1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. Y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 3: Don't give a. 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: Black busy they listening to. 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: Show, I don't joy. 7 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Joy. 8 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 4: Show. 9 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 3: You gotta do that. Love turn, you gotta turn. 10 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: Came to turn the mouth turn You probably got to 11 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 2: turn the mouth. 12 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: Turn out, turn, then up. 13 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 2: Come. 14 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: Come out. 15 00:01:59,000 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: You think that. 16 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 5: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening to 17 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 5: the voice, Come on, dig me now, one and all. 18 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 5: Its Steve Harvey got a radio show particular me this morning. 19 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 5: Steve Harvey got a radio show filled with nothing but 20 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 5: joy and hope about it too. You know, it's a 21 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 5: great thing to be able to wake up in the 22 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 5: morning with peace in your heart and joy. Peace and 23 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 5: joy is immeasurable. It has a value attached to it, 24 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 5: and I have no idea what it is. It's invaluable. 25 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 5: It is worth so much more than any amount of 26 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 5: money you can make. Peace and joy. I have not 27 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 5: always had that. 28 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 6: I've not always been a peaceful person or a person 29 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 6: who lived his life and enjoy spirit. It took an 30 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 6: arrival at this moment. Some people arrive sooner than others. 31 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:03,239 Speaker 6: I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but 32 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 6: I think it was necessary for me to learn a 33 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 6: few things too. That's the amazing thing I've learned about 34 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 6: life is that instead of reflecting on your past incidences 35 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 6: and calling them failures, instead of focusing on the negative 36 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 6: and calling them bad times, I look at them now 37 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 6: as experiences. I had to have those experiences that were negative, 38 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 6: that were good, positive, wrong, evil. I had to have 39 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 6: all those experiences to become to shape who we are today. 40 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 7: We all have to have them. 41 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 6: If you look back at all the negative experiences you've had, 42 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:54,119 Speaker 6: all the things that you called failures, all the businesses 43 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 6: I started that went under, all of the jobs I 44 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 6: had that I was fired from, all the shows that 45 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 6: were canceled, all of the times I thought I was 46 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 6: going to get something happened in my way and turned 47 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 6: out I didn't get it at all. When you look 48 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 6: at all of it, all of it, hopefully along the way, 49 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 6: what you have done as a person is you've taken 50 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 6: those negatives and those failures and you've used them for 51 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 6: what they actually are. They are experiences, and they've now 52 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 6: created in you an experienced person, and you know that 53 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 6: is worth something that's then it becomes a positive. But 54 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 6: what too many people do is they let the negative 55 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 6: things that have happened in their life. They allow the 56 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 6: failures that have happened in them lives never to manifest 57 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 6: themselves as experiences. And you sit up there and you 58 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 6: dwell on it, and you dwell on it until you 59 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 6: have this woe is me attitude. Stop looking at it 60 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 6: like that, y'all. You go through things in order to 61 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 6: become the person that you are today. I'll tell you 62 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 6: who you sometimes have to sit down and talk to. 63 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 6: Sometimes you ought to sit down to an inmate that 64 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 6: really gets it, an inmate that says, man, I've actually 65 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 6: heard inmates say it to me and write to me, 66 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 6: and they've said things like, man, come into prison. 67 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 7: Save my life. Now, those of you have never got 68 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 7: how can he say a thing like that? 69 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 6: But some men, no, Man, I was so far out 70 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 6: there that if I'd have stayed out there, I wouldn't 71 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 6: even be here today. This actually allowed me to stop, 72 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 6: spend some time with myself and learn some things about me. 73 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 7: Now does that happen for everybody? 74 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 4: Like that? 75 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 6: And a but here's a person who was taking an 76 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 6: experience that could be considered a failure or negative and 77 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 6: turn it into a positive and using it to enrich 78 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 6: their lives. You can do it no matter what your 79 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 6: set of circumstances is. I recommend to everybody that you 80 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 6: try changing your outlook in order to change your outcome. 81 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 6: Everything that happens to you that's negative or you can 82 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 6: say the failure their experiences. You've got to go through 83 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 6: these things in order to have the knowledge that you 84 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 6: have today. So I wish that I had come to 85 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 6: this arrival that I'm in now, this place of peace 86 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 6: and joy, But then guess what, I will not know 87 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 6: what I know. I couldnot share some of the things 88 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 6: that I'm able to share if I had not gone 89 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 6: through some of them. And sometimes that's the purpose of them. 90 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 6: It's to teach you a lesson because you know, God 91 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 6: has a plan for you. He really really does, and 92 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 6: eventually he can use you no matter how old you are, 93 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 6: and he can use you no matter how young you are. 94 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 6: If you just say, okay, I'm ready to hear your plan. 95 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 6: I've tried mine, mine ain't worked out. What's your plan 96 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 6: for me? 97 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: God? What do you want me to do? 98 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 6: That's why I say every day Steve Harready got radio show, y'all, cause, man, 99 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 6: I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming. 100 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 6: I ain't see this book coming. 101 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: I ain't. 102 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 6: I ain't seen half of the amazing things that are 103 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 6: happened to me. I didn't plan them. I was sitting there, man, 104 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 6: asking God for some direction. And then I got smart 105 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 6: enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker. Now because faithful, 106 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 6: our works is there and it came. And I'll remind 107 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 6: you of this. God has given all of you a gift. 108 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 6: Every last one of you listening has a gift. God 109 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 6: has never created a soul that he did not provide 110 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 6: a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a 111 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:28,119 Speaker 6: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts 112 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 6: are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who 113 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 6: really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift, 114 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 6: you know, and in that you can become great. 115 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 8: You know, a. 116 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 6: Lot of people think that successful and greatness is the 117 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 6: same thing. Cornell West said it at my daughter's graduation. 118 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 6: He was a spokesperson and he said something so pointed. 119 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 6: He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness. The two 120 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 6: have nothing to do with each other. See determined success 121 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 6: about money and fame and all this here, But greatness. 122 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 6: Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money. It 123 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 6: ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's how 124 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 6: you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant you 125 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 6: become in your community, at your church, on your job, 126 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 6: to the cub Scout unit that you run, to the 127 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 6: little girl's lives that you change, that that little center 128 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 6: in the hood where you just one place of hope 129 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 6: to so many people and they come back. And I 130 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 6: used the example of Lou Dazzler who passed away in 131 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 6: La who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club out 132 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 6: in La. And he wasn't a rich man at all, 133 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 6: and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know 134 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,439 Speaker 6: who he was. But if you look at all the 135 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 6: people who have gone on to become politicians, who have 136 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 6: gone on to become CEOs, who have gone on to 137 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 6: become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building 138 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 6: in the hood in La, he was great. Trust me, man, 139 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 6: prayt changes things I said at all the time. But 140 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 6: when you see people becomes successful or great that somebody 141 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 6: praying somewhere may not even beat them, maybe it's they Mama. 142 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 6: You know, I think of Tiger Woods and all the 143 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 6: greatness he's accomplished. You know, they always talk about his 144 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 6: father and all this. Here somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods. 145 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 6: I got cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama 146 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 6: is a praying woman or something. 147 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: My mother was. 148 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 6: She prayed me into this place because she used to 149 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 6: call me all the time praying for you. Boy, and 150 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 6: prayer changes things. It really does. Try it today. It 151 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 6: can change you. It has changed millions of people. Open 152 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 6: up yourself to the greatness that's in you because God 153 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 6: has giving you a gift matter fact that you ain't 154 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 6: using it. Who fought you think that is? I'm just 155 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 6: telling you you got one, and if you start praying 156 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 6: about it, it'll manifest itself and you can become one 157 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 6: or two things, successful or great or both. 158 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: You can make the decision. Today you're listening to the 159 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Moore Show, Ladies. 160 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 6: And gentlemen, boys and girls, let me have your undivided attention, please. 161 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show is alive and well. But just 162 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 6: as a reminder, so are you alive and well, Still here, 163 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 6: still blessed, still highly favored, The reason I know you 164 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 6: favorite is because you can hear me. And the reason 165 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 6: you can hear me is because God either got you 166 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 6: through your work night and you're going home or you 167 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 6: just woke up. God is responsible for both of those things. 168 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 6: All good things come from Heaven above man, Thank you 169 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 6: Lord for this day. I appreciate you. We're on the 170 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 6: ride now. Steve Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry calling for 171 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 6: real Mississippi, Monica Junior's not here today and the legend 172 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 6: of Nephew Tommy. Ladies, how y'all doing today? Any questions 173 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 6: today from y'all? 174 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 1: How did your mentor in camp go? Well, we talked 175 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: about it a little bit about us today we did. 176 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: I just need a rest, So any story? 177 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 7: Spoke about them too many? 178 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 9: You always have great stories. Yeah, I got a question 179 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 9: for you. Yeah, but we may talk about this later 180 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 9: in the show as well. But you got your anniversary 181 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 9: you and Tommy? Right, y'all got wedding anniversaries coming up 182 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 9: this month. How you feeling these are big number? 183 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 6: Well, you know this one's gonna be a little bit 184 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 6: different because of the recent tragedy. 185 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: As far as she lost her father. 186 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 6: She's trying to help her mother, who would have technically 187 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 6: been married to this man for sixty five years, so 188 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 6: that's a big loss. And then her cousin who passed. 189 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 6: The lady that's his wife that's left, has four small children. 190 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 6: So they buried him on Monday, buried her dad on Thursday. 191 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 6: So she's in Memphis trying to help out as much 192 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 6: as she can. So we don't have plans this year. 193 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's marriage life and because life, keep on life. 194 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: And you hear. 195 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 6: You can set up in here and make the best 196 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 6: of plans of all plans in life. Go okay, cool, 197 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 6: you can do that, But deal with this right quick. 198 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: What about your nephew. You got anniversary coming up this month? 199 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 10: Mine was the sixteenth, Yeah, he had Oh that's right, 200 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 10: was sixteen. We were scheduled for Africa until my wife 201 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,199 Speaker 10: heard Ebola and told me we're not going. 202 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 1: In Africa. What country in South Africa? 203 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 2: It was. 204 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: Cape Town. She had a whole layout, man, she had 205 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: she had us rolling for a good two weeks. 206 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 7: Have you ever been to Cape Town? 207 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:57,599 Speaker 4: I have not. 208 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 6: It's beautiful, man, he wow, there's some scenery down there, man, 209 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 6: They got some and you can walk up to the 210 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 6: top of the mountain that's across from the one and 211 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 6: only hotel. 212 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 7: You can walk to the top. 213 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:13,719 Speaker 1: Well, I tell you it is. The new movement for 214 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: black women is Congo. See. Yes, they came to America. 215 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: We are going to the Congo. Yes for sure they represented. 216 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you. 217 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 218 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 11: will hear it once again from the nephew as he 219 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 11: runs that brank back right after this. 220 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: Hey, what's up God? This is Fantasia all right? Now 221 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: you're listening to my man, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 222 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 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TMCF is America's largest organization that exclusively 232 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 9: represents the HBCU community. 233 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: Join us in being part of the. 234 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 9: Transformation applied, donate or partner with us today at TMCF 235 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 9: dot org. 236 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: It is time now to run that prank back with 237 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: the nephew, nephew, what you got for us? 238 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 10: Surely I got the sick and shutting in? The sick 239 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 10: and shutting A lot of y'all don't remember. Back in 240 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 10: the day at the church, they used to have a 241 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 10: whole list. It was the sick and shutting in list. 242 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 10: I don't know if y'all remember that. Yes, and I 243 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 10: read the ladies. Yeah, and I remember the lady name 244 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 10: that stuck in my head, Sister Eula May step Tone, 245 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 10: Sister Eula Mas. I never met miss Ula May Steptoe, 246 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 10: but she was always on the program. That's the seek 247 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 10: and shut in list. Yeah, you little mad Steptoe. That's right. 248 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 10: But this is a little different. This was a little different. 249 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 10: So y'all take a listen right here, this is shut in. 250 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: Let's go catch do so. 251 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 4: I'm trying to speak it. You got him that I'm doing. 252 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 4: I ain't doing too good. You been over here praying 253 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 4: for my wife again, right right, right, yes, sir, you 254 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 4: have came over here three times in one week. My 255 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 4: wife had already went through the operation and all that 256 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 4: she's gonna be fine. I don't need you over a 257 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 4: praying three times a week, because, honestly, I think it's 258 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 4: something else on your mind when you come over here 259 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 4: praying for my wife. I ain't stupid, brother. 260 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 8: You kind of hold it, brother, this buddy, this is 261 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 8: well your wife was on the second shot. Ain't list 262 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 8: I rever asked you to come by. Rever ain't requested 263 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 8: that I come by. 264 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 4: Okay, he ain't requested for you to bring your black 265 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 4: to my house for no three times in one week, man, 266 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 4: So you can cut that down with me. 267 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 8: You can cut that hold it, brother. I came with 268 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 8: sister Georgia the first time. The second time I came 269 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 8: by myself because she was able to come by, and 270 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 8: I only stayed fifteen minutes each time. So what's the problem. 271 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 4: Because I already know what you what you're doing. I 272 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 4: know you're trying to holler at my wife. I ain't 273 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 4: stuo hop at your wife. 274 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 8: I had a wife. Why would I happen to your wife? 275 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 4: She's probably already already know what you already know what 276 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 4: you're doing. Man, you up in there other house my wife? 277 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 4: Why wind up? Why nobody at the house. I already 278 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 4: know what you do. Let me tell you something. Keep 279 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 4: your black away from my house. If you want to 280 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 4: pray for my wife. 281 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 8: I'm w wait minute, wait, Manue, you can't talk to 282 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 8: nobot that. 283 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 4: That's what you're gonna now, Brother. 284 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 8: It ain't gonna be none of that. And ain't gonna 285 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 8: be none of that. You're talking to the wrong brother, 286 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 8: and I okay. Now, First of all, you're not gonna 287 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 8: disrespect me and curse me out. Okay, that's not even 288 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 8: the way brothers should be talking to brother. Second of all, 289 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 8: if there's any laying on the hands, it's gonna be 290 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 8: my hands laying on you. Okay. 291 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 4: Late, I know I'm trying my wife. If I find 292 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 4: out what you know you mess around with my wife, 293 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 4: it's gonna. 294 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 8: Be I'm crazy trying to be crazy. 295 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 4: I'm just letting you talk. I'm gonna say it one 296 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 4: more time. Keep your black off around my You know, first. 297 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 8: Of all, I told you once again, you can't be 298 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 8: talking to me like that. Now I'm trying to be 299 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 8: cool about the situation, because I know you may be 300 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 8: just upset. Okay, I can appreciate that. Okay, I have 301 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 8: a wife, and I'll be upset if somebody's coming out. 302 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 4: There my rom and you out with your wife. I 303 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 4: do spend my time with my wife. I do you 304 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 4: know I'm saying, come buy your house. Maybe I need 305 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 4: to come on your house and high let your wife. 306 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 4: Well you welcome to maybe come and come lay something 307 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 4: over there on huh God? Now, sure, no ways trying 308 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 4: to do it. 309 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 8: Hold older, one man, older one minute. I'll tell you 310 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 8: before you're being disrespectful. Now, that was a very idiotic 311 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 8: statement for you to make. 312 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 4: Okay, that's what's gonna happen. If I catch your black 313 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 4: rift my house again, I'm gonna play this man, and 314 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 4: then I'm getting on the phone with you, you, your 315 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 4: pastor any more of them, because if anybody come by 316 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 4: my house again and I ain't there, I'm kicking your 317 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 4: black That's. 318 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 8: A promise, you know, that's it. Look at brother, if 319 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 8: that's gonna be any whooping gone, I'll be kicking. Yep. 320 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 8: I'm gonna lay my hands on you and I'm gonna 321 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 8: give you a good sanctified whooping, and then I'm gonna 322 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 8: pray for you. I'm gonna pray to heal you by 323 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 8: this foot I'm gonna put up, okay, because I I've 324 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 8: had it with you, you know. And I only went 325 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 8: by to visit your wife because I was asked to 326 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 8: go visit your wife. Now that was a problem. You 327 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 8: should have called the pastor. Okay, but you're not gonna 328 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 8: disrespect me my wife to church on the phone. 329 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 6: Life. 330 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 8: If you want to do somebody, you can meet me 331 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 8: any place. Well. As a matter of fact, I can. 332 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 4: Go anywhere I want in this town. 333 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 8: If I be at your house talking to your wife, 334 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 8: if the past asks me to go, I'm gonna be there. 335 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 4: Okay. You you know, you just you know. 336 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,479 Speaker 8: It's just a stupid brother. Okay. You need to come 337 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 8: to church. You need to come to church more often. 338 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 8: That's the problem. You donna come to church more off. 339 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 8: If you come to church more off. You want to 340 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 8: be talking to me like that. You wannat be worried 341 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 8: about me and your wife because there must be something 342 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 8: wrong at your house. You be worried by me fooling 343 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:54,439 Speaker 8: with your wife. Okay, so you need to check her Okay, 344 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 8: you about that? 345 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 4: Why don't you do that? 346 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 8: Why don't you Why don't you just check her? 347 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 4: Okay, Thomas said, you the one that's cheating with with 348 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 4: my wife. That's that's all. 349 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: I know. 350 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 4: Who Tommy, Tommy say you Timmy the one? Said, Thomas said, 351 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 4: you the one that's cheating around with my wife. 352 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:12,719 Speaker 8: Tommy who? 353 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 4: Who? Who is Tommy Tommy who? This is nephew Tommy. Man, 354 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 4: So this is nephew tom Me from Steve Harvey Morning 355 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 4: Show Man. Your church member got me the pray Baul 356 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 4: not wrong for that? You know you're wrong. 357 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 8: Y're long. You know, y'all high way to hell, all 358 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 8: of y'all you know none stop no, you know y'all 359 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 8: just you know y'all just gone. You know ain't no 360 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 8: stop signed. 361 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 4: You know, I finna go. 362 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 8: I'm gonna pay for all of y'all, all of your brothers, Iphew, Timmy, Steve, 363 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 8: Hobby brother wrong for that. Okay, I'm gonna check him. 364 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 8: I'm gonna check aunt. I'm finna go. Don't talk you 365 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 8: out the I'm pray Im'll. 366 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 4: Say, Hey, brother man, you gotta tell me what's the 367 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 4: badest radio show with the lamb bad. 368 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 8: Steve Hobby Law and Show. 369 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 11: Right now, heyw depth toeltup? 370 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:22,199 Speaker 1: M all right, nephew, thank you? Coming up next, did 371 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 1: I need anything else? I just want to know you're good? 372 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 1: Like stop, okay? 373 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 2: All right? 374 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 11: Coming up next to ask the clo our chief Love Officer, 375 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:31,919 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey and the building. 376 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,920 Speaker 1: Right after this, why is he the little Also, I'm 377 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: the one with the TV show. You're listening to the 378 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Everybody's your favorite play cousin Jr. 379 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: We need to talk. 380 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 12: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again, 381 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 12: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. 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The Lincoln 392 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 11: reflection pools, renovation costs, and Carla has some music news. 393 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 11: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 394 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 11: of the hour, but right now it is time to 395 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 11: ask the CLO, our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 396 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,160 Speaker 1: Here we go, CLO. 397 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 11: Brian and Woodbridge writes, my wife called her ex on 398 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 11: his birthday. She got busted, and she said she was 399 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,640 Speaker 11: really calling to check on his mom. Like that made 400 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 11: it better. They've been close since they were kids, and 401 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 11: am I supposed to be cool with her still being. 402 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 1: Friendly with them? Husband? Yeah? 403 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 11: She called her ex husband for his birthday. Yeah, And 404 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 11: then when her husband caught her, she said she was 405 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 11: really calling to check. 406 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 1: On his mom, his ex'es mom. Is they're still close? 407 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 4: You get it? 408 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: No, I'm not. 409 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 7: I ain't cool with none of that. 410 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: That's what the husband wants to know, is. 411 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 6: Yes, you know, let his current wife wish him a 412 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 6: happy birthday. He don't need you wishing him no happy birthday? 413 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 6: And why is that still important to you? Do he 414 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 6: have a happy birthday? 415 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:35,719 Speaker 4: Now? 416 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 6: Keep on happy birthday and you going over there and 417 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 6: try to see if y'all can get back to having 418 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 6: that happy life. 419 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 7: Y'all got divorced from Wow. 420 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 6: No, no, no, man, no no, I angry. But we 421 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 6: know what if you still need to wish him a 422 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 6: happy birthday? What am I for? 423 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 1: Okay? 424 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 7: Because hold on, suppose I. 425 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 6: Started calling exit is wishing him a happy birthday? How 426 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 6: you fit to feel about that? 427 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 4: Oh? 428 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 1: Not good at all? 429 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 8: You know? 430 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 7: I mean, I mean, I mean you know, because we're 431 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:09,479 Speaker 7: still close. 432 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm close to her mama. 433 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 11: But what do you do with those relationships though? I mean, 434 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 11: like you know, they were a family once upon a time. 435 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 11: She was close to the mother, the ex mother in law. 436 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: How do you what do you do? 437 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 7: She has no husband? 438 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're saying, just cut up. The Bible says. 439 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 6: When you take a wife, you cleave unto her and 440 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 6: leave all others. 441 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 7: It hold down confusion. 442 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 2: You can't have that just y'all. 443 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 6: Keep thinking you can have that. You can have male friends, 444 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 6: y'all keep thinking that. That's not how this works. Man, 445 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 6: It's going to lead to letters like this, And when 446 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 6: you get to let us like that, the dude is 447 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 6: absolutely perfectly correct and feeling how he feeling. You're wishing 448 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 6: him a happy birthday for I call his mama because 449 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 6: we still closed okay, we'll get on closed inn. 450 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 7: Wow. 451 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: Okay, moving on to a Jen and Charlotte. 452 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 11: Jen writes, my husband is a pilot and he brought 453 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 11: home two flight attendants because their hotel didn't have air conditioning. 454 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 11: I had to get the guest room ready and order food. 455 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 11: I told him that he should have asked me first. 456 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 11: He said, he doesn't have to, is he right? 457 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 2: What? 458 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 4: What? 459 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 2: What have you gone? 460 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 8: Right? 461 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 4: What? 462 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: Don't you bring two women to the house. 463 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 7: You ain't got to ask your. 464 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: Wife'll tell you what. 465 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 7: I'll tell you what. Keep on doing that. 466 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 6: See how long you ain't gonna have to ask nobody 467 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 6: In a minute, but I ain't gonna have no house 468 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 6: to take him to either. Yeah, that's kind of just 469 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 6: br that's so stupid. I ain't got to ask you nothing. 470 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 7: No, wow, Wow? 471 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 6: You bring two women to the house because the hotel 472 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 6: they put you all in didn't have air condition Then 473 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 6: you call the airline and they put them in another 474 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 6: hotel that do got. 475 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: Air Yeah, or at the very least, call your wife 476 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: and ask her is it okay? 477 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,119 Speaker 10: At the very leg this foolishness, man, I mean, come on, 478 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 10: I'm bringing your behind at that hot. 479 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: Hotel and I'm his wife is a nice person though, 480 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 1: because she she got it ready for them. Have wanted 481 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 1: to go? Ain't nobody going over your did you have? 482 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 6: I'm gonna get you all some fans and ye get 483 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 6: in that movie? Still they finished some old bar. 484 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 4: Not a man. 485 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: It's no way, it's careful. 486 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 7: And then he mad talking about he ain't got to. 487 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 1: Ask me nothing disrespectful. Yeah, bru it's her house. 488 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 9: Well, like you say, Steve Reversus, she can bring two 489 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 9: male co works from her job. 490 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:05,919 Speaker 6: The condition, oky, bron, Why don't you just get him 491 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 6: another hotel room? 492 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's the easier fix, y'all. Come on to my house. 493 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 7: We got plenty of rooms, y'all. 494 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 11: Obviously he doesn't respect his wife. I mean that's pretty obvious. 495 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 11: All right, We're moving on to Yvette in Kalama Zoo. 496 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 11: If that writes, my boyfriend and I got arrested for 497 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 11: having sex in a park and he blames me. 498 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: It was around two thirty am, so I didn't think 499 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 1: anyone was out but us I. We only got fine, 500 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: So it's not so bad. 501 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 11: Are there better ways to keep our sex life spontaneous 502 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 11: and fun? 503 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 7: I paid him fine. 504 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: I'll be cool with all this here, yeal seven four. 505 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. I'd be thinking aunts all kinds 506 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: of stuff. 507 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, they in the car. 508 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 1: On the hood or something in a park. Okay you know. 509 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, so you're saying you weren't the fine. If you 510 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 9: wouldn't kid in the call, it didn't matter. 511 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,400 Speaker 1: Hey, let's pull over right in, go and knock this. Yes, 512 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: ma'am right away? All right? 513 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 11: Last one, Steve, last one clo. This is from Teddy 514 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 11: in Dallas. Teddy writes, I found out that my mom 515 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 11: is smoking weed now hm to help her with her 516 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 11: menopause symptoms. 517 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 4: I was. 518 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 2: You didn't know. 519 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 11: Genius anyway, she says, I would prefer to get it 520 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 11: for her, so I know it's good weed. My dad 521 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 11: said we're going to hell for doing drugs, as he 522 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 11: calls it, should. 523 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 1: I supply the weed for my mom? 524 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 525 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: Are your mom? 526 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 4: What is that? 527 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:08,959 Speaker 1: Sounds crazy? 528 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 4: Yes? 529 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 1: Be a good son? Yeah? What is the word they 530 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: call for your weed? Connect? 531 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 4: What is that? 532 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 1: Your plug? Yeah? 533 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 7: You're gonna be your mama plug dog? 534 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: Wait, how did I know that? 535 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 536 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 537 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 7: You sitting up in the hill. Hey, mama, what you 538 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 7: need it? Because I'm finna go, I'm finna make a run. 539 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 6: You need anything, yes, baby, bring me some of that 540 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 6: U sess sussperillia. 541 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 7: Mama, don't worry about that. I'll get it. 542 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: You know. 543 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 6: Anybody what any of that doctor dre weed? You know, chronic, chronic. 544 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 6: Let me try that one. 545 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: And Fatima. 546 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 7: I heard they used to have something in her. I 547 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 7: mean it was called a blue magic. 548 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 1: Mama. That's heroin. Boy, You're always take it too far, 549 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: too far. I was watching the movie with Denzel In 550 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 1: an American Gangster. 551 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 7: That's why that wasn't weed no more. 552 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: All Right, we gotta go. We did it hair green magic. 553 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 1: At the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment 554 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: news for you right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 555 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 11: Jay Z grew his hair from a fade to locks 556 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 11: as a symbol of personal growth and rejecting image pressure. 557 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 11: Take a listen as Beyonce narrated the video, and she 558 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 11: said her husband uses sacred hair products her ownline. 559 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: Take a listen. 560 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 13: Her daughter was about five and she wasn't feeling very 561 00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 13: confident about her hair at that time. When old her 562 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 13: father that it inspired Jay to grow out his hair. 563 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 13: We really wanted her to love and embrace every inch 564 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 13: of her gorgeous curls. It also inspired Blue to be 565 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 13: the voice of the award winning book. 566 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: Hair Look by Matthew A. 567 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 13: Cherry, as well as songs like Formation, Baby Hair and 568 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 13: Afros and Brownskin Girl and who would have thunk all 569 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 13: of this healthy hair could grow beyond that low cut 570 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 13: season with a deep waves what you're doing? The five 571 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 13: year old Blue had no idea that her father's hair 572 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 13: had texture like hers. 573 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 11: Wow, God, was that his big afro from the Yeah 574 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 11: he had a lot of hair, a lot of big oldfro. 575 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 576 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: So, Steve, what do you think about Why do you 577 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: think people talk about celebrity kids? 578 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 6: You know, I mean, and you know how I really 579 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 6: feel about it. You don't want to know, But people 580 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 6: talk about how can I say this without sounding well, well, 581 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 6: let me put it in an encouraging way. If you 582 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 6: want to better yourself, this is what I've learned. Stop 583 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 6: talking about other people. Stop talking about other people. Celebrities, celebrities, kids, 584 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 6: all this, Yeah, don't worry about that. The next level 585 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 6: up is you have to start discussing events and then, 586 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 6: if you really want to level up and get to 587 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 6: the top tier where you're trying to go. 588 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 7: The next level is to talk about ideas. 589 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 6: Ok you know, if you talk about people you going nowhere, 590 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 6: that's them, that's they life, that's their business, all of that. 591 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 6: But if you start discussing events like what's happening in 592 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 6: the world today, stay in current, staying relevant, you can 593 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 6: begin to make change. But if you start talking about ideas, 594 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 6: you become innovative. And that's what I tell people. So 595 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 6: that's the encouraging way to say that. 596 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: Okay, you know that I could think of, you know, because. 597 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 6: I try to be encouraging now instead of you know, 598 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 6: I could be funny and say, you know what you're 599 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 6: talking about somebody baby for or what and somebody have 600 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 6: while we discussing jay z hah. But if it causes 601 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 6: you to think about an idea, then that's cool, you know. 602 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: And it is cool, Steve, because words are very powerful 603 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: and I like the change, you know, make it positive. 604 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, because we have to start, y'all. We 605 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 6: got to start thinking different, man, because they trying to 606 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 6: run us up out. They trying to run us up 607 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 6: out of here. This administration, this Project twenty twenty five, 608 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 6: everything is geared to get it back to the way 609 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 6: it was. That whole thing about make America great again. Well, 610 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 6: now you see what they talking about. They thought America 611 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 6: was great again. So when we didn't have voting rights, 612 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 6: they thought America was great again. When we didn't have 613 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,880 Speaker 6: affirmative action, they thought America was great again. When they 614 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 6: didn't have to care about your diversity, inclusion, equity, none 615 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 6: of that. They that's what they thought. They thought it 616 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 6: was good when they could tell women what to do 617 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 6: with their bodies. That's when they thought America was great. 618 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, to deal with instead of taking each other down 619 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,319 Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah. 620 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 6: See, it was great when slavery wasn't history. It was 621 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 6: better for them when it was current. 622 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 1: Hello, yeah, hello, yeah, there you go, there you go. 623 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 7: You see what I'm saying. 624 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 6: So they want to get rid of slave history, but 625 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 6: they don't want to get rid of none of the 626 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 6: remnants that slavery calls exactly. 627 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 7: So you know, we got to be more diligent with 628 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 7: where we are. 629 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 6: So it didn't mean to sound because I don't want 630 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 6: to sound like I'm preaching down to nobody, Because what 631 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 6: I hate is when cats get to a certain level 632 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,959 Speaker 6: and now all of a sudden they conversation, it don't 633 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 6: sound real. No more like they can't connect, I mean 634 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 6: in their explanation of what they're doing. 635 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 7: It makes it worse and you go like. 636 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: WHOA, don't you're not relatable at all? All right, Well, 637 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 1: moving on, Steve. 638 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 11: According to USA Today, President Trump said back in April, 639 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,760 Speaker 11: the renovation of the Lincoln Memorial Reflection Pool, which included 640 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 11: sand blasting, calking, and resurfacing, what costs about one and 641 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 11: a half million dollars. But now multiple reports said the 642 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:35,800 Speaker 11: renovation is over sixteen million dollars. There has been algae 643 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 11: blooms to blue coating peeling off its bottom. The reflecting 644 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 11: pool has been a target of criticism of the Trump administration. 645 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 11: The president also said individuals have been arrested for vandalism 646 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 11: to the pool. Just fyi, Federal taxpayers, through the Department 647 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 11: of the Interior and the National Park Service are paying 648 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 11: for the reflection pool repairs. 649 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 7: And it's gone horribly wrong because I don't know what 650 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 7: they're doing. 651 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 4: That. 652 00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 10: I ain't never had algae. He brought his nasty behind 653 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 10: probably when I took a bath. Anyway, all right. 654 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: Before we get too crazy, Carl is here with Music 655 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,760 Speaker 1: News I gotta recover from the deputy. 656 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 11: I know. 657 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 9: All right, let me just say this Academy Award winner, 658 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,399 Speaker 9: surely this is for you, Morgan Freeman. Yes, yes, it's 659 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 9: going to release a blues album tracks. Yes, August seventh, 660 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 9: give it to me, Tommy, come on and thank I 661 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 9: got an album coming. 662 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,280 Speaker 1: I hope you you don't mind. I love the blues 663 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 1: and I love Morgan Freeman. Okay, this is a match 664 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 1: made in heavy rain. 665 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 11: Thank you Morgan coming up in twenty minutes, and thank 666 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 11: you Carlin coming up in twenty minutes. After we'll tell 667 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,280 Speaker 11: you why voting in the primaries matter. 668 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 1: Right after this, I wish my people would vote. You're 669 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. An education is 670 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,359 Speaker 1: a transformation every day. 671 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 9: The Third Marshall College Fund transformed lives through scholarships, professional development, 672 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 9: and career advancement opportunities. 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Voters will choose which Democrat 686 00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 11: and Republican will run in the midterm or general elections 687 00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 11: coming up in November. According to Builder Movement dot com, 688 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 11: if you want fair representation, accountable leadership, and a democratic 689 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 11: system that actually reflects the will of the people, not 690 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 11: the politicians, but the people, we have to stop treating 691 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 11: primaries as an afterthought. 692 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:58,400 Speaker 1: So please go vote right, We've got to. 693 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 6: This is a very important year and when the midterms 694 00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 6: get here in November, we have a chance to put 695 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 6: a checking balance in place on this administrating tration that's 696 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,880 Speaker 6: running a muck with our rights. I mean, they are 697 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 6: taking everything that they possibly can away from us, and 698 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,800 Speaker 6: we have a chance in November to go to the 699 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 6: polls and say, hope, checking balance, we're gonna control the 700 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,439 Speaker 6: House in the Senate, and we're gonna put a stop 701 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 6: to all this foolishness this man is doing. And if 702 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 6: you don't, we finished in here for two and a 703 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,880 Speaker 6: half more years and ain't no telling him, well, he 704 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,319 Speaker 6: gonna obliterate Just the Constitution means nothing to this man. 705 00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 6: It already ain't meant a whole lot to us, no way, 706 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,879 Speaker 6: but it don't mean nothing to him. And it means 707 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,479 Speaker 6: even less for human rights. I've never seen. 708 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: We don't. 709 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:51,320 Speaker 6: We have a cabinet that has no representation with people 710 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 6: of color except Cash Pertail, who is a handpicked flunky 711 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 6: the director of FBI. He was hand and picked by 712 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 6: the President to do his bidding, and that's what he 713 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 6: does with his drunk. 714 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:08,520 Speaker 1: I was about to say it. 715 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 7: I'm just sitting up in here, man and. 716 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 6: Y'all, and I don't see how we were allowing them 717 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 6: to get away with this when we got a chance. 718 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 1: Man, It's. 719 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 9: It's like they want to take us back. Jim Crow 720 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 9: two point zero. Yes, Yes, this is what they're trying 721 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:27,360 Speaker 9: to do. 722 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 1: Our parts. 723 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, even when they have shows on CEE and then 724 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 6: like Abby Phillips where they have where sides are talking. 725 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 6: But on this show we are Scott Jennings man sits there. 726 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:46,240 Speaker 6: He's a Republican concern and he's smugly on his face, 727 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 6: tries to justify advanced single thing this man does. But 728 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,800 Speaker 6: they can't fix this deal. Though this deal is being signed, 729 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 6: they can't fix this one to them all live on 730 00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 6: this Let me say this. The two groups that I'm 731 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 6: most pissed at Latinos for Trump and Blacks for Trump. 732 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 7: Both of y'all how you feel? 733 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: Now? 734 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? 735 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, we're gonna switch gears and coming up 736 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 11: at thirty four minutes after be hours, we're going to 737 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 11: talk about marriage right after this. Wow you're listening Steve 738 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, we have to 739 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 11: say congratulations to you and Marjorie. Tomorrow is your wedding anniversary, 740 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,920 Speaker 11: and so Andy. 741 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 6: And I just want to say to everybody out there, 742 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:42,799 Speaker 6: me and Marjorie are absolutely fine. I don't know what's 743 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 6: wrong with internet, man. I don't know why people can't 744 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 6: be happy for each other anymore. I don't know why 745 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 6: you have to drum up store. That's the story. We 746 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:56,800 Speaker 6: get Steve Harvey. Steve Harvey announced its his fourth relationship. Okay, 747 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 6: where's the announcement that? 748 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 749 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, and who is it? 750 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 7: And when did I make an announcement? 751 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 1: We and mam you are fine. 752 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 6: We are together. We support each other and were in 753 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 6: love with each other. Y'all go somewhere and sit your sad, 754 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:20,400 Speaker 6: unhappy down somewhere and be miserable by yourself because you 755 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:21,439 Speaker 6: can't pull us down. 756 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:22,799 Speaker 1: Come we cover by God. 757 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 10: Man. 758 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I wish y'all would just go sit down so 759 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 7: we find dollar years? 760 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: Fine, how many years, Steve? It's coming up on twenty man, Wow, 761 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,280 Speaker 1: twenty years tomorrow graduation? 762 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 6: Well, no, it's nineteen tomorrow tomorrow. We've been together over 763 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 6: twenty years, but we get married nineteen. 764 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 11: That's a that's a that's quite impressionable. Tommy was twenty five, right, 765 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,600 Speaker 11: twenty five last week. 766 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's even more of a miracle. Yeah, what you 767 00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 1: say say that? You heard Tommy? 768 00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 6: You said, man, ja can need a parade, a badge, 769 00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,320 Speaker 6: new car, always. 770 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:15,440 Speaker 1: This girl. Man, Hey, listen, So what is the secret 771 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 1: to a happy marriage? 772 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 4: What is. 773 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: Mouth? You heard? 774 00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:23,840 Speaker 4: Ye? Both? Ye? 775 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 1: Both man? Just just a husband, Oh, just a husband. 776 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 1: If I could get y'all, that's not y'alls. You're not 777 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 1: gonna get that. 778 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 7: Live, have livel after and never have an argument. 779 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 1: That's not happening. Yeah, that's it's who we are. Yeah. So, 780 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 1: but you say shut your mouth, but it's still communication. 781 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 7: Well show your mouth. 782 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,400 Speaker 6: In terms of augury, yeah, you've got to know. You 783 00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,440 Speaker 6: got to pick your battles. You've got to know the 784 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 6: ones that you got to have a dispute about. Nobody's 785 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:08,440 Speaker 6: gonna have a relationship without dispute or compromise, and then 786 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 6: you have to be willing to compromise. 787 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:12,840 Speaker 7: You got to be able to give a little. 788 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 4: It can't. 789 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:19,800 Speaker 6: Winning an argument should not be your objective. That should 790 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,360 Speaker 6: be Listen, Winning the argument should not be your objective. 791 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 6: Suddening the argument is the objective. 792 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:31,920 Speaker 1: Settling it. Let her have whole way. Let's settle the argument. 793 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 11: We're always right, Steve. Let me ask you this, though, seriously, 794 00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,479 Speaker 11: have you ever gone to bed Matt. 795 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, we've gone to bed mad. It 796 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 1: ain't the way to do it. Though. 797 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 6: See I may not go to bed mad. But what 798 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 6: I have to remember about the women is and here's 799 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:51,120 Speaker 6: the part you gotta remember fellas when they go to 800 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:52,600 Speaker 6: bed mad, when they. 801 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 7: Wake up. 802 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 1: A mad. 803 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 7: Mad, they then dreamed of a couple more things. 804 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 1: We're dreaming. 805 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 4: You know. 806 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:10,439 Speaker 11: First it takes a minute to remember that you're mad 807 00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 11: though when you first wake up. 808 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 1: Not me, you know, immediately when you woke up once 809 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 1: when I wake up, then I was like, oh, we're 810 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: still mad. 811 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:20,600 Speaker 4: Tang it. 812 00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:21,800 Speaker 1: We didn't resolve that. 813 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:25,359 Speaker 10: Yeah, but I'm all about making my wife happy. I'm 814 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 10: all about that, as you should. 815 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: As you should, yeah you should. 816 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,280 Speaker 6: Ye, well, but you know it should also be here's 817 00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:36,400 Speaker 6: the biggest mistake that women make. If your man comes 818 00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 6: home and he cannot come home to a peaceful house, 819 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 6: that's horrible for him. He being out all day fighting 820 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,440 Speaker 6: these walls, fighting the stuff he up against it that 821 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 6: being a man. If he can't come home to a 822 00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:56,360 Speaker 6: peaceful home and some loving and affection and just you know, 823 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,720 Speaker 6: it's not gonna work. Well, what about my day? Hey, Okay, 824 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 6: got it. I'm talking about the man, and you know 825 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 6: who you are, and if that's how you are when 826 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,920 Speaker 6: he come home, then I'm sitting in the driveway in 827 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 6: a minute. 828 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,799 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, all right, thank you guys for that perspective. 829 00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,759 Speaker 11: All right, thank you guys for that perspective. Coming up next, 830 00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 11: it is the nephew and today's prank phone call. Right 831 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 11: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 832 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,719 Speaker 11: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour, it 833 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,400 Speaker 11: is my strawberry letter for today and the subject is 834 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,719 Speaker 11: all in the family. All in the Family. We'll get 835 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 11: into that find out what that's all about. Wait till 836 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,439 Speaker 11: you hear this one. Wait till you hear this letter. 837 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 11: We'll hear it in just a few because right now 838 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,480 Speaker 11: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 839 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,240 Speaker 1: What you got for his neph I'm. 840 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 10: Gonna bring some stupid to the table this morning as 841 00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,920 Speaker 10: I reach out and talk to the praise dance lady. 842 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 1: That's old. 843 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 10: With all the praise dancers at the church, we need 844 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 10: to it's just it's then got out of hand. It 845 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,880 Speaker 10: really had. It has gotten out of hand. It just 846 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 10: seems like some of them, uh, they don't look like 847 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,719 Speaker 10: they praise. And let's just put it that way. It 848 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 10: just don't look praising. It looked like a little gi 849 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:15,440 Speaker 10: rating might be going on a little twirking praise. But 850 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 10: you know what, I'd like to see. I'd like to 851 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 10: see Shirley Monakin call. I'd like to see y'all praise dance. 852 00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:28,360 Speaker 10: Y'all at to do a routine and post it on 853 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,040 Speaker 10: social media so we all can see it. 854 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 1: Nice little. 855 00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 10: I don't know what y'all gonna wear. Something flowy, you 856 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 10: gotta be something slowy. 857 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: Put your hand down. I would like to vote that down. 858 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: You know you just like praise dancing. 859 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 7: I'm trying to get praised dance and stopped in churches. 860 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,440 Speaker 1: Yes, you are all right. 861 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,240 Speaker 10: Let's go praise dancing, cat dog, if you would. 862 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:55,840 Speaker 4: This is the day that the Lord is man. Let 863 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 4: us rejoice and be glad in it. How you doing? 864 00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 4: I'm looking for uh. This is to tell you. This 865 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,359 Speaker 4: is brother Fuller from the church. How are you? Oh, 866 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 4: I'm brothers. How were you? I'm good? 867 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 3: I'm good. 868 00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:10,879 Speaker 4: We wanted to give you a call about the about 869 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 4: the praise dancing that's at the church. First of all, 870 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 4: I wanted to really show you how much you're doing 871 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,200 Speaker 4: a great job over there with the praise dancers, and 872 00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 4: you you definitely do a great job on every third 873 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 4: tony that you guys actually perform. Everybody seemed to really 874 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 4: like it. Well, thank you, thank you. What can I 875 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,440 Speaker 4: do for you today? There is a bit of a 876 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,400 Speaker 4: situation with you know, it's been brought to our attention. 877 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,799 Speaker 4: We actually had a small gathering, a little meeting about 878 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 4: it and wanted to I've been elected to actually give 879 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 4: you a call, kid, Brother Fuller, uh huh and and 880 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,680 Speaker 4: who had a meeting, uh, some of the brothers at 881 00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 4: the church and and uh have to actually sat in 882 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 4: for a moment on it. And I was actually elected 883 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,360 Speaker 4: to actually just give you a call. Nothing that I 884 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,960 Speaker 4: don't think we can't get rectified and and you know, 885 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,719 Speaker 4: move on smoothly as we normally do. But I just 886 00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,759 Speaker 4: think it's we wanted to reach out to you and 887 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 4: kind of make you aware of it if you don't mind, okay, 888 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:07,439 Speaker 4: And what things are those? Well, Sister Tanya, has any 889 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:12,239 Speaker 4: of the praise dancers before they became praise dancers? Was 890 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 4: was any of them strippers? I beg your pardon. Was 891 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,440 Speaker 4: any of the praise dancers that at the church that 892 00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,120 Speaker 4: you have on the praise team right now? 893 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,400 Speaker 8: Was any of them strippers in the past? 894 00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,680 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who 895 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,960 Speaker 4: you are. And I don't really understand this line of questions. 896 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 4: Like I said, I'm brother full I don't think we've met. 897 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,880 Speaker 4: But uh, like I said, I've been elected to give 898 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 4: you a call now. It seems what happened is this 899 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 4: past week when you all actually danced, it seemed like 900 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,239 Speaker 4: a couple of the girls was actually GI rating doing 901 00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 4: the praise routine. Hey what GI rating? Brother Phillip. I 902 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 4: don't know who you are, and I don't know what 903 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 4: you saw. None of my girls with gy rating. They 904 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,800 Speaker 4: were dancing for the Lord. And I think if you 905 00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,359 Speaker 4: look through your Lord's eye, perhaps you woul see them 906 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 4: better instead of maybe you were looking through the GI 907 00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:05,239 Speaker 4: rating eye. No, see a couple of the girl. We 908 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,640 Speaker 4: can point them out, A couple of them half stript 909 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 4: girl tendencies up and then because some of them have 910 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 4: been strip girls, fendancy you know what, sir, I think 911 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,239 Speaker 4: we need to complete this call. Perhaps I need to 912 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 4: call Bishop to speak to him myself, because you know, 913 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,160 Speaker 4: I don't know what you do all day, but I 914 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 4: have a real job and I'm sitting here holding a 915 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,680 Speaker 4: conversation in my office about gy rating strippers in the church. 916 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,520 Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? Well, listen. Now here's a couple 917 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,160 Speaker 4: other things that they're talking about. Some of the girls 918 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,200 Speaker 4: feet or real ask you when you all are performing 919 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 4: and they want to see it, maybe you can, you can. 920 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe I don't know if y'all need 921 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,799 Speaker 4: the grip or whatever that y'all don't y'all don't put 922 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 4: lotion on it. We're not sure what that is. As 923 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 4: well as the totalail pology. Everybody has three, four, five 924 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:53,279 Speaker 4: different designs and everything is it? Any way, y'all can 925 00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:56,319 Speaker 4: be in unison with your totnail polits. But the most 926 00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,880 Speaker 4: important thing here the gi rating doing the dance routine. 927 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,480 Speaker 4: I don't know what your feet look like. I don't 928 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 4: need you calling me talking to me about my girls 929 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,400 Speaker 4: their feet, their nail polishes. Perhaps your mass should be 930 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 4: on Jesus instead of on them, how about that? Oh? 931 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,840 Speaker 4: From my mind, I don't have time. I don't have 932 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 4: time to be on Jesus when somebody's shaking they but 933 00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 4: at the church, that's the problem, you know what. Look, 934 00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 4: I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a work tone. 935 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 4: You're gonna make me curse up here here and now 936 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,800 Speaker 4: let me tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I 937 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 4: will deal with pastor. If he has something to say 938 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,520 Speaker 4: with me, he can say it to me personally. But 939 00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,960 Speaker 4: I'm done with this conversation. Are you gonna deal with 940 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,799 Speaker 4: the gy rating? Is what we want to know? Maybe 941 00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 4: you know what They're just hit me. Maybe you're one 942 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 4: of the ones that's doing the gy rate. Look, let 943 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 4: me tell you something. My girls ain't doing a Joe ring, 944 00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,320 Speaker 4: and neither am I. Now I am done with this conversation. 945 00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 4: Do you understand you? 946 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:49,359 Speaker 3: But listen, I'm done. 947 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,839 Speaker 4: Are you done with this rat That's what we want 948 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,720 Speaker 4: to stop so we can we can't praise the Lord 949 00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 4: if the boot is just shaking, you know what? Shirt? Look, 950 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 4: I gotta go to work. I gotta now again. I 951 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,200 Speaker 4: don't know what your issue is. It sounds to me 952 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,719 Speaker 4: like you have an issue with jout rating booties. And 953 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 4: I heard so much joy rating booties on one conversation 954 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,839 Speaker 4: in my entire life. Now my mind is set on Jesus. 955 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:12,640 Speaker 4: I don't know what your mind is said on. Well, sister, 956 00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:16,320 Speaker 4: tell you before you was a prais then a ministry 957 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,439 Speaker 4: over the ministry, did you ever use to strip y'all? 958 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,480 Speaker 4: Didn't do no stripping. Now did you why do any stripping? 959 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 4: Did your mama do any stripping? You heard what I said? 960 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:28,799 Speaker 4: How are you asking for somebody? Call? You would ask 961 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,600 Speaker 4: you if your mama diet some stripping? How you like that? 962 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:33,360 Speaker 4: You know what? I want to know? When is the 963 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,680 Speaker 4: next rehearsal? Then the way I can come and pick 964 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,920 Speaker 4: out who it is that's doing this time? Real you 965 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,720 Speaker 4: don't have you don't have any business at my rehearsal. 966 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,520 Speaker 4: I don't want to see you at my rehearsal. I 967 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,399 Speaker 4: don't want to I don't want to see any part 968 00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:44,839 Speaker 4: for you in my rehearsal. If I see you near 969 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,760 Speaker 4: one of my girls. That's why I'm coming after you myself. 970 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,560 Speaker 4: Do you understand me? You need to find out who's 971 00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,880 Speaker 4: doing that job? Right thing? You need to say your 972 00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 4: buddy y'all And I'm glad y'all. Ain't dancing when the 973 00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,080 Speaker 4: laitness being pass because I ain't no telling how you 974 00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:58,560 Speaker 4: act with them ones coming through that? 975 00:52:58,880 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 2: You know what? 976 00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,239 Speaker 4: That's it? I said, you call me disrespecting me. I'm 977 00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:04,400 Speaker 4: at what. I can't even have this more? You know what? 978 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,399 Speaker 4: Don't call me no more? So look at my girl 979 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 4: no more? Man fast coming down to church and see. 980 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:09,000 Speaker 1: What I got for it. 981 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,719 Speaker 4: I don't want to know if you gonna stop the 982 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 4: job rating for Mok. You talking to like that you're 983 00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 4: supposed to be a Minnesota good thing. Yeah, Lena Dine 984 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 4: listen and tell you now I'm getting ready to go. Well, 985 00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:25,279 Speaker 4: I got one more pain to say to you for 986 00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,239 Speaker 4: your leader. You ain't got a thing to say to me. 987 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 4: I said I was dem and I said I got 988 00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 4: one more pain to say. Is you listen? You know what? Man, 989 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,280 Speaker 4: get off my phone and I'm gonna say it anyway. 990 00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:37,719 Speaker 4: This is Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 991 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 4: Your entire praise and ministry congregation, all your girls got 992 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 4: me the prank phone call you. Oh I'm a shootie 993 00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:52,200 Speaker 4: for real. Oh I'm I think I'm nursing on the radio. 994 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 4: Oh oh oh, come Donna have a show. Hey, I 995 00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,960 Speaker 4: got one thing to ask you. Tell you what is 996 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 4: the baddest radio show in the land? Nobody else for 997 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:04,120 Speaker 4: the Steven Show? 998 00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:09,560 Speaker 2: Ignorant? 999 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:13,839 Speaker 10: It's best, and the nephew will be ignorant. In Hattisburg, Mississippi, 1000 00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,360 Speaker 10: July eleven. Tickets on sale right now. Y'all already know 1001 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:17,080 Speaker 10: Singer Theater. 1002 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:17,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1003 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 10: Are we already talked about it? Y'all know you buying tickets. 1004 00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,000 Speaker 10: I appreciate that you're coming to see the food and 1005 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 10: then laying in the cut. July twenty fourth through the 1006 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:28,239 Speaker 10: twenty sixth Chicago City Winery. The Nephew was coming to 1007 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 10: Shy Town. Yes, Lord, I hope I get inside that library. 1008 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:33,719 Speaker 10: I want to go do that while I'm there. When 1009 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:38,279 Speaker 10: I am coming to the Shy all right after the Shy, 1010 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:42,400 Speaker 10: as we move forward, we are going to Pittsburgh, another 1011 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:47,239 Speaker 10: City Winery. August the eighth, The Nephew will be in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. 1012 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 10: Tickets are on seal rent now, yes, shot a lot. 1013 00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 10: You're doing a lot, I'm sure. August twenty ninth, Baton 1014 00:54:55,719 --> 00:55:00,920 Speaker 10: Rouge by ten Rouge, Louisiana, The River Theater, the River 1015 00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 10: Rivers Tenter Theater. Say that quickly tell me Rivers Center Theater. 1016 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1017 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 10: Saturday, August twenty ninth, Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Been a long 1018 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:12,439 Speaker 10: time back in rules and Nephew was coming to town. 1019 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,399 Speaker 10: You bring the gumbo, I bring the jokes. We're gonna 1020 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 10: have some fun, all right. Thank you, Thank you, so 1021 00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:17,560 Speaker 10: all right. 1022 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:17,800 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1023 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 11: Coming up next it is my Strawberry Letter. The subject 1024 00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:24,879 Speaker 11: is all in the family. 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And if you need advice 1040 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:31,480 Speaker 11: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit 1041 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:35,280 Speaker 11: your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVFM dot com and click submit 1042 00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,480 Speaker 11: Strawberry letter. We could be reading your letter live on 1043 00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 11: the air, just like we're going to read this one 1044 00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 11: right here, right now, and you never know, it could 1045 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:44,280 Speaker 11: be yours. 1046 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:45,880 Speaker 3: It could be yours. 1047 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:47,040 Speaker 7: Buckle up and hold on tight. 1048 00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:47,759 Speaker 1: We got it for you. 1049 00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,200 Speaker 7: Hear any Strawberry letter. 1050 00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:55,280 Speaker 11: Subject, Thank you nephew. Subject is all in the family. 1051 00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:58,719 Speaker 11: Dear Steve and Shirley. I am sixty three year old 1052 00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:02,520 Speaker 11: single man. I've been divorced since I was forty eight 1053 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 11: years old, and I have four grown sons. I ran 1054 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:09,319 Speaker 11: into my ex wife's sister at a jazz brunch about 1055 00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 11: a month ago. She lost her husband a few years 1056 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,520 Speaker 11: ago and she's just getting out and dating again. I 1057 00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:17,520 Speaker 11: asked her if she wanted to keep in touch, and 1058 00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:20,080 Speaker 11: she said yes. She told me that she was going 1059 00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:22,840 Speaker 11: to run it by my ex wife first. I didn't 1060 00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 11: think my ex wife would care, and she didn't, so 1061 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:30,040 Speaker 11: I have been dating my ex's sister named Raven. Raven 1062 00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:33,360 Speaker 11: opened up about dating women and said she loves men 1063 00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,800 Speaker 11: and women equally. I was hesitant to sleep with her, 1064 00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,320 Speaker 11: but she initiated sex for the first time, and boy 1065 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,840 Speaker 11: was it satisfying. I couldn't help but think about my 1066 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 11: ex wife. 1067 00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:44,720 Speaker 1: Though. 1068 00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 11: Raven and I had sex a few more times, and 1069 00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 11: she's good at persuading me to reveal my wild side 1070 00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:54,240 Speaker 11: to her. A few nights ago, she asked if I 1071 00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,560 Speaker 11: would be open to another woman joining us in playtime. 1072 00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,880 Speaker 11: She said the lady is around her age, but she's married, 1073 00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:05,280 Speaker 11: so she's very discreet. I was excited when she showed 1074 00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 11: up at my house with the lady. We all had 1075 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 11: a great night together, and as the lady was leaving, 1076 00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,880 Speaker 11: she said she had to get back home before Alvin 1077 00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:18,080 Speaker 11: started calling her. I looked at her and she smiled. 1078 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:22,480 Speaker 11: Right then, I knew I had seen her before. She's 1079 00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:26,680 Speaker 11: married to my ex wife's cousin, Alvin. Even though she's 1080 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:31,080 Speaker 11: not directly related, she's in the family. I don't know 1081 00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,600 Speaker 11: what I've gotten myself into, but I like it a lot. 1082 00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 11: Is it cool to keep saying ray, then, as long 1083 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,080 Speaker 11: as we don't include Alvin's wife. 1084 00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:46,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're asking Steve. 1085 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,400 Speaker 11: And I if you should continue sleeping with your ex 1086 00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:52,840 Speaker 11: wife's sister, but leave her friend out of it because 1087 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,240 Speaker 11: her friend is your ex wife's cousin's wife. 1088 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,280 Speaker 1: In other words, leave her out because. 1089 00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,920 Speaker 11: You don't want any more at threesomes with her, And 1090 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,640 Speaker 11: I got to tell you this is the least of 1091 00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,480 Speaker 11: your problems right here. You and your wife haven't been 1092 00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 11: together for a long time. But who are we to 1093 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,800 Speaker 11: tell you who you can and cannot see and sleep 1094 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,960 Speaker 11: with again. Remember now you're asking us if you should 1095 00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 11: continue sleeping with your wife your ex wife's sister. Normally 1096 00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:23,080 Speaker 11: we would say no, this is crazy, but you don't 1097 00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,840 Speaker 11: need our opinion. You're already doing it. But I will 1098 00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,080 Speaker 11: say this, no matter how good it feels, how much 1099 00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,040 Speaker 11: you say discretion is involved, this is still way crazy. 1100 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:36,080 Speaker 11: This is too close for comfort. You and your ex 1101 00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:39,200 Speaker 11: wife's sister and your ex wife's cousin or whatever. What 1102 00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:43,200 Speaker 11: about this is seems right to you? What about it 1103 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 11: seems right? I know you all are grown, but this 1104 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 11: is just too messy. You can't find anyone else to 1105 00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 11: have sex with but your ex wife's relatives. This is 1106 00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 11: like kind of like not incest, but incest adjacent. I mean, 1107 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:02,760 Speaker 11: I know they're not blood. Your said being with Raven 1108 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,440 Speaker 11: your ex wife's sister made you think of your ex wife. 1109 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 11: That's not really a surprise, because being sisters, I guess 1110 01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:10,320 Speaker 11: they would have some similarities. 1111 01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:11,800 Speaker 1: But what does that mean though? 1112 01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,760 Speaker 11: Are you fantasizing about your ex wife while you're with Raven? 1113 01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:18,640 Speaker 11: What is really going on with you? Because all I 1114 01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 11: see here is a sixty three year old man getting 1115 01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 11: his freak one with his sister in law and asking 1116 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:27,200 Speaker 11: us if he should keep sleeping with her, just without 1117 01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:29,440 Speaker 11: the sleep of the threesomes. All I can say is 1118 01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,600 Speaker 11: I'm glad she's not my sister, because this is a mess, 1119 01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:33,479 Speaker 11: a real mess. 1120 01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:33,840 Speaker 4: Steve. 1121 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:40,120 Speaker 6: No, I'm just gonna say this up top. I am 1122 01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 6: not gonna be able to help you. I have no 1123 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:50,160 Speaker 6: expertise in this. I don't know what to tell you. 1124 01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:55,640 Speaker 6: I haven't run across this before, I have no pride experience. So, brother, 1125 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,600 Speaker 6: I'm just gonna let you know right off the dribble, 1126 01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:00,160 Speaker 6: before I start talking, I am not going to be 1127 01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,320 Speaker 6: able to help you. And the number one reason I'm 1128 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,320 Speaker 6: not gonna be able to help you because I got 1129 01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:09,680 Speaker 6: questions and after I read this letter, I need you 1130 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 6: to help me because I'm trying to figure out what's 1131 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 6: going on. 1132 01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 1: Now. 1133 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:20,080 Speaker 6: You sixty three, you're a single man. Okay, you're sixty three. 1134 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:24,720 Speaker 6: You're a single man. You've been divorced since she was 1135 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:34,040 Speaker 6: forty eight. Fifty eight is ten fourteen years forty yeah, 1136 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:40,800 Speaker 6: I don't know. Fourteen yeah, I have four grown sons. 1137 01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 6: You ran into your ex wife sister of jazz Brunch. 1138 01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:49,040 Speaker 6: She lost her husband a few years ago. Now when 1139 01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,600 Speaker 6: you say lost your husband, do that mean he died. 1140 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:54,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, fifteen years Steve. 1141 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,680 Speaker 6: Okay, he died. She's getting out and she's dating. I 1142 01:01:57,760 --> 01:01:59,480 Speaker 6: asked you if she wanted to keep in touch. She 1143 01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 6: said yeah, She's told me she was gonna run it 1144 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 6: by my ex wife first. Then you said I don't 1145 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 6: think she'll care, and she didn't. So I've been dating 1146 01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 6: my ex's sister name Raven. Now, why you would put 1147 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:19,640 Speaker 6: this woman's name in this letter, I'm not really sure 1148 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:23,920 Speaker 6: about that, but you are stupid. I was dating my 1149 01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:29,760 Speaker 6: wife's sister, Raven Raven, Now you don't put her business 1150 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:33,520 Speaker 6: out there, and told you that she liked dating men 1151 01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:39,720 Speaker 6: and women, and she likes them equally. I was hesitant 1152 01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:43,439 Speaker 6: to sleep with her, but she initiated sex, and boy 1153 01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:44,720 Speaker 6: was it satisfying. 1154 01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:48,800 Speaker 7: I couldn't help but think about my ex wife though. 1155 01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 6: I don't even know why you threw that in there, 1156 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:53,320 Speaker 6: because we weighed too late for that that piece of 1157 01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 6: information we don't need all we care because whatever you 1158 01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:01,800 Speaker 6: thought about your ex wife, you were doing it to Raven. 1159 01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, hang on, right there, stuff right there, Steve. 1160 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:07,840 Speaker 11: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 1161 01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:11,560 Speaker 11: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter, subject 1162 01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,040 Speaker 11: all in the family. We'll get back into it right 1163 01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 11: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, listeners, 1164 01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,600 Speaker 11: A leave has a question for you. Do you remember 1165 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,200 Speaker 11: what it felt like when back pain didn't take over 1166 01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:33,600 Speaker 11: your day? You'd bend, twist, sit, stand without even thinking 1167 01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 11: about it. Well, that feeling didn't go anywhere thanks to 1168 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,320 Speaker 11: A leave. With just one dose, A leave gives you 1169 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,440 Speaker 11: long lasting back pain relief for up to twelve hours, 1170 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,000 Speaker 11: so you can get back to moving the way you 1171 01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:49,680 Speaker 11: used to feel. A leave use as directed for minor 1172 01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:52,600 Speaker 11: aches and pains. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap 1173 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 11: today's strawberry letter. This crazy letter. The subject is all 1174 01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:57,400 Speaker 11: in the family. 1175 01:03:58,440 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 4: Now. 1176 01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 6: He don't put everybody name in this letter but his, 1177 01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:06,720 Speaker 6: So I'm an attacher name to him. Oh please, dear 1178 01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:10,120 Speaker 6: Stephen Shirley, I'm a sixty three year old man. I've 1179 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 6: been divorced, got full grown sons, ran into my ex 1180 01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 6: wife at a jazz brunch. She lost her husband few sister. No, 1181 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,920 Speaker 6: she ran up into her ex wife's sister. He ran 1182 01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 6: into his ex wife sister at a jazz club. His 1183 01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:29,320 Speaker 6: ex wife sister lost to her husband. She was out 1184 01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,479 Speaker 6: dating again. I asked Hi if she wanted to stay 1185 01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:33,680 Speaker 6: in touch. She said yeah, but she gonna run it 1186 01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 6: by her ex wife, by my ex wife. 1187 01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:36,320 Speaker 1: First. 1188 01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:38,520 Speaker 6: I didn't think my ex wife would have a problem 1189 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:42,040 Speaker 6: with it, and she didn't. So I've been dating my 1190 01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 6: ex wife's sister. 1191 01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:46,640 Speaker 1: Name Raven. Wow. 1192 01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:47,280 Speaker 10: Now. 1193 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:51,320 Speaker 6: Raven then opened up about dating women and said she 1194 01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,680 Speaker 6: loves men and women equally. 1195 01:04:54,360 --> 01:05:00,600 Speaker 7: I named Charles, Charles Charles. 1196 01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:03,000 Speaker 6: I was a little hesitant to sleep with her, but 1197 01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:07,560 Speaker 6: she initiated sex, and boy was itsatisfying. But I couldn't 1198 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:11,720 Speaker 6: help but think about my ex wife though. Well, whatever 1199 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 6: you thought about your ex wife, you were doing it 1200 01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:18,160 Speaker 6: to Raven. Let's just so dog, Let's just keep this 1201 01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:25,320 Speaker 6: story moving. Raven and I meaning me, Raving and Charles, Yeah, 1202 01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:27,960 Speaker 6: had sex a few more times. 1203 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:29,840 Speaker 7: And here's the key. 1204 01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:35,520 Speaker 6: She's good at persuading me to reveal my wild side 1205 01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:35,960 Speaker 6: to her. 1206 01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:39,520 Speaker 7: I don't know what all that is, Charles. 1207 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 6: But after you reveal all of what you was willing 1208 01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:47,600 Speaker 6: to do and what she evene got you to do, 1209 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:51,880 Speaker 6: she asked if you would be open to another woman joining. 1210 01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:52,600 Speaker 7: Us at playtime. 1211 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:53,840 Speaker 1: She said. 1212 01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 6: The lady is around her age, but she's married, so 1213 01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:02,360 Speaker 6: she's very discreet. I was excited when she showed up 1214 01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 6: in my house with the lady. Y'all had a great 1215 01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:10,200 Speaker 6: night together. Now, what I like about Charles is he 1216 01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:14,400 Speaker 6: tries to be discreet, not to vulgue about what was 1217 01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,640 Speaker 6: going on. He ain't bragging about how good he is. 1218 01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:20,880 Speaker 6: And he was wrecking house and turning him out and 1219 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:22,720 Speaker 6: had a both in their. 1220 01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:23,600 Speaker 7: Panting and breathing. 1221 01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:26,760 Speaker 6: He ain't say nothing of that now, Charles just said, 1222 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:31,320 Speaker 6: we all had it a very nice evening. 1223 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:32,720 Speaker 7: And when the lady was. 1224 01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:36,920 Speaker 6: Leaving, she said she had to get back home before 1225 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:40,600 Speaker 6: and to hear his name dropping again, get back home 1226 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:43,440 Speaker 6: before Alvin started calling her. 1227 01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:47,160 Speaker 7: I looked at him. She smiled. 1228 01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:51,600 Speaker 6: Right then I knew I had seen her before. Oh bro, 1229 01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 6: come on, man, come on, you didn't think that before. 1230 01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:02,600 Speaker 6: She's married to my ex Wife's all of it, and 1231 01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:07,960 Speaker 6: even though she's not directly directly related. She's in the family. Dog, 1232 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:14,560 Speaker 6: You ain't even in the family. She ain't your wife 1233 01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 6: no more. You've been single or fifteen years. You're sleeping 1234 01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:23,480 Speaker 6: with her sister. Dog, you done got out the family. 1235 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,320 Speaker 6: You're the one trying to put yourself back in this 1236 01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:29,600 Speaker 6: now because you don't put yourself back in the family 1237 01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:33,440 Speaker 6: with her sister. You now that ran up into the 1238 01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:38,240 Speaker 6: wild thing. And now y'all then got together and bought 1239 01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:41,280 Speaker 6: another woman in. Y'all had a good evening. She looked 1240 01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:43,640 Speaker 6: at you a smile and said, I got to get 1241 01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:47,600 Speaker 6: to the house before Alvins started, caught your old old 1242 01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:52,080 Speaker 6: behind had a album killed. I don't know but one Alvin. 1243 01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 6: Them ain't the chipmunks, good Lord, that must be Alvin 1244 01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:02,920 Speaker 6: her cousin. Wow, And even though she's not directly related, 1245 01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:05,439 Speaker 6: she's in the family. I don't know what I've gotten 1246 01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:09,840 Speaker 6: myself into, but I like it a lot. Now, watch 1247 01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:13,360 Speaker 6: this stupid question. Is it cool to keep seeing Raven 1248 01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:17,559 Speaker 6: as long as we don't include Alvin's wife? 1249 01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:18,559 Speaker 4: Boy? 1250 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 6: What why are you asking us? Is it cool to 1251 01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:28,400 Speaker 6: keep saying Raven? You ain't finna stop? Dog? This the 1252 01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,360 Speaker 6: most thrilling time you've ever had Raven over there, got 1253 01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:34,599 Speaker 6: you bringing stuff all out the trick bag you in here. 1254 01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:37,800 Speaker 6: You done went down to Frederick's house and went in 1255 01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:39,800 Speaker 6: the back room and you got it. Now you got 1256 01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:43,560 Speaker 6: a little brown case with all types of stuff in it. 1257 01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:46,200 Speaker 6: She'd have brought out the wildside, she'd have bought another 1258 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 6: woman in there. Y'all had a nice time come to 1259 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:52,920 Speaker 6: find out is Alvin's wife when the last time you talked. 1260 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 1: To alf. 1261 01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:57,240 Speaker 7: Charles, can you tell me that? 1262 01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:03,360 Speaker 6: And how the Raven didn't mention it to you that 1263 01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:07,960 Speaker 6: it was Alvin's wife cause she know that that's their cousin. 1264 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:13,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, she didn't even tell you that. But you're so stupid. 1265 01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:16,479 Speaker 6: Like I said, br I'm not gonna be able to 1266 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:20,280 Speaker 6: help you because I don't know what I done got 1267 01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:21,080 Speaker 6: myself into. 1268 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:21,760 Speaker 1: But I like it. 1269 01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:24,479 Speaker 6: Is it cool that I keep seeing Raven as long 1270 01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:26,240 Speaker 6: as we don't include Alvin's wife? 1271 01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:29,080 Speaker 7: What our wife got to do with this? No, when 1272 01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 7: you were you already. 1273 01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,120 Speaker 1: Im moral crazy? 1274 01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:38,200 Speaker 7: Sleeping with any man's wife is dangerous. 1275 01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:42,160 Speaker 1: Poster your comments, Lord, if Alvin find out. 1276 01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:46,000 Speaker 11: Gosh Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram 1277 01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 11: and Facebook, check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the 1278 01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:51,559 Speaker 11: free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded So good. 1279 01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:53,160 Speaker 1: You can download it today. 1280 01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,360 Speaker 6: Yes, when Alvin find out uh huh, you just want 1281 01:09:57,400 --> 01:09:58,520 Speaker 6: to say, it's over. 1282 01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 7: Come down there with some vest it's going to be 1283 01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 7: a prop It's gonna. 1284 01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:06,160 Speaker 1: Be Yeah, it could be a mess. 1285 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:11,240 Speaker 11: You're right coming up next, Well, well we'll find out 1286 01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:12,719 Speaker 11: what's on the nephew's mind. 1287 01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:16,719 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 1288 01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:23,920 Speaker 1: Show pay listeners. A Leave has a question for you. 1289 01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:27,080 Speaker 11: Do you remember what it felt like when back pain 1290 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:31,040 Speaker 11: didn't take over your day. You'd bend, twist, sit, stand 1291 01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:35,320 Speaker 11: without even thinking about it. Well, that feeling didn't go 1292 01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:38,960 Speaker 11: anywhere thanks to A leave. With just one dose, A 1293 01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:42,160 Speaker 11: leave gives you long lasting back pain relief for up 1294 01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:45,120 Speaker 11: to twelve hours, so you can get back to moving 1295 01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:48,639 Speaker 11: the way you used to feel. A leave use as 1296 01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:53,680 Speaker 11: directed for minor aches and pains. Okay, nephew, you have 1297 01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:55,760 Speaker 11: something on your mind. You want to get off your chest. 1298 01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:57,320 Speaker 11: You want to question for your uncle. 1299 01:10:57,800 --> 01:10:59,240 Speaker 1: I got a question from my uncle. 1300 01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:03,040 Speaker 10: You know, I guess being in the position of a 1301 01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:06,800 Speaker 10: TV host for for love, you know, you get a 1302 01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:08,840 Speaker 10: lot of questions, a lot of questions. People want you 1303 01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:11,439 Speaker 10: to help them out. Like I'm like, I'm the love doctor. 1304 01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:14,160 Speaker 10: I don't see myself as that, but I try. But 1305 01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 10: you ever, you ever try to help somebody, And it 1306 01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:19,840 Speaker 10: just seemed like they just they like their problems. 1307 01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,080 Speaker 1: Like you can try to help them and try. 1308 01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:26,559 Speaker 10: To give them all the possibilities and directions of where 1309 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:29,000 Speaker 10: to go with this issue. But it just seemed like 1310 01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:31,519 Speaker 10: they just don't want no help you just they just 1311 01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:37,200 Speaker 10: want to continuously just well what about this? They just 1312 01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:39,800 Speaker 10: trying to help negative people, is what I'm trying to ask. 1313 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:43,440 Speaker 10: How do you how do you try and help Some people. 1314 01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:49,639 Speaker 6: Enjoy being the center of attention, and some will use 1315 01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:55,120 Speaker 6: problems as a way to become the center of the attention. 1316 01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:58,880 Speaker 6: And they always got something wrong, and I don't care 1317 01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,360 Speaker 6: what you tell them, they try to find a way 1318 01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:04,360 Speaker 6: to stay in that room. And even when you try 1319 01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:06,800 Speaker 6: to talk them out the wrong, they just make it 1320 01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:12,760 Speaker 6: wronger and wronger. That's crazy. Dog, you be sitting up 1321 01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:16,000 Speaker 6: talking to somebody. Yeah, but you know then he said this, 1322 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:18,080 Speaker 6: Well you know what, if you didn't react that way, 1323 01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 6: it wouldn't do that. But let me tell you why 1324 01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:24,040 Speaker 6: I reacted that way because I've been taught and you 1325 01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:26,800 Speaker 6: just be going, no, that's not right. And you know 1326 01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:30,720 Speaker 6: what's troubling you is if you calling me asking me 1327 01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:34,280 Speaker 6: for advice and I'm giving you mine, but you keep 1328 01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:38,760 Speaker 6: saying but every time I say something, I mean, where 1329 01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:39,479 Speaker 6: we going with this? 1330 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:40,720 Speaker 1: Do you want a. 1331 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:42,719 Speaker 6: Solution or do you want to stay in your misery 1332 01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,280 Speaker 6: or do you always want to be the person that 1333 01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:47,320 Speaker 6: we discuss it or help them? 1334 01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:50,680 Speaker 10: How do you teach somebody to think positive? That's my 1335 01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:52,479 Speaker 10: big question. I don't know how to teach you to 1336 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:53,200 Speaker 10: think positive. 1337 01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:56,040 Speaker 6: First of all, if a person is not willing to change, 1338 01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:58,960 Speaker 6: you're in trouble. But you got to find a person 1339 01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:00,840 Speaker 6: that's sick and tired to be in sick and tie. 1340 01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:03,840 Speaker 6: And then when you can show them how they're how 1341 01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:08,800 Speaker 6: their mental capacity and mental thought process of negativity has 1342 01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:11,240 Speaker 6: brought most of this into their life, and then they 1343 01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,200 Speaker 6: can see and if they want to change, they'll make 1344 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:13,639 Speaker 6: the switch. 1345 01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:16,720 Speaker 7: But until then, you know what, ma'am. You know what 1346 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:17,280 Speaker 7: makes me. 1347 01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:20,760 Speaker 6: Really mad When somebody did wrong but don't see nothing 1348 01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:26,000 Speaker 6: wrong in what they doing. Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, 1349 01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:29,880 Speaker 6: and no matter what you saying, they right, come on, 1350 01:13:31,040 --> 01:13:35,120 Speaker 6: everybody done told them they wrong, but in their mind 1351 01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:38,439 Speaker 6: her and her husband then sat down and form the 1352 01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,320 Speaker 6: two hands circle of stupidity. 1353 01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:43,800 Speaker 7: And now we see it like this. 1354 01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:47,759 Speaker 1: It ain't right. That's when life has a teacher lesson, yes. 1355 01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:50,040 Speaker 7: You go, not now, you gotta let them go. 1356 01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:53,320 Speaker 1: Yep, all right, all right, thank you. 1357 01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:56,000 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, a man 1358 01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,759 Speaker 11: on social media needs some advice. He says, my girlfriend 1359 01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:03,120 Speaker 11: basedis s their relationship, ship happiness on their social media activity. 1360 01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,439 Speaker 1: We'll talk about that right after this. You're listening to 1361 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:12,519 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve. 1362 01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:15,280 Speaker 11: This is from Brian on Steve HARVFM. He says, my 1363 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:18,000 Speaker 11: girlfriend of three months has what I find to be 1364 01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:21,680 Speaker 11: a weird way to determine if I'm happy in our 1365 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,920 Speaker 11: relationship or not. Her gauge of our happiness begins and 1366 01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:30,160 Speaker 11: ends with my social media activity. If I don't instantly 1367 01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 11: update feeds with new pictures of things we've done during 1368 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:37,320 Speaker 11: our most recent thing recent times together, there's either something 1369 01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:39,839 Speaker 11: wrong or I'm hiding something. 1370 01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:44,720 Speaker 1: This is crazy and irritating. How would you handle this? 1371 01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:47,120 Speaker 11: I don't want to be the I don't want to 1372 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,320 Speaker 11: be one of those people who lives my life over 1373 01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,000 Speaker 11: social media as opposed to actually living it. 1374 01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:59,600 Speaker 1: I'd a good question. Wait say that again, So you 1375 01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:00,720 Speaker 1: just break up with her? 1376 01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, it ain't. Member three months, we ain't. 1377 01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:08,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll post that now because I'm not finn to 1378 01:15:08,760 --> 01:15:11,559 Speaker 6: live my life on social media. You're not finna make it. Yeah, 1379 01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:14,559 Speaker 6: you're nothing to base all our decisions on what I posted. 1380 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,760 Speaker 6: What I forgot to post at all like that. Yeah, 1381 01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:20,480 Speaker 6: I'm gonna just find me somebody. 1382 01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:23,240 Speaker 1: Else, okay, all right, Byron, that's. 1383 01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:27,280 Speaker 6: Me, okay, because I can't. I'm not the poster type. 1384 01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:28,479 Speaker 4: You know. 1385 01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:31,040 Speaker 6: The last time I wanted something post it was with 1386 01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:34,800 Speaker 6: my father in law. Pass I push for that. Then 1387 01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:36,600 Speaker 6: I look up and I see on top of that 1388 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,080 Speaker 6: promoting celebrity family feud. 1389 01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:40,280 Speaker 7: I want to leave my. 1390 01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:41,080 Speaker 2: Father up there. 1391 01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:41,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1392 01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:44,280 Speaker 7: I don't know who running my account, but they finn 1393 01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:44,960 Speaker 7: to hear something though. 1394 01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:48,640 Speaker 1: Okay, we have one more if we have to, and 1395 01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:52,599 Speaker 1: we do have time, you have to continue to post. 1396 01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 7: So somebody finna be looking for a new job. 1397 01:15:57,400 --> 01:16:03,320 Speaker 1: The fire for doing their job. We're moving on. This 1398 01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:06,320 Speaker 1: is from RJ on Steve HARVFM. 1399 01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:09,719 Speaker 11: RJ says, my wife's boss is going through a rough 1400 01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:13,360 Speaker 11: patch in his relationship, and he feels like it's cool 1401 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:15,599 Speaker 11: to call my wife and get advice about the drama, 1402 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 11: and sometimes he will text her for hours. I've told 1403 01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:22,280 Speaker 11: my wife that her boss is crossing boundaries and she 1404 01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:26,439 Speaker 11: should go to HR about it. She's scared, though, because 1405 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:29,960 Speaker 11: she doesn't want to do anything that might risk her job. However, 1406 01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:32,200 Speaker 11: if she doesn't confront the guy, I will. 1407 01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:40,479 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't exactly what exactly what you cool 1408 01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:40,800 Speaker 1: with it? 1409 01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:44,960 Speaker 11: I'm cool with what he said, even if it puts 1410 01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:47,040 Speaker 11: her his wife's job in jeopardy. 1411 01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:49,640 Speaker 6: But she thinks if going to HR will put her 1412 01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:52,200 Speaker 6: job indy, then let me take the pressure off you. 1413 01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:57,760 Speaker 6: I'm a man, I don't know what you're going through, 1414 01:16:57,800 --> 01:16:59,680 Speaker 6: and I sympathize with you, but my wife is not 1415 01:16:59,800 --> 01:17:02,559 Speaker 6: your solution. We can't sit up and enjoy a dinner 1416 01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:05,519 Speaker 6: without you texting her with all this stuff. Man, you man, 1417 01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:07,160 Speaker 6: you need to work that out with your wife or 1418 01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:10,400 Speaker 6: something like that. But but but uh, but mine ain't 1419 01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:12,920 Speaker 6: the answer and she'll know how to have this. So 1420 01:17:12,960 --> 01:17:15,360 Speaker 6: I'm coming to you as a man. I'm just gonna 1421 01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:17,200 Speaker 6: just say that to you, brother. I ain't I ain't 1422 01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:19,640 Speaker 6: making I ain't threatening you or nothing like that. But 1423 01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:21,960 Speaker 6: find yourself something else to do. 1424 01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,320 Speaker 1: And how do you think that's gonna go over? I 1425 01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,760 Speaker 1: don't really give it how it go over? Because you 1426 01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:30,280 Speaker 1: don't want you don't want your wife to be uncomfortable 1427 01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:31,640 Speaker 1: when she uncomfortable. 1428 01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:36,599 Speaker 7: Now she uncomfortable. But I tell you who now, I'm 1429 01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:37,200 Speaker 7: not finna be. 1430 01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:44,120 Speaker 6: Woll he he texted like he texted me real comfortable 1431 01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:47,920 Speaker 6: me and him finish he finna be uncomfortable? 1432 01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:48,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1433 01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:51,360 Speaker 11: I wonder why he's looked his wife though? Is there 1434 01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 11: a reason because he like her? Because he's crossing boundaries? 1435 01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:59,679 Speaker 6: He really is over there on a whine on her shoulder, 1436 01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:02,000 Speaker 6: and that nurturing inside of her as a woman to 1437 01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:03,880 Speaker 6: help him through it kicks in. 1438 01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:07,120 Speaker 1: Wait, excuse me, he's doing what Carla the woman who 1439 01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:07,640 Speaker 1: did what. 1440 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:10,040 Speaker 4: With her? 1441 01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:14,040 Speaker 1: How she met her husband? Excuse me? What were you saying? Oh, 1442 01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 1: on the job, it happens. I didn't have to go 1443 01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:26,679 Speaker 1: to HR though. Right, he wasn't my boss. 1444 01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:29,320 Speaker 3: You were his boss. 1445 01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:32,439 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you were his boss. 1446 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:33,840 Speaker 2: No it wasn't. 1447 01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:37,000 Speaker 1: No, it was a different department. Sharon is stop. 1448 01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:39,479 Speaker 4: All right? 1449 01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:44,000 Speaker 11: All right, thank you guys, We'll have more of the 1450 01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:45,960 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1451 01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 1: Sharline loud to know you you know you were his boss? 1452 01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:50,120 Speaker 4: I was not. 1453 01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:54,719 Speaker 1: He worked in sales. No, you're listening to the Steve 1454 01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:55,840 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. 1455 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 11: Do you guys know anyone who's faking having a service 1456 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:05,400 Speaker 11: dog so they can bring them anywhere? 1457 01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:09,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1458 01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:11,480 Speaker 1: We saw this topic on Facebook. 1459 01:19:11,560 --> 01:19:13,800 Speaker 11: A lady in her so called service dog were in 1460 01:19:13,920 --> 01:19:17,639 Speaker 11: the store, but the dog was loud and just bad. 1461 01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:20,600 Speaker 11: People were saying that the dog was probably not a 1462 01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,240 Speaker 11: service dog, and the owner put the vest on just 1463 01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:25,439 Speaker 11: to bring the dog inside the store. 1464 01:19:25,920 --> 01:19:27,759 Speaker 1: So here's a question. Here's a question. 1465 01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,960 Speaker 11: Would you guys put a fake vests on your dog 1466 01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:32,080 Speaker 11: so you could bring in anywhere and call it a 1467 01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:32,800 Speaker 11: service dog? 1468 01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:33,880 Speaker 1: Would you do that? 1469 01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:38,160 Speaker 10: And your little miniature Yorkie is not a service dog? 1470 01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:42,720 Speaker 10: The little Yorkie is not a service dog. 1471 01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:45,360 Speaker 1: Just barkin at everybody. 1472 01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:48,080 Speaker 7: For one, I don't like dogs in restaurants. 1473 01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:50,439 Speaker 1: Well, but they can't bring them in there. 1474 01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:55,599 Speaker 6: Yeah, dog, I just said I don't like dogs in restaurants. 1475 01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,240 Speaker 6: You put a vest on it, you put sands close 1476 01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:06,439 Speaker 6: outfit on it. Like dogs in the restaurant. The only 1477 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:09,000 Speaker 6: dog I don't mind in the restaurant is a CNI 1478 01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:13,200 Speaker 6: dog A see oh yeah for yeah, yeah, you know, 1479 01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:16,800 Speaker 6: for for people who are visioning pair. That's the only 1480 01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:19,200 Speaker 6: thing I don't have a problem for. But all the 1481 01:20:19,240 --> 01:20:20,960 Speaker 6: other dogs, you and you and you got a bad 1482 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:24,639 Speaker 6: gall blood and all this hell. Then y'all just ride 1483 01:20:24,680 --> 01:20:32,200 Speaker 6: around outside coming in here, because you snap without your dog, 1484 01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:34,720 Speaker 6: but I snap with your dog. 1485 01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:40,160 Speaker 1: All right, coming up, we'll play around it. 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Would you rather 1504 01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:40,800 Speaker 11: know every detail about your spouse this day day or 1505 01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:42,800 Speaker 11: get one highlight every day? 1506 01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:47,080 Speaker 6: Just give me that one highlight I don't need. Make 1507 01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:55,360 Speaker 6: sure it's a highlight too, not just random. Yeah, don't 1508 01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:57,040 Speaker 6: come in here. Make sure it's a highlight. 1509 01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:59,719 Speaker 11: Okay, give us an example of a highlight of highlight 1510 01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:02,320 Speaker 11: you would consider a highlights, Steve. 1511 01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,960 Speaker 6: Baby, I went to work today and I got a raise. 1512 01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:07,840 Speaker 6: Oh my god, I just got a raise. 1513 01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:11,880 Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, Now, if she just wanted to give you 1514 01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:14,040 Speaker 11: every detail, how would that go? 1515 01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:17,439 Speaker 6: I came in and worked today and Brenda had the 1516 01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:22,840 Speaker 6: same blouse on our had. I cannot tell you how. 1517 01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:27,880 Speaker 6: I don't give it. It ain't enough in the world 1518 01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:32,000 Speaker 6: to express how many of them. I don't care. If 1519 01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:34,360 Speaker 6: Brenda had all the same blides you had. 1520 01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:42,040 Speaker 1: Him, and then and then what just the highlights? 1521 01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:44,479 Speaker 6: I went to lunch and here she come. Now we're 1522 01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:50,879 Speaker 6: sitting up in the cafeteria. You shop and may company. 1523 01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:54,920 Speaker 6: That's don't happen all right? 1524 01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 11: Here we go in the game of basketball, guys, would 1525 01:22:57,520 --> 01:23:01,160 Speaker 11: you rather have a long average playing career, or would 1526 01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:05,160 Speaker 11: you rather have an outstanding career cut short by injury. 1527 01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:10,839 Speaker 1: Just long average playing? Or I'd rather be long average. 1528 01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:12,880 Speaker 7: I guess I don't want to get because he already 1529 01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:13,800 Speaker 7: cut short. 1530 01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:19,280 Speaker 1: By injured. Oh wow, oh buy injury? My bad? 1531 01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:19,720 Speaker 3: I thought. 1532 01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:25,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you just thought I stopped it. Cut short? 1533 01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:28,920 Speaker 1: All right, that's all he heard? Yeah that makes sense? 1534 01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:30,559 Speaker 1: All right? 1535 01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:34,200 Speaker 11: Would you rather he would you rather get a high 1536 01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:38,639 Speaker 11: salary on a bad team, or or paid below average 1537 01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:40,280 Speaker 11: to be on a championship team. 1538 01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 1: Now give me the money on this. You don't care 1539 01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:50,639 Speaker 1: what the record? Yeah, yeah, well you got fourth again again. 1540 01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:58,760 Speaker 1: We'll be back next year. Get to this bank, all right. 1541 01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:05,360 Speaker 11: Salary the high salary on a bad team, or average 1542 01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:08,200 Speaker 11: below average salary on a championship team. 1543 01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:13,000 Speaker 6: Take the money, dog, Well I got three years. I'm 1544 01:24:13,200 --> 01:24:16,519 Speaker 6: going to devote to the Pelicans in DN. 1545 01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:21,120 Speaker 1: Try to get traded. Yeah, get sit on up to 1546 01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:24,160 Speaker 1: the Knicks and go and finish it out. Yeah, to 1547 01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 1: the world chance. So when they yeah, when they win? 1548 01:24:26,760 --> 01:24:28,800 Speaker 1: Do they get bonuses? When they will? 1549 01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:29,479 Speaker 6: Oh? 1550 01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:29,760 Speaker 1: Good? 1551 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:33,040 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, thank you guys. That's today's rounded. Would 1552 01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:35,519 Speaker 11: you rather coming up next? It is our last break 1553 01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:37,240 Speaker 11: of the day and we'll close out the show with 1554 01:24:37,360 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 11: the one and only Steve Harvey. 1555 01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:43,200 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1556 01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:50,200 Speaker 1: Everybody's your firsorite play cousin Junior. We need to talk. 1557 01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:52,799 Speaker 12: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again, 1558 01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:55,560 Speaker 12: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But 1559 01:24:55,680 --> 01:24:58,120 Speaker 12: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years 1560 01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:01,439 Speaker 12: helping drivers save million plus. You can earn points in 1561 01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:03,920 Speaker 12: the app for an extra ten cents a gallon off 1562 01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:07,360 Speaker 12: just for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying 1563 01:25:07,400 --> 01:25:10,080 Speaker 12: for gas. If you had check gas Buddy, you could 1564 01:25:10,120 --> 01:25:13,759 Speaker 12: be saving money. Download the free Gas Buddy app today. 1565 01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:15,879 Speaker 12: Choose your role to savings. 1566 01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:19,000 Speaker 11: Here we are guys, our last break of the day 1567 01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:22,800 Speaker 11: on this Tuesday. Thank you guys as always, and Steve, 1568 01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,800 Speaker 11: I wanted to ask you something. I know it's your 1569 01:25:25,880 --> 01:25:30,559 Speaker 11: anniversary tomorrow coming up in congratulations nineteen years. Tommy had 1570 01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:33,040 Speaker 11: his anniversary last week, twenty five years. 1571 01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:34,479 Speaker 4: Big. Yeah. 1572 01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:37,880 Speaker 1: We talk a lot about love on the show and 1573 01:25:37,960 --> 01:25:40,040 Speaker 1: all of that. You know, you get married for love. 1574 01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:45,240 Speaker 11: But what about commitment, Steve, what role does commitment play 1575 01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:46,200 Speaker 11: in a marriage? 1576 01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:49,640 Speaker 6: I mean, look commitment is everything because you got to 1577 01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:54,080 Speaker 6: make several commitments. You got to make a commitment to yourself. 1578 01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:57,160 Speaker 6: You got to make a commitment to your wife or 1579 01:25:57,200 --> 01:26:00,360 Speaker 6: your husband. You got to make a commitment to your family. 1580 01:26:00,920 --> 01:26:03,440 Speaker 6: You gotta make and make a commitment to the survival 1581 01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:06,519 Speaker 6: of it all. You gotta make make a commitment to 1582 01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:10,519 Speaker 6: the institution of marriage. And every day you gotta wake 1583 01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:13,680 Speaker 6: up and decide, this is what I'm doing, even when 1584 01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:18,120 Speaker 6: it gets hard, you gotta be committed to it. Like 1585 01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:24,120 Speaker 6: I am determined to stay together through any arguments. We 1586 01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:30,719 Speaker 6: may have disagreements, fallouts whatever. I am determined. Now there's 1587 01:26:30,760 --> 01:26:32,840 Speaker 6: some things you can do that that's gonna cause that 1588 01:26:32,920 --> 01:26:38,920 Speaker 6: to not happen. I'm not tolerating disloyalty. I'm not tolerating that. 1589 01:26:39,640 --> 01:26:43,560 Speaker 6: And I'm not tolerating disrespect. You're not gonna disrespect me 1590 01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:46,640 Speaker 6: or be disloyal to me in any way. And I 1591 01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:49,000 Speaker 6: sit there and try to get through it and forgive 1592 01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:52,439 Speaker 6: you for it, because I may forgive you for it, 1593 01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:55,240 Speaker 6: but I'm gonna go on with my life. And I 1594 01:26:55,280 --> 01:26:58,880 Speaker 6: don't expect anybody to treat me any different. I don't 1595 01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:04,960 Speaker 6: because if I'm gonna disrespect this woman and do disrespectful 1596 01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:07,160 Speaker 6: stuff to her and expect. 1597 01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:08,400 Speaker 7: Her to lap it up and like it. 1598 01:27:09,400 --> 01:27:13,960 Speaker 6: That ain't right. So you know, it takes a commitment, man. 1599 01:27:14,120 --> 01:27:17,240 Speaker 6: It takes a commitment to stay in there for the kids, 1600 01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:21,680 Speaker 6: for the family. You know, it takes a commitment, man, 1601 01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:25,160 Speaker 6: because when you leave this person, you ain't just leaving you. Man, 1602 01:27:25,280 --> 01:27:28,280 Speaker 6: That kid is over there going, Why am my daddy gone? 1603 01:27:30,520 --> 01:27:34,479 Speaker 6: You know why my mama not here no more? The 1604 01:27:34,600 --> 01:27:39,519 Speaker 6: kid don't understand that, man. Now, kids are survivors. They 1605 01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:42,200 Speaker 6: gonna make it through. And it's best if you're gon't 1606 01:27:42,240 --> 01:27:44,799 Speaker 6: break up. You want to try to coparent the correct 1607 01:27:44,840 --> 01:27:47,360 Speaker 6: way and never step out the kids' life so they 1608 01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:52,519 Speaker 6: don't suffer, you know. And I'm not saying marriages are perfect, 1609 01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:53,280 Speaker 6: because it's hard. 1610 01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:53,519 Speaker 1: Man. 1611 01:27:53,600 --> 01:27:56,919 Speaker 6: It's hard being married. But you got to get committed. 1612 01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:01,080 Speaker 6: And you know how I know that because I ain't 1613 01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:02,479 Speaker 6: always been committed. 1614 01:28:03,520 --> 01:28:04,320 Speaker 4: I know what that is. 1615 01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:07,720 Speaker 6: I know what it is now to be committed on 1616 01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:13,360 Speaker 6: more than one level. I am committed to another person's happiness, 1617 01:28:14,240 --> 01:28:18,120 Speaker 6: but now I'm not responsible for her happiness. Say, I 1618 01:28:18,200 --> 01:28:21,280 Speaker 6: had to learn that. Bishop Jakes told me that one time. 1619 01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:27,320 Speaker 6: He said, you are not responsible to make another person happy. 1620 01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:33,920 Speaker 6: That's not your responsibility, nor should you make it yours. Man, 1621 01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:38,880 Speaker 6: You ever tried to make another person happy before? Man, 1622 01:28:39,080 --> 01:28:45,040 Speaker 6: that's crazy. That's a daunting task. You want to compliment 1623 01:28:45,120 --> 01:28:48,760 Speaker 6: the happiness. So I finally married a person who was 1624 01:28:49,040 --> 01:28:53,960 Speaker 6: just a happy person, and it taught me how to 1625 01:28:54,040 --> 01:28:57,280 Speaker 6: enjoy and it freed me up. Now we're gonna go 1626 01:28:57,360 --> 01:28:59,200 Speaker 6: off subject for a minute because I touched on this 1627 01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:01,640 Speaker 6: early and I want to hit it right way. You know, 1628 01:29:01,680 --> 01:29:03,519 Speaker 6: it was Father's Day, man, and I have to talk 1629 01:29:03,600 --> 01:29:05,719 Speaker 6: to a lot of fatherless boys. And I was talking 1630 01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:09,080 Speaker 6: to the mothers yesterday morning before the graduation started, and 1631 01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:12,479 Speaker 6: I thanked them for entrusting their children's lives to me 1632 01:29:12,640 --> 01:29:15,679 Speaker 6: for four days. And we had a tornado scare down 1633 01:29:15,760 --> 01:29:18,120 Speaker 6: there and had to move everybody to cover. The sirens 1634 01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:20,519 Speaker 6: was going off down there by my ranch. It was 1635 01:29:20,520 --> 01:29:23,519 Speaker 6: a lot going on. I was talking to the mothers 1636 01:29:23,560 --> 01:29:25,600 Speaker 6: that I was asking the mothers, if you're in this 1637 01:29:25,720 --> 01:29:27,720 Speaker 6: room and you're using your child as a pond, to 1638 01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:32,800 Speaker 6: please stop it. Please stop making your father the father 1639 01:29:32,960 --> 01:29:36,000 Speaker 6: your child child because he hasn't paid child support or 1640 01:29:36,040 --> 01:29:38,679 Speaker 6: he behind on payments. You keeping him from the kid. 1641 01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:42,120 Speaker 6: Stop because this man has moved on and found another 1642 01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:44,559 Speaker 6: woman and he got a family somewhere else, and you're 1643 01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:46,880 Speaker 6: keeping him from the kid. Stop doing that if you're 1644 01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:49,559 Speaker 6: doing that, because you're hurting your son. Your children don't 1645 01:29:49,600 --> 01:29:52,000 Speaker 6: know that the child supportments is in the rears. They 1646 01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:54,960 Speaker 6: just want their father. And so I've asked women to 1647 01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:58,240 Speaker 6: do that, but I won't say something to women on 1648 01:29:58,400 --> 01:30:01,559 Speaker 6: behalf of men. A lot of good fathers out Here's 1649 01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:04,040 Speaker 6: a lot of good men out here. The two things 1650 01:30:04,120 --> 01:30:10,040 Speaker 6: that men want most from a woman is peace and respect. 1651 01:30:11,160 --> 01:30:13,080 Speaker 6: You could tell us you love us all you want, now, 1652 01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:17,240 Speaker 6: that's cool, but can you give us peace and respect. 1653 01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:22,599 Speaker 6: Respect is honoring me as your husband, as I honor 1654 01:30:22,680 --> 01:30:26,559 Speaker 6: you as my wife. Just honor me, give me credit due, 1655 01:30:26,920 --> 01:30:31,360 Speaker 6: you know whatever. But the peace part. If a man 1656 01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:36,800 Speaker 6: cannot come home and find peace, this man ain't got long. 1657 01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:41,280 Speaker 6: He don't have long because when your husband is out there, man, 1658 01:30:41,560 --> 01:30:44,320 Speaker 6: he fighting the war that is very unsimilar to the 1659 01:30:44,479 --> 01:30:48,400 Speaker 6: war that you are fighting. He're fighting against what they've 1660 01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:52,120 Speaker 6: been doing, the system has been doing to us for 1661 01:30:52,439 --> 01:30:55,160 Speaker 6: hundreds of years. He out there fighting that, and he 1662 01:30:55,280 --> 01:30:57,040 Speaker 6: out there fighting trying to take care of the family, 1663 01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:59,679 Speaker 6: put a roof over your head, provide food, shelter, and clothing. 1664 01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:02,640 Speaker 6: When he come home after that war, he can't come 1665 01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:05,679 Speaker 6: in the house and fight another one. He just can't 1666 01:31:05,760 --> 01:31:08,160 Speaker 6: do it, y'all, And ladies, well, we got things to 1667 01:31:08,280 --> 01:31:10,800 Speaker 6: discuss at this house. But he needs some peace though, 1668 01:31:12,080 --> 01:31:14,280 Speaker 6: because if you don't give him that peace, he can't 1669 01:31:14,320 --> 01:31:16,000 Speaker 6: fight the war out there and come in the house and. 1670 01:31:16,000 --> 01:31:16,760 Speaker 7: Fight that one too. 1671 01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:18,920 Speaker 1: He not gonna win. 1672 01:31:20,439 --> 01:31:23,320 Speaker 6: He got no way to recharge himself. So now he 1673 01:31:23,439 --> 01:31:25,960 Speaker 6: back out the door the next morning to fight the 1674 01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:29,320 Speaker 6: blind war. But knowing didn't well, when you pull up 1675 01:31:29,320 --> 01:31:32,479 Speaker 6: at the house tomorrow evening, then he gonna walk in 1676 01:31:32,479 --> 01:31:37,720 Speaker 6: the house and fight another war. Find another way, pick 1677 01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:42,240 Speaker 6: a day Sunday evening. Anything, but let that man have 1678 01:31:42,439 --> 01:31:46,599 Speaker 6: some peace, provide a peaceful environment. And that's all I'm 1679 01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:49,200 Speaker 6: just talking about. On behalf of men. If that helps you, don't, 1680 01:31:49,400 --> 01:31:50,080 Speaker 6: I know women? 1681 01:31:50,200 --> 01:31:50,240 Speaker 4: Do? 1682 01:31:50,360 --> 01:31:52,679 Speaker 6: There some men done that. I got all that, y'all 1683 01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:55,160 Speaker 6: have a nice day to day. Uncle Steve just saying 1684 01:31:55,160 --> 01:31:56,920 Speaker 6: it the way he wanted, just saying that's all. 1685 01:31:57,400 --> 01:32:04,240 Speaker 1: Peace for all. 1686 01:32:04,320 --> 01:32:08,240 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey contests no purchase necessary voidware prohibited. 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