1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Right now it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: you need some advice on relationships, on work, on sex, 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: on dating, on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: Write Steve tell him thank us absolutely correctly. You really 6 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: don't have many options because miss Abbey has paid. Oh 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: you mean, like dear Abbey that used to have the 8 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: column and the Wow, she paid, So it's just a 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: usually get the paper. Yeah all right, Well we could 10 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air like we're 11 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: gonna read this one today. Come on, nephew, buckle up, 12 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,639 Speaker 1: hold on tight, we got it for you. Here it 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: is the straw Berry Letter. Subject he wants me but 14 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: not the children. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a forty 15 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 1: nine year old female married to a forty nine year 16 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: old man. We have five children and five grandchildren. Here 17 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: is the problem my current husband, he says, I have 18 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: five children and five grandchildren. Okay, oh, okay, here is 19 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: the problem. My current husband is not the father of 20 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: my children. I married this man when my children were young, 21 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: so he's been in their lives for a very long time. 22 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: My youngest son just graduated from high school and we'll 23 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,839 Speaker 1: be going away for college. So now my husband thinks 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: that we are done raising children and from now on 25 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 1: it will be just the two of us. He has 26 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: said that that we don't have to worry about the 27 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: kids anymore because they are all grown and have their 28 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: own lives. So am I not supposed to So am 29 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: I not supposed to be involved with my children since 30 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: they are no longer living at home. My children range 31 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: from ages thirty two to eighteen years old, and all 32 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: five of them live in different states. I want to 33 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: see them and my grandkids as often as I can. 34 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: In fact, I'd like to move closer to them. My 35 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: husband does not want anything to do with them period. 36 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want 37 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: them to visit us. He said that they don't need 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: to come for the holidays. What the hell? He really 39 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: thinks that because they are adults, I am supposed to 40 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 1: forget that they exist. I understand that these are our 41 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 1: golden years and we should be enjoying quality time together 42 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: and traveling the world, but our travels should also include 43 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: trips to see my children. If he's really serious, I 44 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: may have to spend my golden years alone. Stephen Shirley, 45 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 1: can you please help me? Well, your letters started off nicely, 46 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: so I'll put it like this. Your husband, I'm sure, 47 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: feels like he's done his job and it's over. These 48 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: were not his kids. He raised them anyway. He's been 49 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,119 Speaker 1: in their lives since they were really young, so he's 50 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: done and not being their biological debt. Like I said, 51 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,519 Speaker 1: the ties are cut. He has no connection really to them. 52 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: It seems he cut them off and his concentration is 53 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: now on you and you guys the future together. He 54 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: wants to live, he wants to live his life, you know, 55 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: and do all of those things. But now I think 56 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: that he's being very unrealistic when he says the children 57 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: he doesn't want the kids to come and see you, 58 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: or he doesn't want you to go see the kids. 59 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 1: How is that? I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic, 60 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: especially if it makes you happy to see your kids. 61 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: You're his wife. He should want to see you happy 62 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: and do those things that make you happy. I mean, 63 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: it's very unrealistic to say that. He really thinks that 64 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: because they're adults, you're supposed to forget that they exist. No, 65 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 1: that's not the issue. And he knows that's not the issue. 66 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: They are grown and they are living their own lives. 67 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: That part is definitely true. But you guys got to 68 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: come to some kind of compromise in terms of when 69 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: you see the kids and when you go see the kids. 70 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: Even if you just go by yourself, you have to 71 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: see your kids. These are your kids, Steve, you're a 72 00:03:53,680 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: parent now he wants me, but not to children. Okay, 73 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: that I can relate to. I don't want mine either, though, God, 74 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: and on any day between the seven of them, you 75 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: can come get folk just like that. But we are parents. 76 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: You're forty nine, Your mand's forty nine. You got five 77 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: children and five grandkids. He's not the father of the kids. 78 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: Your youngest son just graduated high school going away to college. 79 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: So now your husband thinks that we've done raising children 80 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: and from now on there to just be the two 81 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: of us. He had says that we don't have to 82 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: worry about the kids no more because they all grown 83 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 1: and have their own lives. Okay, are you kidding me? 84 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: You really think that's how it goes? Do you know 85 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: that you are a parent for life? You may not 86 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 1: be a husband or a wife for life, but once 87 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 1: you become a parent, you're a parent for life. Now, 88 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: there are some good ones out there and there are 89 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: some bad ones out there. I got it, you, sir, 90 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: are about to turn into a bad one because you 91 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: don't get it. You are in your goal, in you 92 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: and you said that later in the letter. Your kids 93 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: are from thirty two to eighteen. All of them live 94 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: in different states, and you want to see your kids 95 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: and your grandkids. Matter of fact, you want to move 96 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: closer to him. Your husband don't want nothing to do 97 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: with them, period. He doesn't want to visit them, and 98 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: he doesn't want them to visit us. He says, they 99 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: don't need to come for the holiday. That's what the 100 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: lady type don't need to come for the holidays. What 101 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: the hell? What the hell is right? Come home? Man? 102 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: Are you for real? Bro? You're gonna just act like 103 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: you never met these people. He gotta come home. He's 104 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 1: not ready to live on his own. And I got that. 105 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: The kids range from thirty two to eighteen. Man, do 106 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: you know how much advice they need? So how much 107 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: help they need financial support they need? Come home, man, 108 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: that ain't how this work? Man? You crazy? Him? Want 109 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: him to vid. He don't want him to come for 110 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 1: the holiday. What the hell he thinks that, because they 111 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: are adults, I'm supposed to forget the day exist. That's 112 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: the craziest part of them. You gotta be nuts. It 113 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: doesn't work that way. Come on, man, I understand that 114 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:19,119 Speaker 1: these are our golden years. You ain't be forty nine 115 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: hell goldie. But if that's how you want to look 116 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: at it, okay, cool, and that we should be enjoying 117 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: quality time together and traveling the world. Plans should also 118 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: include trips to see my children. If he's really serious, 119 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: I may help spend my golden years a longer. We 120 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: will be back kid, what you say, Steve? All right? 121 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: We will be back at twenty three after with part 122 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: two of Steve's response, too, he wants me but not 123 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: the children? Right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. 124 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: Here we are part two of today's Strawberry Letters. The 125 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: subject he wants me but not the children. Wow. Well, 126 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: the youngest one and graduated. The boy's five kids, none 127 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: of them he is now he going wile they graduated, 128 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: They gone. We threw with him, they out. He's saying, no, 129 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: they have their own lives. They're adults. They should be 130 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: able to make it on their own. I want to 131 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: see my grandkids as offer I can. It's what the 132 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: woman says. In fact, I want to move closer to him. 133 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want anything to do with them, period. 134 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: He don't want to visit them. He don't want them 135 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: to visit us. He said they don't need to come 136 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: for the holiday to him, and ladies said what to him? No, 137 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: we don't come for the holidays. What is Christmas about? Exactly? 138 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: He really thinks that because they're adults, I'm supposed to 139 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: forget they exist. I understand that these are golden years 140 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: and we should be enjoying quality time together and traveling 141 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: the world. But I traveled playing to be called trips 142 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: to see my children. He's really serious. I may have 143 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,119 Speaker 1: spent my golden years along Steve Sheley. Can you please 144 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: help me? He wants to check out. In essence, he 145 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: wants to check out. He wants to say that I've 146 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: done my duty. I raised these kids to the best 147 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: of my ability. I've contributed, and now they're gone. That's it. 148 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: I'm chilling. I wish that was the case. But honey, 149 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: why don't you want to see the kids. I mean, 150 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: did something happen. We've already seen the kids. Well, yeah, 151 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: you've seen them since they were young. I mean, and 152 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: they live their own lives now. I saw all I 153 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: needed to see when they was here. I'm tired. I've 154 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: been working, paying bill, putting kid to college, and covering 155 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: up dream. I bought that Born than Carbon machine, all 156 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: that old and honey we appreciated so much. But these 157 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 1: are my kids. I have to see them on the holidays. 158 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: That's what the holidays of four family holidays. Yes, family 159 00:08:55,280 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, like Thanksgiving like Christmas. We ain't 160 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: going down now. I've already made arrangements for them to 161 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: come here. They here here to the house. I'm you know, 162 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: getting the big Christmas tree and everything. They're just got 163 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: ready to We just got rid of the damn boy. 164 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: And what the hell you're inviting them back for? They 165 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: don't think we won't them. Well, he has to have 166 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: somewhere to go when he's out of school for Christmas 167 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: break school, don't He ain't downed that one of them 168 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: in the National school, but he I want him to 169 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: come home. I missed them. I carried them for nine months. 170 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: This is my blood. See, you raised and the kids 171 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 1: to be none but chumps. That wrong right here. He's 172 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: a great kid. He's in college now, great kidself gold 173 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: make it. You know he ain't gonna get a job. Wow, 174 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: I don't understand. I mean, you were so good with 175 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 1: them when they were young and helping me raise them. 176 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: Now all of a sudden, it's like, who are they are? 177 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:01,599 Speaker 1: I don't know you counting the day? What do you 178 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: mean you were counting the day till they got out 179 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: this house? But you were so good. They call you daddy. 180 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: You're not even there, fling that she never gonna call 181 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 1: me daddy called They can't find that. Well, you know, 182 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you know that I really 183 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: appreciate that you were there for me, there for my kids. 184 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: I know you do, Baby, I appreciate. Now I want 185 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:29,439 Speaker 1: you to be here for me. Well, I am here 186 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: for you, But I'm also all the time all that 187 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: the mom days over with. No, the mom days are 188 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: never over with. They is over They gone. No, they're 189 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: not they no, they're not called you keeping fighting them back, 190 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: leaving more. They girl, these are my kids and this 191 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: is my house too. They're coming home for the holidays. Okay, 192 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: I put my foot down getting hit. We're fighting them 193 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: back over for the holiday. It's just you don't be 194 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: in here. We ain't got no where. We ain't gonna 195 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: be able put a tree up. We're gonna put a 196 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: tree up right over there. But when are you you 197 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: put a tree up over there? And then all these 198 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: people coming to the house, we're gonna be decorated. It's 199 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: just five kids and five grandkids and there's ten people. 200 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: Look at the little room. Well, then maybe we need 201 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: a bigger house because I'm not getting rid of my kids. 202 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: Bigger house. Yes, it's a bigger house. Girl, the girl, 203 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 1: we can finally go out all the people out of here. 204 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 1: In here, we need a bigger house. It's just for 205 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: a few days during the holiday's honey, you don't want 206 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: to sing Christmas carols? Yeah? No, matter of fact, I won't. 207 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: Just how stage saying side so they they're already outgrow it. 208 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: And who's gonna we need a bigger house? Who's gonna 209 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: help me cook? That's what we love doing, that, me 210 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 1: and the girls cooking together, well, preparing Christmas dinner and 211 00:11:54,520 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner. Huh, you ain't helping cool. We're gonna damn Joe, 212 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 1: the woman in that you donna try to slide in 213 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: and you can cook. We're gonna end damn woman in 214 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: the letter can cut even the letter, try to slide in? 215 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: And who's gonna help you cook? That? We've been trying 216 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,599 Speaker 1: to find out, Sit two thousand. I don't know what 217 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: the new Mexican man what his name? His name is? 218 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: Nest to black dude? S are you Steve? Are you 219 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: still the man in the letter? Make up your mind? 220 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm not man in the letter, but what you try 221 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: to slide in with a cooking compliment by yourself? And 222 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna let you do it? The surely you 223 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: can't cook? Who's gonna help me cook? Anybody? I'm speaking 224 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: as the woman in the letter. All Right, we gotta go, 225 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: We gotta get out of here. Email us or instagram 226 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 227 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 1: f Ammer, you can go to my girls. Surely you're 228 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: listening Stave Harday Morning showm