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Speaker 1: Kissam oh, Mariana in the back room. You like that song,

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Speaker 1: do you? Everyone? Yeah? I saw you vibing out. I

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Speaker 1: was that song for tomorrow. That song is like old

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Speaker 1: so good. I know every time I put it on,

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Speaker 1: I get in a good mood. That's right, sure it does.

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Speaker 1: Don't be shot when you hear Fitty on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Move move tomorrow season. He's birthday. We're on the precipice already, exciting.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to see any special one? No? No, no, please? No,

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Speaker 1: oh that means we'll do it. No, I just want

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Speaker 1: you to do any special for my fortieth next year?

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Speaker 1: Like big, oh, well we should start planning exactly, start

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Speaker 1: planning now, all right, Mark shaking his head and panic.

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Speaker 1: It's like, what do you want versary next year? I

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Speaker 1: got good news, though, Mark. Her birthday falls on Saturday

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Speaker 1: next year. Pressure off. Pressure is off of what thing is.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to celebrate it. But because less pressure

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Speaker 1: is not a show day. Yeah, he takes it all

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Speaker 1: about show days. Just to celebrate it. We will celebrate,

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Speaker 1: but it's the eva. We'll really celebrate it in the

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Speaker 1: wild the next day. That's true. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: think I think I want to do a big party

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Speaker 1: next year. Yeah, I did a you know, I did

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Speaker 1: forty people for my fortieth. So it's twenty people and

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Speaker 1: guess which is huge for me. That is massive for you.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's a lot. I did forty people. I

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Speaker 1: do kind of like that. I could probably cap my

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Speaker 1: guestless at forty, right, and it could not. It would

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Speaker 1: be tough. But I think family, it's like fifty, well,

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Speaker 1: then I would have no family. It would just be friends.

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Speaker 1: We're a year. We have a year and a day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe we do like multiple days of it. You know,

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Speaker 1: one is family, one his friends. Look how excited she

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Speaker 1: is for a fortieth I am. I think, you know,

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Speaker 1: that'll be a whole new decade. I'm really, I really

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Speaker 1: enjoyed my I I I really enjoy each decade. I really,

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Speaker 1: you've only get into it three. I know, well the

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Speaker 1: first one really is an adult. But I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: I lived for my twenties. I feel like I really

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Speaker 1: thrived in them, and I really enjoyed my thirties. This

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Speaker 1: is my last final year in my thirties, and I'm

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Speaker 1: excited for my forties. And I today people get like,

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Speaker 1: you know, down themselves, like oh, that's gonna you know,

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Speaker 1: you feel like I'm getting old or whatever. I don't

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Speaker 1: feel that way. I get excited for new decades, new years.

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Speaker 1: I sounded that way. And how when what do you

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Speaker 1: say you get excited? You don't feel like you're getting older? Dude,

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Speaker 1: I am convinced I'm going backwards like I am in

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Speaker 1: my own head still thirty five. Well that's a good thing,

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Speaker 1: I know, but it's not real. But it's good. Like

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Speaker 1: I'm fully myself but it works for me. That's kind

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Speaker 1: of like society. I feel like, yeah, don't don't, don't

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Speaker 1: play this game. Don't play this game where you look

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Speaker 1: be paid. Yes, And that's how I feel. Modern people, Tany,

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Speaker 1: we are modern people, modern people. Amen, baby all right.

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Speaker 1: Kelly Clarkson Modern woman. R Clarkson was on with us yesterday.

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Speaker 1: You know, I love about her. She's legit. I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's legit and she's raw and she's real. Like there's

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Speaker 1: there's not a lot of performance with Kelly clarks She

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Speaker 1: is who she is. Tanya has a training report, so

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Speaker 1: she revealed that she decided to end her marriage after

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Speaker 1: realizing that the whole family was unhappy and that they

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Speaker 1: deserved better. And she made this revelation during a conversation

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Speaker 1: with the one and only glenn and Doyle, who wrote

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Speaker 1: a memoir about her own divorce. It's called Untamed. I

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Speaker 1: read the book and it changed my life. But Glenna

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Speaker 1: said that the moment she realized that, contrary to what

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Speaker 1: she'd been told, ending her marriage actually made her a

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Speaker 1: good mother, she said, we're trained to believe to avoid

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Speaker 1: it at all costs a broken family. When she realized,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm staying in this marriage for my daughter,

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Speaker 1: but would I want this marriage for her? And that

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Speaker 1: is what really struck a chord with Kelly so much

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Speaker 1: so that she realized she needed out of her marriage.

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Speaker 1: And I was reading this story and I am such

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Speaker 1: a fan of this Glennon Doyle book Untamed. I really

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Speaker 1: like I got so much from it. I think I

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Speaker 1: read it like two years ago now. But this is

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Speaker 1: my strong pitch to have Glennon Doyle on this show.

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Speaker 1: Well pitched, Yeah, I'm down. She's incredible. So it's interesting

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Speaker 1: that moment and a lot of people listening right now,

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Speaker 1: I've had to have that moment, that moment where you

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Speaker 1: just you know it, but you don't know how to

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Speaker 1: really execute it. That you've got to make a change,

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Speaker 1: and that that change in the long run, while painful

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Speaker 1: in the short it's going to be better for you.

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Speaker 1: And as you said, her family. And also, you don't

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Speaker 1: want admit defeat. You don't want to admit that you

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Speaker 1: were wrong. But this world, in this life, and this

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Speaker 1: person that you saw so much in you made a

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Speaker 1: bad decision right or you didn't see what others saw.

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Speaker 1: I mean, all that stuff so difficult. I could not

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Speaker 1: to go sing the songs. Yeah, I could not do it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she even she said to us, like, this

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Speaker 1: is gonna be real for me. She said to us.

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Speaker 1: Kelly Clarkson told us hours ago, so most nervous I've

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Speaker 1: ever been to release an album. Normally I'm not nervous. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for the first time nervous. Tickets to go see Drank

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Speaker 1: and twenty one Savage Keep Farm next,