1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,559 Speaker 1: Oh hello everybody. Hello, good, good morning, good afternoon, good evenning, 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: or buenos no chase, as they say in Espana, which 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,159 Speaker 1: is where I just hailed from. Welcome to one of 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: our little Mini Nugget Nugget episodes while we are on hiatus. 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: We won't be on hiatus for very long because I'm 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: coming back with season two shortly, but we wanted to 7 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: give you a couple of updates and a couple of chickens. 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,240 Speaker 1: I have a new friend with me. She's not so 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 1: new to me, but she's new to you guys. Her 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: name is Katherine, and she's a producer on this show, 11 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: and she is sitting with me in the room to 12 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: guide me along and be you're like my shirt, but 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: basically my podcast shirt, but right, move things along. Katherine 14 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: is upbeat and full of information, and that's what we 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: need with me. We need somebody who is upbeat and 16 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: has more information than I do with regard to orders. 17 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: You know, technique, I would call it podcast technique and 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: other bullshit, you guys. So that's what we're doing. I 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: just came from my summer vacation, even though it's fall 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: from my Orca and I had all of my ski 21 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: girlfriends from Whistler meet me at my place in my 22 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: Orca and we e biked our asses off, and I 23 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: really feel rejuvenated, except for the fact that last night 24 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: I went to bet at four o'clock in the morning 25 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: because somebody wouldn't shut the funk up. And we'll have 26 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: more on that later. But it was a great vacation 27 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 1: and my Orca is like really known for cycling, and 28 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: people train for big bike races. They're like the Tour 29 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: de France. And so we had a great time with 30 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 1: all my girlfriends. And one of my girlfriends is like 31 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: a little muscular, She's a nugget actually, she's five one 32 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: and her calves look like two clamshells, like two scallops actually, 33 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: and she is stronger than a horse or an ox. 34 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: And so on one of our bike trips that was 35 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: fifty four miles up a mountain and then down mountains, 36 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: three of us lost batteries to our e bikes because 37 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: I decided that I was going to be in Turbo 38 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: the whole time, not Echo, because I'd us thought, fuck this, 39 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: this is too hard and I'm not willing to challenge 40 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: myself after that much sangoria. But I did and we 41 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: had to kind of tow each other through the mountains 42 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: through tunnels on e bikes, which are very heavy to 43 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: pedal if you have no battery. So for anybody out 44 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: there who is renting an e bike, make sure you 45 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: get the battery when you rented and charged that so 46 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: that you are never stuck like I was, even though 47 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: it was a good adventure and you know, I burned 48 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: a lot of calories, so that was good. And one 49 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:31,519 Speaker 1: of my friends, oh, one of my very very dear 50 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: friends who I know listens to this podcast every week. 51 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: We were able to get penetrated, so that is a 52 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: huge victory. And I said when we got there to 53 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: my girlfriends, I said, if I can just see a 54 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: man walk out of Blanks bedroom one morning, this vacation 55 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: will be like a huge fulfillment for me. And that's 56 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: what happened, guys, So problem solved is what I like. Catherine, 57 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: thank you. I can see your beaming as well. Yeah, 58 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: there's nothing better, especially after what we talked about on 59 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: our last podcast, There's nothing better than helping a friend 60 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: get penetrated. And it wasn't me by myself, it was 61 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: all of us working in concert. Yeah, some girls went 62 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: out one night, others stayed back, and then the next 63 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: night we went back out and then we kind of 64 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,239 Speaker 1: reconnected and then the ones that weren't there filled in 65 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: for the ones. It was. It was great. And then 66 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: at one point my friend said, there's eleven guys here 67 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: and they all want to go back to your house, 68 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: and I said, pick your two favorites, and one of 69 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: the favorites made it and he got the last rose. 70 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: That's excellent. I know, it was our own private my 71 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: workan bachelor heartwarming. And also my other friend there who 72 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: loves the show Below Deck loves Below Deck, which I 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: think a lot of people love Below Deck, right she 74 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: was watching the Mediterranean edition, which I also ended up 75 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: seeing like six or seven episodes of that. But then 76 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: we had a friend of a friend from Germany came 77 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: and she's actually works on a boat as the chiefs do. 78 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: So it was just like a phantasmagoria of sex information 79 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: about what happens on Yachita's you know, below deck and 80 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: above deck and on the side of the deck and 81 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: then beneath that. So I think it was you know, 82 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: it was a pretty good, solid vacation and I'm just 83 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: happy to be home. I'm happy to be going on tour. 84 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: My first dates are in Cincinnati Indianapolis. It's like start 85 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: septem I think I have Cincinnati, yep, and then Detroit 86 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: at the Fillmore and then Indianapolis and then Grand Rapids, 87 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: so come see me, and then Norfolk, Virginia. So please 88 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: come see me on my Vaccinated and Horny tour. And 89 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: I am horny, but I have somebody who's fulfilling that 90 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: horny nous now. And if you have been been paying 91 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: attention to my social media, which I don't expect all 92 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: of you to be doing, I will fill you in 93 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 1: on the fact that I am in love and finally 94 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: getting regular penetration. Excellent, I know. I mean, it's all 95 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: from this podcast, right, It's a full evolution of what 96 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: therapy can do for a person. I'm so glad that 97 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 1: we can help. Yeah, yeah, well exactly. And also giving 98 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: advice to other people and hearing their stories and then 99 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: seeing that I could go to therapy and it works, 100 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: and that I can now be in a normal, healthy 101 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: relationship with someone should be an inspiration to anyone who 102 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: thinks that they're not going to find the lead to 103 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: their pot because you are. It doesn't happen when you 104 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: want it to happen, but it does. It does happen 105 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: when it's supposed to happen. So I yeah, I'm done. 106 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: I found my guy. I love that. Yeah, it's exciting. 107 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: It's exciting for you have been speculating a little bit 108 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: just from watching your social media, so I'm excited to 109 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 1: hear about it. Yeah. Well, I'm excited to share it, 110 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: you know me. I mean there are no secrets, right, great, okay, 111 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: so we'll get into that maybe later. But we have 112 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: some updates, right, Catherine, Yes, we do. We have some 113 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: updates from some callers. So our first update is actually 114 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: from someone who didn't call in, but they were just 115 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: a listener. From Dan. He said, I was a social 116 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: cigarette smoker in my whole life, but during the pandemic, 117 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: I got severely hooked. While listening to your podcast, you 118 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: briefly mentioned, and this was like tiny mention that you 119 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: stopped smoking by hypnosis. Your comments stuck with me, so 120 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: I called my local hypnosis center and made an appointment. 121 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: Two days later, I met my hypnotherapist and had my 122 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: session and have been smoked free ever since. Thank you, 123 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,679 Speaker 1: Thank you in all caps for giving me my health back. Dan, Oh, 124 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: that is awesome. There's something else that you could get 125 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: hypnotized for that my friend was just talking to me 126 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 1: about because you know these people that they can do 127 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: that for, like your fear of flying. I have a 128 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: friend who bites her toenails. Um, that's probably separate conversation, 129 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: but it still falls under the category of things you 130 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: want to stop doing, and that's one of them. And 131 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: she went to carry gain or who's the guy that 132 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: I went to in l A. There hypnotherapists throughout the world, 133 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: So obviously if you're serious about it, you know it 134 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: can work. And I'm trying to think about what the 135 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: other problem was. It was something really anyway, hopefully instructually 136 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: got hypnotized for her fear of ladders, which like, I 137 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: don't know what she's on a ladder, elevators, that's my 138 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: friend had fear of elevator. Fear of ladders is funny 139 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: going walking under them or walking I think it's like 140 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: going up them. But she's an attorney's like, I don't 141 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: know when she's going on a ladder. But they brought 142 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: her back to apparently at some point when she was 143 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: in a crib, she had gotten like crawled out of 144 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: her crib and was hanging from the crib so all 145 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: she could see where the bars, and after she had 146 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: that realization that that's where her fear of letters came from, 147 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: she was not afraid of him anymore. Wow. Yeah, well 148 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: that would explain it, because having a fear of ladders 149 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: without any real recall of why would be really confusing, 150 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: because then then you're like, was I a contractor what 151 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: happened in a past life? Yea, in a past life? Anyway, 152 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: what other updates do we have? Okay, this is from Emily, 153 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: who wasn't sure if she should get a boob job. 154 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: This is one of my favorite updates. She says, Hey, Chelsea, 155 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: after speaking with you, it actually made me feel a 156 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: little more confident in the skin I have now. And 157 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: I have only one body and take pretty damn good 158 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: care of it. So for me, it's not a super 159 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: huge need because I'm so comfortable and confident in the 160 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: person I am. Yes, some boobs would boost some of 161 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: my confidence, but it's not the end all be all. 162 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: I can live without them. I also took the time 163 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: to do some more research, and while I was on 164 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,559 Speaker 1: the fence at first, I think I'm gonna stay small 165 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: chested at the moment, and then one day, if and 166 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: when I have kids, maybe rethink that decision. But I 167 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 1: will definitely go with Chelsea's advice and do a large 168 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: beecup small seacup if that day comes. Emily, music to 169 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: my ears. Speaking of which I was on, I was 170 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: on vacation with two friends, two people who have had 171 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: boob jaws that I know have had to have second 172 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: and third boob jobs. So like, because as you get older, 173 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: your boobs keep growing, so then you have to reduce 174 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: them even more. So yeah, you just have to keep 175 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 1: that in mind when you're getting a boob job that 176 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 1: when you get older, hormonally something happens to just or 177 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: if you gain any weight at all, your boobs gain 178 00:08:56,720 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: the most weight. Wow, Yeah, this is okay, great, Great, 179 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: check that off my list, Catherine. If I have a lift, 180 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: first of all, we have to make a list and 181 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: then we have to check things off of it. So 182 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: our last update for today comes from caller Billy, who 183 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: was actually on our very first episode Mothers. He had 184 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: wanted to move to Maine and that would take him 185 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: away from his adoptive mom, but he wasn't sure how 186 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: to do that and still let his mom know that 187 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: he loved her, So you guys encouraged him to follow 188 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: his dream and make the move. Things have been going well, 189 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: he says, I've officially gotten my alcohol and drug counseling 190 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: licensure activated in Maine. In the meantime, rural Minnesota does 191 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: not have any spaces for queer folk, so I decided 192 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: to be proactive. I've been in the process of developing 193 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: a queer support group for young people and their parents 194 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: in my hometown. I feel it's important to provide the 195 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: resources that I needed when I was young. I'm also 196 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: organizing a drag show in the same town to help 197 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: fund and raise awareness for the support group. Slowly but surely, 198 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: I've been figuring out who I want to be and 199 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: why I want to give to others. My mother actually 200 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: tracked down The Mother's episode and listened to the interview. 201 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: It definitely gave her something to think about and brought 202 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: us some much needed dialogue regarding our relationship. The interview 203 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: also jumped started the healing process regarding the struggles behind 204 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: the adoption and everything that followed. All the best Billy, 205 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: Oh Wow, good use of your time and energy, Billy, 206 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: way to go, way to turn your all of that 207 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: confusion into something more powerful and setting an example for others. 208 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 1: And also his mom hearing the podcast, which, by the way, 209 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: anyone who ever calls in your family will hear about it. You. 210 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: I mean, at some point it all comes back in 211 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: one big circle. It's just like karma. So you should 212 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: keep that in mind when you're calling in. Even obviously 213 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: if you don't want that, you can disguise your name 214 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, but if you use your real name, 215 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: it's just a matter of time. But I will say 216 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: to that end, I think that sometimes a third party 217 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: having the conversation, you know, without both parties involved, sends 218 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: a stronger message when they're not involved in the actual dialogue. 219 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: So his mom hearing about that, or Billy, your mom 220 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: hearing about that, sounds like it was a good conversation 221 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 1: starter for you. And I'm really psyched you got out 222 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: of there. You don't need to be around peet where 223 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: people aren't respecting and you know, even lauding you. They 224 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: should be psyched that you're there. And it sounds like 225 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: in the community that you moved into, they're all going 226 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 1: to be very psyched that you're there because you're helping everybody. 227 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: So I love to hear all about that. And it 228 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: turns out, I mean anybody could give advice if we're 229 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: getting such positive results. I mean almost anybody could do it, 230 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: you guys. If I could do it, anybody can do it. 231 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 1: So I think we have to take a quick break 232 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: right now, and when we come back, we'll have some 233 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: questions for you, Chelsea. I love question I love personal questions. 234 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: I hope they're personal. They are, Okay, the first one here, 235 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 1: how do you manage your time so well? You seem 236 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: to do so much. Your career is always popping. You 237 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: work out and meditate consistently, and you're basically an unofficial 238 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: doctor Noah. While the doctor part is what I'm most 239 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: ashen and about. So that comes to the most easily 240 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: to me because I get so excited when I have 241 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: a new patient or I have somebody with symptoms that 242 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: I can't quite break down. So that's easy because I 243 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: don't have an office because I don't have a degree, 244 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: so it's very off the cuff, and usually with people 245 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: that are in my life, I don't get unknowns. But 246 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: managing my time. I have to be honest. I really 247 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: require a lot of sleep, and if I can get 248 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: sleep like eight or nine hours a night, then I 249 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: can really have a high functioning day. And if I 250 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: don't even for one night, I feel like my eyes 251 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: are burning, Like right now, I went to a hookah 252 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: bar last night to smoke. Houka. Oh. I'm doing a 253 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: thirty day no alcohol thing. I've decided because the thirty 254 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: day weed thing was just such a big hit and 255 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: we inspired so many people and I got so many 256 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 1: d ms on Instagram of people who did it. So 257 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 1: I am on day four of no drinking, and I'm 258 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: gonna go a month without drinking just because I drank 259 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: so much sangrea in in my Orca that my skin 260 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: started to turn purple and also my teeth and it 261 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 1: wasn't a hot look. So I'm just gonna detox for 262 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: some clarity because winter's right around the corner and that's 263 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: margaritea time. So anyone who wants to join me on 264 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: a thirty day dtox, DM me let me know how 265 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: you're doing right into the podcast. Let us know. I'm 266 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: using it to get serious mental clarity. That's great, right, Yeah, 267 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: I've actually been thinking about doing that too. We'll do 268 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 1: with me. Why don't you do it? I mean, this 269 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: is the time to do it before the holidays, right, 270 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: So I started September nineteenth, October nine. That way, we're 271 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: good for well, Halloween. It's not like I'm celebrating Halloween 272 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: at least I hope I'm not right. You can celebrate 273 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,479 Speaker 1: in another way like smock a little whatever, right exactly, 274 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: So I'll figure out another way, all right, I'm on board, great, Catherine, Yeah, exciting. 275 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: I kind of got to the point where like if 276 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: I have a glass or two of wine and I 277 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: immediately have a hangover, So it's yeah, it's two glasses 278 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: is like hangover time. And I know yeah. And I 279 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: also noticed when you go out a couple of times 280 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: without drinking, it's just it becomes a less and less 281 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: of a situation. Like last night we went out for 282 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: ramen and we had like there were six of us, 283 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: and then we went to hookah bar and I just 284 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: had my I just had weed, and I just decided 285 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 1: to stick with that and then I didn't even miss it. 286 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 1: So yeah, we'll see how long I can go. Well. Good. 287 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: Our next question for you comes from Evan Dillon. Do 288 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 1: you find it crazy that total strangers can find inner 289 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: healing through you as a public figure. Yes, I do 290 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: find that crazy, But you know what, I'm just gonna 291 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: take whatever comes my way and not be Uh. Yeah, 292 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: I'd love to heal people. I can't tell you how 293 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: many people come up to me and tell me things. 294 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: You know, you do things that you never even think 295 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: about again. So it's important to recognize that you have 296 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: an impact on people. It doesn't matter how big or 297 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: how small. I know I've said that so many times, 298 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: but it really the ripple effect of like kindness and 299 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: listening and inspiration goes a long way. So it gives 300 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: me a lot of faith in humanity. You know that 301 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: you can say something to somebody. I know people have 302 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: said things to me that have changed the course of 303 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: the direction of my life. And so when I think 304 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: about this podcast, I always just think about that. All right. 305 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: Our next question is I don't even think we answer 306 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: the time management question really. I meane time management is sleep. Okay, Yeah, 307 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: I mean okay, let me just get back to that 308 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: so that I can give you something. I always work 309 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: out first thing in the morning. Always get that out 310 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: of the way so that I don't have to deal 311 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: with that or Ben Bruno, you know, an hour where 312 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm fully awake and alert and then I meditate at 313 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 1: the same time. I do the meditation before I work 314 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: out every morning. So I like to bang those things, 315 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: like the necessary things of my day. I bang them 316 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 1: out first thing in the morning, so that I have 317 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: room to be creative later, and I have room to 318 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: work on my stand up and have room for all 319 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: of that like writing and development and all that stuff. 320 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: So I don't know if that helps, but I would 321 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: say whatever is the most important to you are the 322 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: things that you feel like are your tasks for the day, 323 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: which we're probably meditation and working out. Just kind of 324 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 1: rock them out right away or knock them out or 325 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: rock about or rock out with your cock out. I 326 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: don't know, you decide. Our next question comes from Jody. 327 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: Have you found a good product to remedy the dark 328 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: hollowed out underic circles that come from cannabis use? Oh? Yeah, 329 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: you know? Okay, So I use this product called liz 330 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 1: Earl oil, and it's got rose hips which is really 331 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: good for underic circles, and also green tea. But I 332 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 1: would green tea eye patches. I don't know the name 333 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: of the brand offhand, but there's a lot of under 334 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: eye patches that work and some of them that are crappy. 335 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: So there's one. Like anything with green tea helps the 336 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: swelling a lot if you're talking about swelling, if you're 337 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: talking about the darkness, rose hips, vitamin E is good 338 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 1: for that, and you can find those indifferent serums. You 339 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: just kind of have to find a serum like a 340 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: face serum that you put on before your moisturizer. I 341 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: use Liz Earle and I also use this Mindy Walter stuff, 342 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: which is vitamin C is really important for those dark 343 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: circles too, So you can look up any of those. 344 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: And if you're getting those kind of dark circles from 345 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: pot smoking, though, you should also probably just try try 346 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: and do edibles because I could definitely notice a difference 347 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 1: in my skin tone when I'm smoking versus doing edibles. 348 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: You know, I know the smoking is fun and everything, 349 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: but we've talked about the merits of just eating your cannabis, 350 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 1: so I would say try and pivot more towards that. Okay, 351 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: and I'm reading this next one verbatim, but Stephen Husker asks, 352 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: are you ever going to make only fans? Uh? First 353 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: of all, it's an only fans, Stephen, it's not only fans. 354 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 1: And I don't think I haven't thought about it, but 355 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: my team has advised strongly against. I already have so 356 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: many videos out there that would be qualified to be 357 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 1: on only fans. So no, I'm not going to do that. 358 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,479 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think that's the right 359 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 1: move for me right now. But I encourage anybody with 360 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: an open mind and and other open things to join 361 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: only fans, you know, and open up your heart. And 362 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: if you have a question, or you and a loved 363 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 1: one have a question, please write into Dear Chelsea Project 364 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: at gmail dot com Dear Chelsea Project at gmail dot com. 365 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: And also, you know, I would like to invite couples, 366 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: whether you're friends, or you're married, or you're seeing each other, 367 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: any types of couples that need a sounding board. I'm 368 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: into that big time, and we haven't had a lot 369 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 1: of that in season one, so hopefully we can branch 370 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 1: out in season two. And I know some people are 371 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: resistant too hearing feedback, but you know that's the point 372 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 1: to have a third party anyway, These are my fantasies. 373 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:34,239 Speaker 1: I hope they come true. And to all of our 374 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: previous callers, we love the updates, but nothing brings me 375 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: more pleasure. It's like being a parent, but without babies. 376 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,479 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Please send me your 377 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 1: report card. Okay, well, this was your little mini update 378 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 1: from Catherine and me, and we are going to be 379 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: back next week with another mini update, and then we're 380 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: starting season two. What's the date we're starting season two, Catherine? 381 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: October seven, October seven, right in time for fall, right 382 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: in time to plan our Halloweens together everybody, so stay tuned. 383 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: We're not going anywhere for very long, and I'll be 384 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: back next week to tell you about my love life. 385 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: So okay, bye bye, bye bye everybody. Bye Catherine, Bye 386 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:11,959 Speaker 1: bye