1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: Heart Radio Podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in for 3 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: a special Thursday episode as promised. That's right, it's not Monday, 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: it's not Tuesday, it is not hump Day, but it 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: is Thursday, Oh my god, and we are clearly still 6 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: reeling from the weekend. It's Thursday, which, by the way, 7 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: you know, we did discuss many things, um, but one 8 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: of which we did not discuss was I have two things. 9 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: When we got back from uh Cobo, Jojo like looked 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: at you and she was like, thank you, Becka so 11 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: much for making me feel so special and so loved, 12 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: and like it honestly made me kind of teary because 13 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: you are just so thoughtful and you go so out 14 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: of your way to make sure that you know, like 15 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: it was JoJo's weekend and you want her to have 16 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: a good time, and like then I went through this 17 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: whole process of like, you're my best friend, and I 18 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't like you to be best friends with anybody else, 19 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: but it's okay with Jojo for something, Like I'm okay 20 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: with it, I think because she doesn't live here. It's 21 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: really the true answer is because that she does not 22 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: live in Los Angeles, so I feel like there's a 23 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: I have a one up there. This is so funny 24 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: because like you have so many other best friends that 25 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: are like so close to you. Not so many, but 26 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: I do have a few. You have a good handful. 27 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah as you. Yeah, but I'm saying, like I it's 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: just funny to hear you say like that. You it 29 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: only works with Jojo because you didn't live here. Does 30 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: that surprise you at all that I'm territorial? No? Yeah, 31 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: feels very on brand yea, yeah. But anyways, I just 32 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: thought it was really special that she said that about you, 33 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: because I really feel that about you, Like you really 34 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: go above and beyond to make sure whoever's you know, 35 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: moment it is or whatever, you go out of your 36 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: way to make them feel special and loved. And you know, again, 37 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: like that group of girls, they weren't your friends, they 38 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: were jo you know, I mean, yes, they're your friends, 39 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: but those were all JoJo's friends, and you went out 40 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: of your way to make everybody feel included and loved 41 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: and just it was really fun. Thanks for saying that. 42 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: I mean I feel the same way about you. I 43 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: feel like you do a really good job of doing that. 44 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 1: So I learned from the best. Thank you. But I 45 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: do have to say I tried to snuggle. I was 46 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: only there for one night, so I was like, you 47 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: know what, I'm going to shoot my shot. I'm trying 48 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: get in the king bed and get some snuggles in 49 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: my only night at the bachelotte party. And it was 50 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: not greeted with open arms. Let's just say, well, hold 51 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: on a second. So me, Tanya and Jojo were in 52 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: a room and there was a roll away bed and 53 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: then a king bed and king beds and two people 54 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: in there and then one person then the roll away, 55 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,839 Speaker 1: and Tonia is like, I think we can all fit 56 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: in the king bed, and I'm like, that feels so unnecessary. 57 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: We have a perfectly good roll away. If you want 58 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: to be in the king bed with Jojo, y'all can 59 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,399 Speaker 1: cuddle and I will sleep alone in the roll away. 60 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: I felt like solution. Jojo is like, absolutely no, I don't. 61 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: As soon as I like to cuddle, but as soon 62 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: as it's time for bed, no touching, Like I do 63 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: not want that. And so I was like, well you can, Tony, 64 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: you can still sleep in the bed and I'll sleep 65 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: in the roll away whatever. She was like, no, no, 66 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: like she just got rejected. But I did say, um, 67 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: I have an et toe that I like to touch, Like, 68 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: I just like, I hate that so much? Is that 69 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: not just the most No, Like I don't need to 70 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: be touching you all night. I like to be on 71 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 1: my side of the bed. I like, you know what 72 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: I mean, But I like to have a part of 73 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: me touching another human being. So I just take my 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: little big toe and I just spread it across the 75 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: bed to make sure that just one part of me 76 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: is touching one part of you. And Ryan, Ryan calls 77 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: that your e t toe. It's my te too, because 78 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: so wait, so did you sleep on the roll away? 79 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: Did you work your way into the bed? No? I 80 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: ended up on the roll away because I think like 81 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: my head was about to just like fall into my 82 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: plate of food. So I just like need it to 83 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: get to a bed. You know. There was no time 84 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: for her to like, there was no time to try 85 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: or trying it in like I just plopped right down. 86 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: I just would like to clarify, if I'm ever in 87 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: bed with you and I feel the e T toe, 88 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: come over and touch me, We're I'll throw hands. Some 89 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: people like the t to. I'm just saying the t 90 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: I think one person likes the t toe and his 91 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: name starts with an R and ends with an R. 92 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: Red star oh also starts with the ends of the 93 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: R for anyways. Yeah, there's one person maybe sunny like 94 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: the t to and she loves these Oh my god, 95 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: So I blame Ryan for that disgusting title something about it, Like, no, 96 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: it's so like accurate. It's just like this thing that's 97 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: crawls across the bench. Ye. I love hugs like I 98 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: love hugs and squeezing people. And I'm not like scared 99 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: of aysical touch or but there is something about like 100 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: cuddling in a bed that I just like to like 101 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: my space except for with none of pep, I do 102 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 1: appreciate you. So you can cuddle like like whilst like 103 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: until you fall asleep and continue cuddling while sleeping. I 104 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: think I naturally just go over to my side when 105 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping, like I think, yeah, but I quickly will 106 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: be needing to flip over and be on my stomach 107 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: with my head facing And I like to be like 108 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: on the edge of the bed, like right on the 109 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: edge where I'm safest. It can't be reached by any 110 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: roving toes. Right, no, no t toes coming over. But 111 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: I do appreciate you shooting your shot. Thank you. You know, 112 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: every shot that's not shot in shot. That was factual, 113 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 1: profound I know. Actually, wait, do you know why I 114 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: thought of it? Because I saw this quote on our 115 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: ADULTA flight on the way home, and it was very 116 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: like not provoking, and it said how far you will 117 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: go depends on how far you are willing to go. 118 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, that sounds very similar to all 119 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: the shots unshot, shots not shot. Yeah. So I'm just 120 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: on a I'm on like a meta level right now, 121 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: you know, coming up with profound quotes and et cetera. 122 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: You're on a meta level, like you google those clothes, 123 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: though you don't come up with to shoot your shot. 124 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 1: If you shot, that's all right there? Yeah, that that 125 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: one thousand percent is all. And it was every shot 126 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: that's not shot is a shot that's unshot. Yeah, not 127 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: not the one that you've heard before, which is every 128 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: shot you don't shoot is a guaranteed miss or whatever 129 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: she went she really, but yeah, this is different. This 130 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: is the different come up with those particular a day 131 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: by day calendar. I think it could be a big 132 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: seller for you. Thank you so much, Mark, I might 133 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: just called daily Tanya is um that's gonna be the 134 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: first one every shot that's then shot once upon the calendar. Well, 135 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: we have a really fun episode today because we have 136 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: scrubbers Macy and sam joining us for a family feud competition. 137 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: Yes they are. They're in the zoom waiting room as 138 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: we speak. Are you feeling competitive? Never? Yeah, right, speaking 139 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: of shooting your shot, that's what they do. They want 140 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: on the Facebook group and challenge you guys, and here 141 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: we are. Let's go, and that's what happens when you shoot. 142 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: Sometimes you make it and sometimes you get rejected with cuddling. 143 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: But you know, you never know, You never know if 144 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: you don't try. Um. So we're gonna take a break 145 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: and we'll be right back with Family Feud Scrubber Edition. 146 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: Meet the attending Specca Antonia ready for action and the 147 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: scrubbers Macy and Samantha on your Mark, Let's start the 148 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: family feud and now the star of Family Feud, Mark 149 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: mull Netski, there is Oh my gosh, thank you, thank 150 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: you very much. Welcome for the family Feud. Yes, let's 151 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: get to know Macy and Samily scrubbers and the way 152 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: this came about to my knowledge, I think Macy, you 153 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: had this idea. You put it on the Facebook group 154 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: you're tagged me, and I was like, yeah, that sounds fun. 155 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: And I mentioned it to Hannah who's also in here, 156 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, great, get me their emails 157 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: and here we are together. Isn't that nice? It's the best. Yeah. 158 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,079 Speaker 1: I always tell everyone, I'm like, you gotta try shoot 159 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: your shot. Mark might see it and you might get it. 160 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: And here we are and we're very excited. See what 161 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: happens when you shoot your shot. That's right, that's right. 162 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: Macy and Sam are wearing clothing shirts, matching sweatshirts with 163 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: each other's faces on them, so they seem to be 164 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: just as tight as Becca and Tanya. They have their 165 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: Dr Pepper they're starburst, they're wine, they're red Starburst. They're 166 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 1: red Starburst. And you mentioned something about matching tattoos. Yeah, 167 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: we got matching butterfly tattoos for Sam's birthday this year. Wow, 168 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: where are you? Oh? Ankle up, like, oh my god, 169 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: it's so cute. This is what we should be looking like, 170 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: like why don't you want to wear shirts with our 171 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: faces on them all the time, all the time, every week. 172 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: We should look like this everywhere. Don't you agree? Yes, 173 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: I definitely agree, Thank you. Sam's on my side. And 174 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: now I was gonna say, who's Anny in Becca? Now 175 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: I know I knew quickly right there. Yeah, we'll still 176 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 1: don't remember. But it is diet not die for me. 177 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: So funny. Oh my gosh, your shirts are so cute 178 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: and your butterfly tattoos I can Yeah, y'all are so cute, 179 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: and I'm so happy to do this. But y'all are 180 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: definitely going down. I don't know we're ready, we're ready, 181 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 1: we're when because they're like dressed the part, like we're 182 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: not even matching. What part of the world are you 183 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: guys living in right now? We are in South Florida. 184 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: Oh really nice? Yeah, so Sonny, South Florida. We've been friends. 185 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: We've been friends group ten plus years and we've been 186 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: here our whole lives. Do you live together or is 187 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: this one of your apartments or houses or what? No, 188 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: this is my house, but we both we live separate. 189 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: We used to live we used to live together here, 190 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: but now we're unmarried with babies, and she's engaged. So 191 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: we had the next question. Let's talk about the husband. 192 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: First of all, you've been married. I will be married 193 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: four years this year, and we've been together nine How 194 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: did you meet a through a mutual friend? We like 195 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: knew each other, but I was dating someone else. He 196 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: was dating someone else, and then I snapchat ed him 197 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 1: one day and he wrote me back, and then here 198 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: we are snapchat snapchats. It's, you know, really millennial kids. 199 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 1: I have two daughters. Oh, so do I have two daughters? 200 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: How oldre your daughters? One and two more coming? We 201 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: don't know my husband. Yeah, we're not store. I would 202 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: go for a store. Yeah. She likes all the nieces, 203 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: so she's ready for a nephew. So sweet, I love Wait, 204 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: how did were how did y'all meet? High school? High school? 205 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, and then you were roommate. You were 206 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: best friends and then you were roommates and you'll still 207 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: remain best friends after being roommates. Yes, we have no idea. 208 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: How that's an impressive. We kind of lived together. We 209 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: had a wall. The wall was very important. The wall 210 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: wasn't It was very important for our friends for me 211 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: to Thank you, Sam. Tell us about your fiancee. Um. 212 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: We met actually at a bar on Halloween. I was 213 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: just as Cat Donk the cartoons was Cat and he 214 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: was there and I was like watching my drink and 215 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: he told me no, and I started talking and I 216 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: invited him to come to the bar with us, and 217 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: he said no, and then tell me on Facebook the 218 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: next day and we are was he playing hard to 219 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: get what was all the nose for? I think he 220 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: was nervous. She can be like a lot. He was 221 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 1: really sober and I was really drunk and somebody came 222 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 1: up to he said, you want to sip in my drink? 223 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, I'm good, depending on your moon. Yeah, 224 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: it's like what I was drinking. Yeah, sharing is carrying. 225 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: I get that. If someone as if you wanted to 226 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: try it, Tanya, I feel like you would be like yeah, yeah. 227 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: If I was like single and ready to mingle, yeah, 228 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 1: for sure, I would have been like, I'll take your 229 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: drink and I'll take you yeah, exactly. Flirting, Yeah, cool 230 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: flirting flirting. How did he propose on a boat? We 231 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: went out at five o'clock in the morning, yep, And 232 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 1: I was complaining, why are we going out so early 233 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: and then yeah we're Becca and Tanya's but we've like 234 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: a mix hybrid of sword. Yes, hyper best because I'm 235 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: like being fully Tanya is exhausting, So I like that. Sam, 236 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: good for you. Thanks. So he kneeled down as a 237 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: private boatunch people. It was our boat. Just the two 238 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: of us meal down and he had hook and it 239 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: said will you marry me? And I looked at it 240 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: and then I turned around and he was on one knee. 241 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: So it was a sunrise proposal and yes, wow, that's 242 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 1: I mean. I will say if I have to be 243 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: up and there's a good sunrise, I'm always grateful to 244 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: be up at that time. So when is the wedding, Well, 245 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: we don't have a date yet because we want a destination. 246 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: So we're kind of hoping that everything opens up. Smart wedding. 247 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds amazing. I love a destination wedding. But 248 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: we have two dogs together, so what kind We have 249 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: a golden doodle and a docks in New Yorkie. They 250 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 1: fund they like to play with each other. Oh yeah, 251 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: that's all the energy. All the time I've been saying 252 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: we need to get a second dog. Yeah, I thank 253 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: you I'm having that same discussion. Wait, do you go 254 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: docks In and Yorkie A. Oh yeah, that's so cute. 255 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: I love that their friends. Yeah, you do you think 256 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: you need another dog right now? Yes? I do? Okay, 257 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: all right, shall we play the feud? Let's go do it. 258 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: Let's all right. I think everyone understands the rules. This 259 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: is the poll that we did, and so we'll see 260 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: if I see how you guys do. I need one 261 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: player to start for the face off from each team? 262 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: Who will start? I'll go? Okay, Itani and Salmon again. 263 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: You may blur it out your name to you know, 264 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: to press the button. You don't press the button, just 265 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: call out your name. I'll call out whoever's name out 266 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: here first. You try to get the most popular answer. 267 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: If you don't get the number one answer, the other 268 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: person will have a chance to take control of the game. 269 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: All right, are you both ready? Yes? Your ears ready? Yes? Ready? 270 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: Here we go. Top nine answers are on the board. 271 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: We're keeping the first question and why we got nine 272 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: answers up there? We asked the scrubbers, who is the 273 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: best guest? Becca Anton? You have ever interviewed on scrubbing in? 274 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: I need a quick answer. Don't no, there's no playing. 275 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: Give me an answer, sorry, Camilla Luddington, Camilla ludding and 276 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: show me Camilla. Number one answer. Now you may decide 277 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: if you want to play your pass. You may discuss 278 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: that with Becca. Yes, play alright. Eight more answers up there. 279 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: It's great that Macy and Sam are together in the 280 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: same place because then you guys can discuss throughout however 281 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: you want to do this. You want to mute yourself, 282 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: go right ahead, that's fine. You guys can discuss throughout 283 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 1: what you want to come back with and try to steal. Alright, Becca, 284 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: we go to you. Best guest ever on scumming in 285 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: this Kevin mckinn. I was gonna say, going with Kevin 286 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: mckinn Show me Kevin kids, show me hunt. It's up there. 287 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: Number eight for Kevin mckid not a big answer, but 288 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: it definitely made the lift. You have seven more answers 289 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 1: up there to choose from Tania. Back to you, Brad Gareski. 290 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: Number three answer very nice. We have one, we have three, 291 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: we have seven, plenty more up there. Go ahead, back 292 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: to you. Becca. I'm gonna go Jojoe Fletcher, Jojo Fletcher. 293 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 1: Number two. All right, they're running the board here. No 294 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: strikes yet one, two, three, and seven have been selected. 295 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: Five more answers. Still a long way to go, Tania, 296 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,120 Speaker 1: back to you. No, you're not supposed to be discussing 297 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: this part. This part is not for discussing. I'm gonna go. 298 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna okay, Mark, I'm gonna go with Mark. I'm 299 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 1: gonna go with Giacomo jacobo Ji. Yes he's up there, 300 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: number nine, very nice. Only four more to go, Becca, 301 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: back to you. I'm going Kim Raver, Kim Ravers, show 302 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: me m Ramer. That is your first strike. First strike. 303 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: Still four answers up there, thank you. Still got four 304 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 1: up there telling you back to you. Okay, um I Mark, 305 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with I am gonna go with Sophia 306 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 1: and Paulina Carson. Go to Sophia Carson and her sister 307 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: Paulina strike number two and number two, and proud of 308 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 1: number three that they like having our friends on. We 309 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: have on the board Camela number one, Jojo number two, 310 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 1: Brad number three. Then you jump down and get Kevin 311 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: mckid number eight, Gia Como number nine. So four right 312 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: in the middle, four, five, six, seven have not been said, Becca, 313 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 1: I need an answer or if you get this wrong, 314 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: then the scrubbers will have a chance to steal. I'm 315 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: so stressed, but I got it. I'm just I'm gonna 316 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: go Whitney Carson, Gonna go Whitney Carson, Whitney Carson to 317 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: stay alive. That's your third strike. Let's get over to 318 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 1: the scrubbers. Now, yeah, the scrabbers. You can discuss. Scrubbers, 319 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 1: you may discuss, come up with your answer. You can 320 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 1: do it out loud. It's fine, all right, go ahead, 321 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: looks like you have an answer. April April Kapner played 322 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: by Sarah Drew. If it's up there, you get the points. 323 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 1: If not, Tanya and Becca, the attendings get the points. 324 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 1: Show me, Sarah Drew, she's up there, number six, and 325 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: the first question goes to the scrubber is who else 326 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: was up there that we didn't get? Showed me number four, 327 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: So Buena Carpenter, Oh my god, that was like the 328 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 1: best podcast Everbercka blacked out number five Hannah Brown from 329 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: the show, and number seven Coach Monica. Just recently, Coach 330 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: Monica made the last okay, alright question number two. So 331 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: let's Becca versus Macy. Now such and Macy blurn out 332 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: your name when you think you know what the answer is? 333 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: Here we go top. Six answers are on the board. 334 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: Six answers on this one. We asked the scrubbers, which 335 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 1: if Taylor Swift's ex boyfriends would you personally like to 336 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 1: Dake May, Jake, Jillan Hall number three? Two answers will 337 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: beat at Becca, Joe, Joe Alwen not up there, No, 338 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: so that's what Dake, Joe Alwin, No one ever who 339 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 1: wants the name Jake Jolan Hall. All right, so you 340 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: can decide right now do you want to play your pass? 341 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to do this. You can leave it 342 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 1: to the attendings. If you'd like a play your pass. 343 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 1: We're gonna pass. We're gonna pass. Some strategy here strategy 344 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: coming into play, Tony, I go to you, which six 345 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: boyfriends Harry Styles number one? Answer very nice, one and 346 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: three Now on the board. You have four left to go. Becca, 347 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:06,680 Speaker 1: No discussion, there's one really good one. No no discussions, 348 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: no talking, no hands, Beckam, what are you doing? I'm thinking? Okay, 349 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: she's leaning out a frame. I don't know. Yes, I 350 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: would date like tomorrow. John Mayer, John mayor show me 351 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 1: John Mayer. Yes, he's up there. Number five May feeling good. 352 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 1: We have Perry, we have Jake, we have John Mayer. 353 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: Three more answers to go, Tanya. Joe Jonas, Joe Jonas, 354 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 1: number two, very good. You got a shot here. Two 355 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: more answers, will do it, Becca, back to you. You 356 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 1: can't help each other. Macy's right, Please stop flouting the rules. 357 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: Can you go over the board. How many are there? 358 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,199 Speaker 1: How many? Sure? I'm happy to There are six answers 359 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: up there. You've done four of them. To remaining that 360 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: would be number four and number six are still up there, Becca, 361 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: I need an answer three seconds or I got to 362 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 1: give you a strike second. That's right. I can't even 363 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: think of another. One strike number one. I'm sorry. That's 364 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: how we play the game. We gotta keep it moving here, Tania. 365 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: Back to you. You got one strike, Calvin Harris. Calvin 366 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: Harris did not make the list. Two strikes. Back to you, Becca, 367 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: who can't think of any So things are looking up 368 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: for Macy, Tom Tom Hittleston, Yes, he's on their number six. 369 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 1: One more answer, Tanya, it's to you now, if you 370 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: can give us this answer, you get the question. If not, 371 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: we'll see if the scrubbers can steal it. Tanya, can 372 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: you tell me who we have again? Number number? This 373 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 1: is called stalling, but yes, number four using one Harry 374 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 1: to Joe Jonas three, Jake Gyllenhall five, John Mayer six, 375 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 1: Tom Hittleston. What's number four? Tanya, I need an answer. 376 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: Three seconds, strike three. Let's go for the steel. There's 377 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 1: only one tru up. So this is a tough one. 378 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:05,959 Speaker 1: We're gonna have to go with Taylor Lautner. Gonna Taylor 379 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,360 Speaker 1: god good one to take the question? Is it Taylor Lawtner? 380 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: It sure is. You got a very nice scrubbers, you 381 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: know that Coller and Taylor. I was not going there. 382 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: I was got more recent like who was before Joe? 383 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 1: Joe all win him? All right, so the game is 384 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: best three out of five. The scrubbers are one question 385 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 1: away from taking this thing. The attending back in town. 386 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 1: You really need to get on the board on this one. 387 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: So also scrubbers. Kellen Harris doesn't on that listing. Okay, 388 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: well you can do with them, Facebook, Tanya and Sam 389 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 1: back up to the podium here. All right, here's a 390 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 1: question for you. We asked the scrubbers. Top five answers 391 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 1: on the board. Five answers up there on this one five. 392 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 1: We asked the scrubbers, what pet name does your partner 393 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: call you? I didn't understand the question. Uh, Sam, how 394 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: are we supposed to know? Sam? Baby is the number 395 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: one answer? Very guys, baby is the number one answer, 396 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: as Tanya hangs her head in shame. Oh, I get it. 397 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: It's a generic nickname. We asked the scrubbers that question 398 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: and compiled their responses. Would you like to play or pass? Scrubbers? 399 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 1: How many are on the board? Five? Four more? We're 400 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: gonna play, gonna play, all right, see if they can 401 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 1: run the table here? May see. We go to you, honey, honey, 402 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: Let's show me honey. That's the number two answer. Very nice. 403 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I have them out of order on 404 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 1: my screen. That's the number two answer. Going in order 405 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: is even more difficult. All right, back to you, Sam, sweetie, sweetie, 406 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: sweeties not on the if. I'm sorry, No, Sweetie did 407 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 1: not make it. Macy back to you with one strike, 408 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 1: love love, show me love yep. That's number five, number five. 409 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: You got three out of five. Two more to go. 410 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 1: The scrubbers are plotting. The scrubbers are discussing, which is 411 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: allowed at this moment. They're allowed to discuss. We'll go 412 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: back to you, sam uh, pumpkin, pumpkins, show me pumpkin. 413 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 1: Two strikes. I'm sorry, No, it's not up there. You 414 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: need two more answers to run the table or else 415 00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: the scrubbers have a chance to steal macy back to you. 416 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with snookum. Gonna go snookums. I'm sorry, 417 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 1: that's your third strike back in tany You may discuss. 418 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 1: You have a chance to steal now. There are two 419 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: more on the board. We've heard babe, honey and love. 420 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: There are two more. Do I start, you may start. 421 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go baby, Baby is a post to babe, 422 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: show me baby. It's the number four answer and the 423 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: scrubbers to get on the board and take a class 424 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: and very nice. The last remaining one up there, which 425 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 1: doesn't exactly follow the rules of the question was my 426 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 1: own name, But that was the number three answer, was 427 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: that their partner just calls them by their own name. 428 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 1: Oh we already won you want me? Yes, good job. 429 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: So we have two questions for the scrubbers, one question 430 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: for the attend to guess we're not there then? Were 431 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 1: they hotly whispered in my ear? Okay, well, here we go. 432 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: Who Who's who's coming up now? It looks like it's 433 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: Macy and Becca. Yes, Macy and Becca back up here, 434 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,639 Speaker 1: question number four. This could still win it for the Scrubbers. 435 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Top six answers on the board. 436 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 1: We have six answers up there. We asked the scrubbers 437 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: name one of Easton's obsessions. I think I have to 438 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,399 Speaker 1: go back on now for sure. Sorry, but it's a 439 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 1: no brainer. Cheesecake factory. Cheesecake factory. That is the number 440 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: three answer. Cheesecake factory. Two inches will beat it. Scrubbers, 441 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: We're gonna go with Crocs. You're gonna go CrOx that's 442 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:21,120 Speaker 1: the number one. Is nice? It was. There were four 443 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: more up there. Scatters player passed, We're going to play. 444 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 1: I gonna play on this one. They feel like they 445 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: know Eastern pretty well. Go ahead, we are at Sam 446 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: Hillary Duff, Hillary Duff, show me Hilary Duff. Number four. 447 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: We got three up, three down. Here we go back 448 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:43,919 Speaker 1: to you. Macy. We're gonna go Caramel corn, Carmel corn 449 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: number two. They have no strikes. Yes, Tanya cursing in 450 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: the background as the Scrubbers are in danger of running 451 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,919 Speaker 1: the table here. They only need two more and they 452 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: have won this game back to you, Sam Disney, I'm 453 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 1: gonna go Disn. That's number five. We are almost there. 454 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 1: They know Eastern as well as they know Tanya and 455 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:11,479 Speaker 1: Becca for the wind Macy need one more of Eastern's obsessions. Yes, 456 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 1: I'll run them down for you. We have Crocs caramel 457 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: corn cheesecake factory. Hillary duff Disney was the last one. 458 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: We have one more answer up there, Oh Eastern, No, 459 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:31,880 Speaker 1: no discussiony movies, gonna go movies. I'm sorry, No, that's 460 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: your first strike. Sam, You've got two more strects to 461 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 1: play with here, scrubbers discussing. You can almost overly go 462 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 1: the Scrubbers and that would give it away. So we're 463 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: gonna guess Mark, we're gonna get No, you're not you're no, no, No, 464 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: you're not doing anything yet. They only have one strike. Sound. 465 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: I need an answer, fruit, fruit should be fruit? No 466 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: two strikes, mazing. You need this to stay in the 467 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: game or the scrubber the attendings of a chance to 468 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 1: steal oh Man Eastern Sorry Easton, I'm drawing and blazed. 469 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: Three seconds. Janne gonna go, Janet Cramer, show me Janet Kramer. 470 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: That's your third strike. Now let's see if the scrubber 471 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: is now, here's the deal. If the Scrubbers guests correctly, 472 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: we have one more question for you guys, a tiebreaker 473 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 1: for the attending Thank you. Sorry. If the attendings don't 474 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: get this right, the Scrubbers win. Tanya, what is your answer? Tanya? Okay, 475 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna go the one. We're gonna go with Allison. 476 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: Can you with Allison his wife to stay in the game. 477 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: Show me Allison, No, the Scrubbers win. I think you'll 478 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: be kicking yourselves when I tell you, Marvel, Marvel, Marvel. 479 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm very impressed with how you guys did. So. I 480 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: had Marvel beccas at Allison and I was like, you 481 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: know what, I think Allison is the right call. And 482 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm a little on behalf of Allison personally me too. Yeah, yeah, no, 483 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: one show her this episode. I love you, Allison. All right. 484 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 1: So Sam and Macy you have one. You move on 485 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 1: to fast money. So here's the d L. You can 486 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: get the appropriate number of points, which is two. We 487 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: have a price package for you of scrubbing in merch, 488 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 1: but we have to win. This is real, this is legit. 489 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: We actually have put together a price package is scrubbing 490 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: in merch. I don't know exactly what's in it. Uh, 491 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 1: I don't get It's not going to be like a 492 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: dump truck coming to your house. But we do have 493 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,959 Speaker 1: some stuff for you scrubbing in merch if you can 494 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: get the two points in fast money. All right, we're 495 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: gonna put twenty five seconds on the clock. Who's going first, 496 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: Macy's That means Sam, you have to leave the room. 497 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: I'm afraid I don't know how feasible it is for you, 498 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 1: but we're gonna have to have Sam get out of 499 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: your shot for this. Yeah, she can have a lot 500 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: of rooms back there, Florida. Al Right, Macy, I'll just 501 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: have to trust you when you tell me she's out 502 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: of your shot, and then we can go, yeah, she's 503 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: she is. All right, I got twenty five seconds on 504 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: the clock. When you ask you five questions, you give 505 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 1: you the most popular answer, and we'll add up the 506 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: points and hopefully you'll get a good number and the 507 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: total up to two hundred, and we'll give you the prize. 508 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: Here we go. The clock will begin with your first answer, 509 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: name or reason you would wake up in the middle 510 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 1: of the night. To name something you keep in your 511 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: purse my wallet. Name is something you'd be scared to 512 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: find in your living room a person. Name a wedding 513 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: tradition you wish would end wedding tradition like at the 514 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: wedding for bouquet toss. And name a place you'd never 515 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: want to find your partner with someone in the bed 516 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: with someone else. Okay, just in time, got it in there. 517 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 1: Very nice. I see you're really good under pressure. Those 518 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: are really good answer it answers Macy. Very good. Let's 519 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: see how solid they were though. Turn around. Let's see 520 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: what we got. Name a reason you wake up in 521 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 1: the middle of the night. You said two. Pe Survey 522 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 1: said that's your number one answer. Very nice. Off to 523 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 1: a very good start. Name something you keep in your 524 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: purse you said, wallet survey said twenty six. Another number 525 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: one answer. Name something you'd be scared to find and 526 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: you're living and you said a person. Survey said fifteen. 527 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 1: Not bad at all. Name a wedding tradition you wish 528 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 1: would end, you said the bokay toss. Survey said twenty 529 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: three solid. Me have to do some math here in 530 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: a minute. Name a place you'd never want to find 531 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 1: your partner. You said, in bed with someone else. Survey 532 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: said fifteen. That is fifty three seventy nine. That is 533 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: one hundred seven points. Very nice, Mason. That's a very 534 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: solid first round. Let's get Sam back in here and 535 00:32:56,120 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 1: see how she does. It. Seems like you said her name. 536 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: Very came, prittical, quickly, story attending. All right, uh Sam, 537 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,080 Speaker 1: good news. Mason did very well. She got a hundred 538 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: seven points. You have ninety three points away from two 539 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 1: hundred points. Okay, you look nervous. You're ready. I am nervous. 540 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: You're nervous. All right, Well, twenty five seconds on the clock. 541 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: Lask same five questions I asked Macy, you give me 542 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 1: the most popular answer. If you repeat her answers, you'll 543 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 1: hear this. I'll say, try again, you'll give me another answer. 544 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: All right, are you ready? Here we go seconds on 545 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,360 Speaker 1: the clock. Name a reason you would wake up in 546 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: the middle of the night to name something you keep 547 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 1: in your purse. Name something you'd be scared to find 548 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 1: in your living room. Name a wedding tradition you would 549 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: like to see end the getting the garter. Name a 550 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: place you'd never want to find your partner with another girl. 551 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 1: Try again, m hmm, in the bathroom. Your poor fiance 552 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: can never be found in the bedroom. You know what 553 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: she's saying. She doesn't want to find him in the bathroom, 554 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: meaning like like he keeps up zipped up. Yes, all right, 555 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: you need ninety three points. So let's see how you 556 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 1: did here. Name a reason you wake up in the 557 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,959 Speaker 1: middle of the night. You said, to get something to eat. 558 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 1: Servey said nothing. I'm sorry that did not make our survey. 559 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,760 Speaker 1: Was the number one Name something you keep in your purse? 560 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:45,280 Speaker 1: You said gum? Survey said six, not terribly high. I'm sorry. 561 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 1: Wallet was the number one answer said by Macy. Name 562 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: something you would be scared to find in your living room. 563 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 1: You said a bug. Survey said thirty four. That's the 564 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: number one answer, Spider and bug number one, thirty four points. Alright. 565 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 1: Name a wedding tradition you wish would end you said 566 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: the garter toss. Survey said thirty seven. That's the number 567 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 1: one answer I said to you. You're at one eight four, 568 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:30,439 Speaker 1: you eat sixteen two. Name a place you'd never want 569 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:36,320 Speaker 1: to find a partner? You said the bathroom. Our survey said, no, 570 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, nothing, but we tally it up and of 571 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 1: course we're still going to give you the scrubber again. 572 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 1: Price began just for joining us today because it was 573 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 1: to you, what was the number one answer? Was the 574 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,959 Speaker 1: number one answer for that strip club? Also on list 575 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:57,359 Speaker 1: jail dating app also by the List anyway, So no 576 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 1: grand prize, but congratulations scrubbers did win today's round a 577 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 1: family garratalation with the matching outfits and the cups and 578 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: the red starburs and Dr Pepper like truly just the 579 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: most festive. Yeah we, I mean, y'all we that was 580 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 1: perfect And I will be reeling over this slut for 581 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 1: a minute and also need to retail to Allison and 582 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:28,479 Speaker 1: send my candles set the Scrubbers made the answer shows 583 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 1: the answers. That's true, they're dialed in. I'm more disappointed 584 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: that if all of Taylor Swift's x is the first 585 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,240 Speaker 1: one out of your mouth was Joe all Win isn't here? 586 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: Isn't her current partner? Yeah? She said I was seeing 587 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 1: people that she's dated. That you that people would want 588 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,279 Speaker 1: to date. Seems well I did this question specifically said 589 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:52,240 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend. That's awkward. Then that's my being gonna be 590 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 1: Oh I didn't even realize that. Yeah, um, thank you 591 00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 1: all so much. That was so fun. Yeah, it was 592 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,840 Speaker 1: really fun. Thank you for having us. This was like 593 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 1: a dream for us. So we're so excited. I told 594 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: my husband fourth best day. You know, I have two 595 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 1: kids getting married, so that after that is this. I'm 596 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 1: so um. Well, hopefully like one day, if we're doing 597 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,920 Speaker 1: a live show again, we can come to South Florida 598 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 1: and get to give you all hug and the family 599 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: for you. It feels like a really fun thing for 600 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 1: a live podcast. You're really fun. We just we won't 601 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 1: travel to anywhere on the eve we went to see 602 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,399 Speaker 1: Kitlin and Nashville. We will travel perfect. Good to know. 603 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 1: Thank you all so much. Congratulation. Well that was a 604 00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 1: tough one. Yeah, I'm okay with it because they're so cute. 605 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: They were so cute. Yeah, I'll be okay with it. 606 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: Do you have someone to be after this podcast? I 607 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 1: just have some work to do. Why do you want 608 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,400 Speaker 1: to have lunch together? Are you making food? Are we 609 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 1: going to get food? Gonna go get food where I 610 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 1: don't know, we can figure that out, asking for the time. Yeah, 611 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,279 Speaker 1: I could get lunch. Do you see this? This is 612 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 1: what I have to spend time with her? And it's like, oh, 613 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. You're gonna take her to 614 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 1: like the Radish Emporium and eat and eat rabbit food 615 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I don't want to do that restaurant, 616 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 1: saying I'm just curious. Can we go to Chili's there 617 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,680 Speaker 1: you go? Please? I've been craving it so bad, Like, 618 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 1: can I please have that as my last meal before 619 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 1: I have to be healthy? No? No, we're gonna go 620 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 1: somewhere in between our houses. We're gonna walk there. No, no, no, 621 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to get lunch. This is why Becca 622 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 1: was asking the question anyways, and the stipulations involved, and 623 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: he's already got a plans. She knows exactly what you're 624 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: gonna do, because she can't agree to it without knowing that. 625 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: Watch to Hunga and we're gonna go somewhere on there. 626 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,920 Speaker 1: So cute. Okay, we can discuss this after the pod um. 627 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,799 Speaker 1: I think we have an email before we say goodbye. Mark, 628 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 1: Thank you very much, anonymous says, I broke up with 629 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: my boyfriend a few days ago. We were together a 630 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: year and a half and lived together. He was my 631 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 1: Red Star and I couldn't wait to marry him. But 632 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,320 Speaker 1: we had an argument and during the argument I packed 633 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 1: some clothes to leave to my parents house for a 634 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: few days. He said, if you leave, we're done. Well. 635 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: I left, and now I've been regretting it. I would 636 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 1: like things to work out because I feel like I 637 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: made a terrible choice, but I know ultimately it's not 638 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 1: all up to me. Tanya, when things ended with Red Star, 639 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 1: how did you go about things once you two got 640 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 1: back together with the relationship different, Did you have to 641 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 1: date again? Were you hesitant at all? A lot of 642 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 1: questions in there. Um, let's see, after the breakup, it sucks, 643 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,399 Speaker 1: and I think you kind of have to do whatever 644 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 1: is gonna make you make you feel best, if you like. 645 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 1: For me, even though we were broken up, it didn't 646 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,520 Speaker 1: feel like it was done. I was like, this is 647 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: my guy. So I was more of just kind of like, 648 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 1: this isn't right. I don't really know why this is 649 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,799 Speaker 1: the way it is, but it is what it is. 650 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,520 Speaker 1: So I had to kind of make the best of it. 651 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 1: And um, when I say make the best of it, 652 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: it's just kind of like deal with the reality, you 653 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:24,359 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like some days I would cry 654 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 1: a lot, I over analyze things a lot. I did 655 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 1: things I regretted. Um, you know, like I made it 656 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: look like I was dating people on social media, so 657 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,720 Speaker 1: he thought I was moved on, even though it wasn't. 658 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 1: Just like dumb stuff like that. Um. So it's like, 659 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 1: you know, you just deal with it. I always had 660 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 1: hope in my heart. And the crazy thing is is 661 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: when we broke up, and again I even told beck 662 00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: I was like, I know, we broke up, but this 663 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: just doesn't seem like it's the end. I've never seen 664 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: more butterflies in my entire life. Like they were literally 665 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 1: everywhere on the sidewalks, in my food at the grocery store, 666 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,359 Speaker 1: like on my son runs, Like I just saw so 667 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 1: many butterflies. And to me, that was like a symbol 668 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 1: of like, let's, you know, keep the hope alive, the 669 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 1: hope that you're feeling, keep hold onto it. And so 670 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 1: um that's just what I did. I don't know if 671 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: it's the right thing to do. I don't know if 672 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 1: it's the wrong thing to do, but it felt right 673 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: for me. So that's what I did. When we got 674 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 1: back together. Um, we were actually supposed to. He was 675 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 1: supposed to come here to my place and we were 676 00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,560 Speaker 1: going to talk. And he called me when he was 677 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: on his way over and he's like, I know we're 678 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 1: supposed to. You know, we're gonna talk at your place. Um, 679 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 1: but I have an, uh, you know, another idea. Do 680 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 1: you mind if I come pick you up? And so 681 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 1: I said okay, So he came and he picked me up, 682 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 1: and he took me to the place where we had 683 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 1: our very first date and basically kind of as like, ah, 684 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:45,920 Speaker 1: he wanted to start over, start from the beginning. And yes, 685 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 1: I'd say, like we we dated, there was like a 686 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 1: period of time where I felt like we needed to 687 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,239 Speaker 1: kind of really dig into the issues that led to 688 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,879 Speaker 1: our breakup. Um, but I also think, and he said 689 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 1: this to me fairly early on, and it made a 690 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: lot of sense. You can't you can't keep harping on 691 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: the things that happened in the past because we were 692 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,400 Speaker 1: starting a new So, like I kept saying, you know, 693 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: how can I trust you're not gonna break up with 694 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 1: me again? Have an I treasure not gonna break up 695 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,320 Speaker 1: with me again. You already did it before, how I 696 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: don't know what you're gonna do it again. It's like 697 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 1: you can't live in that space because you're just gonna 698 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 1: be stewing in that at all times. And really, in reality, 699 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,520 Speaker 1: and that's what a relationship is. It's like every day 700 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 1: you're choosing to be with that person. Even if you 701 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 1: broke somebody broke up with you in the past, it 702 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: makes no difference, you know what I mean, Like anybody 703 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 1: could still break up with anybody. People are married and 704 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,400 Speaker 1: cheating on each other, you know what I mean. So 705 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: there's no guarantee. So I kind of had to like 706 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 1: let that go because I was holding a lot of 707 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: it over his head and I would like make references 708 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: or just kind of cheap shots, and I think that, um, 709 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,720 Speaker 1: I needed to kind of I needed to move forward 710 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,320 Speaker 1: and like kind of leave all that in the past. 711 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: And I'm glad that I did, because I think that 712 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 1: could have really ruined things and if I didn't go 713 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 1: into it with that knowledge. So I say, um, hold 714 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 1: on to hope whatever feels right to you and when 715 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:08,880 Speaker 1: you if you just if you guys, do decide to 716 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: get back together, you do have to kind of let 717 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: all that stuff be in the past and start anew 718 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:22,280 Speaker 1: because otherwise it's just gonna be bad. Yeah, but sometimes 719 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:27,400 Speaker 1: I think breakups are exaggerated in your mind, not yours. Danya. 720 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 1: That was traumatic and rough, and I remember that very well. 721 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 1: But I think this was like, if you leave, we're done. 722 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 1: And she left, but if you talked, have you are 723 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 1: you assuming more than you should do? You assume he's 724 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:39,880 Speaker 1: moving on when really he's hoping for you to come 725 00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,879 Speaker 1: back to that door. Just go back, Just go talk 726 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: to him. I don't know where things are with you 727 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,399 Speaker 1: guys who didn't say anything. It's only been a couple 728 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: of days though, and this doesn't sound that serious to me. 729 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:52,399 Speaker 1: It was an argument and you got heated and stormed out. 730 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 1: He got heated and said and gave you an ultimatum. 731 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: I think everybody regrets everything that happened that night, So 732 00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,799 Speaker 1: talk to him. And ultimatums are never them. Well, we 733 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 1: all do them, and they're not healthy. But like when 734 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:08,920 Speaker 1: you fear not to leave, when you fear like losing control, 735 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 1: you feel like that's your best option. And I am 736 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,320 Speaker 1: with Mark. I think this could be a calm or 737 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: or also what can happen in breakups is that you 738 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 1: break up and it's the best thing that could happen 739 00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,359 Speaker 1: for you, and that that wasn't your person. So I mean, 740 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 1: I think you escalated things by leaving. I'm not saying 741 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: you shouldn't have left. I think that's that's between you guys, 742 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 1: that's your decision. But by leaving, you escalated things. He 743 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 1: didn't want you to do that. He didn't want you 744 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 1: leaving it with desperate about it. So this could be fine. 745 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 1: I'm hoping that since you sent this email, a lot 746 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 1: of good stuff has happened and everything's fine. Now. I'd 747 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 1: like to follow up, anonymous. I would love a follow up. 748 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 1: We'll take a follow up please. I actually think that 749 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 1: I used to do that too, And then, um, that's 750 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,439 Speaker 1: kind of like some of those conversations or what led 751 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 1: to like needing to go to a couple of therapy 752 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,799 Speaker 1: because those types of like if you leave, it's over, 753 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,279 Speaker 1: like you know, I'm leaving. That type of mentality is 754 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 1: very it's out of desperation and fear, but it's so 755 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:13,440 Speaker 1: unhealthy and there's no reason there should be this conversation 756 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 1: as too, as opposed to a conversation of what could 757 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 1: we have done better to not let that escalate to 758 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:26,359 Speaker 1: that point? Yeah? Great, Yeah, maybe it went a little 759 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 1: too deep on that. No, I feel like she said, 760 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 1: she said he's her Red Star, So that's brutal. And 761 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,400 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, the brute the Red Star breakup 762 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,920 Speaker 1: is brutal. You know, it's like what, Yeah, that's not 763 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,240 Speaker 1: supposed to happen, and then you go in a couple's 764 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 1: retreat and you know, really hammer things out and you're good. 765 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 1: I can only think of chilies right now. Come on, 766 00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 1: special menu. I need to off the diarrhea that's happening 767 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 1: in my body, so the good we can stop it 768 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 1: at Chili's Chicken Breath that is known for stopping diarrhea. Um, okay, well, 769 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 1: I hope you have a great weekend. Oh yeah, weekend. Great. 770 00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 1: Happy April Fool's Day. Don't let anybody fool you be on. 771 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:30,760 Speaker 1: Have your wits about you. What so Red Star loves 772 00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,399 Speaker 1: April Fool's Day. He don't give anything away. I'm not. 773 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 1: I don't haven't. I just realized that it's coming up 774 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:36,880 Speaker 1: and I want to do something really good because he's 775 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 1: always like I welcome it. I welcome the April fool 776 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: come get me, you know, and I always do the 777 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 1: stupid things like I surround wrapped his toilet last year 778 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 1: and I was like laughing, So you're like new, you 779 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like new? I can't imagine. So 780 00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 1: I have to think of something really good and get 781 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,479 Speaker 1: it really good this year. If anybody has a really 782 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: good one, please dm me because I need help. I 783 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 1: don't like prank. Yeah, I don't like pranks, but I 784 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: want to do it. Yeah, just like you're not competitive vibes. 785 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: Because he loves April fools Days, I'm like, you know what, 786 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: you like it so much? I want to suck it 787 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 1: to you. He should do what good one to you? 788 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 1: If he loves it. I told him no, I don't 789 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:17,240 Speaker 1: like April fool Day. Mm hmm. Some some people respect 790 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 1: that and some people don't. I hope he respects um. 791 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:25,439 Speaker 1: All right, Well, have a great April fools Day. Don't 792 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 1: get fooled, and know that we are not fooling you 793 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 1: when we say we love you, were don't bring it back. 794 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: Love you guys,