1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: It's a special type of Thursday. Hey, it's Burg and 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning on your Second Date Update podcast, 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: and we've got an update update, which is always so 4 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: fun because it's when one of our couples contacts us 5 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: with something that's happened since they've been on the show, 6 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: which we love. 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 2: I know, we do love it. 8 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: So the way these work is we do play the 9 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: original call so that we're all on the same page 10 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: when we talk to the couple, and so you will 11 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: have to sit through like two commercials okay to get 12 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: to the update update. I know that that can be 13 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: very upsetting. I understand, don't you know it'll be worth it. Yeah, 14 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: we'll just skip them. But before we start anything, we 15 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: love to highlight some of our comments here. What do 16 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: you got, Alexis? 17 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 3: Yes, I saw one from Rafaela from Munich who said, 18 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 3: I binge listen. I binge listened to this entire playlist 19 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: in four months while working, commuting, doing dishes, laundry and more. 20 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 3: You make boring tasks feel way more entertaining. 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: I think it's so cool. People listen all over the world. 22 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 4: Ye, I think my stream is split in half, right, No, 23 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 4: European people and Americans. 24 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: It is crazy, all these people speaking multiple languages and 25 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: US idiots over here, all you know, though, which are 26 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: straight to your heart. 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 2: Alright, let's get started. 28 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: Here's your update update. 29 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. 30 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 4: Over the years, we've seen couples who've bonded over both 31 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 4: being dog parents, or maybe they're both lizard lovers. Given 32 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 4: a few people who bonded because they are both owners 33 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 4: of human babies. 34 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: I love those babies. 35 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that's the casual way to say. 36 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: All. I kind of like it. 37 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 4: But this might be the first time that we've ever 38 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,639 Speaker 4: had two people connect over a different kind of living 39 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 4: creature to plant parents. Honestly, never expected this to turn 40 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 4: into one of the sweetest second date calls we did 41 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 4: all year, and what's better, we got an update on 42 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 4: their unique situation. It's coming up in your second date 43 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 4: up date update right after this second date updated. We 44 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 4: are in the month of Love right now, and because 45 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 4: of that, today we're gonna do this entire second date 46 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 4: update in the language of love. French Jose, take it away, 47 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 4: a welcome. 48 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: I'll second Date up date a known as English update 49 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: second Date. I do know how a French accent could 50 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: be unsexy you made it happen. 51 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 4: We're trying not to scare all of the women off 52 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 4: from listening to the show, just a couple of the 53 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 4: unwanted ones. Sorry, you know what, maybe we just stick 54 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 4: to American style English for this when we talk to 55 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 4: our listener Cassie today, Cassie, I'm sorry, Are you okay 56 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 4: if we do this in English? 57 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 5: I love the French? But you know what, it's okay. 58 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: You're gonna already she's starting out of the gate line. 59 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 4: Just for the record, if you have any other language 60 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 4: requests or like, do you want me to do, just 61 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 4: holler at me seriously, start keep talking like that. You're 62 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 4: not going to be single for long. So tell us 63 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 4: about this guy that you went out with recently. 64 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:12,839 Speaker 2: What's his name? 65 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, his name is Derek. How'd you guys meet online? 66 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 5: And their first day? We went to a super upscale 67 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 5: mall here in this area. We've got like a I 68 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 5: would say stancy mall is because like it's spread out. 69 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: I don't have to tell us about upscale malls. Yeah, 70 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 2: we got there. Explain nowadays it's like being on Amazon. 71 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: But I are Yeah, the stores. 72 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: That's okay, And that sounds like it could be nice one. 73 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it could be fun, something something to do, things 74 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 4: to look at and. 75 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: Talk about, like shop, you can drink, you can eat. Yeah. 76 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: So what was it like when you very first met Derek? 77 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 5: So honestly, I felt like we hit it off, like 78 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 5: right off the bat. There was comistry there. We walked 79 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 5: around just like looking at stuff, and we ended up 80 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 5: going to like a nursery, not like the baby the 81 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 5: kind of plant plant nursery. 82 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 2: It was like, Okay, sounds like a perfect date to me. 83 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 5: But they don't. 84 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: They don't have stores where they sell babies Jose at the. 85 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 2: Mall, even a baby watching day. 86 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 4: I know, we just got a brilliant business ideas long 87 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 4: sponsored by Brook and Jeffrey in the morning window. 88 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: You better work on your return policy. 89 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 6: I'm going. 90 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 4: You know, we've got the discount ban over here in 91 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 4: store for too long. 92 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 2: We have the whole businessman ready but sorry. 93 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean cute plant shops are so fun right now. 94 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 5: He was a little bit more into it than me, 95 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 5: but I was really feeling it. Yeah, because traditionally, like 96 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 5: I haven't really been a plant person, but I had it. 97 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 5: I had a lot of fun. 98 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 7: So sweet. 99 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 1: So he was knowledgeable he obviously has plans. 100 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, and he was like, you know what I think 101 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 5: we should do. I think we should pick out a 102 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 5: plant for each other. 103 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: Oh and it's kind of forward thinking, like it's like 104 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: he wants to see if you could keep it alive, 105 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah. 106 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 5: I think it's like when you have some like picking 107 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 5: up it for you, because it's like, Okay, what do 108 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 5: you really think of me? Let's see what you pick 109 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,919 Speaker 5: out based off what you think my personality is that. 110 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 2: Someone plant a tree that's more of a commitment than y. Yeah, okay, 111 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: that's an interesting idea. 112 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: I like it. What did you pick out for him? 113 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 5: So the one I picked was super cute. It was 114 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 5: like very whimsical. It was called a figetty fig. 115 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: Better than a venus fly trap or something, you know. 116 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 5: Right, Okay, So that's like literally what I'm getting to, 117 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 5: because what he picked for me was a freaking snake plant. 118 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 3: Snake flip snake, but average little, long time though hard 119 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: to kill. 120 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: They are very hard to kill. They're sturdy. They're a 121 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: good first plant for people who don't have the first plant. 122 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 4: Okay, So he obviously doesn't trust that you're able to 123 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 4: maintain it, which is why he bought you a super 124 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 4: easy plant. 125 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 5: I didn't really think about it that way, honestly, I 126 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 5: was like, should I be offended. 127 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: Because of the snake title? Is that why? 128 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 6: Yes? 129 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 5: I was just like surprised, you know what I mean, 130 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 5: because like the one I picked for him was slurty cute. 131 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 2: Or so, how did you tell him that you didn't 132 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: like the plant that he bought. 133 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 5: I kind of just made a joke of it because 134 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 5: it's like he's still buying me something, right, So I'm 135 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 5: not going to be a jerk about it. 136 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 2: You could be a jerk. 137 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,119 Speaker 4: I'm just saying that's always on the table to slap 138 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 4: the plant down out of his hands and be like 139 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 4: try again. 140 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 1: Well I don't think she'd be calling us and asking 141 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: why he's obvious. 142 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 5: Well, it was like so fun because we acted that 143 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 5: we went out for drinks because there was like a 144 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 5: bar inside the mall, but we brought our plants with 145 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 5: and the whole time I felt super comfortable and like 146 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 5: it even ended with a kiss. So yeah, all right. 147 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 1: This all sounds good, Like I mean, I could totally 148 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: understand why you're so confused why he's not calling back. 149 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, me too, especially since we even named our plants. 150 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: Oh they're real plant baby after each. 151 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 2: Other, Like would you name so? 152 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 5: His plant was Gertrude, Yes, okay, and my plane was 153 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 5: leap Eric said leave Erickson. 154 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 2: Like the explorer, Yeah, okay, all right? 155 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: Have you texted as Leif ericson? I mean, that's the obvious, 156 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: like Leif misses you. 157 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 3: They considered it now all I think it was the 158 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 3: love forern from the rom com. You know, it's like 159 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: you killed. 160 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: Our love for your plant is still alive, right? 161 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 7: Oh? 162 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what's funny is I I did find 163 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 5: out I do have a bit of a green thumb. 164 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: Oh the plan to keep alive. 165 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm actually a little bit more concerned about 166 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 4: getting your guys's plants back together because I feel like 167 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 4: maybe they had the real love connection. 168 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: You don't want a separated plant family. 169 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 4: We're gonna call plant daddy Derek and see why he 170 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 4: isn't arranging another date with you when we do your 171 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 4: second date update. 172 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: Right after this second date update, you're in the middle. 173 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: Of a second date update update, and we're gonna find 174 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: out how the couple is doing right after you. Here 175 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: Part two, Cassy. 176 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 4: And Derek have been on one date and already have 177 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 4: two kids together. 178 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: Babies babies. 179 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 4: Plant children that they picked out for each other at 180 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 4: a nursery during their date. They even named their plants 181 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 4: Gertrude and Leif Ericsson. 182 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: It's solid, solid day. 183 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 4: Brought their plants to the restaurant together, put them in 184 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 4: high chairs with little. 185 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 2: Bibs on, they fed them. I mean, you can assume, 186 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: you can assume that they're good parents like that, and. 187 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure they ordered round the chicken tenders. 188 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 4: Yes, I mean, pretty normal first date as far as 189 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 4: we've heard. 190 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: It's actually an adorable first date, and they bought plants together. 191 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 4: The crazy thing is most of the plant enthusiasm was 192 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 4: actually led by Derek, which I didn't expect. So it 193 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 4: is weird that he is not initiating another meet up. 194 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 4: The thing is, we never asked Cassie how many days 195 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 4: has it been since. 196 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 2: That all happened. 197 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 5: So I haven't seen five days. 198 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 4: That's four decades in plant years, so we can only 199 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 4: imagine how your children. 200 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, but. 201 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: Pretty quick. 202 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: So have you heard from him at all? 203 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,239 Speaker 5: Yeah? So there's been texting, but there's been no initiation 204 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 5: of a second day. 205 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, well, let's call this deadbeat plant dad and figure. 206 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: Out what. 207 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: He's taking care of. Gtrude, Okay, I. 208 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 2: Mean, at least we hope. So. 209 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 4: I don't like that he's not talking you, Cassie, so 210 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 4: let's call him. We'll see if he picks up. 211 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 7: Okay, Hello, Hey is this Derek? 212 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, Derek. 213 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,599 Speaker 4: Sorry to barge into your day here, but you're on 214 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 4: the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 215 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 7: Good morning. 216 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: That's weird, you said, Sorry, your phone's a little hard 217 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:57,679 Speaker 1: to hear, Derek. 218 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 8: Yeah, he was just a little weird. I don't usually 219 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 8: get radio stations calling me in the morning. 220 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 2: I don't think most people do. 221 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 4: So you're in the general population with that one. 222 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 2: That's fine, Derek. 223 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: I think we're calling you for a great reason though. 224 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a second we do you call it second 225 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: date update. 226 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: I don't like that you sound like one of our 227 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: commentors from the podcast. 228 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you even know anything about it? 229 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 8: I mean, I figure as you're calling me till somebody 230 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 8: wants to reach out. 231 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 2: Okay, smart guy there. So yeah, you're right. 232 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 4: There is a girl that listens to our show who 233 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 4: said she went out with you recently. 234 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: Named Cassie. 235 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:38,719 Speaker 1: Just so you know, she does know that you guys 236 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: have been texting a little bit. It just feels like 237 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: you're maybe not interested or something. 238 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 8: I mean, I'm I'm kind of interested, but at the moment, 239 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 8: I'm not kind of. 240 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: Interested, kind of but not kind of. 241 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 4: Okay, you were pretty clear, So. 242 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: No, wonder she's so I don't know why she'd be. 243 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 4: Well, I hope you don't mind if we dive a 244 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 4: little bit deeper into that and ask you why. 245 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 8: I just need some more time. 246 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 7: What's going on? 247 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship? 248 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 8: No, I'm single, I'm single, you're single. Okay, I just 249 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 8: made a big mistake. 250 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 2: Mistake what no girlfriend? But you made a mistake. But 251 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 2: you like her, but you also don't like her yet? 252 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: But a mistake with who? Because she really likes you? 253 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 8: Okay, I'll just tell you, but you can't tell her. 254 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 2: We won't say we none of us here will say 255 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: anything to her. 256 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 6: Yes, so I don't know if she told you. But 257 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 6: we bought each other plants on our date. 258 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, it seemed kind of like cute and movie ish. 259 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, we even knew Gertrude and Leif Erickson. 260 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: Okay, right right, Yeah, we named them. 261 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 8: Okay, but when we weren'taving them all, I didn't realize. 262 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 8: I left Gertrude the roof of my car, so I 263 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 8: drove away. Yeah, I heard her bump. I didn't know 264 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 8: what it was, so I backed up and I ran over. 265 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 2: Your own plants. 266 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 7: So dramatic, baby, you killed Trude? 267 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 2: Hello, yeah, dere she was supposed to wait. But that 268 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 2: that's Cassie. I wanted to talk to you on the 269 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: other line. Okay, rest in peace, Gertrude. 270 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 8: Oh God, Cassy, I really didn't know you were on 271 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 8: the phone. I didn't know you heard any of that. 272 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 5: I cannot believe because I can't believe this. 273 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: She's got it. 274 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 5: Did you try and least bring her back to life? 275 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 2: What did you do with Gertrude afterwards? Yeah, we're in 276 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 2: her body. 277 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 5: I mean, my. 278 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 6: God, plants just as much as everybody else. 279 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 8: But you guys directly like it's a human being. 280 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: But listen, listen. Why would you not be calling her 281 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: back just because the plant fell off the car? 282 00:12:59,640 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 5: Yeah? 283 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 8: So I went back the next day to see if 284 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 8: they had the same plant, and they didn't. 285 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 2: Even went back. 286 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're going to pass off the new planet as 287 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 4: Gertrude and try and trick Cassie to thinking it was 288 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 4: the same one. 289 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: Just tell her the truth. Cassie would think it's a 290 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: cute story. 291 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 6: I don't know. 292 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: She sounds pretty upset. 293 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 5: I don't even know what to say. I mean, Gertrude. Man, 294 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 5: there's only one Girtrude, I know, the only one. 295 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean Cassie. 296 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: You're being like funny right now, right, you're not being 297 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 1: serious kind of my guys. 298 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 5: It's really troubling, though, is it? 299 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 6: Well? 300 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 4: Because he ran it back over a guys, Oh, come 301 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 4: up and then disposed of the body. 302 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: It's not like it says anything about who he is. 303 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 1: You're a good person. 304 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 5: I thought she meant something to you. 305 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 2: Grows back. 306 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: Obviously did mean something to you, Cassie. That's why he 307 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: went back to the store the next day. 308 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 2: That's a good boy. 309 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 8: I'm a good guy. Murder plants all the time. I 310 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 8: buy them. I try and keep them alive. 311 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: He tries to keep. 312 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 8: I mean, Cassie, I've never run over one before. 313 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 2: This was the first. 314 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: Jimmy Tech. If you ever driven on grass, you've ever 315 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: driven I mean yeah, we. 316 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 2: Mean that he hasn't been driven over his own plant 317 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 2: child like your husband does work? Okay, I mean, Cassie, 318 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: can you see what he's saying? Like only a. 319 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 4: Good guy would go through all of that effort to 320 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 4: hide the evidence of destroying your plant baby together and 321 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 4: try and cover it up with a different plant and 322 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 4: then ghost you until the new plant comes in. 323 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 1: H Wait, so the new plant is coming. 324 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 8: So yes, it took five days to get here. It's 325 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 8: coming tomorrow. That's what I've been waiting for. 326 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: Okay, So you were gonna one more day, you were 327 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: going to just ask her out? 328 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 6: Then? Yeah, I was waiting for tomorrow making sure the 329 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 6: plane got here. So in case she came over and 330 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 6: saw that there was no plant, I wouldn't get in trouble. 331 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 4: Cass is a lot for you to process. What do 332 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 4: you think right now? 333 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 5: I mean, I am, I'm honestly heartbroken. I'm surprised at 334 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 5: how heartbroken I am over true, but I can understand 335 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 5: the sentiment. 336 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: I think he is so cute and he's going to 337 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: all this effort just to make sure that you feel 338 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: good and feel happy. Cassie. That should be a huge 339 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 1: plus for you. 340 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 8: It's not like I got you. We've been texting back 341 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 8: and forth. 342 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 2: True, he's been talking, just not committing well. 343 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 4: So instead of asking him first, I'm gonna ask Cassie, 344 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 4: would you like to see Derek again despite what you've 345 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 4: heard here on the show today. 346 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 5: Honestly I would. I think I'd give it another try. 347 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: Wow, And you'll have to. 348 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 4: Come up with a new name for that plant if 349 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 4: Derek says yes to the second date, because we will 350 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 4: pay for it. 351 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 2: Derek, it's up to you the. 352 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 8: Date Gertrude too. 353 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 5: This is your opportunity to get any reminder of Gertrude. 354 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 5: We have to call her something out o the plant. 355 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 2: Murderer's Daughter is a good place used to start. 356 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: That sounds like a novel I read Yeah, three. 357 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: Part series coming soon to Amazon. Get your orders in now. 358 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 6: By the way. 359 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 8: By the way, how's Lee Perrickson doing? 360 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 5: Oh oh, he's thriving. He is thriving, sving. 361 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 6: Driving. 362 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 4: Grown up so fast, you guys, Plans and cars do 363 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 4: not mix. 364 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: That's the murder mystery. Leaf killed Gertrude the insurance money 365 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 2: for himself. 366 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to read it Broaking Jeffrey in 367 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 1: the morning. 368 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 4: It's only been a couple months since that aired, but 369 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 4: already we're getting an update from it looks like just 370 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 4: Derek is on the phone right now. 371 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 2: And before we get into it, Derek. 372 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 4: I just have to tell you that was probably one 373 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 4: of the more memorable calls that we've had all years 374 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 4: on the show. 375 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: So cute, Jeffy, you were adorable, Derek. 376 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was really good for us too. A lot 377 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 6: of our friends ended up hearing it. 378 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 1: Oh did you get lots of feedback? 379 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, they really loved it. So we actually thought it'd 380 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 6: be a good idea and start bringing our plants with 381 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 6: us when we went out to the bar. 382 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: You became the plant parent couple at the bar. 383 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. 384 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 6: People were coming off to us and asking about us, 385 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 6: and we'd tell them we were on the show and 386 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 6: they'd be they'd go crazy, they'd got I heard that 387 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 6: we were. We were like celebrities for a minute. 388 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: Oh my celebrities. 389 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,399 Speaker 4: That sounds awesome. So wait, how come it's only you 390 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 4: on the phone today? 391 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 6: Well, okay, the problem was that got a little old 392 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 6: and we stopped taking them, and then it just seemed 393 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 6: like with out the plants, it just wasn't the same. 394 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 1: Wait, so you guys broke up because you realized the 395 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: only connection you had was your plant babies. 396 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, it took a couple of weeks, but yeah, oh 397 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 6: the chemistry wasn't there between me and Cassie anymore. 398 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: Oh no, what happened with the plants? You have joined 399 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: custody or. 400 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 7: No? 401 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 6: I mean I got mine and uh I'm kind of 402 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 6: looking for a new plant stepmom. 403 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 4: Oh okay, so there's a lot of listeners who would 404 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 4: love to step in and fill that role. 405 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 7: Wow. 406 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry that the relationship didn't work out, but it. 407 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: Sounds like you had fun and you enjoyed the experience, 408 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 1: got some. 409 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 7: Fame out of it. 410 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 8: It was quite a few months. 411 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 4: Well anyway, man, thanks for the update, and if you 412 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 4: want us to call your future plant step mom, we're 413 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 4: happy to do it for you. 414 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I just don't want to be on the 415 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 6: phone this time. 416 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 7: Wait what, I don't think it want to talk to us? 417 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 2: Yeah okay, Oh no. 418 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:39,640 Speaker 8: With her, it's just with her day 419 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:42,719 Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.