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Speaker 1: I've never been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Patrick, good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you. I'm good.

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Speaker 2: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: We're doing great. Thank you for being a part of

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Speaker 1: the show. Here. We're trying to help you out though,

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Speaker 1: because you think maybe you've been ghosted by a woman

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Speaker 1: named Emma. So can you kind of give us the

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Speaker 1: set up here, how you guys met and tell us

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Speaker 1: what any dates you've been on and where things are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I met this school Emma on bumble. Conversation

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Speaker 2: was really good. So I asked her to go get drinks,

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Speaker 2: which is not you know, I usually don't take it

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Speaker 2: off the app so I was, you know, putting myself

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Speaker 2: out there, and she said yes. We went out and

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Speaker 2: we split a bottle of wine, which is always you know,

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Speaker 2: a recipe for a disaster. But we ended up having

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Speaker 2: a flat. So I asked she wanted to come back

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Speaker 2: to my place and she said yes, So, you know,

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Speaker 2: great sign, I thought, And I thought, you know, she

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Speaker 2: came over and it was fun, and I thought everything

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Speaker 2: was really good. I thought we were in a real

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Speaker 2: good place. But then she hasn't answered me since the date,

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Speaker 2: so okay, I like called absolutely you know, radio silence.

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Speaker 2: So I'm kind of bummed. I really don't understand, you know,

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Speaker 2: what could have gone wrong. I really thought everything went

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Speaker 1: Well, well they all do, they all do, Patrick, But

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Speaker 1: let's see if we can figure out what's going on.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Emma, see if we can get her

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Speaker 1: on the phone. You'll be on the phone at the

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Speaker 1: same time, and who knows. Any number of things could

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Speaker 1: be going on. She could be distracted, busy, something could

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Speaker 1: have happened, whatever, And so maybe hopefully we can straighten

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Speaker 1: this out and then set you guys up on another

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Speaker 1: date that we pay for. Sound good, Patrick, that would

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Speaker 1: be great. Okay, all right, stay right now, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: play one song. We'll come back.

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: You've got to hear what happens next. Part too of

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Speaker 1: on The Fred Show. The Fred Show is commercial free.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Thanks for having us on. Hey Patrick, Hey,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Emma. You guys met on Bumble,

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Speaker 1: you messaged, she went out, I had a great time

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Speaker 1: and had some wine, went back to your place. You

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Speaker 1: thought everything went really well, but you've reached out since

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Speaker 1: the date to try and say up another date and

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Speaker 1: she hasn't responded to it. All. You want to know why? Correct, Well,

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Speaker 1: let's call her right now. Good luck, Patrick? Thank you? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Emma? I guess it is Emma. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the calls. That okay

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Speaker 1: if we chat for a second. Oh wow, yeah, yeah, no, no,

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Speaker 1: that's fine. Well, thank you very much. We're actually called

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Speaker 1: on behalf of a gun named Patrick, who I guess

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Speaker 1: you met on bumble and you guys recently went out

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Speaker 1: for drinks. Do you remember meeting Patrick?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I remember Patrick. Okay, Well, your voice changed,

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Speaker 1: as it often happens. But what happened with him because

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's unfortunate because yeah, we did go

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Speaker 3: But I noticed that he had my name saved in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well that is interesting. So wow, So you

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Speaker 1: they're trying to conceal who the actual caller is, right, yep.

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Speaker 1: And that was the thing that popped Why would he

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Speaker 1: I forgot, I feel like Mary Povich now like bring

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Speaker 1: Why is she in your phone? Asked Steve.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I just think it's funny to put random names

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Speaker 2: in my phone. I put everyone is like random names

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Speaker 2: in my phone. I don't think it's games with you.

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Speaker 1: Nasty mean, what hilarious is this story that you're telling

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Speaker 2: Think people put in like random things in their phone

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Speaker 1: I think, No, I don't think that's normal at all. No.

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Speaker 1: I think people usually put the actual person's name in

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Speaker 1: named Emma is calling and staid it would be Steve.

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Speaker 2: I mean that is that just isn't the case. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I am single. I think it's completely normal. I think

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Speaker 2: you guys are kind of bugging for thinking that I'm

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Speaker 2: weird for that. But you know that's just you're just.

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Speaker 1: Being kind of wacky. You're just wacky guys, Padrick. Because

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Speaker 1: the other thing is, I don't know if I could

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Speaker 1: remember who Steve was when the person's name was Emma,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to keep it straight, right, I

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Speaker 1: would sex my friends on eccent exactly. Like what the hell. Yes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: look he didn't have an explanation with Emma. Do you

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Speaker 1: and there's nothing to hide here, and you guys can

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Speaker 1: go out again and we'll pay for it. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry to be honest with you. No, because that's a

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Speaker 3: One and number two. I am never going to be

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Speaker 3: the other woman if he's not telling the truth, which

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Speaker 3: it doesn't seem right.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that to another woman.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to be treated like that myself, Like, no,

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Speaker 3: this is too too weird, Like I.

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Speaker 1: Don't think there's anything funny about that. I think it's

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Speaker 1: I changed the number in my or changed the name

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Speaker 1: insecurity for somebody when there was nothing to be concerned about,

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Speaker 1: so I checked. But the funny thing is it's still

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Speaker 1: It's still different in my phone now. So all these

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Speaker 1: years later, I know who Steve is. He take some

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Speaker 1: pizza Hut all the time. Man, customer service there is phenomenal.

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Speaker 1: But I wasn't doing anything. I just didn't want. I

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Speaker 1: when nothing was, and it turns out that relationship didn't work,

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Speaker 1: and I would have blown off the friendship. But that's

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Speaker 1: the only reason I did that. Otherwise I just put

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Speaker 1: in name and descriptor, you know, like if you meet

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Speaker 1: someone of the dating app, you put it like you know, well,

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Speaker 1: you know, I've put various things in before. They help

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Speaker 1: me remember. But look, so Emma's not interested. Patrick, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: It's not gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: I wish you the best.

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Speaker 2: You know, it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: Emma, good luck to you as well. Thanks for your time.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. That's Steve. Yeah, Emma, Steve, Miam Steve Steve, Emma.

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