WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Plant Me A Kiss 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:02.520 It's a special type of Thursday. Hey, it's Burg and 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:04.800 Jeffrey in the morning on your Second Date Update podcast, 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:07.040 and we've got an update update, which is always so 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:10.520 fun because it's when one of our couples contacts us 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:13.039 with something that's happened since they've been on the show, 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:14.120 which we love. 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:15.200 I know, we do love it. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:17.439 So the way these work is we do play the 0:00:17.480 --> 0:00:20.160 original call so that we're all on the same page 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.320 when we talk to the couple, and so you will 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.800 have to sit through like two commercials okay to get 0:00:26.840 --> 0:00:28.800 to the update update. I know that that can be 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:32.720 very upsetting. I understand, don't you know it'll be worth it. Yeah, 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:36.440 we'll just skip them. But before we start anything, we 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.040 love to highlight some of our comments here. What do 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:39.839 you got, Alexis? 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:43.560 Yes, I saw one from Rafaela from Munich who said, 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:46.800 I binge listen. I binge listened to this entire playlist 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:51.440 in four months while working, commuting, doing dishes, laundry and more. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:53.720 You make boring tasks feel way more entertaining. 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.680 I think it's so cool. People listen all over the world. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.120 Ye, I think my stream is split in half, right, No, 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.240 European people and Americans. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:06.600 It is crazy, all these people speaking multiple languages and 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:14.640 US idiots over here, all you know, though, which are 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:15.360 straight to your heart. 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.400 Alright, let's get started. 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:18.720 Here's your update update. 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:20.319 Yeah. 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.240 Over the years, we've seen couples who've bonded over both 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:28.160 being dog parents, or maybe they're both lizard lovers. Given 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:30.959 a few people who bonded because they are both owners 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.240 of human babies. 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:34.360 I love those babies. 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:37.400 I'm pretty sure that's the casual way to say. 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.280 All. I kind of like it. 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:42.200 But this might be the first time that we've ever 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:45.639 had two people connect over a different kind of living 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:52.680 creature to plant parents. Honestly, never expected this to turn 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:55.120 into one of the sweetest second date calls we did 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:58.360 all year, and what's better, we got an update on 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:02.280 their unique situation. It's coming up in your second date 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:08.679 up date update right after this second date updated. We 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:13.520 are in the month of Love right now, and because 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:17.359 of that, today we're gonna do this entire second date 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:24.600 update in the language of love. French Jose, take it away, 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:24.960 a welcome. 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:30.200 I'll second Date up date a known as English update 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:33.799 second Date. I do know how a French accent could 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:35.480 be unsexy you made it happen. 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:40.119 We're trying not to scare all of the women off 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:42.200 from listening to the show, just a couple of the 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.760 unwanted ones. Sorry, you know what, maybe we just stick 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:49.000 to American style English for this when we talk to 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:52.360 our listener Cassie today, Cassie, I'm sorry, Are you okay 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:53.320 if we do this in English? 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:56.480 I love the French? But you know what, it's okay. 0:02:57.160 --> 0:03:01.639 You're gonna already she's starting out of the gate line. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.600 Just for the record, if you have any other language 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:05.560 requests or like, do you want me to do, just 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:08.000 holler at me seriously, start keep talking like that. You're 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.360 not going to be single for long. So tell us 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.240 about this guy that you went out with recently. 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:12.839 What's his name? 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:17.720 Yeah, his name is Derek. How'd you guys meet online? 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.760 And their first day? We went to a super upscale 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.519 mall here in this area. We've got like a I 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.240 would say stancy mall is because like it's spread out. 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.720 I don't have to tell us about upscale malls. Yeah, 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:32.520 we got there. Explain nowadays it's like being on Amazon. 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:35.280 But I are Yeah, the stores. 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:39.000 That's okay, And that sounds like it could be nice one. 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.320 Yeah, it could be fun, something something to do, things 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:42.000 to look at and. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:45.760 Talk about, like shop, you can drink, you can eat. Yeah. 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.240 So what was it like when you very first met Derek? 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:50.400 So honestly, I felt like we hit it off, like 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:54.120 right off the bat. There was comistry there. We walked 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:56.720 around just like looking at stuff, and we ended up 0:03:56.760 --> 0:04:00.200 going to like a nursery, not like the baby the 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.400 kind of plant plant nursery. 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:04.760 It was like, Okay, sounds like a perfect date to me. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:05.360 But they don't. 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:08.720 They don't have stores where they sell babies Jose at the. 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:11.240 Mall, even a baby watching day. 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:14.160 I know, we just got a brilliant business ideas long 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:17.359 sponsored by Brook and Jeffrey in the morning window. 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:19.279 You better work on your return policy. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:19.560 I'm going. 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:22.760 You know, we've got the discount ban over here in 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:23.720 store for too long. 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:25.920 We have the whole businessman ready but sorry. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:29.160 Okay, I mean cute plant shops are so fun right now. 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:31.960 He was a little bit more into it than me, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:35.560 but I was really feeling it. Yeah, because traditionally, like 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.560 I haven't really been a plant person, but I had it. 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:39.400 I had a lot of fun. 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:40.240 So sweet. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.280 So he was knowledgeable he obviously has plans. 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:45.160 Yeah, and he was like, you know what I think 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.400 we should do. I think we should pick out a 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:48.280 plant for each other. 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:52.599 Oh and it's kind of forward thinking, like it's like 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:55.000 he wants to see if you could keep it alive, 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:56.200 you know what I mean? Yeah. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.120 I think it's like when you have some like picking 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:00.400 up it for you, because it's like, Okay, what do 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:02.159 you really think of me? Let's see what you pick 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.919 out based off what you think my personality is that. 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:09.800 Someone plant a tree that's more of a commitment than y. Yeah, okay, 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:11.400 that's an interesting idea. 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:13.520 I like it. What did you pick out for him? 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:15.960 So the one I picked was super cute. It was 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:24.000 like very whimsical. It was called a figetty fig. 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:25.240 Better than a venus fly trap or something, you know. 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.920 Right, Okay, So that's like literally what I'm getting to, 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:32.680 because what he picked for me was a freaking snake plant. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:36.479 Snake flip snake, but average little, long time though hard 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:36.800 to kill. 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.080 They are very hard to kill. They're sturdy. They're a 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.840 good first plant for people who don't have the first plant. 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:45.320 Okay, So he obviously doesn't trust that you're able to 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:47.160 maintain it, which is why he bought you a super 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:47.880 easy plant. 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.680 I didn't really think about it that way, honestly, I 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.200 was like, should I be offended. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:54.279 Because of the snake title? Is that why? 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:54.880 Yes? 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:57.080 I was just like surprised, you know what I mean, 0:05:57.080 --> 0:06:00.000 because like the one I picked for him was slurty cute. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:01.919 Or so, how did you tell him that you didn't 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.400 like the plant that he bought. 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:05.400 I kind of just made a joke of it because 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:08.120 it's like he's still buying me something, right, So I'm 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:09.960 not going to be a jerk about it. 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:11.919 You could be a jerk. 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:15.119 I'm just saying that's always on the table to slap 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:16.919 the plant down out of his hands and be like 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:17.440 try again. 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:20.159 Well I don't think she'd be calling us and asking 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:22.840 why he's obvious. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.159 Well, it was like so fun because we acted that 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:26.640 we went out for drinks because there was like a 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:29.040 bar inside the mall, but we brought our plants with 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:33.000 and the whole time I felt super comfortable and like 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:37.560 it even ended with a kiss. So yeah, all right. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:40.280 This all sounds good, Like I mean, I could totally 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:43.200 understand why you're so confused why he's not calling back. 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:47.240 Yeah, me too, especially since we even named our plants. 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:50.640 Oh they're real plant baby after each. 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.039 Other, Like would you name so? 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:59.080 His plant was Gertrude, Yes, okay, and my plane was 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:01.960 leap Eric said leave Erickson. 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.920 Like the explorer, Yeah, okay, all right? 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:09.360 Have you texted as Leif ericson? I mean, that's the obvious, 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:11.840 like Leif misses you. 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:15.080 They considered it now all I think it was the 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:17.600 love forern from the rom com. You know, it's like 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:18.360 you killed. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:21.040 Our love for your plant is still alive, right? 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:21.640 Oh? 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.800 Yeah, you know what's funny is I I did find 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.320 out I do have a bit of a green thumb. 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:28.640 Oh the plan to keep alive. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:31.840 But yeah, I'm actually a little bit more concerned about 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:34.760 getting your guys's plants back together because I feel like 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.840 maybe they had the real love connection. 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:38.920 You don't want a separated plant family. 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:42.320 We're gonna call plant daddy Derek and see why he 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.640 isn't arranging another date with you when we do your 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:45.600 second date update. 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:49.840 Right after this second date update, you're in the middle. 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:51.600 Of a second date update update, and we're gonna find 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.960 out how the couple is doing right after you. Here 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:56.880 Part two, Cassy. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:08:00.120 And Derek have been on one date and already have 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:01.280 two kids together. 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:04.520 Babies babies. 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:09.320 Plant children that they picked out for each other at 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:13.440 a nursery during their date. They even named their plants 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:15.760 Gertrude and Leif Ericsson. 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:20.000 It's solid, solid day. 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:24.440 Brought their plants to the restaurant together, put them in 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:26.160 high chairs with little. 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.720 Bibs on, they fed them. I mean, you can assume, 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.960 you can assume that they're good parents like that, and. 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.600 I'm pretty sure they ordered round the chicken tenders. 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:39.760 Yes, I mean, pretty normal first date as far as 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:40.320 we've heard. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:44.000 It's actually an adorable first date, and they bought plants together. 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:46.960 The crazy thing is most of the plant enthusiasm was 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:50.600 actually led by Derek, which I didn't expect. So it 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:53.720 is weird that he is not initiating another meet up. 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.160 The thing is, we never asked Cassie how many days 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:57.920 has it been since. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:08:58.600 That all happened. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:02.280 So I haven't seen five days. 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:05.280 That's four decades in plant years, so we can only 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:06.480 imagine how your children. 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:08.480 I don't know, but. 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:10.480 Pretty quick. 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:12.080 So have you heard from him at all? 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:16.239 Yeah? So there's been texting, but there's been no initiation 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:17.040 of a second day. 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:20.559 Okay, Yeah, well, let's call this deadbeat plant dad and figure. 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:21.280 Out what. 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.920 He's taking care of. Gtrude, Okay, I. 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:26.920 Mean, at least we hope. So. 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:30.280 I don't like that he's not talking you, Cassie, so 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:31.760 let's call him. We'll see if he picks up. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:44.400 Okay, Hello, Hey is this Derek? 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:47.280 Yeah, Derek. 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:49.599 Sorry to barge into your day here, but you're on 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.520 the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:52.480 Good morning. 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:57.040 That's weird, you said, Sorry, your phone's a little hard 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:57.679 to hear, Derek. 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.680 Yeah, he was just a little weird. I don't usually 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:02.200 get radio stations calling me in the morning. 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:04.079 I don't think most people do. 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:08.679 So you're in the general population with that one. 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:11.960 That's fine, Derek. 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:13.840 I think we're calling you for a great reason though. 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:15.560 Yeah, it's a second we do you call it second 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:16.160 date update. 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:20.559 I don't like that you sound like one of our 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:21.800 commentors from the podcast. 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:23.960 Yeah, do you even know anything about it? 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:27.720 I mean, I figure as you're calling me till somebody 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:28.559 wants to reach out. 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:32.880 Okay, smart guy there. So yeah, you're right. 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:34.960 There is a girl that listens to our show who 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:36.319 said she went out with you recently. 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:37.000 Named Cassie. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.719 Just so you know, she does know that you guys 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:40.640 have been texting a little bit. It just feels like 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:42.680 you're maybe not interested or something. 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:46.640 I mean, I'm I'm kind of interested, but at the moment, 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:47.760 I'm not kind of. 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:50.520 Interested, kind of but not kind of. 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:55.319 Okay, you were pretty clear, So. 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.640 No, wonder she's so I don't know why she'd be. 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.240 Well, I hope you don't mind if we dive a 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.400 little bit deeper into that and ask you why. 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:03.600 I just need some more time. 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:09.200 What's going on? 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:10.520 Are you in a relationship? 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:15.120 No, I'm single, I'm single, you're single. Okay, I just 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:15.960 made a big mistake. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:21.600 Mistake what no girlfriend? But you made a mistake. But 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:23.560 you like her, but you also don't like her yet? 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.160 But a mistake with who? Because she really likes you? 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:28.920 Okay, I'll just tell you, but you can't tell her. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.320 We won't say we none of us here will say 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:33.000 anything to her. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:36.040 Yes, so I don't know if she told you. But 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:38.240 we bought each other plants on our date. 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:42.200 Yeah, it seemed kind of like cute and movie ish. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:44.520 Yeah, we even knew Gertrude and Leif Erickson. 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:47.440 Okay, right right, Yeah, we named them. 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:50.960 Okay, but when we weren'taving them all, I didn't realize. 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:54.440 I left Gertrude the roof of my car, so I 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:58.800 drove away. Yeah, I heard her bump. I didn't know 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.720 what it was, so I backed up and I ran over. 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:04.880 Your own plants. 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:11.480 So dramatic, baby, you killed Trude? 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:17.680 Hello, yeah, dere she was supposed to wait. But that 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:20.120 that's Cassie. I wanted to talk to you on the 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:24.240 other line. Okay, rest in peace, Gertrude. 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.960 Oh God, Cassy, I really didn't know you were on 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:28.400 the phone. I didn't know you heard any of that. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.040 I cannot believe because I can't believe this. 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:34.440 She's got it. 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:37.400 Did you try and least bring her back to life? 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.240 What did you do with Gertrude afterwards? Yeah, we're in 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:41.880 her body. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:42.640 I mean, my. 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:49.520 God, plants just as much as everybody else. 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:53.880 But you guys directly like it's a human being. 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.000 But listen, listen. Why would you not be calling her 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.040 back just because the plant fell off the car? 0:12:59.640 --> 0:12:59.840 Yeah? 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.920 So I went back the next day to see if 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:05.160 they had the same plant, and they didn't. 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:07.080 Even went back. 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:09.960 Yeah, you're going to pass off the new planet as 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:12.640 Gertrude and try and trick Cassie to thinking it was 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:13.200 the same one. 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:15.760 Just tell her the truth. Cassie would think it's a 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:16.600 cute story. 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:17.080 I don't know. 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:18.120 She sounds pretty upset. 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:22.560 I don't even know what to say. I mean, Gertrude. Man, 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:26.920 there's only one Girtrude, I know, the only one. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:28.520 Yeah, yeah, I mean Cassie. 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.960 You're being like funny right now, right, you're not being 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.199 serious kind of my guys. 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.920 It's really troubling, though, is it? 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:37.400 Well? 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:39.800 Because he ran it back over a guys, Oh, come 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:42.080 up and then disposed of the body. 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:44.760 It's not like it says anything about who he is. 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:45.680 You're a good person. 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:50.200 I thought she meant something to you. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:52.000 Grows back. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:55.040 Obviously did mean something to you, Cassie. That's why he 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:56.840 went back to the store the next day. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:57.640 That's a good boy. 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:01.720 I'm a good guy. Murder plants all the time. I 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:04.800 buy them. I try and keep them alive. 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:06.280 He tries to keep. 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:10.880 I mean, Cassie, I've never run over one before. 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:12.560 This was the first. 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:15.880 Jimmy Tech. If you ever driven on grass, you've ever 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:17.480 driven I mean yeah, we. 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:20.000 Mean that he hasn't been driven over his own plant 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:24.480 child like your husband does work? Okay, I mean, Cassie, 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:26.480 can you see what he's saying? Like only a. 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:28.800 Good guy would go through all of that effort to 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:32.440 hide the evidence of destroying your plant baby together and 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.600 try and cover it up with a different plant and 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:36.440 then ghost you until the new plant comes in. 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:39.240 H Wait, so the new plant is coming. 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:41.720 So yes, it took five days to get here. It's 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:43.520 coming tomorrow. That's what I've been waiting for. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:47.560 Okay, So you were gonna one more day, you were 0:14:47.600 --> 0:14:48.880 going to just ask her out? 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:51.800 Then? Yeah, I was waiting for tomorrow making sure the 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.040 plane got here. So in case she came over and 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.680 saw that there was no plant, I wouldn't get in trouble. 0:14:58.000 --> 0:14:59.760 Cass is a lot for you to process. What do 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:00.640 you think right now? 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.840 I mean, I am, I'm honestly heartbroken. I'm surprised at 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:07.440 how heartbroken I am over true, but I can understand 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:08.120 the sentiment. 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:10.760 I think he is so cute and he's going to 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:13.240 all this effort just to make sure that you feel 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:15.720 good and feel happy. Cassie. That should be a huge 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:16.440 plus for you. 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:19.240 It's not like I got you. We've been texting back 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:19.640 and forth. 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.200 True, he's been talking, just not committing well. 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:26.600 So instead of asking him first, I'm gonna ask Cassie, 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:30.440 would you like to see Derek again despite what you've 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:31.800 heard here on the show today. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:35.760 Honestly I would. I think I'd give it another try. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:38.760 Wow, And you'll have to. 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:41.000 Come up with a new name for that plant if 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:43.720 Derek says yes to the second date, because we will 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:44.360 pay for it. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:46.000 Derek, it's up to you the. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.800 Date Gertrude too. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:55.160 This is your opportunity to get any reminder of Gertrude. 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:58.400 We have to call her something out o the plant. 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.680 Murderer's Daughter is a good place used to start. 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:05.440 That sounds like a novel I read Yeah, three. 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:08.200 Part series coming soon to Amazon. Get your orders in now. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:09.240 By the way. 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:11.120 By the way, how's Lee Perrickson doing? 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:15.200 Oh oh, he's thriving. He is thriving, sving. 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:16.240 Driving. 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:20.040 Grown up so fast, you guys, Plans and cars do 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:20.520 not mix. 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:27.840 That's the murder mystery. Leaf killed Gertrude the insurance money 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:28.360 for himself. 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:32.200 No, I'm not going to read it Broaking Jeffrey in 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:33.040 the morning. 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:35.640 It's only been a couple months since that aired, but 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:38.880 already we're getting an update from it looks like just 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:40.440 Derek is on the phone right now. 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:42.680 And before we get into it, Derek. 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.480 I just have to tell you that was probably one 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:47.600 of the more memorable calls that we've had all years 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:48.160 on the show. 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:51.560 So cute, Jeffy, you were adorable, Derek. 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:53.640 Yeah, it was really good for us too. A lot 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:54.880 of our friends ended up hearing it. 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:58.520 Oh did you get lots of feedback? 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:02.600 Yeah, they really loved it. So we actually thought it'd 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:04.720 be a good idea and start bringing our plants with 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:05.880 us when we went out to the bar. 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:11.240 You became the plant parent couple at the bar. 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:13.320 Oh yeah. 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.720 People were coming off to us and asking about us, 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:17.320 and we'd tell them we were on the show and 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:22.120 they'd be they'd go crazy, they'd got I heard that 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.120 we were. We were like celebrities for a minute. 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:26.640 Oh my celebrities. 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:29.399 That sounds awesome. So wait, how come it's only you 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:30.480 on the phone today? 0:17:30.840 --> 0:17:33.160 Well, okay, the problem was that got a little old 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:36.040 and we stopped taking them, and then it just seemed 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.840 like with out the plants, it just wasn't the same. 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.919 Wait, so you guys broke up because you realized the 0:17:42.920 --> 0:17:44.960 only connection you had was your plant babies. 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.760 Yeah, it took a couple of weeks, but yeah, oh 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:51.119 the chemistry wasn't there between me and Cassie anymore. 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.240 Oh no, what happened with the plants? You have joined 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:55.080 custody or. 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:57.000 No? 0:17:57.080 --> 0:17:59.359