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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in and it is a Monday,

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Speaker 1: and Becca is out of breath, which is a delight.

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Speaker 1: Right now, I'm out of breath because I rushed over

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Speaker 1: to Tanya's because as I'm getting ready to head over,

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Speaker 1: she hits me at the text. It's like, I just

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Speaker 1: woke up from a nap. I think I'm just exhausted, dehydrated,

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Speaker 1: mildly hungover from the weekend. But I just want to

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Speaker 1: give you, you know, in case you're worried about germs.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, well, I'm on my pariod. I

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Speaker 1: just started my period and I'm in my minstrel phase,

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Speaker 1: right yes, and let's and you're down. I'm feeling like yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm like I'm cramping, I'm bleeding, and I don't feel great.

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Speaker 1: And so I was like, the bottom line of this

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Speaker 1: is if you were cycle thinking, you wouldn't be feeling

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Speaker 1: as terrible. I believe that's debatable. Anyway, you can put

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Speaker 1: bit in that. Um So anyways, then I'm like okay,

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Speaker 1: well I'll just because at this point it's like three o'clock,

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Speaker 1: which is when we start, and I'm like, okay, well

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Speaker 1: i'll just do the podcast from here because I'm already late.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to make it in time. And she's like,

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Speaker 1: I said, okay, I'll just have a log on now,

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Speaker 1: and she goes, but you're not coming over here, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, now I'm gonna be late. And I'm

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Speaker 1: always the one that's late. So that so I sent

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Speaker 1: a text to Marketese and I was like, listen, I'm late,

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Speaker 1: but it's not a percent my fault today. Did you

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Speaker 1: take credit when you explain the situation? Well, no, I

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Speaker 1: heard this. I think I understood the situation wrong. Who

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Speaker 1: initiated the two form text between the two of you? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so then it is not a fault. My text to

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Speaker 1: her was, however, just basically, from a germ perspective, if

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Speaker 1: you want to do the podcast from your home, I'm

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Speaker 1: just giving you the heads up. But I was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't think i'm sick. I don't feel sick, but

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Speaker 1: I just want to, you know, because I've been super

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Speaker 1: hyper aware of just germs lately, so I wanted to

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Speaker 1: tell her, but then it got into a whole another

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Speaker 1: debate of doing the podcast tomorrow and if we should

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Speaker 1: do the podcast tomorrow, and then in between all that

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Speaker 1: and Stars calling me asking if he needs me to

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Speaker 1: go to the grocery store. So I'm like a little

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Speaker 1: bit not responsive to your text because yeah, she wasn't,

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Speaker 1: which was annoying because I'm like trying to figure it

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Speaker 1: responding quickly. I said, I can do tomorrow, but not

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Speaker 1: until five pm. And I expecting you, expecting you to

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Speaker 1: be like, no, I'm not gonna do five pm, and

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Speaker 1: you go back, what else do I have to do

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Speaker 1: it five? So you know, it's funny. I was starting

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Speaker 1: this podcast ready to say Becca, you're wrong, it was

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Speaker 1: is all Tanya's faults. Thank you, oh my fault. Like

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Speaker 1: I'd generous even saying it wasn't a percent my fault

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Speaker 1: like feeling hungover, not feeling well. I feel I'm not

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Speaker 1: not as fun when she's not here. Well, of course

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Speaker 1: also true. Right, I'm like, why would we why would

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Speaker 1: you be doing this from your house? It's like, listen,

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Speaker 1: fun weekend. No, it's not. But I can't feel it's

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Speaker 1: that feels really good is that Mark wasn't going to

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Speaker 1: her at too forty saying I don't feel the great

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Speaker 1: that's the impression. I got your stories to tell people.

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Speaker 1: I really I didn't. I didn't lie. I literally I said,

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Speaker 1: right when I woke up from my nap, which was

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Speaker 1: all right. And Becca, I'm giving you the benefit of

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Speaker 1: the doubt that that to thirty five you were on

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Speaker 1: It is that that is probably the most That's the

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Speaker 1: best thing that's happened to me today. So thank you everybody.

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Speaker 1: Well what has happened to you today? Let's start there. Well,

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Speaker 1: I woke up it I woke up early, like around

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Speaker 1: Okay early for majority of the world, It's not really

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Speaker 1: then after this, I don't have anything. I'm watching the Bachelorte.

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Speaker 1: happy belated Father's Day. Thank you very much. That's very sweet.

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Speaker 1: Did you have a nice day? But a very nice day.

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Speaker 1: We had some friends over. We grilled out. It was

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Speaker 1: brought worst, which Tony is not familiar with. Brought worst.

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Speaker 1: be in somewhere where will be cold. Okay, we'll revisit that.

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Speaker 1: That's cute, But we have to listen to it from

423
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 1: top to bottom, I know, like drive like either in

424
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 1: the nobody can listen to it until we're together for

425
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 1: all together. Okay, I'm I'm down for that. And we

426
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,879
Speaker 1: have to have a certain drink like oh yeah, we

427
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: can make drinks with the names of the songs on them.

428
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 1: So like let's say, let's I think we should be

429
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: wasted thirty songs. It's gonna take us if the songs

430
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: are how long, if the thirty songs, and songs are

431
00:22:54,640 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: let's say three minutes. That's mark, come on now, ninety

432
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 1: minutes plus a ten minute of all two, that's a

433
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: hundred minutes, which is two that's just assuming all the

434
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: songs are three minutes. And then here's the thing. We're

435
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: probably got to stop after each song and discuss, so

436
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: that adds on another couple of minutes. So really we're

437
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: talking a four hour process. So it's like, okay, let's

438
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,679
Speaker 1: say we wanted to do red we could do like

439
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: the uh, what's a drink that starts with an R? Okay, perfect,

440
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: there we go. We can do the red this is

441
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: where my loves to drink. Obviously sassy pants over there. Okay,

442
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 1: we could do the red red Wine Taylor's version, Red

443
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 1: Wine Taylor's version. Then we could do uh state of

444
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: Grace Sangria or bringing out in the middle of the

445
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: fall because we can make it orange in simpcinnamony, so

446
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: it's like a little like fall. Okay, Uh. Then we

447
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: could do the well oh two well, uh, I'm struggling

448
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: with all too well, and we have luckily we have

449
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 1: plenty of time. We can maybe we do maybe we

450
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: do three drinks and there's you know, one for each

451
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: song that we like, really love Russiate and then you

452
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: can choose what drink you want Okaya for the listening

453
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: party anyway, So I was like looking at airbnbs, I

454
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: got so excited and I was like, I just I'm

455
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: trying to picture where I'm going to be when I'm

456
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: listening to it for the first time. It really is

457
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:47,719
Speaker 1: a gift because no, because that album, of all her albums,

458
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 1: and I think it's obviously debatable, everybody has a different

459
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 1: favorite album, but I think everybody can agree that that

460
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 1: album is encapsulates the feeling of heartbreak in such a

461
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: way that is a roller coaster of emotion. So the

462
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: fact that she's making giving us thirty songs from that era,

463
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know what my emotional state like,

464
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:13,719
Speaker 1: I don't know how I can I don't know how

465
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be able to handle it. Well, hopefully you're

466
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: in a very happy place and you're able to just

467
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: go there for them. But the dark, the dark songs

468
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: take me back to the dark times, I know. But

469
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: what a special experience to have been going through a

470
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: heartbreak when the album came out, because I wasn't Oh

471
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:36,880
Speaker 1: my god, oh wow. It was like I was going

472
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: through the worst heartbreak of my life truly up till

473
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: that time. And she came out with we Are Never

474
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: Ever Getting Back Together, which I believe was the single,

475
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: the first single from that song from the album from

476
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 1: that album, and I was just in this. I felt

477
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: in like a heavenly state, and I said, Taylor Swift

478
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 1: knows exactly where I am in life, and I need

479
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: to hear she did it for you. Yes, And then

480
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: the album that followed was just extraordinary. Know that the

481
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: full album, Oh I interesting. I mean, yeah, it's I

482
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: went through a series of emotions because I was like,

483
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: that's a long time away. And then I was like,

484
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: but it's going to be in the fall. I wouldn't

485
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: wanted in the summer. And I'm a little disappointed in

486
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: the fact that it's not coming till November, because that's

487
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 1: what is it. June, July, time is flying, November. We'll

488
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: be here before we realize it. But all I'm saying

489
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: is wow. And then also, so we get that album

490
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: in November. She did say she was going to release

491
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 1: all the albums this year. Does that mean we're just

492
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: pumping out all the rest of them really quickly after,

493
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: or maybe she just announced that one got everyone hyped

494
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: and she's gonna do some just like drops before. But

495
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: she said the next album I'm releasing is read my

496
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: version it, so that means next means next means like

497
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 1: not now, but next. You're under the impression they're all

498
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: coming out. Yes, I am under that impression. Where did

499
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 1: I find that impression? Okay, unless she's just gonna give

500
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: us the Christmas gift, will be the rest of them,

501
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: Like maybe I read it on TikTok somewhere. No, you

502
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: didn't you heard it from I was like, chan, what

503
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:37,239
Speaker 1: ginger gingers flawed theory? I don't know why I'm up

504
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: came up with that theory. Or maybe it was, um,

505
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 1: she can't release uh, what's the one reputation? She can't

506
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 1: release reputation this year for some legal reason. No, so

507
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: we won't get that correct. Did you know that Jesse

508
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: Williams is going to be naked in in like a

509
00:27:56,440 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: Broadway show? Already bought my ticket. I was looking to

510
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: figure out where I'm buying that ticket. It's not released

511
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: for a while. But he announced that he's going to

512
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: be nude nude, I don't know if I need to

513
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: see that? All right, to each thorough I got over

514
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,959
Speaker 1: my nude scenes back and now and then no, you didn't.

515
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: You didn't see the nude scene. There was no nude scene.

516
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 1: There was. Would you be interested in seeing Jesse Williams natural? No,

517
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: I would, but like if it were on Gray's Anatomy, right,

518
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: it's not worth going to New York and take a

519
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: T show. Yeah, okay, if it was like click here

520
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: to see Jesse Williams, thinking like, no problem, happy to

521
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: You're not taking a Red Eye to see Jesse correct, No, No,

522
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: I do have a parameter parameter barometer for what threshold.

523
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: I don't really know what I'm trying to say. You're

524
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: combining parameter and parameters, and I'm here for I'm like, actually,

525
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: I'm kind of I'm going to respect rights. Did there

526
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: unintentionally She's gonna respect what she did there? She said, yeah,

527
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: my goodness, another day. Everyone loved our podcast last week.

528
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Before you got here, did you

529
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: guys see all the scuttle and the Facebook group about

530
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: last week's podcast? And they said yes? And I go,

531
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: I can't remember one thing we talked about last week.

532
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: I didn't see it in the Facebook group messages. Yeah, dude,

533
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: there's a whole thread on the Facebook group. I screenshot

534
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: at it because I was, actually, you know what I

535
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: was gonna do. I was gonna post it and say,

536
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: do you guys enjoy the song's guests as much as

537
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: this crew? I think it depends on guest. But also

538
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: they said, seemed to like the ones where you guys

539
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: just talk about nonsense for an hour. Cassie Rose or

540
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: Casey Cassie or Casey Casey said, can I just say

541
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: this week's episode of the podcast was so good. I

542
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: really loved all the special guests we've gotten, but there's

543
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: something about an hour and twenty minutes of just Becca, Tanya,

544
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: Mark and Eastan's banter and conversation. I laughed out loud

545
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: multiple times and just enjoyed so fully. I want more

546
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: like this. Am I the only one that feels this way?

547
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: Adding a photos so it doesn't get lost in shuffles.

548
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: I think it's a beautiful photo of a beach and

549
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: then love you all. And then the comments were all

550
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: the mimicking the same sentiment. I mean, listen, we what

551
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: do you want we want two people's choice stores. I

552
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 1: get on Facebook and like, it used to just be

553
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: my um Like basically all I would see would be

554
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: the scrubbing in group, and now for some reason, it's

555
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: like reshuffled, and it's like people from my hometown that

556
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: I have no idea who these is, like all ads now,

557
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: like I feel like I look at my Facebook and

558
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: just like add ad ad, you're probably on your do

559
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: you have a business page? Okay, Easton, I have a

560
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: question for you your beautiful life. Allison posted a really

561
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: raunchy sexy photo on Instagram and I was like, wow,

562
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: Eastern's either beaming with pride or he's just posting a

563
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: sexy photo. She did, Yeah, I wanted to know did

564
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: you take the photo? I did not take the photo.

565
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: I was not there. She had a like girls afternoon

566
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: at a at a pool the other day, and I

567
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: was I was with my friends going to visit another

568
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: Back to the Future location. But so but she she

569
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: came home and she's like, oh my god, our friend

570
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: Jenny took this picture of me and I feel great

571
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: in it, and she like splashed water on my button,

572
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: like told me how to pose? Should I post it?

573
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, hell, yeah, post that posted up

574
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: right now. I knew it. I was like he either

575
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: took it or he was like, you should post that.

576
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: I am not that good behind the camera. I appreciate

577
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: you think it was me, but yeah, I know. I

578
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 1: she was really excited with how it came out and

579
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: a lot of people up nice comments and she was

580
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: loving it and it made me feel good on her behalf.

581
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: That is really cute, Becky. I didn't want to say

582
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: Allison got your You sent her a bunch of fire

583
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: and that made her made her afternoon. She was she

584
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: was ud. I was like, wow, I mean, listen, Alison

585
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: is a babe. We knew it, we all knew it.

586
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: But I was like, good for Easton. Yes, I'm trying

587
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: not to fumble this lead, but yeah, she's way out

588
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: of my league a million percent. And I'm very h

589
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: Yeah she's I'm very happy about it. You're very happy.

590
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: I respond byr emojis to you to Easton, Well, thank you.

591
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah that photo, I mean I want to consider that

592
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: like a stupid like, I mean, she looks hot. Yeah. Yeah.

593
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: I remember one time, like I was fresh off the Bachelor,

594
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: and you know, my following was and I think I

595
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: would say it's still more like on the conservative side

596
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: of but at that time out I just come off

597
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: the show. I was like the virgin like and I

598
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: was kind of like presented, very shy, and I posted

599
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: a photo in Greece with like two of my girlfriends

600
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: and I was I was turned to the side so

601
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: you could just see the shape in my butt and

602
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: I had my you know, my swimsuit was not a thong,

603
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: but it was probably smaller so you couldn't really see

604
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: the full slimsuit. And I ended up deleting it because

605
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: I got so many comments that were like, oh my gosh,

606
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: I would never think that she would post a photo

607
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: like this, and I felt so like insecure about it.

608
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: So I think I just have a new appreciation for

609
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: that because I remember it. I was so like, oh

610
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: my gosh, allowed to show my body, like so weirded

611
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: out and like sad and bummed that people just think

612
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: they can comment that, you know what I mean, Like

613
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: if you see the photo and you don't like it, okay,

614
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: keep rolling. Yeah, Like the fact that people out of

615
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: their way to like shame you over a photo is

616
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: so crazy to me. Yeah, I mean I think people

617
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: that was a while ago. Still no, no, no, I agree,

618
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: And still I see it on certain people's pages where

619
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my gosh, I can't believe she posts

620
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: something like this or just like so insensitive and judgmental comments.

621
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: But I think I just like when I see people

622
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,760
Speaker 1: post stuff like that when they're feeling good about themselves

623
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: and like good, you know, it really like it really

624
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: irks my pickle in such a way because it's just

625
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: like even all the stuff that's going on with like

626
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristo right now, and like everybody everybody is commenting about,

627
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: like trolling her for the way that she looks on

628
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,760
Speaker 1: the show, like she used to lay off the plastic

629
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: surgery to those all these comments out the way that

630
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: she looks, and I just get so And it's always,

631
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 1: first of all, all of these trolls and things are

632
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: always directed at women, which annoys me in the first place.

633
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: And then it's like, what if that's what she wants

634
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 1: to look like, or what if that's what they want,

635
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: or what if they want to change their whatever it is,

636
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like take her out of it.

637
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: What if somebody wants to get their nose done? And

638
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: they not liked it their whole life, Like that's her

639
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 1: prerogative and like we can all do whatever we want

640
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: to do. Who and why are you saying that on

641
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 1: a public like a public platform. I haven't so on her.

642
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: Did she address it or you saw it somewhere? You

643
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: know that's a probably on TikTok. I'm kidding. I don't know.

644
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 1: I definitely saw headlines about it. Oh so people attacking

645
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: the way that she looks. I just didn't see it,

646
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: But I mean, it happens to Kristen, it happens to

647
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: Cloudy Kardashian all the time, totally. And this is my

648
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: thing though, Like Kaylin has dealt with that kind of

649
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: stuff since she was the Bachelorette, Like at first it

650
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: was that she was too like risque and now you

651
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: want you see like how the bachelorettes are like strong

652
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: and empowered women, which is exactly who she was, but

653
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: at the time it wasn't as embraced or as accepted.

654
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: And she's been dealing with this since she was well

655
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: since she was on the Bachelor and then the Bachelorette.

656
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: And I've watched like people make comments about if she

657
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 1: like her her frame, like she's so petite and little

658
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 1: and she's beautiful, and so I've never really understood. I

659
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: think a lot of times people are so miserable in

660
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 1: their own life that like their only way of feeling

661
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: better is to bring someone else down about it. Just

662
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: the thing that is crazy to me, that just bothers

663
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: me so much is like we dish out so much

664
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: hate and negativity and I don't like the way you look.

665
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: Instead of the inverse, which is like what you did

666
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: to Allison of like fire, like you look good, you know,

667
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: like let's pump each other up, Like let's make her

668
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: feel good about posting that, you know what I mean,

669
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: it's like always the inverse. It just really bothers me.

670
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. I think. I think people

671
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: who feel the need to send that type of message

672
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,760
Speaker 1: to someone are probably sitting in their home feeling really

673
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: horrible about themselves and wishing that they could change something

674
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: about themselves, and their only way of being able to

675
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 1: what they think is going to make them feel better

676
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: is saying something negative to someone else. And it's just

677
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: it's such a sad like and it's really a disease

678
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: that type of mentality, because you know they say hurt people,

679
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: hurt people, but there's no uh satisfy. There's no ultimate

680
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: satisfaction in that, Like no one gets anything out of it.

681
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: They may feel like they're going to get something out

682
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 1: of it, but it doesn't. Essentially that person is not

683
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 1: happy with him. You know. This just this just really

684
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: uh pushed me in a direction where I'm going to

685
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 1: go on Instagram tonight before I go to bed, which

686
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,879
Speaker 1: is probably gonna in an hour, and I am going

687
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: to comment on every woman's photo that I see in

688
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: my scroll, something positive. Whether it I'm gonna try and

689
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: go with their personality, but if it is about you know,

690
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: the way their butt looks or whatever, I'll do that too.

691
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go lead with the personality, follow up with

692
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: something physical that I enjoy about them, and move on

693
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: along on my scroll. I think the thing is is

694
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: that obviously women, we like the whole thing. I think

695
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: a lot of times, especially when if people are acknowledging us,

696
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: or like men are acknowledging us, it comes from a

697
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: place of only physical attributes of like your beautiful or

698
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 1: your hot or sexy. And I think in our minds

699
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: somewhere that's where that you know, we feel like we

700
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: have to look a certain way because of society standards, whatever,

701
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 1: but we still want to be appreciative for how we look.

702
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: Like if I post a photo and I'm like, Alison, did,

703
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: I want people to be like damn. Like I'm not

704
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 1: wanting people to be like, Wow, your heart's great, you know,

705
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: but if I'm passing out both, yeah, I'm saying I'm

706
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 1: not going to turn down either, but I'm saying like,

707
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm posting that photo for people to be like, whoa,

708
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: you look so good? And I think you can do

709
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 1: both of like complimenting people for more than their beauty

710
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 1: and also acknowledging their beauty and their bodies in a

711
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 1: respectful way. Yeah, you know something I think about a lot.

712
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: Allison is very um academically accomplished. She has a master's degree,

713
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: She's been like published in academic journal. She's done a

714
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: lot of like stuff that's earned her a lot of

715
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,879
Speaker 1: praise for her mind and how her brain works. And

716
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: uh so she she really likes getting called moments about

717
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 1: how she looks because it's like, you know, not saying

718
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 1: that she doesn't get that kind of attention, but like

719
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: it's just as valued I think, like, like, it's still

720
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: compliment about something that makes you happy and is about you.

721
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: So you know, I'll tell her that her aslets great

722
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 1: all the time because it does. But tou to fill

723
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: in it. Just just to give you the whole story

724
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: of that, I looked up the Caitlin Bristow thing um.

725
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: Someone commented and saying that, like, she looks really different.

726
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: I can't put her finger on it. And Caitlin responded

727
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: and just listed everything she's had done in the sixth

728
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: years since she's been the Bachelorette, which isn't that much.

729
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: Stuff like brow lifts, some micro blading. Uh. Then she says,

730
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: I aged, I put on some weight, I learned how

731
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: to contour, and I just I dig that because it's like, yeah,

732
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:42,720
Speaker 1: I had a little bit of stuff done, but who cares,

733
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: you know. I was also going to say, like when

734
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: people tell me, wow, you look so different than when

735
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: you're on the Bachelor, I'm like, well, I've had botox

736
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: and lip filler. But also I'm seven years older now.

737
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: I'm six years older now, like I've just you know,

738
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 1: I've gained weight, I've lost weight. Like there's been I've

739
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: changed in that time that you saw me on TV

740
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 1: and also people on TV. I mean people from the back,

741
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 1: like who watched The Bachelor thought that I was five

742
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: eight and I'm five five. And every time I meet

743
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: people in real life, they're like, oh my god, you're

744
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 1: so short, and I'm like, well, I'm I'm like the

745
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: normal height. We all change. I mean, if you guys okay,

746
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: I don't remember what year that was, Mark Mark and

747
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 1: Easton I maybe not Eastern wasn't there. But when I

748
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: first started on the Morning show, uh, I was like,

749
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 1: I went through this phase where I said, my eyebrows

750
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: have to match my hair color and I was adamant

751
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 1: about it. I was like, my eyebrows need to match

752
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 1: my hair, and so I bleached my eyebrows for a

753
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 1: good six to eight month period. And if you saw

754
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: photos of me from that time, you have to find

755
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: that you would be shook to your core. And I'm like,

756
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: who who let me at a house like this? I

757
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: have some in the bathroom those six months, And then

758
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: people are like, well, Tony has really changed, That's what

759
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I guess I I've always I think it's

760
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: really easy to make comments to people that you see

761
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: on TV and like not think of the second thought

762
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: about it. But people are just brutal out there, And

763
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: like I said, I don't think it comes from a

764
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: place of they're so happy with their life because a

765
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: lot of times when I even feel critical, like if

766
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm looking at someone, I'm like either feeling like jealous

767
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: of or like oh I wish I had gotten that

768
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,879
Speaker 1: opportunity or whatever, it's normally because they're doing more than me.

769
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm never doing that towards someone who's doing less than me.

770
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: And I think it's the same thing with people who

771
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: are critical online, Like it's always people who are doing more,

772
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: doing things that they want to do. Ah, that is

773
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: not you, Tanya, it's me with Mr Worldwide, Mr three

774
00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: or five people. Wow, oh my god, I was not

775
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 1: there for that. That's not tant Anybody that's listening. If

776
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: you have the thought to bleach your eyebrows, let me

777
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: tell you that eyebrows really frame give you shape to

778
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: your face. They're gone, like they're just like they look

779
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,720
Speaker 1: like I shaved them off, Like they're just not there. Okay,

780
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: you cage fifteen years backwards. Since this, I've also lost weight.

781
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 1: I mean, there's definitely that, but I mean I did

782
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: not realize how much eyebrows like really defined your features.

783
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: You don't realize it at all because in your mind,

784
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh your eyebrows. Your eyebrows match your hair,

785
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: so my whole life. I'm like, I'm like, I have

786
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,720
Speaker 1: my I just started bleaching my hair, so my eyros

787
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: have to match. And my hairdresser thought me for so

788
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: long over it. He was like, no, no, no, new,

789
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. And I was like, then gonna

790
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: seebody else. I'm gonna have somebody else to do it.

791
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 1: And he's like fine, So he did it. And I

792
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: don't know why. For so long I thought I liked

793
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 1: it because I look back at it. You were horrified

794
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: the moment it happened. No, I look back. I look

795
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: back at photos and they were Christums Earth went through

796
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,879
Speaker 1: the same problem in the first Thor movie. I mean

797
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: he did the same thing. That's not the same thing.

798
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: Here to tell you that it's not the same. Yeah,

799
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 1: it's just like there these are growing back at that point.

800
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 1: But I mean it's really if anybody's listening and thinks

801
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: that they want to bleach their eyebrows, I'm on Instagram.

802
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: I'll post on the Facebook group. Yeah, we're gonna need

803
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: them to see the visual because I think all of

804
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: our reactions deserve that. Yeah, I'll post it. Let me

805
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: screenshot it so I can find it. It's me. That's me.

806
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: And in case you can't recognize Mr three or five,

807
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 1: Mr Worldwide, Mr Pitple himself. Yeah, it's the three oh five.

808
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: It's very Jarry. Remember were you like that when you

809
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: started a secret? Because I don't remember that my bleached brows. Yeah, wow,

810
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: I know, Jarring, Yeah, Jarring, I don't remember that. Yeah,

811
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: so could you imagine if I was on television in

812
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: that period of my life, people will probably be like that, Yeah,

813
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: I don't even look like that, doesn't even look like

814
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: me anymore. No, yeah, just so well, so much eyebrow

815
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: faith framing my face this day, you know, like this

816
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: is me? Probably are on the what the year was?

817
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: Oh my year was that? When did I start two?

818
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: This is two thousand seven? But she's changed? Is that

819
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 1: or something? Or is that some sort of that's a homecoming,

820
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: that's like a fraternity formal. The amount of teasing that

821
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 1: Becca did to her hair, the bumpets that existed were

822
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: truly unparalleled. Like the fact that I have hair still

823
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,720
Speaker 1: after I put it through that trauma is miraculous because

824
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: I mean I used that AquaNet hairspray that was basically

825
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:10,240
Speaker 1: just made it a nest essentially is where like birds

826
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:15,439
Speaker 1: could have landed and done formed a home. So yeah,

827
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm very grateful that I still have hair for the

828
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: extensions to be in the fake ones clipped into. Yeah,

829
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 1: so we are going to take a break, but we

830
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: when we come what Oh, I was just I don't

831
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: even know why my brain went back to Alison in

832
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: her butt because it was real in that photo. But

833
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: I got I'm going on vacation with Red Star, and

834
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 1: I got a bikini and it's a thong I've never warned.

835
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: I've never warned. It's not really it's not a thong long,

836
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 1: but it's more thong thongy than more cheeky than I've

837
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: ever had. Uh. I don't know if I'll actually wear it,

838
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 1: but I'm like really excited about it. Did you bring

839
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: your nurse your nurse set? No, I haven't started packing.

840
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: I haven't started talked about the podcast. When I came

841
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: over and you were like like your bag was opening

842
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 1: your pack, I mean it was like there's like kinky

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Speaker 1: nurse outfit, and I was like, first of all, it

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Speaker 1: was a it's like a hair thing. It was like

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Speaker 1: a headband. It was like it was because it was like, no,

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00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: it's like it was like a It wasn't a nurse's outfit.

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Speaker 1: When I got was I got like a like a

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Speaker 1: normal lingerie outfit. I think it was either white or red.

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Speaker 1: But the outfit itself was just like something you get

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00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: at Victoria's Secret, oh, which I do want to talk about,

851
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: by the way. And um, I got like a little headpiece,

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00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: a little like thing around the leg like a garter,

853
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: and then like some weird like pencil oh, and then

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00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: a stethoscope, so I got like it was a stethoscope

855
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: with the lingerie that I was like, so I didn't

856
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: buy like a nurse's outfit. I bought the things that

857
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: like a nurse's outside activity stuff. But the actual lingerie

858
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: wasn't like okay, like a like a scrub, there's not

859
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Speaker 1: a cross on there or anything correct. It was like

860
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Speaker 1: hop right right, which really, I mean, who cares at

861
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: the end of the day. But I feel like the

862
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: fact that I made it my own makes it a

863
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: little step above nice. Yeah, but you would take a break.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I want to take a break. We'll

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Speaker 1: come back and we'll talk about Victoria's Secret. And we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call one of our listeners who we gave advice

867
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Speaker 1: to a few months ago, because she's giving us an update,

868
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 1: because for the first time ever, we asked for an

869
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: update and we're actually getting all an update because I

870
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 1: feel like we do that a lot with emails, and

871
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: we never do it because we all had I here's

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Speaker 1: the thing I can't mark probably remember is more better,

873
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: more better? That we all had a very strong opinion

874
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: about it and it was something that needed time, and

875
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 1: so I put it my calendar to follow up with her,

876
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: and I guess there is an update. Oh, it was

877
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: in your colend my calendar. So I hit then yell

878
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: up and was like, can we find her? Okay, So

879
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:58,799
Speaker 1: we'll be back. We're going to talk to her and

880
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: we'll talk about victoria Secret. First of all, you don't

881
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: know me. We're all about that high school drama girl,

882
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: drama girl, all about them high school queens and forever.

883
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: We'll take you for a ride at our comic girl

884
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: cheering for the right drama queens girl fashion. But you'll

885
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 1: Tough Girls. You could sit with us girl Drama Queens

886
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 1: Drawn Mcqueens Drama Queen's Drama Drawn, MC Queen's Drama Queens. Hey,

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00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: this is Bethany joy Lynn and Sophia Bush and Hillary

888
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: Burton and we have a podcast called Drama Queens. I

889
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: feel like it's a walk down memory lane that also

890
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: might be a little bit of a stumble down memory lane.

891
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: I mean, we'll have cocktails sometimes, so we might leave stumbling.

892
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: I'm good with that. There are no fans like One

893
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: Tree Hill fans. There is no family like our family.

894
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: So we got together to do rewatch podcast to relive

895
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: the show as so many of you have so many times,

896
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 1: because to be honest, we haven't. Yeah, we haven't seen

897
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: it since two thousand and two, two thou three. We

898
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: can't wait to take this trip down memory lane with

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00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 1: all of you. What would our characters be doing right now.

900
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 1: I think Hayley would probably be I mean, she's got

901
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: to be close to an empty nuster now right like

902
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: um Jamie's out of the house. She might she might

903
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 1: be finally ready to live out those wild years that

904
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I think it might be time.

905
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to say a lot of therapy. Peyton Sawyer

906
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: is in so much therapy right now, well not long ago.

907
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 1: I found my vote Brooke Davis for President Penn. I

908
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: don't know as Brooke Davis a senator or something. There's

909
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: so much cool stuff to imagine for them. But before

910
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: we can go forward, we've got to go back to

911
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: the beginning. You nailed it. Make sure you all listen

912
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: to Drama Queens on the I Heart Radio app, on

913
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 1: a podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, thanks

914
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 1: for listening. Don't forget to leave us a review. You

915
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: can also follow us on Instagram at Drama Queens O

916
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: t H or email us at Drama Queens at I

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00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: Heart radio dot com. See you next time. We all

918
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: about that high school drama. Girl Drama Girl, all about

919
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: them high school queens forever. We'll take you for a

920
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 1: rod at our comic girl cheering for the right drama

921
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: Queens up girl fashion. But you'll tough. Girls. You could

922
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: sit with us Girl Drama, Queens, Drama, Queens, Drama, Queen's Drama,

923
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: John mc Queen's Drama Queen. All right, we are back

924
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: and we have our scrubber Arianna. She wrote in I

925
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: think it was in April. We read the email in

926
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: April and it was kind of asking for some advice,

927
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Speaker 1: and so Mark is going to read the email and

928
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: then we're gonna talk to Ariana. Right before Christmas, a

929
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 1: guy I grew up with from my hometown and reached

930
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: out to me and asked me out. He lives or

931
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: works almost three hours away from me, but he has

932
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: been coming back home every single weekend because all of

933
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Speaker 1: his friends live in our hometown, as do I. However,

934
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Speaker 1: when he went back to work after the holidays, his

935
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: job shifted. Now he works six or seven days a

936
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Speaker 1: week and could no longer come home for the foreseeable future.

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00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: We decided to put the romance on hold and just

938
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: be friends for now, but I can't stop thinking about him.

939
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: I keep thinking about timing and how if this was

940
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,359
Speaker 1: meant to be, he wouldn't have reached out when he did.

941
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 1: We still talk every day, only a couple of texts, though,

942
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: but he stopped being flirty with me almost immediately when

943
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: we called it off. So I can't figure out if

944
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: he's still romantically interested or not. What should I do?

945
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: Should I tell him how I feel or waited out?

946
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: If I recall I said, tell him how you feel,

947
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: because he feels the same way, and he's only not

948
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 1: being flirty because he's being respectful of the agreement that

949
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: the two of you made, and everything's going to be

950
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: fine if you tell him how you feel. I think

951
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 1: that's what I said. Yep, Yeah, I said the same thing, right, ye,

952
00:51:55,239 --> 00:52:00,760
Speaker 1: And I was just like no, say goodbye? Yes? So

953
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:06,720
Speaker 1: what is the update? Okay, So the update is Becca

954
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: was right. I know. I'm so sorry you guys. I'm

955
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: honestly I'm sorry for you. Sorry. I like the competitiveness,

956
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: get the best. Yeah. Also, Rebecca is like just on

957
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: super cloud nine because you obviously haven't heard it because

958
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: we haven't heard the podcast yet, but she was right

959
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: about something else earlier. So you're just really pumping her

960
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: tires right now. Okay, First of all, are you okay?

961
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: I'm okay? Um? Yeah, sorry, like its strap, but I

962
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: composed myself and I'm back. I'm back in my body

963
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: and I'm checking in. So right before you guys recorded

964
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: the podcast, I actually had reached out to him and

965
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,359
Speaker 1: I said I'd really like to come and see you,

966
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 1: and I wanted to basically tell him everything. And then

967
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: and he had said to me, I can't mentally handle

968
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: having you come down here and then basically having to

969
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 1: say goodbye. And then he was just like in a

970
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: really dark place. UM. So I like backed off and

971
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: gave him a lot of space. And then I listened

972
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: to the podcast and I was like, I gotta kind

973
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: of do a combination. So I I feel like I

974
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: pulled a Tanya and I started journaling every day, like

975
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: any time I would think about him, I would journal it.

976
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,240
Speaker 1: And like I didn't text him like as much. Um.

977
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: I think I sent him like one text like every

978
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: once in a while, but like for a while, like

979
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 1: maybe like a month and a half. Um, and then

980
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,919
Speaker 1: he never responded. So I was just like, okay, it's

981
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: all over, like it's done. And then this is actually

982
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: the kind of wild So a couple of weeks ago,

983
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: or what was it, like two weeks ago, I think,

984
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: um My, basically Dad went into hospital and it's just

985
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: been like a roller coaster down hill ever since. And

986
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: I got a really bad phone call one day and

987
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I'm on the phone call like

988
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: about my dad, and his name pops up and he's

989
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: calling me. I haven't heard from him in like six

990
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: weeks at this point. So I was like, what do

991
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: I do, Like, I can't answer the phone right now,

992
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: like I'm sobbing because of like my family and like

993
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: this whole mess and whatever. Um. So I got off

994
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: the phone call. I called him back and he could

995
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: tell that something was wrong. So I basically like I

996
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: just told him everything that was going on with my family,

997
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: and he was like, I miss you. I'm so sorry.

998
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: I was horrible, Like I didn't realize I was ignoring you.

999
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,439
Speaker 1: I was in such a dark place mentally and didn't

1000
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: want to bring you down. Um. And he basically asked

1001
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: if we could like talk and maybe get together because

1002
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 1: he was coming home for his birthday, and I said no.

1003
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: I said, I can't see you. Like this is not

1004
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: good for me. Um. I don't want you to reach

1005
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: out to me anymore. I just can't do it. So

1006
00:54:56,520 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 1: and that was that was the last of it. Wait. So,

1007
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 1: so he was just kind of being like I just

1008
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: want to hang out and see you. He wasn't saying

1009
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,280
Speaker 1: like I wanna be with you, be with you. Yeah,

1010
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you, because honestly, it would have

1011
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 1: been so easy to say yes to that dinner and

1012
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: open your heart back up to something that was just

1013
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 1: going to potentially disappoint you again. Yeah, exactly, So I

1014
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: just are you sure? Are you sure he wasn't missing

1015
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: you and regretting his decision? I don't know, well how

1016
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: long ago was that? That was last he called me

1017
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 1: last Thursday. This it's been a week. So what I'm

1018
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 1: hearing is dot dot dot. Yeah, well but she's she's

1019
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: she's putting a period at the end of the dot

1020
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: dot dot. It's hard because like I want obviously, I

1021
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:48,879
Speaker 1: want to see him. I want to talk to him

1022
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: because my feelings are still there. But that's why I

1023
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: had to say no at the same time because I

1024
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 1: feel like I'm just starting to get over it. So

1025
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: it's I don't know, I know well. And I also

1026
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: think that if he had changed his mind about where

1027
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: what he saw for all, he would have been like,

1028
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: I really need to talk to you, like I'm not

1029
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: this isn't I don't just want to see you for

1030
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: that night, Like I really want to talk to you. Yeah,

1031
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: because you were close enough that he would be able

1032
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:22,760
Speaker 1: to say that, right, or would he be like, so, yeah,

1033
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: we can anything to each other And like he when

1034
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 1: we were on the phone. He I like had told

1035
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: him like how said I was, and like that I

1036
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: had all these feelings. I told him everything when I

1037
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: was on the phone with him, and he was like,

1038
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 1: I feel so bad that you felt like you couldn't

1039
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: like say it to me, like you felt like I

1040
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,720
Speaker 1: was ignoring you. And he was really great on the phone,

1041
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: but I just have like so much other stuff going

1042
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 1: on in my life. I'm like, if you're not going

1043
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: to be there a percent, like I can't have you.

1044
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: So if he changes his mind and he comes back

1045
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: and he's like I'm there a percent everything whatever, then

1046
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 1: that's I might give it another chance. But that's not

1047
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: the way that it felt like I didn't feel so

1048
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:06,479
Speaker 1: like you you're going through so much with so many

1049
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: other things in your life that you need someone who's

1050
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:10,359
Speaker 1: really going to be like a rock for you and

1051
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: be like constant for you. Well and also too, I

1052
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: think if he were to say those things like I'm

1053
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 1: in it, I'm a hundred percent, like these are all

1054
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: the things, these changes I made, I think also to

1055
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: you to take a beat and be like, okay, this

1056
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 1: all sounds hunky dory. Make improve his prove his groove.

1057
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: That was before he was my rock. He was like

1058
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,919
Speaker 1: there for everything, but then it just like was gone

1059
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, and now I have all this

1060
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: stuff going on, like I need to rely on myself

1061
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: to this so well, I I'm really hopeful that I'm

1062
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 1: really proud of you for like being strong for yourself,

1063
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: and I really hope everything's okay with your family, and

1064
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 1: I really hope that if in the future it feels

1065
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: like it could be the right one, that he can

1066
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: really prove it to you, because I do think I

1067
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: think he really cares about you, like I don't after

1068
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: talking to you, I really do think he cares about you.

1069
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: But I think you standing up for yourself and knowing

1070
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: what's best for you right now what you need from

1071
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: someone is a really strong move on your point. I

1072
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 1: think sometimes two when you set those boundaries, like uh,

1073
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 1: he can respond to it. Either if he doesn't really

1074
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: want to be with you, then he'll it'll just be

1075
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: like okay, you know, he'll give up. But I think

1076
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: if you are that important to him and he really

1077
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: wants to like figure it out, that you're setting that

1078
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: boundary is a good thing no matter what, because it

1079
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: just shows as serious you are and how much you

1080
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: what's the word I'm looking for? Care about yourself? And

1081
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: you're Yeah, and value yourself and so it'll make him

1082
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 1: work harder if he chooses to want you in his life. Yeah,

1083
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: it sends a message. It sends a message. You're not

1084
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: going to be benched. You're not gonna be toyed with.

1085
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 1: You're not going to be You're just gonna You're gonna

1086
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 1: You're not. That's a great message. She said. Yeah, Well,

1087
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: from what we know about you, you seem amazing and

1088
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: sweet and kind in your gorgeous So you deserve someone

1089
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 1: who's going to be for you to you keep a

1090
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: clean car to which we respect. Yes, I don't have

1091
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: a very cool far right now but not usually? Oh

1092
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 1: really same our seats and saddles. So saddles. I'm a

1093
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: horse trainer. Oh, I was like, what's the saddle? Like?

1094
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: Guinea up? Cowboy? My next move, my next purchase? Can

1095
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: I get some chaps? Tom? All at it? Do you

1096
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: wear chaps? So that is that the thing? You wear? Chaps? Yes?

1097
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: I do. Where do you get yours from? I have them?

1098
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 1: You have them? Sentence? She probably hus like, yeah, professionals,

1099
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: I need to get some custom chaps. I don't think

1100
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 1: that's the same one. You're going to be wearing authentic ones,

1101
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: is like legit. Not to mess with the woman who

1102
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 1: has customed. Yeah, he's a brave man. That's so funny. Well,

1103
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: thank you for giving us an update and coming on

1104
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: the show. And also, I really do hope everything is

1105
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: okay with your family and we're praying for you all

1106
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 1: and sending you all the love. And I hope that

1107
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: your cowboy comes along and he says, cowboy, take me.

1108
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 1: She would say that this girl is high as a

1109
01:00:42,440 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 1: kid into the lab. Alright, tell anyone who would still

1110
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: be singing that song. That song is almost like Taylor

1111
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 1: swift Worthy to me that that song takes me to

1112
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: a place of of a longing and hopefulness yet sad,

1113
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: uncertain but hope. Yeah, I got it. Yeah, I feel

1114
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 1: that too. I don't listen to that when we hang

1115
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: up before I go to bed, so minutes from now.

1116
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm really proud of her because you know, when you

1117
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 1: really care for someone and then all of a sudden

1118
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: they come in and you're going through a hard time

1119
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:35,960
Speaker 1: or there's a lot of things going on, and that

1120
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: person says like do I want to see you and

1121
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: you're able to be like, my worth is more than

1122
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 1: this one night. To please you? That is a freaking

1123
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: not even it's even to please you because to stand up,

1124
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: I know, like to please him, because she she would

1125
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: want to as well, like I'm sure it would make

1126
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,959
Speaker 1: her feel so happy in the moment. That's what I'm saying.

1127
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: That she's like, what's better for me is to not

1128
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: It is a really strong move because I don't even

1129
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 1: I've had moments where I've liked someone who didn't really reciprocate,

1130
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 1: and if they were in town and they were like,

1131
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 1: you want to hang out? I was there. It's like

1132
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 1: she's thinking long term, what's best for her in long

1133
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: term versus short term pleasure. Yeah, she's looking for long

1134
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 1: term pleasure versus short term no, long term love versus

1135
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: short term pleasure. Good one. That's a new tingue. That's

1136
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: the episode title. I think. I think it is because

1137
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: she could just whip out a vibrator and have some

1138
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: short term pleasure herself if she chooses, though, yeah, or

1139
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: or or a you know, like a shower head. No, No,

1140
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Becca always talks about this, like miraculous

1141
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: shower head that she used to use, says like a

1142
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 1: toy of swords. We get it, Tony, we can't take

1143
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 1: it that far. You were just said vibrator, I said,

1144
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,919
Speaker 1: or shower it and that's it. No, it's not it

1145
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: because you've been saying this and I don't understand how that.

1146
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:18,919
Speaker 1: I don't understand how that works. Like did you dream

1147
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: of a shower It makes no sense to me, Like

1148
01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:24,919
Speaker 1: I don't understand what you do with it. Okay, well,

1149
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: once you figure it out, then we can talk about

1150
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: it anyways. Proud of not clear to your Yeah, I

1151
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 1: don't even have one of those things, and it seems

1152
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: obvious how that would work. I really don't understand. Like

1153
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably have to google it. The water shoots

1154
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: up you. Is that what you like? Well, you know,

1155
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 1: if you're going down a water slide? Okay, I'm sorry,

1156
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: thank yeah, I'm sorry. I was not intending for it

1157
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: to go to this because I didn't realize she didn't understand,

1158
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: and I do, which you won't get. You'll never give

1159
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: it to me, no, free, well not, I don't need it.

1160
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: Like see you put a tampon up and I'm not

1161
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 1: giving me a tutorial. I don't mean actually, but like

1162
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: just show me with like your clothes on. It's water.

1163
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 1: Women need videos for things. There's probably a bit there's. Yeah.

1164
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: I was trying to explain how to use a flex cup,

1165
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: like I had a lot of scrubbers DM me when

1166
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: we were in the whole menstrual cup phase of the podcast,

1167
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: and I was like, I wish that I could post

1168
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 1: a video of like how to actually do this because

1169
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: it is kind of tricky, Like it's very tricky. It

1170
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: a foldy to like put your ring around the rosy

1171
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: like you know, this girl did a TikTok where she

1172
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: I can't remember what she used, but it was basically

1173
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:53,920
Speaker 1: a tutorial and it was like not even funny. It

1174
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 1: wasn't funny or anything like. She was just like here

1175
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 1: if you've ever struggled putting a tampon, and this is

1176
01:04:58,120 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: what this is how you do it. And I was like,

1177
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 1: Tony could probably do this with her Diva cup if

1178
01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:05,439
Speaker 1: she could find a way to not fully drop her right.

1179
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: I know. That's what I'm like. I'm trying to figure

1180
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 1: out how I can do it without actually doing it,

1181
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: because the videos that they post are not not it

1182
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: like the brands themselves. Yeah, it's Victoria's Secret. Oh yeah,

1183
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: thank you Mark always keeping us send my on track.

1184
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: I'm also perspiring quite a lot. It's degrees there's lights

1185
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: on us, your windows are huge, it's ninety degrees outside,

1186
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 1: and you have a sweach suit on. Okay, So anyways,

1187
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 1: so weird. I don't understand. How would you like to

1188
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:43,680
Speaker 1: talk to you? What would you like to talk about

1189
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:48,479
Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret? Their rebrand? Did you hear about this? They've

1190
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 1: got a lot of flak for this rebrand about it's

1191
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: trying too hard. They're still not fully inclusive because they

1192
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 1: don't have a woman on the h I don't know

1193
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 1: what it's closed it a panel. So the rebrands, they're

1194
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,720
Speaker 1: not going to have Victoria's Secret angels anymore. Yeah, So

1195
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: they're doing with the angels, and they have created models

1196
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 1: who are wearing Victorious Secret outfits with wings, with wings

1197
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: doing the fashion show. Um. And they're trying. What they

1198
01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 1: want is a more inclusive brand, so all women of

1199
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: all shapes, sizes, colors, um, and they left out so

1200
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:31,040
Speaker 1: there's kind of spokespeople for these you know, different body

1201
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 1: types and what have you. Um. And I believe that

1202
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: they're going to do some sort of um, they're gonna

1203
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 1: speak about it like it's accompanied with like a podcast.

1204
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 1: They're gonna have conversations about it, so it's not just lingerie.

1205
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 1: It's gonna be like a bigger movement. Um. But there

1206
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:49,960
Speaker 1: was a lot of criticism and a lot of people

1207
01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: weren't happy with it and like they're trying too hard

1208
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:54,560
Speaker 1: and like blah blah blah. But I'm like, this is

1209
01:06:54,600 --> 01:07:00,680
Speaker 1: so great. Yeah, I'm kind of I'm like I don't

1210
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: care either way, to be honest, but I loved the

1211
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret Fashion show, And I'm like, why don't Why

1212
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 1: can't we do a show and have angels that are inclusive?

1213
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 1: Like why does it have to be that we have

1214
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 1: to do away with angels? Because it was so I

1215
01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 1: think it's I think it's what they represented. I think

1216
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:20,480
Speaker 1: the Victori's Secret Angel represented a pin thin model without

1217
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: an ounce of cellulite or an ounce of body change.

1218
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 1: Change the what it represents. Put it, and you can't

1219
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 1: just do that. It's like word associations, like you hear

1220
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 1: McDonald's and its arches, But all of a sudden, they're

1221
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 1: gonna they want to be a curtain No, what does

1222
01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: that make sense? It does mark shaking? Is that because

1223
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 1: it does make sense? No, it's curtains is an interesting thing,

1224
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 1: but it's branding. You're right, I hear what you're saying. Yeah,

1225
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm with Beca. I don't know why name

1226
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 1: and would care how Lingerie company markets themselves. But I've

1227
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 1: never seen the fashion show and I have no interest

1228
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: in that. But on paper it seems like a cool thing.

1229
01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, I just think like it and come

1230
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 1: in all shapes and sizes. Yeah, I I loved and

1231
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 1: I went to the Victim. I loved watching the Victoria's

1232
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: Secret Fashion Job because it was just like this performance

1233
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:10,919
Speaker 1: and it was like, I don't know, I just never

1234
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 1: took it too seriously, and I guess people who did

1235
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 1: and it became like an issue where it calls you know.

1236
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 1: I never thought like, my I'm never gonna be that

1237
01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:22,640
Speaker 1: tall or that thin. So I was just like I

1238
01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 1: enjoyed watching people who just like flowed like down the runway,

1239
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 1: like I thought it was just fun. I never took

1240
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: it into, you know, as a concert. There was performances,

1241
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 1: So my thought is like, why can't we say we're

1242
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 1: still doing the show and we're having angels, and we're

1243
01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 1: being inclusive of everybody, shape and race and ethnicity, and

1244
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 1: it keep it, keep it the fun thing that it is,

1245
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 1: I guess is my issue. But um, you know Kirby Johnson,

1246
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:56,439
Speaker 1: she's like a beauty writer and um she said. I

1247
01:08:56,479 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 1: really liked her take because she said, um, my two cents. First,

1248
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 1: the brand has needed an overhaul for a while, in

1249
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: addition to the fact that they were living in nineteen

1250
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: two it was getting stale and boring. I agree that

1251
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,599
Speaker 1: the brand's idea of sexy was to the male gaze,

1252
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 1: but personally, I cannot take a brand called Victoria's Secret

1253
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:17,400
Speaker 1: any other way than fund cheesy and lighthearted. This isn't

1254
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 1: going to be the popular opinion, but so many brands

1255
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 1: do the aspirational things so much better that have made

1256
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 1: it part of their DNA from the beginning. Not saying

1257
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 1: brand shouldn't evolve, but I don't see why VS needs

1258
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 1: to abandon the parts people like a k a. The

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01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:34,439
Speaker 1: Bachelor atte Party aesthetic and become some serious beacon of

1260
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: women empowerment because do we even believe them? And they

1261
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:42,799
Speaker 1: were saying inclusive, she said, how to incorporate empowerment, inclusive models,

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01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 1: better leadership, maybe even becoming a part of the conversations,

1263
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So like I kind of

1264
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: get that, is it sincere or is it just a

1265
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 1: cash grap or to like stay with the times. It's

1266
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 1: not even following the trends. It's just like to me,

1267
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:09,920
Speaker 1: it was just it's if your entire company or brand,

1268
01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:13,639
Speaker 1: your Victori's Secret fashion show is built on women seeing

1269
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 1: images that are just not attainable, do you know what

1270
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: I mean? And it's good. That's fine for you that

1271
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: you are able to see that and not have it

1272
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:24,599
Speaker 1: affect you. But when I was younger, that would I

1273
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: was not like I used to watch that and think, God,

1274
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 1: like my legs will like my legs touched like I

1275
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:33,280
Speaker 1: used to think it was bad that my thighs touched,

1276
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 1: you know, and wealth why not? I almost feel like

1277
01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:40,719
Speaker 1: doing away with it instead of being like, we're adding

1278
01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 1: models and angels. I think that's what they're gonna do.

1279
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that probably will have a

1280
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: new sort of type of fashion show with Core Inclusive,

1281
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 1: but they haven't announced that yet, but I imagine that

1282
01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: they're not going to do a way with the whole

1283
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: fashion show itself. But I just think it's not even

1284
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 1: about being cooler with the times. It's just about not

1285
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: putting these images in in women's heads that have we've been.

1286
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I just know personally for

1287
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 1: me what it did to me. And I consider myself

1288
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: to be very strong and very confident. I mean, and

1289
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: I'm in my thirties now, but I haven't always been

1290
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 1: that way. And if I were to have seen a

1291
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret fashion show with somebody whose thighs touched, I

1292
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:24,639
Speaker 1: don't know what that would have done to me, because

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01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: it really rocked me at a point in my life. Well,

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01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 1: I that's what I'm saying. I think, I think including

1295
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:33,960
Speaker 1: all different body types, that's what I'm saying, Like letting

1296
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: girls see like my body could be on a runway,

1297
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 1: like I could be a part of this crew. I

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01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 1: think is is the right move or what I would

1299
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:45,080
Speaker 1: like to see happen. But I don't need it to

1300
01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 1: be like all of a sudden there like these other

1301
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:49,720
Speaker 1: brands that we followed, because Victoria's Secret has been this

1302
01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 1: kind of like fun, like campy, you know, that's just

1303
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 1: been their aesthetic, and I think doing that and also

1304
01:11:56,160 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: including all different body types. It is attainable. I think

1305
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:04,799
Speaker 1: I believe that's what they're doing. Well, then I'm totally

1306
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,600
Speaker 1: on board with it. So I just felt like it

1307
01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 1: was such an impossible standard to set for women because

1308
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: very few women have wings like that. Yeah, I mean

1309
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:17,240
Speaker 1: something he doesn't happen that often. It's like from from

1310
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: the mar And it's not even like shaming people that

1311
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:23,600
Speaker 1: are you know what I mean, Like I don't like

1312
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 1: that's your body type? Then like great, you know what

1313
01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:28,120
Speaker 1: I mean. It's not a matter of shaming or thinking

1314
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:30,599
Speaker 1: that it's bad. I just think, you know, he's made

1315
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 1: a joke. But I do think it's unattainable, and I

1316
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:36,240
Speaker 1: think for so many of us, you don't recognize that

1317
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 1: when you're younger, you just don't you see it, and

1318
01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 1: you're like I should look like that. That's just guys,

1319
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 1: like that's what everybody likes, you know, Like it's this

1320
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 1: mind I don't say F, but mind F when you're

1321
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 1: not fully in your own you know. I guess I

1322
01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: didn't really even pay attention to it until like my twenties,

1323
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,640
Speaker 1: so I wasn't like, you know, I already had the

1324
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:02,880
Speaker 1: like I was like, all right, that's I'm not I'm

1325
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:07,599
Speaker 1: unless I somehow can grow two feet in my legs.

1326
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna enjoy my pizza while I watch these

1327
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:16,720
Speaker 1: performances here. But I do think that if they can

1328
01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 1: kind of keep what their brand is and make it

1329
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:25,160
Speaker 1: something that everyone feels seen watching, then I like that.

1330
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 1: And then there was like a big um uproar because

1331
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 1: they didn't include disabilities. There's not like a disability body

1332
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:37,799
Speaker 1: type on the UM. I don't know. It's not a panel,

1333
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: but in the group of women UM, and I don't know.

1334
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if that was maybe an

1335
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 1: oversight or a mistake or they just didn't fully flush

1336
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 1: it out. And it's sad, you know, there should be

1337
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:53,639
Speaker 1: But I think, okay, maybe I'm hoping that they heard that,

1338
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: they recognize that, and they will put somebody on the

1339
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:57,280
Speaker 1: panel with a disability, you know what I mean, so

1340
01:13:57,320 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 1: that so they feel seen. Yeah. No, I I like

1341
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 1: the idea. I'm with Kirby's words. I like that she said. Obviously,

1342
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 1: I am all about people evolving, and I don't think

1343
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: that someone should just stay still for forever. But I

1344
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: do think there's a way of doing it. Where you

1345
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 1: can kind of keep what you're known as and make

1346
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 1: it better and make it more inclusive without throwing away

1347
01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 1: what the whole brand has been. Yeah, which is sexy,

1348
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:33,559
Speaker 1: fun like Bachelorrette party. So um. Some some more news

1349
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 1: that just happened as we were talking. And there's a

1350
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 1: football player named Carl Nassa who places for the Raiders

1351
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 1: and he just came out his game and he's the

1352
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 1: first NFL player to ever come out his game as

1353
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 1: an active player, and I think that's really commendable and awesome.

1354
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 1: As a big sports fan, I love this sort of thing,

1355
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 1: so good for him. He will be remembered always as

1356
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:50,640
Speaker 1: the first to ever do it, and I'm hoping it

1357
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: leads to a lot of guys doing that. Yeah, yeah,

1358
01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 1: that I mean, I can't I that's a brave thing.

1359
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:02,960
Speaker 1: And I hope that he feels absolutely elated. Yeah. I

1360
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 1: think he probably feels a sense of peace. I hope.

1361
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, I can't imagine how his heart was beating

1362
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 1: as he went to press on that Instagram post, you know,

1363
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:18,640
Speaker 1: like that is that is a moment. But good for him.

1364
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 1: Good more of that, more of that. I agree. I

1365
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:25,680
Speaker 1: want women playing baseball. I want I want all the

1366
01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:30,599
Speaker 1: barriers broken everywhere. You know, we had a woman played football?

1367
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 1: Was that last year? Well that wasn't the NFL in college? Right? College? Yeah?

1368
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: A kicker? Yeah? Good? More more than that, more and more?

1369
01:15:40,200 --> 01:15:41,680
Speaker 1: Are you going to try and play football? Is that

1370
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 1: your next? New, new new? And never forget Tanya's first

1371
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 1: football game and she was like, this is so cute

1372
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 1: and like the last word I was expecting after so

1373
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 1: was cute. It was so cute. But I can't remember why?

1374
01:15:56,400 --> 01:16:00,080
Speaker 1: Where is a? Was it the Rams game? Yeah? It

1375
01:16:00,160 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 1: was just cute. I like the I like the like

1376
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:08,480
Speaker 1: it's the sorority side of me where I like the Yeah,

1377
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 1: the team pass back, they will be wearing the gear

1378
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:13,640
Speaker 1: and the colors and the like, here's your peanut. You

1379
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 1: want a peanut and let's go get it whatever. I

1380
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:20,519
Speaker 1: don't know the peanut. You get a whole bag? Correct? Correct?

1381
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 1: You know, but when your neighbor offers you a peanut, yeah,

1382
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,840
Speaker 1: I know. I Actually I would prefer to go to

1383
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 1: sporting events and watch them on the television. The experience

1384
01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: of the atmosphere is significantly better than your living room. Yeah,

1385
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 1: I would never want to, like, I would never want

1386
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 1: to just like, watch it on my television and yet

1387
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:47,840
Speaker 1: and yet I am not. I'm not really watching it.

1388
01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm watching Red Star watching it. You just stared at him.

1389
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,800
Speaker 1: Stared at him, yeah, like is this done yet? But

1390
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:57,640
Speaker 1: I would enjoy going to the game, I think with him,

1391
01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're so fun, so fun, so cute. So

1392
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 1: this is the one that drives me crazy sometimes and

1393
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 1: other people who are casual fans of basketball, which I

1394
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 1: consider myself a casual fan at basketball, when there's two

1395
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:10,800
Speaker 1: minutes left in the game, you're like, oh, there's two

1396
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:12,679
Speaker 1: minutes left in the game. We can leave by eight.

1397
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:15,080
Speaker 1: And then half an hour later and now there's thirty

1398
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:17,800
Speaker 1: seconds left in the game, you're like, how is that possible? Yeah,

1399
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:19,960
Speaker 1: but I will never forget I went to a basket

1400
01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 1: a college basketball game with my dad and there were

1401
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 1: three seconds left and the team was down by two

1402
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: or three, and I was like, like, can we go

1403
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 1: like this obviously they're going to when he was like,

1404
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: three seconds is a long time in basketball. And then

1405
01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 1: I remember watching an actually a game and it was

1406
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 1: that same thing where it was like, is this half

1407
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: ever gonna end? Quarter? I guess this quarter? But yeah,

1408
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:46,760
Speaker 1: that always happens. Yeah, you know how it goes a

1409
01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:51,559
Speaker 1: big basketball fan, big basketball fan over here. Yeah yeah yeah.

1410
01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: But I mean I was, like, I told Mark the

1411
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 1: Red Stars like obsessed with basketball more so this year

1412
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:57,280
Speaker 1: than he was last year. But I realized I asked

1413
01:17:57,360 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 1: him why, and it's because he has that friend game,

1414
01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 1: that game that he plays, fantasy game. Yeah, the Lakers

1415
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 1: are out, he has other team members on his fantasy team,

1416
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:11,760
Speaker 1: so he's like playing with his friends. Like kind of

1417
01:18:11,760 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 1: cute because I see the thing like after one of

1418
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 1: the games, like the score will change and he'll move up,

1419
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:17,879
Speaker 1: and he's always like one or two. So I imagine

1420
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:20,280
Speaker 1: he's really good at this game. But it's so cute

1421
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:22,160
Speaker 1: because I'll like see his phone and I'm like, oh,

1422
01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:30,479
Speaker 1: you're playing with your friends. Can we have Dinner's money?

1423
01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 1: He's playing with this this game with his friends. That's

1424
01:18:33,400 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 1: how he is with me. Like when a Taylor Swift

1425
01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:36,640
Speaker 1: abe comes out and he tries to talk to me

1426
01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 1: on the phone, He's like, I know, you're like playing

1427
01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:41,080
Speaker 1: with your friends, like you guys, can I just want

1428
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 1: to say good night? Well it's a giant text differ

1429
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:51,360
Speaker 1: what We're just different, you know, not me and you

1430
01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:58,600
Speaker 1: just guys and girls. Yeah, honestly it is quite uh interesting.

1431
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: I remember brought him. It was one of my girlfriend's

1432
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: birthdays and he was the only guy with six girls

1433
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:07,519
Speaker 1: and red Star And we leave the dinner and he

1434
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:09,240
Speaker 1: gets in the car and he's like, I didn't realize

1435
01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 1: how much girl, like how much you guys talk about

1436
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:15,600
Speaker 1: guys our entire dinner because one of my girlfriends was

1437
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:17,840
Speaker 1: like going through something with the guy, so like we

1438
01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:22,640
Speaker 1: were getting the whole like the like the like scientific

1439
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:26,439
Speaker 1: minutia of like every crumb of detail of the thing.

1440
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:28,400
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? And you just complained.

1441
01:19:28,439 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 1: I go, well, what do you guys talk about when

1442
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:31,439
Speaker 1: you go out with your guys, like go to dinner?

1443
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: And he was like work and sports. Yeah, well it'll

1444
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 1: be like one girl who's going through something or like

1445
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: going has like text from guys and we dissect like

1446
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 1: every single get every dr what is that draft? Responsive

1447
01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:54,840
Speaker 1: see friends with? How long has he been single? Kind

1448
01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:57,840
Speaker 1: of family does he come from? We get into the

1449
01:19:57,920 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: nitty the nitty gritty. But it was fun because I

1450
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:01,639
Speaker 1: was just like, what a guy, what do you guys?

1451
01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Your friends? Just quiet or

1452
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 1: work in sports, So like, just that's a lot. It's

1453
01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:10,720
Speaker 1: like us going out with our girlfriends to dinner and

1454
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 1: being like, so, remember that podcast we did last week.

1455
01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 1: I feel like we should really hit the first break

1456
01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:19,280
Speaker 1: for after thirty minutes instead of forty five, you talking

1457
01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 1: about each other's work because you do different jobs, you

1458
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:23,479
Speaker 1: talk about each other's where I just this yesterday with

1459
01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:25,880
Speaker 1: my friend Kurt talking about talking about sports a lot,

1460
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 1: and you talk about TV shows you're watching? What about sports?

1461
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:31,639
Speaker 1: Like a good job for the that guy. He did

1462
01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:34,760
Speaker 1: a good all fans. It's been a tumultuous offseason in

1463
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:37,200
Speaker 1: Green Bay. As we talked about the Aaron Rodger situation

1464
01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:38,560
Speaker 1: and all of that. I feel he made on the

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Speaker 1: Brewers because you had a be Brewers fan. We talked

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Speaker 1: about the Bucks because they're both in Milwaukee and the

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01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:46,040
Speaker 1: Bucks are in the conference finals. Like takes like two

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Speaker 1: minutes to catch up on that. It's got that and

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Speaker 1: we're not even at dinner. No, because you go, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he said this. Do you think they're going to trade

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01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:56,320
Speaker 1: him over to that team or do you think he's

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Speaker 1: going to stay here? What do you think he's gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Do you think his stats this last year were the

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Speaker 1: best they've ever been. So if he were to stay

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01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:03,840
Speaker 1: with green Bay, that would mean that he's only going

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01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:07,559
Speaker 1: to get better with green Bay? Is that what it's like?

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Speaker 1: Like with like Polly Pockets when we were little and

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01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: we were like, oh, Polly would be cute in this

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01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 1: house because she has like the bed and oh my god,

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01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:18,639
Speaker 1: I love Polly, but her mom and her sister belong

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01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 1: in the other house. You can't take them all from

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01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:21,599
Speaker 1: that house to put him in that house. And then

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Speaker 1: this one has like this is the bus is the

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Speaker 1: camper bus with Polly and her friends, so she can

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Speaker 1: go on a party bus. Actually, you know, I say

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Speaker 1: guys and girls, but you know, Glennon Doyle and her wife,

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Speaker 1: Abby Wombach, they have a very like opposite like interest

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01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 1: and Abby is like a famous soccer player, and so

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01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 1: she's really into soccer, and glenn and will be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the teams in their costumes again, and Abby's yelling at

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01:21:44,920 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: the TV and it's really stressful in here. So I

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01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:51,280
Speaker 1: think it's more of just like different interests, but typically,

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01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's just like, yeah, no, I agree, it's

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01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:56,640
Speaker 1: not not necessarily gender exclusive, but in that conversation it

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01:21:56,800 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 1: was six girlfriends and one said red Star, and he

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01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:04,519
Speaker 1: was just like, wow, did not And I go, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you see all those girls at that table. They know

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01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:10,040
Speaker 1: every detail about our breakup? How does that make you feel?

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01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:14,400
Speaker 1: House stor like he's listening to what the y'all are

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Speaker 1: all saying and he's like, holy hell, um, Well, the

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01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:26,920
Speaker 1: time has come, the walrus said. The walrus said the

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01:22:26,960 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 1: time I talked of many things of shoes and ships

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01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 1: and ceiling wax of cabbages and kings. I was literally

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01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:38,360
Speaker 1: going to say the name. It's a story, Okay, what story.

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01:22:38,600 --> 01:22:42,800
Speaker 1: It's like a nighttime story they talk about in Alice

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01:22:42,800 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: in Wonderland. I know it comes up in that. Yeah,

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01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 1: the time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of

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01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 1: many things of shoes and ships and ceiling wax of

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01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 1: cabbages and kings. The Walrus and the carpboard by Lewis Carroll.

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Speaker 1: Look at that, Tanya, you never ceased to amaze. A

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Speaker 1: literary reference to wrap up the show today. Thank you

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01:22:58,760 --> 01:23:04,080
Speaker 1: so much. We expected as we expect. Thank you so much,

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Speaker 1: Alison watch out another literary scholar intellect. Um. We love

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Speaker 1: you all. I hope you have a wonderful week we

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Speaker 1: will be back with you in action time. Oh, Tanya

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Speaker 1: is out next week. Next week, it'll just be me

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Speaker 1: and the buys, Me and the boys and the boys,

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01:23:31,520 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 1: Boys boys boys win suit. Oh yeah, she will if

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01:23:40,040 --> 01:23:43,479
Speaker 1: I wear it. That's the big question. All right, I'm

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01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:47,640
Speaker 1: not patio risk really risk a. I don't know if

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01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:51,240
Speaker 1: I can actually wear in public do it? Why? I know?

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01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:54,160
Speaker 1: Like free the nipple, yeah, or just like free the

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Speaker 1: cheeks yea, Free the cheeks. All right, we love you all,

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01:23:56,960 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 1: have a great week. By he's this a raw after

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01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 1: the Free the cheeks is everything I needed to end

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Speaker 1: the podcast. It's a movement I believe in very strongly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: free the cheeks alright, everyone, Free the cheeks and we'll

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Speaker 1: be back. I'll be back next week. Bye bye m