1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning. 2 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: This is Laura, Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: tip is about one upside of daily habits that are 4 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: truly daily. You know that even if you do nothing 5 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: else on any particular day, you will have done your 6 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: daily habits. If you choose these habits well, that can 7 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: make for a reasonably productive day. So, like everyone, I 8 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: have days that feel frustrating. Sometimes this is because I 9 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: lack energy to do anything of consequence. Sometimes it's because 10 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: of other circumstances. There was one particular day recently that 11 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: prompted this episode when I had a number of important 12 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: conversations scheduled and all of them got canceled or didn't 13 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: feature everyone. They should have to make a decision because 14 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: of various illnesses and such things going around. Like I said, frustrating, 15 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 1: But I do have a few things I do every 16 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: single day as steps toward long term goals. I read 17 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,559 Speaker 1: a little bit in my year long reading project this year. 18 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: It's all the works of Jane Austen, and I write 19 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: a little bit in my year long writing project this year. 20 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm writing two lines of a sonnet each day, so 21 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: I will have fifty two sonnets by New Year's So 22 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 1: even on a day when nothing else has happened, I 23 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: know I will have read ten pages of Jane Austen 24 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: and written one seventh of a sonnet. It's not much, 25 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: but it isn't nothing. I have made some progress on 26 00:01:56,440 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: long term things. The day is a total loss, and 27 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: much of life is mental anyway, whether you are productive 28 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: or not is mostly a matter of whether you feel 29 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: productive or not. In the grand scheme of things, it 30 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: probably doesn't matter what any of us do. But when 31 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: you feel a day hasn't been a total loss, you 32 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: might be more inclined to make a little more progress 33 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: on lots of things, or at least be in a 34 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: more cheerful mood. So with that in mind, perhaps you'd 35 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: like to start some sort of daily habit that could 36 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: give you a baseline sense of accomplishment. For something to 37 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: become a successful daily habit, it needs to be pretty doable. 38 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: It can't take much time, ideally just a few minutes. 39 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: It has to be something you find reasonably enjoyable, and 40 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: it can't be logistically complex, or you won't do it 41 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: while you're traveling or on weekends or any other time. 42 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: When you might not be around your normal tools and 43 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 1: environment or have your usual schedule. But if you write 44 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: a thank you note to someone every single day, you 45 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: know that even on a day that feels terrible, at 46 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: least you wrote a thank you note. If you listen 47 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: to ten minutes of box music every day, then even 48 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,959 Speaker 1: on a terrible day, you will have listened to ten 49 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: minutes of great music. And if you have listened to 50 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: something amazing, how terrible can the day really be? So 51 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: figure out what you could do as an everyday habit, 52 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: and you will be able to find a bright side 53 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: of even a dismal day. Now, obviously, if the day 54 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: is truly horrendous in certain ways, you might not be 55 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: able to do your daily habit. But for most run 56 00:03:55,080 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: of the mill bad days, you will. And then maybe 57 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: the day, well it seems so bad. In the meantime, 58 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 59 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: the most of our text. Hey, everybody, I'd love to 60 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: hear from you. You can send me your tips, your questions, 61 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: or anything else. Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook 62 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: and Instagram at before Breakfast Pod that's b E the 63 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: number four then breakfast Pod. 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