1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge. 2 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode of to Teas in 3 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 2: a Pod, But this time I am missing another tea 4 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: and I have my new co host for the Real 5 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: Housewives of Orange County, Alexia and Napola. Oh my gosh, 6 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 2: I am so excited for our first time. 7 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm so happy to be here. As some people know, 8 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: I am in Paris, so I am doing the podcast 9 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 3: right here for my hotel room in Paris. 10 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: You know what that is a flex as I'm sitting 11 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: here in Encino and it's one hundred degrees and my 12 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: air conditioning's not working. Alexia is in Paris, but before 13 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 2: you were in Paris, you were in Madrid, And of 14 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: course I'm gonna have to ask you this straight up, god, 15 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: or I'm not going to answer it. Well, you're gonna 16 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 2: have to a little bit. I saw that you insinuated 17 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: that you had brought Todd to Madrid and he's tagged 18 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 2: in a photo. 19 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 3: Well that that was not an insinuation at all, by 20 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: the way, Like, what was it because I tagged him 21 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 3: that he was with me in Madrid. If that would 22 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 3: have been the case, you would have seen that as well. 23 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 3: The case was that I'm eating a club sandwich and 24 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 3: we would always eat clip sandwiches there, and I tagged 25 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 3: him because it was like his favorite club sandwich. That's exactly. 26 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: So it was just you were just flirting. 27 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 3: Oh, I mean, I don't even really consider that flirting. 28 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 3: I just consider it like we talked about, like, oh, 29 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: make sure you have the club sandwich while you're there. 30 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 3: So I did. I took a picture of it, and 31 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: I tagged him so he can see how beautiful it 32 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: was and how tasty it was. 33 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I still think, you know what, I'm still going 34 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: to go off the fact that Todd was in Madrid. 35 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 3: You could know he's not in the Drid and he's 36 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 3: not in Paris. This is a solo euro Tree and 37 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 3: I have a lot of friends in Madrid, and I'm 38 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: in Paris with one of my best friends, Johnny, and 39 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 3: then I'm gonna continue to London Croatia. 40 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: All right, Well we'll see. We'll see about that. We'll 41 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: see when his head pops out of the bathroom door 42 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 2: behind you, it's not oh my gosh, Okay, well we'll 43 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: we'll see, we'll see, she said. 44 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 3: I didn't think a club soundwich was never gonna make 45 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 3: it to page six, and apparently I did, just because 46 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: I tagged them. 47 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 2: Well the no what else has made it to page 48 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: six non stop? The picture of Larsa and Teresa photoshopped. 49 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: There are in more countries than you are now at 50 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 2: this point. 51 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 3: Like I saw that, and I saw the Marisol wanted 52 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 3: to add herself to to the fund and she added 53 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 3: her picture as well, with like a big butt that 54 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 3: she's never had. 55 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I didn't notice that part. She added 56 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 2: a butt she gave herself. 57 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 3: That's not Marissol's butt. Like I've known Marissol for twenty 58 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: something years. She's never had that butt. 59 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: Maybe she got a VPL while you were gone or 60 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 2: BPL or what is it called BBL. 61 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was like an old photo of hers, 62 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 3: and I guess the she photoshopped it too, So what 63 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 3: would you photoshop? I guess she would photoshop a butt 64 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: on herself. Listen, I photoshop and that's not her butt. 65 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: That's never been her butt. 66 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 2: My butt's a chicken butt. It just looks like too. 67 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: But well, thank you. Well, I'm excited to have you here. 68 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 2: As everybody knows, that listens to Tucciese and a pod 69 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 2: Tamra is not able to discuss Real Housewives of Orange County. 70 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that we're in a fight. It doesn't 71 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: mean that we're not doing the pod together anymore. It's 72 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: that Alexia is coming and filling in and going to 73 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 2: give all of her hot takes on Orange County, which 74 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: I'm so excited about because she has strong opinions and 75 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: I hope sometimes they don't mesh with mine because I 76 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 2: think that will keep this even. 77 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,119 Speaker 3: That's what's going to make it fun. And I love 78 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: that you clarify that you and Tama are okay, because 79 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 3: I feel like we have to be explaining ourselves like 80 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: every minute, right, Yeah, they're gonna. 81 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: Be like Teddy didn't like it, so and so happens, 82 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: and now it's no. Every time one of us is 83 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: on vacation or something happens, they're like, they broke up. 84 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: They're in the biggest fight ever. The podcast is over. 85 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm visiting my family, like, calm down. But 86 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 2: we're gonna start off the pod with the headline that 87 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 2: Shannon Budoor was on Jeff Lewis Live, which I don't 88 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: know have you done Jeff Lewis, No, I haven't, so 89 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: anytime you go on Jeffrey's Live. 90 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 3: Friends, right, Jeff Lewis and Shannon are good friends. 91 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: Yes, and they are good friends, but she essentially talks 92 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 2: about She revealed new details about the timeline of Alexis 93 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: Bellino's romance with John Janssen, which we got to know 94 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 2: Alexis for the first time when we all went to 95 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 2: go see we should be saying Janet Jackson, but I 96 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: just say Nelly at this point because well, I stopped 97 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 2: remembering after Nelly. But but she said we had broken 98 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 2: up and then they started dating about six weeks after 99 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: we broke up, and then the show started filming, and 100 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 2: I think they'd been dating about a month and a 101 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: half two months at that time, so it was a 102 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 2: new relationship. So no, it wasn't fun, but I got 103 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: through it, so you'll have to tune in. Then she 104 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 2: says she's a friend. Let's be clear, she's a friend. 105 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: She's not holding an orange, Shannon stated. Then, after it 106 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: was noted that Alexis had posted a photo of herself 107 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: with the rest of the women, Shannon said, I don't 108 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: know if this means anything, but let's take her out 109 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 2: because she was never in the flipping picture. Who's in 110 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 2: the ciner? That would be me? It's so thirsty, and 111 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 2: I'll just leave it at that. Shannon's friend Vicki, also 112 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: posted a cast photo with her cell photoshopped in it. 113 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 3: So and I know that that's what the women do. 114 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 3: I don't think. I don't think Maraison, Nijohn and Katy 115 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 3: did that. No, that you shouldn't do that, But even 116 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 3: I was allowed to do that. 117 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: No, they but the point being, and listen, I'm not 118 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: taking sides here at this point of the season. But 119 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 2: I was told that fans are the one that put 120 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: Alexis in the photo, and Alexis just shared it versus 121 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: her putting herself in there. 122 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 3: But they actually do it, or whether they're fans, whether 123 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 3: you know the fans did it, It wasn't Bravo. 124 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: You know how sometimes they'll film this, they'll take pictures 125 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: of us all separately because everyone's fighting, and then put 126 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: us all in No, she was at that photo shoot. 127 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 2: She is in the silver dress. But a fan made 128 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 2: that picture tagged Alexis, and then Alexa shared it. But 129 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: then Shannon was saying how thirsty it was that Alexis 130 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 2: did that, but a fan did it, but also so 131 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 2: did VICKI H So, I mean. 132 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? 133 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 2: I feel like, listen, if you're trying to be funny 134 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: and you're poking fun at yourself, I'm photoshop yourself into 135 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: whatever you want. Like I photoshopped Caroline Stanbury's face under 136 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 2: my pregnant body because she's in all this drama right 137 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 2: now about not wanting to get pregnant. I'm like, you 138 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 2: can have mine because I'm being I'm making a joke 139 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 2: of the situation, but when you're I don't know, I'm 140 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: weird about that. I also am weird about like people 141 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 2: calling themselves iconic or queen or any of those things. 142 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 3: So what about star? I called myself a star. 143 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 4: I'm actually weird about that too, right, But I mean, 144 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 4: I think you're a star, but you needed to tell me. 145 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 2: It's slightly concerning. 146 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I was being funny too, but I guess 147 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 3: will under the context. But yeah, it was just like 148 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 3: a crazy moment that I had. But I feel that 149 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: Alexis was just really resharing, like what fans do you know? 150 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know that she did it to 151 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 3: bother Shannon. But she did it, you. 152 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 2: Know, But I don't think that she I don't think regardless, 153 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 2: I liked my time with Alexis. Do I think she's 154 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: doing things to intentionally bother Shannon? 155 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 3: Sure? 156 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, of course. Do you know what you're 157 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 2: doing right? And you can make a choice. You could 158 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 2: you could privately be entering a relationship if you're coming 159 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: into a new show and not. But no, no, no, 160 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 2: it's all over the place. And we just saw online 161 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: that they're shopping for engagement rings. 162 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 3: Well that's really crazy. I mean, how do you know that, 163 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: like this is a guy after such a short period 164 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 3: of time. But I mean, remember she told us they 165 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 3: have sex how many times? More times a day than 166 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 3: Larsus says. 167 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, like four or fun times a day. She said, listen, 168 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 5: I'm good four to five times a month. But then 169 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 5: Shannon said she's currently friends with some people. I don't 170 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 5: think I should say who, because there's stuff that happens, 171 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 5: especially in the first episode that's really really nice. So 172 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 5: let's just put this away. I'm friendly with some of 173 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 5: the cast and then some I don't speak to it all, 174 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 5: she explained, I am curious, who would you guess that 175 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 5: Shannon's close with right now? 176 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 2: Hmmm, well, not worth maybe. 177 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: I mean closest is a strong word, so I mean 178 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 3: at this point, maybe after her season, she's close to 179 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 3: a few people. But in the beginning, which is what 180 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 3: we saw episode one, it's kind of like she's on 181 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 3: her own. It's like it's all about her. It's like 182 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 3: everybody against her. Like that's that's what I sensed. Yeah, 183 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 3: and honestly made me feel a little bit uncomfortable because 184 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 3: it was like a lot. She's dealing with so many 185 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 3: different issues, and they're really personal issues. You know, she's 186 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: talking about like her ex boyfriend that she was with 187 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 3: for three years, she's talking about her children, a dui. 188 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's it's a lot. I mean I 189 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 3: felt I really felt bad for her, honestly. 190 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: And what are your thoughts about? You know, something that 191 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 2: I've seen online in different places is that people are 192 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 2: coming from both directions. One are coming for the women 193 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 2: are terrible that they're you know, throwing this in her face. 194 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 2: But then there's also people saying she chose to do 195 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 2: the show after this happened. You know it's going to happen, right, 196 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 2: So what are your thoughts on that, like, do you say, 197 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 2: I feel like we all know that when we sign 198 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: up to do these kind of shows, we know what 199 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 2: it's about. So we you know, we've grown like thick skin, 200 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: and we know that we have to tell her story 201 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 2: because that's what we're there for and what we're getting 202 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 2: paid for. And she seems to be okay with doing it. 203 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I have, you know, haven't watched her before 204 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 2: in the other season, so I don't know if she's 205 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 2: always been a very like genuine and authentic person where 206 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 2: she opens up and she's shared a lot about her life. 207 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: I think that's the hard part is last season there 208 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 2: was multiple times where they broke the fourth wall and 209 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: it's her yelling at production that she's not doing this. 210 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 2: So her relationship last year was kind of coming undone, 211 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 2: and then the other women were kind of calling her 212 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 2: out on in a camera because she was having off 213 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 2: camera conversations and then on camera she was like things 214 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 2: are great, and you know that starts to rub people 215 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 2: the wrong way, right, and then maybe allegedly she wouldn't 216 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: remember these conversations, and then it would just became a 217 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 2: whole big game of telephone and that was essentially last season, 218 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 2: and then ten days after the reunion is when she 219 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: got the DUI. I had previously thought that her and 220 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 2: John Jansen had gone out together and she they got 221 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 2: in a fight out, but apparently what I've been told 222 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: is that she was already drinking in a situation, went 223 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 2: over to John Jansen's house, they got into a fight, 224 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 2: and he told her not to drive, and then she 225 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 2: drove home. That's when she crashed into the house. 226 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that's that's what I've heard as well, which 227 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: I think makes sense. I mean, you know, she just 228 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 3: had broken up with her her boyfriend after all this time, 229 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 3: and it had that kind of relationship, and we also 230 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 3: know she drinks and she likes to drink, and just 231 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 3: like just everything mounted up where the where she showed 232 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 3: up at his house and it's not the first time 233 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 3: that you know, he an ext wife or an next 234 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 3: girlfriend or whatnot shows up at the guy's house and 235 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,599 Speaker 3: they get into an argument and she's drinking, and unfortunately 236 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 3: she took off her new car and she had an accident. 237 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 3: She could have, you know, hurt someone and she hurt 238 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 3: herself as well. 239 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, because then we see her showing Heather 240 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,439 Speaker 2: a bloody photo of her face, which we hadn't seen 241 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 2: prior to this, we had only seen her in the sling. 242 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 2: There was like a photo of her walking into her house, 243 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 2: I think with John Jansen, and it was her coming 244 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: from the hospital. But then they kind of get into 245 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: a conversation where there it's now five months later, they're 246 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: filming Orange County. Shannon meets up with Emily and says 247 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: she's been working on herself. She's just been making some 248 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 2: poor decisions. She's too drink max person. And then Emily 249 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 2: wonders if sobriety should be an option, but Shannon says 250 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 2: she doesn't drink that often. Here's here's my issue. And 251 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: I don't want to come down on Shannon too hard. 252 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 2: Do I drink too much sometimes? One million percent? 253 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people don't. 254 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think if you say you don't drink 255 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 2: too much most of the time, it means that you 256 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: do have some sort of a problem. Like I can 257 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 2: openly admit, like, oh yeah, if I'm in a bad 258 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 2: place and I drink too much, I'm a shit show. 259 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: Or if I'm in a good mood i drink too much, 260 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: I'm the most fun. 261 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,599 Speaker 3: Right, So that's what I was gonna say. I was 262 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 3: gonna say, you have to be careful because sometimes when 263 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 3: you're like in a really bad place and you're sad 264 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 3: or angry and whatnot, and you drink and that kind 265 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 3: of like adds to whatever feeling or emotion you're going through, 266 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 3: and it's not good. If you're happy and you're just 267 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 3: gonna get happier and it's not gonna affect yourself or 268 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 3: anybody else, then go ahead and do it. But definitely 269 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 3: not no drive, I mean definitely not. 270 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 2: That was gonna be my point. But never we are 271 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 2: It's not like we're she's twenty one years old. We 272 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 2: were grown ass women like we had Like it costs 273 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 2: eight dollars probably for her to get an uber to 274 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 2: John Jansen's house to have that same fight. Right, Why 275 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 2: would you ever think? And that's where it gets worrisome 276 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 2: to me. Plus we have to go back to the past, 277 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 2: which I'm going to to kind of give you a 278 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: little history. There's always been a thing about Shannon calling 279 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 2: the women drunk and spewing things. But then there's always 280 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: been a thing about Shannon, like Shannon kind of went 281 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 2: after Gina about Gina's dui and how she was going 282 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 2: to lose her kids, and like really went for Gina 283 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 2: about her making that mistake as well. So now it's 284 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 2: come back and it's like, yeah, we're all hypocrites, but 285 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: that wasn't that long ago. That's tough. 286 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I get it. I mean I feel like 287 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 3: they obviously you're seeing it because they're on national TV 288 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 3: and everyone's seeing it. But I see I feel like 289 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 3: a lot of women do it, and a lot of 290 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 3: people do that that you know, they drink under the 291 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 3: influence and we see it every day. We were just 292 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 3: talking in my podcast with Marisa about justin Timberlake a 293 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 3: few weeks ago, and you know, it can happen to 294 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 3: anybody and to everyone. So it's like, that's really like 295 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 3: the point here. If you want to drink, you know, 296 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 3: stay home or get in a number or have a 297 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 3: friend driver or what not. Just don't get behind the wheel. 298 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: You just can't do that. 299 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 2: It's nice. 300 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 3: And then now before she's sharing all this because this 301 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 3: is the other thing, Teddy even it's like, okay, well 302 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 3: why do the show you We're gonna have to talk 303 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 3: about it. Well, there's this thing called social media that 304 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: everybody is like on one hundred percent of the time, 305 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 3: and when you're a public person, you can't hide anything. 306 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 3: I mean, you can hide anything. Every They found out 307 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 3: immediately when she was arrested and everything that happened, so 308 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 3: it's a it's already public. 309 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've seen the video, We've seen everything that happened. 310 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 2: We saw the damage on the house, we've seen her injuries. 311 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 3: So it wasn't on this show. The entire world knows 312 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 3: about it. So maybe she can come back now and 313 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 3: she can say her story and her narrative and her 314 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 3: side of the story. 315 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 2: Did you feel sympathetic watching her? 316 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 3: You know I did, because you know, I am human, 317 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 3: I am a mom, you know, a woman, you know, 318 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 3: a wife. I mean, it's like it's hard to be, 319 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 3: you know, in her shoes right now. And I did 320 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 3: feel sympathetic because I have a kind heart. You know, 321 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 3: I have no excuse for her to drive. But there's 322 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: so many people like that right that you care and 323 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 3: love and they make the wrong decisions. Yeah, you know, 324 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 3: so you're upset at them because they did that and 325 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 3: you wish they wouldn't have done it. And I don't 326 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 3: even know her that way, But did you think that 327 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 3: she wanted to get in that car and you know, 328 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 3: get into one accident and the whole world find about it, 329 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 3: and you know, and hurt herself, maybe hurt somebody, her kids. 330 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 3: I mean, she has to really fit feel like shit. 331 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 2: Honestly to not be able to travel to see your 332 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 2: child in another country because you're I have legal ramifications. 333 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 2: It's just another like when when we saw that conversation 334 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: with her kids, I was like like, yeah, I didn't 335 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 2: even think about that part. Like there's the whole kid's 336 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: dynamic aspect also, and like it's very hard as a mom, 337 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: at least for me to be like, hey, guys, you 338 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: can't ever do this, but I did, right. 339 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I mean you can turn it into like 340 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 3: learn from me, you know what, Like you don't want 341 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 3: to end up like your mom, or you never want 342 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,360 Speaker 3: this to happen to you. You know, you guys are young, 343 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 3: you have a life ahead of you. You know, you 344 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: can turn it always into like a life lesson. But 345 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 3: she has to be embarrassed. Yeah, I mean, who's going 346 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 3: to be proud about that? And then now she has 347 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 3: all the other girls that are going to be sticking 348 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 3: in her face all throughout the season, everything she did wrong. 349 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 2: I know, I wish you would just take a little 350 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: bit of ownership about it instead of it being like 351 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 2: it's it's John, Like I do I love John Janssen. No, 352 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 2: there's a lot of guys on the show that I 353 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 2: don't know enough to really make a true decision. But 354 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: I've never gotten that like warm, fuzzy feeling watching him. Yeah, 355 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 2: I think I would like him either, by the way, Yeah, 356 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 2: I don't know why. It's not like maybe he'll grow 357 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 2: on me at some point. But I don't know that 358 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 2: you can use your circumstance as an excuse. 359 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 3: Like well, I mean there's some men they know how 360 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:02,199 Speaker 3: to push the buttons and and and I guess that 361 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 3: John knew that about Shannon and then put that on 362 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 3: top that she would drink, you know, to overcompensate whatever 363 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 3: she was going through, and this is the result that 364 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 3: you get. So, I mean I feel that that's like, 365 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: obviously you really can't blame him, but indirectly he did 366 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:17,479 Speaker 3: have something to do with it. 367 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 2: Do you think that she was showing self awareness in 368 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 2: this episode? 369 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 3: I mean, she she did own what had happened, And 370 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 3: I think because the entire world knows about it, so 371 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 3: you can't hide it. You know. It wasn't like back 372 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 3: in the day when there was no social media that 373 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,360 Speaker 3: you can hide these things, you know, as long as 374 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 3: one of the other cast members wouldn't bring it up 375 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 3: or they were like your friend, they were white. This 376 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 3: was years ago when we started to show in twenty ten, 377 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 3: that's what would happened. But now there's no secrets, so 378 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 3: you actually have an advantage of being on a show 379 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 3: like this where you have your platform where you can 380 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 3: really speak the truth. And that's what I wish that 381 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 3: these women would do that. R and D shows like 382 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 3: Don't Lie, you know, like the But do. 383 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 2: You think the true to Drink Max is a lie? 384 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 3: Oh oh no, well that I don't believe her too. Yeah, 385 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 3: I just have two drinks and I'm not gonna crush 386 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 3: and do make irresponsible decisions with two drinks. But that's me. 387 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 3: Maybe somebody else has two drinks and they do make miss, 388 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 3: you know, irresponsible choices and whatnot. 389 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 2: I think she was saying since then she's a true 390 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 2: too Drink Max person. But I'm still like, I feel 391 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 2: like when you have to clarify that it's a little dicey. 392 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 2: But Tamar questions and asks Heather if she thinks Shannon 393 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 2: has an alcohol problem, and Heather says she thinks that 394 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: she does. Then Gina says, Shannon is twenty years ahead 395 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 2: of her and she didn't like what that looked like. 396 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 2: That's why she changed her life. And then Shannon says 397 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: every day she wakes up and thinks about what happened. 398 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: And that's when Tama equips is that after you've had 399 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 2: a drink, I don't know if that happened in real time, right, 400 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 2: I know? And then Shannon is done with people saying 401 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 2: she's a drunk who needs help. She had a really 402 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 2: bad night. She cries and walks off in her confessional. 403 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 2: Oh that was a lot, Yeah, it was a lot. 404 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 2: I think what ends up happening is that so many 405 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 2: times things happen off camera as well, and the women 406 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 2: try to protect the other women until they can't anymore 407 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 2: and it feels toxic. And then when the other women 408 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 2: won't take full of like I hate to use the word, 409 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 2: but accountability for something, the others just go they can't 410 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 2: handle it, like you've been doing this for years, We've watched. 411 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 3: It, right, but do you know that, like what what 412 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 3: are the girls saying that she always behaves in this manner, 413 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 3: like she's always drinking and she don't like to be 414 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 3: the drunk. I don't know her past, so I'm not sure. 415 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say that she is a seasoned drinker 416 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: anytime I've been around her, and me too. 417 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 3: Well, I feel like a lot of these women drink 418 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 3: too on the show just to feel more comfortable, and 419 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 3: that you know, to you they feel anxious, so it 420 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 3: takes away there anxiety. Or if they're quiet and they 421 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 3: have a drink, you know they're going to be more feisty. 422 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 3: So you know, different reasons like I don't know her 423 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 3: in her day to day life, you know, and I 424 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 3: feel that that's what really makes on alcoholics, Like I 425 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 3: don't know if she only drinks when she's on camera 426 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 3: and around these women, or does she really wakes up 427 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 3: and drink? Yeah, does she wake up every day and nonfunction? 428 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 3: Is she a functional alcoholic? I don't know her well enough, 429 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 3: you know, to give my opinion. And that's why it's 430 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 3: hard for me to give my opinion about women that 431 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 3: I watch a clip up, you know, for five minutes, 432 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 3: because you know, it has to do with a lot 433 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 3: of things, and you know what I'm talking about. So 434 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 3: I don't know that, you know, and I haven't watched 435 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 3: her enough to know that in every season she has 436 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 3: been you know, accused of drinking too much, or she's 437 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 3: had problems handling her alcohol or whatnot. But if the 438 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 3: girls really care about her, they would try to help 439 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 3: her and not like attack her. I mean, this woman's 440 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 3: already going through a lot of stuff, and I feel 441 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 3: like they need to be a little bit more sensitive 442 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,360 Speaker 3: because they're not going to get the result they want. 443 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 3: I mean, if you want somebody to get better, to 444 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 3: actually understand or become aware, you're not not everybody's gonna 445 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 3: attack her, you know, have that approach towards her that's 446 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 3: going through stuff. So that's why acting the way she is. 447 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's like, but how many years can you 448 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 2: be going through stuff like always? Do you get? Is 449 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 2: that a card forever? 450 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 3: No? I don't think it gives you the right to 451 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 3: behave poorly and make the wrong decisions, you know, and 452 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 3: we're all going through stuff. But you know, again, I 453 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 3: feel that all this really came to life because she 454 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 3: had the DUI. I mean, there's people that drink every 455 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,239 Speaker 3: day and they take uber or they stay home and 456 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,360 Speaker 3: pass out and nobody finds out about it. Unluckily for her, 457 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 3: she's a public person and that happened and the entire 458 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 3: world found out about it. 459 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so then Tamra, Jen and Emily go to the gym. 460 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,440 Speaker 2: Tamra says that right after Shannon's duy, Shannon was telling 461 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 2: the press she wasn't drinking anymore. She was drinking diet coke, 462 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,640 Speaker 2: and then at the Trace Amiga shows, Shannon would secretly 463 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 2: pour herself drinks. Tamar didn't feel like it was right 464 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 2: to continue doing a show revolving around drinking. Do you 465 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 2: agree that with Tama or that pausing that Trace a 466 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 2: Mega's live show was the way to go. Yeah. 467 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 3: I like that Tamra did that. I think that that's 468 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 3: being a good friend and actually supporting her. I don't know. 469 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 3: She had the conversation with Shannon and told her, listen, 470 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,199 Speaker 3: you know this is not going to be good for you. 471 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 3: It's not going to be good for us. You know, 472 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,679 Speaker 3: we're involved around alcohol all the time, and you know, 473 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 3: I get it. It's a show. You want to have fun, 474 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 3: We're all going to be drinking, so it's just better to, 475 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 3: like cancel it and not do it anymore, because you 476 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 3: could have a bigger things to worry about right now 477 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 3: than to be, you know, doing a show, you know, 478 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 3: around the country and getting drunk because all eyes are 479 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 3: going to be new and you need to get better. 480 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 3: So I don't know if that conversation happened or she 481 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 3: just like, you know, stop. 482 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I can give a little insight just 483 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 2: to clarify, and this is not me being biased, so 484 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: everyone please relax. But I know for a fact that 485 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 2: Tamar absolutely was there for Shannon as support after her duy. 486 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 2: Tama just didn't think that doing the trace and a megas 487 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 2: right away was a good idea. She had found out 488 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 2: that Shannon and Vicki were saying, you know, terrible things 489 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 2: about her. 490 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 3: Uh. 491 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 2: They had signed on with the manager why Tamro was 492 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 2: in Scotland doing Traders, and then without her knowledge, gave 493 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 2: permission that Tamo would continue. So of course, going into 494 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: the season, Tama was going to be pissed because she 495 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 2: knew this was going to happen with Shannon, like she 496 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 2: already was like there for her. Then she went away, 497 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 2: and you know how you are when you're on those 498 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 2: shows like you're like locked up, and they committed to 499 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 2: something that she had already told them. I don't think 500 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 2: it's a good idea. And then so she's gonna come 501 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 2: in hot. Yeah, Like so I think that's what happened. 502 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 2: Then we get to Shannon sitting down with her daughters. 503 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 2: She says the night she got her DUY, she and 504 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 2: John got in a big argument and he called her 505 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 2: a drunken idiot, and driving home, she lost control of 506 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 2: the car. One of her daughters says, this sucks, but 507 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 2: it happened for a reason. Then she said she went 508 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 2: through a thirty day wellness program as seeing a therapist. 509 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 2: And then Shannon says John called her ten days after 510 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 2: her DUI saying he was cutting all ties, that she 511 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 2: ruined his and his family's lives. And then six weeks 512 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:21,479 Speaker 2: after the phone called, John started dating Alexis. Then we 513 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 2: flashed back to the gym. Emily brings up how Alexis's 514 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 2: ex husband sued Tamara and Shannon, and Tarmra says John 515 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 2: dating Alexis is karma. Do you feel like Shannon is 516 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 2: trying to insinuate John is partly to blame for her DUI? 517 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,439 Speaker 3: No, I mean I don't really think she was insinuating. 518 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,239 Speaker 3: I think, like deep in her heart, you know, she 519 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 3: does think that a lot of her anger and frustration 520 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 3: and whatnot is due to the relationship that she's had 521 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 3: with John all the time, and she has to be pissed. 522 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what kind of relationship they 523 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 3: had or if she's still in love with the guy. 524 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know that, but I mean at 525 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 3: this point, she probably hates him and she saw that 526 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:01,439 Speaker 3: he's moved on. 527 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,679 Speaker 2: So I mean, do you think she hates somewhere? Do 528 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 2: you think she's even more in love with him? You 529 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 2: know how sometimes in like really toxic relationships, like once 530 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,640 Speaker 2: they they're fully gone, you just feel like I need 531 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 2: to get like I need to get back. 532 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 3: I need you know, I think you did her favor. 533 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 3: I think you did her a favor by meeting Alexis, 534 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,440 Speaker 3: because I don't think there's no return there. I think 535 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 3: he was going to stay with Alexis, And you know, 536 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 3: she might not realize it now, but she'll realize it 537 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 3: that he did her favor, and Alexis did her favor 538 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 3: by you know, by meeting each other and by being together, 539 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 3: because if not, I feel I feel like Shannon was 540 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 3: going to continue with this nonsense, which yeah. 541 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 2: I did appreciate the conversations being had with her kids 542 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 2: because that was something I hadn't even put into my 543 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 2: my stratosphere of thinking. Then we get to Heather and 544 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 2: Terry have moved into their new house in Beverly Hills, 545 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 2: which I'm like, aren't we watching the Royal Housewives Orange County? 546 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,440 Speaker 3: I know, how did that happen? I was going to 547 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 3: ask you that, how do you live in Beverly Hills 548 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 3: and film and no, se Well, I think I want 549 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 3: to tell you. 550 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 2: Well, what the reasoning behind us? I think Heather's kids 551 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 2: go to school in LA. They have the house in 552 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 2: Beverly Hills, but that's why. So Balboa Bay Club, for 553 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 2: anyone curious, is this like beautiful. It's not a country club, 554 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 2: but it's in lack of a better word. You sign up, 555 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,120 Speaker 2: you're a member, and then you get one of the condos. 556 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 2: So I think in order to make it all makes sense, 557 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 2: and they can still see Terry's mom, they have a 558 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 2: place at Baboa Bay Club, which is also in Orange County, 559 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 2: So I think they're residing in Los Angeles for the kids. 560 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:43,439 Speaker 2: The family for Terry and then they have a place 561 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 2: at Balboa Bay Club. 562 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 3: I was going to google this last night, but I forgot, 563 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 3: so I don't want to be ignorant. But how far 564 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,960 Speaker 3: is oc Orange County from Los Angeles. 565 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 2: Depends on traffic. Like, if I left at five forty 566 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 2: five in the morning, I could be at Tamra's house 567 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 2: in less than an hour. If I after ten am, okay, 568 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 2: if I left at ten am, two and a half. 569 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 3: Hours, okay. Well, it's kind of like Miami, like when 570 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 3: I go to Marisol's house and she still lives in Miami, 571 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 3: Like I do it technically, Well, I mean I live 572 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 3: in a certain area of Sunny Owls and I'm living 573 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 3: in the beach, but it's an hour away as well. 574 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 3: So the part that's. 575 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 2: Different is if there was a real Housewives of Sunny Isles, right, 576 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 2: why would you be on Miami that that's where there's 577 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 2: a little bit of a I mean, I don't mind 578 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 2: it at all. I don't care, right, I think Heather. 579 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 3: I feel like she can she can work out in 580 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 3: both franchises. 581 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,919 Speaker 2: Listen, if you're that rich, yeah, go for it. You 582 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 2: can be on all the places, right, And like I'm 583 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 2: I'm willing to, you know, go on her jet and 584 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 2: go wherever she wants to go. I'll reside in her club. 585 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, she can come to Miami whenever she wants to. 586 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 2: Then, Gina tells Emily that her client's brother bumped into 587 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 2: Shannon at the store with a shopping cart full of boots. 588 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 2: Gina says Shannon gave her so much shit for Dui 589 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 2: and she has no respect for her now. She thinks 590 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 2: Shannon needs to go to rehab. Gina talks about how 591 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 2: she and Travis can't afford a house to fit their 592 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 2: combined family and they may need to live separately and 593 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 2: see where the chips lay. Later, Gina and Travis discussed 594 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 2: this decision, which Travis doesn't agree with and feels like 595 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 2: it's pulling them apart. H there's a lot to unpacked here. 596 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 3: There is. 597 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: Like one in regards to Gina and Shannon stuff. I 598 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 2: get that Gina is pissed at Shannon for her behavior 599 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 2: last year, but I also think of all of the women, 600 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 2: maybe Gina could have the most empathy. 601 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 3: One hundred percent. That's what I was going to say. 602 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 3: You went through this yourself, you know how hard this is. 603 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 3: She shouldn't you know after she gets over the fact 604 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 3: that yes, Shannon said that and offended her, that she 605 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 3: can help Shannon in many ways. 606 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 2: I mean, Gina is California sober, which is does not 607 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 2: mean you're free of any substance. 608 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 3: Correct, I learned. I know what that meant. But I 609 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 3: learned that. 610 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I mean I think that, like you have, 611 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 2: you got to give somebody a little bit of I 612 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 2: don't know if if it's happened to you, like if 613 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 2: I had gotten ad UI. It's like me talking to 614 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 2: somebody that's had a divorce because I've been divorced before. 615 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 2: I have a little bit more empathy towards somebody who's 616 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 2: had one, because I like, it just gives you an 617 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 2: insight that you wouldn't have if you've never had one, 618 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 2: and you've always thought that. 619 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 3: Well, maybe throughout the season they do have that moment. 620 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 3: I would love to see that. I would love for 621 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 3: Gina and Shannon to you know, have that moment or 622 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 3: the differences aside and they're you know, there for each other, 623 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 3: and Gina actually you know, helps her and you know. 624 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 2: I don't know that we should hold our breath for that. 625 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 3: No, I'm a nice I don't even know what I'm doing. 626 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 2: He shows them very thanks they show. They do show 627 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 2: them in the trailer getting along, but I feel like 628 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 2: it might have been like a five second teaser bake out. 629 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: But then we do get into something that I think resonated. 630 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 2: Gina and Travis moved into a house together. They have 631 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 2: a shit ton of kids. They moved them all into 632 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 2: the house. There's a million bunk beds that are living together. 633 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 2: And then Gina shares that she is going to have 634 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 2: Travis move out because now the kids are getting older 635 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 2: and they need privacy. And Travis's ex wife, I think 636 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 2: has taken over too much of their space of their relationship. 637 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 2: She feels like it's like a third person in their 638 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 2: relationship because her and her ex husband have figured out 639 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 2: how to co parent, and apparently this woman has not. 640 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 2: What I think in this moment is if we're going 641 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 2: to talk about her, I need her on the show. 642 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 2: I agree, like I need to. 643 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 3: Know what she's doing right, But who do you need? 644 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 3: You need the ex wife? 645 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 2: I need the ex wife. If we're going to talk 646 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 2: about her and how she's causing these problems, then let's 647 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 2: show her. Let's see a little bit of it, because 648 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people would relate to that 649 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 2: and going through that struggle of I mean, if you're 650 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 2: willing to open up and say this about your boyfriend's 651 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 2: kid's mother, then that's shore right. 652 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 3: Well maybe she will, no, maybe she'll she'll be a 653 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,479 Speaker 3: part of the show. Maybe she'll want to do that. 654 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not sure. 655 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 2: How do you feel about jen and Ryan because they 656 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 2: go to Jenner Jenna is finalizing her divorce, but now 657 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 2: her ex hasn't paid his portion of the rent and 658 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 2: she's getting evicted in the house that Gina found her. 659 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 3: My god, this is on one episode. 660 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 2: It was like a lot. 661 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 3: There were so many like different stories going on, and 662 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 3: like a lot. It was like heavy stuff. It was 663 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 3: like wow, Like all. 664 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 2: I kept thinking was a housewife with no house. How dreadful. 665 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 3: But like I don't even understand, Like how do you 666 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 3: not pay for your like for your rent? Even before 667 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 3: you didn't share that on TV, that's like really humiliating. 668 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 3: I mean I would think. 669 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 2: Well, I also was thinking, you're getting paid fifty dollars 670 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 2: a yoga class. Don't you own the studio? Like that's 671 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 2: what she's getting paid to go there? Like she's posting 672 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 2: on hers and listen, this isn't to come at gin, 673 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 2: but she is posting every single time she's going to 674 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 2: teach a class in Orange County, like to put things out. 675 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 3: How many people does she have in her class? I mean, 676 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 3: that's not a lot of money. 677 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 2: But that's why I'm saying that's a shit. That's shit. 678 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 2: Normally in a situation like I, I don't teach fitness 679 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 2: classes or anything like that. But if I do a 680 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 2: charity or something like that, and I say I'm gonna 681 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 2: be in this class, sign up, you know, like there's 682 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 2: it's a big money pot because the person wants to Yeah, get. 683 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 3: The tea, you make her money. It's about volume. You 684 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 3: need to fill up your classes. 685 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. So that that made me worry. But then I 686 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 2: also thought, do you think it's a red flag that 687 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 2: she's moving in with Ryan? I mean his past is 688 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 2: that he's a cheater or whatever it may be. Solely 689 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 2: because she financed, can't do it on her own. Are 690 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 2: you like, oh, he's being a nice guy. 691 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 3: I would like for me, I mean, that should not 692 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 3: be the reason why you move in with a man, ever, 693 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 3: because right there, he he knows that it's about that, 694 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 3: So like the relationship kind of like takes a shift. 695 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 3: So I'm just going to go exactly, I'm just going 696 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 3: to go to your house, and it's just like the 697 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 3: easy way out, and I wouldn't do that. I also 698 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,000 Speaker 3: think that somebody has to be because you want establish 699 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,760 Speaker 3: a life together, a relationship, you're in love and whatnot, 700 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 3: but definitely not because you need free rent. 701 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's going to be. I feel like, And 702 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 2: now you know, since we've seen they've gotten engaged, he's 703 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 2: gotten allegedly in all this trouble with the stuff with 704 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 2: the Dodger player, the FBI is involved like all of it. 705 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 2: I'm just like, you're getting yourself deeper and deeper immersed 706 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,359 Speaker 2: Like now it's no longer just you didn't pay your 707 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 2: rent on the place that Drina found for you. Now 708 00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 2: we're into a whole, You're into another web of issues, 709 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:09,280 Speaker 2: which worries me. Then Emily, Heather, and Alexis meet for drinks. 710 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 2: Emily asked Alexis about her ring, and Alexis says it's 711 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 2: a promise ring, not an engagement ring. Then Alexis confronts 712 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 2: Emily about talking shit about John on to teas in 713 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 2: a pod, and Emily said she knows he treated Shannon poorly, 714 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 2: and then Alexis asked Emily if she trust a drunk 715 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:32,719 Speaker 2: woman's opinion. Emily questions why she's defending him after only 716 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 2: dating him for a month. M how do you feel 717 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 2: about promise rings? 718 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 3: First of all, we're adults, you know, and I don't 719 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 3: even think young people do promise rings anymore. A promise 720 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 3: ring is kind of like I promise to never marry you. 721 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 3: That's how I see you, but also marry you. 722 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 2: Remember when we were like in high school and we 723 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,919 Speaker 2: would get those rings that it meant like you weren't 724 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 2: going to have sex until like they well, like I 725 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 2: think I got one, Like it's like a chastity ring. 726 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 2: I forget what the called, but they give it to you. 727 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 2: It's like a promise ring and you put it on. 728 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 2: I think mine was like a knockoff David Yeerman and 729 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 2: it met like this, we're together and then when we're 730 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,759 Speaker 2: ready to have sex, we're gonna do it. But like 731 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,760 Speaker 2: y'all already had sex, what do y'all promise? 732 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,799 Speaker 3: And four times a day? So it's like, so no, 733 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 3: I think it's silly. I think it's more for like 734 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 3: publicity and just I just think it's stupid, honestly, between 735 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 3: you and I, it's like, you know what, it's save 736 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 3: the money and get me like a tennis bracelet or 737 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 3: something else, like it could be something else at symbolic. 738 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 3: A piece of jewelry does not have to be a ring. 739 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 3: You could they could be like the people on Love 740 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 3: Is Blind? 741 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,720 Speaker 2: And have you seen these little tappers Whenever you're thinking 742 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 2: about the person that you're with, you tap it and 743 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 2: that lights up their arm. I actually google that be 744 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 2: good for my kids, Just give my little tap, little 745 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:55,399 Speaker 2: bus like. But I feel like Alexis is going into 746 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 2: this season and if she does continue to bring up 747 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,360 Speaker 2: to teas in a pod, I'm happy for her to 748 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:02,839 Speaker 2: get an orange thank you. 749 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 3: So I was gonna say, maybe that's like what she wants. Well, 750 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,280 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of times when the women 751 00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 3: come in as friends and it's the first season, they 752 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 3: really fight for their position. 753 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 2: Especially after being a housewife. 754 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,360 Speaker 3: Exactly that is true in her case. I forgot that 755 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 3: she was a housewife, and you know, after so many years, 756 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,399 Speaker 3: it's kind of like she's coming back and she needs 757 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 3: to prove herself and there's nothing that's going to stop her, 758 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 3: so there's no consequences. So that's that's what it looks 759 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,359 Speaker 3: like she's doing. And then obviously she has John, which 760 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 3: is Shannon's ex boyfriend. 761 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 2: But then Shannon meets with her lawyer, Mike. Shannon was 762 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 2: sentenced to three years of probation. Shan says she's a 763 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 2: hypocrite for always talking about how dumb it is to 764 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:57,239 Speaker 2: get a dui. Then tam and her daughter go to 765 00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:03,799 Speaker 2: get tattoos. Sophia has not been on show for eighteen years, yes, 766 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 2: because her father would not allow her to film, and 767 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,279 Speaker 2: so it's pretty exciting to see her on And like, 768 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 2: I know Sophia obviously in real life, and she is 769 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 2: like the perfect mix of just like Tamra's spunk, but 770 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 2: also just like having that she's just cool, like I'm 771 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:29,440 Speaker 2: not naturally cool, Like she is just cool. But Tama 772 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 2: wants one one one on her wrist. And then Tamma 773 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,400 Speaker 2: gets emotional every time she sees one one one because 774 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 2: she was her other daughter, Sydney would come home. I 775 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 2: love seeing tam get to interact with her kids because 776 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 2: I think so often on the show because the kids 777 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:47,800 Speaker 2: weren't allowed to film. 778 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 3: We didn't get to. 779 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 2: See that side, so I do appreciate that. 780 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was really touching. I love that. No, I 781 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:57,280 Speaker 3: don't have any senses. 782 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:03,440 Speaker 2: You classy, I got a lot. And then on the 783 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 2: way to Heather's lunch, we meet the new housewife, Katie, 784 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 2: who is a friend of Gina's. She was introduced to 785 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,840 Speaker 2: Gina Buyston and Katie loves Gina because she has a 786 00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 2: zest for life and Gina loves Katie because she's her 787 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:17,879 Speaker 2: age thirty nine. 788 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 3: I feel like that's the number and the requirement to 789 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 3: be a housewife, to be thirty nine. Yeah, I'll like 790 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 3: the new all the new beans that are coming in 791 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 3: that's like their age gruth. 792 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,799 Speaker 2: Well, and then Gina wants to live in her youth 793 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 2: a little bit longer. Then I started to like ask 794 00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 2: the question, like do we think a thirty nine year 795 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: old and a fifty nine year old can be friends? 796 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,319 Speaker 3: I think they can for sure, because I have a 797 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 3: lot of thirty something year old friends and forty something. 798 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 3: For me, age is just a number either of It's 799 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 3: just like a friendship with a girl or even like 800 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,319 Speaker 3: with men. You know, it depends obviously the amount in 801 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 3: this case we're talking about two girls, and you know, 802 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 3: thirty nine and fifty nine is a twenty year difference. 803 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 3: But I feel like if you have a mom, you 804 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,360 Speaker 3: can relate to her, like there's some similarities like that 805 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,240 Speaker 3: their mom might have. I think it's actually smart because 806 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 3: the fifte nine year old woman has so much wisdom 807 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 3: and insight, and it's great to have an older friend, 808 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 3: you know, the woman that's thirty nine, and then the 809 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,839 Speaker 3: fifty nine year old. He is a thirty nine year 810 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 3: old still full of that energy and kind of like 811 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,440 Speaker 3: you live through them and you want to keep up. 812 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 3: You know, Younger people, you know, have more energy and 813 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 3: live their life a little differently. I mean, granted, there's 814 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:27,760 Speaker 3: a lot of thirty nine year olds. 815 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,160 Speaker 2: Or I'd say I'm forty three, and I'm not full 816 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 2: of energy and zest for life, just like everybody I am. 817 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 3: And that's why I like young people and I attract 818 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 3: young people because I can identify like I'm more. Really 819 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 3: I relate more to younger people, but then I also 820 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,320 Speaker 3: have older friends that I relate to them different things 821 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 3: in like you know, career and life experiences, our children, 822 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 3: you know, like our marriages. I mean so much more, 823 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 3: you know, I feel again, that age is just a number. 824 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 3: There's a lot of thirty nine year old women that 825 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 3: are like older old souls, and there's a lot of 826 00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 3: fifteenine year old women that are still super mature that 827 00:40:58,640 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 3: you can't even have a conversation with. 828 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 2: So I think also it depends where you are in 829 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 2: your life. Like I think it is hard. Like if 830 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,759 Speaker 2: I had a newborn baby right now, and I had 831 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 2: a friend and her youngest child is twenty five, and 832 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,440 Speaker 2: we're trying to spend days together, that is hard, Like 833 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 2: do you want to come over and hang out with 834 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 2: me and my baby? Like? There are moments in time 835 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 2: that it's hard. But I think there's situational friendships that 836 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,240 Speaker 2: you come in and you get closer through time, And 837 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 2: so I think that is fine. But how do we 838 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 2: to really get down to it? What do we think 839 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 2: Katie's going to be like as a housewife? 840 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 3: You know, I really can't tell by the first By 841 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 3: her first season, first episode, you know, I felt like 842 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 3: her story was a little bit lost. Honestly, I don't 843 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 3: really remember her too much because I think that shade 844 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 3: I wasn't being shady. I'm sorry, I'm just being honest. 845 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:47,600 Speaker 2: For me. 846 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 3: For some people shadiness. For me, it's honesty. But I'm 847 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,400 Speaker 3: just saying I really don't remember her because I don't think. 848 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 2: She's going to be as a housewife. I don't really 849 00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:56,759 Speaker 2: remember her, to. 850 00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,479 Speaker 3: Be honest, I don't And it's not shady, just saying 851 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,959 Speaker 3: the truth because I felt like I was so more 852 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:08,960 Speaker 3: absorbed with like Shannon's story and Gina and even Tamra, 853 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,120 Speaker 3: I mean, all the other things that we've been talking about, 854 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 3: and Emily and and Alexis. I feel like for me 855 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 3: it was more of that. 856 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,720 Speaker 2: So do you think they needed to bring in somebody 857 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:22,680 Speaker 2: new or they could have just left it without It's 858 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 2: too soon to tell. 859 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 3: You can ask me that after a couple of more episodes, 860 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 3: because so far, like I said, I don't really remember her, 861 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 3: so I don't know how much more involvement she's gonna have. 862 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 3: You know, I always think it's good to bring in 863 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 3: new people into the group and throw them in the 864 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 3: mix and see, you know, because sometimes you know you 865 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 3: need it, and if they don't work out, you just 866 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 3: start phasing them out, and you know the viewers will 867 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,239 Speaker 3: see that too, But it's too soon to tell. 868 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 2: Then we get to Heathery's throwing a party at the 869 00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 2: Balbeoba Club. Gina tells Shannon she feels uncomfortable for her, 870 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 2: and she says she's grateful she's out of the relationship 871 00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:01,120 Speaker 2: with John. And then they get there. Everybody there's a 872 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 2: lot of activities. I gotta be honest, I don't love 873 00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 2: a party with a ton of activities. Like I like 874 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 2: a couple so I can dodge out of conversations. I 875 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 2: don't want to have like, oh, it's my turn for 876 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 2: bracelet making, but I don't need like eighty seven, Like 877 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,760 Speaker 2: I just need a good drink and like one. 878 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 3: Good human to talk to, like this kind of parties either. 879 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:24,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, But then Shannon arrives and all the girls are like, 880 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,920 Speaker 2: I think Shannon looks great. Things are good. But then 881 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,719 Speaker 2: all the women I start to wonder where everybody else 882 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:32,719 Speaker 2: is at the party because all of the women are 883 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 2: like at this one window ram together watching the conversation 884 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 2: between Shannon and Alexis. 885 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 3: I just see that it's funny, and they're all like 886 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 3: trying to like look and see and then. 887 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,320 Speaker 2: They're like yelling at Emily. They're like, Emily, you're spread eagle. 888 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 2: Everybody gets here, but how did you feel? Because I 889 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,240 Speaker 2: really am trying to come into this and not be biased. 890 00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 2: What were your thoughts on how Alexis and Shannon both 891 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 2: handled themselves in this conversation. 892 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I honestly thought that they could have taken 893 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:16,520 Speaker 3: different directions. I thought Shannon was being honest and she 894 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 3: was just you know, opening up to Alexis, and you know, 895 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 3: Alexis was a little rude. I mean, don't you think. 896 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I like Alexis, but I'm just saying, like 897 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 3: it was just weird the conversation that they've had, you know, 898 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:29,759 Speaker 3: first episode. 899 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,000 Speaker 2: Like, I mean, not to piss you off, but if 900 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 2: if you and Todd don't rekindle after this club Sandwich 901 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 2: tag and a year down the road I end up 902 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 2: with Todd, I would handle it with a little bit more. 903 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 3: That's not happening. Why don't we put somebody else as 904 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:52,279 Speaker 3: an example? Because I'm Cuban and I'm very feisty, so 905 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,239 Speaker 3: we're not going to do that. 906 00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:57,840 Speaker 2: Listen, I'm just saying, hypothetically speaking, I would hand. 907 00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 3: Guys that they're not friends. So Alexis and when she 908 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 3: meets John, oh yeah, we we that's different. 909 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,240 Speaker 2: We are friends, Okay, So it has to be somebody 910 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:06,239 Speaker 2: else that I don't know. 911 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 3: But regardless, John, don't you think that I never asked 912 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 3: her that. So she told me that when she met 913 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,880 Speaker 3: John at the bar she I forgot that she had 914 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 3: been part of the OC cast for many years. So 915 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 3: she's probably still watching, and she's seen John in Shannon's life. 916 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,760 Speaker 2: I mean she I think she told us she didn't watch, 917 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 2: but I mean I feel like everybody says that. 918 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 3: Well, but even the thing now, Teddy's even if you 919 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 3: don't watch these shows, you watch social media and you 920 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 3: follow these bloggers and the barber world and whatnot. So 921 00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:38,400 Speaker 3: at some point she had to see John and the 922 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 3: mess that Shannon's been in also with him. So so 923 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:43,319 Speaker 3: I don't know that I believe it or not. I 924 00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:45,840 Speaker 3: feel like she knew who he was, and he probably 925 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 3: knew who she was as well, because if he likes 926 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,800 Speaker 3: all this world, that's why he's with her. Because Amanda 927 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 3: wants nothing to do with this, wouldn't be going on 928 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:53,719 Speaker 3: with Alexus, no. 929 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:58,880 Speaker 2: But also I think maybe where Shannon might have mucked 930 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,920 Speaker 2: this up a little bit, and this is coming at Shannon. 931 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 2: This is just I wish she would have led with 932 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 2: John and then brought up Jim Bellino later. But I 933 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 2: think the fact that she was emotional explaining the lawsuit 934 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 2: with Jim Bellino put Alexis on the defense, right, I 935 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 2: wasn't a part of this lawsuit, like blah blah blah. 936 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 2: And then also I Gotana. 937 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,839 Speaker 3: Was saying that she was. She's like, I saw your 938 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,799 Speaker 3: signature on the papers and you were an Alexis saying 939 00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 3: I wasn't because it was after my divorce with John. 940 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 2: So I think the fact that that happened, I don't know, 941 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 2: especially because we're not talking about like a twenty thousand 942 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 2: dollars lawsuit. We're talking about a three hundred thousand and 943 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 2: a five hundred thousand dollars lawsuit. Like these women Tamra 944 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 2: and Shannon allegedly lost a lot of money in this 945 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 2: lawsuit for something they went on a freaking live podcast. 946 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 2: I mean, it's crazy. But then I just felt like 947 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 2: the conversation was off to the races and there was 948 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,400 Speaker 2: gonna be no kindness from Alexis to Shannon after that. 949 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,840 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, because she was on the defense, like, I 950 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 2: didn't do it, I know. 951 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 3: But I mean, can you blame Shannon for saying that? 952 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 3: I would have said that too, like our problem is 953 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,480 Speaker 3: not only because of John. Our problem is also because 954 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 3: your ex husband, you know, suit us. So I mean 955 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,879 Speaker 3: I feel like Shannon had a lot of things to say. 956 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,319 Speaker 3: I mean, of course it was to Alexis. Maybe she 957 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 3: would have sent him to Alexis ex husband if you 958 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 3: would have been there, But because you know she's the 959 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 3: ex wife, she was the one that got it. And 960 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:29,360 Speaker 3: again I don't know that she had anything to do 961 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,360 Speaker 3: with it. I want to believe Alexis. Alexis says I 962 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:32,840 Speaker 3: had nothing to do with it. It was after he 963 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,880 Speaker 3: and I had divorced, and it is what it is. 964 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 3: You know, sometimes your husband's make decisions without counting with you, 965 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 3: And I don't know that she supported that back in 966 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 3: the day. I don't know that. 967 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:43,919 Speaker 2: I don't know either. 968 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 3: But a lot a lot of things going on like 969 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,280 Speaker 3: against this woman. I mean first her ex husband Susan, 970 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 3: and then now her ex boyfriend is dating her. I mean, 971 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:52,840 Speaker 3: it's a lot. 972 00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 2: With a promise friend. But one thing that I will 973 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 2: say in closing out this episode is, no matter what 974 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 2: side you're on, Shannon going straight up to Alexis episode 975 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:09,160 Speaker 2: one for a direct chat is giving the fans everything 976 00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 2: that they want like she could have completely avoided that 977 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,919 Speaker 2: conversation episode in. 978 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,840 Speaker 3: My show, they would have avoided it, right, But in 979 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 3: your show, she went by for it. 980 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:23,799 Speaker 2: Like she went right in. And I was like, and 981 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 2: so I do think we're going to see a lot 982 00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 2: of highs and lows. I think we're gonna see the 983 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,280 Speaker 2: women having fun. I am really excited for the season. 984 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 2: But I think, as the kids would say, episode one 985 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:43,000 Speaker 2: was giving. It was yes, well, thank you so much 986 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,319 Speaker 2: for joining me, and now you're gonna have to go 987 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 2: deeper down the rabbit hole of the past of all 988 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 2: of these women because you are so good at this 989 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,960 Speaker 2: and I need you to have this history. 990 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,320 Speaker 3: I want to be Yeah, sorry, I just like watched 991 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,120 Speaker 3: it last night and with the time difference and stuff, 992 00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 3: but I am gonna get more involved. I'm gonna watch everything. 993 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:01,880 Speaker 2: So good, are you kidding? I was? That was not 994 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,359 Speaker 2: a knock. That was like you are so good. 995 00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 3: Good, thank you. I mean, I think it's you know, 996 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 3: I feel like they're going to have a great season. 997 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying to say. It was so much 998 00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,719 Speaker 3: for like episode one, there were so many like you know, 999 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 3: stories going on, and like real life shit and that's why. Like, 1000 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,320 Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying. These are all like real life ships, 1001 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,799 Speaker 3: personal things that really affect you on your life. 1002 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,760 Speaker 2: It didn't feel fake at all. It didn't feel like bullshit. 1003 00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,359 Speaker 2: It felt like this is real shit hitting the fan 1004 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,480 Speaker 2: for all of these women. Correct, Yeah, oh see, you're 1005 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,359 Speaker 2: back and we appreciate you and thank you so much 1006 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:35,880 Speaker 2: for joining. 1007 00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:36,880 Speaker 3: Thank you, Seddie,