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Speaker 3: She got this? Yeah, all right, she'll be taking care

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Speaker 5: What Christmas cards?

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Speaker 1: What's your problem with Christmas cards? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, first of all, why are we sending Christmas cards?

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Speaker 1: It is the annual update by your life and a

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Speaker 1: And and I've wanted to know that a whole year.

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Speaker 1: I've been wondering, did you make the varsity team?

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Speaker 1: But it's like one year, just be honest, like Christopher,

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Speaker 3: There's a couple of layers to this. So I feel like,

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Speaker 3: I just don't know what I'm supposed to do with it,

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Speaker 3: so when you send it to me, like I don't,

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Speaker 3: I'm not putting it on my wall, Like I'm not

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Speaker 3: taking them on the wall, absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: But you're supposed to do that, Like, yeah, I do

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Speaker 1: I look at him and say, it's nice to throw

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Speaker 3: And I'm sure, like when you put them on the wall,

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Speaker 9: That's just clutter.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, it's clutter like decoration for the Okay, it

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Speaker 3: might be degradation, but like, I'm not gonna put it

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Speaker 3: on my wall. I'm sorry, I'm not. Like these are

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Speaker 3: beautiful photos. But the crazy part is because it's twenty

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Speaker 3: twenty five, Like I'm gonna see this on Instagram. I'm

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Speaker 3: how you guys all got ready, we're gonna see the PC.

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Speaker 1: That is a good point, actually see it already.

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Speaker 3: So like now I haven't mailed to my house. Very thoughtful,

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Speaker 3: very kind, I will say that. And maybe I'm projecting

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Speaker 3: I don't do anything. Okay, we're lucky if we get

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Speaker 3: why don't even have one family photo?

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Speaker 1: Are you projecting because you don't because you don't have

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Speaker 3: Potentially or something that I think it's a part of it,

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Speaker 1: Otherwise, why would you have such an issue with the

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Speaker 3: Well, and then there's another layer to this true, Like

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Speaker 3: You know, everyone got the matching outfits and like the

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Speaker 1: There's always a story under the family, and like, now

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Speaker 1: that's the letter i'd like to read. I was I

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Speaker 1: was cheating on Tim last year, but I decided to

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Speaker 3: But a lot of times people over compensate.

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Speaker 7: Oh my bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not gonna say Tim Jim, But I do

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Speaker 3: like people over compensate sometimes because like, you know, things

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Speaker 3: maybe are going great at the old Kasa and him wavered.

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Speaker 1: In his sexuality this year. But we think we think

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Speaker 1: that he said look back on me again, which is

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Speaker 1: nice holidays man like saying okay, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, so you so you think it's all a show,

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Speaker 1: That people aren't really that happy, and that they're they're

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I want to be like mean and

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Speaker 1: It is kind of a funny tradition, like think about

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Speaker 1: like who decided I'm going to send a picture of myself.

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Speaker 10: You're like, I don't need tell everyone I know about myself.

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Speaker 10: I am shook because you have a Christmas card. No,

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Speaker 10: but I thought you, of all people, you would have

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Speaker 6: Because I was waiting for this moment, I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 6: finally I'm engaged. I look like a real adult, you know,

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Speaker 6: like I can take a picture with Timothy and the

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Speaker 5: I'm not sending out anything because y'all don't appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: And this is why I'm not going to.

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Speaker 5: Save the dates. I'm not doing real invitations to the wedding.

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Speaker 5: It will be virtual. So it's a text because I don't.

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Speaker 1: Want to be able to tire yourself. What ten grand?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How much of the text? Guys?

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Speaker 8: Too much?

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Speaker 7: A lot?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Wow?

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Speaker 5: For you to toss it?

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Speaker 1: I get a website invite. I'm getting an invite to

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Speaker 1: your wedding. Yes you are. Look what you say, I'm

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Speaker 1: your junk folder. It's true. I mean, it is true.

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Speaker 1: What am I supposed to do it? I can't keep

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Speaker 1: every wedding invitation I've ever received, That's true.

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Speaker 11: I do.

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Speaker 5: I keep it all, but I'm a hoarder.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing with all that? What is the purpose?

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Speaker 1: What what are you gonna do? Like in Tenar's be like,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah they're divorced now, Like what are you gonna

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Speaker 6: And like handwritten cards, I hold onto those things. I

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Speaker 1: Well, it depends who wrote it. Oh my goodness, but

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Speaker 1: Because Oprah will text you directly, Yeah, she would text me.

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Speaker 1: these two had lunch together. Really, that's very interesting that

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Speaker 1: Like Jo, that's not information that is get access to

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Speaker 3: So I'm a little jealous, but I would never put

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Speaker 5: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 1: Reiner and his wife, Michelle Singer Runner were found stabbed

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Speaker 1: to death in their La home on Sunday and what

436
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Speaker 1: authorities are treating as a double homicide. Both victims were

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Speaker 1: found in their Brentwood residence on December fourteenth. Their daughter

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Speaker 1: found them had called for help. Their thirty two year

439
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Speaker 1: old son, Nick, was taken into police custody and is

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Speaker 1: charged in connection with the death. Law enforcement says that

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Speaker 1: he was found near the University of Southern California and

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Speaker 1: is being held without bail as the investigation continues. As

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Speaker 1: family members are also speaking out. Rob and Michelle's daughter

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Speaker 1: said that she had seen her father and a family

445
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Speaker 1: gathering just one day before the murders and described the

446
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Speaker 1: loss as devastating for the entire family. The investigation is

447
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Speaker 1: ongoing as LA authorities piece together the circumstances. Also another

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Speaker 1: I mean this is a frightening story. Federal authority said

449
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Speaker 1: Monday that they prevented a coordinated bomb attack planned for

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Speaker 1: New Year's Eve in the LA area, arresting four people

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Speaker 1: linked to an extremist group before any explosive devices could

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Speaker 1: be used. They identified the suspects taken into custody after

453
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Speaker 1: law enforced been found then preparing improvised explosive devices during

454
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Speaker 1: a rehearsal at a remote site east of the city.

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Speaker 1: Authority say the arrest came just days before New Year's Eve,

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Speaker 1: when the group allegedly planned to set off backpacks filled

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Speaker 1: with pipe bombs at five or more locations across southern California,

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Speaker 1: including major business sites described as Amazon type logistics centers.

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Speaker 1: So that is really scary. The next Powerball drawing schedule

460
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Speaker 1: for tomorrow night, December seventeenth, and it's one point one

461
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Speaker 1: billion dollars. Yes, I mean that really got your attention.

462
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Speaker 1: It's sadd you. You go ahead, and my ticket is

463
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Speaker 1: going to contribute to my winnings. But I'll give you.

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Speaker 1: I'll give you whatever you invested back. It's fine. Really, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: it's good. One point one billion dollars, one of the

466
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Speaker 1: largest and powerball history of no player matches all six

467
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Speaker 1: numbers again on Wednesday. The jackpot will continue to grow.

468
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Speaker 1: The Postal Service holiday dead lies are this week. So

469
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Speaker 1: if you try to mail something to somebody for the

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Speaker 1: holidays use the US Postal Service, then well, here are

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Speaker 1: the deadlines. Tomorrow is the last day to send your

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Speaker 1: items off in time to get them by Christmas. If

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Speaker 1: you're using ground or first class mail service within the

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Speaker 1: lower forty eight states, the deadline is Thursday for Priority

475
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Speaker 1: Mail Service delivery and this Saturday for Priority Mail Express.

476
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Speaker 1: And the last US pennies ever made. We did the

477
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Speaker 1: story a few weeks ago. They're not gonna make pennies

478
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Speaker 1: anymore because, like pennies are worth more than a penny,

479
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Speaker 1: it was too expensive to make them and nobody uses them.

480
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Speaker 1: Sixteen point seven million dollars is where the last pennies

481
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Speaker 1: ever minted were sold for, so it was an auction.

482
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Speaker 1: On Thursday, they sold two hundred and thirty two sets

483
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Speaker 1: of three coins, each with prices averaging seventy two thousand

484
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Speaker 1: dollars per set. The final set, which included the very

485
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Speaker 1: last pennies from the Philadelphia and Denver mints, plus a

486
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Speaker 1: twenty four carried gold penny, went for eight hundred thousand dollars.

487
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Speaker 1: Each coin was marked with a Greek omega symbol to

488
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Speaker 1: show it was from the final run. The US stopped

489
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Speaker 1: making pennies in November because they cost more than two

490
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Speaker 1: cents each to produce. So someone has three pennies worth

491
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Speaker 1: eight hundred thousand dollars. Wow, the last one. Think they're

492
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Speaker 1: gonna make money on that? I guess it'll be on

493
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Speaker 1: pond Stars in like five years. Yes, I'll give you

494
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Speaker 1: twenty four dollars for it. Yeah, I don't know. These

495
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Speaker 1: are hard to sell, man. You ever watched that show

496
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Speaker 1: Pon say, it's like, oh man, every low ball everything.

497
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Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, I got an expert down the street

498
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Speaker 1: who knows everything about gold pennies. Let me get him

499
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Speaker 1: down here. Let me get Steve down here. Steve just

500
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Speaker 1: happens to be hanging around here. Steve comes in with

501
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Speaker 1: a little little magnifying glass. Oh yeah, these are these

502
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Speaker 1: are authentic? Yeah, all right? How much they worth? Probably

503
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Speaker 1: eight hundred thousand. I'll give you seventy four dollars, right,

504
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Speaker 1: what what do you mean seventy he's eight hundred thousand. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. They're gonna sit here for a while though.

506
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Speaker 1: These are hard to sell, the difficult to sell. I

507
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Speaker 1: give you one hundred and four, one hundred and four dollars.

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Speaker 1: It's National Clean out your Refrigerator Day and National philanthro

509
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Speaker 1: b David Caitlin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show,

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Speaker 1: Take it Away for Kaylin.

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Speaker 6: All right, as I mentioned Jason, this one is for you,

512
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Speaker 6: as you know, because I keep sending videos on Sick Took.

513
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Speaker 6: One of our favorite girl groups has reunited, Danny Kane,

514
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 6: known for their hit songs Damage and Showstopper, and they

515
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Speaker 6: are kind of their Iconic Time on MTV's making the

516
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Speaker 6: band as reunited and hit the road on a very

517
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Speaker 6: intimate tour.

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Speaker 5: We'll call it it to.

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Speaker 1: Arrhyve, Is that what you mean?

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Speaker 5: It's like school gym nazy.

521
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Speaker 3: So you know we'll take it.

522
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Speaker 1: We'll take it.

523
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Speaker 5: Road and now come see them live. Tickets on sale now.

524
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Speaker 6: But the reunion, you know, they hit the road and

525
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Speaker 6: now the reunion only includes three of the five original

526
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Speaker 6: members Aubrey, d Woods and Andrea, and the tours off

527
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Speaker 6: to a slightly rocky start after group member Aubrey O

528
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Speaker 6: Day was hospitalized and forced to miss their second tour stop.

529
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Speaker 6: Fans were obviously worried about our and has since then.

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Speaker 6: She's been released from the hospital and told fans on

531
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Speaker 6: x that rewatching the details of her life play out

532
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Speaker 6: in front of the world has been overwhelming and created

533
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Speaker 6: a lot of pressure in this current moment. She's referring

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Speaker 6: to the Diddy documentary on Netflix. She said it took

535
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Speaker 6: all of a day and a trip to the er

536
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Speaker 6: to get her back on tour, but thanks to those

537
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Speaker 6: who showed sincere support.

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Speaker 5: So we are wishing Aubrey all the best with this tour.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, more dates please, I mean now, I mean

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Speaker 1: you're sitting five and I'm can you imagine you're too

541
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Speaker 1: of him out there?

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Speaker 2: And well, and the two that performed weren't part of

543
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Speaker 2: the initial reunion, so that they were performing songs that

544
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Speaker 2: they were never on.

545
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Speaker 6: It's the dedication for me, you know, we will take

546
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Speaker 6: what we can get, okay. And other reunion news, our

547
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Speaker 6: new friend Nellie revealed a major reunion moment that longtime

548
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Speaker 6: fans have waited decades to hear during his annual Black

549
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Speaker 6: and White Ball in Saint Louis on Sunday, announced that

550
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Speaker 6: hit making producer Metro Booming will executive produce the first

551
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Speaker 6: Saints Saint Lunatics album in twenty five years. Yeah, Nellie

552
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Speaker 6: told the crowd, Saint Lunatics twenty twenty six executive produced

553
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Speaker 6: by Metro Booming, Saint Louis.

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Speaker 5: We in a building, we turning up twenty twenty six

555
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Speaker 5: one time.

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Speaker 6: The news marks a major milestone for the group, whose

557
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Speaker 6: legacy has long been complicated by internal conflict.

558
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Speaker 5: Because when you're in a group, there's always some conflict.

559
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Speaker 6: Nellie and the group his group member a Li, have

560
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Speaker 6: been in a long year battle over royalties and credits,

561
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Speaker 6: which led to a lawsuit tied to Country Grammar, though

562
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Speaker 6: the case has ultimately been dropped in April of twenty

563
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Speaker 6: twenty five.

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Speaker 5: So now that the case is dropped, they're getting back together.

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Speaker 1: With Metro Booman. That's gonna be so good song. You

566
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Speaker 1: don't want new Nelly music? Or do we just want

567
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Speaker 1: Nellie to go around the country several times? Just do

568
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Speaker 1: several labs playing the songs that we know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, if it's good, and maybe it's different

570
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Speaker 2: because it's going to be the group, Like so maybe

571
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Speaker 2: they're gonna come with something different and especially a new

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Speaker 2: sound with Metro on it.

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Speaker 1: Like, think it's gonna be good.

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Speaker 6: I'm here for it with Nellie and Murphy Lee. I

575
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Speaker 6: love to see them together, so we'll check it out.

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Speaker 6: And lastly, Mariah Carey announced that her batteries are fully

577
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Speaker 6: charged and she will be performing at the opening ceremony

578
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Speaker 6: of the twenty twenty six Winter Olympics. The diva left

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Speaker 6: fans know the good news on Instagram, greeting them with

580
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Speaker 6: a very Mariah style video. She confirmed the performance will

581
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Speaker 6: take place February sixth in Milan.

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Speaker 5: The Olympics called her appearance.

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Speaker 6: One that will define an unforgettable opening ceremony right the.

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Speaker 5: Game six through the twenty second.

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Speaker 6: As for now, Mariah is feeling like the rest of

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Speaker 6: us and ready for a little holiday break. She shared

587
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Speaker 6: a hilarious message with fans at her last show for

588
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Speaker 6: her Christmas Las Vegas residency. Take a listen to what

589
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Speaker 6: Mariah had to say, the same way.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling the same way, Hollylujah. Indeed, same girl, same

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Speaker 1: that the mood.

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Speaker 6: So to catch up on anything you've missed, listen and

593
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Speaker 6: search their Fread Show on demand on the iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 6: And if you want to be nosy, you can watch

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Speaker 6: us live on YouTube right now, just search for the

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Speaker 6: Fread Show.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, they talk better than the excite. These are the

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Speaker 11: radio blogs on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 1: Like we're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blog Jason Brown, Yes you ready, I'm

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Speaker 1: ready go. Thank you, dear blog. So I'm a little

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Speaker 1: nervous Monday.

603
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Speaker 2: I'm having my first surgery ever, like being put out

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Speaker 2: under anesthesia like everything. I have never done this before,

605
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Speaker 2: but I've talked about it a little bit. But basically

606
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Speaker 2: I tore my miniscus just walking here at the radio servation. Yeah,

607
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 2: just walking to my desk and felt a pop. And

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Speaker 2: it's been about six months of going through this. I

609
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Speaker 2: was scheduled to have it back in September, but insurance

610
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: is always just so fun.

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Speaker 1: So basically, haven't you have it? Haven't you had it

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Speaker 1: scheduled like three times? Yes? And then they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: by the way, insurance isn't gonna pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you call me like two day They call

615
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 2: me like two days before, and they're like, okay, so, yeah,

616
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Speaker 2: your doctor is in network, but the building that he's

617
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Speaker 2: doing the surgery is not, even though it's the same

618
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Speaker 2: building as his office, just two floors up, so we're

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Speaker 2: not gonna pay for that.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you talking about. So finally having

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Speaker 1: done at one of those quick centers literally at the same.

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Speaker 2: Time, Yeah, yeah, one of those little like you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what those things are called, like little

624
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Speaker 2: rooms and make shift rooms.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know it, really, I'll will go anywhere at.

626
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Speaker 2: This point just to have it done, Like I just

627
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Speaker 2: want this to be over with, Like I'm sick of

628
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Speaker 2: like walking around like I'm like eighty five years old,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm just sick of it. But finally I found

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Speaker 2: a doctor office that was in network. The lovely, lovely

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Speaker 2: woman that works there and their medical building looked at

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Speaker 2: my list of approved locations was able to like sing

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Speaker 2: stuff up.

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Speaker 1: So it's happening on Monday.

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Speaker 2: And the thing that I'm most nervous about is like

636
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Speaker 2: the recoup time because like how it's torn or whatever.

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Speaker 2: He won't know until he gets in there, like how

638
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: hard it's going to be to repair it. So he

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00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: basically said, like, you could be up walking in forty

640
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Speaker 2: eight hours, or you could be in like one of

641
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Speaker 2: those straight leg brace things for six weeks.

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Speaker 1: That's insurance paid for.

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Speaker 8: It.

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Speaker 1: Has never done this before, so he's like, he's like,

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Speaker 1: once I figure it out, right, Yeah, we're right, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: We're in this together. I'm sorry, you're not going to

647
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Speaker 1: be able to work jingle Bow Sacramento. I'm sorry, I'm

648
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Speaker 1: drawing the line you can. You can't work any more

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Speaker 1: jingle Bo.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry unless they give me a scooter or something.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so I'm a little nervous. I've never been

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Speaker 2: put out for so like, I'm not so ner I

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Speaker 2: don't know, like I'm not You'll love it, really because

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Speaker 2: in aod sleep. I'm nervous about waking up because I

655
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: am chronically nauseous all the time. Like I'm nauseous all

656
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Speaker 2: the time. So I have a feeling like that's going

657
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Speaker 2: to be really rough for me. But Mike is closing

658
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Speaker 2: the Gayarage for the day. He is going to drive

659
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: me to this the hospital to get.

660
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: It time for Mike.

661
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Speaker 2: My parents are taking off for whatever reason. I was like,

662
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 2: we all don't need to be there staring at me,

663
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 2: but like they're daying off. We're doing the whole big

664
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Speaker 2: to do. We have three people staring at you.

665
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 3: Accepting help from your village, from your people, your family.

666
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Speaker 1: This is amazing. I don't have an option. I feel

667
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Speaker 1: like like no one needs ting me an option. They're like,

668
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: we're just showing up. So well. He asked me to

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Speaker 1: He asked me to shave his entire body from head

670
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Speaker 1: to because apparently he believes that he needs to do that.

671
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: They just share around the knee, but for some reason

672
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Speaker 1: he wants he wants me to wax him from head

673
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Speaker 1: to and I look, I heard I'm part of the village,

674
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: but like you know, I draw the line there. Do

675
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Speaker 1: I need to shave my leg? Oh god, I think

676
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: I think they shame where they need to be. Oh, okay,

677
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: so you're not. The regents are fine.

678
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Speaker 5: I have a full body way exactly exactly.

679
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Speaker 1: He's going to go in there. Uh you know, wax

680
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Speaker 1: and backs are ready to go.

681
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Speaker 11: I know.

682
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I don't know. I'm nervous. I don't know.

683
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: You got this. We'll see how it goes. I I

684
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Speaker 1: don't know.

685
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Speaker 2: I don't I'm such a baby when it comes to

686
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: like pain and medical stuff like I yeah.

687
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: But you've been hobbled by this for as you mentioned,

688
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: six months, so it's like, yeah, we got to get

689
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 1: this done. At least it's I know it's going to

690
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: be over right, and all the anticipation of planning and

691
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Speaker 1: then you know, not being able to go. Yeah, the

692
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Speaker 1: scheduled during the pharmacists lunchtime. But course they can't do it.

693
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Speaker 9: You know.

694
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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're gonna be good.

695
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Speaker 3: We'll call it anything. Because you have driven me around

696
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 3: town after my BBLS a.

697
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Speaker 1: Couple of times now, leaking him vaccine.

698
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Speaker 3: Yes, like jesuon's been my bride or I and now

699
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 3: I need to repay him.

700
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Speaker 12: I pay you.

701
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Speaker 1: She's like leaking my just how well we know each other.

702
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: Like Paulina's BBL has been Uh. We actually had to

703
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: move studios because they had to condemn the old one

704
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: because her BBL was all over the place. It's a

705
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Speaker 1: real thing. Yeah, Kiki, go.

706
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Speaker 6: All right, dear blog, I just want to know from

707
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Speaker 6: the thirteen, do you take your spouse to the holiday

708
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 6: Christmas party at work?

709
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,959
Speaker 5: I'm not here for it. And it's for a few reasons.

710
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 6: One because I don't need Timothy coming in here running

711
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 6: his mouth, you know, talking about what I do at home.

712
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 6: I don't need him to build a relationship with y'all.

713
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 6: And then next thing, you know, y'all calling each other

714
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 6: and Kei kiying on the phone. It's like it's like

715
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 6: church and state somethings should just be separate.

716
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Speaker 8: So I don't.

717
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Speaker 6: People have been asking, like you guys are engaged now,

718
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 6: like are you going to bring him to the party?

719
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, why would I do that? Why?

720
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: Ns I don't you realize you're marrying this man right,

721
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: Like you can realize that it's in theory of lifelong commitment,

722
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: Like you're not gonna be able to hide him forever.

723
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 5: No, I don't want to hide him. I just don't

724
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 5: need him, like.

725
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: You don't want him to become friends. Like, what if

726
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: I meet him tonight? I'm like, I'm sure I'm gonna

727
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: think he's a great guy, right, and then you're right now,

728
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, we're hanging out.

729
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 6: Right, and then I'm you know, I'm looking on Instagram

730
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 6: and y'all at the bar. I don't appreciate that.

731
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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. What are you afraid that

732
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: he would tell us that you're hyping?

733
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Speaker 5: My God, so many things I don't know. I just

734
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 5: don't need his side of the story being shared amongst

735
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 5: my coworkers.

736
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,719
Speaker 1: That's what this is really about. You want to come

737
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: in here and talk whole big, conflicting narratives we're about

738
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: to get.

739
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Speaker 6: He's gonna be like she cooks every night and waits

740
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 6: on me hand and fuck yeah, I'm like, we don't

741
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 6: know that, lady.

742
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: Wow, something wouldn't that be something if, like we learned

743
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: from Big Tim that it's a completely different narrative than

744
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,479
Speaker 1: the one she comes in here with. And she been

745
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: begging me to She's been begging me to propose for years.

746
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: You coming in here, y'all, I don't care about no man.

747
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Speaker 6: I don't know though, I just feel like it's such

748
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 6: a weird vibe sometimes for couples when it comes to

749
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 6: the holiday party, like do you bring them you leave

750
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Speaker 6: them at home? Is someone upset that they weren't invited?

751
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Speaker 5: I don't know.

752
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Speaker 1: Have you ever brought a date to that holiday?

753
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 5: Do you go to the holiday party?

754
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes I swing, I pull, I pull up.

755
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes he pulls up and then he's right out the door.

756
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 3: But I respect that. That's me tonight.

757
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 5: I respect it.

758
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not really my vibe. I don't around coworkers.

759
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: And then it's when you've attended.

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Speaker 5: Have you ever brought a date?

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Speaker 11: No?

762
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Speaker 6: Okay, no no, but I just yeah, people on the

763
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Speaker 6: text are saying that it's awkward to bring your spouse,

764
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Speaker 6: and I think it is. I think everyone is a

765
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Speaker 6: little different at work than they are at home.

766
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just it's a bunch of chit chat with

767
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: people that I already chitch had with, like I know,

768
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: except now alcohol is involved. And then the only thing

769
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: good about going to the office holiday party is is

770
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: there's there's there were always the people who take it

771
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: too far, and it's fascinating to watch those people like

772
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: oh so you wanted your career to end tonight apparently

773
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: like right before Smith, because I can tell you right now,

774
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: I can see in my head who they are, because

775
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: it's every time there's alcohol served in any function, it's like,

776
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: oh my god, does our insurance that include like you know,

777
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: Betty Ford or something, because you need to go no,

778
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: because it's like it's like, you know, everyone's having a

779
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: few cocktails and then there's like the one person like

780
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: who's like freebasing in the corner, you know what I mean,

781
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: Like it's in the oh mind's like you realize that

782
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna go to work and like everyone can just

783
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: gonna remember that you took your shirt off and danced

784
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: on the table. I love it. You love that. I

785
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: do love it.

786
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Speaker 7: I don't know.

787
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 1: I bring Mike and he loves the show. Like he

788
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 1: thinks it's so entertaining, like.

789
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 5: He's putting faces to name, but he's.

790
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: Never working in office.

791
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 2: He's never had these type of relationships with people are

792
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 2: worked in like an office hierarchy, So like he thinks

793
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: it's so enterty.

794
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,720
Speaker 1: He loves it. He loves every second of it. Yeah, yeah,

795
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: Phone vibrates. It's a radio shows.

796
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: It's almost he's coming tonight. Should come tonight and they

797
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: could meet. Oh, Mike and Tim Jason.

798
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 5: I'm not doing it.

799
00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:58,959
Speaker 7: I can't.

800
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 5: It's just too risk.

801
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: Hiding. Yeah right, bring the man. You know what, I'll

802
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: tell you what if Big Kim is there tonight that

803
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 1: I'll promise you all go oh please, yeah.

804
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 7: Stop it.

805
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: Big Kim is there, I'll go.

806
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, neither one of y'all will be.

807
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:22,080
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Speaker 1: This is the Fred Show. It's the Fred Show. Win

817
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Speaker 1: on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station.

818
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: We're granting another holiday wish every day this week. We're

819
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: doing it with our friend anyway right one hundred truck

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Speaker 1: Rack and you're a big bag of money, Amy.

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00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 13: That's right, that's right. That's the best time of year.

822
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 12: It's the best time to shower people with kiff and

823
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 12: hope and money of course to make it all happen, and.

824
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 13: One eight hundred truck cards.

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Speaker 1: We have all of that, So let's do it well.

826
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 1: I gotta thank you, Amy, because all year long, you've

827
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 1: been super generous. Next year we've got stuff planned as

828
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: well with you in one eight hundred truck wreck. But

829
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: but you jump at the opportunity to help us with this,

830
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 1: because everybody on the show loves being able to do this.

831
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: But the budget is tight, but thanks to you and

832
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 1: that you've got one of those black American Express cards,

833
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: don't you. You got the kind that they only invite

834
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 1: you to.

835
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 13: That's right, because I don't have a budget. As long

836
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 13: as I'm the only one that owns all this stuff,

837
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 13: I have no budget. Fred, we can do whatever we

838
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 13: want to do. So let's do some good for Jackie

839
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 13: and her dad.

840
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: Let's do it right now. I'm going to welcome them

841
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 1: Jackie and Bill. Yes, Oh we got to go get Bill.

842
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 3: I told her she got answer alone, and then make

843
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 3: sure that he was there afterwards we got it.

844
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: We can't do it without Bill.

845
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 3: We wanted to surprise him.

846
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 4: I days were here.

847
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 1: Hey Bill, Bill, Bill, you idea what's going on right now? Ah?

848
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 11: You know?

849
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely none at all? Okay, Well, Bill, I already like

850
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: you for some reason. I just I think you're a

851
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: good guy. But Jackie wrote to us to the Fred

852
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: Show on Kiss FM and wanted us to know about you. Jackie,

853
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: will you read the note that you sent us?

854
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 14: Yes, I will dear Fred Show and Eni. This year,

855
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 14: my holiday wish is for my dad. There's not enough

856
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 14: time to write down all the reasons that he's deserving,

857
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 14: so I'll highlight what he's done this last year. In

858
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 14: November of twenty twenty four, I fell very sick. I

859
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 14: was unable to work for a full two months, bad ridden,

860
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 14: barely able to walk evento the bathroom, and so weak

861
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 14: for a seemingly healthy thirty three year old. It was

862
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 14: a terrifying time. My dad turned all of his time, energy,

863
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 14: and focus to helping his extremely sick kid. He somehow

864
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 14: managed to hold his job while driving me to doctor

865
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Speaker 14: after doctor, being in and out of the er, cooking

866
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 14: me meals, tending to me daily while my fiancee was

867
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 14: working long hours, staying up late researching answers, remedies, and

868
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Speaker 14: new modalities. He spent so much more trying alternative medicine treatments.

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Speaker 14: The list carries I don't know that he slept a

870
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 14: full night for months. Dash forward thirteen months. I'm still

871
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 14: dealing with some stubborn lingering symptoms, but I'm back to work, walking, traveling,

872
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 14: and cavaitive function is back. I'm so much better, and

873
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 14: I credit it to him. He saw his daughter suffering

874
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 14: and channeled everything to my healing. Not to mention, in

875
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 14: the middle of all of this, his brother in law

876
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 14: died suddenly, so he had to take off to Boston

877
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 14: to support his sister for a week. He's the most

878
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 14: selfless human and the best dad. I wish I could

879
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 14: give him even ten percent of what he gives me

880
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 14: in this life. He's just the type of guy to

881
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 14: give away all he has to help people in need.

882
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 14: He's always putting off doing anything for himself. My holiday

883
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 14: wish is to help him with his bills and for

884
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 14: him to go on a shopping spury or do something

885
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 14: for himself. He deserves it more than anyone. In my

886
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 14: totally biased opinion.

887
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: Thank you Jackie viol mine own no, not at all,

888
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: and be like this is what dads you're supposed to do,

889
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: but this isn't what all dads do. But you are

890
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:01,399
Speaker 1: that guy.

891
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 15: Well, thank you, But in my mind, that's just what

892
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 15: to do. Don't think twice about it. My daughter is

893
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 15: everything to me and I don't care how old she is.

894
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 15: She's my little girl and if she's in need, that's

895
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 15: my priority and always will be.

896
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 7: Wow.

897
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people listening now are going, yeah, yeah,

898
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: I mean there are a lot of great parents out there.

899
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: But I mean for you to dedicate yourself and to

900
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: figure out a way to not only help other people

901
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: in your family and still go to work and do

902
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: all of this stuff, I would imagine you've put a

903
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 1: lot of your own needs to the side.

904
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 13: Yep, I had to.

905
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 15: Don't even take about it. I don't know. I know

906
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 15: a ton of consideration.

907
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: Amy, we like, we like Bill a lot, and Billy

908
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: is here. Amy is my friend from one hundred truck Breck.

909
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: But Amy also has infinite funds, Okay, and so we

910
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: call Amy when we want to do something nice for

911
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: someone like you. Bill and Amy, what's that going to

912
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: be well.

913
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 13: I think we got it's hard to bill about. You know,

914
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 13: you got to get bill stacked up, and you want

915
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 13: to at least your daughter wants you go on a

916
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 13: shopping spree and do something for yourself. What would you

917
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 13: do for your yourself if you had.

918
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 1: Unlimited fun and don't say give it to somebody else.

919
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: That is an unacceptable answer right this minute.

920
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 14: You need to circulation.

921
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 15: I never even think about it. I don't even I

922
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 15: can't even think I figure out something.

923
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 13: Though, Yes, you need to, absolutely well, you need to

924
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 13: figure out something, because on behalf of one eight hundred

925
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 13: truck wreck, I'm gonna make sure you can pay all

926
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 13: your bills. I'm gonna make sure that. I don't know

927
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 13: if you want what do guys get new TVs main case,

928
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 13: some sort of like you know, power tool.

929
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 11: For that.

930
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 13: If you want to take a trip somewhere, you're gonna

931
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 13: have money for that, because on behalf of one eight

932
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 13: hundred truck wreck, we're gonna give you five thousand dollars.

933
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: There you go, bill, five thousand dollars.

934
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 15: Wow, that's unbelievable. That is absolutely unbelievable. Now what I

935
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 15: expected this morning.

936
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 3: You deserve it, Dad, you do.

937
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: Bill. If I find out you spent one cent on

938
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: anyone else, I'm okay. You might be a big guy

939
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 1: than me. I don't know, but I'm still gonna come

940
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: for you.

941
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 13: I'm coming too, and I'm tough.

942
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 15: I will have to fight my instinct, but I promise

943
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 15: that is unbelievable. Thank you so much. I don't feel

944
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 15: like I des already of.

945
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: This, but well, yeah, we all disagree. But Jackie, thank

946
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 1: you for sharing your story about your dad and and Bill.

947
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: Have an amazing holiday and enjoyed the shopping screen or

948
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: whatever you're gonna do with five thousand. You don't have

949
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: to tell us. It can be, it can be a

950
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: little private thing, whatever you want to do. Thank you

951
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: guys so much, Thank you so much. Thank you, Jackie.

952
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: Have a good day. You did a good you were nervous.

953
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: You did a great John, that's gonna be nervous about.

954
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: We're a bunch of clowns. It's all good.

955
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,720
Speaker 4: You guys are unhinged today and I'm so hereful.

956
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: It's really becoming that way. Thank you, Jackie. Have a

957
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: good day. Show is on. It's Tuesday, December sixteenth. The

958
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 1: French Show is on. Hi Jason Hi, Hi, Paulina Hi

959
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: ki in Morning kil Chows today sho. But Shelly will

960
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: be hearing about twenty minutes, six hundred and fifty bucks

961
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: if you can beat her in five pop culture questions.

962
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: That money is yours, which I'm sure would be very

963
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: nice to buy Christmas presents for yourself. Yes, yes, almost

964
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: on other people. But that was silly. The Entertainment Report

965
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 1: after Stay or Go, ki Key, what are you working on?

966
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 6: Well, Lizzo has broken her silence about those wild allegations

967
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 6: from her former background.

968
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 5: Answers, We'll talk about that coming up.

969
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: Look at you talking about that Kelling day, We'll talk

970
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: about that Helling.

971
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 5: We'll try my bitch man.

972
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: You're doing well. Frend show is on. It's Stay or Go?

973
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: All right, Jessica, Good morning, Jessica. How are you?

974
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 13: I'm good?

975
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 1: How are you doing great? Jessica. I've got your your

976
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: note here for Stay or Go. We're gonna at the

977
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: end of this we're going to side decide collectively the

978
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: room and then everyone listening eight five five five one

979
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: three five the trajectory for the rest of your life.

980
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: Because I don't know if you knew this, and it's

981
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: in a fine print but like, whatever we decide is

982
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: what you're gonna have to do with your life. So

983
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 1: here we go. You unfortunately, we're recently in a car accident,

984
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, but you're okay as okay as can

985
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: be now, right.

986
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it was a year and a half ago,

987
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 4: and I have a bunch of injuries that you know,

988
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 4: I survived. I'm here and I'm really happy to be alive.

989
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: Good, And so there's some repercussions though, Like the life

990
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,919
Speaker 1: is a little bit different now. You're not maybe moving

991
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: around as well as you were a year and a

992
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 1: half ago and things like that.

993
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, you know, I'm not really like able

994
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 4: to walk or really like act like myself. It's not

995
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 4: the same. And you know, I understand that it's kind

996
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 4: of a new version of me and that it would

997
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 4: be hard for anybody to deal with. But my husband

998
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 4: never said anything about that I kind of look new

999
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 4: or that I act a bit different. But he has

1000
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 4: been treating me a bit different. He doesn't really want

1001
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 4: to have sex with me, and he's not really romantic.

1002
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: He's just kind of different.

1003
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:20,280
Speaker 7: I guess, okay, and everything, you know, ahead, no no worries.

1004
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 4: I've tried to talk to him about it, and he

1005
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 4: keeps assuring me that he doesn't feel differently about me,

1006
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 4: and he does say that I'm beautiful, but I don't know,

1007
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 4: the actions aren't really saying the same thing and saying

1008
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 4: the opposite.

1009
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 1: Like like you're not you're not exercising as much, or

1010
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: like you sort of form his change. I mean, what

1011
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: what is what has changed exactly?

1012
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I used to take classes every single day, different

1013
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 4: work out classes, and I'm not really moving as well.

1014
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 4: So I can take yoga maybe twice a week, which

1015
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 4: isn't the same, and it's I'm not even as good,

1016
00:44:58,480 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 4: of course as I was before.

1017
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 13: And you know, I used to do so.

1018
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 4: Many things around the house and I can't clean as well,

1019
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 4: so I'm not really doing that as well. You know,

1020
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 4: I had to buy like a little robot that goes

1021
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 4: around the apartment clean a.

1022
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 14: Little bit better.

1023
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: Okay? And is this permanent?

1024
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 9: Like is it?

1025
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: Are you in the process of I'm just trying to

1026
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: sort of understand what what life looks like now, and

1027
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: how ye is this sort of a permanent change over time?

1028
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: Will you sort of rehab and then maybe be able

1029
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: to to because I mean, I don't really care what

1030
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: this guy thinks for yourself. I mean, if you aspire

1031
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: to be it sounds like fitness and that you know

1032
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 1: sort of thing was something that was important to you

1033
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: prior you to your accident. So is this something that

1034
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: you'll be able to get back to or not?

1035
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 13: I think not to the capacity I was doing before.

1036
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 4: And yes, I am in rehab and working towards being

1037
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 4: a better version of myself is from the accident.

1038
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: But.

1039
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 13: I'm not there yet.

1040
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 4: It's been a year and a half and it's going

1041
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 4: to take a bit of time, and I'm doing my best.

1042
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 1: And so you guys have talked about this, Jessica, and

1043
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: you've said, hey, you know, I've noticed a difference since

1044
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: the accident, and I feel like maybe you don't. I

1045
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: h what's the word I would use. I'm not as

1046
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: appealing to you as I've noticed that. I feel that

1047
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 1: you're not as appealing. I'm not as appealing to you

1048
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: as I was before the accident. And this guy has

1049
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: reassured you that he doesn't feel any differently, but yet

1050
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: his actions, you know, as far as intimacy and things

1051
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: like that, say something different.

1052
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, it says something completely different. And you know it's

1053
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 4: it's hurtful, and I've tried saying it many, many times,

1054
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 4: and he just keeps reassuring.

1055
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 13: Me he feels the same way.

1056
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: And so the question becomes like, is it is it

1057
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: always going to be this way or is it something

1058
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: that he that he adjusts to, or does he come around?

1059
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: Or I mean, is this the new sort of state

1060
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: of normal in your marriage, in which case you'd have

1061
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: to ask yourself are we ever going to have the

1062
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: same connection? And if we're not, then what does that

1063
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: look like? I assume that's kind of where you're at. Yeah, no,

1064
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: it is what does your gut tell you? Does your

1065
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,760
Speaker 1: gut tell you that this is that he'll come around,

1066
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 1: or does your gut tell you that he's just not

1067
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,320
Speaker 1: comfortable with the new normal And maybe he sees you

1068
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: differently despite and doesn't want to hurt your feelings, which,

1069
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: of course it would be devastating for your partner to

1070
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: say that to you.

1071
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,280
Speaker 4: You know, right now, it feels like he sees me differently,

1072
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 4: which is why I keep asking him, you know, how

1073
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 4: he feels about me, and I need to be reassured

1074
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 4: right now it doesn't feel like he sees me in

1075
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 4: the same way at all, And how long could you

1076
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 4: go on like this before you move on?

1077
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1078
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 4: It's hard because he's my husband and I love him,

1079
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 4: so it's tricky. I just I don't feel wanted or

1080
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 4: loved the way that I did before.

1081
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: So I don't know, and I knew that. I know

1082
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: that's kind of cliche to say, but I mean, and

1083
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 1: from the guy who's never been married but and isn't

1084
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,479
Speaker 1: in a relationship. But like you know, you marry someone.

1085
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: This is supposed to be for life, and and you're

1086
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: supposed to know in in what is it they say,

1087
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: in sickness and in health? I mean, so, so you

1088
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: don't necessarily marry permanently the person who you married whenever

1089
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: you did. You know, people obviously, time evolves and people

1090
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: change and things happen and people age. And I'm sure

1091
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: you know, maybe he's exactly the same guy as he

1092
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: was whenever you married him. I doubt it. And it's

1093
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: very easy for all of us to say, well, that's

1094
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 1: the deal, that's the code, that's what you agreed to.

1095
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: But I mean, if we ask ourselves honestly, are we

1096
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: prepared for our partner to get sicker? We prepare prepared

1097
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: for our partner to decide that they don't want to

1098
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: take care of themselves anymore. Are we prepared for our

1099
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: partner to be in an accident? Are we truly prepared

1100
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 1: for that? I wonder if people are being really honest,

1101
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: you hope the answer is always yes. But but is

1102
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: it really because you know, who wants to become And

1103
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this is your example, but I mean,

1104
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,439
Speaker 1: who really wants to become a caregiver? Who really wants

1105
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: to have to? And then but but that's what we

1106
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: agreed to. But I guess what I'm trying to get

1107
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: to is the other side of this, the honest side

1108
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: where it's this wasn't you know that he thought he

1109
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: was marrying one thing and now he feels like he's

1110
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: getting something different and he's having a hard time with

1111
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: that connection. That that's a him problem, not a you problem.

1112
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: But I mean I think we, you know, we kind

1113
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 1: of have to be honest with ourselves that this is

1114
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: something that could happen in any relationship. Despite people saying

1115
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: over and over again, stick this in in health, Yeah,

1116
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: this is what you're supposed to do. And so I

1117
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: guess I'm going with this is at what point do

1118
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: you say this guy is clearly not prepared for that.

1119
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: He said it, but he doesn't mean it, and you

1120
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: know he may love you, but I guess you know,

1121
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: at what point do you say I need to hit

1122
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: reset on this like this, this guy's not clearly in

1123
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: it for everything. He's not all in, and so maybe

1124
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: I need to move on and find somebody who is.

1125
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: Because you can't be expected to live this way feeling

1126
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: kind of rejected for the rest of your life. I mean,

1127
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: how long are you sing both to wait for this

1128
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: guy to decide that that he's above all this.

1129
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 4: I don't know, you know, is it another year, is

1130
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 4: it another couple months? I don't know. It's hard because

1131
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,479
Speaker 4: you know, if I was in his position, of course,

1132
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 4: I think I'd be acting differently.

1133
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:26,399
Speaker 6: But I don't know, and you don't suspect that there's

1134
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 6: any shenanigans going on, like he may be in another situation.

1135
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:35,959
Speaker 4: Oh okay, I mean he's like word wise, he's really

1136
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 4: been there for me. You know, he always says that

1137
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 4: I'm beautiful and is very loving in words, but the

1138
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 4: actions are not really there.

1139
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is really sad, and I'm really sorry that

1140
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: you guys are going through this, and I feel like,

1141
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 3: to friend's point, like, yeah, maybe he's not prepared, but

1142
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 3: is anybody ever prepared for a transition like this in

1143
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 3: life when you have become the caregiver, whether it's to

1144
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 3: your partner, an aging parent, even your children. Like this

1145
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 3: can happen to anybody, so nobody's exempt from any of this.

1146
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 3: So I do think that he needs to step it

1147
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 3: up and be the husband that he promised to be

1148
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 3: when he said right through sickness and through health. And yes,

1149
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 3: not everybody's equipped to be that, I understand, but that's

1150
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 3: chosen family. Right when you marry somebody, it's chosen family.

1151
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 3: Like we are now a unit. So like I feel like,

1152
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 3: well that's.

1153
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 8: What I mean.

1154
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: I mean, people say this, but are they really prepared?

1155
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: You better be h by the way, you know, And

1156
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: I don't know your situation completely, Jessica, but like I mean,

1157
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: you're you're mobile, you're exercising, you're working at it, you're

1158
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,439
Speaker 1: trying to be your best self. You're limited in certain ways.

1159
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,839
Speaker 1: I mean, it could be so much worse. People deal

1160
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: with much worse every single day, and I guess I

1161
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: just wonder, you know, maybe there's a transition period where

1162
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: he sort of mourns what used to be, but then

1163
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: then you step it up and you go, okay, no,

1164
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: I married more than this.

1165
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 7: It was.

1166
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,760
Speaker 1: It's deeper than that, And it sounds like maybe he didn't.

1167
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: I mean, a year and a half is a long

1168
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 1: time to wait for someone to uh for you to

1169
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: feel wanted again, and you deserve to feel wanted. So

1170
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe that's the conversation. You know, maybe

1171
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: it's and I would love to know what people have

1172
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 1: been through this or you know, after pregnancy or or

1173
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 1: or you know, and I get it's not all about women.

1174
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 1: You know, maybe a guy went through an accident and

1175
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: he was, you know, very physically fit and then now

1176
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: he's not as much. Or maybe maybe people just lose

1177
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: the energy or the will, or they get busy and

1178
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 1: they don't prioritize things that were once important to them,

1179
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: that people once found attractive. But I guess, at what

1180
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: point do you sit down and say, look, I you know,

1181
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: you say that you care about me the same way,

1182
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: but it doesn't feel that way, and if it's never

1183
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: going to feel that way again, then you know, maybe

1184
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: maybe our connection is lost. And that's very very sad,

1185
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: but that may be the reality. I mean, is it

1186
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: is it something worth talking about in those terms?

1187
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean.

1188
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 4: I've spoken to him about these terms. But I think

1189
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 4: it's about putting a timeline. Don't you think about when

1190
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 4: when it like starts to affect me that I can't

1191
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 4: be in this or do this anymore where I feel

1192
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:09,919
Speaker 4: unwanted for this long?

1193
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:11,919
Speaker 1: Well, the timeline is yours. By the way I started

1194
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: interrupt you, the timeline is yours to make you can't

1195
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: really go to him and be like, hey, I'll tell you.

1196
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 1: I give you six months to get your act together

1197
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 1: and remember the person you married and that and the

1198
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 1: person inside of here or else. I mean, I think

1199
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: you have to decide at some point do you think

1200
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: he's ever going to come around? And if not, you know,

1201
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 1: you obviously still bring a tremendous amount of value to

1202
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: the world. You're the same exact person that he married,

1203
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: So off we go.

1204
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 5: I think they should try counseling.

1205
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:40,280
Speaker 6: I don't think she should give up on him, because

1206
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 6: the way that she said, he's still speaking to her

1207
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 6: and he's still you know, telling her she's beautiful. Maybe

1208
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 6: he's just going through a mental transition. Of trying to

1209
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 6: find his footing in you all's new reality.

1210
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 5: Like you know, when when.

1211
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 6: Something happens to your partner that changes you too. So

1212
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 6: maybe he's just going through a rough time, and I

1213
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 6: may I think maybe you guys can work it out

1214
00:53:58,840 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 6: in counseling.

1215
00:53:59,480 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: I don't.

1216
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:01,399
Speaker 5: I don't want to say you throw your marriage away.

1217
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 1: No, I definitely think maybe there's a different Maybe some

1218
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: help with the communication would be good. But yeah, but

1219
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: I mean, if he's not. A year and a half

1220
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 1: is a long time for a guy to tell you

1221
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: one thing and act differently. So yeah, Jess, let me

1222
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: take some phone calls on this. I want to see

1223
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:15,879
Speaker 1: what people have to say. But I wish you the best.

1224
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 7: Thank you.

1225
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:19,799
Speaker 1: Yeah that's hard. I mean again, you know, people say, oh, yeah,

1226
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: I'm in it for the long haul, I'm in it

1227
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: for whatever it is, and then but then it's sometimes

1228
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 1: you realize, well, now this maybe they're not in fact,

1229
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: And then and then I think is it wrong to say, Okay,

1230
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: well you're not the you weren't actually in this for

1231
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: sickness in and hell, so we got to move on.

1232
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 1: I gotta do something else. I got to find somebody

1233
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: who values this version of me. I thought it was you.

1234
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 1: But it's not tough because otherwise you just live your

1235
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 1: whole life the rest of your life like this. I mean,

1236
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: if you tried everything, is there any shame in prioritizing yourself?

1237
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: I mean maybe there's shame on his side because well

1238
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 1: he didn't live up to his end of the deal.

1239
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: But hey, Holly, yeah, Hi, Holly, Hey, good morning.

1240
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 5: Say or go?

1241
00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: What do you think?

1242
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 10: I think?

1243
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 7: Definitely say it sounds a lot like my husband when

1244
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 7: I had gone through cancer chemo radiation, and I told

1245
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 7: him that I, you know, felt comfortable being intimate, but

1246
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 7: he was so afraid of not wanting to hurt me,

1247
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 7: not wanting me to be uncomfortable, not wanting me to

1248
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 7: feel pressured. And it just sounds like he's very supportive

1249
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 7: of her and these are the bumps in the world

1250
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:26,280
Speaker 7: that we go through in a marriage.

1251
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But do you think But that's I guess

1252
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm getting at, is that's what you think,

1253
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: and that's what you hope your partner thinks when they

1254
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: agree to be with you for life. But do you

1255
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: think that at this rate, that's really the commitment that like,

1256
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: do you think that's really where his head is.

1257
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 7: I do from just hearing what she's saying about him

1258
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 7: being so supportive. I don't think we have a right

1259
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 7: to tell anybody, you know, what to do with their

1260
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 7: bodies and how to change. And I think that it

1261
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 7: does sound like he is willing, you know, to be

1262
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 7: there through thick and thin and talk to her about it.

1263
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 7: And I do feel sorry for her that she feels

1264
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 7: it that a certain way, but I hope that she

1265
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 7: can get a little bit of comfort maybe thinking that

1266
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 7: that's how he's feeling.

1267
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess just a year and a half of

1268
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: words and actions that don't match the words, that's that's

1269
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: a long time to wonder if if he's going to

1270
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,760
Speaker 1: come around, if he's going to accept the new normal.

1271
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: So I don't know how I mean to use it.

1272
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 1: A year and a half? Is it two years? Is it? Three?

1273
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:31,839
Speaker 4: Is it five?

1274
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:32,399
Speaker 1: Is it ten?

1275
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 9: It?

1276
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: Is it? We married each other? So if the if

1277
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: the intimacy aspect of this relationship is now fundamentally changed,

1278
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. We just stick with it. Like I guess,

1279
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:45,479
Speaker 1: that's my question. I don't know, you know, So Holly,

1280
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: thank you, and I'm sorry you've been through that. Yeah,

1281
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: final thought, no final thought, go ahead.

1282
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 13: I appreciate that now, I do.

1283
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 7: I know, I do know that it's a long time.

1284
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 7: I just want to know that I have been there.

1285
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 7: It was quite a while, but again it was just

1286
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 7: on his side mostly, and so I'm sorry that she's

1287
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 7: going through it. And I thank you guys.

1288
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: I love you.

1289
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 7: I will listen to you every day.

1290
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Have a good day.

1291
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 3: Thanks you too.

1292
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: Glad you called Michelle. Hi, Michelle, good morning, gooding. Hey Michelle,

1293
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: So just to recap here if you're just tuning in,

1294
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: this woman, Jessica in Sergo. She had an accident and

1295
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: it sounds like she's I mean, she's not completely immobile

1296
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: by any means, but she's sort of not the version

1297
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: of herself sounds like physically that she was prior to

1298
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Speaker 1: the accident. She's working at it, but she feels kind

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Speaker 1: of rejected by her partner now and he says that

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Speaker 1: he doesn't feel any differently, but his actions don't back

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Speaker 1: that up. And it's been a year and a half

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Speaker 1: of this and they have had the conversations and they've

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Speaker 1: tried to work through it, but it's not changing.

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Speaker 8: You know, what do you do.

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Speaker 9: You know.

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Speaker 12: I've been married now twenty seven years, and that's kind

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Speaker 12: of what marriage is. You're going to have those ups

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Speaker 12: and downs might last a couple of years, but it's

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Speaker 12: not I mean, it's a matter of if you're in

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Speaker 12: it for the long run. And it really really sounded

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Speaker 12: to me like she's carrying baggage, that she's feeling less

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Speaker 12: of herself and she might be putting that on him.

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Speaker 12: I think they should go talk to somebody. But I

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Speaker 12: don't think that's why you walk away.

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Speaker 13: I mean, when you see.

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Speaker 12: These couples that have been married sixty years, you don't

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Speaker 12: think they've had their stuff. And I'm my husband and

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Speaker 12: I have had our stuff and we're finally, twenty seven

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Speaker 12: years later, getting to the other side, I hope, with

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Speaker 12: that rainbow and where it's just like fabulous.

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Speaker 1: So that's an interesting perspective because a year and a

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Speaker 1: half sounds like a long time, but then when you

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Speaker 1: think of it over the course of a lifetime, a

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Speaker 1: year and a half is nothing, right, I guess, But

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Speaker 1: that's the thing that that's what we're trying to get

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Speaker 1: to here, And of course we're not dumb radio people

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Speaker 1: going to figure it out, but It's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: in five years, if nothing changes and you saw the signs,

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Speaker 1: then is it like, well, I maybe maybe this isn't

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Speaker 1: the guy that I thought I married. Maybe he's not

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Speaker 1: actually committed the way that I thought he was, and

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Speaker 1: so we probably should have moved on a while ago.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's how do you know, Michelle? And I

1335
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Speaker 1: guess what you're saying is you don't necessarily know, but hey,

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Speaker 1: we made this commitment, so we're going to stick with

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Speaker 1: it forever.

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Speaker 5: That's that question.

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Speaker 13: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: I mean, it's just that's kind of what you signed

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Speaker 12: up for. I mean, I guess that's how I view it.

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Speaker 12: It's you know, and you know, maybe they don't have kids.

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Speaker 12: You know, maybe it's not complicated as complicated. I have

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Speaker 12: four kids, so you know, maybe it's not that complicated

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Speaker 12: without kids, but with kids.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, now I think that's good.

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Speaker 12: It's part of what when you see the people that

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Speaker 12: have been married sixty years and you say, you know,

1349
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Speaker 12: what's the secret sauce. It's like it's times like this

1350
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:55,959
Speaker 12: when you have rush rough patches, that that's the secret sauce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Michelle, have a good day.

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Speaker 13: I love you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Hey, love you when she makes you a good point.

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Speaker 1: My grandparents are married for almost seventy years. It's like,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me in seventy years, there weren't you know,

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Speaker 1: lots and health issues.

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Speaker 5: There was a decade. Granny probably was like, yes, but

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01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 5: but do we.

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Speaker 1: Even still have those same like and again this is

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01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 1: now this is getting even like more deep. But do

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Speaker 1: we even still have those same values anymore?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is that even? Is that? And I guess that's what

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01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: I was getting at prior is are people really getting

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01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: married anymore? Truly thinking in their head, no matter what happens,

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Speaker 1: this is for life. Because if that's not your mentality,

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Speaker 1: then what Michelle is saying doesn't really matter because that

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01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: person isn't isn't feeling the same thing, Like they don't

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01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: see it the same way. They're already out And so

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Speaker 1: this is just not to hurt her feelings. This is

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Speaker 1: almost to make it her idea, you know, so to

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Speaker 1: assuage some form of guilt. Hey Rachel, Rachel, who are

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01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: you talking to?

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Speaker 7: I'm talking to like, because I was I was going.

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Speaker 1: To listen to your you know, external dialogue there, but

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01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: I can think I came in mid sentence, what did

1377
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: you want to say? Good morning and.

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Speaker 7: Welcome good morning.

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Speaker 9: I was just saying he is in caregiving mode right now,

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01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 9: one percent that part of his brain is just turned off.

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01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 9: He's obviously in love with her and wants to take

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01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 9: care of her. They need to see an intimacy therapist.

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01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 9: And to put it lightly, I think she in that

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01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 9: intimacy department.

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01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 13: Needs to take things into her own hands and make

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Speaker 13: some purchases.

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Speaker 1: Purchases. Oh oh okay, all right, we can we can

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01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 1: leave it there. Purchases I think I think we can

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01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: fill in the blank on that one. So she needs

1390
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: to sort of maybe she needs to make you were

1391
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: saying she used to spice things up in some ways.

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01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 1: Maybe see.

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01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, And on a they really do need to see

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Speaker 7: a sex therapist, because.

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Speaker 1: I don't put this all on her at all, Like

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Speaker 1: maybe partially, I mean, maybe she's emitting or emoting some

1397
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: kind of you know, feeling of insecurity, which is unattractive,

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Speaker 1: But like you know, it's also his job to sort

1399
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 1: of meet her where she is. If in fact we're

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01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: doing this whole lifelong thing, I think this is.

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01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 7: On her at all.

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01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 9: I do not think this is on her at all.

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01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 9: He has that part of his brain has just turned

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01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 9: off because of whatever she went through.

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01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 1: It was trauma, and he's been.

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01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 9: Through trauma too, right, watching her get better and watching

1407
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 9: her body possibly be broken in places he doesn't want

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01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 9: to hurt her and he's in mommy mode. He is

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01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 9: taking care of her, and it's sometimes hard to turn that.

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Speaker 1: Part of your brain back on. Yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Rachel. I have a good damn glad you called. Yep.

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01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: It's just so hard to know, and everyone's saying stay,

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01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: like all the text, all the things. It's just so

1414
01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 1: hard to know, like is this a phase or is

1415
01:02:57,480 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: this switch off? I think only time will tell.

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01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 6: I think if you're in a marriage, you gotta you

1417
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 6: gotta kind of go through it first before you make

1418
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 6: such this hard decision, which would be leaving.

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01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: Because I mean, you know, maybe he's like if I

1420
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 1: just sort of stick around and try not to hurt

1421
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: her feelings, then that's better than admitting to myself and

1422
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: to the world that I don't like the new version

1423
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 1: of her and I want out, because then that makes

1424
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: you the bad guy. So you know, that's that would

1425
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: be My biggest concern is like, are you hanging on

1426
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 1: like you you love me or maybe you're in love

1427
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: with me? But like, are you still attracted to me?

1428
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 1: And if you're not, how long do we play that game?

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01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 8: Right?

1430
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 6: But explore, I say, explore all options before you make

1431
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 6: that decision.

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01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 1: Purchases, Yes, purchase, purchases. Caitln's entertainment report is on the

1433
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: pressure sitting for Kaylen and take it away all right.

1434
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 6: Lizzo spoke out after her former dancers drop the fat

1435
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 6: shaming allegation from their lawsuit following a judge's finding about

1436
01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 6: a secret recording and an instagram. Lizzo said the claims

1437
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 6: were officially dropped and that the accusers.

1438
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:05,919
Speaker 5: Conceded it had no merit in court.

1439
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 6: Lizzo insisted there was no evidence that I fired them

1440
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 6: because they gained weight, adding that the dancers were fired

1441
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:15,919
Speaker 6: for recording her without consent. She emphasized I have never

1442
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,320
Speaker 6: fired an employee for gaining weight. She says she has

1443
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 6: always supported bigger bodies. While calling the moment of relief

1444
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 6: after suffering in silence. Lizzo confirmed she is not subtling

1445
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 6: and will continue to fight the remaining claim. So good

1446
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 6: luck with that girl, and fred, I know you touched

1447
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 6: on this earlier, but in case you missed it, Nick Reiner,

1448
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 6: the son of filmmaker Rob Reiner and Michelle Singer Reiner,

1449
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 6: has been arrested and booked on suspicion of murdering his

1450
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 6: parents after they were found dead with stab wounds in

1451
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 6: their Los Angeles area home. Nick is currently being held

1452
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 6: without bail, and according to reports, Rob Reiner and his

1453
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 6: son reportedly had a very loud argument at a holiday

1454
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 6: party hosted by Conan O'Brien. This all happened the night

1455
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 6: before Rob and his wife Michelle were killed. Sources say

1456
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 6: that Nick was freaking everyone out at the party, acting

1457
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 6: crazy and kept asking if people were famous, leading Rob

1458
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 6: and Michelle to leave the party. Sadly, the couple was

1459
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 6: found dead in their Los Angeles home the following day.

1460
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 6: So the depths of stunned Hollywood given Rob riders legacy

1461
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 6: as a celebrated actor and director behind major films of

1462
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 6: the eighties and nineties, and Nick was previously spoken about

1463
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 6: in the long struggle with drug addiction, telling People magazine

1464
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 6: in twenty sixteen that he had been homeless at times

1465
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 6: and in rehab since the age of fifteen.

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Speaker 5: So such a sad ending to their story twisted. May

1467
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:35,959
Speaker 5: they rest in peace.

1468
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 6: On a lighter note, some good news for Eminem fans

1469
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 6: fifty cents he's a possible eminem collaboration for the soundtrack

1470
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 6: of the upcoming Street Fighter movie. Fifty has good reason

1471
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 6: to hype up the movie, considering he's playing the boxer

1472
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 6: ball Rock. I'm not into the Street Fighter University, but

1473
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:53,520
Speaker 6: I'm here for the movie.

1474
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: Okay, both seen know ye tell me are fighting.

1475
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 5: We're gonna find out together.

1476
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: Ball Rod Ball Rod. That rhymes. That's what the woman

1477
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: was trying to get her to purchase for Okay.

1478
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 6: Bosting on Instagram, fifty road, I'm gonna get Eminem on

1479
01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 6: deck to make some music for the movie Street Fighter,

1480
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 6: adding new music is on the way. The film, which

1481
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 6: recently dropped a trailer, features a stacked cast including Jason Mamoa,

1482
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 6: Noah Centennial or Reveal Peck and Roman Reigns, and reportedly

1483
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 6: has fifty even performing his own stunts.

1484
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 5: Okay, fifty, that's your favorite act of Paulina.

1485
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 6: But producer, excuse you, but the biggest stunt let me

1486
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 6: look get his resume right, But the biggest stunt he

1487
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 6: could pull off maybe getting Eminem to drop some custom

1488
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 6: music for the film. Street Fighter is scheduled to hit

1489
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 6: theaters on October sixteenth, twenty twenty six.

1490
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 5: And I will be there with my popcorn.

1491
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 1: Okay.

1492
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 6: You know, if you miss anything from our earlier reports

1493
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 6: or in the show, you can always catch up on

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01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 6: the iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 5: Search for the Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Guy, do you have what it

1497
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: takes to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz

1498
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 1: showw my shell? Oh boy boy, I'm.

1499
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Speaker 3: Excited Jason as the question.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't know. It's talking like five minutes

1501
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 1: be to your note. Do we know if they're right?

1502
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:28,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're right, they're right? Oh whatever? Hey, Stephanie,

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01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 1: doesn't I don't care. I honestly I don't care.

1504
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Speaker 7: You do that.

1505
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 1: Are seventy? Good morning. I've just reached the point of

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01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: the year. I don't care, you know what I mean?

1507
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm there with you, like I.

1508
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 1: Deeply care, but I also don't care. Okay, it's a

1509
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 1: real conundrum for it for a guy. Yeah, I'm really

1510
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,480
Speaker 1: really struggling over here, economy. You're right hanging on for

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01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: dear life. But Stephanie six hundred and fifty bucks is

1512
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,439
Speaker 1: the price Shelley has won a thousand, one thousand, ninety

1513
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: five times seventy six losses. That's it, age straight. I

1514
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 1: do need fun fact about you, though, Stephanie.

1515
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 14: Well, I'm heading into a cry.

1516
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 4: I'm a microbiologist, so I don't know how I'm gonna

1517
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 4: do about culture, but.

1518
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 7: I'll give it a trok.

1519
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 1: That is fantastic because we're about to talk about cels. Yeah,

1520
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: it's so funny. Question number three is about mitochondria. Great, fantastical, Okay, yes,

1521
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 1: what it would?

1522
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:29,600
Speaker 4: What do you do?

1523
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 1: Like, what exactly do you like what we're going to

1524
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 1: do today? What do you do and like do you

1525
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:36,640
Speaker 1: listen to us and feel stupid or like? What is

1526
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 1: it like? Do you feel myself?

1527
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 13: I grew up on you guys.

1528
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 4: I'm so excited.

1529
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 1: Me I'm not. I don't know. That's the nicest compliment

1530
01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 1: you can say, is that you grew up with this show.

1531
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: That's the finest thing that you could truly say. It's

1532
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 1: just like, my god, that's why I have gray hair,

1533
01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 1: Like it's it's the best thing, you know. Like, we

1534
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:00,560
Speaker 1: all try and last as long as we can in

1535
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 1: this business without getting fired. But then it's like, oh

1536
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 1: my god, now I'm old. I'm old. When people say that,

1537
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:08,600
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh, you know when I was

1538
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 1: in high school. Now I have seven grandkids. I'm like,

1539
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 1: what do you mean? Are you doing all that in

1540
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 1: fifteen years?

1541
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 3: Playing that part?

1542
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:16,560
Speaker 1: But let's play the game, Stephanie, and let's seef you

1543
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: can win this money. Good luck?

1544
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 7: Thanks?

1545
01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, Shelley's actually been on the radio for thirty years.

1546
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,679
Speaker 1: I'd like you to do the math on that. It's wild.

1547
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: Here we go. Question number one. Travis Kelce's superstar fiance

1548
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 1: was spotted in their skybox playing with his with his

1549
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 1: niece during the last Kansas City Chiefs game. Name her?

1550
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Travis City Girl?

1551
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 7: Whoa oh Travis Travis Kelsey. I'm sorry, I thought you

1552
01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 7: were thinking about the brother there.

1553
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:55,440
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I'm my girl. You know a micro biologists.

1554
01:09:57,800 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 3: Yeah you've been.

1555
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,839
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, we're moving on. Ben Affleck was reunited

1556
01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 1: with both of his exes at his son's concert over

1557
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: the weekend. Name the two exes that share the same

1558
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: first name?

1559
01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:16,759
Speaker 4: Three, So Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Brin.

1560
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:17,160
Speaker 3: There you go.

1561
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: This Dirty Little Secret band was forced to stop their

1562
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 1: show mid song to help a fainting fan name them.

1563
01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 1: Another concert had to be halted over the weekend after

1564
01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: a dancer slid off the stage due to the rain.

1565
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:31,640
Speaker 1: Name the artist.

1566
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 5: Three two.

1567
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:38,960
Speaker 16: One, I Don't Know Okay?

1568
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 1: And Santa Tell Me became the highest peaking holiday song

1569
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 1: released this century on the Billboard Hot one hundred. Who

1570
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: sings Santa tell Me? Yeah? We just played it so

1571
01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: which was not on purpose. By the way, that's a four.

1572
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 1: That's a good score.

1573
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:55,640
Speaker 4: Okay, man, she.

1574
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: Got a four, Okay, which is really good. All right?

1575
01:10:59,240 --> 01:10:59,599
Speaker 1: You ready?

1576
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 7: Yes?

1577
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 1: Travis Kelcey superstar fiance was spotted in their skybox playing

1578
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 1: with his niece during the last Kansas City Chiefs game.

1579
01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 1: Name her fiance? Yeah. Ben Affleck was reading at it

1580
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 1: with both of his exes at his son's concert over

1581
01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:19,160
Speaker 1: the weekend. Name the two exes that share the same

1582
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: first name, Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez. Yes. This Dirty

1583
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: Little Secret band was forced to stop their show mid

1584
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:28,839
Speaker 1: song to help a fainting fan name them.

1585
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 3: Oh Dirty Little Secret, Oh Oh No.

1586
01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 1: Three two? The All American regnd Kiki forgot to count?

1587
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:49,640
Speaker 1: You got four minutes? Foes to answer and listen to

1588
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 1: the song in that period of time.

1589
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 5: I know you're struggling girl.

1590
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,080
Speaker 1: Another concert had to be halted over the weekend after

1591
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,599
Speaker 1: a dancer slid off the stage due to the rain.

1592
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 1: Name the artist Lady Yes and Santa Tell Me became

1593
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:04,640
Speaker 1: the highest speaking holiday song released at century on the

1594
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:06,720
Speaker 1: Billboard Hot one hundred. Who's sing Santa Tell Me?

1595
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 5: Arian?

1596
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 1: That's a four? That's a time?

1597
01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 6: Is this time?

1598
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to come back, but you may have

1599
01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:18,680
Speaker 1: earned yourself some extra money. Seven hundred bucks will be

1600
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,640
Speaker 1: the prize the next time we play. But yeah, it's

1601
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 1: a tiebreaker the next time we do it. All right, okay,

1602
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: I culture you. You may have some time to do that.

1603
01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, but hang on a second and we will

1604
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: coordinate that. Bellahamine will schedule it with you. All right, Okay,

1605
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much for listening to say

1606
01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 1: right there. All right, Shelly, the next time we play,

1607
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:45,639
Speaker 1: I don't know when that's gonna be, but it's seventy

1608
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: will be here and she will have she will have

1609
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:53,840
Speaker 1: memorized all of tms' website by yeah, exactly. She's smarter

1610
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: than all of us. So we're not moving all right,

1611
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 1: have a great table. Talk to you soon you too. Bye.

1612
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 1: All right, waiting by the phone from the Hall of Fame.

1613
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 1: Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll do it more. Fread

1614
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:08,240
Speaker 1: Show Next, This is the Fread Show. Dame is taking

1615
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 1: over Las Vegas this January for his seven Night Presidents.

1616
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 1: He a Dobey Live at Park MGM and we've got

1617
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: a trip for two to the January twenty fifth show

1618
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 1: to night Hotel State at Park MGM January twenty fourth

1619
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 1: through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text dusk

1620
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 1: to three seven three three seven now for a chance

1621
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 1: to win. A confirmation text will be sent. Standard message

1622
01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 1: of data rates may apply. All thanks to Live Nation.

1623
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 3: Nothing beats the jet to you holiday and right now

1624
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:38,920
Speaker 3: you can save fifty pounds pop person. That's two hundred

1625
01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 3: pounds up for a family of four.

1626
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 1: Fread Show is on. I'm getting gaslits so hard on

1627
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 1: the text it's unbelievable. I've lost it, like I need

1628
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:49,280
Speaker 1: to take a two week vacation and it's a good

1629
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:53,160
Speaker 1: thing that's coming. There's a woman telling me that I'm

1630
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 1: not live right now, and then when I tell her, ma'am,

1631
01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 1: I can't edit live segments because it's live, and then

1632
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 1: she calls me an a hole and says she'll never

1633
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 1: listen again. Your segments are all pre recorded and you

1634
01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 1: have all the time in the world to edit them.

1635
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 1: There's no reason for your attitude and your personal patience

1636
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:18,640
Speaker 1: threshold reflects the entire radio station. Say bye to me

1637
01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 1: one more time so you can have the last word

1638
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:25,599
Speaker 1: and have an awesome day. It is Tuesday, December sixteenth,

1639
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:29,879
Speaker 1: at eight ten and twenty seven seven twenty seven seconds Central.

1640
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 1: Watch us on YouTube nine ten and thirty three seconds

1641
01:14:33,200 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 1: Eastern Time. Yes, we're all live on YouTube. I'm literally

1642
01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,679
Speaker 1: looking at the camera right now. I'll hold up a newspaper.

1643
01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 1: Let me hold up my phone to the cameras, ma'am,

1644
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm not You're telling me that I can do something

1645
01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:49,280
Speaker 1: that I can't do, and I'm just simply telling you

1646
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 1: I can't do it because this is a live radio show.

1647
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 1: You can say whatever you want about me, but do

1648
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 1: not play that I do not get up at three.

1649
01:14:56,280 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 1: As her argument, it was valid, and I validated her

1650
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 1: argument and then helped explain to her why it's difficult

1651
01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 1: to do the things she's telling me that I can do.

1652
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 1: And now she's cussing me out.

1653
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 15: Ma'am.

1654
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: I don't have an ad so it's amazing to me

1655
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:18,680
Speaker 1: that people say, this is what you're doing, and I'm

1656
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,680
Speaker 1: the person. I'm physically the person doing it, and so

1657
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say kindly to you, here's my challenge,

1658
01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: and then you say no, it's not. And then and

1659
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:32,560
Speaker 1: then when I tell you, ma'am like, I'm sorry, you're incorrect,

1660
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: then I'm an a hole for that, Like, guys, why

1661
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 1: are you so? Like? What do you want me to do?

1662
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 5: I'm not arguing with you.

1663
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm just so, are you here? Jason's not texting? I'm okay,

1664
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: I'll put my phone down. I love every single person

1665
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 1: who listens to this show, but I'm not gonna make

1666
01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:55,519
Speaker 1: every single person who listens to this show happy all

1667
01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 1: the time. It just isn't gonna happen. But I'm not

1668
01:15:58,080 --> 01:15:59,640
Speaker 1: arguing with you. But don't tell me I can do

1669
01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: something that I can't when I'm I like you, guys,

1670
01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:07,640
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, don't work my boy out come on. Some

1671
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:10,680
Speaker 1: things are recorded because we have to do it that

1672
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 1: way that the thing that the person was complaining about

1673
01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 1: was not, ma'am. You know I wake up every day

1674
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 1: we all do to do the best job we possibly can.

1675
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:24,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you don't like it. You claim even been

1676
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 1: listening to this show for a decade and then like

1677
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 1: but you just like you want to chew me out,

1678
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: like find you in. I'm I'm a I guaranteed human, bro.

1679
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 1: This is what I'm saying is recorded. I'm on December

1680
01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:40,920
Speaker 1: sixteenth and eight twelve and forty seconds Central and eight

1681
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,200
Speaker 1: twelve and forty three seconds Easter nine to twelve and

1682
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: forty four seconds Eastern Time. Is there anything else I

1683
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: can do to like prove that. I just I'm sorry you, guys,

1684
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose it. Let's see waiting by the phone

1685
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 1: and just the second my gut. I hope it's I

1686
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,439
Speaker 1: hope it's okay. I don't know which one it is,

1687
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 1: but Paulina, which one I've done. I'm so scared, guys.

1688
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:04,800
Speaker 1: I love everybody. Happy holidays. I'm doing the best I can.

1689
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 1: I really am, But like, don't right up here in

1690
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:10,759
Speaker 1: gaslight me. You're recorded, Okay, I am, this is a recording.

1691
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:13,559
Speaker 1: You're right, You're right. I'm wrong. I'm an idiot. I'm

1692
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 1: the dumbest person ever, I'm a terrible human being and

1693
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:18,799
Speaker 1: I'm so stupid, and I'm so sorry that I corrected

1694
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 1: you about something to help so that you understood I

1695
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 1: understood my challenge a little more, only for you to

1696
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 1: tell me that I'm I'm an ale and you were

1697
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 1: kind and I was extremely kind, impatient and by the way,

1698
01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 1: I understand, I understand this person's point. It's just I

1699
01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 1: can't really help you all the time on it because

1700
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: we appeal to a lot of people here and we're

1701
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:41,519
Speaker 1: doing the very best we can. At eight thirteen and

1702
01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:44,759
Speaker 1: forty three seconds and I'm thirteen and forty five seconds

1703
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 1: depending where you're listening, right, that's right. So, yeah, what's

1704
01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 1: coming up? To the Entertainer of fort We'll do headlines

1705
01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 1: and funds like live on the radio, on the this

1706
01:17:54,439 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 1: is my last rant of the year.

1707
01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 9: It is.

1708
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 1: And I guys, it's like, come on, like you know what,

1709
01:17:58,160 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 1: you want to make me the villain. I'm the villain,

1710
01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:02,800
Speaker 1: the worst. I'm a terrible person. Go ahead, ge Kiki

1711
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 1: oh Man, Well coming up, it's eight fourteen. Yeah, we

1712
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:08,680
Speaker 1: got some love news to bring some love in the room.

1713
01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 6: We'll talk about some love and one of your favorite

1714
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:13,840
Speaker 6: TV shows is getting a reboot. I know you live

1715
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 6: are recorded, guaranteed human lie and full of facu.

1716
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:22,799
Speaker 1: It's me. I wish. I wish the happiest of holidays.

1717
01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:26,720
Speaker 1: Happy Hanukkah and Christmas to you, you know, Happy New Year.

1718
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:28,680
Speaker 1: Come on, I want you to just I want to

1719
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 1: I just I okay, all right, I'm gonna just push

1720
01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:34,639
Speaker 1: the button now, waiting by the phone is next, okay,

1721
01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:36,479
Speaker 1: And that we had to do ahead to make sure

1722
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:38,600
Speaker 1: someone answered. That's We've always done it that way for

1723
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 1: fifteen years. We've done it that way because how terrible

1724
01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: would it be if we just called someone and then

1725
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:44,679
Speaker 1: it rang and then they didn't answer?

1726
01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 8: Thank you?

1727
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:47,639
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you know what they want. That's what they want.

1728
01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 1: That's what that woman wants. Maybe the next thing by

1729
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 1: the phone we do, we'll just we'll leave all the

1730
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 1: times in it it We call over and over again

1731
01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 1: until somebody answers. Just and then when someone doesn't answer

1732
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:57,320
Speaker 1: and we have to go do a entirely different ones

1733
01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 1: because we weren't able to provide you with the payoff,

1734
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:02,920
Speaker 1: maybe we'll just leave it all right, Well, sorry, no answer.

1735
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: Here's Teddy Swims on the Fread Show. Everyone ever been

1736
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:12,439
Speaker 1: left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Lee's

1737
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:15,599
Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you good

1738
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:19,600
Speaker 1: morning program? Huh that sounds serious the program? Yeah, I

1739
01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:21,640
Speaker 1: saw I say it sometimes, But what's going on with

1740
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:23,640
Speaker 1: this guy Noah? We want to help you out on

1741
01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. You feel like maybe you're being ghosted?

1742
01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:28,519
Speaker 1: Tell us kind of everything. How did you guys meet?

1743
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:30,840
Speaker 1: I want to hear about any dates you've been on,

1744
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 1: any details you want to share, and we're going to

1745
01:19:33,280 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 1: try and figure this out.

1746
01:19:34,479 --> 01:19:38,760
Speaker 16: All right, thank you? So, Yeah, I met Noah through

1747
01:19:38,960 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 16: this indoor volleyball league. We both joined this winter, one

1748
01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 16: of them, one of the sports like social club companies.

1749
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1750
01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 16: Sure, I just kind of wanted to do something active

1751
01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 16: being that it was colder outside and not for nothing.

1752
01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:54,559
Speaker 16: But I heard there were a lot of single men.

1753
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 3: There, so why not.

1754
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, people do that like volleyball. Else they have like

1755
01:19:58,320 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 1: softball leads you can sign up for or soccer stuff. Yeah. Yeah,

1756
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,960
Speaker 1: and it's all just guys is like being active. But

1757
01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 1: let's face it, people trying to get some.

1758
01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:14,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, yeah, fade right, It's all good.

1759
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a little too lazy for that, but still

1760
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 1: I gotta go kick the ball the meats that come.

1761
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 1: I mean, like, no, I'm good.

1762
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 13: But then you can go you can go to the

1763
01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 13: trivia meet.

1764
01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 4: Groups, you know.

1765
01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 1: I mean you also have to leave the house for that.

1766
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:28,400
Speaker 1: But I'm just talking. One day, the doordask driver is

1767
01:20:28,400 --> 01:20:30,400
Speaker 1: the hottest person I've ever seen, male or female at

1768
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:36,479
Speaker 1: this point, just whatever, okay, yeah and j Watson engaging

1769
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:37,559
Speaker 1: in his doordas career.

1770
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:41,920
Speaker 16: Okay, so you you joined on a door to side note,

1771
01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 16: have you been getting male names and then a female

1772
01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:45,719
Speaker 16: shows up or female names and then a male shows

1773
01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:47,519
Speaker 16: up keeps hopping to this, yes, thank you?

1774
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:49,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, that actually makes me a little nervous side note

1775
01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:52,080
Speaker 1: because it's like, well, who's whose account is this registered?

1776
01:20:52,160 --> 01:20:55,680
Speaker 1: Like why can't you deliver? Who is the person who

1777
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 1: actually is showing it? Yeah?

1778
01:20:57,720 --> 01:20:59,560
Speaker 13: Act he asked the guy the other day and he

1779
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 13: said it was his mom's.

1780
01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:08,720
Speaker 1: Like why were you? Okay, so you you joined this

1781
01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: league to meet a person, and then what happens?

1782
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 7: I meete a person.

1783
01:21:12,120 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 16: I met Noah And it was after a few weeks there,

1784
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:18,599
Speaker 16: and we started talking about getting a drink after volleyball,

1785
01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:21,920
Speaker 16: and we did, and I think it went really well.

1786
01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:24,679
Speaker 16: So I know it went really well because we planned

1787
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 16: a second date, which was more drinks and dinner and

1788
01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 16: uh again, I see and dinner and that went really

1789
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 16: really well. So we went back to his place, we

1790
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:38,720
Speaker 16: had some fun, and then uh, Noah built the arc

1791
01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:40,639
Speaker 16: and rode away into the sunset.

1792
01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:44,800
Speaker 1: Okay, so after two days and a hookup, you never

1793
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 1: heard from him again. He never called her to I mean, okay,

1794
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:52,479
Speaker 1: and you reached down and it was more.

1795
01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:53,640
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to cut you off.

1796
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 16: It was kind of more of like a fade away.

1797
01:21:55,080 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 16: It wasn't just like a disappear. The messages got shorter

1798
01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:02,200
Speaker 16: and shorter and then eventually stopped. So I don't know

1799
01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 16: what the deal is. This was not like a random thing.

1800
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:06,760
Speaker 16: We like really got to know each other and then

1801
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:08,840
Speaker 16: hooked up. It wasn't like one of those things where

1802
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 16: we just kind of hooked up and he disappeared. So

1803
01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:13,080
Speaker 16: I didn't think this was appropriate time for our fade away.

1804
01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:15,880
Speaker 1: Huh. All right, Well, and after two dates and all

1805
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:17,479
Speaker 1: the rest of it, So here's what we're gonna do.

1806
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:19,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Noah. In just a second. You'll be

1807
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:21,000
Speaker 1: on the phone, Liz at the same time. We're gonna

1808
01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:23,080
Speaker 1: ask some questions. At some point you're welcome to jump in,

1809
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 1: and the hope is that we can straighten it all

1810
01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 1: out and set you up on another date that we

1811
01:22:27,200 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 1: pay for.

1812
01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 3: Sound good, awesome, Thank you so much, guys.

1813
01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:32,719
Speaker 1: Hey, Liz, I'm here. All right, let's call Noah. You guys,

1814
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:34,880
Speaker 1: you went on a couple of dates. You met actually

1815
01:22:34,880 --> 01:22:36,920
Speaker 1: out in the wild at one of those like sort

1816
01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:41,559
Speaker 1: of sports social things. Right, you guys are being active together,

1817
01:22:41,600 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 1: which is so exciting and which it makes sense. I

1818
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:47,080
Speaker 1: see why people you know, meet that way, especially when

1819
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 1: it's cold. Some kind of indoor event makes sense. You

1820
01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 1: meet this guy, you go on two dates. The last

1821
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:54,599
Speaker 1: date you hooked up, you thought everything was really headed

1822
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:56,560
Speaker 1: in one direction. But you have not heard from this

1823
01:22:56,720 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 1: man since then. You feel like he's ghosting you. You

1824
01:22:59,160 --> 01:22:59,760
Speaker 1: want to know why.

1825
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 13: That sums it up pretty well. Thank you?

1826
01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:04,080
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's call him now. Good luck, Liz.

1827
01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:04,799
Speaker 13: Thanks?

1828
01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 8: Hello?

1829
01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:11,600
Speaker 7: Hi?

1830
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 1: Is this Noah?

1831
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 8: Hey?

1832
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 1: No Hey, Hi, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm

1833
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:19,240
Speaker 1: calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and

1834
01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:20,600
Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

1835
01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 1: radio right now, and I would need your permission to

1836
01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can which out for just a second.

1837
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 1: You can hang up anytime, Yeah, I guess, yeah, Well

1838
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 1: thank you. Noah. We're calling on behalf of a woman

1839
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:34,400
Speaker 1: named Liz, who I guess you met. You were playing

1840
01:23:34,439 --> 01:23:37,960
Speaker 1: sports together the door a volleyball, and you went on

1841
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 1: a couple of dates. You remember, Liz, I do? Okay,

1842
01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:43,840
Speaker 1: So she called us that. Oh well, hold on, I

1843
01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:45,680
Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you where we're at here. She

1844
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 1: called us and liked you a lot, told us about

1845
01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 1: the couple of dates that you guys have been on,

1846
01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:52,479
Speaker 1: but says that you haven't reached out since. And so

1847
01:23:52,760 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm just curious, and maybe you knew what I was

1848
01:23:55,400 --> 01:23:56,880
Speaker 1: going to ask, But you know, why is that? Are

1849
01:23:56,920 --> 01:23:57,519
Speaker 1: you ghosting her?

1850
01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 8: I think it, first of all, this to start here,

1851
01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 8: it's insane that you guys are calling me, first off,

1852
01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 8: and secondly, especially for her. Oh she's we We we

1853
01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:11,840
Speaker 8: did meet playing volleyball. It was great, We got along well,

1854
01:24:12,680 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 8: we went out a few times, we had some fun.

1855
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 8: Uh and then you know, uh, you know, something kind

1856
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 8: of struck me as wrong the whole time, and I

1857
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:23,519
Speaker 8: just really couldn't put my finger on it. And then finally,

1858
01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 8: you know, the night that she stayed over, and we

1859
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:30,880
Speaker 8: you know, I kind of put two and two together,

1860
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 8: and I realized that, you know, this guy that she's

1861
01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:36,760
Speaker 8: been talking about all the time, and she talks about

1862
01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:38,559
Speaker 8: this best friend of hers that she's been best friends

1863
01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:41,840
Speaker 8: with for you know, for a long time, and uh,

1864
01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:44,320
Speaker 8: all of a sudden, out of nowhere, I put it

1865
01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 8: together that this best friend of hers is her ex boyfriend.

1866
01:24:48,479 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 13: Now these two spend time together, they go to family.

1867
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:53,439
Speaker 8: Things together, They sleep in the same bed at least

1868
01:24:53,479 --> 01:24:57,120
Speaker 8: once a week together. Like that's, uh, that's not cool

1869
01:24:57,160 --> 01:24:57,320
Speaker 8: with me.

1870
01:24:57,520 --> 01:25:00,400
Speaker 1: Okay. So so Noah, you're getting to know is you

1871
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:02,920
Speaker 1: guys are going on these dates and she keeps referring

1872
01:25:02,960 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 1: to this best friend of hers and all the different

1873
01:25:05,280 --> 01:25:07,559
Speaker 1: activities they do together. And I don't know, like if

1874
01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:09,800
Speaker 1: I guess if it's me and I hear that they're

1875
01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 1: sleeping in the same bed and they're hanging out constantly

1876
01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 1: in family stuff. If I'm being really honest, I just

1877
01:25:14,439 --> 01:25:16,559
Speaker 1: assume it's a gay best friend. If it's a guy,

1878
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:18,560
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like it sounds like, you know,

1879
01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:21,759
Speaker 1: pretty intimate. If you have if you have a romantic

1880
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:24,680
Speaker 1: friend or a male female dynamic. That's like that, I

1881
01:25:24,720 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 1: would assume you would date that person. Well, it turns

1882
01:25:26,920 --> 01:25:29,640
Speaker 1: out they did. They did date, but they still do

1883
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,960
Speaker 1: all these things. Eleven years, eleven years and so the

1884
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:35,680
Speaker 1: eleven years and it sounds like they're still dating. It

1885
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:37,800
Speaker 1: kind of sounds that way. But she describes a man

1886
01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:39,639
Speaker 1: as her ex.

1887
01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:42,000
Speaker 13: Yeah, so she's got this guy in her life that

1888
01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:43,240
Speaker 13: does everything with her.

1889
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,280
Speaker 1: What does she need Noah for? Oh my god, what

1890
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:48,439
Speaker 1: does she need Noah for? In the third person, I

1891
01:25:48,520 --> 01:25:51,519
Speaker 1: would I agree, what does she need Noah for? And

1892
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:53,560
Speaker 1: here to answer that question is Liz. I forgot to

1893
01:25:53,600 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 1: mention that Liz is here. Liz, you left Ali the

1894
01:25:56,640 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 1: ex of a living That is a very honest reaction.

1895
01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:05,400
Speaker 1: You left out the eleven year relationship dude who still

1896
01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:07,200
Speaker 1: sleeps in bed with you once a week. You love

1897
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:07,639
Speaker 1: that out?

1898
01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:10,679
Speaker 16: I mean, I mean, first of all, I can't believe

1899
01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:12,960
Speaker 16: how insecure no it is. I mean, a girl can't

1900
01:26:13,080 --> 01:26:17,760
Speaker 16: be close friends with a guy. I mean, first of all, well,

1901
01:26:17,960 --> 01:26:21,120
Speaker 16: well I have so much to say. I can't even

1902
01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 16: believe he's freaking out about this. It's so crazy. I mean,

1903
01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:25,479
Speaker 16: me and me and my ex are not meant to

1904
01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:28,200
Speaker 16: be together and it's not physical at all, but we'll

1905
01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:29,040
Speaker 16: always love each other.

1906
01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:31,080
Speaker 4: You know, He's always going to be a staple in

1907
01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 4: my life. He's my best friend for many years.

1908
01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:35,120
Speaker 16: And we just we tried the dating thing and it didn't.

1909
01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:36,280
Speaker 13: It's not for us.

1910
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:39,920
Speaker 16: I mean I bet a hundred bucks that that he

1911
01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:43,160
Speaker 16: would feel differently if Matt Matt my ex if he

1912
01:26:43,280 --> 01:26:43,759
Speaker 16: was a woman.

1913
01:26:45,400 --> 01:26:48,360
Speaker 1: All conversations well, I mean honestly, if it was a

1914
01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:50,519
Speaker 1: woman who you had data for eleven years, I think

1915
01:26:50,560 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 1: the concern would be the same. I mean, what we're talking.

1916
01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:55,599
Speaker 3: About double standards, I don't think.

1917
01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:57,439
Speaker 1: So what we're talking about here is a is a

1918
01:26:57,560 --> 01:27:00,559
Speaker 1: relationship of eleven years that was at one point romantic,

1919
01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:04,040
Speaker 1: and it sounds like it's everything and you're saying, but

1920
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:06,559
Speaker 1: the sex, But it sounds like it's every bit as

1921
01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:09,800
Speaker 1: intimate as it was. And so another person comes along

1922
01:27:09,840 --> 01:27:11,679
Speaker 1: and they're like, wait a minute, that would be my job,

1923
01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:14,800
Speaker 1: and that dude's not going anywhere, and you're talking about

1924
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:17,520
Speaker 1: it so openly. I guess I can see the reservations.

1925
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:21,920
Speaker 16: I mean, like I just I understand to a degree,

1926
01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:24,320
Speaker 16: but it's just like something you got to get over.

1927
01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:26,640
Speaker 16: Like they'll meet, they'll hang out and he'll realize this

1928
01:27:26,760 --> 01:27:30,519
Speaker 16: guy is not that and he'll realize frun the best friend. Yeah,

1929
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:32,639
Speaker 16: the me's going to be in your bed by ten pm?

1930
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:34,040
Speaker 16: Because why are you sharing bay?

1931
01:27:34,120 --> 01:27:36,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gay and I don't sleep in a bout

1932
01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 1: with another many of time. Why in your bad at girl?

1933
01:27:41,000 --> 01:27:43,839
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, struggles for cuddles?

1934
01:27:43,880 --> 01:27:44,040
Speaker 7: Man?

1935
01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:44,559
Speaker 16: You know what I mean?

1936
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Speaker 1: It is physical. In fact, I would argue that's more

1937
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Speaker 1: intimate than other things that you could do in bed.

1938
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Speaker 16: I meant live teddy bear, you know. I mean, I've

1939
01:27:58,040 --> 01:27:58,759
Speaker 16: heard this before.

1940
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Speaker 7: They well, you can't have sex without the eggs.

1941
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Speaker 1: But huh, it's it's it's the level of intimacy though.

1942
01:28:07,800 --> 01:28:11,080
Speaker 1: It's it's the lack of boundaries. Like if I'm a

1943
01:28:11,160 --> 01:28:13,720
Speaker 1: guy trying to date you, and I can see from

1944
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Speaker 1: a mile away that there's this other guy who's very

1945
01:28:16,960 --> 01:28:20,240
Speaker 1: much fulfilling a lot of that role, then I might

1946
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Speaker 1: ask the same questions like well what am I here for?

1947
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Speaker 16: But again, like if it was a female, even if

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Speaker 16: we dated, if it was a female and we were

1949
01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:29,960
Speaker 16: laying in bed together and going out and playing vollemea,

1950
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Speaker 16: doing all these things together, then nobody would have anything

1951
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Speaker 16: to say about it.

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Speaker 1: I could honestly tell you that the differentiating factor is

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Speaker 1: the fact that you were romantic. And I know that

1954
01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:41,600
Speaker 1: you'd think I'm bsing you as a guy, as a

1955
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Speaker 1: straight dude. But if I dated a woman or met

1956
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Speaker 1: a woman and found out that she was she spent

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Speaker 1: that much time and had that much level of intimacy

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Speaker 1: and that level of closeness with a woman who she

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Speaker 1: used to date, that would concern me too. I don't

1960
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Speaker 1: care if it's a man or a woman. It's more

1961
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Speaker 1: what are you gonna like? Why is this other person?

1962
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Speaker 1: Why there are no boundaries?

1963
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Speaker 16: That's that's an it's my best friend. I mean, if

1964
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Speaker 16: she wants to be my best friend and bought my

1965
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Speaker 16: best friend out of the picture, I just think that

1966
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:11,600
Speaker 16: just sounds jealous and possessive and insecure, and you'd be

1967
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Speaker 16: missing out on a great.

1968
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Speaker 1: Best friends that don't cuddle with you in bed at

1969
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Speaker 1: night once a week, I'm told.

1970
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Speaker 7: I mean, it's literally like sleeping with my dog.

1971
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Speaker 5: I mean, I did not date my dog for eleven years.

1972
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Speaker 3: You know I cuddle with my dog, but did not.

1973
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also a dog. It's not a human being

1974
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Speaker 1: who you went slept with and and and I mean

1975
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Speaker 1: your family.

1976
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Speaker 13: Yeah, once with many.

1977
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:47,360
Speaker 16: Many many years ago, and he's still friends with my

1978
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Speaker 16: family and they love him. And it's like, yeah, I mean,

1979
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Speaker 16: I just I don't get it.

1980
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Speaker 1: And I guess I'm just surprisedly is that you can't

1981
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Speaker 1: see even though you clearly understand this and feel comfortable

1982
01:29:56,840 --> 01:29:58,400
Speaker 1: with it. I guess I'm surprised you can't, you know,

1983
01:29:58,520 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 1: sort of put the shoe on the other foot and say,

1984
01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 1: would you like it if Noah had this woman in

1985
01:30:03,560 --> 01:30:05,320
Speaker 1: bed with him when he was texting you And it's

1986
01:30:05,360 --> 01:30:08,680
Speaker 1: not an intimate, it's not sexual, but but there's a

1987
01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 1: woman who sleeps in bed with him. It's not you.

1988
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Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean, I guess I can see your point,

1989
01:30:13,200 --> 01:30:15,880
Speaker 16: but I feel like, I don't know. I feel I'm

1990
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Speaker 16: a little more open minded in this field. I guess

1991
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Speaker 16: a lot of people have an issue with it.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know.

1993
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Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, So the guys go.

1994
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Speaker 7: About this right too.

1995
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Speaker 16: I don't know if it would ever work out if

1996
01:30:27,920 --> 01:30:29,559
Speaker 16: Matt knew that you didn't approve anyway.

1997
01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 1: So no, so Matt, Matt gets the best friend, gets

1998
01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:35,760
Speaker 1: to make the decision. Then so we ask Matt.

1999
01:30:35,800 --> 01:30:38,040
Speaker 16: Well, he didn't get to make the decision, but he gets.

2000
01:30:37,880 --> 01:30:41,360
Speaker 1: A vote in who you date my best friend? Oh boy,

2001
01:30:41,840 --> 01:30:45,240
Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend gets a vote in who you date next? Well,

2002
01:30:45,280 --> 01:30:46,760
Speaker 1: he's in bed with you. Look. I mean, if it

2003
01:30:46,800 --> 01:30:48,920
Speaker 1: works for you, that's fine, but you got to realize

2004
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 1: it's not going to work for a lot of other Yeah. Okay,

2005
01:30:52,600 --> 01:30:55,560
Speaker 1: Well anyway, look, I'll ask the question, Noah, do you

2006
01:30:55,600 --> 01:30:59,240
Speaker 1: want to try again? Maybe Matt'll come. Maybe you could

2007
01:30:59,240 --> 01:31:01,719
Speaker 1: beat Mad the interview prize, go through the interview process,

2008
01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:07,559
Speaker 1: pull for my body. Oh, be more clear. Wow, that's aggressive.

2009
01:31:07,600 --> 01:31:11,800
Speaker 1: That's okay. So that's a no for Noah. All right, Liz, look,

2010
01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:13,360
Speaker 1: I wish you the best of locked. Sounds like you

2011
01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:15,920
Speaker 1: had a great friendship, and I hope that you can

2012
01:31:15,960 --> 01:31:18,800
Speaker 1: find somebody who's comfortable with all of Okay, Noah, we

2013
01:31:18,920 --> 01:31:25,200
Speaker 1: got we've heard enough from you. Let's let's just hope, lizeny. Yeah,

2014
01:31:25,760 --> 01:31:27,479
Speaker 1: is going to be weird. Now, it's going to be strange.

2015
01:31:27,720 --> 01:31:29,240
Speaker 1: All right, guys, find.

2016
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Speaker 4: Another place to play.

2017
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Speaker 1: It's cool, all right, Thank you both for your ands.

2018
01:31:32,280 --> 01:31:37,960
Speaker 1: I invested luck for both of you. Entertainment report is

2019
01:31:38,040 --> 01:31:39,720
Speaker 1: on the I don't want to argue with you. I'm

2020
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:41,960
Speaker 1: just trying to help you understand why your your point

2021
01:31:42,080 --> 01:31:47,680
Speaker 1: of view is not really accurate because and the best

2022
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:49,800
Speaker 1: part is I told her she was kind of right too.

2023
01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:51,479
Speaker 1: But I mean, you go ahead and hate me. I'm

2024
01:31:51,520 --> 01:31:53,599
Speaker 1: a terrible I'm a terrible human. Go ahead, and Kiki,

2025
01:31:54,240 --> 01:31:56,599
Speaker 1: I'm going to take it human. I'm guaranteed human. I'm

2026
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:58,400
Speaker 1: going to take a two week nap, you guys, because

2027
01:31:58,439 --> 01:32:01,400
Speaker 1: I just I just can't wip this. I just can

2028
01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:03,360
Speaker 1: with stuff like this, you guys, like, I tried the

2029
01:32:03,520 --> 01:32:05,439
Speaker 1: very best I can. But I'm not a liar of

2030
01:32:05,560 --> 01:32:07,639
Speaker 1: a lot of things that aren't good. I'm not a liar.

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Speaker 5: It'll be all right, baby, all right. They get some

2032
01:32:10,400 --> 01:32:11,760
Speaker 5: love we love for the room.

2033
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Speaker 6: There are reports swirling that Megan Fox and Machine Gun

2034
01:32:15,320 --> 01:32:18,360
Speaker 6: Kelly are currently spinning the block and giving their relationship

2035
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:22,280
Speaker 6: another try while co parenting their daughter, Saga Blade, born

2036
01:32:22,360 --> 01:32:25,280
Speaker 6: in March of twenty twenty five. Sources say they've been

2037
01:32:25,320 --> 01:32:28,200
Speaker 6: acting like a couple at times, but without publicly making

2038
01:32:28,240 --> 01:32:31,599
Speaker 6: it official again. Since they're messy split in late twenty

2039
01:32:31,680 --> 01:32:34,800
Speaker 6: twenty four, they've been focusing on family life and putting

2040
01:32:34,840 --> 01:32:38,600
Speaker 6: their child first. Despite past intense romance and engagement, they

2041
01:32:38,720 --> 01:32:42,639
Speaker 6: recently spent Thanksgiving together, showing a much happier collaborative dynamic

2042
01:32:42,920 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 6: with Machine Gun Kelly working on himself and being being

2043
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:47,240
Speaker 6: a supportive father.

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01:32:47,479 --> 01:32:48,760
Speaker 1: So I love that for them.

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Speaker 6: Hopefully it works out for the best. Now, Fred, this

2046
01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:53,040
Speaker 6: is for you, okay, because I know you've been waiting

2047
01:32:53,040 --> 01:32:57,000
Speaker 6: on this. CBS is giving fans more family time by

2048
01:32:57,080 --> 01:33:01,840
Speaker 6: expanding its hit special Everybody Loves Raymond the thirtieth Anniversary

2049
01:33:01,920 --> 01:33:02,880
Speaker 6: Reunion can't get enough.

2050
01:33:03,560 --> 01:33:05,200
Speaker 5: They're doing it with a part two.

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01:33:05,560 --> 01:33:08,439
Speaker 1: I know you've been waiting. Where is Part one? I

2052
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:10,240
Speaker 1: missed that, so I need to see it. I guess

2053
01:33:10,240 --> 01:33:12,519
Speaker 1: I need to watch part one first? What, okay, Jason

2054
01:33:12,600 --> 01:33:15,200
Speaker 1: is here for I love that, love that show. You

2055
01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:18,799
Speaker 1: haven't watched anything, but you've watched it. Everybody Loves Raymond

2056
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 1: this is crazy. Well, Jason, this is for you.

2057
01:33:22,439 --> 01:33:26,280
Speaker 6: They created a part two of the special using additional footage.

2058
01:33:26,479 --> 01:33:28,960
Speaker 6: It's set to air Monday at eight pm Eastern and

2059
01:33:29,040 --> 01:33:32,080
Speaker 6: the follow up comes after that. Everybody Loves Raymond thirtieth

2060
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:35,960
Speaker 6: Anniversary Reunion. It pulled in more than ten million viewers

2061
01:33:36,240 --> 01:33:39,960
Speaker 6: except for it across the broadcast, extremely proving that the

2062
01:33:40,040 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 6: sitcom staying power. Decades later, Ray Ramino and Phil Rosenthal

2063
01:33:44,160 --> 01:33:46,960
Speaker 6: returned to host a new hour which revisits the rebuilt

2064
01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:50,960
Speaker 6: set of Everybody Loves Raymond and features on air clips, outtakes,

2065
01:33:51,040 --> 01:33:54,160
Speaker 6: and interviews reflecting on the show's legacy. So the Bonus

2066
01:33:54,160 --> 01:33:57,760
Speaker 6: special will air on CBS and stream for some subscribers

2067
01:33:57,840 --> 01:33:58,800
Speaker 6: on Paramount Plus.

2068
01:33:58,920 --> 01:33:59,559
Speaker 1: I'm going to be there.

2069
01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 5: You will be locked in.

2070
01:34:00,640 --> 01:34:03,120
Speaker 1: Loved that for you. I'm just not a sitcom guy. Really.

2071
01:34:03,160 --> 01:34:05,120
Speaker 1: I think it's when it comes out. I respect Ray

2072
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:07,760
Speaker 1: Romano and that was a funny show and whatever. I

2073
01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:09,040
Speaker 1: just I'm not a sitcom guy.

2074
01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:10,759
Speaker 5: Okay, Well more reality.

2075
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:16,679
Speaker 1: I'm too busy watching Dayline, Death television wives.

2076
01:34:16,760 --> 01:34:16,960
Speaker 7: Yeah.

2077
01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:20,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Secret, because there's the Secret, lives not live.

2078
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:21,639
Speaker 1: That's recorded, by the way.

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01:34:22,000 --> 01:34:26,240
Speaker 6: Well, lastly, Nick Jonas surprise fans with the ritual he

2080
01:34:26,400 --> 01:34:30,200
Speaker 6: does before every concert. He revealed in an Instagram post

2081
01:34:30,280 --> 01:34:33,439
Speaker 6: that he uses the Bollywood song avonn Javon from the

2082
01:34:33,560 --> 01:34:36,639
Speaker 6: movie War two as his pre show warm up song.

2083
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:38,720
Speaker 5: So I need to know around the room, what's your

2084
01:34:38,760 --> 01:34:39,800
Speaker 5: pre show warm up song?

2085
01:34:41,360 --> 01:34:43,760
Speaker 6: I would have to go with Miley flowers for me.

2086
01:34:44,080 --> 01:34:47,759
Speaker 6: Maybe Beyonce upgrade since you been gone. Oh yes, Jason,

2087
01:34:48,240 --> 01:34:51,920
Speaker 6: that's a very good question. Juvenile saw motion.

2088
01:34:52,120 --> 01:34:55,599
Speaker 5: Come on, that's a good choice.

2089
01:34:56,920 --> 01:34:58,920
Speaker 3: Is a good one.

2090
01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:03,800
Speaker 5: You don't knock if you bucket like anthem.

2091
01:35:03,800 --> 01:35:04,160
Speaker 3: It's my ever.

2092
01:35:04,320 --> 01:35:07,719
Speaker 5: We hear that every morning and she walks in. Okay,

2093
01:35:07,840 --> 01:35:08,639
Speaker 5: here she comes again.

2094
01:35:09,520 --> 01:35:09,720
Speaker 11: Well.

2095
01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:12,600
Speaker 6: Nick is on tour to celebrate the twentieth anniversary of

2096
01:35:12,600 --> 01:35:15,000
Speaker 6: the Jonas Brothers, touring with his brothers Kevin and Joe,

2097
01:35:15,320 --> 01:35:17,960
Speaker 6: and Nick's new solo single, Gut Punch, will drop on

2098
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:20,719
Speaker 6: New Year's Day. So to catch up on everything Give Minutes,

2099
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:23,599
Speaker 6: including Fred's latest rants, you can follow us on office

2100
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:28,679
Speaker 6: social TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram at Fred's show Radio Management.

2101
01:35:28,720 --> 01:35:30,360
Speaker 1: It's so mad at me when I go on these rants.

2102
01:35:30,400 --> 01:35:32,840
Speaker 1: I just I sometimes I just got to keep it.

2103
01:35:32,880 --> 01:35:34,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I try and keep it real all the time,

2104
01:35:34,439 --> 01:35:36,360
Speaker 1: but sometimes I just got I just have to. I

2105
01:35:36,479 --> 01:35:39,360
Speaker 1: need people to understand. Maybe you don't, but for me,

2106
01:35:39,600 --> 01:35:41,639
Speaker 1: I need you to understand some of what we deal

2107
01:35:41,720 --> 01:35:43,760
Speaker 1: with here. It's like you guys were on your team.

2108
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:48,559
Speaker 1: We do this for you, like this is my purpose

2109
01:35:48,640 --> 01:35:51,280
Speaker 1: in life is to try and make you happy Hello,

2110
01:35:51,400 --> 01:35:55,960
Speaker 1: So why are you mad? Simply I just want you

2111
01:35:56,120 --> 01:35:56,759
Speaker 1: to be happy.

2112
01:35:57,080 --> 01:35:57,439
Speaker 5: We're here.

2113
01:35:57,600 --> 01:36:05,240
Speaker 1: Don't be mad, it's way mad. But the gas lighting

2114
01:36:05,280 --> 01:36:08,719
Speaker 1: on this text line is incredible. You know you're not. Okay,

2115
01:36:08,720 --> 01:36:11,519
Speaker 1: I'm not you're talking about me, but you're right. You

2116
01:36:11,640 --> 01:36:15,320
Speaker 1: know more, I guess more. Fread show next right here?

2117
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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on Fread's Fun Fact Fred fun

2118
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Speaker 1: so much this? Okay? Did you know that in Japan

2119
01:36:35,360 --> 01:36:40,599
Speaker 1: a major Christmas apparently, a major Christmas tradition is eating KFC?

2120
01:36:41,240 --> 01:36:42,320
Speaker 4: What so?

2121
01:36:42,479 --> 01:36:45,639
Speaker 1: It started from a nineteen seventies advertising campaign called Kentucky

2122
01:36:45,760 --> 01:36:51,479
Speaker 1: for Christmas. Apparently Now KFC is so popular on Christmas

2123
01:36:51,600 --> 01:36:54,000
Speaker 1: Day in Japan that you have to reserve a bucket

2124
01:36:54,120 --> 01:36:55,120
Speaker 1: weeks in advance.

2125
01:36:55,600 --> 01:36:58,839
Speaker 6: That makes sense because I always see KFC in random

2126
01:36:58,920 --> 01:37:02,280
Speaker 6: locations around the world, Like I don't see other restaurants there,

2127
01:37:02,320 --> 01:37:03,320
Speaker 6: but I always see a KFC.

2128
01:37:03,360 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 1: There's always a McDonald's, it seems, Yeah, the KFC.

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01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:10,280
Speaker 6: It's always like I was in the Where's Rihanna from? Yeah,

2130
01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:12,080
Speaker 6: and the only restaurant they had was.

2131
01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:12,719
Speaker 5: Like a KFC.

2132
01:37:13,720 --> 01:37:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. When I went to the Bahamas for for for Thanksgiving,

2133
01:37:17,680 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 1: my parents were there and uh and landlow popp pup

2134
01:37:20,120 --> 01:37:22,120
Speaker 1: plane in the Bahamas and a guy landed in front

2135
01:37:22,160 --> 01:37:23,320
Speaker 1: of me and he gets out of a plane. He

2136
01:37:23,439 --> 01:37:25,400
Speaker 1: was like a regular on this place. And he gets

2137
01:37:25,400 --> 01:37:26,760
Speaker 1: out and he hands the guys that work at the

2138
01:37:26,760 --> 01:37:30,120
Speaker 1: airport like two huge buckets of KFC and they treated

2139
01:37:30,200 --> 01:37:32,000
Speaker 1: him like gold. I looked at him and I was like,

2140
01:37:32,200 --> 01:37:33,320
Speaker 1: I don't know you, but that would have been a

2141
01:37:33,400 --> 01:37:35,120
Speaker 1: nice thing for me to know the way I had

2142
01:37:35,200 --> 01:37:37,519
Speaker 1: a time that in Duncan. People around the world are

2143
01:37:37,760 --> 01:37:39,760
Speaker 1: when I went to Cuba, people were getting on the

2144
01:37:39,800 --> 01:37:41,920
Speaker 1: plane Cubans going back to Cuba. We're getting on the

2145
01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:44,040
Speaker 1: plane with just stacks of Dunkin donuts.

2146
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Speaker 5: Really, yeah, It's like a delicacy every morning, Like I

2147
01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 5: have to have it so I get it.

2148
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Speaker 1: They are good. Yeah, I mean I am. Every morning

2149
01:37:51,320 --> 01:37:53,599
Speaker 1: I walk in with a donut and a chicken leg. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm just just gnawing away and people are like why.

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Speaker 11: Yeah they talk better than the Excited. These are the

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Speaker 11: radio blogs on the Fread Show. It's like we're running

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Speaker 11: in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call

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Speaker 11: them blogs. I'm gonna do one. I don't do blogs

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Speaker 11: that often anymore.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. I just you guys have you

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Speaker 1: guys have better stuff, so pressing issues, So I let

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Speaker 1: you guys do it. The stars of the show Love

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Speaker 1: but Deer blog.

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Speaker 11: I have.

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Speaker 1: I have a new It's really not new. It's just

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Speaker 1: an anxiety that I think has been heightened lately. Jason,

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Speaker 1: you and I have been traveling a lot lately, all

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Speaker 1: over the all over the land. Yeah, the Continental Unity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah exactly. And I have a new thing.

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Speaker 1: It's and maybe it's been there for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I'm just realizing it because I've I've been on you know,

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Speaker 1: commercial airplanes now, like for I don't know, five times,

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Speaker 1: six times in the last ten days. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: know what's in my bag, like harry on bag, right,

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Speaker 1: I know what's in it. Nothing is in it that

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be there. But I have this fear now. I

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Speaker 1: start to like actually sweat in my under arms when

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Speaker 1: I put the bag on the conveyor in TSA and

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Speaker 1: I stand there waiting for them to like pull me

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Speaker 1: aside and arrest me, like I'm convinced that I forgot

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Speaker 1: that I had an uzi right, Like I'm a seti, right,

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Speaker 1: I forgot about my uzi in the bag. And then

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Speaker 1: they're gonna like they're gonna be like sir, and then

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Speaker 1: they're gonna pull me aside and be like what is

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Speaker 1: this What is this sword doing in here? And I'll

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Speaker 1: be like, I forgot. I don't know why I was

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Speaker 1: storing it there. I don't know why I was storing

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Speaker 1: my sword there, and I forgot to take it out,

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Speaker 1: and they're like, You're going to jail forever. Although it's

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Speaker 1: just new fear I have every time, and I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where I mean because usually have fly

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Speaker 1: little putt pup plane that I fly, so whatever, I

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Speaker 1: can bring my sword if I want to, no one's

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Speaker 1: gonna stop me. Or I check a bag and then whatever.

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Speaker 1: But really it's like did I leave a razor in

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Speaker 1: the thing? And I'm gonna be very embarrassed. But then

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Speaker 1: I start to think in my head, like what if

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Speaker 1: I did put a sword in there? And I just

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Speaker 1: forgot I out of body put a sword in my bag,

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Speaker 1: And then I'm gonna get yelled at and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be embarrassed, and then they're gonna like make so I

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Speaker 1: I might take away my global entry and I can't

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Speaker 1: fly anymore ever again. And I go through this whole

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Speaker 1: scenario every time, or even walking through the metal detector,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, did I forget about something?

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Speaker 11: You know?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 8: Real?

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Speaker 5: That is such a real thing.

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Speaker 6: And for me it's always disappointing because the only thing

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Speaker 6: they ever find is a water bottle. For some reason,

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Speaker 6: I never think about the water bottle that I'm taking through.

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Speaker 5: But they act to get a weapon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, ma'am sir, like I just forgot my water,

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Speaker 3: that's it, Like I didn't throw it away, But they

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Speaker 3: get very upset about the water.

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Speaker 5: I think, imagine when they find your UZI.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna be very upset. Well, you're the one that

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Speaker 1: mentioned uzzy. So I think I think I told the

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Speaker 1: story before. But I went to Salt Lake City this

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Speaker 1: year and uh, and I was like going through a

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Speaker 1: security and we were there for a while, so I

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Speaker 1: had a big bag. I checked it and I got

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Speaker 1: my backpack. My backpack is so heavy, like why is

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Speaker 1: it back? And I didn't even whatever. So I go

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Speaker 1: through the security and then of course they go bomb

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Speaker 1: I think gets pulled out. You know, they pull the

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Speaker 1: bag out like circause is your bag? I'm like yes,

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Speaker 1: two of them, two people like can we speak to

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Speaker 1: you for a minute. I'm like okay. And the guy

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Speaker 1: looks at me like because he saw on the screen

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Speaker 1: what it was, and he looks at me like really,

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Speaker 1: and he pulls out the world's largest smart you know,

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Speaker 1: the smart what is it? Smart water? Like you're like

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Speaker 1: eight feet tall bottles, they're like seven feet tall these.

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Speaker 1: He pulls it out of my backpack and like it's

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Speaker 1: like they weigh like five pounds. And he looks at

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Speaker 1: me like really, like you didn't know this was in

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Speaker 1: there and I'm like, oh, dude, I'm so sorry. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I honestly didn't know, but I was like slept in

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Speaker 1: my bag. I had a gallon of water in the

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Speaker 1: bag and I forgot and then I was like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It's unopen, Like it's like I think I

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Speaker 1: paid seventeen dollars for this at the hotel. Do you

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Speaker 1: want it? He's like, we have to throw all this

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Speaker 1: stuff away. But I mean, this is my new fear now,

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Speaker 1: it's real.

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Speaker 5: I feel you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna wind up in breakers. They're gonna lock me

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Speaker 1: up forever, and I'll never be able to fly off

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Speaker 1: the walk everywhere.

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Speaker 5: Weapons at home.

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Speaker 1: We'll make sure I leave it loosy at home for

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Speaker 1: how long