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Speaker 1: Everybody. Welcome to for the Dad's Pop at Team six.

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Speaker 1: If you're out there, I hope you consumed all the

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Speaker 1: football this week. I hope you're trash just taken out.

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Speaker 1: I hope you and the missus got the mount over

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Speaker 1: the weekend. Welcome to for the Dads. This is a

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Speaker 1: show for the intentional father. Maybe you're wanting to be

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Speaker 1: more of an intentional father. Maybe you just enjoy Fat

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Speaker 1: Stafford and really Onesholf swapping kids stories and husband stories

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Speaker 1: throughout the episode. This show is free for you on

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Speaker 1: all platforms. All of our content on socials is created

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Speaker 1: for you, whether you feel some type of emotion, whether

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Speaker 1: you share it, whether we all share a laugh, we

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Speaker 1: find a good meme, good meme video. It's all for

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Speaker 1: you and if you find yourself enjoying the content whatsoever,

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Speaker 1: you simply subscribe to our channels.

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Speaker 2: We're on YouTube. We're on Spotify, Apple, Amazon, Spotify, Apple, Amazon,

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Speaker 2: Amazon YouTube, Google, Google, I think it's called Google Play, Google, Wikipedia.

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Speaker 2: We're on it, Amazon, Amazon, We're on Amazon.

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Speaker 1: Just subscribe to the boys. We're also on social for

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Speaker 1: the Dad's Pod. We across all social channels. So that's X, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok.

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Speaker 2: I'm here. I'm hearing that we're on ridded officially. We're

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Speaker 1: We're out there, and uh, nothing gets us more juice

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Speaker 1: than seeing the numbers go up. We're taking a bit

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Speaker 1: of a hit during football season.

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Speaker 2: That was expected. That's expected.

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Speaker 1: We need to bring in our coach speak, bring in

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Speaker 1: our football talk as we continue to grow this channel

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Speaker 1: because there are the PT six. Look, as long as

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Speaker 1: we have the PT six sickos and the Milk Team

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Speaker 1: six to six sickos and everybody engaging the way that

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Speaker 1: they have been, we're gonna be just fine. We'd love

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Speaker 1: to see some growth in the football season because that

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Speaker 1: tells me we already know we got a brand, but

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Speaker 1: this is.

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Speaker 2: Can we do an overarching thank you? Because I know

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Speaker 2: on the live stream, I was only there for the

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Speaker 2: Thursday one, but I'm guessing they probably did it on

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Speaker 2: the Saturday one too. Saw a lot of PT six comments.

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Speaker 2: Yes on the live stream.

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Speaker 1: Nothing gets to piss out more than seeing pop a

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Speaker 1: Team six show up in the comments of our other shows.

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Speaker 2: Whatever we're doing in.

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Speaker 1: With Fat Stafford and Willie one shelf. If you want

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Speaker 1: to h if you really want to make a name

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Speaker 1: for yourself in the PT six community, it's going to

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Speaker 1: bwtv dot com. This hat that you see is this

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Speaker 1: hat in the store, the black one.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to confirm that, Chef.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you right now.

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Speaker 1: Chef is our lead producer of the show that the

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Speaker 1: Cat and a Seaman Team six, and I am not lying,

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Speaker 1: bro Papa.

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Speaker 2: Team six. People are going nuts about this black hat.

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Speaker 2: If it's not in the store.

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Speaker 1: Right now, we're gonna have problems in the comments section

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Speaker 1: because they want it.

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Speaker 2: I want them to have it. I don't make those decisions.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, yeah, we should have it. Hell yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love the black cat too.

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Speaker 4: We have problems in the comment section about the black hat.

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Speaker 4: There are riots being formed. Yeah to the black hat.

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Speaker 1: I hope they fucking storm the shop and figure out

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Speaker 1: where we are and hold whoever's running the merch shop

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Speaker 2: Cat that thig drops. It's gonna be a problem. It's

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Speaker 2: double it whatever it is, double it because BT six

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Speaker 2: is coming. They're coming the beaches in Normandy, they're coming. Also,

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Speaker 2: this guy, we do have some stuff dropping soon. Oh

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Speaker 2: that's not in there either. So we're talking about shit

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Speaker 2: that might not even be in the store. We do it,

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Speaker 2: we will be You know what is in the store.

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Speaker 2: Will tell us that the our merch team so graciously

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Speaker 2: gifted me with and I mean that in sincerity. This

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Speaker 1: Good onesie. We got adults. Listen, the babies, they can't

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Speaker 1: know you want in black PT six and we're gonna

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Speaker 5: another one coming out another iteration, and you've seen that one.

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Speaker 2: I've seen that one. I love it.

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Speaker 2: So everybody that got one this first iteration that's volume one.

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Speaker 2: Volume two will be dropping soon. And also did we

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Speaker 2: Look at those handsome mug grapple pad.

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Speaker 1: We heard the comments they wanted a camera for the

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Speaker 2: We got it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, the four of the Dad's pennant hanging hanging

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Speaker 2: Buying fact Staffy, did you hang that?

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Speaker 1: People know that thing fell like eight different times a

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Speaker 2: We gotta They know what we look like and they

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Speaker 2: we gotta act, and we gotta act fast. Should we

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Speaker 2: What are these called cards? Que cards, Q cards, some

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Speaker 2: Either very nice. I'll go ahead and kick it on me.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Ian nat Natch Ian Natch seventy

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Speaker 2: Six Van sure Shureham Chef Derek Willie one chelf. My

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Speaker 2: name's Ian.

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Speaker 1: I'm an Army veteran from Missouri, but go war eagle

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Speaker 1: and a dad to a three year old little savage boy.

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Speaker 1: I got out of the Army in twenty twenty and

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Speaker 1: have struggled to find the brotherhood I had in the military.

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Speaker 1: I lost one of my best friends from my unit

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Speaker 1: to suicide in February. Rip, Sergeant Brandon Rock. I miss you, buddy.

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Speaker 2: I found the show in June.

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Speaker 1: And it's given me something to look forward to every

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Speaker 1: love you boys, Let's fucking kill this week. I love

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Speaker 1: I said I didn't want to read an emotional one,

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Speaker 2: R Yeah, dude, Ian could not agree more with you.

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Speaker 2: On a personal level. I feel the same way about

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Speaker 2: But I love hearing that thank you for your vulnerability, brother.

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Speaker 1: Barbie Hasten, Yeah, sixty two eighty six. This is to

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Speaker 1: Thought for a show military dads and moms, shout out,

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Speaker 1: shout out to them dealing with them missing monumental moments.

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Speaker 1: Thank god we have FaceTime and other social media to

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Speaker 1: stay present. I am a daughter of a veteran. My

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Speaker 1: sure that they carry such extremes amount of guilt serving

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Speaker 2: I literally teared up. That's after a week.

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Speaker 1: Dude, Isn't it a nuts like, especially when you have

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Speaker 1: the first one. I still like seeing the same stuff

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Speaker 2: But you're gone for a few days and you come

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Speaker 2: way they open now I'm just like, you're actually seeing

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Speaker 2: shit now, like, yes, Ugh, it was rough, it was rough. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I have a good I have a good one. We

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Speaker 2: have a little surprise for Willie c Okay. This came

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Speaker 2: Instagram page. Shout out Derek. This comes from Darren. In

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Speaker 2: I've been a longtime follower of Busting with the Boys

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Speaker 2: of Indie Drills been meaning to share this fake and

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Speaker 2: And then I tried telling you didn't like and had

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Speaker 1: I couldn't wait to just get the lawn chairs, have

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Speaker 1: She's very sweet, knows what she wants. Got some attitude

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Speaker 2: By the way, this could be a survivor Survival kitka

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Speaker 2: of ru In Scotty's age and rue it a year

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Speaker 1: why it's like, take as many photo and videos as

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Speaker 2: Shout out whoever DMed me that exact dat hack you

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Speaker 2: future dad hacks that was going to be one of

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Speaker 2: mine or Survival Kit. Sorry, I can.

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Speaker 1: Take as many one of the Take as many as possible.

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Speaker 1: Man videos all of it. So in there you a

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Speaker 2: Send it up, put it up, put it put it up, man,

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Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm biased, I'm fired up on the

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Speaker 1: world's gotta see this ship.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Send it to Max Cross because I was like Max

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Speaker 1: They check out Scotti, Joe Lee. She's a menace. A menace.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to sit here and talk about the Raiders,

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Speaker 1: that's okay. We did have to go back and forth

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Speaker 2: He's done. Yeah. Have you seen the X rays on

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Speaker 2: the becksweetheart, I'm done. I can't play anymore. Very heartwarming

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Speaker 2: talking about like all the time that is just lost instantly,

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Speaker 2: what are you doing? The secret assassin was in the room. Good.

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Speaker 2: I had to think quick, we're playing a game. It's

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Speaker 2: the bad with the period fellas. If you get caught

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Speaker 2: That comes from JJ Sell's house you tube. I just

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Speaker 1: Good for that married couple, just feeling confident of the

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Speaker 1: that's poetry.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Oh god.

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Speaker 1: God, dude, that's funny. Uh you know, yeah, I've never

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Speaker 2: Gotta getta gotta go quick. So you're a morning guy

436
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Speaker 2: at times. Yeah, okay, I'm mostly a morning guy too.

437
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Speaker 2: I'm glad we share that. Yeah, we switch every now

438
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Speaker 2: and then. Yeah, we do two, just twos because I

439
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 2: get that itch. Daddy gotta hit ye, come on, come

440
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 2: home something. Cheryl will hit me with it. Just in

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Speaker 2: the morning, Alexa, set alarm, set alarm for four thirty am.

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Speaker 1: And I promise when that alarm goes off, it's like

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Speaker 1: my eyes open up, and that's the first thought.

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Speaker 2: Of my head. Go time, go time. Hey, honey, kids

445
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Speaker 2: are waking up. Don't worry.

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Speaker 1: Daddy's specialty will make it quick, quick and disappointing. Fro

447
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Speaker 1: do tune into the past. Love the podfellas Names Name's been,

448
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: Name's Ben. Big fan of Bustle with the Boys before

449
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: the spot. I got a funny story that you guys

450
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: might like. It's a long one, so I hope it

451
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Speaker 1: is June third, twenty twenty five, the day of your

452
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Speaker 1: guys first episode. I remember waking up that day and

453
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Speaker 1: seeing a video suggests it on YouTube, clicking on it,

454
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Speaker 1: seeing seeing it was for the dad. It's thinking, man,

455
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 1: that's a great idea. I'll have to run these back

456
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: when me and the old lady decide to start popping

457
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Speaker 1: the little ones out. I go about my day, taking

458
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Speaker 1: the trash out, mowing the lawn, getting some work done,

459
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Speaker 1: and my lady comes home from more complaining about being

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Speaker 1: nauseous and feeling blah. All day, I comfort her, not

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Speaker 1: thinking anything of it. Day turns into night and we

462
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Speaker 1: eat dinner and are contemplating whether or not late night

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Speaker 1: ice cream run is the move or not. She is

464
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Speaker 1: still complaining about feeling bad and says she is three

465
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Speaker 1: days late on her time.

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Speaker 2: Of the month.

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Speaker 1: So me and the goober I am suggests, let's go

468
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Speaker 1: get a pregnancy test and get some ice cream and

469
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Speaker 1: we can put your mind.

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Speaker 2: At ease and get a sweet treat.

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Speaker 1: An hour later, and seven positive pregnancy tests in I

472
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Speaker 1: found out I'm going to become a member of PET

473
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Speaker 1: six in March. Been watching the pod every week ever since.

474
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Speaker 1: You guys help her lieve the fears I have about

475
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Speaker 1: becoming a father by reminding me what it's all about.

476
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Speaker 1: Keep this going. You're doing all good. If we could

477
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Speaker 1: get some big and tall sizes and bustle with the

478
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Speaker 1: boy Store for us dads that are six five three

479
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Speaker 1: fifty former offensive lineman, that would be sick. Great note,

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Speaker 1: great note, and great story. Congratulations fro Do.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations and for those at home, that's fro Do spelled

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Speaker 2: f r O d o U g H. Yes. Dough

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Speaker 2: like what is used to make brad Yes, or cookie

484
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Speaker 2: dough or cookie dough?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Thank you Ben, and congratulations to you guys. That's uh.

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Speaker 1: It's like one of those things where were like, what

487
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Speaker 1: a sign that was? Yeah, first time seeing the episode

488
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Speaker 1: going throughout the day, Oh, this will be fun, and

489
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Speaker 1: then finding out Yo, I'm gonna be in PT.

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Speaker 2: Six Yes, dude, And I love I love reading those comments.

491
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Speaker 2: I've gotten just a handful of those here and there

492
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Speaker 2: of like your first episode coincides with like when we

493
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Speaker 2: found out that we were pregnant. So whenever I see

494
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Speaker 2: like the episode come up of let's say this week,

495
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Speaker 2: week fourteen, Oh my wife's fourteen weeks pregnant. I love

496
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Speaker 2: that that they have that little counter and that's fun

497
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Speaker 2: for the dads. Has created some babies it. People are talking.

498
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Speaker 2: People are talking, a lot of people are going to

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Speaker 2: theme parks and writing coasters these.

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Speaker 1: Days, writing Coasters. Congratulations to Sherman and Jill on writing

501
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Speaker 1: the sting Ray Shockwave, The Shockwave, The Shockwave a fun

502
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Speaker 1: little coaster.

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Speaker 2: Active off poplist. Some are saying some are saying, thank

504
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Speaker 2: you guys for tuning in and leaving comments. I do

505
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Speaker 2: have one last comment.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I got a stack here. We get sprinkling comments

507
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Speaker 1: throughout the episode.

508
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Speaker 2: Oh we could do whatever I did, So this one

509
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Speaker 2: is specifically fun because I love this idea. This comes

510
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Speaker 2: from this is off YouTube. This comes from Amelia White

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Speaker 2: eight one three zero new Milk Team six here. My

512
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Speaker 2: husband and I also new PT six member to a

513
00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 2: two month old boy. Love the pod. Please please have

514
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 2: Charo in Jill design some Milk Team six shirts. I'm

515
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 2: super jealous of my husband's Papa Bear shirt. Laughing emoji,

516
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,959
Speaker 2: handhard emoji, hard emoji. Get on it, Willy one shelf

517
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Speaker 2: and knock off Stafford. I love that she didn't call

518
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Speaker 2: me Pat Stafford. She called me knockoff.

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Speaker 1: Staff And if she's listening to herself, like get on

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Speaker 1: a Willie one shelf. Let's have a resume here that

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Speaker 1: says I won't be getting on it anytime soon, anytime,

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Speaker 1: anytime soon.

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Speaker 2: I love that idea. But I love the girls designing

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Speaker 2: something for the girl. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I like how just the women wives and moms out

526
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Speaker 1: there have been just engaging with dads and PT six.

527
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Speaker 2: I love that they're jealous.

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Speaker 1: I love that they're jealous because I've had a couple like, oh,

529
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Speaker 1: you guys are a lottle cute for the dad's pot.

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Speaker 1: Friends of mine that are like badger me, oh dads

531
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Speaker 1: like they say, they're like, oh, you have it so rough,

532
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: like moms have it way worse than you.

533
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:07,439
Speaker 2: You know what I said, Please enlighten me. What you said?

534
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 2: I said, bitch, and you probably did say it because

535
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Speaker 2: your guy for it.

536
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: Something like that. Yeah, I said something like that. But

537
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, look, dad, life.

538
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 2: Is just as hard. It's just it's hard. And y'all

539
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 2: know those videos of the Ashton guy where he's sprinting.

540
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: I say, y'all that meme of dad's coming to tell

541
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Speaker 2: you how hard it was to watch their wives give

542
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Speaker 2: birth on the little hospital couch, and it's just that

543
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Speaker 2: action good. I was laughing so hard. We wish we

544
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Speaker 2: could take that pain away, Yeah, we really do. I

545
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Speaker 2: wish I could breastfeed. I wish that too. And if

546
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Speaker 2: I could, I would.

547
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Speaker 5: But.

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Speaker 2: Give us a hormone quickly, quickly after I stood on

549
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Speaker 2: the hill for PT.

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Speaker 1: Six because listen, we don't back down from anybody, because moms,

551
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 1: we don't back down from anybody. But once I once

552
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Speaker 1: I pitched how difficult it is to be a father.

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Speaker 1: You are right, though, mom.

554
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: This comment started with milk cream six is funding to us,

555
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 2: and then it just started to we got it hard. Yeah,

556
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 2: we got away, were talking.

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00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: Ship but immediately folded like a lawn chair. Listen, I'm aware, Yeah,

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00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: but dads need a space.

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00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 2: We do need a space. Basis, y'all shut us up,

560
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: wait too fast. Seem to be on our side, though

561
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: they seem to be. They agreed, they like this. Yeah, good,

562
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: we're good. Yeah, we're good. Listen, we'll calm down and

563
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 2: quiet down in the car. Trust us. So you got it.

564
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Speaker 1: You're making a lot of sense. It doesn't make sense

565
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 1: to me right now, but you're probably making a lot

566
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Speaker 1: of sense.

567
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 2: Oh you like my show and you want a mom shirt? Okay, God,

568
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: I'll stop talking about it. Sorry, shut at the moms shout.

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Speaker 2: We love you guys. I do have a question, go ahead, how.

570
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Speaker 1: Are how are your systems and operations operating during football weekends.

571
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: I had a pretty clean weekend. Something that I'd like

572
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Speaker 1: to correct. It was week one football where it's full.

573
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Speaker 1: You know, you're you're rolling out the operation. First weekend

574
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Speaker 1: of NFL in college, so it's like, got to watch

575
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Speaker 1: ball on Saturday. Ah, honey, NFL starts this weekend. Got

576
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Speaker 1: to watch ball on Sunday. Somehow, my wife they had

577
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Speaker 1: a little bar three outing, a little team building out

578
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Speaker 1: of a winery on Saturday.

579
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Speaker 2: So your boys got the kiddos at home.

580
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Speaker 1: Timeline was real silent, real silent on the way I

581
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Speaker 1: was operating on Saturday. I'm talking when six and two

582
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Speaker 1: on my fan duel bets and was operating as a

583
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Speaker 1: solo dad at home and it went quite well. Got

584
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: to have some ball on then at times Ruven told

585
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 1: me that I can't watch TV. You can't watch TV.

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00:28:59,560 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: All right.

587
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: I had to get out the old iPhone and just

588
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: kind of have it quiet while I played hide and

589
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: seek and stuff. As long as I keep up with

590
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Speaker 1: the scores, see what was happening. Posters already won, so

591
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: that he was in the barn for your boy, he was.

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Speaker 2: In the barn. He was a nice little sixty eight

593
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Speaker 2: zero sprinkled. Yeah.

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00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: And while Mom was enjoying herself for six hours down

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Speaker 1: south at the winery in Franklin, shaking her ass upside

596
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: down in a party bus, Dad was putting up numbies

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Speaker 1: at home.

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Speaker 2: Well deserved, very well deserved. I was fired up for

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, listen, if I got to be

601
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Speaker 1: in the mud on Saturday like this, good, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is the test that I need. There's gonna be

603
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Speaker 1: zero complaining. You're not gonna hear from me, sweetheart. One time,

604
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: one time about where something is your boy can operate

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Speaker 1: even with football on the TV.

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00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and operate we did. I'm talking. Scotty took a

607
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Speaker 2: good long two hour nap, woke.

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Speaker 1: Up a couple times, put herself back to sleep after

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Speaker 1: crying for maybe a couple of minutes. One time she

610
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Speaker 1: fell asleep, like sitting up. I got she was wineing.

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Speaker 2: She like she fell asleep and then kind of plopped over.

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Speaker 2: It was adorable.

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Speaker 1: She took a great nap ruin Hird, a great, great

614
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: time playing hide and seek, doing some quiet time where

615
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: she's doing some puzzles and things like that. Ended up

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Speaker 1: taking him to the park around what four o'clock, three

617
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Speaker 1: forty five. Oh nice part of that second slate to

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Speaker 1: college ball. Wanted to watch it, but hey, let's get

619
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Speaker 1: the kids out of the house. Yeah, rue's been bored.

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Speaker 1: It's good for the kids to be bored every now

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Speaker 1: and then that it needs to watch some ball. Balanced

622
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Speaker 1: it all very well. Lunchtime was on point with a

623
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Speaker 1: PBNJ and some mac and cheese. Scottie was operating, putting

624
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: down the bottles left and right. I'm talking puffs. We

625
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 1: had them ready to go for her little snack time.

626
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 1: She's crawling around being a little missile.

627
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 2: But overall, great effort by the old man.

628
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: You know, I hate pat myself on the back, and

629
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: you know I hate attention, or else I would have

630
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: been tweeting about it. Took every couple drafts saved on that. Yeah, like,

631
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: everybody's real quiet.

632
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 2: This isn't about me.

633
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: Let's laugh at Willie one show for not building a show.

634
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: But you're all real quiet when I'm fucking operating with

635
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: ball on the screen and watching a three year old and.

636
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 2: A nine month old. But it was a wife came

637
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: out of that. Yeah, wife came home. Guess what she

638
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: walked in? What was happening when she walked in, Sherman,

639
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: go ahead and ask me, oh, hey, will, what was

640
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: happening when Charlie walked in? Timer was going off.

641
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: Alexa was going off for the fifteen minute timer from

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00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: heating up dinner, Mmm, warm plate, ready to go?

643
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 2: Kids, Ready to go? Oh sweetheart, you're still a little

644
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: you're still a little tipsy from the from your party.

645
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: Bust me. It's okay, sit down, Let's look you up

646
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: with this delicious meal. Yeah, as Alexa's going do doo

647
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: doo doo dude, doo doo doo doo doo. Yeah, is

648
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 2: that the one y'all? Oh yeah, do that again? Doom

649
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 2: doom doom d yeah, doom doom doom. Sweeter, Let me

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Speaker 2: get you some water. How's your date? You have a blast? God?

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Speaker 2: Do you look beautiful?

652
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

653
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Speaker 2: I would take you know right, no if these kids

654
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Speaker 2: aren't front of us, but I can. I'm a good dad,

655
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Speaker 2: so yeah, yeah, I'm at dinner for you.

656
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Speaker 1: Yeah, heat it up meal, hope you're hunger. That's basically

657
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Speaker 1: making dinner well, but all ready to go, all of

658
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Speaker 1: saying all ready to go.

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Speaker 2: PT six ers, this is Fat Stafford coming to you.

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Speaker 2: and tell you a little bit about an exciting giveaway

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Speaker 2: are a true Siko, later today, our social producer, Derek,

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you a little bit about Wayfa, because

673
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Speaker 2: when I jumped on the site, I did not fully

674
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Speaker 2: understand what Wayfair had on its website. I thought, it's

675
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Speaker 2: just home decre it's just some lamps, it's just some

676
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Speaker 2: throw pillows. Nothing against lamps and throw pillows. Those are

677
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Speaker 2: great too. But they have a wide selection on the

678
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679
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Speaker 2: game day essentials. You might be thinking, oh, are you

680
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Speaker 2: just talking recliners in TV stands, which they have those two. No,

681
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Speaker 2: I am not I am talking grills. I'm talking folding chairs.

682
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Speaker 2: I'm talking servewear and barwear. Anything that you would need

683
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Speaker 2: at a tailgate, anything that you would need in your

684
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Speaker 2: man cave, in your mom cave. I don't know if

685
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Speaker 2: I can say mom cave. Now that I said that,

686
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Speaker 2: is that a double meaning? I don't know. Should we

687
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Speaker 2: cut it out of lad read Maybe we might keep it.

688
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Speaker 2: But they have everything that you would need to watch

689
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Speaker 2: your favorite team. When I got on the site, one

690
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Speaker 2: of the things that we decide we're gonna order from

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Speaker 2: Wayfair for our actual set is a Baylor themed wouldn't

692
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Speaker 2: cut out And they have a Nebraska theme wouldn't cut

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Speaker 2: out too. I literally got on Wayfair site, I typed

694
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Speaker 2: in Baylor Bears and it popped right up. So make

695
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696
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697
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Speaker 2: even had a replica. I forgot to say this. They

698
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Speaker 2: have a replica of the stadium, a Baylor's stadium on

699
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Speaker 2: there and it's like in a plaque. That thing is nice.

700
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Speaker 2: all things game day. We already talked about it. The

710
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Speaker 2: coolers and the grills, and recliners, even slow cookers. Shop,

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712
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Speaker 2: fair dot com. Wayfair, every style, every home will. I

713
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Speaker 2: cannot stress us enough. I'm proud of you, thanks man.

714
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 2: I am proud of you because your other half of

715
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 2: this show had maybe the worst display of husbandry slash

716
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: fathery this past weekend. No shit, Oh yeah, you said

717
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 2: it was bad, but you know, I don't know.

718
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, we don't want to talk until we're

719
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: on the show. This is so I know nothing about

720
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: your weekend.

721
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:06,439
Speaker 2: I take my podcaster like I give advice here and there,

722
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 2: you know, and have fun. I take that cap off

723
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: this episode and I put on the learner cap and

724
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: I need Coach Compton to come in. But let's just

725
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 2: be frank. Okay.

726
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: We might give bits and piece of advice, but nobody's

727
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: figuring it out weekend and week out. True, I'm telling

728
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: you a matter of fact, Scottie Dad lost fell off

729
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: the bottom stair and hit her head on my watch.

730
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: That's because I was watching a two minute drill. I

731
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: think I was watching Ku Miszoo at the end of

732
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: the game because it was a bomb burner, and I thought.

733
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: To myself, scott Zilla, she's going over by the stairs.

734
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: Usually she goes up a couple for I make my

735
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: way over there, and you know, let her climb the

736
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: entire flight of stairs.

737
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: And I looked over and even thought that give her

738
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,439
Speaker 2: a couple of steps and I'll be over there. Yeah. Yeah.

739
00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 2: And then she's on her back crying. And that's the

740
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: first time my wife she too.

741
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: My wife tunes in every week because she's got to

742
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: know what's going on, yes, and that's her first time

743
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,240
Speaker 1: hearing that. It was I wasn't over there because missus

744
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: Ku was on and all that to say is buddy,

745
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 1: we fuck up, and there there there could be people

746
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: being like, I can't believe this, netlik, we all fucked

747
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: this up. We are not experts by any means. We're

748
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: gonna have nothing but bad moments as parents. And I

749
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: I appreciate you saying that, I'm fucking thump, buddy. I

750
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: appreciate you saying that.

751
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: But if there was a Richter scale of fuck upery,

752
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 2: I'm at like an eight point two. That was maybe

753
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 2: a two point six.

754
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: But the guilt that floods through your body when I

755
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: see her on her back and she's crying like like

756
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: Scotty is scott Zilla. She's tough for into two dollars

757
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: stake at waffle house.

758
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 2: She is baby. So seeing her cry and.

759
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: Be upset like, I felt low because I knew I

760
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: saw her go over there. You know, I thought, after

761
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,720
Speaker 1: this play, I'm gonna go over and let her climb

762
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: up versus just getting my ass up.

763
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 2: I can still watch the play as a Yeah, she

764
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 2: wanted to sit back. I don't know what she was doing,

765
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 2: but man, I heard that thump, and I'm telling Rue, Hey,

766
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 2: this is dad AD's fault. Don't tell your mother. I'll

767
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 2: let me tell your mother. What did she say to that?

768
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: Uh, Charlie doesn't know that part either, if you're a

769
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 1: pet sixer. Yeah, and she's probably shaking her head right now.

770
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: And oh yeah, but Charo like she's walking upstairs a

771
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: changer and she was like, what's this lump on her head?

772
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: Like I see a bruise, But I think she was

773
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: talking about the side of her head. I don't know

774
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: where that came from. I think it's because she hit

775
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 1: like the corner of the table, like in the morning,

776
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: you know, as they're like trying to stand up. She

777
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,919
Speaker 1: happened to be at like the corner of the table

778
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 1: and kind of kind of hit it and she was crying.

779
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: Neither of us really saw it, but I was like,

780
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 1: it's probably from when she hit her head. And then

781
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: later in the day I was like, hey, I just

782
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: want you to know Scotti fell off the bottom step.

783
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: And then you know, that was more of like she

784
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 1: felt the bottom step she started to go climb Scott Zella.

785
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 2: She was a menace. I couldn't get over there in time.

786
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 2: But she looks great. Yeah, now she's learning that. I yeah, yeah,

787
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 2: you know, you were just saying, how beautiful our daughter

788
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 2: is how she looks incredible. Yeah, she did fall off

789
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 2: the bottom snap right there, but she looks great. Yeah,

790
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 2: so that's that's that's uh, that's a dead loss of mind.

791
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: But go ahead.

792
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm on the edge of my seat to

793
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: hear about an all time blunder in both arenas.

794
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 6: Dude.

795
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so really I don't really have like a dad

796
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 2: loss of trenches a crack a cold one. I do,

797
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 2: but it's really all just one story. Is this show

798
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 2: you're throwing crack a cold one? You can just say

799
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 2: something positive, be like that's my crack of cold that.

800
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: We're telling stories, we're talking about our experiences. So this

801
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: is an all encompassing this is all encompassing. Okay, we're

802
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: back here again. I don't I don't listen. I don't

803
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: want to spread red ass. We're back here again with you.

804
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 2: We her, dude, because I just have the conversation that

805
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 2: I wasn't prioritizing my wife and that was my dad loss.

806
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've been given lessons and cried on this show

807
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: about being better. Yeah, and you topped your lows, topped it, doubled, tripled,

808
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: quadrupled down.

809
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 2: All right, let's get into it. On Saturday, the Bears

810
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 2: were taken on the Ponies of SMU. Great game, hell

811
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 2: of a ball game. Hell of a ball game. That

812
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 2: coincided the ending of that game with the pickup of

813
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,399
Speaker 2: my wife that I haven't seen in a week, as

814
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 2: well as my two month old daughter. That's right, they

815
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 2: got back to Saturday. They landed at too. How was

816
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 2: your week before you jump into that part, You had

817
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 2: a good week, solo dolo.

818
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: Good week solo doo. But I missed the girls, no question.

819
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 1: After a couple of days, you kind of get bored.

820
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 2: Yes, all jokes aside, like you just kind of miss them.

821
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 2: And then I just like, I feel kind of guilty

822
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 2: that I'm not there, and I'm seeing these photos. They

823
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: are coming in scarlet and she's right up like Jill's

824
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 2: holding her against her chest and her head is fully

825
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 2: up looking at the camera behind Jill, and her eyes

826
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 2: are real big, and I'm like, oh my god, she's

827
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 2: like so cognizant and knows what's going on. She's growing

828
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: up and Dada isn't there, and I'm like worried that

829
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 2: when she gets home she's not even gonna remember dad. Yeah, yeah,

830
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 2: And oh man, I was just in a mental blender

831
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 2: all week. I missed the girls. But yeah, I mean

832
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:32,919
Speaker 2: it was a good week. It was a lot of fun,

833
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 2: like having pizza and wings and Stummer at the house.

834
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 2: And I will say, like if there was any dad win,

835
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 2: like the house looked awesome when Jill got back. Okay,

836
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 2: that's about start. Only scrap that we could take. I

837
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 2: did like three loads of laundry, goll the dishes done.

838
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 2: The living room looked immaculated. One listening, you did seven

839
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 2: loads of laundry. I did. Sorry, I did seven loads

840
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 2: of laundry. Folded her laundry. That's a big one. That's

841
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 2: a big one because I'll do her laundry, but I

842
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 2: don't fold your laundry. I folded your laundry and put

843
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 2: it on her side of the closet. That is quite

844
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,720
Speaker 2: literally the only dad win that I have. By learns

845
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: and you were playing, They're playing it's going in family landing,

846
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 2: Family's landing, It's going into overtime. I have YouTube TV.

847
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 2: As I'm walking into the airport, I'm answering calls from Jill.

848
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 2: Her flight landed a little early, so I was a

849
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 2: little upset with that because I tried to get there

850
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 2: early so I could park the car and help her.

851
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 2: She had a lot of check bags, and so I'm

852
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: answering her calls, Hey, I'm in baggage claim, Da da da,

853
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: and I'm still watching the game. She walks through the doors.

854
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 2: I do a good job of turning off the game.

855
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: I hug her, I hold Scarlet, I'm kissing Scarlett, I'm

856
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 2: kissing Jill. I start tearing up because Scarlett looks twice

857
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 2: the size of the last time I saw her, and

858
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is not okay. Get down the baggage claim. Then,

859
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 2: while we're waiting for the bags, I say, close game

860
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: ranked smdu I gotta watch this game. I gotta watch it, honey.

861
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. We have one hell of a comeback

862
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 2: cooking dave A. Randa might be the guy. I might

863
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: be fully sold Sawyer Willminson three four hundred yard games

864
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 2: in a row. Babe, this is a big game, dude,

865
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 2: guys age, We're not shiit, bro we ain't shit. And

866
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 2: she goes, we go along, we go by favorite girls

867
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 2: are home. Oh yeah, gotta watch the have to watch

868
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 2: the end of this game. Generational game. I'm with you,

869
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: trust me. We're in a barn burning railroas cooking. Maybe

870
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 2: you get this right. Here was the kicker my group

871
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: and shout out the boys. They know who they are.

872
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: My group from senior year of college has a FaceTime

873
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: going once we force overtime. I'm literally holding Scarlett in

874
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 2: the airport on the face time, going going nuts on

875
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,959
Speaker 2: the face. Sime I was like, what are you doing.

876
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: You're jerking her around. I'm like, babe, it's a big game.

877
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 2: My bag's over there. Okay you're old or older? Well,

878
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 2: slow down, slow down. You're like moving too fast.

879
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 5: You know.

880
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 2: I'm kind of operating in my own little world of

881
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 2: like SMU Baylor, SMU Baylor. That's the prior Sickham Sicko.

882
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 2: I go get her bags. We're rushing to the car

883
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: and I'm like this the entire time, just holding the phone.

884
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 2: Get into the car. I did pick up her favorite

885
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: meal from fifty first a deli. I had her little

886
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 2: chicken salad sandwich ready for That's about the only Dad

887
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: win for the rest of the weekend. Now we get

888
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 2: into the bad stuff. She goes, hey, I just got

889
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,359
Speaker 2: home from a trip and was flying with your daughter.

890
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 2: I was solo for the first time. I'd love to

891
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: talk to you about it, but instead you're driving like

892
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: a maniac, eating your fifty first Deli and trying to

893
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 2: watch YouTube TV and you're not talking to me. Oh, fair,

894
00:44:55,760 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: on all fair, on all things. I said, Honey, this

895
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 2: is a really big football game. As soon as this

896
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 2: game's over, I'm happy to talk with you. She said,

897
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 2: that's great, but I don't really feel like talking to

898
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: you after this game, because if we just have this

899
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 2: conversation about making me a priority, I don't feel like

900
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: a priority right now. So I don't even want to

901
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 2: want to talk after the game. This is the same

902
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 2: stuff we just talked about. So I swallowed that. I

903
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 2: listened to the rest of the SMU Baylor game, and

904
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 2: then it all comes to fruition at the house when

905
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 2: I just start to double down of essentially telling Jill

906
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 2: that she was acting like a third grader by saying

907
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 2: that she didn't want to talk. It's not funny, funny,

908
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 2: not funny, Jill that she didn't want to talk to me.

909
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: I said, I said some really choice stuff, and it

910
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 2: really went sideways for like no other reason than stuff

911
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 2: that was going on with me that had nothing to

912
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: do with Jill. But it literally turned into me being like,

913
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 2: I'm a nice guy to everybody. I'm all sunshine and

914
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 2: rainbows all the time. I get walked over by everybody,

915
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 2: and you know what, I'm going to start doing what

916
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 2: I want to fucking do. This is what you say?

917
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I go. You're always telling me to not

918
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 2: put my feet up on the pillows on the sofa

919
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 2: because you bought the sofa with your money and you

920
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 2: don't want me treating the stuff like that. Tough shit

921
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 2: you married me, deal with it. And she has tears

922
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: coming down her eyes. I say, you don't like it

923
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 2: when my shoes are by the front door, I do,

924
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 2: they're going to be by the front door. And just

925
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: went on this rampage like I saw red and I

926
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:50,800
Speaker 2: let Jill have it. Jill's crying. I'm holding Scarlet like

927
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 2: as I'm doing this, and then we just like didn't

928
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 2: talk for maybe four to five hours. She goes to

929
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 2: the bedroom. So I'm watching Scarlett all by myself and

930
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,760
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there. I'm going, what what a complete jackass

931
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 2: I am that I just want treated my wife like

932
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 2: that that I haven't seen in a week, And now

933
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 2: I fully regret it because all I want to do

934
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,320
Speaker 2: is talk to her and hear how Scarlet was, and

935
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: hear how Jill's like early thirtieth birthday that she had

936
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 2: with her family was. And as I'm feeding Scarlet, I

937
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 2: look down on her neck. There's a tick on her neck,

938
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 2: which I like start freaking out because I don't know

939
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: what to do with ticks, but I know that ticks

940
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 2: are like a very serious deal. They're a bad deal.

941
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 2: You can get limes, disease, all kinds of shit. So

942
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: I go wake up Jill. She's super flustered. She's already

943
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 2: emotional from our conversation, so she's flustered.

944
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 3: I have a tone.

945
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: I'm telling her, you know, put her down on the bed.

946
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 2: We need tweezers, Jill, we gotta get this thing off

947
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: of her.

948
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

949
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 2: And we're looking up like next steps to do. I

950
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 2: end up getting the tick off of Scarlet. I don't

951
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 2: want to give like any health recommendations on here, but

952
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 2: there's call a pediatrician, call you know, whoever your doctor is,

953
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: if you do find a tick on your kid. Thankfully,

954
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,879
Speaker 2: the tick that had been on Scarlet, it was less

955
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 2: than thirty six hours, which they say, is when lime's

956
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: disease and all that stuff can get contracted. But we

957
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 2: get the take off of her. Jill's frantic to then

958
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 2: we think we're gonna like run scarlet to the er,

959
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 2: and she's carrying scarlet up the stairs. Jill eats it

960
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 2: on the stairs. Thankfully, she covered scarlet up so she

961
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: didn't get hit, but Jill like eats it on the stairs.

962
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 2: Then she's like double crying it. Dude, it was terrible.

963
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 2: It was awful. I don't know what else to say

964
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 2: other than like it was the worst display of being

965
00:48:55,239 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 2: there for my girl, being like loving and caring tape

966
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: putting my ego first, just being pissed, reacting out of

967
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 2: anger instead of saying, hey, I did a really poor

968
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 2: job of like prioritizing you when you landed and I

969
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 2: missed you like crazy. I just like unleashed on her.

970
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: It sucked. And then we really didn't talk until like

971
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 2: Sunday night, when we kind of like figured everything out.

972
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 2: And even that was like kind of an argument chess

973
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 2: match that ended up being a really good conversation at

974
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 2: the end of it. But Jill and I never argue

975
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 2: like that, and I feel like I just let stuff

976
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 2: from like outside of my sphere with my wife like

977
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,439
Speaker 2: affect me, and then I totally just lashed out on Jill,

978
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 2: the easiest and sweetest target that I could possibly find,

979
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: And I'm just pissed at myself. I'm pissed. I'm sorry, buddy.

980
00:49:55,840 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: It does I mean like that story is I would

981
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 1: say normal for every married couple out there with kids,

982
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: Like everybody has low moments like that. Yeah, Like I

983
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: remember the time I was telling you about Joel and

984
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 1: I in New York. Yes, and it should like you

985
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 1: just say off hands stuff that you don't mean in

986
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: the moment. Oh yeah, why do you think you uh,

987
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,359
Speaker 1: why do you think you lost it the way you did?

988
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 1: Like the stuff that you're like projecting when you think

989
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: back on it and when you guys did reconnect?

990
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 2: Just too much stuff like pent up over time because

991
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 2: I do try and like stay way too positive and

992
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 2: I don't like flesh out or talk about things that

993
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 2: are affecting me emotionally, and so I let it build

994
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 2: to a pressure point. And then you know, when Jill's like,

995
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 2: I'm not going to talk to you, then I mouthed

996
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: off and say, oh great, my wife's home. It took

997
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 2: five seconds for her to be pissed at me. Shocker,

998
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 2: and then she's like, oh, Sherman's looking for a fight

999
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: because he never talks to me like that, Like, what

1000
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 2: where did that come from? I was just hitting her

1001
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 2: with so many of those, dude, I'll probably hit her

1002
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 2: with like I don't know easily, like ten lines that

1003
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 2: I'm just like, what was I doing? I was doubling

1004
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 2: and tripling down. I was walking in circles in our

1005
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 2: living room, just monologuing, went out into the front yard,

1006
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:26,240
Speaker 2: ripped all the weeds out, literally all the weeds. Pissed.

1007
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 2: It's not good, it's poor display, dude, bed day to

1008
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 2: be a raccoon, bad day to be a raccoon. And

1009
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 2: so I like not only tell that story, but I

1010
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 2: just apologize to Pt six as well, because it's like

1011
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 2: you then hate that you have to go onto a podcast,

1012
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 2: Like there's no way that I couldn't tell that story

1013
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 2: and like continue to be on this podcast or else

1014
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 2: I'd be an absolute phony. If that makes sense. Yeah, no,

1015
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 2: it does, because I'm sitting there.

1016
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like when chro hit me with the you

1017
00:51:58,120 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 1: got this one, Dad's pot and you can't take a

1018
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: couple of minutes to put up a shelf that got

1019
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: the boy.

1020
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 2: Yes, dude, I'm sitting there that night, and I'm just like,

1021
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 2: I know Jill's gonna be watching this episode closer than

1022
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 2: any other episode. Wonder what he says, because if I

1023
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 2: come on here and go, oh pet seg scoombrets like,

1024
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 2: She's gonna be like, Okay, buddy, that's not what happened,

1025
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:29,360
Speaker 2: but just a huge bomber, dude, huge bomber. Okay, So

1026
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 2: how did it come back around? We had a really

1027
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:38,280
Speaker 2: good conversation last night of basically getting our conversation start.

1028
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 2: Conversation started with me helping her around, uh like picking

1029
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 2: things up in the living room and her saying we

1030
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 2: never really got to finish like what we were talking

1031
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 2: about on Saturday night? What's going on? I said, I

1032
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 2: just had a phone conversation that really pissed me off.

1033
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 2: And that's like totally separate of this podcast. Has nothing

1034
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 2: to do with like for the Dad's busting anything. It's

1035
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: just like personal stuff with me. You had just had

1036
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 2: a conversation that piss you off.

1037
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: Now and she's asking you what's going on with Like

1038
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: when she's askaying, like I don't want to talk about it.

1039
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I'm not gonna like talk about that, right,

1040
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: all right?

1041
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying when you're talking to your wife,

1042
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 1: are you saying that in away like you're not wanting

1043
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: to talk about because you just had a bad phone call.

1044
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 2: No, I said, here, here's the deal. I just came

1045
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 2: off of this bad phone call that I think helps

1046
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 2: highlight what I think happened on Saturday. I have a

1047
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 2: lot of stuff, a lot of pressures outside of our

1048
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:42,319
Speaker 2: relationship with work, family, all this stuff that I'm letting

1049
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 2: it build too much, and I'm not expressing those stressors,

1050
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 2: those frustrations, those pain points that I have. I'm letting

1051
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 2: them build up. And I took it out all on you,

1052
00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 2: and I feel terrible that I did that. I have

1053
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 2: some stuff that, like I honestly need to talk about

1054
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 2: with you, that I need to do a better job

1055
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,959
Speaker 2: of communicating with you. Because Jill made the great point

1056
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 2: of like Sriman, if you had just told me at

1057
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 2: the airport that that football game was against a ranked

1058
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 2: opponent and it meant the world to you to watch it,

1059
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 2: I don't like, you can watch your football game, but

1060
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 2: you just need to communicate that, and I was trying

1061
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 2: to tell you that in the car and then you

1062
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 2: just took it to twelve and then all of a sudden,

1063
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 2: we're talking about how people don't respect you and you

1064
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 2: feel like you get walked all over by everybody in

1065
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 2: your life. And it's like, what was I have to

1066
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 2: do about that Baylor game? Like where did that come from?

1067
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 2: That's crazy? And so getting that out and being able

1068
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 2: to like talk through that stuff, talk about the phone

1069
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 2: call that really frustrated me, talk about stuff in life

1070
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 2: that's really frustrated me, that I'm not doing a good

1071
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 2: job of prioritizing myself and prioritize Jill. Then Jill being

1072
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 2: allowed creating a space where Jill then feels allowed to

1073
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 2: talk about her emotions. She feels safe in this environment

1074
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 2: because Sherman's not blown up on her and she's able

1075
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 2: to say, Hey, these are things that I'm going through postpartum,

1076
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 2: I just had a kid, I'm you know, I feel

1077
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 2: like a stranger in my own body. These are things

1078
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: that I'm dealing with. Conversations that like we've touched on

1079
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 2: surface level, but we've never really gone deeper in it,

1080
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 2: and really us just kind of saying like you and

1081
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 2: I are a team, and it never needs to be

1082
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: us going against each other. If anything, it needs to

1083
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 2: be conversations of how can I rally around you and

1084
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 2: help you in this situation you're feeling this type of way,

1085
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 2: how can I come in feel that with you or

1086
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 2: go through that with you and help you out of

1087
00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 2: that instead of there's a great like therapist word or

1088
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 2: like what's it called when something's going on, you're projecting

1089
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 2: onto somebody, like was projecting onto Jill and we hugged and.

1090
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,319
Speaker 3: Kissed and like.

1091
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 2: Everything was really good from that conversation. And this morning,

1092
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 2: I'm just getting pictures of Scarlet and Jill play scarlet

1093
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 2: and an outfit that I bought for I'm gonna tear up.

1094
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 2: But you're just like, fuck, like what was I doing?

1095
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 2: Like that's my teammate and I came at her like that,

1096
00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 2: that's crazy. It just bummed me out. So yeah, that

1097
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 2: was my dad loss. Yeah.

1098
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, uh sharing all that. I feel like

1099
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: we're actually in a real conversation right now, which I

1100
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,240
Speaker 1: think is a good thing. I think what you're sharing,

1101
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people.

1102
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 2: Go through and feel.

1103
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, when you when you reflect on, thinking like

1104
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,279
Speaker 1: what you could have done better, what you will do

1105
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: better moving forward? A lot of it is communication, like

1106
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: all of it, All of it is communication. Yeah, because again,

1107
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: if she doesn't know you're going through that stuff, you're

1108
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: you're you're sharing that I'm thinking. Damn, I wish I

1109
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: would have known you were going through some of this

1110
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: stuff because you are like happy, go lucky, like you're

1111
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: sure you're fat Stafford, Yes you're bubbly.

1112
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 2: Yes, but yeah, it's a tough one, bro, it's a

1113
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 2: tough one.

1114
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: But as long as you learn from it, and you know,

1115
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: like some people don't ever learn it or see it

1116
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: or see that they're the problem, or dig down enough

1117
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: or look at themselves in the mirror long enough to

1118
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 1: see like, what is actually bothering me?

1119
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: So I think it's important. It's very good that you

1120
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 2: do see that stuff and you eventually got there. Yeah.

1121
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 2: Can I tell you, honestly, what's going through my head

1122
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 2: right now. I've never wanted to buy jail a new

1123
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 2: couch more in my entire life. Yeah, that's the only

1124
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: thing that's going that is literally going through my head

1125
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 2: is seeing my sweet wife with tears in her eyes

1126
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 2: as I say, I'm gonna play my feet up on

1127
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 2: the couch pillows as much as I want. If you

1128
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 2: have a problem with that tough you married me, I'm

1129
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 2: gonna be doing it. And she's crying because that's not fair,

1130
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 2: and I just walked out of the room. I was like, bro,

1131
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 2: I've never wanted to buy a new couch so much

1132
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 2: of my entire life. Yeah, what was I doing? Jeff?

1133
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 2: I had a great metaphor. I kind of like tease

1134
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 2: some of this stuff with Chef before the pod. He

1135
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 2: was like, oh, man, y'all's football program ain't built on that,

1136
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 2: you know. And that's a ball dog. That's Semen team

1137
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 2: six right there. That's just a rough week. Man, we're

1138
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 2: you know, but we're one to zero and we're moving

1139
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 2: on to the next week. That's owen one. That's open one.

1140
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 2: Or as he said, it was a rat poison win. Yeah,

1141
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 2: that's a win.

1142
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 5: You squeak out and o t against a bad just

1143
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 5: a bad opponent, and it's a win, But you get

1144
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 5: in that locker room, it doesn't feel like a win

1145
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 5: at all. Even though things came out positive and I'm

1146
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 5: glad that they did, and thank you for sharing because

1147
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 5: I think I think everyone deals with that.

1148
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 2: Everybody deals with that, bro'. That's not it's not an anomaly.

1149
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: It is like, it's a it's good to see you

1150
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: gut check yourself like that because you're a thousand percent right.

1151
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: The way you're seeing it coming off the handle like

1152
00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: that is like yeah, oh snap. As it was getting

1153
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: more serious, I'm like, oh shit, like this is oh.

1154
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 2: I know, I was looking at your face. I'm like,

1155
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 2: am I over sharing on the spot?

1156
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 5: No?

1157
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 2: I don't think you are okay?

1158
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 1: God, Like, I see it as like, oh, a real

1159
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: conversation like that is a very nitty gritty, detailed thing

1160
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: that you were sharing with everybody that one thousand percent

1161
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: everybody goes through and I think you being vulnerable enough

1162
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: to share those details and talk about how low you

1163
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: felt and the things you actually said, I think it's

1164
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 1: very relatable to every human being. It's not like it's

1165
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 1: just dads or men that go like this is everybody

1166
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,959
Speaker 1: has low moments like that, especially when they're not checking

1167
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 1: in with themselves a lot.

1168
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 2: Yes.

1169
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: My first all like, as you're saying you're coming to

1170
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 1: the end of some of the stuff, I'm thinking, so,

1171
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: how did it end?

1172
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 2: Or I'm going to say, like, how are you feeling now,

1173
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 2: Like do.

1174
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: You feel solid right now? Do you feel better right now?

1175
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 1: It's this stuff off the field, like you know, A,

1176
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how are you doing with that stuff? But

1177
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 1: B if you are going through shit? And this is

1178
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 1: for both, this is for everybody. You got a partner,

1179
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: we do, we do.

1180
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 2: It's like, uh, we talk about the standard of of

1181
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 2: PT six and us wanting to be better.

1182
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 1: It's like, uh, you've got to share that stuff with

1183
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: your partner because they have they have no ability to

1184
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: help or even.

1185
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 2: Though it's going on and vice versa. Yeah, and I

1186
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 2: think this is not an excuse, but I think something

1187
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 2: that Jill and I came to the conclusion of because

1188
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 2: we have had a lot of conversations about how you

1189
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 2: and Charro operate, how it's very similar to how Jill

1190
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 2: and I operate, where we're trying to have those discussions

1191
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 2: and deeper stuff of you know, this is what's going

1192
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 2: on with me. But when you do have a newborn,

1193
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 2: I guess this could be the advice that comes from it.

1194
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 2: The newborn just kind of takes over like every second

1195
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 2: of every day. Yeah, and so those things just get

1196
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 2: pushed because I don't have time to think about that.

1197
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 2: I don't have time to process that or communicate that

1198
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 2: with Jill. Because Scarlett's crying again. We gotta do this

1199
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 2: diaper change, and we gotta and so you're like.

1200
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 1: And mom's going through a lot too. Postpartum is a

1201
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: very real thing. Postpartum can last like up to I

1202
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: think my wife was telling me up to a year,

1203
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 1: maybe two years, the lingering effect of postpartum. So they're

1204
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: going through stuff. So you like, men like, we want

1205
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: to stay to we want to stay put together, we

1206
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 1: want to stay strong, we want to be a leader.

1207
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: We don't want to put our bullshit. You know, when

1208
01:01:58,640 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: something it's like, we got to take care of the

1209
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want to feel.

1210
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 2: Like I'm.

1211
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 1: Being a burden to my wife, Like when I know

1212
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 1: she's going through stuff, and this stuff seems kind of

1213
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: like I can handle it on my own, until you can't.

1214
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: Then it comes out in such a an all fanned way,

1215
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 1: and then you're wondering how you got there. And it

1216
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: all comes back to this communication and checking in with yourself,

1217
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: and not only checking in with yourself, but making sure

1218
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: you have those those times with your partner. Dude, it's

1219
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: it's it's a very hard balance, Like, uh, this is

1220
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:29,919
Speaker 1: where it's like you got to give yourself some grace.

1221
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: I am happy that you guys had a conversation, because

1222
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: that's all it really takes.

1223
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 2: Like I'm sitting there.

1224
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: Yesterday because Charro was going for those you know, doing

1225
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 1: the bar three day and then I gotta go stream

1226
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: at night time. Yeah, I'm like late getting to the

1227
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 1: stream because I'm just like, I don't want to leave

1228
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: her in the trenches doing both kiddos bedtime. You know,

1229
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: when Michigan, when we were streaming the Michigan and Nebraska games,

1230
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 1: and then the next day she's working in the morning,

1231
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: and when she was working in the morning, I had

1232
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: the the kids are set up.

1233
01:02:58,960 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 2: Ru was doing something.

1234
01:02:59,800 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: But I'm like literally making a Google doc spreadsheet of

1235
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 1: every hour of every day and color coding everything to

1236
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: see where my balance of work and family time.

1237
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 2: Because it feels like if you're somebody.

1238
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: Who is like a working parent, which is the majority

1239
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: of people, it's you feel like you're just being dad

1240
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: or mom and then working or you know, you were

1241
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: saying it last week, like you at times you feel

1242
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 1: like roommates.

1243
01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 2: You're not having intentional time.

1244
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 1: Like yesterday last week I got childcare set up and

1245
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 1: texted our texted the sitter and was like, hey, can

1246
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 1: you come and watch the kids from eleven to three?

1247
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 1: And Chary and I just like, fuck off, get out

1248
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: of the house. I want to take her to lunch,

1249
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 1: you know, watch you know some NFL games like Connected.

1250
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 2: We went down on.

1251
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: Twelve South to this La La Coffee, which, by the way,

1252
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: good coffee, but the longest lines fucking and magic. So

1253
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: I imagine I'm talking like it's this is like a

1254
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: filtered spot, like Twelve's up by the way, is.

1255
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 2: Booming, booming.

1256
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 1: But just have time and spend time together because it's

1257
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:13,439
Speaker 1: hard to find those pockets of date night or let's

1258
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 1: go out to lunch, or let's go get coffee or

1259
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: spend time with each other and kind of have some

1260
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 1: conversations to where when we got done with those a

1261
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: few hours together, she gets home and talking like, you know,

1262
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 1: I kind of miss like just taking Root to the

1263
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: grocery store and it's just me and Rue and we

1264
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 1: get something to cook.

1265
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 2: Later, I want to take her to this.

1266
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: Garden or this spot over in Nashville where you pick

1267
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: flowers and everything else. But if, in my opinion, if

1268
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 1: we don't have that those intentional hours together. When we

1269
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 1: pulled in the driveway, we're almost both ready to, hey,

1270
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: you take a room and go this like I'll watch

1271
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 1: Scottie like you're set up to kind of part ways,

1272
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: so to speak, because we had like those intimate hours

1273
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 1: together to connect and a lot of.

1274
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 2: Times that's like all you need.

1275
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so prioritizing those times with their wife to where

1276
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 1: you can talk about the things that's been on your

1277
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: mind or bothering you and just reconnect and in this

1278
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:09,480
Speaker 1: busy life that we all have a lot of the

1279
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,920
Speaker 1: like I just again, just using yesterday's example, I was

1280
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 1: so happy we did that, just because when we got home.

1281
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 2: It's not hey, you're home.

1282
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: We're all in the house, we're all a family together,

1283
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 1: we're all doing everything together. I'm trying to watch ball

1284
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: at times while watching the kids. She's trying to do

1285
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 1: her thing while watching the kids. So where I got

1286
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 1: them a little bit more and you're both stilled, there's

1287
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: something missing, And to me, it's like all that's missing

1288
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: is like the Sims character, like when they have to

1289
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, or when something happens and they

1290
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: just start acting out of character because the meter's low.

1291
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, a lot of it is just we just.

1292
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: Need some mom and dad time to where we are

1293
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 1: hanging out. We're we get in the car, we get

1294
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 1: out of the car. We don't got to worry about

1295
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 1: the kid in the car, the kids in the car seat.

1296
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 2: I'll carry this. Do we have the backpack? Do we

1297
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 2: have the snack? Do we have everything we need to

1298
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 2: be optimal? Parents? Are were going to the park today?

1299
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 2: What do we want to do with the kids.

1300
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: It's like, no, we pull up, we park, We get

1301
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: out of the cars, holding hands, going to this Mexican

1302
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: bar to watch them games, have some brunch, go down

1303
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 1: to twelve South. We're walking together. She's like, I really

1304
01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 1: want to go to Buck Mason and I'm like, sweetheart,

1305
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: we're kind of we only got about thirty minutes, Like

1306
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: we parked kind of far away. How about this, I'll

1307
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: go get the car. You go to Bug Mason, do

1308
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 1: your thing. I'll just pull around. I'll do take as

1309
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 1: much time as you can. You go shop, do your thing.

1310
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 2: But it's just me and her primitive doing it. Yeah,

1311
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 2: and it was. She got in the car and I said,

1312
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 2: by the way, you're welcome, because the sun started. You know,

1313
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 2: it was a nice it was. It's been great weather. Yeah,

1314
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 2: but it's where the sun is shining.

1315
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 1: And we were parked up a hill all onto our south,

1316
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,439
Speaker 1: like on the complete opposite end of to a south.

1317
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:41,959
Speaker 2: So my hamstrings are burning.

1318
01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 1: I'm sweating a little bit as I'm driving to get

1319
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: her because we went all the way to buck Mason

1320
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: and then a mile to walk to the car.

1321
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 2: We wouldn't have made it in time. We would have

1322
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 2: to be there for just for just a couple of breasts.

1323
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 2: But she got in. I was like, hey, you're welcome,

1324
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 2: by the way, and you probably had a couple. Will

1325
01:06:56,360 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 2: we watch out what you build me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah yeah.

1326
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 2: BT six is out there for sure. Got a couple

1327
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 2: of hey go big red them ran Akron out of

1328
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 2: the stadium. I would have made you proud. When I

1329
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 2: was flying out to DFW last week, I forgot to

1330
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 2: say this on the pod so much GBR in the

1331
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 2: airport and I yelled at every single one of them,

1332
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 2: yeah let's go. That does juice me. I would just

1333
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 2: tell them, hey, GBR, and every single time go big

1334
01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 2: red hey gbr right back.

1335
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:31,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but again all to say that the connection time

1336
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 1: with your wife to where it's it's husband and wife, Yes,

1337
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 1: mom and dad, the friends who fell.

1338
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 2: In love dating each other.

1339
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:42,960
Speaker 1: To me, that's the biggest stressor especially during football season,

1340
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: with both of us being working people, her running her stuff,

1341
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,440
Speaker 1: she feels thin. Again, you just get caught up. I

1342
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 1: feel like I work. I feel like i'm dad. I

1343
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 1: feel like I work.

1344
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 2: I feel like i'm mom.

1345
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 1: A lot of times it's just somebody, for the love

1346
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: of God, take the kids, like just me and my

1347
01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: wife go and that's all it takes. Because then you

1348
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 1: feel like the batteries charged. When you get home, you're

1349
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 1: ready to accomplish. I feel like the world, bro. Yeah,

1350
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 1: because you can't have that. You can't have a week away.

1351
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: If this was me and you want on one, I'll

1352
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: just say it on the pot. But this is me

1353
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: and you, just one on one. Because I've this has

1354
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: been a learning curve for me, especially when you're younger

1355
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: and things are new, you have your first kid, you're

1356
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: married for the first time. You're picking up a lot

1357
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 1: more kind of like partnership responsibilities. That dudes a lot

1358
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 1: of the time are dumbest shit and we're not aware

1359
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: of until you got to like learn the hard way

1360
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1361
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 2: Yes, learn from mistakes. It's like my yeah, bread and butter.

1362
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 1: But being so locked in on that, I know it

1363
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 1: was a big game, but you gotta Yeah, it's like

1364
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 1: having the rolodecks of right when you see him, you're

1365
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,640
Speaker 1: embracing the girls, and you just tell her out of

1366
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 1: the gate if that's the important thing. Sweetheart, God, you look,

1367
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 1: you look so you look so damn pretty. Scarlet, she's

1368
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 1: gotten huge. You know, I'm a sicko for the sick

1369
01:08:59,160 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 1: of bears.

1370
01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 2: This game. We've come back from like what was it,

1371
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 2: fourteen point deficit?

1372
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:09,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, seventeen seventeen point deficit all I've I've been. It

1373
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 1: pains me that I've had to sit behind the phone

1374
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: hear you. You know some problems that you might have

1375
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 1: with Scarlet, and you feel as a dad. You're sitting

1376
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 1: there eating wings and pizza kind of like, Damn, I

1377
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:22,600
Speaker 1: feel shitty because life's nice for me right now, but

1378
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: you're carrying the dad guilt of like I kind of

1379
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 1: needed I feel like I needed being it with her.

1380
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 1: So there's this weird there's this weird conversation going on

1381
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,880
Speaker 1: in your head, but you almost you're out front with it,

1382
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:36,760
Speaker 1: you're anchoring it. God, you look so amazing, Scarlet, She's grown.

1383
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: I truly all I've wanted to do for the last

1384
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 1: four days. This three I kind of had a little fun.

1385
01:09:41,760 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 1: I won't lie, but for the last four days, I

1386
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:46,800
Speaker 1: want nothing to know what's went on in your entire life.

1387
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 1: The minute this game ends, I'm all ears. And if

1388
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 1: you tell me, look, it's like when we had the

1389
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: conversation a couple of weeks ago. If you tell me

1390
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 1: to shut my fat ass up, it's gone. It's gone.

1391
01:09:57,960 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 1: I'll put this game down, but I just want to

1392
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,679
Speaker 1: with that out there. I would love to finish this game.

1393
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 2: And you got nothing but my time after that, and

1394
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 2: I saw again, let me triple down on this part.

1395
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:10,960
Speaker 1: If you tell me the shuram shut up, I'm so

1396
01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: excited to see you. And I gotta tell you about

1397
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,559
Speaker 1: this weekend. If the phone's going, I don't care. I'll

1398
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:17,080
Speaker 1: figure it out. I'll figure it out on Sports Center later.

1399
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: That would have been like, if I'm in you're your

1400
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 1: coaching No, no, no, don't do that.

1401
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 2: Don't do that. Stop no, no, stop doing stop doing that,

1402
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 2: stop doing that. Phone down, phone down, no, no, no,

1403
01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 2: the donuts on the belt. The luggage is here, Go

1404
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:39,640
Speaker 2: get the luggage. Yeah yeah, yeah, oh yeah dude. And uh,

1405
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 2: I will save this for like anybody listening to the

1406
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 2: podcast because I didn't like fully finish the tick story.

1407
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 2: We like, we called our pediatrician, we called Vanderbilt, We

1408
01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 2: got a diagnosis, and we followed the diagnosis. We have

1409
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:56,760
Speaker 2: antibiotics for scarlet, all that stuff. I didn't just want

1410
01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 2: to leave that open ended of like, Yo, Surrem's kid

1411
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 2: got bit by tick and you didn't do anything.

1412
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 1: About it, Like, yeah, you weren't the only one who

1413
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:05,799
Speaker 1: had a tick on her. Really had a little outing

1414
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:07,759
Speaker 1: at uh Tailgate Brewery.

1415
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 2: The parents kind of had like they called it the

1416
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 2: Tailgate parents had like a little tailgate where everybody kind

1417
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 2: of hangs out for Rue school and uh so we

1418
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 2: were out there, they're playing.

1419
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 1: Out in the woods and stuff. We had a tick,

1420
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 1: but it was like it was like drowning in the water.

1421
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: So it was like it wasn't on or very tight.

1422
01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 1: It was like it was like in the bathtub.

1423
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's exactly what happened with Scarlett. It was very light,

1424
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 2: got the tweezers and just you pull up towards the

1425
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:33,719
Speaker 2: head and it makes right because it's.

1426
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 1: Like the head can be dug in there to where

1427
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:37,680
Speaker 1: they're latched on. You're like pulling it off and thank god.

1428
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:40,880
Speaker 1: It was like yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

1429
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 2: And it was a red tick too, it was a

1430
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 2: deer tick. So which is better? That's better? Okay, But

1431
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:49,560
Speaker 2: I have no clue. No, I didn't either until I

1432
01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 2: talked to the nurse. Yeah, we are not professionals. No,

1433
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:58,640
Speaker 2: we are not professionals. Thank you for coaching me.

1434
01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: But it is more just like you're telling that story

1435
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking to myself, how do I just sit

1436
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: in this thing? We're sure them and more so, just

1437
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 1: check how it all ended up and how you're doing currently.

1438
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm doing well currently. To answer that you asked

1439
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 2: that earlier, I'm doing well. It's it's something that like.

1440
01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 3: Very much.

1441
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 2: I need to process with Jill very much. I just

1442
01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 2: need to be able to process with myself. And I

1443
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 2: do see a therapist week bi weekly. So does bi

1444
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 2: weekly mean every two weeks? Bi weekly? Yeah? Or is

1445
01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:36,920
Speaker 2: that twice a week? If it's by week, I feel

1446
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 2: like that's twice a week monthly? Baby, is that what

1447
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: you're looking at?

1448
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 3: Bi weekly?

1449
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 2: Okay, leave it in the could be both and leave

1450
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 2: it leave it in the comments. What is that? Right there?

1451
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 2: Is how you know we're not experts. I mount my

1452
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 2: wife by weekly because you're saying that, I'm thinking in

1453
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:57,840
Speaker 2: my head, am I?

1454
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,920
Speaker 1: Because there's there's also like not I don't hate the friends,

1455
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 1: but when you're like, you're unloading some of your personal

1456
01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 1: stuff going on, and I've never been a fan of

1457
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 1: people that you should do this, you should do that,

1458
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:16,600
Speaker 1: they're kind of instead of like listening and kind of

1459
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 1: sitting in it with you a little bit and more

1460
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:23,800
Speaker 1: like waiting for do you want Are you seeking any

1461
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: type of advice right now? Like people who give like

1462
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: unsolicited advice, Like when you're saying, oh, you shouldn't do that,

1463
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 1: you got to do this, it's kind of like, buddy,

1464
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 1: you're not listening to me.

1465
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:33,640
Speaker 2: I'm not need you to tell me what to do

1466
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 2: right now. Yeah, And you bring up a great point

1467
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 2: something that I try to keep in the back of

1468
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 2: my head because I had a boss that also brought

1469
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 2: this point up, but always lead with the question there

1470
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:46,320
Speaker 2: you go, Yeah.

1471
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 1: We kind of stopped there at the bottom part of

1472
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: the story, and I'm sitting here in my head, is.

1473
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 2: Is he wanting something to me back?

1474
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: Now?

1475
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 2: I kind of just want to know how did it

1476
01:13:57,160 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 2: end up? How are you doing now?

1477
01:13:58,640 --> 01:13:59,439
Speaker 6: That was.

1478
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 2: Like, it's always where we are. Are you currently in

1479
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:06,920
Speaker 2: doghouse on podra?

1480
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1481
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 2: Yes, that first. Do you need to call Jill on

1482
01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:17,920
Speaker 2: the sude? Yeah? Lord, but uh yeah, thanks for talking

1483
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 2: that one out. I love you, bro, I love you.

1484
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 2: It's like I shot you the message last time. I

1485
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 2: miss you. I can't wait to do for the dads. Yeah,

1486
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 2: And I shot it back. I said, miss you BB

1487
01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 2: too much? BB? Yeah?

1488
01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 1: Can we do this at Can we shoot the pot

1489
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 1: at two pm? I was like, I really need to

1490
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:36,639
Speaker 1: get it done at twelve? Was at twelve fifteen because

1491
01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:38,680
Speaker 1: I had a two o'clock that, you know, I had

1492
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:39,759
Speaker 1: to punt the two o'clock.

1493
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't see that one was on that

1494
01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 2: phone call. Probably when you texted me you had a

1495
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 2: lot going on, a lot going on. But because when

1496
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 2: you hit me with the hair, are you good to

1497
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 2: record it too? Like when we were at the shop

1498
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 2: the next day, I said, I texted you back did

1499
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:56,799
Speaker 2: you not look at the phone? Are you having a seizure?

1500
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 3: What's going on?

1501
01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 2: And I didn't want to end that moment be like yeah,

1502
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 2: I'm going through a lot because like, yeah, I can

1503
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 2: check my text. I need to do a better job

1504
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 2: at that. Yeah, thank you for sharing too, bro, Yeah

1505
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 2: for sure. Good for Papa Team six. Listen. We're not

1506
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 2: all nobody out there's perfectly thank you for listening. Thank

1507
01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 2: you for listening, and thank you for being there and

1508
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 2: thank you for the listeners. Have kind of created a

1509
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 2: space to where I do feel challenged to be like

1510
01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:31,360
Speaker 2: I got I gotta share that on the pod. Yeah,

1511
01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 2: it's like I'm just a fake phony that's like, hey,

1512
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 2: like and subscribe my podcast. We have fun here. Yeah,

1513
01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 2: you know.

1514
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 1: Fortunately Jill didn't pull that one out on you. Oh

1515
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 1: what do you mean what Charlee did with the Willie

1516
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:47,080
Speaker 1: one shelf? Like, oh you got this odd on the

1517
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 1: brace of the trenches and the phony meter was at

1518
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 1: an all time high. Can I if I would have

1519
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 1: had a moment, if I'm which those moments is I'm

1520
01:15:56,080 --> 01:15:58,160
Speaker 1: not gonna say I'll never have those moments or I

1521
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 1: have never had those moments? She if she would have

1522
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:06,600
Speaker 1: hit me with that mid crash out. I don't know,

1523
01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 1: And for all them probably be in a hotel or something.

1524
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, For all the Milk Team sixers listening,

1525
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 2: I do want to take a moment to look at

1526
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 2: the camera and say, Jilly B and I love you

1527
01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:21,960
Speaker 2: and I'm very sorry, and uh, no one in the

1528
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 2: entire world is deserving that, especially you like that. That

1529
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:28,759
Speaker 2: just stinks. I did that. Yeah, stink.

1530
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:30,800
Speaker 1: I also want to say to Milk Team sixers out

1531
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: there and wives tuning in, if you're watching with your

1532
01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 1: pop a Team six member, I do want to equip

1533
01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 1: you by throwing this brain in their face. If they're

1534
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:43,720
Speaker 1: having some off moments, it will piss for the pop

1535
01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: PT sixers out there, it will piss you off. But no,

1536
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: it's coming from a place of accountability. Oh yeah, would

1537
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 1: you go on PT six and be acting like that,

1538
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:56,240
Speaker 1: tell that story?

1539
01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1540
01:16:58,200 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 1: That's shot the community though, for shut commun creating a

1541
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:03,560
Speaker 1: space safe enough for you to share, yeah, because the

1542
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:04,880
Speaker 1: boys are going to rally around you.

1543
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, the moms. It might even help the moms tell

1544
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:11,560
Speaker 2: a story. Maybe and hopefully some some people in the

1545
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 2: comments are like, that's hey, that's not the fat Stafford

1546
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 2: I know for sure that's not the standard. Everybody knows.

1547
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 2: Everybody knows it's not the standard. Check yourself. Sure, I'm

1548
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 2: glad you're checking yourself, but check yourself again. Yeah, and

1549
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:28,679
Speaker 2: I love that. Learn from it, Learn from it. PT sixers,

1550
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,920
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Speaker 1: No that you know it's it's bound to happen again. Hope,

1597
01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:06,400
Speaker 1: hopefully you catch yourself in those moments. Yeah, but this

1598
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 1: is only a waste of time if you don't learn

1599
01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:08,479
Speaker 1: from it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you do. I brought up the tailgate

1601
01:20:15,320 --> 01:20:17,720
Speaker 2: and the tick thing. Oh yeah, yeah, there was an

1602
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:27,960
Speaker 2: older boy who bullied hold On and I saw hold On. Yeah.

1603
01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:35,560
Speaker 1: Rue was part of the crew that he bullied, and

1604
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 1: I'll you know, the boy's lucky that I didn't see

1605
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 1: the part on Rue. I saw the part where he

1606
01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:46,680
Speaker 1: took the glasses off of like Rue's best friend. He

1607
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:49,400
Speaker 1: was like going around and kind of like grabbing and shaking.

1608
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 1: There's like three of them shakes. Each one of them

1609
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: runs around. I just hear hey, stop, and I kind

1610
01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:55,720
Speaker 1: of like, I kind of like look down the hill.

1611
01:20:56,720 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 2: He runs over. Did I say the the girl's name?

1612
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 5: No?

1613
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:04,080
Speaker 2: You did not, Okay, If I did, make sure to

1614
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:06,400
Speaker 2: bleep that out, yeah, and.

1615
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:08,640
Speaker 1: Then goes back to the girl Roue's friend and I

1616
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:10,840
Speaker 1: once I hear hey stop and I kind of look back,

1617
01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: and the boy runs by again and like grabs her.

1618
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:17,560
Speaker 2: Glasses and she's like stop, and Ru's just kind of

1619
01:21:17,640 --> 01:21:18,679
Speaker 2: like standing there all shy.

1620
01:21:23,520 --> 01:21:26,639
Speaker 1: Kid ends up say stop and I was like hey,

1621
01:21:27,120 --> 01:21:28,800
Speaker 1: And the kid ends up like running up the hill.

1622
01:21:28,840 --> 01:21:30,840
Speaker 1: I think he sells a glass. I'm like, hey, buddy,

1623
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:33,240
Speaker 1: he didn't have the glass. He keeps running.

1624
01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:36,920
Speaker 2: Uh. The kids start crying a little bit, so I

1625
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,080
Speaker 2: go over to them. You know, the parents were all over.

1626
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:42,479
Speaker 2: We're like calming him down and everything else. What happened?

1627
01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:48,160
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah, and dude, I'm just boiling as like

1628
01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:49,679
Speaker 1: did that shit just happen?

1629
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm thinking this is why we're going to do Brazilian

1630
01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 2: jiu jitsu there.

1631
01:21:55,520 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 1: There's nothing that breaks your heart more than seeing bowling

1632
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 1: happened with the little kids, because you know, they're just kids.

1633
01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 1: And this kid was old enough to know what he

1634
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,640
Speaker 1: was doing. And at the kid, the boy at his

1635
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 1: age was old enough to know what he was doing.

1636
01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:12,519
Speaker 2: Were we talking like seven or eight?

1637
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1638
01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:14,920
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I think so.

1639
01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was old, he was taller, Yeah, he was older.

1640
01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:24,639
Speaker 1: And Ruth started like the other two kids they're crying.

1641
01:22:24,800 --> 01:22:26,560
Speaker 1: Rue's not crying yet, And I'm walking over and I

1642
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:28,519
Speaker 1: look at Rue and I'm just like I just kind

1643
01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 1: of like shake my head no, like don't you know, hey,

1644
01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:32,040
Speaker 1: it's okay, you don't.

1645
01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:33,920
Speaker 2: Need to start crying because the others are crying. I

1646
01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:38,519
Speaker 2: kind of like shake my head no, and you okay.

1647
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:41,960
Speaker 1: And as I do that, and she starts like, you know,

1648
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:44,160
Speaker 1: wincing up, and she starts crying, and so I pick

1649
01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:46,640
Speaker 1: her up and everything. I didn't at that moment, I

1650
01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:50,240
Speaker 1: didn't know that he had shaken our bullied Roue. So

1651
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:52,360
Speaker 1: I was kind of pissed for the other kid, the

1652
01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:55,680
Speaker 1: one that I saw the glasses come off of. And

1653
01:22:57,200 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: I'm quiet, I'm low key trying to figure out who

1654
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:02,840
Speaker 1: the kid, Like, where the kid is he like runs up,

1655
01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:04,880
Speaker 1: he's like playing somewhere else, or like see who the

1656
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,920
Speaker 1: parents might be not to go say nothing. There's just

1657
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 1: a there's a multitude of conversations going on in my head,

1658
01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:13,679
Speaker 1: like what would I have done had that been rude?

1659
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:15,000
Speaker 2: That I saw him do that too?

1660
01:23:15,920 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 1: Because you know, not that I would have done anything,

1661
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:23,479
Speaker 1: but you're also thinking like I don't know what I

1662
01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 1: would do because I started to like go towards the

1663
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:28,519
Speaker 1: kid as he's running away, when I was like, hey, buddy,

1664
01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:30,840
Speaker 1: because I thought he still had the glasses, why don't

1665
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:34,880
Speaker 1: you give her glasses back to her? Or like I again,

1666
01:23:34,920 --> 01:23:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. There's too many things that go on

1667
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 1: on my head. Yeah, that fires you up as a parent.

1668
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:43,240
Speaker 1: In the moment, we end up believing because there's like

1669
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:45,479
Speaker 1: a melt down and everything else. We've been here a while, like,

1670
01:23:45,600 --> 01:23:48,760
Speaker 1: let's get the kids home, Scottie, she's she's in her Uh,

1671
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:50,719
Speaker 1: we can't like let her out because.

1672
01:23:50,520 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 2: She's in like her she's in her shroller and there's

1673
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:54,320
Speaker 2: like gravel and everything else that we're kind of on.

1674
01:23:55,960 --> 01:23:57,439
Speaker 1: We go home and we get a text that it

1675
01:23:57,560 --> 01:24:01,760
Speaker 1: happened again with the kid, and then something kind of

1676
01:24:01,760 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: goes down with the kid and the parent.

1677
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 2: It got awkward and weird and they kind of leave,

1678
01:24:05,040 --> 01:24:05,559
Speaker 2: but maybe the.

1679
01:24:05,600 --> 01:24:09,679
Speaker 1: Kids going, maybe the kids projecting, who knows, who knows,

1680
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 1: But anyway, a bully I got. I witnessed a bully

1681
01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:16,320
Speaker 1: moment that it was kind of part of and I

1682
01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 1: did not know. It kind of had me not not

1683
01:24:19,120 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 1: worked up, but it had me thinking about it like

1684
01:24:21,479 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 1: the rest of the evening.

1685
01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:25,599
Speaker 2: Those are truly like the two things that I think,

1686
01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:29,599
Speaker 2: like guys almost fantasize about is either like a home

1687
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 2: intruder and what they would do, or if somebody was

1688
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 2: bullying their kid. Yeah, I'd love to see somebody coming

1689
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:38,320
Speaker 2: to my house.

1690
01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:42,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love If the kids mean to you,

1691
01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 1: that doesn't give you permission to be mean back to him.

1692
01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 1: And it's where my line of thinking is, like I'll

1693
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:52,280
Speaker 1: go with that for now, but everything's a little circumstantial.

1694
01:24:53,080 --> 01:24:56,479
Speaker 2: I'm like once Brazilian jiu jitsu and once we're in

1695
01:24:56,560 --> 01:24:59,799
Speaker 2: the a guy, Yeah, we don't know what's going to happen.

1696
01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:02,200
Speaker 1: Right, Like, Yeah, if the kids mean to you, doesn't

1697
01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:04,880
Speaker 1: give you the right to be mean back. But we

1698
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 1: got to figure out a way to where you're not

1699
01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:09,040
Speaker 1: going to allow somebody to be mean to you. Yeah,

1700
01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 1: And I don't know what that is again, I'm very new.

1701
01:25:11,560 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm learning at this stuff. It's like it's one of

1702
01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:17,439
Speaker 1: those things where I'm very slow to speak because I

1703
01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 1: don't have my thoughts in order and how I feel

1704
01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:23,160
Speaker 1: about it, or what should actually be done or how

1705
01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:25,479
Speaker 1: I should be teaching through those things, because I didn't

1706
01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:27,599
Speaker 1: really tell Rue a whole lot, just making sure she's

1707
01:25:27,640 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 1: like okay and everything else. But I'm sitting there like

1708
01:25:30,200 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 1: trying to figure out yet, like what if this does happen?

1709
01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: What if I'm not there?

1710
01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:34,400
Speaker 2: What if this? What if that?

1711
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 1: How do I need to be coaching or teaching this

1712
01:25:38,680 --> 01:25:41,599
Speaker 1: or give her confidence to you know, be a certain way.

1713
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:45,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, witnessed the first bully.

1714
01:25:46,720 --> 01:25:49,679
Speaker 2: That gets me rawed up, that gets me rawed up.

1715
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 1: And fantasies of just sideline tackle drill on this kid,

1716
01:25:55,280 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: oh oh, just a great angle gronk run across the

1717
01:25:58,960 --> 01:26:01,240
Speaker 1: border of the the woods that they were playing in.

1718
01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 2: Just boa this really envisioned you chasing down gronk to

1719
01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:09,720
Speaker 2: the sideline, beating him to the sideline.

1720
01:26:11,080 --> 01:26:11,280
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1721
01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like not even know what to say.

1722
01:26:13,880 --> 01:26:16,679
Speaker 1: I'm over here like pinching my my fingers and stuff

1723
01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:18,560
Speaker 1: and moving my hands around because I'm like I know

1724
01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:22,640
Speaker 1: this is a murky waters to be to be speaking on, but.

1725
01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:29,479
Speaker 2: Who is the father? Hey, listen to my podcast. I

1726
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:33,600
Speaker 2: can promise you that, Oh this your boy. I just

1727
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 2: mocked on the sideline. Wait, I'm say something. I become

1728
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 2: the bully. Just an awful example for the kids. I'm

1729
01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:50,280
Speaker 2: gonna have a little dutey through it too. Oh good deal.

1730
01:26:50,400 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 2: Daddy wants to come say something. Meet me in the

1731
01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:59,680
Speaker 2: ring circle around children, turn on the headlights, pull the

1732
01:26:59,720 --> 01:27:09,639
Speaker 2: car up. It's how you want to dial man. Oh

1733
01:27:09,800 --> 01:27:12,519
Speaker 2: my god. The dad just has no idea, like what

1734
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:15,920
Speaker 2: had happened. He's just one of those like Patagonia best

1735
01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:17,840
Speaker 2: with like a coffee, just chilled, dude.

1736
01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:20,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, what's going on? Well, Susie finds out his

1737
01:27:20,880 --> 01:27:22,680
Speaker 3: son as being a little ship head. He's like the

1738
01:27:22,760 --> 01:27:23,200
Speaker 3: poor kid.

1739
01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 5: You almost you're almost like, hey, you know, praying to

1740
01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:28,360
Speaker 5: God the kid's gonna be alive. I don't know if

1741
01:27:28,400 --> 01:27:30,479
Speaker 5: you guys ever seen that, Like you had a buddy

1742
01:27:30,520 --> 01:27:34,599
Speaker 5: who rightfully so the parent's mad and they're going home

1743
01:27:34,640 --> 01:27:35,719
Speaker 5: and you're like shit.

1744
01:27:36,280 --> 01:27:38,080
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times too, it's like again with

1745
01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:40,599
Speaker 1: being a young boy, like with the kid, they're kids

1746
01:27:41,680 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 1: and if I'm the the parent were rused to bully,

1747
01:27:45,240 --> 01:27:46,800
Speaker 1: I would want to be told because I would be

1748
01:27:47,040 --> 01:27:48,559
Speaker 1: pissed at Rue.

1749
01:27:49,160 --> 01:27:51,519
Speaker 2: Will is definitely one of the dads that, like, if

1750
01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:54,120
Speaker 2: I was, you know, like a friend of Ru's and

1751
01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 2: I'm like hanging out with them and stuff, like, I

1752
01:27:56,280 --> 01:27:59,720
Speaker 2: would be on extra good behavior because Will is the

1753
01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:03,560
Speaker 2: dad that's there, like I playing Little League or like

1754
01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 2: being around other dads. At that age, there were certain

1755
01:28:06,600 --> 01:28:10,680
Speaker 2: dads that you're like, oh, just scared of that, just

1756
01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:13,720
Speaker 2: give off that vibe of like, do not set off

1757
01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:16,280
Speaker 2: mister blah blah blah, not because they were A psycholist said,

1758
01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:18,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a fun you are, but there will

1759
01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:22,160
Speaker 2: be respect. There will be dude. I'm just telling you, like,

1760
01:28:22,360 --> 01:28:24,439
Speaker 2: guys are gonna when they start coming to the age

1761
01:28:24,520 --> 01:28:27,559
Speaker 2: and like just knowing you and knowing your personality type,

1762
01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:29,960
Speaker 2: knowing maybe you played in the NFL for a little bit,

1763
01:28:29,960 --> 01:28:30,479
Speaker 2: they're gonna be.

1764
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 3: Like, don't.

1765
01:28:32,640 --> 01:28:35,360
Speaker 2: Don't mess around with willye c Yeah, that's a good thing.

1766
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:38,320
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the that's my mom and me too.

1767
01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 1: My mom she didn't play no ship, dude. She didn't

1768
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 1: play no ship. If we were acting up in school,

1769
01:28:44,960 --> 01:28:48,320
Speaker 1: we were known as like hyper kids. Uh, Cannon will

1770
01:28:48,360 --> 01:28:51,920
Speaker 1: Over is a little too hyper. But uh, my mom

1771
01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:56,040
Speaker 1: did not mess around. She wanted she wanted real feedback

1772
01:28:56,160 --> 01:28:58,840
Speaker 1: for how her boys are being because if we were

1773
01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:01,880
Speaker 1: messing around in class, if we weren't up you know,

1774
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:05,519
Speaker 1: progress reports, if we weren't dialed in, like she wanted

1775
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:07,760
Speaker 1: to know, not to blame it on anybody else other

1776
01:29:07,840 --> 01:29:10,599
Speaker 1: than the Tanner ass at home and not necessarily come

1777
01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:11,040
Speaker 1: from my mom.

1778
01:29:11,080 --> 01:29:13,120
Speaker 2: That'd be the old man, but it'd be a verbal lash,

1779
01:29:13,160 --> 01:29:16,559
Speaker 2: ye know. Yeah, because she didn't mess around, that's good.

1780
01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 2: That's a good thing. Yeah, that's a good thing.

1781
01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:22,360
Speaker 1: Because part of me sitting there and I'm like, stuff,

1782
01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:24,639
Speaker 1: kid's fault. It's not the parent's fault. Maybe I could

1783
01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:27,599
Speaker 1: be the parent's fault because the kids like whatever he's doing.

1784
01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:31,000
Speaker 1: But I'm sure the parents would be upset the fact

1785
01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:33,640
Speaker 1: their kid is it was doing X, Y and Z.

1786
01:29:33,880 --> 01:29:36,120
Speaker 1: So don't get mad at the parents. Like, again, there's

1787
01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 1: so many things going on in your head that was

1788
01:29:38,240 --> 01:29:38,519
Speaker 1: going on.

1789
01:29:38,560 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 3: In my head.

1790
01:29:39,479 --> 01:29:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can only control what you can control. I

1791
01:29:42,520 --> 01:29:45,040
Speaker 2: feel like you handled that situation very nicely. I mean

1792
01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:45,679
Speaker 2: we just left.

1793
01:29:46,080 --> 01:29:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was more just talking with Charro, like, oh,

1794
01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:50,400
Speaker 1: you want her to be nice to people, would be

1795
01:29:50,479 --> 01:29:53,479
Speaker 1: mean to her, I'd handle a little bit differently, sweetart.

1796
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:55,479
Speaker 1: You know, we're kind of just like laughing and joking

1797
01:29:55,520 --> 01:29:57,640
Speaker 1: back and forth like this why I want to get

1798
01:29:57,640 --> 01:29:59,120
Speaker 1: her into wrestling. That's why I want to get her

1799
01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:02,840
Speaker 1: into Brazilian jiu JITs because see your friend get picked on.

1800
01:30:03,200 --> 01:30:06,519
Speaker 2: We need her to handle that, and she will. She

1801
01:30:06,680 --> 01:30:12,599
Speaker 2: will be Yeah, scott Zilla, I could go scott Zilla,

1802
01:30:13,040 --> 01:30:16,599
Speaker 2: scott Zilla, scott Zilla. You're gonna have to be careful.

1803
01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:21,000
Speaker 1: She's a menace. Bro a dad loss that I had

1804
01:30:21,120 --> 01:30:24,200
Speaker 1: is I have on her dad loss. Can't stop scott

1805
01:30:24,320 --> 01:30:25,880
Speaker 1: Zilla from getting to the water bowl.

1806
01:30:27,800 --> 01:30:33,000
Speaker 2: She's doing it again. She yeah, yes, what are you

1807
01:30:33,080 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 2: gonna do what? She's able to walk. I mean it's

1808
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:36,240
Speaker 2: gonna be a problem.

1809
01:30:36,600 --> 01:30:39,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, she will start getting some more wherewithal of like

1810
01:30:39,320 --> 01:30:41,960
Speaker 1: not getting in the water bowl. But I was taking

1811
01:30:42,000 --> 01:30:43,320
Speaker 1: a Tuesday the other day and I'm doing it with

1812
01:30:43,360 --> 01:30:45,519
Speaker 1: the door open because just me and the kiddos. I

1813
01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 1: hear the water bowl goes sideways in the pantry and I'm.

1814
01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:52,880
Speaker 2: Like, God, damn wiping fast. Scottie. She's just in there.

1815
01:30:55,840 --> 01:30:58,160
Speaker 1: And she knows it too, Like part of me is

1816
01:30:58,240 --> 01:31:01,679
Speaker 1: like she knows what she's doing, because once she's halfway

1817
01:31:01,760 --> 01:31:03,200
Speaker 1: there and I'm like, Scotty, don't you do and she

1818
01:31:03,320 --> 01:31:04,840
Speaker 1: like looks back at me with like a little with

1819
01:31:04,960 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 1: like a little smirk and then don't you do it?

1820
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:09,679
Speaker 1: And she starts kind of going and then I start

1821
01:31:09,760 --> 01:31:12,639
Speaker 1: like running to the pantry. She hits that she goes,

1822
01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 1: she hits that speed that's on the video to get there, Like, yeah,

1823
01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:18,479
Speaker 1: she hits that second gear.

1824
01:31:19,400 --> 01:31:22,120
Speaker 2: She's eighty eight out the gate. If I don't make

1825
01:31:22,160 --> 01:31:24,320
Speaker 2: that plane starts digging that left toe.

1826
01:31:24,520 --> 01:31:27,280
Speaker 1: And it's you know, when your like your house settles,

1827
01:31:27,280 --> 01:31:28,840
Speaker 1: you got to kind of like lift the door up

1828
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:31,000
Speaker 1: for it to like latch or whatever. It's one of

1829
01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:32,880
Speaker 1: those where you shut the door, but she'll go and

1830
01:31:32,960 --> 01:31:34,680
Speaker 1: press on the door to where it'll open back up.

1831
01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:36,320
Speaker 2: So I got to make sure it's like up and

1832
01:31:36,479 --> 01:31:41,040
Speaker 2: latched and that she's she's in there. Bro, Scott's villa

1833
01:31:41,120 --> 01:31:43,600
Speaker 2: is a minute. She's a minute. I cannot wait. She

1834
01:31:43,760 --> 01:31:46,519
Speaker 2: can't be contained, Bro, I want to hang out with

1835
01:31:46,520 --> 01:31:49,960
Speaker 2: scott Zilla so bad. Yeah, she's a beast. I want

1836
01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:52,160
Speaker 2: to see the lore in the legend in person.

1837
01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:55,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, she wants to be on the ground. She needs space,

1838
01:31:55,280 --> 01:31:58,479
Speaker 1: she needs She's trying to climb on everything. She's just

1839
01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:01,960
Speaker 1: a happy little baby bro very few things. She's like unbothered.

1840
01:32:02,680 --> 01:32:05,280
Speaker 2: I can't wait to see her personality develop because I

1841
01:32:05,439 --> 01:32:07,400
Speaker 2: love how Rue when like you were in that little

1842
01:32:07,560 --> 01:32:09,800
Speaker 2: pillow for it that you built with there and you're oh,

1843
01:32:09,920 --> 01:32:12,400
Speaker 2: the the you know, monsters are outside of it, blah

1844
01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:14,599
Speaker 2: blah blah, we gotta hide. Scott Zilla's gonna be like, wait,

1845
01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:17,400
Speaker 2: can we not go out there and go kill him? Yeah?

1846
01:32:17,479 --> 01:32:20,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like what Scotty's Scotty is the type. She's

1847
01:32:20,960 --> 01:32:24,440
Speaker 1: the type that when Rue is upset or crying, Scotty laughs.

1848
01:32:26,400 --> 01:32:30,719
Speaker 2: Start like just randomly clapping. She's gonna be a menace

1849
01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:32,840
Speaker 2: in a good way. Yeah, in a great way. I

1850
01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:34,160
Speaker 2: got a highlight tape loading.

1851
01:32:34,400 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna be anytime soon, just yet.

1852
01:32:36,520 --> 01:32:38,600
Speaker 1: I need to capture a few more scenes. But her

1853
01:32:38,720 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 1: just eating.

1854
01:32:39,800 --> 01:32:42,960
Speaker 2: Oh, she's being a menace on the table dad. Oh

1855
01:32:43,240 --> 01:32:46,160
Speaker 2: she eats like her dad. Anything you put in front

1856
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:47,479
Speaker 2: of her, gone, Yeah.

1857
01:32:48,560 --> 01:32:51,719
Speaker 1: She's quick, she's good man, she's just stud Oh my god.

1858
01:32:52,080 --> 01:32:54,559
Speaker 1: But she's gonna be a lot of fun. But she's

1859
01:32:55,000 --> 01:32:57,679
Speaker 1: she's very unbothered and it's awesome.

1860
01:32:57,760 --> 01:33:01,439
Speaker 2: She's as I love it. And since we're coming up

1861
01:33:01,520 --> 01:33:03,200
Speaker 2: on an hour, I thought that I would kick it

1862
01:33:03,280 --> 01:33:05,519
Speaker 2: to coming out. We got to keep it under I know,

1863
01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:07,200
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. We're kind of coming up to

1864
01:33:07,280 --> 01:33:09,439
Speaker 2: an hour, so I was going to move it to

1865
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:12,200
Speaker 2: what are the odds? Hit the what are the odds?

1866
01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:13,479
Speaker 2: And we can hit our couple dad hacks.

1867
01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:15,840
Speaker 1: We can get it into calls, get in the call ins,

1868
01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:19,760
Speaker 1: and probably be out under an hour lesson a lot.

1869
01:33:19,720 --> 01:33:21,080
Speaker 2: Of time for to keep that under an hour.

1870
01:33:21,200 --> 01:33:25,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we can do that. We're twenty five minutes,

1871
01:33:25,240 --> 01:33:25,800
Speaker 3: twenty five.

1872
01:33:25,880 --> 01:33:27,240
Speaker 1: Hey, this has been fun today. I want to say

1873
01:33:27,240 --> 01:33:29,000
Speaker 1: again thank you for sharing all that stuff earlier.

1874
01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:32,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, well and this has been fun today because

1875
01:33:32,040 --> 01:33:34,400
Speaker 2: like it, it feels good to be able to have

1876
01:33:34,520 --> 01:33:36,920
Speaker 2: a place where I could talk about that coincides with

1877
01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:39,720
Speaker 2: like a podcast that I'm on. I'm pretty fortunate and

1878
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:41,360
Speaker 2: lucky to be able to do that. Let's go, so

1879
01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:43,240
Speaker 2: thank you guys.

1880
01:33:44,080 --> 01:33:45,280
Speaker 1: Before we get into the water of the odds, I

1881
01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:47,759
Speaker 1: want to shout out Campden Stevens, who left to comment

1882
01:33:47,800 --> 01:33:48,400
Speaker 1: on Instagram.

1883
01:33:48,640 --> 01:33:50,320
Speaker 2: Will assure them Chef Derek.

1884
01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:53,439
Speaker 1: What a pod, boys, I myself am a twenty year

1885
01:33:53,479 --> 01:33:55,760
Speaker 1: old guy from the great state of Iowa. Twenty years

1886
01:33:56,320 --> 01:33:59,120
Speaker 1: this is gooom Beret we're talking about Fuck the Hulk, guys.

1887
01:33:59,160 --> 01:34:02,320
Speaker 1: Will I always state and am a member of the

1888
01:34:02,400 --> 01:34:05,560
Speaker 1: goon Berets there. We are just recently got engaged to

1889
01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:08,599
Speaker 1: my fiance, so no, not quite pop a team six yet.

1890
01:34:08,640 --> 01:34:10,320
Speaker 1: But I gotta tell you, guys, I love this pod.

1891
01:34:10,439 --> 01:34:13,120
Speaker 1: My biggest dream is to be a father, and listening

1892
01:34:13,160 --> 01:34:15,640
Speaker 1: to your pod is so encouraging. You guys give me

1893
01:34:16,160 --> 01:34:18,439
Speaker 1: the stepping stones and puzzle pieces to be a great

1894
01:34:18,479 --> 01:34:20,680
Speaker 1: father just like yourselves. It's so inspiring to hear how

1895
01:34:20,720 --> 01:34:23,400
Speaker 1: you guys carry yourselves. It's not only fathers, but husbands

1896
01:34:23,439 --> 01:34:26,360
Speaker 1: as well. Kenden Stevens might be deleting the comment after

1897
01:34:26,439 --> 01:34:29,759
Speaker 1: the dad loss from Uncle Shrham. I appreciate this podcast

1898
01:34:29,800 --> 01:34:31,640
Speaker 1: more than you guys know. The complete shot off the

1899
01:34:31,680 --> 01:34:34,920
Speaker 1: shot in the darkness. This DM gets read and that's okay.

1900
01:34:35,120 --> 01:34:36,599
Speaker 1: Just want you to know my support to you guys.

1901
01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 1: Keep it up good. I'll tell you this Camden. Somebody

1902
01:34:40,920 --> 01:34:45,360
Speaker 1: who's taken puzzle what you say stepping stones and puzzle

1903
01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:47,400
Speaker 1: pieces to be a great father just like yourselves. You

1904
01:34:47,560 --> 01:34:49,720
Speaker 1: thinking that way at twenty years old, I will say you.

1905
01:34:49,760 --> 01:34:51,960
Speaker 2: Are ahead of the curve, way ahead of the curve.

1906
01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:56,439
Speaker 1: And if anything else, stepping stones, puzzle pieces. Learn from us, yes,

1907
01:34:56,760 --> 01:34:57,759
Speaker 1: learn from our losses.

1908
01:34:58,000 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 2: Yes, please please. And before I now jump into what

1909
01:35:04,040 --> 01:35:05,920
Speaker 2: are the odds, you reminded me of a comment that

1910
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:08,439
Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure I read. This comes from

1911
01:35:08,560 --> 01:35:12,960
Speaker 2: MUTSA eight. Shout out Aaron. She was our caller last

1912
01:35:13,040 --> 01:35:16,479
Speaker 2: week that called in about being close with her dad.

1913
01:35:17,479 --> 01:35:20,479
Speaker 2: But shout out Aaron as someone with no kids. But

1914
01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:22,720
Speaker 2: I've always said if I did, I'd want to be

1915
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:25,400
Speaker 2: a girl dad. To hear your appreciation for your dad

1916
01:35:25,600 --> 01:35:28,479
Speaker 2: is the exact reason I want to be a girl dad.

1917
01:35:29,200 --> 01:35:31,280
Speaker 2: Damn it. Two weeks in a row, you got the

1918
01:35:31,320 --> 01:35:34,040
Speaker 2: boys eyes watering. Love to you, Aaron, and love to

1919
01:35:34,160 --> 01:35:36,519
Speaker 2: you guys. I just love that he was shouting out

1920
01:35:36,560 --> 01:35:39,200
Speaker 2: one of our call ins and it was a great calling.

1921
01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:42,120
Speaker 2: People love that call in, Bro, that callin was so good.

1922
01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:42,519
Speaker 2: Go ahead.

1923
01:35:42,520 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 4: I do want to say we received an update from her.

1924
01:35:44,640 --> 01:35:47,560
Speaker 4: We've been texting with her. She's gonna send us a

1925
01:35:47,720 --> 01:35:50,200
Speaker 4: reaction video of her father when the shirt comes in,

1926
01:35:50,600 --> 01:35:53,320
Speaker 4: and of him watching the episode because he watches with her.

1927
01:35:53,400 --> 01:35:55,680
Speaker 4: So she's been saving that segment of the show to

1928
01:35:55,840 --> 01:35:57,880
Speaker 4: record and send in. So hopefully we get that video

1929
01:35:57,880 --> 01:36:00,599
Speaker 4: of reaction of the father seeing the story be told

1930
01:36:00,640 --> 01:36:01,160
Speaker 4: in real time.

1931
01:36:01,400 --> 01:36:06,320
Speaker 2: Dude, that's cool, Dar, it's over there, just operating, operating.

1932
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:09,719
Speaker 1: I was gonna say demon, but we already got a demon.

1933
01:36:10,640 --> 01:36:14,559
Speaker 1: It'll come, Yeah, it'll come. They call him Deek, they

1934
01:36:14,600 --> 01:36:16,439
Speaker 1: call him Deep, they call him deep, or he calls

1935
01:36:16,479 --> 01:36:19,680
Speaker 1: him Deeke. No, they earned it by starting varsity as

1936
01:36:19,680 --> 01:36:24,040
Speaker 1: a freshman in high school. That's on the ice soccer soccer.

1937
01:36:24,560 --> 01:36:26,800
Speaker 1: I don't know how that correlates to Deeke, but it's there.

1938
01:36:26,960 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see. Maybe the comments might have a good

1939
01:36:30,360 --> 01:36:35,679
Speaker 2: nickname for you. I'm very scared of that. Maybe maybe

1940
01:36:35,720 --> 01:36:38,080
Speaker 2: we left Papa Team six take a crack a. Derek

1941
01:36:38,200 --> 01:36:40,960
Speaker 2: would love that. That would be fun. That'd be fun.

1942
01:36:41,120 --> 01:36:44,720
Speaker 2: And one really quick, last one Steven, who has been

1943
01:36:44,880 --> 01:36:47,920
Speaker 2: in our comments a lot lately. He was one of

1944
01:36:48,000 --> 01:36:50,400
Speaker 2: our very first call ins. We had a mishap with

1945
01:36:50,520 --> 01:36:53,000
Speaker 2: the shipping we had to reship. He was in our

1946
01:36:53,080 --> 01:36:55,639
Speaker 2: stream the other night he was the one saying, Hey, guys,

1947
01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:59,320
Speaker 2: have y'all sent my stuff out? Got confirmation? This morning

1948
01:37:00,000 --> 01:37:05,839
Speaker 2: Stephen has his merch Way to Go, Steven, Way to go, Steven.

1949
01:37:06,160 --> 01:37:10,080
Speaker 2: Let's go. Okay, what are the odds? This week's what

1950
01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:14,400
Speaker 2: are the odds? Shout out FanDuel comes from Twitter and

1951
01:37:14,520 --> 01:37:18,599
Speaker 2: it comes from Mike green Walsh. Mike Greenwalsh on Twitter.

1952
01:37:19,400 --> 01:37:23,160
Speaker 2: Still catching up on the pod. Just heard your hardball story,

1953
01:37:23,640 --> 01:37:27,320
Speaker 2: Here's mine twenty thirteen. I'm coaching a high school baseball

1954
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:31,080
Speaker 2: team by alma mater. Haven't been to state since the sixties.

1955
01:37:31,960 --> 01:37:33,920
Speaker 2: I know we've got the dudes to get there, but

1956
01:37:34,040 --> 01:37:37,120
Speaker 2: we need that extra push. We've got a road trip

1957
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:39,720
Speaker 2: for a double dip in the Nebraska Sticks and we

1958
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:44,080
Speaker 2: need to win both of them. Two hour trip. On

1959
01:37:44,240 --> 01:37:46,600
Speaker 2: the way up, I throw on Hardball, one of my

1960
01:37:46,680 --> 01:37:49,800
Speaker 2: all time favorite movies and the namesake of all my

1961
01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:53,559
Speaker 2: fantasy sports teams. Needless to say, the kids roll off

1962
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:56,439
Speaker 2: the bus, fired up, the team champ for the rest

1963
01:37:56,520 --> 01:37:59,800
Speaker 2: of the season becomes for g baby. We go to

1964
01:37:59,840 --> 01:38:03,040
Speaker 2: state for the first time in fifty years. Powerful stuff.

1965
01:38:03,960 --> 01:38:09,719
Speaker 2: I freaking love that, dude. That is cool. That's sick.

1966
01:38:10,520 --> 01:38:15,280
Speaker 2: What are the odds that this state champion baseball team

1967
01:38:16,080 --> 01:38:18,080
Speaker 2: hadn't been there for sixty years, had.

1968
01:38:18,160 --> 01:38:21,559
Speaker 1: Been there for sixty years, goes and gets it done

1969
01:38:21,960 --> 01:38:26,479
Speaker 1: and a very small part of that trip. Jim Sherman

1970
01:38:26,600 --> 01:38:28,400
Speaker 1: Young's no.

1971
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:34,280
Speaker 2: He was saying, this happened in twenty thirteen. I thought

1972
01:38:34,320 --> 01:38:37,759
Speaker 2: it just happened. And he's playing you breaking down Hardball.

1973
01:38:38,600 --> 01:38:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm the man I got those kids to State. I

1974
01:38:42,040 --> 01:38:43,880
Speaker 2: did not get those kids to State, but the movie

1975
01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:46,160
Speaker 2: hard But he was just saying, hey, I get what

1976
01:38:46,280 --> 01:38:49,080
Speaker 2: you mean, tearing up powerful movie. It got my kids

1977
01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:51,880
Speaker 2: to State. Okay, it's only yeah, yeah, what are the

1978
01:38:51,960 --> 01:38:54,519
Speaker 2: odds that like a movie could inspire a team? You

1979
01:38:54,600 --> 01:38:57,320
Speaker 2: know how the brain sputters? You know how my brain spot?

1980
01:38:57,439 --> 01:38:59,880
Speaker 1: I said it on Busting. You know, it's like sometimes

1981
01:39:00,160 --> 01:39:02,960
Speaker 1: my braining. It's like a lawnmower with last year's gas

1982
01:39:03,080 --> 01:39:04,960
Speaker 1: in it. It's a second to get going in the

1983
01:39:05,040 --> 01:39:08,240
Speaker 1: new season. You gotta rip it a few on, you

1984
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:10,479
Speaker 1: gotta keep I thought I hit it three times, Let

1985
01:39:10,520 --> 01:39:11,080
Speaker 1: me hit it a few.

1986
01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:15,920
Speaker 2: Now you're flooding it right, Yeah, now you're gotch We

1987
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:18,160
Speaker 2: got it, We got it. Yeah, turn the choke off.

1988
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:23,639
Speaker 2: But yeah, that was our Uh what are the odds?

1989
01:39:23,640 --> 01:39:27,040
Speaker 2: Who we want to go? You did your survival kit

1990
01:39:27,479 --> 01:39:30,240
Speaker 2: correct or your dad? My survival kit is bent Go

1991
01:39:30,800 --> 01:39:34,040
Speaker 2: lunch boxes. Great lunch box to have in the fridge.

1992
01:39:34,080 --> 01:39:36,000
Speaker 2: It's got you'll open it up if you go to

1993
01:39:36,040 --> 01:39:38,760
Speaker 2: bentgo dot com. And again no free shoutouts, and it's

1994
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:40,600
Speaker 2: not a sponsor the show. We love for them to

1995
01:39:40,640 --> 01:39:42,680
Speaker 2: be a sponsor to the show. B E N T

1996
01:39:42,960 --> 01:39:46,760
Speaker 2: g O bent Go Lunchboxes. But you got this.

1997
01:39:46,880 --> 01:39:48,880
Speaker 1: Little You open up the box and it's got its

1998
01:39:48,920 --> 01:39:51,280
Speaker 1: little it's got its plate where it's divided up. Right

1999
01:39:51,680 --> 01:39:56,760
Speaker 1: underneath it is this layer that you can have in

2000
01:39:56,880 --> 01:39:59,360
Speaker 1: the freezer. So then you can put the layer underneath

2001
01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:03,760
Speaker 1: and it keeps lunch box fresh cold, ready to go.

2002
01:40:04,000 --> 01:40:06,960
Speaker 1: So what we use for ru this is sick. They're good.

2003
01:40:07,320 --> 01:40:09,880
Speaker 1: They are good. They have a variety too. It's not

2004
01:40:10,040 --> 01:40:13,080
Speaker 1: just like the refrigerated like it's got the little layer underneath.

2005
01:40:13,120 --> 01:40:16,400
Speaker 1: They got a variety of lunch boxes, very good, very

2006
01:40:16,479 --> 01:40:17,800
Speaker 1: high quality lunchboxes.

2007
01:40:17,840 --> 01:40:19,720
Speaker 2: Again, no free shout outs. Would love for bent Go

2008
01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:22,719
Speaker 2: to be a sponsor of the show. I'm sure chef

2009
01:40:22,880 --> 01:40:25,120
Speaker 2: will probably pull up an image, but there's an image

2010
01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:26,320
Speaker 2: of the bent go Yeah.

2011
01:40:26,680 --> 01:40:30,080
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what Packing the lunch is hard? Bro,

2012
01:40:30,680 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 1: It's not hard, It's just I feel like options are

2013
01:40:33,280 --> 01:40:35,560
Speaker 1: kind of limited, especially if you don't have or the

2014
01:40:35,680 --> 01:40:38,280
Speaker 1: layer where it keeps it fresh keeps it cold. So like,

2015
01:40:38,360 --> 01:40:42,080
Speaker 1: for example, I pack I pack arose the lunch like

2016
01:40:42,280 --> 01:40:45,000
Speaker 1: I'll make breakfast, kind of packer lunch. The go to

2017
01:40:45,200 --> 01:40:47,600
Speaker 1: is a PB and J slice it up so it

2018
01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:49,000
Speaker 1: can kind of fit in there. You can fit it

2019
01:40:49,160 --> 01:40:51,800
Speaker 1: nice and nice and kneat towards like you know, little

2020
01:40:51,880 --> 01:40:57,280
Speaker 1: bars of peanut butter, jolly s languiches bars and then cucumbers.

2021
01:40:58,040 --> 01:41:04,040
Speaker 1: Oh okay, the uncred pepperonis, little pepperoni slices. She loves

2022
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:11,519
Speaker 1: pepper she loves pepper Pepperoni, Pepperonis, she loves Pepperoni's.

2023
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:15,080
Speaker 2: Drop a pepperoni down in the comments. Yeah, drop pepperoni

2024
01:41:15,240 --> 01:41:19,080
Speaker 2: down in the comments. Uh. And then what maybe some

2025
01:41:19,200 --> 01:41:20,960
Speaker 2: like jedderfish or an apple sauce.

2026
01:41:21,320 --> 01:41:23,439
Speaker 1: Hmmm, they'll have to kind of open up for and

2027
01:41:23,520 --> 01:41:25,360
Speaker 1: then kind of barely click it so that way she's

2028
01:41:25,360 --> 01:41:26,439
Speaker 1: strong enough to get it open.

2029
01:41:26,680 --> 01:41:30,000
Speaker 2: I like containers like that because it does One issue

2030
01:41:30,080 --> 01:41:32,799
Speaker 2: I have with myself eating wise is just portion control.

2031
01:41:32,880 --> 01:41:35,040
Speaker 2: And I feel like lunchboxes like that do a really

2032
01:41:35,080 --> 01:41:38,760
Speaker 2: good job. Yes, like this is an adequate amount of

2033
01:41:38,840 --> 01:41:40,800
Speaker 2: food for my child. I have filled it.

2034
01:41:41,200 --> 01:41:45,680
Speaker 1: Weird good Yeah, yeah, but that's my that's my that's

2035
01:41:45,720 --> 01:41:47,880
Speaker 1: my supervo kit and my dad hack stuff.

2036
01:41:47,960 --> 01:41:49,240
Speaker 2: I kind of talked about it earlier.

2037
01:41:49,560 --> 01:41:51,800
Speaker 1: I have my dad hacks talking colors and bad guys

2038
01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:54,200
Speaker 1: with my daughter about football, Like, who's the bad guy here?

2039
01:41:54,320 --> 01:41:55,559
Speaker 2: Aprons the bad guy.

2040
01:41:57,400 --> 01:42:00,720
Speaker 1: I Wiwa state. I was the bad guy that has

2041
01:42:00,760 --> 01:42:02,360
Speaker 1: got some money on him to cover, but we just

2042
01:42:02,400 --> 01:42:03,840
Speaker 1: need him to lose by two or three.

2043
01:42:04,320 --> 01:42:06,720
Speaker 2: You're in. By the way, Rue, you're not allowed to

2044
01:42:06,760 --> 01:42:10,240
Speaker 2: go to Iowa. They reached Yah and said that they

2045
01:42:10,320 --> 01:42:15,040
Speaker 2: don't like you personally. Yeah, bad people go to that school.

2046
01:42:15,880 --> 01:42:19,519
Speaker 2: He said, Rue Compedy can't come here because of her

2047
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:21,800
Speaker 2: dad dies and we hate his dad, so I guess

2048
01:42:21,840 --> 01:42:24,120
Speaker 2: you gotta hate him. Yeah, you know how you're scared of?

2049
01:42:24,360 --> 01:42:24,479
Speaker 5: Uh?

2050
01:42:25,760 --> 01:42:29,080
Speaker 1: TAFFEEDI the mean version at first, before she gets the

2051
01:42:29,160 --> 01:42:31,759
Speaker 1: heart back and yeah, it's a good person again.

2052
01:42:31,840 --> 01:42:35,960
Speaker 2: Taffeedi went to Iowa. The Mask went to Iowa. Far

2053
01:42:36,160 --> 01:42:40,880
Speaker 2: went to Iowa. The Grinch went to Iowa. No the

2054
01:42:40,960 --> 01:42:44,080
Speaker 2: bad guys go to Iowa. Oh no, she's gonna that's

2055
01:42:44,200 --> 01:42:49,080
Speaker 2: also went to Nebraska, and so did her sister Anna. Yeah, yeah,

2056
01:42:49,160 --> 01:42:51,280
Speaker 2: you know who didn't. Now, who's the prince in the

2057
01:42:51,320 --> 01:42:54,360
Speaker 2: first movie? Oh, I forget his name, but he went

2058
01:42:54,400 --> 01:42:57,640
Speaker 2: to Iowa. Yeah, that's a huge hawky. He was a

2059
01:42:57,720 --> 01:42:59,519
Speaker 2: pun for And I knew right out of the gate

2060
01:42:59,560 --> 01:43:01,639
Speaker 2: in that movie when he started to go and started

2061
01:43:02,080 --> 01:43:05,519
Speaker 2: Hans Hans is a hans Hans.

2062
01:43:05,760 --> 01:43:07,839
Speaker 1: When I saw Hans, I was like, that's a hawkey.

2063
01:43:09,320 --> 01:43:11,960
Speaker 1: That's a hawkey. We don't marry hawkeys.

2064
01:43:12,200 --> 01:43:13,639
Speaker 2: We don't go to Iowa.

2065
01:43:14,840 --> 01:43:18,880
Speaker 1: Starting yes, started me on that. Hey, I like to

2066
01:43:19,160 --> 01:43:21,439
Speaker 1: talk to that because that is legitimately what I'm going

2067
01:43:21,520 --> 01:43:22,080
Speaker 1: to start using.

2068
01:43:24,960 --> 01:43:29,400
Speaker 2: Just anything that you don't wander to, like I have

2069
01:43:29,600 --> 01:43:34,240
Speaker 2: joked about, like calling like taking a two ski, different stuff.

2070
01:43:34,320 --> 01:43:36,840
Speaker 2: There's a guy in a fancy football league that we

2071
01:43:36,920 --> 01:43:40,920
Speaker 2: have this like fake rivalry for years, and we were

2072
01:43:41,000 --> 01:43:42,800
Speaker 2: texting before the season. I told him I was going

2073
01:43:42,840 --> 01:43:45,360
Speaker 2: to tell my daughter that taking a ship was called

2074
01:43:45,439 --> 01:43:49,040
Speaker 2: taking a Gorby, which is his nickname. I thought that'd

2075
01:43:49,040 --> 01:43:52,240
Speaker 2: be a fun little hit. Yeah, you're gonna drop a Gorby.

2076
01:43:52,720 --> 01:43:58,200
Speaker 2: Do you make a little uh oh, my survival kid

2077
01:43:58,400 --> 01:44:04,080
Speaker 2: is a snot sucker. Those are so huge, dude, And

2078
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:07,000
Speaker 2: Jill is a machine with that thing because I think

2079
01:44:07,040 --> 01:44:10,599
Speaker 2: they think, oh, yeah, well she has the ball one

2080
01:44:11,280 --> 01:44:14,639
Speaker 2: and dude, I wish you could watch Jill Young operate

2081
01:44:14,880 --> 01:44:17,880
Speaker 2: with the little ball one where you like squeeze it

2082
01:44:18,720 --> 01:44:21,080
Speaker 2: and she plugs the other nostril and she gets in there.

2083
01:44:21,120 --> 01:44:23,600
Speaker 2: I guess they do it at the hospital. So she's like,

2084
01:44:24,920 --> 01:44:28,240
Speaker 2: it's crazy watching her get that snot up. Yeah, yeah,

2085
01:44:28,640 --> 01:44:30,599
Speaker 2: it's it's you feel like you're torturing them.

2086
01:44:31,040 --> 01:44:32,120
Speaker 3: You do, you do.

2087
01:44:32,400 --> 01:44:35,800
Speaker 2: But to any new parents, like when you are hearing

2088
01:44:35,840 --> 01:44:39,120
Speaker 2: your baby cry and they sound like a pig and

2089
01:44:39,200 --> 01:44:42,680
Speaker 2: they kind of got the like in between cries, that

2090
01:44:42,800 --> 01:44:45,320
Speaker 2: is a tailtale sign that hey, maybe they're having a

2091
01:44:45,320 --> 01:44:48,679
Speaker 2: little you know, trouble. When they're on their passy, they're

2092
01:44:48,720 --> 01:44:51,160
Speaker 2: trying to breathe through their nose. There's snot up there

2093
01:44:51,680 --> 01:44:53,760
Speaker 2: and there's some discomfort and so they're letting you know,

2094
01:44:53,920 --> 01:44:56,200
Speaker 2: I can't breathe through my freaking nose right now? What's

2095
01:44:56,240 --> 01:44:58,760
Speaker 2: going on? And Jill will go in and clean out

2096
01:44:58,840 --> 01:45:03,400
Speaker 2: the schnas and it's money every time scars are so happy.

2097
01:45:03,840 --> 01:45:07,599
Speaker 2: I'm manual. To me, got the one where I get

2098
01:45:07,640 --> 01:45:10,840
Speaker 2: to take control well, and that one's a big one.

2099
01:45:11,320 --> 01:45:15,080
Speaker 2: Like I feel like majority of people have the you know,

2100
01:45:15,320 --> 01:45:19,320
Speaker 2: the actual snot sucker. Yeah, so get whichever one you want.

2101
01:45:19,479 --> 01:45:21,519
Speaker 2: But it is great thing to have. Great thing.

2102
01:45:21,720 --> 01:45:24,040
Speaker 1: Don't just use the bulb. It's not to me, it's

2103
01:45:24,080 --> 01:45:26,120
Speaker 1: not good enough. Not the bulb on the snots sucker.

2104
01:45:26,200 --> 01:45:27,679
Speaker 1: But if you just got a bulb that you're trying

2105
01:45:27,680 --> 01:45:29,680
Speaker 1: to put in their nostril, yes, to me, it's just

2106
01:45:29,840 --> 01:45:32,840
Speaker 1: like we haven't had we never had great luck with those.

2107
01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:34,680
Speaker 2: And I feel like they're not doing it. It's it's

2108
01:45:34,760 --> 01:45:37,120
Speaker 2: not long enough, it's not doing enough damage. Yes, And

2109
01:45:37,200 --> 01:45:39,720
Speaker 2: when I'm doing it, I can't get anything out. But

2110
01:45:39,800 --> 01:45:42,439
Speaker 2: when Jill's doing it and she's hitting the angles, she

2111
01:45:42,640 --> 01:45:44,240
Speaker 2: like gets it first try almost every time.

2112
01:45:44,479 --> 01:45:46,120
Speaker 1: It's kind of nice for you too, because you just

2113
01:45:46,200 --> 01:45:48,679
Speaker 1: my wife. He's gonna do it. Yeah, so you don't

2114
01:45:48,720 --> 01:45:51,320
Speaker 1: have to be the one. And she's really crying. Yeah,

2115
01:45:51,320 --> 01:45:52,120
Speaker 1: what's MoMA doing?

2116
01:45:52,560 --> 01:45:55,000
Speaker 2: Yeah what is she doing? Oh my gosh, Yeah, don't worry,

2117
01:45:55,000 --> 01:45:57,320
Speaker 2: I'll pick you up. You know who doesn't do that? Yeah,

2118
01:45:57,800 --> 01:46:02,639
Speaker 2: ain't not that and then Dad Hack, is Duna stroller bag.

2119
01:46:03,840 --> 01:46:06,120
Speaker 2: If you are flying and you want to bring your

2120
01:46:06,200 --> 01:46:10,519
Speaker 2: Duna base with you, the douna car seat, you can

2121
01:46:10,560 --> 01:46:15,519
Speaker 2: put the Duna bass and the stroller in this Duna bag.

2122
01:46:16,080 --> 01:46:18,840
Speaker 2: But let's say you're, hey, shrim I actually like flying

2123
01:46:18,920 --> 01:46:21,000
Speaker 2: with my Duna because it's a stroller. I keep the

2124
01:46:21,479 --> 01:46:24,000
Speaker 2: kiddo in the stroller and I bring the stroller onto

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01:46:24,040 --> 01:46:24,439
Speaker 2: the plane.

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01:46:24,720 --> 01:46:25,000
Speaker 3: Great.

2127
01:46:25,720 --> 01:46:28,080
Speaker 2: Just put your Duna base into the Duna bag and

2128
01:46:28,320 --> 01:46:32,439
Speaker 2: pack it up with any of your shirts, pants, all

2129
01:46:32,479 --> 01:46:35,360
Speaker 2: of your luggage that you're going to be packing. It's

2130
01:46:35,439 --> 01:46:39,639
Speaker 2: a cheat code, dude. It's like an extra suitcase that's

2131
01:46:39,720 --> 01:46:43,639
Speaker 2: like a total utility piece in your set where if

2132
01:46:43,640 --> 01:46:46,240
Speaker 2: you're using it for the Duna base and the Duna stroller,

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01:46:46,760 --> 01:46:49,760
Speaker 2: it's great for that. If you're keeping the stroller out

2134
01:46:49,800 --> 01:46:52,320
Speaker 2: on the flight, you can squeeze some other stuff in

2135
01:46:52,360 --> 01:46:54,679
Speaker 2: there too. Great, Dad Hack, com I sure you don't

2136
01:46:54,680 --> 01:46:56,160
Speaker 2: get too far away from that mic. Look at you,

2137
01:46:57,760 --> 01:47:01,880
Speaker 2: Look at me, play myself again? Was I? Hey? Was

2138
01:47:01,920 --> 01:47:04,360
Speaker 2: I on the mic when I was talking? Though? I

2139
01:47:04,479 --> 01:47:04,960
Speaker 2: believe so.

2140
01:47:05,280 --> 01:47:07,080
Speaker 1: I caught it When you did this whole you were

2141
01:47:07,200 --> 01:47:08,600
Speaker 1: leaned back and then coming in and I was like,

2142
01:47:08,640 --> 01:47:09,400
Speaker 1: hopefully he hasn't.

2143
01:47:09,439 --> 01:47:11,080
Speaker 2: I hadn't seen it before that, but I kind of

2144
01:47:11,200 --> 01:47:13,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, I gotta quit doing that.

2145
01:47:13,400 --> 01:47:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, at least just have it set up to where

2146
01:47:15,360 --> 01:47:17,440
Speaker 1: it's like, what is it called perpendicular?

2147
01:47:17,680 --> 01:47:21,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, perpendicular parallel or what we could do. We could

2148
01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:25,439
Speaker 2: get a boom mic just right here for when I Yeah,

2149
01:47:25,880 --> 01:47:28,720
Speaker 2: but what I'm saying is like right now, right now,

2150
01:47:28,880 --> 01:47:33,320
Speaker 2: you're like a forty five degree angle. Oh so you're

2151
01:47:33,439 --> 01:47:39,880
Speaker 2: meaning like this, swing it around there, you go, look

2152
01:47:39,920 --> 01:47:44,280
Speaker 2: at that? Is that good? Yeah? Am I podcasting now?

2153
01:47:44,560 --> 01:47:46,880
Speaker 2: I think so? Because Chefa he doesn't have the ears on,

2154
01:47:47,040 --> 01:47:47,960
Speaker 2: so I don't know if he knows.

2155
01:47:48,600 --> 01:47:49,960
Speaker 3: No, I mean, we pick it up a lot.

2156
01:47:50,080 --> 01:47:54,080
Speaker 5: It was more from the episode two episodes ago when

2157
01:47:54,080 --> 01:47:57,880
Speaker 5: you were doing your story. It was you guys, you

2158
01:47:57,960 --> 01:47:59,920
Speaker 5: were just leaning back a lot and so you're back

2159
01:48:00,120 --> 01:48:02,080
Speaker 5: here and talking to but you're just talking to Will.

2160
01:48:02,120 --> 01:48:03,320
Speaker 3: You're not even thinking about the mic.

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01:48:03,720 --> 01:48:03,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2162
01:48:04,320 --> 01:48:06,439
Speaker 5: So yeah, it was just we got some comments on it,

2163
01:48:06,520 --> 01:48:09,080
Speaker 5: and honestly, like post production, I probably could have fixed

2164
01:48:09,080 --> 01:48:11,519
Speaker 5: it too, but I just didn't really for all the

2165
01:48:11,520 --> 01:48:13,920
Speaker 5: people that say we don't have it loud enough that's

2166
01:48:14,000 --> 01:48:15,960
Speaker 5: on me. I'm trying to figure out how to do

2167
01:48:16,080 --> 01:48:20,599
Speaker 5: without technical stuff like a overstretching the mics. But uh,

2168
01:48:20,920 --> 01:48:23,000
Speaker 5: I have headphones on when I hit the episodes, and

2169
01:48:23,120 --> 01:48:25,000
Speaker 5: I kind of have to remind myself not to have

2170
01:48:25,080 --> 01:48:28,719
Speaker 5: my volume loud because I'm a chronic like high volume

2171
01:48:28,760 --> 01:48:29,599
Speaker 5: listener to everything.

2172
01:48:30,439 --> 01:48:33,200
Speaker 3: So we're working on it. But yeah, we're getting better.

2173
01:48:33,640 --> 01:48:36,120
Speaker 2: That seeming team say, that's as team's six as captain

2174
01:48:36,200 --> 01:48:39,679
Speaker 2: right there. I couldn't love them more. Him just taking

2175
01:48:39,720 --> 01:48:42,360
Speaker 2: accountability when he didn't have to and I didn't have

2176
01:48:42,479 --> 01:48:43,760
Speaker 2: to it all. But hey, he's he's a man of

2177
01:48:43,800 --> 01:48:47,599
Speaker 2: the people. Wants to hear from him not to hit

2178
01:48:47,680 --> 01:48:50,360
Speaker 2: record with the recording bing right here. It was the

2179
01:48:50,439 --> 01:48:53,800
Speaker 2: first person to raise her, didn't say it was his fault. Yeah,

2180
01:48:54,080 --> 01:48:58,760
Speaker 2: this guy, Chef, you're the man. Yeah, man, thank you,

2181
01:48:58,920 --> 01:49:01,840
Speaker 2: And Derek, you are too. He is the man. You're

2182
01:49:01,880 --> 01:49:08,360
Speaker 2: the man too. Shirm Will con okay, will constance the man. Okay,

2183
01:49:08,640 --> 01:49:10,880
Speaker 2: all right, fine, ship, let's get to our call in.

2184
01:49:11,000 --> 01:49:13,040
Speaker 1: Call in Hotline six on one the dads. You want

2185
01:49:13,040 --> 01:49:15,760
Speaker 1: to be featured on the show. You call into the

2186
01:49:15,840 --> 01:49:17,479
Speaker 1: hotline six on one the dads you can share a

2187
01:49:17,560 --> 01:49:19,880
Speaker 1: dad loss, you can share a story, you can be

2188
01:49:20,040 --> 01:49:22,439
Speaker 1: vulnerable with us. You can give tip whatever it is, win,

2189
01:49:22,600 --> 01:49:24,960
Speaker 1: loss doesn't matter. Call in you want to be featured

2190
01:49:25,000 --> 01:49:26,479
Speaker 1: on the show. We will feature you on the show.

2191
01:49:27,360 --> 01:49:29,080
Speaker 1: There's always a lot of call ins. I know our

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01:49:29,160 --> 01:49:34,160
Speaker 1: boys Chef and Derek, Chef and Deeck go through the voicemails.

2193
01:49:34,720 --> 01:49:37,920
Speaker 2: They are loaded. So, yeah, you want to be featured.

2194
01:49:37,960 --> 01:49:39,760
Speaker 2: Will shop be some merch if you are featured on

2195
01:49:39,800 --> 01:49:41,360
Speaker 2: the show. But that is how you get featured. And

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01:49:41,439 --> 01:49:43,760
Speaker 2: if you are international, you're probably thinking, I don't want

2197
01:49:43,800 --> 01:49:46,160
Speaker 2: to call that number. That'd be really expensive. We have

2198
01:49:46,360 --> 01:49:48,760
Speaker 2: six to oh one the dads at gmail dot com.

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01:49:49,240 --> 01:49:52,320
Speaker 2: Oh Sherman never checks that I do every week. I

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01:49:52,400 --> 01:49:56,920
Speaker 2: do every week and we ship international and I was

2201
01:49:56,960 --> 01:49:59,360
Speaker 2: gonna say this for that, we ship international.

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01:49:59,800 --> 01:50:05,559
Speaker 1: Bring up international. There's a comment the vek koulil one guys.

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01:50:05,600 --> 01:50:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm a PT six members since last June. Level what

2204
01:50:08,080 --> 01:50:10,360
Speaker 1: you guys are doing. Will I appreciate the courage of

2205
01:50:10,439 --> 01:50:12,680
Speaker 1: being open and vulnerable. Fat Stafford, You're a good egg

2206
01:50:12,760 --> 01:50:15,439
Speaker 1: and made for this Chef. I see the hustle. Just

2207
01:50:15,479 --> 01:50:17,920
Speaker 1: want to cop the fire Teddy and Whiskey tea, but

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01:50:18,040 --> 01:50:19,200
Speaker 1: you only ship in the States.

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01:50:19,240 --> 01:50:21,880
Speaker 2: Would love to rep it here in Finland to spread

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01:50:21,920 --> 01:50:27,120
Speaker 2: the word. Hey, how sick is that? That's so sick that? Yeah,

2211
01:50:27,160 --> 01:50:30,560
Speaker 2: that's awesome, that's really cool. Six on one of the

2212
01:50:30,600 --> 01:50:32,800
Speaker 2: Dad Six on the Dads. Let's get let's jump into it.

2213
01:50:32,960 --> 01:50:43,680
Speaker 2: Let's do it first voicemail. Here we go, this.

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01:50:48,600 --> 01:50:55,560
Speaker 6: Shout out, will sure chef expecting God here man. I

2215
01:50:56,640 --> 01:50:59,760
Speaker 6: I'm so excited. My wife and I have been waiting

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01:50:59,760 --> 01:51:04,400
Speaker 6: along time. We tried for about seven months and we

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01:51:04,520 --> 01:51:07,840
Speaker 6: finally found out we were pregnant this past Mother's Day.

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01:51:10,040 --> 01:51:13,760
Speaker 6: She's doing January boys, and I need to getting ready.

2219
01:51:14,479 --> 01:51:20,960
Speaker 6: I'm pumped, man, I'm already clalking in dad wins. Sadly,

2220
01:51:21,080 --> 01:51:25,680
Speaker 6: my wife's dad passed away when she was eleven, so

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01:51:25,800 --> 01:51:30,920
Speaker 6: she didn't get a really experience that dad time. But

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01:51:31,040 --> 01:51:34,679
Speaker 6: her dad had an old recliner and we're thrown away

2223
01:51:34,680 --> 01:51:37,720
Speaker 6: a bunch of stuff about a year ago, and I

2224
01:51:37,840 --> 01:51:41,720
Speaker 6: snagged it. I stripped that material down and I made

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01:51:41,720 --> 01:51:46,200
Speaker 6: a bear for our daughter, Amelia, and I gave it

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01:51:46,240 --> 01:51:49,639
Speaker 6: to her a couple of nights ago. And she's so excited,

2227
01:51:51,000 --> 01:51:53,559
Speaker 6: and I've already got her on the show. Boys. She's

2228
01:51:53,680 --> 01:51:56,880
Speaker 6: she's saying good to everything. Everything that comes up, she

2229
01:51:57,000 --> 01:52:02,080
Speaker 6: says good. Couldn't be I couldn't be happier. But man,

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01:52:02,160 --> 01:52:04,320
Speaker 6: I know my wife's gonna be. She's gonna be the

2231
01:52:04,400 --> 01:52:09,400
Speaker 6: best mom she's She's really the strongest person I know.

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01:52:11,080 --> 01:52:14,120
Speaker 6: I was in the Marine Corps and I suffered from

2233
01:52:14,520 --> 01:52:19,240
Speaker 6: traumatic brain injury, and she took care of me. She

2234
01:52:19,360 --> 01:52:21,800
Speaker 6: brought me back to live, boys, and I'm excited to

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01:52:22,280 --> 01:52:25,040
Speaker 6: get to do this journey with her. And I appreciate

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01:52:25,120 --> 01:52:28,479
Speaker 6: everything you boys are doing. We love the show. Keep

2237
01:52:28,520 --> 01:52:28,800
Speaker 6: it up.

2238
01:52:31,320 --> 01:52:35,240
Speaker 1: The more's my heart, buddy. Shout out to them. Congratulations

2239
01:52:36,240 --> 01:52:41,720
Speaker 1: number one, Thank you, thank you for your service. I'm

2240
01:52:41,720 --> 01:52:44,680
Speaker 1: most very sorry that your your wife lost her dad

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01:52:44,720 --> 01:52:50,800
Speaker 1: at eleven. Tell you what the the the waterworks can

2242
01:52:51,080 --> 01:52:53,040
Speaker 1: become much easier on this goddamn show.

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01:52:55,840 --> 01:52:56,720
Speaker 5: I I.

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01:52:58,800 --> 01:53:03,320
Speaker 2: I love the move of taking the old furniture and

2245
01:53:03,439 --> 01:53:11,600
Speaker 2: making a bear out of it. I know when you

2246
01:53:11,720 --> 01:53:12,760
Speaker 2: sons of bitches on Pt.

2247
01:53:12,920 --> 01:53:18,320
Speaker 1: Six, Man, I know when I lost my mom before

2248
01:53:19,560 --> 01:53:30,639
Speaker 1: ruse born, a friend of ours took an old dress

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01:53:30,680 --> 01:53:31,360
Speaker 1: of hers and.

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01:53:34,280 --> 01:53:36,639
Speaker 2: Look at the fat stafford over there. We're all crooking.

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01:53:39,880 --> 01:53:42,800
Speaker 1: A good friend of ours made a uh, it made

2252
01:53:42,800 --> 01:53:45,799
Speaker 1: a Teddy Bear like out of one of her old dresses.

2253
01:53:47,280 --> 01:53:51,320
Speaker 2: It sits in R's room, and I'll take while. I'm

2254
01:53:51,360 --> 01:53:55,760
Speaker 2: happy for you, guys. I'm fired up and uh got

2255
01:53:56,200 --> 01:54:04,200
Speaker 2: you all right over there. Oh I know, man, It's

2256
01:54:04,240 --> 01:54:07,080
Speaker 2: like all those things just tug on the heartstrings because.

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01:54:08,360 --> 01:54:12,680
Speaker 1: Life is precious and life is also fucking awesome and

2258
01:54:12,760 --> 01:54:15,120
Speaker 1: there's a lot to look forward to. And I don't

2259
01:54:15,120 --> 01:54:17,840
Speaker 1: know now, I'm just talking now, I'm just rambling to

2260
01:54:17,960 --> 01:54:18,760
Speaker 1: keep myself from.

2261
01:54:18,680 --> 01:54:21,920
Speaker 2: Looking at shirm and crying even more on my end.

2262
01:54:23,720 --> 01:54:25,360
Speaker 1: But I'm fired up for you guys. Thank you for

2263
01:54:25,479 --> 01:54:28,479
Speaker 1: calling in. That gasses me up. It sounds like your

2264
01:54:28,560 --> 01:54:33,520
Speaker 1: wife is going to get to experience an incredible father

2265
01:54:34,800 --> 01:54:40,800
Speaker 1: because you just having the having the intention of making

2266
01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:46,480
Speaker 1: that goddamn bear. The old furniture is next level, bro,

2267
01:54:47,520 --> 01:54:52,640
Speaker 1: that's PT six right there. Sure I say something, I can't.

2268
01:54:53,440 --> 01:54:54,200
Speaker 3: He wrecked me.

2269
01:54:55,520 --> 01:54:59,480
Speaker 2: I'm just now coming back. I just lost it. I

2270
01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:04,960
Speaker 2: just lost it, dude, buddy, you were really I just

2271
01:55:05,240 --> 01:55:10,640
Speaker 2: lost it. He's freaking laugh and him saying, I'm so excited.

2272
01:55:10,760 --> 01:55:12,360
Speaker 2: You can yeah you can feel it?

2273
01:55:12,520 --> 01:55:12,640
Speaker 5: Bro?

2274
01:55:14,640 --> 01:55:19,720
Speaker 2: What a legend? Yeah? Who does that? A? PT? Six sicko,

2275
01:55:21,560 --> 01:55:25,120
Speaker 2: and then you start talking about your stuff. I had

2276
01:55:25,120 --> 01:55:29,760
Speaker 2: to use this good ones he to wipe up my tears.

2277
01:55:33,640 --> 01:55:37,520
Speaker 2: That's ridiculous, dude, what a legend. You're such a legend.

2278
01:55:37,680 --> 01:55:41,320
Speaker 2: You're gonna be an incredible dad. Thank you for calling in.

2279
01:55:42,080 --> 01:55:44,400
Speaker 2: Send him like triple of whatever we send people.

2280
01:55:44,320 --> 01:55:47,640
Speaker 3: Send end make another.

2281
01:55:49,280 --> 01:55:55,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I know, but god, that like that

2282
01:55:55,800 --> 01:55:58,480
Speaker 2: makes every second of like what we do on the

2283
01:55:58,560 --> 01:56:01,760
Speaker 2: show so worth it, so worth it for a little moment.

2284
01:56:02,080 --> 01:56:05,720
Speaker 2: That's crazy. This next one's apparently a funny one.

2285
01:56:06,880 --> 01:56:11,960
Speaker 1: God damn dear, we got these voicemails are pretty good,

2286
01:56:13,000 --> 01:56:16,520
Speaker 1: that one right there. Anything that involves where you just

2287
01:56:16,720 --> 01:56:19,320
Speaker 1: know when he said my wife lost her dad at eleven,

2288
01:56:19,800 --> 01:56:24,000
Speaker 1: it's like, and then we had last week where they

2289
01:56:24,120 --> 01:56:26,640
Speaker 1: ruptured and had a miscarriage.

2290
01:56:26,520 --> 01:56:27,760
Speaker 2: And people lose.

2291
01:56:28,920 --> 01:56:32,160
Speaker 1: You lose people you love the most, and you hope

2292
01:56:32,320 --> 01:56:37,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't happen until old age, and it still fucking

2293
01:56:37,240 --> 01:56:38,400
Speaker 1: hurts even when that happens.

2294
01:56:38,720 --> 01:56:43,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just do it. It It wrecks me. What

2295
01:56:44,000 --> 01:56:47,040
Speaker 2: a solid dude. Yeah, he seems like a really good dude.

2296
01:56:47,480 --> 01:56:50,480
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that makes me so happy that we

2297
01:56:50,600 --> 01:56:53,600
Speaker 2: ship stuff to people when we get calls like that. Yeah,

2298
01:56:53,720 --> 01:56:59,120
Speaker 2: that gets me so excited. Oh fun one Oh I

2299
01:56:59,240 --> 01:57:00,080
Speaker 2: need a fun one.

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01:57:03,160 --> 01:57:07,080
Speaker 1: Hey headline caption Will and sure him cry again on

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01:57:07,240 --> 01:57:07,720
Speaker 1: phone call.

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01:57:09,040 --> 01:57:12,400
Speaker 2: We're gonna be like episode forty. Sorry Rob was away

2303
01:57:12,440 --> 01:57:14,400
Speaker 2: from the mic. We're gonna be episode forty. We're just

2304
01:57:15,280 --> 01:57:17,440
Speaker 2: we're gonna be crying again. I know it's again a

2305
01:57:17,480 --> 01:57:19,080
Speaker 2: couple of these stories. I just want to sit here

2306
01:57:19,120 --> 01:57:20,480
Speaker 2: and cry. But I'm like, we're on a show and

2307
01:57:20,520 --> 01:57:22,920
Speaker 2: we got to talk about it. And I already know

2308
01:57:23,360 --> 01:57:25,560
Speaker 2: anytime I bring up Mom, anytime I.

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01:57:25,600 --> 01:57:27,440
Speaker 1: Bring up Mom, it's always those. So you get the

2310
01:57:27,560 --> 01:57:30,080
Speaker 1: nostrils and the eyes with water and and everything.

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01:57:31,200 --> 01:57:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you need an ISO cam just for the episode

2312
01:57:34,040 --> 01:57:37,600
Speaker 2: of Will talking and just have a little shream cam

2313
01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:42,800
Speaker 2: in the corner of me just see get losing it.

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01:57:43,760 --> 01:57:46,800
Speaker 2: I mean that was crazy. Yeah. Sorry, I did not

2315
01:57:46,960 --> 01:57:48,880
Speaker 2: set you up for success, as he was trying to

2316
01:57:49,120 --> 01:57:49,440
Speaker 2: hold it.

2317
01:57:50,840 --> 01:57:51,920
Speaker 3: O fun call.

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01:57:52,120 --> 01:57:58,560
Speaker 8: Here we go, boys, Willie won Hill, Uh, fat Stafford,

2319
01:57:59,200 --> 01:58:03,080
Speaker 8: this is Sylvania, just calling you guys a let off

2320
01:58:03,160 --> 01:58:08,000
Speaker 8: some steam. Waking up at Saturday completely thought I forgot

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01:58:08,040 --> 01:58:10,320
Speaker 8: you Guys podcast on Wednesday, but looks like I.

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01:58:10,360 --> 01:58:11,120
Speaker 2: Already watched it.

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01:58:11,680 --> 01:58:11,880
Speaker 3: Good.

2324
01:58:12,800 --> 01:58:14,960
Speaker 2: Good, look up late for work.

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01:58:15,400 --> 01:58:17,640
Speaker 8: Not because of my alarm not going off because I

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01:58:17,680 --> 01:58:18,480
Speaker 8: forgot to set an.

2327
01:58:18,360 --> 01:58:21,280
Speaker 2: Alarm and off because I was up late. It's because

2328
01:58:21,360 --> 01:58:23,240
Speaker 2: my four year old son decided to come into my

2329
01:58:23,320 --> 01:58:25,960
Speaker 2: room this morning and take my phone and turn off

2330
01:58:26,040 --> 01:58:26,520
Speaker 2: my alarm.

2331
01:58:26,720 --> 01:58:30,000
Speaker 8: And when I needed to wake up late, he said, Daddy,

2332
01:58:30,200 --> 01:58:32,000
Speaker 8: it was too loud, so I had to shut it off.

2333
01:58:32,800 --> 01:58:34,080
Speaker 6: I put him on plate for work.

2334
01:58:37,640 --> 01:58:41,440
Speaker 2: Good Saturday mornings gone boys.

2335
01:58:44,000 --> 01:58:46,400
Speaker 1: Oh man, thank you, he says. His name is Matt,

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Speaker 1: Matt from Pa. Matt from Pa. Thank you for tuning in, bro,

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01:58:50,000 --> 01:58:52,520
Speaker 1: Thank you for calling in. What a savage little boy

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01:58:52,560 --> 01:58:54,640
Speaker 1: you got. He Wake your ass up.

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01:58:55,680 --> 01:58:57,360
Speaker 2: I have a little if a little buddy's got to

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01:58:57,400 --> 01:58:59,280
Speaker 2: come in there. Maybe he was sleeping with them. Yeah

2341
01:58:59,520 --> 01:59:00,920
Speaker 2: like that. It was way too loud. I had to

2342
01:59:01,000 --> 01:59:03,560
Speaker 2: turn that thing off. I wanna be waiting late for work.

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01:59:03,760 --> 01:59:09,280
Speaker 2: Good good, Get your punk ass up sooner. Another conversation

2344
01:59:09,440 --> 01:59:14,240
Speaker 2: you have with the boss? Yeah? Good, God, can't wait

2345
01:59:14,320 --> 01:59:16,120
Speaker 2: to hear you try to blame me on this one.

2346
01:59:17,240 --> 01:59:21,960
Speaker 2: These boy dads, sorry, these boy dads. The more stories

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01:59:22,040 --> 01:59:24,760
Speaker 2: I hear, I'm just like these boy dads got their

2348
01:59:24,880 --> 01:59:28,440
Speaker 2: hands full of dude, boys seem like a different monster

2349
01:59:28,640 --> 01:59:32,200
Speaker 2: man they do. We gotta get some some more boy

2350
01:59:32,320 --> 01:59:34,600
Speaker 2: dad callings like that. I love the boy Dad's just

2351
01:59:34,680 --> 01:59:39,440
Speaker 2: some boy dad energy. Yes, all right, last call here.

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01:59:40,280 --> 01:59:43,040
Speaker 2: This one's titled the Rocking Horse Accident. I love that

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01:59:43,120 --> 01:59:46,520
Speaker 2: you titled these love it hey.

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01:59:46,400 --> 01:59:49,600
Speaker 9: Well he you shure everybody a big SNA big fan

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01:59:50,960 --> 01:59:53,320
Speaker 9: with bustling with the boys for years and years now.

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01:59:53,960 --> 01:59:55,440
Speaker 2: I love the new podcast.

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01:59:55,680 --> 01:59:59,080
Speaker 9: I just wanted to get you guys a quick story

2358
01:59:59,200 --> 02:00:01,720
Speaker 9: to maybe you laugh a little bit, maybe you make

2359
02:00:02,560 --> 02:00:04,720
Speaker 9: you know, need to get over My crying.

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02:00:06,240 --> 02:00:08,160
Speaker 2: Wife went to work.

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02:00:08,240 --> 02:00:10,880
Speaker 3: She works at a part time job in retail.

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02:00:10,600 --> 02:00:12,920
Speaker 7: Sometimes just to you know, get some extra money and

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02:00:12,960 --> 02:00:13,240
Speaker 7: all that.

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02:00:13,520 --> 02:00:16,280
Speaker 9: Well, both girls came down with the stomach bugs, and

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02:00:16,360 --> 02:00:19,960
Speaker 9: his mom left and was in about two two and.

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Speaker 7: A half hours each o girl and pooped themselves seven

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02:00:28,000 --> 02:00:32,440
Speaker 7: to eight times between them. The culmination of that ended

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02:00:32,520 --> 02:00:35,640
Speaker 7: with our youngest who's about one and a half, who

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02:00:35,800 --> 02:00:40,680
Speaker 7: hate diapers, somehow got her pants off, got her diaper off,

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02:00:41,320 --> 02:00:45,280
Speaker 7: sat on her rocking horse, and then proceeded to poop.

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Speaker 2: All over the rocking horse. Yeah, it was a disaster,

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02:00:53,280 --> 02:00:54,120
Speaker 2: but guess what.

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02:00:55,000 --> 02:00:56,400
Speaker 7: We came out on the other side.

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02:00:56,800 --> 02:00:59,280
Speaker 2: We're all good. Girls are great.

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02:01:00,800 --> 02:01:04,320
Speaker 9: And I love them more than ever that crazy story.

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Speaker 9: Thanks for all you guys do for everybody, and have

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Speaker 9: a good one.

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Speaker 2: Good shit some more girls. Hey, let you watch the show?

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02:01:15,480 --> 02:01:16,280
Speaker 2: Shit some more?

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02:01:16,560 --> 02:01:17,360
Speaker 3: Is that all you got?

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02:01:19,120 --> 02:01:21,520
Speaker 2: Bro? They for sure not watching the show, he says, poop,

2382
02:01:21,600 --> 02:01:24,480
Speaker 2: So you know, it's like, oh, turn this off. They're

2383
02:01:24,480 --> 02:01:30,120
Speaker 2: probably in the background still watching The Youngest Naked doesn't

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02:01:30,160 --> 02:01:31,000
Speaker 2: have the dipe RN again.

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Speaker 3: Dude.

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Speaker 2: By the way, I had a DM that came into

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02:01:37,600 --> 02:01:41,760
Speaker 2: this guy's exact story of you know, full paragraph essentially

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02:01:41,880 --> 02:01:46,480
Speaker 2: the same issue. Kid had a dirty diaper. He actually

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Speaker 2: sent a video that we will not show, but quite literally,

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02:01:49,600 --> 02:01:54,560
Speaker 2: he's holding his daughter dying, laughing and it's coming up

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02:01:55,160 --> 02:01:58,160
Speaker 2: out of the top of the diaper, just going on

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02:01:58,360 --> 02:02:00,440
Speaker 2: the floor, and he's just like, what do I do

2393
02:02:00,560 --> 02:02:00,720
Speaker 2: with this?

2394
02:02:01,280 --> 02:02:02,360
Speaker 3: I mean, what do I do?

2395
02:02:02,880 --> 02:02:05,480
Speaker 2: And his wife is filming it and they're both like giggling.

2396
02:02:05,600 --> 02:02:09,040
Speaker 2: But I was like, I've never seen that before where

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02:02:09,080 --> 02:02:11,640
Speaker 2: it's so loaded it's coming out of the top, and

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02:02:11,720 --> 02:02:14,640
Speaker 2: what a psycho to just having that poison composure. I'd

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02:02:14,720 --> 02:02:17,080
Speaker 2: be puking. You got to deal with this call the cops,

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02:02:17,560 --> 02:02:21,280
Speaker 2: get the ambulance, babies, and the video is just kind

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02:02:21,320 --> 02:02:26,120
Speaker 2: of like she's loving life. She's having a great day.

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02:02:27,640 --> 02:02:30,640
Speaker 2: Not today are you talking about full panic? And it's

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Speaker 2: it's blowouts.

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Speaker 6: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm a lot I'm a lot better in

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02:02:34,280 --> 02:02:37,520
Speaker 1: the pocket now than I was. But when Rue had

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02:02:37,560 --> 02:02:39,400
Speaker 1: her first blowout, it was like on a car ride

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02:02:39,400 --> 02:02:42,480
Speaker 1: home and I'm thinking to it, my watch's going, you know,

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02:02:42,600 --> 02:02:44,160
Speaker 1: She's like, you, we got to fix the ball and

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02:02:44,440 --> 02:02:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm literally like this, like what do you want.

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02:02:46,000 --> 02:02:46,320
Speaker 3: Me to do?

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02:02:46,960 --> 02:02:53,880
Speaker 2: You well, you got a gag reflex. It is. It

2413
02:02:54,080 --> 02:02:56,640
Speaker 2: is the soak through is the one that's been getting

2414
02:02:56,680 --> 02:03:00,400
Speaker 2: me lately, where it just secretly soaks through you, like

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02:03:00,560 --> 02:03:02,640
Speaker 2: out of the bottom of the diaper and you're in

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02:03:02,720 --> 02:03:04,760
Speaker 2: one of their legs and all of a sudden you're

2417
02:03:04,840 --> 02:03:06,800
Speaker 2: kind of like, oh, you had a little twot. You

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02:03:06,880 --> 02:03:08,480
Speaker 2: have a little too, And then you feel the warmth

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02:03:08,880 --> 02:03:12,040
Speaker 2: about right there, yeah, underneath your or you go for

2420
02:03:12,920 --> 02:03:14,080
Speaker 2: the switch, and.

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02:03:14,200 --> 02:03:15,880
Speaker 1: As you go for the switch or might like a

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02:03:15,960 --> 02:03:18,680
Speaker 1: guest your hat or something, you kind of smell as

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02:03:18,760 --> 02:03:20,960
Speaker 1: you smell the whiff on your forearm and you're like,

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02:03:21,800 --> 02:03:24,720
Speaker 1: oh shit, how do I go. How do I kind

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02:03:24,760 --> 02:03:28,240
Speaker 1: of place her somewhere to where Mom comes across her

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02:03:28,280 --> 02:03:32,360
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh she should or diper, I just

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02:03:32,480 --> 02:03:34,120
Speaker 1: change her not too long ago to kind of let

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02:03:34,240 --> 02:03:37,320
Speaker 1: mom know, Hey, now it's your turn. You see the

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02:03:37,400 --> 02:03:41,640
Speaker 1: optics there? You see the shit her diaper again?

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02:03:41,920 --> 02:03:44,640
Speaker 2: Kidding me? You should have seen the blowout I just

2431
02:03:44,760 --> 02:03:47,400
Speaker 2: dealt with. Yeah, my god, I just holder too. It

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02:03:47,520 --> 02:03:50,240
Speaker 2: was clean. I didn't even smell it. I'm I'm in

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02:03:50,360 --> 02:03:53,240
Speaker 2: the doghouse for at least the next three weeks. I

2434
02:03:53,280 --> 02:03:57,000
Speaker 2: can't be. I can't be implementing. I could be changing

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02:03:57,080 --> 02:04:03,200
Speaker 2: every diaper topic quiet last another week. H I found

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02:04:03,280 --> 02:04:06,560
Speaker 2: one on you Guessed It Instagram?

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02:04:06,880 --> 02:04:10,480
Speaker 1: Ah, this actually comes from a big resource of ours,

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02:04:10,960 --> 02:04:15,240
Speaker 1: The Daily Dad. There's a video too that I want

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02:04:15,280 --> 02:04:17,360
Speaker 1: to play, but I didn't know if it's like a

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02:04:17,480 --> 02:04:20,760
Speaker 1: copyright thing if we use somebody else's video on Instagram.

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02:04:21,400 --> 02:04:23,440
Speaker 1: But it's like these dads sitting around a campfire, and

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02:04:23,440 --> 02:04:26,360
Speaker 1: these are like good old boys, like cowboys, and he's saying, hi,

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02:04:26,360 --> 02:04:28,320
Speaker 1: he's got a couple of kiddos, and what advice do

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02:04:28,360 --> 02:04:31,400
Speaker 1: you have in this guy? Like I wouldn't want to

2445
02:04:31,880 --> 02:04:36,080
Speaker 1: regurgitate his words. Because he has such a great Western

2446
02:04:36,240 --> 02:04:38,960
Speaker 1: cowboy voice, kind of like Sam Elliott.

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02:04:39,360 --> 02:04:39,560
Speaker 3: Ooh.

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02:04:39,880 --> 02:04:41,560
Speaker 1: And he kind of talks about it like he talks

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02:04:41,560 --> 02:04:45,000
Speaker 1: about parentings, kind of like riding horses or like being

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02:04:45,080 --> 02:04:46,320
Speaker 1: a horse, whatever it is.

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02:04:46,520 --> 02:04:50,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, he talks about like it's like a bar of soap.

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02:04:51,440 --> 02:04:53,760
Speaker 1: Too loose, a slip out and get away from you.

2453
02:04:53,960 --> 02:04:55,720
Speaker 1: Too tight, slip out and get away from me. And

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02:04:55,760 --> 02:04:58,840
Speaker 1: he has this incredible analogy that I would love to

2455
02:04:58,920 --> 02:05:02,280
Speaker 1: play for the audience. It's just a UCG that we

2456
02:05:02,440 --> 02:05:06,000
Speaker 1: use on for the dads. But I think this video

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02:05:06,200 --> 02:05:09,240
Speaker 1: is just incredible, the breakdown around the campfire.

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02:05:09,280 --> 02:05:09,960
Speaker 3: I'll look into it.

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02:05:10,080 --> 02:05:12,680
Speaker 5: Will if anything we can throw it in now, maybe

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02:05:12,760 --> 02:05:15,879
Speaker 5: we throw it in credits if it's possible.

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02:05:16,000 --> 02:05:17,760
Speaker 3: I don't, I'll have to look it up.

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02:05:18,120 --> 02:05:20,040
Speaker 2: Either way, we need. This is one to share on

2463
02:05:20,120 --> 02:05:23,080
Speaker 2: social media because this video is all timing. I bet

2464
02:05:23,120 --> 02:05:23,720
Speaker 2: we talks about it.

2465
02:05:23,760 --> 02:05:26,280
Speaker 1: If you're like nonexistent, you lose them this and that,

2466
02:05:26,360 --> 02:05:29,000
Speaker 1: and if you're too strict, too much of a disciplinarian,

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02:05:29,560 --> 02:05:30,520
Speaker 1: it'll push them away.

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02:05:30,680 --> 02:05:33,760
Speaker 2: And how to love them within the boundaries. It's it's

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02:05:33,800 --> 02:05:36,000
Speaker 2: a great video. Is the page that you found is

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02:05:36,040 --> 02:05:40,200
Speaker 2: at the og poster of it. I don't think so, No, okay,

2471
02:05:40,320 --> 02:05:42,160
Speaker 2: because I was going to say, we could just find

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02:05:42,360 --> 02:05:45,560
Speaker 2: the person that originally put it up asked for their permission.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, give credit to them, ask for their permission. The

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02:05:47,720 --> 02:05:49,440
Speaker 4: other thing, too, is we can look into that so

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02:05:49,480 --> 02:05:51,440
Speaker 4: when the episode drops, we can have this go up

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02:05:51,600 --> 02:05:54,040
Speaker 4: on the socials around the same time, so that people

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02:05:54,080 --> 02:05:56,040
Speaker 4: can go to the socials and see the video as well.

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02:05:56,160 --> 02:05:57,400
Speaker 2: That's a great and we can dig into it.

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02:05:57,440 --> 02:06:01,800
Speaker 4: We got possibilities, Derek's got.

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02:06:02,000 --> 02:06:05,880
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't play it, should I? Or we'll do

2481
02:06:06,000 --> 02:06:08,360
Speaker 1: a different one because that's a that's a banger video.

2482
02:06:11,240 --> 02:06:14,680
Speaker 1: I came across this post from The Daily Dead their instagram,

2483
02:06:15,320 --> 02:06:17,840
Speaker 1: and it's, uh, it seems like it's in the book,

2484
02:06:19,560 --> 02:06:21,640
Speaker 1: one of their books. Because I have the Daily Debt

2485
02:06:21,640 --> 02:06:23,720
Speaker 1: at the house. This doesn't seem like this kind of format,

2486
02:06:23,760 --> 02:06:27,200
Speaker 1: but it's like a lesson or something seventy four River

2487
02:06:27,360 --> 02:06:27,880
Speaker 1: of Change.

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02:06:28,680 --> 02:06:30,960
Speaker 2: The child you see today will not be here tomorrow.

2489
02:06:31,600 --> 02:06:34,720
Speaker 2: The child they're driving home from school is different from

2490
02:06:34,760 --> 02:06:35,760
Speaker 2: the one who left home.

2491
02:06:37,120 --> 02:06:39,040
Speaker 1: Let me say that again. Let me do that Poppatine stakes.

2492
02:06:39,080 --> 02:06:43,320
Speaker 1: Bear with me one week, you know the yeah, reverse rewind,

2493
02:06:44,080 --> 02:06:48,040
Speaker 1: maybe edit out. Sheve, I don't know, river of change.

2494
02:06:49,400 --> 02:06:51,440
Speaker 1: The child you see today will not be here tomorrow.

2495
02:06:51,880 --> 02:06:54,520
Speaker 1: The child they're driving home from school is different from

2496
02:06:54,560 --> 02:06:55,560
Speaker 1: the one who left from.

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02:06:55,480 --> 02:06:56,240
Speaker 2: Home this morning.

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02:06:56,920 --> 02:06:59,480
Speaker 1: Every moment is a death of all that has gone

2499
02:06:59,520 --> 02:07:02,160
Speaker 1: before and a birth of all that is to come.

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02:07:02,680 --> 02:07:04,840
Speaker 1: You must jump into the river and let it carry

2501
02:07:04,880 --> 02:07:07,200
Speaker 1: you on its journey. If you try to stop it,

2502
02:07:07,520 --> 02:07:08,440
Speaker 1: you will drown.

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02:07:09,880 --> 02:07:14,000
Speaker 2: Deep. Love that and that's from the Daily Dad. Correct,

2504
02:07:14,160 --> 02:07:18,360
Speaker 2: that's from the Daily Dad. Can I follow up that

2505
02:07:18,640 --> 02:07:21,240
Speaker 2: lesson from the Daily Dad with a cool comment that

2506
02:07:21,280 --> 02:07:24,959
Speaker 2: I think you'll really enjoy. Absolutely. This comes from Colorado

2507
02:07:25,120 --> 02:07:28,600
Speaker 2: Alex two on YouTube. He said, love the vulnerability this

2508
02:07:28,760 --> 02:07:31,560
Speaker 2: week from all the boys. Love that the PT six

2509
02:07:31,680 --> 02:07:34,520
Speaker 2: community is a safe place for all of us dads

2510
02:07:34,560 --> 02:07:38,640
Speaker 2: to share and learn from each other. Also huge in

2511
02:07:38,720 --> 02:07:41,640
Speaker 2: all caps shout out to Willie one shelf on a

2512
02:07:41,680 --> 02:07:45,040
Speaker 2: survival kit slash dad hack that I actually followed up on.

2513
02:07:45,960 --> 02:07:48,320
Speaker 2: Not a huge reader, but ended up buying a copy

2514
02:07:48,400 --> 02:07:52,000
Speaker 2: of The Daily Dad. Oh yeah, I read a page

2515
02:07:52,120 --> 02:07:54,520
Speaker 2: every day when I wake up, and my wife has

2516
02:07:54,560 --> 02:07:57,280
Speaker 2: even started showing interest and has me read it out

2517
02:07:57,360 --> 02:07:59,840
Speaker 2: loud to her each day. It's become a nice way

2518
02:07:59,840 --> 02:08:02,200
Speaker 2: to start the day and brings us closer at the

2519
02:08:02,280 --> 02:08:07,040
Speaker 2: same time. Would highly recommend this book to all PT sixers.

2520
02:08:07,440 --> 02:08:08,320
Speaker 2: I love that it.

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02:08:08,400 --> 02:08:11,080
Speaker 1: Fires me up because that's exactly like him saying he

2522
02:08:11,160 --> 02:08:13,720
Speaker 1: reads in the morning, or as we do it at

2523
02:08:13,760 --> 02:08:16,280
Speaker 1: the dinner table. But it is it's like you and

2524
02:08:16,360 --> 02:08:18,480
Speaker 1: your wife sit there and talk about stuff, or I

2525
02:08:18,640 --> 02:08:20,520
Speaker 1: read it out loud and she'd be like, I like

2526
02:08:20,600 --> 02:08:22,200
Speaker 1: that one. Here's why I like that one. Or you

2527
02:08:22,320 --> 02:08:25,680
Speaker 1: kind of just communicate, get re attentive. You know, he

2528
02:08:25,720 --> 02:08:27,600
Speaker 1: stopped messing around stuff, playing with your food. Dad is

2529
02:08:27,600 --> 02:08:30,400
Speaker 1: about to read come on. But I love that that

2530
02:08:30,480 --> 02:08:31,040
Speaker 1: fires me up.

2531
02:08:31,960 --> 02:08:34,160
Speaker 2: That fires me up to you, I have one that

2532
02:08:34,240 --> 02:08:35,880
Speaker 2: I think that I want to hold on to you.

2533
02:08:36,920 --> 02:08:42,760
Speaker 2: Every moment is a death of all that has gone before. Sorry,

2534
02:08:42,800 --> 02:08:46,280
Speaker 2: I'm stuck on that. Stuck on that daily dad post.

2535
02:08:46,920 --> 02:08:49,480
Speaker 2: That was a great quote. And the soap of the

2536
02:08:50,280 --> 02:08:52,240
Speaker 2: ranch hand or the cowboy that you're talking about.

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02:08:52,360 --> 02:08:54,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, you'll love that. I'll shoot that one to you.

2538
02:08:54,320 --> 02:08:56,080
Speaker 1: That's a really good one. It's one I want it

2539
02:08:56,240 --> 02:08:57,560
Speaker 1: just ingrained in my head for.

2540
02:08:59,360 --> 02:09:00,160
Speaker 2: You know, for ever.

2541
02:09:00,320 --> 02:09:03,480
Speaker 1: Talking ball with some dads. If somebody hits you on

2542
02:09:03,560 --> 02:09:06,760
Speaker 1: the spot with advice. It's like that, right, there is

2543
02:09:06,840 --> 02:09:07,960
Speaker 1: a great one, dude.

2544
02:09:08,000 --> 02:09:10,800
Speaker 2: The horse stuff is really cool. I have an aunt

2545
02:09:10,960 --> 02:09:14,640
Speaker 2: that actually works with like equine therapy and just like

2546
02:09:15,480 --> 02:09:18,839
Speaker 2: the humans, like attachment to horses and like the lessons

2547
02:09:18,880 --> 02:09:22,280
Speaker 2: that you can learn through training them working with them,

2548
02:09:23,320 --> 02:09:26,560
Speaker 2: and they actually help a ton with people that suffer

2549
02:09:26,680 --> 02:09:32,320
Speaker 2: from uh eating disorders, Like feeding horses is like one

2550
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Speaker 2: of the best ways to like hear eating disorders, which

2551
02:09:35,560 --> 02:09:39,120
Speaker 2: is so interesting. And you're a Texas boy. Come on,

2552
02:09:39,520 --> 02:09:41,440
Speaker 2: come on now. Now, I didn't own any horses, but

2553
02:09:41,520 --> 02:09:44,200
Speaker 2: I did grow up. I can hop on a horse

2554
02:09:44,240 --> 02:09:46,120
Speaker 2: and look like I know what I'm doing. That's all

2555
02:09:46,120 --> 02:09:52,200
Speaker 2: you need. I'm no cowboys or no cowboy. Do you

2556
02:09:52,320 --> 02:09:55,240
Speaker 2: feel good? Great sod great sod man.

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Speaker 1: I feel like there needs to be a clip where

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02:09:57,560 --> 02:10:01,400
Speaker 1: it's just are more so reaction to the video of us,

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02:10:01,520 --> 02:10:04,880
Speaker 1: like crying back and forth. Not a lot of words said,

2560
02:10:05,160 --> 02:10:09,040
Speaker 1: just tears. I'll have to tune in, oh for the trailer.

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02:10:09,320 --> 02:10:11,760
Speaker 1: Not trailer, but just like a clip. Yeah yeah, yeah,

2562
02:10:11,920 --> 02:10:14,600
Speaker 1: it could be me and you posting it. That's true.

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Speaker 3: I do like that.

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02:10:15,840 --> 02:10:18,240
Speaker 2: I do like that. I literally lost it like I've

2565
02:10:18,280 --> 02:10:20,400
Speaker 2: never lost it. I mean that was you were in

2566
02:10:20,520 --> 02:10:22,720
Speaker 2: kind of a different form than I wasn't expecting to see,

2567
02:10:23,160 --> 02:10:27,520
Speaker 2: especially when you use the way he used the ones.

2568
02:10:27,560 --> 02:10:31,600
Speaker 2: He look, there's like actual like wet marks on there's

2569
02:10:31,640 --> 02:10:34,400
Speaker 2: a bugger right there. I mean, that's your beat red too,

2570
02:10:35,240 --> 02:10:37,240
Speaker 2: like trying to fight it. Couldn't fight it. Well, I'm

2571
02:10:37,240 --> 02:10:39,160
Speaker 2: sitting there, I'm like, I'm yelling at my wife and

2572
02:10:39,240 --> 02:10:41,760
Speaker 2: this guy's making a chair out of her. I mean,

2573
02:10:41,800 --> 02:10:44,480
Speaker 2: I'm just like, what a bomb I am. That's why

2574
02:10:44,520 --> 02:10:46,920
Speaker 2: I hit me that hard. I was just like, I

2575
02:10:47,120 --> 02:10:50,440
Speaker 2: feeling it's such a bumb I feel because I want

2576
02:10:50,480 --> 02:10:52,960
Speaker 2: to do that for my girl, Like that's how I

2577
02:10:53,000 --> 02:10:56,160
Speaker 2: want to make my girl feel. That's why I hit

2578
02:10:56,240 --> 02:10:59,000
Speaker 2: me so hard and low key. That's a dad hack

2579
02:10:59,080 --> 02:11:02,440
Speaker 2: that he just dropped on that phone call. What a data.

2580
02:11:02,600 --> 02:11:04,680
Speaker 2: I kind of want to follow up with them DM

2581
02:11:04,720 --> 02:11:06,520
Speaker 2: wise and be like, Yo, how did you make that, Teddy?

2582
02:11:07,880 --> 02:11:12,920
Speaker 2: That's monny sick buddy, buddy buddy. All right, we love

2583
02:11:12,960 --> 02:11:13,320
Speaker 2: you guys.

2584
02:11:13,400 --> 02:11:17,240
Speaker 1: Take out the trash now, yeah, schedule a date, schedule

2585
02:11:17,320 --> 02:11:20,280
Speaker 1: some time with your wife and get some intentional time

2586
02:11:20,320 --> 02:11:20,920
Speaker 1: with the kiddos.

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02:11:21,640 --> 02:11:27,440
Speaker 2: Uh plap a team six. We love you. We let's

2588
02:11:27,560 --> 02:11:29,840
Speaker 2: roll out. Let's roll out. So send the podcast to

2589
02:11:29,960 --> 02:11:32,200
Speaker 2: a friend this week. That's yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

2590
02:11:32,280 --> 02:11:36,520
Speaker 2: we're battling the football We're battling the football world right now.

2591
02:11:36,760 --> 02:11:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah with people tuning in, but the ones tuning in,

2592
02:11:40,200 --> 02:11:42,160
Speaker 2: we do what. We appreciate the hell out of you.

2593
02:11:43,440 --> 02:11:46,440
Speaker 2: Go be great, Go be great. If you listen to

2594
02:11:46,520 --> 02:11:51,160
Speaker 2: this full episode, prove it in the comments and say

2595
02:11:51,400 --> 02:11:53,400
Speaker 2: the name of your buddy that you sent the episode to.

2596
02:11:54,080 --> 02:11:56,120
Speaker 2: Let him know, and put a wolf emoji for Will Compton,

2597
02:11:56,280 --> 02:11:56,680
Speaker 2: he's a man.

2598
02:11:56,760 --> 02:11:58,960
Speaker 1: And then also at the end say told you sure,

2599
02:11:59,280 --> 02:12:02,440
Speaker 1: or told you I listened to the whole episode.

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Speaker 2: Sirm Fatzafford. Yeah, noble, because people will put fat Stafford

2601
02:12:06,800 --> 02:12:09,440
Speaker 2: in there. Yeah, but if they put everything that we

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02:12:09,600 --> 02:12:10,320
Speaker 2: just told them, we'll know.

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Speaker 1: If you drop the name of your buddy you sent

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02:12:12,600 --> 02:12:17,800
Speaker 1: it to, just put send it to Tony Kama, cry baby.

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Speaker 2: Hell Ele. Yeah yeah,