WEBVTT - Big Facts – Gender Wars Pt. 4 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:01.760 Big Banks. 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:06.080 D J Scream bring you Big Facts. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:10.200 Podcast live for Revolt Studios. You know what it is. 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:13.360 It's time for Big Facts, Big Bankers. Here, DJ Scream 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:16.920 and see Kelly and here, Tamar's here, Honey is here 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:20.200 and it it's time for the return of gender wars 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.400 on Big Facts today. What's up, ladies? What's up ladies? 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:25.280 How you how you're feeling today? Everybody good? 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:26.680 Thank you for having me. 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.280 Yeah, I appreciate you pulling up. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:30.760 On us gender wars. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:34.159 I see, I didn't notice meaning Oh yeah, tricky. 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:35.640 Yeah, you don step into some ship. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:37.720 I thought were talking about. 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:40.839 Her gender wars. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:41.839 I don't know. 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:48.159 Before we score, we've been really keeping score. We just 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:50.360 ain't been getting nowhere with this ship. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:53.480 We try to figure out how to fix it. 0:00:54.880 --> 0:01:04.959 Oh, let's start it with this. Are men more emotional 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:10.040 than women in y'all experience? In you'all opinion? 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.080 Privately, I'm gonna say yes. 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:12.800 Privately. 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:17.640 I think it depends on how much a nigga buckle you. 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:20.160 That's a good way to put it, because they'll be 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:22.959 more likely to show the emotions that they can. I 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:23.680 think that. 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:27.959 Women are more reactive, and we're more likely to say 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.880 how we feel right in that moment where men, uh, 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:32.160 they'll be emotional, but they. 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:32.959 Don't have to act on it. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:34.480 We have to act on it, like we have to 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.520 tell you how we feel. We gotta be like that 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:39.479 was fout up. Men will be like back and keep 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:42.520 it emotions towards it, they just won't show it the same. 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:43.399 Why is it that way? 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:44.360 Why be that way? 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:45.160 Because y'all were to. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.920 Like, you know, from beginning when y'all little, they'd be like, hey, 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.800 boys on crying, Hey, hey, emotions is for girls and 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:53.240 men up, and all those things teach you that you 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:54.440 can't have feelings. 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.280 So we did all that to say that for all 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:58.920 these years just to get here in this present day 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:02.120 for them to say, if that damn express itself, he's 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.360 gonna go crazy and you need therapists and all this ship. 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.600 So we talked wrong about that. 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:09.880 I don't even think mentioned were band aids. If they 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:15.760 got a boom boom, So I have different yea, what 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:16.840 do you need to know? 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:34.640 You want to boo? You want? 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:39.960 That is exactly horrible, Dame dash and camera Hello, those 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.679 are the type of men I've dealt with my whole life. 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:45.880 But just saying that if men like I remember when 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:47.720 I was a teenager, I seen a boy cry because 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.040 him and his brother got jumped, and I was I 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:51.639 was thirteen, and I was like. 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.320 What then, am I supposed to do about this? Like, 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:55.480 I'm my nigga, why are you crying? Like what am 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:56.120 I supposed to do? 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:56.280 That? 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:58.200 Sounds like you shouldn't be crying about that. 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:01.639 I feel like so respected it though, And I never 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:04.480 seen a guy be that vulnerable, so I really was 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:05.400 truly stuck. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:06.680 What do you do? 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:09.040 I remember getting a fight with nigga when they started crying, 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:10.280 they gonna beat your head, yo. 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.120 Yeah, they thought the wood badge you're about to see 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.720 when the kid that get picked on start crying in school. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:18.160 Go the other way. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.480 Yeah, he's crazy, some anger you've never seen before. 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:23.959 But they just not took that that's the supposed to 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:27.920 be their emotions. Like, I think that's why pain rap 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.600 is so big right now, because people men are like, 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.000 oh shit, I could relate to that. I didn't know 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:33.760 you were feeling that way too. Oh you felt that 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.280 way when you're fathered out, or you felt. 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:37.040 That way when that girl broke your heart. Damn. 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.800 So now everybody in the stadium screaming at the top 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:42.280 of the day, lungs, girl on my dreams and stuff. 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:46.120 But now we're in a different space because, like we said, 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:48.120 therapy and people are starting to see that. 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:51.400 It's complex because don't know, a woman don't want a 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.280 super emotional man, but you don't want a man who 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:54.480 don't show emotions at all. 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:57.600 So it's like, damn, like, what do you what you want? 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:01.480 Well, I was just like niggas can't take as much 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:03.800 as we take, but me and are super emotional like 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:07.120 they when they get cheated on, Like niggas get cheated on, 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.120 like it's to the floor, like they crying, they knocked, 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:15.080 busting the windows, bleaching your clothes. They do way worse 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:18.720 ship than women now for real, Like they can't take if. 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:24.800 You're doing all that bleaching your clay. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:25.800 Right, yeah, he gonna stay. 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.599 I mean he's just accepting that, you know about. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.400 Your business, right, I don't know men that stay when 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:35.240 people cheat. Maybe I don't being people business. I think 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:38.200 men hurt worse than us. They definitely, no, no, but 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.039 that's because of ego. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:43.200 That's not necessarily men hurt more than us, Like when cheating, 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:46.479 Oh yeah, yeah, but that hurt because they like, this 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:46.960 is my toy. 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:48.839 How did somebody else touch my toy? I thought my 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:49.839 toy was untouchable. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:53.520 You outside, but we're supposed to deal with Oh, that's 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:55.800 that's just how you raised that way, right. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.960 She don't want you because women can cheat in that 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.160 get caught. That's the bottom line. If you catch a 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.839 woman cheat, she's done out to do anyway. 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.800 She don't give because we break up with you before 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:07.599 we leave anyway. 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:10.080 And I think a woman will only cheat if she's 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.479 ready to go anywhere exactly. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.359 She's trying to figure out whose name she's ready to 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:15.400 go somebody. 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:18.840 We were just talking about that because there was a 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:23.200 guy who just I guess, got arrested for holding his 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.840 baby mother hostage, and then he went on the internet 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:29.159 and released the names of everybody she had sex with 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:30.360 in the industry, And I'm like. 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:38.880 Bro was his name? Carl in jail for what? Holding 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:39.880 his baby mother hostage? 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:41.719 On the. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:48.640 Question was she a whole before you had the babies 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:48.920 with her? 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:50.920 Asked because why are you mad about her behavior if 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.200 you know who she was when she got here? 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:54.400 You had kids with this whore, and then what did 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:57.520 you expect to happen? Why? Are you crashing out on 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:02.800 the internet about it? Plays funk up last, suck up to? Yeah, 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:04.320 how was that interview? 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:06.880 It was pretty good that sh didn't number too. I 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:11.080 like him he was talking about he said he broke 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:13.320 it down about the kidnapping. He said, the girl called 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:16.839 the police and that say she kidnapped him for twitch, 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:20.080 kidnapped her for twelve hours. She got away, came back 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:24.200 because she left her phone. Like, so, if somebody kidnap. 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:25.760 You, come back, get your phone. 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:28.400 No, I'm coming back. 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:32.800 It's not that dangerous if I'm coming back, right, because. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:40.000 You can have big old niggas. I don't want to see. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:45.000 Girl. I don't know, but no, I agree. 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:47.479 Like, all of that does come into play though, because 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:48.720 at the end of the day, when you go public 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:50.800 with situations, now everybody started to disack them. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.120 Like, hold on, that's the reason why you gotta keep 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.240 your ship to yourself. 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:56.359 Get a therapist. 0:06:56.400 --> 0:07:00.200 I encourage anybody who's going through relationship ships. Don't talk 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:03.080 to your homegirls, your AUNTI, your uncle, your mama, nobody, 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:12.480 go get your therapist. Oh oh, well, that's referencing exactly that. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.880 Don't talk about your ship with nobody, Go get your therapists. 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:17.880 I wish I would have gotten me a therapy. Well, 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:19.520 I always had a therapist, but I wish when I 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:21.360 was going through what I was going through at that moment, 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:23.720 certain things that I shared, I should have shared it 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.600 with my therapists and only my therapist, because when I 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:29.480 get over my ship, everybody else still feel how they feel. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:30.880 Because I feel like he's shop in. 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:33.000 The x y z x y z your friend still 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:34.040 even though I feel like. 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.160 He's shitting the x y Z, I still like that. 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:38.920 So therefore, everybody, let's move on. 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:42.880 My therapist she sitting there. He she hear my ship, 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:44.480 and we go on to the next So you got 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:45.880 back with the guy that. 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:48.920 You was talking about that you healed from ye with. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:50.840 Your friends, don't heal? See, you don't make you don't 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.760 made them ops. Just like if me and you was 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:56.080 in a relationship, and you don't turn these two against me. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.560 It's fun them forever, just because how they treated me, 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:00.600 and now you want me to get that cool. 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:04.280 I don't work like that because I don't give a 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:05.240 coo cool with who? 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:07.000 None of that don't matter. 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.520 You stayed together, Yeah, your friends, you don't turn them 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:11.840 against me. They can't come up the house. 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:16.160 Yeah, that's okay. No more Thanksgiving and friendsgiving anyway. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:18.200 Okay. 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:23.160 It never was like it's my relationship with public now still. 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:25.400 I mean, if you know I'm in a relationship, you know, 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:27.720 a relationship. He only know I'm in a relationship because 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.040 I talked to him about my relationship. So it's like, 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.160 it's not no thing, Like I don't feel like I 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.079 need to post you or we need to post each 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:35.720 other in order for everybody know me in a relationship. 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.280 No, like if you know, you know, but I'm not 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:38.040 high in it either. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:41.040 How how did you pick? 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:42.760 Like did you have one third place or did you 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.880 have to go through multiple because I have therapists. Yeah, 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:47.840 And I had to stop because I was lying to her, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:57.679 like so that's why I asked, because one she was 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.920 like an Indian lady, and why you in my business? 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:05.480 So like you have to find the right But he 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.079 was like it was a lot, girl, I'm like what 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:09.120 I want AnyWho. 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:11.360 But most women when they tell their story, they tell lies. 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:13.400 Yes, because you want it from the point of view 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:15.319 to the victim and be the right person, And that's 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:16.120 one hundred percent. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:17.040 Want to. 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:21.240 She'd be so blown away. Now, girl listens to this 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:24.439 ship here like exactly, Yeah, you're getting. 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:25.440 It just like your poet. 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:28.959 Yeah, like I did say that something, she'd be like. 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:29.480 Shout hair. 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:33.880 If I had I hit, I shouldn't hear I said, 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:36.840 Oh said such yep, girl, I hit him? 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:38.680 Yo did what his hair? 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:39.520 Yeah? 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:42.320 Because he just pisced me and I know I shouldn't. 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:43.800 And I was in my head like she would not 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:46.920 approve this, but yeah, gets busy in there. 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:50.160 Well good question and he being that did you do 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:50.520 a couple? 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:55.880 Yeah, she'd be seeing that like yeah, gets like that. 0:09:56.160 --> 0:10:01.120 Get like the rest of that story. No, because everybody 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:02.880 went through that hilling journey with you. 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.720 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like you. I didn't you know, 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:07.199 I ain't do a follow up? No, I did, and 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:09.960 I do. 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:11.920 What happened? I did? 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:12.480 I did. 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:14.680 I released the podcast and I was talking about you 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:16.080 know where I was at that moment time. 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.080 Ye, come on, you gotta text me. 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.199 I ain't getting gonna finish finish. 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:29.720 You know it's a new perfect therapist, right who GPT. 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:32.160 I need some matter talk that. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:46.200 I see your point of view, like bitch, No, yeah, I. 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:47.400 Have a note in my phone. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:49.400 I have a note on my phone called self therapy, 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:51.480 because what they're. 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:53.600 Gonna audience, it'll talk to you. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:59.400 It then way may I'll be talking about Oh yeah you're. 0:10:59.320 --> 0:10:59.760 Doing all that. 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:01.360 Yeah, I don't know about that. 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.760 How do y'all feel about women being bread winners. 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:05.320 In a relationship? 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:08.520 I don't know about brand winners. 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:11.319 I feel like that's that's a dope thing for a 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.720 nigga who needs that. Yeah, that's dope. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.680 Yeah for Yeah I'm African, he. 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:19.680 Said that's. 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:24.200 Yeah. Expand on that, I'm saying, like if a nigga 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.600 trying to figure out figure out life and he around 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:30.120 to meet one on one that makes life, Yeah, that 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:31.480 love him way yet? 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:34.160 Okay, so what about beyond that? Like what if even 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:36.040 if like that's where we meet at this, then there 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:37.480 you get on your feet and that. But I still 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:41.120 make more money than you in my professional still. 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.760 Money, right, So you don't matter if my wife go 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:45.360 hit the number right now for a hundred million and 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:48.720 all that my money, right, ain't no sting is my money. 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:53.880 So that's when you married, that's when you married, right, Yeah, 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:59.440 I watched whether you married or not, and I ain't 0:11:59.440 --> 0:11:59.760 got nothing. 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.679 It depends if I'm dealing with you man. Whenever you 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:12.440 got lines together, coms is yours? 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:16.440 Okay. So I grew up watching my mom date broke men. 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:20.080 She's always been well educated, on her house, on her car, 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.840 make six figures, and I think that it's a control 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:25.880 thing for her. She likes to be able to control 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:28.720 men and say I paid for it, so you gotta 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:32.160 do what I got. But I also watch men be 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:36.120 extremely insecure because of that. Like men will act like, 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:38.559 oh yeah, I'm down, I love it, I can't wait 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:41.440 to have a sugar mama, And they literally go crazy 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.840 because they're thinking the whole men need money to feel 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:46.520 like men, whether they want to admit it or not. 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.640 And if you can't pay for dinner when you go 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:51.400 out with your woman, she's always the one putting her 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.480 card on the table. You can't take on vacation, she's 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:55.600 always the one doing it. At some point, you feel 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:57.880 like you're not a man. I remember my homeboy was 0:12:57.920 --> 0:12:58.640 staying in my crib. 0:12:58.720 --> 0:12:58.880 Well. 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:01.120 He came to visit me and sign his His debit 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.240 card dropped out his pocket, so my mother seeing it, 0:13:03.320 --> 0:13:04.760 so she put it in her room. Because I was 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:06.280 a teenager, a lot of kids were coming in out 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:07.719 the house at the time, so she just put it 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:08.959 in the room to make sure nobody took it. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:10.520 He thought my mother was. 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:14.160 Sucking my friend, Like that's how insecure because she had 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.360 his debit card in the room, and he just swore, 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.080 men without money are not fine, like do not. 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:24.079 Because he was trying to and they just can't. They can't. 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:25.880 They don't feel like they deserve it. He just kept 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:27.839 trying to figure out why she picked me, Why she 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:29.160 picked me? If I can't do nothing? 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:29.480 Why me? 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:29.959 Why me? 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.319 I've seen this man, grown ass man crying in front 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:37.200 of my house with im. It's because he was Spanish 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:39.480 and couldn't speak Spanish. So that's what started. 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:40.520 He was Spanish. 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:44.160 And couldn't speak Spanish, and I think that's what started. 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:51.599 Spanish people sometimes, sorry, y'all that don't speak Spanish be 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:53.880 a little insecure, especially if like your mom speaks it 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:55.760 and you don't speak. And then they I grew up 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:57.680 in Spanish Harlem. They's running around, all the people sitting 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.640 there and you don't know to talk about. I think 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:01.840 that's where it all started. 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.640 And then yeah, just when I went to New York, 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:06.839 the women there, like when I went out to the 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:07.839 clubs and all that stuff. 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:08.720 They were not inviting. 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:11.199 It's it's like I'm from South Florida, so when you 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:12.760 come to South Florida, Like the girl is just like 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.880 you know what I'm saying, they gonna exactly where. 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:16.960 I was like, damn, like. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:20.960 Invited this bitch and who knows? 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:21.640 Why are you mad? 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.800 So they said hot to me and I was like, 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:28.440 do I know you? Like why are you saying hot 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:28.680 to me? 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:30.640 Like the girls in Atlanta are so nice, Like they 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:32.320 was like, hey, sit down, here's a seat. 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:33.240 In New York. 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:34.560 They like who this bitch with? 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.360 And you girls probably lived in Atlanta, but they weren't 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:37.840 from Atlanta. 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:41.840 Okay, yeah, weird. 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:46.240 Because they it's like they only they flocked to you 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:47.960 once you got something going on. But like if you 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:50.400 just like somewhere and you like genuinely nice to them, Hey, 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:51.040 how y'all doing? 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:53.920 They you're a mad ass bitch. 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.640 So you know, if you look if you look good, 0:14:56.760 --> 0:14:59.560 they nice to you. If you don't look like then 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:01.080 they like they just don't. 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:04.680 Yeah, I think she's saying it's the opposite. 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:08.840 They got us know, like your followers, they know like 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:10.760 what you got going on? Like you gotta be like 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:14.640 known for vishes to like even just be nice. Other 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:17.040 than that they not you meet like a couple of 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.400 real bitches that I hey K, but it's not like 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.240 majority what you got going on? 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:25.840 How they could be from your Chicago girl, which is 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:26.720 what up? 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:27.440 Like how you doing? 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:30.680 Like you know, females not really like that at the left. 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:32.560 So why y'all still hear it? 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:33.680 Oh? 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:37.800 I don't care rich here in my house. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.280 I started coming outside when it made sense. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.640 I'm just not sad. I've been here almost three years. 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:49.520 Here What made y'all choose? 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:53.000 I always wanted to live in Atlanta always. I used 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:54.880 to love Allen. I used to come down here all 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:59.360 the time, like Atlanta, Like so I like to Somel's 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:00.680 and I'm like, it's time for me to go. 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:02.880 Let me go in here and go home. This is 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:03.360 my home. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:08.120 I wanted to move out my mom's house and I 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:10.840 went apartment hunting in New York and they were charging 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:13.640 three thousand dollars for shoe boxes and walk ups and 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.920 crackheads in the hallway, and I was like, who the. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:18.400 Fuck is living here? I never visited Atlanta. 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:22.920 I literally applied from a random apartment online, got approved 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:24.760 and when you come here you only need it like 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:27.280 this is this is teen years ago, you only needed 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:30.240 like maybe two thousand dollars to move in your apartment, 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:31.920 and in New York you need like ten k. You 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:36.120 need like first months, last month to rent, broker's fee, insurance, 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:37.440 you need mads stuff. 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:40.000 To move in an apartment like that. They changed the rules. 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:43.080 So but Dommie is changing a lot of stuff with 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:43.600 moving in. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:46.600 But now the landlords played a broker's fee, so that 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:49.400 coming out the landing your partner pockets instead of your 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.320 own pockets. So before the renter used to have to 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.760 pay the broker's fee, now the landlords pay it, so 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:55.520 you don't got to pay the extra two. 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:56.000 Thousand to them. 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.200 So now you might need five k to move in, 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:01.920 but still that's a lot. I came down here two 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:05.080 thousand dollars, paid my deposit and my first one brand. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:07.000 I ain't have a thing in that house but a 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:07.439 bowl of the. 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:10.920 So if you had to move back there, that's considered 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:12.560 falling off. If anybody had to go. 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:15.840 Back home, yeah you fell off. You fell off. 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:18.200 If you moved back here, yeah you fell off. You 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:19.359 got to go to another city. 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:24.760 You can't go back home. It's so expensive in South Florida. 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:25.840 It ain't. 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.680 No, I can't go back if I went back to 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:30.840 if I moved back South Florida, which I made it. 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:33.720 That's how expensive it is to live down there. 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:35.880 You saying if you moved back to I moved back 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:37.639 and moved back and go stay with your mama somebody else. 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:38.560 Oh no, she in Georgia. 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:42.240 If I moved, yeah, I fell off Miami. You moved 0:17:42.240 --> 0:17:44.600 to Miami, Okay, yeah, you made it. If you moved 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:45.600 to Miami, you made it. 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:49.480 Yeah, if you moved to Miami from anywhere, you made 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:51.760 it because the roughest of the roughest spots costing you 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:52.400 a lot of money. 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.840 Bank how you feel about everybody calling like Atlanta gay. 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:00.680 A lot of game? 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:04.680 But that what the Atlanta niggas though, them niggas that 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:05.400 doesn't move. 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:09.600 There, very good point. The niggas ain't. I went on 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:11.800 a date one time and I was a girl. 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:12.560 Huh. 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:14.040 Yeah, it's not just. 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:20.280 It is a lot of gay motherfucker that move though. 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:25.040 It is like most worried, you're just dampty, Oh, it's 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:30.760 all these niggas funny, and you got some of the 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:32.520 niggas sneaking around with him too, though you. 0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:34.840 Know that's that that's what Cried on the Creek means. 0:18:35.200 --> 0:18:38.600 Yeah, so I can't say that song on the Creek 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:44.880 mean like but like download me Santana, why both guys 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:45.440 so lost? 0:18:45.480 --> 0:18:50.680 And that's like the big, big fast. But I don't 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:52.960 never listen the song. 0:18:54.440 --> 0:18:55.399 It's for download me. 0:18:55.720 --> 0:18:57.760 So when I found I was always thought it was, 0:18:57.840 --> 0:19:00.439 but then somebody else verifying, I was like, Okay, that's. 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:00.679 What I mean. 0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:02.399 I don't supported so. 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.280 When I when I the thing that messes me up 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:07.040 the most, because when you go back to New York, 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.919 you'll see two men sitting down eating, wrapping it up, 0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:11.280 chopping up and there straight. 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:14.840 Not out here they might be dressing street. 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:16.840 Know, and New York niggas go out with the like 0:19:17.080 --> 0:19:18.359 niggas like you you. 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:21.000 Were everywhere me go out with their homies. 0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:24.840 Them niggas is gay. I can't even not even you're gay. 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:25.600 You're gay. I'm not. 0:19:28.359 --> 0:19:28.960 Just a sup. 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:31.960 With the females. 0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:34.720 Yeah, sitting at the table. 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:39.720 They call a bunch of females and smoking. 0:19:41.240 --> 0:19:43.879 Niggas knocking the passing back and forth to their homies. 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:49.680 Now from now on, I'm going up to niggas in 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:50.920 the spot and accident. 0:19:50.640 --> 0:19:51.200 Ware from. 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:57.320 Your home and two homies. 0:19:57.359 --> 0:19:59.520 No, I never met a nigga that was actually from 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:02.359 Atlanta that gave like gave abs or makes be like 0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:04.159 real street niggas, like real. 0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:07.159 That is a really good This is the black up. 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:11.000 Everybody moved here. Yes, you know what I'm saying. Left 0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:16.440 to but you got north, north, south, that's where everybody 0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:19.520 be at. Right east west, That's where you're gonna see Atlanta. 0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:22.159 You're gonna see Atlanta. You moved, go move head to 0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:25.280 the east side. Yead to the west side. When you 0:20:25.320 --> 0:20:28.920 see Atlanta niggas, Yeah, move yad to midtown Atlanta, the 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:32.040 popular tourist area. You're gonna see all that stuff that 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:32.680 you speak of. 0:20:33.359 --> 0:20:34.560 I don't be at that, so I don't know. 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:38.320 Move to where they're breaking your cars at. That's Atlanta. 0:20:39.480 --> 0:20:39.680 Yeah. 0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:46.159 I'm like my car first, the whole car, the whole car, 0:20:51.480 --> 0:20:51.919 the whole car. 0:20:52.040 --> 0:20:53.960 Look, I had a charge. It was a stick, but 0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:57.000 the Mexicans piped it up. Made it sound like, hey, okay, 0:20:57.119 --> 0:21:00.760 you know what I'm saying. General, I think I was 0:21:00.800 --> 0:21:03.200 gone blew me. I'm like, I got fast. 0:21:03.400 --> 0:21:05.040 Did they find it? That sh it was crazy. 0:21:05.119 --> 0:21:07.720 Yeah if I stripped, Oh how is it trying to 0:21:07.760 --> 0:21:08.640 meet somebody here though? 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:13.720 And I just told y'all I went on a date once. 0:21:14.600 --> 0:21:16.520 I thought it was a guy and it was a girl. 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:17.439 What's she was from. 0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:19.320 New York? 0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:25.399 But I yeah, my point, but go ahead. 0:21:26.680 --> 0:21:29.920 A lot of meeting people is on the internet. So 0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:34.440 it's like niggas be scared to even approach you in person. 0:21:36.320 --> 0:21:38.879 I know. So it's crazy. These women the day they 0:21:38.960 --> 0:21:41.000 got like a chip, like you can hold the door 0:21:41.080 --> 0:21:43.320 for a motherfucking they won't even say thank you, like 0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:48.119 you know, I'm just saying like it's just like you 0:21:48.160 --> 0:21:50.640 could say how you doing? Regularly I get on the elevator, 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:52.680 washstand and just say how you doing? Or we're like hey, 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:53.320 looking away. 0:21:53.440 --> 0:21:59.399 Like men, this whole little thing that's on the internet 0:21:59.440 --> 0:22:01.440 about how man should act when a man say something 0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:04.520 to them just because you're in a relationship, and you're 0:22:04.560 --> 0:22:06.239 not supposed to say like I'm supposed to be mean 0:22:06.320 --> 0:22:08.480 to a man just because I'm in a relationship. 0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:11.240 I can't say hi to you, or I can't answer 0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:12.560 your damn question how you doing? 0:22:12.600 --> 0:22:13.280 I'm fine? How are you? 0:22:14.320 --> 0:22:14.359 Like? 0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:17.920 I'll be like I'm fine and keep a pushing. I 0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:18.600 don't care that much. 0:22:18.960 --> 0:22:21.480 But but what But what she's saying right now is 0:22:21.560 --> 0:22:24.040 just what you prove my point? 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:25.760 Like you could just be being nice because I'm a 0:22:25.840 --> 0:22:29.200 nice guy. Now, if I got anybody, it could be anybody. 0:22:29.240 --> 0:22:31.800 It could be anybody, it could be seven year old lady. 0:22:31.800 --> 0:22:33.479 I'm gonna speak first, you know what I'm sing put 0:22:33.520 --> 0:22:35.320 out that type of energy. But you got some women 0:22:35.520 --> 0:22:38.520 don't even know how to say I'm fine today or whatever, 0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:40.480 because I guess they so use the nigga trying high 0:22:40.520 --> 0:22:41.000 let them I'm like. 0:22:41.119 --> 0:22:44.080 Or because they because men say that you should not 0:22:44.400 --> 0:22:46.320 have nothing to say to a man if he says 0:22:46.320 --> 0:22:47.320 something to you in a relationship. 0:22:47.320 --> 0:22:48.240 So what you talk to another man for? 0:22:48.480 --> 0:22:49.280 I feel like that too. 0:22:49.680 --> 0:22:52.400 Exactly what you're saying. 0:22:54.600 --> 0:22:56.560 You're supposed to be pleasant, like it's supposed to be. 0:22:56.680 --> 0:23:00.159 I'm not saying you show you what being in the 0:23:00.160 --> 0:23:02.520 streets are freaking You can't show your ty you meet, 0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:05.560 like it's okay to say hi to a motherfucker. 0:23:05.600 --> 0:23:09.480 I ain't saying get all into you know what. 0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:10.800 But like you say, even if. 0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:13.200 You say, if the guy said, how you doing, I'm fine, 0:23:13.320 --> 0:23:15.520 keep it pushing. I'm not asking what about you? 0:23:15.680 --> 0:23:20.000 And no, Normally when somebody say this is this is 0:23:20.000 --> 0:23:22.600 what someone would say, you would say, hey, how you doing. 0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:24.720 You're not expected for them to tell you how they're 0:23:24.760 --> 0:23:27.200 doing you, just like I'm fine, and then they would 0:23:27.200 --> 0:23:29.280 say how are you. You know, they're not expecting it 0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:32.680 for you to say, oh, I just had this long day, nigga, 0:23:32.680 --> 0:23:33.400 I'm good, I'm good. 0:23:33.480 --> 0:23:37.400 Everybody's always falls to reply I'm fine. Thanks, yeah, yeah, 0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:37.920 I'm fine. 0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:43.280 Thanks, yeah, Oh my god, yeah. 0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:46.560 That's I don't know when niggas is flirting with me 0:23:46.680 --> 0:23:49.359 because I think people are just being polite because I 0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:51.639 think coming from New York, everybody's means So when I 0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:52.960 got here, everybody was a little. 0:23:52.960 --> 0:23:54.760 I'm glad you find it. I'm glad somebody from New 0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:56.720 York and means that. Yeah, y'all learn people. 0:23:56.840 --> 0:23:57.920 I love New York girls. 0:23:58.040 --> 0:24:00.640 The first time, I was getting ready to three old 0:24:00.720 --> 0:24:02.800 bitches because they was looking at me and I'm like, 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:04.639 fuck these bitches look and I will knock all three 0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:06.840 of these bitches. I can't fight for a shoelaces, right, 0:24:07.000 --> 0:24:09.440 So I'm like, fuck these bitches, I'm ready to go. 0:24:10.080 --> 0:24:14.040 That they was like, Hi, I felt so bad. I'll 0:24:14.119 --> 0:24:16.280 never forget that. Like, and I was ready to go 0:24:17.040 --> 0:24:19.000 and they just was like, hey, how you doing. I'm like, 0:24:19.080 --> 0:24:21.000 oh shit, you were not in New York no more 0:24:21.080 --> 0:24:23.440 like that. Literally is probably my first week here. It's 0:24:23.480 --> 0:24:27.720 a different it's a different cadenced people. And I say, here, so, 0:24:27.800 --> 0:24:28.159 I want to. 0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:29.040 Go back to what you said. 0:24:30.400 --> 0:24:34.639 How were we supposed to interact with other men? I 0:24:34.760 --> 0:24:35.240 want to hear it. 0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:38.000 I'm stuck in a limbo because I don't want my 0:24:38.080 --> 0:24:40.400 bitch so I'm fine. I don't want her doing that either. 0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:44.440 So I don't know. So you writing, but I don't 0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:47.840 like me walking on an elevator, walking in a close 0:24:48.240 --> 0:24:50.040 place with a person that just don't say that to me. 0:24:50.160 --> 0:24:52.560 That's route of me. You get what I'm saying. But 0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:54.600 then the response is like damn, but I get it 0:24:54.640 --> 0:24:56.920 though you're supposed to respond like that, you got a nigga, 0:24:56.960 --> 0:25:00.560 like banking home when people get on the if you 0:25:00.600 --> 0:25:02.680 got a nigga at home, that feel like you shouldn't 0:25:02.680 --> 0:25:05.919 be showing your teeth and all that. Yeah, I can 0:25:06.000 --> 0:25:07.080 see both sides of it. 0:25:07.720 --> 0:25:09.560 People get in an elevator and they say good morning. 0:25:09.760 --> 0:25:11.760 I say good morning, but I looked down like I 0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:13.639 don't know, I don't like get eye contact with men like. 0:25:15.560 --> 0:25:20.920 I take that. Yeah, yeah, it's the body. It's the body. 0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:23.920 It's the energy of your hello, because you could say hello, 0:25:24.000 --> 0:25:26.040 and you know she ain't going like off her, Hey, 0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:28.880 how you doing? And she studied moving on with her day. 0:25:29.720 --> 0:25:31.480 She say, if you say how you're doing, I'm fine? 0:25:31.480 --> 0:25:34.240 Who but I'm not. It's the eye contact you right. 0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:38.159 Because you're supposed to have manners and speak correct like 0:25:38.280 --> 0:25:39.720 that's mannerism, period. 0:25:39.760 --> 0:25:42.040 And then they also said were taken to somebody's supposed 0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:42.800 to make contact. 0:25:43.800 --> 0:25:46.360 Nah, but the eye contact that that lack of eye 0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:49.959 context shows that I'm nice, but I'm not available. 0:25:50.320 --> 0:25:52.679 Okay, So like you can here be like, hey, how 0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:53.680 you doing it? You've been fine? 0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:58.960 Not like that, I'm fine, good morning, and look away, 0:25:59.119 --> 0:25:59.359 I'm not. 0:25:59.520 --> 0:26:00.399 I can't talk right now. 0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:04.760 Don't to me anymore, honey. These women will say I'm 0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:06.800 fine and keep looking for more com. 0:26:07.000 --> 0:26:09.600 Like I find what about you, sweetheart? Yeah? 0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:14.800 Okay, that's that's a bit the way we probably make 0:26:14.880 --> 0:26:16.760 eye content like I'm good, how you doing today? I'm 0:26:18.840 --> 0:26:21.680 then look this way? Yeah, okay, you keep looking you 0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:23.119 want more conversation. 0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:26.359 More conversation, okay, trying to trying to right right right 0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:27.480 right right she looking. 0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:30.119 At because they an't give your eye contact though it 0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:32.880 was the situation with no eye contact and the man 0:26:33.040 --> 0:26:36.119 still end up dealing with the woman. I'm just saying, 0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:40.000 speaking from experience, No, no, leave me, leave me out 0:26:40.040 --> 0:26:42.520 of it. I'm locked. I'm okay cool to the other 0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:46.600 man in the room, James and Kodak, Okay, all right, 0:26:47.440 --> 0:26:52.440 a bunch of mar I'm just saying, if she don't 0:26:52.480 --> 0:26:54.680 give you what you wanted, that eye contact, of that vibe, 0:26:54.720 --> 0:26:57.320 that don't mean you how many times that still turned 0:26:57.359 --> 0:26:59.200 into you handling? The handling? 0:26:59.520 --> 0:27:01.159 But you can when they read it, how they how 0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:02.440 they That's what I'm saying. 0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:04.200 That's what I'm saying. I don't think it's no one way, 0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:07.119 is what I'm getting you. You never had you ever 0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:08.200 had one that was real? 0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:10.399 Like, Yo, you can tell a man they smell good 0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:12.239 and they be coming. I don't tell me. That's why 0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:13.120 I don't tell me. Many smoke. 0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:16.080 I've never man, I ever told. 0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:21.240 And they really be like if you walk by them 0:27:21.280 --> 0:27:24.080 and like you canna have you today, they'll. 0:27:23.840 --> 0:27:24.080 Be like. 0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:29.520 Exactly. I'm gonna spray. I will. 0:27:31.440 --> 0:27:35.040 Always worked though, but it's something that's persistent, like even 0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:37.680 if you do like we said, like I'm still moving, 0:27:37.680 --> 0:27:39.440 I'm going on by my business and your knowledge what 0:27:39.480 --> 0:27:42.200 you said and going on, and they real persistent and 0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:43.680 and now you gotta be like, damn. 0:27:43.560 --> 0:27:44.280 Didn't I just tell you? 0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:46.879 That's what some women want. They just want you to Okay, 0:27:46.920 --> 0:27:49.119 he persistent, he don't broke me down now I can. 0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:51.080 Now I got to cut your ass up because I'm 0:27:51.119 --> 0:27:52.160 really serious about. 0:27:53.960 --> 0:27:55.560 Or giving either way. 0:27:55.800 --> 0:27:58.720 Yes, So that that goes to the men. Then they like, well, damn, 0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:00.399 you ain't got to be so rude about you. Shouldn't 0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:02.480 have been so persistent nobody. But then I really don't 0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:03.359 know whether you want me or not. 0:28:03.440 --> 0:28:08.480 If I lose, it's an easy way to say I'm 0:28:08.520 --> 0:28:09.160 not available. 0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:11.720 Yeah, but it's men out there that don't understand. 0:28:13.640 --> 0:28:13.840 But you. 0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:18.439 You still got your friends, like your man. 0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:19.400 Don't let you have a friends. 0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:20.200 Now I gotta cut you. 0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:23.400 Not really, it ain't really respect you. So many women 0:28:23.480 --> 0:28:26.480 are going like, like you say something that's just like 0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:28.800 if if you say, I say, hey, how you doing, 0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:30.960 you said, I'm fine, I'm in a relationship. Okay, how 0:28:31.000 --> 0:28:34.240 long you have that problem? Oh? She fucked? Don't smile 0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:35.399 after that, nigga make a joke. 0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:38.480 No, I'm gonna have to cut you. No problem. 0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:49.800 Was crazy? Don't smile happy, don't. 0:28:49.640 --> 0:28:54.440 Don't don't don't you? 0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:56.840 I got some more than in the close. 0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.200 If you can get a girl, did we get that 0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:01.760 as now? 0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:08.240 If you're wink your fuck In fact, it's easy. 0:29:08.000 --> 0:29:10.800 Man, this ship bruh. It's life is too short. Man. 0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:12.640 We living in the matrix. Niggas don't really giving a 0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:14.800 fuck about all that. No more. People don't just want 0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:15.320 to be happy. 0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:18.880 So what what you mean living in the matrix. I'm sorry, I'm. 0:29:18.680 --> 0:29:22.200 Saying everything is botted up. This Instagram is everything is 0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:25.120 just weird now, Like so people are just living to 0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:28.240 be happy, man, people passing away, all type of ship 0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:30.080 going on, y'all. Don't see all this weird shit going 0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:32.280 on in the letty ship and everything. 0:29:35.720 --> 0:29:37.920 People aren't living to be happy. People are living to 0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:39.840 keep up with each other. And that's the wack thing 0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:41.320 about the times that we right now. 0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:46.719 My biggest fear is seeing God and he be like, bro, 0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:48.280 I put it on your mind to do it. You 0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:50.240 ain't do it because you care what somebody else thought. 0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:55.400 Imagine God at the front gates waiting for you, like Nigga, 0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:57.120 I gave you the whole game plan and you didn't. 0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:59.400 You didn't do it because you cared about somebody else feeling. 0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:00.480 Mm hmm. 0:30:00.920 --> 0:30:01.320 That's real. 0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:05.040 That's the only Are you stressed about what the next 0:30:05.080 --> 0:30:05.720 person gonna think? 0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:06.760 What you're supposed to do? 0:30:08.560 --> 0:30:09.920 Do what you want to do, what you want to 0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:11.920 Because you do what you want to do, you know 0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:13.960 the next person gonna know what you want to do. 0:30:14.200 --> 0:30:16.200 Right that empty, that's what they say. 0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:18.080 Who not empty? 0:30:18.440 --> 0:30:19.080 Get it all out. 0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:23.240 I'm pulling this ship out like mother ship. Who for 0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.320 the right motherfuck gonna understand that? That's just you. 0:30:27.800 --> 0:30:31.120 But sometimes that thought, no, you're right, Sometimes that thought 0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:33.600 back to the women ain't the right thought because if 0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:35.800 you go or you go down the back roads playing 0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:38.120 with the people women, they're gonna do something to you. 0:30:38.200 --> 0:30:40.480 What you mean, I'm just saying that. I'm just saying 0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:43.000 in the city, if you're flirting and elevator, that's one thing. 0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:45.480 But you know, some men is over zealous, like some 0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:48.440 men are fixated and women are fixated with taking other 0:30:48.600 --> 0:30:53.880 people's relationships that I'm just saying where we're at. 0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.360 I agree nobody else won't we won't want us for sure. 0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:01.720 You won't eat I won't you we cannak in the middle. 0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:05.840 So what do you think about the saying that woman 0:31:05.920 --> 0:31:08.560 should be with a man who wants her more than 0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:14.440 she wants them. M I don't know about that, because 0:31:14.520 --> 0:31:17.240 men have like men get to pick. Like they say, 0:31:17.360 --> 0:31:19.960 men do the choosing. I think the man should want 0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:22.920 you more because they got to choose you. 0:31:23.200 --> 0:31:23.920 So if. 0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:29.560 Choosing me, I'm choosing, then I don't know why what 0:31:29.960 --> 0:31:33.360 it takes you to begin with for him to choose you. 0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:35.600 You don't you don't have the option of talking to 0:31:35.640 --> 0:31:37.000 that man unless he wants to talk. 0:31:36.880 --> 0:31:37.600 To you back. 0:31:37.680 --> 0:31:39.080 I ain't met a nigga that don't want to talk 0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:40.680 about me exactly, which means. 0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:44.240 He chose you. She said. She's saying, she's saying, let 0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:49.240 them choose and then should You're saying they got to 0:31:49.320 --> 0:31:51.240 choosing and you're giving them the choice to deal with 0:31:51.320 --> 0:31:52.720 them Like, yeah. 0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:55.360 It's ultimately my decision on who I want to give 0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:57.360 my tam to. Not No, I'm not giving my time 0:31:57.480 --> 0:31:59.160 for a nigga because he won't my time. 0:31:59.280 --> 0:31:59.880 Is you crazy? 0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:01.400 I hear that? 0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:04.600 But when it comes to marriage, that's really where that 0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:06.880 base comes from because the man, the men gets to 0:32:06.960 --> 0:32:09.040 ask the woman will you be my wife? And then 0:32:09.040 --> 0:32:11.720 they have to say yes. So that's why they said 0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:13.600 men do the children. What is what is it saying 0:32:14.040 --> 0:32:19.560 women get who they can? What's okay anyway? But they 0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:21.760 say that men get to do they pick their Wif 0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:23.560 you could run around all day, I want to be 0:32:23.560 --> 0:32:23.880 our wife. 0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:24.560 I want to be a wife. 0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:26.680 But until a man actually be a wife, you're never 0:32:26.760 --> 0:32:30.160 gonna be a wife. So that's why men, at the 0:32:30.240 --> 0:32:32.600 end of the day get to As much as we 0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:34.920 don't like it, that is the reality of it. 0:32:35.360 --> 0:32:38.200 So if I'm if I'm to your point, if I'm 0:32:38.240 --> 0:32:41.200 liking you, loving you more than you love me, that 0:32:41.320 --> 0:32:43.880 ain't gonna be right. That's when you get rand over. 0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.320 Most of it gotta be the other way around. 0:32:46.720 --> 0:32:48.560 She still gotta love you a lot, though I'm not 0:32:48.600 --> 0:32:50.160 saying she. 0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:52.080 Gotta love you more because she's the backbone. She on't 0:32:52.080 --> 0:32:53.680 gonna keep together because they're gonna get the fuck on. 0:32:54.760 --> 0:32:58.440 It's it's it's too much of a one sided thing 0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:00.240 because like I said, I can walk out of the 0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:03.560 day and get walk out here, walk downstairs and get 0:33:03.680 --> 0:33:06.640 a queen. Now one of y'all can't do that, Walk 0:33:06.720 --> 0:33:09.040 right downstairs and the and go next door to the 0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:11.040 restaurant and find the love of my life, a wife. 0:33:11.360 --> 0:33:15.480 All she missing is me. Mhm. It's a shortage on husbands. 0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:19.920 It ain't no shortage on niggas, But it's a shortage 0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:24.360 on husband. A nigga that want to beat the husband 0:33:24.720 --> 0:33:27.480 that ship. It's a woman holding onto his leg for 0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:29.280 their life right now. She ain't lettinghim go. 0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:30.120 Hm. 0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:33.400 And white women will beat you if you're gay. 0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:40.560 So you know they got white smell. You don't like 0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:43.360 the white white woman when they get with they smell 0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:46.800 like body me, like hyena sausages. 0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:50.520 Okay, so you you dipped your toe in the pond before? 0:33:50.640 --> 0:34:00.600 No, hell no, no, I smelled them rain and yeah, swing. 0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:03.320 I got a hiking group also, you know what I'm saying. 0:34:04.480 --> 0:34:05.320 She came one time. 0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:08.200 You know, every time it just seemed like something. Come, 0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:10.479 I had a hair appointment I have out of town. 0:34:10.719 --> 0:34:13.120 You know we should be coming out. I got into 0:34:13.200 --> 0:34:13.840 hiking booso. 0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:16.200 I did specifically that I did. 0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:21.400 A woman gotta love a man more than he love her. 0:34:22.000 --> 0:34:23.240 To me, I don't really. 0:34:23.080 --> 0:34:25.320 Agree with that. I agree with a man is supposed 0:34:25.320 --> 0:34:25.960 to love you more. 0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:29.719 I do because I feel like when a man love 0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:32.799 you more, that's when he just don't make sure you're good. 0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:36.879 Gotta be equal, yeah, basically because I can't. 0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:43.040 Yeah, I got to be up here and down here. 0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:45.239 I'm just you gotta be a little bit more like 0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:46.279 because men man. 0:34:46.280 --> 0:34:48.640 Need a little got you basically need to feel like 0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:49.360 you gotta. 0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:50.560 Chase me, not chase. 0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:52.000 Yeah, I love you, adore me. 0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:54.920 I can't deal with you if I don't adore you. 0:34:55.000 --> 0:34:56.800 But I'm saying is baby you, I gotta know you 0:34:56.920 --> 0:35:00.640 obsessed with me though. For me to adorn you, m hmm, 0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:03.520 for me to adore you, I gotta know you. 0:35:03.880 --> 0:35:06.240 That that's why women are choosing to be single. 0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:09.640 Hey, who go ahead, baby, go to the Tom John 0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:10.640 cruise and ship. 0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:15.759 Getting to that point where it's just beginning to be 0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:18.640 too much on both on both behalfs like it's it's 0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:21.600 not easy, it's too much. Like you want all of this, 0:35:22.160 --> 0:35:24.239 men want all you do, all this, this, this that, 0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:25.960 and the third end put up with the bullshit that 0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:27.960 he come with then women want you to do all 0:35:28.040 --> 0:35:29.759 this and put up with the bullshit that she comes. 0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:30.759 It's just too much. 0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:32.959 It's just like nobody. 0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:37.040 Women want a traditional nigga, but they want to be martyr. 0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:38.040 It don't work like that. 0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:40.560 What's the traditional nigga? 0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:45.200 A traditional nigga? Cook? I mean not cook? Come provide, protect, 0:35:45.600 --> 0:35:49.520 love you more what you want me, protect whatever, whatever? Whatever? 0:35:49.600 --> 0:35:51.320 You protecting my heart and my emotions? Are you not 0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:53.000 outside that part? They don't get that. 0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:56.239 They don't get that right, but don't get don't they 0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:58.160 don't fall in the category protect. 0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:02.000 You do forget what? Most of the time, if you 0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:05.480 fuck me cheating, you wouldn't look for it. So if 0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:08.560 you look for a baby, you hurt yourself. I didn't No, no, no, 0:36:09.120 --> 0:36:09.840 I didn't hurt you. 0:36:10.320 --> 0:36:12.560 Niggas is sloppy. You ain't gotta look for it. That 0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:16.719 mean that shape he means the bottom look like. 0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:23.120 It's just like going through your phone. If I'm going 0:36:23.160 --> 0:36:25.320 through your phone, guess what I'm looking for, something to 0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:28.319 tell you to get the funk on. I ain't looking 0:36:28.520 --> 0:36:30.239 if I'm looking to see if you cheating on me, 0:36:30.400 --> 0:36:31.960 put a track on your car in the day, I'm 0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:35.120 trying to get you to funk away from me. That's 0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:37.200 the only way. I don't want problems. I want to 0:36:37.239 --> 0:36:39.800 love you. I'm loving you. Why am I looking for 0:36:39.880 --> 0:36:42.560 a problems? 0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:44.520 To look for a problem for it to come to 0:36:44.640 --> 0:36:45.239 your front door. 0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:46.360 He don't care about you. 0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:48.279 He didn't protect me. 0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:50.520 He don't care about you. Know what I'm saying. If 0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:53.000 a nigga care about you, he ain't finning. Let nothing 0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:54.560 happen to you, no matter what. 0:36:56.120 --> 0:36:58.120 Because even if you to. 0:36:58.160 --> 0:37:01.600 Me, but you can't deal with a nigga that's honest 0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.000 for real, honest. Don't ask me something you don't want 0:37:04.040 --> 0:37:04.799 to know the truth about. 0:37:05.000 --> 0:37:06.920 I agree, and don't ask the niggas you cheating if 0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:10.600 you're not ready to leave, thank you, yeah, idiot, But 0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.399 now you asked me some ship. Now he knows your safe. 0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:17.560 So y'all are We've had many women on gender wars. 0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:20.000 So y'all are a group of women that's not okay 0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:21.920 with men cheating because we've had women sitting here. 0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:24.560 There a deal bring for me, like I know what 0:37:24.680 --> 0:37:28.280 dog I lay down with depending on what the dynamic 0:37:28.440 --> 0:37:29.920 is like if I knew you was a dog in 0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:31.080 the beginning of the ship and. 0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:38.440 I don't like I've dated somebody. 0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:41.120 For like two years, let's say, and I knew he 0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.560 was a dog before I started with him, but he 0:37:43.960 --> 0:37:45.960 painted it. Oh, I'm trying to leave that life behind. 0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:47.799 I want to move out to the suburbs by house. 0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:50.520 Do it write this time? Lying the whole time. 0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:53.040 I don't really care. One time I was trying to 0:37:53.080 --> 0:37:55.399 play music and I was on his iPad. I started 0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:58.640 getting all his Instagram dms. Today, iPad, I'm not touching 0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:00.400 that ship with a stick because I. 0:38:00.480 --> 0:38:02.120 Know I'm gonna be in a bed crying in the 0:38:02.200 --> 0:38:03.360 second I open these. 0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:07.879 Short He definitely a cheating on me, posting with girls 0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:10.160 on the internet, girls giving me all this stuff. And 0:38:10.440 --> 0:38:13.040 I asked him one time, like Yo, why is girls 0:38:13.120 --> 0:38:14.480 writing me on the internet? And he was like, why 0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:15.680 are you going to look for it? I'm like they're 0:38:15.680 --> 0:38:18.719 writing me, nigga, And that literally was his thing, like 0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:20.759 are you looking for it? And I'm like, they are 0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:21.480 coming to me. 0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:27.480 They that ain't really caught. That could be a hater, 0:38:27.600 --> 0:38:27.960 that could be. 0:38:27.960 --> 0:38:32.240 A bot, not a bard. 0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:32.560 Him. 0:38:32.640 --> 0:38:34.360 He had his short off. They was in the bathroom 0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:36.040 and she was like, my dad, let. 0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.640 Me, let me say it. Let me say this, Let 0:38:38.680 --> 0:38:42.120 me say this, Let me say this. Please, it's. 0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:44.120 The mic on. 0:38:45.760 --> 0:38:48.000 All bullshit aside, all bullshit aside. 0:38:48.080 --> 0:38:51.040 You know, some boys on the way, But. 0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:53.640 This is for all my niggas and all my fellow women. 0:38:54.360 --> 0:38:56.279 If a woman is telling you something that means he 0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:58.560 trying to cut her off, why she ain't tell me 0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:00.640 when when y'all was, when y'all were making a picture, 0:39:01.000 --> 0:39:02.719 Why ain't tell me, befo you took the picture? Baby, 0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:05.160 don't call my phone now you mad? Hee told me? 0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:06.759 Now you're mad? Bitch? Gone with that? 0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:08.120 Okay, Yeah, I'm not. 0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:12.719 When it comes to cheating, it depends on like, first 0:39:12.760 --> 0:39:14.960 of all, I'm not just okay with cheating. But it's 0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:18.480 like it's the nigga serial cheeta or did you just 0:39:18.600 --> 0:39:21.040 take a bit out of town. You're on vacation, you 0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:23.359 hear some bed, Okay, you hear some bad You have fun, 0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:27.160 but like a serial teata Like no nigga, like a relationship, 0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:29.319 another relationship, nigga, you got me fucked up. 0:39:29.360 --> 0:39:32.360 But as far as just like yeah, I don't know, 0:39:32.760 --> 0:39:35.279 like I'm not getting tricked out my spot. So like 0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:37.640 that's how I feel about that. 0:39:37.880 --> 0:39:42.960 Like it takes a team for some niggas, though for me, 0:39:43.680 --> 0:39:46.520 it take a team for something effort. 0:39:48.920 --> 0:39:51.640 I agree a project. I have a girlfriend and a 0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:54.440 boyfriend because it takes. 0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:56.640 A group effort. Like you gotta think if you was 0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:59.000 in a relationship with a dude, right, sometimes he don't 0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:02.080 want to put the pressure on you, all the pressure 0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:03.399 on you. You know what I'm saying. 0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:05.719 He might not want to You might not want to 0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:09.480 put that's my decision to make, now yours. Don't take 0:40:09.520 --> 0:40:10.040 it away from me. 0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:11.959 You don't make that hold up. But the thing about 0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:13.520 it is you knew what kind of nigga he was 0:40:13.600 --> 0:40:14.319 when you got him. 0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:17.239 I ain't commenting to no niggas like that. 0:40:17.360 --> 0:40:17.560 No mo. 0:40:18.000 --> 0:40:20.240 Like I've been in situation to well like oh it's okay, 0:40:20.320 --> 0:40:22.399 he hits it. But now it's like, no, I want 0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:23.759 a real man that loves me. 0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:26.640 If he he takes care of he do some ship, 0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:27.719 it never comes back to me. 0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:29.960 I don't feel it at all. That's just one thing. 0:40:30.080 --> 0:40:30.960 But just knowing some. 0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:34.400 Ship like a triangle. I'm never doing that ship Like 0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:35.160 that's crazy. 0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:39.360 Everybody's each each his own life. What I'm saying is 0:40:39.840 --> 0:40:42.759 you when you meet a nigga. Right, you know what 0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:45.440 type of nigga I know? 0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:50.239 They don't know. 0:40:50.440 --> 0:40:55.719 Yes, they don't like athletes waking up at six am 0:40:55.800 --> 0:40:56.919 running track every morning. 0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:06.360 Listen, one thing I'm gonna tell you how you know 0:41:06.400 --> 0:41:09.440 what kind of nigga that is because of the nigga 0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:11.319 doing all that for some pussy. What kind of nigga 0:41:11.400 --> 0:41:11.600 are you? 0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:13.280 Why you got time? 0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:16.759 What? I'm just saying? What what niggas you change? I 0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:19.399 only want to want the woman that won't me. That's 0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:22.800 what most men are like, sudn't bally damn. They're like, 0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:25.839 I don't know, do he like me? That's the that's 0:41:25.880 --> 0:41:28.839 the nigga. That's the nigga. I don't even know if 0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:31.800 he liked me or not. Now this nigga consistent, good morning, beautiful. 0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:33.120 He wants some pussy. 0:41:34.320 --> 0:41:36.920 He wants to put this nigga who don't rarely call you, 0:41:37.080 --> 0:41:39.239 so you can't say I'm some bullshit baby because I 0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:42.360 rarely call you'all, rarely answer when we first met. So 0:41:42.440 --> 0:41:44.840 when we get together and I do fuck you, this 0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:46.080 ship is the same. 0:41:52.120 --> 0:41:53.040 So that's the point. 0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:56.960 Day women think, think, why do y'all feel like it's 0:41:57.080 --> 0:41:58.880 value on pussy? Still it's not. 0:41:59.719 --> 0:42:02.000 It's not it's value on most because. 0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:04.080 What you're saying, But it's not. 0:42:04.280 --> 0:42:07.120 Though, men don't go outside and get money every day 0:42:07.960 --> 0:42:10.160 because they think it's cool. They go outside and get 0:42:10.160 --> 0:42:12.160 money every day because they want pussy and they want I. 0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:13.920 Don't know what kind of you'll be dealing with. What 0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.080 about their family, your family, your wife. 0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:17.520 You want to make sure your wife is good. Right, 0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:22.480 that's pussy with my grandkid. That's part of the pussy. 0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:29.440 See, y'all got a false, false sense of what the 0:42:30.000 --> 0:42:30.920 value of pussy is. 0:42:31.120 --> 0:42:34.160 Why are we just fucking somebody who shows us no interest? 0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:41.320 That is stupid, living in a matrix, just doing it 0:42:41.400 --> 0:42:41.879 all the time. 0:42:42.040 --> 0:42:45.000 Women are doing it all the time. They're doing it 0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:45.920 on stream like that. 0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:47.760 I was just having we were just having this conversation 0:42:47.800 --> 0:42:50.200 at the day about way of life. It is you 0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:52.400 literally on stream, fucking president. 0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:54.480 We're going we're not gonna speak on the one percentage 0:42:54.480 --> 0:42:56.799 because we're all one percentage in him. So let's speak 0:42:56.840 --> 0:43:00.759 on the majority, the majority of fucking because they think 0:43:00.880 --> 0:43:05.400 that's their value. They thinking, Okay, for some frame reason, 0:43:05.960 --> 0:43:09.040 her pussy is different than everybody else. So once I 0:43:09.080 --> 0:43:11.360 get him, he hooked, and that's the one that be 0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:14.000 mad like, oh this is all he wanted, baby, Yes, 0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:19.719 it's ships changed soon as I not ship changes for real. 0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:24.239 That a lot of niggas bro going to stud who 0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:27.480 women stud the same? I got stood home girl the 0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:32.800 same if they're the same, because they know they know 0:43:32.880 --> 0:43:36.480 the inner inner workings of a woman mind. They more 0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:38.279 tapped in the women. So they're gonna play you though 0:43:38.320 --> 0:43:49.399 all the way worse, beat you up because that girl, 0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:51.520 old girl, that ain't really the best in violence a fight. 0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:54.920 That's a fact. So what you what you gonna do 0:43:57.160 --> 0:43:57.480 the same. 0:43:57.640 --> 0:43:59.960 That's but I get what y'all saying. Man, it's it's 0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:02.839 fucked up these women, and it's so hard to distinguish 0:44:02.960 --> 0:44:04.120 a woman from a holy. 0:44:04.080 --> 0:44:07.759 Days But why are black women white women? 0:44:08.480 --> 0:44:10.399 Because we are black, we are in the We don't 0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:14.280 pay attention to white people like you not. Your algorithm 0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:16.279 not full of white people. My algorithm not for the 0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:18.719 white people. You're none of Our algorithm nine times out 0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:20.520 of ten is full of white people. So the argument 0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:21.240 is invalid. 0:44:21.640 --> 0:44:23.280 You know what, we can only. 0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:25.239 Speak about what goes on in the black community because 0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:27.320 we're in the black community and in the black community. 0:44:27.360 --> 0:44:29.400 It's hard to tell the good girls from posed. 0:44:29.760 --> 0:44:33.520 But even if on the most basic level of this conversation, 0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:37.360 no black woman would have been able to have a 0:44:37.440 --> 0:44:39.400 sex tape out of her and be as successful as 0:44:39.440 --> 0:44:40.120 Kim Kardashian. 0:44:40.719 --> 0:44:43.319 Well, that's contributed to her mama, her name. 0:44:43.400 --> 0:44:47.560 I mean whatever, all of that and did all of that. 0:44:47.800 --> 0:44:51.080 I do think like niggas, they can't distinguish a woman from. 0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:54.640 A if I'll do you, how can you tell somebody? Please, Tim, how. 0:44:57.440 --> 0:44:59.920 I have to check niggas like Niga, A talking man 0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:02.080 already changed Monday. 0:45:02.680 --> 0:45:04.200 I come here like a boss. 0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:05.759 I know you ain't talking to me, so I have 0:45:05.880 --> 0:45:06.080 to do. 0:45:06.120 --> 0:45:06.560 That a lot. 0:45:06.760 --> 0:45:07.759 So I agree with that. 0:45:07.880 --> 0:45:11.239 Okay, look, get what that's one out of ten, you 0:45:11.400 --> 0:45:16.160 do that one? Okay, all right, alright baby damn one. 0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:22.640 My girls on Magic City. But right this way and 0:45:22.719 --> 0:45:23.239 she's ready. 0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:27.840 That's ready, So that don't even matter what you just did. Okay, 0:45:27.920 --> 0:45:36.560 cool baby, keep your integrity. Yeah yeah, yeah, one mean 0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:40.040 the right way exactly. You're right. That's what I'm trying 0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:43.120 to tell y'all. The value is so low because it's 0:45:43.239 --> 0:45:46.520 nine to one. It's nine, it's nine holds the one woman. 0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:51.839 It's meant for though, huh, it's always men girls. 0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:54.200 DM how much you cause like y'all made it seem 0:45:54.239 --> 0:45:56.080 like y'all should just have access to pussy just because 0:45:56.120 --> 0:45:56.640 y'all got money. 0:45:56.719 --> 0:45:58.880 Like y'all, the one who put this value made it 0:45:59.200 --> 0:45:59.719 a trade off. 0:46:00.080 --> 0:46:03.200 Been like this in the beginning of time and trading 0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:06.839 women for cows, and you will change your's gonna value? 0:46:06.880 --> 0:46:07.800 Why would you pay for it? 0:46:09.520 --> 0:46:12.920 Carry what you're talking about niggas saying. 0:46:18.719 --> 0:46:21.320 Africa guilty? 0:46:27.239 --> 0:46:29.080 Like the nigga really is smart for paying for them? 0:46:29.120 --> 0:46:31.480 To tell you why? Because I ain't got to deal 0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:35.040 with it costs more to date the bitch. That's that's 0:46:35.080 --> 0:46:37.239 what it costs more to date the bitch. If I'm 0:46:37.239 --> 0:46:39.800 gonna take you on two three dates. Let's cut to 0:46:39.880 --> 0:46:43.879 the chase. Baby, what you want, it's the same thing. 0:46:44.040 --> 0:46:45.680 I gotta get my nails done, gotta give my hell done. 0:46:46.320 --> 0:46:47.800 Now I'm about three thousand. Now you want to go. 0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:49.239 You wanna do some nice ship. You want to eat 0:46:49.280 --> 0:46:50.480 the big air portout. 0:46:50.239 --> 0:46:51.040 All this ship. 0:46:51.600 --> 0:46:53.440 I'm about twenty five hundred. Luck that they gave it 0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:56.680 been five hundred. That's how that's the that's the nigga 0:46:56.719 --> 0:47:01.040 logical thousand, whatever, whatever would you want, whatever it is 0:47:01.160 --> 0:47:06.400 that you want, Listen, the price of putting the thought of. 0:47:06.360 --> 0:47:10.000 All of them now, no, that's what nails used to 0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:10.879 be forty or something. 0:47:11.000 --> 0:47:12.640 My girl said, it's fifteen hundred. 0:47:14.239 --> 0:47:14.439 Listen. 0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:19.160 I'm speaking for the niggas who got the money. Listen, listen, 0:47:19.520 --> 0:47:20.839 let me say that. Let me land know some bro, 0:47:20.960 --> 0:47:23.239 I'm speaking for niggas who I know. They've never been 0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:25.400 in a relationship. They're successful, they got the money, They 0:47:25.560 --> 0:47:27.720 rap pus, they producer, they I'm speaking for these niggas. 0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:30.160 This day Nigga loses, I'll be like, Bro, you finished. Bro, 0:47:30.400 --> 0:47:34.160 It's like, think about it. Man, you've been trying to 0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:36.520 you for thirty years. You probably spent one hundred million 0:47:36.520 --> 0:47:38.920 dollars on that woman. All I'm finna do is hit 0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:41.120 the business, give her fifteen hundred. Like she said, I 0:47:41.160 --> 0:47:44.480 ain't got to see her no more. So who loses 0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:46.160 when you add that up? 0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:46.880 Who lose it? 0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:50.279 Nigga spent one hundred million dollars on one and the 0:47:50.480 --> 0:47:51.040 niggas spend it. 0:47:52.280 --> 0:47:54.799 So that goes back to what's what's worth more? One 0:47:55.040 --> 0:47:56.839 loyal girl or any hose. 0:47:58.000 --> 0:47:59.919 It's all the same life. 0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:03.320 What he's saying, it depends on the lifestyle exactly. 0:48:03.920 --> 0:48:06.759 That's what I mean. Damn, No matter how you are 0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:11.640 where you want to hear something every night fifteen, let 0:48:11.680 --> 0:48:12.200 me say something? 0:48:12.440 --> 0:48:14.480 Is it like right now? Right? If you want in 0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:16.839 a relationship or you were married, if I went married, 0:48:17.080 --> 0:48:19.040 how can I trust love at this point? 0:48:19.120 --> 0:48:19.440 Correct? 0:48:19.440 --> 0:48:21.799 I'm already me. How can I trust that somebody loved 0:48:21.840 --> 0:48:22.120 me for me? 0:48:22.520 --> 0:48:22.840 Correct? 0:48:23.719 --> 0:48:24.600 I was just talking about that. 0:48:25.000 --> 0:48:27.239 Yeah, I agree with that because I always feel like, 0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:29.120 if I get rich single, I'm staying single. 0:48:29.200 --> 0:48:31.239 Like, ain't no nigga finna come hop in on my ship? 0:48:31.440 --> 0:48:32.880 How can you trust invest in me? 0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:36.480 How can you trust? It's gonna have to damn, that 0:48:36.600 --> 0:48:38.759 be equal, right, She's gonna have to dombe the hall. 0:48:38.800 --> 0:48:39.920 What I got a hell? 0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:40.400 What you got? 0:48:40.480 --> 0:48:40.600 Right? 0:48:40.680 --> 0:48:41.719 You're what you got. 0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:44.080 I think people are not dumb, like you have to 0:48:44.160 --> 0:48:46.560 have discernment. You could tell when somebody really fuck with. 0:48:46.600 --> 0:48:50.560 You, Like sometimes it's not even that. Sometimes you don't 0:48:50.640 --> 0:48:52.640 want to You want to live in the delusion that 0:48:52.719 --> 0:48:55.279 you're in like that. A lot of the times, that's 0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:57.319 what it's like. Women who think that a man really 0:48:57.440 --> 0:48:59.600 actually really be into them, and I'm actually just paying 0:48:59.640 --> 0:49:01.160 you for your How you going about your business? 0:49:01.280 --> 0:49:02.320 You're living in a delusion. 0:49:04.800 --> 0:49:07.200 You you know, you can't possibly think that I want 0:49:07.200 --> 0:49:09.400 to be in a relationship with you. How do you 0:49:09.480 --> 0:49:10.200 possibly think that? 0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:11.239 How are we? 0:49:11.560 --> 0:49:11.960 How are we? 0:49:12.120 --> 0:49:14.160 How are you even talking about wanting a relationship with 0:49:14.320 --> 0:49:16.520 me when I paid you to come here. So that's 0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:18.360 the delusion that women be living in and men be 0:49:18.440 --> 0:49:20.400 doing the same. But I want to go back to 0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:22.400 something that you said on the podcast with Kodak when 0:49:22.440 --> 0:49:24.799 you was talking about cheating and how you would turn 0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:26.719 the blind eye to cheating. But then now you said 0:49:26.920 --> 0:49:29.520 something here ago, so you change your mind, even change 0:49:29.560 --> 0:49:31.879 your stands. You called me, you was like, oh you're 0:49:31.920 --> 0:49:33.560 tripping No, no, no, when I said what I said, 0:49:33.600 --> 0:49:38.320 So I'm like, okay, well she not changed. Yeah, but 0:49:38.520 --> 0:49:41.360 what I'm saying is what I'm saying is your stinks 0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:42.520 on it kind of changed. 0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:44.200 I'm just wondering, like what happened? 0:49:44.239 --> 0:49:47.279 Like women, let me, do women know what they want? 0:49:47.840 --> 0:49:50.359 I was just about to say that women from a man. 0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:52.000 Do you know what you want from a man? 0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:52.359 Yeah? 0:49:52.480 --> 0:49:54.480 You think so, I'm just getting. 0:49:55.960 --> 0:49:56.640 What you want from man? 0:49:56.760 --> 0:49:58.480 Okay, what do I want from a man? 0:49:58.560 --> 0:50:00.560 I just want to be a I want to be 0:50:00.640 --> 0:50:03.720 taken care of, emotional support. 0:50:03.960 --> 0:50:04.600 Yeah, I want woman. 0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:07.960 You ready to settle down woman defense. 0:50:09.239 --> 0:50:10.080 But that's what I want. 0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:12.759 I want to be provided for, a protective That's what 0:50:12.840 --> 0:50:16.560 I want. I want one man, my best friend. So 0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:20.000 even if you do fuck up, can't nobody tell me 0:50:20.080 --> 0:50:21.440 nothing about him because I know him so. 0:50:21.520 --> 0:50:27.280 Well, like just a real bond. Just it could be anything. 0:50:27.800 --> 0:50:30.200 You can go gamble and lose twenty thousand dollars the 0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:32.840 win have it ain't gotta just be cheating. 0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:34.319 That's fucking up. 0:50:34.719 --> 0:50:42.680 Yeah, got a Christmas Street because your ass was out gambling. 0:50:43.400 --> 0:50:45.920 I don't think women know what they want. That's why 0:50:46.120 --> 0:50:47.000 so much of a headache. 0:50:47.080 --> 0:50:49.080 I think it changes. Like she said when she wasn't 0:50:49.120 --> 0:50:51.480 year ago, it's completely she said. 0:50:51.320 --> 0:50:54.920 A year she should not normalize. Okay, she go through 0:50:54.960 --> 0:50:57.800 all this to get one man that does all this 0:50:57.920 --> 0:50:59.920 ship and then it changes. That's not help. 0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:01.520 Yeah, let me let me ask you all something that's 0:51:01.520 --> 0:51:04.440 not because I don't believe y'all know what y'all want. 0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:06.960 She said, sh cliche. That ship that sounds good. It's good, 0:51:08.719 --> 0:51:13.839 but I'm saying that sounds. I'm not saying you mind, 0:51:13.880 --> 0:51:16.600 I'm just saying it's it's a somewhat delusion. If if 0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:18.319 if if you got a man to give you all 0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.080 that and you figured them out what you love and 0:51:20.239 --> 0:51:23.920 respect him the same way. What you mean like, if 0:51:23.920 --> 0:51:26.719 you get a nigga that you figure out routine, He's 0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:28.680 a routine nigga. Could you love him the way you 0:51:28.719 --> 0:51:36.719 will love him? Man? Yeah, women get bored anybody like 0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:39.320 I hear that, hear that from women like he just 0:51:40.080 --> 0:51:42.000 what do you do? Nothing, gonna do nothing, it's just 0:51:42.040 --> 0:51:44.120 coming out I know what he's about to do. That 0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:46.440 gets some women nerve when they know what you're about 0:51:46.480 --> 0:51:46.640 to do. 0:51:46.800 --> 0:51:49.520 But it is the woman spontaneous because I'm spontaneous. They 0:51:49.600 --> 0:51:50.640 let's go jump out the plane. 0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:53.600 He don't want to do it, don't want to do it. 0:51:53.960 --> 0:51:56.279 I'm not even cling to him, Like if we not 0:51:56.400 --> 0:51:59.759 already having fun in the dating stages, you're why would 0:51:59.800 --> 0:51:59.960 I come? 0:52:00.080 --> 0:52:02.960 But the dynamics of ship changed. Now, you're right, But 0:52:03.080 --> 0:52:06.600 the dynamics and ship change jumping out of That's what 0:52:06.719 --> 0:52:07.800 I'm saying, and change. 0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:16.200 So I just feel like I just feel like if 0:52:16.239 --> 0:52:18.960 a woman get with a man, right, and she get 0:52:19.040 --> 0:52:21.080 everything from that man. She won'ts she don't like him 0:52:21.120 --> 0:52:22.399 no more. That's just how I feel. 0:52:22.960 --> 0:52:25.160 So you feel the same way about have you got 0:52:25.200 --> 0:52:26.799 through a way? Do you feel the same way by men? 0:52:27.400 --> 0:52:28.279 Have you got thrown away? 0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:31.640 Is still a puzzle? No, I've been thirty years. It's 0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:35.600 still a puzzle. What about you don't know what I'm 0:52:35.600 --> 0:52:40.480 gonna do today? Don't the phone? But I think that's 0:52:40.600 --> 0:52:44.880 that's I think that's the dynamic of makes things interesting 0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:46.760 interesting because she don't never. 0:52:46.760 --> 0:52:52.160 Know, and then she'd be doing the same thing. No, okay, 0:52:52.400 --> 0:52:52.920 they don't make. 0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:58.600 It interesting, No, because men and women are different. Women 0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:02.880 women out, bro, I'm keeping it. 0:53:04.360 --> 0:53:05.759 For you and not answer to the phone and. 0:53:08.400 --> 0:53:10.960 Saying I'm saying, let's not act like you don't go 0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:11.600 home every night. 0:53:13.760 --> 0:53:15.560 Yeah, next year we stay next door to each other 0:53:15.719 --> 0:53:21.239 some nights like this. Shit is weird because I go, 0:53:21.440 --> 0:53:23.480 I go in and out, and she know that it's 0:53:23.520 --> 0:53:27.080 thirty I'll be with fifteen seat yard so you can 0:53:27.160 --> 0:53:28.680 look out the one to see me. I can look 0:53:28.680 --> 0:53:30.000 at the one to see you. I can come home, 0:53:30.040 --> 0:53:33.680 you can come my ship. Either way. We staying two 0:53:33.760 --> 0:53:38.160 separate sides of a cundo. But that works for me. Yeah, 0:53:38.600 --> 0:53:41.120 because me sitting there, sitting around you, I've been like 0:53:41.160 --> 0:53:43.600 I said, it's been sixteen since I was sixteen years old. 0:53:44.320 --> 0:53:46.680 You keep seeing me all day, all gonna run back 0:53:46.719 --> 0:53:48.600 in your head the bullshit I done did out of 0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:52.640 years ago, ten years ago. Okay, so you gotta I 0:53:52.719 --> 0:53:55.839 gotta allow you to miss me so you can love 0:53:55.920 --> 0:53:59.000 me properly. If I'm tripping, I'm tripping, but it worked 0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:01.839 for me. I can't say what word for somebody else 0:54:01.960 --> 0:54:03.480 when I try to do. If I try to sit 0:54:03.560 --> 0:54:06.840 in that house, I would be miserable because I know 0:54:06.880 --> 0:54:08.520 I don't let you down too many times. You don't 0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:10.359 let me down too with your mouth with ship, you're 0:54:10.360 --> 0:54:14.279 gonna say it whatever. So we can't sit in bullshit 0:54:14.360 --> 0:54:22.279 all day. I think, Hold no, I'm telling you, like 0:54:22.400 --> 0:54:25.200 a lot of people, because guess what if it eventually 0:54:25.400 --> 0:54:27.040 it's gonna be like Grandmama and Granddad used to do. 0:54:27.120 --> 0:54:29.799 Now sleep and saying he upstands, she's downstairs. That's how 0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:32.480 that goes. You be around person so much, you go 0:54:32.600 --> 0:54:34.799 to figure him out, and you start hating that person 0:54:35.040 --> 0:54:37.040 some kind of way. Sometimes you know what I'm saying. 0:54:37.640 --> 0:54:40.040 But now here, hey, where you at? Put some clothes? 0:54:40.440 --> 0:54:40.480 Go? 0:54:41.239 --> 0:54:44.480 Yeah, I like that. Now you you genuinely happy. I'm 0:54:44.560 --> 0:54:45.640 genuinely happy to see you. 0:54:47.320 --> 0:54:49.160 But it depends because some people. 0:54:50.520 --> 0:54:51.320 You deal with you. 0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:57.839 I like a routine. I like knowing what my day 0:54:57.880 --> 0:54:58.200 looks like. 0:54:58.360 --> 0:55:00.319 I like knowing that I'm gonna wake up at the time, 0:55:00.480 --> 0:55:03.120 drink my tea, go to the gym, go to work, 0:55:03.239 --> 0:55:04.400 come home, do this like. 0:55:04.480 --> 0:55:05.600 I like a routine. 0:55:05.719 --> 0:55:07.600 So it depends on what you because a woman, but 0:55:07.680 --> 0:55:09.320 you don't like your dude to have a route. I 0:55:09.400 --> 0:55:12.239 don't know you like listen, it's just like a woman, right, 0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:14.160 And I don't know. I know I won't be making 0:55:14.200 --> 0:55:17.799 no sense, but it makes sense to me. I done 0:55:17.880 --> 0:55:20.640 seen women bro be with niggas for twenty thirty years, 0:55:20.719 --> 0:55:22.840 and all they say is they tie of these niggas. 0:55:22.840 --> 0:55:25.279 You see how many women y'all see turn forty five, 0:55:25.320 --> 0:55:27.880 fifty years old and give a divorce for nothing. Nigga 0:55:27.880 --> 0:55:30.279 ain't even cheated or nothing. I'm just sick outgrew him. 0:55:31.239 --> 0:55:33.280 But then they missed their marriage because that was stupid. 0:55:34.200 --> 0:55:36.000 But they want to be outside. 0:55:36.120 --> 0:55:37.760 But that's why I tell the girls of the thirties, 0:55:37.800 --> 0:55:39.520 Go get them newly divorced men. 0:55:39.600 --> 0:55:40.600 They're gonna treat you good. 0:55:41.880 --> 0:55:58.560 Just be like swingers. Honey, ain't make nothing but relationship 0:55:58.600 --> 0:55:59.160 with twenty years. 0:55:59.280 --> 0:56:02.839 You gotta now in real life, I think I think 0:56:02.920 --> 0:56:06.640 everybody gonna have something different that worked for them. Yeah. 0:56:06.719 --> 0:56:10.000 Bro, that that's that's that's what they're going to kill 0:56:10.120 --> 0:56:12.440 gender wards today because it ain't gonna be able to 0:56:12.480 --> 0:56:15.080 be fixed because we try to generalize it. Yeah, we're 0:56:15.120 --> 0:56:18.920 trying to generalize. Like most women see something somebody else 0:56:19.000 --> 0:56:21.560 with something and want that instead of wanting what they 0:56:21.640 --> 0:56:23.200 want for themselves. The don't even know what they want. 0:56:23.239 --> 0:56:24.320 They don't know what they want to. 0:56:24.400 --> 0:56:26.520 They see it and they don't know what that wife 0:56:26.560 --> 0:56:28.680 had to put in to get the results out of 0:56:28.800 --> 0:56:32.440 that man and exactly finished. So you think, oh, I 0:56:32.480 --> 0:56:34.040 want this man because he's such a good husband, But 0:56:34.080 --> 0:56:35.360 you don't know what kind of wife she had to 0:56:35.400 --> 0:56:36.279 be to get that good? 0:56:36.840 --> 0:56:40.160 Are you to wake up and make sure all his 0:56:40.320 --> 0:56:41.440 clothes is laid out and. 0:56:44.440 --> 0:56:46.680 All the time search? They want this stuff that they 0:56:46.719 --> 0:56:49.040 see on Instagram. But I'll be like that bitch was 0:56:49.080 --> 0:56:51.279 with that nigga and he was broken exactly. That's why 0:56:51.360 --> 0:56:52.080 he got That's why. 0:56:54.880 --> 0:56:55.120 He can. 0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:56.840 He cannot be broke but be broken. 0:56:57.000 --> 0:56:57.760 There's a lot of blood. 0:57:00.800 --> 0:57:02.480 I wish you would come over here and try to 0:57:02.680 --> 0:57:04.160 who I bow. 0:57:04.040 --> 0:57:05.640 Your ass in the head. You know what I had 0:57:05.680 --> 0:57:09.920 to go through. That's how I mean, like you gonna sit. 0:57:10.000 --> 0:57:12.279 You ain't put you ain't put in on me this 0:57:12.480 --> 0:57:15.520 right here, right, That's. 0:57:15.360 --> 0:57:19.480 Why you don't fuck with nobody Like no, you don't know, Yeah, 0:57:19.920 --> 0:57:22.840 but you don't fuck with somebody man and then expect 0:57:22.920 --> 0:57:24.760 for him to do exactly what it is he's doing 0:57:24.840 --> 0:57:25.080 for her. 0:57:25.520 --> 0:57:26.120 You don't do that. 0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:29.960 Because you said that you would kill her. 0:57:30.320 --> 0:57:31.480 That's no I said. 0:57:31.760 --> 0:57:33.360 I said, bo bitch, and he ain't said kill not 0:57:35.400 --> 0:57:38.800 no time about I was just maybe a little hard 0:57:38.840 --> 0:57:40.080 of it and get you beat up or something. 0:57:40.120 --> 0:57:40.680 I ain't saying. 0:57:42.600 --> 0:57:42.640 No. 0:57:42.720 --> 0:57:44.400 That's how though, That's why you don't mess with me. 0:57:44.520 --> 0:57:45.080 Remain for real. 0:57:45.320 --> 0:57:47.320 But that's why you like when it comes down and 0:57:47.440 --> 0:57:50.080 cheating for me, It's like, it's not the fact that 0:57:50.120 --> 0:57:51.840 I live in a delusion of land or where I 0:57:51.880 --> 0:57:53.920 don't feel like a man is gonna step out and 0:57:54.000 --> 0:57:56.080 do whatever it is that he do. It's more so 0:57:56.280 --> 0:58:01.120 about your feelings. You only care because you involved with him, 0:58:01.600 --> 0:58:04.440 that's it. If you wasn't emotionally attached him, you wouldn't 0:58:04.440 --> 0:58:05.840 give a fuck what that man do. As long as 0:58:05.880 --> 0:58:07.400 he came back and put that money on that table. 0:58:07.400 --> 0:58:08.600 You don't give a fun what he go out there 0:58:08.600 --> 0:58:10.520 and do. But because you and your feelings about him, 0:58:10.880 --> 0:58:13.160 that's why you care. I wouldn't give a fuck what 0:58:13.280 --> 0:58:13.840 you did out there. 0:58:13.880 --> 0:58:15.800 I feel like most women only care when they don't 0:58:15.800 --> 0:58:18.920 told somebody else, like I have told you what he 0:58:19.000 --> 0:58:22.520 did too fast. Now I gotta call I gotta damn 0:58:25.840 --> 0:58:28.960 because I told you. I can't look stupid like like 0:58:29.080 --> 0:58:31.360 she said, like you back with the NA whatever you 0:58:31.400 --> 0:58:34.040 went through. It's like if you if you thought about 0:58:34.080 --> 0:58:36.000 what people thought about that, you'll be killing I can't 0:58:36.040 --> 0:58:37.880 fuck with that nigga e again just because you done 0:58:37.960 --> 0:58:40.600 told the internet, told people. You know what I'm saying. 0:58:40.760 --> 0:58:43.880 But I never got I never got on the internet. 0:58:43.880 --> 0:58:46.800 I never got into it. I never got into the 0:58:48.000 --> 0:58:50.480 meat and potatoes of what I actually went through any relationship. 0:58:50.720 --> 0:58:52.960 But it's just over him. I'm old girl. God's with me. 0:58:53.000 --> 0:58:54.160 I'm praying everything. 0:58:57.160 --> 0:59:02.840 Because it's like it's one of those where we live 0:59:02.880 --> 0:59:04.920 in a time of where when a woman goes through 0:59:04.920 --> 0:59:06.840 a breakup, as she goes through a heartbreak, as soon 0:59:06.880 --> 0:59:08.760 as the first thing that they do is go outside 0:59:08.800 --> 0:59:11.640 with these niggas, go outside and party with their homegrons. No, bitch, 0:59:11.760 --> 0:59:13.720 go sit the fuck down, think about what it is 0:59:13.800 --> 0:59:16.240 that just happened in your relationship, why you allowed the 0:59:16.280 --> 0:59:19.400 ship to happen in your relationship, and figure out what 0:59:19.600 --> 0:59:20.640 you need for yourself. 0:59:20.920 --> 0:59:22.600 That's the reason why I did what I did, because 0:59:22.640 --> 0:59:25.440 it's a different thing as supposed to what we used to. 0:59:25.760 --> 0:59:26.360 As soon as she. 0:59:27.840 --> 0:59:29.240 As soon as she goes as soon as you get 0:59:29.280 --> 0:59:31.000 your heart bro, now you're outside talking about oh you 0:59:31.120 --> 0:59:33.000 with Ta and the rest of the niggas. No, you 0:59:33.120 --> 0:59:35.000 need to go figure out what hurts you. Why you 0:59:35.080 --> 0:59:36.600 let that man do whatever it is that he did. 0:59:36.800 --> 0:59:38.919 Goes back to what Banks said about butch, I didn't 0:59:38.960 --> 0:59:39.600 do nothing to you. 0:59:40.040 --> 0:59:40.920 You did that to you. 0:59:41.040 --> 0:59:42.680 You went and found whatever it is that you went 0:59:42.760 --> 0:59:45.040 and found, and now you know what you know. Okay, yeah, No, 0:59:45.200 --> 0:59:47.200 you didn't do nothing to me. But what you did 0:59:47.360 --> 0:59:49.440 do is help me understand what the fuck I was 0:59:49.520 --> 0:59:51.360 allowing and I wasn't paying attention to it. 0:59:51.520 --> 0:59:53.480 That's what you did do. So thank you appreciate that. 0:59:54.560 --> 0:59:57.640 Yeah, and yo, what if a nigga ever cried when 0:59:57.680 --> 0:59:58.760 he got caught he. 0:59:58.920 --> 1:00:04.800 Lied It ain't No, it's not it's not on me 1:00:05.120 --> 1:00:07.760 my phone for looking. It's not that. 1:00:07.880 --> 1:00:12.240 It's it's not your use, no talents in the wrong. 1:00:12.280 --> 1:00:14.040 But you need to be a private Go get off 1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:17.600 some money. If you find ship, go find some money. 1:00:20.120 --> 1:00:23.160 I'm not and it just came it ship that just 1:00:23.240 --> 1:00:24.880 come to you. That just can't to you. But at 1:00:24.920 --> 1:00:26.280 the end of the day, when you go look for 1:00:26.400 --> 1:00:27.600 whatever it is that you're looking for. 1:00:28.480 --> 1:00:31.280 In my situation, when if I go look and I 1:00:31.360 --> 1:00:33.120 go find something, it's because I know what kind of 1:00:33.200 --> 1:00:35.800 nigga that I signed up for and the person who 1:00:35.880 --> 1:00:38.040 I thought that I was with ain't acting like the 1:00:38.120 --> 1:00:39.200 nigga that I thought that I was with. 1:00:39.280 --> 1:00:40.800 Now I gotta go see what the going on. Now, 1:00:40.800 --> 1:00:41.880 I gotta go figure out what. 1:00:43.120 --> 1:00:45.400 When it's wish kick, can you already know just make 1:00:45.440 --> 1:00:46.040 the decisions? 1:00:46.040 --> 1:00:46.880 Sting before she looked? 1:00:47.320 --> 1:00:49.880 So, so why why look at the phone to crush 1:00:49.920 --> 1:00:50.840 your heart just you know what. 1:00:51.200 --> 1:00:54.400 Because you're feeling gone, No, because it don't be sometimes 1:00:54.440 --> 1:00:55.360 it don't be that simple. 1:00:59.520 --> 1:00:59.920 Don't do that. 1:01:02.640 --> 1:01:04.600 Proved makes you been a relationship with me and resent me, 1:01:04.920 --> 1:01:06.680 So now your relationship resent me. I ain't gonna never 1:01:06.720 --> 1:01:09.400 trust you no more. Really, man on a limb, But 1:01:09.480 --> 1:01:11.960 that's what to me is gonna be. Really ain't her either. 1:01:14.240 --> 1:01:14.760 Don't you know what? 1:01:15.160 --> 1:01:20.000 You don't call me? Man? One trillion percent? I don't 1:01:20.040 --> 1:01:21.280 trust you for. 1:01:21.440 --> 1:01:25.760 What man thinks a girl, if he thinks that you're 1:01:25.840 --> 1:01:28.720 cheating on him, why would he if you? If he 1:01:28.840 --> 1:01:31.280 thinks that you think she's he's cheating on you, why 1:01:31.280 --> 1:01:32.480 are you gonna think you're being faithful? 1:01:32.520 --> 1:01:32.600 Now? 1:01:32.680 --> 1:01:34.400 He automatically my bitch about cheat back. 1:01:34.560 --> 1:01:38.960 I mean, if you called me, you stay with me? 1:01:39.440 --> 1:01:41.000 What makes me think you're not gonna. 1:01:43.800 --> 1:01:46.680 But right right a man not gonna about to get me. 1:01:46.720 --> 1:01:48.600 I'm a long hair blow it up for the nigga. 1:01:48.600 --> 1:01:50.560 You catch your nigga. He started crying, saying he ain't 1:01:50.560 --> 1:01:53.040 gonna do it no more. He lied forget what he 1:01:53.200 --> 1:01:55.880 not hurt? Niggas is not hurt that they did something 1:01:55.920 --> 1:02:02.000 that because you got call like that, she's hurting the 1:02:02.040 --> 1:02:06.920 moment like damn, you know what I'm saying. Damn many 1:02:07.000 --> 1:02:10.120 with you too, and get what I think. Like I said, 1:02:10.400 --> 1:02:13.800 a lot of women like to get in them spaces 1:02:13.920 --> 1:02:15.920 to where a nigga uncheated on them because you know 1:02:16.000 --> 1:02:18.200 what you get, you get about three to six months. 1:02:18.200 --> 1:02:21.400 So goddamn nigga trying to make up. I don't see 1:02:21.480 --> 1:02:23.760 this motherfucker to digging for shit to catch you. Now, 1:02:23.800 --> 1:02:26.160 you gotta be super nice about three. You gotta prove 1:02:26.240 --> 1:02:29.320 to me you won't me find me Jesus. 1:02:29.920 --> 1:02:31.360 It has May you not? 1:02:32.200 --> 1:02:34.720 May you not get emotionally involved with a man that 1:02:36.040 --> 1:02:38.920 I watched. I've watched a woman with my own eyes 1:02:39.000 --> 1:02:41.920 for years do this. And I said, bitch, I need 1:02:41.960 --> 1:02:42.800 to be a little bit more like you. 1:02:42.960 --> 1:02:45.160 What you do, don't get emotionally involved with them niggas, 1:02:45.160 --> 1:02:46.880 even the niggas she was in a relationship with, she 1:02:47.000 --> 1:02:48.280 wasn't emotionally involved in it. 1:02:48.360 --> 1:02:50.680 And I was like, I'm such a lover girl and 1:02:50.720 --> 1:02:52.400 all that fairy tale ass shit. 1:02:52.520 --> 1:02:53.440 I'm like, how do you do it? 1:02:54.040 --> 1:02:57.120 And because she know what it is that she doesne did, 1:02:57.640 --> 1:03:00.560 she like, I can't let myself get attacked to nobody 1:03:00.600 --> 1:03:04.320 because then if you hurt me. I basically pretty much, 1:03:04.320 --> 1:03:05.920 I kind of failt myself because I know what the 1:03:05.960 --> 1:03:07.280 fuck I did to you and I know what I 1:03:07.320 --> 1:03:09.640 do need the other niggas. So now I'm in a relationship, 1:03:09.680 --> 1:03:11.240 I can't really let my guard down because I'm on 1:03:11.320 --> 1:03:12.680 defense that you're gonna do something back to. 1:03:12.760 --> 1:03:14.800 Me even though this niggain't never did nothing to it. 1:03:15.400 --> 1:03:17.680 But I can't but but that that's. 1:03:17.560 --> 1:03:18.040 Where I'm going. 1:03:18.120 --> 1:03:20.480 This is where I'm going at with the emotionally involved. 1:03:20.560 --> 1:03:23.600 You only care about a nigga cheating on you because 1:03:23.600 --> 1:03:26.320 you emotionally you and your feelings about this nigga. If 1:03:26.320 --> 1:03:28.720 you not in your feelings about him and niggas I 1:03:28.720 --> 1:03:29.120 don't talk to. 1:03:29.200 --> 1:03:30.040 I'm not in my dot. 1:03:31.440 --> 1:03:32.640 That your nigga is cheating. 1:03:32.800 --> 1:03:37.000 It's not about feeling that the fact that in your 1:03:37.040 --> 1:03:37.959 feelings about him. 1:03:37.880 --> 1:03:40.520 Period and cheated on the foe. No matter who you 1:03:40.600 --> 1:03:44.280 be with, you already subconstantly think this next nigga cheat, Yes, 1:03:44.400 --> 1:03:47.000 keep it a break, yes, So you're gonna already you're 1:03:47.000 --> 1:03:49.760 gonna always feel like any nigga you witch is a cheatingh. 1:03:50.000 --> 1:03:51.919 I'm the opposite. I'm delusion. I never think my nigga 1:03:51.960 --> 1:03:53.520 is cheen on me, and that's my problem. That's why 1:03:53.600 --> 1:03:55.800 being cheated on because I be thinking of this nigga 1:03:55.880 --> 1:03:57.040 loved me, he would never. 1:03:57.000 --> 1:03:58.840 And he be outside doing everything with everybody. 1:03:59.320 --> 1:04:01.920 You kind of you didn't say earlier, you did say that. 1:04:02.440 --> 1:04:03.240 You know what. 1:04:05.280 --> 1:04:06.920 He was telling me a dream all were gonna move 1:04:06.960 --> 1:04:08.880 out here, we're doing this, and I'm believing him, like, okay, 1:04:09.080 --> 1:04:09.920 we're all gonna do this. 1:04:10.000 --> 1:04:11.560 And then when I never went back to him, when 1:04:11.560 --> 1:04:12.960 I seen the pictures on the oh, you could go. 1:04:14.040 --> 1:04:15.080 You're not even trying to be neat with it. 1:04:15.160 --> 1:04:16.880 Have y'all ever seen a woman or y'all be like, 1:04:16.960 --> 1:04:18.440 how many times have y'all seen a woman be like 1:04:18.680 --> 1:04:22.520 how she get a husband? Been outside? 1:04:22.600 --> 1:04:23.480 You know that I do it? 1:04:23.640 --> 1:04:24.600 Y'all be wondering that I. 1:04:24.680 --> 1:04:28.280 Do all the time things I don't y'all. I don't want. 1:04:28.360 --> 1:04:30.520 I don't want to that like you got you because 1:04:30.520 --> 1:04:31.920 we ain't talking about Miracle Watson. 1:04:33.320 --> 1:04:35.960 I'm gonna tell you what. I'm gonna tell you what 1:04:36.240 --> 1:04:39.240 she did. I'm gonna tell you why nigga do that, 1:04:39.280 --> 1:04:42.080 because a nigga can trust you because you honest, Like 1:04:42.080 --> 1:04:44.720 if a nigga meet a woman and she she like, 1:04:44.760 --> 1:04:47.000 I would this our this I would, I just never 1:04:47.080 --> 1:04:50.200 found you. Yeah, and niggas can't believe that all the 1:04:50.280 --> 1:04:51.760 women I can count on one hand. 1:04:51.880 --> 1:04:57.440 I mean it dumb, So does that matter how many people. 1:04:59.040 --> 1:05:04.720 Energy when you bring it, nigga like shut up. 1:05:06.880 --> 1:05:07.080 Do this? 1:05:07.280 --> 1:05:15.280 Then you like stop it. But but if you, if you, 1:05:15.440 --> 1:05:18.000 if you got one season, like well you know I've 1:05:18.000 --> 1:05:21.880 been out there's been out there too, my truck. What's 1:05:21.880 --> 1:05:24.520 at you know what? I can figure it's out with 1:05:24.640 --> 1:05:25.360 you because. 1:05:25.120 --> 1:05:27.280 I like you, like, ain't no mystery in my history. 1:05:27.440 --> 1:05:30.280 Ain't no mystery in my history. We can move forward, Yeah, man, 1:05:32.400 --> 1:05:34.800 nigga like long live a b man. That nigga said 1:05:34.800 --> 1:05:37.400 the really ship ever, a man has never been hurt 1:05:37.440 --> 1:05:39.320 by a whole. He only get hurt by some good girl. 1:05:40.720 --> 1:05:42.080 You know what I'm saying because you you put it 1:05:42.200 --> 1:05:46.320 passer who can't hurt your feeling because you damned there 1:05:46.360 --> 1:05:47.120 in the back of your mind. 1:05:47.200 --> 1:05:50.160 Like, I know what she's capable, But niggas also think 1:05:50.160 --> 1:05:50.800 they can change you. 1:05:50.840 --> 1:05:51.440 Don't play with that. 1:05:51.920 --> 1:05:54.439 H A nigga probably ain't gonna play with that either. 1:05:54.640 --> 1:05:57.520 I don't know. I ain't like shl I know what 1:05:57.600 --> 1:05:59.880 she capable of. Let me tighten up. 1:06:00.200 --> 1:06:02.240 Yeah, let me make come my best friend. We Bunny 1:06:02.280 --> 1:06:04.200 and Clyde. Now we were locked in, you know what 1:06:04.200 --> 1:06:06.240 I'm saying. Yeah, we locked in because we could we 1:06:06.640 --> 1:06:10.640 count of aligned. I can't align with somebody that's lying. 1:06:10.920 --> 1:06:12.920 Yeah, yeah, that's not realistic. 1:06:13.080 --> 1:06:15.160 Yeah, that ain't even realist. Come on show thirty five 1:06:15.560 --> 1:06:17.080 for that. So I meet you, you four they and 1:06:17.160 --> 1:06:19.320 you're saying I felt with three guys in my life, 1:06:19.480 --> 1:06:21.560 so they don't count none but the serious relationship. You 1:06:21.600 --> 1:06:23.959 know that, you know that that's all y'all count. Like women. 1:06:24.080 --> 1:06:27.480 If we weren't serious or baby Dad or or everybody 1:06:27.600 --> 1:06:30.320 know we was in a real relationship, that ship didn't count. 1:06:31.120 --> 1:06:32.840 That don't go towards your body count. A nigga, that 1:06:33.040 --> 1:06:37.680 just the nigga, just Jeb was a fleeing like fucking 1:06:37.680 --> 1:06:41.280 around two three weeks. We fuck he erased from her memory. 1:06:41.760 --> 1:06:44.080 That didn't happen about right or wrong? 1:06:44.720 --> 1:06:49.720 Oh, they unanimously agreed by the facial expressions. They unanimously agreed. 1:06:50.400 --> 1:06:51.520 Everybody count. 1:06:51.840 --> 1:06:56.320 Everybody count, but publicly you can you only get the 1:06:56.400 --> 1:06:58.240 ones that you know for a fact that I've been 1:06:58.320 --> 1:06:58.920 with you. 1:06:59.200 --> 1:07:02.080 Everybody count, whether he's stuck in it and it was small. 1:07:03.400 --> 1:07:06.440 Like it's a situation like Okay, you hang with him, 1:07:06.440 --> 1:07:12.840 I'm gonna let you know. Yeah, but other than that, 1:07:13.000 --> 1:07:13.600 then yeah. 1:07:13.760 --> 1:07:16.600 I'm not how many bodies I have nothing like that. 1:07:17.320 --> 1:07:19.600 That's to me. That's why how you asked. But what 1:07:19.680 --> 1:07:21.960 I'm saying you said volunteer. 1:07:22.040 --> 1:07:24.880 Certain, Yeah, I'm never gonna let you just be chopping 1:07:24.960 --> 1:07:26.480 it up or in the same space and I don't 1:07:26.480 --> 1:07:28.800 warn you what's going on, like you hell no, you're 1:07:28.840 --> 1:07:31.000 not gonna be Hey, that's my wife, and we like, 1:07:32.240 --> 1:07:32.960 how come you can. 1:07:32.960 --> 1:07:35.360 Meet a woman today and she ain't every woman you 1:07:35.440 --> 1:07:37.240 meet today and had sex in two years. 1:07:37.200 --> 1:07:43.439 Like journeys. 1:07:46.880 --> 1:07:48.120 Journey trying to. 1:07:50.120 --> 1:07:52.480 Like it's not possible for you to just go sit 1:07:52.560 --> 1:07:55.280 down somewhere like maybe maybe maybe. 1:07:56.560 --> 1:07:58.959 I think that's at the same point. 1:07:59.040 --> 1:07:59.680 We all. 1:08:03.000 --> 1:08:06.600 Don't even like us here, know for you Gafin, when 1:08:06.600 --> 1:08:08.360 I was on my little sid it was like you, 1:08:08.640 --> 1:08:10.920 it was, it was, it was, it was, it was not. 1:08:11.640 --> 1:08:13.840 Got a double bat, it was not. Everybody got at 1:08:13.920 --> 1:08:16.320 like he be hearting it right, so I know he 1:08:16.400 --> 1:08:18.679 ain't gave. But I'm gonna double back on that. Everybody 1:08:18.720 --> 1:08:21.560 got to why every time you meet a woman, she 1:08:21.720 --> 1:08:27.800 ain't had sex, that's said. 1:08:28.520 --> 1:08:31.000 It's always six months, it's never two months. 1:08:32.520 --> 1:08:33.720 I think every woman say that. 1:08:33.920 --> 1:08:37.640 Like every woman say either that because you don't know 1:08:37.680 --> 1:08:39.160 if I'm gonna take you serious or nothing. 1:08:40.040 --> 1:08:42.120 Why like if I meet you, if I meet you today, 1:08:43.479 --> 1:08:48.360 like the that's that's but if I meet you today, 1:08:48.720 --> 1:08:51.800 you're telling me these things in order to persuade my 1:08:51.920 --> 1:08:54.200 mind like she might be the one. I ain't even 1:08:54.280 --> 1:08:54.760 ask you for that. 1:08:54.840 --> 1:08:56.640 If you ain't asking me that, then I'm not telling you. 1:08:56.800 --> 1:08:58.800 But I'm saying. We see this all the time. We're 1:08:58.800 --> 1:09:00.360 not talking about y'all. Y'all are different. 1:09:00.880 --> 1:09:04.880 I don't know why you have these conversations different. How 1:09:04.920 --> 1:09:06.120 does this come up in conversation? 1:09:06.439 --> 1:09:09.400 It's just how too different to the two most frequent 1:09:09.479 --> 1:09:12.000 things is the six months and the soft girl soft 1:09:12.080 --> 1:09:14.559 girl era ship every female is talking about. 1:09:14.880 --> 1:09:15.000 Bro. 1:09:15.320 --> 1:09:17.479 It's like, I don't know what it is. It's just 1:09:17.680 --> 1:09:20.000 no doubt you know they won't. Oh, this just makes 1:09:20.000 --> 1:09:21.720 me feel so comfortable. And I ain't have six in 1:09:21.760 --> 1:09:22.240 two years? 1:09:22.560 --> 1:09:26.360 All that's how if I had said in two years. 1:09:26.120 --> 1:09:28.479 And it's been two years, like wholeheardly in my heart, 1:09:28.520 --> 1:09:31.679 I haven't had sex in two years. I'm not just fucking. 1:09:32.360 --> 1:09:35.920 I'm not letting just got any nigga fucking up. Gotta 1:09:35.960 --> 1:09:38.000 be marriage, but I gotta been had that. 1:09:38.600 --> 1:09:39.080 I gotta been. 1:09:39.439 --> 1:09:41.400 You've been fucking with you for a hotlow minute before 1:09:41.960 --> 1:09:43.719 random nigga up two years. 1:09:43.800 --> 1:09:45.960 I'm not fucking for just the fucking fleeing. 1:09:46.040 --> 1:09:48.880 No, but you've been fucking Is it even is even 1:09:50.680 --> 1:09:53.120 talking about it doesn't even sound realistic. 1:09:53.360 --> 1:09:56.240 Two years when you don't when you got that ship 1:09:56.320 --> 1:09:57.559 is realistic ship really? 1:09:58.360 --> 1:09:59.040 But it's rare. 1:09:59.439 --> 1:10:03.320 Yeah, And at that point it's because it's for her husband, 1:10:03.439 --> 1:10:04.519 like she's waiting or. 1:10:04.560 --> 1:10:07.240 It's just for her and niggas just don't deserve to 1:10:07.320 --> 1:10:08.160 be I just don't. 1:10:08.600 --> 1:10:10.280 But she's going to give it up for her, for 1:10:10.439 --> 1:10:12.960 her future husband. It's not going to be because she's 1:10:13.040 --> 1:10:15.720 like a nigga that you like all the time. 1:10:15.840 --> 1:10:17.680 I can't say that, bro, y'all, I don't know. I 1:10:17.720 --> 1:10:19.840 can't say that you got some women that you y'all 1:10:19.840 --> 1:10:22.760 will be surprised that y'all can see that's really helling it, 1:10:22.880 --> 1:10:24.760 Ben and would they just want to fuck? 1:10:25.400 --> 1:10:29.200 But that's women, that's the way, that's the point, that's 1:10:29.240 --> 1:10:31.479 what I was saying earlier about how women have gotten 1:10:31.520 --> 1:10:32.400 to the point to where. 1:10:32.240 --> 1:10:33.160 I don't want to do all that. 1:10:33.280 --> 1:10:37.160 I don't want to all this catering to your feelings 1:10:37.200 --> 1:10:38.720 and cook it for you and Clinton. No, I want 1:10:38.760 --> 1:10:41.400 to fuck and I want to go back to my business. 1:10:43.240 --> 1:10:45.600 You'll be surprised, like, so why not. 1:10:45.680 --> 1:10:47.120 Just spend the block on an old nigga? 1:10:47.160 --> 1:10:48.760 Why go get a new because I don't want to 1:10:48.800 --> 1:10:49.679 fuck with that nigga. 1:10:49.760 --> 1:10:50.679 I don't like that nigga. 1:10:51.200 --> 1:10:56.200 I'll tell you guys, it's different, different twenty six like 1:10:56.320 --> 1:11:01.200 it's different. Hey, you want to hang out, Hey, man, 1:11:01.200 --> 1:11:02.840 I ain't with all the bullshit. Let's go to your 1:11:02.880 --> 1:11:05.160 house and get some line to go to your house. 1:11:05.280 --> 1:11:08.200 Noting else, these women are grown now. They ain't playing 1:11:08.200 --> 1:11:11.599 a little girl game, you know how the girl playing 1:11:11.600 --> 1:11:13.360 that look you gotta take me? You trying to count 1:11:13.479 --> 1:11:15.200 how much you VENA spent for you for? That's over 1:11:15.280 --> 1:11:16.439 it because they got their own mind. 1:11:16.479 --> 1:11:19.000 I think that's like forty up something we don't know 1:11:19.200 --> 1:11:19.920 about that yet. 1:11:20.680 --> 1:11:23.000 Okay, ship, I ain't fortying up and I met that, 1:11:24.439 --> 1:11:28.280 But I'm just saying if I in a relationship that 1:11:28.520 --> 1:11:29.000 that's cool. 1:11:29.120 --> 1:11:35.559 They want, and I ain't got no preliminary ship that's 1:11:35.600 --> 1:11:39.960 gonna lead to no. Well, that's what most women limonary 1:11:40.000 --> 1:11:41.639 ship that's don't lead to know well type ship. 1:11:42.040 --> 1:11:46.599 Now you follow, and that's on you, nigga, But that's 1:11:46.680 --> 1:11:51.280 not what Mentally, I still feel like my husband coming 1:11:51.320 --> 1:11:51.680 to get me. 1:11:52.240 --> 1:11:55.120 But in the meantime, folk the niggas, but you might 1:11:55.120 --> 1:11:56.679 catch your husband in that same realm. 1:11:57.640 --> 1:12:00.400 Yeah, that same, that's the same, right, They're like. 1:12:00.520 --> 1:12:02.840 The only reason why I think it's realistic for a woman, 1:12:03.040 --> 1:12:06.000 especially like if you on your ship, because like if 1:12:06.080 --> 1:12:07.760 you go to work and go home, like where the 1:12:07.760 --> 1:12:09.040 fuck are you supposed to meet these niggas? 1:12:09.240 --> 1:12:09.519 Thank you? 1:12:10.040 --> 1:12:12.760 Like where in the elevator? And like I'm wanting people. 1:12:12.760 --> 1:12:14.920 I don't date people building, I don't take people where I. 1:12:15.000 --> 1:12:18.200 Work, So like, where am I supposed to meet these niggas? 1:12:19.280 --> 1:12:21.000 You got some women that ain't got time for no 1:12:21.040 --> 1:12:22.800 relationship just because they do not have been there one 1:12:22.920 --> 1:12:24.840 Like I ain't doing that no more. And you think 1:12:24.960 --> 1:12:26.519 it's a headache. It takes too much, It takes too 1:12:26.600 --> 1:12:27.799 much of any all of my melting. 1:12:27.920 --> 1:12:29.000 Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 1:12:29.000 --> 1:12:30.320 I got a nigga, I can fuck it every now 1:12:30.360 --> 1:12:32.880 and then. Cool, that's cool. You got a lot of 1:12:32.920 --> 1:12:37.320 them like that, like seventy eleven especially. I got a nigga. 1:12:37.320 --> 1:12:39.600 I know hein gay. I know hean this that I 1:12:39.720 --> 1:12:43.439 fuck with him. You got a lot of them like that. 1:12:44.000 --> 1:12:46.320 I mean, I can see that that's convenient for the 1:12:46.360 --> 1:12:47.599 woman one hundred percent. Right. 1:12:47.760 --> 1:12:50.000 You know you know that sex is gonna be pleasurable. 1:12:50.360 --> 1:12:51.640 You know you already got to boond with him. You 1:12:51.640 --> 1:12:53.280 don't got to do order being around the bush. Go 1:12:53.360 --> 1:12:55.080 back to the person you're safe with that knows your body, 1:12:55.400 --> 1:12:56.080 that you trust. 1:12:57.240 --> 1:12:58.760 Yeah, because you you out here trying to got to 1:12:58.880 --> 1:13:00.720 pick the nigga you like like, I like how you look. 1:13:00.760 --> 1:13:04.160 Then the nigga dead, Like damn, you just pull it out, 1:13:04.680 --> 1:13:06.040 you know what I'm saying, nigganna pull it out some 1:13:06.040 --> 1:13:09.840 ship man. You're mad, you know what I'm saying. He 1:13:10.040 --> 1:13:13.439 struck out and he gotta the little I'm just saying, whatever, 1:13:13.560 --> 1:13:15.519 he just don't know how to him to do it. 1:13:15.800 --> 1:13:18.040 Okay, you can't forget that. 1:13:20.320 --> 1:13:20.799 Now. 1:13:20.880 --> 1:13:23.240 I ain't funst to think that you said, Oh you're 1:13:23.280 --> 1:13:25.599 mad sexually, do what you gotta do or you're mad 1:13:25.640 --> 1:13:26.400 in general. 1:13:27.320 --> 1:13:30.360 I'm trying to shoot, trying to just pgv D whole 1:13:30.439 --> 1:13:32.320 fucking man straight up. 1:13:32.600 --> 1:13:33.840 More the story where he's trying. 1:13:33.720 --> 1:13:39.280 To regardless like whatever, we can try to be like women, 1:13:39.360 --> 1:13:41.280 even man them. Women don't get no fun, especially they 1:13:41.280 --> 1:13:43.160 get around the right nigga that they comfortable with. No 1:13:43.320 --> 1:13:45.679 that it's a man. This ain't that little boy ship. 1:13:45.720 --> 1:13:47.200 This nigga ain't no finna try to play with me 1:13:47.280 --> 1:13:49.080 like you want to be in no relationship. They fucking 1:13:49.120 --> 1:13:51.400 because I'm comfortable though. Hey, this ain't finna lead to 1:13:51.479 --> 1:13:53.080 what you think it's gonna lead to. Baby, I'm not 1:13:53.120 --> 1:13:55.400 finna play around with you and and call. I ain't 1:13:55.439 --> 1:14:00.240 even got time to do that say like that. He 1:14:00.280 --> 1:14:03.519 ain't gotta say it's IMG just showing you. He ain't 1:14:03.560 --> 1:14:06.000 gotta say that to you. If you like him and 1:14:06.040 --> 1:14:09.000 he liked you, were cool, baby, But we ain't out 1:14:09.000 --> 1:14:11.320 how I'm doing? You know I'm doing working? What's up? 1:14:11.320 --> 1:14:13.120 What's up? Hey? Can we link up? Yeah? Now you 1:14:13.160 --> 1:14:15.479 speak my lane, lincop. Whenever your change with up cool, 1:14:15.479 --> 1:14:16.920 we go eat well, we go out of town whatever 1:14:16.960 --> 1:14:18.560 we go. But we finna do what we can't do 1:14:18.880 --> 1:14:20.519 We're finna enjoy each other and go back to our 1:14:20.560 --> 1:14:22.360 lives whenever we want to do that again. We can 1:14:22.680 --> 1:14:25.280 maybe ain't even in the in the in the state 1:14:25.320 --> 1:14:30.240 to be doing that. And you ain't either, You're busy. 1:14:32.360 --> 1:14:33.200 I don't know, man. 1:14:35.240 --> 1:14:42.320 Okay, you know you change every year. We're gonna next 1:14:42.360 --> 1:14:46.599 year on perspective, this ship is different, bro. The women's 1:14:46.640 --> 1:14:47.240 a different bro. 1:14:48.160 --> 1:14:52.040 Yeah you gotta ground, but yeah you growing, you changed 1:14:52.120 --> 1:14:52.519 every year. 1:14:52.680 --> 1:14:56.880 But get what it ain't even accepting, is it? 1:14:57.520 --> 1:14:57.760 Okay? 1:14:57.840 --> 1:14:59.880 So can we just take it down back and just 1:15:00.320 --> 1:15:03.360 look back at the women who raise the women up today? 1:15:03.479 --> 1:15:05.439 It ain't even about being raised. It's about at the 1:15:05.520 --> 1:15:06.960 end of the day, when you give over a certain age, 1:15:06.960 --> 1:15:09.960 you already let your your person go by for whatever 1:15:10.040 --> 1:15:10.599 reason you did. 1:15:11.200 --> 1:15:11.320 Hm. 1:15:11.680 --> 1:15:13.400 When you give up a certain age, you have already 1:15:13.439 --> 1:15:15.400 let your You already missed your person because your person 1:15:15.479 --> 1:15:17.800 either went financial enough at the time you want this 1:15:17.880 --> 1:15:20.240 at a time, or he hurts you whatever you let 1:15:20.320 --> 1:15:22.720 him go. So now you searching for somebody that you 1:15:22.800 --> 1:15:25.559 already had. Not say they a't gonna come back around again, 1:15:25.600 --> 1:15:27.960 but you searching for something that you already had, or 1:15:27.960 --> 1:15:29.640 you search for something that's in your face every day, 1:15:29.680 --> 1:15:31.880 but he don't look like what you think he's supposed. 1:15:31.479 --> 1:15:31.840 To look like. 1:15:33.200 --> 1:15:35.639 Now you keep running to the niggas. That's that's your type, 1:15:35.680 --> 1:15:37.479 but your type is a fuck nigga type. 1:15:37.520 --> 1:15:40.120 Shit. Okay, So. 1:15:42.000 --> 1:15:44.559 I ain't speaking for the for the men the other 1:15:44.680 --> 1:15:47.160 guys that that that that of what y'all speaking of, 1:15:47.400 --> 1:15:49.479 y'all speaking of these guys like y'all want a nigga 1:15:49.880 --> 1:15:52.759 to be that guy that you speak of as a husband, 1:15:53.000 --> 1:15:57.080 but you want him in a nigga farm. You get 1:15:57.120 --> 1:16:00.240 what I'm saying. You want the ecstatics of a niggah, 1:16:01.080 --> 1:16:02.880 but you want him to be this. 1:16:03.040 --> 1:16:05.479 Guy, but he's not you want to look like. 1:16:07.520 --> 1:16:09.720 So you got to look in the mirror and say, hey, 1:16:10.080 --> 1:16:13.880 do I get do we or do I? Mister motion? 1:16:14.439 --> 1:16:20.240 So what about minna have motion regardless regardless of whatever. 1:16:20.000 --> 1:16:22.800 You want to have everything. 1:16:25.560 --> 1:16:27.759 Between like the baddie with the body and the baddy 1:16:27.800 --> 1:16:29.040 aesthetics and the good church. 1:16:29.200 --> 1:16:31.000 You can build, No, you don't. You ain't got to 1:16:31.040 --> 1:16:32.840 do that. You can build a bitch. You can build 1:16:32.840 --> 1:16:34.040 a bitch. Man, you got paper, you can make a 1:16:34.080 --> 1:16:38.160 bitch look however you want them to look keep you 1:16:38.280 --> 1:16:43.160 got to change. No, we're not doing that though. 1:16:45.600 --> 1:16:47.880 We change for you. He started going to the gym, 1:16:48.320 --> 1:16:49.320 didn't get some contact. 1:16:49.360 --> 1:16:51.800 But it's gonna take something away from you because you 1:16:51.880 --> 1:16:54.559 had to do it. Women want it already in your. 1:16:54.479 --> 1:16:59.400 Boy to get Bitches. 1:17:02.120 --> 1:17:04.240 Want you to come read it, bro, because it because 1:17:04.400 --> 1:17:06.240 all about it. Women feel like you still want to 1:17:06.280 --> 1:17:08.960 feel like I want to. It's it's it's it's something. 1:17:09.040 --> 1:17:11.320 It hit different, bro. Knowing when I'm walking with this nigga, 1:17:11.400 --> 1:17:13.639 niggas looking at him and mirry him. That HiT's different. 1:17:14.040 --> 1:17:14.439 I get it. 1:17:14.640 --> 1:17:17.000 That hits different for a woman. That's what women want. 1:17:17.160 --> 1:17:19.800 She want to be knowing I'm with that nigga, not 1:17:19.920 --> 1:17:23.320 only with a nigga I made made him, No, but 1:17:23.479 --> 1:17:25.600 you ain't got that. You're gonna remind him, bro, you 1:17:25.680 --> 1:17:28.080 want shipped before you may look at your pictures. You 1:17:28.360 --> 1:17:28.720 remind me. 1:17:31.479 --> 1:17:32.120 It's Corrie. 1:17:33.439 --> 1:17:34.520 It's okay. 1:17:38.000 --> 1:17:41.280 At the end of the day. At the end of 1:17:41.360 --> 1:17:43.800 the day, women, it is something different, Bro, I don't 1:17:43.840 --> 1:17:47.679 give a bru. Every woman want to brag on her nigga. 1:17:50.200 --> 1:17:53.040 It's a certain way to her mama, her brother, even 1:17:53.200 --> 1:17:55.439 their kid together. You know your dad that nigga. 1:17:55.560 --> 1:17:56.479 Anybody you want. 1:17:56.360 --> 1:18:00.559 To your girl. 1:18:01.080 --> 1:18:03.439 Imagine bringing your girl to the company dinner. She's a 1:18:03.479 --> 1:18:04.479 waggest one in the room. 1:18:04.600 --> 1:18:04.960 Yikes. 1:18:05.080 --> 1:18:06.840 Now you just got the trash girl. 1:18:06.960 --> 1:18:09.280 Like, you need somebody that can represent you walking home, 1:18:09.360 --> 1:18:11.200 know how to network you just. 1:18:11.240 --> 1:18:13.240 Got You gotta just find you just gotta come in 1:18:13.320 --> 1:18:16.760 contact with somebody who's just done. He's done, I'm done 1:18:16.840 --> 1:18:19.320 living that life from that time. I want to set 1:18:19.360 --> 1:18:21.600 her down and then you just go be with that 1:18:21.720 --> 1:18:23.560 man and to the end, you just do what you know. 1:18:23.880 --> 1:18:26.360 I don't necessarily product of a god. 1:18:26.680 --> 1:18:28.479 Like, as long as you know where you're going, if 1:18:28.520 --> 1:18:30.120 you have a plan and you know what you want 1:18:30.160 --> 1:18:31.720 to do, you don't have to be him yet. 1:18:32.160 --> 1:18:33.600 But if you know you're going to be him, and 1:18:33.720 --> 1:18:35.040 how are you going to get to be him? I'm 1:18:35.080 --> 1:18:35.840 going around with you. 1:18:40.000 --> 1:18:42.880 That's the potential thing. That the potential thing you do, 1:18:43.040 --> 1:18:44.400 Potential you don't do potential. 1:18:45.200 --> 1:18:47.680 I don't know said I don't need potential. I was 1:18:47.760 --> 1:18:53.760 saying about relationship. Like, as far as relationship, you gotta 1:18:53.840 --> 1:18:57.240 just see somebody who got you. 1:18:57.240 --> 1:19:03.639 Ain't trying to do whatever area. 1:19:10.800 --> 1:19:12.040 There's a loser on this bussy. 1:19:12.120 --> 1:19:15.600 As to go seeing it too many time. Bro, some 1:19:15.760 --> 1:19:18.679 good guy, I know some real good men that nigga 1:19:18.720 --> 1:19:25.519 just can't get no woman. Why ain't nigga just just listen? 1:19:26.320 --> 1:19:28.960 No them nigga just morally men like you gotta think 1:19:29.000 --> 1:19:31.760 a morally man is controlling to women. A nigga that 1:19:31.800 --> 1:19:35.200 got something to say, it's assassin. It's like it ain't 1:19:35.200 --> 1:19:38.200 no mintal. So niggas are relatively like man, how it 1:19:38.320 --> 1:19:41.120 go like, no matter what you do, if you if 1:19:41.120 --> 1:19:47.000 you're a nigga that got got sand like, don't he's 1:19:47.080 --> 1:19:51.080 sassy or he's controlling. A nigga speaks, his mind is controller. 1:19:51.120 --> 1:19:52.320 But then you say you want me to leave. 1:19:54.240 --> 1:19:55.639 There has to be a balance and everything. 1:19:55.640 --> 1:19:58.479 I think it depends on where the woman is mentally. 1:20:00.520 --> 1:20:02.040 What do you like. 1:20:05.840 --> 1:20:06.160 The ball? 1:20:06.200 --> 1:20:08.120 Because you say no? After that? 1:20:10.720 --> 1:20:13.080 If I say no, I say quiet only God damn. 1:20:15.439 --> 1:20:24.960 But I feel like exactly, I feel like it depends 1:20:25.000 --> 1:20:26.200 on where the women is mentally. 1:20:26.400 --> 1:20:28.439 Just like you said, just like we said that, I'm 1:20:28.479 --> 1:20:30.080 different from last year. 1:20:30.280 --> 1:20:30.680 It's like. 1:20:32.479 --> 1:20:36.120 Now I need a nigga that's gonna say, hey, did 1:20:36.200 --> 1:20:37.280 you make your proceeds? 1:20:38.680 --> 1:20:41.200 Did you make it to your boxing class? Like now 1:20:41.240 --> 1:20:41.960 you know what I'm saying. 1:20:42.680 --> 1:20:44.920 Yeah, like I want to be lead, So it's kind 1:20:44.960 --> 1:20:46.680 of like where are you. I'm not going to say 1:20:46.720 --> 1:20:48.760 a man that can lead us controlling, I'm not doing it, 1:20:49.080 --> 1:20:50.639 but I probably would have last year. 1:20:50.640 --> 1:20:52.720 Like, nigga, you ain't gonna see I mean, ship you did. 1:20:57.400 --> 1:20:58.840 They want to lead you where you want to go. 1:20:59.760 --> 1:21:01.439 When you want some motherfucker leads you, you'll go with 1:21:01.520 --> 1:21:05.040 them blind That's a difference. You get in the call 1:21:05.120 --> 1:21:07.120 with me, Hey baby, we ain't got any where we're going. 1:21:07.280 --> 1:21:09.840 We're gonna go there together. Where we're going? What are 1:21:09.840 --> 1:21:12.880 you taking? You don't want to be leave, but I 1:21:12.920 --> 1:21:16.720 don't trust you and exactly you're getting to call me 1:21:16.800 --> 1:21:21.600 and and just look at your phone. Maybe you know 1:21:21.680 --> 1:21:23.479 I'm ready to shoot out their motherfucker. I'm ready to 1:21:23.479 --> 1:21:27.800 start their motherfucker. Whatever it takes. Were good. You get 1:21:27.840 --> 1:21:31.120 done to put some headphones on, the blindfold on. Mother. 1:21:35.600 --> 1:21:37.760 You know what's crazy is we really only gonna be 1:21:37.800 --> 1:21:39.400 that comfortable with a nigga from the streets. 1:21:39.960 --> 1:21:42.360 So it is like a full circle. 1:21:43.760 --> 1:21:48.840 Yeah, when you walk in the club with a nigga 1:21:49.000 --> 1:21:52.240 and a nigga like certain niggas can't look at you 1:21:52.320 --> 1:21:54.200 a certain weight and you not feel like your nigga 1:21:54.240 --> 1:21:56.600 a three like if you were a nigga and a 1:21:56.680 --> 1:21:58.840 nigga looking at you like too hard and you know this, 1:21:58.960 --> 1:22:04.160 nigga see it your sucker ship because niggas know not. 1:22:04.280 --> 1:22:07.400 I'm not taking my do even nowhere where I gonna feel. 1:22:11.320 --> 1:22:11.760 Right about that. 1:22:14.520 --> 1:22:16.400 I'm not taking I'm not if I know, I'm not 1:22:16.520 --> 1:22:19.439 with that kind of men. I'm not taking him somewhere 1:22:19.479 --> 1:22:21.080 where it be that kind of them kind of me. 1:22:21.200 --> 1:22:24.000 I'm not doing that right nigga. Nigga's peaking and nigga 1:22:24.000 --> 1:22:26.360 ain't gonn Niggas ain't trying to disrepect the nigga. Damn 1:22:26.439 --> 1:22:29.639 not bad you will. I ain't trying to disrepect the nigga. Nigga. 1:22:29.680 --> 1:22:33.960 What's up? Sore all back nigga? See what's up sir? 1:22:34.600 --> 1:22:36.080 From back there? I don't want a hug and that 1:22:36.160 --> 1:22:37.880 what's up sir? Y'all? 1:22:37.960 --> 1:22:38.720 Good y'all. 1:22:38.800 --> 1:22:42.960 Yeah, niggas ain't trying to get it confused. But let 1:22:43.040 --> 1:22:45.519 it be a nigga know your nigga ain't ship. Yeah, 1:22:45.560 --> 1:22:49.639 you look good. It's just I would go respect them. 1:22:50.600 --> 1:22:51.639 Am I right or wrong? Though? 1:22:52.080 --> 1:22:54.400 Right, you're right. I want you were You're right. 1:22:54.720 --> 1:22:56.679 That's why you just can't bring you around. 1:22:56.800 --> 1:22:58.880 Like that's why y'all don't want him. It ain't bring 1:22:59.000 --> 1:23:01.639 him around. Y'all don't want you can't bring them around. 1:23:01.640 --> 1:23:03.439 How can I trust you that you don't want to show. 1:23:03.280 --> 1:23:06.960 Me all because I don't know the type of places anymore. 1:23:11.920 --> 1:23:13.720 You get the right nigga, you want the what to 1:23:13.800 --> 1:23:18.240 see this nigga because he the one now it's like, 1:23:18.520 --> 1:23:21.599 nah see that you don't you don't want him to leave? 1:23:21.680 --> 1:23:27.960 Then if you get, y'all, if the nigga leads, you 1:23:28.000 --> 1:23:30.680 get what you know, you're proud of this nigga. If 1:23:30.720 --> 1:23:31.320 you if you're. 1:23:31.160 --> 1:23:35.839 Ready to follow me photos that engagement, Yeah. 1:23:35.720 --> 1:23:38.320 That's that's like when you post now you're not just 1:23:38.439 --> 1:23:40.320 posted because with you. 1:23:40.400 --> 1:23:45.599 Today, what we get? What if that's the right, If 1:23:45.680 --> 1:23:48.400 that's the right, something without paper's marriage or not, because 1:23:48.479 --> 1:23:50.240 niggana do what they want to do, pay marriage the 1:23:50.280 --> 1:23:52.000 name of a piece of paper. That ship don't matter 1:23:52.040 --> 1:23:54.680 the niggas. If a nigga, if a nigga make you 1:23:54.720 --> 1:23:57.080 feel the way you want to feel, he already husband 1:23:57.120 --> 1:23:59.920 before y'all even get married. Trust me, that's like a one. 1:24:00.360 --> 1:24:02.720 You can't become a wife when we get mad. You 1:24:02.800 --> 1:24:03.439 gotta be a wife. 1:24:03.479 --> 1:24:08.040 But when I met you, that's all I stopped doing that. 1:24:10.400 --> 1:24:13.920 Some single motherfucker wife ain't telling you that. 1:24:20.680 --> 1:24:21.280 You told us. 1:24:23.600 --> 1:24:25.040 I bet your wife ain't told you that. 1:24:26.320 --> 1:24:28.280 They tell us stop acting like a wife until we 1:24:28.320 --> 1:24:28.800 get the ring. 1:24:30.200 --> 1:24:35.360 I'm just saying, YadA the boy y'alla awaken, what the 1:24:35.439 --> 1:24:38.640 name y'alla awakening, and be saying that day tom all 1:24:38.720 --> 1:24:42.439 to huh man, better not listen to that ship. You 1:24:42.520 --> 1:24:44.880 gotta be. You gotta at least a peer as a wife. 1:24:45.000 --> 1:24:46.840 I also think we need to stop listening. 1:24:47.720 --> 1:24:50.400 Appearing as a wife is Hey, I'm gonna tell you something. 1:24:50.439 --> 1:24:52.840 What a wife do that a man? And niggas don't 1:24:52.840 --> 1:24:54.960 even tell ya that a wife do things for a man. 1:24:55.000 --> 1:24:59.519 He don't even know he needed. That's what a wife do, Okay. 1:25:00.800 --> 1:25:02.720 I an't even know that I like to get my 1:25:02.840 --> 1:25:06.080 nails done till she took me. I don't even know 1:25:06.160 --> 1:25:08.240 I like my sons. I don't even know how I eat. 1:25:08.320 --> 1:25:12.960 God damn spinach. I didn't notice to my wife told 1:25:13.040 --> 1:25:14.519 me this is what I should be eating. 1:25:15.040 --> 1:25:15.479 Mm hmm. 1:25:17.120 --> 1:25:18.000 What you got to tell you. 1:25:19.520 --> 1:25:20.160 He take all that. 1:25:20.960 --> 1:25:22.880 I'm just saying, made him. 1:25:22.920 --> 1:25:24.960 You got him drinking green drinks in the morning. 1:25:25.040 --> 1:25:31.600 It's y'all already entertained you already if you're thinking like that. 1:25:31.720 --> 1:25:34.400 I don't. I'm assuming this is where her. 1:25:35.800 --> 1:25:40.280 Because you was like, like I already, that's that's what 1:25:40.400 --> 1:25:44.320 you gotta do. I'm just saying, like, yeah, that's what it's. 1:25:45.360 --> 1:25:46.240 But that's what you gotta do. 1:25:47.120 --> 1:25:48.040 You can't be somebody. 1:25:48.240 --> 1:25:49.920 You gotta be his everything. You gotta turn to the 1:25:49.960 --> 1:25:50.559 nigga mama. 1:25:51.200 --> 1:25:52.040 Now he don't want you to be. 1:25:52.320 --> 1:25:57.679 No, no, no, no, no no, you got the therapist. Yeah, 1:25:57.960 --> 1:26:02.360 it's nurse. It's my sous, his mother, his brain, his 1:26:02.560 --> 1:26:04.000 freak everything. 1:26:06.240 --> 1:26:10.280 You doing all this, That's what I'm to go on 1:26:10.400 --> 1:26:11.639 back years ago. 1:26:13.720 --> 1:26:15.320 Look at sh you said you want him to do, 1:26:15.600 --> 1:26:17.320 you want him to take care of you, nurse you 1:26:17.880 --> 1:26:20.280 these things. That's the same ship that your name, No you, 1:26:21.280 --> 1:26:24.080 it's the same the same thing. It's the same ship. 1:26:24.360 --> 1:26:25.559 He's gonna have to wipe your big as. 1:26:25.680 --> 1:26:27.320 You know what I'm saying. It's the same ship. 1:26:28.120 --> 1:26:30.320 Yeah, think about that type of stuff. That's what you're 1:26:30.320 --> 1:26:30.880 already doing. 1:26:30.960 --> 1:26:32.680 If you're already doing it while I'm up. Baby, you'll 1:26:32.720 --> 1:26:34.280 do it while I'm down. You'll do it while I'm 1:26:34.360 --> 1:26:36.479 laying down. Anything else, get cars and break my feet 1:26:36.800 --> 1:26:38.639 with the bitch. Don't she gonna gonna live, She's gonna 1:26:38.720 --> 1:26:39.360 make the hop away? 1:26:39.560 --> 1:26:41.439 Then what about girls who do bids with men and 1:26:41.479 --> 1:26:43.160 then when they come home they go to another girl? 1:26:43.800 --> 1:26:44.479 That's your fault. 1:26:45.160 --> 1:26:47.759 I was always the girl for because I can't speak 1:26:47.800 --> 1:26:49.120 on that, you. 1:26:50.600 --> 1:26:50.840 Can't. 1:26:50.920 --> 1:26:54.719 We were having this conversation a big if. 1:26:54.640 --> 1:26:56.240 You do a bid with a guy comes home and 1:26:56.320 --> 1:26:59.479 he goes another and he goes with another girl, because 1:26:59.479 --> 1:27:00.599 that's you whole to him down? 1:27:01.240 --> 1:27:03.240 What did you you expected for him to get out? 1:27:03.320 --> 1:27:06.160 And we owe you to be I'm just saying girls 1:27:06.200 --> 1:27:07.920 will do bus with men. Sometimes they come. 1:27:07.840 --> 1:27:09.479 Home and like, why you ain't got none to say 1:27:09.479 --> 1:27:09.800 about this? 1:27:09.840 --> 1:27:10.479 Because he never. 1:27:16.160 --> 1:27:16.560 You said what? 1:27:16.720 --> 1:27:21.599 No girls? Men put books on them, go to their visits, 1:27:22.120 --> 1:27:22.840 hold them down. 1:27:23.920 --> 1:27:26.160 And while he was in there, did he I don't know. 1:27:31.439 --> 1:27:33.360 She was with him before he went and did to 1:27:33.439 --> 1:27:35.760 being with him and he came home acting crazy but 1:27:36.000 --> 1:27:36.799 was gathering. 1:27:37.000 --> 1:27:39.280 Okay, okay, all right, So if I was with you 1:27:39.600 --> 1:27:43.920 before I went in and then I did a bit down, 1:27:43.960 --> 1:27:46.360 the whole bit. What did you do? Did you hold 1:27:46.400 --> 1:27:48.200 me down all the way down? It was a sneaky 1:27:49.200 --> 1:27:50.639 you got you didn't. 1:27:50.720 --> 1:27:52.000 You didn't she need the whole nine yard? 1:27:52.080 --> 1:27:54.519 She did, she did, She did every mean no. 1:27:59.040 --> 1:27:59.960 The books visiting. 1:28:00.880 --> 1:28:01.479 I respect that. 1:28:02.520 --> 1:28:03.799 Why are you getting acting crazy? 1:28:04.520 --> 1:28:05.320 You somebody? 1:28:06.120 --> 1:28:08.920 Yeah, I told you about it. 1:28:09.800 --> 1:28:14.280 I said, twenty years friends, we're best friends. 1:28:14.320 --> 1:28:16.639 So you want somebody to really like be faithful? 1:28:17.280 --> 1:28:18.800 A damn food to think a woman gonna do that 1:28:18.880 --> 1:28:21.760 though anyway, But a nigga gonna play his hand because 1:28:21.800 --> 1:28:24.519 I need you. So You're a damn food for thinking that. 1:28:24.520 --> 1:28:26.360 I'm gonna think that you got damn ain't get nig 1:28:28.000 --> 1:28:29.479 You're a damn food to think up and to get 1:28:29.520 --> 1:28:31.200 out of be with you now you you look like 1:28:31.280 --> 1:28:37.599 dick on your forehead. One thing about a nigga, bro, 1:28:37.680 --> 1:28:39.400 I won't give a fuck. You gotta be a special 1:28:39.520 --> 1:28:41.880 count of nigga to heal from a woman cheating on him, 1:28:42.000 --> 1:28:43.519 you gotta be a special count of nigga. 1:28:44.960 --> 1:28:47.080 And this goes back to me and being more emotional 1:28:47.800 --> 1:28:50.519 and women, men. 1:28:50.960 --> 1:28:53.920 Men and public men are not emotional behind closed doors. 1:28:53.960 --> 1:28:55.000 When you get behind. 1:28:57.080 --> 1:29:00.200 Because women like women. These days, women are the most black. 1:29:00.240 --> 1:29:02.840 Women are the most beautiful thing that God ever created 1:29:02.880 --> 1:29:09.080 on this earth. It's hard not to not like women. Okay, 1:29:09.160 --> 1:29:12.040 so women always saying that I could be one man, 1:29:12.160 --> 1:29:14.320 I don't really. I don't really hear niggas saying that, 1:29:14.760 --> 1:29:16.640 except some of them like screaming. 1:29:19.080 --> 1:29:19.320 Keep it. 1:29:22.840 --> 1:29:24.840 I'm not saying what it is. We are animals, man, 1:29:24.920 --> 1:29:28.200 We niggas are animals. Some niggas grow out that ship once, 1:29:28.360 --> 1:29:30.840 once they get to that point. I don't know what 1:29:30.960 --> 1:29:34.519 I'm saying. What I'm speaking on is once you're my 1:29:34.640 --> 1:29:37.200 prize possession. Once you touched baby, ain't nothing nothing. I 1:29:37.280 --> 1:29:40.759 can't unsee that. You take that ship to your grave. 1:29:41.000 --> 1:29:44.479 So take it to the grave. Okau, That's what we take. 1:29:45.920 --> 1:29:48.960 But we married the real bitches. 1:29:52.200 --> 1:29:53.840 I'm saying, if I met you in this day in time, 1:29:54.320 --> 1:29:55.559 I met you in this day and tell me four 1:29:55.600 --> 1:29:57.519 the years old, Hey, baby, I'd rather you sell me 1:29:57.560 --> 1:29:59.439 you was a hope in your past. Like then we 1:29:59.479 --> 1:30:00.000 can move forward. 1:30:00.280 --> 1:30:01.200 Okay, you know what I'm saying. 1:30:01.320 --> 1:30:05.840 But it don't matter. Baby. You could have been the 1:30:05.840 --> 1:30:07.559 whole last week. But I met you. Some God brought 1:30:07.640 --> 1:30:11.559 us so this is what it is right now. Okay, 1:30:11.680 --> 1:30:13.519 thank you God. She's doing for me at this time 1:30:13.520 --> 1:30:16.120 in my life. But what what what the question was 1:30:16.160 --> 1:30:18.599 before the first time? Listen what I had said? 1:30:18.600 --> 1:30:21.280 Then you said I said something we were talking about. 1:30:25.520 --> 1:30:25.960 I forget. 1:30:29.200 --> 1:30:31.679 Would she either be a real bitch tell I'm gonna take. 1:30:31.560 --> 1:30:34.479 It to the grave you just like right now, right now, 1:30:34.520 --> 1:30:36.759 all the ship I did in my relationship, it sudn't 1:30:36.760 --> 1:30:38.800 take She she probably have, but she donna did it 1:30:39.000 --> 1:30:41.719 to a nigga that don't live here. The nigga'na probablyven 1:30:41.720 --> 1:30:42.240 speak English. 1:30:42.240 --> 1:30:42.760 That's what I was. 1:30:43.600 --> 1:30:45.720 We take respect over anything, That's what I was just, 1:30:46.240 --> 1:30:48.720 we take respect over anything because yea, what you don't 1:30:48.760 --> 1:30:51.519 want to see me hurt, that's I gotta respect that. 1:30:51.920 --> 1:30:54.080 So do we tell you or not tell mall? 1:30:54.240 --> 1:30:56.400 You better take that because you already mind. You can 1:30:56.439 --> 1:30:58.560 tell me about your past, can tell me about what 1:30:58.680 --> 1:30:59.280 we're doing now. 1:30:59.560 --> 1:31:03.200 Okay, A lot of these niggas, that's what I heard, you. 1:31:03.240 --> 1:31:04.040 Can school. 1:31:07.840 --> 1:31:11.599 Want, but they don't want you to tell you ten 1:31:11.680 --> 1:31:12.799 years act like I ain't. 1:31:14.200 --> 1:31:16.120 Tell me if you got h tell me if you 1:31:16.160 --> 1:31:18.960 got an STD, if you got don't tell me that 1:31:19.040 --> 1:31:20.600 you the nigga did don't do that. 1:31:20.880 --> 1:31:22.120 I don't know that exactly. 1:31:23.880 --> 1:31:27.080 That's what he's saying, that you'll never be the same 1:31:28.320 --> 1:31:28.920 like that. 1:31:29.640 --> 1:31:30.400 He ain't one of them. 1:31:30.439 --> 1:31:35.600 Okay, all right, the niggas who like to watch their females. 1:31:36.400 --> 1:31:38.160 With them, I can't. I don't know what that is. 1:31:38.240 --> 1:31:40.400 Because if you watching a freaking what else you see? 1:31:40.600 --> 1:31:42.000 If you're seeing your girl right now, what else do 1:31:42.080 --> 1:31:42.400 you see? 1:31:44.479 --> 1:31:46.560 But that's like porn. If you watch porn and you 1:31:46.640 --> 1:31:48.840 see a man and a woman having sex with your girl. 1:31:49.840 --> 1:31:53.360 But dick on the screen, that ship on the screen, 1:31:53.439 --> 1:31:54.080 not right here? 1:31:55.439 --> 1:31:58.120 Difference. So what if you watch your old girl's porn? 1:31:58.760 --> 1:31:59.360 Who doing that? 1:31:59.439 --> 1:31:59.760 I don't know. 1:32:04.000 --> 1:32:06.759 I don't know nothing about that. Bro. This where they're from. 1:32:08.560 --> 1:32:10.880 From, I don't know. 1:32:11.000 --> 1:32:13.760 This isn't we're talking about the population. Remember you know 1:32:13.800 --> 1:32:14.240 what I'm saying. 1:32:14.280 --> 1:32:18.080 But what those guys, we will. 1:32:18.040 --> 1:32:19.680 Just throwing out scenarios. 1:32:20.000 --> 1:32:21.640 What's just throwing out scenarios like did it? 1:32:22.040 --> 1:32:24.720 That's what I was thinking. I don't want to say 1:32:24.760 --> 1:32:26.000 that because I was New York, so I. 1:32:26.080 --> 1:32:28.719 Was keeping that they got that. That's their own freaky 1:32:28.920 --> 1:32:30.280 people be freaking yeah. 1:32:30.160 --> 1:32:33.560 People be freaking it's a thing if that's a category 1:32:33.680 --> 1:32:34.720 on one of them. 1:32:34.920 --> 1:32:36.400 Yeah, like people be freaking. 1:32:39.920 --> 1:32:41.679 Go who for your who. 1:32:43.400 --> 1:32:43.639 Lingo? 1:32:43.760 --> 1:32:44.120 What it is? 1:32:47.960 --> 1:32:49.120 Goryorism? Okay? 1:32:49.600 --> 1:32:52.519 Cool? I can't say that, bro, I don't know to each. 1:32:54.360 --> 1:32:57.559 I feel like whatever people do and behind closed doors 1:32:58.120 --> 1:33:01.360 and they whether they like to be or whatever that is. 1:33:01.560 --> 1:33:03.640 That's the people business and nobody should know that. 1:33:03.760 --> 1:33:06.560 But if you, if you, if you like to me, 1:33:06.680 --> 1:33:08.960 you can't care about the woman you like that, like 1:33:09.720 --> 1:33:14.800 I'm possessive over mind regardless like who you don't even 1:33:14.840 --> 1:33:15.600 like your dad to call it. 1:33:16.320 --> 1:33:19.200 So your feelings ain't my feeling did mine? 1:33:19.479 --> 1:33:19.679 Yeah? 1:33:20.160 --> 1:33:23.479 Your feelings, your feelings about your people, whatever you want 1:33:23.520 --> 1:33:23.880 to call it. 1:33:24.040 --> 1:33:24.200 Yeah. 1:33:24.800 --> 1:33:27.200 So what are we saying about the men who leave 1:33:27.280 --> 1:33:29.080 the women after they did to bed with them? 1:33:30.240 --> 1:33:33.040 That just happen. 1:33:35.000 --> 1:33:37.000 It depends on all of this, like it depends on 1:33:37.040 --> 1:33:47.720 whether we were together the way, rumors and accusation. 1:33:50.800 --> 1:33:54.439 At the end of the day, bro, women men can't 1:33:54.439 --> 1:33:58.800 be with a woman after she's done wrong, but she's 1:33:58.840 --> 1:34:00.720 done a lot to a great because you know her 1:34:00.800 --> 1:34:04.280 category moves and they always want to be right here, 1:34:04.920 --> 1:34:07.240 like hey, baby me and you I like you? You 1:34:07.560 --> 1:34:10.040 like me. We've been in this ship. Things strong, but 1:34:10.680 --> 1:34:11.640 you ain't wife you no more. 1:34:11.680 --> 1:34:14.320 You want my holes now your old school. 1:34:14.640 --> 1:34:16.560 It's the truth, though I'm not getting. 1:34:18.479 --> 1:34:18.639 Im. 1:34:20.080 --> 1:34:22.400 That's why y'all, that's why y'all live. 1:34:23.840 --> 1:34:26.200 She will, But if she didn't do nothing the whole time, 1:34:26.320 --> 1:34:28.040 if she didn't let's just say he did ten years, 1:34:28.080 --> 1:34:29.280 she ain't do nothing to stay. 1:34:29.600 --> 1:34:30.439 This, this, that, and the third. 1:34:30.760 --> 1:34:32.240 And you can get out and he leave her. 1:34:32.600 --> 1:34:35.200 But it just you can't expect for it. This is 1:34:35.240 --> 1:34:39.000 the reason why somebody told me men, eventually me and 1:34:39.080 --> 1:34:41.760 get they ship together. It's up to you to stay 1:34:42.000 --> 1:34:44.240 and then you get that that good version of the 1:34:44.320 --> 1:34:47.320 nigga that you always wanted, or you leave me and 1:34:47.360 --> 1:34:49.160 then I'm gonna the version of me that you want. 1:34:49.200 --> 1:34:51.760 I'm gonna give it to somebody else. That's true, that's true. 1:34:52.360 --> 1:34:56.920 However, who's to say that once you finally come to 1:34:57.040 --> 1:34:59.320 this great guy that you are you gonna want me? 1:34:59.720 --> 1:35:03.720 Because wait, hold on, this goes back to the jail ship. 1:35:03.760 --> 1:35:04.439 That's a great question. 1:35:04.560 --> 1:35:07.280 After the fact that I undid my time, five ten, 1:35:07.400 --> 1:35:09.120 how many years I did, and you're still there. You 1:35:09.360 --> 1:35:11.599 chose to hold me down. You chose to still be here. 1:35:12.120 --> 1:35:14.439 I'm probably in this bitch getting my whole mind right 1:35:14.520 --> 1:35:16.599 and all these other ship and I come out. 1:35:16.479 --> 1:35:17.680 And you who you are. 1:35:18.000 --> 1:35:20.720 I'm a completely together. I'm not attracted to you no more. 1:35:21.040 --> 1:35:23.439 So I don't owe you ship for the fact that 1:35:23.560 --> 1:35:25.360 you thank you. I appreciate. 1:35:25.400 --> 1:35:27.360 I tell you what you do, all me, what you 1:35:27.479 --> 1:35:29.360 do all her. You owe her a chance to change, 1:35:29.360 --> 1:35:32.040 you owe her conversation like, look, I'm on a different 1:35:32.120 --> 1:35:35.280 playing field. Now get your ship together. Yeah you know 1:35:35.320 --> 1:35:36.759 what I'm saying. But you got. 1:35:43.680 --> 1:35:44.599 This whole time. 1:35:45.479 --> 1:35:49.040 Remine this whole time that I was doing and I was, 1:35:49.280 --> 1:35:51.920 we was we always supposed to be elevating you out 1:35:51.960 --> 1:35:53.840 in the free world. Bitch, Why you let me come 1:35:53.920 --> 1:35:56.120 home with my ship together more than your ship together? 1:35:56.479 --> 1:35:58.600 I think it's going to chain game. You had a 1:35:58.600 --> 1:36:01.200 bunch of homeboy you did you get doing the same exactly? 1:36:01.240 --> 1:36:02.800 You're finna go hang with these niggas on the block. 1:36:02.880 --> 1:36:04.800 You can't the same ship. 1:36:05.040 --> 1:36:06.040 You gotta cut them off. 1:36:06.320 --> 1:36:10.880 So I don't do biers with niggas that I'm not 1:36:11.360 --> 1:36:13.320 you in jail and being and doing time with you. 1:36:13.400 --> 1:36:15.720 I'm not a real niggas gonna be like, baby, you 1:36:15.720 --> 1:36:17.599 know what I'm saying. If I need you, I ain't 1:36:17.600 --> 1:36:19.680 gonna try to control your put some chain in. I 1:36:19.720 --> 1:36:21.200 ain't been trying to keep calling your phone. That ship 1:36:21.280 --> 1:36:21.799 is stressful. 1:36:23.040 --> 1:36:24.160 Send me something. You know what I'm saying. If I 1:36:24.200 --> 1:36:25.960 need to, God, damn Jack all they got phone jailing 1:36:26.040 --> 1:36:28.080 me Jack all one time. I ain't finna be trying. 1:36:28.240 --> 1:36:30.760 It's what you ate today. What you know, Bro, that's 1:36:30.800 --> 1:36:33.120 gonna run you crazy, and it's gonna run her crazy 1:36:33.479 --> 1:36:35.120 because she still gotta be out here living her life. 1:36:35.120 --> 1:36:35.639 You know what I'm saying. 1:36:35.840 --> 1:36:38.880 Yeah, yeah, that's holding back. 1:36:39.439 --> 1:36:41.080 But I just feel like women don't know what they want. 1:36:41.120 --> 1:36:43.480 Man, it changes. 1:36:47.080 --> 1:36:49.200 Every I think everybody got their core thing of what 1:36:49.320 --> 1:36:49.679 they want. 1:36:49.840 --> 1:36:52.040 Do women actually want the truth? I do? 1:36:52.200 --> 1:36:52.240 No. 1:36:52.840 --> 1:36:55.800 I mean I want the truth to make it sound. 1:36:55.840 --> 1:36:58.960 I want the truth because I want to feel like 1:36:59.040 --> 1:37:01.680 we connected, like we don't lie to each other about nothing, like, 1:37:01.760 --> 1:37:03.120 ain't nobody coming between us. 1:37:03.160 --> 1:37:06.040 I want to know what If my truth go against 1:37:06.040 --> 1:37:06.760 your morals, then with. 1:37:09.240 --> 1:37:11.960 Damn, then you gave me the choice to walk the away. Yeah, 1:37:12.600 --> 1:37:16.639 but if it's the worst, it's worst, then I don't 1:37:17.520 --> 1:37:17.960 because to. 1:37:18.040 --> 1:37:20.360 Me, everything don't be about cheating, like when you're really 1:37:20.360 --> 1:37:24.440 building with somebody, it'd be more problems niggas alone. 1:37:24.439 --> 1:37:31.080 Like it's just more ship to just cheating. Yeah, like this. 1:37:33.560 --> 1:37:35.120 Together you keep doing stupid. 1:37:37.120 --> 1:37:41.720 Basically get some niggas you keep doing damn ship that 1:37:41.840 --> 1:37:43.840 keep putting us behind. Now it ain't even gotten. 1:37:44.840 --> 1:37:47.560 You said we a relationship, right, and you asked me, 1:37:47.640 --> 1:37:50.760 did I go get along? I say yeah, alone like 1:37:50.840 --> 1:37:51.559 she said alone. 1:37:51.880 --> 1:37:54.000 She said, I know you said, nigga be sneaking out 1:37:54.040 --> 1:37:54.679 to be alone. 1:37:57.400 --> 1:37:59.240 You ask me why did you go get along? While 1:37:59.240 --> 1:38:00.800 you tell me because I want to hear the money 1:38:00.800 --> 1:38:02.599 for something. This it ain't your business how you tell 1:38:02.600 --> 1:38:02.760 you that? 1:38:03.560 --> 1:38:05.400 You sposed to say that it's not my business. 1:38:05.800 --> 1:38:09.800 But that's the truth. Is that's my truth. Though you 1:38:09.880 --> 1:38:11.400 want the truth, I don't. 1:38:11.520 --> 1:38:14.000 I don't like that. Like I feel like if we're. 1:38:13.840 --> 1:38:17.240 Doing this together, I think she said, like if you 1:38:17.680 --> 1:38:20.240 were saying earlier she had power ball, there's your money too. 1:38:20.400 --> 1:38:22.160 She feel like, I get that. 1:38:22.280 --> 1:38:24.000 I get what he's saying. I get what you're saying. 1:38:24.000 --> 1:38:25.479 But what I'm saying is, hey, baby, this is my 1:38:25.520 --> 1:38:27.439 play on Finn Gady to go buy some dope. I 1:38:27.479 --> 1:38:29.200 don't even want you in on this. I don't want 1:38:29.240 --> 1:38:31.080 so you won't go to jail. So I ain't telling 1:38:31.080 --> 1:38:32.400 you about the loan. Ain't tell you about now, let 1:38:32.400 --> 1:38:35.040 me go make sure we straight. Did you miss nor 1:38:35.640 --> 1:38:37.559 is anything? Now? Did I take the loan? 1:38:37.800 --> 1:38:39.840 Your is a bad investment right now? 1:38:44.680 --> 1:38:48.680 Risk it all the shop at the market price and 1:38:48.760 --> 1:38:49.360 the reward of. 1:38:49.680 --> 1:38:53.360 Something risky that I know would scare you. So I 1:38:53.439 --> 1:38:57.439 got a loan jeopardize my critic, not yours. What the 1:38:57.520 --> 1:38:58.599 fuck is that your business? 1:38:58.640 --> 1:39:00.599 Because then when we go to try to get together, 1:39:00.640 --> 1:39:02.360 we're gonna try to get some other ship together. 1:39:05.320 --> 1:39:07.920 Some of that loan money. Hallo, my boy credit man. 1:39:08.120 --> 1:39:10.479 Make sure she ain't a hum so anything go? She good? 1:39:11.360 --> 1:39:16.960 You're good, you have been protected. And hold hold holdo. 1:39:17.080 --> 1:39:19.400 You figured out. Niggas ain't gotta figure out. 1:39:19.880 --> 1:39:21.559 I ain't gotta figure it out, but some of these 1:39:21.640 --> 1:39:23.519 niggas do. Y'all. Just don't let them figure it out. 1:39:25.040 --> 1:39:26.639 Because you want you don't want to leave, You want 1:39:26.640 --> 1:39:28.479 to get in come back. Why you ain't go this way? 1:39:30.120 --> 1:39:31.880 This man could have been watching the nigga following y'all 1:39:31.920 --> 1:39:34.080 for three blocks and he turned off. Why you turned off. 1:39:34.120 --> 1:39:36.920 You know this is m I tell you the dunk? 1:39:36.960 --> 1:39:43.160 Why told you the dunk? Damn? You know what I'm saying? 1:39:43.240 --> 1:39:45.639 Like you don't, motherfucker, just don't listen. 1:39:45.960 --> 1:39:46.320 I walk. 1:39:46.360 --> 1:39:54.880 I'm walking out of here. Changed we have in front 1:39:54.880 --> 1:39:55.000 of it. 1:39:55.080 --> 1:39:57.080 No, I'm just treating the break with y'allro cause niggas 1:39:57.080 --> 1:39:58.920 ain't gonna keep that ship all the way tall like 1:39:59.000 --> 1:40:01.519 a nigga. Rather just that you think you think what 1:40:01.640 --> 1:40:03.720 it is, however it go, it go. I don't care 1:40:03.840 --> 1:40:07.080 how you feel after this. But niggas that actually talk 1:40:07.160 --> 1:40:08.760 to you. What about the niggas that actually have a 1:40:08.800 --> 1:40:09.800 conversation with the women? 1:40:10.400 --> 1:40:13.160 What about them? I'm saying, didn't have the conversation with me? 1:40:13.280 --> 1:40:15.599 You about to put our future at risk. You could 1:40:15.640 --> 1:40:18.360 go to jail. That is I'm gonna have to do 1:40:18.720 --> 1:40:24.160 with you. I'm not calling your lawyer. 1:40:24.360 --> 1:40:28.519 You know you're not making decision dealing with You're not 1:40:28.640 --> 1:40:29.720 making decisions for us. 1:40:29.760 --> 1:40:30.640 You making decisions for. 1:40:31.040 --> 1:40:32.439 Let me ask you this, what kind of nigga y'all 1:40:32.439 --> 1:40:34.080 dealing with the feel like I'm gonna need you if 1:40:34.120 --> 1:40:35.000 I get in a situation. 1:40:36.479 --> 1:40:39.240 Niggas need they bitch? Why are you with somebody who 1:40:39.240 --> 1:40:39.599 don't need. 1:40:40.200 --> 1:40:42.519 No, I'm with you because I want you. I don't 1:40:42.560 --> 1:40:46.599 need nobody on earth but me. I need you for love. 1:40:46.680 --> 1:40:47.000 That's it. 1:40:47.640 --> 1:40:49.639 So you need you need, So that's a need. That's 1:40:49.760 --> 1:40:51.519 no for love, that's it. Still a need, but that's 1:40:51.840 --> 1:40:54.280 but it's still a need. Most feel need, most feeling needs. 1:40:56.040 --> 1:41:00.439 It's a choice. It's the emotion I can That need 1:41:00.600 --> 1:41:02.320 is a motherfucker. You need a baby. I need you 1:41:02.360 --> 1:41:03.040 to come get me out. 1:41:03.080 --> 1:41:05.840 He called a lawyer the definition of need. 1:41:06.080 --> 1:41:07.640 I'm talking about those type of things. I don't need 1:41:07.680 --> 1:41:11.479 you for. You don't know how everything a nigga needs 1:41:11.520 --> 1:41:12.120 a woman. Fuck? 1:41:12.840 --> 1:41:15.040 You don't need regular ship for you. 1:41:15.160 --> 1:41:17.080 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So what type of nigga 1:41:17.120 --> 1:41:19.600 you that codepending of a woman. I don't do what 1:41:20.040 --> 1:41:22.680 I'm just saying. I ain't about jails, about anything like. 1:41:22.760 --> 1:41:24.479 So if I go get a loan or whatever, whatever, 1:41:24.800 --> 1:41:28.000 it's my business. They gotta do with. 1:41:28.080 --> 1:41:29.960 You everything how. 1:41:31.640 --> 1:41:32.400 That's controlling. 1:41:33.040 --> 1:41:35.040 It ain't if I went and got If I went 1:41:35.120 --> 1:41:38.519 and got a loan or I went, so. 1:41:38.520 --> 1:41:40.720 You know exactly what you're suppoed to know exactly my 1:41:40.760 --> 1:41:41.920 money I got in near everything. 1:41:41.720 --> 1:41:45.400 Right, No, I ain't got no okay, okay. 1:41:45.200 --> 1:41:45.439 Care. 1:41:51.080 --> 1:41:53.080 You're gonna know how much money I got. You're gonna 1:41:53.080 --> 1:41:55.840 be curious all my basis. But you gotta know that 1:41:55.960 --> 1:41:57.840 if anything you're doing fail, I got you. 1:41:58.040 --> 1:41:58.920 So that's my mind. 1:42:00.040 --> 1:42:01.759 But what niggas banking on feeling? 1:42:03.000 --> 1:42:03.920 You ain't got a bank. 1:42:05.560 --> 1:42:07.360 Thinking about feeling. Oh, so you gotta put the pressure 1:42:07.360 --> 1:42:07.720 on your bitch. 1:42:07.800 --> 1:42:09.280 You gotta have a plan. That's what they do. 1:42:10.000 --> 1:42:10.439 I don't know what. 1:42:11.000 --> 1:42:12.560 Unfortunately, that's what it is. 1:42:12.960 --> 1:42:17.200 I got friends screen simm I can't let they find out. 1:42:17.240 --> 1:42:18.920 But the money gone, sim hunder right quick? 1:42:20.880 --> 1:42:23.160 Well you know that's but most. 1:42:24.720 --> 1:42:25.120 They don't. 1:42:25.720 --> 1:42:27.760 These niggas all like friends telling on each other, so 1:42:28.040 --> 1:42:29.120 they don't have these. 1:42:31.000 --> 1:42:32.519 Well you got the wheel, bro, you got the will, 1:42:32.560 --> 1:42:34.280 you got to you got two feet to it. But 1:42:34.439 --> 1:42:36.840 go drive Uber. Maybe I'm a sneak away and drive 1:42:36.920 --> 1:42:40.160 Uber for I let you know we sucked up. I 1:42:40.240 --> 1:42:42.000 can't put that pressure on you because you may not 1:42:42.120 --> 1:42:42.760 can't handle it. 1:42:43.040 --> 1:42:44.760 Yeah, I appreciate that because that got a lot to 1:42:44.840 --> 1:42:45.560 do with protected me. 1:42:45.840 --> 1:42:48.000 Thank you. What y'all dealing with. 1:42:50.000 --> 1:42:50.040 It? 1:42:50.920 --> 1:42:51.640 You are Uber and. 1:42:58.040 --> 1:43:00.600 You shot me with a gun. But then nurse me 1:43:00.680 --> 1:43:02.280 bank and you want me to say thank you for 1:43:02.400 --> 1:43:02.960 your protection? 1:43:03.200 --> 1:43:06.799 Did you feel the problem though? Did you feel the problem? 1:43:07.840 --> 1:43:09.479 Did you feel the problem? That's what I'm saying. 1:43:09.800 --> 1:43:11.439 Are we still doing the twenty thousand dollars things? 1:43:11.600 --> 1:43:13.799 Whatever? If I got the did you feel the problem? 1:43:14.160 --> 1:43:14.960 Did you go to jail? 1:43:14.960 --> 1:43:16.679 I'm gonna feel the problem. If you go to jail, 1:43:16.680 --> 1:43:19.599 I'm gonna fel the problem. Yeah, yeah, but that's. 1:43:19.640 --> 1:43:21.960 Hard we have really at the end of the day, 1:43:21.960 --> 1:43:23.920 I went to jail here, give me fuck this bitch 1:43:24.120 --> 1:43:33.920 also jump feeling fuck her? Oh so you're not forgeting. 1:43:36.920 --> 1:43:37.280 Protection? 1:43:37.520 --> 1:43:40.120 God, this is the end of it, because I fuck up. 1:43:41.200 --> 1:43:43.040 But then that's what a fucking loan matter, because not 1:43:43.160 --> 1:43:44.160 protections going nigga. 1:43:44.360 --> 1:43:45.840 Now you took away one of the coore values of 1:43:45.880 --> 1:43:47.280 our relationship, protections out the winner. 1:43:47.400 --> 1:43:49.000 But I just told the baby, we need twenty thousand dollars. 1:43:49.040 --> 1:43:51.000 You didn't got it? No what Now you just sent 1:43:51.040 --> 1:43:52.080 around got them looking. 1:43:51.880 --> 1:43:53.519 At you, Joe, So you can go to jail. 1:43:54.400 --> 1:43:56.479 Baby. You ain't got. 1:43:56.600 --> 1:43:57.840 Anything but you, but you deal. 1:43:58.000 --> 1:43:59.880 You're dealing with a risk taker. What kind of nig 1:44:00.040 --> 1:44:04.519 did y'all dealing with a risk taking. You see this 1:44:04.600 --> 1:44:07.719 niggas already risk taker. You met me, I was already 1:44:07.800 --> 1:44:10.800 doing taking risks. I ain't coming hey, baby, you think 1:44:10.840 --> 1:44:11.479 I should know? 1:44:11.640 --> 1:44:11.760 Man? 1:44:11.880 --> 1:44:12.840 Man, fuk out of here. 1:44:12.920 --> 1:44:17.000 Man, Okay, because I love a risk taker. 1:44:18.360 --> 1:44:18.760 But is it. 1:44:22.880 --> 1:44:25.760 Like's supposed to like? That doesn't change? 1:44:25.800 --> 1:44:28.320 Okay, okay, okay. Once I discussed it with you, that 1:44:28.479 --> 1:44:30.479 puts you really in harm's way, because now you know 1:44:30.600 --> 1:44:32.280 you can't pass a lot to take the bitch come 1:44:32.320 --> 1:44:33.040 through their bed with me. 1:44:34.640 --> 1:44:36.240 No what no b. 1:44:39.160 --> 1:44:40.720 Buisdes that's keeping you out of harms way. 1:44:40.960 --> 1:44:46.800 Yeah, there's certain ship. There's certain ship that I'm telling 1:44:46.840 --> 1:44:47.000 you that. 1:44:47.280 --> 1:44:49.280 Guess it just depends on what type of man you're 1:44:49.400 --> 1:44:49.720 dealing with. 1:44:50.680 --> 1:44:52.280 I can't speak for them, but the type of nigga 1:44:52.280 --> 1:44:54.120 that I am, I can't speak for no other nigga 1:44:54.120 --> 1:44:56.479 who got damn saying he he he come home? Tell 1:44:56.479 --> 1:44:58.160 you baby, moved up in the law firm. He's supposed 1:44:58.200 --> 1:45:01.640 to say that if I mean it, if I met 1:45:01.720 --> 1:45:03.160 got them, whoever got them? 1:45:04.240 --> 1:45:06.160 I was when I stay alone, I was talking about 1:45:06.160 --> 1:45:07.160 it loan for like real estate. 1:45:07.439 --> 1:45:11.599 That let's let's let's let's flip it. Let's flip let's 1:45:11.600 --> 1:45:13.320 flip it to something else, like, let's just keep it real. 1:45:13.800 --> 1:45:16.200 What kind of conversation did you have with Chante before 1:45:16.200 --> 1:45:17.880 a Big Fast? And what kind of conversation did I 1:45:17.960 --> 1:45:22.560 have with Jessica before Big Fast? At all? I mentioned it. 1:45:23.360 --> 1:45:26.720 I didn't go in no specifics about we're gonna have 1:45:26.760 --> 1:45:28.920 to buy these cameras. It might not make no money. 1:45:29.000 --> 1:45:31.240 And you ain't saying ship at all? 1:45:31.400 --> 1:45:34.439 Hey, Rob up here right, y'all got a podcast? 1:45:34.640 --> 1:45:36.719 Right, That's what I'm saying. That's what it's really supposed 1:45:36.720 --> 1:45:39.840 to be. Trust because when it work, we geniuses. 1:45:39.920 --> 1:45:43.680 If it don't work, bro, you gotta figure it out. 1:45:44.160 --> 1:45:46.800 I ain't bringing home no money. That's when the problems start. 1:45:47.080 --> 1:45:48.840 So I'm gonna start with what I'm trying to do 1:45:48.920 --> 1:45:49.519 to get the money. 1:45:49.680 --> 1:45:52.479 It's chantego get a hair salon. You think she's supposed 1:45:52.479 --> 1:45:56.519 to say everything about it? What you mean her business, 1:45:56.920 --> 1:45:58.839 her business venture. I'm just saying she properly. 1:45:59.560 --> 1:46:00.840 I'm gonna give for the money to go get it. 1:46:01.400 --> 1:46:01.800 What do you mean? 1:46:01.880 --> 1:46:02.000 Hey? 1:46:02.160 --> 1:46:02.519 Go ahead? 1:46:02.760 --> 1:46:04.080 But what if she didn't want to ask you? 1:46:04.160 --> 1:46:07.120 Because you don't have to take out all type of 1:46:07.120 --> 1:46:08.880 ship that I don't know that about. I don't remember 1:46:08.920 --> 1:46:09.640 fuck what she do. 1:46:09.880 --> 1:46:12.519 That's her money, that's what that's what we are getting there. 1:46:12.560 --> 1:46:17.880 What are you talking about, somebody? That's what the fuck 1:46:17.920 --> 1:46:21.400 am I watching that limit ass ship fun? Hey man, 1:46:21.760 --> 1:46:23.920 she's gonna get along with a five hundred thousand dollars baby, 1:46:24.040 --> 1:46:26.080 go each you go buy chips with that. She don't 1:46:26.080 --> 1:46:28.800 give what you do with it. That's your money. It 1:46:28.840 --> 1:46:29.960 didn't hurt me or hurt her. 1:46:31.600 --> 1:46:33.320 My thing is, if we make a five year plan 1:46:33.720 --> 1:46:35.840 and we're agreeing, this is what we're gonna do, and 1:46:35.920 --> 1:46:37.920 this is how we're gonna do it, and if you're. 1:46:37.800 --> 1:46:39.760 Not making five year nigga like him? 1:46:43.880 --> 1:46:45.320 No, no, no, you're right. That's a great point. We 1:46:45.360 --> 1:46:47.640 could make the five year plan, right. I ain't go 1:46:47.720 --> 1:46:49.400 off there plan, but I'm still doing other ship. What 1:46:49.520 --> 1:46:50.600 the fuck they gotta do with you? 1:46:51.280 --> 1:46:53.320 Did we not say several times how that could deter 1:46:53.600 --> 1:46:57.160 us from what our plans are. Something happens, it doesn't right. 1:46:57.080 --> 1:46:59.719 And then we take the criminal ship out of it. Okay, 1:47:00.040 --> 1:47:02.400 you we got to fire your planet's going well? Want 1:47:02.400 --> 1:47:04.000 to start a big fact that's what we did. What 1:47:04.120 --> 1:47:07.320 the fuck they gotta do with you? They didn't come 1:47:07.360 --> 1:47:08.400 out of none of our plan. 1:47:09.040 --> 1:47:09.680 I would like to know. 1:47:10.200 --> 1:47:11.080 Okay, that's because you. 1:47:11.080 --> 1:47:14.559 Are what you got going on. You don't know why, 1:47:14.640 --> 1:47:15.360 you don't know. 1:47:15.920 --> 1:47:17.120 You just gonna know where I'm at. 1:47:18.960 --> 1:47:23.000 All I was saying, he don't know. I want to 1:47:23.040 --> 1:47:26.120 start using AI to streamline his business. 1:47:26.200 --> 1:47:28.160 Sometimes when you talk to your business partner, they could 1:47:28.200 --> 1:47:29.880 tell you, I mean, your your wife. They could tell 1:47:29.880 --> 1:47:32.519 you how to make your business ten times better by 1:47:32.560 --> 1:47:33.519 giving you some feedback. 1:47:34.040 --> 1:47:36.680 You could just mention. You can mention it, like like 1:47:36.800 --> 1:47:38.880 what you said with your You could just to me. 1:47:43.040 --> 1:47:47.840 Feedback like I like this episode. But I'm not getting 1:47:47.840 --> 1:47:49.880 into the specific So what I spent on the mic 1:47:50.320 --> 1:47:52.120 and whatever. 1:47:52.320 --> 1:47:57.280 I just believe doing the people because some people my 1:47:57.360 --> 1:47:58.800 wife could love me so much and want to work 1:47:58.880 --> 1:48:00.760 so much and put some drink on. That's just how 1:48:00.800 --> 1:48:02.479 I look at It's just like you can't stand at 1:48:02.520 --> 1:48:04.280 me with no crap game when I'm gamming playing poker, 1:48:04.439 --> 1:48:05.960 stay your ass in the room because you want me 1:48:06.000 --> 1:48:07.160 to win so bad, I'm gonna. 1:48:07.000 --> 1:48:10.360 Lose your belief. 1:48:10.520 --> 1:48:13.320 That's just my belief system. Like like stream I called 1:48:13.400 --> 1:48:15.760 stream five day LA. This is my being department. Hey bro, 1:48:16.040 --> 1:48:17.880 I got to who that ship went through. He ain't 1:48:17.920 --> 1:48:20.000 tell them about that ship went through, though you know 1:48:20.160 --> 1:48:21.680 now because it went through. What the fun I'm gona 1:48:21.680 --> 1:48:25.400 tell you about? Dream for m okay, that's just how 1:48:25.439 --> 1:48:28.120 I look at ship all then, my assister Courtney right there, 1:48:28.120 --> 1:48:31.160 I always say, don't tell nobody till it's done. M 1:48:31.360 --> 1:48:34.920 h fuck, don't tell nobody till it's done, cause you 1:48:35.040 --> 1:48:37.080 never know who putting what kind of ship on your seeds? 1:48:37.120 --> 1:48:39.639 You plannet yep, and I don't know if it doese 1:48:39.680 --> 1:48:41.960 stem over from a relationship to my kids. Whatever. I 1:48:42.000 --> 1:48:44.040 don't tell nobody's ship until it's done. 1:48:45.200 --> 1:48:45.880 That's how you do it. 1:48:46.240 --> 1:48:48.120 Unless we're in it together. Like you said, we got 1:48:48.200 --> 1:48:50.160 a fire, you're plant's build this fire playing? Baby, we 1:48:50.280 --> 1:48:52.320 and this together. Don't tell them about our plan though 1:48:52.320 --> 1:48:54.439 we're doing this together. But if I got some more 1:48:54.479 --> 1:48:56.200 ship going on, what I gotta, I ain't gonna tell 1:48:56.240 --> 1:48:59.320 him about the ship. I don't need you for it? 1:48:59.600 --> 1:49:02.200 What okay, baby, I got this one an extreme little 1:49:02.360 --> 1:49:03.920 CHEMICALSTA thousand got thirty. 1:49:04.680 --> 1:49:05.360 You didn't say that. 1:49:09.800 --> 1:49:11.479 He let me know what you need? 1:49:12.479 --> 1:49:16.080 No, because partners, if you don't really need the thirty 1:49:16.200 --> 1:49:18.320 And I got it here, but I want your. 1:49:18.280 --> 1:49:20.679 Thirty thirty so we partners. 1:49:20.960 --> 1:49:21.640 Right, you don't need it. 1:49:22.200 --> 1:49:23.519 So what you need information for? 1:49:23.960 --> 1:49:24.120 Right? 1:49:25.560 --> 1:49:26.599 To make sure you're safe? 1:49:27.640 --> 1:49:30.920 I would not be. I need make it safe because 1:49:30.960 --> 1:49:33.160 I'm gonna take a thirty thirty thousand dollars risks on him, 1:49:33.160 --> 1:49:33.719 not a sexty. 1:49:33.960 --> 1:49:36.960 So give me the thirty you're taking. 1:49:39.280 --> 1:49:40.720 What are you saying? What he saying? Make a lot 1:49:40.760 --> 1:49:42.120 of sense, y'all, be made logic? 1:49:42.320 --> 1:49:42.640 What what? 1:49:42.880 --> 1:49:44.519 What? What if your nigga just want to go make 1:49:44.560 --> 1:49:47.240 a random rap song? Y'all probably gonna like rap nigga 1:49:47.360 --> 1:49:49.280 used to you might not support that ship. 1:49:49.640 --> 1:49:52.200 That might be even if he can't rap, I supported. Okay, 1:49:52.560 --> 1:49:53.719 that's terrible. 1:49:55.800 --> 1:49:56.519 You cuippling him. 1:49:56.560 --> 1:49:59.080 Yeah, but I can't tell him you crippling him? 1:49:59.560 --> 1:50:02.639 Y'all these days in time, shitty rappers make it all 1:50:02.680 --> 1:50:08.599 the time. Come on, now, that might be that, like, Hey, 1:50:08.720 --> 1:50:11.040 that's your gone tell me that ship? 1:50:11.400 --> 1:50:13.599 That's like right now? We started ship show, right, Ship 1:50:13.640 --> 1:50:15.679 show started my bid I'm in the take three o'clock 1:50:15.680 --> 1:50:17.519 in the morning, Went Live asked me could they wrapped 1:50:17.560 --> 1:50:19.599 on my line? I let them wrap all? Right, Ship show? 1:50:19.680 --> 1:50:23.000 I did it two nights straight. She Hey, please don't 1:50:23.080 --> 1:50:24.720 be on that phone in the bed, going in the room, 1:50:24.840 --> 1:50:27.240 going out of the room right then, and that she 1:50:27.320 --> 1:50:38.360 tried to shout them out, dream up. 1:50:38.439 --> 1:50:39.600 She was actually trying to know. 1:50:39.920 --> 1:50:41.400 She was No, I'm trying. 1:50:42.040 --> 1:50:44.639 Why you on that stupid ass live doing that stupid 1:50:44.680 --> 1:50:45.120 ass ship. 1:50:45.320 --> 1:50:52.559 Okay, okay, soon as soon as this ship go up, 1:50:52.680 --> 1:50:56.760 you front row, let me held of the bend and 1:50:56.800 --> 1:50:57.320 then you come. 1:50:57.400 --> 1:51:03.280 That's leading tell the ya the way he's saying, but 1:51:03.640 --> 1:51:05.519 he's saying makes you can't see a vision. 1:51:06.360 --> 1:51:07.720 They got it. You can't when you. 1:51:07.760 --> 1:51:09.559 Locked in in like that. Sometimes you gotta run your 1:51:09.600 --> 1:51:11.640 own play. My wife might start doing some ship like 1:51:11.840 --> 1:51:13.600 growing a plant or so ship. I don't want to 1:51:13.640 --> 1:51:15.519 know nothing about whatever it is. You know what I'm saying, 1:51:16.040 --> 1:51:18.040 You go do that because I don't understand that ship, 1:51:18.080 --> 1:51:19.800 and it's certain ship I'm gonna do, and there's certain 1:51:19.800 --> 1:51:22.840 ship you're gonna do together, Like when you started working 1:51:22.920 --> 1:51:24.240 out that was a solo. 1:51:24.080 --> 1:51:26.160 Thing, right, Yeah, then she started coming. 1:51:26.520 --> 1:51:27.400 I see what I'm saying. 1:51:28.800 --> 1:51:30.599 So what if she wants to go start a podcast, 1:51:32.040 --> 1:51:33.160 you don't want to tell you at all? 1:51:33.640 --> 1:51:35.400 She gonna tell me because she gonna want my input, 1:51:35.560 --> 1:51:38.240 but she don't have to tell me, right, what are 1:51:38.280 --> 1:51:40.800 you talking about? That's the truth, But that's my thing. 1:51:40.960 --> 1:51:43.439 You should want your part especially, that's your. 1:51:43.920 --> 1:51:47.320 Only if you're doing something that if you're doing something 1:51:47.360 --> 1:51:49.800 that going against my morals or our morals, No tell 1:51:49.880 --> 1:51:50.599 me what though? 1:51:50.600 --> 1:51:51.080 Why should I? 1:51:51.760 --> 1:51:54.120 Because I think different points of views. They could see 1:51:54.160 --> 1:51:55.640 something that you may not know how to. 1:51:55.840 --> 1:51:57.120 I don't want your point of view with my mind 1:51:57.120 --> 1:51:59.559 has made. You're talking about an uncertain person. So listen 1:51:59.560 --> 1:52:02.640 when you tell somebody you're looking for validation. Okay, I 1:52:02.760 --> 1:52:05.080 just gave you're looking for validational opinions. I don't want 1:52:05.120 --> 1:52:06.920 no validation opinion my mind made up. 1:52:07.200 --> 1:52:09.880 Okay, all right? 1:52:13.320 --> 1:52:20.200 You also also, you know, you know another you know, 1:52:20.280 --> 1:52:23.320 a real important part of it. It's just individuality, you 1:52:23.360 --> 1:52:25.360 see what I'm saying. So it's kind of like with 1:52:25.560 --> 1:52:27.320 us in support, Right, he just hit me. Yeah, I 1:52:27.360 --> 1:52:31.439 did five episodes of Perspectives today? What was that my podcast? Great? 1:52:31.720 --> 1:52:33.360 You know what I'm saying, Because that's his ship, that's 1:52:33.439 --> 1:52:35.640 his creativity. I might have said you should do this, 1:52:35.800 --> 1:52:37.479 or you should do that or whatever. I tell him 1:52:37.479 --> 1:52:40.440 the same thing. But what I'm saying is like, individuality 1:52:40.520 --> 1:52:42.400 is something you gotta have. So you go do your 1:52:42.479 --> 1:52:44.719 podcast and talk about whatever you want to talk about. 1:52:44.920 --> 1:52:46.680 Because you start talking to me about it, I might 1:52:47.680 --> 1:52:49.040 your creativity exactly. 1:52:49.080 --> 1:52:51.519 I already had hema making sit hemda this ship. It 1:52:51.600 --> 1:52:54.680 spent one hundred thousand dollars camera sets and everything. Everybody like, 1:52:54.720 --> 1:52:56.160 why are you doing that? Now? Niggas walking on with 1:52:57.600 --> 1:53:01.040 this deal elevated. They can't see your vision, bro, So 1:53:01.160 --> 1:53:05.320 why share somebody individual even if you locked in talk 1:53:05.320 --> 1:53:08.760 about that all the time. That brings they and and 1:53:09.280 --> 1:53:12.360 not on purpose like your people can. My wife can 1:53:12.400 --> 1:53:13.960 love me so much that I could tell her something 1:53:14.000 --> 1:53:16.280 that I'm passionate about and she could say certain things 1:53:16.320 --> 1:53:18.679 like you sure, and that'll take something. 1:53:18.520 --> 1:53:20.840 From my visit to shift the energy. 1:53:20.920 --> 1:53:22.560 You're sure you're gonna change that? How much damn you 1:53:22.640 --> 1:53:24.680 gonna do that? That could take something. No, let me 1:53:24.720 --> 1:53:26.479 make this ship work. And then and be like, damn, 1:53:26.680 --> 1:53:27.880 that's crazy, baby, that's dope. 1:53:28.240 --> 1:53:30.760 Everybody ain't like me, and him was like my wife 1:53:30.760 --> 1:53:32.679 will say, because she's a Gemini, I'm going to nurse school, 1:53:32.680 --> 1:53:34.360 I'm going to real estate. On the cool on with you, 1:53:35.800 --> 1:53:38.040 pray for you even if I think different. Whatever the 1:53:38.120 --> 1:53:41.040 case is, everybody not like that somebody else that. 1:53:41.040 --> 1:53:43.800 You're doing but input. If you put your input on 1:53:43.880 --> 1:53:45.479 some ship, it could be the wrong input. Because I 1:53:45.479 --> 1:53:48.040 love you so much, I trust that your intuition is great. 1:53:48.080 --> 1:53:51.639 Now now now, because your fear can make me fear 1:53:51.760 --> 1:53:54.400 or my dream or my vision. You know what I'm saying. 1:53:54.439 --> 1:53:56.400 Not to say I'm doing this. I don't know. No, 1:53:56.800 --> 1:53:59.600 It's just I don't want people opinion on my on 1:53:59.680 --> 1:54:05.200 my vis Are you wrong? I don't want people opinion 1:54:05.280 --> 1:54:07.280 on my vision. I'm just keeping a real like why. 1:54:08.720 --> 1:54:12.080 You can mention it, but you got to get into detail, 1:54:12.200 --> 1:54:13.679 and I have to give you feedback. 1:54:13.760 --> 1:54:17.599 But woman an give a woman giving feedback? 1:54:17.640 --> 1:54:18.560 How much that's gonna cost you? 1:54:19.160 --> 1:54:23.040 Right? Keep it real? Now? You just say whatever it 1:54:23.160 --> 1:54:27.120 is that you say that twenty that twenty could go 1:54:27.200 --> 1:54:29.599 good or it could go bad, get bad. 1:54:29.960 --> 1:54:32.560 You wouldn't know either way. If I took out twenty 1:54:32.600 --> 1:54:37.440 thousand dollars start a fucking popsil stand, and if I 1:54:37.440 --> 1:54:39.360 ain't gonna tell you about its successful. Like, baby, you 1:54:39.400 --> 1:54:41.520 got a popsicle stand, go ahead, run that for real? 1:54:41.560 --> 1:54:43.760 It is dope. But I but I told you now. 1:54:44.200 --> 1:54:47.640 Pop staying with But realistically, niggas, it's not taking the 1:54:47.680 --> 1:54:50.160 money and starting successful businesses. And that's the problem. That's 1:54:50.160 --> 1:54:52.520 why most maverages are finances saying that. 1:54:52.640 --> 1:54:54.360 But that's like when was that movie with a nigga? 1:54:54.800 --> 1:54:55.760 You say what? You say? What? More? 1:54:56.480 --> 1:54:59.080 Realistically, men are not taking you. You got lucky, yes, 1:54:59.160 --> 1:55:00.440 but realiss stick. 1:55:03.400 --> 1:55:14.000 Really, she ain't believing that. They fucking up added another 1:55:14.000 --> 1:55:15.760 opinion in it. They added a bit to the well, 1:55:15.800 --> 1:55:17.840 you know, I wanted to do this, I want to 1:55:17.880 --> 1:55:20.520 do that. I wanted to do this. You just gonna 1:55:20.520 --> 1:55:22.160 do that, and I wanted to do this, And now 1:55:22.160 --> 1:55:24.560 they're putting stress on your whole bending and ships crumbling. 1:55:25.920 --> 1:55:28.480 Anything you do on your own without another motherfucker it 1:55:28.560 --> 1:55:31.480 always work, nigga, Now, Martin, if I'm wrong, anything that 1:55:31.560 --> 1:55:33.480 you do on your own, anything that you think about, 1:55:33.480 --> 1:55:35.120 even if you go to the boxing gym by yourself, 1:55:35.160 --> 1:55:37.160 you get more done than having a partner. Your partner 1:55:37.200 --> 1:55:38.920 slow you down, like you ain't gonna be able to 1:55:38.920 --> 1:55:40.360 go to that girl. Now we ain't gon, we ain't 1:55:40.360 --> 1:55:42.800 going in. But if you go by your motherfucker self 1:55:42.840 --> 1:55:45.120 and state focused yourself, you're gonna do that ship by yourself. 1:55:45.320 --> 1:55:48.280 That's mad because if partners a trainer and they have 1:55:48.600 --> 1:55:50.720 a bigger vision you and they keep you on track, 1:55:50.800 --> 1:55:51.360 that's different. 1:55:51.440 --> 1:55:54.120 It really depends. I don't think that that like there 1:55:54.200 --> 1:55:55.720 is one cut answer to that. 1:55:55.960 --> 1:55:58.080 No, but you're speaking of a person that needs other people. 1:55:58.080 --> 1:56:01.120 I'm speaking of a self self big person. If I 1:56:01.320 --> 1:56:03.440 go I started hiking, I'm just cheaping the real I 1:56:03.520 --> 1:56:06.520 started hiking by myself. People wanted to start hiking. I'm 1:56:06.520 --> 1:56:09.800 gonna go regardless. If y'all coming out right, y'all want 1:56:09.840 --> 1:56:12.000 a jump, because y'all see it. I motivated y'all off 1:56:12.040 --> 1:56:14.720 seeing nigga dropping hated to one hundred pounds. Damn that 1:56:14.760 --> 1:56:17.840 shit worked. I ain't screen asking me, nigga. He asked 1:56:17.840 --> 1:56:21.920 me one one uh uh. We did an episode leading 1:56:21.960 --> 1:56:23.680 it to the next year. Everybody said it was. I said, 1:56:23.720 --> 1:56:25.680 ain't gonna say it, brother, because if I slip up, nobody. 1:56:25.680 --> 1:56:27.400 I don't wan niggas to know I slipped up. My 1:56:27.640 --> 1:56:31.200 My resolution was to lose weight. Nigga that day. I 1:56:31.240 --> 1:56:33.160 ain't say shit, nigga. Nigga start saying now that shit 1:56:33.240 --> 1:56:36.120 coming off? Okay, Yeah, we hiking hiking with back now 1:56:36.160 --> 1:56:37.960 that shit licked. But if I was, if I would 1:56:37.960 --> 1:56:39.880 have went out there and told everybody then start. Now 1:56:39.920 --> 1:56:42.240 I feel like I let myself down and everybody else 1:56:42.280 --> 1:56:45.960 I told, I don't know what this is just my logic, Bro, 1:56:46.040 --> 1:56:48.680 I could be tripping, but it worked for me. When 1:56:48.720 --> 1:56:50.960 you tell people show being there, Bro, that shit never 1:56:51.080 --> 1:56:52.960 go right who it is. 1:56:53.600 --> 1:56:59.800 This is not show and tail. Now, this is not tailing. 1:57:02.040 --> 1:57:05.320 You said, like your vision, like everybody can't see your vision, 1:57:05.400 --> 1:57:07.280 so you're absolutely right about that. And then you could 1:57:07.360 --> 1:57:10.160 let somebody know your idea even because I feel like 1:57:10.320 --> 1:57:12.360 what I said and what you're saying like these are 1:57:12.400 --> 1:57:16.040 two different things. Like, but you can't let somebody know 1:57:16.120 --> 1:57:17.720 your idea and they can't just say one thing. And 1:57:17.760 --> 1:57:19.720 now you questioned and everything you just thought, but it 1:57:19.840 --> 1:57:22.360 was your vision. Can't nobody see what you see? 1:57:22.400 --> 1:57:23.839 So I do agree with that exactly. 1:57:23.880 --> 1:57:25.680 And then get what if you really care about somebody, 1:57:25.880 --> 1:57:28.360 value them and value their opinion, that's gonna run through 1:57:28.400 --> 1:57:32.040 your mind like a first A slight buil of doubt 1:57:32.160 --> 1:57:36.160 can fuck up anything successful. And you could have gave 1:57:36.200 --> 1:57:39.280 me doubt without even saying I disagree. You could have 1:57:39.280 --> 1:57:40.640 gave me doubt by the way you look when I 1:57:40.720 --> 1:57:46.280 told you yeah, or just saying you sure or whatever 1:57:46.400 --> 1:57:48.560 you could have said one simple thing, because I pay 1:57:48.560 --> 1:57:50.320 attention to you and I love you so much that 1:57:50.520 --> 1:57:52.520 that could like Damn, I don't know if I should 1:57:52.600 --> 1:57:56.120 do this shit the go ahead. 1:57:58.240 --> 1:58:01.280 How can I feel connected in a part partnership just 1:58:01.480 --> 1:58:03.960 just knowing that just I'm just confused. 1:58:03.680 --> 1:58:06.120 Knowing that anything you want to do one hundred percent behind. 1:58:06.160 --> 1:58:08.320 If you need me, and if I need you, I 1:58:08.400 --> 1:58:10.080 know you with me too. You know I'm gonna call 1:58:10.160 --> 1:58:11.720 you for the for the ship that I need you for. 1:58:12.440 --> 1:58:14.560 Okay, all right, we in school. 1:58:16.880 --> 1:58:19.440 You just gotta remember you still an individual. Like whether 1:58:19.480 --> 1:58:22.760 it's a business, partnership of marriage, whether it's your homegirl friendship, 1:58:22.840 --> 1:58:26.000 You're still an individual. That ain't no love loss, It's 1:58:26.120 --> 1:58:28.400 just you an individual. I decided I wanted to do 1:58:28.480 --> 1:58:30.240 some shit. He decided he want to do some shit, 1:58:30.760 --> 1:58:32.200 all of us, you know what I'm saying, and we 1:58:32.360 --> 1:58:35.040 celebrate each other. You got a word when people don't difference. 1:58:35.040 --> 1:58:37.320 If I start a business and it be successful and 1:58:37.800 --> 1:58:41.680 like this owning my business, you know what I'm saying. 1:58:41.960 --> 1:58:45.800 I started already being in perspective this ship show haikerbank 1:58:45.840 --> 1:58:49.200 se is a partner on all that shit. Okay, she 1:58:49.280 --> 1:58:52.240 ain't gotta know nothing about it. She ain't got to 1:58:52.280 --> 1:58:55.600 show up nowhere. Mm hmm. So what's really real? 1:59:02.080 --> 1:59:02.720 And all that. 1:59:04.960 --> 1:59:06.440 Real not for real? 1:59:07.320 --> 1:59:08.440 You need to have a class. 1:59:12.040 --> 1:59:14.600 I don't know what her stance was to begin with, 1:59:14.840 --> 1:59:16.720 so I can't master class. 1:59:17.320 --> 1:59:18.200 It is the class. 1:59:19.480 --> 1:59:22.600 I guess what what if I came with you with 1:59:22.920 --> 1:59:25.200 with a vision that you disagree on, right, and I 1:59:25.280 --> 1:59:27.920 still go through it? What's in my mind? You didn't 1:59:27.920 --> 1:59:31.040 support I'm gonna show this bitch, and while I'm sure 1:59:31.080 --> 1:59:32.760 your billers at me because you didn't believe them in 1:59:32.800 --> 1:59:36.440 once and success, man, I only want to allow you 1:59:36.560 --> 1:59:39.680 to do that. I'm that's protecting you too, okay, taking 1:59:39.720 --> 1:59:43.560 you from you for your doubts or your your pessimistic thoughts, 1:59:44.280 --> 1:59:46.400 because you're trying to protect me. But you you think 1:59:46.440 --> 1:59:49.400 of pestimistic when I'm thinking optimistic at all time. I 1:59:49.400 --> 1:59:51.680 don't give what I think anything gonna work. I try, 1:59:52.800 --> 1:59:54.160 but people think that's a lunatic. 1:59:59.560 --> 2:00:01.040 I'm all by going through your ship. 2:00:01.320 --> 2:00:04.320 Yeah, I mean I'm a believer too, So it's like 2:00:04.520 --> 2:00:06.640 I feel you at this point, I feel you like 2:00:06.800 --> 2:00:07.200 you didn't. 2:00:07.320 --> 2:00:09.000 You didne opened up my whole man now. 2:00:09.320 --> 2:00:14.320 But if you know it like this, the differencetween. She 2:00:14.520 --> 2:00:17.600 know whatever I do benefits her. She knows she's a 2:00:17.640 --> 2:00:19.400 part of my purpose. So whatever I do is benefit her. 2:00:19.440 --> 2:00:22.120 So no matter what you're doing, but do it. She 2:00:22.160 --> 2:00:23.800 ain't gotta know. I'm give fuck what you're doing. 2:00:23.920 --> 2:00:27.320 Do it because you already showed her. So the trust 2:00:27.440 --> 2:00:29.880 is there. These niggas ain't on ship the. 2:00:29.920 --> 2:00:31.760 Trust in that area. You know what I'm saying. The 2:00:31.800 --> 2:00:32.760 trust in that area though. 2:00:33.000 --> 2:00:36.640 Yeah, what you been saying. 2:00:39.600 --> 2:00:41.680 Exactly, that's what I'm exactly. 2:00:43.320 --> 2:00:45.360 I'm walking away from this learning that. 2:00:45.760 --> 2:00:47.600 So we all speak it from different points. I get 2:00:47.640 --> 2:00:50.240 what y'all saying, y'all saying, hey, bro, damned down there 2:00:50.240 --> 2:00:51.560 on trust you. But so whatever you do, you need 2:00:51.600 --> 2:00:52.680 to tell me because you you really a. 2:00:52.720 --> 2:00:55.600 Dunk trust that duck bank. 2:00:57.320 --> 2:00:58.960 I just think that I can add to it, and 2:00:59.000 --> 2:00:59.760 I could probably make it. 2:01:01.440 --> 2:01:03.200 Let me tell what you add to baby, add to 2:01:03.400 --> 2:01:05.640 add to what I don't know I need. 2:01:06.840 --> 2:01:07.920 Yeah, so that's what I'm saying. 2:01:08.240 --> 2:01:09.800 I don't need you to add to what I already know. 2:01:09.880 --> 2:01:12.200 I need add to what I don't know. I need, man, 2:01:12.280 --> 2:01:13.560 you know what? But I think you good at this. 2:01:13.720 --> 2:01:15.240 This is what you should do. I already looked it up. 2:01:15.240 --> 2:01:15.640 This is what you do. 2:01:15.720 --> 2:01:15.960 You know what? 2:01:16.240 --> 2:01:20.440 Let's do that. You're bringing me plays? How can I 2:01:20.560 --> 2:01:20.800 not do? 2:01:21.680 --> 2:01:22.800 Didn't tell me what you was gonna do? 2:01:23.560 --> 2:01:26.760 What the hell is you talking about? How can you 2:01:26.840 --> 2:01:28.120 not bring me a play? And I ain't tell you 2:01:28.160 --> 2:01:29.800 what I'm gonna do. I said, what you're gonna do? 2:01:29.880 --> 2:01:31.880 What you're doing. You worry about me, what you're doing 2:01:32.520 --> 2:01:33.560 for me? What you're doing? 2:01:33.920 --> 2:01:34.240 All right? 2:01:34.360 --> 2:01:36.320 So my thing is like with the podcast. 2:01:36.360 --> 2:01:37.800 If I could have been like, oh, I could book 2:01:37.800 --> 2:01:39.400 these people, I could get these people, I could I 2:01:39.440 --> 2:01:41.160 could help you with what's the problem. 2:01:41.680 --> 2:01:43.440 It's the podcasts up and running book them? 2:01:44.000 --> 2:01:48.400 But you didn't. All right, I'm talking about we're talking 2:01:48.400 --> 2:01:50.040 about after. How we get to after? The whole thing 2:01:50.160 --> 2:01:52.040 was before. We were talking the whole time about doing 2:01:52.080 --> 2:01:53.560 something before. How we get to the after? 2:01:53.920 --> 2:01:56.000 I'm saying, but it's still going on? So what's the problem. 2:01:56.040 --> 2:01:57.360 So now you're not gonna do it? Now you're not. 2:01:57.560 --> 2:02:01.600 Now you're not gonna it's it's up and running now so. 2:02:01.760 --> 2:02:03.440 I'm not talking about when it's up and running. That's 2:02:03.480 --> 2:02:05.080 what I'm saying. We're having two different conversations. 2:02:05.120 --> 2:02:06.400 You had a two different conversations. 2:02:07.040 --> 2:02:09.200 Conversation was about before things. 2:02:09.080 --> 2:02:12.240 Are I understand, but once it already happened. Why can't 2:02:12.240 --> 2:02:13.080 you step in? Then? 2:02:13.840 --> 2:02:15.680 Why wouldn't you? You said, she's a part of it, 2:02:16.560 --> 2:02:17.240 which is about you? 2:02:17.400 --> 2:02:20.880 Why would you step in? So what's the problem about 2:02:20.920 --> 2:02:23.120 me telling you? When you knowing you? If I started something, 2:02:23.160 --> 2:02:25.120 you were able to step in. What's the problem. 2:02:26.120 --> 2:02:27.000 I could have helped you soon? 2:02:27.480 --> 2:02:28.960 How I didn't need no help. 2:02:30.360 --> 2:02:31.600 I didn't need your help. 2:02:32.000 --> 2:02:33.240 I didn't need no help. 2:02:34.520 --> 2:02:35.080 Nobody else. 2:02:36.960 --> 2:02:39.680 Help. But if you can add value, come on, you 2:02:39.720 --> 2:02:42.120 can add value when it's already going. Come on, I 2:02:42.160 --> 2:02:45.200 don't need your help from the beginning. Okay, fuck the 2:02:45.240 --> 2:02:47.040 podcast fun out that. What are you sending home using 2:02:47.080 --> 2:02:50.960 your brain for for me? I't need I would if 2:02:50.960 --> 2:02:52.400 I got a wife. I shouldn't even have time to 2:02:52.440 --> 2:02:54.360 think about what I need to do. This be's coming 2:02:54.360 --> 2:02:56.320 with so much ship. She yeah, let do it, baby, 2:02:56.360 --> 2:02:58.160 Let do it baby. They'll do it baby. So why 2:02:58.200 --> 2:02:59.520 the fuck? You know what I'm saying? 2:03:00.080 --> 2:03:03.120 Everything I come everything I come, I'll be like, oh yeah, 2:03:03.200 --> 2:03:03.960 let's come on, let's do it. 2:03:04.400 --> 2:03:06.640 Sh It, don't be I don't need a lot of ship. 2:03:07.120 --> 2:03:08.920 You did a lot of ship. Every idea I have. 2:03:09.080 --> 2:03:11.480 He'd be like, come on, let's then, let's go, let's 2:03:11.680 --> 2:03:13.640 let's all right then yeah. 2:03:13.560 --> 2:03:16.120 All right? Then? So it been really the wig, So 2:03:16.600 --> 2:03:18.760 I know she the week ain't feel love wig my ship. 2:03:19.680 --> 2:03:22.320 So I'm finna figure this shit out for us. Maybe 2:03:22.320 --> 2:03:25.400 I don't tried twenty different beings with you. You was phobotomoist. 2:03:25.760 --> 2:03:27.800 You got damn take care of kids. 2:03:28.200 --> 2:03:28.920 You saying my life. 2:03:30.880 --> 2:03:32.839 I said, you done did everything. You got a daycare, 2:03:33.160 --> 2:03:35.520 you got them, see a cookie, you see a shade butter. 2:03:36.200 --> 2:03:39.880 You know you did everything on one hundred percent with you. 2:03:40.920 --> 2:03:44.880 What the fuck am I? How am I not your partner? Okay? Yeah, 2:03:45.320 --> 2:03:47.480 I don't think the argument was about not being part 2:03:47.840 --> 2:03:49.680 it's just control. You want to ConTroll that in New 2:03:49.760 --> 2:03:50.400 York ship, I. 2:03:50.480 --> 2:03:52.080 Want to know what I want to know what's going 2:03:52.120 --> 2:03:53.480 on before you know what's going on. 2:03:53.880 --> 2:03:56.720 And I know how to streamline businesses. So that's why 2:03:56.920 --> 2:03:59.640 that's a whole other thing. You gotta know your partner, Okay, 2:04:00.120 --> 2:04:02.400 Any men, I'm involved with. I also think they date 2:04:02.480 --> 2:04:04.080 me because they see that in me and they know, oh, 2:04:04.120 --> 2:04:05.280 she could be a true partner life. 2:04:05.440 --> 2:04:07.880 Like you said, they need you sing, I don't think. 2:04:07.800 --> 2:04:10.840 They value my opinion and they know that I could 2:04:10.880 --> 2:04:11.800 add to them. They don't need me. 2:04:11.840 --> 2:04:13.440 They could be successful on their own, but they know 2:04:13.560 --> 2:04:15.680 with me by the side, it could be easier. 2:04:15.720 --> 2:04:17.080 But the thing about it, though, I don't want to 2:04:17.080 --> 2:04:18.880 hear nothing from nobody that ain't never did the ship 2:04:18.920 --> 2:04:20.000 that I'm trying to do. But I don't want to 2:04:20.000 --> 2:04:20.200 hear that. 2:04:20.760 --> 2:04:22.840 Basically, pretty much, you don't know, I don't know. 2:04:23.080 --> 2:04:24.240 We both on a wim, so I'll be on the 2:04:24.280 --> 2:04:25.280 wim with my own money. 2:04:25.360 --> 2:04:25.760 My mind. 2:04:26.480 --> 2:04:27.920 You don't know either. Hell of fan, let you figure 2:04:27.920 --> 2:04:29.560 out shit. I'll let you figure out what you want 2:04:29.560 --> 2:04:31.040 to figure out with my money. I don't even let 2:04:31.080 --> 2:04:32.560 you figure out what I want to figure out with it. 2:04:34.000 --> 2:04:35.480 I dated a guy one time and he wanted to 2:04:35.480 --> 2:04:37.280 get into insurance, and I told him, oh, yeah, you 2:04:37.280 --> 2:04:41.040 could do all that, but you should get an assistant 2:04:41.080 --> 2:04:45.600 from overseas and use AI to mainstream certain things. Triple 2:04:45.680 --> 2:04:48.360 his business within three months just by me telling him 2:04:48.400 --> 2:04:50.360 those things. That's all I'm saying. There might be some 2:04:50.520 --> 2:04:51.760 way I can help you with your business. 2:04:52.560 --> 2:04:55.000 That's all you add to it. 2:04:55.160 --> 2:04:56.680 Yeah, if you tell me, like, oh, I want to 2:04:56.720 --> 2:04:58.480 do this, I might know which cameras are the best 2:04:58.520 --> 2:04:59.880 cameras that cost a little bit less. 2:05:00.040 --> 2:05:00.960 You could save you a buck. 2:05:01.120 --> 2:05:04.200 I'm just saying that there's ways until women look at 2:05:04.240 --> 2:05:05.960 things a little bit differently, and there's other things that 2:05:06.040 --> 2:05:06.800 they might add to that. 2:05:07.080 --> 2:05:08.800 Like I said, you gotta know your partner too. You 2:05:08.880 --> 2:05:09.800 gotta know your partner. 2:05:09.960 --> 2:05:11.960 Yeah, if you think your girl don't about none of that. 2:05:14.360 --> 2:05:17.080 She don't give a fuck about it. She don't even 2:05:17.120 --> 2:05:18.840 give a fuck about no camera. I don't give a 2:05:18.920 --> 2:05:21.640 fuck what you do. Bro, we've been straight forever. Don't 2:05:21.640 --> 2:05:23.280 give a fuck what you go decide to do. I 2:05:23.320 --> 2:05:24.240 don't give a fuck. 2:05:25.040 --> 2:05:27.640 But that goes back to trust, blindly trusting somebody. I 2:05:27.840 --> 2:05:30.600 realized during this conversation. I don't blindly trust in it 2:05:30.640 --> 2:05:31.160 another about it. 2:05:31.840 --> 2:05:36.400 That's the difference. 2:05:36.840 --> 2:05:40.080 That's the difference. Like y'all ain't never you ain't never 2:05:40.080 --> 2:05:41.600 allowed a person to leave. You want to know what's 2:05:41.600 --> 2:05:43.280 going on so we can walk together. Let's walk through 2:05:43.320 --> 2:05:45.600 the door together. But you know, whatever, we'll walk through. 2:05:45.760 --> 2:05:47.520 I'd rather walk through first, just in case of danger 2:05:47.560 --> 2:05:48.160 in the mother fuck. 2:05:50.360 --> 2:05:53.960 It's too much going on, you know, it's just hanging 2:05:54.000 --> 2:05:54.640 you home. 2:05:54.600 --> 2:05:56.560 Because she dated a Gemini too, and I'm a Gemini, 2:05:56.600 --> 2:05:59.680 so you know that's my partner, so it's hitting home 2:05:59.760 --> 2:06:01.840 for her. When she came on my podcast, we actually 2:06:01.960 --> 2:06:05.440 called this guy and everything that I had already told 2:06:05.520 --> 2:06:07.120 on the podcast. It was like she was talking to 2:06:07.400 --> 2:06:09.200 him to me, you know what I'm. 2:06:09.120 --> 2:06:11.880 Saying, and you say, your sign is what aquarius? 2:06:12.480 --> 2:06:14.920 But y'all basically the same, but your female version of 2:06:14.960 --> 2:06:21.680 that acquerir sign. You believe in signs? What's your sign? Leo? 2:06:21.760 --> 2:06:22.840 My best I'm on Leo? 2:06:23.160 --> 2:06:28.280 What heving? What's what were you doing? Oliious? 2:06:29.080 --> 2:06:36.520 Yeah? You don't sleep crazy? What slip crazy? 2:06:37.840 --> 2:06:37.880 No? 2:06:38.840 --> 2:06:40.280 I don't know nothing, but I ain't nothing wrong with 2:06:40.360 --> 2:06:40.800 that though, Bro. 2:06:40.960 --> 2:06:43.440 I just tell you, y'all listen to me. Bro, you'll 2:06:43.520 --> 2:06:44.160 run circle around. 2:06:44.920 --> 2:06:56.640 I get I'm like, I like a lot of nobody. 2:06:58.120 --> 2:07:02.800 Twenty minutes ago, Bank Gaddy saying one thing about one 2:07:02.880 --> 2:07:06.720 thing about it the conversation you thinking I need from 2:07:06.760 --> 2:07:08.960 you to help me. It ain't even That's all I 2:07:09.040 --> 2:07:10.640 need is the energy to be great. Baby. You can 2:07:10.680 --> 2:07:12.960 give me superpowered by the way you love me. I 2:07:13.000 --> 2:07:14.960 don't gotta tell you ship the way the way I 2:07:15.040 --> 2:07:16.800 when I come to that motherfucker house and all my 2:07:16.880 --> 2:07:22.320 problems disappeared because I see you, I'm invincible. But I 2:07:22.400 --> 2:07:25.000 come in the house where you been, nigga, could have 2:07:25.040 --> 2:07:27.280 been busting my average the whole house you been in. 2:07:28.320 --> 2:07:30.240 You know what I'm saying. That take away from a nigga. 2:07:32.000 --> 2:07:33.800 How can I change when I know you're gonna trust me? 2:07:36.400 --> 2:07:38.440 How can I change because of some ship I probably 2:07:38.480 --> 2:07:39.120 did a mistake? 2:07:39.240 --> 2:07:42.680 I mean, how can you change when you know, Yeah, 2:07:43.120 --> 2:07:48.720 you just gotta trust it. No, you gotta trust me that. 2:07:48.800 --> 2:07:51.120 I'm gonna trust yours. 2:07:51.520 --> 2:07:52.960 I'm gonna keep it a break. I learned this ship 2:07:53.040 --> 2:07:57.760 long time ago, at nine years old. My grandma said, Yeah, 2:07:57.840 --> 2:07:59.920 don't come in the house for the lights. Come on, 2:08:00.160 --> 2:08:02.480 whoop your ass on the light, don't come on. I'm 2:08:02.640 --> 2:08:04.360 stay out five o'clock in the morning. The same ship. 2:08:04.360 --> 2:08:05.920 It's the same ass. 2:08:05.920 --> 2:08:07.440 Whipping basically pretty much. 2:08:08.000 --> 2:08:10.720 So basically, if you already feel like I'm sing, why 2:08:10.800 --> 2:08:15.240 not have some holes? Mm hmm. I'm getting the same consequences. 2:08:16.120 --> 2:08:17.040 That's what you learned, that. 2:08:19.360 --> 2:08:24.120 Consequences of consequence, consequences, consequences. 2:08:23.720 --> 2:08:25.400 That assipping gonna be a little bit harder. 2:08:25.600 --> 2:08:28.920 Five already already. 2:08:31.720 --> 2:08:32.880 Breakfast, I'm already late for. 2:08:33.560 --> 2:08:36.959 Keep having fun. It's already the same. 2:08:39.040 --> 2:08:39.440 Anybody. 2:08:40.120 --> 2:08:46.080 So, yeah, I decided gonna be a little bit more harder. 2:08:46.080 --> 2:08:46.920 It's not the same. 2:08:49.360 --> 2:08:51.440 You might get a more sterner punishment, but you're still 2:08:51.480 --> 2:08:53.280 gonna get It's the same. 2:08:53.520 --> 2:08:57.040 Sunishment versus being unpunishment for three months. 2:08:57.080 --> 2:08:57.960 It's completely different. 2:08:58.280 --> 2:09:00.080 Yeah, but if she was gonna put you on punished me, 2:09:00.160 --> 2:09:02.360 she was gonna do anyway, Yes, I might as well 2:09:02.400 --> 2:09:04.040 just hang out and just do whatever the fuck I'm 2:09:04.040 --> 2:09:05.080 gonna do and then I come back. 2:09:05.200 --> 2:09:07.240 That would be making any niggas tell too. You know 2:09:07.280 --> 2:09:09.160 what I'm saying. They want they punishment to be lighter, 2:09:10.160 --> 2:09:11.440 like if you in the streets, you know it come 2:09:11.520 --> 2:09:13.240 with this ship. So whatever it is, a nigga lay down, 2:09:13.480 --> 2:09:14.800 that's what it is. I know what I was doing 2:09:15.000 --> 2:09:17.840 getting money. Now, Niggas going that motherfuck like it wasn't 2:09:17.880 --> 2:09:20.520 really like that convinced theyself that they ain't really say 2:09:20.560 --> 2:09:22.480 all dope, they ain't really rock nobody. They ain't really 2:09:22.600 --> 2:09:30.200 kill nobody. You did accountability man self self accountability man 2:09:30.280 --> 2:09:31.720 like niggas. Niggas don't have that. 2:09:32.600 --> 2:09:34.000 Niggas don't have self accountability. 2:09:34.080 --> 2:09:36.600 Niggas don't have no type of accountability. So you feel 2:09:36.640 --> 2:09:38.200 like you can wig out everything. I don't feel like 2:09:38.200 --> 2:09:39.640 I can wig out a ship. I'm caught on call. 2:09:40.160 --> 2:09:43.560 What's the consequences? That's true. 2:09:44.320 --> 2:09:45.720 That's facts, big facts. 2:09:47.880 --> 2:09:49.800 Whatever we're gonna do, you ain't gonna fuck me no more? 2:09:49.840 --> 2:09:50.120 All right? 2:09:50.240 --> 2:09:51.880 Cool? I knew that that was I knew that was 2:09:51.920 --> 2:09:55.720 the risk that I took when I did that. In 2:09:55.760 --> 2:09:58.400 the boooo nose had the boo who every time it's 2:09:58.440 --> 2:10:01.040 in me. I'm gonna keep doing this. Whatever I did 2:10:01.120 --> 2:10:02.440 to make you mad, that's who I am. So you 2:10:02.560 --> 2:10:04.720 gotta trust to stay and leave. I'm gonna fuck who 2:10:04.760 --> 2:10:15.240 you is. Go ahead what you've been saying to say 2:10:16.480 --> 2:10:16.880 who they are? 2:10:17.000 --> 2:10:18.760 You said that niggas was who they was when they 2:10:18.840 --> 2:10:20.840 got here, because he just said how it was supposed 2:10:20.840 --> 2:10:21.160 to change. 2:10:21.200 --> 2:10:22.960 Niggas ain't changing because they are what they are, though, 2:10:23.040 --> 2:10:23.320 thank you. 2:10:24.040 --> 2:10:25.040 I just want to make. 2:10:27.320 --> 2:10:29.240 You and wait for the change. If you know your 2:10:29.520 --> 2:10:30.200 ain't gonna change. 2:10:30.280 --> 2:10:32.200 No, trust me that I'm gonna be more careful. 2:10:32.400 --> 2:10:35.080 Okay, got it? More careful cheating, that's what. That's what 2:10:35.120 --> 2:10:36.680 we're waiting for him to be more careful. 2:10:36.960 --> 2:10:38.440 Trust me. Now I'm gonna get an I'm gonna get 2:10:38.440 --> 2:10:41.360 another phone cause I know you like to check because 2:10:41.360 --> 2:10:44.440 the nigga is who he is, Like y'all gonna keep saying, 2:10:45.200 --> 2:10:48.040 name that nigga that you've seen do the ship that 2:10:48.120 --> 2:10:50.280 y'all want a nigga to do. Name in your life? 2:10:50.560 --> 2:10:52.400 Was it your daddy? Was your uncle? Who was that guy? 2:10:52.600 --> 2:10:57.080 My uncle? My uncle was married to mym for thirty 2:10:57.080 --> 2:10:57.480 three years. 2:10:57.560 --> 2:11:00.240 But you don't know their business probably solid, that's what 2:11:00.280 --> 2:11:02.720 I'm saying. You don't know. They've been news as a question. 2:11:02.920 --> 2:11:05.200 Oh Mike got Mike got all kind of kids and 2:11:05.440 --> 2:11:06.440 aunt he might be taking on. 2:11:06.560 --> 2:11:07.760 We don't know, We don't. 2:11:08.560 --> 2:11:10.760 But nobody you said in our lives with any you 2:11:10.840 --> 2:11:13.680 know what, that's the only person. 2:11:14.000 --> 2:11:16.240 Okay, that's you're not red, that's a unicorn. 2:11:17.640 --> 2:11:18.600 They got married late in. 2:11:18.680 --> 2:11:21.040 Life, stard Okay, how long how long you've been on 2:11:21.120 --> 2:11:21.440 this earth? 2:11:22.120 --> 2:11:22.920 Thirty six years? 2:11:22.960 --> 2:11:24.800 Okay. In thirty six years, you've seen one man be 2:11:24.880 --> 2:11:25.800 the guy you've seen so. 2:11:27.400 --> 2:11:27.640 Is one. 2:11:27.880 --> 2:11:29.360 I don't need every man to be that. I need 2:11:29.440 --> 2:11:31.880 my one to be that for me. I don't need 2:11:31.960 --> 2:11:32.760 every man to be there. 2:11:32.840 --> 2:11:35.280 So in thirty six years, you ain't found that one. Wow. 2:11:35.400 --> 2:11:37.640 I haven't really been looking honestly the past couple of years. 2:11:38.040 --> 2:11:41.400 I'm focused on what in thirty four years I met. 2:11:41.520 --> 2:11:43.840 Yes, I definitely dated man. I should have married. 2:11:44.120 --> 2:11:44.600 What happened? 2:11:45.040 --> 2:11:47.080 I was too young, I was fresh out of college. 2:11:47.600 --> 2:11:50.280 Our schedules didn't really he was a nurse. 2:11:50.840 --> 2:11:54.280 I was outside. Schedules didn't match up. 2:11:56.320 --> 2:11:57.160 So you didn't want that? 2:11:57.280 --> 2:12:00.200 Then he you asked me, did I meet a god 2:12:00.240 --> 2:12:01.080 that did older things? 2:12:01.240 --> 2:12:02.960 Yeah? Then all so, but you didn't know that that's 2:12:02.960 --> 2:12:03.880 what you wanted at the time. 2:12:04.000 --> 2:12:05.800 Basically, I know I was supposed to marry him, but 2:12:05.800 --> 2:12:07.560 I was twenty three. I wasn't ready to get married 2:12:07.560 --> 2:12:08.000 at that time. 2:12:08.880 --> 2:12:10.600 Oh so what are you doing now? 2:12:11.640 --> 2:12:13.720 Probably waiting for me to call him. He moved out 2:12:13.760 --> 2:12:16.120 here too, He had a kid and never married the wife. 2:12:16.200 --> 2:12:18.960 He's a top nurse. 2:12:19.000 --> 2:12:19.880 That marilla. 2:12:24.920 --> 2:12:27.520 What I'm saying, And I ain't trying to be funny. 2:12:27.520 --> 2:12:29.440 It's like we be all having this ship figured out. 2:12:29.480 --> 2:12:31.080 But oh, who gotta figure it out? 2:12:31.080 --> 2:12:33.600 I'm just saying people, women, women have it always figured out, 2:12:33.600 --> 2:12:37.160 but don't like, what's the problem. Then, if we know 2:12:37.240 --> 2:12:40.040 what we want and we've seen these guys, what's the issue? 2:12:40.760 --> 2:12:42.120 Somebody help me understand. 2:12:41.760 --> 2:12:45.280 That being by yourself, the risk of being by yourself, 2:12:45.280 --> 2:12:47.880 that's the issue. Women don't want to be by themselves. 2:12:47.880 --> 2:12:49.160 But we want you want them. 2:12:49.320 --> 2:12:50.920 We want men to be who it is that we 2:12:51.000 --> 2:12:52.800 want them to be. But when they don't be who 2:12:52.840 --> 2:12:54.840 we want them to be, we don't want to be 2:12:54.920 --> 2:12:55.520 by ourselves. 2:12:55.520 --> 2:12:57.200 So then you just stayed with the nigga that. 2:12:57.280 --> 2:13:06.720 You don't that man, that man that with you can't 2:13:06.800 --> 2:13:09.880 feel that. Yeah, so you spake for him to be 2:13:09.960 --> 2:13:11.720 what for you? And he feel that you really don't 2:13:11.760 --> 2:13:14.000 want to be with him, but you knowing this is safe. 2:13:14.760 --> 2:13:16.240 What you spake for him to how you spake for 2:13:16.280 --> 2:13:16.760 him to treat you? 2:13:17.040 --> 2:13:18.080 I feel like a man. 2:13:18.520 --> 2:13:20.040 They don't know when you really don't want to be 2:13:20.160 --> 2:13:22.320 with them, because they be so into what they got 2:13:22.360 --> 2:13:25.280 going on, all that fucking off and ship, they don't 2:13:25.320 --> 2:13:26.920 even keep a fuck about how you feel that. 2:13:26.920 --> 2:13:27.880 They don't even acknowledge it. 2:13:28.240 --> 2:13:29.560 They don't they don't. 2:13:29.640 --> 2:13:31.480 That's why they act in the way they acting because 2:13:31.480 --> 2:13:34.760 they know they know. Guess what one thing about it? Brother, 2:13:34.880 --> 2:13:38.040 a nigga gonna walk walk on the lightest ice possible 2:13:38.200 --> 2:13:40.720 with something he noticed for him. I'm what you say 2:13:42.200 --> 2:13:44.440 a man a kid, I was once a kid with 2:13:44.640 --> 2:13:46.280 your tap so here, Yeah, I ain't know how to 2:13:46.320 --> 2:13:51.640 do this, but now as a man pasta, I'm just 2:13:51.680 --> 2:13:53.200 saying I don't want to know kind of niggas now, 2:13:53.360 --> 2:13:55.040 Like if it came down to it, you get know 2:13:55.040 --> 2:13:57.120 what I'm saying. What I'm saying is because I don't 2:13:57.160 --> 2:14:00.160 want to hurt her with my ways. You you get 2:14:00.160 --> 2:14:01.360 what I'm saying. But if a nigga don't give a 2:14:01.360 --> 2:14:02.880 fuck about her, what was shit? That what it is? 2:14:03.080 --> 2:14:05.800 He already know what he got. He knows she don't 2:14:05.800 --> 2:14:07.800 really fuck with me from what I already did. She's 2:14:07.880 --> 2:14:09.360 just dealing with this shit because it's convenient. 2:14:09.520 --> 2:14:11.320 But how long did it take you to get here? 2:14:11.360 --> 2:14:13.320 How much hurt did y'all have to get through to 2:14:13.440 --> 2:14:13.800 get here? 2:14:14.000 --> 2:14:16.680 Like we seeing the the oh, I don't want to 2:14:16.720 --> 2:14:18.520 hurt her no more side, but were not seeing the 2:14:18.560 --> 2:14:19.360 side that you done? 2:14:19.560 --> 2:14:20.640 Did order hurting already? 2:14:20.680 --> 2:14:23.760 You don't how much more hurt than can you do? 2:14:24.000 --> 2:14:28.560 But I never been caught with a woman on she 2:14:28.720 --> 2:14:30.400 asked me. I'll tell her, I've never been caught with 2:14:30.480 --> 2:14:33.160 a woman. I've been a kid. 2:14:34.400 --> 2:14:35.040 Sixteen years old. 2:14:35.040 --> 2:14:40.520 You think it's that's what relationships are built on. Being hurt, 2:14:41.640 --> 2:14:44.280 be talking about it. All emotions goes on in relationship. 2:14:44.560 --> 2:14:46.600 You got man, You got men that they probably never 2:14:47.040 --> 2:14:49.280 I know they never had infidelity in their marriage. In 2:14:49.400 --> 2:14:50.960 their marriage, but I bet you it's been ten to 2:14:51.080 --> 2:14:52.960 twenty times that they I'm finna divorce this beach, So 2:14:52.960 --> 2:14:55.040 I'm going to worce this nigga that comes with it. 2:14:55.320 --> 2:14:59.960 It ain't got nothing to do with never. Dang, that's fine, 2:15:00.440 --> 2:15:01.080 that's what I'm saying. 2:15:01.440 --> 2:15:02.160 That's right screen. 2:15:02.920 --> 2:15:07.320 But I guess what, just my dog, but he might 2:15:07.400 --> 2:15:14.320 have wed. They go through the same ship still still 2:15:15.320 --> 2:15:21.040 might as well. Every every every every relate the same. 2:15:23.640 --> 2:15:25.480 It is if you, if you, if you're on border, 2:15:25.560 --> 2:15:28.920 if you if you don't, I don't know they been, 2:15:29.120 --> 2:15:31.200 but if you on lines of divorce, and I'm pretty 2:15:31.240 --> 2:15:33.920 sure I don't give a who you is. You've if 2:15:33.920 --> 2:15:35.480 you've been married to somebody who have thought about the 2:15:35.480 --> 2:15:37.320 divorce before. Am I right? Wrong? 2:15:37.600 --> 2:15:39.080 Every marriage? 2:15:39.560 --> 2:15:41.480 All right? So if you don't, if you done went 2:15:41.520 --> 2:15:43.640 to that level, it's the same consequence. 2:15:47.600 --> 2:15:52.480 Man, A relationship is based. Do y'all have best friends, 2:15:52.640 --> 2:15:57.400 like real best friends? Like for how long? That's your 2:15:57.440 --> 2:15:59.840 home girl, that's the home girl. Y'all never had a 2:16:00.040 --> 2:16:02.880 moment of just pain or struggle or some fucked up 2:16:03.160 --> 2:16:07.000 like a bad patch between us. Yes, your best friend. 2:16:08.760 --> 2:16:10.640 I ain't gonna say that far, but you have pain 2:16:11.080 --> 2:16:14.920 or hurt. Something has happened there, whatever it was. That's 2:16:15.080 --> 2:16:17.840 that's the only way you can That's the only way. 2:16:18.640 --> 2:16:20.720 That's the only way you really that really become Like 2:16:20.960 --> 2:16:25.160 my partners in second grade, that's my partner. We cannot 2:16:25.160 --> 2:16:27.760 talk for a year. That's my partner. We've been through everything, 2:16:27.960 --> 2:16:30.600 just like rest and so you and Dave, you and Chante, 2:16:30.760 --> 2:16:32.040 you know what I'm saying, Like, that's part of it. 2:16:32.120 --> 2:16:34.640 You have to have that too. The fairy tale instagram 2:16:34.720 --> 2:16:36.400 ship is bullshit. That's bullshit that. 2:16:36.480 --> 2:16:39.560 You experienced from cheating in the hurt that you experienced 2:16:39.560 --> 2:16:41.040 from going through regular marriage. 2:16:45.200 --> 2:16:47.440 Do you think that, Okay, let's just say I'm just 2:16:47.480 --> 2:16:49.640 gonna I'm just creating a situation, not nothing. I've been 2:16:49.720 --> 2:16:53.320 through the cheating thing. Right, What if you told your 2:16:53.440 --> 2:16:56.120 man something that you confided in him about. I just 2:16:56.240 --> 2:16:58.800 know another situation. What has happened and he went and 2:16:58.920 --> 2:17:00.840 told something? When that hurt just as much as cheating. 2:17:02.200 --> 2:17:04.640 You tell somebody you confide in them and say, don't 2:17:04.760 --> 2:17:09.640 never tell nobody. I that's betrayal whatever. Right, and then 2:17:09.680 --> 2:17:11.640 you find out that he told somebody or whatever the 2:17:11.720 --> 2:17:13.440 case is. Ain't that gonna hurt just as much? 2:17:16.520 --> 2:17:19.840 Do you think about a woman? 2:17:20.080 --> 2:17:26.000 Somebody changes how you view your how your everything different now. 2:17:26.800 --> 2:17:30.760 Because yer they tell a woman, hey baby, this is 2:17:30.840 --> 2:17:32.720 my biggest fear, and you know she told her friend 2:17:32.800 --> 2:17:34.879 that she crossed you for life, you will never. 2:17:34.800 --> 2:17:35.440 Look at the same. 2:17:35.600 --> 2:17:36.280 That's what I'm saying. 2:17:36.360 --> 2:17:39.480 That can hurt, like a woman can say words that's 2:17:39.520 --> 2:17:40.640 worse than cheating to a man. 2:17:40.760 --> 2:17:40.920 Man. 2:17:41.959 --> 2:17:44.959 That's that's that's way different. So you can't say it's 2:17:45.000 --> 2:17:47.680 the same. It's the same, because y'all looking at that's 2:17:47.680 --> 2:17:49.640 a form of insecurity all women got. 2:17:50.320 --> 2:17:53.560 Women got a form of security at betrayal. Betrayal like 2:17:54.160 --> 2:17:56.160 that don't mean betrays betrayal. 2:17:56.720 --> 2:17:59.560 If you can no longer trust that person. It's betrayal, cheating, 2:18:00.040 --> 2:18:01.240 telling some ship, lying on. 2:18:01.280 --> 2:18:02.279 The level. 2:18:05.879 --> 2:18:07.080 That you can't work. 2:18:08.240 --> 2:18:09.080 It's all the same. 2:18:09.680 --> 2:18:12.400 So you steal for me what you're steal from me 2:18:13.680 --> 2:18:14.440 if I know more. 2:18:14.600 --> 2:18:17.039 I don't know why I said. Is that the same thing? 2:18:17.080 --> 2:18:18.000 It's cheating or not, it's not. 2:18:18.680 --> 2:18:20.520 That's not the same. If I told somebody your secret, 2:18:21.000 --> 2:18:21.560 I'm saying. 2:18:21.360 --> 2:18:24.320 Okay, I'm saying betrayal. 2:18:24.440 --> 2:18:25.520 That's worse. I believe. 2:18:25.720 --> 2:18:28.440 Yeah, money and cheating them could be. That's level five. 2:18:28.800 --> 2:18:29.800 Like I said, level level. 2:18:30.480 --> 2:18:34.000 But what you do, but you do understand, you do understand. 2:18:34.040 --> 2:18:36.120 That's how it's started, like it start with the little ship. 2:18:36.200 --> 2:18:38.400 So if you let level one slide, it's gonna get 2:18:38.400 --> 2:18:39.320 the level five and ten. 2:18:39.840 --> 2:18:42.320 So if you you can't say that that's not the 2:18:42.400 --> 2:18:44.240 same because you got some people that don't open up 2:18:44.280 --> 2:18:46.400 to nobody, and if I open up, you show me 2:18:46.480 --> 2:18:48.600 that the person that I look to more than anybody 2:18:48.640 --> 2:18:50.520 around win't even told my mama I possile nobody this. 2:18:50.600 --> 2:18:53.120 I told her that you and you repeated that. How 2:18:53.160 --> 2:18:54.400 you're not gonna say that's the same. 2:18:54.680 --> 2:18:57.800 You know what I'm saying, betrayals betrayal just like just 2:18:57.879 --> 2:19:00.440 like cheating is cheating. So we're talking about the physical 2:19:00.560 --> 2:19:02.840 how they say that's physical cheating. But if your man 2:19:02.920 --> 2:19:06.240 is sitting up in the bed phone boning, that's cheating too, right, 2:19:07.480 --> 2:19:08.760 So it's one better than the other. 2:19:08.879 --> 2:19:09.480 Let me tell you how. 2:19:09.520 --> 2:19:14.040 Betrayal on my face, that one is almost worse because 2:19:14.080 --> 2:19:15.280 that's an emotional connection. 2:19:15.720 --> 2:19:18.320 What I'm saying, betrayals betrayal, that's. 2:19:18.240 --> 2:19:20.400 Way I'm gonna tell why. It's way worse because at 2:19:20.400 --> 2:19:22.320 the end of the day, you directly did that to me. 2:19:23.000 --> 2:19:25.440 A nigga cheated. Each will try to be pleased that 2:19:25.640 --> 2:19:27.160 I don't feel like I'm doing nothing. 2:19:27.000 --> 2:19:32.880 To you because you said earlier if you don't know 2:19:32.959 --> 2:19:36.280 nothing about it, you know what a man is and 2:19:36.640 --> 2:19:39.439 women or whatever the case is. But when it's intimate, 2:19:39.600 --> 2:19:43.279 like some ship that they do, you confide about whatever 2:19:43.360 --> 2:19:45.800 that may be. And I'm not saying that the cheating 2:19:45.879 --> 2:19:49.960 is okay whatever, I'm just saying, betrayal is betrayal. If 2:19:50.000 --> 2:19:51.640 it's start that way, it's gonna end that way. 2:19:54.280 --> 2:19:56.720 Is that direct? Okay? If somebody get caught cheating, right, 2:19:58.040 --> 2:20:00.480 they were trying to be sneaky, Right, they were trying 2:20:00.480 --> 2:20:02.039 to sneaking. They didn't direct the funk about in your 2:20:02.080 --> 2:20:03.320 house and do all the ship you rocked in the 2:20:03.360 --> 2:20:05.720 house and call that's to you know, I'm saying that 2:20:05.760 --> 2:20:08.439 didn't happen. You went through the man phone and fed 2:20:08.440 --> 2:20:12.600 the bitch in Miami some ship whatever. Okay, cool, you 2:20:12.760 --> 2:20:15.840 had to go find that, right, But something that that 2:20:16.000 --> 2:20:18.160 we we got a connection, this me and you. You 2:20:18.320 --> 2:20:22.080 directly did that to me. You get what I'm saying. 2:20:22.879 --> 2:20:24.520 I directly did what you. 2:20:24.640 --> 2:20:33.680 Directly but whatever. That betrayal is not your phone. There's 2:20:33.720 --> 2:20:34.279 so many. 2:20:35.640 --> 2:20:36.440 You kind of delusion. 2:20:39.440 --> 2:20:40.879 It's a million forms of betrayal. 2:20:41.200 --> 2:20:43.039 You know what I'm saying, he's at Miami. 2:20:43.640 --> 2:20:45.840 I'm even talking about that. You can't hear, baby? What 2:20:46.200 --> 2:20:47.160 is he talks about? 2:20:47.440 --> 2:20:47.920 What you're talking? 2:20:48.000 --> 2:20:49.360 Yeah? You know what I'm saying. She can't hear? 2:20:49.480 --> 2:20:49.680 What what? 2:20:49.879 --> 2:20:50.120 What if? 2:20:50.160 --> 2:20:50.600 Your what if? 2:20:50.640 --> 2:20:50.879 What if? 2:20:50.920 --> 2:20:51.320 Your what if? 2:20:51.360 --> 2:20:51.760 Your what if? 2:20:51.760 --> 2:20:54.040 You Listen. What I'm saying is me and you in 2:20:54.080 --> 2:20:58.440 a relationship. Right, I'm confining you right one hundred So 2:20:58.560 --> 2:21:01.800 that means I trust you with my secrets and you 2:21:01.920 --> 2:21:05.360 spill my secrets. All right? Cool, that's what you did, 2:21:05.600 --> 2:21:07.520 all right? I went to Miami and fucked the bitch, 2:21:08.040 --> 2:21:11.560 and you went through my phone and found it, which 2:21:11.680 --> 2:21:15.920 is worse. Thank you. That's what I'm saying. That's directly 2:21:17.440 --> 2:21:20.280 and you, that's me, and you like that's that that's 2:21:20.360 --> 2:21:22.680 me doing some third party shit, ain't I'm hoping you 2:21:22.720 --> 2:21:25.320 don't find out this. You get what I'm saying. I'm 2:21:25.320 --> 2:21:28.400 trying to be sneaky. This is directly me being vulnerable 2:21:28.440 --> 2:21:30.680 to you telling you my business. And you win. Now 2:21:30.720 --> 2:21:32.040 if you go, if you if you went and did 2:21:32.120 --> 2:21:33.960 something else behind my back that I did not like you, 2:21:33.959 --> 2:21:35.760 ain't gotta be cheaping if you win, if you if I, 2:21:35.920 --> 2:21:37.480 if I, if I found out I am a bit 2:21:37.560 --> 2:21:41.560 script at night, I can't say that's directly to me. 2:21:41.640 --> 2:21:44.600 That's something you want to do for you. I could 2:21:44.600 --> 2:21:48.000 be disappointed and mad, but that's not direct towards me. 2:21:48.360 --> 2:21:51.920 If that's that's just a direct saying fuck with you 2:21:52.000 --> 2:21:54.520 talking about But I can't take that because that was 2:21:54.600 --> 2:21:56.680 something you want to do for you. Same way if 2:21:56.680 --> 2:21:58.960 I started business, how could you? How could you get mad? 2:21:59.000 --> 2:22:04.280 Because I didn't do nothing to you? Am I tripping? No? 2:22:05.560 --> 2:22:06.080 Were you right? 2:22:08.640 --> 2:22:12.840 That's it's it's it's intent, it's intent what we're speaking about. Bro, 2:22:13.080 --> 2:22:14.680 we're speaking about the intentions of things. 2:22:14.800 --> 2:22:18.040 Yeah, very important form of betrayal. 2:22:19.040 --> 2:22:21.240 Which one is the worst of right, If I can 2:22:21.360 --> 2:22:24.119 die the betrayal because you go in and stepping out 2:22:24.160 --> 2:22:26.320 on me and having sex with somebody else can give 2:22:26.360 --> 2:22:28.040 me an st D I can die from. 2:22:29.840 --> 2:22:30.480 I can die. 2:22:33.800 --> 2:22:37.320 Darkness the woman, the woman can go. The woman can go. 2:22:37.480 --> 2:22:40.880 Tell the niggas going, Oh, the women are gonn tell 2:22:40.920 --> 2:22:43.840 the nigga in the house and the nat the house. 2:22:44.560 --> 2:22:48.680 Ye, betrayal not every form. I don't know. Maybe I'm 2:22:48.760 --> 2:22:50.400 just not in I don't know what the secret could be. 2:22:50.440 --> 2:22:51.240 That could be the secret. 2:22:51.320 --> 2:22:53.400 That's why you ain't got it safe up in the 2:22:53.480 --> 2:22:54.480 house and the safe. 2:22:55.240 --> 2:22:57.400 But you're not supposed to go have unprotected sex with 2:22:57.480 --> 2:23:02.200 bitches either. You shouldn't been it shouldn't be unprotected at all. 2:23:02.280 --> 2:23:03.320 I agree both of them. 2:23:03.400 --> 2:23:05.480 Both of them are saying is like. 2:23:07.280 --> 2:23:10.599 You're gonna be the fuck his trust up completely. 2:23:11.240 --> 2:23:14.040 That's like saying, go about it. It's already hard for 2:23:14.160 --> 2:23:15.960 me and to open up those you're not I don't like. 2:23:18.280 --> 2:23:21.320 But I still feel like gene is not the worst thing. 2:23:21.400 --> 2:23:23.360 I'm not saying it's an okay thing. I'm just saying, 2:23:23.360 --> 2:23:26.640 it's not the worst the worst because if you have somebody, 2:23:26.760 --> 2:23:30.440 if you have somebody absolutely that did something just horrible 2:23:30.520 --> 2:23:33.320 to you, the worst person another woman, right and then 2:23:34.080 --> 2:23:37.560 you was dating a guy and he wasn't even fucking 2:23:37.560 --> 2:23:39.400 the other woman, just hanging out with the other woman 2:23:39.520 --> 2:23:42.160 or embracing her. I'm talking about, like your op, that's 2:23:42.200 --> 2:23:44.680 gonna be worse. Damn there. You you probably like just 2:23:44.720 --> 2:23:46.959 go fuck her. You see what I'm saying. It's all 2:23:47.040 --> 2:23:50.920 different types of betrayal. Betrayal, betrayal at stuff. 2:23:50.720 --> 2:23:51.640 At gonna be able to get over. 2:23:51.840 --> 2:23:53.400 I'm just telling you what the nigga ain't gonna get over. 2:23:53.560 --> 2:23:54.959 So you know what I'm saying. You tell a nigga 2:23:55.000 --> 2:23:58.240 be in because you' mad be chatting to you ja crime, God, 2:23:58.400 --> 2:24:05.440 damn you mad? And you mad? How you mad? Now? 2:24:05.480 --> 2:24:07.440 You let me know that I'm alone because all I 2:24:07.520 --> 2:24:07.920 had was you. 2:24:07.920 --> 2:24:09.520 You know how that feel? 2:24:10.400 --> 2:24:12.920 Mm hm. Nigga't gonna give a fuck by nothing after 2:24:13.160 --> 2:24:15.440 dealing with you no more because you just showed me 2:24:16.200 --> 2:24:19.240 that I let my guard down because I'm a defensive nigga. 2:24:19.480 --> 2:24:21.440 I let my guard down because your pretty face. 2:24:21.480 --> 2:24:21.880 I love you. 2:24:22.040 --> 2:24:23.600 I take care of you take care of me wo 2:24:24.120 --> 2:24:25.960 and then you do that, how do we come back 2:24:26.000 --> 2:24:28.200 from that? I guess it's the same thing. 2:24:29.320 --> 2:24:31.039 Yeah, so now my safe space is gone. 2:24:31.840 --> 2:24:35.320 Yeah so, but a nigga again, it's the same thing 2:24:35.360 --> 2:24:38.840 with cheenas women words words, this ship hit the same. 2:24:38.920 --> 2:24:41.960 That's all y'all know. Like a woman will try to say, well, 2:24:42.080 --> 2:24:44.080 it wasn't that bad. How the fuck you gonna tell me? 2:24:44.120 --> 2:24:44.960 What was that bad to me? 2:24:48.920 --> 2:24:50.640 Yep? That's what men be saying, cheating. 2:24:51.280 --> 2:24:53.160 No, it don't matter what it wasn't that bad yep, 2:24:53.840 --> 2:24:57.640 because because like that exactly how you're gonna tell her, 2:24:58.200 --> 2:24:59.080 wasn't that bad to her? 2:24:59.160 --> 2:24:59.880 How you don't me? 2:25:00.160 --> 2:25:02.000 Was not that bad that you hurt my feelings? 2:25:02.240 --> 2:25:05.400 Anna? But the nigga, once your nigga tell you a 2:25:05.440 --> 2:25:07.040 nigga get often get the funk on, and now you 2:25:07.080 --> 2:25:08.720 want to stay because because you aren't like the person, 2:25:09.240 --> 2:25:11.120 the nigga still be a man about live with it. 2:25:11.200 --> 2:25:11.400 Go on. 2:25:11.520 --> 2:25:13.600 Then ain't nobody saying that? 2:25:15.720 --> 2:25:17.840 Say no, but it's action showed you that because he 2:25:17.920 --> 2:25:19.720 do it again? What are you talking about? 2:25:19.879 --> 2:25:22.280 Yeah that I agree with its action, show you that 2:25:23.040 --> 2:25:23.520 I agree. 2:25:24.040 --> 2:25:26.280 Two three months I got down here me and baby together, 2:25:26.520 --> 2:25:27.800 one with baby with babe. 2:25:27.800 --> 2:25:27.920 Bro. 2:25:28.280 --> 2:25:29.720 Here, let me hit you back. Bro we fina go. 2:25:29.760 --> 2:25:34.640 We been sore, that ship dow down. He backed them. Yeah, 2:25:36.000 --> 2:25:38.000 so his actions show you he don't give a fuck. 2:25:38.040 --> 2:25:39.400 He just gave a fuck that you found out. 2:25:41.680 --> 2:25:42.959 So what's the more of the story, honey. 2:25:44.120 --> 2:25:50.000 More The story is protect your feelings, don't date niggas 2:25:50.040 --> 2:25:52.840 in jail, You're gonna be changed again in the year, 2:25:53.720 --> 2:25:54.959 and don't fuck with bab. 2:25:58.040 --> 2:26:01.600 And scream and scream just to media. 2:26:01.840 --> 2:26:06.280 Media feel like the moral of the story is women 2:26:06.360 --> 2:26:09.200 are delusion. It could be all so simple because niggas 2:26:09.200 --> 2:26:09.920 is so simple, bro. 2:26:11.560 --> 2:26:15.560 So what a mean peace? Like, realistic, realistic, logical. 2:26:17.480 --> 2:26:18.240 Most of them, I know they. 2:26:18.280 --> 2:26:22.120 Logical, delusion or emotional? What is it delusion or emotional? 2:26:22.560 --> 2:26:23.880 What is niggas hang out at? 2:26:25.600 --> 2:26:27.600 They're like got it like figure it out? 2:26:27.720 --> 2:26:31.400 Like it ain't even figured out, it's bro. It's listen 2:26:33.360 --> 2:26:37.560 y'all saying, ain't gonna bring it out on well the ship. 2:26:37.640 --> 2:26:38.960 She's saying, I just tried to put you out in 2:26:39.000 --> 2:26:41.640 the ship. She's saying, ain't gonna bring it out. No, nigga, 2:26:41.879 --> 2:26:43.760 you have to bring that side out of a niggacause 2:26:43.800 --> 2:26:46.200 off the rip, they don't trust nigga's heartbreak comes from 2:26:46.240 --> 2:26:50.400 their mama. First watch nigga's heart be broken off the 2:26:50.480 --> 2:26:53.119 rip coming in this bitch. So she thinking, it ain't 2:26:53.120 --> 2:26:54.200 that bad if I tell you my secret. W And 2:26:54.200 --> 2:26:55.760 I couldn't even tell my mama my secrets. I couldn't 2:26:55.760 --> 2:26:58.080 even tell my sister my secrets. So now I finally 2:26:58.120 --> 2:27:00.640 met somebody that I'm that vulnerable with and you tell me, Hey, 2:27:00.760 --> 2:27:02.160 you know how many nigga I went through that. Now 2:27:02.320 --> 2:27:04.560 you're trying to meet this nigga. He already got a 2:27:04.600 --> 2:27:07.120 guard up. He already got a shield up from the rip. 2:27:07.600 --> 2:27:10.199 The age we ad y'all at right now, any nigga 2:27:10.240 --> 2:27:12.640 you meet gonna have a shield. Look, it's up to 2:27:12.640 --> 2:27:14.240 you to take it down. And if you ain't got 2:27:14.280 --> 2:27:17.520 the patient to take it down, stop, Just don't be 2:27:17.560 --> 2:27:22.320 in a relationship. That's the bottom line to it. Everybody 2:27:22.400 --> 2:27:26.040 at this age donnea been hurt before. Regardless of what 2:27:26.720 --> 2:27:28.720 what Keith like they're looking for. She looking for unc 2:27:28.920 --> 2:27:32.040 she ain't gonna have found unk. Guarantee you I have 2:27:32.160 --> 2:27:34.720 a girlfriend. You see what I'm saying. You gave up. 2:27:36.080 --> 2:27:39.680 She gave up because you like And then most of 2:27:39.760 --> 2:27:41.760 the time that women that do that, it don't be 2:27:41.800 --> 2:27:43.360 the nigga. They be trying to blame the nigga. They 2:27:43.480 --> 2:27:46.160 knowing that what they think about not you, baby, not you, 2:27:46.400 --> 2:27:48.320 not you. They know the ship that they think about 2:27:48.360 --> 2:27:50.600 in their minds not realistic. They looked in the mirror. 2:27:50.640 --> 2:27:53.200 That's what happened when you start seeing women fuck these niggas. Man, 2:27:53.200 --> 2:27:55.080 fuck the gonna be by myself, No bitch, you donna 2:27:55.080 --> 2:27:57.560 look at that mirror seeming realistically. I don't even fit 2:27:57.640 --> 2:27:59.760 the quateria of the bitch that I'm the nigga that 2:27:59.800 --> 2:28:04.720 I want. I ain't even that that's the truth. Yeah, 2:28:05.480 --> 2:28:07.480 I ain't even that. I can't even blame that. No 2:28:07.560 --> 2:28:13.200 niggas because I ain't that that's the truth. So they 2:28:13.320 --> 2:28:15.320 be fucked these nigga. The fucked the nigga. Damn babe. 2:28:15.360 --> 2:28:19.160 How you how y'all pussy connect attract these count of niggas. 2:28:21.200 --> 2:28:25.160 Poor decision making skills, poor pussy management. 2:28:28.160 --> 2:28:31.040 Once again, men lie about who they are while they're 2:28:31.040 --> 2:28:32.119 trying to get vagaina. 2:28:31.879 --> 2:28:33.080 But the nigga don't lie that you want to be 2:28:33.120 --> 2:28:35.040 outside of twenty three you had the nigga. He ain't 2:28:35.120 --> 2:28:36.080 like he was the one. 2:28:36.640 --> 2:28:39.400 We're at eighteen. We was just college. We stayed together 2:28:39.480 --> 2:28:40.720 through the whole thing. We stayed longer. 2:28:40.840 --> 2:28:43.080 That wasn't like that's still an excuse. I met my 2:28:43.080 --> 2:28:43.760 wife at sixteen. 2:28:43.920 --> 2:28:44.160 It's not. 2:28:45.600 --> 2:28:48.119 But I knew realistically, I wasn't ready to get married. 2:28:48.120 --> 2:28:49.680 I wasn't gonna hurt them. I was gonna put them 2:28:49.720 --> 2:28:52.119 through all that ship. I wasn't ready to get married. 2:28:52.200 --> 2:28:56.000 Then. Yeah, moral story. 2:28:57.240 --> 2:28:59.880 More moral of the story is you gotta keep changing. 2:29:00.320 --> 2:29:05.360 You got you gotta keep growing and elevating. You know what, 2:29:05.760 --> 2:29:08.440 elevate your man be realistic, like that's the more. That's 2:29:08.480 --> 2:29:09.240 the more of the story. 2:29:09.280 --> 2:29:11.039 For real it can't be cloth. 2:29:14.680 --> 2:29:16.840 Everybody's story is different. What works for works for you 2:29:17.720 --> 2:29:18.800 and what makes you happy. 2:29:21.000 --> 2:29:25.560 That's completely our Gender Wars, my border story just mediate. 2:29:30.040 --> 2:29:32.760 We're not we're not stopping gender How long that city 2:29:32.840 --> 2:29:33.360 is so far. 2:29:35.760 --> 2:29:36.119 Ran out? 2:29:39.280 --> 2:29:46.160 Morel and next the next story. Gender Wars continues. Gender 2:29:46.200 --> 2:29:48.640 Wars continues. 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