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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Tuble Show, Madeline is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to catch a Cheater and she thinks that

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Speaker 2: her husband of six years might be messing around. So

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. But first

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Speaker 2: let's find out why. Madeleine, sorry you have to come

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Speaker 2: on the show this way, but what's up? Why do

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Speaker 2: you think that Jonah might be cheating on you?

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Speaker 3: So I've been married to Jonah for six years, and

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Speaker 3: we've known each other longer than that, and things have

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Speaker 3: been pretty good for the most part. I mean, he's

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Speaker 3: a really good man, he's a good husband.

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Speaker 1: He treats me like a princess for the most part.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm calling because a year ago I started

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Speaker 3: to feel like something was off, and I didn't ever

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Speaker 3: think it was possible.

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Speaker 1: But I sort of suspected that there might be some

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Speaker 1: cheating and I had a like a gut instinct.

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Speaker 3: So I do admit that I checked his phone and

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Speaker 3: I found a bunch of text messages between him and

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Speaker 3: another woman named Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: So it was true, and I.

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Speaker 3: Confronted her and I called her and I told her

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Speaker 3: that I knew, and then I confronted Jonah. Jonah apologized

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Speaker 3: and he promised he would never do it again. And

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Speaker 3: it ended, and he promised to go to couples counseling.

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Speaker 1: I mean the whole, the whole thing. So things were.

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Speaker 3: Going well, you know, I was we were going out

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Speaker 3: in our relationship, and things were going well till about

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Speaker 3: a month ago. I just want to believe that he's changed,

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Speaker 3: but something that it's like all in my head, but

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Speaker 3: I'm not so sure anymore. So I noticed there were

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Speaker 3: a few things that changed, like he started locking his

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Speaker 3: like if we were watching TV, he would put it

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Speaker 3: you know, I after I looked at one time, like

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Speaker 1: And I'm you know, I'm done. So I haven't wanted

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Speaker 3: I just noticed sitting next to him one night, well

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Speaker 3: he was on his phone because we that's like, just

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Speaker 3: what we do. I just noticed something that was not right,

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Speaker 3: and he started making excuses for going to couples counseling.

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Speaker 3: He missed a couple and he was like, maybe you

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Speaker 3: had to work or traveling for work, and he had

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Speaker 3: And I think he might be seeing I mean maybe

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Speaker 3: seeing that woman again, Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just really scared to have it be broken again.

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Speaker 3: So I emailed as a latch, just last ditch effort,

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Speaker 3: just I just need an answer, because I need to

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Speaker 3: know if my if I'm just scared to move forward

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Speaker 3: with him, or if there's like.

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Speaker 1: A real red flag and I need to really move on.

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Speaker 4: If you're just joining us.

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Speaker 2: For Today's to Catch a Cheater, Madeline is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she thinks that her husband of six years

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Speaker 2: might be cheating. His name is Jonah, So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery

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Speaker 2: store that he's a Rewards card member at and say

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Speaker 2: that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards member

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Speaker 2: who gets a free gift from us, and its flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered from our fural department, and they can be delivered

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Speaker 2: to anybody that he wants, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 2: sends those to his wife, Madeline or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Madeline, why don't you break

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Speaker 2: down your situation real quick for us again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I've been married for about six years, and I discovered

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Speaker 3: that my husband had admitted to cheating about a.

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Speaker 1: Year ago and broke it off.

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Speaker 3: And we've been working together to rebuild our marriage and

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Speaker 3: through counseling, and things were going really well except about

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Speaker 3: a month ago. I just notic things started to change.

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Speaker 3: He started locking his phone and not coming home at night,

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Speaker 3: or canceling date plans with me and just being really.

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Speaker 1: Distant.

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Speaker 4: Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello. Hi, this is Corbett calling from I was looking

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Speaker 2: for our Rewards card member named Jonah.

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Speaker 4: This is Jonathan Jonah. Hi, how are you please? Don't

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Speaker 4: hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations, thank you for shopping

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Speaker 2: with us.

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Speaker 4: Here this month's winner.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what did I?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: What did? What? Did I win?

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Speaker 4: The flowers? Jonah?

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member who

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Speaker 2: gets a free gift from us, and it's flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: from our brand new and improved Florida department to anybody

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Speaker 2: that you want within the fifteen United Say.

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Speaker 4: It's absolutely free.

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Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stem red roses, a

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Speaker 2: box of candy or chocolate, and a card to be

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want. It's a three hundred

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Speaker 2: and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 4: Actually, well that's pretty sweet. Nice congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And here's how it works. It's very simple. The

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Speaker 2: first thing I would need from you would be the

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Speaker 2: to send them to.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Uh, Denise, Denise? Okay? Got that? Okay? And did

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Speaker 4: you want to send a card along with it to Denise? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: If I can, that'd be great, of course. Yeah. What

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Speaker 4: would you like the card to say?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry I Denise?

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding that you win flowers delivery and you

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Speaker 3: want to send them to Denise instead of your own wife?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jonah, that's your wife. This is actually the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 2: It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Victoria, I'm Jeubel, and

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Speaker 2: we do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where

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Speaker 2: if you think your significant other might be messing around you.

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Speaker 2: See they send flowers to so your wife wants to

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Speaker 2: know Denise's wait.

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Speaker 3: What is made on when going on actone? Yes, I

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Speaker 3: absolutely do, already caught you one, so you.

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Speaker 1: I am this is what?

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Speaker 4: Who is on the phone, Denise?

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Speaker 1: Denise's a friend.

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Speaker 3: She just didn't helping me out of work?

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Speaker 1: Why are you sending her flowers?

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Speaker 3: I uh so you're sending her like a dozen roses.

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Speaker 1: You don't send a dozen roses to a friend. I'm

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Speaker 4: You just helping us out. The flowers are free they

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Speaker 4: said they were freezing.

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Speaker 1: Was helping me out this morning on a thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: She's helping my mind Jesus.

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Speaker 3: Right, okay, fine, Then why are you locking your phone?

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Speaker 3: Why are you making excuses for getting out of counseling?

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Speaker 1: Why are you not spending time with me? Why are

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Speaker 4: Why are you going the counselor?

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Speaker 1: And did a job?

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Speaker 3: All right? Look?

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Speaker 1: We were we were doing great.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean it was working. All of that was

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Speaker 1: on the idio right now. I mean, gee, god, you

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Speaker 1: are gassing me so hard right now. I know what

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Speaker 1: I saw, and I know what you just said. And

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Speaker 1: you didn't send me your wife the flowers.

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Speaker 3: I don't care if they were free or if they

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Speaker 3: coughed ten ninety nine. You should always send them to

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Speaker 3: your wife before a friend. And by the way, I

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Speaker 3: saw that your text messages with this friend.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I know that you're sting with this woman.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, no no no.

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Speaker 1: No no you' I'm gassing You're gas letting me right now.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no. One who's been all crazy

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Speaker 1: constantly constantly checking up on me?

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Speaker 4: I mean, come on, come on, you breaking into my phone?

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Speaker 1: I mean, who's the crazy one?

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Speaker 3: Now right?

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Speaker 1: What does this mean? Can't wait to do that again?

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Speaker 1: Splash emoji?

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Speaker 4: Oh ohoh oh.

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Speaker 3: That is an ability of my privacy. I'm sorry, and

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Speaker 3: I apologize to anybody who is listening to this show

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Speaker 3: right now, because I am your privacy. Your privacy doesn't

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Speaker 3: exist anymore, especially with the fact that you have now

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Speaker 3: cheated on me multiple times with multiple partners. You have

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Speaker 3: put me and my health and my heart at risk,

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Speaker 3: and I am absolutely done.

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Speaker 1: Well, can you hang up on him?

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Speaker 4: Sure? I hung up on a Madel and I'm sorry

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Speaker 4: you had.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe, but I am so grateful to you.

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 2: May just take a breath, Yeah, well yeah, I mean

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Speaker 3: I don't have to think about anything at all anymore.

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Speaker 3: I knew he might be cheating, and I just wanted

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Speaker 3: to hear the words from my divorce lawyer. I'm done

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Speaker 3: with his gaslighting and his emotional abuse, and to be

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Speaker 3: quite honest with you, I'm already one step ahead of him.

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Speaker 3: The locksmith is at my house right now changing my

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Speaker 3: lock and his stuff is already half packed. So he

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Speaker 3: messed up by unlocking his phone because I also have

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Speaker 3: screenshots of their conversation and I shouldn't have blurted it

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Speaker 3: out because it kind of like sent it like maybe

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Speaker 3: gave him too much information. But like, who's crazy now

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Speaker 3: and I will never ever be treated that way again.

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Speaker 3: So you guys are the best, and being on your

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Speaker 3: show like changed my life for the better.

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Speaker 4: Well, good luck with everything. Let us know if you

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Speaker 4: need anything. Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I really will and I will be in touch and

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Speaker 3: let you know how wonderfully my life is.

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Speaker 4: Going on here. That's a good way to look at it,

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Speaker 4: thank you,