WEBVTT - Susan Noles Got A MAN! Meet Him Right Now!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to I Do Part two. It's Susan Knowles here

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<v Speaker 1>today from The Golden Bachelor, as well as Hullow's Got

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<v Speaker 1>to Get Out and from the podcast I co host

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<v Speaker 1>with Kathy under Bachelor Happy Hour Golden Hour. So, as

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<v Speaker 1>you all know, I have been on I Do Part

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<v Speaker 1>two before talking about dating and putting yourself out there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am so happy to check in with all

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<v Speaker 1>of you because I am finally dating someone myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so excited for all of you to meet my man,

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<v Speaker 1>Frederic or fred or Eric or whatever he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>go by today say hello, there you go. And he's French.

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<v Speaker 1>We also have our beautiful Jad. This is his daughter

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<v Speaker 1>who teaches me French every single day. And no I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not good at it yet. However, thank you. We are

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<v Speaker 1>in beautiful Saint Martin right now, right, yes, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is where he lives. So where do we start. I

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<v Speaker 1>was on vacation with Kathy for sixteen days. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea and one night I had an espresso

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<v Speaker 1>martini after dinner. When we came back, Kathy and I

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<v Speaker 1>we did our girl talk, wash our face. She went

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<v Speaker 1>up to bed and I couldn't sleep. I was wide

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<v Speaker 1>awake playing games on my iPad, and I said, let

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<v Speaker 1>me try Tinder and voila. Obviously I swiped right, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get back on for three days. Right, three days?

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<v Speaker 1>And who message to first? How many times did we

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<v Speaker 1>text before we went on our first date? Three days?

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<v Speaker 1>We text? Okay, okay, and do you remember what you

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<v Speaker 1>said to me the first message?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? What, thank you for your smile?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, send you for you ura, my aura, Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>your love. Do you like to dance?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And is my French better than your English? I think

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<v Speaker 1>you said? And I said yes to two, but no

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<v Speaker 1>to one because I can't speak French. So we decided

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<v Speaker 1>to meet. He asked me to bring ear pods. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>we bring Kathy along because Kathy can speak a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of English, I actually, and Spanish and French. I said.

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<v Speaker 1>She could speak no, French a little bit, Spanish a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, and English a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I said, so she.

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<v Speaker 1>Helped with the introduction. He put the EarPods in our

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<v Speaker 1>ears and we were on our cell phones the whole

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<v Speaker 1>entire time. Kathy stayed but five ten minutes, had one drink,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she she left. She was comfortable, We were comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>And no, I did not have a code word or

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<v Speaker 1>anything for Kathy to leave. As a matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted Kathy to stay a little longer, but she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, you two were doing your things. She goes,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were fine with that. So tell me about

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<v Speaker 1>the first time we met, when we were communicating with

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<v Speaker 1>our iPhones.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful Roman.

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<v Speaker 3>Get the.

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<v Speaker 2>Aura.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a good moment in your company. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 2>I want to stop the tame ah.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that nice?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? So should more people in there?

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<v Speaker 2>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Part two chapter have a wing woman? No, not necessarily.

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<v Speaker 1>The only reason I've brought my wing woman, if you

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<v Speaker 1>call it, is because of the language problem. No problem,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem. He can speak better English than I can French,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. However, I study more than you do. With

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<v Speaker 1>that being said, no, it's not necessary unless there's a

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<v Speaker 1>language problem. We're working through that, just fine. I have

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<v Speaker 1>seven apps that I use, and I have a tutor

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<v Speaker 1>once a week, and I have JAD every day right now,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's here in Saint Martin with us before she

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<v Speaker 1>returns to France, and then we're going to pick it

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<v Speaker 1>up my phone, I think when you go home, right okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I am fourteen years your senior a problem if he's

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<v Speaker 1>okay you and me, No, that's exactly right. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>have dated younger men, and to me, the age is

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<v Speaker 1>just a number. It's about the energy that you give

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<v Speaker 1>each other and what you have in common. Age really

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. I mean, I know how many men out

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<v Speaker 1>there date young young women older men to have arm candy.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not my goal by any means. It didn't

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<v Speaker 1>matter to me how old you are. So I know

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<v Speaker 1>I don't live in Saint Martin. However I am here

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<v Speaker 1>right now and I have been back five times since February, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>one because of I breke my hand. We were hiking

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<v Speaker 1>in g Ance, Marcel Uh. They were going to go

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<v Speaker 1>surfing and I was going to film his son and

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<v Speaker 1>him and I slipped on gravel and broke my wrist.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to have surgery, a plate, seven screws. Long

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<v Speaker 1>story short. He took me to the hospital, took very

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<v Speaker 1>good care of me, I will say, and perfect gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I flew home, had surgery and came back

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<v Speaker 1>for rehab because I wasn't allowed to do anything. So

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<v Speaker 1>what better place to be.

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<v Speaker 2>For me? It's a it's a distinquoke, he.

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<v Speaker 1>Cooks, he cleaned me, he showered me, he shaved me.

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<v Speaker 1>A kiss you yeah, kiss me? So tell me for you? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>what was it that made you swipe right for me?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it you liked about me? What else? God,

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<v Speaker 1>you're allowed to say it your funny, your crazy attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>It's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I was home back in Philadelphia, every time,

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<v Speaker 1>not every time, but when he talked to his daughter's

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<v Speaker 1>ad on the phone, they would face time with me

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<v Speaker 1>so I could meet her. And a couple of weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 1>she they call me and she says, my daddy say

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<v Speaker 1>he's in love. I must spend time with this woman.

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<v Speaker 1>So she came for the same amount of time that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be here. I've been here. I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>here eighteen days this time. And we got to spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time together. As a matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 1>her and I do more than you and I. This weeton,

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<v Speaker 1>We've been having fun, with a lot of fun. You

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<v Speaker 1>have met my daughter on FaceTime, yes, and chat it

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<v Speaker 1>just a little bit my sons, just for a second

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<v Speaker 1>or two. So when he comes to my home, then

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<v Speaker 1>he'll have time with my sons. He was a little

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<v Speaker 1>nervous the second time I was here, because every time

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<v Speaker 1>I would trip or fall, what would you say? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get hurt your boys. I won't be allowed back

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<v Speaker 1>in Saint Martin.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, beat your fruit.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so that children part. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>at my age, I do care what my children think. However,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my life and my time, and it's about

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<v Speaker 1>my happiness. So I'm certain that my children will be

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<v Speaker 1>happy for me. Okay. Our favorite things about each other? Hmmm,

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite things about me? You told some of them the.

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<v Speaker 2>Same your ways that's mine? You uh empty? And when

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<v Speaker 2>I it was you, I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we did laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>We laugh a lot every day time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, for me. The first thing I saw was his

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<v Speaker 1>picture on Tinder, and I thought he was handsome, and

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<v Speaker 1>I swiped right. That was it. When we met. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't as soon as I saw, Oh my god, it

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<v Speaker 1>was about two hours in. I think we were both

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<v Speaker 1>with our heads on our phone with the translation, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember saying to you, you know where I come from.

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<v Speaker 1>When I go on a date or meet someone, I

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<v Speaker 1>usually make icon tact. And I can't even tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what color your eyes are because my head has been

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<v Speaker 1>down on the phone, and we both started to laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I mean laugh, and I think it was that

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<v Speaker 1>moment for me? Was it for you? At that moment?

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<v Speaker 1>It was for us. Books we knew, we enjoyed each other,

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<v Speaker 1>We liked each other. The date lasted four or five hours.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked forever. I don't remember my favorite things about him.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one, he's so handsome. Number two he's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We make each other laugh, and I think that is

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<v Speaker 1>so so important in a relationship. Uh romantic the French,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to give it to them. This man thinks,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not put on. When we're out at my

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<v Speaker 1>friend's house for dinner, he get what it's time to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>You get my purse and my phone, he carries everything,

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<v Speaker 1>he opens the door for me. It's a perfect gentleman

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<v Speaker 1>and sexy because that's this is about us.

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<v Speaker 3>So for me, we are funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So my recommendation out there, obviously, I was far away

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<v Speaker 1>from home, and I'll pick up a tender app anytime anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I never had this far of a long distance relationship before.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is doable, and I can't tell you. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you just can't find somebody in your backyard. It's okay

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<v Speaker 1>to look elsewhere. You never know what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I and Kathy both have been out there. We were

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<v Speaker 1>on the Golden Bachelor looking for love, and two years later,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still not searching. I think I kind of gave

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<v Speaker 1>up really searching for something and just was okay by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>And I happen to open up that app and here

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<v Speaker 1>we are and it's working out perfectly. Actually, we don't choose.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, go ahead say yes. He's sharing that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't choose to fall in love, that it just happens,

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<v Speaker 1>and if it happens to happen a long distance at

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<v Speaker 1>this stage of the game, at our age, I do

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<v Speaker 1>part two. It's okay. Either one of you can pick

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<v Speaker 1>up and go. It's not like we have full time

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<v Speaker 1>nine to five jobs anymore. We've raised our children, our

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<v Speaker 1>grandchildren are here at least for me, and you do

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<v Speaker 1>what you want ready from the every day. Every day

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<v Speaker 1>is a different day. So love is not sought, it's

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<v Speaker 1>simply found. That's why we say we fell in love.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't choose to fall and have romantic encounters. They're

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<v Speaker 1>just around the corner in a city far from home

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<v Speaker 1>or near home, So don't be shy, Get out there,

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<v Speaker 1>put yourself out there. If you're looking for love, be alive,

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<v Speaker 1>be where you are, and it's okay if it's not

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<v Speaker 1>in your backyard. Uh huh, he says, don't look she falls.

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<v Speaker 1>It is true that we can give love the opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>by meeting people or just moving around. You can find

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<v Speaker 1>love anywhere. Yes, he says. What I love about Susan,

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<v Speaker 1>do I really have to tell you is that when

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<v Speaker 1>you are near her, you see her, you talk to her,

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<v Speaker 1>she is captivating, her gaze, her smile, her aura, this

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<v Speaker 1>positivity that she excludes at every moment. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>talking about her physical assets like my ass, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think he likes my ants. You're so cute. So with

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<v Speaker 1>that being said, what else would you like to tell

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<v Speaker 1>people looking for love at the stage of the game

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<v Speaker 1>in your golden years?

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<v Speaker 2>Your choice, what you want, they want, what you go,

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<v Speaker 2>where you go? I go, Well, I wish you it's

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<v Speaker 2>my every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. This is so beautiful, And even being married before,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never felt this kind of love before. It's it's magical.

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<v Speaker 2>Magic, magic, but you.

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<v Speaker 1>More magical, more magical. Oh my god, You're gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>me cry to feel love right now. This part of

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<v Speaker 1>my life is so important because you're not looking for

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<v Speaker 1>the same as you were when you were forty years younger,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty years younger. Then you're looking to get married and

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<v Speaker 1>do have a family and children. We don't. We did

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<v Speaker 1>all that. Now, it's just about enjoying the last chapter,

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<v Speaker 1>if you will, of our lives and being happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh the Dessau in English, a measure of love is

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<v Speaker 2>to love without museum.

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<v Speaker 1>They're beautiful the French. I'm telling you, yeah, it gives

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<v Speaker 1>me goosebumps, even though I'm sweating in Saint Martin. This

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<v Speaker 1>kind of love. I couldn't ask for more. I really couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's just a miracle. It's a miracle that we

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<v Speaker 1>found each other many it's showing me and it's perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, as you all know, I am not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be on Bachelor in Paradise because I did find

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<v Speaker 1>love on my own and he's sitting right here right

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<v Speaker 1>But I keep thinking that maybe Nancy will find love.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I had this stream one night,

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy kept popping in my head. So I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 1>to watch Bachelor in Paradise or Golden in paradise when

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<v Speaker 1>it when it airs to see if I was right.

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<v Speaker 1>And we all want Kathy to find somebody, don't we here,

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Gosh, and we also won't talk about our new

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<v Speaker 1>Golden Bachelor. Mel. I happened to meet him when I

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<v Speaker 1>was out in California not too long ago for a

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<v Speaker 1>Hulu event, and he had said to me any advice

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<v Speaker 1>I told. I welcomed him and said to him, My

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<v Speaker 1>only advice to you, Mel is be true to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to be world wind with all these women

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<v Speaker 1>at your feet, you know, dating here and there and everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Just keep true to yourself and what makes you happy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we did right. Everybody was excited about the

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<v Speaker 1>new Golden Bachelor. I'm sure the world is jumping up

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<v Speaker 1>and down can't wait to see them, and me too.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to watch. And I keep in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with every everyone from my show from both shows now

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<v Speaker 1>after filming got to get out those people, oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>there definitely became a part of my life, just like

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<v Speaker 1>the ladies on The Golden Bachelor, as well as Gary.

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<v Speaker 1>Gary and I still talk, but the people from got

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<v Speaker 1>to get out. So my most favorite person I can't

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<v Speaker 1>say that Bonnie and Clyde, if you will, would be

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<v Speaker 1>vow from Dancing with the Stars. He was my Clyde

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<v Speaker 1>and I was his Bonnie, and little Demi was my roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>And as you all know, I hope everybody listening has

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<v Speaker 1>watched the show, and I'm getting mail like crazy saying

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<v Speaker 1>why would you tell everybody your secret your exit strategy?

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<v Speaker 1>And I have to laugh because I was silly. But

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<v Speaker 1>there was a reason I say this because it was

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<v Speaker 1>very early in the show and I was not ready

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<v Speaker 1>to escape. But I thought by telling everyone my plan,

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<v Speaker 1>they would trust me. And if you continue to watch,

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<v Speaker 1>the things that happened were hysterical, but I no longer

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<v Speaker 1>told them when I had an escape strategy. With that

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<v Speaker 1>being said, I talked to every single one of them

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<v Speaker 1>almost daily in another text chain, if you will, and

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<v Speaker 1>there wasn't one person on there that I disliked. There

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<v Speaker 1>really wasn't. I loved all these people and being on

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<v Speaker 1>reality TV for me is just making more friends and

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<v Speaker 1>enjoying every single moment of knowing new personalities and new

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<v Speaker 1>destinations to go see people's I feel blessed, I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>But the biggest blessing of all, I don't care anything

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<v Speaker 1>about TV. Is this right here?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>For the escape? Still, when we first talked about the

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<v Speaker 1>Golden Paradise, I shared with him that, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>might be going and what if I kiss another man

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<v Speaker 1>on TV? Remember what you said? You said, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be fun to watch. But I know it's TV, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But I couldn't pick anybody. I wasn't interested, so I

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<v Speaker 1>had to be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>You do what you want. I did.

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<v Speaker 4>Just here, I am I won't you're yes, I am happy.

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<v Speaker 1>So he watched some of The Golden Right. You could

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<v Speaker 1>find that on the internet. However, I have not been

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<v Speaker 1>able to get Hulu here in Saint Martin, so he

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<v Speaker 1>has not seen the show. He saw clips, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of clips from it, but I have to wait till

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<v Speaker 1>he comes to the United States for him to watch

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the three days I had left here in

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<v Speaker 1>Saint Martin after we met, we spent every minute together

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<v Speaker 1>and he had said when will I see you? And

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<v Speaker 1>it was in exactly nine days after I left. I

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<v Speaker 1>was due to go on a trip to California. Kathy

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<v Speaker 1>and I with some friends of mine, and unfortunately she

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<v Speaker 1>had a heartsack, so it was canceled, and I turned

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<v Speaker 1>to him and said, just so happens. I got all

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<v Speaker 1>my miles back from the airlines, and I had the

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<v Speaker 1>week off, so I said I can come back for

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<v Speaker 1>this day. He was perfectly happy, and I said, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>have to help me find a place to stay. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>and you said, no, you stay with me. So long

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<v Speaker 1>before Golden Paradise came, we already knew what we were

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<v Speaker 1>to each other, I admit, and he does as well

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<v Speaker 1>that either one of us has ever said I love

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<v Speaker 1>you so quickly. Right. We don't know why, we just

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<v Speaker 1>do it was just right?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>My question it we do. Love is love when you

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<v Speaker 1>feel it, you feel it. It's the international language. Yes see,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't change no matter what language we speak changed.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>This has been a lot of fun and I love

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<v Speaker 1>catching up with everyone from I Do Part two listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like you. I put myself out there and

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<v Speaker 1>look look what happened. I was able to find not

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<v Speaker 1>just love again, but the best love I've ever felt.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes it's far away, but we're figuring that out.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're single and needing some dating help, email

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<v Speaker 1>us or call us we're here to help. All the

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<v Speaker 1>info is in the show notes, follow us on socials,

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<v Speaker 1>and make sure to rate and review the podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>Do Part two an iHeartRadio podcast where falling in love

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<v Speaker 1>is the main objective and I'm here to prove that

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<v Speaker 1>it does work.