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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, we are back. It's episode twenty. I

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Speaker 1: miss y'all as well too.

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Speaker 2: I talked to you more than I talk to people

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Speaker 2: in my family. By the way, it's true, because we

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Speaker 2: have a gut standing once a week date.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, I should do that with other people,

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Speaker 3: but I just I'm just so sad.

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Speaker 1: Sleep But you know, it's so crazy, like I went

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Speaker 1: out with the I when I took poetry with a

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Speaker 1: good friend of mine who had not seen him forever.

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Speaker 2: You're so cultured, I.

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Speaker 3: Know, no, but I used to really be into poetry.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, you know, I think you know I

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Speaker 1: used to step on a stage or way you did

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Speaker 1: spoken word. Yes, I did get a little taste, right,

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Speaker 1: So let me see.

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Speaker 2: No, we can't phenomenal woman. Every black woman who's ever

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Speaker 2: done the spoken word has got no phenomenal women.

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Speaker 3: Of course, you may push me down in history with

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Speaker 3: your bitter twisted.

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Speaker 2: Lass, but I got diamonds at the meeting of my buzz.

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Speaker 3: I am a woman, phenomenally phenomenal woman. That's me.

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Speaker 1: No, No, but I really did used to be, Like,

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Speaker 1: especially in college, I was really into poetry. And so

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Speaker 1: there's this young woman named Jasmine Man's who is Dope.

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Speaker 3: Tastic if you guys get a chance.

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Speaker 1: Jasmine Man's she I don't know, she's like twenty five,

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Speaker 1: but she's got this new poem called like Message for

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Speaker 1: Kanye or something like that, where it's this poem kind

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Speaker 1: of like Kanye, what happened to You? But it's really

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Speaker 1: an amazing poem. And she was having a show in

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Speaker 1: Newark where I live, and it was like fifteen bucks

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Speaker 1: at Symphony Hall, and I was like, you know, I

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Speaker 1: want to go, but then you know how it goes

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Speaker 1: when you buy a ticket like a week or so

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Speaker 1: ahead of time, when you're feeling all optimistic, and then

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Speaker 1: the day comes and.

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Speaker 3: You're like, I'm sad, I don't want to go, but

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Speaker 3: we ended up going anyway. But I realized that.

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Speaker 1: So I'm thirty six and most of my friends are

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Speaker 1: in their thirties, and I'm feeling there's like this general

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Speaker 1: sentiment and I don't know you could tell me this

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Speaker 1: because I know you're so in your twenties. If you're

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Speaker 1: getting this energy from your friends, everybody feels so stretched

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Speaker 1: to the limit and tired, and no one's really taking

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Speaker 3: Everybody's just in go go, go, go go mode. Have

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Speaker 3: you been getting that.

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling like I'm in like the go to work

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Speaker 2: and come home, go to work and come home for

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Speaker 2: dinner and watch the TV and maybe work out and

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Speaker 2: then go to work. You know, like that cycle hits

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Speaker 2: me down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, Like I feel like the thirty

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Speaker 1: year olds and the like the thirty five, thirty six,

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Speaker 1: you know, thirty two year olds. I know they've they've

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Speaker 1: it's not even like so much go to work and

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Speaker 1: my twenties, I know what I want to do.

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Speaker 3: I'm working in my fields.

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Speaker 1: I got that promotion, and now it's just like everything

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Speaker 1: is going great professionally, but my personal life is totally

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Speaker 1: dying that Like it's such a crazy sentiment, but every

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Speaker 1: one of my friends has been like, you know, everything's

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Speaker 1: going great at work, work or whatever, like business or.

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Speaker 3: Whatever I have, but I just I'm dying on the inside.

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Speaker 2: Help you are personally?

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Speaker 1: No, Yeah, yeah, well me, I've been feeling like that too,

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Speaker 1: because it's like like business has never been better at

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Speaker 1: the Budgetnista. Honestly, like it has never been better. Things

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Speaker 1: are growing at a pace that I cannot even It's

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Speaker 1: like warp speed at the budget lista. But at the

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Speaker 1: same time, I'm like always tired and thankfully like Superman

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Speaker 1: is so amazing. Like today, I just came straight home

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Speaker 1: And I know you're tired, babe, but I'm just like, dang,

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Speaker 1: when's the last time I hung out?

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Speaker 3: I'm like just hung out.

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Speaker 1: You know, because even when I hang out with my

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Speaker 3: Talk about work.

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Speaker 1: Even at the poetry show, me and my girlfriend at

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Speaker 1: the intermission who I went with, and we're like talking

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Speaker 1: So one of the things I'm gonna do is I'm

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Speaker 1: actually gonna have a vision board party. And so you're

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Speaker 3: Well, by the time it's the years that might be.

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Speaker 2: Over, I'll do it for you. But you know how

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Speaker 2: I felt about vision boards.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I mean you could keep it in honestly,

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Speaker 1: because I think that one of the things one of

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Speaker 1: my ways to kind of reconnect is to try to

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Speaker 1: you know, like, do not you even have to be that.

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Speaker 2: You know, I was just talking about relationships and how

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Speaker 2: I'm really like trying to focus on that for twenty sixteen,

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Speaker 2: and I'm telling you that weekend that I spent with

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Speaker 2: games and we just like we didn't even talk about

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Speaker 2: like I don't know, it was it was just like

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Speaker 2: it was maybe something like that. It's I think changing

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Speaker 2: the environment if you can. I know it can be complicated,

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Speaker 1: I think a game night that would be fun, And

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely going to commit to at least like once

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Speaker 1: you know, we do.

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Speaker 2: And it's nice to like you're so stuck in your

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Speaker 2: when I see, like I just saw one of my

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Speaker 2: dinner the other night and we were just talking, and God,

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Speaker 2: I was like, you, you started law school. I forgot

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Speaker 2: because I feel like it makes you a better friend too, when.

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Speaker 1: You for sure that every you know you're not feel

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Speaker 1: like you said, I love that knock knock knock on

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Speaker 1: the mic. You're not the only one with stuff going on.

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Speaker 1: People have babies. Oh that's cute about your business. I

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Speaker 2: I created a human life.

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Speaker 1: Just growing a little a little person inside of me,

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Speaker 2: Speaking of speaking of babies, I had like four or

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Speaker 2: is like before the past couple of years have been

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Speaker 3: Of the babies.

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Speaker 2: Either way, your budget screwed because there's like a million events.

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Speaker 2: I last year's babies, I'm going to baptisms and first

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is honestly like once you get to a

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Speaker 1: separate bank account for like life, you know, like just

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Speaker 2: Out, you really do. But I saw all my friends.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you shouldn't have gotten married five years ago

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: I remember I wrote when I wrote my friend she

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Speaker 2: I was like two dollars away from overdrawing my account

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Speaker 2: write checks with like the fear of God in your heart?

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Speaker 1: Yes, like or you write a check with a caveat

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Speaker 2: Cast this after you after the.

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Speaker 3: Fifteenth, between the fifteenth and.

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Speaker 1: The thirty, if you cash it after the thirty I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna promise it's gonna be money. But if you

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Speaker 3: Ah, those are the days.

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Speaker 2: Well let's jump into some headlines just real quick. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about some buffoonery that has taken place.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 2: I don't really watch comics, watch comics, read comics, but

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Speaker 2: I do enjoy the occasional movie. So I read not

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Speaker 2: only one, but two major comic book publishers, DC Comics

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Speaker 2: and Marvel. Marvel is spider Man. Let me not get

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Speaker 2: this wrong, so people don't complame me spider Man. Spider

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Speaker 2: Man is Marvel and DC Comics is Superman. They both

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Speaker 2: Comics put they placed a storyline with Superman and Wonder Woman,

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Speaker 2: who I guess are going through some relationship struggles in

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Speaker 2: Pakistan for some reason. And there's all this dialogue, you know,

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Speaker 2: the little bubbles, and then the bottom there's like an

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Speaker 2: editor's note that says dialogue has a an asterisk. Is

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Speaker 2: all translated from Pakistanian dot dot dot editor which it's

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Speaker 2: funny because Pakistan's a country, but no one speaks Pakistanian

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Speaker 2: because that language doesn't exist.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it must be.

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Speaker 1: It must be like, you know, like cousin to African,

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Speaker 1: because you know, there's not African. There's not a million

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Speaker 2: Aware of, the saying do you speak yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm pretty sure just saying something even being will

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Speaker 2: Well, not to be outdone DC Comics or sorry Marvel.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, you know, flags are all the same, Like you

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Speaker 2: And you know what's funny is in the article I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is true. Whatever is it me?

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Speaker 1: Or whenever you hear somebody say Puerto Rico, you want

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Speaker 2: real quick, are you playing the lottery?

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Speaker 2: I know you don't want to like you don't want

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Speaker 1: You can't have this so exactly like so one of

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, not enough to quit your job,

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Speaker 2: I would do an office pool. I don't know. I've

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Speaker 2: just I have just feeled some type of way about gambling.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, me too.

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Speaker 2: Well, not to bring the mood down, but let's talk

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Speaker 2: about this lady, this hungarian lady, all who did not

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Speaker 2: God bless her.

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Speaker 4: She thought she could save Africa because you know, apparently,

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Speaker 4: you know, it's must be similar to that whole African

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Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: So I was ready to like be all up in arms,

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Speaker 3: They are so beautifully portrayed.

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Speaker 1: I can tell that the person who did it really

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Speaker 3: That's what I'll give her.

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Speaker 1: Like, you don't look at these pictures and think that

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Speaker 1: Thought, Wow, I'm doing something great here. I'm gonna put

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Speaker 1: just I've just been misinformed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't like a Halloween thing where you're just

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Speaker 2: it's terrible makeup, Like she legitimately personified the women and

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Speaker 2: other photos. I just don't get why, because she has

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Speaker 1: Ah, She's like, no, why do that when I can

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Speaker 3: But no, Yeah, I mean, yeah, I have.

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Speaker 2: A white friend. Just tell them, no, be there.

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Speaker 1: For them, Yes, please pull into the side, and there

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Speaker 1: are times of need, yes, and just say you know

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Speaker 1: you know, we have to do this every Halloween, even

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Speaker 1: social media, someone every Halloween thinks, not me, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: blackface and no one's gonna care. People care, stop doing it.

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Speaker 1: So that is your PSA announcement for twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome.

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Speaker 3: So it's time for brown Break. I like that.

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Speaker 1: But oh yeah, did we ever get any brown break songs? No,

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Speaker 1: no diddies from anywhere?

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Speaker 2: We did not?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Where the didties at?

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Speaker 2: Dound really worse when I said it out loud.

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Speaker 1: I would love a brown break Diddy like brown break,

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Speaker 1: brown break you know me there you go, Yes, I can.

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Speaker 1: Just because I can sing doesn't mean I should sing.

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Speaker 1: And that's one of those things brown break, you want

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Speaker 1: like I'm trying to think like the cohesive, like I'm

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Speaker 1: taking a brown break from uh, people undervaluing what I

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Speaker 1: bring to the table. That's what I'll say. That's probably

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Speaker 1: the most concise way that I can say it. No,

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Speaker 1: not haters, but they're Lately in the last few weeks

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Speaker 1: or so, people have kind of like approached me and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, So.

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Speaker 1: For example, this is just I'm just making this particular

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Speaker 3: You should be happy with it.

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Speaker 1: That kind of like that's what the exchanges have been lately,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, are you kidding?

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Speaker 3: Like it's just been so it's not happen.

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Speaker 1: It hasn't even been frustrating, honestly, because my answer is

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Speaker 1: always you've lost your mind. No, Like, I haven't said

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Speaker 1: So no, like, and this has been large brands, it's

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Speaker 1: So it's just been very it's been insulting, That's what

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Speaker 1: it's been. It has not been frustrating because my answer

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Speaker 1: But it's been very insulting some of the offers that

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Speaker 1: I've gotten, Like the offers have been something that you

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Speaker 1: So that's the part that makes me like slightly just disappointed.

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Speaker 1: Is because it's like either you don't care about what

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Speaker 1: just like, what what am I five years?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: This is babysitting money.

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Speaker 1: No, So I'm taking a roundbreak for people who undervalue

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Speaker 1: what I bring to the table. If you know, if

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Speaker 3: Do your research.

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Speaker 1: And if you don't have, you know, the funds or whatever,

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Speaker 1: that's fine, but don't insult people, especially people who really

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Speaker 1: work really, really hard, because you know, no one has

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Speaker 1: to say yes. That's one thing I've learned, Like twenty

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Speaker 1: sixteen for me is a year of no. I have

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Speaker 1: no problem with it rolling off my tongue, Tiffany, would

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Speaker 1: you like nope, nope, no, no, nope. So I'm practicing

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Speaker 1: no and no is a complete sentence. And so I'm

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Speaker 1: I guess because I've just been so tired. I've been

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Speaker 3: You're like, not even like remotely, like.

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Speaker 1: Oh I could see how No, just straight insulting, like

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Speaker 1: let's see if you could trick this girl.

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Speaker 3: The answer is now. So that's my brown break coops Mike.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I don't even want to follow that up with anything.

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Speaker 2: Let's just get me this week.

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Speaker 1: You can borrow something light or are there any fashion

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Speaker 1: trends that you want to take a brown break from me?

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Speaker 2: Like fashion trends, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, we could do something light.

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Speaker 2: Well. I did take a brown break from apps on

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Speaker 2: my phone this week, specific apps, apps that suck my

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Speaker 2: money dry. I went through, I deleted. I told you

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Speaker 2: I was taking like a spending break, but you know,

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Speaker 2: And I don't think people realize how much money flows

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Speaker 2: through their phone. And maybe it's for the younger generations,

439
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Speaker 2: but like I pay my bills through my phone, I

440
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Speaker 2: shop through my phone. I was sitting, Okay, I hope

441
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Speaker 2: he doesn't listen. Christmas Eve, we were at we were

442
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Speaker 2: at future husband's parents' apartment and his brother showed up

443
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Speaker 2: and I didn't really realize who was going to be there,

444
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Speaker 2: and I was like, oh crap, I didn't get his

445
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Speaker 2: brother a gift for Christmas. Pull out my phone. I

446
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,040
Speaker 2: covertly go on Amazon dot com the Amazon app, buy

447
00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,040
Speaker 2: him a gift card, email it to him, delivered at midnight, bam,

448
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Speaker 2: like within two minutes.

449
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Speaker 3: Awesome. But then the.

450
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Speaker 2: Money's gone, and it's like, it's amazing because you have

451
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Speaker 2: that you know, that flexibility or whatever. But it's also

452
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Speaker 2: I checked. I have this. I'm using this new app

453
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Speaker 2: call Level. Okay, what's it called Level. It's a budgeting

454
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Speaker 2: app called Level Okay. I like it better than Mint,

455
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Speaker 2: and I encourage you to check it out before just

456
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Speaker 2: people listening, because it doesn't just you can have all

457
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Speaker 2: your accounts in one place like Mint, which is cool,

458
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 2: and you can set goals and stuff, but it just

459
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Speaker 2: tells you. It goes through your accounts, sees how much

460
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Speaker 2: you have, looks at your goals, and tells you how

461
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Speaker 2: much you can afford to spend two day.

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Speaker 3: Oh I like that? Is it free?

463
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Speaker 2: It's free? Yeah, I just I just found it today.

464
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Speaker 2: It tells you how to how much you can spend today.

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Speaker 2: This week and this month the three days.

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Speaker 3: I like that level.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna, you know, let me text that for myself

468
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Speaker 1: because people always ask me like, I mean, you know,

469
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Speaker 1: shade to Men. A lot of people I know love Mint,

470
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Speaker 1: but a lot of the the push back I get

471
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Speaker 1: from because I've never used Men is that it's a

472
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Speaker 1: little bit complicated.

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Speaker 2: It's super complicated, and so.

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Speaker 1: You know, so a lot of my dream catchers, that's

475
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Speaker 1: the people you know who follow the budgetese. I'm always like, like,

476
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Speaker 1: do you know if any other apps? But because I

477
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Speaker 1: like actually enjoy budgeting, like when I'm stressed out, like

478
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Speaker 1: I budget for fun, so I don't use apps. I'm like,

479
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Speaker 1: I'm a paper and pencil Excel type of girl, and

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Speaker 1: so I'm never able to tell them we'll try this,

481
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Speaker 1: But you know what, I like that level.

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Speaker 3: I'm looking at the level.

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Speaker 2: Ments to pain in the ass because the whole purpose

484
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Speaker 2: of ment and other and not just meant. I've used

485
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Speaker 2: other ones to like learn best a personal capital, and

486
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Speaker 2: I just always test them out. It's because they are

487
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Speaker 2: supposed to track your expenses. But like if you live

488
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Speaker 2: in a city where like you don't go to the

489
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Speaker 2: like name brand stories every day, like if I go

490
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Speaker 2: to the bodega or I take a yellow cab, they

491
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Speaker 2: don't recognize the merchant and so they don't categorize it.

492
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Speaker 2: So you got to go categorize all. Like at the

493
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Speaker 2: end of the month, I have like dozens of transactions

494
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Speaker 2: I have to manually.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, that's too much.

496
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Speaker 2: So much.

497
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Speaker 3: Don't want you to have an app show because.

498
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Speaker 1: People ask all the time, like someone hit me up

499
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Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, what do you and Mandy think about?

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Speaker 1: You know this app or this I feel like we

501
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Speaker 1: should have like not necessarily a whole show, but maybe

502
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Speaker 1: our favorite app of the moment or something like you

503
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Speaker 1: know how we're gonna do our books if we get

504
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Speaker 1: a chance. Oh yeah, you know, just because there's so

505
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Speaker 1: many free like websites or apps or stuff that we're

506
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Speaker 1: using that that's really working that we can kind of share.

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Speaker 1: I think that'll be fun.

508
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Speaker 2: Well, let this be the first one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so level let's try and left. I'm excited to try.

510
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Speaker 1: Now I'm like on my phone trying to be likes.

511
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Speaker 2: The best because I mean, you need it's just a

512
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Speaker 2: little reminder, Like I'm looking at it right now. I

513
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Speaker 2: have fifty four dollars left I can spend today, and

514
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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh great, I'm gonna be fifty five bucks

515
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Speaker 2: ahead tomorrow because I'm not going on tonight. Yeah, but

516
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Speaker 2: to help me not resist the temptation, I deleted Seamless.

517
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Speaker 2: I deleted Amazon's app. I deleted what are the other ones? Uber?

518
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Speaker 2: I deleted which was kind of hard, and Lift. I

519
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Speaker 2: deleted and group on. Oh and I was I used

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Speaker 2: to be a group on Attic. I deleted that just

521
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Speaker 2: a little just a little apps for like, you know,

522
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Speaker 2: little bits of money would just disappear. Like I was

523
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Speaker 2: constantly buying books on Kindle on my phone and stuff,

524
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Speaker 2: and so got rid of those. And I'm feeling I've

525
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Speaker 2: been a weekend and I'm I'm feeling okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Another thing you can turn off is that like

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Speaker 1: one click Amazon. That thing is the devil honey.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that it was on my phone too.

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Speaker 3: What I didn't even want to it is not just that.

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Speaker 2: But the id I could I use my finger to

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Speaker 2: like buy music or buy something on iTunes and Amazon

532
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Speaker 2: You can use your finger now.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

534
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Speaker 1: And that means it's whoever convented that clearly genius. So

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Speaker 1: you know, that's kudos to you. But I turned off

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Speaker 1: my one click option and so like it's it gives

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Speaker 1: me a choice one click or now it says like,

538
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Speaker 1: you know, buy it the regular way, because sometimes you know,

539
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Speaker 1: you go through the process and then you're like what

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Speaker 1: am I doing?

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Speaker 3: What am I doing? And then you'll stop.

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Speaker 1: And so now I forced myself to go through because

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Speaker 1: now it's not automatically one click because it's just that's.

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Speaker 3: Just too much.

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Speaker 1: I just I was buying things that I was never

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Speaker 1: going to use. Although I did buy a new book today.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait till we talk about books because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I bought a new book and I'm excited to share. Well,

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Speaker 1: maybe i'll share my other book. But yeah, we'll get

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Speaker 1: to that. So your brown break is bringing it on home?

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Speaker 1: What is your round brak?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I went on a Tiffany roller coaster. Yes,

553
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Speaker 2: my brown break is the apps that suck my money dry.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you're taking a break from someone money sucking dry apps.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: And I'm trying at the level app and again at

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Speaker 2: the level L E V E L check it out.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm gonna have level by next week. I'll be

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Speaker 3: able to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: About it cool. So for tips today, we have a

561
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Speaker 2: really excellent reader question that I wanted to go over.

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Speaker 2: I love this question so much on so many different

563
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Speaker 2: levels because I think it personifies a bunch of like

564
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Speaker 2: mistakes that a lot of people make early in their career.

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Speaker 2: And thank you Jonita for putting yourself out there for

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Speaker 2: us to nitpick. But it's a long emails. Let me

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Speaker 2: try and paraphrase. So Jonita just graduated twenty fourteen, so

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Speaker 2: just a couple of years ago, like less than two

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Speaker 2: years ago. She wanted to work for or a education nonprofit,

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Speaker 2: and luckily for me, the education the organization that provided

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Speaker 2: part of my college funding, loves me and recommended me

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Speaker 2: for a job with one of those nonprofits. I had

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Speaker 2: no admin experience, but there I was two months out

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Speaker 2: of college, making twenty eight K working as a part

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Speaker 2: time office manager for a great organization. Then a year later,

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Speaker 2: well it sounds like my first job. I was told

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Speaker 2: they were looking to phase me out in order to

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Speaker 2: bring in someone who could do my job in addition

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Speaker 2: to taking care of other accounting and business needs. She'd

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Speaker 2: only studied sociology and didn't have any desire to do accounting,

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Speaker 2: So this is awful. So of course she was shocked,

582
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Speaker 2: because I'm shocked. I was disappointed, and I didn't know

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Speaker 2: what I was going to do. So this past September, she,

584
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Speaker 2: after submitting a dozen resumes and going on a few interviews,

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Speaker 2: she had a job offer. She immediately accepted the job

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Speaker 2: on the spot. It was a job doing what she

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Speaker 2: wanted to do. It was in my field, and I

588
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Speaker 2: had no other prospect, she said, so why not Shell.

589
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Speaker 2: So you accepted it without even asking what the salary was.

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Speaker 2: And then she says, then on my first day of work,

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Speaker 2: I discovered why I should have thought harder about this.

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Speaker 2: The position was a contract positioned through the end of

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Speaker 2: the school year and only paid fifty fifteen hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: a month before taxes. She said, I had just taken

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Speaker 2: a giant pay cut. So here I am three months later,

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Speaker 2: trying to work out my boyfriend and I's budget to

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Speaker 2: make sure we can still eat after paying rent, utilities

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Speaker 2: an individual and paying out our bills. She lives in Washington,

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Speaker 2: d C. Which is super expensive. Yes it is, and

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Speaker 2: neither of our parents have room in their homes for

601
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Speaker 2: us to live, so we are stuck so she sang,

602
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Speaker 2: all of this is to ask what should I do.

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Speaker 2: I love my job and everyone's great, but I'm at

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Speaker 2: the end of my rope. Should I start looking for

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Speaker 2: a new full time position? And if so, how should

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Speaker 2: I handle putting this position on my resume? I think

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Speaker 2: I can totally relate to. First of all, I can

608
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Speaker 2: relate because my first job in New York City, I

609
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Speaker 2: was laid off three months after I After I got

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Speaker 2: the job, she was super fun. I didn't even have

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Speaker 2: a bed frame or like a mattress. H No, it's okay,

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Speaker 2: it's funny now. And not only that, but I left

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Speaker 2: that job. I left a job in Georgia, a good job,

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Speaker 2: full time as a newspaper reporter. I got that job

615
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Speaker 2: in two weeks later, the magazine in New York called

616
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Speaker 2: me to see if I wanted a job there, and

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Speaker 2: so I ended up quitting that newspaper job, solid job

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Speaker 2: with benefits after only a month of working there, and

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Speaker 2: then move into New York only to then be let

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Speaker 2: go three months later. So I can I can tell

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Speaker 2: you how to handle like putting a job on your

622
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: resume that we're only there for a short period of time.

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Speaker 2: I can handle that and then also that feeling of

624
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Speaker 2: desperation when you lose your job and then you just

625
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Speaker 2: go for the first thing that comes your way. And

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Speaker 2: I understand that it can be stressful because obviously you

627
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Speaker 2: have to have a job. You get a job offer,

628
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: and you're so stoked it's in your job field. But

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Speaker 2: I think the mistake here was clearly not asking upfront

630
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Speaker 2: the two crucial questions how much does this pay? And

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Speaker 2: is it full time? And I feel like the freelance economy,

632
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Speaker 2: like it's so common now for employers to only have

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Speaker 2: contract work, which is essentially where you're working on a timeframe,

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Speaker 2: you don't get benefits, and your job is up in like,

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Speaker 2: you know, three months, six months. I've worked at places

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Speaker 2: where people are on a two month contract and they

637
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Speaker 2: just have to get they have to like wait on

638
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Speaker 2: tenter hooks every two months to see if their contract

639
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Speaker 2: is going to be renewed. And it's like not a

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Speaker 2: good way to live. So I understand how you found

641
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Speaker 2: yourself in this position, but you can't go back. But

642
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Speaker 2: I would say anyone who's in the position now, like

643
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Speaker 2: don't just take the first off, or you have to

644
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Speaker 2: ask questions and you shouldn't feel you shouldn't feel shy.

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Speaker 2: I know she just graduated, you know, less than two

646
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Speaker 2: years ago, so she's just you know, inexperienced. But I

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Speaker 2: think in her case, maybe practicing or asking someone who

648
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Speaker 2: is experienced about a job before just kind of jumping

649
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Speaker 2: at it would have been a smart way to approach that.

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Speaker 3: Mm hm.

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Speaker 1: So moving forward, what do you I mean? I think

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Speaker 1: for sure she needs to be looking.

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Speaker 2: For Oh, no joke. Yeah, you should absolutely be looking.

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Speaker 2: And your job's a contract job anyway, like they they

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Speaker 2: should not be. I don't know. I feel like when

656
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Speaker 2: you're when you hire a contractor, I feel like you

657
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Speaker 2: have less you have less right to be upset if

658
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Speaker 2: they leave. Yeah, they leave because you're telling them right

659
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: off the bat, we're not interested in investing in you

660
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Speaker 2: for the long term. So you know, why should you

661
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Speaker 2: be sitting around waiting for them?

662
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Speaker 1: So you should be aggressively looking for a job because

663
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Speaker 1: you don't. It doesn't make sense if you're worried about

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Speaker 1: do we have enough to buy food? Don't put yourself

665
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Speaker 1: in that position unnecessarily or stay in that position.

666
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Speaker 3: And so yeah, definitely look for another job.

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Speaker 1: So this is something really for you though, Mandy, because

668
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Speaker 1: I have not had to write a resume in so

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Speaker 1: many years, and like probably like ten years. So how

670
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: do you how does she handle that on her resume?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you put you put it on there. I mean,

672
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Speaker 2: you have a pretty thin resume because you've only had

673
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Speaker 2: two jobs since you graduated. It sounds like and I

674
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Speaker 2: think that your future employer should understand that when they

675
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Speaker 2: hire someone your age who's recently graduated. And I say,

676
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Speaker 2: you tell them the truth. I say, the first job

677
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Speaker 2: you obviously you were laid off, and you don't write

678
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Speaker 2: that on your resume. Of course, I absolutely put the

679
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Speaker 2: magazine where I worked on my resume. I did not

680
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Speaker 2: put that I was laid off. I put all the

681
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Speaker 2: great things I did there, of course, and then I put,

682
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Speaker 2: you know, the few months.

683
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Speaker 3: That I work there.

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Speaker 2: If they cared to look at it and do the

685
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Speaker 2: math and find out that I was only three months,

686
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Speaker 2: then maybe they asked. But I can't remember. Like I

687
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: think that we overestimate how much time employers have. Hiring

688
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Speaker 2: managers have to like review resumes, and sometimes they don't

689
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Speaker 2: catch that kind of stuff. But if they do, you

690
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Speaker 2: answer truthfully and you say, okay, well they were looking

691
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Speaker 2: for someone with accounting experience and I didn't have those skills,

692
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Speaker 2: and so we decided to part ways. Make it seem

693
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Speaker 2: like it was a mutual decision, you know. And for

694
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Speaker 2: the other job, since your resume is thin, I would

695
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Speaker 2: say put that on there as well. You you may

696
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Speaker 2: maybe you haven't worked there long, but you are gathering

697
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Speaker 2: skills and experience in your field. If your future employee

698
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Speaker 2: employer asks, you, know, why did you decide to leave,

699
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Speaker 2: you can say it was a contract position and I

700
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Speaker 2: knew that it wasn't full time, and I wanted to

701
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Speaker 2: find something. I wanted to find a place where I

702
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Speaker 2: could work that would fully invest in me the same

703
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Speaker 2: way that I want to invest in that in that place.

704
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Speaker 2: And I think that that should suffice like I don't.

705
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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't see I don't see someone digging

706
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Speaker 2: so much into that, and like, you know that being

707
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Speaker 2: a complete deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: And plus you're young. You have to understand that. You know,

709
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Speaker 1: if you're under assuming you're under twenty five, they're not

710
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Speaker 1: looking like where is have twenty years of experience, you know,

711
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Speaker 1: So this is part of this your your resume building.

712
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: So it's it's typical for somebody in your age range

713
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: and to have this level of experience. So it's okay,

714
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: we've all made those mistakes and choices and so now

715
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Speaker 1: it's like, okay, I've recognized that. So the next time,

716
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Speaker 1: what I'm I'm going to do is this. So just

717
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Speaker 1: put that into perspective.

718
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Speaker 2: But I would say, also, never leave an interview before

719
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Speaker 2: you know, not the first interview, but maybe the second interview.

720
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Speaker 2: You have to talk about numbers, and it can be

721
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Speaker 2: it sounds to me like whoever hired you was really

722
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 2: incompetent and wasn't experienced, Because as a hiring manager, you

723
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Speaker 2: don't want an employee signing on to a job they

724
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 2: don't know what the damn salary is like that, because

725
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Speaker 2: you want to give that employee a chance to actually

726
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Speaker 2: agree to what they're getting paid or else, all you're

727
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: gonna get is an eployee's unhappy. Probably, So if they

728
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Speaker 2: don't bring it up, though, if they are inexperienced and

729
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 2: you know, not professional, they maybe not bring it up.

730
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 2: You have to ask, you know, you have to say,

731
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Speaker 2: you know, we've had a couple of interviews. I'm very

732
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: interested in this position. I love the company. I wondered

733
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Speaker 2: if we can now talk about compensation.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great line right there. Women always think

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00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: like it's so crazy, Like when my sister left her

736
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Speaker 1: financial job that she hated and was like looking for

737
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Speaker 1: another job.

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Speaker 3: My sister has her MBA in finance and.

739
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Speaker 1: A and she got a it's a duel something like

740
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Speaker 1: finance and marketing something crazy.

741
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Speaker 3: And I'm like and she's like, oh, I don't know

742
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 3: if I'm like, you have your NBA. Why is that? Women?

743
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 3: For real?

744
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Speaker 1: Even the place where she was working before her boss

745
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Speaker 1: didn't have her NBA. So I'm just like, it's like

746
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Speaker 1: we women have such a hard time like owning up

747
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,479
Speaker 1: and owning the fact that I'm dope, you know so,

748
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Speaker 1: And I know it's hard, you know, but and it's

749
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Speaker 1: to our detriment, Like you're taking these things that are

750
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Speaker 1: less than thinking, like well, if you.

751
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Speaker 3: Are a man, man you'd be like how much I'm out?

752
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Speaker 2: I mean, you have to look at it this way too.

753
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Speaker 2: First of all, you're working with she says, in some

754
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: ways she works with students. Oh yeah, they in her

755
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 2: field is working with to give college access to low

756
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 2: income students. These this is a group of people, these

757
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: young people from hard backgrounds, they're gonna need you to

758
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 2: give a lot, like emotionally, mentally they're gonna need. But

759
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Speaker 2: how can you expect to give them anything when you

760
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 2: haven't given yourself anything. You're expecting anything for yourself, and

761
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: you have to make sure that you're getting compensated in

762
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 2: a way that matches the work you're doing. And I

763
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: feel like women often give, give, give, and they don't

764
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Speaker 2: give to themselves in that way or like don't expect

765
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Speaker 2: to be given what they're actually do. So and again

766
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Speaker 2: she's so young, You're gonna learn, but I mean hopefully

767
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Speaker 2: you learn sooner rather than later, because there's a lot

768
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Speaker 2: of women who, you know, think the same way. Like

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Speaker 2: she says, I'd hate to disappoint them, my employer or

770
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Speaker 2: the students I work with, but I'm at the end

771
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Speaker 2: of my rope. Well, listen to yourself, like the students

772
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: and the employer, Like, honestly, they're not paying the bills.

773
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: I mean, well they are, but they're not like they're

774
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Speaker 2: not gonna be there for you five years down their row.

775
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: When you have like no savings. You really have to

776
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Speaker 2: look out for yourself. You need deserve it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's the thing. It is your first priority to

778
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Speaker 3: look after yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I am so, miss Jonita. We hope that helped.

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Speaker 2: If you have any other questions and anyone else. If

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Speaker 2: you have questions, us at Brown Ambition Podcasts at gmail

782
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 2: dot com. All right, so this week instead of wins,

783
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 2: we talked about this before we wanted to do trying

784
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Speaker 2: to talk about People have always asked us, you know

785
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: what sort of books help you in your career and financially.

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Speaker 2: So this week Tiffany wants to share. Tiffany tell the class, Hey, class.

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Speaker 3: So, one of my favorite books of all time. And

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Speaker 3: actually I got the suggestion on Facebook.

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00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: I had read so I think we talked about write

790
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Speaker 1: the Alchemist when we talked about books last and I

791
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 1: told you how much I loved The Alchemist. So I

792
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 1: wanted a new book, and I wrote, like a year

793
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: or two ago, like, hey, Facebook friends, I love the Alchemists.

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Speaker 3: Is there any other book that's like that?

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Speaker 1: I kind of has that energy, beautifully written a little

796
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: bit of spiritual, but really just about bettering yourself. And

797
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: someone suggested this book and it sounded so strange. It's

798
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Speaker 1: called Jonathan Livingston Seagull. Have you ever heard of that?

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Speaker 2: That's the book title. Yes, I never heard of it.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like, okay, it's almost like, don't be fooled

801
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: by the book title. It's an amazing book and I

802
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: have to say it is one of my favorite books

803
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Speaker 1: just period.

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Speaker 3: It is so beautifully written.

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Speaker 1: And so it's about a seagull, which seems weird and

806
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: at first you're like, wait, what, but it's the seagull

807
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: is a metaphor for the type of person that you

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Speaker 1: want to be. So there's a seagull named Jonathan Livingston.

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Speaker 3: Seagull.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he has pred and he starts off like every

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Speaker 1: other seagull like, but he's a little bit different. And

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Speaker 1: then the rest of the seagulls are just chasing basic life,

813
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: which is fish flying, but just flying just high enough to,

814
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: you know, to to catch fish, because seagulls kind of

815
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: dive into the water to catch fish. So most seagulls

816
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: are living at a low frequency, like low vibration. They

817
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: don't do any more than what they have to do.

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Speaker 1: But Jonathan and Livingston seagull, he starts to see flying

819
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Speaker 1: as a means to take himself to the next level,

820
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: and so he starts to practice to see if he

821
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Speaker 1: can fly faster, and the rest of the seagulls they

822
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,359
Speaker 1: can't get it, so they kind of ostracize him because

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00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: they're like, well, it should be you should be happy

824
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Speaker 1: with just living enough of a life to cover your basics.

825
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: And he's like, no, that there's more to life, and

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Speaker 1: I want to chase after that more. I don't even

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Speaker 1: know what that more is, so the story kind of

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00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: like follows him. It's really it's a short book, but

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Speaker 1: it's so well written, and like I said, it's beautifully written,

830
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 1: and it actually has you look at yourself and you

831
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Speaker 1: think to yourself, am I like the rest of the seagulls?

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Speaker 1: Where I'm doing just enough, just to live, just enough

833
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: to pay bills, just enough, you know, so that way

834
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Speaker 1: I can afford my rent. I'm not really reaching beyond myself.

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Speaker 1: And I really suggest that book to anyone who is

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Speaker 1: kind of looking for that push to the next level.

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Speaker 1: It's really short, when I say really, sure you can

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Speaker 1: honestly read it like an hour, hour and a half.

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Speaker 1: But it's well written enough to kind of keep you

840
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: engaged because it's a story and it will help you.

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Speaker 3: I usually read it once a year.

842
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,399
Speaker 1: It'll really motivate you to think to yourself, I want

843
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: more out of life. I don't want to just make

844
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: just enough or I don't want to just drive just

845
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: enough for like basic life. You know, I want more happiness.

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00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: I want joy I want I want to see how

847
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Speaker 1: far I can push myself, you know, to what levels

848
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: can I really reach? So yep, so just google. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's only one book.

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Speaker 2: It's one hundred and twelve pages.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, super sure, I'm telling you, Mandy, I think you

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00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: really like it. Jonathan Livingston Seagull. I bought it from

853
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: my kindle. I don't always like read. If something's really

854
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: meaty and heavy, I like, I like to get the

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00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: physical book. But if something is like like I wouldn't

856
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 1: say it's fun, but something's like a little bit lighter,

857
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 1: I like to read it on my kindle. And so

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00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: this is definitely a great kindle read like on the

859
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 1: train or like you know, headed home from work or whatever.

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Speaker 1: You'll finish it fairly quickly and you'll think.

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Speaker 2: Me, okay, well she seems sure of herself. All right,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna check it out. Meanwhile, I read a three

863
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 2: book crime series and like a weekend, like you know what,

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00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 2: you read so much and so quickly, like I haven't

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Speaker 2: read like that since probably college, where I just like

866
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 2: devour books in a weekend and then I have this

867
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Speaker 2: like book hangover where I am like where I am,

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Speaker 2: I feel tired and dehydrated. But then also I'm just

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Speaker 2: like Craven the next hit. I'm like wit and there's

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Speaker 2: no fourth book, and I'm just like it's the It's

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Speaker 2: the Cormoran Strike novels. This has nothing to do with

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Speaker 2: inspiring anybody. It's a crime. It's a it is like

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Speaker 2: the fruits of a nice holiday vacation. I just read

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Speaker 2: these three books. But it's the cormer In Strikes novels.

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Speaker 2: It's Cormoran. It's kind of a weird word. C O

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Speaker 2: R O M A N. I'm written by Robert Galbraith,

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Speaker 2: which who happens to be jk Rowling, who happened to

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Speaker 2: write Harry Potter. I know I'm a Harry Brady.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 2: But my brother, my little brother got in for me

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Speaker 2: for Christmas. And it's so different than I mean, it's

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Speaker 2: nothing like Harry Potter. It's a suspense. It's a grown

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Speaker 2: up novel. Like there's sex, drugs, alcohol, serial killers, people

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Speaker 2: chopping up bodies. But anyway, it was a good book.

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Speaker 2: So and you cannot read that in an hour. There

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Speaker 2: were hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of pages, but they

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Speaker 2: were good. I love a good crime novel.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, you know what, I'm not want to you

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Speaker 1: know how some people are like, oh, you know, I

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Speaker 1: love you know, graphic novels, or I love romance novels.

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Speaker 1: I'm like a very you know, I cheat on all

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Speaker 1: the genres. Like sometimes I love romance novels when i'm

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Speaker 1: into them. Sometimes I love inspirational books, I read business books.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a particular genre that I stick to.

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Speaker 1: I just like good writing, and I shouldn't.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: And so I'm just I used to be such an

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Speaker 1: average I mean, I still read probably more than an average,

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Speaker 1: but I used to be like two books a week

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Speaker 1: type of reader, like at least, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: want to kind of get back to because reading to

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Speaker 1: me is really relaxing and I love learning new things

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Speaker 1: and taking those new things, even if, like you know,

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Speaker 1: I've never been into like the crime because I don't

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Speaker 1: like gory, scary things, so they stick with me. But

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely into like crime as it relates to like Ooh,

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Speaker 1: that's an interesting way to think about stuff.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, maybe I'll read is it really graphic.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm like, maybe don't read the third Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: pretty graphic. I mean the third book there's a serial

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Speaker 2: killer who drops up women's bodies and puts them in

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Speaker 2: the freezer.

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Speaker 3: So oh yeah, so I'm just gonna stay with Matt.

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Speaker 3: But you know when you.

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Speaker 2: Read a book though, and it's like a light outside

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Speaker 2: in the morning and then it's like dark outside when

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Speaker 2: you finally come up for air and you have to

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Speaker 2: turn the lights on and stuff like, yeah, like that's

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Speaker 2: the kind of deep reading.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all that notes episode Yes, Episode twenty is a

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Speaker 1: rap skiz.

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Speaker 3: It's been so fun as usual chatting with you, Mandy.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for taking your break from you're busy entrepreneur life.

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Speaker 1: Right, I'm just like, well, no, honestly, I love this

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Speaker 1: is It's brown ambition is like one of the few

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Speaker 1: constants in my life, you know, because weekly we do this.

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Speaker 1: It's like I make time for this and it just

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Speaker 1: feels good to like take a break. Laugh because when

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Speaker 1: I'm doing this with you, I can't like do extra

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Speaker 1: things on the side. I can't multitask. I have to

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Speaker 1: remain present, so thank you.

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Speaker 2: I get jealous, so better that way, all right, guys,

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Speaker 2: Well you know how to reach us. You can email

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Speaker 2: us at Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com, tweet

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Speaker 2: us at the BA Podcast.

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Speaker 3: Oop.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, go ahead now I was gonna say the BA podcast.

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Speaker 1: You can sweet if you know that's the one I remember.

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Speaker 1: And you can Facebook us or you.

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Speaker 3: Know, right on our wall Brown Ambition on Facebook.

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Speaker 2: Happy weekend, See you guys next week. Bye,