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Speaker 1: Brookings Second date update. I'm not even sure today's second

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Speaker 1: date update qualifies as a second date update, since Randall,

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Speaker 1: the guy who's on the phone and wants us to

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Speaker 1: call a girl this morning, actually went on two dates

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Speaker 1: two dates in the same day. Actually, yeah, Randall, what's up?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? How are you all good? Now?

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Speaker 1: Your email said that you went on two dates with

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Speaker 1: the same girl in the same day and now she

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Speaker 1: two dates in the same day. Well, it's kind of funny, obviously.

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Speaker 1: You don't hear about that quite a bit. Um, I

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Speaker 1: went out on this blind date with this girl named Abbey.

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Speaker 1: Um it was we met in the morning, which is

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Speaker 1: a little weird, but that's kind of a time that

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Speaker 1: outside her door going, hey, I'm Randall, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 1: Or did you guys plan for this exactly? I had

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Speaker 1: You know, we met down Starbucks, you know, got a

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Speaker 1: coffee nine in the morning. Was this before work and everything. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: just met for real quick coffee. Okay. I don't usually

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Speaker 1: Was this a true blind date or did you check

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Speaker 1: her out on Facebook and stuff beforehand? Well, so you

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Speaker 1: have to trust my friend's recommendation a little bit, you know. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So coffee was cool, and then um, you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: So I went for broken, asked her if she wanted

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Speaker 1: tell us about how dinner went. Well. Yeah, so we

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Speaker 1: oh no, no, no. I mean I he asked me

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Speaker 1: of named some bands, sort of stuff nobody really has

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Speaker 1: And it's cool. You're two hipsters after each other. It's hard.

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Speaker 1: It's nobody's ever heard very ground there called rocket Ship

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Speaker 1: to the Funky Steamboat. They've only played three shows ever,

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Speaker 1: and I've got them all on final So you guys

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Speaker 1: Did anything strange happen on your date, though, because that's

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Speaker 1: always the most important part. I mean, if I knew

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Speaker 1: it was strange, it wouldn't probably be calling you guys.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we talked about music, and then I walked

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Speaker 1: You know. Okay, So so she's constantly making excuses not

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Speaker 1: let you know this is called a second date update.

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Speaker 1: Technically this will be your third date if we call

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Speaker 1: her and we're not allowed to do it. So I'm

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Speaker 1: you very much, hang on it looking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You know, Randall, I was pretty impressed by your story

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Speaker 1: been thinking about my life for a little while, and

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Speaker 1: then I realized I've done it four times in one day.

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Speaker 1: You've gone on different girls, not even dates. That's how

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Speaker 1: awesome my life is. Pay for all of these girls.

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Speaker 1: Who cares how it happened? Details aren't important, all right, Randall.

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Speaker 1: We're about ready to call Abby, just to refresh everybody's memory.

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Speaker 1: Randall went out with Abby on a blind date. They

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Speaker 1: your personality sucks? Are you gonna cry? Not on the phone? No, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna die the phone of her right now. Hello,

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Speaker 1: all I was looking for Abby. How is Thatabby? Hey? Abby?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Um, sorry, you're from where Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Oh have you

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Speaker 1: listened to us before? Ever? Yeah? I look you guys

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Speaker 1: at the time on Guys Quick nine. No, that would

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Speaker 1: be a different morning show. We're on ninety two point five.

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Speaker 1: As people get it confused all the time. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of that or not,

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Speaker 1: A guy named Randall recently emailed us about you. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Randall said in his email that he enjoyed your date

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Speaker 1: really fast. Abby. Thank you very much for giving us

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want him to know about that.

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Speaker 1: he can know what he did wrong. Anybody. I don't

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Speaker 1: I mean well, but all right, how about this, Abby,

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Speaker 1: the other line. Yeah, I told her in confidence. Then

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Speaker 1: This really feels awkward? Listen, That's not like what it

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Speaker 1: life planned out. Yeah, that's what it sounds like. This

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Speaker 1: But I spent one day with you, and now you're

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Speaker 1: So you did spend a thousand dollars and buy a

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Speaker 1: Yeah I did, But you know it's parsed out over

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Speaker 1: several months, not like over the next two weeks. We're

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Speaker 1: you would have bought them regardless, it's not necessarily for

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Speaker 1: you an Abbey. Thank you well. I did buy them

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Speaker 1: about every one of these bands. I went. I looked,

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Speaker 1: they're all coming to Seattle in the next couple of months,

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Speaker 1: and get tickets before they Also, you know, I don't

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Speaker 1: have much I don't have that much more problem with it, Randall.

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Speaker 1: I actually think that's kind of cool. Like I mean,

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Speaker 1: next like seventeen dates they're going on. Wouldn't creep me

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Speaker 1: out if we had been, you know, going out for

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Speaker 1: a few months or so. But we went on one date,

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Speaker 1: we went on two dates. Were on two dates in

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Speaker 1: the same day. That's sort of one day coffee meeting

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Speaker 1: him a dinner. It doesn't really true, you know, we

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Speaker 1: it's too intense that it bought you tickets two months

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Speaker 1: but I wasn't looking for something so quick, you know, right,

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Speaker 1: so food but not entertainment. Okay, Abby, he didn't tell

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Speaker 1: you about it. You found out from his roommate. He

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Speaker 1: wasn't pressuring you to go to all of these things.

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Speaker 1: I think it's like thoughtful thing. I can see that,

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Speaker 1: but it just the way it came out she told

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Speaker 1: really want to go out with him. Naw, she she

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Speaker 1: told you. How is that my fault? That's actually a

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Speaker 1: good point, Abby. Randall might have kept it a secret

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Speaker 1: from you and just had these tickets and was like

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Speaker 1: show and you're sweet. Yeah, your friend, your mutual friend,

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Speaker 1: kind of sold him out and made him sound like

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Speaker 1: a psycho at spend a thousand. Yeah, but maybe the

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Speaker 1: friend was worried. I mean, maybe the friends telling you

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Speaker 1: because it is a red flag. I think she got

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Speaker 1: the same red flag that I got when she told me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she wouldn't have told me for no reason,

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Speaker 1: you know. All right, Well, I'm on Randall's side here, Abby,

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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, and I would love for you

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Speaker 1: to go out with him again. I will pay for

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Speaker 1: you to go on a second date with Randall. Come on, Abby,

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Speaker 1: if you will. I'm sorry, I just I just don't

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Speaker 1: know if I want to. Are you sure there's nothing

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Speaker 1: Randall again? No, it was just too weird. Look, I mean,

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Speaker 1: what do you what do you want me to do?

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Speaker 1: I can back off, I can take it slowly, that's fine. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is just sort of I got over excited a

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Speaker 1: out again? So he dials it back Abbey a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to go to any cards? Yeah, no shows, nothing,

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for you guys to go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm being pressured by by you

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Speaker 1: and then by everyone. Just I just don't know how

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Speaker 1: all right. You know what I think is bulls because

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Speaker 1: I've already spent like one thousand dollars in gift cards

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Speaker 1: for dinner, and now you're not going to use them.

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Speaker 1: It's a broken jubil and the more