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Speaker 1: This is from Don and Holly Springs. Don writes, my

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Speaker 1: husband told me.

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Speaker 2: Holly Springs is in Mississippi.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, my husband told me that he's going to

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Speaker 1: his twenty fifth high school class reunion, and he already

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Speaker 1: booked a flight. He never books his own flights or

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Speaker 1: reserves his own hotel rooms. Should I surprise him at

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Speaker 1: the last minute and tell him I'm going to what?

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Speaker 2: No? No, No, you shouldn't.

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Speaker 3: And you know what, you know why he did all

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Speaker 3: that because it's his twenty five year reunion. He didn't

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Speaker 3: know you then you didn't go to the school, and

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Speaker 3: you don't want he don't know nobody.

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Speaker 2: What he wants to do is be able to go

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Speaker 2: there laugh.

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Speaker 4: Lie.

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Speaker 2: He want to do it freely. He got you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what this is for twenty five year Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: he booked his ticket, got his room, everything. A couple

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Speaker 3: of boys gonna be there, they gonna get some cigars,

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Speaker 3: they're gonna be talking straight trash. No, you shouldn't surprise him.

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Speaker 3: She just let him have that moment. The man ain't

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Speaker 3: cheating with nobody. You just want to go and have

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Speaker 3: some me time. And I think you ought to let

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Speaker 3: him have that. No, don't go and surprise him, because

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Speaker 3: that that ain't cool. You're not going to surprise him.

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Speaker 3: You're going to check on him, so we stop calling surprise.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did you have to your by the way, did

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Speaker 4: you go to your uh twentieth?

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Speaker 3: How was that on ten? As a as a complete failure?

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Speaker 3: Nothing had gone right.

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Speaker 4: For look at me now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I had that wall to wall carpet business card.

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Speaker 3: But you don't Nobody go out in the parking lot

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Speaker 3: and look in my car because the machine was in

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Speaker 3: my back seat. So I'm still there.

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Speaker 2: Nobody went out.

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Speaker 4: There, all right, all right, my car was my van. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we're gonna and Caleb and Edgewater.

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Speaker 1: Caleb writes, I want another baby, and my wife uses

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Speaker 1: our two year old son to keep us from having sex.

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Speaker 1: If I put my son in his own bed, she

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Speaker 1: goes to get him and brings him to our bed.

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Speaker 1: She thinks, I don't know what she's doing. How do

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Speaker 1: I get our kid out of our bed?

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Speaker 3: No, it ain't getting your kid out your bed. How

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Speaker 3: do you get your wife to have sex with you?

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Speaker 3: That's it's not get your kid out the bed. See bru,

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Speaker 3: listen to me. If she don't, If you don't whether

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Speaker 3: the kid is in the bed or not. She don't

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Speaker 3: want to have sex with you.

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Speaker 1: That's a p She don't want no baby because she

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Speaker 1: doesn't want a baby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so now, man, what y'all? And and does he

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Speaker 3: say he wants a baby?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he wants another baby.

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Speaker 3: Well see bro, see bru, listen to me that having

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Speaker 3: a baby thing. That decision is not yours, That decision

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Speaker 3: is hers.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was a joint decision.

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Speaker 3: I mean to me, if she say no, the factory,

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Speaker 3: the manufactory of the product is closed.

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Speaker 2: Now you won't know one if you want to.

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Speaker 3: But see, they only make them one at a time,

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Speaker 3: and they are factory produced. And the only one that

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Speaker 3: can do that is of the female species. Now if y'all,

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Speaker 3: if you want a baby and she don't, but you

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Speaker 3: still want to have sex, then y'all got to have

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Speaker 3: protected sex. Yeah, you gotta have some type of contraceptive

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Speaker 3: measure other than that, bro, the baby coming to bed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, maybe she's saying that right now.

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Speaker 4: Maybe later. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, well, what they need to do is communicate that

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Speaker 3: they need to have a real talk about absolutely.

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Speaker 1: You're right, all right, Moving on colo to Lynn and

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Speaker 1: Grand Prairie. Lynn writes, my neighbors sent around a video

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Speaker 1: of his wife sneaking another man into their home.

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Speaker 4: A lot of neighbors saw and started.

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Speaker 3: Che wait whait wait wait wait wait wait So a

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Speaker 3: neighbor's wife, this is a guy here?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Uh now, this is a woman talking. Her name is

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Speaker 1: Lynn and grand Prairie. She says her neighbors sent around

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Speaker 1: a video of his wife sneaking another man at their home.

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Speaker 1: Got it a lot a lot of neighbors saw it

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Speaker 1: and started judging her. She can use a friend. But

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Speaker 1: my husband said I shouldn't associate with her. Should I

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You should? You should because she going through it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but what why?

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Speaker 3: Maybe he's one of the what's see but see here

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Speaker 3: do this weak husband who wants to have this community

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Speaker 3: joint punishment set up. I'm gonna show all the neighbors

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Speaker 3: who you are. Well, bruh, that's that's your idea of solution.

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Speaker 3: That was weak for him to do that. But you

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Speaker 3: should check on her and listen to me. Man, all

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Speaker 3: of us have friends who have made a mistake. I

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Speaker 3: am a friend of people, and I have made mistakes.

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Speaker 3: I don't want my friends walking away from me because

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Speaker 3: I made a mistake. So why would you ask a

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Speaker 3: man not to show compassion for somebody? Yeah, check on

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Speaker 3: the lady, see if she okay?

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Speaker 2: This could be crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, really look at that weak man.

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Speaker 1: Right there, because he will he just her husband?

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Speaker 4: Then a video of her sneaking a man?

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Speaker 2: And how boy?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: Did you know it's gonna happen for I send the video.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have a police video.

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Speaker 1: But when that video, Yeah, why do the neighbors need

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Speaker 1: to know that what's going on.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have some bodycam footage, but we not gonna

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Speaker 3: have the Dobell.

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Speaker 4: Footage yellow tape.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one, This is the last one. This is from

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Speaker 1: Edmund and Charlotte Edmund and Charlotte. Edmund writes, I usually

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Speaker 1: stop on my way home from work to get a

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Speaker 1: cup of coffee.

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Speaker 4: And just chill for a minute.

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Speaker 1: My wife thinks that it's because I hate coming home.

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Speaker 1: That's not true at all. I can't have a moment

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Speaker 1: to myself after a long day. Why is this a

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Speaker 1: big problem?

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Speaker 4: I know you can speak to this one. You always

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Speaker 4: take time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to tell you something.

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Speaker 3: Everybody needs some me time sometimes you just cause, listen

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Speaker 3: to me. When he go, when he comes to the door,

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Speaker 3: he gotta start being something else.

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Speaker 2: And ladies need the same meantime.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely, And we got to understand that on both sides.

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Speaker 3: It's women being with them kids all day and then

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Speaker 3: you come home and want her to be something else.

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Speaker 3: She might need a minute, man, you know. And so

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Speaker 3: this guy been at work all day, he can't stand

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Speaker 3: coming home.

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Speaker 2: He just need a minute.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all he do is get a cup of

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Speaker 4: coffee and sheill for a minute.

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Speaker 2: Hey, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, in in my previous life, uh huh, I've sat

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Speaker 3: outside in my car two three, four hours before.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't now it's time to shut it down. That's

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Speaker 2: hating to go home, that's what you got.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't out there drinking coffee. I was out there

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Speaker 3: considered becoming an alcoholidays.

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Speaker 4: At the top of the hour.

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Speaker 2: I had called a homie trying to buy some myth.

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Speaker 2: You know, I was out.

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