WEBVTT - What to Expect When You're Expecting 0:00:01.280 --> 0:00:04.320 This is a Wells cast with Wells Adams and I 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:10.440 Heart radio podcast. So are you hosting today? Yes? Okay, 0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:12.920 I swear I was thinking about this on the drive here. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:18.200 I have co hosted um one of Wells shows before, 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.079 and he's not been there. And then I feel like 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:21.840 each time we hear about an episode of this show, 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:24.560 he's not hosting it either, Like when does he host 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:28.040 his actual show. He's like, he's at an undisclosed location 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:32.080 at the moment, filming something. Okay, I think I think 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:35.239 I know someone else who's filming at that undisclosed un 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:38.839 Thank you so much for joining us today. I am 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.040 so excited to meet you. I I want to talk 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:44.600 about the episode last night, but first and foremost, congratulations 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.720 on the pregnancy. It's so exciting. Are you feeling good? 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:51.199 Are you any any type of side effects or symptoms 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:57.320 or anything just yet? Um, other than just really adjusting 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:00.680 to the idea of being pregnant. I mean, I it's 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:03.160 something that I wanted for so long that I feel 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.200 like when I found out I actually was pregnant, I 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:08.240 was really surprised. Um in a good way of course, 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:10.800 but also like, I don't know, it took me a 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:15.160 while to really absorb it. Um. And so yeah, I'm 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:17.120 just really excited out. But I've been really lucky. I 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:21.240 haven't had sickness or anything like that. Yeah, and so 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:24.800 when I know you're in a relationship right now, it's 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:28.360 been a little over a year with Christopher. Was this 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:32.200 something that you guys talked about. Did you want this 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:36.240 on your plan? Yeah? Yeah, well we so he already 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.880 he's got a six year old son already, so he's 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:43.080 been a father for several years. And for me, when 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:47.480 I began dating again, I knew, sorry, my dog is 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:49.480 not going to leave me alone. I've been I've been 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:51.000 out of the house all day, and he was so 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.000 happy when I came back. Um, you might only sit 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:58.600 up here the whole time. Um. So when I uh 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:01.240 started dating again, I knew that it was really important 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:04.840 to me to find somebody who had the same goals 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.040 and wanted the same things in life that I did. 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:10.280 So we kind of got to the conversation about having 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:13.440 kids and um where we stood with all of that 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:18.519 really quickly. Um, and we were definitely on the same page. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.000 So we're like, hey, let's you know, let's go for 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.640 it and just see what happens, and we were really lucky. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:27.639 And so, yeah, I don't know how it lines up 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.239 with filming and the months that you guys were filming 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:34.000 this season. Did you have to keep it a secret 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:36.799 for a bit? Were you fild me during that time? Um? 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:40.320 Initially I did plan. I had planned to keep it 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:45.520 a secret. I did tell the show runner because I was, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:49.160 you know, pretty run down the first few weeks, UM, 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.160 and it was hard for me to keep up with 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:54.920 the pace of some of the filming initially, so I 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.480 had to tell her because they don't really let you 0:02:57.520 --> 0:03:01.840 just set things out normally to go home early. UM. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.840 And you know, we filmed really long days. We filmed 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:06.840 for I mean when we go on trips, we're filming 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:10.040 for probably eighteen hours a day, three days in a row. 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:13.079 So it's just a lot of you know, being on 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:17.639 your feet and being really active and talking and participating. UM. 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.600 And so I did let them know pretty early on. 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:23.640 But my plan wasn't actually to to film anything about 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:29.880 being pregnant. And then our production just kept getting delayed 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:33.200 for various reasons and it got to a point where 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:37.720 it was too obvious to not address it UM and filming, 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:39.520 so we ended up talking about it on there, but 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:42.360 I think it ultimately was good that we did, because, 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.520 you know, it's a really exciting, happy time in my life. 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:49.360 And um, and I don't know, I just feel like 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:53.560 it's kind of an interesting uh and to the ark 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.280 of this season for me and my character on the show. 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:59.680 And um, yeah, I mean I'm really excited to share 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:04.240 it with everyone. Were you planning on keeping the gender 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:08.680 of secret? Because I saw that your sister accidentally kind 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:14.320 of yeah, shared it. She did totally accidentally, and actually 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:16.479 I didn't even know that had happened. And she called 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:19.800 me the next day and she was like, I'm really sorry. 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.120 I had no idea that you hadn't said anything. And 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:23.560 I was like, what are you talking about. I don't 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:27.000 even know what you mean. Um, I didn't intentionally not 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.920 share it, So it wasn't a big deal that she did. Um, 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.919 but yeah, I don't know. I there's a part of 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:36.000 me that just doesn't really feel the need to share 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.679 like every single detail about it, even though I'm so excited, 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:41.240 I feel pretty private in a lot of ways about 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:44.400 it as well. So UM, I'm not. I mean, I'm 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:48.279 happy that people. No, it's totally fine. It's such a 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:52.320 positive response to everybody's just so thrilled for you, guys. 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:54.919 I think that's so nice and it really makes me 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.320 feel good that you know. Also, I've been so blown 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:02.159 away by how invested people are are in my whole 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.680 journey over the last couple of years, and how many 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:09.080 people realize how badly I wanted this to happen, and 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:13.080 like are celebrating with me and are genuinely really happy. 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:15.160 I mean, I've had so many nice messages from people 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:16.800 just saying, like, I know, we don't know each other, 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:19.520 but i feel like you're my friend and I'm just 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:21.840 so happy for you, and that's really sweet. It makes 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:24.360 me feel really good. I've never met you before, but 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:25.680 I'm a fan of the show. I'm a fan of 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:27.479 yours and when I saw the headline last week that 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:30.240 you were pregnant, I was so excited for you that 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.000 I felt like one of my friends was pregnant. It 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:34.520 was just it was so excited to read. I'm just 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:38.000 so excited for you. Is there anything that you are 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:42.480 nervous about when it comes to being a mom? I'm 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.960 sure there's many a million things. Yeah. I mean I 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:48.280 think that if I start to think about the things 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:51.920 that make me nervous. It would just be a runaway list. 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:54.120 I mean, you can screw your kids up so bad 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:56.640 with like the littlest things. I think, But you know, 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.400 my I think, as long as your intention is good 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.880 and you, um, you know, show your kids lots of 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:06.880 love and respect, um, they're going to be okay. So 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.320 that's just my plan. I'm trying not to overthink every 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:13.000 little detail because there's just too much to think about. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.240 I mean, even with my pregnancy, I try not to 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:18.480 think about anything besides the week that I'm in, you know, 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:22.520 because each week it's so different, and you know, it 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:24.880 can be very overwhelming if if you think about it 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:27.400 too much. And I like the fact that you are 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:32.000 I mean somene of my business anyways, But keeping this relationship, 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.159 you know a lot of it to yourself, just between 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:37.120 the two of you, and not sharing everything that happens 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.719 and not being so public. After having a few very 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:43.839 public relationships, it's just something that I think you guys 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:47.159 can just hold close to yourselves and keep things private 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.600 between yourselves. And I like that as a fan for 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:52.240 you to be able to experience. I know you said 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:54.760 in the past that this is one of the first 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.599 adult you feel like it's an adult relationship that you've 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:00.440 been in m and I just I love I love that. 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.600 My past relationships, I think the only reason they've been 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.359 public is because the people that I ended up in 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:09.920 relationships with and were already public figures. You know. I 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:12.120 don't think that there was any reason besides that, because 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:16.119 it certainly wasn't ever my intention for to be really 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:19.320 anything public. But you know, just by the nature of 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.920 those relationships and this this one, you know, it's not 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:25.800 that way, which is really nice. It's really refreshing, and um, 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.440 I mean it certainly makes things a little bit less 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:31.960 complicated because you're not I don't know, having to think 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:34.800 about anyone else involved. It's like just the two of you, 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:38.720 and um, it's just been really nice to have that 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:47.640 experience this time around. Let's talk about last night's episode. 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:51.200 There's I've noticed a difference from the first season to 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:53.800 this season, and in taking COVID and the pandemic out 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:57.320 of it, there's been such a change with everybody really 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:01.320 and I think it played a role in this new season. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.920 Do you see a big major difference between you in 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:09.560 this in this new season compared to last season, UM, 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:12.760 or anything you're doing differently this time around. I would 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:16.960 just say that I think everybody in general had a 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.720 little bit of a different attitude. Well, there are a 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:21.720 few people who seem to still have kind of a 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:25.960 bad attitude about the show, UM, which I don't understand 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:28.760 because I feel like, if you don't want to be 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:32.360 on a show, then don't be on a show. But um, 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:35.560 you know, I think for the most part, it was 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.360 a really eye opening in the sense that, you know, 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:43.560 we're so lucky to have work and be able to 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:46.360 spend time with this group of people and have a 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:51.560 good time like travel together and laugh together, and UM. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.800 While I don't know, just being isolated was so hard, 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:58.640 it was nice that we had the opportunity to, you know, 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:03.000 get our COVID tests literally every other day, UM, but 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:05.960 in turn be able to spend time with a group 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:09.240 of people and make something entertaining for other people to watch. 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:11.080 I don't know, I was just personally grateful to be 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:16.120 able to participate in that UM and I definitely took 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.480 it a little more for granted before you know, I mean, 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.640 I I don't know, It's just there are a few 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:24.640 ways to look at making a reality show. And I 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:28.600 think that, Um, the fact that anyone would want to 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.000 watch our lives and that we're able to you know, 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:35.319 make money doing that and have a good time doing it, 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:37.920 It's just like it's kind of a freak, once in 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:41.120 a lifetime opportunity, and I feel really fortunate. So when 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.680 somebody is talking about this show and they say that 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.760 the episode was the worst episode of reality TV they've 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:50.520 ever watched, you know, Spencer and maybe these comments about that, 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.199 how how does that make you feel? As there as 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:55.280 your cast members saying this about the show that you 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:58.560 guys do together. I think everyone knows that, Spencer, And 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:00.600 how do you always have an agenda? So I'm not 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:03.920 sure what their agenda is at the moment, because they 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:07.520 weren't singing that tune you know, earlier on. I mean, 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:09.640 they're kind of the ones who got everyone together to 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:14.120 make this show in the first place. Um. And I 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:17.240 also don't know why you would it's not a project 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:19.360 that you just spent the last year and a half 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:23.000 working on, because you know, I mean, there's a lot 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:24.320 of work and a lot of time and a lot 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:28.000 of energy, and so I don't really know what the 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:33.520 whole reason, I'm sorry, trying to get on my lab 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:37.319 when I put him down, and um, he was just 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:42.280 licking the microphone. But yeah, I don't, I don't. I'm 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:46.559 not understanding that. And I I mean, I know that 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:52.400 there is definitely um an issue going on between the 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:55.760 Prats and the Wallers. Um as you can see, is 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:57.839 unfolding on the show right now. And I don't know 0:10:57.880 --> 0:11:01.960 if they're more specific, more specific quickly aiming those comments 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:07.880 at them, I don't really know, but it seems like, UM, 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:12.360 not very productive to tell people that a show you're 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:17.120 on is boring. One of my favorite moments from last 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.920 night's episode was when you you're talking with Heidi and 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:21.720 you say what can we do to have fun? And 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:25.160 she just completely ignores you walks off, and you're just like, oh, 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:28.959 like you're trying to keep the energy good and positive 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.560 and just have fun and she just walks off, and you, oh, 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:34.320 was just yeah, I mean, I think what you what 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:38.720 we didn't see there was you know, the whole conflict 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:42.839 between Ashley and Heidi is still to this day confusing 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:46.199 to me, Like I don't understand where it stems from exactly. 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:50.560 And you know, Ashley and I had that conversation in 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:53.439 the park, which you only see a little portion of, 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:59.760 but it was essentially, you know, from my perspective, I 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.240 really they just thought there was a big misunderstanding between 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.440 the two of them. I didn't know that Ashley was 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:10.320 really having all of these pretty judgmental feelings about Heidi's drinking. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:12.760 I I didn't know that because she didn't. I never 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.160 heard her say anything about it, and when we were 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:16.920 in the park she kind of explained it to me 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.880 more like Heidi thinks I'm saying this, but I'm really not. 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:21.840 And I was like, oh, well, if you're not, then 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:24.520 just tell her you're not. And so then I saw 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:27.240 Heidi at the party that night, and what they didn't 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:29.640 show was that I said to her, Hey, I really 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:31.680 think you and Ashley should talk because I think there's 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:34.240 just a huge misunderstanding here. I think that, you know, 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:37.559 she doesn't really have any feelings about your drinking, and 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:39.520 you guys should talk and make up and everything will 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:42.160 be fine. I'm like thinking I'm being the peacekeeper and 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:44.880 that everything's gonna be great, and I just wanted to 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:46.400 have a good time. I mean, that was kind of 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.800 me the whole season. I feel like every episode, I'm like, yeah, 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:50.559 everybody's fighting. I just don't have a good time, like 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:53.920 to have a good time. Um. So yeah, and but 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:57.280 I do. I actually remember saying not to Heidi and 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.640 then having her just like I think she was really 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:03.000 stre about the upcoming confrontation. But I remember her just 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:06.840 kind of like zoning out from our conversation and walking away, 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:14.200 And I was like, all right, let's talk about Caroline 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:17.600 for a little bit. When she told you about her feelings, 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:27.040 did that surprise you? Were you caught off guard with that? Um? 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.040 I wouldn't necessarily say that I was caught off guard 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:36.120 because I could. I mean, it's obvious when somebody is 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:39.959 flirting with you or you know, like things sort of 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.840 started to take a little bit of a turn in 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:47.120 that direction. Um. And but you know, we had so 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:49.160 much fun together. I was like kind of hoping to 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:52.200 eskate past it and like, you know, just continue to 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:56.120 be friends and have everything to be fun all the time. UM. 0:13:56.160 --> 0:14:01.400 I guess I'm like a little bit avoidant, but uh, yeah, 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:05.520 I don't know. I mean, I just I just was 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:08.160 kind of hoping to avoid an awkward conversation. But at 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.480 the end of the day, I'm glad that we talked 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:14.120 about everything that we did openly, so that like she 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:15.760 knew where I stood on it and we could move 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:18.080 past it and not have to have any awkwardness going forward, 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:19.720 because I do think eventually it would have gotten to 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.200 a point if she hadn't said something that maybe I 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.120 just would have I don't know. I thinks it would 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:25.760 have become weird between us. So it has it So 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:29.640 your friendship has stayed the same even though yeah, no, 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:31.360 we're great friends, and I'm glad we were able to 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:40.400 have that conversation. Good now, I know you're, you know, 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:44.320 in such a good place right now, great relationship. But 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:48.840 do you go and do you watch the episodes when 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:52.560 they air or beforehand? Um? I mean like last night, 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:54.920 I was out at a dinner, so I wasn't able 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:56.800 to watch it as it aired, but I did try. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.160 I I had a work thing this morning, so while 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.600 I was getting ready, I had the episode from last 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:03.640 night playing. I try to stay on top of it 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:05.960 because I like to be able to contribute to the 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:08.600 commentary and I have some idea what's going on. We 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.560 don't know what's going to be used in the episodes 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:13.480 and what won't be. So it's kind of helpful sometimes 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:15.960 even for me, because all you know, people will comment 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.200 things to me on social media and I'm like, what 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.840 are they talking about? Like I won't even know because 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:23.480 we've filmed this over such a long period of time, um, 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:27.040 and so much has changed in that time. So it's 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:28.680 kind of good for me to have a little refresher 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:31.440 and see what material was actually used for the episodes 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:35.160 and what wasn't. Is it hard then to see your 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:39.040 ex Brody, you know, in these different relationships and in 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:42.800 these private conversations with Audrina or somebody else. Is that 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:46.480 is that hard for you to watch? I mean, truthfully, no, 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:53.120 I move past that relationship a long time ago. UM, 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:56.000 So you know, I mean, he and I are really clear, 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:58.520 Like there's nothing he says he's saying on the show 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.640 that I haven't heard him say in realized life, and 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:04.359 I don't know, and we have a very transparent relationship, 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:07.600 so I don't It's it's definitely not hard. And also 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:12.480 obviously I've really moved on and I saw that, you know, 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:15.160 his mom congratulated you. And then I even noticed in 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:18.520 last night's episode Kristen talking about how much she loved 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:20.240 Brodie's mom, Like, do you do you still have a 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:25.120 relationship with his mom? Yeah? We do. Um yeah, Actually, 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:27.720 I mean I don't see her as much as I 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:30.080 would like to, but I've seen her a few times 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:32.760 in the last year, and it's just, you know, I mean, 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:35.560 she was like my second mom for many years. My 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.640 parents live on the East Coast, so she was my 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.000 parent figure here on the West Coast, and so I 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:44.640 mean that doesn't just go away. And um, especially because 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:47.880 Brodie and I had such an amicable split, it's just 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:51.200 been kind of easy to keep everybody, um in a 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.160 good place. But um, yeah, I mean I talked to 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.800 her as often as I can. She's great. Did the 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:01.200 cast and Brody included, did they know about the pregnancy 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:10.240 before you announced it? Oh? Yeah, yeah yeah. I mean 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:13.640 I wasn't like really trying to keep it a secret. 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:18.080 I was walking around everywhere like very blattly pregnant and 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:21.399 telling everyone that I saw, But I just wasn't saying 0:17:21.400 --> 0:17:23.560 it on social media, just because I didn't really feel 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:25.840 the necessity too. But then it kind of got to 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.800 a point where so many people were talking about it 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:33.399 on my Instagram and asking questions and making comments, and 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:35.960 I was like, why am I not just acknowledging this 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:39.320 and moving forward? And it's actually been really nice because 0:17:39.840 --> 0:17:41.800 I didn't think I really cared to share it publicly, 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:45.359 but then once I did, it was really heartwarming, Like 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:47.480 I said at the beginning, to hear how many people 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:50.160 were touched by hearing that I was pregnant or had 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.280 nice things to say so. And I think too, it 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:56.200 also shows, you know, when you're so transparent with your 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:59.000 life and showing so many details of past relationships and 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:03.480 things to and see, you find such a genuine happiness 0:18:03.840 --> 0:18:07.600 and to fully move on. It honestly gives hope to 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:10.240 those of us who have been through those breakups still 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.160 looking for somebody and knowing that that is out there, 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:17.600 you can't get it. I mean, I genuinely didn't think 0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:21.359 that I would find any of what I have found, 0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:24.800 Like I really did not. I was very okay with 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:28.080 just remaining single, and I was in a really good 0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:32.360 place and very happy with being that way. And it's 0:18:32.400 --> 0:18:36.000 funny how when you relax and like, don't have all 0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:41.400 these expectations and plans, how things come together better. Because 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:46.960 I mean, Chris was such a pleasant surprise and and 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.679 when I feel like I was trying the least. Is 0:18:49.720 --> 0:18:52.080 when everything finally came together the way that I had 0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:54.800 always hoped it would or wished it would, so keep 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:58.600 each other during a pandemic, right, yeah, like that is. 0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:02.920 I know my friends who are in the surf Righter 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:05.360 Hotel in Malibu, I really kind of owe it all 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:10.000 to them because they, um, it was when let's see 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:13.520 last summer when all of the restrictions first kind of 0:19:13.840 --> 0:19:18.159 relaxed and hotels were reopening and outdoor dining was reopening, 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:20.680 and they said, you know, we're going to reopen the 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:23.080 surf Rider and no one knows yet, so that we 0:19:23.119 --> 0:19:24.280 have a bunch of rooms open, do you want to 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:26.680 just come stay for a couple of days and um 0:19:27.000 --> 0:19:29.280 hang out like on the beach, Like, um, yeah, that 0:19:29.320 --> 0:19:33.439 sounds great. And right around the same time, a mutual 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:37.440 friend of me and Chris has had introduced us um 0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:39.800 over text, and I was like, you know, I really 0:19:39.800 --> 0:19:42.960 like to meet this guy, and there's really nowhere to 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:46.880 do it. That's not weird except for the rooftop restaurant 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:48.760 at the Surf Rider. It's like the only thing that's open. 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:51.440 I'm going to be there all weekend by myself. I'll 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:54.160 just invite him up and see what happens. And so 0:19:54.320 --> 0:19:58.600 we did like a little you know, outdoor dinner and 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:02.119 and yeah, you know it worked out. Were you open 0:20:02.200 --> 0:20:04.800 to day, like, were you I know that, you know, 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:08.720 being on lockdown and being home did you know that Okay, 0:20:08.800 --> 0:20:10.360 I'm ready or was one of those people like I'll 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:12.680 just I'll just see where this goes. Well, I hadn't 0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:19.960 been UM. I didn't date during lockdown for obvious reasons. Yeah, 0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:22.879 I mean that was not really possible. But leading up 0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:24.760 to that, I mean I had been dating. I just 0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:27.080 didn't really care. It was sort of like, if the 0:20:27.160 --> 0:20:29.679 right person comes along, then I would consider it. But 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:33.680 I wasn't actively trying to um, and I think that 0:20:34.040 --> 0:20:36.800 I don't know, I just it was more about It 0:20:36.840 --> 0:20:39.639 wasn't really so much the timing as much as just 0:20:39.720 --> 0:20:42.840 the right person coming along. You know. That's what people say. 0:20:42.840 --> 0:20:46.280 It's the moment you stopped looking, that's when it happens. 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:48.840 It's so cliche. And that's why I hate to say that, 0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:50.800 because I feel like that's what everyone says to you, 0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:56.960 but it's it's true. So in the little teaser, the 0:20:56.960 --> 0:21:02.160 preview for next week's episode, we saw you know, Adrina 0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:05.880 in the car with Brodie when he's going to meet Kristen, 0:21:06.160 --> 0:21:08.320 and then in the preview it says you you say 0:21:08.320 --> 0:21:11.040 something about wanting if they are doing something together, if 0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:13.639 they're a thing, one of them should have come and 0:21:13.680 --> 0:21:18.639 said something to you first. I mean, I think it's weird. 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:20.919 I spend a lot of time with all of these people, 0:21:21.000 --> 0:21:25.439 including Brodie and Audrina, and so I would have thought 0:21:25.520 --> 0:21:28.400 it was a little strange if they were hooking up, 0:21:28.600 --> 0:21:31.840 and neither of them ever thought that it would make 0:21:31.880 --> 0:21:35.520 sense to like acknowledge that when we're all together all 0:21:35.520 --> 0:21:38.359 the time. But the thing that I think what you 0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:40.960 don't see in that scene is like everyone at the 0:21:41.000 --> 0:21:44.720 table was making jokes about how Audrina and Brodie would 0:21:44.760 --> 0:21:47.200 be such a good couple and like that they should 0:21:47.240 --> 0:21:49.280 be dating and done that, which I mean, I don't 0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:52.640 disagree with that. I mean, it's that's totally up to them. 0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:55.199 But it was like I wasn't at the table, and 0:21:55.200 --> 0:21:56.800