WEBVTT - I WANNA BOOTY EAT… MY MANS… BUT HOW!!? 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.480 It's almost on like some hypnosis where literally you can 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.000 look at food and not want it, you can taste it, 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:10.959 get immediately full and think it's disgusting. It literally makes 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.520 you like literally, when I first got on it, I 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:15.600 was like, this shit is in my brain. 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:20.959 Bruh, this shit is taken over my brain. Because you 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:21.880 know what I thought it was. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:24.960 I thought it makes you feel full. I didn't know 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:26.520 it makes you not think about. 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:28.080 This girl, I don't be eating too like four o'clock 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:30.400 in the afternoon, and it's because it's like, oh, bitch, 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:32.640 you haven't eaten today. You need to eat because then 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:35.680 you'll start getting like lightheaded, like so like I do 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.720 like my protein shakes again because you still got to 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.879 get your protein in otherwise you'll start losing muscle masks. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:42.680 So like, okay, the only reason I want to know 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:44.599 what it feels like is because of this. This is 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:46.760 she said to me. She was like, oh my god, 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:49.479 you know, I feel so fucking free of like thoughts. 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.239 She's like, you know when you be in bed and 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:53.320 you want to snack, but you got to like force 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:57.720 yourself known. She's like, I'm fucko thriving girl. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:02.280 When I go out to dinner. One drink. It makes 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:04.560 you not even feel good when you drink, and it. 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.920 Takes just you don't want it, just takes you a 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:08.559 long time to put anything in your mouth. 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:10.120 But Dick, I hold you. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:13.360 It has not changed my craven on the dick. But 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:18.120 in terms of food, bitch girl, what food I could 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:23.119 be walking past that? I don't even know what it is? Well, 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:26.959 vanilla shit, okay, now us get into vanilla shit at 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.440 the fifty. 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:30.200 Okay. 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:31.920 The only reason I want to do this one before 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:36.199 we get out is because I know we both probably 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:40.880 do this. And this happened in LA and I like 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:44.360 follow some LA page. A Sherman Oaks woman and her 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:48.160 son are distressed by their naked neighbor for leaving his 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:51.720 blinds open and exposing themselves to the young family. So 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:53.280 there was like a little bit of a news clip 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:54.600 that I wanted to play the sound on so you 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:55.520 could judge it. 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:56.600 It's traumatic. 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:00.720 Bevers can be noisy, nerve wracking, but what would you 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:04.440 do if one of yours was constantly naked and naughty 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:09.760 exposing himself through an uncovered bedroom window. That's exactly what 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:12.960 one mother and son in Sherman Oaks say is happening, 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:19.320 they feel hopeless and helpless, describing an obscene, unwanted, endless 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:23.559 skin show. On the day of this interview, Michelle mcclintoff 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:27.560 recorded her nude neighbor, who lives in another apartment building 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.640 across a breezeway. 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:32.880 Just feet from her home. He has touched himself. Oh, yes, 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:36.040 he's definitely touched himself. I've seen him touch himself several times, 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.080 you know. And he lays in a bed and you 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.360 can kind of see what he's doing. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:43.240 Sometimes I'm coming back from school and seeing him naked, 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:45.679 or I'm cooking or I'm eating a living room or 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:46.280 watching TV. 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:51.120 I look and I just see him naked. Okay, Now, 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:57.280 can I be honest? I take I live. 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:03.480 Oh h get some blind nig literally, and I'm talking 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:07.079 about you. Literally, Why are you looking out like if 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:09.760 it's disturbing you that much? Close the blinds, like, I 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.799 ain't gonna hold you quarterszip was just over here and bitch, 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:14.240 I'm loud. 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:17.720 So we was in the room and bitch, I'll be 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:19.440 putting on the thing. But I know I get loud. 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:20.880 So literally, I. 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:24.400 Had to call my neighbor because I know he hears me. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:27.079 And I was like, sorry, if you want to just 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:30.160 raise your TV, we gonna be going for like another hour. 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:33.320 But I'm I called him. He was like, it's okay, 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:34.119 I hear you all the time. 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:35.920 I said, and I know, but we're gonna be extra 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.600 loud tonight, so just want to let you know, and like, 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:40.640 I apologize. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:42.839 And then one day we went to the Beltline. 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:45.720 We said, in your bedroom, we could hear me the 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:46.280 next door. 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:50.280 But here's another thing, bitch, I live above like a 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:55.840 commercial property, so it's a business. And girl, the receptionist 0:03:55.840 --> 0:03:57.800 called me because we came from the Beltline and it 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:59.920 was like two o'clock in the afternoon and we was 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.480 fucking in the living room and literally, hold on, I'm 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.400 gonna I'm gonna literally read you the text message that 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:09.840 I know, bro, And I was like, I felt so crazy. 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:15.240 So she said, I mean, I've heard you too, bruh, 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:18.400 hold on, where did I do that? 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:18.600 Bro? 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:20.800 This is two twenty six pm. 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:25.200 She said, I don't even know how to approach this, 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:29.640 but you do know I hear everything beneath you, right, 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:34.640 And I said, oh my god, I'm so sorry. So 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:37.880 for the rest of the time, we came upstairs and was. 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:42.760 Fucking But you know, I didn't even think I don't 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:43.120 get it. 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:46.760 I mean, I'm in a loft. They didn't think. 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:50.159 I don't know, bitch, I wood floors. I guess it's 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:52.440 not all the way sound proof. Niggas could hear me. 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:55.479 I don't know, And so I just say, sorry, bitch, 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:59.120 I'm finn a fuck Okay. So here's that's what I'm saying. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:01.880 All you can do is say sorry, Like what can 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:02.279 you say? 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:06.160 I'm not my neighbors. Basically, like she's calling the police. 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.840 She's doing all this shit, and she's like I could 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:11.480 see him in his bed, but if my bedroom went, 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:14.760 I don't know if I necessarily believe he's getting off 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:16.480 on it more than I think this nigga just be naked. 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:19.880 I mean I've been naked, Like in New York it 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:24.200 didn't because I was on the sixteenth floor. But and 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:27.480 even here, I'm naked, but I'm high enough to where 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:31.360 nobody could, like look at my window, but there are 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:32.560 buildings across from me. 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:35.839 They see me, like what you want me to do? 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:36.880 That's how I feel. 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:40.920 My only my only concern sometimes though, is what they're doing. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:46.640 If you are looking into someone else's private home and 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.479 you start filming what you see in their private home, 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.000 that's a problem. So if you see they were showing 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:55.080 recordings of that man naked in his home at. 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:56.880 The same time you're trying to have proof of what's 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.600 going on, right, you could be like the same way 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:05.039 the the girl got removed from Uber East because she 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:07.120 did an Uber East delivery and. 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.800 She opened the door or something and he was naked, 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:13.200 and she like tried to spew. Bro If someone is 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:15.719 naked and they fucking private home, what the fuck are 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:20.039 you doing recording into their goddamn windows close you're blind. 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:22.640 The only thing with the Uber Eats is I was 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:24.600 thinking maybe he was trying to like show his dick 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:26.560 off to the driver, and I thought that was fucked up. 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:32.039 But he wasn't. She opened the door like he was sleeping. 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.960 Why did you open that man door? Okay? 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:38.719 See now I was reading the comments and somebody said 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:43.360 it sounds ridiculous, but I am comfortable in my home 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:44.320 and my blinds are. 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:45.200 Not always shut yep. 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:48.200 And a lot of people don't believe he's attention sinking. 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:51.880 So some of the people are saying that it's wrong 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:55.200 if he's touching himself, which. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:59.159 Guess where I'm gonna touch myself in my bed bed, bitch. 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.640 But the only other thing that I'm like, Okay, that's 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.960 kind of fucked up. Now, Mandy, here goes this. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:07.200 I'm listening. 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:11.680 The police knock on your door and say, hey, you've 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:14.640 been naked. There's children across the street. Do you mind 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:16.760 just putting the blinds down when you are naked? 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:20.280 And it's fucked them kids for life? Bitch? How do 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:21.400 you think they was made? 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:24.320 Their parents should close the blinds if they don't want 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:27.200 to see. Bro, I'm in my home and if my 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:30.440 mind's open, that's what I'm gonna do. And my mother 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:31.560 fucking in the rent? 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:32.160 Did I pay? 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:37.200 To be honest with you, I'm kind of aligned. Yeah, 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:40.160 I don't necessarily know if or you need to move. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:44.800 The only thing I would not do with the blinds open, 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:48.600 if kids were looking. It's fucked And I say that 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:52.960 because being naked. I'm not just standing in the window naked. 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.760 I'm gonna walk by naked, like if they see me, 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:57.360 they see me. But if I'm like full on giving 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:58.760 them niggas a show, all right, maybe not? 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:04.000 Eh, I don't know. All I know is you should 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:06.080 be able to do whatever you want in the privacy 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.040 of your home as long as it's not a crime. 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:11.920 And being naked in your own home is not a crime, 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:14.040 is it. 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.200 It's not a public space, and anybody looking into your 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:21.080 home and have the nerve to video you them niggas 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:24.760 should be arrested for videoing you in your public space, 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:28.480 especially if you're naked. Especially in this case. Bro, even 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:30.640 if you blurt me out, this shit is now. 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.360 On the news. Oh but yeah, I'm still in the 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.360 news station. I'm suing you. I'm still in the city 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:37.320 because bitch. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:37.240 What. 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:42.080 And there you have it? Are they wrong? 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.640 I would love to know y'all's thoughts or if you've 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.080 ever been in a position, because, like I said, I've 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.080 been in hotel. 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.040 Rooms where there might be a little noise. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.600 Complaint, Like, bitch, it's a bed. Guess where I'm gonna 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:54.640 fuck on the bed. 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:54.960 In a room? 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.920 Right, y'all better not be trying to shut people up 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:59.199 while they're trying to. 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:02.520 Make love the fuck. 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I 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:04.600 have a newer listener who absolutely loves the podcast. Anytime 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.560 I can talk about the podcast, I do and recommend it. 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:11.160 I just started watching the episodes on YouTube and it's 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.360 a whole different fulfillment for me, which has helped me 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.800 open my mind to other ideas. So let's get to it. 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:22.920 I have been with my man d going on two years. 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:27.240 During this time, he is absolutely wonderful in bed, is 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:31.079 open to using toys, getting kinky to a comfortable level 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.479 for both of us, and is overall well equipped. 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:40.480 Egg plain emoji. Ohy, I was like me, didn't I 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:43.240 didn't know the vegetable name girl like I was really 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:45.880 saying emoji? Is that again? Okay? 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:49.240 Back it up to about twenty twenty one, twenty twenty 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:53.200 two or so, I was fucking around with we'll call 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:56.840 him mister Counselor and no he wasn't my counselor. 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:00.000 But during this time I ate mister. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:05.880 Counselors ash slash booty and it was absolutely phenomenal. The 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:09.760 way the satisfaction was shown by him had me enjoying. 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:10.240 It even more. 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.640 So I want to do that again with my current 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:18.760 man and not I don't miss mister Counselor. I miss 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:21.600 the freedom slash next level of. 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:23.280 Sex and intimacy that we had. 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:28.040 I can say d and I do have good communication 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:31.760 now after just getting over a hump of absolutely not 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:36.640 doing so well. However, when xes are brought up, he 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:40.520 feels a type of way literally just want my man 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:45.280 to experience something that I realized that I enjoy any 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:49.280 ideas on how to go about this and opening the 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:54.400 communication to another level of sex slash intimacy Having. 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:56.800 Exes are brought up, there's an issue that's interesting. 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:58.840 Nobody wants to. I mean, I'm goen be real. 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:02.200 I enjoy talking my past relationships, but I would not 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:04.720 enjoy it if it was like, well, my ex used 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:06.400 to be able to do a split on my dick 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:09.080 facts cause bitch, you and I'm. 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:13.280 Both not splitting on dick bro whoo bitch Like. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.960 So I will say I absolutely and normally I'm never 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:19.000 on the side of the niggas when you all write in. 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:22.760 But you can't be bringing up past experiences with someone 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.240 thinking that it'll make somebody else be like, oh sure, 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:27.480 I've got to like you almost want to immediately reject it. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:28.720 Actually agreed. 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.400 I think that there's a way of bringing up the 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:35.520 things that you like in the bedroom without oversharing the 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:37.080 previous partners you did. 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:41.040 It with, because like that's too much. It's too like, here's. 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:45.200 The thing you saying, or you you showing him how 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:48.640 much you enjoy sucking dick. Hopefully you're doing that and 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.400 he's not thinking of every dick you sucked before that, right, 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:54.200 So when it comes to kinks and introducing new things 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:57.040 into the bedroom, I actually think Wezi you're. 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:57.480 Kind of right. 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.520 One of the kind of worst things you could do 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:04.080 in terms of introducing it is bringing up a past 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:04.720 partner you. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:05.040 Did it with. 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:10.600 Like so the ways that we started the pod and 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:14.880 said that here's good ways to bring up things in conversation, 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:18.200 to communicate it before just bringing it on somebody is like. 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:21.200 Group chat stuff. 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:23.840 Bring it up like one of your girls brought it 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:26.000 up in a group chat, and you're bringing it up 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:29.560 to him like it's a man's always kind of open 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:32.480 to hearing you bring up things that you and your 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:33.720 girls are talking about, right. 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:35.360 It also makes him feel more included. 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.400 So say that, man, my homegirl just talked about how 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:40.800 she ate this nigga asked and how it turned him out. 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:43.400 Have you ever had that done to you. You have 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:44.720 did you enjoy it? 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:47.600 Don't ask who did it? But see first if he's 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:49.160 even had it done to him before. 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:53.680 If I had some difficult conversations, just what I was 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.400 gonna say saying, you gotta be careful how you say 0:16:56.440 --> 0:17:00.440 the group chat thing. Why because you can't be like, well, 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:02.400 so and South do it. You just gotta be like 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:03.280 what do you think? 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:05.199 No, it's not even so and so do it with 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:05.840 the group chat. 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:10.440 What I'm saying is just say, man, Latitia brought up 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:15.119 like her enjoying eating ass and it's so crazy because 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:18.600 it made me realize we never did that. Babe, Is 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:21.240 that something you've done before? Like, keep it minimal. It's 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:24.280 just an introduction to bring this topic to her. 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:27.240 It ain't even gotta be real. Latitsha Muda never ate 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:27.920 ass ever. 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:31.159 Just throw it on your homegirl, but think at the 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:32.320 intro to the conversation. 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:36.480 Or what else I like to do is send porn. 0:17:36.640 --> 0:17:38.399 Y'all know that was my go to. And if you 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:42.480 go on X, type in chu dai or wattai and babe, 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:44.639 you gonna find mad goddamn porn. 0:17:45.080 --> 0:17:53.159 So dr porn. There were wa t a a as 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:55.680 an asshole. Yeah, there's two a's at the end. It's 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:59.680 cheu gai or wattai. But look it up on x or. 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:01.440 If you're in a state that doesn't require you to 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:04.120 put in your goddamn id like Georgia does, make sure 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:05.879 you go on porn hub. You go to one of 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:08.440 the free sites and you find a video where a 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:10.640 girl is getting. 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:14.159 In that ass and you send the video to him 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:15.480 and see what his response is. 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:20.359 Additionally, I think the only other advice I would have 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:24.119 is I was having a conversation with a homegirl that 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:26.840 was basically telling me because her and her manner long distance, 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:29.520 and she was like, I feel like we never have 0:18:29.680 --> 0:18:33.520 tough conversations when I am there and when he's here 0:18:34.080 --> 0:18:35.600 because we want to keep the high moment. 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:38.920 And something I realized in this current. 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:43.520 Relationship opposed to others, some of the best chats happened 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:44.320 in the high moment. 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:47.080 Recently, we went out to the club. 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:50.000 It was having a great time or whatever dance party, 0:18:50.560 --> 0:18:54.359 and we sat down and he was like, I'm just 0:18:54.480 --> 0:18:57.840 so glad, like tonight's going well, like that was a 0:18:57.920 --> 0:19:02.000 really tough day yesterday. So bitch, for probably about twenty 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:03.960 five to thirty minutes we really in this corner like 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:06.240 yeah baby, Like I hate when we get like that, 0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:08.080 like let's make sure to promise to X y Z. 0:19:08.880 --> 0:19:10.960 I'm not saying talk to your nigga when you bottle popping. 0:19:11.080 --> 0:19:13.879 What I am saying, though, is there is something to 0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:16.920 be said about having conversations. 0:19:16.200 --> 0:19:19.840 When no one's angry or yeah out on the defense. 0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:22.320 The second someone says I need to talk to you 0:19:22.359 --> 0:19:25.640 about something, I'm gonna be like ugh, like my guard 0:19:25.760 --> 0:19:27.879 is up, like my body language changes. I'm already just 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:30.520 like ready to be like nope, nope. You know so, 0:19:31.480 --> 0:19:33.199 I think it would be great if y'all are already 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:35.800 in a sexy vibe to start playing around with that too. 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:38.800 If you don't want to bring up someone else. This 0:19:39.000 --> 0:19:42.080 is just another suggestion in the middle of sexy energy, 0:19:43.520 --> 0:19:47.679 just being playful. Like I think that sometimes we make 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:49.159 more of a mole out of a mountain, you know 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:50.960 what I mean, a mountain out of a mole when 0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:54.200 it really isn't that deep. Because yes, you did kind 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:55.959 of fuck up by bringing up old niggas and all 0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:58.760 the shit they was doing, but that doesn't mean coming else. 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:08.600 Bad now taking it to being more physical like a 0:20:08.640 --> 0:20:12.560 way to physically lean into this conversation. I have two 0:20:13.520 --> 0:20:19.800 advice tips to give just to see his comfortability with 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:24.399 you playing around his boodhle. Right, So, one of the 0:20:24.840 --> 0:20:28.200 things that I really like doing just to gauge comfortability 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:32.680 is when I'm giving a hand and I'm massaging the balls, 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:35.320