1>like the same kind of music and stuff. That's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Did anything strange happen on your date, though, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>always the most important part. I mean, if I knew

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<v Speaker 1>it was strange, it wouldn't probably be calling you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we talked about music, and then I walked

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<v Speaker 1>her out to her car and we kissed for a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit and then for a little bit anyway, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was that. So so it's like a steamy makeout session.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the end of the night, yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times have you try to get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of her since that day? Well, you know, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks since I've talked to her, you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>tried to call her, you know, several times, and I

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<v Speaker 1>text her. And the thing is, she never picks up

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<v Speaker 1>my calls, but she does answer my text messages. What

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<v Speaker 1>does she say. It's usually like, you know, I fall

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<v Speaker 1>send her like you want to hang out or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>she says, Oh, you know, as something came up, or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm busy or I'm working tonight or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Okay, So so she's constantly making excuses not

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<v Speaker 1>to see you. Yeah, as a girl, I can tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that's not it. That's not a good sign. We

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<v Speaker 1>can pick up the phone if we wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I mean, I want to see her again,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I just don't know if I did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong or whatever. I do want to thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your email yeah and talking to us for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while. I appreciate that. But I do have to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know this is called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Technically this will be your third date if we call

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<v Speaker 1>her and we're not allowed to do it. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna be able to make a phone call. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be able to make the phone call

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Sorry about that, but I just made you

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<v Speaker 1>invest just wanted to cheer your story and tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that you couldn't do it. Yeah, no, that's not third

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<v Speaker 1>date update, dude. Actually, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you very much, hang on it looking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Randall, I was pretty impressed by your story

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<v Speaker 1>about going on two dates in the same day with

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<v Speaker 1>the same girl until I played that song and have

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<v Speaker 1>been thinking about my life for a little while, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I realized I've done it four times in one day.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gone on different girls, not even dates. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>awesome my life is. Pay for all of these girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Who cares how it happened? Details aren't important, all right, Randall.

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<v Speaker 1>We're about ready to call Abby, just to refresh everybody's memory.

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<v Speaker 1>Randall went out with Abby on a blind date. They

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<v Speaker 1>initially met for coffee, then ended up a green to

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<v Speaker 1>go out in the evening to have dinner. It it

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<v Speaker 1>was a good date. They enjoyed each other's company and

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<v Speaker 1>it with a makeout. But now she's blowing him off,

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<v Speaker 1>giving up all kinds of excuses why they can't hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again. We're about to call her and ask why

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<v Speaker 1>any last thoughts before I dial her phone number. I

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<v Speaker 1>just need to know I'm excited. So I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you've invested some time into this girl and

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<v Speaker 1>you obviously really like her. If she says something mean

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, your teeth are too big or

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<v Speaker 1>your personality sucks? Are you gonna cry? Not on the phone? No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just cry to yourself. That's all right, hey. And if

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't work out, there's more fish in the sea.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I told you my story about

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<v Speaker 1>four times? All right, you know there's other options. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna die the phone of her right now. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>all I was looking for Abby. How is Thatabby? Hey? Abby?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Um, sorry, you're from where Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Oh have you

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<v Speaker 1>listened to us before? Ever? Yeah? I look you guys

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<v Speaker 1>at the time on Guys Quick nine. No, that would

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<v Speaker 1>be a different morning show. We're on ninety two point five.

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<v Speaker 1>As people get it confused all the time. It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>We get text messages from people listening to different shows.

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<v Speaker 1>We are on ninety two point five, though, we do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you've heard of that or not,

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<v Speaker 1>but what it is is where if you go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with one of our listeners, they email us

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<v Speaker 1>to call and ask you why you're blowing them off.

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<v Speaker 1>A guy named Randall recently emailed us about you. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Randall said in his email that he enjoyed your date

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<v Speaker 1>very much, told us how you met for coffee and

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<v Speaker 1>then went out later in the day for dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to have a great time. He's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you out for a while now, and you keep

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<v Speaker 1>giving different excuses as to why you can't go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Our job right now is to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>if there is any particular reason that you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to see Randall again, because he feels like you're blowing

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<v Speaker 1>him off. Um, well, I have been really busy lately,

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<v Speaker 1>but now you're blowing me off. You know you'd make

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<v Speaker 1>time if you really liked him. No, I mean he's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I Um, I don't. I don't know. Are you blowing

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<v Speaker 1>him off? Abby? Well, I'm I'm not in tough. I'm mabbe.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay to say yes, if you're blowing him off,

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<v Speaker 1>he just wants to know. Okay, Yes, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with him again, And is there any

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<v Speaker 1>reason why we have a mutual friend who set us off?

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<v Speaker 1>And then I got a phone call from my friend

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<v Speaker 1>the next day and she says that she had talked

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<v Speaker 1>to Randall and he had um set some stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>her that kind of just set off alarms for me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he said stuff to your friend about you

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<v Speaker 1>that set off alarms. She told me that Randall got

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<v Speaker 1>I guess excited about seeing me again, and apparently, like

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<v Speaker 1>that night he went home and bought like a thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars worth of concert tickets for us to go see

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<v Speaker 1>some shows. Like yeah, like a thousand dollars how many

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<v Speaker 1>show like planning hading on like six months of concerts,

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<v Speaker 1>Like basically he planned future dates. Yeah. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how many shows it was, but I just know he

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<v Speaker 1>told her that it was like a thousand dollars worth

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<v Speaker 1>of tickets. Are you sure that he bought him like

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<v Speaker 1>as dates for you too? Yeah, So she said that's aggressive.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see like, hey, I'm going to buy a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of tickets to a show hoping that she'll say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>If she doesn't, I'll give him to a friend or

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<v Speaker 1>something and then stay home and remind myself what a

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<v Speaker 1>horrible person I am. So your friends said that he

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<v Speaker 1>shared with her that he bought a thousand dollars worth

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<v Speaker 1>of concert tickets for future dates for you guys after

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<v Speaker 1>one date. Yeah, and it kind of it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>creep me out a little bit, like it was really

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<v Speaker 1>really fast. Abby. Thank you very much for giving us

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<v Speaker 1>that information so that we can tell Randall about it. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't want him to know about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just told you guys because you're asked. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of have to tell him though, because that's the

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<v Speaker 1>whole idea behind the segment, you know, is so that

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<v Speaker 1>he can know what he did wrong. Anybody. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to embarrass the guy or heard his failings or anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean well, but all right, how about this, Abby,

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<v Speaker 1>how about we just bring him on the air and

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<v Speaker 1>you can talk to him because Randall is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line. Yeah, I told her in confidence. Then

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<v Speaker 1>she went in and told you about this. Is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>This really feels awkward? Listen, That's not like what it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like. I wasn't going to just like show up

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<v Speaker 1>at your house with an armful of concert tickets and

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<v Speaker 1>just be like, hey, I have the rest of our

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<v Speaker 1>life planned out. Yeah, that's what it sounds like. This

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<v Speaker 1>is going to like parse about we have such a

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<v Speaker 1>good time and these bands are going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the area in the next couple of months. I just

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<v Speaker 1>figured get them before they sell out so we could

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<v Speaker 1>have something to do if we wanted to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>But I spent one day with you, and now you're

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<v Speaker 1>planning like months of gates. I mean, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like set off alarms in my head, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like just makes me say, I don't know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to get involved with that. I don't have like

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<v Speaker 1>a doll made, you know, a review or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So you did spend a thousand dollars and buy a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of tickets for shows coming up to take Abby too?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did, But you know it's parsed out over

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<v Speaker 1>several months, not like over the next two weeks. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going on a cruise to do whatever, and any randall

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<v Speaker 1>you would have bought them regardless, it's not necessarily for

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<v Speaker 1>you an Abbey. Thank you well. I did buy them

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<v Speaker 1>for her and me, but we had the whole conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about every one of these bands. I went. I looked,

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<v Speaker 1>they're all coming to Seattle in the next couple of months,

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<v Speaker 1>so I figured, why not get on top of it

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<v Speaker 1>and get tickets before they Also, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have much I don't have that much more problem with it, Randall.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually think that's kind of cool. Like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>most girls always complained that you don't try hard enough

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't got Anyway, he's already planned out the

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<v Speaker 1>next like seventeen dates they're going on. Wouldn't creep me

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<v Speaker 1>out if we had been, you know, going out for

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<v Speaker 1>a few months or so. But we went on one date,

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<v Speaker 1>we went on two dates. Were on two dates in

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<v Speaker 1>the same day. That's sort of one day coffee meeting

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<v Speaker 1>him a dinner. It doesn't really true, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>went on two dates in the same day, and yet

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<v Speaker 1>it's too intense that it bought you tickets two months

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<v Speaker 1>in advance. I thought dinner was a fun, pompy thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wasn't looking for something so quick, you know, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so food but not entertainment. Okay, Abby, he didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you about it. You found out from his roommate. He

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't pressuring you to go to all of these things.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like thoughtful thing. I can see that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just the way it came out she told

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<v Speaker 1>me anyway, And I don't know. I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really want to go out with him. Naw, she she

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<v Speaker 1>told you. How is that my fault? That's actually a

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<v Speaker 1>good point, Abby. Randall might have kept it a secret

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<v Speaker 1>from you and just had these tickets and was like

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<v Speaker 1>every once in a while would invite you to a

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<v Speaker 1>show and you're sweet. Yeah, your friend, your mutual friend,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sold him out and made him sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a psycho at spend a thousand. Yeah, but maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>friend was worried. I mean, maybe the friends telling you

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<v Speaker 1>because it is a red flag. I think she got

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<v Speaker 1>the same red flag that I got when she told me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she wouldn't have told me for no reason,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. All right, Well, I'm on Randall's side here, Abby,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta tell you, and I would love for you

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with him again. I will pay for

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<v Speaker 1>you to go on a second date with Randall. Come on, Abby,

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<v Speaker 1>if you will. I'm sorry, I just I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I want to. Are you sure there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>I can do to get you to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Randall again? No, it was just too weird. Look, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you what do you want me to do?

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<v Speaker 1>I can back off, I can take it slowly, that's fine. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just sort of I got over excited a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Okay, let's just try again. Can we go

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<v Speaker 1>out again? So he dials it back Abbey a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to go to any cards? Yeah, no shows, nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for you guys to go on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I'm being pressured by by you

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<v Speaker 1>and then by everyone. Just I just don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>they feel comfortable, and I don't think I want it

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<v Speaker 1>all right. You know what I think is bulls because

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<v Speaker 1>I've already spent like one thousand dollars in gift cards

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner, and now you're not going to use them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a broken jubil and the more