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Speaker 1: I am a Yamla. I had a baby daddy relationship.

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Speaker 1: I spent time in a relationship with a married man.

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Speaker 1: I had to learn the skills and tools required to

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Speaker 1: make my relationships healthy, fulfilling and loving. Welcome to the

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Speaker 1: R Spot, a production of Shondaland Audio in partnership with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the R Spot. I am a Yamla.

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Speaker 1: Today we're talking about something I don't think many people

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Speaker 1: and how it impacts our relationship with ourselves. Because if

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Speaker 1: what you hear in the world is war and against

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Speaker 1: us and hatred, and you've got opinions, and you've got preferences.

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Speaker 1: You know, are you for abortion and not for abortion?

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Speaker 1: Are you for this candidate or not that candidate? And

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Speaker 1: in the mere fact that most people don't even feel

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Speaker 1: safe to talk about what they're thinking and feeling about

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Speaker 1: their elected officials, says that you know, there's something going

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Speaker 1: on that we don't feel safe, that we don't want

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Speaker 1: to be attacked, that we don't want, you know, whack

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Speaker 1: of doodles knocking on our door or threatening us. You know,

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Speaker 1: there is so much going on in the world. I

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Speaker 1: don't care where you look. I don't care where you live,

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Speaker 1: I don't care who you are. There is a lot

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Speaker 1: going on, and a lot of it doesn't look good,

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Speaker 1: a lot of it doesn't feel good. There is so

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Speaker 1: much coming at us that unless you're just watching reruns

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Speaker 1: of The Golden Girls, you're gonna get hit with some

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Speaker 1: of this stuff. No matter where you go, whether you

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Speaker 1: watch the news or read the newspapers, people are talking

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Speaker 1: about all of the wahalla and the conflamerytion that is

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Speaker 1: going on in the world today, between the violence and

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Speaker 1: the wars and the I want to say againstness, the

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Speaker 1: political discord, health issues, money issues. I mean, is the

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Speaker 1: economy doing better or is it not? Can you even tell?

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Speaker 1: Because I thought everything was fine and then I found

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Speaker 1: out it wasn't. Because that's what's coming at me. So

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Speaker 1: our relationship with the world really impacts our relationship with everything.

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Speaker 1: Are you afraid to go out because you might get

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Speaker 1: carjacked or mugged? Are you making a choice between buying

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Speaker 1: a dozen of eggs or paying the light bill? Where

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Speaker 1: are you? Where are you in the world? Where are

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Speaker 1: you with people? And more importantly, where are you with yourself?

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Speaker 1: As you hear or experience everything that's going on. For me,

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Speaker 1: the first thing I look at is energy. So the

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Speaker 1: energy of the world today, I mean the franticness, the chaos.

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Speaker 1: We just had two major major disasters, if you will,

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Speaker 1: then we just had a major upset with the distribution

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Speaker 1: of resources and GOSM people dying trying to get food,

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Speaker 1: and oh my goodness, it's just a lot. It's a

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Speaker 1: lot going on. If you're not careful, you not only

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Speaker 1: will get wrinkled, you'll get gray hair. And I'm not

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Speaker 1: fond of either one of them. But the question still becomes,

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Speaker 1: how do you manage yourself? How do you handle yourself?

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Speaker 1: How do you navigate your life with all of the

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Speaker 1: things that are floating around in the universe, And I

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Speaker 1: say all of the time. Although we think we're separate,

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Speaker 1: what's going on over in Ukraine today, we're going to

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Speaker 1: breathe that into our bodies in our lives tomorrow, because

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Speaker 1: there only is one and everything is circulating. Everything is circulating.

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Speaker 1: So I just wanted to talk today about how we

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Speaker 1: our relationship with ourselfs. I mean, are you living in fear?

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Speaker 1: Are you an upset? Are you being more gentle with yourself,

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Speaker 1: other people, trying to contribute to some good in the world,

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Speaker 1: and thereby neglecting yourself. It's a mess, but it's not

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Speaker 1: a mess that we are not equipped to handle. Your

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Speaker 1: and how does it impact your relationship with yourself? That

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Speaker 1: is what we are going to be talking about today.

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Speaker 1: I've got some guests who are coming forward, and let's

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Speaker 1: see if we can nibble on this thing, if we

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Speaker 1: can break it down into bite sized pieces and come

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Speaker 1: up with a little special sauce that we can pour

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Speaker 1: on ourselves and on our lives to get through these

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Speaker 1: chaotic times. Here's my first guest. Greetings, be loved, and

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Speaker 1: welcome to the R Spot. We are talking today about

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Speaker 1: your relationship with the world and how it impacts your

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Speaker 1: relationship with yourself. So how are you doing with all

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Speaker 1: of the conflomeration that's going on around us? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Not creat not great. First, I want to just say this,

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Speaker 2: I love you so much. And I have followed you

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Speaker 2: that you do for people like me and this world.

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Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate you. I thought I saw you following

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Speaker 1: not knowing where the lifelines are. I'm not the only one,

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Speaker 1: there are many, but most people don't even notice. So

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Speaker 1: tell me how you're doing in your relationship in the

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Speaker 2: I'm coping, but not great. I feel like I live

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Speaker 2: a home invasion or somebody kidnapping me. I've never felt

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Speaker 2: like that. This pretty much started. I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: mention names, but back when a previous president got elected,

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Speaker 2: and to me, the world seemed to have gone crazy

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Speaker 2: after that. There was a lot of hate and I

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Speaker 2: don't want to attract a situation to me that the

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Speaker 2: similar to how I'm feeling, so I try to get

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Speaker 2: out of this state of mind. I had an alarm

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Speaker 2: put in our home a couple of days ago. I

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Speaker 2: our house. My boyfriend thinks I'm insane. He lives on

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Speaker 2: the other end of the stick where he thinks that

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Speaker 2: nothing is ever going to happen. You know that I'm

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Speaker 2: being paranoid, but I just I seem to not be

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Speaker 2: able to get it out of my head. We have

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Speaker 2: stay at. It's in the country, and I don't even

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Speaker 2: go anymore because I'm afraid to be there by myself.

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Speaker 2: I've never had anything happen there. But in my mind,

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Speaker 2: I say, well, what if somebody just drives by and

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Speaker 2: and oh this attractive. You know a woman is by

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Speaker 2: do a home invasion. And this is how crazy my

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Speaker 2: And then the stuff happened with Ukraine, all that craziness,

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Speaker 2: and then Israel and I try not to watch that stuff.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a big news watcher. In fact, I know

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Speaker 2: like I'm becoming not a recluse, but I'm not living

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Speaker 2: go back to feeling safe again. I just want to

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Speaker 2: go back to feeling safe again, and I just don't

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, there's a lot going on. Do you know

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Speaker 1: what a m path is?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I've been told I am an I'm passed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So that's what's happening to you. You are absolutely

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Speaker 1: picking up the energy because and while as human beings,

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Speaker 1: you know, we have a heart for other human beings,

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Speaker 1: you know, when something tragic happens, will send me money

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Speaker 1: or will go to help, We'll send clothes, will do

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Speaker 1: what we can. And that's just the normal compassion that

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Speaker 1: we have as human beings. But to feel it the

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Speaker 1: way you feel it, and I think in your case,

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Speaker 1: in most people's case, they have a thought that gives

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Speaker 1: rise to a feeling. What I'm hearing in your sharing

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Speaker 1: then you'll think of what it is or you'll put

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Speaker 1: a meaning to it. And that's all moving from the

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Speaker 1: intellect and from your perception of what's going on. I

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Speaker 1: want to offer an opportunity for you to flip it,

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Speaker 1: to see it from a broader perspective, so that you

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Speaker 1: can reframe it. I think, out of everything that you share,

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Speaker 1: the statement, really, I wrote it down and I'm circling it.

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Speaker 1: Afraid to be by myself. You are never by yourself. Never. Yep,

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Speaker 1: you're never alone. Do you know that?

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Speaker 2: I know I should know that, Yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: You should know it. But do you know it? I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you really really know it?

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Speaker 2: No? No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, good. So let's approach it then from the

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Speaker 1: intellectual perspective. If you had to take a wild guess,

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Speaker 1: why do you think all of this stuff is going

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Speaker 2: I for me, I don't know. I just feel like

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Speaker 2: there's no there's so much separation in the world from love,

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Speaker 2: from what's important to us, from God, from the universe.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like we've all gotten away from what

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Speaker 1: So there's a premise that I always teach my students

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Speaker 1: it's this, at all times, in all situations, under all circumstances,

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Speaker 1: there is no one in the room but you and God, nobody.

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Speaker 1: So when you look out at the world, it's you.

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Speaker 1: It's you. It may be your mind, it may be

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Speaker 1: how does all of this upset, confusion, hatred against nus?

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Speaker 1: Where is that in you?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I think it's also part to do has to

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Speaker 2: do with the relationship I've been in for years too,

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Speaker 2: feeling unsafe, not not physical, no physical violence, but I

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Speaker 2: feel like because I've been unhappy there for many years,

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Speaker 2: that it's projecting into that as well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how about that? How about that? And how about

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Speaker 1: the things that you see in the world. You talked

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Speaker 1: about separation, you talked about against this, you talked about hatred.

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Speaker 1: What about the fact that you are against what you're seeing? Yes,

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Speaker 1: you are not liking, maybe not hating what you're seeing.

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Speaker 1: What about you think that you're separate from what you're seeing.

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Speaker 1: So the very thing that you're projecting out onto the world,

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: You know you have little Ukrainian thoughts in your brain

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Speaker 1: that are fighting for freedom. I just said it. I

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Speaker 1: feel unsafe and the unhappy in my relationship. Maybe that's

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Speaker 1: your Ukraine in Russia.

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Speaker 2: Mm hm.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm sure when you look out or you

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Speaker 1: hear things, people did this, they did that. You know. Yes,

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Speaker 1: the children are hungry, the women are being raped, the

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Speaker 1: you know this, this party is not taking into consideration

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Speaker 1: the welfare of others. Well, you're doing the same thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there is no separation. So one of the ways that

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Speaker 1: you can begin to dissipate the energy because you said

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Speaker 1: it sticks in my mind and I feel it. I

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Speaker 1: want you to consider I feel this energy and then

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Speaker 1: it gets stuck in my mind.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So, so what I would encourage you to do is

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Speaker 1: push past those boundaries. And when you feel something, instead

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Speaker 2: I gotta get my lady balls.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, get your lady balls, dust them off.

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Speaker 1: We are talking today about our relationship in the world,

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Speaker 3: That's mainly it.

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Speaker 1: So what can you do?

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Speaker 3: What I can do every day, which what I try

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Speaker 3: look at what every day, in the slightest way, without

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Speaker 3: to make a difference, Because that's where it boils down to,

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Speaker 3: regardless of all social media, regardless of what can be seen.

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Speaker 3: We're missing doing the basic work every day amongst each other,

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Speaker 3: and it's over it's overviewing, it's spilling over Delusion has

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Speaker 3: mastered people's mindset this point. So that is utterly frustrating

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Speaker 3: because it's like when you try to speak, even in

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Speaker 3: overlooked and what can you do because you can only

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Speaker 3: control what you can control. So it's like knowing that

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Speaker 3: living in this world can be utterly frustrating because we

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Speaker 3: have people we don't know of in a lot of controls.

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Speaker 3: And it's right, it's just it's your technic. So just

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Speaker 3: looking where we can start every day, I just look

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Speaker 3: at the basics. We've forgotten the basics being kind, respecting

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Speaker 3: each other, and that concerns with we'll talk about that

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Speaker 3: right after the break.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the R spot. Let's get back to

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Speaker 1: the conversation. I think you've got it though you said it, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to do what you can without title, without recognition, be kind,

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Speaker 1: be compassionate, you know again, because I think because of

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Speaker 1: social media, everybody wants to be noticed and acknowledged for

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Speaker 1: you know, what they do, and they want friends and likes.

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Speaker 1: But look at Mother Teresa. Look at Mother Teresa. You know,

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Speaker 1: I won't even say Jesus, that's too high for so

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Speaker 1: many people. But Mother Teresa, who really gave her life over,

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Speaker 1: who walked among the lepers and the ill and the

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Speaker 1: poor and just gave them love, gave them love. One

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Speaker 1: thing that we can do that doesn't cost us anything.

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Speaker 1: I bless everything, exactly, I bless everything. I was really

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Speaker 1: praying one day for light to come on in our

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Speaker 1: leader's mind and the political leaders and the House and

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Speaker 1: the Senate. And that day two people retired or they quit.

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Speaker 1: I said, oh wow, maybe I need to change that brainer.

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Speaker 1: I would rather have them stay and bring the light

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Speaker 1: or than take the light and go.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if my prayer had anything to do

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Speaker 1: with it, but I'm just saying, that's what we can do.

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Speaker 1: One of the things I do all the time I

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Speaker 1: feed the birds. I feed the birds because birds carry

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Speaker 1: the message everywhere. The other thing I do is I

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Speaker 1: have a charity that I give to I have several,

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Speaker 1: you know, and it's not a lot of money. If

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Speaker 1: I can do twenty five fifty dollars a month to

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Speaker 1: the school on the Lakota Reservation in South Dakota. I

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Speaker 1: give to Saint Jude's Hospital. I can give where I can.

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Speaker 1: That's what we can do. Give where you can. What

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Speaker 1: I would say is when you feel frustrated or when

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Speaker 1: you feel concerned, turn it over. Say you know, Holy Spirit,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand this. I wish it was different. It's

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Speaker 1: not tell me what can I do, and it may

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Speaker 1: not be that you can do anything for that. I've

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Speaker 1: been asking looking for the past two weeks. Who is

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Speaker 1: collecting food and money for Haiti. I can't find it.

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Speaker 1: I know the Red Cross does, but I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: it gets there directly. So I'm looking for grassroots organizations.

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Speaker 1: Who is taking care of the babies in Haiti. That's

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Speaker 1: what I want to do. I got clothes, I got clothes.

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Speaker 1: I got a few dollars I can send, but mostly clothes.

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Speaker 1: You know, I got seven grandkids that are outgrowing everything.

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Speaker 1: I want to send that to Haiti and I'm going

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Speaker 1: to get it there. That's what I can do. So

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Speaker 1: one of the ways that we can improve our relationship

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Speaker 1: with ourselves in response to what's going on in the

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Speaker 1: world is find what you can do and do it

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Speaker 1: without a title or without the need for reward or recognition.

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Speaker 3: You are on it, yes, ma'am, Thank you so much, thank.

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Speaker 1: You, thank you. How many babies you got?

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Speaker 3: I have three, ma'am, a three year old, a two

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Speaker 3: year old and a nine month old.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, you are on it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm on it. I'm on top of it all. Yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: So oh my god, we'll bless the babies. You take

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Speaker 1: good care of yourself and take good care of them. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you as well, ma'am. Have a great one, all right, okay,

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Speaker 1: bye bye. I love it. A mama with three babies

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Speaker 1: and still giving and doing in the world. That's she

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Speaker 1: got a three year old or two year old and

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Speaker 1: a nine month old. But you know, that's how you

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Speaker 1: have them, so that when they're gone, they're all gone.

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Speaker 1: You don't want one lingering back, dragging you back into

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Speaker 1: diapers and bottles. Oh my gosh. Do what you can

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Speaker 1: without the need for reward or recognition. If you can

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Speaker 1: give to a charitable cause, if you can work the

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Speaker 1: food line, do that so you have that good feeling

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Speaker 1: and know that your contribution you're giving from the heart

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Speaker 1: with love, no matter how little or how much you

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Speaker 1: think it is it is helpful. You donating to the

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Speaker 1: local food pantry in your community may not end the

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Speaker 1: war in Gaza, but you are feeding people and it

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Speaker 1: all matters in our relationship with the world. Just as

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Speaker 1: my last caller said, do what you can where you can,

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Speaker 1: with what you have, and know that it will have

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Speaker 1: an impact. I hope that you know something now that

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Speaker 1: you didn't know. When you're tuned in, and until we

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Speaker 1: meet again, stay in peace and not pieces. I'll see

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Speaker 1: you next time. Bye.

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Speaker 2: A favorite.

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