1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: So what if we hit his inhaler from him. It's 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: just a prank brawl, which just happened. It's just a 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: little boy time, you know. I female twenty two, grew 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: up in a family where men prank and tease each 5 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: other and it's frank war. 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 7 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: Ever since my fiance Tim twenty three and I got engaged, 8 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: my cousin brother, dad and uncle joked about running some 9 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: tests to see what tip man Tim is. Is he 10 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: a little boy man child or is he a big 11 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: ruff bear daddy, big bussmann. Yeah. They've done stuff like 12 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: forcing him to play chess four times in a row, 13 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: which honestly doesn't seem. 14 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 3: That bad crueling. 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, that just sounds like you're playing chess together, secretly 16 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: slashing his tires to see fixing himself like a man 17 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: or get help like those lazy guys, which is a 18 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: huge escalation from playing chess. Now, they'd ask him questions 19 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: like what joke he'd tell to his future mother in law, 20 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: his opinions on abortion, Jesus, gender quality, et cetera. They 21 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: also tested his fishing and hunting skill. Is this an 22 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: episode of Survivor? 23 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 3: Literally? Is like Survivor Edition? 24 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? And overwhelmed him with hypothetical scenarios to test his 25 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: decision making abilities slash mental strength. They kept calling him 26 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: slow and soft. But he has a medical condition called pasthma, 27 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: but they think he's just making excuses. Breath broke up. 28 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: This is what you sound like, I demanded they stop, 29 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: but Dad said this is just difficult boy, men's challenge stuff, 30 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: and they did it with each other. In said I 31 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: was ruining the fun. It's not gonna be fun of 32 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: this dude dies. Yeah, not so, not so whimsical that 33 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: that's so fun. Last week they took him on a 34 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: three day trip and it is a hailer. Bro on 35 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: a three day trip, bro. 36 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 3: Hiking allergies is bad. 37 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: He left them and returned in seven hours and told 38 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: me I was seeing after he said. They admitted to 39 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: hiding it as a challenge because like, breathing is overrated. 40 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 3: Only a real man can breathe on his own. 41 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: I like, like, I know you want to be like 42 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: a like into this, like in this family, like if 43 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: I was in love with this girl, Like I just 44 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: want to go along with whatever the family wants. But 45 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: at what point do you draw the line? 46 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,679 Speaker 3: Literally? Just like I don't know if I want to 47 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 3: hang with your family. 48 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: They're trying to kill me, murder me. I exploded on them. 49 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 1: When they returned, cousin asked. 50 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 4: If you kill me? 51 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: Wing cackle, and then I yelled at all four of them, 52 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: and then oh, she draws a bombshell, and she has 53 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: a bombshell. Right now, I'm on inviting them all from 54 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: the wedding. 55 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 3: I mean, that's big, that's been super big. 56 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: That's big. I would say, maybe even too big. But 57 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: then again, they are trying to kill her fiance, so 58 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: tit for tat? Yeah, my brother freaked out, saying bro, 59 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: and they'll give it back. That said, they'll apologize if 60 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: I insist, but Tim will have lost a little respect. 61 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: The men, the boys, they come on and then their eyes. 62 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: You will always be that soft college kid. He's not 63 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 1: up for the challenge, you know, getting getting educated in 64 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: this college. What do you do to get educated in 65 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: the forest? Like a man. 66 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 5: I like how they're like, first we like challenge you 67 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 5: at chess, then we hider and haler on a hike, 68 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 5: like pick a. 69 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: Lane, yeah, yeah, a lane. Let's like pick lanes where 70 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: we're not trying to kill this dude. Yeah, I called 71 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: him and the others awful, and then I left. My 72 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: cousin is begging that we talk. My uncle has been quiet, 73 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: but my dad is so mad now that he's getting 74 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: my mom involved to get me to reconsider this decision, which, honestly, 75 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: OPI I think you might regret not inviting over this. Well, 76 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: who am I to say? I am to say, this 77 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: is my show, Come on, this is we can say 78 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: whatever we want you. But I keep refusing to invite them. 79 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: Mom is saying I'm exaggerating and to let bygones be 80 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: bygones and not let this ruin my relationship with my family. 81 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for uninviting my whole 82 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: family because they try to come my boyfriend? I want 83 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: to know what all y'all think. Does the punishment fit 84 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: the crime? But John take it away? What do you think? 85 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: And while he's talking and put those answers in the comments? 86 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 6: Wow? 87 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 5: So the thing is, I mean they were way out 88 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 5: a live Oh yeah, I mean slashing the tires like 89 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 5: that's a lot. 90 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: Calm down, Slashing the tires is a lot. 91 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 5: At the same time, I mean, I feel like if 92 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 5: I were in this scenario, I would not uninvite for 93 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 5: the wedding, maybe threatened to in order to like, Yo, 94 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 5: this is serious, like this happens one more time. 95 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 3: You're out of the wedding. You have to know how 96 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 3: Like this is the person I'm going to marry. 97 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is affecting his life. So I wanted to 98 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: be alive my children. 99 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 5: I think all of the guys, the boys, the a 100 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 5: holes and then a sweet sweet Timmy and Opa, I 101 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 5: think you're a whole free. 102 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, tim Timmy is honestly a little little angel for 103 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: brooding up with all that really is all right? Mother 104 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: in law tries to forcefully breastfeed my child, so I 105 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: call the police. 106 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 4: Whoa, oh my, whoa. Okay, we can't prepared, y'all. 107 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: This is okay, special baby. 108 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 7: That title is quite titillating. 109 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, it starts off even stronger. I am 110 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: a widower. I lost my wife and thirty four just 111 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: minutes after she gave birth to our first baby, Sammy. Okay, 112 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 1: all right, yikes, okay, it's just so bad, so quick. Yeah, okay, 113 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 1: I feel bad. 114 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 7: She imagine how bad he feels his wife's dead. Jesus, 115 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 7: you know what I mean? 116 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 4: You are right, He's gotta feel pretty rough. Can't be easy. 117 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, Like I remember with my first like Gerbil died, 118 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: Like it's. 119 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 3: It was hard, man, it's hard hard. 120 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 5: She's looking at his little like sack with the little 121 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 5: shavings in it. 122 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 3: She's just like, man, my journal's gone right now. God. 123 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: She had a difficult pregnancy, so I took and indefinitely 124 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: three months before she was due. Now she's dead and 125 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: Sammy's four months old before I went back to work. 126 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: So I told my mother in law, Sandra fifty six, 127 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: about my plans and if she could recommend to nanny 128 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: to take care of my daughter when I'm at work. 129 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: She'd offered to do it nanny for free, which sounds 130 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: like a great setup with the mother in law. 131 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:53,799 Speaker 7: Yeah, a great deal, wonderful. 132 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: I told her she's free to come by any time 133 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,679 Speaker 1: of the day if she feels uncomfortable with a nanny 134 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 1: looking after if she feels uncomfortable with the nanny looking 135 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: after Sammy. But she insisted doing it all herself because 136 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: she wants to be a good mother in lawn Stone. 137 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I'm sure it's fine as long as she 138 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 7: doesn't do anything weird. 139 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: Which I mean, how could that happen? 140 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 7: What a wonderful end of this story. It was such 141 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 7: a yeah, brother. 142 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: In law helps a widower, so I said yes and 143 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: gave her a copy of the house keys. She comes 144 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: thirty minutes before I leave her work, and when I 145 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: come home, she stays for dinner and leaves after putting 146 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: Sammy to sleep. This ideal scenario. Everything was fine for 147 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: the first couple of weeks until I noticed that Sammy's 148 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: not feeding as much. Her formula has barely been touched. 149 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: I asked Sandra about it and why Sammy's not feeding. Well, 150 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: she said, well, it's because I'm trying to breastfeed your daughter. 151 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: First I thought she was joking, Then I realized she wasn't. 152 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: She said, Sammy needs to learn to latch a few 153 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: minutes every day to activate her milk production. I almost 154 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: lost it. Her milk production, her milk production. The the 155 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: mother in law bro milk production true fifty Does it 156 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: activate your milk production if you have a little nipple 157 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: every day? 158 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 6: It can? Well, there there are definitely situations where women 159 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 6: have like a psychosomatic response if there's a situation that 160 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 6: comes up that they their bodies will develop breast milk. 161 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 6: But like that's so weird. 162 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 4: That's weird. 163 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 7: I think men can too on rare occasions. Yeah, yeah, 164 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 7: just if some some men can develop breast milk gift. 165 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 4: I get where she's coming from. Okay, there's a formula 166 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 4: shortage going on right now. She's she has a good heart, Okay, yeah, 167 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 4: trying to save some money for your breastfeed her granddaughter. 168 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: That sentence also at fifty six, Like, isn't that like 169 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: old to be producing breast milk? Like, good on her 170 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: if she can produce milk in fifty six. 171 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I wonder. I wonder what it has 172 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 6: to do with like menopause and hormone production and how 173 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 6: all that plays into it. 174 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 7: She's definitely strange, considering there's a perfectly fine alternative. 175 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: In formula correct. 176 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 7: If there wasn't an alternative, it may be a little 177 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 7: bit less. 178 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: She's like, no, I need your baby to starve while 179 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: I figure out if she can make me lac date. Uh. 180 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 1: At first I thought she was joking, Then I realized 181 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: she wasn't. She said, Sammy needs to latch for a 182 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: few minutes every day to activate her milk production. I 183 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: almost lost it. I told her she cannot do that, 184 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: and she needs to stop right now. She said she will, 185 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: but then a couple of days later, I caught her 186 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: in the act. As I walked to my house, I 187 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: locked in my idea and she and I saw her 188 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: forcing Sammy to watch I also love it's like the 189 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: double whammy of like seeing your mother in law's tits. 190 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 4: And yeah, there's a lot going on here. 191 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 7: It is sort of like, you know, getting to see 192 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 7: what your wife maybe would have looked like. 193 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 6: You know, I was trying to make that joke, was 194 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:26,719 Speaker 6: trying to formulate that joke. 195 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 7: I Seca's beauty and you, Diane, I really and this 196 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 7: has got to stop. 197 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: Then, So I don't know, I was thinking you were 198 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: gonna say, like, it's like and then the music show 199 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: Wow Wow, go to another room, eat some hummus. 200 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 5: What about what's the diet version of hummus? 201 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 3: Uh baby boom. 202 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: Uh So yeah, taught her again. I confronted her and 203 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: told her she's no longer my baby's nanny. I didn't 204 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: ask for the keyback, as she is still welcome to 205 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 1: come and visit any time, which is pretty fair. 206 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 3: What do y'all think. 207 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 4: That's pretty reasonable of him? 208 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't think that I would have allowed her 209 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 6: to be around anymore. 210 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 7: I mean it kind of sounds like she's still just 211 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 7: gonna be the nanny. 212 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, if she's allowed to come over whenever. 213 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm assuming it's more of like you can come over, 214 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 4: But I also have to be any kind of deal if. 215 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,719 Speaker 6: I give her the keys or like a nanny being 216 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 6: there to supervise. 217 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's gonna caust him an arm and a leg 218 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 4: to find another wetners though, if I'm being in this economy, 219 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 4: let's talk to them. 220 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 3: Yes, formula. 221 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: I asked for one week of leave from work to 222 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: care for my daughter and finding nanny. I found one, 223 00:11:56,800 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 1: but two days later she never returned. I called her 224 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: and she said my mother fired her the day before. 225 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: I asked her to describe the woman, and I was 226 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 1: livid when I realized it was Sondra. She came and 227 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 1: my house using her key and fired my nanny. I'm 228 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: just imagining maybe the nanny's now breastfeeding the kid. 229 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 5: You're doing it all wrong, sucking on every teeth this 230 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 5: way to Missouri. 231 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: I was about to call her when she showed up 232 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: and said showed up and said a convoluted story about 233 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: how I how I hired an incompetent nanny, etcetera, etcetera. 234 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: I told her to leave, but she refused and told 235 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: me that she's calling Child Protective Services because I am 236 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: endangering my child. My milk or no milk. 237 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 6: I would love to hear that phone, the audacity. 238 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: He won't let me breastfeed the baby. Are you the mother? 239 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 8: Well, she's dead. I killed her. It was an elaborate ruse. 240 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 8: I wanted to have another kid. Did we just go 241 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 8: to true crime podcast? 242 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 3: I think so. We just made the crossover. 243 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: We've always wanted to make that crossover. I told her 244 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: to leave, that she refused. We argue back and forth 245 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: before I call the police, and then she was charged 246 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: with trespassing. Okay, I know my mother in law is 247 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: grieving the loss of her daughter. I am too, but 248 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: she crossed the line when she disregarded my wishes. She's 249 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: very upset with me. My sister in law and brother 250 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: in law are calling me ruthless, and I'm now second 251 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: guessing myself. Have I taken it too far by calling 252 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: the police? Am I the a hole? 253 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 6: No? No, that you didn't take it too far and 254 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 6: absolutely insane? 255 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, so nuts, brother and sister definitely don't know the 256 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 4: full story. There's no way. They're like, you're an asshole 257 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 4: for not letting our mom breast feed your child. 258 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 7: That's fifty percent, you know, of the same breast milk, 259 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 7: right like genetically genetically that's like one generation. Now that's 260 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 7: fifty percent. Like that's the mom's breast milk. Halfway. You 261 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 7: should let my mom feed your daughter? 262 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 3: What women unrelated? But I think I think the mathane mathin. 263 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: I think what could happen is if it was like 264 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: half formula half breast milk. I think that's the compromise 265 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: we make here. 266 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes sense that one's passable. 267 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just don't. 268 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 6: It's the whole thing is so uncomfortable. 269 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 4: It is because of the ratio. Do you think fifty 270 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 4: to fifties multi much stiff? 271 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 6: No, okay, the whole situation is not cool. 272 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 7: Maybe jorin like a breast milk co op, you know 273 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 7: what I mean. 274 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 6: That's the thing like you can put out. 275 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 7: There trying to make a joke. 276 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 6: No, you can. Absolutely, there's there's definitely markets for like 277 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 6: breast milk donation or you can buy breast milk. 278 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 2: Hospitals will have like a breast milk bank is it 279 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: called breast milk? No for us, Oh well maybe it 280 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: should be. You know what, you judging the venture on 281 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 2: the Horizon. 282 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 6: Moon, thank you. 283 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a wild one. That's a wild one. 284 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: So no to being the a hole.