WEBVTT - 7 Minutes in Heaven 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell. I suck at Dating with the Ungler and Dared 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:11.840 Haven and I heard radio podcast What's Up Everyone, Welcome 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:14.720 to a new week of help. I suck at Dating. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:19.560 I'm currently lounge John and couch at Kalin's apartment. Probably 0:00:19.600 --> 0:00:21.600 gonna follow a seapack with of the episode because it's 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:23.400 so comfortable with Jared and I were just talking about 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:26.279 how it's the comfortable comfortable couch on the face of 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:27.960 the earth. Well, I'm pretty sure Tanner and Jade have 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.840 that same couch and it is fantastic. I'm currently in 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:34.080 my mother in law's bedroom, so things are going pretty 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:36.000 well for me. Why did you move out of the 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:40.159 office today? Uh? Because the mic was set up here. 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:43.600 It's it's pretty this is this is the this in 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:45.879 the office of the best WiFi spots, and I think 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:49.080 actually just likes recording her podcast in here, and I 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.680 wasn't gonna move the equipment, so here I am. It's 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:54.320 not that uncomfortable. It's a spacious room. This is the 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.760 room even actually sleeping. No, no, this is my mother 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:01.560 in law's room. She sleeps here with alone because my 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:03.400 father in law's quarantine still in the basement because he 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:07.840 works at the hospital. Uh, you find it. You don't 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.040 find it awkward at all to be in your mother 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:13.800 in law's bedroom. I did it first, but now being 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:16.399 quarantined to the house forever two months, I don't feel 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.000 all that uncomfortable. Fine, do you feel more or less 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:22.880 comfortable that the bed is not made right now? I 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:26.720 think I'm pretty indifferent about it. I don't know if 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:29.520 I feel any worse or better. There's something about an 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:32.200 unmade bed when you walk into the room that you're like, 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:35.680 someone slept right there. And then when the bed is made, 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:37.360 you're like, okay, like this is a new it's it's 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.399 a fresh new palette, a new canvas. Just feels a 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.440 little less invasive. I think if you walk into a 0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:46.920 room that's got a made bed, you know, yeah, that's 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:50.400 that's my that's one man's opinion. Interesting. I don't know. 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:52.400 I don't think I've really put too much thought into it. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.040 But you said you were pretty tired, but you're also 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:58.600 tired today because you posted on your Instagram that you 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:01.480 woke up at four thirty in the morning to go golfing. Yeah, 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:04.000 I take it off at five forty six am today 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:08.320 for early seat time. I ever, why why not schedule 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:11.080 a tea time for eleven fifteen in the morning. I 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:12.800 don't know. One of my buddies too I've been playing 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:14.919 golf with lately, said hey, this is the only tea 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:16.320 time they have available. Do you want to do it? 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:17.519 And I was like, well, I mean I got nothing 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:20.120 else to do, so sure, golf is like the first 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.880 sports I can part take in with my leg, so 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.880 it's like I want to kind of be doing it often. 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:28.680 And I mean I figured I could just get around 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:31.000 and before I could cut came home and podcasting with 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:32.959 you guys. So it's actually kind of a nice I mean, 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:35.760 we were the first team out or a first group out, 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:37.639 so we didn't have to wait for anyone. We finished 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:39.799 around in under three hours. You know, I think I 0:02:39.880 --> 0:02:42.519 might start teaming off more often. So you're saying it 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.520 was worth it. It was worth team being the first 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:47.520 people of tea off. It was worth waking up at 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.280 four thirty in the morning, I will say with my 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.040 alarment off at four three in the morning, I was like, 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.760 there's no way I'm going to get out of bed 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:57.120 and go golfing. And then I like, I snoozed it right. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.840 I thought that I had snoozed my alarm, but in reality, 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:01.720 I turned it off, and so I rolled over at 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:04.680 like four eight, and I was like, wait, it's been 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.400 so long since my alarm went off, I'm probably gonna 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.000 miss the tea time now. I realized that I still 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:12.600 at times, so I woke up. You're probably just delusional 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:15.640 because it's four thirty in the morning. You're hallutening. Gosh, 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:19.080 it was worth Yesterday when I got home from running 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:23.679 into some errands, I ordered a full Domino's pizza with pepperoni, 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:27.679 sausage and extra halapanos, and I just smothed the whole 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:30.720 thing in ranch uh and I ate the whole thing 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.639 in one sitting, literally in twenty minutes. I ate this 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.920 entire pizza that was just covered and all these things. 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:41.200 And so my my stomach hasn't been feeling well. So 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:43.760 I woke up that like one am. It's been a 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:45.960 good thirty minutes in the bathroom. I was like, I 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:47.640 want to make sure I had up time this morning 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:50.840 to probably at the bathroom again before I left. So 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:52.680 it's been you know, it's been an eventful of twenty 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.120 four hours for me. How has Cavin felt about the 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:56.840 past twenty four hours. Did you wake her up this 0:03:56.880 --> 0:04:01.040 morning she was awake. Yeah. I think I accidentally nudged 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:03.800 here when I woke up. If I woke up at 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:05.800 four thirty in the morning to go golfing and woke 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:10.000 up Ashley, she'd stab me in my sleep. Yeah, I'm 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:13.280 sure she wasn't pleased. She's just how was it going golfing? 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.480 Did you feel uncomfortable at all? Because now things are 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.440 starting to open up a little bit. Yeah, so the 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.040 way that the golf courses are set up, at least 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:21.440 the ones that I've been to, it's all you're in 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:24.599 your own car, you wear a mask the whole time, 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:27.360 you don't touch the flagstick. You know, you the ball 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:29.320 doesn't go all the way in, so you know, it's 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:32.200 still pretty contactless in terms of being around people, which 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:35.600 is like, you know, it's not any It's probably slightly 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.920 less safe obviously than like staying at home because you're 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:40.240 not seeing anyone on your home, but it's still it's 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:42.640 one of the safer activities in my opinion, that you 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.160 could be doing. I don't really feel weird doing it, 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:48.240 but I could see the argument being made against it. 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:50.200 But I mean, that's just what seems to be happening. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.360 Things are slowly opening up. You know, golf, I've been 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:55.720 golfing for two weeks now. It seems like, uh, there 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:59.360 was just a NASCAR races past weekend. It was like golf, yes, 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.880 a couple of days ago. Tom Brady practiced with a 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:05.960 few members of his Tampa Bay Buccaneers today, which was 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.919 a huge step because Florida is starting to reopen, and 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:11.200 even like I heard yesterday in New York, California, they're 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:14.279 saying that starting in June, they're going to allow sports 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:17.440 teams just playing stadiums empty stadiums. But that's obviously a 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.440 huge step. Dude. I just need to step my toe 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.640 back into society. That's what's killing me right now, because 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.039 like the past two and a half months, I've just 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.800 had this mindset of stay home, don't don't be near 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.400 anybody because they all have coronavirus. And I really need 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.000 to get myself out of this mindset. Like yesterday, Ashley 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:33.880 and I went to go get a mcflury because you know, 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:36.520 you gotta have you gotta win some battles during COVID nineteen, 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.760 and I like, honestly, in my head, I was like Okay, 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.600 this is a good thing because I'm gonna go I'm 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:43.720 gonna wear a mask. They'll be wearing a mask. Hit 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:46.160 my mic uh like go through the drive through, don't 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.320 have a panic attack. And yet still, like when the 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:51.040 guy was handing it to me, it was like this 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:52.840 moment of like, Okay, you're just gonna grab it. You're 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.400 gonna be fine. It's gonna be fine. Everything's gonna work out. 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:57.640 So like I need to start doing more steps like that. 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:03.280 Which you get Eminem duh, dude, don't tell me you're 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:06.200 an oreo guy. Don't worry about flavor. Mcclur do you 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.360 like to get I've never had one. You've never had 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:13.600 a mcflurry? Are you? I guess not? You got that's 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:16.120 like you know, McDonald's gotta get. I was actually gonna 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:18.200 ask you, like, what really is a mcflurry? Is it 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:24.760 just like a milkshake? No? Yeah, it's probably three thousand 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:26.880 calories in a tiny cup, but it's the most delicious 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:31.000 thing ever. You've never had a mcflurry. It's vanilla ice 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.280 cream and then it's pretty much vanilla ice cream. You 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:35.279 can get either Eminem's in it or you can get 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:38.280 oreos in it. If you're weird, eminem is a way 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:40.760 to go. It's not just vanilla ice cream. There's some 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:45.359 sort of special secret sauce that McDonald's does to it. 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:48.479 It's McDonald's so that it's like vanilla ice cream on steroids, 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:51.960 you know, Yeah, exactly. I think ice cream is the 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:56.560 worst dessert you can ever partake in terms of flavor 0:06:56.760 --> 0:07:00.360 or what just health wise. No, it's just like ice 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:02.839 cream melts, so you really only have like two minutes 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:05.600 to enjoy that dessert, so you're inhaling it, so you 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:07.160 don't really get to enjoy it, and then by the 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:08.880 time you finish it, you're like, I still need more, 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:10.640 So then you eat like a whole carton and then 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:12.360 you never feel good about yourself because you ate it 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:14.640 in like five minutes because it was melting all over 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:17.320 you and I was getting messy. And then you if 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:19.120 you're in your car, then you leave your thing in 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:21.040 the car and then it's just like a puddle of milk. 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:24.240 It's just like, grab a cookie and be happy with 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:27.640 your life your ice cream in a car person foremost, Yeah, 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:28.840 what the hell are you doing with your life? Tori? 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:31.640 I don't know. I'm a big. I'm with you, Dan, 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:33.200 I'm a big ice cream guy. Dan. Are you more 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:35.400 of an Oreo or M and M mcflury guy? I'm 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:39.280 an Oreo mcflurry guy, like every sain American. Why why 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:43.560 do you choose Oreo over M and m's Because oreos 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.520 just in general are of a much better flavor than 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:50.160 M and m's. I also don't like how the M 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:52.160 and m's like they lose their color when they sit 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:54.480 in the ice cream for too long? Do you you 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:55.960 bite into them? So I'm I was saying a little 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.400 little too hard. And then they also are like your 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.680 eye on the inside. It just doesn't It's just not 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:05.560 a good experience. All right, Well we agree to disagree anyway, 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:07.560 should we get into like, oh, I don't know dating 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.920 topics or what a problem we have? Any dating topics 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.720 we want to talk about? Say we have a couple 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:13.880 of things, Well, Tori has one that she really wants 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.360 to talk about. Well, I only send a run down 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:22.400 the night before, and I read the rundown. I was 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.120 leading Jared into answering the question for the listeners out 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:27.360 there that haven't read the rundown. Obviously, I've read the 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:30.600 rundown We're gonna talk about Kate and Mary Kate Olsen 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.839 and her husband who are getting a divorce and she's 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:36.200 got an iron clad prenuptial agreement with him. And would 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:38.800 you ever ask someone to sign a preduptual agreement? Jared? 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.040 Did you ask Ashley de sign a prenuptial agreement? Alright? 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:43.079 Don't never ask you if I didn't read the rundown 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:46.720 or not. Tori, Okay, I think you just read it 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:49.760 for the first time. Well, he read the headline, so 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:53.840 it's not totally. Dean's a headline reader. He's that guy 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:56.200 who like reads a headline on Twitter and then Regord 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:58.720 his hates that, like being like, oh, you know what else, 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.600 and then he says the headline click bait where you're like, 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:04.080 is that true? I did see the head ofline. Mary 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:06.360 Kay Olson has an ironclad preen up, and I was like, 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:09.200 I think reading that headline is enough for me to 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.679 not have to read that article. Yeah, so I'll give 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:15.360 a rundown and then you guys can go off into 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:18.040 the questions about this. But Mary Kay Olsen and her 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.839 husband Pierre Olive Olivierer, I don't know if that's how 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:23.960 you say it. Star Cozy are splitting up, and apparently 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:27.960 Mary Kate's prenup is iron clad and basically he like 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.920 kicked her out of apartment and all this stuff. But 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:33.520 Ashley Olson has an estimate net worth of five d 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:37.600 million between them, so she's like, obviously, yes, I have 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:40.079 a pre nup um and I would just like to know. 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:44.080 So let's start from the beginning, Ashley Olson. Gosh, Mary 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:48.760 Kay Olson and her ex have a seventeen year age gap, 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:51.800 so he's fifty years old and then that makes her 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:59.880 what thirty? Yeah? Three? Um, have you or would you 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:04.719 ever date older? Yes? I think you'll be challenging you 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:08.440 to date someone seventeen years older, But I mean I 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:18.880 have dated Yeah, well Dean, you're year old. I really 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:22.240 dating myself on that one. So you so, right now, 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:25.040 if you were single and you weren't with Kalen, if 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:28.280 you were to date someone seventeen years older than you, 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:31.920 you'd be dating someone who's forty six. Do you think 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:35.760 you could do that? Ah? Man, dude, I don't know. 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:39.760 Actually that's a tough one. My brother used to date 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:43.080 a woman who was probably twenty plus years older than 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.080 him and they had a great relationship. I think It 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:49.360 all depends on what your goals are, like kids, family planning, 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:53.160 because that really comes into factor when you when you 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:56.920 think about age. But I could definitely, I I could 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:59.000 definitely date someone older. When I was in my like 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:02.439 early to mid twenties, I found it incredibly sexy someone 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:05.520 who's in like their mid to late thirties. I know 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:08.160 what's funny about that, too, is you found that sexy. 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:09.959 And I bet you when you were dating them, they 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:15.120 found you like, uh, you're like like your spirit uplifting 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:17.880 and not creepy, but like they're probably, Oh he's young, 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:21.400 and he's like fun and you know this this energetic guy, 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:23.680 and like they you guys liked each other for the 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:26.040 same reasons in a way, you know what I mean. 0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:29.160 Guys love older girls. I mean, why do you like 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:31.920 not to go down this path? But like, Mills are 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:39.400 a very search a man in his twenties? Is that true? 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:42.640 I guess I haven't in Google search. Please you? Well, 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:46.520 I'm sure you were a fan of Mills. I mean 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:50.200 I'm familiar with the category. Well, let's put it this way. 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:54.440 Jennifer Gardner is forty eight years old. Dean, could you 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:59.439 ever date or marry Jennifer Gardner money aside. Yeah, I 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:04.360 don't think it's really fair to characterize celebrities into that because, yeah, 0:12:04.480 --> 0:12:07.839 Jennifer Gardner, like Rachel Anne, Jennifer Aniston. What did I say, 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:12.640 Rachel Aniston? Her name I'm friends was Rachel. Yeah. Those 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.800 are like forever young in a sense, and they're they're 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.400 like they're gonna beautiful until the day they die when 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:20.480 they're ninet, you know what I mean, Just like men 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:23.200 like Brad Pitt, like Tory, you're twenty four, You could 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:25.160 date Brad Pitt even though he's like sixty eight, you 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:29.640 know what I mean. I couldn't, though, really, So hold on, 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:33.120 you're telling me that if Brad Pitt slid into your 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:36.040 d M s and said, hey, let's go grab dinner 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:41.200 on Friday night, you'd say no, I would go to dinner, 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:44.360 but I couldn't marry him. So what if he wanted 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.040 a second day? And what if he was like, hey, 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:47.400 I had a really good time. I could see this 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:50.680 going somewhere. I would date him, but I could not 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:53.920 marry him. Like you could easily say you date you 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:57.040 could date somebody older, for sure, but I couldn't never 0:12:57.160 --> 0:13:00.240 marry someone older because could you imagine like being, Hey, 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:02.520 we're gonna go watch the Super Bowl? What my friend's house, 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:07.000 and then like bringing him he would be so unentertained 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.800 by our conversation or my life where I was at 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.319 that point compared to him. If you wanted to bring 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:14.719 Brad Pitt to my super Bowl party, I would take 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:18.880 that with open arms. I guess the other reservation with 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:21.520 an ah gap that large is like he's gonna die 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:23.839 and you're gonna be thirty five and a widow. That 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:27.520 would be kind of a bummer. But with most age gaps, 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:31.640 like we see, I'm just trying to think practically here. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.679 With Mary Kay, it's like, you know, she's seventeen years 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:39.960 Younger women typically outlive men, so she would be you know, 0:13:40.160 --> 0:13:41.760 let's say the guy lives to be eighty, that's a 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.720 good life. She would be sixty three, And then it's like, 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:46.560 what does she wanted? She doesn't want to be single 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.480 and sixty three. That's that's kind of like the worst situation. 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.720 You know. Do you view it differently if a man 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:58.840 dates a younger girl versus a woman dating a younger guy. Yeah, 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:01.520 I think it's a few differently, least by society, the 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:06.520 guy is dating a younger girl. Sometimes I think that's 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:09.360 like more expected and it depends how young you go, 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:11.520 but it could be kind of Stevie. You know, I 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:13.880 agree for some reason in my head when a got 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.880 older guy, DA's a younger girl, I'm like, uh. And 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:19.520 then yet if an older girl dates a younger guy, 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:23.560 I'm like, good for her. Yeah, Exactly why is that? 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:27.600 I wonder? I have no idea. I think probably because 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:31.880 as a guy, I just know a guy's mentality, and 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:35.240 I'm like, you're just going for the young hot girl. 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:40.320 You're not leave for the emotional connection. Yeah, where a girl, 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:43.680 a woman, an older woman, it's like going after someone 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.440 who's keeping her young. And I'm like, you know, good 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:49.760 for you girl. You know you go. I'm probably wrong, 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.600 but for some reason that's immediately where my head goes. 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:54.640 I mean, though I agree with you, whether it's wrong 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:57.600 or right, I'm in the same camp, so hopefully it's right. 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:01.320 Do you think a guy who dates younger, especially like 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:05.000 ten years or younger, can never have ever starts out 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:09.560 with pure intentions in dating that person? Of course, how 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.000 long are these two married for? That's the radiation. Let 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.280 me look that up, wasn't it a while? I felt 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.520 like that's true, I guess, And the fact that he 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:19.640 was willing to sign a prenup means he probably had 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:23.600 pretty good intentions even going into the marriage. Yeah, but 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:25.480 I see Tory's point. I feel like, you know, if 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.240 let's say your thirty five and you meet a girl 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:31.200 who's twenty one, I don't think that you're like, oh, 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:32.760 this girl is going to be my wife. I think 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:34.640 you're thinking like, wow, that girl is young and hot 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.400 and I haven't eat seen one of those in a while. Yeah, 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:41.600 but what if you're like forty eight and she's thirty one? 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:45.880 That's fine? I think I agree. I view that differently. 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:47.920 Dating in your twenties is always just like one of 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:50.960 those things where it's like, Okay, what's gonna happen? Like 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:53.840 it's kind of especially in your early twenties, right, it's 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.960 always just a crapshoot, like are people seriously dating? Are 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:59.720 you just dating to get onto the next part of 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:01.240 your life? It? But then once you get into your thirties, 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.280 it's more serious. I don't know, but that's with that's 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:06.320 with like, I feel like everybody in their early twenties, 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:08.760 you know, or early to mid twenties. Whether you're dating 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:10.800 someone who's also in their early in mid twenties or 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.080 you're dating someone older, it's always that question of like, well, 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:16.520 how serious can they take it? Uh? And I'm not 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:19.200 saying it's wrong or right, because I also think there 0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:21.240 are people in their early to mid twenties that can 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:23.160 settle down early and can be in a relationship. You 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:24.920 here all the time about high school sweethearts, and it's 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:28.240 very sweet. But from my own personal opinion, I do 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.320 think it's probably better to get married later in life 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:34.120 and to experience individuality early on. Let me ask you this, 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:37.480 I'm twenty nine, klyn is twenty five. Does that make 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:46.360 me skivie? What a creep? Four years feels twenty six 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:48.080 in a month? Okay? I think so for for one 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.400 more month, it's a little skibi. But I don't think 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:51.800 it's at skibi. I don't think there's that much of 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:57.120 an age difference. Plus your your your personality. Dude, you're 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:59.760 like twenty five. I don't know if I could take 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:01.720 this compliment or not. It's funny. There was this kid 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:04.600 when I was probably when I was getting my skyde 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:07.280 I've licensed. There was this. Uh, this kid was with us. 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:09.760 It's like YouTube kid, and he was I think nineteen 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:12.280 at the time. Uh. And after a couple of days 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.040 of like hanging out and getting our licenses, he goes, 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:16.800 how old are you? I think it was like twenty 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.240 seven at the time. He goes, oh, that's so much 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.200 older than I thought you were. I thought you're gonna 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:22.840 be like twenty one. I go, why because I'm like 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:25.080 so mature, and he goes, no, just because the way 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:27.560 that you act like you're kind of an idiot. It's 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:31.159 like I get where we're coming from, though, you know. 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.000 So to jump into the next part of this, So 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:38.600 they were married for five years and prior to getting married, 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:42.639 they signed a prenup. What are your thoughts on prenups? 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:46.480 I could be honest, I don't know exactly what a 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:51.000 pre nump is, which makes which answers the question if 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:55.200 I've signed a prenup or not. I'm assuming that that 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:59.840 means if we ever get divorced, my stuff is my stuff, 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:03.120 your stuff is your stuff. So it's a prenuptial agreement. 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:06.520 So it's anything you guys figure out with your assets 0:18:06.880 --> 0:18:09.640 or um. It can even go down to your dog 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:11.119 and like who your dog goes to if you ever 0:18:11.200 --> 0:18:13.640 got a divorce, So everything is just it's an agreement 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:16.320 that you make prior to your marriage, and then you 0:18:16.440 --> 0:18:19.680 make it legal with a lawyer. You guys both sign it, 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:22.879 and then that way, if you ever did divorce, you 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.159 guys kind of disperse it the way you agreed to 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:27.800 it in the beginning. Whenever I think of a prenuptial agreement, 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:29.760 I just think of that episode of Seinfeld where George 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:31.800 is trying to have Susan break up with him, and 0:18:31.960 --> 0:18:34.680 Jerry was like, you know, asked her to sign a 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:37.280 prenump and then she'll leave you. And then he asked 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:38.760 her and she laughed in his face and she's like, 0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:40.600 I have way more stuff than you. Yeah, sure I'll 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:43.520 sign it. Uh yeah, of course, I'm totally down for 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:45.439 signing a prenump. Why not? Why? I guess why are 0:18:45.480 --> 0:18:48.679 people against it? You think because it sets a bad uh, 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:50.960 like sets a bad vibe already in the beginning of 0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:53.280 the marriage. I think it kind of it's a bad tone. 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:55.439 I think the only time at the answer. There are 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:57.560 plenty of times when they get signed or form many 0:18:57.600 --> 0:19:00.239 different reasons, but I think the main reason is when 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:03.800 there's a large discrepancy in the earning the earners. So like, 0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:05.280 let's say that girl makes a lot more than the guy. 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:07.680 It seems like in this case, and it's like such 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:10.919 a big difference that she's like, I'm just gonna make 0:19:10.920 --> 0:19:14.320 I'm gonna protect my assets here by doing this if 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.560 anything were to go south. I think what the bad 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:19.120 thing about it is, It's like, by signing a prenuptial agreement, 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:22.040 you're basically admitting to the idea that divorce is a possibility. 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:27.280 You know. Yeah, But I feel like, does anybody really 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:31.920 think divorces a how do I phrase this? Nobody thinks 0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:34.640 they're getting divorce when they get married, but I it's 0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:40.280 it happens all the time. I do think the idea 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:45.200 that things will never change it might be a little naive. 0:19:45.520 --> 0:19:50.239 And so I'm I'm not against signing a prenup right, Well, 0:19:50.280 --> 0:19:51.960 I think that's like the logical way to look at it. 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:55.040 But a lot of people, I mean, you do say 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:57.680 till death do us part, So you're kind of going 0:19:57.720 --> 0:20:01.040