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Speaker 1: All right, guys, this is from Kelvin. In the DMV.

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Speaker 2: Kelvin says, my wife and I decided we didn't want

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Speaker 2: children before we got married. Here we are five years

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Speaker 2: in and she told me she has baby fever. I

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Speaker 2: get it, and it's cool with me, but she forgets

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Speaker 2: that we have an open marriage and we're about to

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Speaker 2: let one of our female partners move in. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to bring the child into this type of situation.

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Speaker 2: I grew up in a two parent home, so I'm

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Speaker 2: against a mixing children up in our type of household.

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Speaker 2: But my wife wants to have it all. She wants

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Speaker 2: to have a baby, and she wants the other woman.

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Speaker 2: How do I force her to choose one? They start

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Speaker 2: doing all this, I don't know what is that in

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Speaker 2: the DMV going down?

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Speaker 1: In the DMV them a baby and the baby.

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Speaker 2: She wants it all, open marriage everything, what else?

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Speaker 1: You got no rules?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I take the other woman, but I don't.

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Speaker 4: I ain't gonna want you to know about.

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Speaker 1: It, So just cheat, You're just cheat.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand what what what are they doing?

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Speaker 1: They're open with it.

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Speaker 4: You're not gonna put it all over?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're not gonna just dumped it something.

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Speaker 1: Either they are open, they have an open marriage.

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Speaker 3: Yeah but yeah, but yeah, but you're still outside. You

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Speaker 3: still with somebody outside your marriage.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, she's outside of the marriage, but they're inside

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Speaker 2: the marriage.

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Speaker 1: They're all in there. No.

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Speaker 3: See, well I take the other woman, but I don't

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Speaker 3: want nobody to.

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Speaker 1: Know it's not the same. That's why they have it open,

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Speaker 1: so they can do whatever they want.

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Speaker 4: So you don't have to sneak around.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have to cheat and lie and all.

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Speaker 4: It's open. Isn't that what I want?

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Speaker 1: What fun is that?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: No secrets? No secrets? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What is that?

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Speaker 1: Steve? They're getting ready to move this woman in their home.

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Speaker 4: How you go that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Got your hair like that?

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Speaker 4: I don't understand how that's fun.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean they've been doing this for a while.

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Speaker 2: They've been married for five years.

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Speaker 1: So first she didn't want a baby. Now she does.

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Speaker 3: But you know it's first let me, let me, let

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Speaker 3: me explain to you what the what the other woman

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Speaker 3: is for? Okay, the other woman so you can escape.

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Speaker 3: It's an escape from your situation. So you go over

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Speaker 3: there and have peace. You ain't got to discuss bills, Oh,

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Speaker 3: you ain't got to hear about finances. Yeah, you ain't

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Speaker 3: got to hear about family drama, what the kids need

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Speaker 3: because you had.

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Speaker 4: That over there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, if you hold her in.

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Speaker 4: He's a part of it.

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Speaker 3: We all did not she eting groceries. She over here

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Speaker 3: running up the light beal you need gas in her call? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's not what you kill the side pieces fault.

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Speaker 1: The second business of it all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's almost like you have two wires.

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Speaker 1: To spouse the same.

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Speaker 4: What would you ruin a perfectly good side? He's like,

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Speaker 4: why would you do that?

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Speaker 1: Well, he wants he wants her to choose one.

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Speaker 2: He wants her to choose either having a baby or

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Speaker 2: choose this other woman moving in with them?

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Speaker 1: Which one? So he has a line.

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Speaker 4: So there is a line, so huh yeah, because the

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Speaker 4: baby don't need to be seeing them draw.

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Speaker 1: The line, I mean.

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Speaker 2: And he has a great point though, who wants to

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Speaker 2: bring a baby into this type of situation?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great point.

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Speaker 4: Because he don't see it. He all, she don't see it.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, don't be able.

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Speaker 3: Grandmama house talking about my daddy was kissing kissing aust sheilah.

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Speaker 2: Will she be to be an auntie. That's how the

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Speaker 2: parents will explain it to the kid. This other person,

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Speaker 2: oh this aunt she Okay, wow, this is real complicated.

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Speaker 4: I'm walking around with I don't know why you do that. Oh,

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Speaker 4: Sheila be naked all the time at our house.

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Speaker 1: Maybe who is a Sheila?

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Speaker 2: Coming up in twenty minutes after, we'll have more.

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Speaker 1: Of this ignorant show.

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Speaker 2: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.