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Speaker 1: open marriage. Can I get him back? An SI? The

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Speaker 1: parents who's gone? Maybe they want to include your fiance.

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Speaker 1: And this goes into the idea of should you tell

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Speaker 1: a good idea? Is it a bad idea. We're going

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Speaker 1: to be answering these questions with these next stories. So

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Speaker 1: this comes from a throwaway account and they say we've

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Speaker 1: been together for six years. We've known each other for

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Speaker 1: another three years before that, so nine years total, coming

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Speaker 1: up on a decade of a relationship. Right now, that's

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Speaker 1: a long relationship. We're getting married in February, or we were, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know anymore. We've been visiting my parents to

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Speaker 1: meet some more of my extended family so they get

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Speaker 1: to know him before the wedding. My parents offered to

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Speaker 1: host us, and we've been staying in my old room.

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Speaker 1: I'm female twenty nine and he's male thirty two. We

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Speaker 1: to sleep in my old room. Yeah, you're trying to

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Speaker 1: christen your bed with your fiance do you mean it?

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Speaker 1: Says the people.

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Speaker 2: The people say that John's mic is on.

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Speaker 1: We listened. Did you listen to.

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Speaker 2: The You did? And you were working before?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: People, Hello, I can't Sofia is getting used to producing

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Speaker 1: because Riley is not here right now? He yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Riley rest in peace. It is very funny. We can

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Speaker 1: hear John. John's not working. Can't hear John. We can't

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Speaker 1: hear John. We can't hear John. Sophia has John's mic.

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Speaker 1: Sophia is crawling on the floor. If you can hear

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Speaker 1: me right now? She is checking if it's gig, if

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Speaker 1: it's in. She's doing such a good job. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: can you guys hear me? If you can hear me

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Speaker 1: right now? Then it is I Can I hear him now?

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Speaker 1: I can hear now. It's a very intimate. Yeah, can

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Speaker 1: you hear him? No, John, right now, don't streuss. You've

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Speaker 1: got this, Sofia, No sound John. He's cutting in and out,

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Speaker 1: cutting in, Yeah, Sofia, it is John's fault. Can you

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Speaker 1: hear me now? Can you hear him?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Okay, guys, can you hear me?

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Speaker 1: You can hear him? Confirm? Please?

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Speaker 5: Multiple people confirming chat with me. Very quiet, Jacquelin is

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Speaker 5: very quiet?

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Speaker 1: How about now I can hear him as Mr John,

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Speaker 1: we can hear you when you're up close or yelling.

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Speaker 1: It's very low, so it might be a issue with

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Speaker 1: low now with a too low? Now very soft? Can

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Speaker 1: you hear him? You hear him? Okay, Sophia, can you

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Speaker 1: hear him in the headphones that you were wearing? Just low?

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Speaker 1: So let's fix that volume? All right?

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Speaker 5: So now can you guys hear me at a good volume?

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Speaker 5: Now we're gonna wait, we're gonna see a little bit

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Speaker 1: It's why turn it up. Yeah, can you can hear

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Speaker 1: but Sophia, you can hear him, You can hear him? Fine,

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Speaker 1: you can hear me? Fine? Yes, okay, everyone can hear everyone? Fine,

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Speaker 1: you can hear him. Now should we restart? Yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: yeah take it from the top. Oh yeah, yeah, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: it's getting better. We are there. Yes, all right, we

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Speaker 1: got it, We got it. Hello, w's of the chat

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Speaker 1: for Prodia producer Sophia.

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Speaker 2: It was working before we started.

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Speaker 5: I I came in and I sabotaged the mic and

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Speaker 1: think there's one thing we can know as we can

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Speaker 2: He actually gonna blame Sam.

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Speaker 1: You could do that too. I guess both of these

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Speaker 1: a box. Yeah, like that job Clinton? Clinton got it?

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Speaker 1: Big Clinton in the house. Clint's in the house again. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Now, oh yeah, it was Clinton only on the members only?

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Speaker 1: Do you guys know about Clinton? Thursday? Public Life, Public Live?

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Speaker 1: They know about everybodies everybody seen. All right, I'm going

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Speaker 1: So my fiance broke up with me because of my parents'

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe they want him as a third in their marriage.

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Speaker 1: This first story comes from a throwaway account and they say,

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Speaker 1: We're getting married in February, or we were, I don't

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Speaker 1: Is that like a thing, like a like a like

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Speaker 1: an old room, fetish childhood room? Oh sh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I could totally see that being a thing.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. I don't know, I could see it

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Speaker 1: for done so early.

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Speaker 1: it was all fine, which questioned to the chat. Do

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Speaker 5: Have to because if they find out, they'll be like, honestly.

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Speaker 5: And also, OPI clearly does not like this As an

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Speaker 1: But we also love something else, the Bobby. Yeah, oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: Sorry, exactly exactly what we just said.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, any people try to see what their marriage,

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Speaker 1: you're welcome. Just just show them this video. Help fix it.

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Speaker 5: It's like the entryway in like a house.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, yes, what everyone knows about four

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I just imagine someone dance battling step

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Speaker 6: Didn't you tell me your your parents were in an

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Speaker 6: Why does he need to know that they're in an

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Speaker 2: Why why is it? He's why is he?

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Speaker 1: Well, he told me that he can't trust me anymore,

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Speaker 6: Watching I feel like he thinks that he's going to

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Speaker 1: My fiance has been cheated on before his parents have divorce.

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Speaker 1: Because his mom cheated on his dad and he doesn't

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Speaker 5: Get over it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Like, yes, someone

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Speaker 5: cheated on you. But just because you go to your

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Speaker 1: Nothing. A picture is worth a thousand words.

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Speaker 2: Also, what would the conversation have been, like, Babe, I

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Speaker 1: Babe, you know what you just saw THEO We're about

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Speaker 1: to do it right now, Greg, come in here. So

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Speaker 2: Think that her parents were gonna bake out in the foyer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that's something that comes up your parents.

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Speaker 5: I think it's something that just comes up naturally in

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Speaker 1: So there's no way this is relevant. There's absolutely no.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, So I just watched Planet of the Apes

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Speaker 2: And he doesn't even tell her. He just like brings

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Speaker 1: That is true. That is so true that to be

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Speaker 1: extremely relevant, super completed thoughts. I know that, Hey, that

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Speaker 5: But could be reality.

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Speaker 1: It could be less relevant. It could be less that's true,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it was no less relevant than cattle ranchers.

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Speaker 5: I literally watched it last night to get ready to

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Speaker 2: I agree that it's relevant.

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Speaker 1: No, not at all. I was defending it. I think

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Speaker 1: Let's get back. Also, the whole house has NERF guns

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Speaker 1: We'll we're gonna go back to this story. So I

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Speaker 1: And what got you into this mess? Stop hiding ship

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 1: Keep going, keep going someone, I'll just rephrase it. But

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Speaker 1: their partners?

437
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Speaker 5: I don't know, it's hard to I think it's hard

438
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Speaker 5: to say if it's on them. I think it's like.

439
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm kind of think like I do,

440
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 1: I feel it doesn't it's not really.

441
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 5: It doesn't have any relevant, any necessary, necessarily, any real

442
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 5: The shocking thing is that that moment when she was

443
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 5: sixteen walking on ops a woman. Yeah yeah, walking in

444
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 5: on her dad didn't come up in conversation in the nineties. Yeah,

445
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 5: that's that's the surprising thing to me.

446
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe I think that's true. And also tldr

447
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: O piece fiance is upset by Opie's parents unconventional marriage.

448
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: They have an open relationship. Yes, yeah, I I am.

449
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: I am unsure. I mean, it could just be so

450
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: traumatic that they just never brought it up. It's like, like,

451
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this is the same thing, but the

452
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: guy that comes back from Afghanistan to talk about like

453
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 1: the war, you know, like maybe this is her Afghanistan.

454
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 1: She just doesn't like to talk about it. Yeah. Yeah,

455
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: that was a terrible an. I'll take it. I'll take

456
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 1: it all right. Pixelated Nuts says honestly, Oh yeah, I'll

457
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: pixelate them. Honestly, you and your family couldn't have handled

458
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,439
Speaker 1: this worse. This is something you bring up before he

459
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: meets them, especially with his issues. I mean, he is

460
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: your fiance. When were you planning on telling him he

461
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: is thinking the apple didn't fall far from the tree here,

462
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 1: and it is hard to fault him given your insistence

463
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: on staying there, your mom's behavior, and not giving a

464
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: heads up beforehand. You gotta let him know, with no

465
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: effing hedging or omissions, that you one hundred percent do

466
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: not want a lifestyle like this. Be direct, be honest,

467
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 1: and be prepared for him to resent the crap out

468
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,959
Speaker 1: of you out of your parents for a while. I

469
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,360
Speaker 1: hope he responds thanks to be honest. He doesn't talk

470
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: about his family either either. I learned about his parents

471
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: divorce from his sister, who is more comfortable talking about it.

472
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: It also never came into discussion. There was never a

473
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 1: proper time to tell him, and my parents f around.

474
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: I guess before we came to visit here, sure, but

475
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: I was thinking my parents would be on their better

476
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: behavior while being here. I guess my mom other ideas.

477
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: Did that change your mind at all?

478
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 5: I think I think everyone is roasting ope on barely

479
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 5: in the sense that like, yes, I think it should

480
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 5: have come up, not because of she should have told him,

481
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 5: but because of just like the way that conversations naturally

482
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 5: happen over nine years of a relationship, but that it's

483
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:30,719
Speaker 5: not like Opie's like faults or like that that that

484
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 5: the parents open. The parents open relationship or relationship in

485
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 5: general should have no impact on their relationship.

486
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, how they structure it.

487
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think, why is he being so judgmental?

488
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like, I don't That's what I'm not getting

489
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: because it cares. It's the same situation on his side

490
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: where he hasn't really talked about that his parents divorce

491
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: at all. She found out about it from his sister,

492
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 1: and so he hasn't talked about this traumatic thing that

493
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: came up where he found out one of his parents

494
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: were cheating on them. And it's like she could literally

495
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: say the exact same thing to him. Yes, And so

496
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: what this I feel like reveals is they're kind of

497
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: coming at their relationship from the same perspective, where it's

498
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: like they're both navigating in the same way where they're

499
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: not really talking about their childhood trauma, which kind of

500
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: whack after nine years you gotta I feel like you

501
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 1: got to talk about a little bit of childhood trauma

502
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: when you're nine years in.

503
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's good too, It's I just I generally think

504
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 5: it's a good thing to talk about. Like first, I

505
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 5: think with like a therapist, and I imagine it will

506
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 5: come up in conversation, both casually if it's not that

507
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 5: traumatic in different areas, and then more broadly after like

508
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 5: you know, working through it and thinking about it in

509
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 5: that nature.

510
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

511
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 5: Again, I think like in a nine year relationship, I

512
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 5: feel like a lot of stuff will come.

513
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: Up and it's and I think this shows that maybe

514
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,479
Speaker 1: they're just not as open with each other as they

515
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: should be. Maybe not, but conclusion on just the like

516
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: or like circling the fiance's reaction is terrible, and I

517
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: think he's there he is so dumb. It is so dumb.

518
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: He is so dumb. Yeah. Jac says he's being judgmental

519
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: because his parents ended via cheating. Tracy, I said, they

520
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: aren't cheating when they have an open relationship, and in

521
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: nine years, she never gave him a reason to think

522
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: she wanted an open relationship. Literally, he like, how are

523
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: you this stupid? Yeah, like you are.

524
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 5: She is explicitly telling you I do not want this relationship.

525
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 5: There's zero indicators outside of the fact that her parents

526
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 5: happened to have an open relationship. Yeah, and you are

527
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 5: only convinced and won't listen to any of her once

528
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 5: again communication like there was there was no communication leaning up.

529
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 5: Now she's actually communicating and you won't accept.

530
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: It for why And maybe this is the thing that

531
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: makes it come up, you know, like this, this is

532
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: what has to happen. I don't know. I think he's overreacting, Sophia.

533
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: There's a global variables thing on our obs. Can you

534
00:29:59,720 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: move that?

535
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 5: We'd probably need to bend. We need to get the

536
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 5: other monitor.

537
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: Down, way down down down to the side other side.

538
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: There you go get keeping keep going, keep going, keep going,

539
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: keep going. But you're keep going, Okay, go up all right,

540
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: keep going up? All right? Click and then drag over

541
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: to you got it?

542
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 5: There we go, So we get the other monitor for you.

543
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: So that's easier. I have the other monitor. That's what

544
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: we can't like connect We should just put it on

545
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: the ground. We can't know, but we just we can't

546
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: connect it. We don't have any ports left. Yeah. Also,

547
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm just looking at.

548
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 5: Moving your feet and kicking a hanging search outlet outlet

549
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 5: extended outlet that is dangling by all the cords.

550
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 3: Plugin.

551
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: Funny that you're.

552
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 2: Just noticing it because it's been like that.

553
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: For okay anyway, Yeah, you think.

554
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 6: Kevin last time pointed out ours and we're like, wow,

555
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 6: it's pretty janky.

556
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: It is pretty jaky. We're we are remodeling the studio.

557
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: Uh you can see yeah, yeah, we got wood in here.

558
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: John's on a couch. You look at the couch showing

559
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: the couch. Yeah, there you go.

560
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 2: No tiny cactuses need subductive. You don't understand.

561
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:41,719
Speaker 1: There's a large lot. There's so much you know what

562
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: you know.

563
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 5: I'll take a picture of it and put.

564
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: It into the discord. I put it in the discord.

565
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: I'll put it on join the discord. Go uh yeah,

566
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: in the description it should be there anyway. All right,

567
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: let's go back into some relevant comments. So Op explains

568
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: her childhood and thoughts on parents. This is coming from

569
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: a down voted common term. They say. Anyone who would

570
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: shame you for a something you're not responsible for and

571
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: b isn't anything wrong needs to grow up and accept

572
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: there are differences in how people live their lives. What

573
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: if you had to what if you two had a

574
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: child who ended up being in an LGBT or in

575
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: a poly relationship, would he freak out and kick them

576
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: out too? You're better off without a judgmental a hole

577
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: like this in your life, which I think there's some

578
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: truth to that, where it's like, if he's freaking out

579
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: about a irrelevant relationship in his own life, what will

580
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: he do when it's with your kids?

581
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 5: He's an idiot and an annoyingly infuriating idiot.

582
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: I feel like he's not like I feel like these

583
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: comments are not giving him enough like attention, a negative attention.

584
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 5: Yes, they're just dunking on op when it's like, what

585
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 5: about the idiot fiance?

586
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, the idiot pay dumb They always get weasel out,

587
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: They always weasel out. Yeah yeah, Holly says, I like

588
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: this downvoted comment, ter me too, Reddit, No mean, I

589
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: don't get it any Opie responds, with the risk of

590
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: having the mods punish me, I have to say it.

591
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:13,479
Speaker 1: Your comment is incredibly condescending and dumb and full of assumptions. Dude,

592
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: Come on, come on, they're trying to help you, dude.

593
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: Jesus man. All right, my parents have spent more weekends

594
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: with their children than they My parents have spent more

595
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 1: weekends with their partners than they did with their children.

596
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: We have always offloaded to it. We were always offloaded

597
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: to an aunt or to our grandparents Friday night, no

598
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: exceptions except birthdays and special occasions like that. Only when

599
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: I got older and learned about their lifestyle have I

600
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: understood what they were doing. Wait, so you're saying you

601
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: just had a babysitter on Friday nights and that's a

602
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: bad thing.

603
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 5: Well, opis saying every weekend instead of spending time with

604
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 5: their parents, their parents were like out there getting it

605
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 5: and would just like pass them more weekend.

606
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: So Friday night offloaded. Okay, So like the whole weekend.

607
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 5: Instead of like movie night with the fam and we're

608
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 5: watching you know that car, Mom is freaking getting stuffed

609
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 5: and Dad is just playing at that Yep, exactly.

610
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: My shame is not how they live their lives. My

611
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 1: shame is how they treated me. How they prioritized their

612
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: own pleasure, and they had a lot of it over

613
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: the sake of live and my brothers and my sisters.

614
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 1: I don't have to accept their lifestyle because in doing so,

615
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 1: I validate their behavior. I validate every minute we were

616
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: robbed of happy family life. Every hour, every sweaty minute

617
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 1: turned to hour. Don't come and try to shame me.

618
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: Try pointing fingers at me and play the homophobic card

619
00:34:52,480 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: with me? Oh wait, where do they go? I heard

620
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: my parents fighting one time and my mother yelling they

621
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: shouldn't have had three effing children. You see, having three

622
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: children was a complication to how much time they had

623
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: for themselves, how long they could send and spend with

624
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: other people. Don't come and try to shame me, try

625
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: pointing figures at me and play the homophom at card

626
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 1: with me, Like they weren't. They feel like they weren't.

627
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 5: Can I this and maybe maybe I'm dumb and I'm

628
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 5: here to be educated and corrected. Where was the homophobic part?

629
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 5: I get that they were like, it's my poly relationship bot, So.

630
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: I mean I saw this a little bit too. They

631
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: were kind of like, uh.

632
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 5: That, like the fiance is like against poly relationships, and.

633
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: They were maybe like equating an LGBT relationship with a

634
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: poly relationship. Right.

635
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 6: It was like what if what if you had kids

636
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 6: who were like queer or if you had kids who

637
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 6: were in a poly relationship.

638
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 2: What would he do? How would he react?

639
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Right?

640
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,240
Speaker 2: And so Opie's like, don't come and play the whole.

641
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm my parents banging other people.

642
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 7: I walked in on my parents at sixteen, I'm most

643
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 7: support I watched for hours.

644
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 2: I was involved in the trenches.

645
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 1: Wait, I didn't mean.

646
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 6: They were the blood sweating cause I didn't mean they

647
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 6: were involved.

648
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: But that's what you said. Yeah, and you deserve it,

649
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to do it. No, do it?

650
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: Do it? Shooter somehow shot myself? Nice? Really anyway? Uh?

651
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: Coming back to it keeps it keeps giving around. So

652
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: all right, where was I? I was? I was at?

653
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 2: How is that reflective?

654
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 1: Wait? Wait, wait, don't come and try to shame me,

655
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: trying to point figures at me and play the hole

656
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: aportement card at me? How is this reflective of my

657
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: parents skills? I don't know, and I think you're projecting

658
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: your own insecurities over my experiences. If that makes you

659
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: feel better, power to you. But I'm not falling victim

660
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 1: to this game and from my parents prioritize their own

661
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 1: pleasure for the sake of the children. To your homophobic

662
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: is such a long jump. You must have superpowers to

663
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: be able to perfectly execute it. So yeah, I'm ashamed

664
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: of my parents and I do not approve their lifestyle.

665
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,919
Speaker 1: Had they been better parents, had they cared more about

666
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: their children than their pleasures. Sure, maybe we'd have a

667
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: different conversation as we stand, No, we cannot.

668
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 5: Everyone needs to take a breath and calm down in

669
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 5: this story.

670
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like my god, low key, that last comment felt

671
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: like the most, like Opie, I got your back comment

672
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: of any of the comments, and Opia is like.

673
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 5: This.

674
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: You know this really relates to a part.

675
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 4: In the.

676
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: Great movie Wait, raise it anyway, so we do have

677
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: some relevant comments. But Peggy to Sayer says, yeah, OPI

678
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: has lost her mind. Tay ninety nine says they need

679
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 1: group therapy. Dumpster Fire says like the stream, let's get

680
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: that wheel. Yeah, let's get that wheel.

681
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: Well so far, I'm super close.

682
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: Kimberly fine, Wait on, Opie's response is just a variation

683
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: of the fiance's reaction. Their reality is being challenged, and

684
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: it triggered a fight or flight, got a double and

685
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: tripled down when your reality is argued against. Yeah, yeah,

686
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: Anya says op sounds triggered. I feel like, like like

687
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: really quick to read that comment again. We just read

688
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: Op's response. Read the comment that inspired that anyone who

689
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: would shame you for something A you're not responsible for

690
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 1: and B isn't anything wrong. Needs to grow up and

691
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: accept there are differences in how people live their lives.

692
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: Like that is how the comment that comment started that

693
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: Opie responded to. It's basically like, Hey, I'm on your side.

694
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm on your side, and I think what op is

695
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 1: getting triggered on is grow up and accept there are

696
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: differences in how people live their lives. Op Is like,

697
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: how dare you say that?

698
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, but yeah, everyone just sees it because grow up

699
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 5: and respect how other people live their lives. It is

700
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 5: to me pretty blatantly obvious and reasonable to assume that

701
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 5: Ops just like I just like don't like how my

702
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 5: childhood turned out. It's more of the effect than the cause.

703
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 5: It's the effect of them like leaving and not spending

704
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 5: time with her than it.

705
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: Was the actual open relationship exactly, exactly like if if

706
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: they went to golf, you know every Friday, would hate golf,

707
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, it just it just so happens that it's

708
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: it's just different holes that they're sinking into. Oh, so

709
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 1: we got an update in the comments. So I've already

710
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: talked to him and I'm staying in the hotel room

711
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: with him tonight since it's already paid for and it

712
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: will be fun. Tomorrow we will move to my grandma's

713
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: house until the end of the week. But Grandma and

714
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: Grandpa have a special friend that comes over. It runs

715
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: in the family. No, we came to meet the extended

716
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: family and that's what we'll do. My parents have finally

717
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 1: found it within themselves to apologize, but it no longer

718
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: matters for what it's worth. I didn't blame the situation

719
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 1: on my parents when we met earlier. Aside from what

720
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: my parents do in their spare time, I never had

721
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: a secret from him. He knows I know about his mom,

722
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: and I told him that if he ever wants to

723
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 1: talk about her, I am here to listen, and I

724
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 1: understand why he avoids talking about her. He also apologized

725
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: for his outburst and reaction, but he was honest and

726
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: told me he doesn't think he will be that close

727
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: to my parents in general, and I am fine with that,

728
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: which I guess is pretty good. It seems like we're

729
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: where people are settling down. Yes, yes, we're calming down.

730
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: We're taking the deep breath. Since I don't have that

731
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: closest relationship with him anyway, I have told him how

732
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: much he hurt me by saying he needs to revaluate

733
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: our engagement, and he acknowledged he acknowledges he wasn't thinking

734
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: when he spoke those words. And also he said he

735
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: regrets them so much. He was afraid he damaged our relationship.

736
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: He didn't damage it. But I told him, if he

737
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 1: could predict the future, flowers is what I'd see. Haha.

738
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 1: So that it's pretty much. There is another final update

739
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 1: in some relevant comments so op on why she never

740
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: shared the info of her parents' lifestyle to her fiance.

741
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: He's met my parents several times. We are here to

742
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: meet my extended family, aunts, uncles, cousins, stuff like that

743
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: we live in a different state. He's met some of them,

744
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: but not all, and we wanted them to have an

745
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: idea who my fiance is. Not to see him for

746
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: the first time at the wedding. That's crazy to like

747
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,959
Speaker 1: see your fiance for the first time at the wedding,

748
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 1: But I guess it happens if you're like living far away. Yeah.

749
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 5: But oh, because they weren't wait wait, wait, were they

750
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 5: in a remote relationship this whole time?

751
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: Like they were together in a different state, away from

752
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: the parents, So they haven't really met the fiance. They're

753
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 1: like the extended family, right, Yes, yeah, he's met some

754
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: of them, but not all know. We've known each other

755
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: for nine years. The first three were more like acquaintances,

756
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: friends of friends type thing, and we would meet when

757
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: everyone had a group meeting or a party or a birthday.

758
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: Then six years ago, we had a fight at a

759
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: friends we are, uh, we are getting married announcement party,

760
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: and we were really passionate and stubborn and neither of

761
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: us would give an inch and a friend told us

762
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: to kiss and make up already, and we did and

763
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: here we are. Oh, so their relationship is built off conflict.

764
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: This is just their this this is their their open relationship.

765
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: It's dishing out public fighting to all of Reddit that

766
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: like that is there, Like that's their toxic trait or so,

767
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: like I think when I'm hearing they met because they

768
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: had a fight together and then the friends said you

769
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: should kiss and make up, and then they kissed. Now

770
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 1: they're like in a relationship. So basically it seems like

771
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 1: their relationship is built off very stubborn fighting and then

772
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: hot passion sex right after interesting, and so I think

773
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:07,919
Speaker 1: potentially this is this is their thing.

774
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 5: This is back to your golf analogy. Par for the course.

775
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: This is for the course, this is how it goes. Yeah,

776
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: I think I think putting it all on Reddit and

777
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: showing this fight on Reddit is actually their kink. Yeah,

778
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: Crow Queen says, that's their kink. I think that's I

779
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 1: think that's true. I think that's their kink. I think

780
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: we saw the case.

781
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 5: A relationship built on arguing sounds like hell.

782
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: Hey, you know what works for some people? Yes, maybe

783
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: it works for them. So and we were really passionate, stubborn,

784
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: and neither us did here we are, but the entire

785
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: time we lived in our own state, where his family is,

786
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: while my parents and the rest of my family are

787
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: in the state we are currently visiting. I'm being vague

788
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: on purpose. I never planned to let him know about

789
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: my parents unless it became a conversation item. It has

790
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: never become something I to share or felt they need

791
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: to do, so I don't feel like thinking about it.

792
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: And there is a final comment rem op thank you.

793
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: I'm still reading through the comments because this thread has

794
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: become way bigger than I expected. My parents did quote

795
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: unquote apologize, but they justified themselves by saying it was

796
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: a planned night, which I find ridiculous as they have

797
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: invited us to stay with them over a month ago.

798
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,919
Speaker 1: How far along into the future do you plan your

799
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: fun nights. I refuse to think they planned their little

800
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: indiscretion since more than a month ago. Bottom line is.

801
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: Bottom line is they knew we would be there, They

802
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: invited us, and they didn't care. The idea of not

803
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 1: inviting them to the wedding started floating through my mind

804
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,720
Speaker 1: yesterday well reading the thread, but I am not sure

805
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: what I will end up doing. They are my parents,

806
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: they are my responsibility. My fiance got to see them

807
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: for who they are and how they are for himself.

808
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 1: He now knows why don't really talk about them. Aside

809
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 1: from our little bump in the relationship the other night,

810
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: we should be fine. We actually ordered two books from

811
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,919
Speaker 1: Amazon as a recommendation of other editors with all kid

812
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: relationship tests and lessons. We will maybe even go to

813
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: therapy as a couple. This is not set in stone.

814
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 1: We'll see. Thank you for the kind words. So this

815
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: returns us to our question, should you tell your kids

816
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 1: about the details of your relationship?

817
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 5: I think yes and passed down. So it's like the

818
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 5: parents should have told OP in age appropriate age appropriate

819
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 5: ways at the different stages of childhood. And then I get,

820
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 5: I get, I guess it's not Op's duty. But like

821
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,959
Speaker 5: then then maybe OP would have been like less traumatized

822
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 5: about it, and it would have been a little bit

823
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 5: more and also the parents should have been way more

824
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 5: regulated and like careful, I guess, for lack of a

825
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 5: better word. And then and then maybe OP would have

826
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 5: been comfortable sharing it, you know, probably in a casual

827
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 5: conversation over the nine years, not but not in a

828
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 5: way of like I have to share this more as

829
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 5: we're like, oh, this is the thing that happened.

830
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think I think the parents didn't do

831
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: a good job of like not traumatizing their child. So

832
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: like the parents are bad for traumatizing their child, OP

833
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 1: is kind of parents are a whole for traumatizing their

834
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: child and being negligent and being negligent OPI is the

835
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: a hole to themselves for not going to therapy for that.

836
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 1: The the fiance is the a hole for having such

837
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: such a ridiculous negative reaction to a relationship that's outside

838
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: of himself. Like if I if I was over and

839
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: staying at your house, and I discovered your parents had

840
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: an open relationship. I would be like, damn, John, I

841
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: didn't know your parents had an open relationship. You never

842
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: talk about it. And then you would say, I don't

843
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: really talk about my parents sex. I thought much that

844
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 1: would be like a total normal thing. Even if we

845
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: were dating. I would still have that reaction. Then then

846
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,720
Speaker 1: in like the situation, you are kind of work husband,

847
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: we are a work we're talking about like getting out

848
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 1: ho together, basically married with kids. We are married with kids. Yeah,

849
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: so Clinton, Where's Clinton? I'm like the adopted Oh yeah,

850
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 1: we we just added there. You're you're a recent adoption kid.

851
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 4: We are.

852
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, So fiance is fiance is for a whole, OPI

853
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: a whole to themselves, parents a whole, any other a holes.

854
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: I think that's it. Those are all the main everybody. Yeah, everybody. Yeah,

855
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: everyone sucks. The person who sucks least is Opie. I

856
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 1: think I agree. Yeah.

857
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 6: I feel like I was somewhat like on or you know,

858
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 6: I was somewhat more lenient to Opie until she commented.

859
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, that comment was kind of whacked. I just think

860
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: it was. There's so much unprocessed trauma, I think and

861
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: it's just like, I don't know. I think she's more

862
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: judgmental of her parents' lifestyle and lifestyle is similar to

863
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: that because of how much trauma that she's brought on

864
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: from a parents being negligent. I think it's more it's

865
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 1: more negligence than anything else.

866
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I did say earlier like OPI's more frustrated

867
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 5: about like the fact that they didn't get to experience

868
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Speaker 5: it with their parents. But I think OP is also

869
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 5: bringing that negativity out on the idea of open relationships

870
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 5: as a whole as well.

871
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Speaker 1: Which I think is not fair. I think it's not fair.

872
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: I think I think they all suck. I think everyone sucks.

873
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 2: I think everyone sucks the same amount.

874
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, do I think everyone sucks the same amount? I think.

875
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: I'll give it. You have to rank it. You have

876
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: to rank it. You have to rank it. Yeah, who's

877
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 1: the biggest day wholes to litlest day home. I think

878
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: it's I think it's parents because their childhood stuff. Then

879
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: fiance than OPI I think so yeah up in front,

880
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: like that's crazy keeping the pants for one day anyway. Anyway,

881
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: that's the end of that story. Wow. Yeah, should we

882
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: read some Bono's into the word scroll down for me

883
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 1: and Sophia.

884
00:49:56,040 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 5: Oh dang, we've been missing. Or take a water and smells.

885
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 5: I'll bring fourth month to membership. Do you think I'm

886
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 5: being petty for putting on Facebook? Happy Father's Day to

887
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,840
Speaker 5: the real dads and moms for all the deadbeats for you,

888
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 5: Martika Waterman, Blast them, blast them. Let's let's freaking go.

889
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 5: Uncle Daddy Jesse, thanks fort of twenty books on the

890
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 5: Donal link. Hi, beautiful boys and glorious worm clean. Hello

891
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 5: uncle Daddy.

892
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: How you doing with Daddy Jesse? Always like that uncle

893
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,240
Speaker 1: that gives you the twenty every time.

894
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 5: Literally the uncle that that puts their arm around you

895
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 5: and it's been like it's gonna be okay, son nephew.

896
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, slips some money in your pocket?

897
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, Martika Waterman with the five bucks on the

898
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 5: donal link. Hey, guy, Oh, same thing. Do you think

899
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 5: I'm petty for posting on Father's Day?

900
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

901
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 1: I guess there was a little bit, uh.

902
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 5: And tagging my ex husband and his family on the post,

903
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 5: just for perhaps.

904
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: And gigs Martka Martica. Yes, maybe funny, but do you

905
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: want the drama? Is it worth it? Is it worth

906
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: the drama? Because what are you What you are doing

907
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: in this act is you are inviting drama into your life.

908
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 5: And and Martika, you're you're one of the fam. You've

909
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 5: definitely heard these stories where untold drama unfolds.

910
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 1: Do you want that in your life? You are opening

911
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: up pandemic's box. You might want that. Maybe you're bored

912
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: right now. Maybe maybe you're bored and you want that

913
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 1: drama in your life. Maybe Martka wants the story to

914
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 1: put on Okay, storytime, but maybe you could just listen

915
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: to the stories instead of instead of becoming one, you know,

916
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: maybe maybe invested going through the back catalog. If you're

917
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: a little bored, I'm.

918
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 5: Gonna I'm gonna plus one that advice and shout out

919
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 5: to Lord Milky giants milk yourd Milky blesses us with

920
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 5: his refreshments, just with the five five gifted memberships from

921
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:47,439
Speaker 5: his Golden teat. Yes, and Matt Hattergal for the twenty bucks. Okay,

922
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 5: I understand some people have a certain lifestyle. However, uh,

923
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 5: if you have a guest over, you should have these lifestyles.

924
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 5: When you do not have a guest, not only is

925
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 5: the rude but also selfish. Again, it goes back to

926
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 5: would you hook up with someone in front of a

927
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 5: house guest in any any type of relationship?

928
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, any type. To be fair, it wasn't the foyer.

929
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Speaker 1: It wasn't. It wasn't the foyer.

930
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 5: But no, that's worse. That's like right when you walk in,

931
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 5: Sam doesn't know what is so, but it.

932
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Speaker 1: Was that night you know they were But I I

933
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: I do agree like at least like at least go

934
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: in the bedroom and have a certain degree of describe

935
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: a reasonable reasonable exactly is a sacred space? Is the

936
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 1: sacred space? Straight? Yeah?

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00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 5: Pull up some foyer picks. Those are some nice Can

938
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 5: we can we show them? Yeah, we kind of don't

939
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 5: have a foyer. It's just the living room.

940
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

941
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: Immediately, it's like a room that goes that goes right in.

942
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: I guess we kind of have a foyer into this room,

943
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: do we? Is that that is?

944
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's it's a it's a front door hallway.

945
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:57,800
Speaker 1: Tiny Cactus says they're using their foyer as a second bedroom,

946
00:52:58,360 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: you know, trying to be economical.

947
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 5: They're being like those realtors that are like five bedroom

948
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 5: six Me and say were just looking at houses and

949
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 5: they're like this, like Cracker is a bedroom. This Ritz

950
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 5: Cracker anywayst is big.

951
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: They called him a bedroom and it's literally one chair.

952
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: Me and Sam like laying down on the floor. We

953
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: couldn't fit, Like couldn't fit. We could invent our.

954
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 5: Bodies if we want to do anyways, dumpster five things

955
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 5: out of five bucks on a door link hot take.

956
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 5: Not knowing something this is big about my fiancee and

957
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 5: their family is kind of a red flag. She was

958
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 5: just never gonna tell him question mark. He definitely over reacted,

959
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,839
Speaker 5: but you should know in laws prior to marriage.

960
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: Again, do you talk like like, do you know about

961
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: your parents' sex life? And do you talk about it

962
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: with your partner? That's the question. I do agree that

963
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: it should have come up is yeah, just naturally Yeah,

964
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: But anyways, smallest noodle thanks to a five bucks tip

965
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: on the dodal link. Today is my birthday.

966
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 5: And I'm so happy to watch the live with some

967
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 5: cool people. We are happy you exist and happy birthday.

968
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 5: And then Campbell family thinks that it's ten bucks. Opie

969
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 5: had to know this would have happened. They were not

970
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 5: careful when she was a child. Why would they suddenly

971
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 5: change They were awful about spicy time before they weren't changing.

972
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: Go back down again. Actually I didn't fully absorb that.

973
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, I uh, I guess. I mean, I guess if

974
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 5: OPI knows their parents would I don't know.

975
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,320
Speaker 1: I mean I guess I mean that that is that

976
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: that is a good point. I think OPE should have.

977
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 1: The best thing to do would have been to tell

978
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:39,359
Speaker 1: some tell her partner it.

979
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 5: Just in case anything went down similar to how it

980
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 5: happened in the past. Yeah, it does seem like repeated

981
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 5: behavior that OP has seen. So yeah, yeah, man had

982
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 5: a girl thinks it a ten bucks? What to say

983
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 5: to the partner? Hey, before you meet my parents, I

984
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 5: want to let you know that they have an open marriage. No,

985
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 5: I am not happy about their lifestyle, but I do

986
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 5: not want you to feel uneasy around them. I think

987
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 5: it's more of as it's be the same warning as

988
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 5: like my parents just like love to make out in

989
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 5: front of people, like right right, Like yeah, it's that.

990
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 5: I feel like it's on that same level of like

991
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 5: it's just you know, it's just what they do.

992
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: Have you ever had that disclaimer given to you before? No,

993
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. Have I ever had a disclaimer

994
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 1: given to my given by a partner to their parents. Friend,

995
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: I will definitely be the type of dad where like, uh,

996
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 1: me and my wife and the kids are just like

997
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 1: hanging out and I'll just just full on making out. No,

998
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: I'll just nudge.

999
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 5: I'll just I'll just nudge one of them and they'll

1000
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 5: be like, Wow, I'm like you see that, I'm tapping that.

1001
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: I'm like dad, that's type.

1002
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 4: I love that.

1003
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: Read some dons. Yeah, actual Birch, thanks for the five bucks.

1004
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 1: I'm of the opinion not everyone has an oh I

1005
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: in my opinion, not everyone has a not so good childhood,

1006
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: but you just have to live with it anyway. In

1007
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: my opinion, trama is that what?

1008
00:55:58,960 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1009
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 1: I guess like like maybe it's like saying like, oh,

1010
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 1: like everyone has a not so good child it's just

1011
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: like deal with it and go to therapy. There's like

1012
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: everyone has trauma, I think. I mean, there's there's truth level,

1013
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 1: there's levels. There's definitely levels. Linda, I'll say it again,

1014
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: it's none of his business. Uh and Gie Alice thanks

1015
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: to the two fourteen ten hour stream Let's Go, you

1016
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 1: guys are crazy. Kristin Foyle hot four months of gifted memberships.

1017
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: Hey all, four months. Dang, that's crazy. Glad to be

1018
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 1: a little silly. That's why I don'no so many memberships.

1019
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: All hail the worm Queen.

1020
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 5: Kristin foil Hat your flowers, because you've there are probably

1021
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 5: like one or two hundred people in here that are

1022
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 5: a member as a result of gifted foil Hat and

1023
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 5: Lord Milky and all of our gifted membership gifts.

1024
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out Kristin foyle Hat, and then Lord Macfhart.

1025
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty bucks. Uh, just so vaway. Can

1026
00:56:56,040 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 1: you should down just got paid today? Let me bless

1027
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: the souls. We appreciate you, Skyla Rain, I had composted

1028
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: my story am I the jerk oh cross posted for

1029
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: complaining about my pain after my mom's surgery. Put it

1030
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: in the subreddit our new subrett our slash Okay story time.

1031
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: It should be in the description. I believe I changed

1032
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: the thing, so let us know if it's not. Yeah,

1033
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: let us know if it's not. And then uh, mixed

1034
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 1: swarm meetings for the five bucks. Sophia, you are so cute.

1035
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: I send a message on discord for you if you

1036
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: could check that. A'd be amazing, Sam. I like your shirt.

1037
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 1: Where is it from John. I love your vibes and

1038
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: your beautiful hair. Riley, Missy, you have a good VAKA

1039
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: love you pals. How about Clinton? Yeah, where's the Clinton? Love? Right?

1040
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: Clinton's here right watching. I'm pretty waiting listening the shadows.

1041
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 1: Can you guys hear him? By the way, he does

1042
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: have a mic love it. Let us know if it'd

1043
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 1: be so funny if you were just talking. He's saying,

1044
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: and thank you, thank you for the shirt.

1045
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 4: Love.

1046
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 1: I got this at a thrift shop. We're gonna be

1047
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: we'll be making some stuff like this problem Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

1048
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: get ready, get ready. Also, we're going to probably be

1049
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: releasing some hat soon that on the nog and get ready.

1050
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: But you know what we should get ready for?

1051
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 2: What this next story?

1052
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 5: Let's go really quick. Arias I think is here your name?

1053
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 5: Thanks out to ten bucks. How do you become a member?

1054
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 5: Asking for a friend? If you go, there should be

1055
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 5: a big fat join button on YouTube or a link

1056
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 5: in the description. But the join button on YouTube, I

1057
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 5: think is the easiest way.

1058
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: Yep, there you go. Where are we at, Sophia? We

1059
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: are five seventy is two five seventy five seventy east.

1060
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: Let me give this I can read to the people

1061
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 1: a good story.

1062
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 2: Wear me. I haven't seen the new one. I've only

1063
00:58:57,840 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 2: seen the twenty eleven one.

1064
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 5: We're gonna let's do a let's do a watch party

1065
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 5: at my apartment.

1066
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Wednesday, Wednesday done, It's Wednesday, Wednesday.

1067
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 2: We're watching Dawn of the Plan.

1068
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 5: Yes, you haven't because you haven't seen my new TV

1069
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 5: or my new couch yet. That's true, dude, I am

1070
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 5: down a maximal. You will go back to watching movies

1071
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 5: down there and be like, this is garbage.

1072
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 2: Took our TV away.

1073
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 1: I hate TVs in the living room. I think it's

1074
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: a bad idea and it promotes distrust and and it

1075
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: ravishes the community. I will change your mind.

1076
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 3: But then you can't watch the Planet of the Apes

1077
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 3: are to watch.

1078
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 4: What do we have?

1079
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: We have a projector, so basically that is a TV.

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Speaker 1: If anything, if anything, throw away the projector. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: But the projector isn't always on like a TV is

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00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 1: like this hole that just grabs your attention at all times.

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00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: And when we don't have it, what do we do?

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00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: We talk to each other, we play games, We shoot

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Speaker 1: each other with NERF guns. Thank you Clinton. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's get in here we go, nice tries. Am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole for telling my daughter that her cheating

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Speaker 1: mother shouldn't be her role model? Why not all the

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Speaker 1: che models? Yeah, cheeters do prosper I guess so, and

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Speaker 1: again to answering the question should you tell the kids

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Speaker 1: about the details of your relationship? But this comes to

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01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: main appearance, who says I thirty two male, finalized my

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01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: divorce with my ex wife thirty two female last year

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01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: because she had an affair ouch. It took a huge

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Speaker 1: mental toll on me and also our daughter, fourteen female.

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Speaker 5: In spite of the pain I was feeling, I never

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01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 5: bad mouthed my ex wife to my daughter because she

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Speaker 5: was her mother. However, my daughter knows everything that happened,

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Speaker 5: and she told me many times how conflicted she was feeling,

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Speaker 5: given that my mom, what's her? Given that my mom?

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Speaker 5: What's her role model? Over the past few months, I

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Speaker 5: have re entered the dating scene and I and then

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01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 5: I have started going on dates. My sister thirty female

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Speaker 5: has been kind enough to come over for the.

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Speaker 1: Night that's what you're going on a date with and

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Speaker 1: be with my daughter thing.

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Speaker 5: Because I am usually out at night with my date

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Speaker 5: at a hotel or at her house. I don't want

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01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,919
Speaker 5: to introduce any of my dates to my daughter till

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Speaker 5: we are in a serious relationship.

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Speaker 1: Very smart. A couple of months ago, my daughter again

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01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: brought up how she was feeling really conflicted. I then

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01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: asked her if she likes my sister, and my daughter

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01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: said she loves her. I then suggested to my daughter

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Speaker 1: that she could start considering my sister as a role

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Speaker 1: model rather than her mother, because she has seen firsthand

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Speaker 1: how nice and kind my sister is to her. M hmm,

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Speaker 1: I do. First of all, yes, role model is more

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01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: of like a show, don't tell kind of thing. It's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: little Jimmy, you I should be a role model.

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Speaker 4: Just just.

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Speaker 1: I'm it, I respect me, please.

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Speaker 5: I think with the fourteen year old, you can sit

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01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 5: them down and be like, people are complicated. There are

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Speaker 5: probably a lot of like life lessons and things you

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01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 5: can learn from your mom. But also knowing that you

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01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 5: know she did cheat, that's something that you shouldn't do.

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Speaker 6: And oh, okay, but I disagree. I don't think he

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01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 6: should be talking about the mom's cheating like that. The

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Speaker 6: mom should be talking about that with her daughter, and

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01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 6: maybe they should be talking about it together. But he

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Speaker 6: I feel like saying like, oh, your aunt should be

1133
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 6: your role model instead of my mother is talking down

1134
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,040
Speaker 6: about I'm talking that about the mind.

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Speaker 1: I completely agree with that. I was saying.

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Speaker 5: Instead of being like, oh, here's another role model, I

1137
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 5: think he should just like like, oh, it seems like

1138
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 5: the daughter is coming to him with a feeling of

1139
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 5: conflict about like wanting the mom in her life. And

1140
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Speaker 5: I think that honestly, the dad should sit down with

1141
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 5: her like a therapist does and just listen and like

1142
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 5: kind of guy like, I feel like that should be

1143
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 5: a conversation if she.

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Speaker 2: Seems like he's talking bad about the mom and he's.

1145
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am not.

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01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,479
Speaker 5: I'm not co signing him saying like, oh, this would

1147
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 5: be your role model. I think he should just sit

1148
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 5: and just listen to her talk and let her just

1149
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 5: express her.

1150
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 1: But I don't know if like you can suggest role model.

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01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 4: I'm not.

1152
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 5: I'm not suggesting this should.

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01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: Suggest model you suggest John is suggesting that suggest you're

1154
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: suggesting you know what, I really think I should be

1155
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: your role model.

1156
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 5: You know, let me let me walk you through a

1157
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 5: hypothetical your your you're going through a divorce, your fourteen

1158
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 5: year old daughter walks up to you and she's like, hey,

1159
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 5: hey Dad, Hey Mom, I'm honestly feeling really conflicted.

1160
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: About uh like I kind of one of you. Mom

1161
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: is a role model, but she did this this thing.

1162
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: Your response, Uh, laud her for the thing she does

1163
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: well and just don't cheat on your partner or.

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Speaker 5: Or tell me about like tell me more like can

1165
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 5: that com can we do a thing that doesn't shut

1166
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 5: down the conversation?

1167
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 1: And just like wait, what was the exact question that

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01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 1: she had?

1169
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 4: So she.

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Speaker 1: Here we go? My daughter brought okay. Also, I would

1171
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 1: like to say that we got another thirty minutes thanks

1172
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: to Carolyn. See more time please, Sophia, you're doing great

1173
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: with the fifty five eighty nine tip. Freaking even gang. Yes,

1174
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 1: and you know what what I just heard something? Oh

1175
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 1: is that Lord mcphart with a forty dollars super chat

1176
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 1: yy YEA blessed us with that chat? Oh passing that gas?

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01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: Good Mary, thanks for the twenty five dollars tip. Just

1178
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 1: a bit longer, Hi and sam E thanks for the

1179
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 1: five book tip. Love listening to you guys. I will

1180
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 1: finally get a six day vacation in August for a

1181
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: wedding in California. It will be my first time going there.

1182
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Need places to go while I'm there.

1183
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: Hope to run to you guys and say hello and

1184
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: get a picture. John, I actually have a thing to

1185
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: tell you an Okay storytime after this. But to your question.

1186
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 5: A second ago, my daughter brought up again how she

1187
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 5: was really conflicted about her mom as a role model.

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01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:12,920
Speaker 5: So she went to him and she's like, I'm conflicted

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01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 5: about my mom as a role model, and she said

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01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 5: that in some form or fashion. Okay, I think you

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01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:20,920
Speaker 5: can sit down in like a therapist to not give

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01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 5: any advice or any direction, but just let the child out.

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Speaker 1: Why are you conflicted? Well, why are you?

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01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 5: Yes, why are you conflicted? That would I think be

1195
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 5: and not and not giving any suggestions or anything.

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Speaker 1: And you know, something I actually do believe is people

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01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 1: are buffets, not dishes, not to me. So like when

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Speaker 1: you go to a restaurant, you order a dish and

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Speaker 1: like you just get what's on the dish. When you

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01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: to a buffet, there's all this stuff to go through

1201
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 1: and you can have as much of one thing as

1202
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: you want and nothing of like you know, you can

1203
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: have no broccoli and all the meat or whatever. And

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Speaker 1: I think people are similar. Like you can look at

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01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 1: especially when you're looking at role models. You can look

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01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 1: at people and say, I love like, I love how

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01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 1: I don't know who's a controversial figures. Sure you know what,

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01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 1: I'll that's actually a good example. Like I think like

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01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: his work ethic in the early days was like really interesting.

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01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 1: He's kind of like a dipshit right now, right, so

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01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 1: it's like I can I can recognize the things that

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01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 1: he did that were good in the past while also

1213
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 1: saying the things that he's doing now are not great

1214
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 1: for like the world or society. And I think you

1215
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 1: can do the same with this person where it's like,

1216
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 1: there are a lot of amazing qualities about your mom,

1217
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: cheating is not one of them, but just like like

1218
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: use those qualities as as a way to navigate your

1219
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 1: life and just learn from her mistakes.

1220
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 5: But one good thing I think that was the spirit

1221
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 5: of what you stand in, Sophio. You both were saying

1222
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 5: was like try to give her, try to like dictate

1223
01:07:04,960 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 5: as little as possible, yeah, and just really just letting

1224
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 5: her express and like thinking through It's almost like journaling

1225
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 5: out loud where she's just kind of like working through

1226
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 5: it on her own, and the dad is just kind

1227
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 5: of like prompting her with questions and being being a

1228
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 5: support system to sit and listen and just be there.

1229
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and let her find her own conclusion. I feel like, yeah, Socrates,

1230
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 1: says Kanye though, bangers.

1231
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 5: Pros good bangers anyways. But ladies and gentlemen, there's more

1232
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 5: to this banger's story. So let's see what we got.

1233
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 5: So a couple of months ago, my daughter again brought

1234
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 5: up how she's feeling really conflicted. I then asked her

1235
01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 5: if she likes my sister, uh, and my daughter said

1236
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 5: she loves her. I then suggested to my daughter that

1237
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 5: she could start considering her as a row model rather

1238
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:53,439
Speaker 5: than her mother, because she has been she has seen

1239
01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 5: firsthand how nice and kind my sister is to her.

1240
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 5: My daughter surprised me with the suggestion, but she said

1241
01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 5: she would try it starting the next day.

1242
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:07,160
Speaker 1: That's kind of weird, and wait, try starting to view

1243
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: his sister as a role model the next day. What

1244
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: she does not even mean starting tomorrow, Auntie is my

1245
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 1: role model?

1246
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 4: Adam?

1247
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 1: Goodbye mom, Hello Auntie?

1248
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 2: Why did we do like a week test trial?

1249
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:21,879
Speaker 1: You know? You just paper.

1250
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 2: You know, it's a free trial.

1251
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 5: Subscribe for seven days and if you don't like it,

1252
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 5: you can cancel, but.

1253
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 2: Don't forget to cancel otherwise.

1254
01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 4: Years.

1255
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,759
Speaker 5: That's right, and the suggestions somehow seemed to have worked.

1256
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 5: Over the past couple of months. My daughter looks much

1257
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 5: happier and asks a lot more about spending time with

1258
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 5: my sister. My sister too, said that she really likes

1259
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:44,640
Speaker 5: the bond that she's developing with my daughter. However, I

1260
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 5: am slightly concerned because my daughter seems to be emotionally

1261
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 5: distanced from her mother. Her mother called me a couple

1262
01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 5: of days ago about her daughter acting distant from her.

1263
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 5: I spoke with my daughter a couple of nights ago,

1264
01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 5: and she said that while her mom is her mom biologically,

1265
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 5: she does not consider her as her real mom anymore,

1266
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:04,679
Speaker 5: which a guy, I think again speaks in a danger

1267
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 5: of what you and Sophia were saying, Like if you tell,

1268
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 5: if you tell your impressionable fourteen year old daughter, heye,

1269
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 5: view your aunt as your mom and not your mom

1270
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 5: is your mom, then they could.

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01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:18,560
Speaker 1: Take that very very literally. Yeah. Yeah, And that she

1272
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 1: now considers my sister her real mom. That's crazy. Yeah, wow, idiot,

1273
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 1: fourteen idiot. I was a bit shocked and remind and

1274
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 1: reminded her that her real mom will always be her

1275
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 1: biological mom because she gave birth and went through all

1276
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: the struggles to raise her. However, what I said fell

1277
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: on deaf ears, and my sister said that she could

1278
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 1: never change her mind on them. It is it is

1279
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 1: too late. Opia has created a monster. Okay, if you

1280
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 1: changed her mind with one conversation saying maybe you should

1281
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: try your sister with a role model. I feel like

1282
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: she's impressionable enough to uh switch back the end.

1283
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 5: But teenagers are going to be teenagers. She's like, I

1284
01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 5: decided this, so I'm gonna do this, and this is

1285
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 5: what we're doing.

1286
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, teenagers have a new fad every every week,

1287
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:07,880
Speaker 1: so just give it like three days exactly. Parents are

1288
01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: like silly bands. You just sometimes you you take it again,

1289
01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:14,599
Speaker 1: take them and then you put them on again. Does

1290
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: anyone know what you are?

1291
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 8: Like?

1292
01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: Uh, we had so many you know what silly bands

1293
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 1: are in your day? Maybe it's only like four or

1294
01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:27,840
Speaker 1: five years older than I'm definitely older than you think

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Speaker 1: I am that. Yeah, how how old do you? How

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01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 1: old do you think? Wait?

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01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 5: Wait, did you say don't tell them, tell, don't tell?

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01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 5: How old do you think the two of us are, respectively.

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01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 1: Than? Did Sophia just tell you? I just told them?

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01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:44,519
Speaker 6: You said, right after I told it my ball, But no,

1301
01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 6: we had silly bands in school. We would pass them around.

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01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like a like Pokemon. It just like goes

1303
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: to every Oh true, you had Pokemon? Right?

1304
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 4: Yeah?

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01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 2: Anyway, every generation, we're not a part of a different

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01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 2: general I.

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01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 1: Love that we will know Clinton's twenty, You're twenty, like

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01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:02,720
Speaker 1: three almost, So.

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01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 5: Sophie, you're saying I'm not a part of a different generation.

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01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 1: You're saying that John, Have I ever said that anything else? Lighting?

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01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:16,720
Speaker 5: Anyways, So back to the story. Was I an a

1312
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 5: hole for telling my daughter to consider my sister as

1313
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:20,840
Speaker 5: a role model? A part of me feels like I

1314
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,600
Speaker 5: am because it affected her relationship with her mother. But

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01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:26,840
Speaker 5: part of me is also happy because my daughter looks

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01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 5: very happy, content and at piece. Now we have uh

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01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 5: and the consensus was mixed on if Op was the

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01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 5: a hole or not. We have comments. We have an update,

1319
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 5: but let's break it down. But maybe put up a pole.

1320
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 5: Even is OP the a hole?

1321
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 2: So the thing about the poll is that I need

1322
01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:46,560
Speaker 2: you to get think what the pole is, think of

1323
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 2: what the pool is. I don't know where it is.

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01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 1: It just popped up. Yeah, I think. Yeah, you go

1325
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:54,960
Speaker 1: down a little bit. Okay, up a little bit more. Tweak, tweak, tweak. Yep,

1326
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:57,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna go a little bit more, a little bit more.

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01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 5: Uh so stop, go to the left, down down, down down,

1328
01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 5: keep down.

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01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,560
Speaker 1: Drag drag, there we go.

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01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 4: Thank you.

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01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna put up a ball. We didn't get

1332
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:12,799
Speaker 1: this bottom the situation.

1333
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 5: We just have to plug it in the floor. But anyways,

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01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 5: I don't know, it's.

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01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:19,240
Speaker 1: Not that we don't like, we can't. There's no room

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01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 1: in the new computer.

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01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 3: I'm gonna figure it out.

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01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's that is the spirit. That is the

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01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:30,599
Speaker 1: spirit we need. I just like to say, all right Clinton, wait,

1340
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 1: get get Clinton on screen.

1341
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, just go wait wait wait wait wait.

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01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 1: Get Clinton. Get Clinton over here. Okay, okay, hold on,

1343
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 1: get Clinton.

1344
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 2: I'm sitting in the ball.

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01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:45,599
Speaker 1: Clint Clinton, just walk behind her. All right, we go, Clinton,

1346
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: get get in there, get in there, all right, all right,

1347
01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: there is not a thing Clinton can't do.

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01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 4: Right.

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01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: He was about it. He was on the stream YEP

1350
01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:00,120
Speaker 1: crushed it.

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01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 4: Yep.

1352
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: The thirst of the chat was ridiculous, insane over here

1353
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:10,080
Speaker 1: all right. Two. I asked him to do data analysis

1354
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: bam with a Google spreadsheet analyzed. Then I'm like, hey,

1355
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:17,720
Speaker 1: can you like set up the couch in less than

1356
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: an hour? Done? Couch is done?

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01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 4: All right.

1358
01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 1: I was on the morning meeting. Oh wow, music sounds

1359
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: really great. I wonder what's playing on Spotify. It's not

1360
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: fucking Spotify. It's Clinton on the guitar. On the guitar, dude,

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01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 1: you away?

1362
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 4: Yeah? I heard it?

1363
01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:38,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard it. What can this man not do?

1364
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 4: Dude?

1365
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: Also, we got to get you playing at my event? Yeah,

1366
01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 1: oh yeah, do you want to play there? We go, Wow,

1367
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,280
Speaker 1: this is crazy, it's crazy. Who are Clinton?

1368
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 4: Who are you? What?

1369
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: What? What? Superhuman perfect gene bio lab? Did you pop?

1370
01:13:55,960 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 1: I wanted? I would freaking crazy? Anyway, uh aoul, we

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01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:01,639
Speaker 1: get back to the stage.

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01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 5: Let's get back to a shout out to you get

1373
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 5: the fuck out of her, big shout out. W's and

1374
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 5: w's in the chaff for Clinton?

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01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 1: All right?

1376
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:11,839
Speaker 5: So oh and look at our poll split.

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01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 1: Whoa, that's crazy.

1378
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,280
Speaker 5: Let's see if we're gonna read some comments, let's see

1379
01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 5: if it sways anybody, so uh, Antique Diva says, your

1380
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 5: daughter might benefit from therapy. She was much She was

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01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 5: as much betrayed by her mother. She was much more

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01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 5: betrayed by her mother than you, and it's not your faults.

1383
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 5: She needs a female role model she can look up to.

1384
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 5: So your sister is a godsend. All you can do

1385
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 5: is support her and be her dad. Your ex is

1386
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 5: the one who needs to fix her relationship with her

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01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 5: daughter on her own. Your job is to keep your

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01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 5: mouth shut about your ex, so you don't give her

1389
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 5: anger about your daughter. I kind of disagree with that

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01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 5: because I will to opie kind of or the comment

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01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:51,720
Speaker 5: you kind of contradicted himselves. Yeah, he should have shut

1392
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 5: his mouth and not said to stop looking at his

1393
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 5: mom as a role model and start looking at his

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01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:56,160
Speaker 5: sister as the role model.

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01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. What I think he needs to do is I

1396
01:14:57,760 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 1: think he needs to try to right the wrong of

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01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 1: what he said and then shut up. Yes, there we go.

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01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 5: Loose Child ten thirty five says, I think it's not

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01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 5: about seeing someone as a role model, but rather someone

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01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 5: filling a certain feminine role in her life. Maybe exposure

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01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:17,680
Speaker 5: to your sister showed her that she doesn't necessarily that

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01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 5: doesn't necessarily need to be her biological mother. That role,

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01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:23,559
Speaker 5: that is, their relationship is between them. Ed Low ninety

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01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:26,680
Speaker 5: five ninety six says, what is the custody situation? From

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01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:28,320
Speaker 5: the way the post was worded, it sounds like you

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01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 5: have primary custody. I don't think you're the a hole,

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01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 5: but your daughter needs counseling. I'm assuming you don't want

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01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 5: your daughter completely alienated from her mother, And it sounds

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01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 5: like that, and that sounds like the path that she's

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01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 5: heading down. Relationships between teen age girls and their mothers

1411
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,680
Speaker 5: are complicated though, and throwing your wife's betrayal, this is

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01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:49,080
Speaker 5: going to have a lasting impact on your daughter. Sam,

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01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 5: let's get your official verdict. Is Opie the a hole?

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01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 5: Or NA still split?

1415
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 1: In chat? Pretty wild? Pretty split? I think I Opie.

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01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 1: I don't think he was trying to sow distrust in

1417
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 1: the relationship with his daughter and his ex wife. So

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01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: I also, we're not adding ads while the stream is

1419
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:21,960
Speaker 1: going because I think it might affect people experiencing it

1420
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:25,000
Speaker 1: right now, potentially.

1421
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 2: Like I clicked manuals, so I don't know why, because it.

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01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 1: Might it might like, yeah, it might make it, so

1423
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 1: people like, are we should we should just uh yeah, yeah,

1424
01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: just have it after or something, because then it might

1425
01:16:39,160 --> 01:16:45,879
Speaker 1: hurt people's which we don't want anyway, if you got affected,

1426
01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 1: two time speed to catch up. But yeah, so I

1427
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 1: don't think he did it intentionally, which makes him a

1428
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: loss of an a hole, But I think he's like

1429
01:16:54,680 --> 01:16:59,720
Speaker 1: an unintentional a hole by sewing that kind of dis

1430
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:04,720
Speaker 1: us in that relationship. Obviously she shouldn't cheat, but I

1431
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:07,679
Speaker 1: think he unintentionally talked bad by doing what he did totally.

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01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:10,519
Speaker 5: I think it was also I would say is I

1433
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:15,679
Speaker 5: think it is possible to uh not have malicious intentions

1434
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 5: but also still end up doing something that makes you

1435
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:20,559
Speaker 5: the a whole, and I think that this is one

1436
01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 5: of those cases. And now he should do what you

1437
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 5: said before, just rectify the situation and do do what

1438
01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:27,560
Speaker 5: he can to.

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01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:32,479
Speaker 1: I think I think it's like he did play a

1440
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 1: role in uh for his daughter stopping seeing his her

1441
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 1: mom as the role model, which I feel like that's

1442
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 1: more of a thing that like the daughter should shift

1443
01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:48,840
Speaker 1: out on her own instead of being told. And I

1444
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 1: think that's why he's a little bit of the a hole,

1445
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: but more of an unintentional ahole, because I don't think

1446
01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 1: that was his intention. Well honestly though, I.

1447
01:17:57,479 --> 01:17:59,800
Speaker 5: Won't say he's a massive a hole, but I won't

1448
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 5: say is a little bit of an a hole, because

1449
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 5: that is a pretty the The effect was pretty drastic.

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01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: The effect is drastic. But I think I don't think

1451
01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 1: maybe it's not that he's not a little a hole.

1452
01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 1: He's still an a hole, but it's an unintentional a hole,

1453
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: which I feel like it's like a there's a different map.

1454
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 1: It's like it is a different bucket. It it's like, oh,

1455
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 1: I accidentally caused I wasn't trying to do this thing.

1456
01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 1: I was just not thinking. But do we get into

1457
01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:27,200
Speaker 1: this next part of the story.

1458
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:29,639
Speaker 5: Let's do it, and Chat does disagree with us? Chat

1459
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 5: is slightly not the a hole, not.

1460
01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:35,639
Speaker 1: The A hole? Slightly? Yeah, I think I think if

1461
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 1: anything a little the a hole, then we wish we

1462
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 1: read all your donations after maybe.

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01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:47,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, So, ladies and gentlemen, this is an updates three

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01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:50,320
Speaker 5: weeks later. So this is not really an update I

1465
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:54,679
Speaker 5: wanted to post. It's about to be juicy. My daughter's

1466
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:57,599
Speaker 5: mother's birthday was a few days ago, and my daughter

1467
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:00,519
Speaker 5: was with her mom to celebrate her birthday. However, the

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01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:02,920
Speaker 5: next day, her mom called me in tears and said

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Speaker 5: it was the worst birthday she's ever had in her

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Speaker 5: life because her daughter was so emotionless and cold, which

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Speaker 5: is rare, especially on birthday. I spoke with my daughter

1472
01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 5: after that and asked her why she was so cold

1473
01:19:16,840 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 5: to her mom. My daughter told me that she didn't

1474
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 5: say anything bad to her mom and that she was normal.

1475
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:23,680
Speaker 5: I told my daughter that she has to be more

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01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 5: emotionally present with her mom because her mom was really hurting,

1477
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:30,040
Speaker 5: and my daughter said she would try, but it's hard

1478
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:33,559
Speaker 5: for her to emotionally invest in multiple people as role models.

1479
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,000
Speaker 1: What is this role model thing? Like these guys are

1480
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 1: obsessed with role models. I'm confused, Like I never had

1481
01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 1: this talk.

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01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:48,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is gonna be your role model. Okay, listen here, bucko.

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01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 5: I spoke with my sister and asked her what she

1484
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 5: thought about it. Yeah, honestly, that sister might need to

1485
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 5: intervene at this point, and she said that my daughter

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01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,839
Speaker 5: should be given time and space to process her emotions

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01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 5: and she had to carve out her own path and

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01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:04,559
Speaker 5: we can be there to guide her through that path.

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Speaker 1: We need that energy at the very beginning of the story.

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01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:10,200
Speaker 1: I think I agree that.

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01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:13,840
Speaker 5: I think I agree with the assessment, but and I'm

1492
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 5: not sure if I should keep lecturing my daughter on

1493
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:19,760
Speaker 5: her relationship with her mom. My daughter seems very emotionally

1494
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:23,920
Speaker 5: happy and content now, and we have some quick relevant

1495
01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:26,000
Speaker 5: comments to close us out. I'm not a werewolf, says

1496
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 5: to listen to me. It's not about making her change

1497
01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 5: her opinion about her mother. It's about making sure she's

1498
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:33,160
Speaker 5: processing these things in a way that isn't going to

1499
01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:36,439
Speaker 5: negatively impact her. It's fine that she's mad at her mom.

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01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 5: It's fine that she's not ready to be normal with her.

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01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 5: It's concerning that she puts this weird emphasis on the

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01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:45,519
Speaker 5: idea of a role model. So far, I'm agreeing with

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01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:49,000
Speaker 5: a Reddit commenter, it's really weird that she says she

1504
01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:54,400
Speaker 5: can't invest emotionally in more than a role model. This

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01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 5: is a complicated situation, and even kids who are going

1506
01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 5: through more benign divorces are recommended therapy. Yeah, the daughter

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01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 5: definitely should go through therapy.

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01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like there's something off there. Yeah.

1509
01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:09,639
Speaker 5: Laurio in nineteen sixty four says, what you could tell

1510
01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:12,479
Speaker 5: your daughter is that she can still love her mother

1511
01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 5: when she thinks of her when she's with her. Cut

1512
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:21,120
Speaker 5: this emotionally present and role model crap. You have to

1513
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 5: let her know that even though you don't love her

1514
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 5: mother anymore, that it's okay for her to feel love

1515
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:30,799
Speaker 5: for that woman, that her mom is a person worthy

1516
01:21:31,120 --> 01:21:34,600
Speaker 5: of her daughter's love. And once again we're trying to

1517
01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:38,160
Speaker 5: answer the question should kids Should you tell your kids

1518
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 5: about the details of yours? Very different scenario than the

1519
01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:45,479
Speaker 5: prior story, but same question.

1520
01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:49,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like in this case, well, the daughter

1521
01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 1: knows about the cheating, so so that'd be good.

1522
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:52,519
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1523
01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 5: In the beginning, it actually seemed pretty good where he

1524
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:59,920
Speaker 5: was like, the daughter is factually aware of what happened,

1525
01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:03,040
Speaker 5: but we don't really I don't want to speak on

1526
01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 5: it because I don't want to create this negative image

1527
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:11,240
Speaker 5: that's unfair outside of reality of her mother. So but

1528
01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,160
Speaker 5: then when when she approached him with this whole role

1529
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 5: model thing, that's where the slip up happened, and he's like,

1530
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:21,280
Speaker 5: use your and she's just like firmly attached to the

1531
01:22:22,080 --> 01:22:24,160
Speaker 5: flong on and is not letting go to that.

1532
01:22:24,960 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think maybe, I think I think he might

1533
01:22:28,960 --> 01:22:31,880
Speaker 1: need to reinform like what this idea of a role

1534
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:37,080
Speaker 1: model even means? Where it's like like when like how

1535
01:22:37,160 --> 01:22:39,200
Speaker 1: I view role models is like there's a bunch of

1536
01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 1: people that are my role models. Yeah, there was this.

1537
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 1: I was talking to a friend yesterday and we were

1538
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 1: talking about like what like who who do we want

1539
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: to be like? And he very kindly mentioned that he is, like,

1540
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:58,600
Speaker 1: we're putting a list of people that he wanted to

1541
01:22:58,680 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 1: adopt more qualities like, and he's like, I would love

1542
01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 1: to be more twenty percent more like you in the

1543
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:10,360
Speaker 1: play and childlike Wonder Department and ridiculously kind. But he

1544
01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,840
Speaker 1: mentioned all of these people that he had this like

1545
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:16,560
Speaker 1: collection of this is who I want to be like,

1546
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:20,680
Speaker 1: And I think I think about that, uh too, Like like,

1547
01:23:20,880 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 1: for example, John is someone who navigates interpersonal relationships with

1548
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:28,720
Speaker 1: so much kindness, and I like, I think, I like

1549
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:31,640
Speaker 1: John is like a role model to me in that

1550
01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:35,639
Speaker 1: in that category, right, And then like Sophia's fashion sense

1551
01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:39,320
Speaker 1: and uh and ability to think about her personalities.

1552
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, where's this going? So my clothes?

1553
01:23:43,680 --> 01:23:44,560
Speaker 1: I was, I love it.

1554
01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:45,719
Speaker 2: It looks nice.

1555
01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 1: Sophia's fashion sense and quick wit and also kindness, But dude,

1556
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of my plot feet anyway. We haven't taken

1557
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:57,759
Speaker 1: himprov on that, but I think there's all these things

1558
01:23:57,800 --> 01:23:59,760
Speaker 1: that like you admire about different people, and then you

1559
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:03,600
Speaker 1: lacked all of those attributes and that becomes like what

1560
01:24:03,840 --> 01:24:07,519
Speaker 1: you want to model. It's the collection of different qualities

1561
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:12,839
Speaker 1: from different role models, not just like one person fully totally.

1562
01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:15,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I think I yeah, I think Opie's daughter

1563
01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:18,880
Speaker 5: has this like and honestly, I think if you swap

1564
01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 5: the word role model out for mom, I think that's

1565
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 5: what the daughter is actually doing. But even then, it's

1566
01:24:26,520 --> 01:24:30,400
Speaker 5: like you can have multiple people that are mother figures

1567
01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 5: in your life. Honestly, that's like I feel like that's

1568
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:37,479
Speaker 5: probably better to have like multiple like kind of parent

1569
01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 5: parental figures in your life that you can kind of

1570
01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:43,040
Speaker 5: go to for advice. And it's the same way like

1571
01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 5: how having like a multiple friends is good. Yeah, you know,

1572
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 5: like having like aunts and uncles and adults in your

1573
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:50,720
Speaker 5: life that help guide you.

1574
01:24:50,800 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 1: I think it's great. Yeah, I think I I and

1575
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 1: I think you want you want that list to be

1576
01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:59,680
Speaker 1: to be somewhat wide. But should we do a call

1577
01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 1: in well, but.

1578
01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:14,519
Speaker 5: Are very Clinton is currently bashing again. Just start pressing buttons.

1579
01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:22,560
Speaker 1: There you got the hang of it.

1580
01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:26,439
Speaker 3: Oh okay, that's pretty cool.

1581
01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 1: We can read some donuts real quick. We have.

1582
01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 5: Chob Uncle Daddy Jesse with for the ten bucks sending

1583
01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 5: Clinton to bom from Uncle.

1584
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:39,920
Speaker 1: You guys gotta start sending things to Clinton. Oh yeah,

1585
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:40,880
Speaker 1: oh yeah, you guys.

1586
01:25:40,920 --> 01:25:43,639
Speaker 5: Somebody somebody send Clinton something, but don't put his put

1587
01:25:43,760 --> 01:25:45,560
Speaker 5: his name on a note inside of the box and

1588
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:46,160
Speaker 5: not on the thing.

1589
01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:47,439
Speaker 1: We should just get a business house.

1590
01:25:48,720 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 3: There he goes, thank you, Uncle Daddy.

1591
01:25:54,360 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 1: Say what confidence bar? That's your uncle Daddy.

1592
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,519
Speaker 9: You know I got somebody called me Uncle Jesse this

1593
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:03,519
Speaker 9: last week. It was my four year old cousin. He

1594
01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 9: saw all the back my hair and he was like,

1595
01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 9: you look a lot like Uncle Jesse from Full House.

1596
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:09,479
Speaker 3: That's like her favorite show.

1597
01:26:10,400 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: You're still watching Full House? I guess they do.

1598
01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:14,880
Speaker 9: Like I mean, it's on, like it's on, like I

1599
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 9: don't even know what's it's on, like the streaming services

1600
01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:18,479
Speaker 9: or whatever.

1601
01:26:19,280 --> 01:26:25,559
Speaker 1: Dang well, shout out to you also being an Uncle Jesse. Oh,

1602
01:26:25,600 --> 01:26:29,920
Speaker 1: I need to tell you the okey story time. That's true. Yeah, mindful,

1603
01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 1: warm peasant, thinkstra three months of gifted membership should be

1604
01:26:33,760 --> 01:26:36,080
Speaker 1: on my fourth month. A late payment sent me back

1605
01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 1: a month. Either way, Happy to be here. Thank you

1606
01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:41,800
Speaker 1: guys for all you do. Mindful worm peasant, We appreciate you.

1607
01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 1: Scrolling up Sheila Fier for Ferrari Ferreira Ferreira. Uh, thanks

1608
01:26:52,120 --> 01:26:54,360
Speaker 1: for the two months of membership. Replay crew checking in,

1609
01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 1: catching up in one point five speed, get crazy, it's Tuesday,

1610
01:26:58,720 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 1: darn toutin and Campbell Family. Thanks for the ten bucks.

1611
01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:05,040
Speaker 1: My husband warned me as we drove up to this family, Baby,

1612
01:27:05,320 --> 01:27:08,040
Speaker 1: you're fixing to meet the he Haw gang. He was

1613
01:27:08,240 --> 01:27:12,120
Speaker 1: not wrong. Oh that's like on warning about your in

1614
01:27:12,280 --> 01:27:19,760
Speaker 1: law gang gang uncle Daddy Jesse and not Uncle Jesse.

1615
01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 1: Thank you for the five gifted memberships. We appreciate you. Akimori,

1616
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:28,439
Speaker 1: thanks for the twenty five bucks. Just a bit longer,

1617
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 1: a little high and then what else we got?

1618
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:34,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

1619
01:27:34,760 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 5: Oh you want to hit those ancher chee Thanks for

1620
01:27:37,240 --> 01:27:41,240
Speaker 5: the two bucks. Been missing watching the lives. Love you guys.

1621
01:27:41,600 --> 01:27:43,640
Speaker 5: How is baby Cheese it doing? Please give us a

1622
01:27:43,720 --> 01:27:45,519
Speaker 5: check in Tiffany Velvet.

1623
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:46,000
Speaker 1: Uh.

1624
01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:51,519
Speaker 5: Sophia is wait. Oh, Sophia is the definition of a lady.

1625
01:27:51,880 --> 01:27:54,320
Speaker 5: She handles situations with grace humor.

1626
01:27:54,160 --> 01:27:57,479
Speaker 1: Which I appreciate. Yeah, that's right. Also, feet, you know

1627
01:27:57,560 --> 01:27:59,519
Speaker 1: how much I love you. I literally gave you. I

1628
01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 1: gave you a hug this morning. He loves your clothes,

1629
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 1: Angie Alice.

1630
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:10,200
Speaker 6: This morning Sam did come in my room at like

1631
01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 6: eight o'clock and woke me up just to give me

1632
01:28:13,520 --> 01:28:17,600
Speaker 6: a hug, which was both nice, but also I woke me.

1633
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:23,479
Speaker 1: Up an accidental ahole because she deserved it.

1634
01:28:25,120 --> 01:28:27,800
Speaker 2: It was like, Sovia, it's eight thirty and I was like,

1635
01:28:27,920 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 2: am I supposed.

1636
01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:30,720
Speaker 1: To be somebore? You're supposed to be up?

1637
01:28:33,120 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 5: Shout out to Angie Alice for the five thirty six.

1638
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,479
Speaker 5: It is hard to have multiple dads or mothers at

1639
01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:40,559
Speaker 5: the same time. I lost my dad at eight years old.

1640
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:44,920
Speaker 5: The men I trusted eventually abused or disappointed. Very sorry,

1641
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:47,600
Speaker 5: heart's in the chat for Angie Alice. I guess it

1642
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:50,040
Speaker 5: could be a confusing thing as well. And there's like

1643
01:28:50,080 --> 01:28:51,960
Speaker 5: the flip side of it, where it's like you're trying

1644
01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,479
Speaker 5: to find a father figure or a mother figure and

1645
01:28:54,920 --> 01:28:58,280
Speaker 5: you don't have a good one, Versus the elethra of

1646
01:28:58,760 --> 01:29:01,320
Speaker 5: you have so many great adults in your life that

1647
01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:02,760
Speaker 5: you end up having a lot of.

1648
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess at least the fourteen year old has

1649
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:09,320
Speaker 1: multiple to choose from, which is a good thing. Yes,

1650
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:15,719
Speaker 1: But I have an okay story time. Oh, So, Sophia

1651
01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:20,240
Speaker 1: and I recently went to we spa where it's like

1652
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:26,599
Speaker 1: this nude Korean spa in uh K town in LA.

1653
01:29:27,160 --> 01:29:30,599
Speaker 1: The men's women's sections are separate. Though that was very

1654
01:29:30,640 --> 01:29:31,200
Speaker 1: important for you.

1655
01:29:32,360 --> 01:29:34,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sam and his friend went and I went and

1656
01:29:34,720 --> 01:29:35,360
Speaker 2: I was alone.

1657
01:29:35,720 --> 01:29:38,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, then then we met up. Then we met

1658
01:29:38,880 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 1: up afterwards, but are like there's like a section where

1659
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:43,519
Speaker 1: like the men and women are separate, and then there's

1660
01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:46,560
Speaker 1: a section word that to gather, but everyone's clothed. And

1661
01:29:47,040 --> 01:29:49,360
Speaker 1: I went up to the top and Sofia was in

1662
01:29:49,560 --> 01:29:52,840
Speaker 1: like a clay ball room. I was in one of

1663
01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:55,519
Speaker 1: like the sauna rooms, and I'm with my friends, and

1664
01:29:55,600 --> 01:29:59,000
Speaker 1: one of my friends is like, is it He mentioned

1665
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:03,880
Speaker 1: something about, like is it weird to because I mentioned

1666
01:30:03,920 --> 01:30:08,479
Speaker 1: that Sophia was being like approached at like Renaissance fairs

1667
01:30:08,640 --> 01:30:11,200
Speaker 1: and uh like she had like some like of the

1668
01:30:11,280 --> 01:30:14,479
Speaker 1: okay fam come up to her, uh in some public spaces,

1669
01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:16,439
Speaker 1: And he's like, is it weird to be kind of

1670
01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:20,439
Speaker 1: like a mini celebrity, and I'm like, that is not

1671
01:30:20,600 --> 01:30:22,759
Speaker 1: at all how it feels. It feels just like friends

1672
01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:27,120
Speaker 1: coming up. And also I think it doesn't happen that often.

1673
01:30:27,240 --> 01:30:32,360
Speaker 1: It doesn't. But literally we leave and this girl comes up.

1674
01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 1: Her name's Honalie. Shout out analise if you're you're you're

1675
01:30:35,439 --> 01:30:38,600
Speaker 1: in the chat and she's like, are you Sam from OKOP?

1676
01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:42,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, yuh, yeah, guys, we love it when you

1677
01:30:42,920 --> 01:30:45,439
Speaker 1: come up, because again, it doesn't doesn't happen often. A

1678
01:30:45,479 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 1: friend on the internet, Yeah, yeah, and everyone like, I

1679
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:49,280
Speaker 1: feel like we reveal so much of our lives on

1680
01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:52,720
Speaker 1: here that everyone is really like, it's like you kind

1681
01:30:52,720 --> 01:30:54,640
Speaker 1: of already know us. So if you're if you've been

1682
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:57,320
Speaker 1: hanging out with us some like so long, you're you

1683
01:30:57,360 --> 01:31:01,679
Speaker 1: would probably like hang without with us in person. But yeah,

1684
01:31:01,720 --> 01:31:04,320
Speaker 1: he she she she she came up and like yeah.

1685
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:07,200
Speaker 6: And then I'm like, Sophia the ballroom, I come out

1686
01:31:07,439 --> 01:31:10,360
Speaker 6: dripping in sweat. It's just hot and I'm covered in

1687
01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:14,160
Speaker 6: clay and they were like, oh my god, it's a fan.

1688
01:31:14,240 --> 01:31:16,519
Speaker 6: I was like what And also I couldn't see because

1689
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:25,360
Speaker 6: my contexts like yeah, and then I yeah, she.

1690
01:31:25,400 --> 01:31:28,280
Speaker 1: Was nice though, very nice, stoking, She says, was Sam, dude,

1691
01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:31,160
Speaker 1: when this person I was not?

1692
01:31:32,840 --> 01:31:36,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, it was in the common area.

1693
01:31:36,200 --> 01:31:39,120
Speaker 6: But I did go down into the like the changing

1694
01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:41,599
Speaker 6: room for the women's area, and I do think Anally's

1695
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:42,960
Speaker 6: was right next to me.

1696
01:31:45,160 --> 01:31:48,080
Speaker 1: This is before or after, you guys that high after

1697
01:31:48,320 --> 01:31:52,599
Speaker 1: after Tiny Cactus says, no, it's okay, story time now,

1698
01:31:56,120 --> 01:31:59,439
Speaker 1: she did say, okay, yeah, it's okay, it's okay. We

1699
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 1: will forget you in person if they're just this once

1700
01:32:02,240 --> 01:32:05,680
Speaker 1: in chat. In chat unacceptable in person, well, well we'll

1701
01:32:05,720 --> 01:32:07,519
Speaker 1: give you a hug and take a picture and whatever.

1702
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:08,000
Speaker 4: You know.

1703
01:32:08,120 --> 01:32:08,960
Speaker 2: What time it is?

1704
01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:09,680
Speaker 4: What?

1705
01:32:10,240 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 1: Oh, it's time to spend that wheel, hold it up.

1706
01:32:17,720 --> 01:32:18,679
Speaker 1: She's such a light.

1707
01:32:19,600 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 2: Memes Okay, I was gonna scream.

1708
01:32:24,200 --> 01:32:24,519
Speaker 3: Give me.

1709
01:32:27,080 --> 01:32:28,519
Speaker 4: Me me.

1710
01:32:34,240 --> 01:32:50,480
Speaker 1: That's adventure mode. That's not memes. This is the wrong one. Yourselves,

1711
01:32:50,720 --> 01:32:52,320
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, gracious.

1712
01:32:54,120 --> 01:32:57,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, wingles, anyone like truly, if you, if you see

1713
01:32:57,240 --> 01:33:02,160
Speaker 5: us in public, please say hi to We would love

1714
01:33:02,320 --> 01:33:04,320
Speaker 5: to take a picture.

1715
01:33:04,520 --> 01:33:05,080
Speaker 4: Chat like.

1716
01:33:05,600 --> 01:33:07,000
Speaker 1: We are here for it.

1717
01:33:07,160 --> 01:33:09,320
Speaker 5: We are approachable. We'll let you know when it becomes

1718
01:33:09,360 --> 01:33:12,200
Speaker 5: too much though, yeah, yeah, if it But like I

1719
01:33:12,360 --> 01:33:14,639
Speaker 5: say that because it never hasn't It never has yet.

1720
01:33:14,720 --> 01:33:18,000
Speaker 5: The most recent encounter I had, they were like very

1721
01:33:18,160 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 5: hesitant to Actually, I've been meaning to shout them. Now

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01:33:22,200 --> 01:33:23,760
Speaker 5: I'll have to pull up their name before the end

1723
01:33:23,800 --> 01:33:24,480
Speaker 5: of the stream.

1724
01:33:24,280 --> 01:33:26,679
Speaker 1: But damn, I had mine right there.

1725
01:33:27,240 --> 01:33:27,439
Speaker 4: You know.

1726
01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:31,760
Speaker 5: It was a naughty boy and I forgot but I

1727
01:33:31,840 --> 01:33:35,840
Speaker 5: think it was Josh and his girlfriend and I'll pull

1728
01:33:35,920 --> 01:33:37,680
Speaker 5: up your name. We we we met it rolling loud

1729
01:33:37,720 --> 01:33:39,639
Speaker 5: to me and my girlfriend like walking out and they're

1730
01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:41,200
Speaker 5: like kind of walking behind us and they're like.

1731
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:46,240
Speaker 1: So sorry. I'm I'm so sorry. Are are you John?

1732
01:33:46,800 --> 01:33:48,280
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, what's up?

1733
01:33:49,280 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 4: Hi?

1734
01:33:50,400 --> 01:33:55,880
Speaker 1: Hi? Say hi geez? Buy to Japan's car? Kudo? Are

1735
01:33:55,880 --> 01:33:57,880
Speaker 1: you in Japan? Fly to Japan?

1736
01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:02,400
Speaker 5: I don't want to be Do you want to fly guys,

1737
01:34:02,439 --> 01:34:04,599
Speaker 5: we do want to go to Japan. If if yeah,

1738
01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:07,280
Speaker 5: if you want to meet us and you're willing to

1739
01:34:07,320 --> 01:34:09,439
Speaker 5: fly us out, we probably will do that.

1740
01:34:10,680 --> 01:34:14,080
Speaker 1: We probably would do that. Also, is there do we

1741
01:34:14,160 --> 01:34:15,240
Speaker 1: miss Heidi's chat?

1742
01:34:18,439 --> 01:34:18,759
Speaker 4: Heidi?

1743
01:34:19,479 --> 01:34:24,519
Speaker 1: Where's Heidi? We're scrolling, We're scrolling, We're scrolling. Might have

1744
01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:28,759
Speaker 1: been way back, way way Wait, I don't see a Heidi.

1745
01:34:28,920 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like we've been pretty good

1746
01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:34,439
Speaker 1: at hitting all of them. It was in the beginning.

1747
01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:38,200
Speaker 1: It may have been a glitch in the system. May

1748
01:34:38,240 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 1: have been a glitch in the system. You guys miss

1749
01:34:40,360 --> 01:34:42,639
Speaker 1: some donus scroll up more. I know because you mentioned

1750
01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:46,519
Speaker 1: Clinton and you didn't read it. There are some ones

1751
01:34:46,600 --> 01:34:50,840
Speaker 1: from a couple, Biffy Tiffy. We have one from Spiffy Spitby.

1752
01:34:50,880 --> 01:34:52,880
Speaker 1: Diffy's sending love to Clinton and the rest of you

1753
01:34:52,920 --> 01:34:55,760
Speaker 1: all too angry. Cheese it, baby, cheese It is great.

1754
01:34:56,360 --> 01:34:59,479
Speaker 1: Allow almost three months on the twenty sixth. We all

1755
01:34:59,760 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 1: know just John hates babies so little JK love you, John.

1756
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:04,240
Speaker 1: I don't hate them.

1757
01:35:04,320 --> 01:35:07,479
Speaker 5: They're just ugly usually when they come out, including me,

1758
01:35:07,560 --> 01:35:08,519
Speaker 5: I was the ugliest baby.

1759
01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:17,120
Speaker 1: Glenn shot me fro my misgivings. Hey, I think did

1760
01:35:17,200 --> 01:35:17,560
Speaker 1: I get it?

1761
01:35:18,000 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 6: I figured it out as much as I can in

1762
01:35:21,400 --> 01:35:27,719
Speaker 6: a timely manner. Alright, Ready, it's still gonna say adventure mode.

1763
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:36,519
Speaker 2: So it was fun. It's adventure mode. If you think

1764
01:35:36,560 --> 01:35:37,640
Speaker 2: about it, life is a.

1765
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:48,840
Speaker 1: All right, there's but there's a discord thing. There is. Oh,

1766
01:35:54,200 --> 01:35:59,960
Speaker 1: there's a discord thing I think of It looks great.

1767
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:02,639
Speaker 1: There's a if you go there's a there's a view

1768
01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:10,479
Speaker 1: that is discord there is I swear also, we got

1769
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 1: thirty more minutes. Okay, all right, all right, we're going

1770
01:36:17,040 --> 01:36:24,080
Speaker 1: through streams. We're just doing it. Riley, we miss you. Hey,

1771
01:36:25,760 --> 01:36:30,640
Speaker 1: that's unrelated? Is this.

1772
01:36:33,920 --> 01:36:34,160
Speaker 4: Chair?

1773
01:36:34,720 --> 01:36:37,680
Speaker 1: Did you even make that? That's is that like a

1774
01:36:37,840 --> 01:36:39,200
Speaker 1: cab design or something like that?

1775
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:39,800
Speaker 4: AI?

1776
01:36:40,479 --> 01:36:43,639
Speaker 1: Oh and AI is not nice. That was pigeon.

1777
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:46,240
Speaker 5: If you guys send us a pigeon share, we'd be

1778
01:36:46,320 --> 01:36:46,760
Speaker 5: open to it.

1779
01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:49,400
Speaker 1: All right, put one of the beans, click it, click it.

1780
01:36:51,400 --> 01:36:56,960
Speaker 1: Beans spilled the beans? What are the beans?

1781
01:36:59,360 --> 01:36:59,519
Speaker 4: Oh?

1782
01:37:00,120 --> 01:37:03,000
Speaker 1: That was that was from when we reacted to old videos,

1783
01:37:03,160 --> 01:37:07,599
Speaker 1: and right the spilled the beans. Right before I said

1784
01:37:07,680 --> 01:37:10,000
Speaker 1: what are the beans in the video? I said, one

1785
01:37:10,040 --> 01:37:11,360
Speaker 1: of the beans in the reaction?

1786
01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:15,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I.

1787
01:37:17,120 --> 01:37:22,840
Speaker 1: Spilled the beans. What are the means? What are the means?

1788
01:37:23,200 --> 01:37:26,479
Speaker 1: The means I want to do. I want to start

1789
01:37:26,520 --> 01:37:29,000
Speaker 1: a reaction channel. Spilled the beans.

1790
01:37:29,640 --> 01:37:32,320
Speaker 5: First, me and Sam react to all of our current episodes,

1791
01:37:32,400 --> 01:37:34,519
Speaker 5: and then we go back one more time and then

1792
01:37:34,640 --> 01:37:36,639
Speaker 5: react to our reactions.

1793
01:37:36,120 --> 01:37:43,920
Speaker 1: Of those episodes. An infinite reaction loop. I would love that.

1794
01:37:44,520 --> 01:37:47,599
Speaker 1: I wonder like how on like we will see how

1795
01:37:47,680 --> 01:37:50,479
Speaker 1: much we've grown by what the responses are it's.

1796
01:37:50,439 --> 01:37:54,160
Speaker 5: Like the Office, like the Office podcast when we watch

1797
01:37:54,240 --> 01:37:55,080
Speaker 5: old Office episodes.

1798
01:37:55,120 --> 01:37:57,600
Speaker 1: Anyways, should we read a couple more memes? Soyvia, we

1799
01:37:57,680 --> 01:38:06,439
Speaker 1: were too Yeah, yeah, memes that's all you get. Let's

1800
01:38:06,439 --> 01:38:06,920
Speaker 1: see this one.

1801
01:38:07,720 --> 01:38:09,000
Speaker 5: You're gonna have to read switching.

1802
01:38:09,560 --> 01:38:12,080
Speaker 1: What caption is best? When you try to lie to

1803
01:38:12,120 --> 01:38:16,160
Speaker 1: your mom but she sees right through you. Uh does

1804
01:38:16,240 --> 01:38:19,240
Speaker 1: something bad? Me? Does something? Mad? Mom? I'm not angry,

1805
01:38:19,320 --> 01:38:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm disappointed. Just Riley's face. Oh my, what is this one?

1806
01:38:24,439 --> 01:38:27,240
Speaker 1: Strangely thought of them when I saw this Next time?

1807
01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:35,200
Speaker 1: Could you not use your podcast voice? What's uh? Who?

1808
01:38:35,360 --> 01:38:37,479
Speaker 1: John praised to what.

1809
01:38:37,680 --> 01:38:38,760
Speaker 2: Is baby eater?

1810
01:38:39,880 --> 01:38:39,920
Speaker 4: What?

1811
01:38:41,600 --> 01:38:49,639
Speaker 1: Blow it up? What is that? Babies that is in cream? Yeah?

1812
01:38:49,640 --> 01:38:53,240
Speaker 1: It does look like the berries and cream guy, give

1813
01:38:53,280 --> 01:38:58,880
Speaker 1: me more stream memestream memes. Rainbow Pigeon judges you for

1814
01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:04,080
Speaker 1: your inferior fashion sense. If they had Sophia's fashion sense,

1815
01:39:05,040 --> 01:39:07,720
Speaker 1: it would be inferior. This is all I could hear

1816
01:39:07,760 --> 01:39:14,720
Speaker 1: in the moment. Protect the kids from favoritisms. Oh yeah,

1817
01:39:15,360 --> 01:39:20,400
Speaker 1: we said, what what is the legs that's eating out there?

1818
01:39:20,640 --> 01:39:20,760
Speaker 4: Oh?

1819
01:39:21,160 --> 01:39:27,040
Speaker 1: Yes, Wow that's a double untie. Oh my god, I

1820
01:39:27,240 --> 01:39:30,880
Speaker 1: have to wait, wait, wait, contact that one yeah, yeah, yeah.

1821
01:39:30,960 --> 01:39:34,639
Speaker 5: So basically I told them yeah, so, so I told

1822
01:39:34,760 --> 01:39:35,120
Speaker 5: the story.

1823
01:39:35,200 --> 01:39:37,320
Speaker 1: The other is my mom. There's a story of.

1824
01:39:37,360 --> 01:39:39,479
Speaker 5: How I was potty trained, and I asked my mom

1825
01:39:39,600 --> 01:39:41,200
Speaker 5: to like text me to break down, and I read

1826
01:39:41,200 --> 01:39:43,800
Speaker 5: it live on the stream. So basically what happened was

1827
01:39:43,880 --> 01:39:46,759
Speaker 5: when I was like two or three, not five.

1828
01:39:47,240 --> 01:39:50,880
Speaker 1: Your mom said four, no, I.

1829
01:39:50,920 --> 01:39:53,280
Speaker 5: Will literally pull their seats. But basically she told me

1830
01:39:53,520 --> 01:39:55,640
Speaker 5: going into four, she told the story. Yeah that was

1831
01:39:55,680 --> 01:39:58,760
Speaker 5: three years old. Yes, I'll give you three. She told

1832
01:39:58,800 --> 01:40:00,880
Speaker 5: the story of how I wasn't he trained until I

1833
01:40:01,000 --> 01:40:03,719
Speaker 5: was three, and she told me that only big boys

1834
01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:07,200
Speaker 5: who used the body can go to Chuck E Cheese.

1835
01:40:07,240 --> 01:40:10,080
Speaker 5: They're not They're not allowing anyone but big boys to

1836
01:40:10,160 --> 01:40:12,719
Speaker 5: use the potty to get inside Chuck E Cheese anymore.

1837
01:40:13,120 --> 01:40:16,800
Speaker 1: From that day forward, I poop, pooed, and peeped in

1838
01:40:17,120 --> 01:40:21,240
Speaker 1: the body. Not one drop was outside of the toilet.

1839
01:40:21,760 --> 01:40:24,479
Speaker 5: So the moral of the story is when you give me,

1840
01:40:25,120 --> 01:40:28,040
Speaker 5: when you give me a directive, I won't just make

1841
01:40:28,120 --> 01:40:29,760
Speaker 5: it happen no matter what.

1842
01:40:30,320 --> 01:40:32,880
Speaker 1: That's the moral of the story. So that's a great, beautiful,

1843
01:40:33,280 --> 01:40:39,519
Speaker 1: great street. That's that's deep lord too. Oh oh wait,

1844
01:40:39,960 --> 01:40:45,120
Speaker 1: so the spicy sleep talk. No, but the sex and consequences.

1845
01:40:46,040 --> 01:40:51,160
Speaker 1: So Riley said that he was given. He wasn't given

1846
01:40:51,200 --> 01:40:53,280
Speaker 1: to sex talk or as much as sex talks. He

1847
01:40:53,360 --> 01:40:57,519
Speaker 1: was giving a pamphlet called Sex and Consequences and it

1848
01:40:57,680 --> 01:41:02,960
Speaker 1: basically said if you have sex, killed die and it

1849
01:41:03,120 --> 01:41:06,040
Speaker 1: was like life, but like you have sex. Oh you

1850
01:41:06,160 --> 01:41:09,960
Speaker 1: have a kid and I have aids. The game. It's

1851
01:41:10,000 --> 01:41:12,960
Speaker 1: a game, but you die every times. Lead to death

1852
01:41:13,080 --> 01:41:17,479
Speaker 1: and death, disease and price sex outside of marriage. Yes, uh,

1853
01:41:18,200 --> 01:41:21,200
Speaker 1: never never speak to me or.

1854
01:41:25,840 --> 01:41:26,360
Speaker 4: That's good.

1855
01:41:27,960 --> 01:41:41,759
Speaker 1: Bruh, cook those give all of them. Cursed, cursed title,

1856
01:41:42,600 --> 01:41:50,080
Speaker 1: cursed title, mixed. That's great. Sobs like I did it.

1857
01:41:53,640 --> 01:41:56,200
Speaker 1: I think that's it. That's different. Now that's one. Oh

1858
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:58,479
Speaker 1: yeah wait wait wait wait. Kevin was in our it

1859
01:41:58,640 --> 01:42:01,800
Speaker 1: was in our members only stream. Kevin exists and the

1860
01:42:01,920 --> 01:42:04,280
Speaker 1: chat just goes wild and we texted him that and

1861
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:05,280
Speaker 1: he did Yeah.

1862
01:42:05,200 --> 01:42:05,600
Speaker 4: He liked it.

1863
01:42:05,720 --> 01:42:08,479
Speaker 1: He liked it. No more, no more, we got the

1864
01:42:08,520 --> 01:42:12,719
Speaker 1: stream boom. But you know what else we have, ladies

1865
01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:19,679
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. What more stories? Should we read? Those donos before?

1866
01:42:20,120 --> 01:42:20,160
Speaker 4: No.

1867
01:42:20,640 --> 01:42:22,559
Speaker 5: Shout out to Spiffy Tiffy, thanks for the ten bucks

1868
01:42:22,640 --> 01:42:24,720
Speaker 5: on the dono link, sending love to Clinton and the

1869
01:42:24,760 --> 01:42:26,720
Speaker 5: rest of all too. Thank you, and then anchor Baby

1870
01:42:26,800 --> 01:42:28,320
Speaker 5: cheez It shout out to you, I think we just

1871
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:31,200
Speaker 5: got that one. Yes, And then Tony Q ten thanks

1872
01:42:31,240 --> 01:42:32,920
Speaker 5: about the five bucks out the donor link. Listening to

1873
01:42:33,040 --> 01:42:34,760
Speaker 5: y'all at two time speed so I can catch up.

1874
01:42:35,439 --> 01:42:36,080
Speaker 1: This is Tony.

1875
01:42:38,360 --> 01:42:42,360
Speaker 5: Shout out to Adeline Gutierrez for the two bucks. I've

1876
01:42:42,479 --> 01:42:45,960
Speaker 5: had my worst two hours. Please send good vibes hearts

1877
01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:50,560
Speaker 5: in the chat for Adamlin Gutierra's Angie Alice thanks to

1878
01:42:50,640 --> 01:42:53,200
Speaker 5: to five thirty six. Uh, you guys missed some donos,

1879
01:42:53,240 --> 01:42:56,439
Speaker 5: scroll up some more. I know because I mentioned Clinton

1880
01:42:56,760 --> 01:42:57,600
Speaker 5: and you didn't read it.

1881
01:42:58,120 --> 01:42:58,519
Speaker 1: Angie.

1882
01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:01,679
Speaker 5: I am sorry if there was any specifically that you mentioned, Alice,

1883
01:43:02,200 --> 01:43:05,360
Speaker 5: it might be that the feed is not is glitch

1884
01:43:05,960 --> 01:43:08,840
Speaker 5: glitching and not giving it to us. But shout out

1885
01:43:08,840 --> 01:43:12,160
Speaker 5: to Angie Alice, shout out to Heidi Browning.

1886
01:43:12,280 --> 01:43:15,040
Speaker 1: I believe, and we just refreshed and got some more.

1887
01:43:15,479 --> 01:43:22,120
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Carolyn's say Carolyn c one hundred dollars donation

1888
01:43:22,479 --> 01:43:25,639
Speaker 1: on the dono link. Keep the butts in the chair.

1889
01:43:25,760 --> 01:43:29,120
Speaker 1: Guess what Carolyn, butts in chair? It's in there. It's

1890
01:43:29,160 --> 01:43:32,120
Speaker 1: in there. How comfy is that couch? Pretty comfy? I'm

1891
01:43:32,280 --> 01:43:33,959
Speaker 1: I'm my back feels supported.

1892
01:43:34,080 --> 01:43:38,800
Speaker 5: My booty and I have very temperate cheeks, no, very

1893
01:43:39,120 --> 01:43:43,439
Speaker 5: uncaked up cheeks. I have a very sensitive booty. So

1894
01:43:43,760 --> 01:43:46,720
Speaker 5: it's it's it's working. Have you tried like nuzzling into

1895
01:43:46,800 --> 01:43:49,679
Speaker 5: the side or like the position?

1896
01:43:49,800 --> 01:43:50,599
Speaker 1: I also need to move.

1897
01:43:50,680 --> 01:43:52,599
Speaker 5: I might have Clinton move, help me move the couch

1898
01:43:52,640 --> 01:43:55,840
Speaker 5: because my my I feel like my my presentation will

1899
01:43:55,880 --> 01:44:00,280
Speaker 5: be better if I I nuzzle trying to let's true

1900
01:44:00,720 --> 01:44:05,200
Speaker 5: that straight prosture. AnyWho, I'm a nuzzler. True Matt had

1901
01:44:05,280 --> 01:44:06,960
Speaker 5: a girl. Thanks for to five bucks. I wish I

1902
01:44:07,000 --> 01:44:08,320
Speaker 5: got to see you guys when I was down in

1903
01:44:08,360 --> 01:44:09,519
Speaker 5: Santa Monica not that long ago.

1904
01:44:09,560 --> 01:44:10,040
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

1905
01:44:10,760 --> 01:44:12,320
Speaker 5: Also, permission to hug you when I see you?

1906
01:44:12,880 --> 01:44:15,960
Speaker 1: Permission granted and thanks for asking.

1907
01:44:16,040 --> 01:44:17,439
Speaker 2: As long as we see it coming.

1908
01:44:17,760 --> 01:44:21,160
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but like John zay on, whatever, can I

1909
01:44:21,200 --> 01:44:24,240
Speaker 1: get a hug? Boom? You got it? So cheekins as

1910
01:44:24,360 --> 01:44:29,120
Speaker 1: I believe right? Social social social? Maybe social because I

1911
01:44:29,160 --> 01:44:33,040
Speaker 1: remember pronounce it princess. Yes, correct us if we're wrong.

1912
01:44:34,200 --> 01:44:35,760
Speaker 1: But thanks for to five bucks.

1913
01:44:35,840 --> 01:44:38,840
Speaker 5: I could I couldn't never say hi in real life,

1914
01:44:39,200 --> 01:44:41,160
Speaker 5: I would definitely burst into tears, which.

1915
01:44:41,000 --> 01:44:45,320
Speaker 1: Means you could say hi, double negatives all say high

1916
01:44:45,320 --> 01:44:46,240
Speaker 1: from here. I love you guys.

1917
01:44:46,439 --> 01:44:48,439
Speaker 5: Uh if if you saw us, we would literally give

1918
01:44:48,479 --> 01:44:52,000
Speaker 5: you a high by. We would literally find a chair

1919
01:44:52,560 --> 01:44:55,280
Speaker 5: and like lift you like like royalty.

1920
01:44:55,640 --> 01:44:58,240
Speaker 1: We we if we had a chair, if we had it,

1921
01:44:58,400 --> 01:44:59,960
Speaker 1: I would find a chair. We would find a chair.

1922
01:45:00,280 --> 01:45:02,760
Speaker 5: Yes, and hopefully we cry of happiness and then from

1923
01:45:02,920 --> 01:45:04,840
Speaker 5: oh my, the five dollars donation?

1924
01:45:05,000 --> 01:45:08,160
Speaker 1: Quick question? What roles does the new guy play in

1925
01:45:08,720 --> 01:45:12,880
Speaker 1: the whim queen Kingdom? Should we have? Should we let

1926
01:45:12,920 --> 01:45:18,519
Speaker 1: the people? He's my cup bra wow? Wow get to me?

1927
01:45:21,600 --> 01:45:23,719
Speaker 1: My cup is empty and m lasty queen.

1928
01:45:23,960 --> 01:45:25,799
Speaker 3: I actually just compliment her outfits.

1929
01:45:26,800 --> 01:45:28,200
Speaker 2: I feel like I haven't done this yet.

1930
01:45:29,560 --> 01:45:34,880
Speaker 1: I missed that memo. Legitimately, cupbearter, could you get me

1931
01:45:35,200 --> 01:45:41,280
Speaker 1: a energy drink from uh? No free sponsors, unnamed drink?

1932
01:45:42,400 --> 01:45:42,880
Speaker 4: What I want?

1933
01:45:43,080 --> 01:45:49,240
Speaker 1: I think we're out of those? Possibly seriously, I think

1934
01:45:49,280 --> 01:45:51,639
Speaker 1: so that's tragic. Orders you know what I want?

1935
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Speaker 2: What this next story?

1936
01:45:54,400 --> 01:45:57,519
Speaker 1: Maybe coffee? Yeah, see if we have some we might yeah,

1937
01:45:57,760 --> 01:46:01,559
Speaker 1: we might, and maybe some some water. Yes, thank you Clinton,

1938
01:46:02,040 --> 01:46:06,080
Speaker 1: We love you Clinton, We love you. There we go there,

1939
01:46:06,120 --> 01:46:11,160
Speaker 1: we go, Yes, say that it's great, all okay. Storytime

1940
01:46:11,200 --> 01:46:13,800
Speaker 1: employees are forced to say I love you back. Yeah.

1941
01:46:14,200 --> 01:46:17,320
Speaker 1: That is rule number one. This is the workplace pre

1942
01:46:17,360 --> 01:46:21,000
Speaker 1: fostering exactly low key. That is kind of the workplace.

1943
01:46:21,720 --> 01:46:24,360
Speaker 1: That is, if someone didn't say I love you back,

1944
01:46:24,880 --> 01:46:27,639
Speaker 1: I kicked out. I don't know, it's fired. I feel

1945
01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:30,479
Speaker 1: like that's kind of our our our office vibe. It's

1946
01:46:30,680 --> 01:46:33,200
Speaker 1: it's our m it's our how we Yeah. I couldn't

1947
01:46:33,240 --> 01:46:36,880
Speaker 1: imagine it any other way. That's truly Yeah. Without saying

1948
01:46:36,920 --> 01:46:40,160
Speaker 1: I love youse, come on, that's whack dude. They now

1949
01:46:40,240 --> 01:46:42,240
Speaker 1: all were socks thanks to the teen Bucks first time

1950
01:46:42,280 --> 01:46:46,360
Speaker 1: in the stream. Been listening since twenty twenty two. That's

1951
01:46:46,400 --> 01:46:48,760
Speaker 1: the who. I love listening to you guys at work.

1952
01:46:48,800 --> 01:46:53,360
Speaker 1: You make eight hours pass like nothing. I'm a housekeeper

1953
01:46:53,439 --> 01:46:57,680
Speaker 1: and can't stop laughing. My residents think I'm crazy. Tell

1954
01:46:57,720 --> 01:47:00,560
Speaker 1: me somebody like I like that.

1955
01:47:01,439 --> 01:47:01,920
Speaker 4: I love that.

1956
01:47:02,080 --> 01:47:03,080
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, me too.

1957
01:47:03,439 --> 01:47:05,559
Speaker 2: I do that all the time if I'm watching something.

1958
01:47:05,880 --> 01:47:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, listen to us in random places that you

1959
01:47:08,240 --> 01:47:11,880
Speaker 1: shouldn't laugh out loud in order to uncomfortably laugh out loud.

1960
01:47:12,320 --> 01:47:15,559
Speaker 1: And it says sounds like a sexual harassmental lawsuits.

1961
01:47:15,680 --> 01:47:18,560
Speaker 6: Make all of our coworkers say I love you. I

1962
01:47:18,600 --> 01:47:21,640
Speaker 6: don't think I was like your place of work is

1963
01:47:21,840 --> 01:47:23,240
Speaker 6: length Yeah yeah.

1964
01:47:23,520 --> 01:47:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah if you're If you really loved your work, you

1965
01:47:26,360 --> 01:47:29,720
Speaker 1: would say I love you to all of your coworkers. Exactly.

1966
01:47:30,000 --> 01:47:33,479
Speaker 5: Welcome to cosgo I love you. Shout out if you

1967
01:47:33,560 --> 01:47:36,040
Speaker 5: get that joke of all time?

1968
01:47:36,920 --> 01:47:38,639
Speaker 1: Cool? Do you want to click click out? Why should

1969
01:47:38,640 --> 01:47:42,639
Speaker 1: we go to this next story? Let's do it. Let's

1970
01:47:42,720 --> 01:47:45,200
Speaker 1: do it, Let's get to it. I'm also ordering more

1971
01:47:45,240 --> 01:47:49,400
Speaker 1: of the sacred sacred liquid, the liquid of energy that

1972
01:47:49,760 --> 01:47:54,160
Speaker 1: give us. I've been going no coffee for like a bit.

1973
01:47:54,880 --> 01:47:58,000
Speaker 1: How do you feel like crap right now?

1974
01:47:58,240 --> 01:47:58,479
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1975
01:47:58,880 --> 01:48:01,920
Speaker 1: But I felt good? Uh the other days. I just

1976
01:48:02,000 --> 01:48:04,080
Speaker 1: went to bed a little late because it was Christian's

1977
01:48:04,120 --> 01:48:09,040
Speaker 1: birthday yesterday. Why are they not having everyone listen to

1978
01:48:09,120 --> 01:48:11,799
Speaker 1: you guys on speaker? Also, have everyone like the stream

1979
01:48:12,160 --> 01:48:13,200
Speaker 1: darned straight? Yeah?

1980
01:48:13,240 --> 01:48:13,560
Speaker 4: You know what?

1981
01:48:14,240 --> 01:48:17,320
Speaker 1: Put it on the speaker that everyone needs to know?

1982
01:48:17,800 --> 01:48:19,759
Speaker 2: Yes, put us on blast.

1983
01:48:20,520 --> 01:48:23,559
Speaker 1: Yeah. So what do we listening to next? Fifty nine?

1984
01:48:24,800 --> 01:48:29,280
Speaker 1: I think so? Nine? Or is this yours?

1985
01:48:30,920 --> 01:48:32,400
Speaker 4: Street? Is not?

1986
01:48:32,720 --> 01:48:36,759
Speaker 1: No, it's John, It's John Because John finished the last episode,

1987
01:48:36,800 --> 01:48:42,640
Speaker 1: so he's gonna start this. Indeed, they said they I

1988
01:48:42,760 --> 01:48:45,280
Speaker 1: love your new background. We're going to add those panels

1989
01:48:45,320 --> 01:48:46,880
Speaker 1: to the whole wall. They're just kind of propped up

1990
01:48:46,960 --> 01:48:51,200
Speaker 1: right now. But we're we're re we're redesigning the thing. Wait,

1991
01:48:51,320 --> 01:48:53,400
Speaker 1: you guys are getting so famous. As playing the pod

1992
01:48:53,439 --> 01:48:54,840
Speaker 1: on my phone when I went to Starbucks and the

1993
01:48:54,960 --> 01:48:57,599
Speaker 1: window was little and the breist's skin in my app

1994
01:48:57,640 --> 01:48:59,400
Speaker 1: and she saw Sam was like, I love them. They

1995
01:48:59,400 --> 01:49:06,400
Speaker 1: are so fun. What let's freaking go, that's sick. Shawn

1996
01:49:06,479 --> 01:49:09,759
Speaker 1: A shout out cook that thing? Cook that thing, shawn

1997
01:49:09,840 --> 01:49:13,080
Speaker 1: A shout out you? Yeah, where was that? Where was that?

1998
01:49:13,479 --> 01:49:14,599
Speaker 1: Let us know? That's crazy?

1999
01:49:15,640 --> 01:49:16,000
Speaker 4: Fire?

2000
01:49:17,280 --> 01:49:24,600
Speaker 1: Also what episode ran again? Starting off? We're starting.

2001
01:49:26,200 --> 01:49:27,880
Speaker 5: All right, boys and girls, are you ready to have

2002
01:49:27,960 --> 01:49:29,759
Speaker 5: a story read to your face?

2003
01:49:29,840 --> 01:49:30,160
Speaker 4: Holes?

2004
01:49:31,280 --> 01:49:36,160
Speaker 1: Faceless? Just well, let's like a fire hose pointed at

2005
01:49:36,200 --> 01:49:36,599
Speaker 1: your mouth.

2006
01:49:36,800 --> 01:49:37,080
Speaker 8: Do it?

2007
01:49:37,840 --> 01:49:40,880
Speaker 1: Here we go. My wife packed up and left with

2008
01:49:41,040 --> 01:49:43,559
Speaker 1: our child when I was at work. Is that legal?

2009
01:49:45,520 --> 01:49:48,800
Speaker 1: Sounds like kidnapping? Kind of sounds like it actually.

2010
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Speaker 4: Is.

2011
01:49:50,640 --> 01:49:55,320
Speaker 1: It is technically kidnapping. Maybe we'll see this is all

2012
01:49:55,400 --> 01:49:55,880
Speaker 1: the answer.

2013
01:49:56,320 --> 01:50:00,679
Speaker 5: When is self improvement needed to continue your relationship improvement

2014
01:50:00,840 --> 01:50:02,400
Speaker 5: like stealing your own child.

2015
01:50:02,520 --> 01:50:05,000
Speaker 1: Maybe you're gonna get better at stealing child and you

2016
01:50:05,080 --> 01:50:09,479
Speaker 1: won't get cays. Actually this comes from M. D.

2017
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Speaker 5: Meyers uh one eight nine two two zero two four,

2018
01:50:13,920 --> 01:50:17,800
Speaker 5: who says it's a long hello everyone, having a really

2019
01:50:17,840 --> 01:50:20,360
Speaker 5: tough few days here. On Monday, I came home from

2020
01:50:20,360 --> 01:50:22,280
Speaker 5: an eight hour shift training at a new job to

2021
01:50:22,360 --> 01:50:24,680
Speaker 5: find that my wife and mother in law had a

2022
01:50:24,800 --> 01:50:28,040
Speaker 5: coordinated had coordinated a moving company to come to our

2023
01:50:28,080 --> 01:50:30,760
Speaker 5: shared home of nine years a rental and pack up

2024
01:50:30,800 --> 01:50:34,240
Speaker 5: what she considers her belongings, some of which can be debated.

2025
01:50:34,760 --> 01:50:37,439
Speaker 5: She has also taken upon herself to decide that our

2026
01:50:37,520 --> 01:50:41,240
Speaker 5: eleven month old baby and all of his necessities for

2027
01:50:41,400 --> 01:50:44,640
Speaker 5: well being are taken to her mom's house about a

2028
01:50:44,720 --> 01:50:52,320
Speaker 5: forty five minute drive away. So basically, his we did it.

2029
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Speaker 1: Oh, that's okay, that's okay, that's Okayn's a G. Clinton's

2030
01:51:05,880 --> 01:51:12,639
Speaker 1: a G perfect all right, fricking go see, there's literally

2031
01:51:12,680 --> 01:51:16,160
Speaker 1: nothing Clinton can't do. There's nothing on chat chat. I

2032
01:51:16,360 --> 01:51:18,880
Speaker 1: dare you to invent a thing that Clinton you think

2033
01:51:18,920 --> 01:51:20,880
Speaker 1: Clinton can't do, and he will literally do it. He

2034
01:51:20,920 --> 01:51:23,479
Speaker 1: will do it. My god. Anyways, let's get back, but

2035
01:51:23,520 --> 01:51:27,559
Speaker 1: don't get too crazy. H yeah, yeah, chat chat chat.

2036
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Speaker 5: So they have already established a bedroom for the kid

2037
01:51:33,120 --> 01:51:36,519
Speaker 5: and herself, and this was obviously premeditated, well and advanced.

2038
01:51:37,200 --> 01:51:39,640
Speaker 5: I feel blindsided, of course, but she blames it on

2039
01:51:39,760 --> 01:51:44,120
Speaker 5: my drinking problem and adderall usage. Oh, do you have

2040
01:51:44,280 --> 01:51:45,320
Speaker 5: something you need to tell us?

2041
01:51:46,320 --> 01:51:52,280
Speaker 1: Maybe he's just drinking water and he has ADHD his

2042
01:51:52,760 --> 01:51:57,720
Speaker 1: his psychiatrist. You're too hydrated. Yeah, you're so hydrated that

2043
01:51:57,840 --> 01:52:01,320
Speaker 1: it frustrates me because I'm not my hydration goal. You're

2044
01:52:01,360 --> 01:52:04,000
Speaker 1: always using the bathroom. But what I need a P two.

2045
01:52:05,000 --> 01:52:06,840
Speaker 1: You use the bathroom so much that I need to

2046
01:52:06,880 --> 01:52:09,320
Speaker 1: steal our baby so I can use my own bathroom

2047
01:52:09,360 --> 01:52:12,880
Speaker 1: more frequently. And he's not using the Riley math, that's

2048
01:52:12,920 --> 01:52:16,320
Speaker 1: for sure. And that's a p outside for anyone who

2049
01:52:16,439 --> 01:52:20,880
Speaker 1: is not members only way. Yeah, exactly so.

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Speaker 4: But but bu.

2051
01:52:25,880 --> 01:52:28,920
Speaker 1: So, while I do agree, I have problems. I don't agree.

2052
01:52:29,280 --> 01:52:30,200
Speaker 1: I don't agree with this.

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01:52:30,880 --> 01:52:32,880
Speaker 5: I don't agree with how this was all done without

2054
01:52:32,880 --> 01:52:35,240
Speaker 5: my consent or even trying to ask for my input.

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01:52:36,000 --> 01:52:38,080
Speaker 1: I live in Austin, Texas and do not know what

2056
01:52:38,240 --> 01:52:38,439
Speaker 1: to do.

2057
01:52:38,600 --> 01:52:41,080
Speaker 5: At this point, she says she wants to remain separated

2058
01:52:41,280 --> 01:52:44,800
Speaker 5: but by not divorce, but not divorced for no less

2059
01:52:44,920 --> 01:52:47,280
Speaker 5: than six months while I get a chance to sober

2060
01:52:47,400 --> 01:52:50,400
Speaker 5: up and go through substance abuse programs which I already

2061
01:52:50,439 --> 01:52:50,840
Speaker 5: signed up.

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01:52:51,240 --> 01:52:52,240
Speaker 1: Is it legal what she did?

2063
01:52:52,360 --> 01:52:54,639
Speaker 5: Or should I have any worry about my future parental

2064
01:52:54,720 --> 01:52:57,000
Speaker 5: rights if the kid resides in that house for a

2065
01:52:57,080 --> 01:53:02,200
Speaker 5: certain period of time. My wife has the advantage of family,

2066
01:53:02,320 --> 01:53:04,920
Speaker 5: a family safety net, and plenty of money to support

2067
01:53:05,000 --> 01:53:08,080
Speaker 5: this and free room and board, and I am being

2068
01:53:08,120 --> 01:53:10,639
Speaker 5: stuck with the house by myself and all the bills

2069
01:53:10,960 --> 01:53:13,839
Speaker 5: I cannot afford it on my own, or any advice

2070
01:53:14,000 --> 01:53:16,200
Speaker 5: of what I should do first.

2071
01:53:17,120 --> 01:53:17,920
Speaker 1: There are some.

2072
01:53:18,120 --> 01:53:24,720
Speaker 5: Relevant comments, but let's take a very quick break here. Yeah,

2073
01:53:24,720 --> 01:53:27,400
Speaker 5: I think we need to know more about OPI situations.

2074
01:53:27,479 --> 01:53:31,240
Speaker 5: Someone mentioned there there possibly could be some some DV

2075
01:53:31,560 --> 01:53:36,360
Speaker 5: or other you know, uh, very real issues here that

2076
01:53:36,439 --> 01:53:39,479
Speaker 5: OPI is not I mean explaining possibly not.

2077
01:53:40,439 --> 01:53:43,560
Speaker 1: There is not often we don't know for sure, but

2078
01:53:43,680 --> 01:53:47,599
Speaker 1: it is not often that someone leaves with your child

2079
01:53:47,920 --> 01:53:51,280
Speaker 1: in the night and there's been nothing that you've done

2080
01:53:51,360 --> 01:53:56,920
Speaker 1: is wrong exactly because in many scenarios, the reason why

2081
01:53:56,960 --> 01:53:59,200
Speaker 1: a person would do it without telling the person is

2082
01:53:59,240 --> 01:54:02,639
Speaker 1: there afraid they could lash out, be violent, et cetera,

2083
01:54:02,760 --> 01:54:04,360
Speaker 1: et cetera. So it's like, hey, let me get the

2084
01:54:04,400 --> 01:54:08,280
Speaker 1: baby to safety without triggering any potential danger while I

2085
01:54:08,439 --> 01:54:15,519
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, yeah, I I I am thinking that

2086
01:54:15,680 --> 01:54:20,400
Speaker 1: OP is a unreliable narrator, Yes, thinking based on what

2087
01:54:20,600 --> 01:54:24,360
Speaker 1: what we we know so far, unreliable narrator as well. Yeah,

2088
01:54:24,439 --> 01:54:27,080
Speaker 1: Jesse Bell says, sounds like the repercussions of his actions

2089
01:54:27,120 --> 01:54:30,640
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah. Again, like it very well could be

2090
01:54:30,800 --> 01:54:33,400
Speaker 1: that she went out of nowhere and like maybe she's

2091
01:54:33,720 --> 01:54:36,720
Speaker 1: she has another boo thing on the side, but like

2092
01:54:37,000 --> 01:54:39,520
Speaker 1: the more likely scenario is you're drinking and out like

2093
01:54:39,600 --> 01:54:43,000
Speaker 1: adderall usage is actually out of control. Yes, and she

2094
01:54:43,200 --> 01:54:45,440
Speaker 1: felt that for the safety of her and the safety

2095
01:54:45,440 --> 01:54:48,080
Speaker 1: of the baby that she had thinks maybe away baby

2096
01:54:48,080 --> 01:54:51,000
Speaker 1: makes a lot of sense. But hey maybe maybe maybe

2097
01:54:51,160 --> 01:54:53,200
Speaker 1: maybe that's not true. We'll see, We'll say we have

2098
01:54:53,280 --> 01:54:58,120
Speaker 1: some relevant comments and maybe some OP responses.

2099
01:54:58,200 --> 01:55:03,080
Speaker 5: So are Rollino, Tampa says A really no, Tampa says

2100
01:55:03,840 --> 01:55:05,320
Speaker 5: any advice on what I should do?

2101
01:55:05,440 --> 01:55:05,680
Speaker 1: First?

2102
01:55:06,240 --> 01:55:09,960
Speaker 5: I guess that's Ope. Actually wait, that's not OP because

2103
01:55:09,960 --> 01:55:14,200
Speaker 5: OP has a different username. Ah respect sorry, thank you. Sophia,

2104
01:55:14,480 --> 01:55:18,000
Speaker 5: producer of the year. So uh A really, no, Tampa says,

2105
01:55:18,360 --> 01:55:20,600
Speaker 5: is quoting any advice on what I should do first,

2106
01:55:20,680 --> 01:55:23,800
Speaker 5: And they respond to that by saying, stop drinking. Stop

2107
01:55:23,960 --> 01:55:27,480
Speaker 5: drinking unless cold turkey would cause withdraws, and stop using

2108
01:55:27,520 --> 01:55:30,480
Speaker 5: that addie unless it is prescribed. Unless your wife is

2109
01:55:30,560 --> 01:55:33,000
Speaker 5: nuts and it sounds like she isn't uh, and you

2110
01:55:33,120 --> 01:55:35,400
Speaker 5: know exactly why she's separating from you.

2111
01:55:37,120 --> 01:55:37,680
Speaker 1: We just heard.

2112
01:55:38,400 --> 01:55:42,360
Speaker 5: We are just listening to dude. This man Clinton is

2113
01:55:42,440 --> 01:55:45,600
Speaker 5: just beautifully strumming the guitar right now. He is like

2114
01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:49,360
Speaker 5: an alien. He is a perfect little alien man who

2115
01:55:49,520 --> 01:55:51,480
Speaker 5: is a little, perfect little alien man.

2116
01:55:52,320 --> 01:55:56,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is crazy, and heasy this strum for a

2117
01:55:56,480 --> 01:55:57,640
Speaker 1: little bit and he's coming.

2118
01:55:57,480 --> 01:56:00,800
Speaker 5: Up now now he's coming back. Anyways, My god, I.

2119
01:56:01,160 --> 01:56:03,120
Speaker 10: Did I sent him down with that? He just set

2120
01:56:03,160 --> 01:56:06,040
Speaker 10: to close the fridge. I see a little but the

2121
01:56:06,160 --> 01:56:10,520
Speaker 10: music speaks to me to pick up the guitar. Love

2122
01:56:10,600 --> 01:56:11,480
Speaker 10: that little strum break.

2123
01:56:12,600 --> 01:56:13,160
Speaker 1: So uh.

2124
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:15,800
Speaker 5: And then the commentary goes on, uh, this should be

2125
01:56:15,920 --> 01:56:18,400
Speaker 5: your low point and your wake up call. Get yourself

2126
01:56:18,440 --> 01:56:21,440
Speaker 5: put together. Your wife did nothing illegal, and your reaction

2127
01:56:21,600 --> 01:56:23,720
Speaker 5: is a classic case of an addict complaining that their

2128
01:56:23,760 --> 01:56:28,080
Speaker 5: actions led to consequences, not of somebody ready to take responsibility.

2129
01:56:29,440 --> 01:56:31,160
Speaker 5: This should be your lowest point. If you don't start

2130
01:56:31,200 --> 01:56:33,880
Speaker 5: taking responsibility for yourself, then the real low point is

2131
01:56:33,960 --> 01:56:38,520
Speaker 5: even lower, possibly possibly six feet under the ground lower.

2132
01:56:39,400 --> 01:56:44,360
Speaker 5: Don't let it get to that point. Yo uh Arleano

2133
01:56:44,440 --> 01:56:47,360
Speaker 5: Tampa is talking some some reality to Opie.

2134
01:56:47,600 --> 01:56:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I mean, I like, I feel, I

2135
01:56:50,960 --> 01:56:55,920
Speaker 1: feel Ope at least could include enough information for people

2136
01:56:55,960 --> 01:56:58,800
Speaker 1: to attach on where it's like, oh, she's talking about

2137
01:56:58,840 --> 01:57:01,440
Speaker 1: my good drinking and adderable usage, so like, at least

2138
01:57:02,280 --> 01:57:06,320
Speaker 1: now we can get some pointed advice towards op which

2139
01:57:06,320 --> 01:57:08,280
Speaker 1: it seems like, oh, like people are doing this is true.

2140
01:57:09,000 --> 01:57:13,400
Speaker 5: And then there's another comment from vex lafire in the

2141
01:57:13,480 --> 01:57:17,480
Speaker 5: absence of some kind of court mandated parenting agreement, then no,

2142
01:57:18,400 --> 01:57:21,200
Speaker 5: she has done nothing illegal. It sounds like this is

2143
01:57:21,200 --> 01:57:23,200
Speaker 5: the wake up Paul you needed. Hopefully you can make

2144
01:57:23,240 --> 01:57:27,800
Speaker 5: the necessary changes to reunite your family. And then Opie

2145
01:57:27,840 --> 01:57:29,960
Speaker 5: respond to that today is day one.

2146
01:57:31,400 --> 01:57:34,560
Speaker 1: Oh, so that is a maybe he is sign, yes,

2147
01:57:34,640 --> 01:57:37,800
Speaker 1: sign that he's like, I actually am going to start

2148
01:57:38,760 --> 01:57:41,880
Speaker 1: bringing it over newly, pointing in a positive direction. But

2149
01:57:42,960 --> 01:57:43,680
Speaker 1: we have an update.

2150
01:57:44,040 --> 01:57:50,440
Speaker 5: Oh eight days later, okay, six point two million views

2151
01:57:51,360 --> 01:57:55,160
Speaker 5: on my only post. Wow Op got six point two

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Speaker 5: million views on his first post ever, flew the f

2153
01:57:58,320 --> 01:58:02,600
Speaker 5: up yep, wild, I don't expect that haha. Anyways, thanks

2154
01:58:02,640 --> 01:58:05,520
Speaker 5: to all with the great support, and thanks for the

2155
01:58:05,640 --> 01:58:07,560
Speaker 5: laughs of those of you assuming I am the devil

2156
01:58:07,600 --> 01:58:10,760
Speaker 5: and cursing me out eut. Anyways, a small update for

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01:58:10,880 --> 01:58:15,640
Speaker 5: anyone paying attention. My first substance abuse counseling session is

2158
01:58:15,840 --> 01:58:20,360
Speaker 5: this afternoon, A good time. It got delayed twice due

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01:58:20,400 --> 01:58:25,480
Speaker 5: to insurance. I'm also going to an a meeting around

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01:58:25,640 --> 01:58:30,040
Speaker 5: seven with my friend I think, yes anonymous.

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01:58:29,840 --> 01:58:33,600
Speaker 1: Products Anonymous, Yes, right. My wife and I are talking

2162
01:58:33,680 --> 01:58:38,520
Speaker 1: and doing fine. Yes, doing fine, which is definitely the

2163
01:58:38,680 --> 01:58:41,320
Speaker 1: case when your wife abducts your child and has to

2164
01:58:41,440 --> 01:58:42,560
Speaker 1: go away from you. Oh.

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01:58:42,640 --> 01:58:45,360
Speaker 5: He does follow up with I get my son all

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01:58:45,480 --> 01:58:48,200
Speaker 5: day tomorrow, going to buy some new toys for the

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01:58:48,240 --> 01:58:51,440
Speaker 5: little dude, which it sounds like there's in a greed.

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01:58:52,160 --> 01:58:54,440
Speaker 1: It's like, yes, you can see him of the child. Yeah.

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01:58:55,000 --> 01:58:57,320
Speaker 5: So some of you may assumed I was snorting twelve

2170
01:58:57,360 --> 01:58:59,920
Speaker 5: inch lines of speed in a bottle of whiskey a day.

2171
01:59:00,600 --> 01:59:03,960
Speaker 5: Sorry but it was Sorry, but it was too much

2172
01:59:04,480 --> 01:59:07,240
Speaker 5: Addie daily a scary amount, to be honest, and it's

2173
01:59:07,280 --> 01:59:11,360
Speaker 5: pathetic of me to have gotten that low. All I

2174
01:59:11,520 --> 01:59:15,480
Speaker 5: drink is all I drink is crappy beer. I don't

2175
01:59:15,560 --> 01:59:17,280
Speaker 5: drink hard stuff other than holidays.

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01:59:17,360 --> 01:59:21,560
Speaker 1: Maybe not a fan. No violence, no screaming fights again,

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01:59:21,640 --> 01:59:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm who knows? Who knows? I mean, even if it

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01:59:27,120 --> 01:59:33,400
Speaker 1: is just like an obscene amount of drinking and Addie like,

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01:59:34,160 --> 01:59:36,040
Speaker 1: I think that could be enough to be like, I

2180
01:59:36,080 --> 01:59:39,680
Speaker 1: don't want my totally totally.

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01:59:40,880 --> 01:59:43,880
Speaker 5: She was done with me abusing and pushing myself. I'm

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01:59:43,960 --> 01:59:46,000
Speaker 5: done with that too. I agree with her and why

2183
01:59:46,120 --> 01:59:48,760
Speaker 5: she did what she did. I am a week clean.

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01:59:49,080 --> 01:59:51,560
Speaker 5: I cannot wait to be a year clean. I'm stubborn

2185
01:59:51,680 --> 01:59:54,680
Speaker 5: enough where I'm sure I can. I love my family,

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01:59:54,800 --> 01:59:57,080
Speaker 5: they love me back. I just need to focus on

2187
01:59:57,240 --> 01:59:59,080
Speaker 5: repairing myself first.

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01:59:59,600 --> 02:00:01,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe this is the wake up call. Yes,

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02:00:01,640 --> 02:00:03,280
Speaker 1: and oh, he's gonna be on the straight and arrow.

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02:00:03,360 --> 02:00:05,160
Speaker 5: I don't know this is if this is exactly what

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02:00:05,320 --> 02:00:08,680
Speaker 5: Opie said, but it sounds like he said, I agree

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02:00:08,800 --> 02:00:11,600
Speaker 5: with the decision of my wife to like basically have

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02:00:11,960 --> 02:00:14,520
Speaker 5: the baby, you know, in a safe place with he's

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02:00:14,680 --> 02:00:18,120
Speaker 5: like you said, there's finances a full family. There's like

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02:00:18,280 --> 02:00:22,280
Speaker 5: it sounds like there's great support for the baby with

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02:00:23,560 --> 02:00:26,040
Speaker 5: his uh soon to be ex's family.

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02:00:26,640 --> 02:00:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so it's like it's like not like the

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02:00:28,720 --> 02:00:31,000
Speaker 1: child is going to be like wanting gets and he's

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Speaker 1: in agreement.

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02:00:31,520 --> 02:00:35,000
Speaker 5: He's like, yeah, actually you having the child's is a

2201
02:00:35,160 --> 02:00:38,960
Speaker 5: good solution, is what it seems like Opie is saying.

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02:00:39,040 --> 02:00:43,800
Speaker 1: But there are some relevant comments again and it gets

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02:00:44,080 --> 02:00:48,160
Speaker 1: thick and juicy. Top, should we read some some donuts

2204
02:00:48,200 --> 02:00:49,920
Speaker 1: because I think we found the missing donuts? Oh?

2205
02:00:50,480 --> 02:00:51,839
Speaker 2: I did find the missing donuts.

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02:00:52,080 --> 02:00:55,440
Speaker 1: I let's read them. Is that the first one? Heidi

2207
02:00:55,480 --> 02:00:57,200
Speaker 1: browning things at a five bucks? Tip? Was that one

2208
02:00:57,200 --> 02:00:59,960
Speaker 1: of the missing ones? Yeah? Ah, thanks for being awesome you'all.

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02:01:00,080 --> 02:01:02,160
Speaker 1: I went through my watch history and I've been watching

2210
02:01:02,240 --> 02:01:04,360
Speaker 1: off for close to three years.

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02:01:04,720 --> 02:01:09,840
Speaker 5: Oh you've been since said beginning. That is deep because

2212
02:01:09,880 --> 02:01:14,240
Speaker 5: our three year anniversary is coming up. Thanks for having

2213
02:01:14,440 --> 02:01:20,960
Speaker 5: the best community out there. We started September nineteenth, twenty

2214
02:01:21,040 --> 02:01:21,440
Speaker 5: twenty one.

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Speaker 1: Correct, nice work.

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02:01:24,440 --> 02:01:27,960
Speaker 5: Give me when I dragon with the oh celebrating a

2217
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Speaker 5: three month membership, okop and a World of Warcraft gonna

2218
02:01:32,080 --> 02:01:34,560
Speaker 5: be a good night, I mean thinks, Okop but yeah,

2219
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Speaker 5: what is that.

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02:01:37,680 --> 02:01:39,400
Speaker 1: I've never heard of that. What you're talking about?

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02:01:39,480 --> 02:01:40,240
Speaker 9: Do you want my dragon?

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02:01:41,040 --> 02:01:45,680
Speaker 1: Angie? Allis thanks to five thirty six. Clinton should play

2223
02:01:45,800 --> 02:01:48,160
Speaker 1: something on stream for a wheel spin.

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02:01:48,240 --> 02:01:51,160
Speaker 6: Okay, I know you guys don't like jazz, but you'll

2225
02:01:51,280 --> 02:01:54,320
Speaker 6: like jazz. But what if Clinton just played in the background.

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02:01:54,440 --> 02:01:58,480
Speaker 1: Ooh oh oh, we'll spend Actually, let's totally add that

2227
02:01:58,840 --> 02:02:03,920
Speaker 1: fifteen seconds of Clinton singing. And he's sing, he doesn't

2228
02:02:03,920 --> 02:02:10,320
Speaker 1: sing playing, just just freaking strum in the seat for like, yeah,

2229
02:02:10,440 --> 02:02:14,200
Speaker 1: ten fifteen. We'll have to earn it.

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02:02:14,960 --> 02:02:18,080
Speaker 6: It's already a thing that says Clinton on the wheel,

2231
02:02:18,240 --> 02:02:19,640
Speaker 6: so that can just be Clinton.

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02:02:19,400 --> 02:02:22,560
Speaker 1: Place already on the wheel because it was we put

2233
02:02:22,600 --> 02:02:26,480
Speaker 1: it up last week. Oh, people were already demanding it.

2234
02:02:27,240 --> 02:02:29,320
Speaker 1: If you get the eight hundred likes, we'll put Clinton.

2235
02:02:29,440 --> 02:02:31,920
Speaker 1: Well we'll spin the wheel and get Clinton on there.

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02:02:32,000 --> 02:02:34,200
Speaker 5: There we go, gallery and thanks for to two bucks.

2237
02:02:34,480 --> 02:02:39,760
Speaker 5: I actually have posted the story to the subreddits. Oh oh,

2238
02:02:39,960 --> 02:02:42,160
Speaker 5: Skyler Rain. Maybe maybe it sounds like Schlamane posted a

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02:02:42,240 --> 02:02:44,360
Speaker 5: story we have read or reading. Heck, yeah, Mad had

2240
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Speaker 5: a girl. Thanks for to ten bucks. I forgot to

2241
02:02:46,160 --> 02:02:48,080
Speaker 5: say at the beginning of the stream, thank you for

2242
02:02:48,160 --> 02:02:52,120
Speaker 5: keeping me company while I work on fan club bookmarks?

2243
02:02:52,640 --> 02:02:54,760
Speaker 5: Is that your job at hader Gal. That's awesome.

2244
02:02:55,480 --> 02:02:58,560
Speaker 1: I know some of a magesty. It would love?

2245
02:02:58,960 --> 02:03:01,480
Speaker 2: I would, I would. I've seen the progress and it

2246
02:03:01,520 --> 02:03:02,160
Speaker 2: looks amazing.

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02:03:02,400 --> 02:03:06,640
Speaker 1: Heck yeah, is that all the donos? All of the donos,

2248
02:03:06,680 --> 02:03:07,760
Speaker 1: but it's all the old one.

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02:03:07,640 --> 02:03:09,560
Speaker 5: All of the missing ones. Shout out to our missing

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Speaker 5: donos and sorry for a missing up. Real quick, we'll

2251
02:03:12,480 --> 02:03:15,480
Speaker 5: close out Brandy Beard, thanks for the two bucks. Love

2252
02:03:15,600 --> 02:03:17,800
Speaker 5: missening to y'all, love you back. And then Heidi Browning

2253
02:03:17,960 --> 02:03:20,200
Speaker 5: again with the five bucks on the donor link. Thanks

2254
02:03:20,240 --> 02:03:22,480
Speaker 5: for being awesome y'all. I went through my Watch the Street.

2255
02:03:22,680 --> 02:03:24,520
Speaker 5: I'll read it again. So nice over Rady twice and

2256
02:03:24,640 --> 02:03:26,600
Speaker 5: I've been watching off for close to three years. Thanks

2257
02:03:26,640 --> 02:03:29,120
Speaker 5: for having the best community out there. I like y'all

2258
02:03:29,240 --> 02:03:30,480
Speaker 5: so much. I'll send it again.

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02:03:30,560 --> 02:03:32,080
Speaker 1: Oh Heidi, Well there you go.

2260
02:03:32,280 --> 02:03:34,680
Speaker 5: That's good that I read it again. Heck yeah, Hidi Browning,

2261
02:03:34,800 --> 02:03:37,960
Speaker 5: let's freaking go. All right, ladies and gentlemen, let's get

2262
02:03:37,960 --> 02:03:40,839
Speaker 5: to these relevant comments. We're picking up right after the update.

2263
02:03:41,680 --> 02:03:44,760
Speaker 5: Toxic Childhood says, look if your wife felt like she

2264
02:03:44,880 --> 02:03:47,080
Speaker 5: had to hide all this info from you planned her

2265
02:03:47,280 --> 02:03:50,480
Speaker 5: escape and move forty five minutes away. Yeah, you missed

2266
02:03:50,520 --> 02:03:53,600
Speaker 5: a big time. That said, kudos to you. A week

2267
02:03:53,640 --> 02:03:56,080
Speaker 5: clean is huge, and I truly do hope that you

2268
02:03:56,200 --> 02:03:58,360
Speaker 5: make it to one year, three years, ten years, and

2269
02:03:58,480 --> 02:04:01,280
Speaker 5: so on. But remember that just because you are finally

2270
02:04:01,320 --> 02:04:03,480
Speaker 5: taking the steps to better yourself doesn't mean your wife

2271
02:04:03,560 --> 02:04:06,120
Speaker 5: is obligated to forgive you, trust you, or give you

2272
02:04:06,200 --> 02:04:08,880
Speaker 5: another chance. She can be a support system for you,

2273
02:04:09,080 --> 02:04:12,480
Speaker 5: but but she still may eventually find that she cannot

2274
02:04:12,520 --> 02:04:15,960
Speaker 5: get past what happened. Don't get me wrong, it is

2275
02:04:16,000 --> 02:04:18,240
Speaker 5: great that she's being understanding and loving you through this,

2276
02:04:19,680 --> 02:04:22,560
Speaker 5: but don't base your recovery on the hope of reconciliation

2277
02:04:22,920 --> 02:04:25,520
Speaker 5: or getting your family back, because if that didn't happen,

2278
02:04:25,720 --> 02:04:28,160
Speaker 5: your recovery will turn.

2279
02:04:28,040 --> 02:04:30,240
Speaker 1: Into a relapse. The best thing you can do from

2280
02:04:30,280 --> 02:04:33,440
Speaker 1: this point forward is turn yourself into someone that your

2281
02:04:33,560 --> 02:04:37,320
Speaker 1: son and you can be proud of. Ex I like

2282
02:04:37,400 --> 02:04:37,720
Speaker 1: that a lot.

2283
02:04:37,840 --> 02:04:40,880
Speaker 5: Everyone and everything else will fall into place, including your marriage,

2284
02:04:41,040 --> 02:04:45,160
Speaker 5: whether that's positive or negative. I wish you luck which

2285
02:04:45,200 --> 02:04:48,240
Speaker 5: OPI response this is a good I'm very interested in

2286
02:04:48,320 --> 02:04:52,360
Speaker 5: this response here. That's great advice, and I appreciate the input.

2287
02:04:52,600 --> 02:04:54,800
Speaker 5: For real, her and I are on good terms at

2288
02:04:54,840 --> 02:04:57,160
Speaker 5: the moment, and she's impressed with how I've been handling myself.

2289
02:04:57,360 --> 02:04:59,040
Speaker 5: And I don't think I really mentioned it in my

2290
02:04:59,120 --> 02:05:01,560
Speaker 5: original post because I didn't think it was necessary and

2291
02:05:01,680 --> 02:05:05,400
Speaker 5: I didn't want any what about isms. But I will

2292
02:05:05,480 --> 02:05:09,920
Speaker 5: point out that she also used to be used to

2293
02:05:10,080 --> 02:05:12,720
Speaker 5: have used to have the same bad habits and also

2294
02:05:12,800 --> 02:05:15,760
Speaker 5: is providing me with UH and was also providing me

2295
02:05:15,960 --> 02:05:19,920
Speaker 5: with her additional prescriptions of Addie up until about two

2296
02:05:19,960 --> 02:05:21,960
Speaker 5: weeks before she left, so it was a little bit

2297
02:05:22,040 --> 02:05:24,680
Speaker 5: of mixed signals on her sides whether she wanted me

2298
02:05:24,840 --> 02:05:26,440
Speaker 5: on the stuff or not.

2299
02:05:27,240 --> 02:05:29,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is that is confusing. It is.

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02:05:29,560 --> 02:05:33,000
Speaker 5: It is a bit drastic to like, in your your

2301
02:05:33,160 --> 02:05:35,320
Speaker 5: your help, you're giving him stuff and then two weeks

2302
02:05:35,400 --> 02:05:38,600
Speaker 5: later you're taking the child and possessions away for it.

2303
02:05:39,280 --> 02:05:40,720
Speaker 1: But I digress.

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02:05:41,040 --> 02:05:43,120
Speaker 5: I'm not making excuses though, and I'm not going back

2305
02:05:43,160 --> 02:05:45,720
Speaker 5: to that bs. I've had a really great week and

2306
02:05:45,800 --> 02:05:47,080
Speaker 5: i can see the light at the end of the

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02:05:47,120 --> 02:05:49,760
Speaker 5: tunnel and I'm definitely doing it for my boy, and

2308
02:05:49,920 --> 02:05:51,760
Speaker 5: I don't one hundred percent feel like this is going

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02:05:51,800 --> 02:05:54,040
Speaker 5: to save my marriage, but I do know that it's

2310
02:05:54,040 --> 02:05:58,640
Speaker 5: already in the right direction so far. I've I've already

2311
02:05:58,640 --> 02:06:00,800
Speaker 5: gone over there and hung out with her family twice,

2312
02:06:01,120 --> 02:06:02,960
Speaker 5: and she talks to me every night. And it's not

2313
02:06:03,080 --> 02:06:05,880
Speaker 5: a disastrous situation in my brain like it was the

2314
02:06:05,960 --> 02:06:08,800
Speaker 5: first two days. Seeing everything from a sober perspective right

2315
02:06:08,880 --> 02:06:11,400
Speaker 5: now actually gives me a lot of hope. And I'm

2316
02:06:11,480 --> 02:06:15,400
Speaker 5: also really enjoying my newfound healthy feelings. I'm getting like

2317
02:06:15,560 --> 02:06:17,320
Speaker 5: I'm waking up a lot earlier and.

2318
02:06:17,480 --> 02:06:19,440
Speaker 1: Exercising a little bit huge.

2319
02:06:19,640 --> 02:06:24,760
Speaker 5: This once again still positive, very positive vibes and directions.

2320
02:06:25,520 --> 02:06:28,240
Speaker 5: Sufficient Records sixty seven to one says, just keep in

2321
02:06:28,360 --> 02:06:30,240
Speaker 5: mind that you're on a slight high right now, being

2322
02:06:30,320 --> 02:06:32,640
Speaker 5: newly sober. So no matter how confident you are at

2323
02:06:32,680 --> 02:06:36,240
Speaker 5: this moment, it can't easily disappear for a bit, especially

2324
02:06:36,600 --> 02:06:38,400
Speaker 5: between day sixty and day ninety.

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Speaker 1: Don't let God has been yawning so much lately. It

2326
02:06:46,520 --> 02:06:48,200
Speaker 1: is And he says he's not even tiring. I'm not,

2327
02:06:48,360 --> 02:06:48,920
Speaker 1: like do I do?

2328
02:06:49,000 --> 02:06:51,320
Speaker 5: I seem I feel like I see him very energetic.

2329
02:06:51,560 --> 02:06:54,720
Speaker 5: You seem energetic, like I think it is a I

2330
02:06:54,840 --> 02:06:57,080
Speaker 5: am expelling a lot of oxygen reading.

2331
02:06:57,040 --> 02:06:59,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think my brain just like.

2332
02:07:00,840 --> 02:07:01,600
Speaker 4: We were.

2333
02:07:01,720 --> 02:07:03,760
Speaker 1: We were talking about it, like a couple of days ago,

2334
02:07:04,040 --> 02:07:09,560
Speaker 1: about John's yawns, which is a great for something, something great,

2335
02:07:09,680 --> 02:07:13,880
Speaker 1: think of a thing for John's. Yeah, maybe a sleeping

2336
02:07:13,920 --> 02:07:14,280
Speaker 1: mask or.

2337
02:07:14,880 --> 02:07:16,560
Speaker 2: A little like a sleepy time tea.

2338
02:07:17,200 --> 02:07:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. Oh, John's yawns. We make a sleepy

2339
02:07:20,000 --> 02:07:22,880
Speaker 1: tide tea. Or that's the name of one of the

2340
02:07:22,920 --> 02:07:29,120
Speaker 1: tea's that's so og idea. That's so good. Orange orange.

2341
02:07:29,160 --> 02:07:34,280
Speaker 1: There's some orange tea Johns or orange tea john anyway. Yes,

2342
02:07:34,760 --> 02:07:37,560
Speaker 1: but yeah, we think it's because John's not getting enough oxygen.

2343
02:07:37,840 --> 02:07:47,240
Speaker 5: Yes, so hook me up anyways, sufficient record, but so uh,

2344
02:07:47,360 --> 02:07:49,960
Speaker 5: don't let this cause a relapse. It can get so hard.

2345
02:07:50,240 --> 02:07:53,040
Speaker 5: Just push through it if or when it does, and

2346
02:07:53,200 --> 02:07:56,120
Speaker 5: get the chips at the meetings you attend for each milestone.

2347
02:07:56,360 --> 02:07:58,880
Speaker 5: If earning something or getting praise motivates you.

2348
02:07:59,240 --> 02:08:00,360
Speaker 1: Op. Oh trust me.

2349
02:08:00,480 --> 02:08:03,200
Speaker 5: I know I've done thirty sixty and ninety days before,

2350
02:08:03,360 --> 02:08:05,960
Speaker 5: but really didn't have any motivations to keep me going

2351
02:08:06,360 --> 02:08:09,240
Speaker 5: other than that they were challenges to myself at the time.

2352
02:08:09,680 --> 02:08:11,520
Speaker 5: This new job I'm att and the fact that I'm

2353
02:08:12,040 --> 02:08:14,800
Speaker 5: temporarily renting a room to a really good friend who's

2354
02:08:14,840 --> 02:08:17,040
Speaker 5: also going through sobriety is helping me out as well.

2355
02:08:17,280 --> 02:08:19,320
Speaker 5: That's actually great to have someone who you live with

2356
02:08:19,440 --> 02:08:20,960
Speaker 5: that is going through the same journey as you and

2357
02:08:21,000 --> 02:08:24,120
Speaker 5: you're both keeping each other accountable. Is amazing because my

2358
02:08:24,240 --> 02:08:26,640
Speaker 5: only worry was that, like, if OPI's living alone, does

2359
02:08:26,680 --> 02:08:27,960
Speaker 5: that make it a lot harder.

2360
02:08:28,120 --> 02:08:29,520
Speaker 1: On Tuesday sober on his journey?

2361
02:08:29,560 --> 02:08:31,240
Speaker 5: But great to hear that, Yeah, I think at this

2362
02:08:31,400 --> 02:08:35,360
Speaker 5: moment I have more positive influences than negative, thankfully, and

2363
02:08:35,440 --> 02:08:39,520
Speaker 5: then sufficient records response to that, Oh, that's awesome. Having

2364
02:08:39,600 --> 02:08:41,720
Speaker 5: previously challenged yourself can be a great help for this

2365
02:08:41,880 --> 02:08:45,000
Speaker 5: go around. I think I'm glad that you have a

2366
02:08:45,080 --> 02:08:47,000
Speaker 5: positive foundation and you're not home alone.

2367
02:08:47,240 --> 02:08:48,000
Speaker 1: Good luck, dude.

2368
02:08:48,520 --> 02:08:53,960
Speaker 5: Straight Ads sixty two ninety says, I saw that I'd

2369
02:08:54,000 --> 02:08:55,560
Speaker 5: be I gulp them down.

2370
02:08:56,920 --> 02:09:00,920
Speaker 1: Someone said, hey, don't be mean to John. It's almost

2371
02:09:01,000 --> 02:09:12,080
Speaker 1: six pm. Where's my burb special of occident? God? I

2372
02:09:12,160 --> 02:09:13,840
Speaker 1: love it? Oh my gosh.

2373
02:09:14,320 --> 02:09:20,200
Speaker 5: Oh by But straight Ads says, dang, dude, I know

2374
02:09:20,880 --> 02:09:22,920
Speaker 5: what she did at the time seems like a betrayal,

2375
02:09:23,200 --> 02:09:27,880
Speaker 5: But man, you're lucky. Your wife clearly cares a value

2376
02:09:27,920 --> 02:09:31,520
Speaker 5: a lot when it came to her giving you her prescription,

2377
02:09:31,920 --> 02:09:34,680
Speaker 5: she may have felt like she had to. Why would

2378
02:09:34,680 --> 02:09:38,680
Speaker 5: you take anyone's prescription medication is strange to me because

2379
02:09:38,760 --> 02:09:40,800
Speaker 5: she obviously needed it for herself for a reason.

2380
02:09:41,240 --> 02:09:43,080
Speaker 1: If you needed it, you would be prescribed it.

2381
02:09:43,520 --> 02:09:47,040
Speaker 5: I have grown, I have growth in my spine that

2382
02:09:47,160 --> 02:09:50,160
Speaker 5: caused pain, and my ex used to take all my

2383
02:09:50,280 --> 02:09:54,880
Speaker 5: pain meds because he had a migraine. Honestly, though, even

2384
02:09:55,000 --> 02:09:57,640
Speaker 5: if you did try to get back together, how considerate

2385
02:09:57,720 --> 02:10:01,320
Speaker 5: she actually was during this whole thing. It wouldn't divorce

2386
02:10:01,400 --> 02:10:04,920
Speaker 5: you for six months minimum because she believed you would

2387
02:10:04,960 --> 02:10:08,360
Speaker 5: get yourself together. So that's the reason why she didn't.

2388
02:10:08,440 --> 02:10:10,720
Speaker 5: She wanted to be separated but not divorced, is because

2389
02:10:10,760 --> 02:10:14,560
Speaker 5: she wanted like this grace period to maybe get Yeah,

2390
02:10:14,600 --> 02:10:17,800
Speaker 5: like let me give you time, let me which is good,

2391
02:10:17,880 --> 02:10:20,960
Speaker 5: which is pretty cool. She never took your child from you.

2392
02:10:21,880 --> 02:10:25,440
Speaker 5: She never took your child from you. She wants you

2393
02:10:25,600 --> 02:10:27,720
Speaker 5: to see him. She just puts you in a position

2394
02:10:27,760 --> 02:10:30,400
Speaker 5: where you could focus on yourself, and it probably made sense.

2395
02:10:31,040 --> 02:10:32,880
Speaker 1: Actually a great point. Yeah, she put you in a

2396
02:10:32,920 --> 02:10:34,440
Speaker 1: position where you could focus on yourself.

2397
02:10:34,600 --> 02:10:36,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's like, yeah, you don't you don't have

2398
02:10:36,520 --> 02:10:38,640
Speaker 5: the stress of of worrying for the kid. It's kind

2399
02:10:38,640 --> 02:10:41,120
Speaker 5: of it's almost like you get fun parent where you

2400
02:10:41,200 --> 02:10:42,920
Speaker 5: can kind of like come over and hang out, right,

2401
02:10:43,320 --> 02:10:45,280
Speaker 5: Like you can come over and hang out versus like,

2402
02:10:45,640 --> 02:10:48,720
Speaker 5: oh uh, the kids are bothering me or the.

2403
02:10:48,760 --> 02:10:51,360
Speaker 1: Babies out, which might stress you out and make you

2404
02:10:51,440 --> 02:10:53,240
Speaker 1: want to relapse or whatever. Exactly.

2405
02:10:53,960 --> 02:10:57,680
Speaker 5: I never even considered that POV before, and it probably

2406
02:10:57,720 --> 02:11:00,160
Speaker 5: made sense to remove herself from the situation because as

2407
02:11:00,800 --> 02:11:03,040
Speaker 5: you had to be able to do it yourself and

2408
02:11:03,200 --> 02:11:08,320
Speaker 5: your life for your happiness. And then Opie responded to that, Yeah,

2409
02:11:08,400 --> 02:11:11,120
Speaker 5: I mean she is on my side one hundred percent

2410
02:11:11,200 --> 02:11:12,240
Speaker 5: when it comes to recovery.

2411
02:11:12,400 --> 02:11:13,200
Speaker 1: And I'm doing well.

2412
02:11:13,560 --> 02:11:16,840
Speaker 5: Today is my eighteenth day so sober, and I'm feeling great.

2413
02:11:17,240 --> 02:11:19,240
Speaker 5: I bought a mountain bike last week, and I replaced

2414
02:11:19,280 --> 02:11:21,760
Speaker 5: the TV in my bedroom with a new sixty five

2415
02:11:21,800 --> 02:11:23,200
Speaker 5: inch one. I thought it was about to say I

2416
02:11:23,240 --> 02:11:26,440
Speaker 5: took with nothing in my room about someone.

2417
02:11:26,560 --> 02:11:29,560
Speaker 1: Someone told me that having no TV in a living

2418
02:11:29,600 --> 02:11:32,160
Speaker 1: room is a bad take and a classic samback take.

2419
02:11:34,160 --> 02:11:39,280
Speaker 1: That's so funny. Probably grew up, that's true, I think,

2420
02:11:39,440 --> 02:11:39,760
Speaker 1: I think.

2421
02:11:40,240 --> 02:11:42,720
Speaker 2: But the thing is it wasn't like I feel like

2422
02:11:42,800 --> 02:11:44,320
Speaker 2: you were going halfway.

2423
02:11:45,320 --> 02:11:49,960
Speaker 5: You know, yes, exactly exactly. Remove the projector.

2424
02:11:50,320 --> 02:11:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but the projector is is removable.

2425
02:11:54,680 --> 02:11:57,000
Speaker 6: I'm just saying no, I'm just saying it's not exactly

2426
02:11:57,120 --> 02:11:58,600
Speaker 6: how she is not removable.

2427
02:11:59,120 --> 02:11:59,320
Speaker 2: TV.

2428
02:12:00,760 --> 02:12:04,320
Speaker 1: You can say there's more friction to it, but a projector,

2429
02:12:04,400 --> 02:12:05,800
Speaker 1: I move out of the we move it out of

2430
02:12:05,840 --> 02:12:06,800
Speaker 1: the way after we use it.

2431
02:12:06,920 --> 02:12:09,880
Speaker 5: But you just move it back to to restart it.

2432
02:12:10,000 --> 02:12:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but it's like the idea that there is

2433
02:12:12,360 --> 02:12:14,960
Speaker 1: there is something like it's just like it's not there

2434
02:12:15,080 --> 02:12:17,560
Speaker 1: drawing attention. So when it's off, it's off. TV is

2435
02:12:17,600 --> 02:12:23,480
Speaker 1: always there. I see your point. This is what it's like.

2436
02:12:23,600 --> 02:12:25,440
Speaker 1: This is what it's like. It's like, all right, you

2437
02:12:25,480 --> 02:12:27,040
Speaker 1: don't want to eat candy, but you have a bowl

2438
02:12:27,080 --> 02:12:30,440
Speaker 1: of candy on your kitchen counter and then every time

2439
02:12:30,480 --> 02:12:32,640
Speaker 1: you walk by, you'll have a piece of candy. Maybe

2440
02:12:32,680 --> 02:12:33,960
Speaker 1: that's not good for you, agree with that.

2441
02:12:35,120 --> 02:12:37,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, And this is also usually the type of thing

2442
02:12:39,960 --> 02:12:41,760
Speaker 5: we also we have a bowl of.

2443
02:12:41,840 --> 02:12:45,800
Speaker 1: Candy because you guys gave us candy actually like like

2444
02:12:46,000 --> 02:12:50,560
Speaker 1: like drinks, kind of junk like cookies and stuff. Yeah,

2445
02:12:50,600 --> 02:12:52,760
Speaker 1: we do. We need to remodel our Yeah, I would.

2446
02:12:52,880 --> 02:12:56,280
Speaker 6: I have been asking for help to remodel our pantry

2447
02:12:56,440 --> 02:12:57,880
Speaker 6: and remodel it's just.

2448
02:12:59,720 --> 02:13:01,200
Speaker 2: Just getting rid of molds.

2449
02:13:01,240 --> 02:13:03,120
Speaker 3: And that sounds like next week's activity for me.

2450
02:13:03,280 --> 02:13:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it has nothing to do with our job, but sure.

2451
02:13:09,440 --> 02:13:11,360
Speaker 1: It has to do with our productivity. It does, which

2452
02:13:11,400 --> 02:13:13,600
Speaker 1: is important. Yeah, which is important. Anyways, let's get back

2453
02:13:13,600 --> 02:13:13,960
Speaker 1: to the story.

2454
02:13:16,120 --> 02:13:18,480
Speaker 5: So I replaced the TV in my bedroom with a

2455
02:13:18,520 --> 02:13:20,800
Speaker 5: new sixty five inch one and my new PC as well.

2456
02:13:21,120 --> 02:13:23,680
Speaker 5: So I get to exercise and relax on the same day,

2457
02:13:23,760 --> 02:13:25,880
Speaker 5: and it's really helping me sleep. My new job is

2458
02:13:26,000 --> 02:13:27,800
Speaker 5: awesome as well. Man op He's just going through a

2459
02:13:27,920 --> 02:13:31,840
Speaker 5: whole transformation right now. My new job is awesome as well,

2460
02:13:34,640 --> 02:13:36,960
Speaker 5: and so get to I get to see my boy

2461
02:13:37,040 --> 02:13:40,880
Speaker 5: every Thursday, Friday and every other Saturday working at Block Shift,

2462
02:13:40,960 --> 02:13:43,840
Speaker 5: I work as an automation tech. Her and I actually

2463
02:13:43,920 --> 02:13:46,400
Speaker 5: hung out last night and had a little bit of

2464
02:13:46,640 --> 02:13:53,360
Speaker 5: adult time together. We took care of her child, yeah,

2465
02:13:53,840 --> 02:13:56,680
Speaker 5: not at all times. We changed the diapers, yes.

2466
02:13:57,440 --> 02:14:02,400
Speaker 1: But not spicy sleep spicy diapers. Hey.

2467
02:14:05,520 --> 02:14:07,720
Speaker 5: It was fun, but we both made clear that it

2468
02:14:07,840 --> 02:14:09,880
Speaker 5: was not any kind of rekindling and we're still on

2469
02:14:09,960 --> 02:14:12,120
Speaker 5: the same page of we just had to get some

2470
02:14:12,360 --> 02:14:16,880
Speaker 5: urges out, you know, pretty adult way of looking at it.

2471
02:14:17,680 --> 02:14:20,320
Speaker 5: I told her that she's probably the best person anyone

2472
02:14:20,840 --> 02:14:23,400
Speaker 5: could ever be, separated from the way that she's being

2473
02:14:23,440 --> 02:14:25,800
Speaker 5: so cool about stuff. Her family is inviting me over

2474
02:14:25,880 --> 02:14:28,240
Speaker 5: for dinner and stuff as well, and we get to

2475
02:14:28,320 --> 02:14:31,480
Speaker 5: celebrate our son's first birthday on the seventh of July

2476
02:14:31,800 --> 02:14:33,320
Speaker 5: and have a really good party play.

2477
02:14:33,400 --> 02:14:35,240
Speaker 1: That's cute. That's cute. I feel like they have good

2478
02:14:35,320 --> 02:14:38,680
Speaker 1: things coming. That's also. Don't think we didn't realize that

2479
02:14:38,760 --> 02:14:41,240
Speaker 1: the timer ran out. We're just finishing this story first.

2480
02:14:41,480 --> 02:14:46,040
Speaker 1: That's yeah. I totally knew that very much. So knew

2481
02:14:46,280 --> 02:14:47,720
Speaker 1: that that was the case. Let's read the story.

2482
02:14:48,560 --> 02:14:50,480
Speaker 5: My counselor is awesome too, and I've had some good

2483
02:14:50,480 --> 02:14:53,360
Speaker 5: conversations with him, and I like how it's going and

2484
02:14:53,480 --> 02:14:55,800
Speaker 5: he makes me. He makes me feel good getting some

2485
02:14:55,880 --> 02:14:58,360
Speaker 5: of my feelings out to a stranger. It also kind

2486
02:14:58,400 --> 02:15:00,760
Speaker 5: of makes me feel just good to post here. I'm

2487
02:15:00,800 --> 02:15:03,400
Speaker 5: not much of a poster on Reddit, but apparently one

2488
02:15:03,440 --> 02:15:05,680
Speaker 5: that gets six point two million views, shout at you.

2489
02:15:06,040 --> 02:15:06,720
Speaker 1: I never have been.

2490
02:15:06,760 --> 02:15:08,720
Speaker 5: I've always been a lurker on Reddit for years now.

2491
02:15:09,280 --> 02:15:11,680
Speaker 5: The thing is, I just need to remember that I'm

2492
02:15:11,720 --> 02:15:14,640
Speaker 5: doing all of this improvement for myself and not to

2493
02:15:14,720 --> 02:15:18,560
Speaker 5: get her back. It's to fix me first. She is

2494
02:15:18,640 --> 02:15:20,920
Speaker 5: working through her own problems and I'm doing it for

2495
02:15:21,040 --> 02:15:23,440
Speaker 5: me and my child. And then if it all goes well,

2496
02:15:23,520 --> 02:15:27,600
Speaker 5: hopefully we do end up not separating for good. And

2497
02:15:27,880 --> 02:15:29,720
Speaker 5: that's what I got, and that's what I get to

2498
02:15:29,760 --> 02:15:32,560
Speaker 5: think about every day. I really hope her and I

2499
02:15:32,720 --> 02:15:34,840
Speaker 5: can get back together, but I always have to remind

2500
02:15:34,880 --> 02:15:36,640
Speaker 5: myself that I need to work on me first, and

2501
02:15:36,880 --> 02:15:40,360
Speaker 5: I am the problem Opie.

2502
02:15:40,600 --> 02:15:43,720
Speaker 1: Okay. We have read a lot of stories where people

2503
02:15:43,760 --> 02:15:47,000
Speaker 1: come for advice and do not take it. Yes. What

2504
02:15:47,200 --> 02:15:50,680
Speaker 1: I do like about this story is Opie is very

2505
02:15:50,840 --> 02:15:55,840
Speaker 1: much taking responsibility, which is great. I am getting all

2506
02:15:56,280 --> 02:15:57,520
Speaker 1: to be nuanced.

2507
02:15:57,720 --> 02:16:00,760
Speaker 5: There's like positive indicators and then like, oh, it's like

2508
02:16:01,320 --> 02:16:05,040
Speaker 5: almost solved. I'm getting all positive indicators that this is

2509
02:16:05,160 --> 02:16:08,680
Speaker 5: going in the right direction. Yan yanning could be a

2510
02:16:08,760 --> 02:16:09,880
Speaker 5: sign of low blood sugar.

2511
02:16:11,360 --> 02:16:15,000
Speaker 1: Why is that funny? That could be real? I just

2512
02:16:15,120 --> 02:16:25,080
Speaker 1: clicked it for like your help, but yeah, yeah comment.

2513
02:16:27,120 --> 02:16:29,720
Speaker 5: Speaking of comments, we have one final relevant comment to

2514
02:16:29,880 --> 02:16:32,480
Speaker 5: close us out here. Straight out replies back, a good,

2515
02:16:32,520 --> 02:16:35,960
Speaker 5: good comment back and forth. Oh man, I'm very happy

2516
02:16:36,000 --> 02:16:36,160
Speaker 5: for you.

2517
02:16:36,959 --> 02:16:39,560
Speaker 1: You've absolutely got this.

2518
02:16:40,920 --> 02:16:43,320
Speaker 5: It's all about being the kind of person that you

2519
02:16:43,440 --> 02:16:45,560
Speaker 5: want to be, the kind of role model you want

2520
02:16:45,600 --> 02:16:47,160
Speaker 5: for your kid, and when he has grown up, if

2521
02:16:47,200 --> 02:16:52,160
Speaker 5: he learns, huh model the kind.

2522
02:16:52,040 --> 02:16:56,480
Speaker 1: Of role model you could have multiple Yeah, you can

2523
02:16:56,560 --> 02:16:59,199
Speaker 1: have an open relationship with the kind of role models

2524
02:16:59,240 --> 02:17:04,600
Speaker 1: you invite in your uncle, daddy, mentor Bob. The kind

2525
02:17:04,640 --> 02:17:07,200
Speaker 1: of role model you want for your kid. And when

2526
02:17:07,360 --> 02:17:09,680
Speaker 1: he has grown up, if he learns about how hard

2527
02:17:09,760 --> 02:17:12,039
Speaker 1: you fought for him and yourself, I know he will

2528
02:17:12,120 --> 02:17:12,720
Speaker 1: be proud of you.

2529
02:17:13,160 --> 02:17:15,560
Speaker 5: Well, let's be honest, dude, if random people on Reddit

2530
02:17:15,600 --> 02:17:17,920
Speaker 5: are rooting for you, I bet your family is rooting

2531
02:17:18,000 --> 02:17:19,800
Speaker 5: for is rooting the hardest for you.

2532
02:17:20,240 --> 02:17:23,480
Speaker 1: People aren't perfect, we aren't supposed to be. That's how

2533
02:17:23,520 --> 02:17:26,160
Speaker 1: we grow. I'm super proud of you, though, Dude, eighteen

2534
02:17:26,240 --> 02:17:30,000
Speaker 1: days is huge. That's the end of the story. And

2535
02:17:30,200 --> 02:17:35,280
Speaker 1: might I say everyone is the hero? Yeah? I like

2536
02:17:35,959 --> 02:17:39,000
Speaker 1: I think the wife stepped away and gave the husband

2537
02:17:40,000 --> 02:17:42,360
Speaker 1: the time that he needed to get back on track.

2538
02:17:43,600 --> 02:17:48,879
Speaker 1: The husband got back on track, and also the parents

2539
02:17:49,040 --> 02:17:52,800
Speaker 1: took in their daughter when she needed help, like everyone

2540
02:17:53,680 --> 02:17:57,320
Speaker 1: stepped up to the plate. Yes, I don't think there's

2541
02:17:57,520 --> 02:17:59,720
Speaker 1: really I mean, obviously the husband was the a whole

2542
02:17:59,800 --> 02:18:02,840
Speaker 1: and initially, but I feel like everyone kind of got redemption.

2543
02:18:03,760 --> 02:18:07,240
Speaker 1: This is true. And do we do we think, uh

2544
02:18:07,840 --> 02:18:13,920
Speaker 1: the wife was the a whole taking the baby. I

2545
02:18:15,200 --> 02:18:17,720
Speaker 1: I don't know the context of the relationship, but like

2546
02:18:18,520 --> 02:18:22,880
Speaker 1: if if he she was unconcerned, like not concerned of

2547
02:18:23,200 --> 02:18:28,720
Speaker 1: like violence or anything like that, then I think taking

2548
02:18:28,800 --> 02:18:35,200
Speaker 1: the baby is a little bit of like like it right, yeah,

2549
02:18:35,800 --> 02:18:39,280
Speaker 1: if like delicate, Yeah, yeah, it's it's a delicate balance

2550
02:18:39,280 --> 02:18:41,120
Speaker 1: because I don't know the inner workings of the relationship.

2551
02:18:41,200 --> 02:18:45,040
Speaker 1: But if I had a partner that was, uh, like

2552
02:18:45,160 --> 02:18:49,000
Speaker 1: it was like addicted, like had substance abuse issues, I

2553
02:18:49,200 --> 02:18:52,800
Speaker 1: would probably sit them down and say hey, and basically

2554
02:18:52,879 --> 02:18:56,720
Speaker 1: what op Op's partner did, but with more directness, like, hey,

2555
02:18:57,800 --> 02:19:00,600
Speaker 1: you need to get your stuff figed it out. I

2556
02:19:00,680 --> 02:19:03,880
Speaker 1: think you need some time alone to do that. I

2557
02:19:03,959 --> 02:19:06,480
Speaker 1: want to separate for a little bit so you can

2558
02:19:06,640 --> 02:19:08,960
Speaker 1: just focus on making sure you're better. Like I think

2559
02:19:09,000 --> 02:19:11,320
Speaker 1: you need to stop with your addy usage. I need

2560
02:19:11,360 --> 02:19:13,800
Speaker 1: to think you need to stop your drinking. And then

2561
02:19:13,920 --> 02:19:16,840
Speaker 1: once you feel better, then we can we can get

2562
02:19:16,879 --> 02:19:17,440
Speaker 1: together again.

2563
02:19:17,600 --> 02:19:20,680
Speaker 5: And to your point earlier, maybe there's missing context where

2564
02:19:21,440 --> 02:19:24,840
Speaker 5: uh she at the time, maybe he was still yeah,

2565
02:19:24,879 --> 02:19:27,000
Speaker 5: he wasn't eighteen days over at that point. Maybe she

2566
02:19:27,200 --> 02:19:29,800
Speaker 5: was like, Hey, I think I don't know what the

2567
02:19:29,879 --> 02:19:33,879
Speaker 5: reaction would be if I told you, Uh, you.

2568
02:19:33,920 --> 02:19:37,280
Speaker 1: Guys gamed the system. You got all those you got

2569
02:19:37,400 --> 02:19:41,800
Speaker 1: all those minutes, and then right when we finish, right

2570
02:19:41,920 --> 02:19:45,880
Speaker 1: when we finish, that's crazy, all right, I had thirty minutes,

2571
02:19:45,920 --> 02:19:49,280
Speaker 1: So what we're gonna freaking give freaking right?

2572
02:19:49,520 --> 02:19:49,800
Speaker 2: Okay.

2573
02:19:49,920 --> 02:19:53,160
Speaker 6: Also, I made this separate thing. I made a poll,

2574
02:19:53,280 --> 02:19:55,400
Speaker 6: but it's not showing all the options, but there should

2575
02:19:55,440 --> 02:19:56,160
Speaker 6: be three options.

2576
02:19:56,360 --> 02:19:58,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like you guys were talking

2577
02:19:58,920 --> 02:20:02,359
Speaker 1: to each other in the discord, like you little trickster.

2578
02:20:02,640 --> 02:20:05,160
Speaker 1: I feel like you guys were true. They were following along.

2579
02:20:05,280 --> 02:20:06,920
Speaker 1: They knew that we had a good chunk of the.

2580
02:20:06,920 --> 02:20:10,160
Speaker 5: Story left, and they were like, let's wait right right

2581
02:20:10,240 --> 02:20:13,600
Speaker 5: as they get into the post story breakdown.

2582
02:20:15,040 --> 02:20:21,920
Speaker 1: You guys honestly smart. Respect Listen, I respect, I both.

2583
02:20:21,800 --> 02:20:24,680
Speaker 5: I am I I respect and am terrified by the

2584
02:20:24,840 --> 02:20:27,720
Speaker 5: ten hour Militia. The ten hour Militia just pops up

2585
02:20:27,760 --> 02:20:29,400
Speaker 5: in the chat, and you never know when they're gonna.

2586
02:20:29,480 --> 02:20:32,040
Speaker 1: I was, I've been trying to kick caffeine. That's my

2587
02:20:32,600 --> 02:20:37,960
Speaker 1: my substance abuse problem. And and now I have to

2588
02:20:38,160 --> 02:20:42,119
Speaker 1: sip this again, this on this, this caffeinated beverage. Here

2589
02:20:42,200 --> 02:20:44,600
Speaker 1: we are all right. Here I go here, I go

2590
02:20:44,720 --> 02:20:45,160
Speaker 1: a sip and.

2591
02:20:46,760 --> 02:20:46,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2592
02:20:47,320 --> 02:20:51,040
Speaker 6: So again there's three choices. The third choice is OP

2593
02:20:51,280 --> 02:20:53,040
Speaker 6: is the ahle, it's just you.

2594
02:20:53,440 --> 02:20:54,160
Speaker 1: You can move it up. No.

2595
02:20:54,360 --> 02:20:56,000
Speaker 2: I did move it up, and it wasn't there.

2596
02:20:56,640 --> 02:20:58,840
Speaker 1: It's just due to two choices.

2597
02:20:59,000 --> 02:21:01,600
Speaker 2: Okay, well, effectively there are two choices.

2598
02:21:02,959 --> 02:21:13,040
Speaker 1: Everyone they have Sophia, Yeah, I uh, everyone's the hero. Yeah,

2599
02:21:13,040 --> 02:21:15,440
Speaker 1: I think one. I'm I think everyone's everyone's the hero.

2600
02:21:16,280 --> 02:21:19,120
Speaker 5: I like, I just really like the family seems really

2601
02:21:19,160 --> 02:21:22,000
Speaker 5: great and supportive, they have the resources. I just love everything.

2602
02:21:22,760 --> 02:21:28,320
Speaker 5: After OP and his possible at his his currently uh

2603
02:21:29,879 --> 02:21:33,960
Speaker 5: what do you say someone you're you're divorcing but not separated.

2604
02:21:34,040 --> 02:21:35,520
Speaker 1: His separated life? Yes.

2605
02:21:35,840 --> 02:21:38,400
Speaker 5: Uh after they like sat down and had a discussion,

2606
02:21:38,720 --> 02:21:41,080
Speaker 5: everything was so awesome.

2607
02:21:41,400 --> 02:21:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, which is like that's what you when you

2608
02:21:43,800 --> 02:21:46,360
Speaker 1: when you f up, that's what you want to happen.

2609
02:21:46,520 --> 02:21:49,840
Speaker 5: And OP is both making progress and also not using

2610
02:21:49,920 --> 02:21:53,320
Speaker 5: his his progress an excuse to not take accountability.

2611
02:21:52,720 --> 02:21:55,360
Speaker 1: Exactly like I. And that's what I love. I love

2612
02:21:55,480 --> 02:21:59,800
Speaker 1: that he is. I love that he is like in

2613
02:22:00,200 --> 02:22:03,960
Speaker 1: shoring that he makes that change. Couldn't I couldn't ask.

2614
02:22:04,000 --> 02:22:05,640
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I would change the thing

2615
02:22:05,760 --> 02:22:08,760
Speaker 1: in this uh in this ending here? Yeah, agreed? Agreed?

2616
02:22:10,200 --> 02:22:14,240
Speaker 1: All right, shall we do another story. Let's do it?

2617
02:22:14,360 --> 02:22:20,400
Speaker 1: Maybe I can hit some no nose also, Clinton, can

2618
02:22:20,400 --> 02:22:23,680
Speaker 1: you grab me some water? There we go, dude, Rachel

2619
02:22:24,120 --> 02:22:29,119
Speaker 1: the mother efn axe hatchet, what is good? Uh oh,

2620
02:22:30,280 --> 02:22:34,400
Speaker 1: Sophia said, no where she missed you. Guys, thank you

2621
02:22:34,440 --> 02:22:35,480
Speaker 1: for the twenty bucks tip.

2622
02:22:35,560 --> 02:22:36,040
Speaker 4: We miss you.

2623
02:22:36,160 --> 02:22:38,960
Speaker 1: Rachel accent, come come back on, let's go, and then

2624
02:22:39,040 --> 02:22:41,840
Speaker 1: Rachel diax hatchet again with a ten bucks uh at

2625
02:22:41,920 --> 02:22:42,440
Speaker 1: jelly butt.

2626
02:22:42,440 --> 02:22:46,040
Speaker 5: You're right, everyone in here needs to smash that like

2627
02:22:46,160 --> 02:22:48,920
Speaker 5: button right freaking now.

2628
02:22:49,200 --> 02:22:52,960
Speaker 1: Do you want to hear Clinton's beautiful strumming. Guys, you

2629
02:22:53,120 --> 02:22:56,400
Speaker 1: now you you almost lost the opportunity. Now we're here,

2630
02:22:56,800 --> 02:22:59,720
Speaker 1: we have we have the potential. You can see his

2631
02:23:00,000 --> 02:23:05,560
Speaker 1: old baby fingers scrum Yeah, strom that guitar, and then

2632
02:23:07,040 --> 02:23:09,600
Speaker 1: back to back to back Rachel the ax hatchet gifting

2633
02:23:10,200 --> 02:23:12,400
Speaker 1: five freaking memberships. Let's freaking go.

2634
02:23:12,640 --> 02:23:15,520
Speaker 5: W's and the chaff for Rachel, Rachel, Rachel the ax Hatchet,

2635
02:23:15,640 --> 02:23:17,360
Speaker 5: Welcome back, crazy mad Hatter Gal.

2636
02:23:17,400 --> 02:23:19,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten gifted memberships.

2637
02:23:19,640 --> 02:23:20,600
Speaker 4: Let's go.

2638
02:23:21,680 --> 02:23:23,160
Speaker 2: And then we got another one.

2639
02:23:24,400 --> 02:23:31,200
Speaker 1: Chris did twenty gifted memberships. That's crazy, crazy, crazy crazy.

2640
02:23:31,400 --> 02:23:32,880
Speaker 1: Give them back to the community. We have to see it.

2641
02:23:32,920 --> 02:23:36,160
Speaker 1: We love it. Plost forgot Sophia that had a goal

2642
02:23:36,200 --> 02:23:38,760
Speaker 1: again for the five bucks. Apologies everyone, but the Hatta

2643
02:23:39,160 --> 02:23:42,560
Speaker 1: is done with you all. Hatta still needs you, not

2644
02:23:42,800 --> 02:23:46,160
Speaker 1: only for company on her projects, but also dinner. Atta

2645
02:23:46,320 --> 02:23:47,080
Speaker 1: feeds on us.

2646
02:23:47,640 --> 02:23:47,920
Speaker 4: Hatta.

2647
02:23:48,040 --> 02:23:51,280
Speaker 1: You will get to what you ask for. The deed

2648
02:23:51,400 --> 02:23:56,760
Speaker 1: has been done and we will fulfill that prophecy. Shout out, Race.

2649
02:23:56,800 --> 02:23:59,920
Speaker 1: We haven't seen you in a second. Nice, I know right, nice.

2650
02:24:00,240 --> 02:24:02,400
Speaker 1: Nice to see you in the chat again.

2651
02:24:02,440 --> 02:24:03,200
Speaker 5: So great to see.

2652
02:24:03,320 --> 02:24:05,920
Speaker 1: Uh should we do we didn't do a call in

2653
02:24:06,040 --> 02:24:08,160
Speaker 1: on the last one. We did not, yel let's let's

2654
02:24:08,160 --> 02:24:13,039
Speaker 1: do a call in. Let's let's see the act.

2655
02:24:13,160 --> 02:24:14,440
Speaker 2: I do actually know how to do this one?

2656
02:24:14,600 --> 02:24:15,879
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know how to do this one?

2657
02:24:16,200 --> 02:24:18,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I knew how to do everything else.

2658
02:24:20,840 --> 02:24:25,879
Speaker 5: When is self improvement needed? To continue a relationship. Maybe

2659
02:24:25,920 --> 02:24:28,920
Speaker 5: it's a time that they've had to improve for a

2660
02:24:29,040 --> 02:24:30,119
Speaker 5: relationship or other one.

2661
02:24:30,879 --> 02:24:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean it's like if if you need to,

2662
02:24:33,240 --> 02:24:36,279
Speaker 1: if you need to work on it for the relationship

2663
02:24:36,360 --> 02:24:36,800
Speaker 1: to continue.

2664
02:24:36,840 --> 02:24:39,720
Speaker 5: I feel like there's people have Anyone who's been a

2665
02:24:39,760 --> 02:24:42,640
Speaker 5: relationship has done some form of improvement or growth or

2666
02:24:42,680 --> 02:24:44,240
Speaker 5: something at some point.

2667
02:24:45,040 --> 02:24:47,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I think if you're not if you're not

2668
02:24:48,000 --> 02:24:51,920
Speaker 1: growing in your relationship, then uh, it's probably not a

2669
02:24:51,959 --> 02:24:54,760
Speaker 1: good relationship. You might not be growing, but are you showing?

2670
02:24:55,959 --> 02:24:59,120
Speaker 1: That's the real question that I knew. I knew show it,

2671
02:25:00,560 --> 02:25:02,760
Speaker 1: Mondiga Hernandez, I love this channel. I love it and

2672
02:25:02,879 --> 02:25:06,480
Speaker 1: everyone in the chat. Let's go currently there are no

2673
02:25:09,040 --> 02:25:11,920
Speaker 1: maybe uh for this next story, we could figure out

2674
02:25:11,959 --> 02:25:15,119
Speaker 1: what a good question is. Yeah, so we're we're talking

2675
02:25:15,160 --> 02:25:19,960
Speaker 1: about like self improvement in relationships. When have you, like

2676
02:25:20,080 --> 02:25:23,000
Speaker 1: I guess we want to know like a situation where

2677
02:25:23,040 --> 02:25:27,520
Speaker 1: either you or your partner needed to improve right where

2678
02:25:28,160 --> 02:25:31,240
Speaker 1: and and did so. So it's like what was something

2679
02:25:31,280 --> 02:25:35,600
Speaker 1: that your partner was not doing that they started doing

2680
02:25:36,360 --> 02:25:40,160
Speaker 1: or was doing that they stopped doing, And basically like

2681
02:25:40,400 --> 02:25:47,560
Speaker 1: how did you handle that? This beautiful man.

2682
02:25:51,320 --> 02:25:58,360
Speaker 7: God Clinton, No, freeze sponsors. That's my boy right there,

2683
02:25:59,040 --> 02:26:03,720
Speaker 7: that's my son right there. Come on, what are you

2684
02:26:03,879 --> 02:26:07,480
Speaker 7: talking about. You think you're about to sponsor someone for free?

2685
02:26:07,680 --> 02:26:15,320
Speaker 1: No, and he added ice, Oh my goodness. W was

2686
02:26:15,360 --> 02:26:17,400
Speaker 1: in the chat for Tobby's in the chat for Clinton.

2687
02:26:18,000 --> 02:26:24,279
Speaker 1: There is nothing this man cannot do. I'm telling you Clinton,

2688
02:26:24,360 --> 02:26:27,200
Speaker 1: fly fly a commercial alplane. Done, done? Where we go

2689
02:26:27,280 --> 02:26:30,120
Speaker 1: and let's go to the Mohamas. I think I'm like,

2690
02:26:30,680 --> 02:26:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm almost certain Clinton can do anything.

2691
02:26:32,760 --> 02:26:36,279
Speaker 5: If if a plane was going down and Clinton is like, guys,

2692
02:26:36,440 --> 02:26:40,280
Speaker 5: I got this, I'd be like, I'm gonna take a nap.

2693
02:26:40,560 --> 02:26:43,800
Speaker 1: If I had to choose between a licensed medical doctor

2694
02:26:44,320 --> 02:26:47,040
Speaker 1: and Clinton to do open heart surgery on me, I

2695
02:26:47,120 --> 02:26:48,039
Speaker 1: would choose Clinton.

2696
02:26:48,760 --> 02:26:52,000
Speaker 5: Can uh do doctors care about no free sponsors?

2697
02:26:52,040 --> 02:26:54,040
Speaker 1: No? They do not know, they don't. I bet you

2698
02:26:54,200 --> 02:26:56,440
Speaker 1: that doctor would be taking out his blade. It would

2699
02:26:56,440 --> 02:26:59,680
Speaker 1: be like, oh is this exacto? And would say the

2700
02:26:59,800 --> 02:27:06,360
Speaker 1: name disgusting, disgusting. Clinton would not do that. Clinton would

2701
02:27:06,480 --> 02:27:13,640
Speaker 1: not w chat. But yeah. So, if you have a

2702
02:27:14,200 --> 02:27:16,880
Speaker 1: story about self improvement of either you or your partner

2703
02:27:17,120 --> 02:27:22,200
Speaker 1: and you actually did improve, please submit your stories. Go

2704
02:27:22,520 --> 02:27:30,160
Speaker 1: go u dm Riley on discord. Yes, DM Sophia Riley,

2705
02:27:31,480 --> 02:27:35,600
Speaker 1: and with that we'll get in to this next story.

2706
02:27:36,280 --> 02:27:40,560
Speaker 1: So my wife went on a solo two month European

2707
02:27:40,760 --> 02:27:44,720
Speaker 1: trip for her mental health instead of our honeymoon. What

2708
02:27:44,959 --> 02:27:52,560
Speaker 1: do I do leave instead of your money? But that's rough.

2709
02:27:52,840 --> 02:27:56,480
Speaker 1: This comes from interest generals and they say my wife's

2710
02:27:56,480 --> 02:27:59,640
Speaker 1: thirty two female and I thirty three male. Got married

2711
02:27:59,680 --> 02:28:02,560
Speaker 1: a couple months ago and my wife went on a

2712
02:28:02,720 --> 02:28:05,520
Speaker 1: solo trip to Europe. She always wanted to do a

2713
02:28:05,560 --> 02:28:07,520
Speaker 1: solo trip, but she never had time to do so

2714
02:28:07,680 --> 02:28:11,080
Speaker 1: because of work. However, she used the honeymoon time for

2715
02:28:11,320 --> 02:28:15,360
Speaker 1: her solo trip. I wanted to accompany her on her trip,

2716
02:28:15,440 --> 02:28:18,280
Speaker 1: but she said she needed this for her mental health,

2717
02:28:18,640 --> 02:28:21,880
Speaker 1: and I ultimately agreed, even though I was sad about it.

2718
02:28:22,280 --> 02:28:24,480
Speaker 1: She thanked me many times for being understanding of this,

2719
02:28:24,879 --> 02:28:26,640
Speaker 1: but I put it on the back of my mind

2720
02:28:26,720 --> 02:28:28,600
Speaker 1: and tried not to think about it because I was

2721
02:28:28,680 --> 02:28:34,200
Speaker 1: really excited about our wedding. Is that a red flag?

2722
02:28:35,920 --> 02:28:37,720
Speaker 1: Ozzie Girl in the art shot says divorce?

2723
02:28:37,879 --> 02:28:44,560
Speaker 5: Now, yeah, I think because it is a big ask

2724
02:28:44,840 --> 02:28:48,360
Speaker 5: of op like being away for so long, and clearly

2725
02:28:48,440 --> 02:28:52,280
Speaker 5: this is something that really negatively impacts opee. I feel

2726
02:28:52,320 --> 02:28:56,280
Speaker 5: like it warrants it least more of a conversation to

2727
02:28:57,040 --> 02:28:59,640
Speaker 5: poin why and get it at least give overdy?

2728
02:29:00,000 --> 02:29:00,360
Speaker 4: What is this?

2729
02:29:00,680 --> 02:29:07,880
Speaker 1: Pol Paul is give Clinton a raise or to make

2730
02:29:08,360 --> 02:29:13,080
Speaker 1: promoted for making work for free? What du Sophia, what

2731
02:29:13,200 --> 02:29:21,880
Speaker 1: are you doing? I actually made her do this, he

2732
02:29:22,000 --> 02:29:22,840
Speaker 1: spoke in my mind.

2733
02:29:24,480 --> 02:29:25,600
Speaker 3: That's another thing I can do.

2734
02:29:28,040 --> 02:29:31,960
Speaker 1: All right, But yeah, I I I think it's a

2735
02:29:32,040 --> 02:29:34,560
Speaker 1: little it's like a little bit of a red flag

2736
02:29:34,840 --> 02:29:40,000
Speaker 1: if you I don't know, like needing that much time

2737
02:29:40,040 --> 02:29:42,560
Speaker 1: away from your partner right upon getting married.

2738
02:29:42,680 --> 02:29:45,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, everything is contextual, but I think this warrants, like

2739
02:29:45,959 --> 02:29:47,880
Speaker 5: if you really want to do this, like sit down

2740
02:29:47,920 --> 02:29:48,280
Speaker 5: with your.

2741
02:29:48,200 --> 02:29:51,720
Speaker 1: Partner, like I know I would be like that. I

2742
02:29:51,760 --> 02:29:55,840
Speaker 1: would be bad. Yeah, two for two months is a

2743
02:29:55,920 --> 02:29:59,560
Speaker 1: long and especially right after you get married, it's like it's.

2744
02:29:59,440 --> 02:30:01,720
Speaker 5: Like kind of a honeymoon too. Yeah, that's a great point.

2745
02:30:01,640 --> 02:30:03,960
Speaker 1: Like the honeymoon is supposed to be this time where

2746
02:30:04,040 --> 02:30:08,520
Speaker 1: you're experiencing something together. Yeah, and for her to be like, yeah,

2747
02:30:09,080 --> 02:30:11,560
Speaker 1: like I know this whole marriage thing is about being together,

2748
02:30:11,600 --> 02:30:13,320
Speaker 1: but I really want to do this solo. Like you can't.

2749
02:30:13,360 --> 02:30:15,959
Speaker 5: You can't give him like one week with the weekends

2750
02:30:16,040 --> 02:30:19,000
Speaker 5: on either side. So you're like like basically five days

2751
02:30:19,040 --> 02:30:20,560
Speaker 5: of like paid time off or whatever.

2752
02:30:20,879 --> 02:30:23,800
Speaker 1: You can't. You can't do just that for like a

2753
02:30:23,879 --> 02:30:25,920
Speaker 1: nine day, ten day honeymoon, and like why not do?

2754
02:30:26,120 --> 02:30:29,840
Speaker 1: I mean, like, would not the honeymoon help for your

2755
02:30:29,879 --> 02:30:32,680
Speaker 1: mental health? And is it if your mental health is

2756
02:30:32,840 --> 02:30:37,040
Speaker 1: affected by having a honeymoon with your husband? Are you? Yeah?

2757
02:30:37,360 --> 02:30:40,000
Speaker 1: The right spending time together, that's what's so bad for

2758
02:30:40,080 --> 02:30:42,680
Speaker 1: my mental health. Yeah, right away, that's a red flag

2759
02:30:42,760 --> 02:30:47,560
Speaker 1: that's got married. I mean to run away. So the

2760
02:30:47,600 --> 02:30:50,120
Speaker 1: wedding was great, and my wife left for her trip

2761
02:30:50,200 --> 02:30:53,840
Speaker 1: to Europe the next day. I really the next day,

2762
02:30:55,040 --> 02:30:56,760
Speaker 1: the little day.

2763
02:30:58,080 --> 02:30:58,640
Speaker 2: Stressful.

2764
02:30:59,320 --> 02:31:05,680
Speaker 1: Oh oh my goodness. Nikes, jellybuss honestly thought interns got

2765
02:31:05,720 --> 02:31:08,959
Speaker 1: paid nothing. So yea, our intern is paid. That's freaking right.

2766
02:31:09,280 --> 02:31:14,120
Speaker 1: We just they care about rights here, that's right, but

2767
02:31:14,280 --> 02:31:20,040
Speaker 1: not women's rights. Yeah, the wedding was great and my

2768
02:31:20,160 --> 02:31:23,400
Speaker 1: wife left her trip to Europe the next day. I

2769
02:31:23,520 --> 02:31:26,280
Speaker 1: really missed my wife and it affected my mental health,

2770
02:31:26,800 --> 02:31:30,040
Speaker 1: my way. My wife came back home on my birthday

2771
02:31:30,200 --> 02:31:33,360
Speaker 1: last Thursday, but I was out of town celebrating it

2772
02:31:33,520 --> 02:31:38,720
Speaker 1: with a sibling. Wait, so they didn't communicate about that.

2773
02:31:39,840 --> 02:31:42,520
Speaker 1: I guess OPI didn't know that she was coming back.

2774
02:31:43,920 --> 02:31:47,360
Speaker 1: This is happening. When my wife texted me asking me

2775
02:31:47,520 --> 02:31:49,880
Speaker 1: where I was, I told her I would come back

2776
02:31:50,040 --> 02:31:53,520
Speaker 1: on the next weekend. I came back on Sunday feeling

2777
02:31:53,720 --> 02:31:57,200
Speaker 1: extremely happy. But my wife says she wished she could

2778
02:31:57,240 --> 02:32:01,240
Speaker 1: have celebrated my birthday with me because she had something special.

2779
02:32:02,080 --> 02:32:05,560
Speaker 1: I told her I definitely would. I told her I

2780
02:32:05,640 --> 02:32:08,360
Speaker 1: definitely would from for next year, but this year I

2781
02:32:08,440 --> 02:32:10,000
Speaker 1: needed to celebrate it with someone else.

2782
02:32:10,600 --> 02:32:13,200
Speaker 5: For my mental Okay, guys, we need to have a

2783
02:32:13,240 --> 02:32:20,920
Speaker 5: talk real quick. We cannot use mental health to just.

2784
02:32:22,560 --> 02:32:29,080
Speaker 1: Do whatever we want. Yeah, Ziggy says, there is no communication.

2785
02:32:29,360 --> 02:32:33,520
Speaker 1: Hey Sam, Hey, Sam, I I for my mental health.

2786
02:32:33,560 --> 02:32:37,080
Speaker 1: It's really cathartic for me to to punch things. So

2787
02:32:37,160 --> 02:32:40,400
Speaker 1: I just need to face I need to punch your

2788
02:32:40,480 --> 02:32:42,400
Speaker 1: face in because for me, it's really good for my

2789
02:32:42,600 --> 02:32:44,680
Speaker 1: mental health, you know what I mean. I'm I'm just

2790
02:32:44,760 --> 02:32:48,680
Speaker 1: confused on one like, actually, this is the main this

2791
02:32:48,760 --> 02:32:50,320
Speaker 1: is this is the one. This is the one thing.

2792
02:32:50,360 --> 02:32:52,640
Speaker 1: I'm confused on the real question. How did they not

2793
02:32:52,920 --> 02:32:57,040
Speaker 1: talk about his birthday? Like she didn't say she was

2794
02:32:57,080 --> 02:32:57,760
Speaker 1: coming home for it.

2795
02:32:57,959 --> 02:33:00,240
Speaker 6: Well, it might have been a case where she was like,

2796
02:33:00,480 --> 02:33:02,160
Speaker 6: I need to go on this trip for my mental

2797
02:33:02,200 --> 02:33:03,560
Speaker 6: health and I don't want you to talk to me

2798
02:33:03,600 --> 02:33:03,840
Speaker 6: at all.

2799
02:33:05,920 --> 02:33:06,520
Speaker 1: That's whack.

2800
02:33:07,080 --> 02:33:10,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I know I don't agree with it, but

2801
02:33:10,040 --> 02:33:12,840
Speaker 6: it's not terrible. I am totally speculated.

2802
02:33:13,680 --> 02:33:17,160
Speaker 1: Worst start of a marriage I've ever heard of. This

2803
02:33:17,360 --> 02:33:18,760
Speaker 1: is the absolute worst.

2804
02:33:19,080 --> 02:33:21,360
Speaker 2: But I was going to agree with you John or

2805
02:33:21,560 --> 02:33:23,119
Speaker 2: maybe Sam. I can't remember who said.

2806
02:33:22,920 --> 02:33:23,680
Speaker 1: It, but it's right.

2807
02:33:27,680 --> 02:33:28,760
Speaker 4: No, I'm like you.

2808
02:33:29,280 --> 02:33:31,720
Speaker 1: You weren't going to agree with John on women's right. No, no,

2809
02:33:32,160 --> 02:33:36,840
Speaker 1: don't your crap on women's rights right now, As a woman,

2810
02:33:40,360 --> 02:33:44,600
Speaker 1: I will never stop in my fight for women's rights.

2811
02:33:47,520 --> 02:33:48,480
Speaker 4: I can't believe you.

2812
02:33:51,000 --> 02:33:52,320
Speaker 2: About what was I even saying.

2813
02:33:52,520 --> 02:33:53,039
Speaker 4: I don't know.

2814
02:33:57,280 --> 02:34:00,840
Speaker 6: About using mental health as an excuse for everything. I

2815
02:34:00,920 --> 02:34:04,640
Speaker 6: know people who will like use their mental health in

2816
02:34:04,760 --> 02:34:09,039
Speaker 6: conversations or to not have important conversations, Like they're trying,

2817
02:34:09,160 --> 02:34:11,240
Speaker 6: like a person's like, hey, we need to talk about this,

2818
02:34:11,360 --> 02:34:13,960
Speaker 6: this is really important, and they're like, actually, by mental

2819
02:34:14,000 --> 02:34:16,280
Speaker 6: health's like I can't deal with this right now, and

2820
02:34:16,320 --> 02:34:17,920
Speaker 6: then they just push it off and push it off.

2821
02:34:18,400 --> 02:34:20,440
Speaker 1: And it's so bad because then like it.

2822
02:34:20,600 --> 02:34:22,680
Speaker 2: It affects everyone's mental health.

2823
02:34:22,760 --> 02:34:26,280
Speaker 5: It affects everyone's mental health, and like it abuses it

2824
02:34:26,360 --> 02:34:28,400
Speaker 5: in a way where it like loses this power from

2825
02:34:28,440 --> 02:34:29,279
Speaker 5: when it should.

2826
02:34:29,080 --> 02:34:31,560
Speaker 1: Really be used. Boy who cried wolf in it, boy

2827
02:34:31,600 --> 02:34:32,359
Speaker 1: who cried.

2828
02:34:32,520 --> 02:34:36,520
Speaker 6: Absolutely times when mental health is a valid, valid thing.

2829
02:34:36,760 --> 02:34:39,560
Speaker 6: Yes to like say, hey, I actually am not able

2830
02:34:39,680 --> 02:34:41,960
Speaker 6: and in the space to give you an answer, have

2831
02:34:42,120 --> 02:34:42,760
Speaker 6: this conversation.

2832
02:34:43,360 --> 02:34:45,240
Speaker 2: But if you use it all the time just to

2833
02:34:45,320 --> 02:34:47,720
Speaker 2: get out of like hard things.

2834
02:34:48,879 --> 02:34:53,480
Speaker 1: Kind of whack. Yes, not the move. Yeah, but getting

2835
02:34:53,520 --> 02:34:57,760
Speaker 1: back to this story, do you think that Op was

2836
02:34:57,800 --> 02:35:01,680
Speaker 1: the a hole you guys? Something I also am getting

2837
02:35:01,840 --> 02:35:06,040
Speaker 1: is I don't think this is this is true, But

2838
02:35:06,800 --> 02:35:11,400
Speaker 1: it could be that she was planning on coming back

2839
02:35:12,280 --> 02:35:17,240
Speaker 1: for the birthday and he did this out of spite.

2840
02:35:17,560 --> 02:35:19,560
Speaker 1: Because I don't know if this is true, but I'm

2841
02:35:19,560 --> 02:35:22,640
Speaker 1: getting a little spike kind of moment at the end.

2842
02:35:22,840 --> 02:35:25,360
Speaker 2: Oh wait wait wait, so as he said, he said,

2843
02:35:25,440 --> 02:35:26,280
Speaker 2: for my mental health.

2844
02:35:26,400 --> 02:35:28,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, he said, I told her I would, but

2845
02:35:28,240 --> 02:35:30,400
Speaker 1: we would do something next year. I need to celebrate

2846
02:35:30,440 --> 02:35:32,880
Speaker 1: it with someone else for my mental health. It could

2847
02:35:32,959 --> 02:35:34,879
Speaker 1: be that, like he did know she was coming back

2848
02:35:34,959 --> 02:35:40,480
Speaker 1: on Sunday for his birthday, but he planned to leave

2849
02:35:41,320 --> 02:35:42,320
Speaker 1: almost as a revenge.

2850
02:35:42,520 --> 02:35:45,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is important. I think I actually didn't understand this.

2851
02:35:46,240 --> 02:35:50,200
Speaker 5: So his birthday was during her two months sabbatical or whatever, right,

2852
02:35:50,600 --> 02:35:52,320
Speaker 5: and so she like at the end of the two

2853
02:35:52,360 --> 02:35:54,640
Speaker 5: months at the end, okay, and she came back for

2854
02:35:54,800 --> 02:35:57,360
Speaker 5: the birthday. But she came back to surprise him.

2855
02:35:57,640 --> 02:36:02,400
Speaker 1: Right. I don't know if it was necessarily a surprise,

2856
02:36:02,480 --> 02:36:05,080
Speaker 1: but she did have something special planned, Okay.

2857
02:36:05,360 --> 02:36:06,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, Because I was gonna say, if she came back

2858
02:36:07,000 --> 02:36:09,320
Speaker 5: to surprise him, I could see why he'd be out

2859
02:36:09,360 --> 02:36:10,760
Speaker 5: because he's like, Hey, I'm not gonna just.

2860
02:36:10,800 --> 02:36:12,480
Speaker 1: Like plan to be alone for my birthday.

2861
02:36:12,600 --> 02:36:14,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, So like maybe he planned to go somewhere with

2862
02:36:14,720 --> 02:36:16,679
Speaker 5: a friend because he was assuming she wouldn't.

2863
02:36:16,320 --> 02:36:19,840
Speaker 1: Be It's like, yeah, but yeah, and I think I

2864
02:36:19,959 --> 02:36:23,320
Speaker 1: think maybe she was planning on surprising him. But because

2865
02:36:23,360 --> 02:36:23,720
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2866
02:36:23,760 --> 02:36:26,200
Speaker 2: Whether or not they've communicated, yeah, if she.

2867
02:36:26,240 --> 02:36:28,160
Speaker 5: Would be there or not, because you could be like, oh,

2868
02:36:28,200 --> 02:36:29,640
Speaker 5: I'm going to be there. But then like what's the

2869
02:36:29,959 --> 02:36:31,840
Speaker 5: Maybe the activity was a surprise or something.

2870
02:36:31,959 --> 02:36:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, But Opie's asking was I the a hole

2871
02:36:35,680 --> 02:36:39,080
Speaker 1: people are saying justified petty, uh put put is OPI

2872
02:36:39,160 --> 02:36:42,840
Speaker 1: the a hole or justified petty? I'm poor? Yeah, pole

2873
02:36:44,200 --> 02:36:49,199
Speaker 1: so edit. I think people are misunderstanding what I've asked.

2874
02:36:49,480 --> 02:36:51,480
Speaker 1: I did not ask if my wife was wrong in

2875
02:36:51,600 --> 02:36:54,160
Speaker 1: taking the trip. I asked if I was wrong to

2876
02:36:54,280 --> 02:36:56,920
Speaker 1: not celebrate my birthday with her. My wife did go

2877
02:36:57,040 --> 02:37:00,120
Speaker 1: on a solo trip. We were in constant contact, and

2878
02:37:00,240 --> 02:37:03,480
Speaker 1: she had a blast there. She had a lot of fun.

2879
02:37:03,959 --> 02:37:07,360
Speaker 1: We FaceTime each other every night. However, I did mister badly,

2880
02:37:07,440 --> 02:37:10,080
Speaker 1: and I am thankful my sister got me out of

2881
02:37:10,120 --> 02:37:12,400
Speaker 1: my funk. But in the process I sort of ghost

2882
02:37:12,400 --> 02:37:14,560
Speaker 1: to my wife. I sent only a couple of texts

2883
02:37:14,560 --> 02:37:17,160
Speaker 1: when she landed home and when she wished me happy birthday,

2884
02:37:17,440 --> 02:37:20,680
Speaker 1: and I barely responded to her text text the next

2885
02:37:20,720 --> 02:37:22,920
Speaker 1: few days and did not pick up any of her

2886
02:37:22,959 --> 02:37:25,720
Speaker 1: calls till I got back home on Sunday. But ever

2887
02:37:25,879 --> 02:37:28,199
Speaker 1: since I've come home, she's been feeling a bit down,

2888
02:37:28,600 --> 02:37:34,040
Speaker 1: and I am feeling guilty about it. I don't know,

2889
02:37:34,200 --> 02:37:36,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Ope deserves more.

2890
02:37:37,000 --> 02:37:41,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, like this this whole two month thing, like at

2891
02:37:41,840 --> 02:37:45,920
Speaker 5: the barest barest barest of minimums. I think the wife

2892
02:37:46,040 --> 02:37:49,480
Speaker 5: needs to really explain as much as possible to OPI

2893
02:37:49,560 --> 02:37:51,640
Speaker 5: why she's taking the trip and just give him more

2894
02:37:52,120 --> 02:37:55,080
Speaker 5: context and understanding. But even still, going on a two

2895
02:37:55,160 --> 02:37:57,560
Speaker 5: months trip the day after you got married.

2896
02:37:57,360 --> 02:38:02,879
Speaker 1: Is come on, and not against going on two months trips.

2897
02:38:02,959 --> 02:38:05,440
Speaker 1: As I've said before on the podcast, if my wife

2898
02:38:05,520 --> 02:38:08,080
Speaker 1: said I need to go on a year or sojourn

2899
02:38:08,120 --> 02:38:10,360
Speaker 1: around the world to for my mental health and to

2900
02:38:10,400 --> 02:38:13,240
Speaker 1: find myself, I would be like sick. You said a year.

2901
02:38:13,600 --> 02:38:15,520
Speaker 1: I forgot it was like six months and it was

2902
02:38:15,640 --> 02:38:20,480
Speaker 1: up to years. A year A year, Yeah, a year

2903
02:38:20,640 --> 02:38:25,160
Speaker 1: would be the max, right, But like I would be like,

2904
02:38:26,320 --> 02:38:31,360
Speaker 1: do your thing, but not right after we got married. Yeah,

2905
02:38:31,480 --> 02:38:35,240
Speaker 1: give me yeah, yeah, But to be fair, that's kind

2906
02:38:35,240 --> 02:38:37,600
Speaker 1: of what happens in war weddings, where it's like you

2907
02:38:37,680 --> 02:38:39,240
Speaker 1: get married and then he goes sent off the war

2908
02:38:39,280 --> 02:38:41,119
Speaker 1: and he's gone for two years because there's a reason.

2909
02:38:41,640 --> 02:38:43,879
Speaker 1: Yeah this this is like because they want a lot.

2910
02:38:45,760 --> 02:38:47,640
Speaker 1: That's where they go to war exactly. Yeah.

2911
02:38:47,879 --> 02:38:50,600
Speaker 5: And like like my my girlfriend, she was at one

2912
02:38:50,640 --> 02:38:52,400
Speaker 5: point looking at schools. She doesn't want to go to

2913
02:38:52,440 --> 02:38:54,119
Speaker 5: school anymore, but at one point she's going to schools.

2914
02:38:54,120 --> 02:38:56,560
Speaker 5: And we had a conversation around like, oh, like if

2915
02:38:56,600 --> 02:38:58,680
Speaker 5: I went to a school that's like, uh, you know

2916
02:38:58,959 --> 02:39:00,760
Speaker 5: far away where I was like, course, like I want

2917
02:39:00,800 --> 02:39:02,600
Speaker 5: you to do everything you want to do in life.

2918
02:39:02,760 --> 02:39:06,360
Speaker 1: But but then she didn't go to school. So we're up.

2919
02:39:06,680 --> 02:39:08,440
Speaker 1: Cvia I knew you.

2920
02:39:08,600 --> 02:39:09,120
Speaker 4: I knew it.

2921
02:39:11,200 --> 02:39:14,520
Speaker 1: That I did what I'm lost an inside I have

2922
02:39:14,600 --> 02:39:17,520
Speaker 1: an inside joke from like years and years ago.

2923
02:39:17,920 --> 02:39:21,200
Speaker 6: Ten years we watched a here wait, we watched a

2924
02:39:21,280 --> 02:39:22,920
Speaker 6: movie with our mom. I think it was about this

2925
02:39:23,080 --> 02:39:25,200
Speaker 6: girl in Africa who was like a chess genius.

2926
02:39:25,840 --> 02:39:27,080
Speaker 4: Uh and uh.

2927
02:39:27,680 --> 02:39:30,440
Speaker 6: And my mom she has this habit of whenever we

2928
02:39:30,520 --> 02:39:33,520
Speaker 6: watch movies, she just has no idea what's going on, and.

2929
02:39:33,560 --> 02:39:36,080
Speaker 1: She'll ask questions, yeah, and the movie had just started

2930
02:39:36,400 --> 02:39:38,400
Speaker 1: and we're like, we have watched as much as you,

2931
02:39:38,680 --> 02:39:40,040
Speaker 1: how did we know? Oh?

2932
02:39:40,080 --> 02:39:41,600
Speaker 2: And she's like who is that? We're like, we don't

2933
02:39:41,600 --> 02:39:43,960
Speaker 2: know yet. And we're like, is he the bad guy?

2934
02:39:44,040 --> 02:39:44,600
Speaker 4: Really we don't know.

2935
02:39:45,080 --> 02:39:47,560
Speaker 6: And so so we're watching this movie about this young

2936
02:39:47,640 --> 02:39:50,400
Speaker 6: girl who's playing chess and she and she's learning and

2937
02:39:50,440 --> 02:39:53,920
Speaker 6: to play chess and and they mentioned like she's like, yeah,

2938
02:39:53,920 --> 02:39:56,360
Speaker 6: I didn't even get to go to school. And mom goes, wait,

2939
02:39:56,440 --> 02:39:59,440
Speaker 6: she didn't go to she didn't go to school, like

2940
02:40:00,080 --> 02:40:01,320
Speaker 6: did she school school?

2941
02:40:01,640 --> 02:40:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then it became this meme and our family

2942
02:40:04,240 --> 02:40:08,320
Speaker 1: where she got to like three times she's like and

2943
02:40:08,440 --> 02:40:12,360
Speaker 1: anytime like our ball like asked something that she should know,

2944
02:40:12,520 --> 02:40:15,120
Speaker 1: were like, Mom, she didn't go to school. Didn't go

2945
02:40:15,200 --> 02:40:18,120
Speaker 1: to school. I like that. You know we should we

2946
02:40:18,120 --> 02:40:20,800
Speaker 1: should do family memes because I have means my family too.

2947
02:40:21,160 --> 02:40:26,240
Speaker 1: Your favorite are funny. Most of them. My dad, Uh.

2948
02:40:27,400 --> 02:40:30,840
Speaker 5: Basically he'll do something like so innocuous and then we

2949
02:40:30,959 --> 02:40:35,520
Speaker 5: will just brutally remind him every second of his life,

2950
02:40:35,680 --> 02:40:38,439
Speaker 5: like what So in twenty ten he called an HDMI

2951
02:40:38,600 --> 02:40:42,600
Speaker 5: cord a hamdi chords, and so like every he like goes,

2952
02:40:42,800 --> 02:40:44,840
Speaker 5: he's like, you guys wanna watch something like oh, don't

2953
02:40:44,959 --> 02:40:46,600
Speaker 5: we need an a MIDI chord to watch that?

2954
02:40:48,240 --> 02:40:53,280
Speaker 1: And then that's like, that's like me saying a word wrong,

2955
02:40:53,360 --> 02:40:56,560
Speaker 1: and then Sophia would trilling into me for the rest

2956
02:40:56,600 --> 02:40:58,320
Speaker 1: of my life, yes exactly.

2957
02:40:59,400 --> 02:41:01,280
Speaker 5: And then the last what I'll give you for now

2958
02:41:01,320 --> 02:41:05,240
Speaker 5: at least is I have a cousin Thompson, and he

2959
02:41:05,520 --> 02:41:09,160
Speaker 5: he walked into our family Christmas Eve party and he

2960
02:41:09,280 --> 02:41:14,560
Speaker 5: was wearing like a like a I OD polo one

2961
02:41:14,600 --> 02:41:17,600
Speaker 5: of those keen sandals, you know, like crocs and like

2962
02:41:17,959 --> 02:41:22,000
Speaker 5: cargo shorts. And so my dad said, Thompson, you're looking

2963
02:41:22,120 --> 02:41:27,240
Speaker 5: quite the hipster. So anytime he's like where excepting like,

2964
02:41:27,320 --> 02:41:29,840
Speaker 5: oh you're looking quiet? Or dad, is he looking quite

2965
02:41:29,879 --> 02:41:38,120
Speaker 5: the hipster today? Yeah, I'm sorry. I kind of want

2966
02:41:38,160 --> 02:41:41,400
Speaker 5: to like let him just bring them in and just

2967
02:41:41,600 --> 02:41:46,160
Speaker 5: expand it. So now we'll be like Clinton looking quite

2968
02:41:46,240 --> 02:41:50,880
Speaker 5: the hips. Oh yeah, we've now just expanded go to

2969
02:41:50,920 --> 02:41:53,519
Speaker 5: school outside. Yeah, now everyone.

2970
02:41:53,200 --> 02:41:55,280
Speaker 1: Everyone knows that we have a family of like a

2971
02:41:55,400 --> 02:41:56,120
Speaker 1: thousand people.

2972
02:41:56,920 --> 02:41:57,400
Speaker 4: Is that good?

2973
02:41:57,440 --> 02:41:59,280
Speaker 1: Do we like that? Can we do that?

2974
02:42:00,520 --> 02:42:02,560
Speaker 6: Like those who have another meme where our dad will

2975
02:42:02,720 --> 02:42:06,520
Speaker 6: like he we like to call it like daddy Jeopardy, Yeah,

2976
02:42:06,840 --> 02:42:08,440
Speaker 6: where he just starts asking this question.

2977
02:42:08,520 --> 02:42:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well well he'll be like he'll be like he'll

2978
02:42:12,080 --> 02:42:14,920
Speaker 1: be saying something and it'll be like, and do you

2979
02:42:15,080 --> 02:42:18,720
Speaker 1: know who should go next to the store?

2980
02:42:19,600 --> 02:42:21,280
Speaker 6: Well no, I know, it's like a quite like it's

2981
02:42:21,280 --> 02:42:24,120
Speaker 6: like a proper question. It's like and do we know

2982
02:42:24,320 --> 02:42:28,920
Speaker 6: who the president of this? It's just like random questions. Yeah,

2983
02:42:29,240 --> 02:42:31,680
Speaker 6: Or he's like do we know how to spell this word?

2984
02:42:32,280 --> 02:42:33,680
Speaker 1: It's it's like it's.

2985
02:42:36,040 --> 02:42:39,880
Speaker 6: Yes, he's asking a question that he doesn't know the

2986
02:42:39,959 --> 02:42:42,840
Speaker 6: answer to it, but he's phrasing it like we don't

2987
02:42:42,879 --> 02:42:43,800
Speaker 6: know the answer to it.

2988
02:42:43,879 --> 02:42:44,840
Speaker 2: And he's testing us.

2989
02:42:45,080 --> 02:42:47,680
Speaker 1: No, I think he is testing us though he's doing both.

2990
02:42:48,000 --> 02:42:49,680
Speaker 1: You think he's doing bold. I think he does know

2991
02:42:49,800 --> 02:42:51,760
Speaker 1: the answer. Oh, I don't think he knows he knows

2992
02:42:51,800 --> 02:42:54,960
Speaker 1: the Sometimes he knows the answer. I think sometimes he does.

2993
02:42:55,080 --> 02:42:56,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes he like looks it up.

2994
02:42:56,600 --> 02:42:58,680
Speaker 1: So I don't think I like family memes. Do you

2995
02:42:58,760 --> 02:42:59,840
Speaker 1: have a family meme? Clinton?

2996
02:43:00,600 --> 02:43:03,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, we we. I mean we just our dad.

2997
02:43:04,320 --> 02:43:09,480
Speaker 9: It's just like old like it's just the same same

2998
02:43:09,560 --> 02:43:12,160
Speaker 9: kind of thing that you were talking about. He'll say

2999
02:43:12,200 --> 02:43:17,439
Speaker 9: a word wrong really like understand how young people are nowadays.

3000
02:43:17,959 --> 02:43:22,160
Speaker 9: He questions everything about like what does he say? There,

3001
02:43:22,840 --> 02:43:23,959
Speaker 9: I'm gonna let me pull up.

3002
02:43:23,840 --> 02:43:26,440
Speaker 1: Some Oh here we go, Yeah, pull it from the

3003
02:43:26,480 --> 02:43:27,200
Speaker 1: freaking vault.

3004
02:43:28,320 --> 02:43:29,040
Speaker 3: This is a funny one.

3005
02:43:29,120 --> 02:43:36,480
Speaker 9: So my grandma, Yeah, yeah, you don't need to my grandma. Basically,

3006
02:43:36,640 --> 02:43:40,280
Speaker 9: so my sister was graduating. My grandma wore sunglasses in

3007
02:43:40,360 --> 02:43:44,160
Speaker 9: the actual graduation. So we were in uh, we were

3008
02:43:44,320 --> 02:43:49,040
Speaker 9: in area where people graduate and you had these like

3009
02:43:49,160 --> 02:43:53,440
Speaker 9: big old stunglasses and uh, the whole time she was

3010
02:43:54,400 --> 02:43:57,359
Speaker 9: like snapping photos twenty four seven. It's like the funniest

3011
02:43:58,000 --> 02:44:00,400
Speaker 9: like he was just like like we had like just

3012
02:44:00,480 --> 02:44:05,760
Speaker 9: twenty pictures looking at people graduating over like walking outside

3013
02:44:05,800 --> 02:44:07,840
Speaker 9: and just like looking around and these sunglasses just never

3014
02:44:07,920 --> 02:44:09,960
Speaker 9: came off and we had you know, she's like this

3015
02:44:10,160 --> 02:44:13,600
Speaker 9: like old you know, Mexican immigrant who just doesn't understand

3016
02:44:13,600 --> 02:44:15,560
Speaker 9: a word of English. And she she is with these

3017
02:44:15,560 --> 02:44:19,160
Speaker 9: big old sunglasses doing doing her own thing.

3018
02:44:20,440 --> 02:44:21,040
Speaker 3: What what what?

3019
02:44:21,400 --> 02:44:24,360
Speaker 1: So you're but it's not about your your grandma. It's

3020
02:44:24,400 --> 02:44:32,440
Speaker 1: by your dad. Story about your grandma, talking about like

3021
02:44:32,720 --> 02:44:39,760
Speaker 1: about your dad, your dad was. My dad's so old

3022
02:44:39,879 --> 02:44:41,720
Speaker 1: because when my grandfather.

3023
02:44:43,320 --> 02:44:44,800
Speaker 2: Okay, you're welcome here.

3024
02:44:45,959 --> 02:44:47,920
Speaker 1: Your grandma must be old old.

3025
02:44:48,600 --> 02:44:50,760
Speaker 2: No, No, this is how I just tell stories.

3026
02:44:50,800 --> 02:44:52,240
Speaker 1: So I appreciate it. I love you.

3027
02:44:53,320 --> 02:44:56,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, this part of the we've introduced a new meme.

3028
02:44:56,720 --> 02:45:03,800
Speaker 8: Clinton's on FA join the Unfinished.

3029
02:45:04,640 --> 02:45:05,040
Speaker 1: That's right.

3030
02:45:05,120 --> 02:45:12,560
Speaker 6: It's because Sam and I both have ADHD's beautiful face.

3031
02:45:13,160 --> 02:45:16,560
Speaker 6: Sam and I both have ADHD, but John and Riley don't,

3032
02:45:16,600 --> 02:45:17,560
Speaker 6: so they make fun of us.

3033
02:45:17,920 --> 02:45:22,440
Speaker 1: I make fun of you. I prescribed ADHD by a doctor.

3034
02:45:22,959 --> 02:45:26,640
Speaker 2: You also have. Yes, we all have Adhd Riley.

3035
02:45:27,240 --> 02:45:31,720
Speaker 1: I think Riley definitely has Riley. I think Riley thinks

3036
02:45:31,760 --> 02:45:32,840
Speaker 1: he doesn't, but he definitely.

3037
02:45:33,080 --> 02:45:33,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3038
02:45:33,320 --> 02:45:35,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so we all have a funny.

3039
02:45:35,360 --> 02:45:37,360
Speaker 5: I'm like the least Adhd of all of us, but

3040
02:45:37,520 --> 02:45:41,520
Speaker 5: I'm the only one that's been prescribed by a doctor prescribed.

3041
02:45:42,080 --> 02:45:47,560
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, people who look at you prescriptions.

3042
02:45:48,360 --> 02:45:48,480
Speaker 7: Right.

3043
02:45:48,840 --> 02:45:52,400
Speaker 6: You know I tried to get prescribed medically by a

3044
02:45:52,520 --> 02:45:57,400
Speaker 6: doctor and they said, no, we can't because you have anxiety.

3045
02:45:57,440 --> 02:45:58,600
Speaker 2: And I said you can have both.

3046
02:46:03,200 --> 02:46:09,240
Speaker 1: Speaking of Adhd, let's get back to that's God. That

3047
02:46:09,440 --> 02:46:16,400
Speaker 1: was a crazy segment, so agitated by says not the

3048
02:46:16,440 --> 02:46:18,560
Speaker 1: a hole, But why the F did you marry her?

3049
02:46:19,120 --> 02:46:21,920
Speaker 1: Ali Kat says, wife leaves him the very next day

3050
02:46:21,959 --> 02:46:25,080
Speaker 1: after the wedding and it's on fing honeymoon time too, op,

3051
02:46:25,320 --> 02:46:29,800
Speaker 1: what the actual f? Viva co Tugista says, I think

3052
02:46:29,879 --> 02:46:32,280
Speaker 1: solo trips are great, and in fact I'm on a

3053
02:46:32,360 --> 02:46:34,680
Speaker 1: brief one now, but taking a solo trip the day

3054
02:46:34,760 --> 02:46:39,480
Speaker 1: after your wedding is bizarre. Khaki Value says, for her

3055
02:46:39,520 --> 02:46:42,760
Speaker 1: mental health alone away from the man she married twenty

3056
02:46:42,800 --> 02:46:46,360
Speaker 1: four hours prior, what about his mental health? Crap? Now,

3057
02:46:46,480 --> 02:46:49,520
Speaker 1: my mental health is taking a hit just thinking about

3058
02:46:49,560 --> 02:46:56,960
Speaker 1: how utterly messed up this is. Tricia says, seriously, this

3059
02:46:57,080 --> 02:47:02,920
Speaker 1: diagnosis is so sexist. Opie responds, I understand from the

3060
02:47:02,959 --> 02:47:05,280
Speaker 1: outside perspective the optics aren't great. But my wife has

3061
02:47:05,280 --> 02:47:07,120
Speaker 1: been wanting to go on this solo trip to Europe

3062
02:47:07,160 --> 02:47:09,720
Speaker 1: for more than a decade. It has been her lifelong

3063
02:47:09,840 --> 02:47:12,640
Speaker 1: dream that maybe she should have done it before she

3064
02:47:12,760 --> 02:47:21,680
Speaker 1: got married. Life huh, Sylvia, I think is alright, just

3065
02:47:21,760 --> 02:47:24,640
Speaker 1: do it like before you get married, or like a

3066
02:47:24,760 --> 02:47:28,560
Speaker 1: little bit after, not directly after you get married. Way

3067
02:47:28,680 --> 02:47:31,880
Speaker 1: too much, come on. Anyway's been her lifelong dream, but

3068
02:47:32,160 --> 02:47:35,720
Speaker 1: it also affected my mental health because I really missed

3069
02:47:35,760 --> 02:47:37,600
Speaker 1: her and I wanted to spend my honeymoon with her.

3070
02:47:37,680 --> 02:47:39,520
Speaker 1: But to be honest, I had the best birthday ever.

3071
02:47:39,640 --> 02:47:41,600
Speaker 1: My sister got me out of my funk and I

3072
02:47:41,720 --> 02:47:44,400
Speaker 1: feel so refreshed and happy now. But my wife seems

3073
02:47:44,440 --> 02:47:47,080
Speaker 1: a bit down that she could not celebrate my birthday

3074
02:47:47,440 --> 02:47:50,960
Speaker 1: with me. The judgment is not the a hole.

3075
02:47:51,040 --> 02:47:53,440
Speaker 5: I mean, he's probably pretty disappointed that he didn't get

3076
02:47:53,480 --> 02:47:55,440
Speaker 5: to spend his honeymooney.

3077
02:47:56,040 --> 02:47:58,400
Speaker 8: So I had a great idea, what if they planned

3078
02:47:58,400 --> 02:48:01,040
Speaker 8: the wedding in the airport gates, so thinking like I

3079
02:48:01,160 --> 02:48:02,920
Speaker 8: now man and wife.

3080
02:48:02,840 --> 02:48:09,680
Speaker 1: And kisses him and walks into there. See yeah, no,

3081
02:48:09,840 --> 02:48:14,760
Speaker 1: it's uh that honestly kind of basically what happened from

3082
02:48:14,800 --> 02:48:18,840
Speaker 1: what happened because the day did they even get to

3083
02:48:19,280 --> 02:48:22,640
Speaker 1: to to what's what's it called when you like have

3084
02:48:22,800 --> 02:48:27,040
Speaker 1: sex after you get married? Consummate the marriage consummate? I

3085
02:48:27,120 --> 02:48:30,920
Speaker 1: hope they did. I thought I was loping anyway, let's

3086
02:48:31,000 --> 02:48:36,400
Speaker 1: see uh the update. So yes, reading the comments, I

3087
02:48:36,480 --> 02:48:38,840
Speaker 1: do now realize that my wife taking a trip to

3088
02:48:38,920 --> 02:48:44,720
Speaker 1: Europe right after a wedding was just not good. It

3089
02:48:45,600 --> 02:48:55,760
Speaker 1: wasn't great. It's finally coming bro lele, just me. I'm

3090
02:48:55,879 --> 02:49:00,640
Speaker 1: here and old as f Does your grandma also wear sunglasses?

3091
02:49:00,840 --> 02:49:08,720
Speaker 1: Because maybe she might? So now it's going to become

3092
02:49:08,840 --> 02:49:12,320
Speaker 1: our family meme. I do now realize that my wife

3093
02:49:12,400 --> 02:49:15,360
Speaker 1: taking a trip to Europe right after our wedding was

3094
02:49:15,680 --> 02:49:18,400
Speaker 1: just not good. I still love my wife and we

3095
02:49:18,520 --> 02:49:20,880
Speaker 1: have been together for more than a decade, but I

3096
02:49:21,000 --> 02:49:24,640
Speaker 1: am now having second doubts, also because my family never

3097
02:49:24,800 --> 02:49:28,039
Speaker 1: really liked her, but I always ignored what they said

3098
02:49:28,200 --> 02:49:31,720
Speaker 1: because I was probably too in love. I showed the

3099
02:49:31,800 --> 02:49:33,720
Speaker 1: redditpost to my wife in all the comments, and she

3100
02:49:33,800 --> 02:49:40,560
Speaker 1: didn't have much to say. Should she have something to say? Yeah,

3101
02:49:41,520 --> 02:49:44,760
Speaker 1: I think so, like an apology. I showed the reputs

3102
02:49:44,760 --> 02:49:47,160
Speaker 1: my wife I must have say. She only apologized and

3103
02:49:47,240 --> 02:49:49,480
Speaker 1: said it was insensitive of her to take the trip.

3104
02:49:49,640 --> 02:49:52,840
Speaker 1: Well that's something, I mean, something.

3105
02:49:52,640 --> 02:49:53,240
Speaker 4: To help me.

3106
02:49:54,200 --> 02:49:57,320
Speaker 1: God, I'm I told her I wanted a temporary break.

3107
02:49:57,480 --> 02:49:59,680
Speaker 1: I work remote, so I can work from anywhere in

3108
02:49:59,680 --> 02:50:02,200
Speaker 1: the kind. I'm flying out to my sister's house next

3109
02:50:02,240 --> 02:50:04,920
Speaker 1: week and will probably stay there for at least a month.

3110
02:50:05,280 --> 02:50:07,640
Speaker 1: I told my wife I just need some space from her.

3111
02:50:08,000 --> 02:50:10,360
Speaker 1: My wife was pretty shocked, but I told her that

3112
02:50:10,440 --> 02:50:12,840
Speaker 1: ever since she's come home, she's been a downer, even

3113
02:50:12,879 --> 02:50:15,600
Speaker 1: though she had an amazing trip, And I need some

3114
02:50:15,840 --> 02:50:19,040
Speaker 1: time away from her, probably for his mental health. And

3115
02:50:20,920 --> 02:50:25,200
Speaker 1: it is literally impossible for this couple to be married

3116
02:50:25,440 --> 02:50:28,520
Speaker 1: and in the same place for more than twenty four hours?

3117
02:50:28,920 --> 02:50:32,640
Speaker 1: Is they are literally magnets? Which is is it not

3118
02:50:32,800 --> 02:50:35,840
Speaker 1: an indicator that they should split out food? What is

3119
02:50:35,920 --> 02:50:38,640
Speaker 1: going on a relationship? Ten years?

3120
02:50:38,840 --> 02:50:39,040
Speaker 4: Oh?

3121
02:50:39,160 --> 02:50:43,640
Speaker 1: My yeah, bro, stop second doubts. So you didn't have

3122
02:50:43,920 --> 02:50:46,400
Speaker 1: second doubts in the first like the last ten years.

3123
02:50:46,520 --> 02:50:49,960
Speaker 1: Also like also don't let redd it be the thing

3124
02:50:50,040 --> 02:50:52,160
Speaker 1: that breaks you up, like if it works for you whatever.

3125
02:50:52,360 --> 02:50:55,760
Speaker 1: But this looks whack up from the outside. But we

3126
02:50:55,840 --> 02:50:58,080
Speaker 1: do have some relevant comments to close out this story,

3127
02:50:58,280 --> 02:51:01,240
Speaker 1: and we may have an end demon sight. So Clinton,

3128
02:51:01,280 --> 02:51:04,400
Speaker 1: do you want to grab your guitar and play it out? Sure,

3129
02:51:04,640 --> 02:51:08,280
Speaker 1: let's break it up. W's in the chat for Clinton.

3130
02:51:08,640 --> 02:51:13,360
Speaker 1: W W and his old dad and is sold grandma

3131
02:51:13,600 --> 02:51:18,200
Speaker 1: and his old grandma, super owl grandma who wears sunglasses.

3132
02:51:18,240 --> 02:51:23,280
Speaker 1: That's all right, comments Joe Reanimo. Thanks, it says to

3133
02:51:23,400 --> 02:51:26,120
Speaker 1: so to summon up your newly wet life life left

3134
02:51:26,160 --> 02:51:28,480
Speaker 1: the day after your wedding, using your honeymoon time for

3135
02:51:28,560 --> 02:51:31,840
Speaker 1: a two month European vacation without you. Ben is disappointed

3136
02:51:31,879 --> 02:51:33,680
Speaker 1: she didn't get to spend a day with you and

3137
02:51:33,879 --> 02:51:37,160
Speaker 1: is now shocked that you'll be leaving her for a month. Yeah,

3138
02:51:37,400 --> 02:51:40,800
Speaker 1: I see this is going well. And then Trap out

3139
02:51:41,000 --> 02:51:44,920
Speaker 1: the lobby says smash that mf a Noman button, and

3140
02:51:45,000 --> 02:51:47,880
Speaker 1: then Sinister next to eighty three says that's it for

3141
02:51:48,000 --> 02:51:51,280
Speaker 1: this week's The Inevitable Divorce Show. A big shout out

3142
02:51:51,400 --> 02:51:55,560
Speaker 1: to all your divorce karunies. Thanks for watching. It's all

3143
02:51:55,680 --> 02:51:58,000
Speaker 1: for you don't forget to smash that a nomen button.

3144
02:51:58,160 --> 02:52:00,920
Speaker 1: Please subscribe to the single light and hit that bell

3145
02:52:01,200 --> 02:52:04,560
Speaker 1: icon for notifications from the SDD clinic, because you will

3146
02:52:04,640 --> 02:52:07,400
Speaker 1: have to get checked. My friend, those euro dudes are

3147
02:52:07,560 --> 02:52:11,880
Speaker 1: gross Resident Capri, says Downer. Since coming back from her

3148
02:52:12,000 --> 02:52:14,879
Speaker 1: amazing trip, OPI I think you are not the only

3149
02:52:15,000 --> 02:52:18,840
Speaker 1: one having second thoughts. Also, isn't annulment a better option?

3150
02:52:19,760 --> 02:52:22,400
Speaker 1: And it seems like this relationship is ending? But you

3151
02:52:22,480 --> 02:52:25,160
Speaker 1: know what else is ending? What this stream? That's true?

3152
02:52:25,360 --> 02:52:27,600
Speaker 1: So Clinton's gonna play us out? Click, get over here,

3153
02:52:27,640 --> 02:52:31,680
Speaker 1: Get over here, yeah, Clinton, get on the couch. You

3154
02:52:31,959 --> 02:52:42,160
Speaker 1: just got cast off this couch. Oh yeah yeah, zoomo. Wait,

3155
02:52:42,240 --> 02:52:44,000
Speaker 1: sit sit on the other side of John. So johnkan

3156
02:52:44,040 --> 02:52:47,600
Speaker 1: saw that mic and then uh and then put the

3157
02:52:47,760 --> 02:52:53,040
Speaker 1: uh put the other microphone right next to his thing.

3158
02:52:56,400 --> 02:52:59,760
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, wow, annulment or therapy? All right, Clinton?

3159
02:53:01,840 --> 02:53:04,200
Speaker 1: Are you ready to play us out? And while we

3160
02:53:04,280 --> 02:53:19,240
Speaker 1: read some donos? Yeah yeah, can you just hear that? Oh? Okay,

3161
02:53:19,440 --> 02:53:21,120
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. This is the end of

3162
02:53:21,160 --> 02:53:21,560
Speaker 1: the stream.

3163
02:53:21,879 --> 02:53:23,120
Speaker 2: Wait, we can't see Clinton.

3164
02:53:24,640 --> 02:53:30,040
Speaker 1: You're back over there? He is, all right, all right,

3165
02:53:34,640 --> 02:53:37,520
Speaker 1: mm hmm. Can they hear it.

3166
02:53:37,800 --> 02:53:41,680
Speaker 2: Oh wait, I'm HoTT.

3167
02:53:47,200 --> 02:53:50,080
Speaker 1: This is the end of the stream, and I have

3168
02:53:50,320 --> 02:53:52,800
Speaker 1: a little thing for a three month member who's a

3169
02:53:52,879 --> 02:54:00,520
Speaker 1: little protein, a little pro Can you can you hear? Okay,

3170
02:54:00,640 --> 02:54:02,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if they can hear? Moave the mic

3171
02:54:02,800 --> 02:54:07,039
Speaker 1: closer to the sound hole. You can't wait? Wait?

3172
02:54:07,120 --> 02:54:07,320
Speaker 4: Can you?

3173
02:54:07,560 --> 02:54:11,480
Speaker 1: Can you turn off the compression on? Maybe Clinton's mike

3174
02:54:11,640 --> 02:54:16,640
Speaker 1: was dead the whole time, which would make you have

3175
02:54:16,720 --> 02:54:18,320
Speaker 1: to turn off the compression on his mic.

3176
02:54:20,240 --> 02:54:21,959
Speaker 4: H what.

3177
02:54:23,959 --> 02:54:26,840
Speaker 1: Can you hear that? Turn off the compression? Can you

3178
02:54:26,879 --> 02:54:27,280
Speaker 1: guys hear that?

3179
02:54:27,400 --> 02:54:27,560
Speaker 4: Wait?

3180
02:54:27,560 --> 02:54:28,600
Speaker 1: Wait? Wait? Can you hear?

3181
02:54:29,200 --> 02:54:29,400
Speaker 4: Yeah?

3182
02:54:29,840 --> 02:54:33,120
Speaker 1: Can you hear on your thing? All right?

3183
02:54:34,040 --> 02:54:34,760
Speaker 2: It's cutting?

3184
02:54:35,080 --> 02:54:37,200
Speaker 1: Give me, it's cutting in and out. You have to

3185
02:54:37,280 --> 02:54:41,520
Speaker 1: turn off the compression on the microphone. You just turn

3186
02:54:41,560 --> 02:54:51,320
Speaker 1: it off on the uh the sound play play with passion?

3187
02:54:52,800 --> 02:55:10,840
Speaker 1: Keep playing? There you go? Okay? Better?

3188
02:55:11,440 --> 02:55:11,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

3189
02:55:12,120 --> 02:55:12,440
Speaker 1: All right?

3190
02:55:19,600 --> 02:55:22,560
Speaker 4: M oh.

3191
02:55:28,840 --> 02:55:39,440
Speaker 5: Oh, why I think we got some donations right now?

3192
02:55:39,560 --> 02:55:39,680
Speaker 1: Now?

3193
02:55:39,760 --> 02:55:40,720
Speaker 4: No? We boy? Mack?

3194
02:55:40,760 --> 02:55:41,200
Speaker 1: How boys?

3195
02:55:41,280 --> 02:55:41,640
Speaker 4: All right?

3196
02:55:42,280 --> 02:55:46,199
Speaker 1: Royal go o wait, Moxie. Thanks for three months of membership.

3197
02:55:46,240 --> 02:55:48,960
Speaker 1: I thought I somehow lost my membership streak, but and

3198
02:55:49,080 --> 02:55:52,720
Speaker 1: beyond pumped. It's sang three months guys, and so have.

3199
02:55:52,879 --> 02:55:56,080
Speaker 11: You I got the live show and we got nig

3200
02:55:56,200 --> 02:56:01,280
Speaker 11: Old singy sing He celebories too much membership. I don't

3201
02:56:01,400 --> 02:56:04,280
Speaker 11: have a good weekend out alf ocus do works home

3202
02:56:04,400 --> 02:56:06,200
Speaker 11: every Tuesday straight.

3203
02:56:06,360 --> 02:56:08,760
Speaker 1: That's what we want you to be addicted to, Sir

3204
02:56:09,360 --> 02:56:11,000
Speaker 1: Monica Hernandez, thanks to the five.

3205
02:56:11,080 --> 02:56:16,440
Speaker 11: But I love seeing that in Royoco once celebrating two

3206
02:56:16,520 --> 02:56:19,240
Speaker 11: months of membership. I made it just in time for

3207
02:56:19,400 --> 02:56:22,360
Speaker 11: a jam session and van of the stream.

3208
02:56:22,480 --> 02:56:29,720
Speaker 1: Y'all wait wait, wait, let me get back singing. Oh yeah,

3209
02:56:31,760 --> 02:56:32,800
Speaker 1: shake your chunky and.

3210
02:56:33,040 --> 02:56:35,640
Speaker 6: Bunkum humpy little dumpy.

3211
02:56:36,240 --> 02:56:49,360
Speaker 5: Yeah that's different. Boom all right, jam session about it?

3212
02:56:49,440 --> 02:56:56,120
Speaker 2: Start jam session? D G A F thank you t

3213
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Speaker 2: g F.

3214
02:56:59,280 --> 02:57:03,039
Speaker 1: Oh damn, what the heck?

3215
02:57:04,120 --> 02:57:06,000
Speaker 2: This is a longer stream.

3216
02:57:06,320 --> 02:57:09,640
Speaker 1: Oh I'm gods are too hot. You should turn off

3217
02:57:09,680 --> 02:57:12,200
Speaker 1: your camera for a little bit. So you yeah, did

3218
02:57:12,320 --> 02:57:16,080
Speaker 1: you have an ice back on there? Oh it is?

3219
02:57:18,800 --> 02:57:19,640
Speaker 1: How would that would?

3220
02:57:19,959 --> 02:57:28,320
Speaker 6: I'll be vocals? Oh wait wait do we read it?

3221
02:57:29,080 --> 02:57:29,440
Speaker 4: All right?

3222
02:57:29,800 --> 02:57:34,080
Speaker 1: Baby? God? Sing it? Sing it on car so see

3223
02:57:35,440 --> 02:57:41,480
Speaker 1: no no no a wait to see see gee no

3224
02:57:41,720 --> 02:57:50,160
Speaker 1: no no no no no a minor one song dying.

3225
02:57:55,200 --> 02:58:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm just learning, all right, you gotta way see you

3226
02:58:00,600 --> 02:58:05,080
Speaker 1: got c c you got g you got a minor,

3227
02:58:05,120 --> 02:58:11,520
Speaker 1: which is when I just showed you. I think so.

3228
02:58:11,879 --> 02:58:25,360
Speaker 1: But waity wait, you can't here play a also shout

3229
02:58:25,400 --> 02:58:28,960
Speaker 1: out to there we go.

3230
02:58:35,600 --> 02:58:38,640
Speaker 2: You have to put your mic on I okay.

3231
02:58:39,840 --> 02:58:46,200
Speaker 1: On the sound uhh, and you have to raise all right,

3232
02:58:46,240 --> 02:58:49,760
Speaker 1: do you know fs? What? What chords do you know? Oh?

3233
02:58:49,879 --> 02:58:54,880
Speaker 1: I know? Okay, you like like I know it?

3234
02:58:55,120 --> 02:58:55,640
Speaker 9: How I know it?

3235
02:58:56,680 --> 02:59:04,280
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a minor and then is uh f is

3236
02:59:04,560 --> 02:59:05,440
Speaker 1: wait wait let me see?

3237
02:59:09,440 --> 02:59:13,000
Speaker 5: Oh sovia bring Mary J. Halftime show vibes?

3238
02:59:13,320 --> 02:59:14,080
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

3239
02:59:14,520 --> 02:59:14,840
Speaker 3: Mary J.

3240
02:59:15,000 --> 02:59:21,959
Speaker 1: Blige? Oh you played the half time? I don't. Oh wait,

3241
02:59:25,000 --> 02:59:26,000
Speaker 1: we will add the tier.

3242
02:59:26,320 --> 02:59:26,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3243
02:59:27,000 --> 02:59:32,160
Speaker 1: Do you want me to at the time. Yeah, it's

3244
02:59:32,240 --> 02:59:36,760
Speaker 1: much better for you if it's like after I wait, engaging,

3245
02:59:38,959 --> 02:59:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm being nice. Okay, So so it's see se h

3246
02:59:50,600 --> 02:59:51,440
Speaker 1: and an a minor.

3247
02:59:53,879 --> 02:59:55,760
Speaker 2: Wait, Clinton, I need you to move over your nice

3248
02:59:55,760 --> 02:59:56,160
Speaker 2: and then.

3249
02:59:56,440 --> 02:59:57,920
Speaker 1: There you go. Get on in there, buddy, here, I'll

3250
02:59:57,959 --> 03:00:03,960
Speaker 1: move and then we'll sing something to great atom then

3251
03:00:04,080 --> 03:00:10,000
Speaker 1: see oh my god, uh gee.

3252
03:00:10,600 --> 03:00:15,119
Speaker 5: Chris did fo yeah crazy, we just got another hour.

3253
03:00:15,320 --> 03:00:16,520
Speaker 1: We have another hour right now?

3254
03:00:16,520 --> 03:00:17,720
Speaker 2: We're another hour?

3255
03:00:18,240 --> 03:00:23,560
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Chris did five just donated fifty k.

3256
03:00:25,879 --> 03:00:40,679
Speaker 4: I did mabershops greed for oil just fifty fiftysheps.

3257
03:00:41,160 --> 03:00:43,520
Speaker 1: Oh, we love you Chris, and you wait us a

3258
03:00:43,640 --> 03:00:48,280
Speaker 1: start and we are gonna go very fargus. We have

3259
03:00:49,040 --> 03:00:52,160
Speaker 1: another hour and we're guns.

3260
03:00:56,240 --> 03:01:02,720
Speaker 4: Yes bell that tip cool you one you.

3261
03:01:06,440 --> 03:01:06,720
Speaker 3: Fast.

3262
03:01:08,040 --> 03:01:13,760
Speaker 2: We can see the donation please, I can read this advitu.

3263
03:01:15,560 --> 03:01:22,160
Speaker 4: With the five give sly.

3264
03:01:20,200 --> 03:01:25,560
Speaker 1: Cat six six seven, you have sent us straight to heaven.

3265
03:01:26,280 --> 03:01:29,960
Speaker 1: Thank you for the two months of membership. We appreciate it.

3266
03:01:30,680 --> 03:01:34,320
Speaker 1: And then we got a man to you. We love

3267
03:01:34,440 --> 03:01:37,200
Speaker 1: you too, glad to cats of the stream, love yous.

3268
03:01:37,520 --> 03:01:42,560
Speaker 1: Well it's not over yet, and we got more donos Yes,

3269
03:01:43,040 --> 03:01:49,000
Speaker 1: four gets ye baby Godzilla smash in the stream for

3270
03:01:49,200 --> 03:01:54,840
Speaker 1: your like a fever dream. Oh yes, she says, encore

3271
03:01:55,320 --> 03:01:55,840
Speaker 1: and we.

3272
03:01:56,200 --> 03:01:59,520
Speaker 4: Give her more. That's right.

3273
03:02:00,040 --> 03:02:05,320
Speaker 1: Opens a door to wear to our filthy foremouth. Oh wow,

3274
03:02:05,640 --> 03:02:10,280
Speaker 1: I was gonna say more, but that works new and

3275
03:02:10,480 --> 03:02:11,440
Speaker 1: deadly cuts.

3276
03:02:11,920 --> 03:02:14,800
Speaker 5: Shout out to you for two months of membership.

3277
03:02:15,120 --> 03:02:18,680
Speaker 8: Wanted to do thanks, trying to get from membership, I received,

3278
03:02:19,040 --> 03:02:20,160
Speaker 8: love you all, We love you.

3279
03:02:20,280 --> 03:02:22,720
Speaker 4: Back in those damn it to me.

3280
03:02:35,879 --> 03:02:37,880
Speaker 1: A hozey girl in an art shop.

3281
03:02:38,160 --> 03:02:38,960
Speaker 4: You are a lot.

3282
03:02:39,160 --> 03:02:41,279
Speaker 1: You gave US five gifted memberships.

3283
03:02:41,320 --> 03:02:42,440
Speaker 4: And for that, that's hot.

3284
03:02:42,680 --> 03:02:47,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hozie girl, probably hot down there in Australia, or

3285
03:02:47,879 --> 03:02:51,080
Speaker 1: I guess it's not because it's winter ye in the

3286
03:02:51,320 --> 03:02:57,280
Speaker 1: southern hemmis of you and the worm generally here too hot.

3287
03:02:58,160 --> 03:03:01,600
Speaker 2: It's Sam and vocals.

3288
03:03:01,560 --> 03:03:03,360
Speaker 1: And they're saying we need this at the end of

3289
03:03:03,400 --> 03:03:04,000
Speaker 1: every stream.

3290
03:03:04,600 --> 03:03:07,800
Speaker 2: Wow, you want this at the end of every stream.

3291
03:03:08,480 --> 03:03:21,240
Speaker 4: All right, we.

3292
03:03:21,320 --> 03:03:24,040
Speaker 5: Have another another hour. Let's put it on the clock.