1 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's up. It's lip service and we're on 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: our best behavior today. I mane lu, I'm g G maguire, 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: I'm LOVEA and we got J Prince here with us. Hello, sir. Yeah, 4 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: it's gonna be different than the interviews that you have 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: been doing. But we're gonna ask you as an o 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: G in this not about music, but about relationships. As 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,479 Speaker 1: far as being O G, what would you give? What 8 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: advice would you give to these young guys out here? 9 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: Because I know you've been through a lot and seen 10 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: a lot, witnessed a lot of things. So the ladies 11 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: to you said to the young guy, Yeah, to the yeah, 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: get no advice. Yeah, well you know about my perspective. Yeah, 13 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 1: well I need to help a man's perspective and give 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: me some advice. You get what I'm saying, Yes you do. 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,319 Speaker 1: But I will say man and women differ on our 16 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: views on things a lot, So you know, J. Prince 17 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: might think this is the best thing to do and 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: we might have to challenge him on something. Oh he 19 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: just looked up. I was like another mind. Okay, so um, 20 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: and I brought this up. When you're on the Breakfast Club, 21 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: the book, the Art and Science of Respect. There's not 22 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: a lot about relationships in there, so we're gonna get 23 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: advice from you about that because it's not something that 24 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: you really prefer to talk about. It feels like, right right, 25 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: But I got some advice I can give on that. 26 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: So if you're broke, should you be dating as a man, 27 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: because I've had men that have in the past wanted 28 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: to ask me out, but they told me later on 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 1: I didn't really have it like that, So I didn't 30 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: want to ask you out because I didn't have my money, right, Yeah, 31 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: It's all about what you feel secure as a you 32 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: know how you feel as a man. You know, if 33 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: you feel incomplete, then get you get your grind up, 34 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, get yourself together and you 35 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean. But if you feel you qualified 36 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: being broken, man, I can't stop you from it. Maybe 37 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: your lottery pick, but for you personally, because obviously you 38 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: had money for a long time, right right, You've been 39 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: selling we since she was eleven. You got me to 40 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: understand that. But there was a period of time when 41 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: you gave everything up and you were broke. Did you 42 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: feel comfortable dating during that time? Well, when I hit 43 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 1: rock bottom like that, I had someone that was down 44 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: with me, and yeah, I felt real comfortable with her 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: because she showed me, uh something I hadn't seen before, 46 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: and that's that she was down with me at rock bottom. 47 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: So that was important. That was a special moment. And 48 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: you know, I was secure as a man even when 49 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: I hit rock bottom. So it's good to have a 50 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: woman that's down with your ground zero. So when you 51 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: rise to the top, you know what I mean, y'all 52 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 1: still want a car, so she gets like she can 53 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: get like a vacation on the island. She chooses. Yeah, 54 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: you know, I never forget people that was down with me, 55 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, period in life, you know 56 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's hard for me to let 57 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: go when Lawyer tiers in the portrait, you know what 58 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I helped somebody that was down with me 59 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: no matter what. What do you ladies think about a 60 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: guy perhaps asking you out, you know, g and Loreal 61 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: and they don't really have it like that, they don't 62 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: have a car, they don't have a lot of money, 63 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: but it's your first like initial stages of dating. Do 64 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: you think that that's cool or do you think that 65 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: they should kind of wait, I think that they should 66 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: get very creative if they're not going to wait, it's 67 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: not always about money. Um, you know, if you can't 68 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: afford to take me out to a fancy dinner, then 69 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: buy some groceries and cook you know, um, I mean 70 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: not really what if they take I mean, come on, 71 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: you can'cer What are you eating? Right? What do you eat? 72 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: But I think could get something grocery grocer grocer. I mean, 73 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: you know, you can always go for like a picnic 74 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: in the park, you know, you know I walked into 75 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: If you're in the beach city, you know, somewhere that 76 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: has a beach, you can go, you know, take a 77 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: stroll on the beach. Or you don't always have to 78 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: impress somebody with material things and with money. Um, it's 79 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: always good to let your personality show through, no matter 80 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: what you want him to tell you, like list no, no, 81 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: I don't need to know that. And that's I'm asking 82 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: you for something and you don't have it. I don't 83 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: need to know what you have or don't have, especially 84 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: not in the very beginning. I guess fake it till 85 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: you make it. I was just about to say that 86 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: I tell you were going to fake it? She I mean, 87 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: I said, you know, I guess like fake it till 88 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: you make it as far as like if you don't 89 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: have it, then don't act like you got something that 90 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: you don't have. But there's no need to put that 91 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: out there if I don't need to know that, Like 92 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: what does he supposed to do? Be like, hey, I 93 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: want to talk to you. By the way, I'm broke 94 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: as fuck, you know what you say, Like like I 95 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just saying like I feel like it's 96 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: been times when I didn't have money like that, but 97 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm not going around like but it don't matter right 98 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: when women are broke, it don't really matter. But I 99 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: figured my own stuff out, Like you gotta figure out 100 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: how to get your money, like he said, Like I'm 101 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: not thinking about being with nobody else when I'm all 102 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: over the place and I can't even barely feed myself, 103 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: Like I felt like that's kind of weird. Like especially 104 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: I felt like maybe for a man, now, if you 105 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: was with somebody and you lost it, that's something different, right, 106 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: You don't like, yeah, we know each other, that's trash. Yeah, 107 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: if you leave that person when they down and you 108 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 1: was with them when they you trash. Like point blank. 109 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: But if they're down, they shouldn't. You should be focusing 110 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: on yourself and trying to get yourself up instead of 111 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: dating g G me you you know. I just that's 112 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: what I think. That's my opinion, because you can't be 113 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: right for nobody unless you write for yourself. That's true. 114 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: And I think one of the instincts of a woman 115 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: is is security. You know what I mean. She won't 116 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: to feel secure with that man, and that's physically and mentally. 117 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: So you know what I mean. If you're a man 118 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: and you can't satisfy that security where a woman is concerned, 119 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: that's considered unequally yoke. Have you ever had your heartbroken? 120 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: I think I have. You know what I mean. I 121 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: think every human being has experienced somewhat of some heartbreak. 122 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, most definitely. Was it like a physical pain, 123 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: because you know, physically we feel it when we get 124 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: our hearts, women really get sick. I think mine was 125 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: more mental. I don't think I experienced physical pain. I 126 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: wonder if guys even experienced that at all. They do 127 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: they do, because I felt like they get a delayed reaction. 128 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: I was about to say that they don't right away. 129 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: First I'm gonna go out and just gone later. I 130 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: could do me without worry about her, and they back right, 131 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: they'd be so sick. And they' friends ain't right either, 132 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: because they'd be like, oh, let's go to the shop club. 133 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: Then put them on the girl just immediately. We're just 134 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: upset and then we get to the you know him, 135 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm moving on right. They get it that way first, 136 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: and then we get it that way second. It's kind 137 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: of vice first something. Yeah, they always say that, you 138 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: guys have a delayed reaction. Okay. Advice for women. If 139 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: she fights in the bed, should she acknowledge it or 140 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: act like it didn't happen? Well, it depends. It would 141 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: be the respectful thing to do. I was like, nah, 142 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: I had a bad experience. If it's a silence phrase, 143 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: silent but deadly. Yeah. Was everybody sleep or was everybody? 144 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: Who's everybody that's just you? Yeah, everybody and they always 145 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: get on Okay, so yeah, I mean if we're sleep 146 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: and you you know what I mean, it's one thing, 147 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: but don't have that it might affect Try to hold that. 148 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: But it slipped out. That happens. Okay, she acknowledged it 149 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: and be like, oh, my god, I'm so sorry, or 150 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: should she just be like yeah. It was like, damn, 151 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: Ja sneak up on you like that. That causes problems. 152 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: I've had a guy for in the bed before guys 153 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: could do that, though I was. I was awoke and 154 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: he would sleep and it came out real quick, and 155 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: then he kind of just like, yeah, I farted in 156 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: my sleep before. I'm not gonna lie. So I've been 157 00:07:55,680 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: told I think people farting their sleep. You ever fired 158 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: and you're sleeping and wake you up? No sleep, And 159 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: he farted and he woke up looked at me like 160 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: I was kidding, like you're the one who did it. 161 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: I was wide away. No, you know what, it's good 162 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: if you sleep and then you wake up and act 163 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: like it was them. I feel like, damn, you want 164 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: to just fight because you think I'm sleep or if 165 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna fint, you gotta pull the covers tight around 166 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: you escape what's called a Dutch oven. Right, she's doing it. 167 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: That's what put on somebody some practice. It's just an 168 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: embarrassing situation. Sometimes you gotta fight. My first don't think 169 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 1: that bad. I don't think your first smell like chicken 170 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: because that's all you eat, and I've been cutting back 171 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: on that, so now they smell like fruit and veggies. 172 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: I just think it's more at you tried to it happened, Angela. 173 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,599 Speaker 1: You ever fighting and didn't think somebody was about to 174 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: come right back in and then they wouldn't work back 175 00:08:55,240 --> 00:09:00,079 Speaker 1: in the mid Did you say something? Now? I'm me 176 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: and I just try to move around. But what are 177 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: you doing here? What smell? Smell crazy when I came 178 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: over here? Like, no, it's all right. Now, let's talk 179 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: about arguing in public. Have you ever dated somebody and 180 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: she liked to argue in public or y'all got into it? 181 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: Are you like we're gonna talk about this later. Do 182 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: you leave the person or do you argue back? Yeah, 183 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make a fool of myself in public, 184 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: so I'm I'm gonna move on. I had a feeling, Yeah, 185 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: but what tell you? Would you leave or would you 186 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: tell her come on? Get in the car? Like? What 187 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,719 Speaker 1: do you do? Well? I mean, I'm an accept right 188 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: there in public. Let's not do this, you know what 189 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: I mean? We can talk about this later. If she 190 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: don't hear me, then I'm I'm out. Did you make 191 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: a FOOLI yourself by yourself. Yeah, I can't. I can't 192 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: attention you don't be in Louria. I'll be saying here 193 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: like y'all don't be are you in public? No, I 194 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: don't do that public stuff. I argue, don't give me 195 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: argue to the bone. But like capricorns, that's aid trade 196 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: of us. We don't even and like, uh, public my hand, 197 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: not no kind of embarrassment, no kind of done on 198 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: my hand. I'm not really like the kinsey kinsey person 199 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: in public, like when we're in the house. Yeah, And 200 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's not an embarrassing thing. It's just 201 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 1: like some things are for the house and some things 202 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: are not. And that's just how I look at it. 203 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: I argue, though, yeah, we know, but not a Brogola ship. 204 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: It wasn't an argument. I knocked over the hookah and 205 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: the party was over and over through the hook I 206 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: was there all right. Now, let's say you are for 207 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 1: the young guys out there first dates, and she want 208 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: to take a picture with the two of you, like see, yeah, 209 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: I mean, if that's what they want to do, I 210 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:49,079 Speaker 1: don't see anything wrong with that, all of them. No, 211 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: But let's say they're asking you, like, yo, gee, you 212 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: know she took a picture. Is that something that's kind 213 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: of a red flag because it's a first date and 214 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: what she's about to do with that picture? Yeah? Yeah, 215 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: I'm not big on pictures, So if it was me, 216 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I don't really want to do the 217 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: picture thing right now unless I really spend some time 218 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: and know this person. But you know, normally trust is 219 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: something that has to be earned, So I don't want 220 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 1: to put no pictures out there with the wrong perception behind. 221 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: Did you see the episode of Atlanta where paper Boy 222 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: was dating that check and they was in the Neil 223 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: Salon and they were getting pedicures and she took a 224 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: picture of him and he got so mad he left 225 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 1: her there. Have you ever had somebody to take a 226 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: picture of you and you didn't want them to want 227 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: her to? Yeah? I think I have. Yeah, that's a fact. 228 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: That's a fact. What do you do where I asked 229 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: them not to do that? Against them? Everybody? Don't do 230 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: that again, none of y'all. Let me be an agreement 231 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: with my likeness, my image. You know, I don't like 232 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: anyone just doing whatever they want to do with my 233 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: likeness and image. When is it okay to post like 234 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: a picture with you on social media when I'm in agree? 235 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: So she got signed something? Well, I can't say that 236 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: because I mean I take pictures all the time. So 237 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: but I'm talking about a person or like with somebody, 238 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: your lady, Yeah yeah, could she be on the island 239 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: like here we are? Well yeah, okay, that's cool. But 240 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: a lot of times I don't like everybody knowing where 241 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm at, right, you know what I mean. On a person, 242 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: I'm really private. I don't I don't trust everybody. And 243 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: I feel like if you, you know, leaving a broad 244 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: map to where you are all the time, the possibilities 245 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: of anything happening arise. So I like to be out 246 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: of sync with posting. That's true because if people know 247 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: you're not at home, that's how homes be getting around 248 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: when they see you somewhere, Like, okay, person at home. 249 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: I like the post after like I'll be somewhere and 250 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:49,719 Speaker 1: like maybe I'll take a picture of my friends. We'd 251 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: be at the table, all of us or something, and 252 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: then we leave and I'm like, all right, I'm home already. 253 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: So I think that's not but you know, it's crazy 254 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: when you said the picture thing and like firsday. Back 255 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 1: in the day, people used to really like take pictures 256 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:03,559 Speaker 1: on the first day and they would have to have 257 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: memories like and this was our first day. Yeah, but 258 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: there wasn't social media back yeah. Now in these days 259 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: with the Internet, people will see a picture and their 260 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: Mr screw was going on within the picture, Like they 261 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: make their one scenario. Yeah, They're put their own scenario 262 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: based on what they see and it's just like no, yeah, 263 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: all right. Now for women asked you out, should she pay? No, 264 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: I always like to do that. I think, uh thank 265 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: oh me and ship you want to be in that driver? 266 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 1: See yeah, I mean that's what I feel about it. 267 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,439 Speaker 1: You ever had dated somebody or been with somebody and 268 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: they actually took you on vacation or did anything for you. 269 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: I hadn't experienced that yet. You don't think that might 270 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: be really nice? I mean, I mean I would, I 271 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: would accept it if they just really wanted to do it. 272 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: But I'm like always quick to you know, I want 273 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: to do that. You know I love paying and doing 274 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 1: things like I love I love paying. This. This is 275 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: great key, young fellas, this is great advice. They you 276 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: love paying too. That's a good thing to say on 277 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 1: the day. Do you like surprises? I don't. Man, you'd 278 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: be like, look, don't surprise. Yeah, I don't mind with 279 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 1: some surprises. As long as it's safe. You gotta do 280 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: the flash dances for him, like the people that come 281 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: out the flash mob and they just stopped and start 282 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: this nowhere, help me, we should do that him pay 283 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: for it. I just had a surprise birthday party. Oh 284 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: it was fun. You'd be surprising. Hold yeah, tell us 285 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: to set up. Well, I was at a restaurant. I 286 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: thought I was even with my kids, and my children 287 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: they're not kids, you know your d Afterwards they well, 288 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: the owner of the restaurant came and say, oh, let 289 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: me owe you the balony. So I went up. I 290 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: thought I was going up to look at the back 291 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: and end everybody was. But that's really nice. So you 292 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: ate first though, like you're sat down at that was 293 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: waiting up there for a minute? Is that what do 294 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: we dessert? Let me get another there like no, well 295 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: we never got to the entrede come to think of it. 296 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: Just advertise okay, all right, now, what are some things 297 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: that you've seen in the past In this business. That 298 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: would make a woman undateable. I know you've seen a lot. Yeah. 299 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: One of the first things that like turned me off 300 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 1: about the one like a woman that smoked cigarettes. You 301 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I see a woman a cigarette 302 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: smoker automatically. I know, we can't do nothing about sig 303 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: of weed. Well, I don't think weed is that bais 304 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But cigarette, I hate the smoke. 305 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: I hate the weird look. I mean, that's just a 306 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: turn off, bad for you. It smells nasty, yeah, and 307 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: it sticks on clothes. Yeah, that's a deal break off. 308 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: Clara was going to quit smoke a cigarette, I don't know. 309 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: Playing with you, I found like it because I gotta bras, 310 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: all right, So smoke a cigarettes? What us would make 311 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: a woman undateable? Um? I guess if we are unequally yoked, 312 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, if a nonbelievable you know, 313 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like a woman that you know, 314 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 1: don't reverence, no type of godly belief, you know what 315 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: I mean. That's I don't see how we can grow together. 316 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: I don't see how we can have anything. You know 317 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: what I mean. She may believe in the devil, I 318 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: don't believe in the devil, So what if she's a 319 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: different religion though, No, I don't think that's a bad thing. 320 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: This religion thing, you know, is a man made to 321 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: a certain extent anyway, So anything else, Uh, let's see 322 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: what does any type of drugs or anything. Yeah, I 323 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: don't want know pere papa ain't nothing we can do. 324 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 1: I don't want no pere papa coax, not a I 325 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: don't want know hard drug dealing woman. Bushrooms, I don't 326 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: know what they do to But that's not that's not 327 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: that's not a drug that you would that's like a yeah, 328 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: that's not a drug. That's kind of falling in the 329 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 1: category as we even though it's not as popular mushrooms 330 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: how they make you feel. So mushrooms are just poisonous 331 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: mushrooms and it's it kind of just makes you like 332 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 1: hallucinate a little something. But I think it goes by 333 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: pretty quick and people do it kind of like a 334 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: spirituality thing too, But it's not anything. It's like really mushrooms. 335 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: It just really grows off the ground. It is your 336 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 1: body fighting the poison off because they're poison. Its mushrooms 337 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: that don't sound bad. We got something you to try. 338 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: These things look a little crazy in here all right. Now, 339 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: if some of the kids out here were to ask you, 340 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: how do you know it's safe to take the condom off? 341 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: But with your aunts to be, when is it time 342 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: that it go? Because you got kids? Yeah, you took 343 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 1: the condom off. Everybody never put it on, not definitely 344 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: put it on. Even have a condom company called scrap 345 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: get the strapped. You almost need to take some tests, 346 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Make sure everybody is clear. 347 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 1: You know how guys test themselves they suck you row 348 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: and if they don't got nothing to send their girlfriend. Yeah, 349 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 1: we don't have to be that way, you know what 350 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah, I think definitely, in this day and time, 351 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: it would be good to look at one another's test. 352 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 1: So you've done that and like, let's get tested. Keep 353 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: it real, I would like, because I don't know anybody 354 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: that's really done that ever. I know one person Okay, yeah, 355 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't even know one person. 356 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: That's it's ideal way to do it. That's what you're 357 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: supposed to do. But that's why I'm recommending it. Okay, 358 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 1: Like when did you know? Okay, we ain't using condoms. 359 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: You have to really believe and have faith in that 360 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: other individual. You have to know. And to me, it 361 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 1: was like my intuition, my spirit was comfortable with it. Now, 362 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 1: what if you go what if one of these kids 363 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: asked you, I went to her house. She's dope, love her, beautiful, smart, intelligent, 364 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: but her house was dirty. Is that a red flag? Yeah, 365 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,719 Speaker 1: it's definitely a red flag. Like normally, if somebody dressed 366 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: good and you know they places dirty, it's something going 367 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: on that may not be right, you know what I mean. 368 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 1: I just I would have a problem with that. I 369 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: don't like dirt. I like a clean environment. So that's 370 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: a red flag for me. If I see a lot 371 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 1: of dirt, dirty bath throat, just like clutters, I feel 372 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,199 Speaker 1: like where dirty. They're doing things that's dirty, you know 373 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like if you're not taking care of 374 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: your surroundings and how you left you I didn't carry 375 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: maybe you was rushing, you got some clothes that that's different, 376 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 1: Like you didn't take out your trash. But if you 377 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: have bathtub is filthy. That's when I clean my bathtub 378 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: like three, four, five times a week, Like that's nasty 379 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: to me. I would hate to go on somebody bath room. 380 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: I clean my bathtub when I clean my bath room, 381 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: even if I hadn't used it, because just dust. Yeah, 382 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 1: we're speaking from a woman. I dated a guy before 383 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 1: and I went to his house and it was disgusting 384 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: and I was completely turned off. That's what I cleaned 385 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: it because, I mean I had to make myself comfortable. 386 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 1: I didn't deal with him after, but I did. I know, 387 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 1: I clean leave his house, Yeah, because I was out 388 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: of town and I had to stay there. Yeah, so 389 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: it was either clean up to make myself feel comfortable, 390 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 1: or the hotel room or on the plane. No, no, no, no, 391 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: it was in a different state. I went to him. 392 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: We have been seeing each other for a while, and 393 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: he had it and had a oka it was dirty. Yeah, 394 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 1: it just was. I mean, it wasn't like it was dirty. 395 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: Are you more likely to have a woman come to 396 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: your house before you go to her house? And how 397 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: likely are you to go to a woman's house, Like 398 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it's an awkward feeling to go to 399 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: someone's house if you don't for the first time, because 400 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 1: you never know, you feel a little out of place. Yeah, 401 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like being in in environments where 402 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: unsecure environments, so I would be health attentive about going 403 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: anywhere where it wasn't secure. But about having someone come 404 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 1: to your house, like when you were younger, would you 405 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 1: have um if you were dating somebody? When did you 406 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: say okay? I never? I never allowed. I had. I 407 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: had to know you very well to bring you to 408 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 1: my place. You know what I mean. I'd rather get 409 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 1: a room or do anything, and I didn't. Very few 410 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: people had opportunity to know where I laid my head. 411 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you said that. So now because I 412 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 1: have a question, y'all, how do you think a woman 413 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 1: should date a man every time they link up or 414 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 1: something like that, it's in a room in a hotel here? Yeah, 415 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: you don't think that that? And you said I can't 416 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 1: come to your house height, how should that woman felt out? 417 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,959 Speaker 1: How should she felt like, all right, I'm gonna let 418 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: you all the way in. If every time we have 419 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 1: sex we're going to a hotel and you have a 420 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 1: big house. Yeah, No, I don't think that's fair either. 421 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 1: I think at some point, you know, it's a graduation phase. 422 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: But I think in the beginning it's a feeling out 423 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You want to know, you 424 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: want to know you can trust that person. I'm sure 425 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: they want to know if they can trust you. But 426 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: if you're already there, then that's a matter of a 427 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: bunding in some kind of capacity. So yeah, I don't 428 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: think it's for ever, but it is a process. And 429 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 1: what if she says to you, like, you know, I 430 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 1: don't like meeting you in hotels now where, Well, I 431 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: mean that's a prerogative and she don't like that. We 432 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: can figure out something else, But it don't mean it 433 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: has to be my place. Yeah, definitely. You know I 434 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: was that way in the beginning. I never let nobody 435 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 1: know where I laid my head. I felt like you 436 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: should be like I feel like the people listening to 437 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: need to take heed to this sting. You shouldn't just 438 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: let any and everybody comes to your place. Now, I 439 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: from experience to know that guys like to show off. 440 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,679 Speaker 1: You know they live in a nice condo where they 441 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 1: have a big old house and you know they yeah, 442 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 1: come over then, but it's just like still, like you 443 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: need to make sure that you know who this woman is, 444 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: or make sure that you know that she ain't gonna 445 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: be sending nobody to your house when you out of town. Yeah, 446 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: or if or if things go sour, then she's sending 447 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 1: people or things or whatever to your Like, you never 448 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,199 Speaker 1: really know where people's mindset are, so you shouldn't just 449 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 1: bring anybody to where you live at. What about letting 450 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: a woman cook for you? Oh? I love to eat 451 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 1: as long as she clean, you know what I mean, 452 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 1: can cook because it's hard for me to just eat 453 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 1: bad cooking. But she got to force yourself to do 454 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: it to be polite. Uh no, I couldn't. If I 455 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 1: don't like it, I'm not gonna force it down. But 456 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm not hungry no more. You're gonna 457 00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: be like it doesn't taste that. I think I'm being honest, honest. 458 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: I see him, and I see him in a very calm, 459 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: nice way, saying, listen, here, sweet her, you put forth 460 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: the effort, but it's just not what I'm going out. 461 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 1: I slaved all day. This is so cayful. Maybe you 462 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 1: need to try another recipe. Actually favorite, this is mine. 463 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:20,159 Speaker 1: You'll see everyone loves this. Okay, Well, my collageude honest person, 464 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,359 Speaker 1: trudely honest. So I let her know. I almost can smell. 465 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, we eat with our eyes and our 466 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: noses before we taste the absolutely. What's your favorite dish? 467 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 1: I'm my soul food man, you know what I mean. 468 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 1: I love some soul food. I love sea food. If 469 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: I had to choose my favorite dish, it would be 470 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: my grandmother beans and rice. Yeah, I love beans, and 471 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 1: that's interesting. Yeah, I would never have anticipated. Yeah it 472 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: was Sunday. She make him from me if I'm in town. 473 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: That's cool. And I wish you give up that recipe something. 474 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 1: She re esteems you with that recipe. Ain't giving up 475 00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: that recipe. I get that recipe up. Dog, you got 476 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,919 Speaker 1: down because I can do a little something, but I 477 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 1: never do it. Look like a lot of men can't cook, 478 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: but most of them I imprison you know what? Yeah, 479 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: but cook for anybody? Yes, what did you make? Spaghettist? 480 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: That's all guys. That doesn'tunt turkey bacon? Anybody cook cook eggs. 481 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: Everybody can't cook eggs. That ain't now everybody can't cook bacon. 482 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 1: I don't eat that stuff. But when I used to, 483 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: people burn it up and all that you'd be burning 484 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,199 Speaker 1: your bacon. Let me see, I like my bacon. I 485 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: like my turkey bacon, crispy, kind of burnt bacon. Not 486 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: at all, not at all, My god, I ate pork 487 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 1: the other bag sometimes. Yeah. I took a bite of 488 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: a pork hot dog, he said. The person that gave 489 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: it to me told me was turkey, and I believe them. 490 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 1: And first bite, first bite, I knew you could buy it. 491 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: By three or four hours later, my stomach was doing flips. 492 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 1: But you would stick the wholes. No, no, no, no no no. 493 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: I only ate the one bite. And then he said, 494 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: you don't need hot dogs? Hours later? Why not hot dogs? 495 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: But your report, Well, it's hard for me. Smell. Have 496 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,879 Speaker 1: you ever seen how hot dogs I made? Never like 497 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: hot dogs for some reason. How does that? It's gross? 498 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: The process of Yeah, but you know what, I only 499 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 1: eat hot dogs if they're deep fried, were on the grill. 500 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: I can't eat hot dogs. You fry hot deep fried 501 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: hot dogs? Yes, but it did frier. Oh my, I 502 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: had in Atlanta for the first time. When I lived 503 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: in Atlanta, it was this place called the Chicken Shack. 504 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 1: And I used to go to Chicken Shack all the 505 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: time and check in Jersey, we call it the Chicken 506 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: The chicken spots. Yeah yeah, no, no, no. It was 507 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 1: really called the Chicken Shack and it was a little 508 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: teeny place off one SI six off Camperton Roll and I. 509 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: We used to go there and get deep fried hot 510 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 1: dogs that sound like an attack. It was so good 511 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: and then you die. I had jugs of years. I 512 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 1: haven't had pork since I was in sixth grade. I 513 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 1: haven't had years. It wasn't that many. But the only 514 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: time I've ever eating pork I was I eat it 515 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 1: by accident every single time I got sick. I'm with 516 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: you want a seafood, That's all I eat. I'm a prescutarian. 517 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get to be a vegetarian, but I 518 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: just love crab legs too much. I don't need see 519 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: food at all. Yeah, we know you're missing out chicken, 520 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: vegetables and chicken. That's it. What's your sign? I love scorpio. 521 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 1: Scorpio man are the worst. They're freaky, freaky. I didn't 522 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: one scorpio y no, no, no, I would say this. 523 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: They are very freaky, but they also cheat so much. 524 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 1: Oh my god, they are the worst. And they'd be 525 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: lying about headed. I had ex boyfriend was a scorpio, 526 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: and he lied about everything, his how many kids he had. 527 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, how are you lying on you? 528 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 1: He told me that this is the dumbest lot ever. 529 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,239 Speaker 1: So he had a baby by this check right. And 530 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 1: then the woman was pregnant when me and him started dating. 531 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,160 Speaker 1: But he told me that she was pregnant by somebody else. 532 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 1: So I believe him, right, because why would you just 533 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: make that up? His baby mom was having a baby, 534 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,719 Speaker 1: but she was with somebody else. Then after she had 535 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 1: the baby or whatever, she called me one day I 536 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 1: was in college and she was like, yeah, tell him 537 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 1: he needs to buy his kids some pampers. I said, 538 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 1: he only has one. She was like, um, no, we 539 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: have two. Then he told me, after I confronted him 540 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 1: about it, that it wasn't his. It was his brother's baby. 541 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: Who lies about something, no experience? And yeah, and then 542 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: everybody he was twenty seven years old, right, but he 543 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: told me he was twenty four. So then when I 544 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: found out because one of his boys, you know, snitched 545 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: on him, because that's what guys do. Um. He told 546 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 1: me he said, you know, he'd be lying about his age, 547 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, I was I asked him he 548 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 1: was like, you know, I went to jail for three years. 549 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 1: So since they took those three years in my life, 550 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: dirt back God, he said. He says he's twenty four 551 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: because they took three years from him. The scorpio, I 552 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: don't think that. I've never been that for geminis. I'm 553 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 1: a Gemini and people who be all crazy have one 554 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 1: crazy persona people in one sign. The sign is actually 555 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: to this great. Do you care about signs? Not really, 556 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: not really. I don't get caught up in it, but 557 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 1: I think there is some kind of validity there. But no, 558 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: you don't never ax. But I don't govern what we're 559 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: gonna do or what we have based on Yeah, I 560 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 1: don't think it's that real. I got. I know a 561 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: lot of scorpios. My dad was a scorpio. Like I 562 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't say liar, I would say arrogant. I would say 563 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 1: a little, short tempered, maybe more than a little. And 564 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: I would say I don't From dealing with scorpios, I 565 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: would say that they're very freaky. Yeah, and that's it, No, 566 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 1: I said, Yeah, he was. I don't really know many 567 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 1: sco men, but I know a lot of scupio women. 568 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: And that's a living opportunists, the same ex boyfriend. Though 569 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: something in your buck actually made me think of him 570 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 1: when I was reading it, even though this was a 571 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: long time ago, when you were talking about driving to 572 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: go to prison to visit your uncle and how you 573 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: saw things and it was like getting out of the neighborhood. 574 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 1: He was the type of person that had never left 575 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,239 Speaker 1: his neighborhood growing up, and when he used to come 576 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: visit me in college, he was like, Damn, I wish 577 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: I would have seen some of this when I was younger. 578 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 1: I left my neighborhood because they probably would have made 579 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: me want to go to school or like do more. 580 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 1: And because he was like one of those unsuccessful drug dealers, 581 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: you know that it was a low level. I think 582 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people from where I'm from, 583 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: a Philly that never leave Philly, right, But it really 584 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: does And yeah, it's crazy to me too. I think 585 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,719 Speaker 1: that people should get out and experience the world, not 586 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: just outside of your city, but they should experience other 587 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 1: countries and other cultures. Because from the traveling that I 588 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: did over the past decade, I feel like it's taught 589 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: me so much about life. And everybody don't have the 590 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 1: opportunity or even the thing like, look, when we were younger, right, 591 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 1: we didn't have the internet like we have now where 592 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 1: you can see things in other countries, so you have 593 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: no idea Like me growing up in Brooklyn and Flatbush, 594 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: I never really left my neighborhood when I was younger, 595 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking we're chilling doing good until I left, 596 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: and so we wasn't really doing that good. But see 597 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: that's back that. Nowadays, there's no excuse, like you have 598 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: access to the internet, don't bottom sneak as this month, 599 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: save up your money and go somewhere and save it 600 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 1: for memory. And one thing that people don't know is 601 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: it's not as expensive to travel as as people actually think. 602 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 1: If you're playing a happy playing ahead, you know, Groupan 603 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: got some nice trips um. But if you're playing ahead 604 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 1: and you research where you're going and that type of 605 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 1: chang and a lot of hotels are all inclusive, so 606 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: you don't really have to have a whole lot of 607 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: money once you get there. This been on food and 608 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: you know stuff like that, unless you like, you know, 609 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: trying to travel on the excursions. But I honestly think 610 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 1: that people should get out more. I think that it 611 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 1: is good for the I mean it's yeah, but if 612 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: you're a young kid and you don't have a job 613 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: and you're just in school, like because I didn't, you know, 614 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: experience that I didn't even I think my first vacation 615 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: was when I, um, when I graduated from college and 616 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: I went away. One of my friends, UM her family 617 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: had like a time share, and so all I had 618 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 1: to do was buy my flight and that was like 619 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: the first time I ever went on. And when I 620 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: was growing up, my grandmother had a house in Whitewood 621 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: and every summer from as long as I can remember, 622 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 1: until I was older to say I didn't want to go, 623 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: which was like, but that's not that far from But 624 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: to me, I was going thatwhere. Yeah, that was my 625 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: you know, that was my traveling. And I didn't realize 626 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: until I grew up and started growing, I mean started 627 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: actually traveling and getting on planes and going to other 628 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: places that I was really only an hour away, you know, 629 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 1: I was only an hour two away from home. But 630 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: as a little kid, like that was huge to me 631 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 1: that every summer I left home and where how I was. 632 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 1: I was like one of those they sent me down south. 633 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 1: I was one of them kids, they're like something. I 634 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: was in North Carolina, I was in South Carolina. I 635 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: was in everywhere but home with my mother, and she 636 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: was like, your ass is bad. You're going down there 637 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: with your auntie or your godmother or whatever. And I 638 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: would be there the whole summer. But she would still 639 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: take us our trek style. We would go to Like 640 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: my mother, I'm not even gonna say like she had 641 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: a whole bunch of money, but she figured it out 642 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: so she would drive like I was dead. See my 643 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: mother drive like to Florida by herself. We had three 644 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: girls in the car, and she would take us to 645 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: Disney like she would make a stand. Ever been in 646 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: Disney room? Men, Like for your kids, you got to 647 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 1: do some some stuff like that. Sometimes I ever went 648 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: where the island and my mom is from Mansterrat. That's 649 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: the only place I've ever been growing up. Was the 650 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 1: first time you left the country? Oh Um? I was grown. 651 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: I was grown and I went on a family vacation. 652 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 1: Which is where did I go? I think to Europe? 653 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 1: First trip? Did you feel like out of place? Because 654 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 1: I know the first time even the country, it feels mad, weird, 655 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 1: like even with the phone service not being able to 656 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: use your phone like that and not being able to 657 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,400 Speaker 1: order what you want and you don't know what's going on. 658 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,760 Speaker 1: I don't really feel out of place for my eyes, 659 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: you know, witnessing the churches in the history over that 660 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: gave me a whole different perspective of everything. And I'm like, whoa. 661 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,360 Speaker 1: And you know, reading my history books, all these different 662 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 1: places and things that always thought I would never wasn't 663 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: important to me, I would never see. And here I 664 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: am walking at a museum where the great Grave is 665 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like, whoa, this is interesting. But I think traveling, 666 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: you know, for me, getting out of my hood gave 667 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: me a whole different outlook and caused my brain cells 668 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:53,400 Speaker 1: to open up and start dreaming beyond you know what 669 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 1: I even imagine. So that was one of us to 670 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 1: be able to Just that penitentiary ride that I took 671 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: with my with my grandmother caused me. That's why I 672 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,800 Speaker 1: winning purchased a thousand acre ranch. The seed was planning 673 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 1: in me from looking at laying right into the penitentiary. 674 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 1: So that's how powerful that can be, you know what, 675 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,480 Speaker 1: and make you want to do different things. I remember 676 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: they used to do this trip called Brooklyn, Vermont where 677 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,480 Speaker 1: they would take people from you know, Brooklyn and then 678 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: take you snowboarding in Vermont. And that's something there, like 679 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,799 Speaker 1: you know who does that? Like I never even knew 680 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: what that really was until we went on those trips 681 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: as motivating and it makes you want to see more. 682 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 1: So it makes you want to do more thing exactly 683 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: exactly everybody need to get up out the area and 684 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 1: comfort zone and goes, you know, experience other thing. I agree. Oh, 685 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: and I want to ask you have you ever had 686 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: beef like when you were younger over a girl, like 687 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,759 Speaker 1: really not fun with somebody, because I know in the 688 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: book you talk about your son and little Wayne, about 689 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,879 Speaker 1: Jazz and Little Wayne having they're falling out, But has 690 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,280 Speaker 1: that ever happened to you? No, No, I don't recall 691 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: that well. I remember in high school, I mean in 692 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 1: elementary school, I had now this girl named Sharon Staley. Yeah, 693 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: I don't know, I got nineteen kids, I don't know. 694 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: But I went to a school in third Ward. I'm 695 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 1: from fifth War. Transferred to school from third Ward, and 696 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: when I left, this guy was picking on or pulling 697 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 1: her hair. So when I came back to fifth Ward, 698 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 1: I got right on his ass. Did you have a 699 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,879 Speaker 1: crush on her? I did? I did? I mean from 700 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,880 Speaker 1: Kenny go onto the sixth grade? Was she grateful? Like 701 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:38,279 Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah? She was quiet, she was innocent, and 702 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: her parents was glad. I had came back to fifth ward, 703 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 1: but she was being arrest. But what you had a 704 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: crush on her? Y'all? Did with your girlfriend? Now? That 705 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 1: was my years? Yeah, No, we call ourself being girlfriend 706 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 1: and boyfriends. He didn't really mean nothing, you know, because 707 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 1: I was like, I just mean, don't pull her haircause 708 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,319 Speaker 1: I whipped that. Ask you remember the person you had 709 00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 1: a crush on when you was in elementary school? I 710 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 1: remember to his personal last name, just like how you 711 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 1: don't yet? Day was John Days. I was in love 712 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 1: and like if I've seen him right now and I 713 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: know what that if he's on Facebook? Like I like that, brother? 714 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,760 Speaker 1: What is it? What was he? He was light skinning, 715 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: sounds like he was Hispanic, he was mixed, he was 716 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: he was black in Spanish. Oky liked him? Yeah, I 717 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 1: liked myself right, little battle myself Kendrick voice, What would 718 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: you say for the guys out there listening? What are 719 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,960 Speaker 1: some of the qualities that you should look for in 720 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 1: a good woman. I think the number one quality you 721 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: should look for is uh, you want to find somebody 722 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,439 Speaker 1: that's spiritually grounded, you know what I mean. You want 723 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 1: to know you want to check her belief system, you 724 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 1: know what she believe in, not whatsover religion, but what 725 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: can you be or without knowing a woman's belief system 726 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:03,439 Speaker 1: has feel about God. That's number one. And from there, 727 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 1: you know, I would go on to you want to 728 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: tap into something that you attracted to, you know what 729 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,800 Speaker 1: I mean. You don't want to try to build something 730 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: with somebody that you're gonna be looking at all these 731 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: other women trying to find something you won't and a woman, 732 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 1: so you need to make sure you're attracted to this 733 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 1: woman from a physical perspective mentally, you know what I mean. 734 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: You want to make sure you y'all connect, y'all equally, yoke, 735 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 1: can have a conversation, can relate to one another. What's 736 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: her dreams in life? What's your dreams in life? You 737 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 1: know what I mean? You have all these real conversations 738 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 1: to see if y'all even on the same page. But 739 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 1: if she was like, I'm going to start a makeup line, 740 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: would you invest or just gonna ask the I think, yeah, 741 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 1: I think it's a beautiful thing to u to have 742 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 1: a woman with an entrepreneur mine, you know what I mean. 743 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 1: But if you don't think it's a good idea though, well, 744 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: if you don't think it's a good idea, I'm a 745 00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 1: I'm the type. I'm gonna want to see the budget. 746 00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:10,359 Speaker 1: You don't have that budget, then we know you know 747 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,040 Speaker 1: the possibilities of your plan you I mean, you ain't 748 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 1: got a role map to get there. Then it's just 749 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: a conversation. So a certain things, you know, you have 750 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 1: to real conversation. You have to have to know if 751 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,879 Speaker 1: this can even become a reality. What is that left 752 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 1: in life that you want to do that you haven't 753 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 1: accomplished yet? I don't know. You know, I accomplished all 754 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 1: of my my goals that I want to at least 755 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: my material goals, not really other than uh, I guess 756 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 1: I want to be a better person, so you know 757 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 1: what I mean. That's a goal to just be better, 758 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 1: Just to be better and to spend quality time with 759 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 1: you know, family and friends, things like that. But for 760 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:56,240 Speaker 1: as material goals, I've pretty much accomplished everyone I really wanted, 761 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 1: So of course, maybe some new ones may pop up. 762 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: But I'm at a place, you know, in my life 763 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,799 Speaker 1: where I'm just something like cruise control. I just want 764 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 1: to enjoy every day, you know, leave it how I 765 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: want to enjoy to the fullest, and you know, share 766 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 1: it with others. Do you ever be goofy at home? 767 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 1: Like trying these dances? Do things like that? All right, well, 768 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: thank you so much, Jay Prince. You actually came into 769 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: lip service. Hey, there's a pleasure on you know what 770 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,080 Speaker 1: I mean. I've never been in a situation like, yeah, 771 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 1: you're not mad, right, this is different. We're not gonna 772 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:41,400 Speaker 1: get no call. Like we all were nervous. You nervous. 773 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 1: I was nervous. I was like, I don't know what 774 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 1: the funk about the second I always defends somebody. I said, listen, 775 00:40:48,200 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 1: don't say nothing. I c verite, colorful personality. Great lip service. Yeah, 776 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: we're done. It is my service.