Speaker 1: Big Banks.
Speaker 2: D J Scream bring you Big Facts.
Speaker 3: Podcast live for Revolt Studios. You know what it is.
Speaker 3: It's time for Big Facts, Big Bankers. Here, DJ Scream
Speaker 3: and see Kelly and here, Tamar's here, Honey is here
Speaker 3: and it it's time for the return of gender wars
Speaker 3: on Big Facts today. What's up, ladies? What's up ladies?
Speaker 3: How you how you're feeling today? Everybody good?
Speaker 4: Thank you for having me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I appreciate you pulling up.
Speaker 4: On us gender wars.
Speaker 5: I see, I didn't notice meaning Oh yeah, tricky.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don step into some ship.
Speaker 1: I thought were talking about.
Speaker 4: Her gender wars.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Before we score, we've been really keeping score. We just
Speaker 3: ain't been getting nowhere with this ship.
Speaker 1: We try to figure out how to fix it.
Speaker 3: Oh, let's start it with this. Are men more emotional
Speaker 3: than women in y'all experience? In you'all opinion?
Speaker 5: Privately, I'm gonna say yes.
Speaker 3: Privately.
Speaker 4: I think it depends on how much a nigga buckle you.
Speaker 4: That's a good way to put it, because they'll be
Speaker 4: more likely to show the emotions that they can. I
Speaker 4: think that.
Speaker 6: Women are more reactive, and we're more likely to say
Speaker 6: how we feel right in that moment where men, uh,
Speaker 6: they'll be emotional, but they.
Speaker 4: Don't have to act on it.
Speaker 6: We have to act on it, like we have to
Speaker 6: tell you how we feel. We gotta be like that
Speaker 6: was fout up. Men will be like back and keep
Speaker 6: it emotions towards it, they just won't show it the same.
Speaker 1: Why is it that way?
Speaker 3: Why be that way?
Speaker 4: Because y'all were to.
Speaker 6: Like, you know, from beginning when y'all little, they'd be like, hey,
Speaker 6: boys on crying, Hey, hey, emotions is for girls and
Speaker 6: men up, and all those things teach you that you
Speaker 6: can't have feelings.
Speaker 3: So we did all that to say that for all
Speaker 3: these years just to get here in this present day
Speaker 3: for them to say, if that damn express itself, he's
Speaker 3: gonna go crazy and you need therapists and all this ship.
Speaker 3: So we talked wrong about that.
Speaker 6: I don't even think mentioned were band aids. If they
Speaker 6: got a boom boom, So I have different yea, what
Speaker 6: do you need to know?
Speaker 4: You want to boo? You want?
Speaker 6: That is exactly horrible, Dame dash and camera Hello, those
Speaker 6: are the type of men I've dealt with my whole life.
Speaker 6: But just saying that if men like I remember when
Speaker 6: I was a teenager, I seen a boy cry because
Speaker 6: him and his brother got jumped, and I was I
Speaker 6: was thirteen, and I was like.
Speaker 4: What then, am I supposed to do about this? Like,
Speaker 4: I'm my nigga, why are you crying? Like what am
Speaker 4: I supposed to do?
Speaker 1: That?
Speaker 3: Sounds like you shouldn't be crying about that.
Speaker 6: I feel like so respected it though, And I never
Speaker 6: seen a guy be that vulnerable, so I really was
Speaker 6: truly stuck.
Speaker 4: What do you do?
Speaker 1: I remember getting a fight with nigga when they started crying,
Speaker 1: they gonna beat your head, yo.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they thought the wood badge you're about to see
Speaker 6: when the kid that get picked on start crying in school.
Speaker 1: Go the other way.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's crazy, some anger you've never seen before.
Speaker 6: But they just not took that that's the supposed to
Speaker 6: be their emotions. Like, I think that's why pain rap
Speaker 6: is so big right now, because people men are like,
Speaker 6: oh shit, I could relate to that. I didn't know
Speaker 6: you were feeling that way too. Oh you felt that
Speaker 6: way when you're fathered out, or you felt.
Speaker 4: That way when that girl broke your heart. Damn.
Speaker 6: So now everybody in the stadium screaming at the top
Speaker 6: of the day, lungs, girl on my dreams and stuff.
Speaker 6: But now we're in a different space because, like we said,
Speaker 6: therapy and people are starting to see that.
Speaker 2: It's complex because don't know, a woman don't want a
Speaker 2: super emotional man, but you don't want a man who
Speaker 2: don't show emotions at all.
Speaker 5: So it's like, damn, like, what do you what you want?
Speaker 7: Well, I was just like niggas can't take as much
Speaker 7: as we take, but me and are super emotional like
Speaker 7: they when they get cheated on, Like niggas get cheated on,
Speaker 7: like it's to the floor, like they crying, they knocked,
Speaker 7: busting the windows, bleaching your clothes. They do way worse
Speaker 7: ship than women now for real, Like they can't take if.
Speaker 2: You're doing all that bleaching your clay.
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, he gonna stay.
Speaker 1: I mean he's just accepting that, you know about.
Speaker 4: Your business, right, I don't know men that stay when
Speaker 4: people cheat. Maybe I don't being people business. I think
Speaker 4: men hurt worse than us. They definitely, no, no, but
Speaker 4: that's because of ego.
Speaker 6: That's not necessarily men hurt more than us, Like when cheating,
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, but that hurt because they like, this
Speaker 6: is my toy.
Speaker 4: How did somebody else touch my toy? I thought my
Speaker 4: toy was untouchable.
Speaker 6: You outside, but we're supposed to deal with Oh, that's
Speaker 6: that's just how you raised that way, right.
Speaker 1: She don't want you because women can cheat in that
Speaker 1: get caught. That's the bottom line. If you catch a
Speaker 1: woman cheat, she's done out to do anyway.
Speaker 7: She don't give because we break up with you before
Speaker 7: we leave anyway.
Speaker 6: And I think a woman will only cheat if she's
Speaker 6: ready to go anywhere exactly.
Speaker 4: She's trying to figure out whose name she's ready to
Speaker 4: go somebody.
Speaker 6: We were just talking about that because there was a
Speaker 6: guy who just I guess, got arrested for holding his
Speaker 6: baby mother hostage, and then he went on the internet
Speaker 6: and released the names of everybody she had sex with
Speaker 6: in the industry, And I'm like.
Speaker 4: Bro was his name? Carl in jail for what? Holding
Speaker 4: his baby mother hostage?
Speaker 3: On the.
Speaker 4: Question was she a whole before you had the babies
Speaker 4: with her?
Speaker 6: Asked because why are you mad about her behavior if
Speaker 6: you know who she was when she got here?
Speaker 4: You had kids with this whore, and then what did
Speaker 4: you expect to happen? Why? Are you crashing out on
Speaker 4: the internet about it? Plays funk up last, suck up to? Yeah,
Speaker 4: how was that interview?
Speaker 1: It was pretty good that sh didn't number too. I
Speaker 1: like him he was talking about he said he broke
Speaker 1: it down about the kidnapping. He said, the girl called
Speaker 1: the police and that say she kidnapped him for twitch,
Speaker 1: kidnapped her for twelve hours. She got away, came back
Speaker 1: because she left her phone. Like, so, if somebody kidnap.
Speaker 5: You, come back, get your phone.
Speaker 4: No, I'm coming back.
Speaker 2: It's not that dangerous if I'm coming back, right, because.
Speaker 1: You can have big old niggas. I don't want to see.
Speaker 4: Girl. I don't know, but no, I agree.
Speaker 6: Like, all of that does come into play though, because
Speaker 6: at the end of the day, when you go public
Speaker 6: with situations, now everybody started to disack them.
Speaker 2: Like, hold on, that's the reason why you gotta keep
Speaker 2: your ship to yourself.
Speaker 5: Get a therapist.
Speaker 2: I encourage anybody who's going through relationship ships. Don't talk
Speaker 2: to your homegirls, your AUNTI, your uncle, your mama, nobody,
Speaker 2: go get your therapist. Oh oh, well, that's referencing exactly that.
Speaker 2: Don't talk about your ship with nobody, Go get your therapists.
Speaker 2: I wish I would have gotten me a therapy. Well,
Speaker 2: I always had a therapist, but I wish when I
Speaker 2: was going through what I was going through at that moment,
Speaker 2: certain things that I shared, I should have shared it
Speaker 2: with my therapists and only my therapist, because when I
Speaker 2: get over my ship, everybody else still feel how they feel.
Speaker 5: Because I feel like he's shop in.
Speaker 4: The x y z x y z your friend still
Speaker 4: even though I feel like.
Speaker 2: He's shitting the x y Z, I still like that.
Speaker 2: So therefore, everybody, let's move on.
Speaker 5: My therapist she sitting there. He she hear my ship,
Speaker 5: and we go on to the next So you got
Speaker 5: back with the guy that.
Speaker 7: You was talking about that you healed from ye with.
Speaker 1: Your friends, don't heal? See, you don't make you don't
Speaker 1: made them ops. Just like if me and you was
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and you don't turn these two against me.
Speaker 1: It's fun them forever, just because how they treated me,
Speaker 1: and now you want me to get that cool.
Speaker 5: I don't work like that because I don't give a
Speaker 5: coo cool with who?
Speaker 4: None of that don't matter.
Speaker 1: You stayed together, Yeah, your friends, you don't turn them
Speaker 1: against me. They can't come up the house.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's okay. No more Thanksgiving and friendsgiving anyway.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: It never was like it's my relationship with public now still.
Speaker 2: I mean, if you know I'm in a relationship, you know,
Speaker 2: a relationship. He only know I'm in a relationship because
Speaker 2: I talked to him about my relationship. So it's like,
Speaker 2: it's not no thing, Like I don't feel like I
Speaker 2: need to post you or we need to post each
Speaker 2: other in order for everybody know me in a relationship.
Speaker 5: No, like if you know, you know, but I'm not
Speaker 5: high in it either.
Speaker 4: How how did you pick?
Speaker 6: Like did you have one third place or did you
Speaker 6: have to go through multiple because I have therapists. Yeah,
Speaker 6: And I had to stop because I was lying to her,
Speaker 6: like so that's why I asked, because one she was
Speaker 6: like an Indian lady, and why you in my business?
Speaker 6: So like you have to find the right But he
Speaker 6: was like it was a lot, girl, I'm like what
Speaker 6: I want AnyWho.
Speaker 1: But most women when they tell their story, they tell lies.
Speaker 6: Yes, because you want it from the point of view
Speaker 6: to the victim and be the right person, And that's
Speaker 6: one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: Want to.
Speaker 5: She'd be so blown away. Now, girl listens to this
Speaker 5: ship here like exactly, Yeah, you're getting.
Speaker 1: It just like your poet.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I did say that something, she'd be like.
Speaker 1: Shout hair.
Speaker 2: If I had I hit, I shouldn't hear I said,
Speaker 2: Oh said such yep, girl, I hit him?
Speaker 5: Yo did what his hair?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Because he just pisced me and I know I shouldn't.
Speaker 2: And I was in my head like she would not
Speaker 2: approve this, but yeah, gets busy in there.
Speaker 4: Well good question and he being that did you do
Speaker 4: a couple?
Speaker 2: Yeah, she'd be seeing that like yeah, gets like that.
Speaker 7: Get like the rest of that story. No, because everybody
Speaker 7: went through that hilling journey with you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like you. I didn't you know,
Speaker 5: I ain't do a follow up? No, I did, and
Speaker 5: I do.
Speaker 1: What happened? I did?
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 2: I released the podcast and I was talking about you
Speaker 2: know where I was at that moment time.
Speaker 5: Ye, come on, you gotta text me.
Speaker 4: I ain't getting gonna finish finish.
Speaker 3: You know it's a new perfect therapist, right who GPT.
Speaker 5: I need some matter talk that.
Speaker 6: I see your point of view, like bitch, No, yeah, I.
Speaker 4: Have a note in my phone.
Speaker 6: I have a note on my phone called self therapy,
Speaker 6: because what they're.
Speaker 3: Gonna audience, it'll talk to you.
Speaker 5: It then way may I'll be talking about Oh yeah you're.
Speaker 1: Doing all that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 7: How do y'all feel about women being bread winners.
Speaker 4: In a relationship?
Speaker 3: I don't know about brand winners.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's that's a dope thing for a
Speaker 1: nigga who needs that. Yeah, that's dope.
Speaker 3: Yeah for Yeah I'm African, he.
Speaker 5: Said that's.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Expand on that, I'm saying, like if a nigga
Speaker 1: trying to figure out figure out life and he around
Speaker 1: to meet one on one that makes life, Yeah, that
Speaker 1: love him way yet?
Speaker 2: Okay, so what about beyond that? Like what if even
Speaker 2: if like that's where we meet at this, then there
Speaker 2: you get on your feet and that. But I still
Speaker 2: make more money than you in my professional still.
Speaker 1: Money, right, So you don't matter if my wife go
Speaker 1: hit the number right now for a hundred million and
Speaker 1: all that my money, right, ain't no sting is my money.
Speaker 4: So that's when you married, that's when you married, right, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I watched whether you married or not, and I ain't
Speaker 4: got nothing.
Speaker 1: It depends if I'm dealing with you man. Whenever you
Speaker 1: got lines together, coms is yours?
Speaker 4: Okay. So I grew up watching my mom date broke men.
Speaker 6: She's always been well educated, on her house, on her car,
Speaker 6: make six figures, and I think that it's a control
Speaker 6: thing for her. She likes to be able to control
Speaker 6: men and say I paid for it, so you gotta
Speaker 6: do what I got. But I also watch men be
Speaker 6: extremely insecure because of that. Like men will act like,
Speaker 6: oh yeah, I'm down, I love it, I can't wait
Speaker 6: to have a sugar mama, And they literally go crazy
Speaker 6: because they're thinking the whole men need money to feel
Speaker 6: like men, whether they want to admit it or not.
Speaker 6: And if you can't pay for dinner when you go
Speaker 6: out with your woman, she's always the one putting her
Speaker 6: card on the table. You can't take on vacation, she's
Speaker 6: always the one doing it. At some point, you feel
Speaker 6: like you're not a man. I remember my homeboy was
Speaker 6: staying in my crib.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 6: He came to visit me and sign his His debit
Speaker 6: card dropped out his pocket, so my mother seeing it,
Speaker 6: so she put it in her room. Because I was
Speaker 6: a teenager, a lot of kids were coming in out
Speaker 6: the house at the time, so she just put it
Speaker 6: in the room to make sure nobody took it.
Speaker 4: He thought my mother was.
Speaker 6: Sucking my friend, Like that's how insecure because she had
Speaker 6: his debit card in the room, and he just swore,
Speaker 6: men without money are not fine, like do not.
Speaker 4: Because he was trying to and they just can't. They can't.
Speaker 6: They don't feel like they deserve it. He just kept
Speaker 6: trying to figure out why she picked me, Why she
Speaker 6: picked me? If I can't do nothing?
Speaker 4: Why me?
Speaker 1: Why me?
Speaker 4: I've seen this man, grown ass man crying in front
Speaker 4: of my house with im. It's because he was Spanish
Speaker 4: and couldn't speak Spanish. So that's what started.
Speaker 1: He was Spanish.
Speaker 4: And couldn't speak Spanish, and I think that's what started.
Speaker 6: Spanish people sometimes, sorry, y'all that don't speak Spanish be
Speaker 6: a little insecure, especially if like your mom speaks it
Speaker 6: and you don't speak. And then they I grew up
Speaker 6: in Spanish Harlem. They's running around, all the people sitting
Speaker 6: there and you don't know to talk about. I think
Speaker 6: that's where it all started.
Speaker 2: And then yeah, just when I went to New York,
Speaker 2: the women there, like when I went out to the
Speaker 2: clubs and all that stuff.
Speaker 5: They were not inviting.
Speaker 2: It's it's like I'm from South Florida, so when you
Speaker 2: come to South Florida, Like the girl is just like
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, they gonna exactly where.
Speaker 5: I was like, damn, like.
Speaker 4: Invited this bitch and who knows?
Speaker 5: Why are you mad?
Speaker 4: So they said hot to me and I was like,
Speaker 4: do I know you? Like why are you saying hot
Speaker 4: to me?
Speaker 6: Like the girls in Atlanta are so nice, Like they
Speaker 6: was like, hey, sit down, here's a seat.
Speaker 3: In New York.
Speaker 4: They like who this bitch with?
Speaker 7: And you girls probably lived in Atlanta, but they weren't
Speaker 7: from Atlanta.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, weird.
Speaker 7: Because they it's like they only they flocked to you
Speaker 7: once you got something going on. But like if you
Speaker 7: just like somewhere and you like genuinely nice to them, Hey,
Speaker 7: how y'all doing?
Speaker 4: They you're a mad ass bitch.
Speaker 5: So you know, if you look if you look good,
Speaker 5: they nice to you. If you don't look like then
Speaker 5: they like they just don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she's saying it's the opposite.
Speaker 7: They got us know, like your followers, they know like
Speaker 7: what you got going on? Like you gotta be like
Speaker 7: known for vishes to like even just be nice. Other
Speaker 7: than that they not you meet like a couple of
Speaker 7: real bitches that I hey K, but it's not like
Speaker 7: majority what you got going on?
Speaker 4: How they could be from your Chicago girl, which is
Speaker 4: what up?
Speaker 2: Like how you doing?
Speaker 4: Like you know, females not really like that at the left.
Speaker 1: So why y'all still hear it?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 4: I don't care rich here in my house.
Speaker 5: I started coming outside when it made sense.
Speaker 4: I'm just not sad. I've been here almost three years.
Speaker 1: Here What made y'all choose?
Speaker 7: I always wanted to live in Atlanta always. I used
Speaker 7: to love Allen. I used to come down here all
Speaker 7: the time, like Atlanta, Like so I like to Somel's
Speaker 7: and I'm like, it's time for me to go.
Speaker 4: Let me go in here and go home. This is
Speaker 4: my home.
Speaker 6: I wanted to move out my mom's house and I
Speaker 6: went apartment hunting in New York and they were charging
Speaker 6: three thousand dollars for shoe boxes and walk ups and
Speaker 6: crackheads in the hallway, and I was like, who the.
Speaker 4: Fuck is living here? I never visited Atlanta.
Speaker 6: I literally applied from a random apartment online, got approved
Speaker 6: and when you come here you only need it like
Speaker 6: this is this is teen years ago, you only needed
Speaker 6: like maybe two thousand dollars to move in your apartment,
Speaker 6: and in New York you need like ten k. You
Speaker 6: need like first months, last month to rent, broker's fee, insurance,
Speaker 6: you need mads stuff.
Speaker 4: To move in an apartment like that. They changed the rules.
Speaker 4: So but Dommie is changing a lot of stuff with
Speaker 4: moving in.
Speaker 6: But now the landlords played a broker's fee, so that
Speaker 6: coming out the landing your partner pockets instead of your
Speaker 6: own pockets. So before the renter used to have to
Speaker 6: pay the broker's fee, now the landlords pay it, so
Speaker 6: you don't got to pay the extra two.
Speaker 4: Thousand to them.
Speaker 6: So now you might need five k to move in,
Speaker 6: but still that's a lot. I came down here two
Speaker 6: thousand dollars, paid my deposit and my first one brand.
Speaker 6: I ain't have a thing in that house but a
Speaker 6: bowl of the.
Speaker 1: So if you had to move back there, that's considered
Speaker 1: falling off. If anybody had to go.
Speaker 4: Back home, yeah you fell off. You fell off.
Speaker 1: If you moved back here, yeah you fell off. You
Speaker 1: got to go to another city.
Speaker 4: You can't go back home. It's so expensive in South Florida.
Speaker 5: It ain't.
Speaker 2: No, I can't go back if I went back to
Speaker 2: if I moved back South Florida, which I made it.
Speaker 4: That's how expensive it is to live down there.
Speaker 1: You saying if you moved back to I moved back
Speaker 1: and moved back and go stay with your mama somebody else.
Speaker 4: Oh no, she in Georgia.
Speaker 5: If I moved, yeah, I fell off Miami. You moved
Speaker 5: to Miami, Okay, yeah, you made it. If you moved
Speaker 5: to Miami, you made it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you moved to Miami from anywhere, you made
Speaker 2: it because the roughest of the roughest spots costing you
Speaker 2: a lot of money.
Speaker 4: Bank how you feel about everybody calling like Atlanta gay.
Speaker 3: A lot of game?
Speaker 1: But that what the Atlanta niggas though, them niggas that
Speaker 1: doesn't move.
Speaker 4: There, very good point. The niggas ain't. I went on
Speaker 4: a date one time and I was a girl.
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not just.
Speaker 1: It is a lot of gay motherfucker that move though.
Speaker 1: It is like most worried, you're just dampty, Oh, it's
Speaker 1: all these niggas funny, and you got some of the
Speaker 1: niggas sneaking around with him too, though you.
Speaker 5: Know that's that that's what Cried on the Creek means.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I can't say that song on the Creek
Speaker 2: mean like but like download me Santana, why both guys
Speaker 2: so lost?
Speaker 3: And that's like the big, big fast. But I don't
Speaker 3: never listen the song.
Speaker 5: It's for download me.
Speaker 2: So when I found I was always thought it was,
Speaker 2: but then somebody else verifying, I was like, Okay, that's.
Speaker 4: What I mean.
Speaker 5: I don't supported so.
Speaker 6: When I when I the thing that messes me up
Speaker 6: the most, because when you go back to New York,
Speaker 6: you'll see two men sitting down eating, wrapping it up,
Speaker 6: chopping up and there straight.
Speaker 5: Not out here they might be dressing street.
Speaker 4: Know, and New York niggas go out with the like
Speaker 4: niggas like you you.
Speaker 5: Were everywhere me go out with their homies.
Speaker 4: Them niggas is gay. I can't even not even you're gay.
Speaker 4: You're gay. I'm not.
Speaker 1: Just a sup.
Speaker 7: With the females.
Speaker 5: Yeah, sitting at the table.
Speaker 8: They call a bunch of females and smoking.
Speaker 1: Niggas knocking the passing back and forth to their homies.
Speaker 4: Now from now on, I'm going up to niggas in
Speaker 4: the spot and accident.
Speaker 1: Ware from.
Speaker 3: Your home and two homies.
Speaker 7: No, I never met a nigga that was actually from
Speaker 7: Atlanta that gave like gave abs or makes be like
Speaker 7: real street niggas, like real.
Speaker 4: That is a really good This is the black up.
Speaker 1: Everybody moved here. Yes, you know what I'm saying. Left
Speaker 1: to but you got north, north, south, that's where everybody
Speaker 1: be at. Right east west, That's where you're gonna see Atlanta.
Speaker 1: You're gonna see Atlanta. You moved, go move head to
Speaker 1: the east side. Yead to the west side. When you
Speaker 1: see Atlanta niggas, Yeah, move yad to midtown Atlanta, the
Speaker 1: popular tourist area. You're gonna see all that stuff that
Speaker 1: you speak of.
Speaker 4: I don't be at that, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: Move to where they're breaking your cars at. That's Atlanta.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 9: I'm like my car first, the whole car, the whole car,
Speaker 9: the whole car.
Speaker 7: Look, I had a charge. It was a stick, but
Speaker 7: the Mexicans piped it up. Made it sound like, hey, okay,
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying. General, I think I was
Speaker 7: gone blew me. I'm like, I got fast.
Speaker 4: Did they find it? That sh it was crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah if I stripped, Oh how is it trying to
Speaker 1: meet somebody here though?
Speaker 4: And I just told y'all I went on a date once.
Speaker 4: I thought it was a guy and it was a girl.
Speaker 1: What's she was from.
Speaker 4: New York?
Speaker 1: But I yeah, my point, but go ahead.
Speaker 7: A lot of meeting people is on the internet. So
Speaker 7: it's like niggas be scared to even approach you in person.
Speaker 1: I know. So it's crazy. These women the day they
Speaker 1: got like a chip, like you can hold the door
Speaker 1: for a motherfucking they won't even say thank you, like
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just saying like it's just like you
Speaker 1: could say how you doing? Regularly I get on the elevator,
Speaker 1: washstand and just say how you doing? Or we're like hey,
Speaker 1: looking away.
Speaker 2: Like men, this whole little thing that's on the internet
Speaker 2: about how man should act when a man say something
Speaker 2: to them just because you're in a relationship, and you're
Speaker 2: not supposed to say like I'm supposed to be mean
Speaker 2: to a man just because I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 5: I can't say hi to you, or I can't answer
Speaker 5: your damn question how you doing?
Speaker 4: I'm fine? How are you?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 4: I'll be like I'm fine and keep a pushing. I
Speaker 4: don't care that much.
Speaker 5: But but what But what she's saying right now is
Speaker 5: just what you prove my point?
Speaker 1: Like you could just be being nice because I'm a
Speaker 1: nice guy. Now, if I got anybody, it could be anybody.
Speaker 1: It could be anybody, it could be seven year old lady.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna speak first, you know what I'm sing put
Speaker 1: out that type of energy. But you got some women
Speaker 1: don't even know how to say I'm fine today or whatever,
Speaker 1: because I guess they so use the nigga trying high
Speaker 1: let them I'm like.
Speaker 2: Or because they because men say that you should not
Speaker 2: have nothing to say to a man if he says
Speaker 2: something to you in a relationship.
Speaker 4: So what you talk to another man for?
Speaker 1: I feel like that too.
Speaker 5: Exactly what you're saying.
Speaker 4: You're supposed to be pleasant, like it's supposed to be.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you show you what being in the
Speaker 2: streets are freaking You can't show your ty you meet,
Speaker 2: like it's okay to say hi to a motherfucker.
Speaker 5: I ain't saying get all into you know what.
Speaker 4: But like you say, even if.
Speaker 6: You say, if the guy said, how you doing, I'm fine,
Speaker 6: keep it pushing. I'm not asking what about you?
Speaker 2: And no, Normally when somebody say this is this is
Speaker 2: what someone would say, you would say, hey, how you doing.
Speaker 2: You're not expected for them to tell you how they're
Speaker 2: doing you, just like I'm fine, and then they would
Speaker 2: say how are you. You know, they're not expecting it
Speaker 2: for you to say, oh, I just had this long day, nigga,
Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker 7: Everybody's always falls to reply I'm fine. Thanks, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 7: I'm fine.
Speaker 5: Thanks, yeah, Oh my god, yeah.
Speaker 6: That's I don't know when niggas is flirting with me
Speaker 6: because I think people are just being polite because I
Speaker 6: think coming from New York, everybody's means So when I
Speaker 6: got here, everybody was a little.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you find it. I'm glad somebody from New
Speaker 2: York and means that. Yeah, y'all learn people.
Speaker 9: I love New York girls.
Speaker 6: The first time, I was getting ready to three old
Speaker 6: bitches because they was looking at me and I'm like,
Speaker 6: fuck these bitches look and I will knock all three
Speaker 6: of these bitches. I can't fight for a shoelaces, right,
Speaker 6: So I'm like, fuck these bitches, I'm ready to go.
Speaker 6: That they was like, Hi, I felt so bad. I'll
Speaker 6: never forget that. Like, and I was ready to go
Speaker 6: and they just was like, hey, how you doing. I'm like,
Speaker 6: oh shit, you were not in New York no more
Speaker 6: like that. Literally is probably my first week here. It's
Speaker 6: a different it's a different cadenced people. And I say, here, so,
Speaker 6: I want to.
Speaker 4: Go back to what you said.
Speaker 5: How were we supposed to interact with other men? I
Speaker 5: want to hear it.
Speaker 1: I'm stuck in a limbo because I don't want my
Speaker 1: bitch so I'm fine. I don't want her doing that either.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. So you writing, but I don't
Speaker 1: like me walking on an elevator, walking in a close
Speaker 1: place with a person that just don't say that to me.
Speaker 1: That's route of me. You get what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: then the response is like damn, but I get it
Speaker 1: though you're supposed to respond like that, you got a nigga,
Speaker 1: like banking home when people get on the if you
Speaker 1: got a nigga at home, that feel like you shouldn't
Speaker 1: be showing your teeth and all that. Yeah, I can
Speaker 1: see both sides of it.
Speaker 6: People get in an elevator and they say good morning.
Speaker 6: I say good morning, but I looked down like I
Speaker 6: don't know, I don't like get eye contact with men like.
Speaker 1: I take that. Yeah, yeah, it's the body. It's the body.
Speaker 1: It's the energy of your hello, because you could say hello,
Speaker 1: and you know she ain't going like off her, Hey,
Speaker 1: how you doing? And she studied moving on with her day.
Speaker 1: She say, if you say how you're doing, I'm fine?
Speaker 1: Who but I'm not. It's the eye contact you right.
Speaker 7: Because you're supposed to have manners and speak correct like
Speaker 7: that's mannerism, period.
Speaker 5: And then they also said were taken to somebody's supposed
Speaker 5: to make contact.
Speaker 1: Nah, but the eye contact that that lack of eye
Speaker 1: context shows that I'm nice, but I'm not available.
Speaker 4: Okay, So like you can here be like, hey, how
Speaker 4: you doing it? You've been fine?
Speaker 1: Not like that, I'm fine, good morning, and look away,
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 5: I can't talk right now.
Speaker 1: Don't to me anymore, honey. These women will say I'm
Speaker 1: fine and keep looking for more com.
Speaker 4: Like I find what about you, sweetheart? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's a bit the way we probably make
Speaker 1: eye content like I'm good, how you doing today? I'm
Speaker 1: then look this way? Yeah, okay, you keep looking you
Speaker 1: want more conversation.
Speaker 5: More conversation, okay, trying to trying to right right right
Speaker 5: right right she looking.
Speaker 3: At because they an't give your eye contact though it
Speaker 3: was the situation with no eye contact and the man
Speaker 3: still end up dealing with the woman. I'm just saying,
Speaker 3: speaking from experience, No, no, leave me, leave me out
Speaker 3: of it. I'm locked. I'm okay cool to the other
Speaker 3: man in the room, James and Kodak, Okay, all right,
Speaker 3: a bunch of mar I'm just saying, if she don't
Speaker 3: give you what you wanted, that eye contact, of that vibe,
Speaker 3: that don't mean you how many times that still turned
Speaker 3: into you handling? The handling?
Speaker 1: But you can when they read it, how they how
Speaker 1: they That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. I don't think it's no one way,
Speaker 3: is what I'm getting you. You never had you ever
Speaker 3: had one that was real?
Speaker 4: Like, Yo, you can tell a man they smell good
Speaker 4: and they be coming. I don't tell me. That's why
Speaker 4: I don't tell me. Many smoke.
Speaker 5: I've never man, I ever told.
Speaker 4: And they really be like if you walk by them
Speaker 4: and like you canna have you today, they'll.
Speaker 3: Be like.
Speaker 1: Exactly. I'm gonna spray. I will.
Speaker 2: Always worked though, but it's something that's persistent, like even
Speaker 2: if you do like we said, like I'm still moving,
Speaker 2: I'm going on by my business and your knowledge what
Speaker 2: you said and going on, and they real persistent and
Speaker 2: and now you gotta be like, damn.
Speaker 5: Didn't I just tell you?
Speaker 3: That's what some women want. They just want you to Okay,
Speaker 3: he persistent, he don't broke me down now I can.
Speaker 5: Now I got to cut your ass up because I'm
Speaker 5: really serious about.
Speaker 3: Or giving either way.
Speaker 2: Yes, So that that goes to the men. Then they like, well, damn,
Speaker 2: you ain't got to be so rude about you. Shouldn't
Speaker 2: have been so persistent nobody. But then I really don't
Speaker 2: know whether you want me or not.
Speaker 1: If I lose, it's an easy way to say I'm
Speaker 1: not available.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's men out there that don't understand.
Speaker 1: But you.
Speaker 5: You still got your friends, like your man.
Speaker 3: Don't let you have a friends.
Speaker 5: Now I gotta cut you.
Speaker 1: Not really, it ain't really respect you. So many women
Speaker 1: are going like, like you say something that's just like
Speaker 1: if if you say, I say, hey, how you doing,
Speaker 1: you said, I'm fine, I'm in a relationship. Okay, how
Speaker 1: long you have that problem? Oh? She fucked? Don't smile
Speaker 1: after that, nigga make a joke.
Speaker 5: No, I'm gonna have to cut you. No problem.
Speaker 3: Was crazy? Don't smile happy, don't.
Speaker 5: Don't don't don't you?
Speaker 1: I got some more than in the close.
Speaker 4: If you can get a girl, did we get that
Speaker 4: as now?
Speaker 3: If you're wink your fuck In fact, it's easy.
Speaker 1: Man, this ship bruh. It's life is too short. Man.
Speaker 1: We living in the matrix. Niggas don't really giving a
Speaker 1: fuck about all that. No more. People don't just want
Speaker 1: to be happy.
Speaker 5: So what what you mean living in the matrix. I'm sorry, I'm.
Speaker 1: Saying everything is botted up. This Instagram is everything is
Speaker 1: just weird now, Like so people are just living to
Speaker 1: be happy, man, people passing away, all type of ship
Speaker 1: going on, y'all. Don't see all this weird shit going
Speaker 1: on in the letty ship and everything.
Speaker 6: People aren't living to be happy. People are living to
Speaker 6: keep up with each other. And that's the wack thing
Speaker 6: about the times that we right now.
Speaker 1: My biggest fear is seeing God and he be like, bro,
Speaker 1: I put it on your mind to do it. You
Speaker 1: ain't do it because you care what somebody else thought.
Speaker 6: Imagine God at the front gates waiting for you, like Nigga,
Speaker 6: I gave you the whole game plan and you didn't.
Speaker 1: You didn't do it because you cared about somebody else feeling.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: That's real.
Speaker 1: That's the only Are you stressed about what the next
Speaker 1: person gonna think?
Speaker 5: What you're supposed to do?
Speaker 1: Do what you want to do, what you want to
Speaker 1: Because you do what you want to do, you know
Speaker 1: the next person gonna know what you want to do.
Speaker 3: Right that empty, that's what they say.
Speaker 4: Who not empty?
Speaker 3: Get it all out.
Speaker 1: I'm pulling this ship out like mother ship. Who for
Speaker 1: the right motherfuck gonna understand that? That's just you.
Speaker 3: But sometimes that thought, no, you're right, Sometimes that thought
Speaker 3: back to the women ain't the right thought because if
Speaker 3: you go or you go down the back roads playing
Speaker 3: with the people women, they're gonna do something to you.
Speaker 3: What you mean, I'm just saying that. I'm just saying
Speaker 3: in the city, if you're flirting and elevator, that's one thing.
Speaker 3: But you know, some men is over zealous, like some
Speaker 3: men are fixated and women are fixated with taking other
Speaker 3: people's relationships that I'm just saying where we're at.
Speaker 1: I agree nobody else won't we won't want us for sure.
Speaker 1: You won't eat I won't you we cannak in the middle.
Speaker 6: So what do you think about the saying that woman
Speaker 6: should be with a man who wants her more than
Speaker 6: she wants them. M I don't know about that, because
Speaker 6: men have like men get to pick. Like they say,
Speaker 6: men do the choosing. I think the man should want
Speaker 6: you more because they got to choose you.
Speaker 3: So if.
Speaker 2: Choosing me, I'm choosing, then I don't know why what
Speaker 2: it takes you to begin with for him to choose you.
Speaker 5: You don't you don't have the option of talking to
Speaker 5: that man unless he wants to talk.
Speaker 4: To you back.
Speaker 7: I ain't met a nigga that don't want to talk
Speaker 7: about me exactly, which means.
Speaker 1: He chose you. She said. She's saying, she's saying, let
Speaker 1: them choose and then should You're saying they got to
Speaker 1: choosing and you're giving them the choice to deal with
Speaker 1: them Like, yeah.
Speaker 7: It's ultimately my decision on who I want to give
Speaker 7: my tam to. Not No, I'm not giving my time
Speaker 7: for a nigga because he won't my time.
Speaker 4: Is you crazy?
Speaker 5: I hear that?
Speaker 6: But when it comes to marriage, that's really where that
Speaker 6: base comes from because the man, the men gets to
Speaker 6: ask the woman will you be my wife? And then
Speaker 6: they have to say yes. So that's why they said
Speaker 6: men do the children. What is what is it saying
Speaker 6: women get who they can? What's okay anyway? But they
Speaker 6: say that men get to do they pick their Wif
Speaker 6: you could run around all day, I want to be
Speaker 6: our wife.
Speaker 4: I want to be a wife.
Speaker 6: But until a man actually be a wife, you're never
Speaker 6: gonna be a wife. So that's why men, at the
Speaker 6: end of the day get to As much as we
Speaker 6: don't like it, that is the reality of it.
Speaker 1: So if I'm if I'm to your point, if I'm
Speaker 1: liking you, loving you more than you love me, that
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be right. That's when you get rand over.
Speaker 1: Most of it gotta be the other way around.
Speaker 4: She still gotta love you a lot, though I'm not
Speaker 4: saying she.
Speaker 1: Gotta love you more because she's the backbone. She on't
Speaker 1: gonna keep together because they're gonna get the fuck on.
Speaker 1: It's it's it's too much of a one sided thing
Speaker 1: because like I said, I can walk out of the
Speaker 1: day and get walk out here, walk downstairs and get
Speaker 1: a queen. Now one of y'all can't do that, Walk
Speaker 1: right downstairs and the and go next door to the
Speaker 1: restaurant and find the love of my life, a wife.
Speaker 1: All she missing is me. Mhm. It's a shortage on husbands.
Speaker 1: It ain't no shortage on niggas, But it's a shortage
Speaker 1: on husband. A nigga that want to beat the husband
Speaker 1: that ship. It's a woman holding onto his leg for
Speaker 1: their life right now. She ain't lettinghim go.
Speaker 3: Hm.
Speaker 4: And white women will beat you if you're gay.
Speaker 1: So you know they got white smell. You don't like
Speaker 1: the white white woman when they get with they smell
Speaker 1: like body me, like hyena sausages.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you you dipped your toe in the pond before?
Speaker 1: No, hell no, no, I smelled them rain and yeah, swing.
Speaker 1: I got a hiking group also, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She came one time.
Speaker 2: You know, every time it just seemed like something. Come,
Speaker 2: I had a hair appointment I have out of town.
Speaker 4: You know we should be coming out. I got into
Speaker 4: hiking booso.
Speaker 5: I did specifically that I did.
Speaker 1: A woman gotta love a man more than he love her.
Speaker 1: To me, I don't really.
Speaker 4: Agree with that. I agree with a man is supposed
Speaker 4: to love you more.
Speaker 7: I do because I feel like when a man love
Speaker 7: you more, that's when he just don't make sure you're good.
Speaker 5: Gotta be equal, yeah, basically because I can't.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I got to be up here and down here.
Speaker 4: I'm just you gotta be a little bit more like
Speaker 4: because men man.
Speaker 5: Need a little got you basically need to feel like
Speaker 5: you gotta.
Speaker 4: Chase me, not chase.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love you, adore me.
Speaker 1: I can't deal with you if I don't adore you.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying is baby you, I gotta know you
Speaker 1: obsessed with me though. For me to adorn you, m hmm,
Speaker 1: for me to adore you, I gotta know you.
Speaker 5: That that's why women are choosing to be single.
Speaker 1: Hey, who go ahead, baby, go to the Tom John
Speaker 1: cruise and ship.
Speaker 2: Getting to that point where it's just beginning to be
Speaker 2: too much on both on both behalfs like it's it's
Speaker 2: not easy, it's too much. Like you want all of this,
Speaker 2: men want all you do, all this, this, this that,
Speaker 2: and the third end put up with the bullshit that
Speaker 2: he come with then women want you to do all
Speaker 2: this and put up with the bullshit that she comes.
Speaker 4: It's just too much.
Speaker 5: It's just like nobody.
Speaker 1: Women want a traditional nigga, but they want to be martyr.
Speaker 1: It don't work like that.
Speaker 4: What's the traditional nigga?
Speaker 1: A traditional nigga? Cook? I mean not cook? Come provide, protect,
Speaker 1: love you more what you want me, protect whatever, whatever? Whatever?
Speaker 4: You protecting my heart and my emotions? Are you not
Speaker 4: outside that part? They don't get that.
Speaker 5: They don't get that right, but don't get don't they
Speaker 5: don't fall in the category protect.
Speaker 1: You do forget what? Most of the time, if you
Speaker 1: fuck me cheating, you wouldn't look for it. So if
Speaker 1: you look for a baby, you hurt yourself. I didn't No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't hurt you.
Speaker 4: Niggas is sloppy. You ain't gotta look for it. That
Speaker 4: mean that shape he means the bottom look like.
Speaker 1: It's just like going through your phone. If I'm going
Speaker 1: through your phone, guess what I'm looking for, something to
Speaker 1: tell you to get the funk on. I ain't looking
Speaker 1: if I'm looking to see if you cheating on me,
Speaker 1: put a track on your car in the day, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to get you to funk away from me. That's
Speaker 1: the only way. I don't want problems. I want to
Speaker 1: love you. I'm loving you. Why am I looking for
Speaker 1: a problems?
Speaker 5: To look for a problem for it to come to
Speaker 5: your front door.
Speaker 1: He don't care about you.
Speaker 5: He didn't protect me.
Speaker 1: He don't care about you. Know what I'm saying. If
Speaker 1: a nigga care about you, he ain't finning. Let nothing
Speaker 1: happen to you, no matter what.
Speaker 4: Because even if you to.
Speaker 1: Me, but you can't deal with a nigga that's honest
Speaker 1: for real, honest. Don't ask me something you don't want
Speaker 1: to know the truth about.
Speaker 4: I agree, and don't ask the niggas you cheating if
Speaker 4: you're not ready to leave, thank you, yeah, idiot, But
Speaker 4: now you asked me some ship. Now he knows your safe.
Speaker 3: So y'all are We've had many women on gender wars.
Speaker 3: So y'all are a group of women that's not okay
Speaker 3: with men cheating because we've had women sitting here.
Speaker 6: There a deal bring for me, like I know what
Speaker 6: dog I lay down with depending on what the dynamic
Speaker 6: is like if I knew you was a dog in
Speaker 6: the beginning of the ship and.
Speaker 4: I don't like I've dated somebody.
Speaker 6: For like two years, let's say, and I knew he
Speaker 6: was a dog before I started with him, but he
Speaker 6: painted it. Oh, I'm trying to leave that life behind.
Speaker 6: I want to move out to the suburbs by house.
Speaker 4: Do it write this time? Lying the whole time.
Speaker 6: I don't really care. One time I was trying to
Speaker 6: play music and I was on his iPad. I started
Speaker 6: getting all his Instagram dms. Today, iPad, I'm not touching
Speaker 6: that ship with a stick because I.
Speaker 4: Know I'm gonna be in a bed crying in the
Speaker 4: second I open these.
Speaker 6: Short He definitely a cheating on me, posting with girls
Speaker 6: on the internet, girls giving me all this stuff. And
Speaker 6: I asked him one time, like Yo, why is girls
Speaker 6: writing me on the internet? And he was like, why
Speaker 6: are you going to look for it? I'm like they're
Speaker 6: writing me, nigga, And that literally was his thing, like
Speaker 6: are you looking for it? And I'm like, they are
Speaker 6: coming to me.
Speaker 1: They that ain't really caught. That could be a hater,
Speaker 1: that could be.
Speaker 4: A bot, not a bard.
Speaker 3: Him.
Speaker 4: He had his short off. They was in the bathroom
Speaker 4: and she was like, my dad, let.
Speaker 1: Me, let me say it. Let me say this, Let
Speaker 1: me say this, Let me say this. Please, it's.
Speaker 4: The mic on.
Speaker 1: All bullshit aside, all bullshit aside.
Speaker 4: You know, some boys on the way, But.
Speaker 1: This is for all my niggas and all my fellow women.
Speaker 1: If a woman is telling you something that means he
Speaker 1: trying to cut her off, why she ain't tell me
Speaker 1: when when y'all was, when y'all were making a picture,
Speaker 1: Why ain't tell me, befo you took the picture? Baby,
Speaker 1: don't call my phone now you mad? Hee told me?
Speaker 1: Now you're mad? Bitch? Gone with that?
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 7: When it comes to cheating, it depends on like, first
Speaker 7: of all, I'm not just okay with cheating. But it's
Speaker 7: like it's the nigga serial cheeta or did you just
Speaker 7: take a bit out of town. You're on vacation, you
Speaker 7: hear some bed, Okay, you hear some bad You have fun,
Speaker 7: but like a serial teata Like no nigga, like a relationship,
Speaker 7: another relationship, nigga, you got me fucked up.
Speaker 6: But as far as just like yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 6: like I'm not getting tricked out my spot. So like
Speaker 6: that's how I feel about that.
Speaker 1: Like it takes a team for some niggas, though for me,
Speaker 1: it take a team for something effort.
Speaker 4: I agree a project. I have a girlfriend and a
Speaker 4: boyfriend because it takes.
Speaker 1: A group effort. Like you gotta think if you was
Speaker 1: in a relationship with a dude, right, sometimes he don't
Speaker 1: want to put the pressure on you, all the pressure
Speaker 1: on you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: He might not want to You might not want to
Speaker 6: put that's my decision to make, now yours. Don't take
Speaker 6: it away from me.
Speaker 1: You don't make that hold up. But the thing about
Speaker 1: it is you knew what kind of nigga he was
Speaker 1: when you got him.
Speaker 4: I ain't commenting to no niggas like that.
Speaker 6: No mo.
Speaker 7: Like I've been in situation to well like oh it's okay,
Speaker 7: he hits it. But now it's like, no, I want
Speaker 7: a real man that loves me.
Speaker 5: If he he takes care of he do some ship,
Speaker 5: it never comes back to me.
Speaker 4: I don't feel it at all. That's just one thing.
Speaker 4: But just knowing some.
Speaker 5: Ship like a triangle. I'm never doing that ship Like
Speaker 5: that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Everybody's each each his own life. What I'm saying is
Speaker 1: you when you meet a nigga. Right, you know what
Speaker 1: type of nigga I know?
Speaker 3: They don't know.
Speaker 6: Yes, they don't like athletes waking up at six am
Speaker 6: running track every morning.
Speaker 1: Listen, one thing I'm gonna tell you how you know
Speaker 1: what kind of nigga that is because of the nigga
Speaker 1: doing all that for some pussy. What kind of nigga
Speaker 1: are you?
Speaker 5: Why you got time?
Speaker 1: What? I'm just saying? What what niggas you change? I
Speaker 1: only want to want the woman that won't me. That's
Speaker 1: what most men are like, sudn't bally damn. They're like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, do he like me? That's the that's
Speaker 1: the nigga. That's the nigga. I don't even know if
Speaker 1: he liked me or not. Now this nigga consistent, good morning, beautiful.
Speaker 3: He wants some pussy.
Speaker 1: He wants to put this nigga who don't rarely call you,
Speaker 1: so you can't say I'm some bullshit baby because I
Speaker 1: rarely call you'all, rarely answer when we first met. So
Speaker 1: when we get together and I do fuck you, this
Speaker 1: ship is the same.
Speaker 3: So that's the point.
Speaker 1: Day women think, think, why do y'all feel like it's
Speaker 1: value on pussy? Still it's not.
Speaker 5: It's not it's value on most because.
Speaker 1: What you're saying, But it's not.
Speaker 6: Though, men don't go outside and get money every day
Speaker 6: because they think it's cool. They go outside and get
Speaker 6: money every day because they want pussy and they want I.
Speaker 1: Don't know what kind of you'll be dealing with. What
Speaker 1: about their family, your family, your wife.
Speaker 4: You want to make sure your wife is good. Right,
Speaker 4: that's pussy with my grandkid. That's part of the pussy.
Speaker 1: See, y'all got a false, false sense of what the
Speaker 1: value of pussy is.
Speaker 7: Why are we just fucking somebody who shows us no interest?
Speaker 1: That is stupid, living in a matrix, just doing it
Speaker 1: all the time.
Speaker 5: Women are doing it all the time. They're doing it
Speaker 5: on stream like that.
Speaker 2: I was just having we were just having this conversation
Speaker 2: at the day about way of life. It is you
Speaker 2: literally on stream, fucking president.
Speaker 1: We're going we're not gonna speak on the one percentage
Speaker 1: because we're all one percentage in him. So let's speak
Speaker 1: on the majority, the majority of fucking because they think
Speaker 1: that's their value. They thinking, Okay, for some frame reason,
Speaker 1: her pussy is different than everybody else. So once I
Speaker 1: get him, he hooked, and that's the one that be
Speaker 1: mad like, oh this is all he wanted, baby, Yes,
Speaker 1: it's ships changed soon as I not ship changes for real.
Speaker 1: That a lot of niggas bro going to stud who
Speaker 1: women stud the same? I got stood home girl the
Speaker 1: same if they're the same, because they know they know
Speaker 1: the inner inner workings of a woman mind. They more
Speaker 1: tapped in the women. So they're gonna play you though
Speaker 1: all the way worse, beat you up because that girl,
Speaker 1: old girl, that ain't really the best in violence a fight.
Speaker 4: That's a fact. So what you what you gonna do
Speaker 4: the same.
Speaker 1: That's but I get what y'all saying. Man, it's it's
Speaker 1: fucked up these women, and it's so hard to distinguish
Speaker 1: a woman from a holy.
Speaker 4: Days But why are black women white women?
Speaker 2: Because we are black, we are in the We don't
Speaker 2: pay attention to white people like you not. Your algorithm
Speaker 2: not full of white people. My algorithm not for the
Speaker 2: white people. You're none of Our algorithm nine times out
Speaker 2: of ten is full of white people. So the argument
Speaker 2: is invalid.
Speaker 4: You know what, we can only.
Speaker 2: Speak about what goes on in the black community because
Speaker 2: we're in the black community and in the black community.
Speaker 5: It's hard to tell the good girls from posed.
Speaker 6: But even if on the most basic level of this conversation,
Speaker 6: no black woman would have been able to have a
Speaker 6: sex tape out of her and be as successful as
Speaker 6: Kim Kardashian.
Speaker 4: Well, that's contributed to her mama, her name.
Speaker 5: I mean whatever, all of that and did all of that.
Speaker 7: I do think like niggas, they can't distinguish a woman from.
Speaker 1: A if I'll do you, how can you tell somebody? Please, Tim, how.
Speaker 5: I have to check niggas like Niga, A talking man
Speaker 5: already changed Monday.
Speaker 4: I come here like a boss.
Speaker 5: I know you ain't talking to me, so I have
Speaker 5: to do.
Speaker 1: That a lot.
Speaker 5: So I agree with that.
Speaker 1: Okay, look, get what that's one out of ten, you
Speaker 1: do that one? Okay, all right, alright baby damn one.
Speaker 4: My girls on Magic City. But right this way and
Speaker 4: she's ready.
Speaker 1: That's ready, So that don't even matter what you just did. Okay,
Speaker 1: cool baby, keep your integrity. Yeah yeah, yeah, one mean
Speaker 1: the right way exactly. You're right. That's what I'm trying
Speaker 1: to tell y'all. The value is so low because it's
Speaker 1: nine to one. It's nine, it's nine holds the one woman.
Speaker 4: It's meant for though, huh, it's always men girls.
Speaker 6: DM how much you cause like y'all made it seem
Speaker 6: like y'all should just have access to pussy just because
Speaker 6: y'all got money.
Speaker 4: Like y'all, the one who put this value made it
Speaker 4: a trade off.
Speaker 2: Been like this in the beginning of time and trading
Speaker 2: women for cows, and you will change your's gonna value?
Speaker 1: Why would you pay for it?
Speaker 4: Carry what you're talking about niggas saying.
Speaker 3: Africa guilty?
Speaker 1: Like the nigga really is smart for paying for them?
Speaker 1: To tell you why? Because I ain't got to deal
Speaker 1: with it costs more to date the bitch. That's that's
Speaker 1: what it costs more to date the bitch. If I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take you on two three dates. Let's cut to
Speaker 1: the chase. Baby, what you want, it's the same thing.
Speaker 1: I gotta get my nails done, gotta give my hell done.
Speaker 1: Now I'm about three thousand. Now you want to go.
Speaker 1: You wanna do some nice ship. You want to eat
Speaker 1: the big air portout.
Speaker 3: All this ship.
Speaker 1: I'm about twenty five hundred. Luck that they gave it
Speaker 1: been five hundred. That's how that's the that's the nigga
Speaker 1: logical thousand, whatever, whatever would you want, whatever it is
Speaker 1: that you want, Listen, the price of putting the thought of.
Speaker 4: All of them now, no, that's what nails used to
Speaker 4: be forty or something.
Speaker 5: My girl said, it's fifteen hundred.
Speaker 3: Listen.
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for the niggas who got the money. Listen, listen,
Speaker 1: let me say that. Let me land know some bro,
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for niggas who I know. They've never been
Speaker 1: in a relationship. They're successful, they got the money, They
Speaker 1: rap pus, they producer, they I'm speaking for these niggas.
Speaker 1: This day Nigga loses, I'll be like, Bro, you finished. Bro,
Speaker 1: It's like, think about it. Man, you've been trying to
Speaker 1: you for thirty years. You probably spent one hundred million
Speaker 1: dollars on that woman. All I'm finna do is hit
Speaker 1: the business, give her fifteen hundred. Like she said, I
Speaker 1: ain't got to see her no more. So who loses
Speaker 1: when you add that up?
Speaker 3: Who lose it?
Speaker 1: Nigga spent one hundred million dollars on one and the
Speaker 1: niggas spend it.
Speaker 4: So that goes back to what's what's worth more? One
Speaker 4: loyal girl or any hose.
Speaker 3: It's all the same life.
Speaker 1: What he's saying, it depends on the lifestyle exactly.
Speaker 3: That's what I mean. Damn, No matter how you are
Speaker 3: where you want to hear something every night fifteen, let
Speaker 3: me say something?
Speaker 1: Is it like right now? Right? If you want in
Speaker 1: a relationship or you were married, if I went married,
Speaker 1: how can I trust love at this point?
Speaker 3: Correct?
Speaker 1: I'm already me. How can I trust that somebody loved
Speaker 1: me for me?
Speaker 3: Correct?
Speaker 4: I was just talking about that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I agree with that because I always feel like,
Speaker 7: if I get rich single, I'm staying single.
Speaker 4: Like, ain't no nigga finna come hop in on my ship?
Speaker 4: How can you trust invest in me?
Speaker 1: How can you trust? It's gonna have to damn, that
Speaker 1: be equal, right, She's gonna have to dombe the hall.
Speaker 1: What I got a hell?
Speaker 3: What you got?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: You're what you got.
Speaker 6: I think people are not dumb, like you have to
Speaker 6: have discernment. You could tell when somebody really fuck with.
Speaker 2: You, Like sometimes it's not even that. Sometimes you don't
Speaker 2: want to You want to live in the delusion that
Speaker 2: you're in like that. A lot of the times, that's
Speaker 2: what it's like. Women who think that a man really
Speaker 2: actually really be into them, and I'm actually just paying
Speaker 2: you for your How you going about your business?
Speaker 5: You're living in a delusion.
Speaker 2: You you know, you can't possibly think that I want
Speaker 2: to be in a relationship with you. How do you
Speaker 2: possibly think that?
Speaker 5: How are we?
Speaker 1: How are we?
Speaker 2: How are you even talking about wanting a relationship with
Speaker 2: me when I paid you to come here. So that's
Speaker 2: the delusion that women be living in and men be
Speaker 2: doing the same. But I want to go back to
Speaker 2: something that you said on the podcast with Kodak when
Speaker 2: you was talking about cheating and how you would turn
Speaker 2: the blind eye to cheating. But then now you said
Speaker 2: something here ago, so you change your mind, even change
Speaker 2: your stands. You called me, you was like, oh you're
Speaker 2: tripping No, no, no, when I said what I said,
Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, well she not changed. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is what I'm saying is your stinks
Speaker 2: on it kind of changed.
Speaker 5: I'm just wondering, like what happened?
Speaker 1: Like women, let me, do women know what they want?
Speaker 3: I was just about to say that women from a man.
Speaker 4: Do you know what you want from a man?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: You think so, I'm just getting.
Speaker 1: What you want from man?
Speaker 4: Okay, what do I want from a man?
Speaker 7: I just want to be a I want to be
Speaker 7: taken care of, emotional support.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want woman.
Speaker 3: You ready to settle down woman defense.
Speaker 4: But that's what I want.
Speaker 7: I want to be provided for, a protective That's what
Speaker 7: I want. I want one man, my best friend. So
Speaker 7: even if you do fuck up, can't nobody tell me
Speaker 7: nothing about him because I know him so.
Speaker 4: Well, like just a real bond. Just it could be anything.
Speaker 7: You can go gamble and lose twenty thousand dollars the
Speaker 7: win have it ain't gotta just be cheating.
Speaker 1: That's fucking up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, got a Christmas Street because your ass was out gambling.
Speaker 1: I don't think women know what they want. That's why
Speaker 1: so much of a headache.
Speaker 6: I think it changes. Like she said when she wasn't
Speaker 6: year ago, it's completely she said.
Speaker 3: A year she should not normalize. Okay, she go through
Speaker 3: all this to get one man that does all this
Speaker 3: ship and then it changes. That's not help.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me let me ask you all something that's
Speaker 1: not because I don't believe y'all know what y'all want.
Speaker 1: She said, sh cliche. That ship that sounds good. It's good,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying that sounds. I'm not saying you mind,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's it's a somewhat delusion. If if
Speaker 1: if if you got a man to give you all
Speaker 1: that and you figured them out what you love and
Speaker 1: respect him the same way. What you mean like, if
Speaker 1: you get a nigga that you figure out routine, He's
Speaker 1: a routine nigga. Could you love him the way you
Speaker 1: will love him? Man? Yeah, women get bored anybody like
Speaker 1: I hear that, hear that from women like he just
Speaker 1: what do you do? Nothing, gonna do nothing, it's just
Speaker 1: coming out I know what he's about to do. That
Speaker 1: gets some women nerve when they know what you're about
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 7: But it is the woman spontaneous because I'm spontaneous. They
Speaker 7: let's go jump out the plane.
Speaker 1: He don't want to do it, don't want to do it.
Speaker 7: I'm not even cling to him, Like if we not
Speaker 7: already having fun in the dating stages, you're why would
Speaker 7: I come?
Speaker 3: But the dynamics of ship changed. Now, you're right, But
Speaker 3: the dynamics and ship change jumping out of That's what
Speaker 3: I'm saying, and change.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like I just feel like if
Speaker 1: a woman get with a man, right, and she get
Speaker 1: everything from that man. She won'ts she don't like him
Speaker 1: no more. That's just how I feel.
Speaker 5: So you feel the same way about have you got
Speaker 5: through a way? Do you feel the same way by men?
Speaker 4: Have you got thrown away?
Speaker 1: Is still a puzzle? No, I've been thirty years. It's
Speaker 1: still a puzzle. What about you don't know what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do today? Don't the phone? But I think that's
Speaker 1: that's I think that's the dynamic of makes things interesting
Speaker 1: interesting because she don't never.
Speaker 5: Know, and then she'd be doing the same thing. No, okay,
Speaker 5: they don't make.
Speaker 1: It interesting, No, because men and women are different. Women
Speaker 1: women out, bro, I'm keeping it.
Speaker 5: For you and not answer to the phone and.
Speaker 4: Saying I'm saying, let's not act like you don't go
Speaker 4: home every night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, next year we stay next door to each other
Speaker 1: some nights like this. Shit is weird because I go,
Speaker 1: I go in and out, and she know that it's
Speaker 1: thirty I'll be with fifteen seat yard so you can
Speaker 1: look out the one to see me. I can look
Speaker 1: at the one to see you. I can come home,
Speaker 1: you can come my ship. Either way. We staying two
Speaker 1: separate sides of a cundo. But that works for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because me sitting there, sitting around you, I've been like
Speaker 1: I said, it's been sixteen since I was sixteen years old.
Speaker 1: You keep seeing me all day, all gonna run back
Speaker 1: in your head the bullshit I done did out of
Speaker 1: years ago, ten years ago. Okay, so you gotta I
Speaker 1: gotta allow you to miss me so you can love
Speaker 1: me properly. If I'm tripping, I'm tripping, but it worked
Speaker 1: for me. I can't say what word for somebody else
Speaker 1: when I try to do. If I try to sit
Speaker 1: in that house, I would be miserable because I know
Speaker 1: I don't let you down too many times. You don't
Speaker 1: let me down too with your mouth with ship, you're
Speaker 1: gonna say it whatever. So we can't sit in bullshit
Speaker 1: all day. I think, Hold no, I'm telling you, like
Speaker 1: a lot of people, because guess what if it eventually
Speaker 1: it's gonna be like Grandmama and Granddad used to do.
Speaker 1: Now sleep and saying he upstands, she's downstairs. That's how
Speaker 1: that goes. You be around person so much, you go
Speaker 1: to figure him out, and you start hating that person
Speaker 1: some kind of way. Sometimes you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But now here, hey, where you at? Put some clothes?
Speaker 3: Go?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. Now you you genuinely happy. I'm
Speaker 1: genuinely happy to see you.
Speaker 4: But it depends because some people.
Speaker 3: You deal with you.
Speaker 4: I like a routine. I like knowing what my day
Speaker 4: looks like.
Speaker 6: I like knowing that I'm gonna wake up at the time,
Speaker 6: drink my tea, go to the gym, go to work,
Speaker 6: come home, do this like.
Speaker 4: I like a routine.
Speaker 1: So it depends on what you because a woman, but
Speaker 1: you don't like your dude to have a route. I
Speaker 1: don't know you like listen, it's just like a woman, right,
Speaker 1: And I don't know. I know I won't be making
Speaker 1: no sense, but it makes sense to me. I done
Speaker 1: seen women bro be with niggas for twenty thirty years,
Speaker 1: and all they say is they tie of these niggas.
Speaker 1: You see how many women y'all see turn forty five,
Speaker 1: fifty years old and give a divorce for nothing. Nigga
Speaker 1: ain't even cheated or nothing. I'm just sick outgrew him.
Speaker 4: But then they missed their marriage because that was stupid.
Speaker 1: But they want to be outside.
Speaker 6: But that's why I tell the girls of the thirties,
Speaker 6: Go get them newly divorced men.
Speaker 4: They're gonna treat you good.
Speaker 5: Just be like swingers. Honey, ain't make nothing but relationship
Speaker 5: with twenty years.
Speaker 3: You gotta now in real life, I think I think
Speaker 3: everybody gonna have something different that worked for them. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Bro, that that's that's that's what they're going to kill
Speaker 1: gender wards today because it ain't gonna be able to
Speaker 1: be fixed because we try to generalize it. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: trying to generalize. Like most women see something somebody else
Speaker 1: with something and want that instead of wanting what they
Speaker 1: want for themselves. The don't even know what they want.
Speaker 1: They don't know what they want to.
Speaker 6: They see it and they don't know what that wife
Speaker 6: had to put in to get the results out of
Speaker 6: that man and exactly finished. So you think, oh, I
Speaker 6: want this man because he's such a good husband, But
Speaker 6: you don't know what kind of wife she had to
Speaker 6: be to get that good?
Speaker 4: Are you to wake up and make sure all his
Speaker 4: clothes is laid out and.
Speaker 7: All the time search? They want this stuff that they
Speaker 7: see on Instagram. But I'll be like that bitch was
Speaker 7: with that nigga and he was broken exactly. That's why
Speaker 7: he got That's why.
Speaker 4: He can.
Speaker 5: He cannot be broke but be broken.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of blood.
Speaker 5: I wish you would come over here and try to
Speaker 5: who I bow.
Speaker 4: Your ass in the head. You know what I had
Speaker 4: to go through. That's how I mean, like you gonna sit.
Speaker 5: You ain't put you ain't put in on me this
Speaker 5: right here, right, That's.
Speaker 2: Why you don't fuck with nobody Like no, you don't know, Yeah,
Speaker 2: but you don't fuck with somebody man and then expect
Speaker 2: for him to do exactly what it is he's doing
Speaker 2: for her.
Speaker 1: You don't do that.
Speaker 5: Because you said that you would kill her.
Speaker 4: That's no I said.
Speaker 2: I said, bo bitch, and he ain't said kill not
Speaker 2: no time about I was just maybe a little hard
Speaker 2: of it and get you beat up or something.
Speaker 5: I ain't saying.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 4: That's how though, That's why you don't mess with me.
Speaker 4: Remain for real.
Speaker 2: But that's why you like when it comes down and
Speaker 2: cheating for me, It's like, it's not the fact that
Speaker 2: I live in a delusion of land or where I
Speaker 2: don't feel like a man is gonna step out and
Speaker 2: do whatever it is that he do. It's more so
Speaker 2: about your feelings. You only care because you involved with him,
Speaker 2: that's it. If you wasn't emotionally attached him, you wouldn't
Speaker 2: give a fuck what that man do. As long as
Speaker 2: he came back and put that money on that table.
Speaker 2: You don't give a fun what he go out there
Speaker 2: and do. But because you and your feelings about him,
Speaker 2: that's why you care. I wouldn't give a fuck what
Speaker 2: you did out there.
Speaker 1: I feel like most women only care when they don't
Speaker 1: told somebody else, like I have told you what he
Speaker 1: did too fast. Now I gotta call I gotta damn
Speaker 1: because I told you. I can't look stupid like like
Speaker 1: she said, like you back with the NA whatever you
Speaker 1: went through. It's like if you if you thought about
Speaker 1: what people thought about that, you'll be killing I can't
Speaker 1: fuck with that nigga e again just because you done
Speaker 1: told the internet, told people. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But I never got I never got on the internet.
Speaker 2: I never got into it. I never got into the
Speaker 2: meat and potatoes of what I actually went through any relationship.
Speaker 1: But it's just over him. I'm old girl. God's with me.
Speaker 1: I'm praying everything.
Speaker 2: Because it's like it's one of those where we live
Speaker 2: in a time of where when a woman goes through
Speaker 2: a breakup, as she goes through a heartbreak, as soon
Speaker 2: as the first thing that they do is go outside
Speaker 2: with these niggas, go outside and party with their homegrons. No, bitch,
Speaker 2: go sit the fuck down, think about what it is
Speaker 2: that just happened in your relationship, why you allowed the
Speaker 2: ship to happen in your relationship, and figure out what
Speaker 2: you need for yourself.
Speaker 5: That's the reason why I did what I did, because
Speaker 5: it's a different thing as supposed to what we used to.
Speaker 1: As soon as she.
Speaker 2: As soon as she goes as soon as you get
Speaker 2: your heart bro, now you're outside talking about oh you
Speaker 2: with Ta and the rest of the niggas. No, you
Speaker 2: need to go figure out what hurts you. Why you
Speaker 2: let that man do whatever it is that he did.
Speaker 2: Goes back to what Banks said about butch, I didn't
Speaker 2: do nothing to you.
Speaker 5: You did that to you.
Speaker 2: You went and found whatever it is that you went
Speaker 2: and found, and now you know what you know. Okay, yeah, No,
Speaker 2: you didn't do nothing to me. But what you did
Speaker 2: do is help me understand what the fuck I was
Speaker 2: allowing and I wasn't paying attention to it.
Speaker 5: That's what you did do. So thank you appreciate that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yo, what if a nigga ever cried when
Speaker 1: he got caught he.
Speaker 5: Lied It ain't No, it's not it's not on me
Speaker 5: my phone for looking. It's not that.
Speaker 1: It's it's not your use, no talents in the wrong.
Speaker 1: But you need to be a private Go get off
Speaker 1: some money. If you find ship, go find some money.
Speaker 5: I'm not and it just came it ship that just
Speaker 5: come to you. That just can't to you. But at
Speaker 5: the end of the day, when you go look for
Speaker 5: whatever it is that you're looking for.
Speaker 2: In my situation, when if I go look and I
Speaker 2: go find something, it's because I know what kind of
Speaker 2: nigga that I signed up for and the person who
Speaker 2: I thought that I was with ain't acting like the
Speaker 2: nigga that I thought that I was with.
Speaker 5: Now I gotta go see what the going on. Now,
Speaker 5: I gotta go figure out what.
Speaker 1: When it's wish kick, can you already know just make
Speaker 1: the decisions?
Speaker 4: Sting before she looked?
Speaker 1: So, so why why look at the phone to crush
Speaker 1: your heart just you know what.
Speaker 2: Because you're feeling gone, No, because it don't be sometimes
Speaker 2: it don't be that simple.
Speaker 4: Don't do that.
Speaker 1: Proved makes you been a relationship with me and resent me,
Speaker 1: So now your relationship resent me. I ain't gonna never
Speaker 1: trust you no more. Really, man on a limb, But
Speaker 1: that's what to me is gonna be. Really ain't her either.
Speaker 4: Don't you know what?
Speaker 1: You don't call me? Man? One trillion percent? I don't
Speaker 1: trust you for.
Speaker 6: What man thinks a girl, if he thinks that you're
Speaker 6: cheating on him, why would he if you? If he
Speaker 6: thinks that you think she's he's cheating on you, why
Speaker 6: are you gonna think you're being faithful?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 4: He automatically my bitch about cheat back.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you called me, you stay with me?
Speaker 1: What makes me think you're not gonna.
Speaker 4: But right right a man not gonna about to get me.
Speaker 1: I'm a long hair blow it up for the nigga.
Speaker 1: You catch your nigga. He started crying, saying he ain't
Speaker 1: gonna do it no more. He lied forget what he
Speaker 1: not hurt? Niggas is not hurt that they did something
Speaker 1: that because you got call like that, she's hurting the
Speaker 1: moment like damn, you know what I'm saying. Damn many
Speaker 1: with you too, and get what I think. Like I said,
Speaker 1: a lot of women like to get in them spaces
Speaker 1: to where a nigga uncheated on them because you know
Speaker 1: what you get, you get about three to six months.
Speaker 1: So goddamn nigga trying to make up. I don't see
Speaker 1: this motherfucker to digging for shit to catch you. Now,
Speaker 1: you gotta be super nice about three. You gotta prove
Speaker 1: to me you won't me find me Jesus.
Speaker 4: It has May you not?
Speaker 5: May you not get emotionally involved with a man that
Speaker 5: I watched. I've watched a woman with my own eyes
Speaker 5: for years do this. And I said, bitch, I need
Speaker 5: to be a little bit more like you.
Speaker 2: What you do, don't get emotionally involved with them niggas,
Speaker 2: even the niggas she was in a relationship with, she
Speaker 2: wasn't emotionally involved in it.
Speaker 5: And I was like, I'm such a lover girl and
Speaker 5: all that fairy tale ass shit.
Speaker 4: I'm like, how do you do it?
Speaker 2: And because she know what it is that she doesne did,
Speaker 2: she like, I can't let myself get attacked to nobody
Speaker 2: because then if you hurt me. I basically pretty much,
Speaker 2: I kind of failt myself because I know what the
Speaker 2: fuck I did to you and I know what I
Speaker 2: do need the other niggas. So now I'm in a relationship,
Speaker 2: I can't really let my guard down because I'm on
Speaker 2: defense that you're gonna do something back to.
Speaker 5: Me even though this niggain't never did nothing to it.
Speaker 5: But I can't but but that that's.
Speaker 4: Where I'm going.
Speaker 5: This is where I'm going at with the emotionally involved.
Speaker 2: You only care about a nigga cheating on you because
Speaker 2: you emotionally you and your feelings about this nigga. If
Speaker 2: you not in your feelings about him and niggas I
Speaker 2: don't talk to.
Speaker 1: I'm not in my dot.
Speaker 4: That your nigga is cheating.
Speaker 5: It's not about feeling that the fact that in your
Speaker 5: feelings about him.
Speaker 1: Period and cheated on the foe. No matter who you
Speaker 1: be with, you already subconstantly think this next nigga cheat, Yes,
Speaker 1: keep it a break, yes, So you're gonna already you're
Speaker 1: gonna always feel like any nigga you witch is a cheatingh.
Speaker 4: I'm the opposite. I'm delusion. I never think my nigga
Speaker 4: is cheen on me, and that's my problem. That's why
Speaker 4: being cheated on because I be thinking of this nigga
Speaker 4: loved me, he would never.
Speaker 5: And he be outside doing everything with everybody.
Speaker 4: You kind of you didn't say earlier, you did say that.
Speaker 1: You know what.
Speaker 6: He was telling me a dream all were gonna move
Speaker 6: out here, we're doing this, and I'm believing him, like, okay,
Speaker 6: we're all gonna do this.
Speaker 4: And then when I never went back to him, when
Speaker 4: I seen the pictures on the oh, you could go.
Speaker 4: You're not even trying to be neat with it.
Speaker 1: Have y'all ever seen a woman or y'all be like,
Speaker 1: how many times have y'all seen a woman be like
Speaker 1: how she get a husband? Been outside?
Speaker 5: You know that I do it?
Speaker 1: Y'all be wondering that I.
Speaker 4: Do all the time things I don't y'all. I don't want.
Speaker 7: I don't want to that like you got you because
Speaker 7: we ain't talking about Miracle Watson.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what. I'm gonna tell you what
Speaker 1: she did. I'm gonna tell you why nigga do that,
Speaker 1: because a nigga can trust you because you honest, Like
Speaker 1: if a nigga meet a woman and she she like,
Speaker 1: I would this our this I would, I just never
Speaker 1: found you. Yeah, and niggas can't believe that all the
Speaker 1: women I can count on one hand.
Speaker 4: I mean it dumb, So does that matter how many people.
Speaker 1: Energy when you bring it, nigga like shut up.
Speaker 3: Do this?
Speaker 1: Then you like stop it. But but if you, if you,
Speaker 1: if you got one season, like well you know I've
Speaker 1: been out there's been out there too, my truck. What's
Speaker 1: at you know what? I can figure it's out with
Speaker 1: you because.
Speaker 5: I like you, like, ain't no mystery in my history.
Speaker 1: Ain't no mystery in my history. We can move forward, Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: nigga like long live a b man. That nigga said
Speaker 1: the really ship ever, a man has never been hurt
Speaker 1: by a whole. He only get hurt by some good girl.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying because you you put it
Speaker 1: passer who can't hurt your feeling because you damned there
Speaker 1: in the back of your mind.
Speaker 4: Like, I know what she's capable, But niggas also think
Speaker 4: they can change you.
Speaker 5: Don't play with that.
Speaker 7: H A nigga probably ain't gonna play with that either.
Speaker 5: I don't know. I ain't like shl I know what
Speaker 5: she capable of. Let me tighten up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me make come my best friend. We Bunny
Speaker 1: and Clyde. Now we were locked in, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, we locked in because we could we
Speaker 1: count of aligned. I can't align with somebody that's lying.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's not realistic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that ain't even realist. Come on show thirty five
Speaker 1: for that. So I meet you, you four they and
Speaker 1: you're saying I felt with three guys in my life,
Speaker 1: so they don't count none but the serious relationship. You
Speaker 1: know that, you know that that's all y'all count. Like women.
Speaker 1: If we weren't serious or baby Dad or or everybody
Speaker 1: know we was in a real relationship, that ship didn't count.
Speaker 1: That don't go towards your body count. A nigga, that
Speaker 1: just the nigga, just Jeb was a fleeing like fucking
Speaker 1: around two three weeks. We fuck he erased from her memory.
Speaker 1: That didn't happen about right or wrong?
Speaker 3: Oh, they unanimously agreed by the facial expressions. They unanimously agreed.
Speaker 5: Everybody count.
Speaker 2: Everybody count, but publicly you can you only get the
Speaker 2: ones that you know for a fact that I've been
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 5: Everybody count, whether he's stuck in it and it was small.
Speaker 7: Like it's a situation like Okay, you hang with him,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna let you know. Yeah, but other than that,
Speaker 7: then yeah.
Speaker 4: I'm not how many bodies I have nothing like that.
Speaker 1: That's to me. That's why how you asked. But what
Speaker 1: I'm saying you said volunteer.
Speaker 6: Certain, Yeah, I'm never gonna let you just be chopping
Speaker 6: it up or in the same space and I don't
Speaker 6: warn you what's going on, like you hell no, you're
Speaker 6: not gonna be Hey, that's my wife, and we like,
Speaker 6: how come you can.
Speaker 1: Meet a woman today and she ain't every woman you
Speaker 1: meet today and had sex in two years.
Speaker 5: Like journeys.
Speaker 4: Journey trying to.
Speaker 5: Like it's not possible for you to just go sit
Speaker 5: down somewhere like maybe maybe maybe.
Speaker 4: I think that's at the same point.
Speaker 1: We all.
Speaker 2: Don't even like us here, know for you Gafin, when
Speaker 2: I was on my little sid it was like you,
Speaker 2: it was, it was, it was, it was, it was not.
Speaker 1: Got a double bat, it was not. Everybody got at
Speaker 1: like he be hearting it right, so I know he
Speaker 1: ain't gave. But I'm gonna double back on that. Everybody
Speaker 1: got to why every time you meet a woman, she
Speaker 1: ain't had sex, that's said.
Speaker 3: It's always six months, it's never two months.
Speaker 4: I think every woman say that.
Speaker 3: Like every woman say either that because you don't know
Speaker 3: if I'm gonna take you serious or nothing.
Speaker 1: Why like if I meet you, if I meet you today,
Speaker 1: like the that's that's but if I meet you today,
Speaker 1: you're telling me these things in order to persuade my
Speaker 1: mind like she might be the one. I ain't even
Speaker 1: ask you for that.
Speaker 5: If you ain't asking me that, then I'm not telling you.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying. We see this all the time. We're
Speaker 1: not talking about y'all. Y'all are different.
Speaker 4: I don't know why you have these conversations different. How
Speaker 4: does this come up in conversation?
Speaker 3: It's just how too different to the two most frequent
Speaker 3: things is the six months and the soft girl soft
Speaker 3: girl era ship every female is talking about.
Speaker 8: Bro.
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know what it is. It's just
Speaker 1: no doubt you know they won't. Oh, this just makes
Speaker 1: me feel so comfortable. And I ain't have six in
Speaker 1: two years?
Speaker 4: All that's how if I had said in two years.
Speaker 2: And it's been two years, like wholeheardly in my heart,
Speaker 2: I haven't had sex in two years. I'm not just fucking.
Speaker 2: I'm not letting just got any nigga fucking up. Gotta
Speaker 2: be marriage, but I gotta been had that.
Speaker 5: I gotta been.
Speaker 2: You've been fucking with you for a hotlow minute before
Speaker 2: random nigga up two years.
Speaker 5: I'm not fucking for just the fucking fleeing.
Speaker 3: No, but you've been fucking Is it even is even
Speaker 3: talking about it doesn't even sound realistic.
Speaker 5: Two years when you don't when you got that ship
Speaker 5: is realistic ship really?
Speaker 1: But it's rare.
Speaker 7: Yeah, And at that point it's because it's for her husband,
Speaker 7: like she's waiting or.
Speaker 4: It's just for her and niggas just don't deserve to
Speaker 4: be I just don't.
Speaker 7: But she's going to give it up for her, for
Speaker 7: her future husband. It's not going to be because she's
Speaker 7: like a nigga that you like all the time.
Speaker 1: I can't say that, bro, y'all, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: can't say that you got some women that you y'all
Speaker 1: will be surprised that y'all can see that's really helling it,
Speaker 1: Ben and would they just want to fuck?
Speaker 2: But that's women, that's the way, that's the point, that's
Speaker 2: what I was saying earlier about how women have gotten
Speaker 2: to the point to where.
Speaker 4: I don't want to do all that.
Speaker 2: I don't want to all this catering to your feelings
Speaker 2: and cook it for you and Clinton. No, I want
Speaker 2: to fuck and I want to go back to my business.
Speaker 1: You'll be surprised, like, so why not.
Speaker 4: Just spend the block on an old nigga?
Speaker 5: Why go get a new because I don't want to
Speaker 5: fuck with that nigga.
Speaker 4: I don't like that nigga.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you guys, it's different, different twenty six like
Speaker 1: it's different. Hey, you want to hang out, Hey, man,
Speaker 1: I ain't with all the bullshit. Let's go to your
Speaker 1: house and get some line to go to your house.
Speaker 1: Noting else, these women are grown now. They ain't playing
Speaker 1: a little girl game, you know how the girl playing
Speaker 1: that look you gotta take me? You trying to count
Speaker 1: how much you VENA spent for you for? That's over
Speaker 1: it because they got their own mind.
Speaker 4: I think that's like forty up something we don't know
Speaker 4: about that yet.
Speaker 2: Okay, ship, I ain't fortying up and I met that,
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying if I in a relationship that
Speaker 2: that's cool.
Speaker 1: They want, and I ain't got no preliminary ship that's
Speaker 1: gonna lead to no. Well, that's what most women limonary
Speaker 1: ship that's don't lead to know well type ship.
Speaker 7: Now you follow, and that's on you, nigga, But that's
Speaker 7: not what Mentally, I still feel like my husband coming
Speaker 7: to get me.
Speaker 5: But in the meantime, folk the niggas, but you might
Speaker 5: catch your husband in that same realm.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that same, that's the same, right, They're like.
Speaker 6: The only reason why I think it's realistic for a woman,
Speaker 6: especially like if you on your ship, because like if
Speaker 6: you go to work and go home, like where the
Speaker 6: fuck are you supposed to meet these niggas?
Speaker 1: Thank you?
Speaker 6: Like where in the elevator? And like I'm wanting people.
Speaker 6: I don't date people building, I don't take people where I.
Speaker 4: Work, So like, where am I supposed to meet these niggas?
Speaker 1: You got some women that ain't got time for no
Speaker 1: relationship just because they do not have been there one
Speaker 1: Like I ain't doing that no more. And you think
Speaker 1: it's a headache. It takes too much, It takes too
Speaker 1: much of any all of my melting.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I got a nigga, I can fuck it every now
Speaker 1: and then. Cool, that's cool. You got a lot of
Speaker 1: them like that, like seventy eleven especially. I got a nigga.
Speaker 1: I know hein gay. I know hean this that I
Speaker 1: fuck with him. You got a lot of them like that.
Speaker 4: I mean, I can see that that's convenient for the
Speaker 4: woman one hundred percent. Right.
Speaker 6: You know you know that sex is gonna be pleasurable.
Speaker 6: You know you already got to boond with him. You
Speaker 6: don't got to do order being around the bush. Go
Speaker 6: back to the person you're safe with that knows your body,
Speaker 6: that you trust.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you you out here trying to got to
Speaker 1: pick the nigga you like like, I like how you look.
Speaker 1: Then the nigga dead, Like damn, you just pull it out,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, nigganna pull it out some
Speaker 1: ship man. You're mad, you know what I'm saying. He
Speaker 1: struck out and he gotta the little I'm just saying, whatever,
Speaker 1: he just don't know how to him to do it.
Speaker 4: Okay, you can't forget that.
Speaker 5: Now.
Speaker 6: I ain't funst to think that you said, Oh you're
Speaker 6: mad sexually, do what you gotta do or you're mad
Speaker 6: in general.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to shoot, trying to just pgv D whole
Speaker 1: fucking man straight up.
Speaker 5: More the story where he's trying.
Speaker 1: To regardless like whatever, we can try to be like women,
Speaker 1: even man them. Women don't get no fun, especially they
Speaker 1: get around the right nigga that they comfortable with. No
Speaker 1: that it's a man. This ain't that little boy ship.
Speaker 1: This nigga ain't no finna try to play with me
Speaker 1: like you want to be in no relationship. They fucking
Speaker 1: because I'm comfortable though. Hey, this ain't finna lead to
Speaker 1: what you think it's gonna lead to. Baby, I'm not
Speaker 1: finna play around with you and and call. I ain't
Speaker 1: even got time to do that say like that. He
Speaker 1: ain't gotta say it's IMG just showing you. He ain't
Speaker 1: gotta say that to you. If you like him and
Speaker 1: he liked you, were cool, baby, But we ain't out
Speaker 1: how I'm doing? You know I'm doing working? What's up?
Speaker 1: What's up? Hey? Can we link up? Yeah? Now you
Speaker 1: speak my lane, lincop. Whenever your change with up cool,
Speaker 1: we go eat well, we go out of town whatever
Speaker 1: we go. But we finna do what we can't do
Speaker 1: We're finna enjoy each other and go back to our
Speaker 1: lives whenever we want to do that again. We can
Speaker 1: maybe ain't even in the in the in the state
Speaker 1: to be doing that. And you ain't either, You're busy.
Speaker 7: I don't know, man.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know you change every year. We're gonna next
Speaker 1: year on perspective, this ship is different, bro. The women's
Speaker 1: a different bro.
Speaker 5: Yeah you gotta ground, but yeah you growing, you changed
Speaker 5: every year.
Speaker 1: But get what it ain't even accepting, is it?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 2: So can we just take it down back and just
Speaker 2: look back at the women who raise the women up today?
Speaker 1: It ain't even about being raised. It's about at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, when you give over a certain age,
Speaker 1: you already let your your person go by for whatever
Speaker 1: reason you did.
Speaker 3: Hm.
Speaker 1: When you give up a certain age, you have already
Speaker 1: let your You already missed your person because your person
Speaker 1: either went financial enough at the time you want this
Speaker 1: at a time, or he hurts you whatever you let
Speaker 1: him go. So now you searching for somebody that you
Speaker 1: already had. Not say they a't gonna come back around again,
Speaker 1: but you searching for something that you already had, or
Speaker 1: you search for something that's in your face every day,
Speaker 1: but he don't look like what you think he's supposed.
Speaker 3: To look like.
Speaker 1: Now you keep running to the niggas. That's that's your type,
Speaker 1: but your type is a fuck nigga type.
Speaker 4: Shit. Okay, So.
Speaker 1: I ain't speaking for the for the men the other
Speaker 1: guys that that that that of what y'all speaking of,
Speaker 1: y'all speaking of these guys like y'all want a nigga
Speaker 1: to be that guy that you speak of as a husband,
Speaker 1: but you want him in a nigga farm. You get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You want the ecstatics of a niggah,
Speaker 1: but you want him to be this.
Speaker 4: Guy, but he's not you want to look like.
Speaker 1: So you got to look in the mirror and say, hey,
Speaker 1: do I get do we or do I? Mister motion?
Speaker 1: So what about minna have motion regardless regardless of whatever.
Speaker 6: You want to have everything.
Speaker 4: Between like the baddie with the body and the baddy
Speaker 4: aesthetics and the good church.
Speaker 1: You can build, No, you don't. You ain't got to
Speaker 1: do that. You can build a bitch. You can build
Speaker 1: a bitch. Man, you got paper, you can make a
Speaker 1: bitch look however you want them to look keep you
Speaker 1: got to change. No, we're not doing that though.
Speaker 5: We change for you. He started going to the gym,
Speaker 5: didn't get some contact.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna take something away from you because you
Speaker 1: had to do it. Women want it already in your.
Speaker 4: Boy to get Bitches.
Speaker 1: Want you to come read it, bro, because it because
Speaker 1: all about it. Women feel like you still want to
Speaker 1: feel like I want to. It's it's it's it's something.
Speaker 1: It hit different, bro. Knowing when I'm walking with this nigga,
Speaker 1: niggas looking at him and mirry him. That HiT's different.
Speaker 4: I get it.
Speaker 1: That hits different for a woman. That's what women want.
Speaker 1: She want to be knowing I'm with that nigga, not
Speaker 1: only with a nigga I made made him, No, but
Speaker 1: you ain't got that. You're gonna remind him, bro, you
Speaker 1: want shipped before you may look at your pictures. You
Speaker 1: remind me.
Speaker 4: It's Corrie.
Speaker 5: It's okay.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. At the end of
Speaker 1: the day, women, it is something different, Bro, I don't
Speaker 1: give a bru. Every woman want to brag on her nigga.
Speaker 1: It's a certain way to her mama, her brother, even
Speaker 1: their kid together. You know your dad that nigga.
Speaker 4: Anybody you want.
Speaker 5: To your girl.
Speaker 6: Imagine bringing your girl to the company dinner. She's a
Speaker 6: waggest one in the room.
Speaker 4: Yikes.
Speaker 5: Now you just got the trash girl.
Speaker 4: Like, you need somebody that can represent you walking home,
Speaker 4: know how to network you just.
Speaker 2: Got You gotta just find you just gotta come in
Speaker 2: contact with somebody who's just done. He's done, I'm done
Speaker 2: living that life from that time. I want to set
Speaker 2: her down and then you just go be with that
Speaker 2: man and to the end, you just do what you know.
Speaker 4: I don't necessarily product of a god.
Speaker 6: Like, as long as you know where you're going, if
Speaker 6: you have a plan and you know what you want
Speaker 6: to do, you don't have to be him yet.
Speaker 4: But if you know you're going to be him, and
Speaker 4: how are you going to get to be him? I'm
Speaker 4: going around with you.
Speaker 3: That's the potential thing. That the potential thing you do,
Speaker 3: Potential you don't do potential.
Speaker 2: I don't know said I don't need potential. I was
Speaker 2: saying about relationship. Like, as far as relationship, you gotta
Speaker 2: just see somebody who got you.
Speaker 3: Ain't trying to do whatever area.
Speaker 4: There's a loser on this bussy.
Speaker 1: As to go seeing it too many time. Bro, some
Speaker 1: good guy, I know some real good men that nigga
Speaker 1: just can't get no woman. Why ain't nigga just just listen?
Speaker 1: No them nigga just morally men like you gotta think
Speaker 1: a morally man is controlling to women. A nigga that
Speaker 1: got something to say, it's assassin. It's like it ain't
Speaker 1: no mintal. So niggas are relatively like man, how it
Speaker 1: go like, no matter what you do, if you if
Speaker 1: you're a nigga that got got sand like, don't he's
Speaker 1: sassy or he's controlling. A nigga speaks, his mind is controller.
Speaker 1: But then you say you want me to leave.
Speaker 4: There has to be a balance and everything.
Speaker 7: I think it depends on where the woman is mentally.
Speaker 1: What do you like.
Speaker 5: The ball?
Speaker 4: Because you say no? After that?
Speaker 1: If I say no, I say quiet only God damn.
Speaker 7: But I feel like exactly, I feel like it depends
Speaker 7: on where the women is mentally.
Speaker 5: Just like you said, just like we said that, I'm
Speaker 5: different from last year.
Speaker 3: It's like.
Speaker 7: Now I need a nigga that's gonna say, hey, did
Speaker 7: you make your proceeds?
Speaker 4: Did you make it to your boxing class? Like now
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: Yeah, like I want to be lead, So it's kind
Speaker 7: of like where are you. I'm not going to say
Speaker 7: a man that can lead us controlling, I'm not doing it,
Speaker 7: but I probably would have last year.
Speaker 4: Like, nigga, you ain't gonna see I mean, ship you did.
Speaker 1: They want to lead you where you want to go.
Speaker 1: When you want some motherfucker leads you, you'll go with
Speaker 1: them blind That's a difference. You get in the call
Speaker 1: with me, Hey baby, we ain't got any where we're going.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go there together. Where we're going? What are
Speaker 1: you taking? You don't want to be leave, but I
Speaker 1: don't trust you and exactly you're getting to call me
Speaker 1: and and just look at your phone. Maybe you know
Speaker 1: I'm ready to shoot out their motherfucker. I'm ready to
Speaker 1: start their motherfucker. Whatever it takes. Were good. You get
Speaker 1: done to put some headphones on, the blindfold on. Mother.
Speaker 4: You know what's crazy is we really only gonna be
Speaker 4: that comfortable with a nigga from the streets.
Speaker 5: So it is like a full circle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you walk in the club with a nigga
Speaker 1: and a nigga like certain niggas can't look at you
Speaker 1: a certain weight and you not feel like your nigga
Speaker 1: a three like if you were a nigga and a
Speaker 1: nigga looking at you like too hard and you know this,
Speaker 1: nigga see it your sucker ship because niggas know not.
Speaker 5: I'm not taking my do even nowhere where I gonna feel.
Speaker 4: Right about that.
Speaker 2: I'm not taking I'm not if I know, I'm not
Speaker 2: with that kind of men. I'm not taking him somewhere
Speaker 2: where it be that kind of them kind of me.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that right nigga. Nigga's peaking and nigga
Speaker 1: ain't gonn Niggas ain't trying to disrepect the nigga. Damn
Speaker 1: not bad you will. I ain't trying to disrepect the nigga. Nigga.
Speaker 1: What's up? Sore all back nigga? See what's up sir?
Speaker 1: From back there? I don't want a hug and that
Speaker 1: what's up sir? Y'all?
Speaker 2: Good y'all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas ain't trying to get it confused. But let
Speaker 1: it be a nigga know your nigga ain't ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you look good. It's just I would go respect them.
Speaker 1: Am I right or wrong? Though?
Speaker 5: Right, you're right. I want you were You're right.
Speaker 4: That's why you just can't bring you around.
Speaker 1: Like that's why y'all don't want him. It ain't bring
Speaker 1: him around. Y'all don't want you can't bring them around.
Speaker 1: How can I trust you that you don't want to show.
Speaker 5: Me all because I don't know the type of places anymore.
Speaker 1: You get the right nigga, you want the what to
Speaker 1: see this nigga because he the one now it's like,
Speaker 1: nah see that you don't you don't want him to leave?
Speaker 1: Then if you get, y'all, if the nigga leads, you
Speaker 1: get what you know, you're proud of this nigga. If
Speaker 1: you if you're.
Speaker 6: Ready to follow me photos that engagement, Yeah.
Speaker 7: That's that's like when you post now you're not just
Speaker 7: posted because with you.
Speaker 1: Today, what we get? What if that's the right, If
Speaker 1: that's the right, something without paper's marriage or not, because
Speaker 1: niggana do what they want to do, pay marriage the
Speaker 1: name of a piece of paper. That ship don't matter
Speaker 1: the niggas. If a nigga, if a nigga make you
Speaker 1: feel the way you want to feel, he already husband
Speaker 1: before y'all even get married. Trust me, that's like a one.
Speaker 1: You can't become a wife when we get mad. You
Speaker 1: gotta be a wife.
Speaker 5: But when I met you, that's all I stopped doing that.
Speaker 1: Some single motherfucker wife ain't telling you that.
Speaker 4: You told us.
Speaker 1: I bet your wife ain't told you that.
Speaker 5: They tell us stop acting like a wife until we
Speaker 5: get the ring.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, YadA the boy y'alla awaken, what the
Speaker 1: name y'alla awakening, and be saying that day tom all
Speaker 1: to huh man, better not listen to that ship. You
Speaker 1: gotta be. You gotta at least a peer as a wife.
Speaker 4: I also think we need to stop listening.
Speaker 1: Appearing as a wife is Hey, I'm gonna tell you something.
Speaker 1: What a wife do that a man? And niggas don't
Speaker 1: even tell ya that a wife do things for a man.
Speaker 1: He don't even know he needed. That's what a wife do, Okay.
Speaker 1: I an't even know that I like to get my
Speaker 1: nails done till she took me. I don't even know
Speaker 1: I like my sons. I don't even know how I eat.
Speaker 1: God damn spinach. I didn't notice to my wife told
Speaker 1: me this is what I should be eating.
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
Speaker 5: What you got to tell you.
Speaker 4: He take all that.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, made him.
Speaker 4: You got him drinking green drinks in the morning.
Speaker 1: It's y'all already entertained you already if you're thinking like that.
Speaker 4: I don't. I'm assuming this is where her.
Speaker 5: Because you was like, like I already, that's that's what
Speaker 5: you gotta do. I'm just saying, like, yeah, that's what it's.
Speaker 1: But that's what you gotta do.
Speaker 5: You can't be somebody.
Speaker 1: You gotta be his everything. You gotta turn to the
Speaker 1: nigga mama.
Speaker 5: Now he don't want you to be.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no, you got the therapist. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's nurse. It's my sous, his mother, his brain, his
Speaker 1: freak everything.
Speaker 3: You doing all this, That's what I'm to go on
Speaker 3: back years ago.
Speaker 1: Look at sh you said you want him to do,
Speaker 1: you want him to take care of you, nurse you
Speaker 1: these things. That's the same ship that your name, No you,
Speaker 1: it's the same the same thing. It's the same ship.
Speaker 5: He's gonna have to wipe your big as.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's the same ship.
Speaker 5: Yeah, think about that type of stuff. That's what you're
Speaker 5: already doing.
Speaker 1: If you're already doing it while I'm up. Baby, you'll
Speaker 1: do it while I'm down. You'll do it while I'm
Speaker 1: laying down. Anything else, get cars and break my feet
Speaker 1: with the bitch. Don't she gonna gonna live, She's gonna
Speaker 1: make the hop away?
Speaker 6: Then what about girls who do bids with men and
Speaker 6: then when they come home they go to another girl?
Speaker 4: That's your fault.
Speaker 5: I was always the girl for because I can't speak
Speaker 5: on that, you.
Speaker 4: Can't.
Speaker 5: We were having this conversation a big if.
Speaker 6: You do a bid with a guy comes home and
Speaker 6: he goes another and he goes with another girl, because
Speaker 6: that's you whole to him down?
Speaker 5: What did you you expected for him to get out?
Speaker 4: And we owe you to be I'm just saying girls
Speaker 4: will do bus with men. Sometimes they come.
Speaker 5: Home and like, why you ain't got none to say
Speaker 5: about this?
Speaker 4: Because he never.
Speaker 1: You said what?
Speaker 4: No girls? Men put books on them, go to their visits,
Speaker 4: hold them down.
Speaker 1: And while he was in there, did he I don't know.
Speaker 7: She was with him before he went and did to
Speaker 7: being with him and he came home acting crazy but
Speaker 7: was gathering.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, So if I was with you
Speaker 1: before I went in and then I did a bit down,
Speaker 1: the whole bit. What did you do? Did you hold
Speaker 1: me down all the way down? It was a sneaky
Speaker 1: you got you didn't.
Speaker 4: You didn't she need the whole nine yard?
Speaker 5: She did, she did, She did every mean no.
Speaker 4: The books visiting.
Speaker 1: I respect that.
Speaker 4: Why are you getting acting crazy?
Speaker 1: You somebody?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I told you about it.
Speaker 2: I said, twenty years friends, we're best friends.
Speaker 4: So you want somebody to really like be faithful?
Speaker 1: A damn food to think a woman gonna do that
Speaker 1: though anyway, But a nigga gonna play his hand because
Speaker 1: I need you. So You're a damn food for thinking that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna think that you got damn ain't get nig
Speaker 1: You're a damn food to think up and to get
Speaker 1: out of be with you now you you look like
Speaker 1: dick on your forehead. One thing about a nigga, bro,
Speaker 1: I won't give a fuck. You gotta be a special
Speaker 1: count of nigga to heal from a woman cheating on him,
Speaker 1: you gotta be a special count of nigga.
Speaker 4: And this goes back to me and being more emotional
Speaker 4: and women, men.
Speaker 5: Men and public men are not emotional behind closed doors.
Speaker 5: When you get behind.
Speaker 1: Because women like women. These days, women are the most black.
Speaker 1: Women are the most beautiful thing that God ever created
Speaker 1: on this earth. It's hard not to not like women. Okay,
Speaker 1: so women always saying that I could be one man,
Speaker 1: I don't really. I don't really hear niggas saying that,
Speaker 1: except some of them like screaming.
Speaker 5: Keep it.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying what it is. We are animals, man,
Speaker 1: We niggas are animals. Some niggas grow out that ship once,
Speaker 1: once they get to that point. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. What I'm speaking on is once you're my
Speaker 1: prize possession. Once you touched baby, ain't nothing nothing. I
Speaker 1: can't unsee that. You take that ship to your grave.
Speaker 5: So take it to the grave. Okau, That's what we take.
Speaker 5: But we married the real bitches.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if I met you in this day in time,
Speaker 1: I met you in this day and tell me four
Speaker 1: the years old, Hey, baby, I'd rather you sell me
Speaker 1: you was a hope in your past. Like then we
Speaker 1: can move forward.
Speaker 4: Okay, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But it don't matter. Baby. You could have been the
Speaker 1: whole last week. But I met you. Some God brought
Speaker 1: us so this is what it is right now. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you God. She's doing for me at this time
Speaker 1: in my life. But what what what the question was
Speaker 1: before the first time? Listen what I had said?
Speaker 5: Then you said I said something we were talking about.
Speaker 1: I forget.
Speaker 4: Would she either be a real bitch tell I'm gonna take.
Speaker 1: It to the grave you just like right now, right now,
Speaker 1: all the ship I did in my relationship, it sudn't
Speaker 1: take She she probably have, but she donna did it
Speaker 1: to a nigga that don't live here. The nigga'na probablyven
Speaker 1: speak English.
Speaker 4: That's what I was.
Speaker 1: We take respect over anything, That's what I was just,
Speaker 1: we take respect over anything because yea, what you don't
Speaker 1: want to see me hurt, that's I gotta respect that.
Speaker 4: So do we tell you or not tell mall?
Speaker 1: You better take that because you already mind. You can
Speaker 1: tell me about your past, can tell me about what
Speaker 1: we're doing now.
Speaker 4: Okay, A lot of these niggas, that's what I heard, you.
Speaker 1: Can school.
Speaker 5: Want, but they don't want you to tell you ten
Speaker 5: years act like I ain't.
Speaker 2: Tell me if you got h tell me if you
Speaker 2: got an STD, if you got don't tell me that
Speaker 2: you the nigga did don't do that.
Speaker 5: I don't know that exactly.
Speaker 4: That's what he's saying, that you'll never be the same
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 5: He ain't one of them.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, the niggas who like to watch their females.
Speaker 1: With them, I can't. I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1: Because if you watching a freaking what else you see?
Speaker 1: If you're seeing your girl right now, what else do
Speaker 1: you see?
Speaker 4: But that's like porn. If you watch porn and you
Speaker 4: see a man and a woman having sex with your girl.
Speaker 1: But dick on the screen, that ship on the screen,
Speaker 1: not right here?
Speaker 4: Difference. So what if you watch your old girl's porn?
Speaker 1: Who doing that?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about that. Bro. This where they're from.
Speaker 5: From, I don't know.
Speaker 4: This isn't we're talking about the population. Remember you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But what those guys, we will.
Speaker 4: Just throwing out scenarios.
Speaker 5: What's just throwing out scenarios like did it?
Speaker 4: That's what I was thinking. I don't want to say
Speaker 4: that because I was New York, so I.
Speaker 5: Was keeping that they got that. That's their own freaky
Speaker 5: people be freaking yeah.
Speaker 4: People be freaking it's a thing if that's a category
Speaker 4: on one of them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like people be freaking.
Speaker 3: Go who for your who.
Speaker 1: Lingo?
Speaker 3: What it is?
Speaker 5: Goryorism? Okay?
Speaker 1: Cool? I can't say that, bro, I don't know to each.
Speaker 2: I feel like whatever people do and behind closed doors
Speaker 2: and they whether they like to be or whatever that is.
Speaker 5: That's the people business and nobody should know that.
Speaker 1: But if you, if you, if you like to me,
Speaker 1: you can't care about the woman you like that, like
Speaker 1: I'm possessive over mind regardless like who you don't even
Speaker 1: like your dad to call it.
Speaker 5: So your feelings ain't my feeling did mine?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Your feelings, your feelings about your people, whatever you want
Speaker 5: to call it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So what are we saying about the men who leave
Speaker 7: the women after they did to bed with them?
Speaker 3: That just happen.
Speaker 2: It depends on all of this, like it depends on
Speaker 2: whether we were together the way, rumors and accusation.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, bro, women men can't
Speaker 1: be with a woman after she's done wrong, but she's
Speaker 1: done a lot to a great because you know her
Speaker 1: category moves and they always want to be right here,
Speaker 1: like hey, baby me and you I like you? You
Speaker 1: like me. We've been in this ship. Things strong, but
Speaker 1: you ain't wife you no more.
Speaker 4: You want my holes now your old school.
Speaker 1: It's the truth, though I'm not getting.
Speaker 5: Im.
Speaker 1: That's why y'all, that's why y'all live.
Speaker 2: She will, But if she didn't do nothing the whole time,
Speaker 2: if she didn't let's just say he did ten years,
Speaker 2: she ain't do nothing to stay.
Speaker 4: This, this, that, and the third.
Speaker 5: And you can get out and he leave her.
Speaker 2: But it just you can't expect for it. This is
Speaker 2: the reason why somebody told me men, eventually me and
Speaker 2: get they ship together. It's up to you to stay
Speaker 2: and then you get that that good version of the
Speaker 2: nigga that you always wanted, or you leave me and
Speaker 2: then I'm gonna the version of me that you want.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna give it to somebody else. That's true, that's true.
Speaker 2: However, who's to say that once you finally come to
Speaker 2: this great guy that you are you gonna want me?
Speaker 5: Because wait, hold on, this goes back to the jail ship.
Speaker 1: That's a great question.
Speaker 2: After the fact that I undid my time, five ten,
Speaker 2: how many years I did, and you're still there. You
Speaker 2: chose to hold me down. You chose to still be here.
Speaker 5: I'm probably in this bitch getting my whole mind right
Speaker 5: and all these other ship and I come out.
Speaker 3: And you who you are.
Speaker 5: I'm a completely together. I'm not attracted to you no more.
Speaker 5: So I don't owe you ship for the fact that
Speaker 5: you thank you. I appreciate.
Speaker 1: I tell you what you do, all me, what you
Speaker 1: do all her. You owe her a chance to change,
Speaker 1: you owe her conversation like, look, I'm on a different
Speaker 1: playing field. Now get your ship together. Yeah you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But you got.
Speaker 4: This whole time.
Speaker 2: Remine this whole time that I was doing and I was,
Speaker 2: we was we always supposed to be elevating you out
Speaker 2: in the free world. Bitch, Why you let me come
Speaker 2: home with my ship together more than your ship together?
Speaker 1: I think it's going to chain game. You had a
Speaker 1: bunch of homeboy you did you get doing the same exactly?
Speaker 1: You're finna go hang with these niggas on the block.
Speaker 1: You can't the same ship.
Speaker 4: You gotta cut them off.
Speaker 2: So I don't do biers with niggas that I'm not
Speaker 2: you in jail and being and doing time with you.
Speaker 2: I'm not a real niggas gonna be like, baby, you
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. If I need you, I ain't
Speaker 2: gonna try to control your put some chain in. I
Speaker 2: ain't been trying to keep calling your phone. That ship
Speaker 2: is stressful.
Speaker 1: Send me something. You know what I'm saying. If I
Speaker 1: need to, God, damn Jack all they got phone jailing
Speaker 1: me Jack all one time. I ain't finna be trying.
Speaker 1: It's what you ate today. What you know, Bro, that's
Speaker 1: gonna run you crazy, and it's gonna run her crazy
Speaker 1: because she still gotta be out here living her life.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's holding back.
Speaker 1: But I just feel like women don't know what they want.
Speaker 4: Man, it changes.
Speaker 5: Every I think everybody got their core thing of what
Speaker 5: they want.
Speaker 1: Do women actually want the truth? I do?
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 4: I mean I want the truth to make it sound.
Speaker 7: I want the truth because I want to feel like
Speaker 7: we connected, like we don't lie to each other about nothing, like,
Speaker 7: ain't nobody coming between us.
Speaker 1: I want to know what If my truth go against
Speaker 1: your morals, then with.
Speaker 5: Damn, then you gave me the choice to walk the away. Yeah,
Speaker 5: but if it's the worst, it's worst, then I don't
Speaker 5: because to.
Speaker 7: Me, everything don't be about cheating, like when you're really
Speaker 7: building with somebody, it'd be more problems niggas alone.
Speaker 5: Like it's just more ship to just cheating. Yeah, like this.
Speaker 4: Together you keep doing stupid.
Speaker 5: Basically get some niggas you keep doing damn ship that
Speaker 5: keep putting us behind. Now it ain't even gotten.
Speaker 1: You said we a relationship, right, and you asked me,
Speaker 1: did I go get along? I say yeah, alone like
Speaker 1: she said alone.
Speaker 5: She said, I know you said, nigga be sneaking out
Speaker 5: to be alone.
Speaker 1: You ask me why did you go get along? While
Speaker 1: you tell me because I want to hear the money
Speaker 1: for something. This it ain't your business how you tell
Speaker 1: you that?
Speaker 4: You sposed to say that it's not my business.
Speaker 1: But that's the truth. Is that's my truth. Though you
Speaker 1: want the truth, I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't like that. Like I feel like if we're.
Speaker 3: Doing this together, I think she said, like if you
Speaker 3: were saying earlier she had power ball, there's your money too.
Speaker 3: She feel like, I get that.
Speaker 1: I get what he's saying. I get what you're saying.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, hey, baby, this is my
Speaker 1: play on Finn Gady to go buy some dope. I
Speaker 1: don't even want you in on this. I don't want
Speaker 1: so you won't go to jail. So I ain't telling
Speaker 1: you about the loan. Ain't tell you about now, let
Speaker 1: me go make sure we straight. Did you miss nor
Speaker 1: is anything? Now? Did I take the loan?
Speaker 5: Your is a bad investment right now?
Speaker 4: Risk it all the shop at the market price and
Speaker 4: the reward of.
Speaker 1: Something risky that I know would scare you. So I
Speaker 1: got a loan jeopardize my critic, not yours. What the
Speaker 1: fuck is that your business?
Speaker 2: Because then when we go to try to get together,
Speaker 2: we're gonna try to get some other ship together.
Speaker 1: Some of that loan money. Hallo, my boy credit man.
Speaker 1: Make sure she ain't a hum so anything go? She good?
Speaker 1: You're good, you have been protected. And hold hold holdo.
Speaker 4: You figured out. Niggas ain't gotta figure out.
Speaker 1: I ain't gotta figure it out, but some of these
Speaker 1: niggas do. Y'all. Just don't let them figure it out.
Speaker 1: Because you want you don't want to leave, You want
Speaker 1: to get in come back. Why you ain't go this way?
Speaker 1: This man could have been watching the nigga following y'all
Speaker 1: for three blocks and he turned off. Why you turned off.
Speaker 1: You know this is m I tell you the dunk?
Speaker 1: Why told you the dunk? Damn? You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Like you don't, motherfucker, just don't listen.
Speaker 3: I walk.
Speaker 4: I'm walking out of here. Changed we have in front
Speaker 4: of it.
Speaker 1: No, I'm just treating the break with y'allro cause niggas
Speaker 1: ain't gonna keep that ship all the way tall like
Speaker 1: a nigga. Rather just that you think you think what
Speaker 1: it is, however it go, it go. I don't care
Speaker 1: how you feel after this. But niggas that actually talk
Speaker 1: to you. What about the niggas that actually have a
Speaker 1: conversation with the women?
Speaker 4: What about them? I'm saying, didn't have the conversation with me?
Speaker 4: You about to put our future at risk. You could
Speaker 4: go to jail. That is I'm gonna have to do
Speaker 4: with you. I'm not calling your lawyer.
Speaker 2: You know you're not making decision dealing with You're not
Speaker 2: making decisions for us.
Speaker 4: You making decisions for.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, what kind of nigga y'all
Speaker 1: dealing with the feel like I'm gonna need you if
Speaker 1: I get in a situation.
Speaker 4: Niggas need they bitch? Why are you with somebody who
Speaker 4: don't need.
Speaker 1: No, I'm with you because I want you. I don't
Speaker 1: need nobody on earth but me. I need you for love.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 2: So you need you need, So that's a need. That's
Speaker 2: no for love, that's it. Still a need, but that's
Speaker 2: but it's still a need. Most feel need, most feeling needs.
Speaker 1: It's a choice. It's the emotion I can That need
Speaker 1: is a motherfucker. You need a baby. I need you
Speaker 1: to come get me out.
Speaker 5: He called a lawyer the definition of need.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about those type of things. I don't need
Speaker 1: you for. You don't know how everything a nigga needs
Speaker 1: a woman. Fuck?
Speaker 5: You don't need regular ship for you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So what type of nigga
Speaker 1: you that codepending of a woman. I don't do what
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I ain't about jails, about anything like.
Speaker 1: So if I go get a loan or whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: it's my business. They gotta do with.
Speaker 5: You everything how.
Speaker 1: That's controlling.
Speaker 5: It ain't if I went and got If I went
Speaker 5: and got a loan or I went, so.
Speaker 1: You know exactly what you're suppoed to know exactly my
Speaker 1: money I got in near everything.
Speaker 4: Right, No, I ain't got no okay, okay.
Speaker 1: Care.
Speaker 7: You're gonna know how much money I got. You're gonna
Speaker 7: be curious all my basis. But you gotta know that
Speaker 7: if anything you're doing fail, I got you.
Speaker 4: So that's my mind.
Speaker 1: But what niggas banking on feeling?
Speaker 4: You ain't got a bank.
Speaker 1: Thinking about feeling. Oh, so you gotta put the pressure
Speaker 1: on your bitch.
Speaker 4: You gotta have a plan. That's what they do.
Speaker 1: I don't know what.
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, that's what it is.
Speaker 1: I got friends screen simm I can't let they find out.
Speaker 1: But the money gone, sim hunder right quick?
Speaker 4: Well you know that's but most.
Speaker 5: They don't.
Speaker 4: These niggas all like friends telling on each other, so
Speaker 4: they don't have these.
Speaker 1: Well you got the wheel, bro, you got the will,
Speaker 1: you got to you got two feet to it. But
Speaker 1: go drive Uber. Maybe I'm a sneak away and drive
Speaker 1: Uber for I let you know we sucked up. I
Speaker 1: can't put that pressure on you because you may not
Speaker 1: can't handle it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I appreciate that because that got a lot to
Speaker 5: do with protected me.
Speaker 1: Thank you. What y'all dealing with.
Speaker 3: It?
Speaker 1: You are Uber and.
Speaker 4: You shot me with a gun. But then nurse me
Speaker 4: bank and you want me to say thank you for
Speaker 4: your protection?
Speaker 1: Did you feel the problem though? Did you feel the problem?
Speaker 1: Did you feel the problem? That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Are we still doing the twenty thousand dollars things?
Speaker 1: Whatever? If I got the did you feel the problem?
Speaker 1: Did you go to jail?
Speaker 4: I'm gonna feel the problem. If you go to jail,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna fel the problem. Yeah, yeah, but that's.
Speaker 1: Hard we have really at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I went to jail here, give me fuck this bitch
Speaker 1: also jump feeling fuck her? Oh so you're not forgeting.
Speaker 4: Protection?
Speaker 1: God, this is the end of it, because I fuck up.
Speaker 4: But then that's what a fucking loan matter, because not
Speaker 4: protections going nigga.
Speaker 6: Now you took away one of the coore values of
Speaker 6: our relationship, protections out the winner.
Speaker 1: But I just told the baby, we need twenty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: You didn't got it? No what Now you just sent
Speaker 1: around got them looking.
Speaker 4: At you, Joe, So you can go to jail.
Speaker 1: Baby. You ain't got.
Speaker 5: Anything but you, but you deal.
Speaker 1: You're dealing with a risk taker. What kind of nig
Speaker 1: did y'all dealing with a risk taking. You see this
Speaker 1: niggas already risk taker. You met me, I was already
Speaker 1: doing taking risks. I ain't coming hey, baby, you think
Speaker 1: I should know?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 1: Man, fuk out of here.
Speaker 5: Man, Okay, because I love a risk taker.
Speaker 1: But is it.
Speaker 4: Like's supposed to like? That doesn't change?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay. Once I discussed it with you, that
Speaker 1: puts you really in harm's way, because now you know
Speaker 1: you can't pass a lot to take the bitch come
Speaker 1: through their bed with me.
Speaker 3: No what no b.
Speaker 1: Buisdes that's keeping you out of harms way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's certain ship. There's certain ship that I'm telling
Speaker 3: you that.
Speaker 7: Guess it just depends on what type of man you're
Speaker 7: dealing with.
Speaker 1: I can't speak for them, but the type of nigga
Speaker 1: that I am, I can't speak for no other nigga
Speaker 1: who got damn saying he he he come home? Tell
Speaker 1: you baby, moved up in the law firm. He's supposed
Speaker 1: to say that if I mean it, if I met
Speaker 1: got them, whoever got them?
Speaker 5: I was when I stay alone, I was talking about
Speaker 5: it loan for like real estate.
Speaker 3: That let's let's let's let's flip it. Let's flip let's
Speaker 3: flip it to something else, like, let's just keep it real.
Speaker 3: What kind of conversation did you have with Chante before
Speaker 3: a Big Fast? And what kind of conversation did I
Speaker 3: have with Jessica before Big Fast? At all? I mentioned it.
Speaker 3: I didn't go in no specifics about we're gonna have
Speaker 3: to buy these cameras. It might not make no money.
Speaker 3: And you ain't saying ship at all?
Speaker 1: Hey, Rob up here right, y'all got a podcast?
Speaker 3: Right, That's what I'm saying. That's what it's really supposed
Speaker 3: to be. Trust because when it work, we geniuses.
Speaker 1: If it don't work, bro, you gotta figure it out.
Speaker 1: I ain't bringing home no money. That's when the problems start.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna start with what I'm trying to do
Speaker 1: to get the money.
Speaker 3: It's chantego get a hair salon. You think she's supposed
Speaker 3: to say everything about it? What you mean her business,
Speaker 3: her business venture. I'm just saying she properly.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give for the money to go get it.
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 1: Go ahead?
Speaker 4: But what if she didn't want to ask you?
Speaker 1: Because you don't have to take out all type of
Speaker 1: ship that I don't know that about. I don't remember
Speaker 1: fuck what she do.
Speaker 3: That's her money, that's what that's what we are getting there.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about, somebody? That's what the fuck
Speaker 1: am I watching that limit ass ship fun? Hey man,
Speaker 1: she's gonna get along with a five hundred thousand dollars baby,
Speaker 1: go each you go buy chips with that. She don't
Speaker 1: give what you do with it. That's your money. It
Speaker 1: didn't hurt me or hurt her.
Speaker 6: My thing is, if we make a five year plan
Speaker 6: and we're agreeing, this is what we're gonna do, and
Speaker 6: this is how we're gonna do it, and if you're.
Speaker 4: Not making five year nigga like him?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're right. That's a great point. We
Speaker 1: could make the five year plan, right. I ain't go
Speaker 1: off there plan, but I'm still doing other ship. What
Speaker 1: the fuck they gotta do with you?
Speaker 4: Did we not say several times how that could deter
Speaker 4: us from what our plans are. Something happens, it doesn't right.
Speaker 1: And then we take the criminal ship out of it. Okay,
Speaker 1: you we got to fire your planet's going well? Want
Speaker 1: to start a big fact that's what we did. What
Speaker 1: the fuck they gotta do with you? They didn't come
Speaker 1: out of none of our plan.
Speaker 4: I would like to know.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's because you.
Speaker 4: Are what you got going on. You don't know why,
Speaker 4: you don't know.
Speaker 3: You just gonna know where I'm at.
Speaker 4: All I was saying, he don't know. I want to
Speaker 4: start using AI to streamline his business.
Speaker 6: Sometimes when you talk to your business partner, they could
Speaker 6: tell you, I mean, your your wife. They could tell
Speaker 6: you how to make your business ten times better by
Speaker 6: giving you some feedback.
Speaker 5: You could just mention. You can mention it, like like
Speaker 5: what you said with your You could just to me.
Speaker 3: Feedback like I like this episode. But I'm not getting
Speaker 3: into the specific So what I spent on the mic
Speaker 3: and whatever.
Speaker 1: I just believe doing the people because some people my
Speaker 1: wife could love me so much and want to work
Speaker 1: so much and put some drink on. That's just how
Speaker 1: I look at It's just like you can't stand at
Speaker 1: me with no crap game when I'm gamming playing poker,
Speaker 1: stay your ass in the room because you want me
Speaker 1: to win so bad, I'm gonna.
Speaker 5: Lose your belief.
Speaker 1: That's just my belief system. Like like stream I called
Speaker 1: stream five day LA. This is my being department. Hey bro,
Speaker 1: I got to who that ship went through. He ain't
Speaker 1: tell them about that ship went through, though you know
Speaker 1: now because it went through. What the fun I'm gona
Speaker 1: tell you about? Dream for m okay, that's just how
Speaker 1: I look at ship all then, my assister Courtney right there,
Speaker 1: I always say, don't tell nobody till it's done. M
Speaker 1: h fuck, don't tell nobody till it's done, cause you
Speaker 1: never know who putting what kind of ship on your seeds?
Speaker 1: You plannet yep, and I don't know if it doese
Speaker 1: stem over from a relationship to my kids. Whatever. I
Speaker 1: don't tell nobody's ship until it's done.
Speaker 5: That's how you do it.
Speaker 1: Unless we're in it together. Like you said, we got
Speaker 1: a fire, you're plant's build this fire playing? Baby, we
Speaker 1: and this together. Don't tell them about our plan though
Speaker 1: we're doing this together. But if I got some more
Speaker 1: ship going on, what I gotta, I ain't gonna tell
Speaker 1: him about the ship. I don't need you for it?
Speaker 1: What okay, baby, I got this one an extreme little
Speaker 1: CHEMICALSTA thousand got thirty.
Speaker 5: You didn't say that.
Speaker 4: He let me know what you need?
Speaker 2: No, because partners, if you don't really need the thirty
Speaker 2: And I got it here, but I want your.
Speaker 5: Thirty thirty so we partners.
Speaker 4: Right, you don't need it.
Speaker 1: So what you need information for?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 4: To make sure you're safe?
Speaker 1: I would not be. I need make it safe because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a thirty thirty thousand dollars risks on him,
Speaker 1: not a sexty.
Speaker 5: So give me the thirty you're taking.
Speaker 3: What are you saying? What he saying? Make a lot
Speaker 3: of sense, y'all, be made logic?
Speaker 1: What what?
Speaker 3: What? What if your nigga just want to go make
Speaker 3: a random rap song? Y'all probably gonna like rap nigga
Speaker 3: used to you might not support that ship.
Speaker 5: That might be even if he can't rap, I supported. Okay,
Speaker 5: that's terrible.
Speaker 1: You cuippling him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I can't tell him you crippling him?
Speaker 2: Y'all these days in time, shitty rappers make it all
Speaker 2: the time. Come on, now, that might be that, like, Hey,
Speaker 2: that's your gone tell me that ship?
Speaker 1: That's like right now? We started ship show, right, Ship
Speaker 1: show started my bid I'm in the take three o'clock
Speaker 1: in the morning, Went Live asked me could they wrapped
Speaker 1: on my line? I let them wrap all? Right, Ship show?
Speaker 1: I did it two nights straight. She Hey, please don't
Speaker 1: be on that phone in the bed, going in the room,
Speaker 1: going out of the room right then, and that she
Speaker 1: tried to shout them out, dream up.
Speaker 4: She was actually trying to know.
Speaker 2: She was No, I'm trying.
Speaker 1: Why you on that stupid ass live doing that stupid
Speaker 1: ass ship.
Speaker 10: Okay, okay, soon as soon as this ship go up,
Speaker 10: you front row, let me held of the bend and
Speaker 10: then you come.
Speaker 3: That's leading tell the ya the way he's saying, but
Speaker 3: he's saying makes you can't see a vision.
Speaker 1: They got it. You can't when you.
Speaker 3: Locked in in like that. Sometimes you gotta run your
Speaker 3: own play. My wife might start doing some ship like
Speaker 3: growing a plant or so ship. I don't want to
Speaker 3: know nothing about whatever it is. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: You go do that because I don't understand that ship,
Speaker 3: and it's certain ship I'm gonna do, and there's certain
Speaker 3: ship you're gonna do together, Like when you started working
Speaker 3: out that was a solo.
Speaker 1: Thing, right, Yeah, then she started coming.
Speaker 3: I see what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So what if she wants to go start a podcast,
Speaker 4: you don't want to tell you at all?
Speaker 1: She gonna tell me because she gonna want my input,
Speaker 1: but she don't have to tell me, right, what are
Speaker 1: you talking about? That's the truth, But that's my thing.
Speaker 4: You should want your part especially, that's your.
Speaker 3: Only if you're doing something that if you're doing something
Speaker 3: that going against my morals or our morals, No tell
Speaker 3: me what though?
Speaker 1: Why should I?
Speaker 4: Because I think different points of views. They could see
Speaker 4: something that you may not know how to.
Speaker 1: I don't want your point of view with my mind
Speaker 1: has made. You're talking about an uncertain person. So listen
Speaker 1: when you tell somebody you're looking for validation. Okay, I
Speaker 1: just gave you're looking for validational opinions. I don't want
Speaker 1: no validation opinion my mind made up.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right?
Speaker 3: You also also, you know, you know another you know,
Speaker 3: a real important part of it. It's just individuality, you
Speaker 3: see what I'm saying. So it's kind of like with
Speaker 3: us in support, Right, he just hit me. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: did five episodes of Perspectives today? What was that my podcast? Great?
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Because that's his ship, that's
Speaker 3: his creativity. I might have said you should do this,
Speaker 3: or you should do that or whatever. I tell him
Speaker 3: the same thing. But what I'm saying is like, individuality
Speaker 3: is something you gotta have. So you go do your
Speaker 3: podcast and talk about whatever you want to talk about.
Speaker 3: Because you start talking to me about it, I might
Speaker 3: your creativity exactly.
Speaker 1: I already had hema making sit hemda this ship. It
Speaker 1: spent one hundred thousand dollars camera sets and everything. Everybody like,
Speaker 1: why are you doing that? Now? Niggas walking on with
Speaker 1: this deal elevated. They can't see your vision, bro, So
Speaker 1: why share somebody individual even if you locked in talk
Speaker 1: about that all the time. That brings they and and
Speaker 1: not on purpose like your people can. My wife can
Speaker 1: love me so much that I could tell her something
Speaker 1: that I'm passionate about and she could say certain things
Speaker 1: like you sure, and that'll take something.
Speaker 3: From my visit to shift the energy.
Speaker 1: You're sure you're gonna change that? How much damn you
Speaker 1: gonna do that? That could take something. No, let me
Speaker 1: make this ship work. And then and be like, damn,
Speaker 1: that's crazy, baby, that's dope.
Speaker 3: Everybody ain't like me, and him was like my wife
Speaker 3: will say, because she's a Gemini, I'm going to nurse school,
Speaker 3: I'm going to real estate. On the cool on with you,
Speaker 3: pray for you even if I think different. Whatever the
Speaker 3: case is, everybody not like that somebody else that.
Speaker 1: You're doing but input. If you put your input on
Speaker 1: some ship, it could be the wrong input. Because I
Speaker 1: love you so much, I trust that your intuition is great.
Speaker 1: Now now now, because your fear can make me fear
Speaker 1: or my dream or my vision. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Not to say I'm doing this. I don't know. No,
Speaker 1: It's just I don't want people opinion on my on
Speaker 1: my vis Are you wrong? I don't want people opinion
Speaker 1: on my vision. I'm just keeping a real like why.
Speaker 4: You can mention it, but you got to get into detail,
Speaker 4: and I have to give you feedback.
Speaker 3: But woman an give a woman giving feedback?
Speaker 1: How much that's gonna cost you?
Speaker 3: Right? Keep it real? Now? You just say whatever it
Speaker 3: is that you say that twenty that twenty could go
Speaker 3: good or it could go bad, get bad.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't know either way. If I took out twenty
Speaker 1: thousand dollars start a fucking popsil stand, and if I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell you about its successful. Like, baby, you
Speaker 1: got a popsicle stand, go ahead, run that for real?
Speaker 1: It is dope. But I but I told you now.
Speaker 6: Pop staying with But realistically, niggas, it's not taking the
Speaker 6: money and starting successful businesses. And that's the problem. That's
Speaker 6: why most maverages are finances saying that.
Speaker 3: But that's like when was that movie with a nigga?
Speaker 1: You say what? You say? What? More?
Speaker 4: Realistically, men are not taking you. You got lucky, yes,
Speaker 4: but realiss stick.
Speaker 1: Really, she ain't believing that. They fucking up added another
Speaker 1: opinion in it. They added a bit to the well,
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to do this, I want to
Speaker 1: do that. I wanted to do this. You just gonna
Speaker 1: do that, and I wanted to do this, And now
Speaker 1: they're putting stress on your whole bending and ships crumbling.
Speaker 1: Anything you do on your own without another motherfucker it
Speaker 1: always work, nigga, Now, Martin, if I'm wrong, anything that
Speaker 1: you do on your own, anything that you think about,
Speaker 1: even if you go to the boxing gym by yourself,
Speaker 1: you get more done than having a partner. Your partner
Speaker 1: slow you down, like you ain't gonna be able to
Speaker 1: go to that girl. Now we ain't gon, we ain't
Speaker 1: going in. But if you go by your motherfucker self
Speaker 1: and state focused yourself, you're gonna do that ship by yourself.
Speaker 6: That's mad because if partners a trainer and they have
Speaker 6: a bigger vision you and they keep you on track,
Speaker 6: that's different.
Speaker 4: It really depends. I don't think that that like there
Speaker 4: is one cut answer to that.
Speaker 1: No, but you're speaking of a person that needs other people.
Speaker 1: I'm speaking of a self self big person. If I
Speaker 1: go I started hiking, I'm just cheaping the real I
Speaker 1: started hiking by myself. People wanted to start hiking. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go regardless. If y'all coming out right, y'all want
Speaker 1: a jump, because y'all see it. I motivated y'all off
Speaker 1: seeing nigga dropping hated to one hundred pounds. Damn that
Speaker 1: shit worked. I ain't screen asking me, nigga. He asked
Speaker 1: me one one uh uh. We did an episode leading
Speaker 1: it to the next year. Everybody said it was. I said,
Speaker 1: ain't gonna say it, brother, because if I slip up, nobody.
Speaker 1: I don't wan niggas to know I slipped up. My
Speaker 1: My resolution was to lose weight. Nigga that day. I
Speaker 1: ain't say shit, nigga. Nigga start saying now that shit
Speaker 1: coming off? Okay, Yeah, we hiking hiking with back now
Speaker 1: that shit licked. But if I was, if I would
Speaker 1: have went out there and told everybody then start. Now
Speaker 1: I feel like I let myself down and everybody else
Speaker 1: I told, I don't know what this is just my logic, Bro,
Speaker 1: I could be tripping, but it worked for me. When
Speaker 1: you tell people show being there, Bro, that shit never
Speaker 1: go right who it is.
Speaker 5: This is not show and tail. Now, this is not tailing.
Speaker 7: You said, like your vision, like everybody can't see your vision,
Speaker 7: so you're absolutely right about that. And then you could
Speaker 7: let somebody know your idea even because I feel like
Speaker 7: what I said and what you're saying like these are
Speaker 7: two different things. Like, but you can't let somebody know
Speaker 7: your idea and they can't just say one thing. And
Speaker 7: now you questioned and everything you just thought, but it
Speaker 7: was your vision. Can't nobody see what you see?
Speaker 5: So I do agree with that exactly.
Speaker 1: And then get what if you really care about somebody,
Speaker 1: value them and value their opinion, that's gonna run through
Speaker 1: your mind like a first A slight buil of doubt
Speaker 1: can fuck up anything successful. And you could have gave
Speaker 1: me doubt without even saying I disagree. You could have
Speaker 1: gave me doubt by the way you look when I
Speaker 1: told you yeah, or just saying you sure or whatever
Speaker 1: you could have said one simple thing, because I pay
Speaker 1: attention to you and I love you so much that
Speaker 1: that could like Damn, I don't know if I should
Speaker 1: do this shit the go ahead.
Speaker 7: How can I feel connected in a part partnership just
Speaker 7: just knowing that just I'm just confused.
Speaker 1: Knowing that anything you want to do one hundred percent behind.
Speaker 1: If you need me, and if I need you, I
Speaker 1: know you with me too. You know I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: you for the for the ship that I need you for.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, we in school.
Speaker 3: You just gotta remember you still an individual. Like whether
Speaker 3: it's a business, partnership of marriage, whether it's your homegirl friendship,
Speaker 3: You're still an individual. That ain't no love loss, It's
Speaker 3: just you an individual. I decided I wanted to do
Speaker 3: some shit. He decided he want to do some shit,
Speaker 3: all of us, you know what I'm saying, and we
Speaker 3: celebrate each other. You got a word when people don't difference.
Speaker 1: If I start a business and it be successful and
Speaker 1: like this owning my business, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I started already being in perspective this ship show haikerbank
Speaker 1: se is a partner on all that shit. Okay, she
Speaker 1: ain't gotta know nothing about it. She ain't got to
Speaker 1: show up nowhere. Mm hmm. So what's really real?
Speaker 3: And all that.
Speaker 1: Real not for real?
Speaker 4: You need to have a class.
Speaker 5: I don't know what her stance was to begin with,
Speaker 5: so I can't master class.
Speaker 3: It is the class.
Speaker 1: I guess what what if I came with you with
Speaker 1: with a vision that you disagree on, right, and I
Speaker 1: still go through it? What's in my mind? You didn't
Speaker 1: support I'm gonna show this bitch, and while I'm sure
Speaker 1: your billers at me because you didn't believe them in
Speaker 1: once and success, man, I only want to allow you
Speaker 1: to do that. I'm that's protecting you too, okay, taking
Speaker 1: you from you for your doubts or your your pessimistic thoughts,
Speaker 1: because you're trying to protect me. But you you think
Speaker 1: of pestimistic when I'm thinking optimistic at all time. I
Speaker 1: don't give what I think anything gonna work. I try,
Speaker 1: but people think that's a lunatic.
Speaker 4: I'm all by going through your ship.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I'm a believer too, So it's like
Speaker 7: I feel you at this point, I feel you like
Speaker 7: you didn't.
Speaker 4: You didne opened up my whole man now.
Speaker 1: But if you know it like this, the differencetween. She
Speaker 1: know whatever I do benefits her. She knows she's a
Speaker 1: part of my purpose. So whatever I do is benefit her.
Speaker 1: So no matter what you're doing, but do it. She
Speaker 1: ain't gotta know. I'm give fuck what you're doing.
Speaker 5: Do it because you already showed her. So the trust
Speaker 5: is there. These niggas ain't on ship the.
Speaker 1: Trust in that area. You know what I'm saying. The
Speaker 1: trust in that area though.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what you been saying.
Speaker 1: Exactly, that's what I'm exactly.
Speaker 4: I'm walking away from this learning that.
Speaker 1: So we all speak it from different points. I get
Speaker 1: what y'all saying, y'all saying, hey, bro, damned down there
Speaker 1: on trust you. But so whatever you do, you need
Speaker 1: to tell me because you you really a.
Speaker 5: Dunk trust that duck bank.
Speaker 4: I just think that I can add to it, and
Speaker 4: I could probably make it.
Speaker 1: Let me tell what you add to baby, add to
Speaker 1: add to what I don't know I need.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't need you to add to what I already know.
Speaker 1: I need add to what I don't know. I need, man,
Speaker 1: you know what? But I think you good at this.
Speaker 1: This is what you should do. I already looked it up.
Speaker 1: This is what you do.
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 1: Let's do that. You're bringing me plays? How can I
Speaker 1: not do?
Speaker 4: Didn't tell me what you was gonna do?
Speaker 1: What the hell is you talking about? How can you
Speaker 1: not bring me a play? And I ain't tell you
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. I said, what you're gonna do?
Speaker 1: What you're doing. You worry about me, what you're doing
Speaker 1: for me? What you're doing?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 4: So my thing is like with the podcast.
Speaker 6: If I could have been like, oh, I could book
Speaker 6: these people, I could get these people, I could I
Speaker 6: could help you with what's the problem.
Speaker 1: It's the podcasts up and running book them?
Speaker 4: But you didn't. All right, I'm talking about we're talking
Speaker 4: about after. How we get to after? The whole thing
Speaker 4: was before. We were talking the whole time about doing
Speaker 4: something before. How we get to the after?
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but it's still going on? So what's the problem.
Speaker 1: So now you're not gonna do it? Now you're not.
Speaker 1: Now you're not gonna it's it's up and running now so.
Speaker 4: I'm not talking about when it's up and running. That's
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. We're having two different conversations.
Speaker 1: You had a two different conversations.
Speaker 4: Conversation was about before things.
Speaker 1: Are I understand, but once it already happened. Why can't
Speaker 1: you step in? Then?
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you? You said, she's a part of it,
Speaker 4: which is about you?
Speaker 1: Why would you step in? So what's the problem about
Speaker 1: me telling you? When you knowing you? If I started something,
Speaker 1: you were able to step in. What's the problem.
Speaker 4: I could have helped you soon?
Speaker 1: How I didn't need no help.
Speaker 5: I didn't need your help.
Speaker 1: I didn't need no help.
Speaker 4: Nobody else.
Speaker 1: Help. But if you can add value, come on, you
Speaker 1: can add value when it's already going. Come on, I
Speaker 1: don't need your help from the beginning. Okay, fuck the
Speaker 1: podcast fun out that. What are you sending home using
Speaker 1: your brain for for me? I't need I would if
Speaker 1: I got a wife. I shouldn't even have time to
Speaker 1: think about what I need to do. This be's coming
Speaker 1: with so much ship. She yeah, let do it, baby,
Speaker 1: Let do it baby. They'll do it baby. So why
Speaker 1: the fuck? You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2: Everything I come everything I come, I'll be like, oh yeah,
Speaker 2: let's come on, let's do it.
Speaker 5: Sh It, don't be I don't need a lot of ship.
Speaker 5: You did a lot of ship. Every idea I have.
Speaker 5: He'd be like, come on, let's then, let's go, let's
Speaker 5: let's all right then yeah.
Speaker 1: All right? Then? So it been really the wig, So
Speaker 1: I know she the week ain't feel love wig my ship.
Speaker 1: So I'm finna figure this shit out for us. Maybe
Speaker 1: I don't tried twenty different beings with you. You was phobotomoist.
Speaker 1: You got damn take care of kids.
Speaker 4: You saying my life.
Speaker 1: I said, you done did everything. You got a daycare,
Speaker 1: you got them, see a cookie, you see a shade butter.
Speaker 1: You know you did everything on one hundred percent with you.
Speaker 1: What the fuck am I? How am I not your partner? Okay? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think the argument was about not being part
Speaker 1: it's just control. You want to ConTroll that in New
Speaker 1: York ship, I.
Speaker 5: Want to know what I want to know what's going
Speaker 5: on before you know what's going on.
Speaker 6: And I know how to streamline businesses. So that's why
Speaker 6: that's a whole other thing. You gotta know your partner, Okay,
Speaker 6: Any men, I'm involved with. I also think they date
Speaker 6: me because they see that in me and they know, oh,
Speaker 6: she could be a true partner life.
Speaker 5: Like you said, they need you sing, I don't think.
Speaker 4: They value my opinion and they know that I could
Speaker 4: add to them. They don't need me.
Speaker 6: They could be successful on their own, but they know
Speaker 6: with me by the side, it could be easier.
Speaker 1: But the thing about it, though, I don't want to
Speaker 1: hear nothing from nobody that ain't never did the ship
Speaker 1: that I'm trying to do. But I don't want to
Speaker 1: hear that.
Speaker 5: Basically, pretty much, you don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: We both on a wim, so I'll be on the
Speaker 1: wim with my own money.
Speaker 3: My mind.
Speaker 1: You don't know either. Hell of fan, let you figure
Speaker 1: out shit. I'll let you figure out what you want
Speaker 1: to figure out with my money. I don't even let
Speaker 1: you figure out what I want to figure out with it.
Speaker 6: I dated a guy one time and he wanted to
Speaker 6: get into insurance, and I told him, oh, yeah, you
Speaker 6: could do all that, but you should get an assistant
Speaker 6: from overseas and use AI to mainstream certain things. Triple
Speaker 6: his business within three months just by me telling him
Speaker 6: those things. That's all I'm saying. There might be some
Speaker 6: way I can help you with your business.
Speaker 4: That's all you add to it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, if you tell me, like, oh, I want to
Speaker 6: do this, I might know which cameras are the best
Speaker 6: cameras that cost a little bit less.
Speaker 4: You could save you a buck.
Speaker 6: I'm just saying that there's ways until women look at
Speaker 6: things a little bit differently, and there's other things that
Speaker 6: they might add to that.
Speaker 1: Like I said, you gotta know your partner too. You
Speaker 1: gotta know your partner.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you think your girl don't about none of that.
Speaker 1: She don't give a fuck about it. She don't even
Speaker 1: give a fuck about no camera. I don't give a
Speaker 1: fuck what you do. Bro, we've been straight forever. Don't
Speaker 1: give a fuck what you go decide to do. I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck.
Speaker 6: But that goes back to trust, blindly trusting somebody. I
Speaker 6: realized during this conversation. I don't blindly trust in it
Speaker 6: another about it.
Speaker 9: That's the difference.
Speaker 1: That's the difference. Like y'all ain't never you ain't never
Speaker 1: allowed a person to leave. You want to know what's
Speaker 1: going on so we can walk together. Let's walk through
Speaker 1: the door together. But you know, whatever, we'll walk through.
Speaker 1: I'd rather walk through first, just in case of danger
Speaker 1: in the mother fuck.
Speaker 5: It's too much going on, you know, it's just hanging
Speaker 5: you home.
Speaker 1: Because she dated a Gemini too, and I'm a Gemini,
Speaker 1: so you know that's my partner, so it's hitting home
Speaker 1: for her. When she came on my podcast, we actually
Speaker 1: called this guy and everything that I had already told
Speaker 1: on the podcast. It was like she was talking to
Speaker 1: him to me, you know what I'm.
Speaker 5: Saying, and you say, your sign is what aquarius?
Speaker 1: But y'all basically the same, but your female version of
Speaker 1: that acquerir sign. You believe in signs? What's your sign? Leo?
Speaker 1: My best I'm on Leo?
Speaker 4: What heving? What's what were you doing? Oliious?
Speaker 1: Yeah? You don't sleep crazy? What slip crazy?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: I don't know nothing, but I ain't nothing wrong with
Speaker 5: that though, Bro.
Speaker 1: I just tell you, y'all listen to me. Bro, you'll
Speaker 1: run circle around.
Speaker 4: I get I'm like, I like a lot of nobody.
Speaker 1: Twenty minutes ago, Bank Gaddy saying one thing about one
Speaker 1: thing about it the conversation you thinking I need from
Speaker 1: you to help me. It ain't even That's all I
Speaker 1: need is the energy to be great. Baby. You can
Speaker 1: give me superpowered by the way you love me. I
Speaker 1: don't gotta tell you ship the way the way I
Speaker 1: when I come to that motherfucker house and all my
Speaker 1: problems disappeared because I see you, I'm invincible. But I
Speaker 1: come in the house where you been, nigga, could have
Speaker 1: been busting my average the whole house you been in.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That take away from a nigga.
Speaker 1: How can I change when I know you're gonna trust me?
Speaker 1: How can I change because of some ship I probably
Speaker 1: did a mistake?
Speaker 5: I mean, how can you change when you know, Yeah,
Speaker 5: you just gotta trust it. No, you gotta trust me that.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna trust yours.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it a break. I learned this ship
Speaker 1: long time ago, at nine years old. My grandma said, Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't come in the house for the lights. Come on,
Speaker 1: whoop your ass on the light, don't come on. I'm
Speaker 1: stay out five o'clock in the morning. The same ship.
Speaker 1: It's the same ass.
Speaker 5: Whipping basically pretty much.
Speaker 1: So basically, if you already feel like I'm sing, why
Speaker 1: not have some holes? Mm hmm. I'm getting the same consequences.
Speaker 4: That's what you learned, that.
Speaker 1: Consequences of consequence, consequences, consequences.
Speaker 5: That assipping gonna be a little bit harder.
Speaker 3: Five already already.
Speaker 5: Breakfast, I'm already late for.
Speaker 1: Keep having fun. It's already the same.
Speaker 5: Anybody.
Speaker 4: So, yeah, I decided gonna be a little bit more harder.
Speaker 5: It's not the same.
Speaker 2: You might get a more sterner punishment, but you're still
Speaker 2: gonna get It's the same.
Speaker 6: Sunishment versus being unpunishment for three months.
Speaker 4: It's completely different.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if she was gonna put you on punished me,
Speaker 2: she was gonna do anyway, Yes, I might as well
Speaker 2: just hang out and just do whatever the fuck I'm
Speaker 2: gonna do and then I come back.
Speaker 1: That would be making any niggas tell too. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They want they punishment to be lighter,
Speaker 1: like if you in the streets, you know it come
Speaker 1: with this ship. So whatever it is, a nigga lay down,
Speaker 1: that's what it is. I know what I was doing
Speaker 1: getting money. Now, Niggas going that motherfuck like it wasn't
Speaker 1: really like that convinced theyself that they ain't really say
Speaker 1: all dope, they ain't really rock nobody. They ain't really
Speaker 1: kill nobody. You did accountability man self self accountability man
Speaker 1: like niggas. Niggas don't have that.
Speaker 5: Niggas don't have self accountability.
Speaker 1: Niggas don't have no type of accountability. So you feel
Speaker 1: like you can wig out everything. I don't feel like
Speaker 1: I can wig out a ship. I'm caught on call.
Speaker 1: What's the consequences? That's true.
Speaker 5: That's facts, big facts.
Speaker 1: Whatever we're gonna do, you ain't gonna fuck me no more?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 1: Cool? I knew that that was I knew that was
Speaker 1: the risk that I took when I did that. In
Speaker 1: the boooo nose had the boo who every time it's
Speaker 1: in me. I'm gonna keep doing this. Whatever I did
Speaker 1: to make you mad, that's who I am. So you
Speaker 1: gotta trust to stay and leave. I'm gonna fuck who
Speaker 1: you is. Go ahead what you've been saying to say
Speaker 1: who they are?
Speaker 6: You said that niggas was who they was when they
Speaker 6: got here, because he just said how it was supposed
Speaker 6: to change.
Speaker 4: Niggas ain't changing because they are what they are, though,
Speaker 4: thank you.
Speaker 1: I just want to make.
Speaker 4: You and wait for the change. If you know your
Speaker 4: ain't gonna change.
Speaker 1: No, trust me that I'm gonna be more careful.
Speaker 4: Okay, got it? More careful cheating, that's what. That's what
Speaker 4: we're waiting for him to be more careful.
Speaker 1: Trust me. Now I'm gonna get an I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: another phone cause I know you like to check because
Speaker 1: the nigga is who he is, Like y'all gonna keep saying,
Speaker 1: name that nigga that you've seen do the ship that
Speaker 1: y'all want a nigga to do. Name in your life?
Speaker 1: Was it your daddy? Was your uncle? Who was that guy?
Speaker 4: My uncle? My uncle was married to mym for thirty
Speaker 4: three years.
Speaker 1: But you don't know their business probably solid, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You don't know. They've been news as a question.
Speaker 1: Oh Mike got Mike got all kind of kids and
Speaker 1: aunt he might be taking on.
Speaker 5: We don't know, We don't.
Speaker 4: But nobody you said in our lives with any you
Speaker 4: know what, that's the only person.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's you're not red, that's a unicorn.
Speaker 4: They got married late in.
Speaker 1: Life, stard Okay, how long how long you've been on
Speaker 1: this earth?
Speaker 4: Thirty six years?
Speaker 1: Okay. In thirty six years, you've seen one man be
Speaker 1: the guy you've seen so.
Speaker 8: Is one.
Speaker 4: I don't need every man to be that. I need
Speaker 4: my one to be that for me. I don't need
Speaker 4: every man to be there.
Speaker 1: So in thirty six years, you ain't found that one. Wow.
Speaker 4: I haven't really been looking honestly the past couple of years.
Speaker 1: I'm focused on what in thirty four years I met.
Speaker 4: Yes, I definitely dated man. I should have married.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 6: I was too young, I was fresh out of college.
Speaker 6: Our schedules didn't really he was a nurse.
Speaker 4: I was outside. Schedules didn't match up.
Speaker 1: So you didn't want that?
Speaker 4: Then he you asked me, did I meet a god
Speaker 4: that did older things?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Then all so, but you didn't know that that's
Speaker 1: what you wanted at the time.
Speaker 4: Basically, I know I was supposed to marry him, but
Speaker 4: I was twenty three. I wasn't ready to get married
Speaker 4: at that time.
Speaker 1: Oh so what are you doing now?
Speaker 4: Probably waiting for me to call him. He moved out
Speaker 4: here too, He had a kid and never married the wife.
Speaker 4: He's a top nurse.
Speaker 5: That marilla.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, And I ain't trying to be funny.
Speaker 1: It's like we be all having this ship figured out.
Speaker 4: But oh, who gotta figure it out?
Speaker 1: I'm just saying people, women, women have it always figured out,
Speaker 1: but don't like, what's the problem. Then, if we know
Speaker 1: what we want and we've seen these guys, what's the issue?
Speaker 1: Somebody help me understand.
Speaker 2: That being by yourself, the risk of being by yourself,
Speaker 2: that's the issue. Women don't want to be by themselves.
Speaker 5: But we want you want them.
Speaker 2: We want men to be who it is that we
Speaker 2: want them to be. But when they don't be who
Speaker 2: we want them to be, we don't want to be
Speaker 2: by ourselves.
Speaker 5: So then you just stayed with the nigga that.
Speaker 1: You don't that man, that man that with you can't
Speaker 1: feel that. Yeah, so you spake for him to be
Speaker 1: what for you? And he feel that you really don't
Speaker 1: want to be with him, but you knowing this is safe.
Speaker 1: What you spake for him to how you spake for
Speaker 1: him to treat you?
Speaker 4: I feel like a man.
Speaker 7: They don't know when you really don't want to be
Speaker 7: with them, because they be so into what they got
Speaker 7: going on, all that fucking off and ship, they don't
Speaker 7: even keep a fuck about how you feel that.
Speaker 4: They don't even acknowledge it.
Speaker 5: They don't they don't.
Speaker 1: That's why they act in the way they acting because
Speaker 1: they know they know. Guess what one thing about it? Brother,
Speaker 1: a nigga gonna walk walk on the lightest ice possible
Speaker 1: with something he noticed for him. I'm what you say
Speaker 1: a man a kid, I was once a kid with
Speaker 1: your tap so here, Yeah, I ain't know how to
Speaker 1: do this, but now as a man pasta, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying I don't want to know kind of niggas now,
Speaker 1: Like if it came down to it, you get know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What I'm saying is because I don't
Speaker 1: want to hurt her with my ways. You you get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But if a nigga don't give a
Speaker 1: fuck about her, what was shit? That what it is?
Speaker 1: He already know what he got. He knows she don't
Speaker 1: really fuck with me from what I already did. She's
Speaker 1: just dealing with this shit because it's convenient.
Speaker 4: But how long did it take you to get here?
Speaker 4: How much hurt did y'all have to get through to
Speaker 4: get here?
Speaker 6: Like we seeing the the oh, I don't want to
Speaker 6: hurt her no more side, but were not seeing the
Speaker 6: side that you done?
Speaker 5: Did order hurting already?
Speaker 4: You don't how much more hurt than can you do?
Speaker 1: But I never been caught with a woman on she
Speaker 1: asked me. I'll tell her, I've never been caught with
Speaker 1: a woman. I've been a kid.
Speaker 5: Sixteen years old.
Speaker 1: You think it's that's what relationships are built on. Being hurt,
Speaker 1: be talking about it. All emotions goes on in relationship.
Speaker 1: You got man, You got men that they probably never
Speaker 1: I know they never had infidelity in their marriage. In
Speaker 1: their marriage, but I bet you it's been ten to
Speaker 1: twenty times that they I'm finna divorce this beach, So
Speaker 1: I'm going to worce this nigga that comes with it.
Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with never. Dang, that's fine,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: That's right screen.
Speaker 1: But I guess what, just my dog, but he might
Speaker 1: have wed. They go through the same ship still still
Speaker 1: might as well. Every every every every relate the same.
Speaker 1: It is if you, if you, if you're on border,
Speaker 1: if you if you don't, I don't know they been,
Speaker 1: but if you on lines of divorce, and I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure I don't give a who you is. You've if
Speaker 1: you've been married to somebody who have thought about the
Speaker 1: divorce before. Am I right? Wrong?
Speaker 3: Every marriage?
Speaker 1: All right? So if you don't, if you done went
Speaker 1: to that level, it's the same consequence.
Speaker 3: Man, A relationship is based. Do y'all have best friends,
Speaker 3: like real best friends? Like for how long? That's your
Speaker 3: home girl, that's the home girl. Y'all never had a
Speaker 3: moment of just pain or struggle or some fucked up
Speaker 3: like a bad patch between us. Yes, your best friend.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna say that far, but you have pain
Speaker 3: or hurt. Something has happened there, whatever it was. That's
Speaker 3: that's the only way you can That's the only way.
Speaker 3: That's the only way you really that really become Like
Speaker 3: my partners in second grade, that's my partner. We cannot
Speaker 3: talk for a year. That's my partner. We've been through everything,
Speaker 3: just like rest and so you and Dave, you and Chante,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like, that's part of it.
Speaker 3: You have to have that too. The fairy tale instagram
Speaker 3: ship is bullshit. That's bullshit that.
Speaker 2: You experienced from cheating in the hurt that you experienced
Speaker 2: from going through regular marriage.
Speaker 3: Do you think that, Okay, let's just say I'm just
Speaker 3: gonna I'm just creating a situation, not nothing. I've been
Speaker 3: through the cheating thing. Right, What if you told your
Speaker 3: man something that you confided in him about. I just
Speaker 3: know another situation. What has happened and he went and
Speaker 3: told something? When that hurt just as much as cheating.
Speaker 3: You tell somebody you confide in them and say, don't
Speaker 3: never tell nobody. I that's betrayal whatever. Right, and then
Speaker 3: you find out that he told somebody or whatever the
Speaker 3: case is. Ain't that gonna hurt just as much?
Speaker 1: Do you think about a woman?
Speaker 4: Somebody changes how you view your how your everything different now.
Speaker 8: Because yer they tell a woman, hey baby, this is
Speaker 8: my biggest fear, and you know she told her friend
Speaker 8: that she crossed you for life, you will never.
Speaker 1: Look at the same.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That can hurt, like a woman can say words that's
Speaker 1: worse than cheating to a man.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's way different. So you can't say it's
Speaker 1: the same. It's the same, because y'all looking at that's
Speaker 1: a form of insecurity all women got.
Speaker 8: Women got a form of security at betrayal. Betrayal like
Speaker 8: that don't mean betrays betrayal.
Speaker 3: If you can no longer trust that person. It's betrayal, cheating,
Speaker 3: telling some ship, lying on.
Speaker 1: The level.
Speaker 5: That you can't work.
Speaker 1: It's all the same.
Speaker 3: So you steal for me what you're steal from me
Speaker 3: if I know more.
Speaker 1: I don't know why I said. Is that the same thing?
Speaker 1: It's cheating or not, it's not.
Speaker 4: That's not the same. If I told somebody your secret,
Speaker 4: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm saying betrayal.
Speaker 1: That's worse. I believe.
Speaker 4: Yeah, money and cheating them could be. That's level five.
Speaker 4: Like I said, level level.
Speaker 3: But what you do, but you do understand, you do understand.
Speaker 3: That's how it's started, like it start with the little ship.
Speaker 3: So if you let level one slide, it's gonna get
Speaker 3: the level five and ten.
Speaker 1: So if you you can't say that that's not the
Speaker 1: same because you got some people that don't open up
Speaker 1: to nobody, and if I open up, you show me
Speaker 1: that the person that I look to more than anybody
Speaker 1: around win't even told my mama I possile nobody this.
Speaker 1: I told her that you and you repeated that. How
Speaker 1: you're not gonna say that's the same.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, betrayals betrayal just like just
Speaker 3: like cheating is cheating. So we're talking about the physical
Speaker 3: how they say that's physical cheating. But if your man
Speaker 3: is sitting up in the bed phone boning, that's cheating too, right,
Speaker 3: So it's one better than the other.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how.
Speaker 7: Betrayal on my face, that one is almost worse because
Speaker 7: that's an emotional connection.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, betrayals betrayal, that's.
Speaker 1: Way I'm gonna tell why. It's way worse because at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you directly did that to me.
Speaker 1: A nigga cheated. Each will try to be pleased that
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I'm doing nothing.
Speaker 3: To you because you said earlier if you don't know
Speaker 3: nothing about it, you know what a man is and
Speaker 3: women or whatever the case is. But when it's intimate,
Speaker 3: like some ship that they do, you confide about whatever
Speaker 3: that may be. And I'm not saying that the cheating
Speaker 3: is okay whatever, I'm just saying, betrayal is betrayal. If
Speaker 3: it's start that way, it's gonna end that way.
Speaker 1: Is that direct? Okay? If somebody get caught cheating, right,
Speaker 1: they were trying to be sneaky, Right, they were trying
Speaker 1: to sneaking. They didn't direct the funk about in your
Speaker 1: house and do all the ship you rocked in the
Speaker 1: house and call that's to you know, I'm saying that
Speaker 1: didn't happen. You went through the man phone and fed
Speaker 1: the bitch in Miami some ship whatever. Okay, cool, you
Speaker 1: had to go find that, right, But something that that
Speaker 1: we we got a connection, this me and you. You
Speaker 1: directly did that to me. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I directly did what you.
Speaker 3: Directly but whatever. That betrayal is not your phone. There's
Speaker 3: so many.
Speaker 1: You kind of delusion.
Speaker 3: It's a million forms of betrayal.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, he's at Miami.
Speaker 1: I'm even talking about that. You can't hear, baby? What
Speaker 1: is he talks about?
Speaker 5: What you're talking?
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know what I'm saying. She can't hear?
Speaker 2: What what?
Speaker 1: What if?
Speaker 3: Your what if?
Speaker 4: What if?
Speaker 1: Your what if?
Speaker 3: Your what if?
Speaker 1: You Listen. What I'm saying is me and you in
Speaker 1: a relationship. Right, I'm confining you right one hundred So
Speaker 1: that means I trust you with my secrets and you
Speaker 1: spill my secrets. All right? Cool, that's what you did,
Speaker 1: all right? I went to Miami and fucked the bitch,
Speaker 1: and you went through my phone and found it, which
Speaker 1: is worse. Thank you. That's what I'm saying. That's directly
Speaker 1: and you, that's me, and you like that's that that's
Speaker 1: me doing some third party shit, ain't I'm hoping you
Speaker 1: don't find out this. You get what I'm saying. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to be sneaky. This is directly me being vulnerable
Speaker 1: to you telling you my business. And you win. Now
Speaker 1: if you go, if you if you went and did
Speaker 1: something else behind my back that I did not like you,
Speaker 1: ain't gotta be cheaping if you win, if you if I,
Speaker 1: if I, if I found out I am a bit
Speaker 1: script at night, I can't say that's directly to me.
Speaker 1: That's something you want to do for you. I could
Speaker 1: be disappointed and mad, but that's not direct towards me.
Speaker 1: If that's that's just a direct saying fuck with you
Speaker 1: talking about But I can't take that because that was
Speaker 1: something you want to do for you. Same way if
Speaker 1: I started business, how could you? How could you get mad?
Speaker 1: Because I didn't do nothing to you? Am I tripping? No?
Speaker 2: Were you right?
Speaker 1: That's it's it's it's intent, it's intent what we're speaking about. Bro,
Speaker 1: we're speaking about the intentions of things.
Speaker 5: Yeah, very important form of betrayal.
Speaker 6: Which one is the worst of right, If I can
Speaker 6: die the betrayal because you go in and stepping out
Speaker 6: on me and having sex with somebody else can give
Speaker 6: me an st D I can die from.
Speaker 1: I can die.
Speaker 3: Darkness the woman, the woman can go. The woman can go.
Speaker 6: Tell the niggas going, Oh, the women are gonn tell
Speaker 6: the nigga in the house and the nat the house.
Speaker 4: Ye, betrayal not every form. I don't know. Maybe I'm
Speaker 4: just not in I don't know what the secret could be.
Speaker 4: That could be the secret.
Speaker 3: That's why you ain't got it safe up in the
Speaker 3: house and the safe.
Speaker 4: But you're not supposed to go have unprotected sex with
Speaker 4: bitches either. You shouldn't been it shouldn't be unprotected at all.
Speaker 1: I agree both of them.
Speaker 3: Both of them are saying is like.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be the fuck his trust up completely.
Speaker 7: That's like saying, go about it. It's already hard for
Speaker 7: me and to open up those you're not I don't like.
Speaker 3: But I still feel like gene is not the worst thing.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's an okay thing. I'm just saying,
Speaker 3: it's not the worst the worst because if you have somebody,
Speaker 3: if you have somebody absolutely that did something just horrible
Speaker 3: to you, the worst person another woman, right and then
Speaker 3: you was dating a guy and he wasn't even fucking
Speaker 3: the other woman, just hanging out with the other woman
Speaker 3: or embracing her. I'm talking about, like your op, that's
Speaker 3: gonna be worse. Damn there. You you probably like just
Speaker 3: go fuck her. You see what I'm saying. It's all
Speaker 3: different types of betrayal. Betrayal, betrayal at stuff.
Speaker 5: At gonna be able to get over.
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you what the nigga ain't gonna get over.
Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying. You tell a nigga
Speaker 1: be in because you' mad be chatting to you ja crime, God,
Speaker 1: damn you mad? And you mad? How you mad? Now?
Speaker 1: You let me know that I'm alone because all I
Speaker 1: had was you.
Speaker 4: You know how that feel?
Speaker 1: Mm hm. Nigga't gonna give a fuck by nothing after
Speaker 1: dealing with you no more because you just showed me
Speaker 1: that I let my guard down because I'm a defensive nigga.
Speaker 1: I let my guard down because your pretty face.
Speaker 3: I love you.
Speaker 1: I take care of you take care of me wo
Speaker 1: and then you do that, how do we come back
Speaker 1: from that? I guess it's the same thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so now my safe space is gone.
Speaker 1: Yeah so, but a nigga again, it's the same thing
Speaker 1: with cheenas women words words, this ship hit the same.
Speaker 1: That's all y'all know. Like a woman will try to say, well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't that bad. How the fuck you gonna tell me?
Speaker 1: What was that bad to me?
Speaker 4: Yep? That's what men be saying, cheating.
Speaker 2: No, it don't matter what it wasn't that bad yep,
Speaker 2: because because like that exactly how you're gonna tell her,
Speaker 2: wasn't that bad to her?
Speaker 1: How you don't me?
Speaker 5: Was not that bad that you hurt my feelings?
Speaker 1: Anna? But the nigga, once your nigga tell you a
Speaker 1: nigga get often get the funk on, and now you
Speaker 1: want to stay because because you aren't like the person,
Speaker 1: the nigga still be a man about live with it.
Speaker 1: Go on.
Speaker 4: Then ain't nobody saying that?
Speaker 1: Say no, but it's action showed you that because he
Speaker 1: do it again? What are you talking about?
Speaker 5: Yeah that I agree with its action, show you that
Speaker 5: I agree.
Speaker 1: Two three months I got down here me and baby together,
Speaker 1: one with baby with babe.
Speaker 3: Bro.
Speaker 1: Here, let me hit you back. Bro we fina go.
Speaker 1: We been sore, that ship dow down. He backed them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so his actions show you he don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: He just gave a fuck that you found out.
Speaker 3: So what's the more of the story, honey.
Speaker 2: More The story is protect your feelings, don't date niggas
Speaker 2: in jail, You're gonna be changed again in the year,
Speaker 2: and don't fuck with bab.
Speaker 5: And scream and scream just to media.
Speaker 1: Media feel like the moral of the story is women
Speaker 1: are delusion. It could be all so simple because niggas
Speaker 1: is so simple, bro.
Speaker 4: So what a mean peace? Like, realistic, realistic, logical.
Speaker 1: Most of them, I know they.
Speaker 3: Logical, delusion or emotional? What is it delusion or emotional?
Speaker 5: What is niggas hang out at?
Speaker 4: They're like got it like figure it out?
Speaker 1: Like it ain't even figured out, it's bro. It's listen
Speaker 1: y'all saying, ain't gonna bring it out on well the ship.
Speaker 1: She's saying, I just tried to put you out in
Speaker 1: the ship. She's saying, ain't gonna bring it out. No, nigga,
Speaker 1: you have to bring that side out of a niggacause
Speaker 1: off the rip, they don't trust nigga's heartbreak comes from
Speaker 1: their mama. First watch nigga's heart be broken off the
Speaker 1: rip coming in this bitch. So she thinking, it ain't
Speaker 1: that bad if I tell you my secret. W And
Speaker 1: I couldn't even tell my mama my secrets. I couldn't
Speaker 1: even tell my sister my secrets. So now I finally
Speaker 1: met somebody that I'm that vulnerable with and you tell me, Hey,
Speaker 1: you know how many nigga I went through that. Now
Speaker 1: you're trying to meet this nigga. He already got a
Speaker 1: guard up. He already got a shield up from the rip.
Speaker 1: The age we ad y'all at right now, any nigga
Speaker 1: you meet gonna have a shield. Look, it's up to
Speaker 1: you to take it down. And if you ain't got
Speaker 1: the patient to take it down, stop, Just don't be
Speaker 1: in a relationship. That's the bottom line to it. Everybody
Speaker 1: at this age donnea been hurt before. Regardless of what
Speaker 1: what Keith like they're looking for. She looking for unc
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna have found unk. Guarantee you I have
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. You see what I'm saying. You gave up.
Speaker 1: She gave up because you like And then most of
Speaker 1: the time that women that do that, it don't be
Speaker 1: the nigga. They be trying to blame the nigga. They
Speaker 1: knowing that what they think about not you, baby, not you,
Speaker 1: not you. They know the ship that they think about
Speaker 1: in their minds not realistic. They looked in the mirror.
Speaker 1: That's what happened when you start seeing women fuck these niggas. Man,
Speaker 1: fuck the gonna be by myself, No bitch, you donna
Speaker 1: look at that mirror seeming realistically. I don't even fit
Speaker 1: the quateria of the bitch that I'm the nigga that
Speaker 1: I want. I ain't even that that's the truth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I ain't even that. I can't even blame that. No
Speaker 1: niggas because I ain't that that's the truth. So they
Speaker 1: be fucked these nigga. The fucked the nigga. Damn babe.
Speaker 1: How you how y'all pussy connect attract these count of niggas.
Speaker 5: Poor decision making skills, poor pussy management.
Speaker 4: Once again, men lie about who they are while they're
Speaker 4: trying to get vagaina.
Speaker 1: But the nigga don't lie that you want to be
Speaker 1: outside of twenty three you had the nigga. He ain't
Speaker 1: like he was the one.
Speaker 4: We're at eighteen. We was just college. We stayed together
Speaker 4: through the whole thing. We stayed longer.
Speaker 1: That wasn't like that's still an excuse. I met my
Speaker 1: wife at sixteen.
Speaker 4: It's not.
Speaker 6: But I knew realistically, I wasn't ready to get married.
Speaker 6: I wasn't gonna hurt them. I was gonna put them
Speaker 6: through all that ship. I wasn't ready to get married.
Speaker 3: Then. Yeah, moral story.
Speaker 7: More moral of the story is you gotta keep changing.
Speaker 7: You got you gotta keep growing and elevating. You know what,
Speaker 7: elevate your man be realistic, like that's the more. That's
Speaker 7: the more of the story.
Speaker 1: For real it can't be cloth.
Speaker 4: Everybody's story is different. What works for works for you
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